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Women are expected to wear makeup and appeal to the male gaze from a young age. Women often spend hours on makeup, hair, and molding their bodies into the perfect body. No they are not. They WANT to do these things. Because they wanna attract certain types of mates. There are men who work out, but I don’t see men trying to do as many other things like wear makeup or spend a lot of money on skincare. I know of a guy red pillers would consider a Chad who wears concealer. You don’t have to wear mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:53 PM
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Most women will happily oblige
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:34 PM
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Right. But that doesn't mean he won't be loyal. Alot of attractive people get busy in Early adulthood
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:30 PM
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Just because he sleeps around doesn't mean he can't be a loyal. It could probably just me he had an adventurous phase
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:23 PM
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But most other women won't care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:17 PM
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I never believed that. That's incredibly obvious. You made a false assumption that I believed that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:45 PM
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Yeah that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:39 PM
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That's because they're with the partners lmao. Alot of guys aren't going to be able to learn how to seduce women without getting casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:36 PM
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I'm outside right now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:33 PM
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☝️
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:33 PM
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I can see that. How can you be experienced about sex if you haven't had any? And how can you be experienced about new sexual encounters if you don't have any of those either?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:32 PM
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And a half
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:31 PM
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Not a fantasy I prescribed to And even if you didn't most women would
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:31 PM
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Yeah you do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:30 PM
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yes, to say NO 🧢 Surrreeee you did
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:29 PM
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So you didn't put the cap emoji?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:23 PM
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Yeah they do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:23 PM
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She rented that then a virgin or a guy who doesn't know he's doing. Which is presumably a guy with a low n count
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:23 PM
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Sure he can. But I never discussed how many he needed. I said women prefer experienced men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:22 PM
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To be fair you did the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 03:20 PM
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It is about me though, because OP asked women to answer, and i stated my opinion Okay fair Listen, if you find a girl that you like - listen to what she wants and needs, especially if she’s a virgin since most adult women aren’t in the first place. When you date one girl, you don’t date most women so all rules won’t apply to her. Stop basing your whole opinion on the internet and some theories you’ve made up in your mind. If i met you and was attracted to you the thing that would turn me off is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:52 PM
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Because women prefer experienced men even if they don't downright say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:45 PM
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That's literally the point of dating
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:41 PM
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THANK YOU!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:38 PM
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Why do you think you can tell someone what they would and wouldn’t want? You’re weird. Of course I’m over 21, a virgin, so i’m not going to judge a man who’s the same. If i just wanted a hot guy to have sex with would’ve had that a long time ago… Good for you. But this isn't about just you. Most women wouldn't take him that's my point You people will theorize all day about specific types of women without actually listening to them, i can guess that’s one of the reasons you’re unappealing Yeah be…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:34 PM
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No. I'm tired of trying. You shouldn't have to do this much work to get one Girl
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:24 PM
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Y
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:22 PM
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i promise you tho if you stop thinking negative all the time youll get better results I don't agree. I didn't have this negative mindset always. And the results were still shitty regardless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:21 PM
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I don’t understand. If i’m not attracted to you why would i want to have sex with you? Attraction matters You wouldn't Attraction matters. No one said you have to be “so attractive”, you just have to be attractive to me I'd argue that most women want guys that a lot of other women want. And on the off chance that you find male version who you genuinely like.... There's a good chance you're probably going to be turned off if he's 21 plus and a virgin. Which is why he should probably keep that inf…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:20 PM
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We probably have different ideas of what normal would be, and yeah they do get hit on as well, but odds are they wont have the stupid idiotic requirements the hot ones do, i had never heard i needed to be 6ft by any girl i dated before They probably won't downright say it. But I see normal cute girls all the time. And a lot of times they are dating guys who are six feet. They can afford to date above their level all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:16 PM
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Thanks. And I don't think you're an asshole. It's just way too many people online trying to tell me that I should work towards this goal and they are sugarcoating how incredibly hard it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:15 PM
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I cant tell you how many times i saw cute “normal” looking girls get overlooked for the bitches, it happens a lot of the time Yeah I don't buy that bullshit. There are tons of cute normal women that are hit on like crazy and they still don't want you. There's a reason why those cute normal girls are hit up way more often than the super hot girls are. The super hot girls are incredibly intimidating so most guys don't even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:12 PM
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Don't give a damn if they want to date me. You guys are really big on this chicken and the egg scenario. They didn't want to date me before I had this mindset so fuck it. You're not making sense
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:07 PM
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It doesn't mean it will get it especially if you a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:06 PM
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Stop blaming women for troubles of your own making. No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:05 PM
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No I'm point blank right. Sorry. Just because the 21-year-old virgin is common doesn't mean it's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:04 PM
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So according to you if youre not rich youll never get a regular girl? Not really. I mean certainly possible but incredibly difficult. You cant be that cynical, tons of broke dudes find women all the time, hell i wish i could post a picture of me and other people i know that did just fine to prove us normies can still work with what we got And depending on on how attracted those guys are sometimes it doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:03 PM
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FAX
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:02 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:00 PM
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If he was so attractive then why is she a virgin? I'm sure saying all women is a bit much. But of our majority of female virgins don't want me to Virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:59 PM
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Fax
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:59 PM
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Sure it's always the wrong women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:58 PM
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First of all: Who hurt you? You did when you used this dumb shaming tactic
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:57 PM
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Why don't you stick to porn instead of being angry no one is there to act it out with you? No one is angry you wack job. I know your little bird brain is still coming to terms.... But a guy can not want to deal with women and still not be a misogynist or bitter If there is nothing wrong with your porn habit why are you here? He asked the question I answered. Get a grip
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:56 PM
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Which is why I said most
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 05:34 AM
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Not everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:52 AM
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That's precisely why porn sucks though. You spend time getting off to women on a screen, instead of trying to make a connection with an actual woman Which is a good thing Sexual energy" is a gift. It's suppose to drive you to actually accomplish things. Delaying gratification (empty short term pleasures) is one of the key components to discipline and work ethic. It helps to relieve some of those sexual urges tho
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:32 AM
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Why would it? It's insanely obvious that it's harder for guys to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:30 AM
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He was smart to preserve that information
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:30 AM
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Cap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:29 AM
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No cap
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:29 AM
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Pretty much yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:28 AM
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Absolutely not. I'm very unattracted to men who have zero experience with women Most women feel the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:27 AM
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They work with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:27 AM
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Most women would think you're weird if you're a virgin at 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:27 AM
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If I wasn't partnered and had chemistry/attraction to this guy, yeah, why not? I've slept with virgins before and I thought their shyness was cute. Plus you can teach them things. You are a rare commodity. Most women would not find virgins attractive. Shyness is only cute when you find the guy physically attractive I'm an outlier overall, though. I imagine some virgins wouldn't want me in this hypothetical if they knew my bodycount, ha. I imagine if they're virgins they wouldn't care as much bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:26 AM
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I think most of the women are going to be lying through their teeth in this post. Most women do not prefer inexperienced men. Hell even the virgins themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:24 AM
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Dont use dating apps then? I don't Ive been doing cold approach for 13 months. Ive made out with hundreds of girls, fucked dozens. Cold approach has allowed me to sleep with way hotter girls than I ever did before. It’s the most effective avenue of dating in my case. Good for you but it's not the best avenue for most men This isnt even an argument its an opinion. No it's not Everybody had to start from 0 at some point so idk whats the purpose of this statement Because a guy has a much harder ave…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:22 AM
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Let me pose this question to you, though. If there’s an equal number of men and women, how can it be harder for men to find a woman than it is for a woman to find a man? Because the numbers are not evenly distributed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 04:20 AM
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Sure it does. You don't waste time on women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:24 AM
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I'm fully addicted. Been watching it for years. I've always had a pretty high sex drive so I pretty much watch it everyday at least twice. I always wanted to quit but their isn't alot of ways for me to get pussy in real life besides hookers so that's my alternative. Getting girls is insanely hard it's kind of a thing why bother even trying to look for sex? Most girls are not going find you attractive or want to have sex with you so you're better off jacking off at home.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 02:24 AM
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No it doesn't. And you just said something that was a lie. If it's definitely possible to have a friendship with someone you have feelings for
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 01:19 AM
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I do not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:55 AM
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Do you actually believe most women will read this post and start saying "yeah I'm going to start approaching guys to give me signals" Sorry to bust your bubble but it's never going to happen. Women have way too much ego for that to actually happen. A post like this is made in even bigger subs like dating almost every single week and they get thousands of comments. Has there been any increase of women approaching men?... Of course not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:54 AM
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Touch grass. Meeting people is fun. I have way better luck meeting in person No
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:52 AM
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Why should anyone DATE YOU ? Because I have a mineral collection
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:50 AM
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Buhahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:49 AM
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And yet you're still wrong. You went to both opposite extremes. You can be a genuine friend to somebody that you actually like. hard I know to believe
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:49 AM
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I was referring to travel for recreational purposes. Not jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:48 AM
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Don't care
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:46 AM
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Yes. Men will spend money to get laid. OLD is just one way of many. That wasn't the point I was making Wrong. If you are constantly striking out that is a sign that you have set your bar too high for the level you play at. Either you lower your standards or remain single - this is the same for EVERYBODY. Everybody is trying to punch up, if that means you strike out you need to either strike at your own level or strike down. Simple. Actually you're wrong. Our approach all types of women from unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:46 AM
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It should be. Talking about tough topics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 12:41 AM
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I disagree heavily. The people complaining the most are good men. And they are claiming they are lonely with full inboxes like Women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:06 PM
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Guys are simple. Despite how many women will try to tell you that they are just as complicated as women to cope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 10:02 PM
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The workaround for average dudes? Act like you're hot and high value and can be selfish and you don't care because you'll get laid no matter what Wrong. You need actually game
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:52 PM
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You can’t be a genuine friend to somebody you’re hanging around but have feelings for waiting and hoping she’ll decide to one day be with you Completely false
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:47 PM
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That is not what I said. You need to read those posts again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:46 PM
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I still disagree with your premise. Of course you do. You think getting women is easy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:42 PM
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Average men don’t want average women. All women don’t want an average man. Both genders don’t want average. Hella false it’s not hard to get women BS
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:42 PM
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Not saying there arn't those who are unlucky and born hideous and anti social personalities. But the vast majority of unattractive men just arn't putting in enough effort. True. Because the effort you need to put in insane
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:38 PM
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OP never forget an average male can through years of hard work become decently above average and by extension of this attractive to average women. Of course he can. But unfortunately it is WAAAAAAYAYYYYY TOO MUCH work. So I decided to say fuck that. And most other men too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:37 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:34 PM
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definitely not true. Cold approach is much better than apps, and can deliver more success than you reaonably need, if your goal is a monogamous LTR. I'm not so convinced sure, but the learning curve here is very promissing, even a month of two of actively practicing Game at every opportunity, plus looks-maxxing to your current max potential is easy enough to get laid/relationship Heavily disagree. Been practicing it for years. Game at at least Absolute bollocks. Its massively eaiser nowadays, be…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 09:34 PM
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Dude you suck at giving advice
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 07:46 PM
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I think I do. Unless I get Rich
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:58 PM
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I don't expect to. I simply gave up. The work is too godamned much
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:41 PM
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Good for him. He has game doesn't he?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:34 PM
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They are as uncertain, insecure, and incompetent as you were before you learned to do anything. The only difference is, society will never expect or encourage them to learn on their own. Entertainment media is selling them an illusion that they are perfect as they are. Well because society reward's them for doing less. So why do more?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:34 PM
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That's probably their first gf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:32 PM
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I will. Eventually the robot. Bro, I’m a fucken meathead and youd much rather have me wing-Manning to help you pull then working in a rocket. Good for you. Thats not gonna help me when I'm alone
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:29 PM
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No one is hoarding women Except for very attractive man and there are roughly equal numbers of men and women Doesn't mean it is evenly distributed Society incentivizes, pressures and rewards us for pairing up, in addition to our natural inclination to form relationships Women could not give a damn unless you are her standard All you have to do now is get a woman to like you and your company. What more do you need? Now I just know you making horrible points
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:28 PM
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No. You're the one who's just dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:27 PM
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That's why prostitutes exist. Honestly rocket science is easier than getting women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:26 PM
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Me: 1. Average man or slightly above average. Used to have a new sex buddy every week in college and after until the age of 31. They do work. Handful of them turned into relationships. You are not average cold approach works, but you have to have some game/hold a conversation/and meet the rules or be attractive and don’t be not attractive Which is why its ineffective for cold approaching. Because most men aren't that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:15 PM
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Who said that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:12 PM
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. Disagree - a cold approach works. You just have to do it in the right place. Cold approaching in a grocery store, gym, library, book store, museum, etc won't work - even if you're attractive. That only happens on TikTok, TV, and Movies. In real life, the best place for any man to cold approach is at a bar, a party, or club. Somewhere people are drinking. As long as you're not sober and looking for the drunkest chick at the bar, you'll find that people are friendlier and you can meet women. Did…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:12 PM
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Yeah I think if you're average that's mostly the only way they to meet girls
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:10 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:09 PM
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I can't do anything. It can't change the world and most men are not going to help me. So it's a why bother situation. The odds are too far NOT in your favor
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:06 PM
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Holiday destinations aren’t heavily skewed towards women? Not that I know of Go on tiktok and search Ibiza, kavos, ayia napa, Tulum, bali, it’s full of men lol. Maybe you haven’t travelled, but I think the average man travels from time to time I don't know. Studies show women take way more vacation and off time than men do Yes you have to pass the looks threshold (doesn’t everyone?) but the range of what is found attractive is wide. Lots of women like dad bods, bald guys, don’t care for height. …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 06:03 PM
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practicing Game very actively, and brute-forcing through any sign of anxiety you get I can't do that anymore. And I'm pretty sure most average men can't either
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:59 PM
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Yeah I heard that as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:58 PM
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She said that I said it was Impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:57 PM
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What works?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:56 PM
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Much better alternative
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:55 PM
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Not when it comes to very average women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:53 PM
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Nah fam. You been Chadding for too long
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:52 PM
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No I don't think that's mostly an issue of preference
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:52 PM
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They are probably just acquaintances and not actually friends
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:49 PM
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What does that have to do with anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:48 PM
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Mostly a guy who is just average across the board. Average job, height, career, game, social skills Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:45 PM
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I prefer to use both
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:44 PM
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Yes experience is important for dating. Maybe average guys get average girls because they are in each other's league. I don't see any evidence the average girl have more casual sex than men. https://contexts.org/blog/who-has-how-many-sexual-partners/ I seen that before. I still don't buy it. It doesn't make alot of sense Go to Walmart and Target. The vast majority of guys with a partner aren't that impressive, and the vast majority never learned game. Its about social skills Social skills are a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:41 PM
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Why would he? He's not average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:39 PM
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Heavily disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 05:36 PM
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Why is that strong?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 02:56 PM
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It's a better alternative than the former
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:02 PM
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I never said I only hung out with average men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:01 PM
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stop chasing the stacies man, thats a good way to end up alone, idk how to quote on my phone but….its better to be with a 5 you click with then a 10 that has a shit personality. Gee I never thought of that. See this is why I didn't bother reading the rest of the paragraph. It's quotes I see like this all the time on Reddit .. "Just treat women like ..... people" Like yeah Sherlock who would have guessed. I thought they were dogs. Gotta put away my Scooby Snacks. Of course they are people. That's…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 01:00 PM
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Yeah black pill is honestly right tho in a lot of ways
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:54 PM
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All the time. They will probably dat someone with the group or someone I know
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:53 PM
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Bro thank you. I'm not as old as you ..so I haven't had to endure as long but dating as a guy is just fucking brutal. Girls can be upset that we can complain about it but damn you can't stop complaining about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:52 PM
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😎. Cool
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:49 PM
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I meet alot of average women irl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:48 PM
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You right. It is. I'm just gonna bother debating that paragraph you posted.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:48 PM
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You need to talk to girls like if they were what the actually are……people, b I knew after reading this sentence that I didn't need to read any further
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:45 PM
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f by average you mean depressed, introverted and bitter, then yeah, your average guy can’t get a gf unless they are very good looking, because no one wants to be with a guy like that unless he’s exceptional in other ways. But, I’d say a lot of men are not depressed, introverted and bitter, and as long as they aren’t way below average in looks, they’ll get a girl. That's not what I meant at all. Here is the deal though, if you get a vibrant social life, something that is beneficial with or withou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:44 PM
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You're confusing desirable and average. "Average" isn't decided in someone's eyes. It's the middle of the pack. Actually it is... Because their are a bunch of women that see an insanely high majority of men as below average. So they might see a guy who's above average to alot of slightly below average women and assume he's average
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:37 PM
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Not really. When I used to do two sports are was in alot of shape. I wasn't big or anything but certainly alot more toned. I got a lot more compliments and stares but ultimately women won't really approach all that much. Unless your talking about Zac Efron Baywatch body maybe. I haven't gotten to that point. And even then you still gotta have game. Which is the ultimate struggle for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:35 PM
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So basically a lot of women are shooting above their league then? Because that's 30 percent of males is unnaccounted for.... So what about 30 percent of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:29 PM
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Maybe you don't like reading because I clearly said it in my post. It's incredibly hard to do
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:24 PM
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So you basically just lied? Nowhere did I say it was Impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:21 PM
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Obviously u have some sort of inferiority feeling because of it. No. Not really m I just said I didn't You cant feel rejected by someone you dont need validation of, like i told u, even top guys can get rejected too. Of course you can. Especially when you don't get enough results from it U dont have to cold approach but u definetly have to put urself there sooner or later, but i recommend u to change ur mindset first Why? The dating market is not changing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:21 PM
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The idea I was trying to convey is that the objective of a lot of men is to be "gigachad" and anything below that is seen as a failure. No I saw first hand in college how successful handsome men can be. Would I have liked to be as successful? sure. Am I sad that I wasn't as successful? not really. My wife is the 3rd sexual partner I had and we met while we were both in college. Honestly, for me, finding a good relationship beats being a "gigachad" (and having lots of casual sex) every day of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:19 PM
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Or women lie a lot about what is actually average in their eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:18 PM
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No it's not that I assumed that being rejected makes me worthless. It's just that men are far too invaluable to women that you experience too much rejection to operate to keep a level head. Which is why I say don't cold approach
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:14 PM
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What an idiot 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:13 PM
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That's reality, reality is men get rejected a lot. I recommend experiencing reality and knowing instead of only believeing other men. I've already already experienced enough rejection in reality Like Sales job, you need to get over that fear. Or you don't grow as a person. Your sense of worth shouldn't be tied to women anyway. So let me get this straight, I'm supposed to cold approach women and do dating apps to not tie my sense of self-worth to women? Also there's enough real life experiences t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:12 PM
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You've stated that getting a mixed group healthy social life is impossible. Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:10 PM
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It's like saying "well, if I am not a millionaire, there is not point in trying to get anything above minimum wage cause anything else is not worth it". There are a lot of shades of gray between "GigaChad" and "Forever alone Andy". This applies more to women. Most guys standards aren't that high.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:07 PM
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Lol no
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:03 PM
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Maybe not. But I still know alot of average men and their results are pretty close to mine
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:02 PM
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It often works It doesn't Most couples I know met this way or through mutual friends. The exceptions Maybe. If you're talking about friend of a friend that can work
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 12:00 PM
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I'm not about that life. I already spent way too long doing that already. I don't wanna be suicidal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:59 AM
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Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:58 AM
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If you can't function within a social group, within friendships, within your family even how can you expect to function in a more complex relationship? I can function in those so you're half baked assumption is off
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:58 AM
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I really don't get where you are getting at. Why would I just cold approach to experience rejection? I'm not getting anything from that but lowered sense of worth. And what do you mean by sugar date?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:57 AM
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How about asking out a friend 🤦‍♂️ That doesn't work or a friend of a friend? That goes back to my points in the post. They aren't going to say yes to you unless you're in the above average category usually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:55 AM
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Yeah but I find it alot harder than what even you are giving credit for
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:54 AM
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I will not. I'm being realistic. You're being a blind optimist
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:41 AM
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If you're an average dude like me, the best you can do is to be outgoing, have a healthy social life, and then as you meet women and they get to know you, you'll get dates and such. We're it so easy Arbiter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:41 AM
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That's so misguided. It's better to not do it unless you are crazy attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:14 AM
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It's Instagram. Instagram and Twitter does allow nudity sometimes. It would be different if it was Facebook or Tik Toks
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 11:12 AM
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Singles moms aren't hated. But they do get bad rep when it comes to the red pill but it goes against what they like to teach. Which is get girls who won't make alot of time for you. And women by default can't who has kids which are a big responsibility for any guy to take if a woman does
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:11 AM
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Nah. You're thinking of a simp. A beta bux gives money to women for sex. A No. That's a trick. You need to reread your urban dictionary 🤣 Because of hypergamy. He doesn't have to be much wealthier to be a betabux. Remember these terms just apply to casual sex. Being a beta bux is like how things have been forever with the man having a provider role. I just brought up my betabux future father in law as an example. I'd much prefer my son to make a lot of money than to score with this or that hot g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 11:10 PM
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My gfs father is: married with a younger wife, sleeps with multiple attractive young women in his 60s on a regular basis, owns multiple homes, buys only luxury brands. He pays money for all of it but he's got a pretty good life. Dude you is loco. Don't use a term don't understand the meaning to. The definition behind a what a betabux is a beta male who provides for women for little to nothing in return. Hence the bux part of betabux. And he wouldn't be a beta bux in this scenario. He would eithe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:28 PM
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You tried
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:24 PM
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Yet you're on it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:16 PM
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That's not low-key at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:15 PM
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And betabux gets nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:15 PM
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Worked
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 10:14 PM
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Plenty of women will marry men for money that’s average Nah. Ever heard of the phenomenon of new army recruits getting married right away so their dependents can get benefits and money? Usually when it comes to foreigners and women who are shit out of luck because they are homeless and jobless sure. And I mentioned them already.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:29 PM
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And you mentioned the weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:27 PM
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And the weekend of video games
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:10 PM
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Husbands who’s wives marry them for money. They’re not never getting laid. The type of girl who will marry a guy solely for the fact that he has money is not gonna marry a guy who makes average salary unless she's homeless or a huge druggie. So the men they will marry are in the much higher above average tax bracket which most men aren't part of But why should I feel bad for the other kind of “BB” who are dudes throwing money at twitch streamers and OF girls? You don't have to do anything. Most …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:09 PM
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Because you did
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 09:04 PM
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What drugs have you been smoking to get you to think that a betabux gets fwbs?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:58 PM
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And plenty of guys do that. So they might be your best guess. But I wouldn't be inclined to believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:57 PM
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Because it's just 1 weekend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:56 PM
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Go look at how happy women are as a group and tell me that's what they want. I already did Sex and attention can only validate you for so long until you want something that's actually has substance and meaning. I agree. But you're forgetting a couple of things.... If someone gets alot of attention and sex... it may get old after a while especially when you are overloaded with it or the options you have for sex and attention are bad. Sure. That's understandable. But you're still gonna still desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 08:48 PM
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That makes no sense. False equivalence. There's absolutely nothing to gained by being a betabux only you get off to cuckoldry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:52 PM
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You sure those “women over the centuries” were were using sex to find love? Yes Or where they using sex to get $$ and security? That too Or were they married off with little say in the matter? Some were. Not all. Or were they horny and banged some guy despite their better judgment, only to get abandoned once they got pregnant? Some also did that. That also happens today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:42 PM
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Witcher? Sure I did. The weekend? You made that example
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:41 PM
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Maybe. What you think their idea is?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:34 PM
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I fundamentally disagree that using sex to get men to spend time with you is a good way to find love. You may disagree with it but that hasn't stopped plenty of women using it for centuries. Also you are speaking in a way too literal sense here. I didn't imply that women were showing off their cleavage to a much of men promising them a chance at motorboating them to high noon if he promises a relationship. Most men will already know that most women aren't willing to hook up with most unless he h…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:34 PM
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I don't agree. They can get a decent one easily. But again. Most women are just not attracted to most dudes. Even if they are offering decent relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:16 PM
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You haven’t bridged the gap to love. Being able to have sex with lots of different men doesn’t mean your can get love from them. That’s just an illusions. You right I haven't but I wasn't arguing that. The other guy was. But even then I think he is right tho. Getting sex does not always equal love. True. But at the same I just talked about why women are more picky with men. Most men want sex so alot of women can negotiate what most men must do to get it. Which is give them resources, investment,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:15 PM
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Yes it is. It's want everyone wants. I didn't say it's all what women want. But alot of men can barely get those
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:09 PM
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Yes it is. It's want everyone wants. I didn't say it's all what women want. But alot of men can barely get those
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 07:08 PM
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Give her your photos for a Tinder profile. Reset it and then tell her to find a gf for you since it's so easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:59 PM
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You need to learn to read. You disagreed with someone because he said women have infinite options. (Which was an exaggeration). I clarified and said women don't have infinite options but they have more than men. Despite the numbers of men and women being relatively equal. Most people couldn't properly break down why that is. So I broke it down in a biological sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:58 PM
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It's a great game that's why. I don't see how playing video games all weekend make someone a non socialist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:55 PM
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Who said anything about reproduction? I did I’m talking about love. I know you are. But there's no study to realistically find out how many people were not chosen for a partner throughout the dawn of time. But reproduction rates gives us a realistic idea. Since mammals operate very similar to human in it's mating process, the obvious way of looking at which males were highly desired were the ones who reproduced. Since women choose which males they reproduce with. So to put it in simple terms mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:51 PM
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Yeah playing Witcher all weekend means they don't socialize am I right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:45 PM
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Why is that mind boggling?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:42 PM
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Wow what a daft person you are
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:40 PM
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I think you're partially right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:40 PM
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I was trying to explain this to my sister the other day when she asked why I don't just hop on Tinder like she did. Silly Rabbit. Does she actually think it's easy for guys to use apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:39 PM
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They don't have infinite options. Just more options than man. Women choose the man because they have more at risk for choosing. Having an equal number of men and women doesn't mean anything because throughout history of mammals and humans males or lot less likely to die without having reproduced
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:38 PM
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I wouldn't go that far. But I'll settle for women can get relationships, sex , and attention way easier than guys can. So it's no sweat
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:35 PM
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Yeah because all guys that are regulars on PPD are incels who play The Witcher all day right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 06:33 PM
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Did you say something?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/22 04:26 AM
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Everyone is overworked In Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:54 PM
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They do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:51 PM
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Lol got a link to this video?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:51 PM
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I guess I just don’t get the whole “let’s just explain away why he can do that but I can’t” thing. MOST people aren’t fucking hideous. What you may feel you lack in physical attractiveness (or height, in his case), you can make up for by gaining the confidence to actually be yourself and be comfortable with your looks/personality/etc. and then run in circles where women who like the same stuff as you are. One day in these PPD when I argue with women everyday I wish women would get something that…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:47 PM
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Wow you are daft? we’re talking in circles you actually cannot get it 😭 Whet? When i said “they can’t “ it was because of your hypothetical situation example in your previous comment. I was saying the only way to avoid not putting time and effort and have sex is with sex work. Ok agree. There are men who still put time and effort towards multiple women because they have more of a sex drive. Agreed Men can be in relationships and seek sex work Men can be in relationships and put time and effort t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:08 PM
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And the mods here are not as insanely sensitive as other mods believe it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 04:01 PM
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That I 100 percent agree with
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:58 PM
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Even if the same number of women were on all apps as men.... The top 20 percent would still be overvalued. The women will get pumped and dumped alot more and then write off the apps completely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:56 PM
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Idk, maybe, but 28% of men have had 15+ partners and another 12% have had 10-14. That’s 40% of men with 10+ partners. Not exactly rare. That's lifetime partners sweetie. I'm referring to the scenario you just gave. Which is that your ex slept with 14 different women after you two split. Which most men cannot even fathom doing. . I also mentioned all of that about his personality because he is very un-Chad-like. I mean, he’s a short autistic video game stoner anime nerd. He’s just attractive enou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:52 PM
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Studies? You mean the ones that say 20% of men don’t have racial bias even though the close to 90% of all marriages are same ethnicity marriages? I don't know which study you are referring to https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2017/05/18/1-trends-and-patterns-in-intermarriage/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:46 PM
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Ok so you answered the question. Men are more promiscuous so they will still seek out sex work of any form even in relationships. This is the whole point. Well no that doesn't answer my question. I'm aware that guys will seek out more sex than women. That's obvious. My disconnect is if most men are actually getting more partners than women. Men could want, seek, and desire more women to sleep with. But that doesn't mean they are actually gonna get it. Yup, you did Eh nah Yeah.. and it does not h…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:18 PM
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True. But that doesn't mean men would be able to all of a sudden get those numbers. I mean they could want more casual sex partners. Doesn't mean they are gonna get it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:07 PM
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I clearly said strong race preferences. Guys more than women date outside their race alot more according to studies. And I’m just going based on what you said, if you want a non fat woman, the average American woman is at least chubby. That's fine. Most guys would go for that So a woman who is a healthy weight or fit is above average by definition I don't get how you came to that if you said most are obese
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:05 PM
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Nope. I just don't agree with your points. hard to swallow for you sure
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:03 PM
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Well they would classify as still somewhat Chad category then. They aren't the norm. So they basically are the anomalies of the dating game. Most guys wish they had the game to sleep with 14 women. But most men don't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 03:02 PM
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You can look up marriage rates before women’s emancipation. It even went up to 90+ % in the 1920s. I'd like to see that study that showed that 90 percent of men were married And you can also answer the question… Why was there still prostitution if most men had access to sex through their wives? Well first off I don't buy your first claim that 90 percent of men were married. And if we are going by your scenario let's play along. As far as Prostitution goes most men are promiscuous and more horny …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:59 PM
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With that being said he's still insanely attractive. Unless he is a masterclas manipulator. I know guys who are short who are insane womanizers. But it's not like it's all by accident. Usually these guys are exceptionally good looking, have a great career going for themselves, and /or they have excellent game. It sounds like in this scenario he at best has a combination of two things. Game and looks. Despite his autism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:50 PM
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Lol you trying so hard to swing it. In comparison to women men are no near a women's level of pickiness. And most men don't have strong race preferences since males date outside their race way more. Also if you are claiming that most American women are overweight than sure you're technically right. And men are too. And maybe I exaggerated a little. Most men are not going to want to date very obese girls there's a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 02:28 PM
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No. You get over it. Because that was not my argument
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 07:19 AM
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I'm sorry I have no idea what any of this stuff means. Could you summarize?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:52 AM
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I keep telling you people that is not true. Ms delusional arrives. So Prostitution exist for no reason right 😂? Actually that puts you a position to have more sexual opportunities. It would if you were good at it. Just like I can apply for 1000 jobs and get less than 5 of them if I suck at applying and interviews. A girl can get WAYYYY more partners with way less effort and get way more success I think that is true. Bull fucking shit 🤣 Not many guys use that service. A billion dollar industry is…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:50 AM
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Sometimes I just want to smack these guys in the face with a sign saying "you are cockblocking yourself with your biases" until they wake the fuck up. No I think we are on the right track
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:47 AM
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But yet those same educated people made an article saying that the numbers are probably skewed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:46 AM
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I think the numbers are slewed
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:45 AM
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Incorrect. You saying their chads don’t actually mean anything No I didn't You saying their chads don’t actually mean anything. Whether you call them Chad or not, they’re still men You're not making a point here There’s nothing in the equation to quantify whether they’re a minority or majority outside of your study and her experience You're right. I'm making an educated guess. Which is a small minority of guys are skewing the numbers to make it seem like most me are having more sexual partners t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:43 AM
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😑. So why aren't lesbian women having the most sexual partners then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:41 AM
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You're joking right? How?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:37 AM
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He was an attractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:33 AM
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Even then their numbers are not comparable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:32 AM
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No one cares what you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:30 AM
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That’s just how most women do it. The women who have more than 10 sexual partners in a year and continue that rythm for more than a year are very rare… Sure they are....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:28 AM
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*** hard for most men to do.. Fixed it for you How? That's what I meant For normal men who live in the real world it is just as hard and it happens everyday. I know Just like the article you quoted says, men are skewing their numbers Yeah that is weird They dont have as many partners as women I knew it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:27 AM
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You almost had me. But you said a whole lot of nothing. I never was arguing that men don't get in relationships. I was arguing if they had more sexual partners than women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:24 AM
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Is it really so hard to believe that some men have more sex? Yes Just because YOU aren't getting laid doesn't mean other men aren't. Of course. But I don't see any other reasons that support they are either besides those studies Sure, some people fudge numbers, but is it really that hard to believe that a man could possibly having more sex? Yes. I know that very attractive men have more sex. Because they are attracted to more women. But most guys aren't in that category The numbers got you so he…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:22 AM
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Nope. The studies were about partner counts. So what would having a gf have to do with any of that? That has almost no correlation to how many partners a person has or has already had
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:20 AM
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No. I didn't. Did you read all the comments because I clearly didn't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:18 AM
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No. Just a few.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:18 AM
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Except it doesn't you daft human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:17 AM
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Damn good links bro. I appreciate it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:17 AM
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Key word here is YOU
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:15 AM
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Where did you get the idea that most men had submissive wives at home?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:13 AM
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Wow are literally just did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 05:13 AM
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Big words
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 01:11 AM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 12:00 AM
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Bish whet? Being more willing to have sex doesn't mean are nessesarily having more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:53 PM
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It's not. But it's not my problem either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:51 PM
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No it's not. Its your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:46 PM
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Because people like subconsciously
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:12 PM
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It would make literally no money because of supply and demand. Ever heard the saying why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? If most guys could consistently get sex easy they wouldn't pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:58 PM
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I'm talking in regards to the data in the article
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:57 PM
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Thats whole lot more lucky encounters
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:19 PM
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Just because some men can’t get laid does not mean that is the plight of all men. Nah. Never said that was a plight all men shared you moron. Just that most men are having that much consistent casual sex because they are not Most of the men in my social circle did pretty well for themselves prior to marriage. Good for you. Doesn't mean that they are the majority either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:17 PM
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Because I wanted to see if there was some factors that the article didn't come to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:16 PM
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Lol really? Didn't see that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:14 PM
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Come again?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:14 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:32 PM
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No it doesn't make sense because that same article is giving a bunch of reasons of why the numbers can be skewed.... In men prioritize the relationships over sex means jack shit if men can't act on their wants. So just because a man wants more sex doesn't mean he's gonna get it. Unless we are talking about hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:31 PM
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I wouldn't go that far to call them made up
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:28 PM
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I mean it certainly possible but at the same time it's also possible that those women can get a lot more in a short amount of time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:27 PM
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You just proved my point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:25 PM
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You must be daft. If women are picky over their sexual partners, and men are right vice versa not then it cancels out because why would those same picky women pick did those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:22 PM
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Well their controllers died
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:20 PM
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Whet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:14 PM
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I guarantee you just made a false assumption. Because I have tried. So you're dead wrong
/r/seduction10/09/22 08:11 PM
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If matches were as scarce as men claim, why would they say such crude things to few they do match with? Because they don't know what works and are adopting a throw it at the wall and hope it sticks strategy. Just like a like alot of guys catcall with it having an insanely low success rate of working.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:10 PM
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See this was my first hypothesis
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:08 PM
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I don't follow
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 08:06 PM
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Which this article debates
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:38 PM
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No it's just bullshit altogether. There's no way they are getting laid as average dudes without some x factors. You likely don't know exactly what they are doing to get results
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:36 PM
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Lol wym
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:35 PM
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We're not talking about those people. We are obviously talking about people who have casual sex.... Considering the post is about partner counts
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:25 PM
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Of course you would say that you're a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:23 PM
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No the article specifically says that the numbers are probably skewed genius
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:21 PM
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Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:20 PM
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I'm sorry but that's bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:19 PM
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No because you only look at the guys complaining and not looking at the guys who are successful. You got to be pretty boneheaded to assume all of the red pill and the people on seduction forms are all complaining
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 07:18 PM
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I can definitely question it can I not?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:13 PM
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Most guys are not in that category to get that much casual sec
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:12 PM
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What makes you think those guys have options?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:09 PM
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I don't think women are promiscuous. But they simply have way more opportunities to have sex. And they indeed act on those more
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:08 PM
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No but the people having lots of sex are
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:04 PM
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if by ‘game’ you simply mean confidence then yes No. Confidence means very little if you don't have game. Game is basically a combination of you having a great personality, great at storytelling, jokes, smooth, very flirtatious, intriguing, mysterious, great at conversation. Confidence means jack shit if you don't have these qualities too. And most guys don't have game. Because it's extremely hard to master
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:04 PM
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That doesn't mean men are having more sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:01 PM
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Nooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:01 PM
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That's because guys who have attractive have insanely high value
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 06:01 PM
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Not fat and good hygiene disqualifies 60% of American woman Where did you get this idea? Not to mention her age being under 30. Men are a lot more picky then they think they are. I don't think most men will disqualify for a women to sleep with for being over 30 And then you talk about race preferences, men are picky Uh no. They are not
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:58 PM
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And again I still don't find this feasible. That means guys are just getting laid alot more. Which would diminish stuff like OF, porn, and prostitution making so much money
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:57 PM
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So you say. But I don't find that true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:55 PM
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They are not getting laid like that is what I was getting to
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:55 PM
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Oh good point
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:54 PM
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So you don't believe that it's lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:54 PM
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Even then it's extremely hard for men to do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:53 PM
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Even then that doesn't stop the level of suitors for women regardless of if they are in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:53 PM
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And he probably had really good game. Otherwise why did you date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:52 PM
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If he was your ex there is a reason why you dated him. Because he has value
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:51 PM
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You’re excluding a ton of sex you don’t even notice because of your own bias and preferences. How? Explain You guys present a narrow definition of “sex” which carries an implicit caveat of “with young, slim, conventionally attractive, able-bodied, cis-gendered, etc. women No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:19 PM
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You’re saying studies show that men have more partners, she’s saying that lines up with her experience. Ok You’re excusing that by saying she only hang out with Chads but even if that’s true, those dudes are still men. Based on your question and studies you have your answers regardless of whether those men are chad or not. So that would mean only a small minority of men are having all the sex then correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:18 PM
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But what does that have to do with the post? How are men getting more sexual partners despite it being harder for them to get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:17 PM
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You're trying to say it doesn't make any sense when it's just further reinforcing what many or us already knew. Que? Alot of the people seem to don't seem to have already knew that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:15 PM
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but because men are out there pursuing they can get sex whenever they want No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:14 PM
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Heavy sigh. You're so misguided. I don't hang out with many red pill men. Because many men in real life doesn't even know what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:13 PM
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Just having dating apps as a girl, the amount of crude and sexual messages I received (from completely average guys, not only chads) shows that guys have options This comment gave me cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:58 PM
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I don't know man. I haven't considered that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:57 PM
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Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:55 PM
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How are so sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:55 PM
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Nah. It's more so they likely have lots of game and/or looks. Making them not average anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:54 PM
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So they would cancel out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:53 PM
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That doesn't mean I'm the normal Redpill. So you're assessment is off
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:52 PM
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Dude what the hell are you talking about? What does this have anything to do with the article?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:46 PM
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I don't find this likely tho. Most guys aren't that picky. If you aren't fat, have decent hygiene, and is not crazy then you qualify for 80 percent of men for a sexual partner. I have no preference on race or anything. The only ones I really exclude are the very low looks 3 or below. And even that doesn't mean much if they have a decent body
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:45 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:40 PM
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I think the idea that those same guys are average while having insane body counts goes way out the window unless they used hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:34 PM
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Whet?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:31 PM
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And guys go celibate all the time. Regardless of choice
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:28 PM
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You don't say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:27 PM
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Yeah that was my huge hangup. That's why I never felt it was possible for men to cheat more without hookers being involved. It's impossible. Getting laid is too much harder for men to do
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:27 PM
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I've always felt this. I never see most males in situationships with girls
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:26 PM
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But the study I linked showed that those people didn't believe the study either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:25 PM
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Where are you going with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:23 PM
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There are plenty of niche and alternative spaces where people who are not wealthy or conventionally attractive have a ton of sex because that’s what they like to do. And we're delusional?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:23 PM
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You gave me an idea for a song
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:23 PM
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I'm usually not a fan of the man that say I can sleep with a high number of women but I "choose" not to.... Well there's a shit ton of men that say that so.... Talk is cheap in this scenario. And no I'm not putting you on a spot I'm just saying most guys do this... Especially when you consider that 70 partners is a big number that 95% of people don't surpass. It makes more sense for your gay male friend because guys are incredibly promiscuous. Especially other gay males
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:22 PM
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I still find that hard to believe. I think you just personally know more attractive men in your social circle
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:17 PM
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Ok why don't I know women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:14 PM
1

But are those men common tho?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:13 PM
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Originally that was my guess. Most guys are not Wilt Chamberlain. But Wilt Chamberlain reportedly slept with 10k women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:13 PM
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I still find that incredibly hard to believe. If you ever dabbled in ANY red pill, seduction, or pickup artists forums then you see without a shadow of doubt that most of the men on there that even knew about the site for years now struggle immensely to get laid. And not even to a high degree. Most guys are defeated and have given it up to be in solitude. It's frankly way too hard for men to consistently get sex unless they make up that high echelon of men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:11 PM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:09 PM
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All the men are having sex with the few women that actually put out I still find this incredibly hard to believe. That means that most of the very high sexual promiscuous women are sleeping with almost all the guys in the vicinity. And a huge misconception I hear is that highly promiscuous women will put out with just about any guy. And I've met plenty of promiscuous women. Alot of hoes quite frankly are still incredibly picky. Maybe not as picky as some crass and non promiscuous women out there…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:09 PM
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Yeah because you probably hang out with Chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 04:04 PM
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About 8
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 03:26 PM
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Gee don't know why he didn't think of that. Pack it up everyone he cracked the code
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:22 PM
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I talk about sports all day with my male friends so that sounds like an awful idea
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:21 PM
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This advice is whack
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:21 PM
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Nah. Game is too hard to learn
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:20 PM
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Be insanely attractive. That gets women to talk to you
/r/seduction10/09/22 03:20 PM
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Have you met many women? Women throw their female friends under the bus for men a shit ton.
/r/seduction09/09/22 05:00 PM
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Step 1. Give Up. The dating game is damn near impossible
/r/seduction09/09/22 04:57 PM
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That's the only way you can win
/r/seduction09/09/22 03:57 PM
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And yet you act like a 12 year old
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:18 AM
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Looks have very little to do with lack of success with women Are you high?
/r/seduction09/09/22 06:17 AM
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The game is rigged so I don't blame you
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:56 AM
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Because you can get get more women by being experienced. So by proxy women are more likely to end up in relationships with guys they have sex with compared to ones they aren't. Use some common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 01:29 AM
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Good for you Chad. But that's not the reality for most men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:59 AM
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And that's bogus. Guys usually want more to do with women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:36 AM
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With that being said men still indeed fall in love way hard and way faster than women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:27 AM
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No. You're wrong. Girls don't get attached to most guys. Because most guys they don't find all that attractive. Even the rare specimen of guys they actually do eventually end up sleeping with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:08 AM
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Your boyfriend is a ridiculously absurd example. Did he only date mental health care patients? Most men do fall faster and harder than women do on average because of the more investment they put in
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:07 AM
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Chad just arrived
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:05 AM
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I've always felt this way. Guys fall in love with faster and harder for women regardless of the fact of if they are having sex or not. Guys usually invest more in making relationships happen so therefore they usually are not going to fall harder for women because of the effort they put in and having less options in general
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:34 PM
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Are you daft?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:03 PM
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It effects both genders but it's usually better for men then it usually is for women. Women prefer men that are experienced and high n count men are that
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:41 PM
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You can have more experience a not be a slut nor have a high n count. Of course you can. It's certainly possible. But it's not feasible for most men. Most men that have alot of experience need to experience more sex. Second, experience for what? Long term or short term relation? Both
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:18 PM
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Try to play college football
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:15 PM
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Not worth it for me
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:09 PM
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Well most guys aren't in that category
/r/seduction08/09/22 10:06 PM
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30s is the new 20s. They don't seem any different. As long as they stay skinny and somewhat attractive, they seem stay stay just as entitled and shallow. Good point I'm asking about going after 40 to 50s lol I mean you would probably get alot more success as a 30 year old.
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:16 PM
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I'm proud of you for not approaching. It really is a waste of time
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:09 PM
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Yes chase women in their 30s. I would have normally said no if you below 30. Since older women hate dating younger men but you're 35 so you're good
/r/seduction08/09/22 09:08 PM
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I don't agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:57 PM
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And men who sleep with many women are also sluts. Sure these men might be able to sleep with many women, but if that n-count comes out, women don’t want to date them Not nessesarily. Most women value men who have more experience
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:55 PM
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It's extremely Normal. Alot of Guys do value youth when it comes to women. So being attracted to girls in their early 20s is extremely normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 08:53 PM
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For starters, good looking women often operate on a whole different spectrum than other women. The problem is there’s also a fewer percentage of them. The women going for “openly misogynistic” men are in all honesty often not the prettiest, often more insecure, and aren’t often the most mentally stable. Disagree. I know there is a stark difference between misogynists. The ones that just hate women because they have no success with them and the ones who do have success but sorta look down on wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 06:17 AM
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I know this feeling. I thank most of my dating problems would be lessened if I wasn't so ditzy
/r/seduction08/09/22 06:03 AM
1

You REALLY should have joined the football team and you're short
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:56 AM
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Why are the comments so hateful? The post might be a little tone deaf Did you just ask an obvious question and then proceeded to answer it in your second sentence?
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:49 AM
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"Y'all need to be more confident" Proceeds to describe what her ideal guy is This post is mad confusing
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:47 AM
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The bar for fucking women these days is quite low, I'm glad you got 56 bodies this year. But that's bullshit
/r/seduction08/09/22 05:25 AM
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Women that want men to be mind readers cliche Ding
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 02:10 AM
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Preach
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 07:52 AM
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Nah. At that point we open by proxy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 02:02 AM
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Like less than 8
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:42 AM
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Not really. It's hard enough to get a girl who's a slut. And girls below the age of 25 who have low n counts are rare as hell
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 01:24 AM
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Guy standards are usually lower so...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 11:26 PM
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I'm a guy so roughly about 60 percent I'd sleepy with and date
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/22 04:22 PM
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I'd say way more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:59 AM
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I think it's trash
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:58 AM
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EXTREMELY STUPID!!! DUMBEST CONCEPT EVER. It's basically tinder in real life for women. What makes you think most women won't next you off first glance or your first mess up in the conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 02:55 AM
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