So I’ve had this plate for a couple of months. Matched on Tinder and sporadically messaged for a while. I wasn’t fussed whether we met up or not which seemed to make her keener.

She came straight to my place one night and since then has popped around in her lunch break or whenever but only ever for a few hours which has been perfect for me, she’s very low maintenance, don’t have to text her all the time and can ignore her for a week and then she’ll message me that she’s driving through or something.

We’ve never spoken about what we want or anything, but she just came around and got fucked hard in my kitchen and now she’s messaged and asked to go out for drinks, which I wouldn’t mind at all but I think it might create a dangerous precedent and maybe she’s catching the feelz.

I’ve got other plates that I’ve done datey stuff with from the start and that’s fine. Just not sure this one is just wanting a good night out before the inevitable bang or something more. Maybe this is an inevitable progression that I can’t avoid and will end up with a soft next, or maybe it’ll work out fine. Dates with plates, thoughts?