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Just keep firing relatable questions until you find common ground and then keep talking about her and her interests. Everybody loves talking about themselves or teaching people something. Get her to teach you about something she likes or does. For the rest of the conversation just make casual jokes. Be an entertainer.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 12:41 AM
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I find it interesting that rather than using logic and reasoning with people that disagree with you you resort to trying to insult them... Like an emotional female. We're on to you bud. Or should I say ma'am.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 02:59 AM
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Don't talk about things that you don't understand. This is not a slippery slope fallacy.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 11:25 PM
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I actually think you're being the naive one here. I disagree with you entirely. You can choose the type of people you surround yourself with. You want to be successful, so you surround yourself with successful people. You live by a moral code, so you surround yourself with people that live by the same moral code. If any of my good friends tried to fuck one of my ex-LTR's I would be pissed. You want to talk about how the world really works? That would piss off 99/100 guys. That's how the world fu…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 07:50 PM
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They're the hardest to keep interested, the most work, but also the most rewarding when you bang again, because of all the work you put in to keeping that plate spinning. Clingy girls tend to be too easy. I lose interest in easy plates after 3-4 encounters. Free spirited, like she doesn't give a fuck who she's fooling around with. She doesn't get attached easily and is carefree to go on about her day if you don't message her back.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:51 PM
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Allowing periods of silence can become a tool of flirtation. It adds to your mystery. It reinforces your stoicism. Maintaining eye contact during this period dramatically increases her perception of how confident you are. It might make your heart race during this period of silence because you feel like you should be saying something but don't. Just enjoy the thrill of the silence and wait for what's to come of it. I love those moments. They're usually the best moments of the night, and usually t…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 04:07 PM
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Since you already have abundance, I'd just ghost her for a week or so and if she doesn't reply I'd hit her up 7-10 days later and invite her out to margaritas and act as if it was the beginning of the night at the party after you'd first kissed. Get the first round, make her buy the second so you don't come across as a beta, but you buy shots so you don't come across as a cheap ass either, then invite her to your place after a good two hours worth of flirtatious conversation. This has never fail…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 03:58 PM
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Win the social interaction first, THEN decide if they're worthy of more of your time. With your current approach you think you're winning by not talking to the girls you're not interested in. In reality you are interested, you're just making cop out excuses to avoid having to speak to them in the first place and to protect your ego. Essentially you're hamstering a win in your mind. You're not better than her just because you don't want to talk to her. You're only better than her once she IS inte…
/r/askTRP24/03/18 10:41 PM
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This is not a support group man. You didn't come here for advice, you clearly came here asking for our permission to do something that you already know is wrong. Sexual strategy aside, Red Pill is about being a MAN. You want to log on to another grown man's account to block him from contacting a girl you still have feelings for. Do you not see what's wrong here? Common dude... Red pill aside, a real man would just talk to his damn friend... Not go behind his back because your heart hurts.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 12:31 AM
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Yeah this deserves its own post man.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:54 PM
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I feel like you've interjected your situation into this post. Your situation might need it's own post brother, if you want help. Not enough details to go off of here.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:46 PM
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Then you carry on a casual flirtatious conversation and invite her out for drinks a few days later and smash again... It really is that simple.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 09:09 PM
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This is a sub for sexual strategy dude... You lack abundance mentality. You don't just sleep with a girl once and all of a sudden start planning a future with her.. that's retarded. That's why marriage divorce rates are so high. You want sex with her again? Cool. You'll get it if she knows you can sleep with other girls. You'll get it if she knows you have options. Your approach actively puts the ball in her court. Stop giving up your control over the situation. These approaches outlined work, r…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 08:39 PM
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You're missing the part about where girls have insecurities. If they slept with you then they liked you. End of story. If you begin to pull back, which you call ignoring, they sense that and wonder why/what you're going to do next. This creates dread. You just had sex. The ball is in your court. You won. You have two options now: continue to pursue the girl for more sex, or pursue other girls for sex. Either option is a win for you. The girl that sticks around long enough for you to determine if…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 08:17 PM
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I'd respond with, "Hey, I totally understand =)" Then hit her with a, "Let's grab margaritas tonight" this Thursday and proceed to take her home to smash academy once again. Eventually she'll realize she can't resist the dick and she'll stop fighting it.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:57 PM
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You clearly don't have it all figured out. Take a step back from arguing / giving advice and start listening with an open mind again. Your perception is wrong. The scenario you outline can indeed happen to the beta. You know, you arent just a beta or just an alpha. It's a spectrum of behavior. You can be primarily a beta that displays alpha tendencies from time to time. I'd call this an evolving beta. I hate how this sub likes to label people alphas or betas because it can be insulting to the in…
/r/askTRP04/03/18 07:48 PM
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She still wants to be a hoe she just doesn't want to feel like a hoe.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 05:46 PM
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Let me just point out that literally none of the shit she mentioned makes someone blue pill, except for paying for everything. Open the door with stoicism and poise and come off as masculine, open the door like a desperate servant and come off as a beta. "Open doors for people, who does that?" Bitch are you serious? She's bitching about someone having a full time job? Are you kidding me? Honestly this is a rediculous example of a blue piller, though it's clear the guy in the texts is a blue pill…
/r/MGTOW13/10/17 09:21 PM
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IM subscrIBing because of this comment
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/17 02:46 PM
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Sounds like a bullshit story to me if I'm being completely honest with you. That, or there's something crucial about the story you're not telling me that would make her behavior make sense. People in the real world don't respond randomly like that. If the story you're telling me is actually true, then there's a reason she acted that way. Let me point out that you're playing the victim once again and not taking responsibility for what happened, while at the same time refusing to tell me key parts…
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 08:02 AM
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Look, it's plain as day, you still have the victimhood mentality. The sooner you accept 100% responsibility for everything that's happened in your life rather than blaming it on other people the sooner you can change your fucked up world view and probably live a happier life. It's your fault the argument turned into getting the police called. It's your fault for encouraging an argument in the first place. Have you heard of soft nexting? Soft next every time she initiates an argument. Stoicism an…
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 03:11 AM
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The problem is that you base your interactions with women off of a system and not a core philosophy that allows you to be your true natural self around them. Having a system to interact with women is not genuine interaction and thus you will never experience true fulfillment from those interactions. Be yourself, and stop blaming women for being women. Act according to your AWALT philosophies and accept PERSONAL responsibility for when a woman acts in an unfavorable way, because it's not her faul…
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 01:54 AM
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Lol how would you know that? Spot on. What's that have to do with anything though? I know people that are 5'5" -5'7" that get it in probably more than I do, and I look up to them for advice for picking up women. I don't consider myself to have game, if I do it's natural and I don't know it. When I go out my boys that have real game I'm like god damn idk how you do it. Maybe partly due to having social anxiety, it's hard for me to be 100% my confident self in social settings, so where I always cl…
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 12:55 AM
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Your world view has been distorted from reality my friend by all the bullshit you read. I used to be a member of the Redpill until I realized how toxic that place was. It's full of losers that have all been cheated on and now have a jaded view on women, exacerbated by the one-up-manship and Internet anonymous AMOGing that goes on there. It's a really shitty community. At its core I believe in the red pill theory. AWALT etc blah blah. But here you are trying to tell me how women are? Ridiculous b…
/r/MGTOW07/05/17 12:22 AM
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Am I the only one that's thinking none of you actually really "get it in?" The people that upvote this crap are cowards in my book. As a former US Marine, current personal trainer, in school for physical therapy that does steroids (2 years of history on this account to confirm) I've slept with at least 100 women in my life. I'd say around 70% of them were intoxicated. There's nothing wrong with sleeping with drunk girls and this reverse white knighting that's going on needs to stop. The type of …
/r/MGTOW06/05/17 06:55 AM
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While I don't really care for semantical arguments, I was referring to laborious jobs. I have never considered the term laborers to be a demeaning title.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/04/17 09:14 AM
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My point is that working as a laborer, a construction worker, can earn very livable wages. You'll probably be working 60+ hours a week but you'll be making at LEAST 3k a month, at LEAST. If you're not then shame on you for settling for such a shitty job and making excuses for it when, with a little drive and the right attitude, getting a laboring job that'll net you 3k+ a month is not that difficult.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 08:44 PM
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Can we not perpetuate the idea that laborers make shitty wages? I know pavement workers that make 6-8k a month after all the overtime they put in. I know plumbers, electricians, and stonemasons that make 100k+/yr. I know plenty of construction workers that make over 4k a month. Yes they work a lot and yes their hourly wages are low in comparison to other professions, but there's a lot of work to be done and a lot of overtime pay to collect. Conversely a salary position which can have you working…
/r/PussyPassDenied24/04/17 08:29 PM
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The incident was recorded by her friend, what makes you think she'd keep the video if cops came around when it so clearly implicated her as the aggressor?
/r/MGTOW07/04/17 08:08 PM
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I'm just saying what we're all thinking: This is how murders happen.
/r/MensRights06/04/17 01:32 AM
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I consider watching stand up comedies to be a little hobby of mine. I think it's difficult for a woman to be a comedian. I don't find female comedians to be all that funny because they spend so much time focusing on female issues that are only funny and relatable to other females. I wonder if females feel the same way about male comedians?
/r/PussyPassDenied16/03/17 06:03 AM
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I actually know a man here in Texas that got off for the same exact thing. Beat the man to death that was molesting his daughter, had no charges against him. Might even be the same guy but I can't tell because Reddit gave the site the hug of death. Now I'm not religious but God Bless.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 09:50 PM
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What a fine example of entitlement attitude
/r/PussyPassDenied10/03/17 05:06 PM
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Nice dodge faggot. Now go away.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 06:01 AM
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Jesus christ you're trying to amog someone over the internet quit being a pussy and trying to take things out of context to fit your narrative.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 05:45 AM
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You miss the point. The greatest mental strains are debt or the inability to provide for yourself and the one you love. Not just superficial things but actually being able to take a girl out to dinner, put on new clothes for a night out, and not having to stress about bills on the first of the month. Not having to budget yourself to 100$ a week. Being financially stable enough to finally be confident enough to start a family. Perhaps you've forgotten what that's like?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 02:34 AM
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It's like the prosecutor sees an easy win and goes for it without any apathy, simply out of a selfish desire to boost his numbers. Prosecutors should be required to be defense attorneys first.
/r/MensRights20/01/17 04:37 AM
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Everything I've read on Reddit has led me to believe that going to HR is not usually in your best interest.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 08:53 PM
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No idea how life really works, LOL. I'm a US Marine Corps combat veteran pal, I've been slaying pussy since I was 18. Im on steroids and I'm fucking shredded. Go ahead and pretend you know how life works, I know exactly how life works, more so than you ever will because you're a pussy. You're a beta ass bitch that's too scared to live life. You blow things out of proportion to fit your I'm right narrative. Everything you just said confirms that I am 110% positive that I don't want to hear anothe…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 01:33 PM
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Is that what you tell yourself to make you feel better at night when you sleep alone? This is a sub for sexual strategy. High risk is subjective and you're making baseless assumptions. Unless you're actively spinning at least 3 plates, go away and stop pretending like you know what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 01:30 PM
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No, an abundance mentality is achieved by actually having abundance. When you actually have abundance you can do whatever the hell you want. If you don't want to sleep with a potentially crazy chick, that's on you. I enjoy sleeping with girls that are good in bed and I could care less if they're crazy because I'm a realist and I know the chances of anything psychotic happening are close to zil. Why deprive myself of a great sexual adventure because I'm too scared of a what-if scenario? If she en…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:13 PM
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I love when someone clueless gets butthurt about one of my comments and then proceeds to make assumptions while outing themselves as a failure in the sexual market place. No, I'm not a thirsty bitch, because I'm always getting laid buddy. Who said I had to deal with any drama? Did you not read my previous response in this same fucking thread where I recommend OP cut the woman off mid sentence at the first sign of bullshit? Having sex with a girl doesn't mean you need to put up with her shit, it'…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 09:10 AM
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That's stupid. You're literally throwing sex away because you're acting like a scared little bitch. Abundance mentality is a mentality, it's great to have but it's not getting you laid at the end of the day. In your case you're using it as an excuse to bail from a perfectly good lay. This girl could have easily been railed. Every fuck is risky my friend, that's the name of the game and that's what you live for.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:27 AM
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The second you hear anything about an ex immediately say these words to her: "I do not care about your previous relationships." In this specific case I would probably say: "That's terrible but I don't want to hear about your ex's. They aren't me." Some people say it's a red flag. Sure it's a red flag for a LTR but the real question is: Is she still fuckable? Girls that have been in abusive relationships are usually some of the better girls to have in bed. I will usually cut a girl off mid senten…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 08:15 AM
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Does this really need a fucking article written about it? I mean common. Is the sky blue? Is my dick small? does 1+1=2?
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 10:40 PM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting to be in a monogamous relationship bud. In order to ensure that not only the girl you are with is happy, but you yourself are happy, you come here to adopt the redpill philosophy. By continuously working on your SMV, your own personal goals, and ensuring that you are wearing the pants in the relationship by leading and making decisions, you ensure that your woman is both sexually interested and emotionally interested in you for the long term. If you begin to sl…
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:05 PM
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You seem stuck on the myth that the body can only absorb 30g of protein per hour. This is only partly true. Say you do Intermittent Fasting and eat 200G of protein within a 4 hour window. Your body will be able to absorb well over 60-70g in a given hour because it adapts by increasing protein absorption as well as decreasing digestive tract speed. Take 2 scoops per shake if you're having trouble hitting your bodyweight in protein. Also, BCAA's are a waste of money unless you're working out in a …
/r/askTRP09/12/16 04:53 AM
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Magic is pretty gay dude lol but if you love it fuck it, own it. You can minimize judgement by not showing any signs that you're ashamed of it.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 04:49 AM
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Roid rage is a myth and you're being passive aggressive like a beta.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 08:49 PM
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You're talking to a former US Marine on loads of steroids in college for physical therapy dude. I'll bet money that I've smashed more 19-21 year olds than you could ever dream of. I think I know what I'm talking about.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 02:16 AM
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It's all about the attitude bro. Spend 20 minutes swiping and see what happens. If you get a few matches initiate the conversation with something witty to invoke an emotional response, like laughter, and explain you're in town visiting and need someone to show you around the best spots in town. Being that your SMV is low, young and inexperienced, don't initiate sexual conversation unless she does first on Tinder. Flirting is fine. If you end up meeting up with someone start the day off by enjoyi…
/r/askTRP03/12/16 11:37 PM
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Get tinder premium and start swiping. Usually in new cities you get tons of matches right out of the gate. Since girls know you're visiting when they come out for drinks they know it won't turn in to anything serious. Make something happen. You can work on your cold approach game too. Nothing wrong with that. Tinder is just so easy and guaranteed though.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 10:54 PM
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Honestly dude, you've been in a relationship for 6 years. You're 24. 24-30 are some really good years to be single. She already broke your trust and you're just supposed to what now, take her word for it? It'll always be on the back of your mind now that when she gets bored and wants attention she's going to go out and get it from someone else. Girls that are willing to do it once are willing to do it twice.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 10:51 PM
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This is naive thinking IMO, most girls at the age of 19-21 don't know their value yet. Getting a 9 or a 10 that's 19-21 is a lot easier than getting a 9 or a 10 that's 24+.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 10:43 PM
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If OP allows his ex back in to his life after this he will resent her for what she did for the rest of their relationship. He will never be truly happy or content.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 10:42 PM
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Perhaps she thinks you're lying about really being in an open relationship and that's why she pulled back. I mean she basically has to just take your word for it. In the future you should just label her FWB to other people because that sounds a lot more believable than being in a one sided open relationship with a labeled girlfriend.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 10:29 PM
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The way OP went about it seems like he damaged his own character, but if he went about it like this, then it's all on her. You can't demand sex for a favor, that's just unethical, and she can't demand a car ride. Giving her the option to pay you back later, or buy you bud later, gives her an out. If she chooses ass at that point it's on her. I think this was a beta / passive aggressive move. Ass gas or grass would be more in line with assertive alpha behavior.
/r/askTRP03/12/16 10:24 PM
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The average man can barely get laid is a pretty accurate statement. This is the internet and blah blah blah I'm a liar but I've slept with well well over 50 girls at this point in my life, age 28. The majority of my friends have barely slept with 10. It's not a what-if question. It's a basis on reality. It's a quantitative assessment that is factually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:22 AM
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TRP is not about being average, it's about being in the top 1%. It's about asking yourself every day: "How can I be a better person? How can I grow?" Can men be as shitty as women? Certainly. Nobody said otherwise. We don't recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy for no reason though, it's a huge eye opener to those that are unaware of how manipulative they are when we would rather they be direct. Can men cheat on women as often if not more? Absolutely! You have a ton of men on TRP cheating on their sign…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/16 05:11 AM
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I get on peoples ass in this subreddit for trying to AMOG people, but I also get on peoples ass that only here asking for pity. This isn't a place for pity. /u/desno just gave you solid advice and you blew it off saying you were taking care of it already. So why the fuck are you posting here? What do you want from us? You want us to tell you it's all going to be okay and that you can get a bombshell if you try hard enough? Chances are most people that come to this sub aren't cut out for this sub…
/r/askTRP25/11/16 01:53 AM
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AMOGing has no place here. Give constructive criticism or keep your mouth shut. This is a useless shitpost that people have to waste time out of their lives reading.
/r/askTRP16/09/16 07:58 PM
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Out of protest, I'm going to beat off to her right now.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 12:00 AM
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Woman are valued for who they are and what they look like, men are valued for what they must become. Wear heals if you want that ass and them legs to net you a bigger fish girl. If you aren't wearing heals and make-up and you expect to catch someone like Chad Thundercock on his knees for you you need a reality check.
/r/MGTOW05/05/16 04:48 AM
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Perhaps they'll friend zone you if you're a total pussy but the intentions of my approach are to come off as charming and confident while escalating sexual tension through Assertive action.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 01:12 AM
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One thing to keep it mind, which might help your mindset, is to approach each situation as if you're trying to be-friend this person, not sleep with her. It can really change your body language and help to disarm her natural defensiveness. Keep these rules in mind while keeping the mindset of befriending her first: Women are loved for who they are, men are loved for what they must become. I am entitled to touch her body. I am the god of my own little world. (she may be here by choice, but she's …
/r/askTRP28/04/16 09:33 PM
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You can say that now but in the future if you can't lock in anything that pays near 30$/HR you will be looking at going back to the same line of work. Use 30$/HR as your minimum standard in the future, never accept less from yourself, only more.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 04:47 PM
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I always try to make something happen within a week or two of establishing interest. If the interest is not being reciprocated for whatever reason I'll soft next and wait for her to show interest before pursuing any further. I've had plenty of hook-ups with girls I've pursued in the past that never ended up going anywhere initially.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 05:48 AM
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I actually deleted Bumble today because of it's push notification to my phone in celebration of women's empowerment day. I've been conflicted about using bumble for a while now. It puts all of the power in the females hands. I don't want to use an app that makes me a fucking beta from the get go. I hate everything Bumble represents. Thus I've deleted it. This is coming from someone who does pretty well on both Tinder and Bumble.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:49 AM
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Grabbing her drink from her and chugging it in front of her is a total sigma thing to do. It tells her that you're above the drama that she's about. Spitting the drink on her is an imaginary fairy tale of an idea and it would come across as petty to everyone in the room if you actually did it. I'd rather score brownie points with the girl that just slapped me. In other words, I'd rather appear superior than inferior.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:37 AM
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Man you just got to put yourself out there. Stress equals growth. You being in an uncomfortable situation just means you're in the correct situation; one that leads to you learning something new. In this case it is social skills. You really need to place more importance on going out with people until you feel 100% comfortable doing so, or, until it begins affecting your grades, self control, or finances. Too much of anything can be a bad thing.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:32 AM
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Aint that the truth.
/r/askTRP09/03/16 09:28 AM
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Let me remind you all that this sub is about sexual strategy. Whether that is how to keep the sex life strong in a monogamous relationship, as many admirable married RP men in here have showcased or having sex with multiple women, the end goal is the same: a sexually satisfied male. OP you need to work on hiding your 'giddiness' about being in a new relationship and show us here that can you hold frame. That's our shit test for you. Secondly, if you come off to your girlfriend as you are to us h…
/r/askTRP28/02/16 09:18 AM
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I'm not about to go through your history and I'm not here at TRP every damn day to see everything you write. Every article I have seen from you reads the same. Interesting how you allow yourself to show to me that what I wrote bothers you so much that you felt the need to brake frame and insult my intellect. Should have just left it at the first two paragraphs homie. Also, by your logic, anyone that buys your shit is a beta you're milking for cash. IMO it should be illegal for you to plug your s…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 10:10 PM
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I thought it was already established by GayLubeOil like literally 6 months ago that the vast majority of people here aren't those call of duty nerds that you are all running your mouths about right now? Well written article, full of the typical motivation that is to be expected from anyone in the business of motivation (GayLubeOil is a personal trainer) but these articles are, in my opinion, all of the same shade and indistinguishable from one another. Starts off with some kind of complaint, goe…
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 09:45 PM
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Bunch of fucking idiots in this thread
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 04:47 PM
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Except women won't ever be on the field of battle unless it's a last resort...
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 04:42 PM
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That line of reasoning is well and all for someone who has to pay for their own tuition but dude you have a free ride. Don't throw it away. 20k a year is not even close to 80k and you should have your sights on nothing less. Social life should be secondary to you building an empire. Don't pick a stupid degree either.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 10:45 PM
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Get blood work done and check your testosterone levels. Look into Testosterone replacement therapy, either officially or unofficially. Start lifting 5 days a week. You'll be a new man in 6 months.
/r/askTRP03/02/16 10:42 PM
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She'll probably be messed up emotionally for about a year or two or longer. I guess you gotta figure out how much you like this girl and whether or not you want to put up with the bs that's about to ensue for the next year or so. Were police contacted? Did she have a rape kit done on her? Why not?
/r/askTRP03/02/16 10:37 PM
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I think it depends on how young/old you look at 30. I'm 27 and almost every girl I meet thinks I'm 24.
/r/askTRP27/01/16 02:28 AM
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Everything you just stated as something you want can be had.. I've noticed a sort a cult like mentality developing here over the past year or so. People are twisting The Red Pill into something it's not. Look, if you want a LTR, get an LTR. Use TRP principles to maintain frame and never sacrifice your own wants and desires for hers unless, through delayed gratification, doing so will reward you in the end in some way. A LTR can be just as you said. You an have a loyal woman, if you act right. Yo…
/r/askTRP19/01/16 02:04 AM
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It's scientifically proven that Men who drink 2 drinks per day and women that drink 1 drink per day live longer due to the stress reducing benefits of alcohol. I'm 95% certain that benefit extends to marijuana as well. I see nothing wrong with using it to relax.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 02:56 AM
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Weed doesn't = fake fun... but to each his own. For me it's a relaxing pastime most enjoyed when alone and listening to music or watching netflix. It's a better, zero calorie, alternative than beer for my gainz when I want to relax after a hard day of studying and working.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:25 AM
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Here's an honest opinion: I can't help but feel like your perspective is that of one who's been sitting in the dark their entire life. Once you do have a friend or two who you can regularly meet to share a few drinks and converse with it's like seeing light for the first time in your life. You never knew how much it could enrich your life until you're exposed to it. I think you, like my mother, have given up on the idea of socializing, and I find it very disheartening. You've gotten so used to b…
/r/MGTOW20/12/15 02:08 AM
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You know what I think will help out a lot? Working on increasing your social circle. Work on going out for a beer with people 3-4x per week. Try to get more and more people to come and be the reason they are coming. You don't have to get shit housed, you just have to have a good time. It sounds like you're stuck inside your shell man. I can relate because in the past I've been so hard on myself when I'm focusing on self improvement that I shut everyone else out and then I get depressed because o…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 01:12 AM
3

I highly recommend you maintain the frame of a sigma if you plan on going through with this. You will come out ahead. These type of social interactions are my favorite because I see it as a double win. By maintaining the frame of a sigma you will A) get the attraction of the female in mention and B) gain the affection of her friends and thus increase your social circle by inserting yourself into hers. It's a win-win situation. If you can, try to avoid any activities that resemble a date date tho…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 12:45 AM
1

Your age and shared interests kind of dictate your response. My sexual strategy almost always involves alcohol due to the nature of alcohol leading to less than innocent outcomes with the highest payoff(my subjective opinion). I would send her a very dry and straight forward text, telling her and not asking her, to meet you somewhere (bar, your place, etc) for drinks. Keep it short, dry, and to the point. Don't acknowledge her apologies or other comments. If she isn't interested then don't say a…
/r/askTRP10/12/15 12:32 AM
1

Tough call dude, it'd be easier if I knew you both as people, but I agree with /u/apexk9 that you may be able to salvage this tonight if you play your cards right. His response is pretty on point. It depends on the type of girl she is though and the image she's constructed of you in her mind as the type of man you've come off to her as whether or not it'll work. I personally would play it safe, given the circumstances, due to your demeanor on your last phone call, and wait until Friday and focus…
/r/askTRP09/12/15 10:06 PM
8

If we wanted to balance it from the perspective of game theory, we should introduce a cost factor for women, a punishment, i.e. some form of violence, verbal or physical, from the conned man. Off of the top of my head, the sexual strategy that TRP prefers to employ as the cost factor for women are soft/hard nexting, dread game for the LTR, showing low levels of interest, refusing to play her game and instead making her play yours. Can anyone else think of others?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/15 09:41 PM
4

To get excessive muscles that would start raising red flags would require a lot of time and gear, a lot more than you probably think.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 08:03 AM
1

You don't have a single friend or acquaintance you can call and ask for a helping hand/shelter?
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:04 AM
3

I feel like some people here are living an Internet lie. Like, this is just a frame you're holding to try to appear superior to people on the Internet. In reality though you just come off as sociopathic. If you'd fuck your friends wife just because she is coming on to you then you have no loyalty. You're not a person worth networking with, you're self destructive, you don't add value to other people's lives because you take away value, and you obviously don't get laid enough if you're willing to…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 12:15 AM
1

What's going to happen if you tell him she's coming onto you? He's going to get jealous / mad at both you and his girl any time his girl looks at you the wrong way. If they end up staying together it will be because she hamstered her way back into his heart and he's going to rechannel all of his discontent for the situation at you. This is going to lead to you guys hanging out less and you can forget about hanging out while his girl is around which is going to lead to an even greater strain on y…
/r/askTRP05/12/15 12:06 AM
1

Eh... I was at a party with my best friend I moved across the country with where we both went to goto college. He has an old lady with a kid, we all lived together for a year before getting our own places. Long story short we all have a LOT of history together. Anyways we were at this party for his girls birthday and everyone was passed out besides me and his girl, which is fine, we can chill and drink and have laughs with nothing weird happening. This time though she came on to me and I immedia…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 10:19 PM
3

Agreed. Any substance abuse should be limited to recreational use. There's nothing wrong with having a good time but you don't want to develop a dependency on something that's going to be a drain on your bank account or your empire.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 10:12 PM
0

I'm pretty jealous you're in Italy. How are the beaches and night life?
/r/askTRP04/12/15 10:05 PM
1

This shouldn't be down voted, I actually have this saved on my phone as well from a post about a year ago here. I never have issues with my game/F closing but reading this occasionally, once a month or so, and remembering it when I go out, really helps with frame control and has made a dramatic impact on the outcome of my evenings. Women are loved for who they are, men are loved for what they must become. I am entitled to touch her body. I am the god of my own little world. -she may be here by c…
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:20 PM
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I've been in 3 3 year back to back relationships that were all similar to yours. I found out the problem though: My criteria for dating a girl now is that she be exceptionally driven and that she has hobbies of her own. This last criteria is the most important, because none of my exes had hobbies of their own which ended up with me being their new hobby. Been single for 2 years now though and honestly I can't imagine being in a relationship at this point. The single life is good.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:11 PM
1

What part of Texas? I've got a large group that goes out with me several times a week. 2:1 girl to guy ratio. Lmk if you're near Austin.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:04 PM
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It's the opposite... If she's a whore it wouldn't require much time or money lol.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 11:46 PM
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If he's far above her SMV, and she's shy which implies low self esteem, then she might just be inexperienced and unsure of OP's interest due to lack of social skills. I don't think it's as black and white as you're making it out to be. The best action is to invite her out, in my case it would be for drinks, and if she agrees then escalate sexual tension. If she doesn't agree then soft next until she re-initiates contact. No need to get stuck on one girl.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 10:21 PM
2

Bonus: There's a few possibilities here for me personally. If this happened at The Square, a block of bars in a college town where I usually go at least 3 times a week and know a lot of people, I'd probably go to the bar, grab 2 shots of tequila and walk up to a girl I already know, take the shot with her, and bring her and her friends, as well as my friends if they were with me, to another bar. If I was in a new, unfamiliar area, with nothing else planned for the night, and it was just me and t…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 09:34 PM
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Loved the answer to the bonus but seems like a fairy tale answer. Dude doesn't even know who you are, being as he swooped on your girl while you were gone in the bathroom. On top of that if he did see you with her he likely has no respect for you since he knowingly swooped on the girl you were with and is not likely to reciprocate the gesture. In theory it is a 10/10 answer but it just doesn't seem practical.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 09:21 PM
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If you're couch surfing the last thing you need to worry about is getting laid. You have zero time and money for a female, save that shit to get back on your feet. Edit: Ya'll are trying to put words in my mouth. Spending money: beer, gas, etc, for yourself. If you're blowing money on yourself like that and you're living on someone else's couch you're a fucking idiot.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 09:06 PM
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That closing speech was excellent but damn he moves around a lot.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 01:47 AM
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If I were in your shoes I'd have never gone back over to her house once I found out she was living with her parents. Give her an ultimatum, either she can meet you out in town or at your place or not at all. Going over to a girls parents house that early in a relationship is high school shit. You're 23 dude. Tinder is still there bud. Thousands and thousands of girls to pick from.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:35 AM
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You're coming off as desperate, even here, to us. How do you think it's going to look to her if you ask for sex at this point? It doesn't work that way bud. Either she's a freak from the beginning or she isn't.
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:32 AM
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Your only mistake was telling her she's allowed to say no. She wouldn't have responded with inquiries if she wasn't interested in the first place. I don't agree that the interest level is low, I just think you need to improve upon your assertiveness via text. You: "Let's go get frozen yogurt tonight." Her: "When where who" You: "Meet me at yogurt plus at 7, we'll go get drinks after 🙃" You don't need to answer the who part, it's implied that it's just you. Come up with something to do afterwards…
/r/askTRP03/12/15 01:08 AM
2

I mean if she hits you up before then you can pull the trigger that same night
/r/askTRP02/12/15 10:18 PM
4

Dick is balls deep in some shit man. That poor bastard. There's nothing he can really do tbh. He certainly shouldn't stay with this woman and should probably fight for custody of the kid.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 04:22 AM
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I don't know man, it kind of seems like you're letting her make all of the decisions. Why don't you just grab some tequila or beer and tell her to meet you at your place at a certain time for drinks. Coffee shops are kind of like a date... You just want to F close. A coffee shop isn't the right atmosphere (for me anyways) to escalate sexual tension and have it actually lead to anything.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 04:19 AM
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Well, you'll still give a shit... You'll just give less shits. But I agree with what Beef says. You need to get a few plates going.
/r/askTRP02/12/15 03:56 AM
2

I agree with Bacon. This relationship is essentially flat-lining due to your lack of escalation. You should've taken her back to your place many times at this point and railed her on your kitchen dining table. At this point you need to get her out for drinks and get her back to your place before the end of the night. No soft 'love' sex because you have the feels for her either. Fuck her like a man. Pull her hair, smack her ass, bite the shit out of her... You get the idea.
/r/askTRP30/11/15 10:26 PM
2

The goal is to be the type of man you want to be. If being Chad Thundercock is the type of person you want to be then we can help you. If finding and locking down the woman of your dreams and not having her lose interest in you 10 years down the road then we can help you.
/r/askTRP28/11/15 03:56 AM
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I just try to introduce and talk to as many girls as possible. The goal is to let every girl in the club see that I am liked and personable. The more girls you talk to you kind of gain momentum and the more receptive consecutive girls are. As long as you don't come off as a creep.., I go to the same few clubs every Saturday night though so I usually have a few groups of people that come up to me and my friends and chat which helps out a lot in my opinion. If I'm trying to dance with a girl I'll …
/r/askTRP28/11/15 02:46 AM
2

For abs you should do both high and low rep work. Personal favorite's of mine are cable crunches, hanging leg raises where you bring your feet up to the bar that you're holding on to, and decline sit-ups. For your back, like I said, you should be doing mostly compound movements like barbell rows, pendlay rows, pull-ups, dumbbell rows, close grip pulldowns or underhand grip pulldowns. These will all increase the thickness of your back and simultaneously work your biceps, which will do wonders for…
/r/askTRP16/11/15 03:48 PM
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Personal trainer here; I train physique competitors. I'd spend the next year doing primarily compound movements, finishing your workouts with one favorite isolation movement and abs. Also, you're going to need to do a lot of direct Ab work or you'll be disappointed next time you cut. Focus more on your front delts and lats / teres major for isolation work. Next year you'll look killer. You got a good foundation to work with so thats a huge plus.
/r/askTRP16/11/15 02:49 PM
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This. My rule of thumb is 1 out of 10. 1 out of 10 girls will meet me for drinks that I talk to. If I can get them to meet me for a beer then it's pretty much a done deal. I have a lot of phone numbers from tinder, too many. Occasionally one will hit me up for a drink later if she wasn't interested when I initially suggested. Sometimes a month or 2 later. I usually stop talking to the ones not interested in meeting me for a drink the same week I got their phone number and move onto the next. Im …
/r/askTRP11/11/15 08:13 AM
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That saying has become somewhat of a cliche around here. I think it's retarded. It essentially says it's the females fault for moving on and denies responsibility for your own failures in said relationship that may or may not have caused her to move on. That saying is for pussies that don't take responsibility for their own failures. If a girl is 100% focused on me, she's mine. For the time being. It's my fault if I don't lock her up in a LTR and she loses patients and begins to shift her focus …
/r/askTRP24/10/15 09:00 PM
1

Too many people here obsessed with control. This girl isn't yours yet. You don't know what her plans are. It's the weekend, maybe she's going to a party. I sleep in til like 2PM some Saturday's after I've been drinking. Talking to girls today is very different than it was 5 years ago. With Tinder being as popular as it is, any single girl at any given time not committed to any particular guy could be talking to dozens of men simultaneously. You can't blame for for it either. So she's not down fo…
/r/askTRP24/10/15 12:18 AM
2

Just aim to beat your runtime by 1 second. Don't focus on 20 seconds or more and shit like that. Keep it simple. Eat a LOT of carbs as you're doing this training. 6-10g per kg of lean body mass (total weight minus bodyfat weight). Try to do Joe DeFranco's Limber 11 routine before every run to prevent future knee pain. That pain you were feeling was most likely your IT band. Foam rolling the hell out of it, perhaps even with a large PVC pipe, should be a top priority for you. If it gets worse it'…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 06:14 AM
2

The way they counted crunches when I was in is you just have to simply touch your elbows to any part of your thigh, even the bottom of the thigh, in order for the crunch to count. You didn't have to do a full sit-up. It was basically a 3-4 inch movement. The crunches are a free 100 points essentially. You get 2 minutes to do them and most people finish the 100 early. It's the pull-ups and run that you should be focused on. Trust me.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 05:18 AM
2

Former US Marine, current Personal Trainer here. Ran multiple PFT's at 285+ (ironman) Work up to running 3 miles every day of the week. Monday through Friday. Time them all and aim to beat your time every time you go out. It'll be hard on your anterior tibialis at first (shin splints) especially if you're a heel striker so make sure you're rolling out your Anterior Tibialis before and after each run as well as your calves and IT band to prevent IT band syndrome from developing and causing pain i…
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:15 AM
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Essentially it bothers you because she's saying your dick / life isn't good enough for her and she's letting you know that you're essentially a branch and she's looking to swing to a new branch soon. This is just what I'd do and it might not be the correct response but I'd just soft next her. You can continue having sex with her but you shouldn't be doing much, if anything, else with her. Send her packing after the deed(sex) because she should now mean next to nothing to you. No bringing her to …
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:49 AM
1

The gym is obviously the best but you could really let your anger out through creativity like playing the guitar, writing songs, journaling, etc.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:38 AM
1

This is exactly where I'm at bro. I've got 3 girls I haven't slept with yet that I could seal the deal with right now but I'm just burnt out. That and I've had a few STD scares lately that have put me on edge. I too am playing guitar though. What a hobby. Keep doing you man. Build your empire.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 05:17 AM
1

Most guys in general know virgins aren't worth the time because it might be 6 months to a year before she's 'ready'. No matter how good you game her or how horny you get her she's never going to have sex until she's mentally ready. That's a big obstacle for her to overcome. She's been told her whole life that sex for the first time will hurt but feels good. She doesn't know how bad it'll hurt but she's probably been told that it'll make her bleed everywhere too. That's some anxiety inducing shit…
/r/askTRP16/10/15 02:40 AM
3

http://www.pua-zone.com/showthread.php?5492-How-To-Soft-Next-Step-by-step-instructions-and-answers-to-questions This will solve your problems.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 12:13 PM
3

AHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!! SHES A FUCKING VIRGIN AND YOU SOUND LIKE ONE TOO! This subreddit is giving me cancer. I want to help you guys but these questions are getting ridiculous. All of you guys are putting on these fake fucking facade's. Stop pretending to be something you're not. She's a Virgin man. She's got a heap of emotional / moral shit to work out that has nothing to do with you before she sleeps with anyone for her first time,
/r/askTRP15/10/15 12:06 PM
2

This shit should be a common sense answer to you if you've read any of the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 12:01 PM
2

Look at the guys comment history. He's a loser and he's full of shit. Dude has no place commenting on my post.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 10:51 AM
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Lol.... You could've still banged her. It haunts you because you let her go. You didn't do anything wrong by the way. Except block her after that. That was some high school level shit testing on her part. My worst shit test was making out with a 10/10 then watching her finger bang herself in front of me on her kitchen floor. After realizing she wasn't going to have sex with me I left and never spoke to her again. For real she could've been a model for Victoria Secret. To this day I don't know wh…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 06:26 AM
1

Look man, since you haven't slept with her here's the reality: She's not sending red flags, you are. You're initial interaction with her is gaining her favor, otherwise she wouldn't pay you any mind. It's after the initial interaction that you're fucking up somewhere. It's not that she's not following your orders, which is a really bad way to word it btw, it's that she's losing interest in you. Initially you're coming off as an alpha which gets her to come around to you but somewhere along the l…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:46 AM
1

100% straight here bud. Been in 3 back to back 3 year relationships in my younger years with girls I came far too close to marrying. I've also been around enough gay people to know where I stand on my sexuality. You have to understand, I have gone through an estimated 40-50 girls in the last 2 years that I've been single. At least 2 new girls each month. I go out almost every Tuesday Thursday Friday Saturday (and Sundays floating the river during the spring / summer) drinking with college friend…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:32 AM
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Yeah dude, she wouldn't be nervous and shaking if she wasn't into you. Sounds like she doesn't do this very often / meet people off tinder very often. You might have even popped her tinder cherry by being the first person she's met irl off the app. Just keep running game, don't seem clingy, setup another meet but for drinks this time and end the night by inviting her to your place. Even if you haven't kissed or performed well in the kino department. Inviting her to your place the second time you…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:15 AM
1

I want to know if you're sleeping with her or not. There's a massive difference in your scenario if you're currently banging her or if you're still trying to.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 09:16 PM
1

Are you having sex with her? No? Then this post is retarded and you have no clue what you're doing. Yes? Then keep having sex with her. Don't ruin a good plate just because you're being controlling. Over time, when you get to know her better, you'll know whether or not you want to keep her as a plate, LTR her, or ditch her ass. But seriously, if you haven't slept with her, she's acting this way because she's probably confused. On one hand you're using good strong arm alpha tactics which can be a…
/r/askTRP14/10/15 09:10 PM
6

The Glitch. It's a fitting name for the idiot.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 09:04 PM
3

You are the sum of the 5 people you spend the most time with. He's a good influence on you academically. It's wise to keep him in your life as an academic influence but the relationship should end there. Socialize with others who share your social interests. You don't want that list of 5 friends to all be the type of friends that distract you from building your empire though so be careful.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 04:53 PM
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First off, you don't need to take martial arts lessons to poke someone in the eye or kick them in the nuts. Secondly, I'd rather take an ass whooping than be caught kicking another man in the nuts or poking him in the eyes. The only scenario where this is acceptable is if your life is in danger. Being bullied does not mean his life is in danger. You don't just pull a gun out in a fist fight - just like you don't kick someone in the nuts for a fist fight. Lastly, if there are 10 guys around and h…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:56 PM
-2

Typical Reddit. You're probably not going to be a Force Recon Marine and are more likely to look like a retard that should be starring in the next Napolean Dynamite video than you are to pull off some badass Krav Maga moves in real life that would take you years to master being able to do instinctively. Girls are going to see it as lame too. Fuck that. Take up Boxing and BJJ MMA classes like an Alpha. Start hitting the heavy bag and jump rope to work on your foot work. By doing this not only wil…
/r/askTRP13/10/15 10:22 PM
2

Eh, I've plated 2 of my exes, they are still spinning. I made it clear they could do what they want and I'd do what I want. Works well for me. One of the girls I dated for 3 years. She now lives 4 hours away but drives to see me once every 2 months or so just for 2-3 days of nothing but sex. She keeps telling me nobody fucks her like I do. She continually brings up getting back together but I stand firm. I think it depends on the scenario though. In both of these cases I was the one to break up …
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:20 PM
2

The same boiling water that softens the potato hardens the egg. Life's circumstances can either make you give up or motivate you to be better.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:12 PM
2

I enjoy talking to females in the same way I enjoy playing any game: I enjoy it because of its competitive nature and my desire to win. Winning being sex.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 11:07 PM
1

That's a good question, I've never been put in that situation. It's usually over with as soon as it starts. I'd probably do the same thing again except this time cut her off mid sentence with a smirk so as not to seem like too much of an asshole but still get the point across and quickly change the subject or order another round of drinks. Most of my meet ups involve alcohol. Probably 19 out of 20. Lol. I don't have a drinking problem! I think doing this though would send a clear message.
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:24 PM
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IMO it was a shit test that you failed. I've had women try this with me, talking about other guys they've dated on the first meet up, particularly 9's and 10's, and I always tell them I don't care about their past relationships. I've never had this work any other way than favorably for me. I've been doing this since before I even discovered TRP. In the moment though, yeah I usually get a little frustrated that the conversations going in that direction, like you did. Particularly because my ego w…
/r/askTRP21/09/15 09:07 PM
2

If he's madder about the slap than your rate, then you're not charging enough. What a delightful scenario to imagine.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 03:59 AM
1

I was really hoping for a good ball pun right here /u/DICKTracey. You let me down.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/08/15 06:43 PM
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Im totally okay with this double standard though...
/r/MensRights20/08/15 02:25 PM
0

Admit to yourself that you weren't doing the right things that would make a woman not want to cheat, fix that, and never do it again. That's how.
/r/askTRP12/08/15 09:08 PM
0

To be entirely honest, I submit that there are others here, like perhaps yourself, more qualified to write articles for this subreddit than I. While I am actively spinning 4 plates at the moment and, while I am more successful than the average RP'er in the sexual market, I do not claim to be an expert in the matter of RP theory. I only made the assertion that I have been a RP reader for quite a while. I am not trolling, I am simply speaking my mind. I am calling for better content and a shift of…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 07:29 AM
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That comment you referenced, about FarmVille, is actually one of my topic ideas I've been wanting to post about. Not all RP'ers are equal. There are RP'ers that come here because it has already aligned with their current belief system (me), there are RP'ers that came here and became enlightened after struggling to swallow the pill, there are RP'ers that have been fucked over by women and then discovered RP theory, etc. That post was in response to all of the woman hating that goes on around here…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 06:49 AM
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Because you write for world class gyms that train celebrities and NFL athletes right? Oh wait, no, you post on reddit all day. Perhaps if I did as little with my life as you I could contribute hundreds of articles and post on reddit all day as you do. Or I could help steer your retarded ass in the right direction so that the material continues to get better and doesn't hit a fucking ceiling. I want to spend my time writing about the inequalities of carbohydrates as it relates to advanced dieting…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 03:54 AM
1

Until I started reading reddit, feminism was, and still is, a joke. The only people that even give it the time of day are people on tumblr and reddit. I don't know a single person in the real world who gives a shit about feminism or their ideologies. I haven't heard the topic or even seen it posted on Facebook one single fucking time in my entire life. I've seen the retards on campus but nobody pays attention to them. I think it's become more of an obsess-ant form of whining/ranting for this sub…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 03:40 AM
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Edited my previous comment lol. Every time I speak to you you show your ass. Go ahead and keep showing it. Tell me if you think I'm wrong and tell me how I'm wrong because to be honest it just sounds like you're offended.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 02:50 AM
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Stating my opinion is far from beta. I'm a busy man, between school and work, working nearly 16 hours a day 5 days a week, and most weekends as well. I have a huge list on Evernote of topics I've been wanting to write about that I'd be happy to share but finding the time to sit down and actually write these articles to the point that I would be satisfied enough to publish would take me far longer than I care to admit. You're a personal trainer as well, you should know the hustle, now imagine ful…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 02:41 AM
2

Read the link I recently edited into my comment. "This even includes tax-free benefits such as housing and subsistence allowances." In other words, BAH from the post 9/11 GI Bill.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 10:29 PM
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Yeah - I'm a former US Marine bud, you have a lot of assumptions in your post. I served with this guy and he lives near my home town. I know him on a fairly personal level. He's not shady and he doesn't spin false stories. His GI Bill payments are factored into his alimony pay. Where did retirement come from? I never mentioned retirement. He is not a RETIRED veteran, which would mean he spent 20+ years in the military, so he does not get RETIREMENT pay, which would be separate from his GI bill p…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 10:07 PM
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That's not true at all man. TRP is about educating men on the realities of the world. It's not a fucking cult mentality where all men hate women and avoid marriage. A man does what he chooses. If he's happy in a monogamous relationship and wants to get married because there are certain advantages to being married, then let him. I think some of the best posters in this sub are those who are in a monogamous relationships or are married. Getting married in the military net's you a $1,500/month pay …
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 09:56 PM
2

I changed the flair, thanks. Though I would not call my friend blue pill by any means.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 08:35 PM
1

There's no such thing as a AF BB, man. Sex isn't a rational process. A talk will get the issues out in the open and the wife might try her best to please you in the following weeks but the issue at hand, her vagina not getting wet, isn't getting solved, and things will eventually go back to how they were. The problem is you're trying to force the woman to have sex even when she doesn't want to. You should instead be trying to get the woman to want to have sex with you. A talk wont solve that. Th…
/r/TheRedPill15/07/15 08:26 PM
30

Chances are she didn't stop at 2. The fact that she was getting in touch with this guy again is indication of ill intentions in and of itself. BUT - most of us here are biased towards being single. I'd really like to hear from an older gentleman that's been in similar circumstances.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 05:42 PM
10

You're arguing about semantics. What a waste of time and energy.
/r/askTRP13/07/15 05:52 AM
2

I think the admins will just ignore it and reddit will resume usual in 2 weeks and forget all about it. Just like Fatpeoplehate.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:37 PM
0

Why would he highly respect a beta friend and why is his girl now hanging out with his supposedly beta friend? How do you know he's not chad thundercock?
/r/askTRP28/06/15 01:41 AM
4

Law 2: Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies to your advantage. Law 4: Always say less than necessary Law 5: So much depends on reputation, guard it with your life! Law 9: Win through your actions, never through argument. Law 15: Crush your enemy totally! Law 20: Do not commit to anyone. I'd confront him about it and if he gave me the slightest attitude I'd beat his ass. I know a lot of people here think playing the passive route is more ideal but for how much they talk a…
/r/askTRP27/06/15 10:11 PM
15

She's no longer an actively spinning plate if you're not fucking her anymore bud. You however have been plated and spun by her for your time and attention.
/r/askTRP26/06/15 03:52 PM
-5

Perhaps you lack inductive reasoning skills then and don't understand the meaning of the words "Patronize" and "Convey".
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:37 PM
-2

I'm not a fan of the jaded view a lot of you guys portray here. It shows that you're still butthurt from the last time a woman fucked you over. I fail to believe that patronizing statements like that were made by anyone that actually knows how to handle multiple plates.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 07:07 PM
-9

FarmVille.. Lol. Either you have some serious woman hating issues or you're trying too hard to put on a front for us. We aren't about hating women, only understanding how they operate. I genuinely enjoy spending time with the girls I've plated. If this is how you feel about women in general I have no idea how you enjoy yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 05:04 PM
0

Like someone else said, she is not yours, it is just your turn. You guys aren't in a relationship. Both you and her are free to do whatever you want. Secondly, don't you think she may be shit testing you and trying to get a reaction out of you? Perhaps she wants something more and is looking for an indication that you care about her in such a manner that it would bother you when she flirts with other guys. 70% of all language is non-verbal. She read you like a book and she got the confirmation s…
/r/askTRP24/06/15 05:42 PM
2

It would be nice to see field reports from people that have made major leaps in terms of self improvement or career advancement.
/r/askTRP24/06/15 05:33 PM
-1

did you know you have the same last name as one of the greatest rhythymists of all time?
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 12:27 AM
1

You may be listening to the wrong type of music, 0:45 - 2:00 is a window of Personal Records. 2:30 - End. Massive PR's 5:00 - End 4:20 - End 2:30 - End There's PR's all over this bitch 1:18 definitely has deadlift PR's in that fucker Tim Lambesis's Side Project Band? Why'd that cunt have to go and try to get his wife assassinated. Fun starts at 2:10 At 2:20 you may be on a warm up set and just say fuck it and go balls out for a massive rep PR What audiobook contains more motivation than this sin…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 07:38 PM
7

I understand that everyone has their own way but I just figured I'd share mine: I really dislike the idea of going out on "dates" and such. I generally reserve dates for established plates which I intend to LTR. I usually use Tinder, casual day game which may lead to a number which leads to evening drinks which leads to sex, clubs and parties to keep myself entertained. Also I work at a gym so I meet people of all ages regularly. A lot of people here suggest picking up hobbies. I can't stand the…
/r/askTRP23/06/15 06:28 AM
1

This is a serious question as I've never really considered marriage with anyone and don't know that much about prenup agreements but can't all of this be avoided with a well written pre-nup?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 05:35 AM
3

Holding on to anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at some else; you are the one who gets burned. You will not be punished for your anger, you will be punished by your anger. This may be the best quote I've ever heard. I should really finish reading my book on bhuddism and mindfulness.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/15 12:48 PM
4

Looking through your history you talk about a lot of stuff you have no clue about, yet are stating your opinions as fact. For example; increasing maximal strength does increase power, so yes lifting weights does increase punching power, up to a point with diminishing returns. I can say this because I have 4 certifications in weight lifting and nutrition, I'm pursuing a doctorates in physical therapy, and have been a personal trainer / strength and conditioning coach for the past 4 years. Don't e…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/15 04:07 AM
-1

Punches to the cervix. HAH! GOT'EM!
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 10:15 AM
8

I was being facetious you thick headed turd. If the woman wants to be a go getter then let her be a go getter. Personally I love a woman that knows what she wants. It tells me she's confident and driven, which are attractive traits to me.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 09:23 PM
26

Solid advice. Sometimes men can be dumb as rocks. Source: Man.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 02:03 AM
3

Your two biggest problems are self esteem and confidence. You have neither. When I walk around out in public and I'm analyzing people, I'll see people with the shittiest outfits on and the nastiest hair cuts. That's the type of person they grew up to be, born out of the friendships they've made along the way with others. I see these people and I think to myself; Man this dude could kill the ladies if he just hit the weights for a year or two, ate right, buzzed his head, and upgraded his wardrobe…
/r/askTRP14/06/15 01:22 AM
1

The community and what's discussed here is too important, there should be an alternative website we could all go to. MGTOW.com or another site hosted by a well known RP'er.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 08:27 AM
3

The James Bond Shower. It's something I've tried in the past but god damn it takes some massive balls and dedication to flip that knob to ice cold when you're still half asleep. What an unpleasant way to take a shower.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 08:46 AM
3

You have developed automaticity in your workout routine. It no longer requires the use of willpower to go. You need to, I need to (lol), develop automaticity in our studying habits. I too have an exam tomorrow and am only here answering your question to procrastinate on writing more flash cards ~sigh~.
/r/askTRP09/06/15 07:30 AM
0

You say it fails often - I say it works every time... Either I'm lying or the guys you know trying it are chumps.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 04:30 AM
2

I just can't see this in any other way than creepy. You only shake a woman's hand to introduce yourself. You hug her when you part ways. You're caressing the inside of a woman's palm before you even get to know her? There's no way this has ever gotten you laid. Lol I can't even..
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 03:53 AM
2

On the topic of handshakes I thought I'd share my favorite opener of all time with you all: The Hand of God. I use this opener every weekend at bars and clubs and it has never failed me. My favorite thing is to walk up to a group of girls, force a hand through the center of their group, and hold my hand out while expectantly looking at the girl I want to talk to until she takes it and I pull her through her group of friends to me so I can speak to her and introduce myself, or dance with her, whi…
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 03:45 AM
2

You don't know whether or not she is a gold digger, all you know is she was attracted to you due to your SMV being higher than hers. Gold digging can only be determined through actions. Actions which you haven't had the opportunity to see yet. I see gold diggers as women with men who don't have the balls to say no to their woman. A BB with high income willing to dole out cash at her whim. I personally don't fuck with women with children. There's usually too much drama and risk involved. So in my…
/r/askTRP09/06/15 02:57 AM
4

Fuck you guys, I love Staind. Have you heard his new country? Aaron Lewis - The Road and Town Line. Still waiting for that FUCKING TOOL ALBUM GOD DAMNIT!
/r/askTRP08/06/15 07:11 PM
5

If you're not deadlifting at least 315 you're in the wrong.
/r/seduction08/06/15 04:43 PM
2

You're confusing standards with ethics. To say that his standards for sex are more important than her religion shows lack of maturity, foresight, and consideration for your own choices to LTR this person. I'm tired of seeing people in this sub blame their problems on others.
/r/askTRP07/06/15 06:11 AM
2

Yeah? Well I was in Iraq for 6 months and Djibouti Africa for 10 months working hand in hand with real Muslims, praying 5 times a day Muslims, and while pre marital sex is definitely a bigger deal than Christianity or catholism it's still highly prevalent within the religion. It's not an excuse for you to totally disregard her beliefs just because she breaks one of the most commonly broken rules. That's like denying a man a Police officer position because he J-walks. And don't try to patronize m…
/r/askTRP07/06/15 01:08 AM
-3

So narrow minded. How old are you? Not everyone is perfect. Almost every religion forbids sex before marriage so is everyone that believes in religion a hypocrite? Probably but that's not the point I'm trying to make. That's not the same thing. Everyone breaks that rule. If she wants to practice Ramadan, a very common Muslim tradition, then respect that. Everything about this post and OP's post screams immaturity to me. That's not red pill or blue pill. That's not alpha or beta. That's lack of c…
/r/askTRP07/06/15 12:42 AM
5

No, it's actually a basic psychology principle to show the other person talking that you're listening and you understand what they're saying and not just letting the garbage go in one ear and out the other while you think about what you're going to spew out when the other idiot finally shuts up - which is basically 90% of all conversations. All therapists do this and for good reason. It is important to the person talking that they know you are truly listening to them. You're not repeating everyt…
/r/seduction06/06/15 02:31 AM
5

Very good post. I wish you'd have gone on a little more on leverage. I liked the part about females spinning us for attention as a concept. I think we all know that females use us for attention but to conceptualize it as plate spinning really seems to fit well with the behavioral symmetries between man and women. I would really like to see you add some more red pill marinated meat to the leverage section of the post though. I think it's a topic in and of itself that an article could be written a…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 11:04 PM
0

Lol you seem butthurt and defensive. Fact of the matter is that this is the Internet and people can say whatever they want. If you aren't socially outgoing and you're defending that as a proper way to go through college while still getting the true college experience of smashing more girls with more ease than at any other point in your life well then frankly I don't believe a word that's coming out of your mouth. You're trying to convey that you slept with a lot of girls in college. Perhaps you …
/r/askTRP05/06/15 08:17 PM
0

Why are you changing the topic at hand? We're discussing social skills here not whether or not school is a good decision, which is an argument that could go on endlessly.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:46 PM
4

Speak for yourself. I served 4 years in the Marine Corps and I thought that was a good time... Shit, college has been the time of my life. Don't be a jaded introverted puss. Learn to be outgoing, not only with females but also with males. Think of it as improving your social standing, which in turn improves your SMV. Social skills are essential to success in any career. Anyone that says otherwise is a fool. Quit hamstering yourself into thinking you can be a lone wolf female [game] assassin. It'…
/r/askTRP05/06/15 08:45 AM
4

You're right I'm as blue pill as they come boy.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 08:27 AM
3

GayLubeOil, I'm good bruh. Love your posts though keep em coming.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 08:24 AM
4

Personal Trainer + Strength and Conditioning Coach (5 years experience) / Physical Therapy student here. If you give me clear cut 3, 6, & 12 month goals along with what you're currently doing for exercise and what your average weekly meal plan looks like I'll tweak it for you so you can continue getting results.
/r/askTRP05/06/15 01:52 AM
4

Not only that, staying in contact with her at this point is only bringing you down: -It weakens your own self esteem and ego. -It appears to others that you are too weak to cut ties and that you still want her. This lowers your SMV in your social circle. -It prevents you from ever truly getting over her. She's keeping you around for back-up and subconsciously you know this, that's why you haven't booted her ass out of your life yet. You're likely struggling with ambivalence about the whole situa…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 08:02 PM
1

Man... You need a lot of work my friend. You are so wrong, I wish you could see it. Firstly, nothing about the top comments statement would get him thrown into jail. Secondly, you're taking it and warping it in your mind into meaning something perverse when it's not. By saying What makes you think you're the one choosing it does several things: -It shows her that you're confident enough to walk away from her and thus not needy or desperate. You have options. -It shows her that you're not playing…
/r/askTRP04/06/15 08:15 AM
5

Wow I'd never thought about it like that. Good post man!
/r/askTRP04/06/15 12:11 AM
2

You text them for too long on tinder man. If I don't have their number in 5 or less back and forth texts I'm on to the next girl. If I get their number and they aren't free that same week or weekend I'm on to the next girl. Stop trying to have friendly conversations. Let them know you're not interested in being just friends with them. If they aren't interested in meeting up that same week for drinks then you're wasting your time. Plate em before you date em.
/r/askTRP03/06/15 07:30 PM
-1

Who gives a shit if they are a virgin? If you're over the age of 21 and you're looking for virgins to have sex with that's borderline predatory behavior. Besides all of the drama that comes along with sleeping with a virgin isn't worth it. With that said, there are three girls in my social circle who are between 20-24 who are certainly virgins. They are hot too. I know that this is uncommon but they are out there.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 04:29 PM
6

Don't get defensive now. It's not word shuffling it's semantics(as is this). Arguing semantics is important when the word of choice can make or break someone's understanding of what you're trying to say. Self fulfillment is the key to happiness. It's a pretty common saying. What I said was meant to piggy back off of what you said as I didn't feel OP fully grasped what you were trying to get at.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 08:30 PM
3

What he previously knew as happiness, to me, was that of being wanted by others. His previous world in which his external reliance upon happiness (beta mode) has been shattered and he's now trying to learn how to live and be happy with himself rather than rely upon others for his happiness. You call this calmness, I call it self fulfillment.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 07:53 PM
7

It's not her fault that you haven't established that type of respect in your relationship. It's yours. A man accepts responsibility, a child looks for others to blame. I would even take this a step further, and some may disagree, but everything that happens to you in your life is nobodies fault but your own. Own up to everything. Late to work because a traffic accident was holding up traffic? Should have checked Google maps for traffic and you should have left earlier. Did your girl cheat on you…
/r/askTRP02/06/15 02:57 AM
3

His response was spot on my friend. You're putting your defenses up because it's a jab at your ego but it's a harsh reality that needs to be accepted in order for you to grow. We understand why you told us what you told us, but we also understand that it's that same reasoning, excuses, that is feeding your behavior. Which is why you're here asking for assistance / guidance. A leader of men does not wallow in self-pity. He takes responsibility for whatever life has thrown his way & he doesn't spe…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 09:56 PM
1

You need to work on your SMV and abundance mentality my friend. It will do more for your pride and self esteem and, more importantly, your life, than staying with this girl. Kicking her to the curb might be hard at first but pain equals growth my friend.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:54 PM
4

I forget which RP article I got this from but this is a summary from somebody else's post that I read weekly to remind myself so I don't go soft: Women are loved for who they are, men are loved for what they must become. I am entitled to touch her body. I am the god of my own little world. ---she may be here by choice, but she's also here because I allowed her to be. She is worth just as little as the next slut. ---reminder of AWALT, abundance mentality, higher SMV, there are no unicorns. I am h…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:49 PM
41

Whatever the most appropriate Red Pill response is to this scenario, for me, everything boils down to respect. To me, rather than blame her, I would begin to analyze my own behavior. The fact she she even thinks that it's okay to act in such a manner directly in front of you is a fault of your own. Any plate I'm spinning, any girl I'm dating, knows that I would drop them at any given moment the second they disrespected me. Obviously I'll let plates go quicker than LTR's, but I never LTR a girl u…
/r/askTRP01/06/15 08:36 PM
1

You two would make a great couple.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 03:42 AM
1

Have you done toastmasters? What's it like? I've heard from a few people that it's full of geeks. I'm interested if it's truly something that like-minded driven professionals do, both to further my own public speaking ability but also to network. I don't want to waste my time though if it's just a bunch of nerds using it as a social club.
/r/askTRP01/06/15 03:38 AM
1

I don't mind
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 08:35 PM
2

Now see, you can't use Mathew McConohay as an example. Mathew McConohay is a fairy tale... The only way you know him is the character he portrays in movies. There are no Unicorns and there are no Mathew McConohays.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 02:25 AM
1

Never touch another video game again. You're not a casual gamer and you'll never be able to be one. View gaming from now on as a drug like heroin and every time you play another game on your phone or computer view it as a relapse. The Internet is going to be your new time suck. Be aware of that. Try to pay attention to your entertainment vs education ratio. Maximize your education and minimize your entertainment. Start going to the gym. Since you're balding, shave your head. If you can grow dece…
/r/askTRP28/05/15 10:11 PM
6

Man, I work at a gym as a trainer. All you gotta do is compliment her on killing it in the gym as she walks by[without headphones on obviously]. Something like, "I see you over there getting it!" She'll either give you a smile and a nod or she'll stop so you can introduce yourself. Keep it short and sweet. The point is to introduce yourself, not hit on her. Girls get hit on all the time at the gym and they hate it. They will even switch gyms because of it. I train loads of smoking hot girls and …
/r/askTRP27/05/15 06:18 AM
1

I find it likely that she will bring up her boyfriend as a shit test (either upon initially meeting her or as LMR) and don't think it immediately constitutes ending the date so soon. If I was in this situation I would play ignore and amplify as I personally would prefer to push the envelope a little before I shit can the idea of sleeping with her. She wouldn't be going out for drinks at midnight if she was looking for a new orbiter. She'd go out to lunch for that. If a girl ever wants to meet me…
/r/askTRP27/05/15 05:08 AM
1

I was just ribbing you brother
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:54 PM
1

Urban Dictionary says otherwise 😁
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 07:45 PM
1

I seriously feel like I've read this before. My bad if I'm wrong. Wicked case of déjà vu.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 02:04 PM
1

Semantics. And 1RM's are usually grinders that take somewhere between 4-6 seconds or even longer depending on how long you've been holding the weight.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 10:33 PM
9

Personal Trainer here, You have 3 energy pathways; Your ATP-CP (creatine phosphate) energy pathway, your ATP-ADP-AMP (anaerobic glycolysis / glycogen) energy pathway and your electron transport chain (aerobic glycolysis) energy pathway. Your muscles naturally have creatine in them. When you lift close to 100% max effort your body needs to create a lot of ATP in a short amount of time. The bonds released by breaking the creatine off of the phosphate molecule release enough energy to re-attach a p…
/r/askTRP20/05/15 09:13 PM
3

This is a retarded answer, don't post if you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP20/05/15 09:01 PM
2

Hmmm, I'm not lacking experience necessarily in terms of how many women I've slept with but I actually really like what was said here. There are a few women I've currently been ignoring because A) they either annoy tf out of me or B) they aren't hot enough. I have gotten too comfortable with my current plates. Perhaps it's time to begin spinning a few more.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 01:51 AM
3

hahaha what the fuck is wrong with people
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 07:09 PM
2

I always say I don't know, I never kept track. Then if they keep pressing I'll say around 20-30. In reality it's probably been around 50-70. In all honesty who keeps track? I lost count after 5.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 10:00 PM
1

I was speaking of the rise of corporations namely in America. Founded was an incorrect choice of words. As someone trying to discredit the intelligence of another you'd think you'd be smart enough to recognize the incorrect choice of words and see what I was intending to say rather than just pointing it out.
/r/askTRP09/05/15 12:18 AM
3

That, "Yes, but not right now, this weekend." Was a shit test my friend. This is called last minute resistance. Just like a salesman must overcome objections to a sale, you must learn to overcome objections(LMR) to sex. This is a vital skill to securing the home run on first dates. You've got to learn how to keep teasing her and reassuring her that you're the real deal Holyfield. As a rule of thumb, if it's not escalating, move on to trying to break through her LMR. Don't keep making out to avoi…
/r/askTRP08/05/15 11:47 PM
3

Did you try to have sex with the girl you were making out with until 3AM? What happened? No girl stays around that late without wanting to get boned down. I'm willing to bet your shyness / timidness started to show towards the end of that night when you failed to escalate to sex and that's where you lost her interest. You failed a shit test at some point. "Every girl is a slut under the right circumstances." One of my favorite quotes from TRP. You always must be aware of your frame. Even up to a…
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:51 PM
1

I'm not saying no but if you're at a party you'd probably have better luck starting off with hitting on acquaintances or girls you don't know that well and letting these girls that knew you as a beta see you in action. Just don't let yourself get tied down with any girls you start banging down man!!!
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:33 PM
1

I stand behind this. Well said mate.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 09:11 PM
0

This is a really good answer, thank you.
/r/askTRP08/05/15 12:04 AM
0

This was a fleeting thought of mine today I wanted to share with you all and get your insight on. To be clear, I posted this here rather than other areas of Reddit because I feel that many of you here at TRP put more thought and effort into your posts. I personally have zero debt so I feel this is fairly unbiased. I am far from an expert on the matter so I'm interested to know what you all think.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:43 PM
-1

These are all worthless comments, lol, yes you can lift every day. As long as you're sleeping enough and eating enough. I'd recommend you take at least one day off. There is a circle jerk in the fitness sub about strength training and some kind of unfounded / biased opinion against bro splits. I've been lifting for 8 years man. Started out in the military with bro splits, got out and became a personal trainer and got real heavy into strength training because it's more technical and makes you sou…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:43 AM
2

Where do I take it from here? To smash academy OP. duh. Aside from this, does bouncing pay well? I've been considering applying at local bars as an in to bar tending.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 10:22 AM
5

Here's my take on the scenario: When I first got out of the military I found my best friend (A) fucking my other best friends (B) WIFE. I told him, look dude it's none of my business but when my BF(B) comes back from deployment and wants to chill ya'll either better be done with this shit or his wife needs to break up with him. Long story short BF(B) came back from deployment, we had a few beers, and the first thing he says is, "Bro I think BF(A) is fucking my wife. I think she's over there righ…
/r/askTRP07/05/15 04:28 AM
2

I really don't think so. I've been to more countries than I care to list off being a former Marine who's gone on multiple deployments. Culture has a dramatic impact on how likely AWALT is going to apply. Culturally strong Japanese women still believe in Honor and family shame.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 06:03 PM
1

It's pretty straight forward bro.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 05:58 PM
51

I work at 24 and they literally hire anyone. I work with a bunch of retards. If you apply with 3 certs though you start out at 28-33$/hr. Once you hit 120 sessions a month you go up to around 38-40$/hr. Once you hit 2500 sessions total you go up to around 48$/hr. Not a bad gig as long as you can put up with the initial 6 month client build-up process. Meet a lot of hot chicks too that all seem to have a fantasy about banging their personal trainer.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 07:13 AM
2

You know what's crazy is that a lot of this AWALT is a cultural thing. Japanese women I hear are generally all RPW. I feel that the essence of what it means to be a man has been lost [among the unenlightened] in the females battle for equality and thus has the respect been lost as well which is why we generally see more AWALT in our english culture today than say 50-60 years ago.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 07:04 AM
2

"Mans greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain why to succeed is to try just one more time." -Ralph Waldo Emerson
/r/askTRP05/05/15 11:42 PM
17

I'm getting a clingy vibe. Too much too soon. After the second time she came over to have sex, as long as you nailed her good and weren't like some of these other tools that get their nut off and just roll over, you pretty much had her as a plate. She's got to know you've got other priorities in life that come before her[or at least think you do]. I would have ignored her for a few days after you had sex that following day to see how she played it out. Soft next her and wait for her to hit you u…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 06:45 AM
1

I've never heard a sadist, nor anyone straight for that matter, use the word sweetie before. Patronizing me won't work my friend.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:27 AM
0

Lol whatever makes you feel better of your inability to please your girl bro. It is the assumption I'm speaking of here in case you didn't get that. The assumption that, if you let out your weakness in your inability, undesire, or whatever excuse you want to come up with for not getting your girl off on the reg, that my girls going to talk to your girl about how good she gets fucked, and your girls going to want that. But she's never going to get it.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 09:17 AM
1

I feel that there is an idea here at TRP that's been developed about what it means to be an Alpha, but there certainly hasn't been a concrete definition. I feel that this argument could go on indefinitely being that this is a fairly grey area but here's the point I'm making: If I'm giving a girl the best sex she's had in her life, she's going to tell her friends. If your girl hears about how I fuck my girl, she's going to be intrigued to say the least. I enjoy knowing that I fucked my girl so go…
/r/askTRP03/05/15 08:44 AM
1

Your reply makes no fucking sense and it sounds like you know nothing about TRT. What's labeled as "normal" is an average determined from studies done on 18-65 year olds. Obviously your testostetone is higher in your 20's and lower as you get older so to lump everyone from 18-65 into the same category range as normal is obsurd. If OP's testostetone is 250 when the average is between 200-950 then he's disqualified for TRT. Most doctors don't take into consideration the fact that this range is bas…
/r/askTRP02/05/15 08:36 AM
4

I've never understood how another man can keep his pride and roll over and go to sleep after busting without getting his girl off. There's a simple fact that the redpill always stresses; men and women are different. Men can achieve orgasm in about 5 minutes while it takes a female 15-20 on average. So even the playing field by starting this off with fingering or oral. It's really not that hard. If all you want is a nut then get a blowjob. At least you're not misleading your girl into thinking sh…
/r/askTRP02/05/15 08:27 AM
0

Consider trying an open relationship with someone.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/15 08:22 AM
2

Nike: just do it
/r/seduction02/05/15 04:41 AM
11

We aren't at 110k yet prick! For real though, your posts are some of the best I've ever read on reddit as a whole. They make me think on a deep cognitive level otherwise inexperienced since first discovering reddit. You're a fantastic writer that makes his reader think. I think that's a special trait and I look forward to your future posts.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 07:38 PM
3

People still use OKC? I haven't been on there in years. Completely forgot about it since Tinder.
/r/seduction01/05/15 07:33 PM
5

Your comment reminds me of a book I read called People Skills by Robert Bolton. He goes into great detail about discussion-terminating conversation strategies which most people don't recognize they are subconciously doing and teaches you how to consciously overcome it. Good book.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 06:59 PM
5

You sound like a sweet guy
/r/seduction01/05/15 02:08 PM
2

Yeah, but her feet should be on the bed and she should be leaning slightly forward so she doesn't have to work so hard to hold herself up because you're hands are on her ass helping to support her while you take her to pound town. You should be able to maintain this position for a solid 5-10 minutes and gradually work your way up in intensity. Sometime's I'll work my way up then slow down as I talk shit to her or talk dirty to her and then speed up again, rinse and repeat. Sometime's I'll pull a…
/r/seduction01/05/15 01:46 PM
1

Think of it like... A riddle. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/05/15 01:29 PM
-7

If you don't continue talking to her you're going to come off as timid and shy and she's going to lose her initial interest that you'd already worked so hard at building. Fuck yes you should be stoking the flame. Flirt with her via text and try to lead the conversation into sexual topics. "Hypothetically speaking, if we were living together, what percentage of the house could I turn into a sex dungeon?" "I heard that 90% of women masturbate in the shower and the other 10% sing. What song do you …
/r/seduction01/05/15 01:07 PM
5

I don't know. Ever since I started reading up on Benjamin Franklins life and how many women that guy slept with I've kind of learned how to enjoy my time with women. Personally though I have always felt naturally comfortable socializing with women. I truly enjoy the time I spend with the girls I plate. If you're not enjoying yourself then you shouldn't be wasting your time with said girl. I've met a ton of girls I could have had sex with but didn't pursue because I couldn't stand listening to th…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:53 PM
1

Former Marine here in college currently... it's awesome. Not only can you utilize Amused Mastery to a greater effect earlier in life due to your life experiences but becoming a Marine in and of itself instills unbreakable Frame (not necessarily true if you're a bitch). This demeanor that the Marine Corps will instill in you you will carry with you for the rest of your life and it shows in everything you do. Excellence is the only thing the Marine Corps cares about and it's about as Red Pill as i…
/r/askTRP01/05/15 12:24 PM
9

Hey man, we all start somewhere. The gym, extreme hygiene, and cologne go a lonnnng way my friend. You need to quit doubting yourself though. It sound's like you're disqualifying yourself from these other girls because you think you don't stand a chance. You miss 100% of the chances you don't take. Not only that it's good to learn how to interact with these girls to build your social skills in that you might learn to effectively dodge their shit tests in preparation for later on in life when you…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:04 PM
9

The question of the hour: Are you still a virgin?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 09:07 AM
15

Monk Mode May? Not a chance. I've got two solid months in Texas floating the river in 90 degree weather before it turns into Satans asshole. Abstinence August when it's 115 degrees outside and I hate my life? Possibly. Good luck though mate. I'm rooten for ya.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 09:04 AM
9

I imagine myself sitting at a bar and you plopping down next to me after that experience, ordering three fingers of Glenlivet 15 neat, handing me a glass as well(this is my imagination), and then downing it all with a sigh of relief.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 07:56 AM
2

I'm definitely the "jokey/clownish dominant guy" & the "serious or strong/silent type" depending on the mood and/or setting I'm in. Never heard it separated into distinct categories like that. Good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 04:40 AM
6

As a former Marine, bro, this is the type of stuff you need to keep on the DL. Seen too many females screw over guys due to lies, contract marriages, etc. More times than I can count that's for sure. The less women know about this the better.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:45 AM
17

Write a god damn book you beautiful son of a bitch
/r/askTRP30/04/15 10:20 PM
-5

You're looking for a unicorn. Quit that shit.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 10:18 PM
12

If you're doing IF you should be eating carbs + protein at the beginning of breaking your fast and gradually move towards higher fat foods towards the end of your 6-8 hour feeding window. Your largest meal should be your first meal. Your meals might look like this: Meal 1: 60% Carbs | 30% Protein | 10% Fat (or less) Meal 2: 40% Carbs | 30% Protein | 30% Fat Meal 3: 40% Carbs | 30% Protein | 30% Fat On days you don't lift you should decrease your carb intake substantially and increase your protei…
/r/askTRP30/04/15 09:54 PM
2

I always keep a good bottle of wine and a 6 pack in the fridge. I'll usually tell a girl I've got some wine back at my place and invite her over.
/r/seduction30/04/15 07:00 AM
1

Fine with me. The success of a Red Piller depends on a capitalist mentality. If the rest of society catches on, we'll all be doing the same shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 06:40 AM
37

Are we being honest with each other? Let's up the ante to say; three grade A hookers at 30k a night. I would be perfectly okay with that, you know. Taste allll the rainbow - Until my dick fell off, I went into orgasmic induced cardiac arrest or died from aids I guess.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 08:25 AM
-3

Boners, Super Boners, and Do you ever get those crusties in your asshole that you have to pick out in the shower? just became my new favorite triple whammy tinder opener.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 01:28 AM
3

If I were in your shoes and I wanted to go to lunch with this girl, because she's cool to hang out with, I wouldn't allow her to buy me lunch even if she did have free vouchers. I'd tell her to save them for herself and I'd pay for my own lunch.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 05:11 PM
9

Law 40: Despise the free lunch.
/r/askTRP28/04/15 04:13 PM
6

This is pretty close. So imagine, rather than him being on the floor, his upper back/shoulders/head are being supported by your bed/couch. His hips/lower back are hanging off, and his legs are holding his hips up in the air because they are planted on the ground. Similar to a Supine Hip Thrust. Now see how she's leaning back? Well in order for her to assist you in holding her weight up so you can spend more of your energy fucking her rather than getting worn out by holding all of her weight up, …
/r/seduction28/04/15 03:38 PM
-8

Guy had his penis chopped off. I could't watch GoT anymore after that episode. I couldn't stand watching how much of a bitch he became.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:17 AM
10

There was an awesome article on here the other day detailing why you should never complain or reveal your weaknesses to your SO and this is exactly why. While, even though this may be a shit test in some fucked up way, it's one of those statements that can't be taken back. I'd apply distance and break up shortly(heh) after but that's just me.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 04:14 AM
25

I liked the part about the modified coital position or whatever the fuck and the legs spread out part preventing her from reaching orgasm. Opened the article thinking theres nothing more I could learn and viola. My fav position of all time thats made many a women squirt for their first time: your shoulders / back supported by a chair, bed, or couch, with your hips hanging off and feet planted firmly, her on top with her feet on the chair, bed, or couch, you holding her ass with both hands as you…
/r/seduction28/04/15 03:36 AM
7

The introduction doesn't matter dude, the fact that you approach the girl is what matters. Those were examples and I never said just walk up and say Hi then ask for her number like you're making it sound. Small talk for extended periods of time gets awkward and you can't expect every interaction to dive into meaningful conversation. That's unrealistic. If you do get onto a good subject which you can go on about, that you are enthusiastic about, then go for it. Show her your personality, let that…
/r/seduction26/04/15 08:43 AM
0

Bro you think I just made all that up? I actually do this shit.
/r/seduction26/04/15 06:38 AM
9

Seriously, just walk up to a girl and with a natural smile, not a creepy or d-bag smirk, start off with some bs like, "whatcha studying? Oh that's cool." Continue on with the conversation for a few seconds or immediately jump to the point, "hey so I thought you were really cute, what do you have going on after class? Let's go grab some coffee." Or "Hey take my number down and lets get a drink Friday." Always be assertive. Never leave a decision up to her or she's likely going to flake. If you gi…
/r/seduction26/04/15 03:14 AM
3

What? No. This is how you lose a plate. Just flat out say, "No." Nothing more is needed. You making her feel like shit makes you a d-bag. There are other ways to keep a 10 around other than trying to drag her in the mud and force her to have insecurity issues. Girls with insecurity issues are lame AF to chill with anyways. I'd rather kick it with a confident 7 than a insecure 10.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 02:43 AM
3

Good read. Liked the way you ended it. Thanks for sharing.
/r/becomeaman26/04/15 01:59 AM
1

Pick 2-4 days out of the week that you consistently go out with the intention of meeting girls. Eventually you should have dates lined up for each of those nights (not real dates fool), and during the day you should be working on filling your next weeks schedule. I usually go out Friday night and keep it pretty chill, Saturday evenings I get ham, and Sunday's I float the river. Every weekend. I always have a girl accompany me for each day. That's what I do. Tinder helps but I meet a lot of girls…
/r/askTRP25/04/15 06:45 PM
3

Ehem, where is this?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 05:15 AM
1

I mean... You've gotta know someone. Who told you about the party?
/r/askTRP25/04/15 04:54 AM
2

Well, I was in the Marine Corps and most girls I sleep with know that so to be honest I kind of think they think it has something to do with combat and never ask, so I've never once had to explain it to anyone because I've never been asked about it.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 10:36 PM
2

I have scars around my nipples, initially they were pretty noticeable, with chest hair it's barely noticeable, with a shaved chest a year and a half down the road it's not too noticeable from a distance. The scars don't bother me one bit compared to how the gyno made me feel. The worst part isn't the scars either it's the indention in the chest. That fat tissue has taken up some of the area your chest muscles should be so your (at least mine was) chest post-op will look like it has a crater in i…
/r/askTRP24/04/15 07:48 PM
2

I got it done and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made. You gotta workout and do a high volume chest routine for about a year before your chest starts to look normal but from day 1 you'll feel 1000% better mentally.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 07:43 PM
3

Lol your name.. No but seriously this type of girl would make an excellent plate.
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:48 PM
3

Forgot dueche bag
/r/askTRP24/04/15 06:38 PM
5

Nothing wrong with owning a used BMW 325i every couple of years. They look clean, run fairly well up to 180k-200k and only cost you about 12000$ total. 150$/mo. I agree that brand new cars are a waste of money but you're kidding yourself if you're driving around in a beater.
/r/askTRP17/04/15 04:28 AM
1

Very good points. I never escalate from Tinder to a phone number until the conversation turns sexual. And I never escalate from a phone number to drinks unless that sexual communication continues.
/r/seduction17/04/15 03:19 AM
5

Lmfao you fucker
/r/askTRP14/04/15 10:33 PM
-1

A woman's sexual history, except for unfaithfulness, is irrelevant. The only thing that matters is that you can fuck her like a man and you're both sexually satisfied. She's with you isn't she? If A) she's sexually satisfied and B) you're able to be the man in her life that she needs then you don't have anything to fucking worry about. Knowing about her past, digging into her past, lying to get truths out of her, none of that is going to strengthen your relationship. There are few women out ther…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 02:16 PM
1

Rather than follow the flock so that you don't get downvotes why don't you man up and point out where what I said in my statement makes me an idiot? Half the people here at TRP don't even know what it means to be RP. Sorry a hard dose of reality ruffles your guys' feathers but what I said was no mistake and I meant it. I probably sleep with more women than 80% of the people here and can, and have, proven it. I've also been in multiple LTR's each lasting at least 3 years. What's your resume?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 12:45 PM
-7

Who cares? Seriously. It's been a bit since I've posted here but I really like to go against the grain so hear me out. Who gives a fuck about what she did in the past? Do you want a monogamous relationship with a female or not? You just lied to her in order to get her to spill the beans. That's because you're insecure. Do you think any girl that is worth her salt to any male with an appreciable SMV hasn't sewn her oats in her younger days? You just admitted unicorns don't exist so what are you h…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 07:00 AM
3

I want to smash this guys knuckles with an epic handshake.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 02:06 PM
1

Damn that's wild bro. I've wanted to do a T cycle for a while now but I don't think I'd go much beyond that.
/r/askTRP10/03/15 07:51 AM
1

Now I'm curious to know, how many people here have experimented with tren before or other PEDs?
/r/askTRP09/03/15 07:17 PM
2

This was my first thought when I finished reading OP's post. As a guy, you can never get too much dome.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 07:12 PM
20

Probably because of the weed and video games.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 05:25 AM
1

Makes sense, I read about agency when I first started coming here and completely forgot about it. The thing is though you used the word "can't". I hate the word can't. She can but she may be unwilling to do so, and that sucks because then she'll always be wondering what if. What I'm suggesting is basically a final means to an end. The last time she will ever have to tell him anything. The last time should have to assume agency. I'm a huge fan of blunt honest truth and cutting to the chase. There…
/r/askTRP03/03/15 10:42 PM
4

While yeah it'd be easier to ditch the poor bastard you could at least give total honesty a shot before you do. One thing rarely discussed here is relationships since many of us are primarily interested in spinning plates. As someone who's been in several LTR's lasting over 3 years each I can say that total and complete honesty is the only thing that matters. Right now you want something and you're not telling him. You're wishing he'll pick up on it. This is the worst shit that women do because …
/r/askTRP03/03/15 01:43 PM
1

CC?
/r/askTRP03/03/15 01:33 PM
2

I read somewhere that the dopamine levels that your body released to get your dick hard from porn are much higher than that of regular sex and it takes somewhere around 6-8 weeks for your body to re-adjust when quitting porn.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 02:57 AM
1

I had the same problem OP has, I stopped watching videos and switched to pictures only, also I picked up 2 bottles of manga RX at GNC which has a bunch of horny goat weed and other herbs that help to increase your libido. Worked for me.
/r/askTRP01/03/15 02:53 AM
7

I personally wouldn't go after another Bro's girl with the only exception to that being if she was coming on to me hard and he didn't care. Otherwise what's the point? There's a shitload of girls out there to grab, why even introduce this potential explosive drama into your life? It's either two scenarios imo. 1) You really like this girl and have a case of Onitis and are willing to fuck over your bro because of it or 2) She's coming onto you and giving you obvious IOI's in which case fuck it as…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 08:42 PM
9

While your situation saddens me, this is a story of personal growth and success. You have crushed the inner beta and turned your life around. I love what /u/Terminal-Psychosis said and I don't think it would be too hard to do. Start going to the gym 5x a week. Do a normal bodybuilding routine. Workout with 110% intensity and eat at least 200g of protein each day[this is extremely over simplified I know, I've been a personal trainer for 4+ years though so if you need guidance just send me a PM]. …
/r/askTRP23/02/15 06:38 PM
1

Basically I'm where you're at bud. I don't know what I want but I do know I don't want to be in a LTR right now. I'm currently sleeping with about 5 girls regularly that are on rotation (two live 3 hours away but drive to come see me once a month or so) with a few randoms from Tinder thrown in the mix every once in a while. I think the key here is to not get attached to any of these girls. You believe in polygamy, that's great. That might mean you're actually looking for a LTR with multiple wome…
/r/askTRP09/02/15 11:39 PM
12

Don't smile. Do the hard thug look. Maybe throw up a middle finger or a wesside
/r/seduction09/02/15 11:31 PM
1

K
/r/askTRP07/02/15 05:52 AM
1

Go and play your card game hearthstone buddy I'm done arguing with you.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 04:00 AM
0

Are you not putting words into the original posters mouth by implying he is trapping himself into a reclusive lifestyle with his monk mode? Common man. Don't try to patronize me until you've got your own shit together. Acknowledging that Monk Mode[I'm really starting to hate this term] has a real definite purpose in a red pillers life is all I was aiming for with my original reply.
/r/askTRP07/02/15 02:06 AM
2

Sexual strategy is the encompassing topic of game, self worth, self fulfillment, SMV, etc. It's in the fucking introduction bro. If all you do is game, you're not red pill. You're a shit bag living it up in his younger years and it's going to bite you in the ass in the long term. Prioritizing game over other more important priorities makes you a fucking idiot. Neglecting what needs to be done in order for you to get laid again, what sense does that make? Monk mode has a purpose here. It's a figu…
/r/askTRP07/02/15 12:48 AM
0

It's a figure of speech for working hard on yourself and eliminating distractions. TRP isn't just about getting laid. Getting laid is a secondary benefit from TRP not a primary. If getting laid is your primary train of thought then you are letting pussy distract you from what you really need to be doing. There's a major difference between being confident & attractive enough to be able to sleep with multiple women in a short time frame and the lifestyle that one most adopt as a red piller. SMV is…
/r/askTRP06/02/15 09:10 PM
32

"On a scale of one to America, how free are you tonight?"
/r/askTRP06/02/15 12:46 PM
2

I'm a straight male, but for you sir, I could be gay for a night. ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction06/02/15 07:48 AM
6

I agree wholeheartedly with everything this man just said. Brav-thefuck-O. The only thing not discussed is how to proceed. Leaving the girl[Immediately] makes you a pussy but letting her distract you from building your empire with petty shit like you wondering if she's banging her bff while out chilling with him isn't cool either. I'd tell her if it ends up being an issue I'm going to leave your ass. Commitment is a fucking loss for you and a win for her. There's no reason you need to be bothere…
/r/askTRP05/02/15 06:52 AM
34

If a girl chopped my dick off and only got probation I would most certainly go on a shooting rampage. Either way I'd kill myself.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/15 06:36 AM
7

Don't listen to these tools. You get to experience college one time in your life. Live it the fuck up. Who gives two flying fucks if you have an awkward encounter with a girl you slept with at school? As long as you beat it up she's going to spread the word. -Guy that's going to college for Physical Therapy and banging classmates every weekend.
/r/askTRP05/02/15 06:28 AM
1

She is no longer the one for you and you know that. If this is not a girl that makes you the best man you can possibly be, next her ass and enjoy the freedom of being single. There's more money, more freedom, more tail, and more happiness waiting for you.
/r/askTRP04/02/15 05:17 AM
6

I also downloaded it to my device... You can continue being a jackass though if you'd like?
/r/seduction02/02/15 09:22 PM
3

You don't have to pay for a scribd membership. I got the app and I'm reading it for free right now.
/r/seduction02/02/15 09:14 PM
13

You need to cut her off immediately. Nothing will cause her more stress than abruptly ending your relationship immediately. Don't explain SHIT. You've said enough. Move on with your life and let her continue being a shitbag. Edit: wrote this without looking at previous comments. Glad to see others are on the same page.
/r/askTRP28/01/15 06:16 AM
-5

Rise above it!!!! .........I have a massive erection right now.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/15 04:00 PM
5

"You did seem to give the wrong impression, it's okay though, I have enough friends." Great response. 👍👍👍 I'd try to sleep with her still personally but wouldn't put much effort into it. If it happens it happens. I'd spend my time and energy pursuing other women, but she still is a potential plate if you want her to be. I'd invite her to a party or out for drinks on a random night when you had no other women available to you and escalate from there. "Confidence is knowing you'll be alright no ma…
/r/seduction26/01/15 09:00 PM
4

Man, I really like what was said here. So much so I saved it. Part of my issue is that every awesome thing I've ever done has been an impulsive decision. I've got impulse control issues though and I know that. Reading shit like this makes me want to go out to the bars on a school night (I'm 26 in a badass college town) and pick up women though when I should be going to bed around 10 and waking up at 5 to knock out morning work. Fucken I'll be damned if I don't want to pour myself a glass of whis…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 02:44 AM
4

Fucken damn good post
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/15 04:58 PM
1

Everything on the sidebar.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 04:41 PM
2

Damn dude thanks for that link I've been spending fuck loads of cash on condoms at CVS.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 04:36 PM
17

10/10 would jerk self off if gf left theater. Edit: make sure to get extra butter
/r/seduction17/01/15 06:59 PM
2

I used to bring the girl in my truck and go for a drive. If you live in the country bring some beer and go back roading while blasting your stereo. Girls usually love this.
/r/seduction16/01/15 01:48 AM
9

You like listening which is a good thing, you need to repeat key parts of her conversation back to her to let her know you're really listening and not letting it go in one ear and out the other. This also makes it appear like you're actively participating in the conversation so she's more likely to say more. When you hear something that you can relate to don't be afraid to speak up and chime in but, only do this sparingly to avoid coming off as self absorbed. When the awkward silence inevitably …
/r/seduction16/01/15 01:37 AM
3

That's fine but anger isn't going to get him far in seduction. I know that bluntness doesn't get upvotes on reddit - I know that reddit is a bandwagon of followers - and I don't care. I'm not an established person here and there's no reason any of you should believe me, but I get around 3 numbers and one kiss close (if not bringing home the girl) every night I go out. Which is about 4 times a week. This is the type of advice that serves to advance no one. This is filler. This is useless. I hate …
/r/seduction14/01/15 01:02 PM
1

Edit: My bad yall - I was tanked when I wrote this. Look man, this isn't a bragging ground. You can't come here and say you've been a beta your whole life and then admit you've stumbled across a scenario that worked for you one time. This is /r/Seduction bro. I am probably coming off as a real asshole but this is not the type of amateur shit we need in this sub. Edit: and after reading the comments I stand by my statement even more-so. OP is feeding off of victory- and while I'm all for encourag…
/r/seduction14/01/15 11:55 AM
1

I think most here would agree that a soft next is necessary for your situation. The whole "Fuck you" statement should extend your soft next for a few more days as you should never allow a woman to disrespect you like that. If you don't know what a soft next is read up on it here.
/r/seduction13/01/15 10:58 PM
1

I use this as my primary opener and it works every time. You have to be confident when you use it. If you can master this, it will open all kinds of doors for you. No need for cheesy openers. Use this to work on your social interaction skills and over time you'll be able to come up with more creative things to say in different situations and have more fun with it. This will always be my favorite though.
/r/askTRP13/01/15 07:52 AM
1

YouTube "The Hand of God Opener"
/r/askTRP13/01/15 07:41 AM
14

The gains were strong with him on this day.
/r/seduction12/01/15 08:09 PM
1

Great response man but let's go over a few points This guy admitted he was shy and timid. Thus, more likely than not, he normally is coming off as a beta in most circumstances, especially dates. Telling this guy to put on a smile and take the lead will do more for changing the dichotomy of the date than telling him to stay laid back and let her lead. If he did as you say I'd be willing to put money on the fact that he won't pull it off correctly, uncertainty will seep into his body language, and…
/r/seduction11/01/15 07:35 PM
1

And I hear you about the consequences. In my mind though you're too worried about the consequences and not worried enough about letting people walk all over you. I feel like letting someone take a girl in front of me is like a middle finger to my face. It represents everything that is disrespectful to another man. He's essentially trying to make you look like a bitch. How do you walk out of a situation like that without looking like a bitch without crushing this guys face? To me, I'd rather face…
/r/askTRP11/01/15 06:37 AM
3

Maybe she was roofied
/r/askTRP10/01/15 02:39 AM
1

I have no idea how to raise a kid but I do know how much working out can transform your life. Get him involved in sports teams and get him working out in the gym. No kid his age will ever see the value of lifting weights and won't begin to appreciate it until he's 16-18+ but it will do wonders for building an alpha mentality, self esteem, and confidence. He'll probably get picked on in sports teams but that's part of what it takes to build character.
/r/askTRP09/01/15 03:26 PM
0

I don't agree with some of the other opinions expressed here. I think you're expressing a soft next in a black and white manner without taking into account the grey areas that is life. Personally I feel that you took the middle finger from this sweetheart as too personal. She allowed you to look at her yearbook right? She could have taken it from you at any time but she didn't. What if her middle finger was just her smart aleck reaction to your response? Maybe it was her tiny bit of insecurity? …
/r/askTRP09/01/15 03:09 PM
2

I truly wish I was experienced enough with this reddit app to be able to format my responses in the way you have but alas I am not so I will focus on the main topic which I feel should be discussed: "I have seen people hold the real power while someone else is allowed to call the shots." Sure you have. Have you read the guys post though? Does this guy seem like the type of guy that can hold the power during a date - maintain frame - while allowing the female to call the shots and maintain attrac…
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:28 PM
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Op read this please. You need to master this. While you won't entirely be able to soft next your love, you can apply the principles discussed in this article to the arguments you have with the woman you love. On the flip side you need to put in work to get laid with a woman you've been living with for any significant amount of time. You need to get the oven pre heated by performing some kino / flirtation before you initiate the idea of sex. Even then, you shouldn't ask for sex, you should drag h…
/r/askTRP09/01/15 01:56 PM
2

I've been personal training for going on 3 years now. My degree is currently in pursuing exercise science and pre - physical therapy. I've trained several girls for NPC bikini competitions and had one girl so far take first. I hate /r/fitness because of how much circlejerk happens there. I, myself, have been to several powerlifting competitions, have gone through several triathlons, have gone through one GORUCK challenge, and still, I find the knowledge I post there being challenged by those tha…
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:30 PM
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If you're going for the kiss, anything less than the lips is bitching out. If a woman is interested in you she doesn't want a kiss on the forehead or a kiss on the cheek. She wants to go from point A(uncertainty) to point B(total certainly) without any detours. A peck on the forehead and a peck on the cheek is just "meh" and you don't want "meh", you want "Wow!".
/r/seduction09/01/15 10:11 AM
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If she said it's the perfect place to make out then the only thing you did wrong here was kiss her on cheek instead of the lips. From here on out, never kiss a woman on the cheek. Never. It's unacceptable. If you want to kiss a girl go for gold, not silver. Life favors the bold.
/r/seduction09/01/15 09:04 AM
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Easy, don't let her walk in front of you. You should usually be the leader of the date. The only scenario where her walking in front of you is acceptable is if she's being bubbly and happy and skipping along and shit. You get the idea. In that case maintain frame and keep strolling along with confidence enjoying the cheerful company of a beautiful woman. That's not the correct time to make your move. But in all honesty I'd see this as a shit test and would origami the situation from something un…
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:24 AM
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The peck on the cheek is where you messed up OP. If you read the signs correctly and were receiving the proper amount of kino return, you should have looked her in the eyes at an opportune moment and then confidently put your hand on her chin to lightly guide her in to your kiss. I do this and it works every time. Pure confidence and a friendly smile (depending on how much we've had to drink, I personally like to grin) is all that is needed.
/r/seduction09/01/15 02:30 AM
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Amen to that.
/r/seduction09/01/15 01:41 AM
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My favorite post on TRP to date. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/15 01:37 AM
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That's a very ignorant stance to take my friend as you fail to account for the white knighting that occurs here due to the fact that there are many more beta men that come to this sub than experienced PUA, which directly influence which advice is upvoted and which advice is down voted, and essentially turns this subreddit into /r/relationships like I'd previously mentioned. Do you want the same advice from /r/relationships or do you want advice from someone who can goto out on almost any given n…
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:50 AM
5

I agree with you 100%. You misinterpret the meaning of my post. You're assuming I'm telling him to disregard what she wants to do in favor of what he wants to do. This would be a dick move and while if pulled off correctly could work, isn't what I was meaning by telling him to lead her. You said it better than I could, so congrats.
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:45 AM
5

That's a very good counter point my friend.
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:17 AM
1

I hadn't considered /r/all until /u/puaCurveball said something. It's a good point.
/r/seduction09/01/15 12:11 AM
0

A player is dishonest, misleading, and shady in his actions. A true seduction artist is straight forward and honest about his intentions. I am not a player. I am a man that knows what he wants and how to get it. I know what I am looking for in a LTR and if the woman I'm sleeping with doesn't fit that criteria then she remains in the FWB category. I wholeheartedly do believe that you need experience with a lot of women to be able to post advice here. Even me, in my early days, had dated beautiful…
/r/seduction08/01/15 11:51 PM
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The ruthless long dong of the justice system. Fucked for life.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:40 PM
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That's such a good album. I have it as lossless flac on my computer and it's the only album that's made me really consider buying these sennheiser HD600's I've been eyeballing for a while. I've got a Pro-Ject Carbon 3 turntable with a 600$ ATX-150 audio technica cartridge on it but the only vinyl I have so far are from the 1990's and up. Tool fanboy here.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 10:38 PM
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The kid is 17.... He's no scientist. The list is pretty decent but could use a few tweaks is all I am saying.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 09:38 PM
2

I don't know, the man isn't a slave. I kind of got a little angry to be honest reading how often he's expected to give her back rubs. Then again I've never had a pregnant wife.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:48 PM
2

Clever
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:44 PM
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OP, don't let her lead you during the date. Make sure you're leading her. By this I mean, if you've wanted to check some place out since this is a new city to you, when you meet tell her you're going there. Don't ask, tell her. You don't want her taking control and making you look beta, which can happen if she's making all the plans and leading you around everywhere. Edit: read my response below. Edit edit: And maybe I should have said tell her in a cheery voice? There's a difference between ass…
/r/seduction08/01/15 01:34 PM
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She had her head on your chest.. She raised her head and gave you a compliment saying you're the first person to give her an orgasm. I don't understand the problem here? I'd have a fat grin on my face if a girl told me this. Try being the first person to make a girl squirt. Now that's an accomplishment. OP I really don't see this as a shit test
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:30 PM
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I'm tempted to, I really am, as I had an interview in Alexandria, VA on the 15th of this month that I've decided not to go to. What's your address?
/r/askTRP08/01/15 02:07 AM
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Go read your own comment history kid. If you don't cringe at how much of a pathetic dueche you are then you're too dumb and not worth another response from me. You don't portray any red pill traits, you come off as a shit head ignorant teenager that's way too comfortable talking shit behind his screen. There's nothing manly about talking shit behind a screen pal. Like I said, I'm certain I'll win this pissing match, and I already have, without saying anything. Just read my comment history =)
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:37 AM
1

Lol after reading your comment history you're not even worth my time go play your Xbox kid you don't belong here at /r/TheRedPill
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:28 AM
2

Im from Seattle, living in Austin TX. Small world.
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:36 AM
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You need to start doing kegal exercises. 100 reps 5 days a week. You won't start noticing a difference for a month or two but it will make a difference if you're consistent. Also, think about your excitement level during sex on a scale of 1-10. Try keeping it below an 8. You just need to get over the excitement hump of around the 5 minute mark. Once you get over that hump, your excitement level drops down and stays around a 5-7 without much effort. When I start getting too excited i visualize a …
/r/askTRP07/01/15 11:56 PM
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Bro! I've always wanted to be woken up with a BJ! I salute you. You can't ask for it, because that kills the magic. It just has to happen... At least that's the only way I want it to happen. It's up there on my list right next to having a 3-some and to be totally honest I'm closer to having a 3-some right now than getting a morning blowy. So sad.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:44 PM
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Quality shit for the confident man. If anyone is reading this and thinking, fuck! I am one of these losers! Go to /r/TheRedPill and read every article on the sidebar. Work on your SMV. It's not about woman shaming, it's more than that. It's about becoming the top 20% of men and what kind of woman a top 20 should be looking for. Op where is this girl from?
/r/seduction07/01/15 11:30 PM
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I'm going to have to pick up that biography. I believe I got it confused. It was Napoleon from Think and Grow Rich that got his story of a lifetime from Andrew Carnegie, the owner of the steel industry. Think and Grow Rich is also a pretty good book, along the same lines of the Law of Attraction discussed in The Secret with less spiritual bullshit and focuses more on hard work. How do I do the grey [Removed: Andrew] and replace with Dale?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:01 PM
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I guess it may be easy to interpret the situation as you have since I've left out a lot of the details but watch your fucking mouth on the Internet. Have some respect lest we go into a pissing match that I'm certain I'll win.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 12:32 PM
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There's a few books I could suggest but above all I'd suggest you read How To Win Friends and Influence People by Andrew Carnegie followed by 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene. I'd say digest this material, take it seriously, study it, etc. Start appealing to your bosses interests. Your interests don't matter in the least bit to him. Talk to him about what HE likes. Everybody is vein. By appealing to his own ego and sense of self you're likely to make a lot further a lot quicker. The key is to f…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:59 AM
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Law 4 has been on my mind a lot lately over these past two weeks and I must say it's one of my favorites.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:45 AM
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I'm willing to bet that she probably isn't digging his suggestions as a shit test in hopes that he'll pass, even if barely, so that he'll give her the tingles again. I'm willing to bet she wants to get the tingles from him and if he was more confident and assertive that she'd be more responsive and sexual. Simply put he's trying too hard and giving too many fucks. He has to not give a fuck while still giving a fuck. I say this because we can't expect him to swallow TRP and be a changed man overn…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:22 AM
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All women are liars is something I originally wanted to point out upon reading this. This is the type of assertions that scare people away from TRP. I'd say if you rephrased this in another manner such as: "When looking to a potential plate, a good rule of thumb is to assume that she's going to bullshit you. If you're demonstrating enough SMV to make you appealing to her she may stretch the truth a bit in order to make herself appealing to you." What you said: "all women are liars" I can't stand…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:13 AM
1

Red Gravy Hoodoo... WHAT. THE. FUCK.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 11:05 AM
1

You should make this its own post bud, this is quality stuff I think more people should see.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 10:09 AM
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Working out is not optional ಠ_ಠ
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 04:55 AM
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Fuuuuuuuuu i just blew my load in a girl 3x last night without a condom on man don't say this.... Edit: Don't act like yall don't be busten alllll kinddza nuts up in them sugar walls too when she's on birth control. Lol I know I'm not the only one, quit hiding behind the down vote button.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 04:40 AM
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As an ambivalent 26 year old thank you. You may have truly helped alter my life with this post.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 04:39 AM
2

I don't blame her for not wanting to talk when she's stoned I'd have done the same thing LOL! I gave up smoking a long time ago because of how anxious it made me during social interactions. All in all though, you guys have set a date already on when you'll talk to each other. Soft next. Start talking to other girls and forget about her until said date. Let her contact you first and don't you dare contact her before then. If she doesn't contact you Wed or before then, give her a little ribbing on…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:09 AM
1

There's a story on 48 Laws Of Power about this.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 01:05 AM
3

Someone correct me if I'm wrong since I guess I'm still new to TRP but what's with this slut shaming that seems to be so common around here? I love sluts. They make easy plates and they make terrible LTR's. If you have a 8,9 or 10 you better expect that she's slept with a few dudes in her time and isn't "saving" herself for some special guy. That's some fairy tale bullshit. Let a woman do her thing. All TRP principles still apply whether she's a hoe or not. If she's more of a hoe she's probably …
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 12:18 AM
1

I'm picturing you balls deep in a mountain of white pow, 4AM, just fucking cracking away at this code to make life better for all us bros out there. You da real MVP!
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 12:13 AM
2

I haven't been doing this as long, since I've only recently began spinning plates, elaborate on how one should properly despin and enter a LTR?
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 12:09 AM
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I don't know if this is confidence as much as it is strongly held beliefs being challenged and both speakers experiencing extreme cognitive dissonance. Edit: not sure why this is being downvoted because I'm 99% confident that my assertion is accurate. If anyone's willing to challenge my assertion go ahead and be my guest. If you believe with all of your heart that guns should be controlled are you going to roll over and be persuaded by pro gun owners or are you going to argue your point to the g…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:55 PM
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If a woman's vagina isn't property than a mans dick isn't either. This shit goes both ways pal. That's why you have two fucking choices: Monogamy or Polygamy. He isn't discussing anything new here but he's trying to make it seem so.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 11:46 PM
1

You make a good point my friend. The thing is now she's wanting more, when this is the first I've heard of any feelings. There's no way to move forward without re-discussing our previous arrangement.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:30 AM
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I edited my last comment
/r/askTRP06/01/15 03:52 AM
0

It's more about the shit that she's tracking into our drama free relationship. I'm not a jealous person but I am a competitive person and I've always been the AMOG and if I see I've got competition well that's a recipe for ribbing, shit talking, etc, that leads to more drama. I enjoy the people I hang out with regularly and don't want to deal with any of that. Also, this is an open relationship like I said, I have several plates.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 03:26 AM
0

I agree 100% mate. His post was grade A+++ material. But after that I was hoping to see some skulls being bashed in. It's part of the reason I come here ಠ_ಠ
/r/askTRP02/01/15 12:57 PM
4

I mean honestly I'm right there with ya, but there's something to be said about having the confidence to go somewhere, anywhere, alone and just start flirting with girls. Think about how this type of go to attitude, without reliance on anyone, could bleed in to your professional life even? I mean I'm an independent guy but fuck now that I think about it I kind of depend on going out with my friends when I'm looking to get laid. What about when you're older? Say 30 and single and all your friends…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 08:27 AM
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"He really likes her, a lot.... But she doesn't really feel the same way." NEXT! If the man wants to keep his self respect, self esteem, dignity, etc he MUST next her. She's already nexted him and is only keeping him around for sex until she finds someone else, at which point it will devastate him. If he nexts her she may even come back to him and actually begin to like him if he holds frame. This is where most people fall back into beta mode and fuck everything up again. TRP is not about becomi…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 07:24 AM
2

Spot on. Exactly what I'd do.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 07:01 AM
2

Man, people are being so nice and sympathetic towards this post. Where's the brutal blunt truth? This entire scenario wreaks of an inexperienced man stuck in beta mode. You didn't try to kiss her and made lame ass excuses for not flirting or performing kino all night long. There is virtually zero Red Pill tactics in any of your post. About the only thing that is good about this post is the girl showing interest in you. Where's the part where you're returning the favor? Why aren't you both drinki…
/r/askTRP02/01/15 06:33 AM
7

Is it wrong that I have an open relationship with 3 separate girls? Maybe it's beta if said dude wants a relationship with said woman, but I love my open relationships. Zero drama. I've never gotten into a single fight or argument with any of them. It's understood that I do my business and they do theirs and we don't talk about it to each other. It's understood that I'm not ready to settle down yet and we're just doing the tango because we enjoy each other's company. It's no different than a FWB…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 02:42 AM
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Do the man a favor & introduce him to the red pill. Might change his life.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:23 AM
0

God help me when I sleep with crazy. Best. Sex. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 12:07 AM
1

Smang lol... Haven't heard that one before.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 11:45 PM
9

Great question. Active listening is hard and you won't always be 100% interested in what you're conversing about but it is an important part of banter that makes a social interaction with someone more genuine. Are you trying to find a LTR or just a one night thing with the girl you're talking to? If it's just a one night thing well then what she says isn't all that important.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 05:52 AM
1

I'm all about the tuck and run
/r/seduction25/12/14 09:33 PM
2

Why are we talking about your hot best friends texting habits and not talking about why you're still just friends with said "one of the hottest girl you've ever met"?
/r/seduction25/12/14 11:44 AM
12

IS THAT WHERE THE FUCKING STORY ENDS DUDE!?? MAN... What a cliff hanger.
/r/askTRP24/12/14 03:25 AM
2

In my opinion this is just how some people are. I think it has less to do with being a shit test and more to do with their own low self esteem. If a girl expected me to text her first every time I'd talk to her about it and tell her my point of view and also explain to her that I'm not the one to text cheesy love things to girls I date because well that's just not who I am or how I show people I love them. At the same time I'd try to compromise by sending more texts to her, maybe funny pictures …
/r/askTRP23/12/14 03:57 AM
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I was like damn that's great, until I read this, now I think it's fucking perfect. Bro! I love you.
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:17 AM
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Is this implying that you're willing to buy her said drink? This is against the rules of the art of seduction. If anything you should be making her feel bad for not buying your drink =)
/r/seduction21/12/14 11:49 PM
5

Court Attention at all Cost - Law 6
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 12:14 PM
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You should flip the twitch from asking to telling / offering. Girls generally like a man that knows what he wants. I'm a huge fan of being assertive so what I always do that works well is to find out what she's got going on Saturday - if she says nothing then tell her to meet you at such and such place. Don't ask her if she'd like to meet you there just follow it up with "Great you can meet me at starbucks at 5 then! See ya then!" Works most of the time and if it doesn't there's either a good re…
/r/askTRP03/12/14 12:23 PM
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You can't just have a 3 year relationship as a side piece, you gotta cut ties and move on. Otherwise you risk falling back into an unfulfilling relationship and you'll just continue to be unhappy. I always cut ties with exes. -Rise Above Ruin
/r/askTRP30/11/14 08:11 AM
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Well, most that reply to your post are just jumping on the bandwagon, but I've been saying this in previous posts and have been down voted to all hell for calling these things out. I've seen far too many people posting their opinions on topics who have no clue what they're talking about. People that probably get laid often and think they are seduction masters but have no true grasp on the concept of the art of seduction. Amateurish advice which needs to be better regulated by mods and establishe…
/r/seduction29/11/14 09:11 PM
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"I'm going to borrow your friend for a sec." I'm using this. Thanks dude.
/r/askTRP19/11/14 10:05 PM
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