Rideather Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Helping men improve themselves (A community project)	General	Rideather	/r/MensRights	17/05/20 12:08 PM
3	Improving yourself as a man (A community project)	Lifestyle	Rideather	/r/seduction	16/05/20 06:36 PM
1	Improving yourself as a man (A community project)	General	Rideather	/r/MensRights	17/05/20 08:32 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Is there hope for a guy like myself? Honestly you shouldn’t view this as a single subject issue. This might get a bit longer, but here’s what I’d do in your situation. First of all, you talked about rejection and childhood trauma etc. these things will never let you go, if you don’t confront them, so sit down one day, get a piece of paper, or a laptop, and write them all down. Everything from the past, that still fucks with you, no matter how hard, or cringe it gets. Then write down, why you got in those situations, why it fucked w…	/r/seduction	08/07/20 06:44 AM
16	I’ve never had a girlfriend. Or a kiss. So I was in a similar situation and basically resorted to lying about it. The problem was, being so uncomfortable with it, that I was hiding the truth perpetuated it, so this went on way longer than it would have had to. I’d say if you have the confidence for, it just own it. Don’t be needy and when someone asks you, or clowns you, just say there hasn’t been the right one yet. But the thing is, chances are she’ll probably be there at some point and life opens up a lot after high school. So just …	/r/seduction	08/07/20 06:13 AM
5	Never run out of things to say. Use the F.O.R.D method! Maybe not these in particular, but asking them questions doesn’t come of weird, if you’re genuinely interested. Of course if you’re acting like an interviewer that’s another story, but in my opinion you should get them comfortable enough, that they talk about themselves.	/r/seduction	01/07/20 06:35 AM
0	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 18 Progress Report ( 2 Facebook and 1 Insta close) A good way to improve would probably be to try to develop a feel for attraction. It seems like you often go for girls that you take out of what they’re doing. It’s always easier to land, if she gives you some signs she might be interested like eye contact beforehand etc. Only ask for her number if the conversation has been good and you feel good chemistry. I mean, why would you want to “waste” your time in a girl with low attraction anyway, right?	/r/seduction	15/06/20 05:58 PM
1	Cold approached and asked a girl out on coffee and got rejected. Good on you for trying, but walking up to a girl and telling her she’s cute is a worthless statement. Don’t get me wrong, it’s nice, but she’s probably heard it a million times. Next time maybe go over and ask her for her name, but don’t offer yours. If she asks for yours, there’s your first hint she might be interested. Now talk to her for a bit and ask her questions. Let her do most of the talking. If you had a nice chat going, tell her you need to leave, but would like her number. One of the …	/r/seduction	11/06/20 04:24 PM
1	Helping men improve themselves (A community project) Great to hear that!	/r/MensRights	18/05/20 06:05 PM
1	Helping men improve themselves (A community project) Thanks so much for the reply. This is exactly the type of input I was looking for, as you are someone who has first hand experience of this I’m very glad to hear your opinion. I’ve heard about this book in connection to the more relationships centered subreddits and will probably acquire it during the course of this project. I agree with your second statement. Three pillars I’m aiming for to help these people back on their feet is 1. Finding or improving their circle of friends to have a working…	/r/MensRights	18/05/20 05:27 PM
1	Helping men improve themselves (A community project) Thank you for your question. As I’ve stated above I will do my utmost to keep this document free of political agenda and bias. “The way” as it is called here, is the way of improving oneself in the many different categories that one might need to in. I am for example considering a part about physical fitness and the basics of getting into shape, how to improve your relationships with people in general and how to find a value system that works for you. Now all of these things will be kept general…	/r/MensRights	18/05/20 05:16 PM
1	Helping men improve themselves (A community project) Well I’m hoping to get enough people involved to be able to filter the important and less important parts through the perspective of a collective of people knowledgeable on the different subjects. Parts of the projects will be outsourced to groups of certain communities enabling them to write about topics that they understand well. I’d like to form something of an editorial committee with renowned members of the different communities and with their help decide the right direction for all of this…	/r/MensRights	18/05/20 05:05 PM
1	Helping men improve themselves (A community project) Thank you brother, I hope so too!	/r/MensRights	17/05/20 02:38 PM
1	Improving yourself as a man (A community project) Ok, sorry. I’ll repost it without the email!	/r/MensRights	17/05/20 12:05 PM
2	Improving yourself as a man (A community project) First of all thanks for your reply. I think theres definitely validity to your point, however while this outlook might hold truth, it is very bleak, don’t you think? Of course sometimes reality is just that, but in my opinion these people have two options. Either they don’t even try and fail or they do try and maybe, just maybe they’ll succeed. I would like to at least give them a plan that would make the second scenario more likely. I don’t necessarily want to offer these people a solution and …	/r/seduction	17/05/20 08:19 AM