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DiscussionRispy_Girl/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:48 AM
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You can do a delayed vaccine plan. I would call the doctor ahead of time to make sure they support it. If your wife manages medical, then you'll probably need to compromise.
/r/RPChristians17/07/26 05:35 PM
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Two words: tea bagging. I think it's just become accepted that men will be assaulted in some ways and when they complain about it the response is boys will be boys or it's not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:29 AM
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What do you guys do in your relationship to fulfill your sexual need? Or is that not a need for you? Do you feel just as close with sex as without it?
/r/ExRedPill20/09/24 10:43 AM
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The whole putting effort into making it happen if the tricky part though. Maybe bringing flowers works once, but maybe not the next time. Maybe watching a particular favorite romance works one time, but not the next. Timing that effort, so you don't get rejected is tricky. Have enough mismatch in sex drive and you wind up getting rejected enough that you've got to wonder how worth it it is to go out of your way to be "seductive", especially when your self worth is taking a hit over and over with…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/24 10:41 AM
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No, men need sex to keep feeling connected to their partner. When I say men I'm generalizing. I'm a woman, but I feel that way. I've talked to many men that experience the same. If a man doesn't invest emotionally does the typical woman feel like the relationship is falling apart and he's pulling away? Same for sex with men. The feeling of not good enough, not desired, and not loved. Which also eventually leaves him easy to manipulate by another woman that sees those voids. Not every situation i…
/r/ExRedPill20/09/24 10:35 AM
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Sometimes she is. And sometimes it is both. This isn't universal. Either way need a therapist to sort it out at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 11:10 PM
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Secretary type roll. Also keep up your body, so you look trophy wife good. Also event planner for networking or just fun stuff he enjoys. Also travel agent.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/23 05:08 PM
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Sex orgasm and mastrubation orgasm aren't the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:32 PM
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But on the other hand is she's pursuing the cream of the crop, they likely already have their pick of younger and more attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:31 PM
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It can be replicated. It's like bad food poisoning, but with food poisoning it goes on longer without breaks and with labor you have breaks between contractions and it goes longer and you can get an epidural to remove most of the pain (though it slows things down). Also hormones and feelings and how the brain deals with pain means labor kinds of whizzes by and your brain doesn't record it well. If you decide to get pregnant get prenatal chiropractic and massage work (preferable from the same pla…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/22 05:26 AM
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To be fair a woman on hormonal birth control is often not in her right mind
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:39 AM
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I'm lost here. How will this change things? States have been exercising their power to allow our not allow abortion this whole time. This just means the federal government no longer has a say in things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 12:12 PM
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I'm sure it depends on the relationship and individuals involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 07:02 PM
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Pro tip, if you ever find yourself in that situation it needs to be the guy and one girl focusing on the other girl. It leads to a much better experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:28 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:27 AM
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Yes. Hubby has lower sex drive than me, so I would see a few other people that I've seen for years. Mainly a guy who I dated seriously in the past (complicated story), a couple who are awesome, another couple who are awesome, and a single woman and a guy who she dates but they aren't in a labeled relationship. If we found the right person we would be willing to incorporate them into our life and house. So this is heavily based on respect and trust from both sides. We closed our relationship for …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 08:27 AM
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You should also ask this on purple pill
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:24 PM
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Well start with what you want to learn how to cook. Make a list, then choose something simple and either post to r/cooking along for advice or Google and go with a week rated recipe. Follow it exactly and see what you think. Ideally print it out and write notes about what you think about it. As you get the hang of it you can tweak recipes to be more to your liking. Maybe try a different style of cooking like broil vs searing. For adjusting seasonings the amount you put in to adjust varies by sea…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/22 07:34 PM
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Because too many next time wasters, scammers, and creeps use babe and dear. Part experience means those words are a red flag. You may want to do a self check and make sure you don't fall into those categories.
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:42 PM
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No. When I'm called this I immediately distance myself from the guy mentally. I get a lot of foreign guys reaching out. Sometimes they want female attention that they don't have to stress over sometimes its a scam. Either way it's not useful to me and I don't have time for that.
/r/seduction25/03/22 10:39 PM
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And a key feature is that people perceive love differently. I just asked a question on here and the answers blew my mind. I still want to go back and respond to everyone, but I'm also still processing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:02 AM
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Also the lack of arranged marriage. There are benefits. If both families care about their children they will try to make a match where the children click and can make a good relationship. The children will also try harder to make it work because they want to make the family happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 05:00 AM
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Therapy time. You guys need a mediator. He needs to be honest and not lie and be called on it. You need to process your feelings about what he did and wondering if he wants to be with you, so they don't fester and make you blow up or become distanced from him.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/22 04:56 AM
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Bi, there are only two women that I have met that are worth being that serious about long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:34 AM
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It's what we were taught. Kids are a pain that hold you back and prevent you from having fun. They can mess up your life plans. We were taught it to make us responsible about teen pregnancy, but it sticks even after. I had a child because my husband wanted one and oh boy. If I had known how wonderful, satisfying, and fulfilling it is. No one told me how much more rewarding raising a child is than working. Heck there is a push for women to work and let the state raise their kid. No one told me ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:28 PM
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Also many men are on Tinder for easy sex, not dating. I'm betting they would be more discerning if their goal was dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 10:30 AM
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I totally came here expecting this to be about vasectomies and doctors commonly refusing to do them on men if they deem the men too young. Your point is also a great one.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:01 PM
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Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 09:59 PM
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Because the generation that is currently if an adult marriage age was taught that marriage isn't valuable. So if you get married you have to really care and be long term committed. If you didn't feel that way is easier to coast as bf and gf. You no longer need marriage to live together, have sex, or have kids. There are even incentives to not marry with kids because you can get better benefits as a single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 08:17 PM
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The ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 09:48 AM
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She already has a rare skill that can mature her big bucks. She's a seamstress. Do you know how much simple, but custom dress goes for?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 04:40 AM
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I'm here to learn this too. I can logic out of it, but it's a foundation I was literally taught in school. So if I went and worked I would have less time with family, be less fresh, and we would be paying for someone else to do everything our doing without. We would be paying to eat out or we wouldn't be eating as good of food. We would be paying for someone else to raise my baby or I can teach her and dote on her myself (also planning to homeschooling ✌️). Additionally I'm like the generalist o…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 04:37 AM
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Yeah, I'm the same 😊 thankfully he's the same with me too. No matter what we get each other there are thank yous and appreciation
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:27 AM
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Yeah, those help tip the scales. Those are really nice gifts
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 03:22 AM
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Here here. If it's expected and has certain unspoken hoops that must be jumped through it is not a gift, it is a test and/or a covert contract. Also I think that asking what the other person wants and getting what they choose is best. This Christmas I carefully thought it and chose three gifts and let him choose what he wants. The nice thing is you can hear the reasons behind their decision making and incorporate them into future gifting searches. Brag time : my hubby got me a copper bowl. If yo…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 02:34 AM
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No, but it might with an artificial womb invention
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 08:23 AM
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I think it would be good to do. It could improve integrity or at least caution from cheating bitches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 11:56 PM
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Yep yep, but that's not what the current generations of dating women were taught. Do you add bonus points for more feminine qualities like a mention of cooking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:41 PM
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Plus current values are on make roles, but men dating women are not looking for a man with boobs, they are looking for a woman with female values and traits. Generally when a woman describes her value she talks about her career, not her ability to cook, support her partner when he gets home, set up social functions for the family, keep everyone looking good, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 06:08 AM
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Maybe. I didn't pay that much attention to it, but there were a couple of people there that were actually worth seeing what they had to say. There are several people who follow the red pill and have been married for quite a while on there.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 06:45 PM
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The subreddit r/asktrp was much better. Sadly reddit margenilized it out of existence.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/21 09:12 AM
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Oof. Wow. If that's as much as she owns I wonder if it was worse than it sounded. I hate talks of money. It's so hard and uncomfortable. Probably because of stuff in my childhood. Hubby and I are recalibration financial stuff too. It's so uncomfortable to even think about finances, but thankfully I completely trust him and his judgment and am happy to go along with what he suggests.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/21 04:35 PM
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Nope, you got one wrong. When combined with other signs sure, but taking a long time to respond isn't a good one. Once you are no longer a teen there is often a lot going on in life. If not getting a response in a certain time frame makes you wonder if there is a hidden meaning you need to grow up.
/r/seduction22/08/21 08:55 AM
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I'm just playing devils advocate. Those are some downsides that people often don't think about. I personally think it should be decriminalized. People should be able to choose who and why they have sex so long as they are mentally capable adults.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 11:04 AM
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It'll make the price of sex go down. Less risk and more workers will cause this.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/21 06:12 AM
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Now that I've had my first kids I have something to add to this. Your children are better off with a caretaker that genuinely cares and will cater to them instead of daycare or school. I knew this from my personal experiences with school, but I only just really started to understand how much attention a baby wants and realized how hard it would be to give that attention to each individual child in daycare and school settings.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 03:21 PM
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You don't give access to finances to anyone, except your ltr. You don't have an ltr just for pussy. You get into a ltr because as a couple you are stronger and both can get farther. She supports you and, for example, makes your favorite foods, so you don't go out to eat as much, this saving money and being healthier. She encourages you to learn and grow and accomplish more than you could by yourself. And you do the same for her, though in a different way, because after all men and women are psyc…
/r/askTRP16/06/21 10:01 AM
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You could try carnivore
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/21 06:55 AM
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Honestly he'll be mentally healthier and happier. It's been a while since I read the technical stuff, but what he's doing can actually affect his ability to feel things like happiness due to brain chemical issues
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 07:36 AM
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Sounds like he needs to stop fapping to reset.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 07:31 AM
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Lots of great advice here. Here's two cents from the other side. You look gay in your pics. Not sure why, but if change your look. You sound like a needy nice guy. You've gotten a lot of great responses on how to change your point of view and change your approach. Pick one of the responses and follow it and see if you have better luck.
/r/askTRP09/05/21 05:27 AM
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Have you seen the school systems today? Either both of you need to make good money for monetary and private schools or you're better off having your wife raise your children instead of the state
/r/askTRP07/05/21 09:21 AM
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Not sure what oop means, but there is a surprising amount of info on women who were opposed to being able to vote. I googled it and got a lot. I bet duckduckgo would have more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 06:39 AM
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True. Just saying a red pill person is probably more aware of the problems related to being raised by just a single mom.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 02:59 PM
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Yes. You don't even need to open your mouth though. Body language speaks volumes.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:49 AM
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There is this idea that being a man's companion or taking care of the house is belittling. We are taught this at a young age and it's hard to unprogram. I strongly suspect many women who say they want to work would actually be happier as a companion, homemaker, and/or child raiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 07:34 AM
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Considering this is redpill and many men and women are broken due to not having a father figure, it seems like the right thing to do to shoulder this responsibility and be a father otherwise he's perpetuating the problems.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 07:04 AM
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It's not just these days https://www.google.com/amp/s/psmag.com/.amp/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/21 08:17 PM
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Every body is different. With that in mind try both in combination and separate and see what they do for you. Both affect the body differently and change different hormones. Since you're a guy I wouldn't do exclusively cardio except for like a week or two to try to figure out how it affects you without strength training interfering. If it seems to have positive effects, then include it. Also from personal experience go carnivore for a week. Just ground beef with iodized salt and vitamins. Add th…
/r/askTRP19/04/21 08:06 PM
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Lmao. For what it's worth there is a thing that can influence this. Xy sperm are lighter and swim faster, so xx sperm take longer to get to the egg. If you have sex c close to ovulation is more likely to be a boy. If you have it a bit before ovulation it's more likely to be a girl. Not that most women even know when they ovulate or care.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:34 PM
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Statistics are against you. Best of luck with this and remember to stay wary at least up until you see how she reacts during a major hardship.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:30 PM
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Later did she have a communion with the risen?
/r/askTRP18/04/21 01:27 PM
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What! No one mentioned the bell curve of iq for men vs women?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 04:31 PM
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Respond "sure, let's go Dutch" then head to your car. Or something line "sure, I didn't rent out the whole place. You can even sit at the same table".
/r/askTRP17/04/21 07:09 AM
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Very true and we don't know how long they've been together. But if they are expired that's a good sign.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 01:10 AM
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Also check if they are expired. They could be there from before you.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 10:23 PM
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My go to's in your situation are go to an endocrinologist and remove it. Laser hair removal is probably your best bet based on what I've read about my own body hair. In the meantime you can get good at shaving daily. For arms and face waxing is the way to go until you can do laser hair removal. I know Jilette has been a part of controversy, but I swear their Mach men's razors are great. If you strop them on a towel after each use it extends their life by a lot too. For places you tend to get ing…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/20 10:13 PM
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I have some know a couple that did almost exactly this. They wound up with 4 boys and the mom was a nurse and moving up in the ranks. By the second or third child the father became stay at home instead of hiring child care. It worked very well for them. The boys are all late 20's and early 30's now. The parents still live and respect each other and do a lot together. If the mom has a work trip the dad comes with and they make a vacation of it. It can be done with mutual respect and open communic…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/20 07:02 AM
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This
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/20 05:46 AM
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If you have an exit plan you have better odds of not getting stuck. That's more the point of what I was saying.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:41 PM
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There's a difference between a woman with restraint who doesn't slut around and a woman who is inhibited. From the sound of it the girl isn't afraid to be sexual, so I doubt she's inhibited.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:35 PM
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Agree on the quitting without a plan part, but there are a lot of options that don't involve having a degree. If he doesn't have a particular goal that he really wants that requires that degree or if school is making him miserable, then it's probably not the right way to go. Not saying either are true, just saying never giving up isn't always the right answer.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:22 PM
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Then again with the money you mage in trade you can invest in other opportunities. For example wholesale selling to retail. Look around. Everything you see is a product and has products behind it. That spirit shirt those kids are wearing? Someone imported the shirt from China, then sold it for about double to a screen printing factory who did the print and sold it about double to a contractor who goes in person and sells it for about double to the school who then sell it for about double to the …
/r/askTRP30/06/20 12:19 PM
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A partnership that can help get you farther in life. A person who can share responsibility, so you don't have to worry about some things and can focus on other more. A relationship where each victory is mutually shared and enjoyed and each other's joy makes it that much better. Though honestly my statement was gender neutral. Women who slut around or are gold diggers stop seeing men as human too. And current society encourages this.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 04:57 PM
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And this is why the slut life is unhealthy for long term relationships.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 04:43 PM
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It's not using of you're both getting what you want out of the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/20 04:42 PM
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From the depression stand point this is a great chance to learn more about you and improve your life. Yeah working out will help improve you physically and mentally in pretty much every way, but there are other things you can work on. I thought I was depressed and it turns out I was sleeping like shit in the place I was sleeping, so I'd sleep for 12 hrs and still be tired. Maybe you like to stop and look at the architecture of a house, but your parents always hurried you along. Even in diet you'…
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:50 PM
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Another temporary option is a cheap motel. You might even be able to negotiate their rates down further, especially if you plan to stay there for a bit. The car option is definitely best imo. Also truck stops are great places to go because they have people in and out 24/7 and they have security. Though not sure if they are open considering all that's going on. Oh and gas stations tend to have tp and water bottles even when stores don't.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 05:36 AM
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You could also get an older me who sleeps most of the time. Not trying to push getting a cat, I'm just giving you another angle to look at it. I don't think you should feel guilty. You have to prioritize yourself and sorting yourself out first. You are obligated to you. Friends come second to that or you cannot be a good friend. You might even be a better friend to her by setting boundaries and seeing her less often because you aren't frustrated with her constantly. If more time away doesn't hel…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/20 02:49 PM
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Can you maybe set a boundary and limit your time with her? Also you don't have to be single to be a cat lady 😊
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/20 05:36 PM
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Gain muscle instead. You can thicken up that way without sacrificing your health.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/20 08:31 PM
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The response to this is complicated and I think would reveal more details about myself than I want to on here.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 07:44 AM
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Most women use beauty to catch a man, so once he is caught she no longer maintains. I suspect if more women continued to act as though they were still trying to catch him and make him desire and chase her, then there would be more older women who still look extremely hot.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 08:56 AM
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The women on RedPillWomen are looking to improve and become better partners to their male counterparts. For whatever it's worth we do exist.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/20 08:48 AM
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Double check that you know how to put on a condom correctly and that you are using the right size for you. What you experienced shouldn't have happened. If you want to be doubly sure and try a bit of spermacide in the condom before putting it on. Whatever will happen will happen now. You can only plan for the future and make sure this doesn't happen again.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 09:59 AM
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That link answers some of my philosophical questions of the day. Thank you.
/r/askTRP16/02/20 08:23 AM
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Oldest teen in the room
/r/askTRP12/02/20 06:59 AM
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Here is the post title The Uber driver who drove me home from work yesterday was waiting outside of my work today
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:56 AM
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After dealing with a recent post on xxchromosome where it apparently is more acceptable for most women to get a dude fired instead of being straight forward about not being interested, I don't think most women will ever have the "lady balls" to state what they actually want. Much less in their reproductive years.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:17 AM
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This from personal experience. But some other aspects. There is a guilt taught for aging to the population. Like if you have kids you are at fault for global warming type of thing. Additionally having kids at a reasonable age is stigmatized. You see or hear about one or two people, then you start thinking it's too soon. Then once you're mid 30's people ask you why you haven't had kids and judge you for it (that last part of observed and hasn't been experienced by me yet). Societal norms and many…
/r/askTRP11/02/20 05:11 AM
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I agree completely. Depending on the results it could help couples better manage their relationships to help them last. If that happened then fewer kids could be in single households, this resulting them growing up with a healthier psyche and overall improving society.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 08:17 PM
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I get that's what you mean and agree. When it's summarized that way it can be taken more ways than what's said above.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 04:21 PM
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So I read an article I think on asktrp saying this is the only way to have a solid long lasting relationship with a woman. The woman has to have these feelings in order to not feel the need to trade up. I'm going to stay randomly asking this of people with long term relationships to see what results I get. I feel this way about my husband too, so I hope we are on the right track.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 04:19 PM
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So you look up to your husband and think he's more than your deserve and you're lucky to have him?
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 12:02 PM
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8 is too vague. It really depends on an individual's definition. I find my definition of female and male traits being muddled all the time. In addition to that some traits like control of emotions is masculine, but men do enjoy having women who have that.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 12:01 PM
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I came here to post this
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/20 11:59 AM
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This is a wonderful article and reminder. Thanks for sharing.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/20 06:47 AM
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Yeah, the discipline at home is definitely harder, but it may be worth going to the gym a few days and working out at home a few days, so you get sleep.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 02:00 AM
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Have you thought about investing in some weights, so you can workout and get sleep?
/r/askTRP03/02/20 01:57 AM
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Men and women are different, but both should be treated like adults and held responsible for what they say equally.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 08:17 PM
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Lol even women have terrible on groups like that if they say anything against their religion, even if what is said is backed up by facts.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 08:12 PM
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Because the people who control such things are trying to walk the line of being able to silence those who have different beliefs in a more subtle way than an outright banning which might bring a retaliation.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 08:10 PM
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What if opposition or politics is considered hate speech to the mods? It's a slippery slope if that power is granted. Instead let those who speak hatefully show that they are not part of the majority of society who shuns the hate speech they are using, so they can in turn be shunned and have their views change by reasoning or peer pressure.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 08:07 PM
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That would confuse the heck out of the reddit overlords lmao
/r/askTRP31/01/20 02:09 PM
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Wow so Reddit is ostracizing a group that's literally about minding your own business.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:57 PM
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Yeah it is. Fake it til you make it is a saying that applies here. You seem to be good at observing and if you are aware that it seems fake, then you likely know what aspects seem fake. Keep working on it and slowly it'll make sense. It may never happen completely, but in my experience it does happen. Eye contact is really important. Learning social cues like hand gestures, voice inflections, and facial gestures is useful. Choose the people who you spend time with carefully. Even if they're are …
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:28 PM
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Have you considered switching courses and doing a trade? Jewelry has a nice demand and markup. Metal work is pretty wide spread, but not a widely known skill. Traditional plumbing, painting, electrical, general handyman, etc type jobs can be very rewarding as you e the results of your work first hand.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:15 PM
1

Can you use your time current work time more efficiently? Being more effective could allow you to get more done without adding more time. Additionally what about trying to add time to your work day slowly and in progressive steps. For example work 30 extra minutes a day for a month, then an hour and so on. Also if this is a personal project perhaps spending a little time working on getting backing to afford to hire someone else, so things can move faster might be a better approach. The networkin…
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:05 PM
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And helps you lose weight because it makes you stop being hungry.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 08:58 PM
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Think of it like a habit or addiction and see if you can help him break the habit the same way you'd do for an alcoholic. Good luck. Habits are hard to break and he's got to be willing if there's any chance.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 05:12 AM
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No, she was cranky and wanted emotional comfort. She gave sex expecting to get that emotional comfort and didn't get it because their relationship is based on sex and OP correctly maintained that. If OP wants more from the relationship than a plate, then he was in the wrong. If she really is just a plate, then this was a good way to handle things. He even paid for her Uber. It's not like he kicked her out in the cold.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:39 AM
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The boss. She's not to be trusted. Never be alone in a space with her.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 02:34 AM
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I don't think you lowered your smv. It's a one time thing. Plus if you're looking for a ltr you'll be doing things like that periodically. Yeah she's damaged with the almost rape bit, but does she seem fine otherwise? Is that the only flag? If so I think it's worth sticking around especially since you're doing sexual stuff despite no piv. Next time you guys have sex try writing her up onto a frenzy and see what happens. Avoid her pussy for as long as possible. Only go as far as her inner thighs.…
/r/askTRP20/01/20 11:26 PM
1

Had this happen in the past. I did a no orgasm month. As in not even from sex, then I stayed away from porn. I've gone back to looking at porn since then, but not at the quantities I used to. I also have sex regularly now which may be helping.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 06:00 PM
2

She's immature, sounds incapable of growing up without a hard life altering reality check (like something mind altering), and narcissistic. Sounds like a terrible partner who won't take responsibility, but will actively ruin your life for her benefit, then blame it on you. Good riddance.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:12 PM
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There are do many great responses addressing most of this post. I'll just add in a small tidbit. If it's a big hangup you could have the procedure to repair your hymen, so you can "lose your virginity" again. If it's documented that you're really stressed mentally about it maybe insurance would cover part of it. I believe some will cover dysmorphia issues.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 01:42 PM
3

Sorry, I assumed you were because that's pretty much the goal of the women I've seen on this subreddit.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 01:37 PM
6

Honestly it doesn't sound like a serious relationship to me. If it's not responding for an hour or even a day I get that. Life can be busy. However a week or two suggests he's not thinking about and not willing to dedicate time for your in that time. Also the fact that you only talk on the phone twice a month makes me think it's not serious. Texts are just words on a page. Phone calls and video chat allows you to read more of the conversation. Additionally in my experience of the other person is…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/19 09:46 AM
3

My take on your reaction is that the assumption that most women will move her boundaries, rearrange her values, and reduce her self respect in exchange for the possibility of catching a rich and/or powerful guy feels a personal attack. Makes sense since your a woman and part of this group. The thing is that statistics support this. And if you think about how your see a lot of women act, you might realize that you've personally seen examples. Same as you might have seen examples of men leaving ol…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 05:48 AM
1

Look up "gold digger prank" on YouTube for references
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/19 05:42 AM
5

This! Step 1) realize that if you come in with this attitude you'll be partaking in a self fulfilling prophecy. Heck you may even subconsciously sabotage.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 04:46 AM
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So he's better at being a man than you? Are you also upset about not having a penis? Seriously though, be a great woman, not a great man.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 04:43 AM
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Okay first Tinder isn't the best place to be looking for serious relationships. It's meant for hookups, not dating. Second based on what you said about him he'd be a poor partner long term. He has issues he hasn't sorted out and is super needy. Also it kind of sounds like he was playing you for sex. Something both men and women (though the goal for women tends to be different) often do. Third you both are playing the texting games. It's juvenile and will make you read situations poorly. Requirin…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/19 09:17 PM
2

Btw OP did you tell her about your take on jewelry? If you didn't you should be open with her about it. If you aren't, then you have a covert contract and should correct that. Also I got a great suggestion for a future jewelry piece. Go on a trip together and while making wonderful memories pick up a nice stone. When you get home have a nice jeweler polish it and set it in a jewelry piece for you.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:43 PM
2

Btw OP did you tell her about your take on jewelry? If you didn't you should be open with her about it. If you aren't, then you have a covert contract and should correct that. Also I got a great suggestion for a future jewelry piece. Go on a trip together and while making wonderful memories pick up a nice stone. When you get home have a nice jeweler polish it and set it in a jewelry piece for you.
/r/askTRP28/11/19 04:43 PM
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Couple of quick things. First don't go the no legal document and calling each other husband and wife route. In many places that will eventually make you legally husband and wife. Instead get a prenup. If she is legit into you and cares about you enough to be worth marrying she'll do it. Though honestly with what you said about marriage I don't think you should do it because it sounds like you'd resent it. Kind of like how you resent giving her the bracelet, but worse. Maybe instead talk her into…
/r/askTRP28/11/19 11:24 AM
1

That confuses the heck out of me. It really does sound like therapy is needed to sort out what's going on in his head if it's pretty off the reservation from what's actually going on.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 06:18 AM
1

Okay, so there aren't money issues? It's just a stress that he's making in his head?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 05:47 AM
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Look up covert contracts. Sounds like they're are some of these at play. Also it sounds like he expects you to be a mind reader. It may be worth bringing this up with him when he's in the head space to talk. He may not be aware of what he's doing.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 03:51 AM
1

I disagree on a few points. If you think you're financially secure, then talking about investing and actually doing it is fine. Even if you're not financially secure there is no harm in talking. She didn't know there were financial problems until after bringing it up. Furthermore the fact that he never brought up the financial and job problems suggests to me that she should become involved with the finances. If he's impulsive (which you suggest and I'm also wondering about), stress may have made…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 03:36 AM
1

Staying up past the point of being tired can lead a person to worse thinking in the evening. Personal experience here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/19 11:41 PM
1

This. Quite honestly it doesn't sound like you're emotionally invested, you just think you are. And based on what she's getting, it sounds like she's settling for a sugar baby relationship with less perks. You're a sugar daddy who mostly puts out stuff in exchange for sex and exclusivity. No matter how much stuff (the physical provider side) you give, if she's not getting what she needs long term (emotional investment wise) she'll find it somewhere else. Much like if she stopped putting out sex …
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:57 AM
1

Because I've known several people who I care about who have experienced this. Because even if it didn't happen to me directly it's wrong and it hurts people in a narcissistic fashion and that's enough to make it worth my time and energy if it comes up in my life.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/19 06:58 AM
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The problem is that they will pretend to be someone they are not until marriage, then all bets are off and they become this abusive monster.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/19 06:23 PM
1

I can relate and am going their something similar fertility wise. I just had an HSG (if you get one take the vallium!) and was told it looks like I have scarring in my fallopian tubes near my ovaries and scarring that's holding my ovaries in an odd position. No idea what it all means yet, but we'll go in a few weeks to see how the doc is interpreting everything and what course of action he recommends. Part of my consolation is a friend had a hell of a time getting pregnant. 7 or 8 miscarriages a…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 05:48 PM
3

If you do decide to try waitressing try to get hired at the most expensive restaurants. You'll both make more because the bill will be higher and thus so will the tip percentage, but also you can watch the mannerisms of the people dining there and work on emulating what you observe and like. Based on your background you could also look into companies clubs higher such as the people who do the sound systems or lighting systems. Start low and work your way up. You already have the advantage of hav…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/19 03:16 PM
2

I have found it to be true, they just need some coaching and to be fair all of us have different nerves and different touch and types of touch make us tick. For example pressure vs. light touch.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 05:02 AM
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This is BS. I'm a woman and I find this subreddit to be valuable for me too. Both in improving myself and improving the men available to me. Yeah game can suck, but women do it too and quite honestly your guys seem to advocate a face value type of layout as opposed to cheating and leading a girl on. And you guys seem to teach guys to not put up with abuse that has become so rampant and that a man is expected to just accept and deal with for the rest of his life. This movement is literally advoca…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 04:38 AM
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After she's had an orgasm or two the muscles will relax and be a little squishy. Do it then. Make sure to use lube and if you have nails use a glove. May want to use a glove anyway because butt holes are more sensitive to texture than vaginas. You'll have to move and feel around to see where he sensitive spots are, but crooking your finger, so you can put gentle pressure against the ring of muscle is popular as is thrusting and pressing toward the vagina.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 04:29 AM
1

Predictable didn't take away from the enjoyable and eagerly anticipated on my end. Just saying from a n=1
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 06:35 AM
1

Predictable didn't take away from the enjoyable and eagerly anticipated on my end.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 06:34 AM
2

Not just on the internet, but also in real life. It can be hard to sort out in the moment, but after it's possible to take a step back and sort out what triggered my behavior. With my parents it might be habit. Some days it's fluxuations in hormones. Etc. I think analyzing and being aware of the triggers is very important when it comes to controlling them. You can plan how to respond to stimuli differently or plan ahead to mitigate triggers. I've been doing this for a long time and have changed …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/19 05:39 AM
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Did you know that manipulating the psychology of men for relationships is perfectly acceptable, but manipulating the psychology of women for sex is deplorable? Must be because women are the most mature teenagers in the room and shouldn't be held accountable for their actions because they don't know any better. On the other hand they must be protected from big scary adults who are wiser and therefore better able to manipulate. Lol
/r/TheRedPill28/09/19 04:45 AM
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RP is pretty accurate. I think there are some mysoginists in this community and some people who've been burned so hard they can't have a relationship even if the stars aligned. Most of the guys here are learning to play a game most women appear to play anyway. It's been valuable to me too because I have a very make mentality and it's helped me understand traditional women better. Not to mention understanding the dynamics of my relationship better.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:27 PM
11

Since most guys can't go for 2-5 hours this needs elaboration. Learn how to use toys and your fingers. Learn many tricks and about weird erogenous zones (like for me the backs of the knees are sensitive and about halfway down my butt to a little about the knees is sensitive. Learn to keep her revved and teased even when you aren't having sex. Don't go straight to get clit because there are a lot of sensitive areas that become less sensitive when you go there. For example kiss and tongue the inne…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:23 PM
2

Well after searching I give up. The usual archive site doesn't show comments deleted by the original poster. Tried a couple other ways to find it, but no luck. I guess it has gone into the abyss.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/19 07:00 PM
1

It may not be just about what the man likes, but also being cleaner and more hygienic makes you feel better and more attractive and a better catch.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 10:59 PM
2

I have a small suggestion. Instead of spending a ton of time on high numbers of sit-ups you could add weights. Then you're still working hard, but it won't take as much time and it's easier to set aside the time. Also yoga, specifically flexibility focused stuff, could help with your lordosis by strengthening your back muscles and teaching them how to move in and out of alignment. Increasing the muscle mass also allows for the muscles themselves to support the spine better.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/19 09:09 AM
2

I had a nice solution to this. Instead of being young and dumb and getting tattoos I went the piecing route because worse comes to worse you take them out and even if they don't fully close up they aren't really noticeable. Maybe instead of advocating for abstaining from body mods when the girl wants to do it and b will likely do what she wants, redirecting her desire to something less permanent could decrease the number of non-reversable and obvious body mods.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 08:58 AM
1

My sister did this. You just have to get lucky with the job search.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 08:26 AM
2

My thoughts too. It's great advice. At least reddit has a convenient archive for those of us who appreciated it.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 08:21 AM
1

Fair enough. Makes it harder in the awkward sense. But if she's there regularly you have time to better assess the actual risks. You are the best judge. Either way good luck.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 09:26 PM
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He doesn't have a goal though and doesn't sound like he's pushing to try to get out of it. There are plenty of people who just let the grind continue and it sounds like that's what he's doing. Think about the stereotype of the 30 year old still loving with their parents and working at McDonald's. This guy sounds like that to me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 07:53 PM
3

Sounds like a memory would be a better gift for them than an object. In the future you could plan a nice vacation for the four of you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/19 07:23 PM
2

Get out of your head by using all that thinking to your advantage. The worst that could happen if you approach her is you get turned down. Not as bad as not approaching her because if you don't approach her you beat yourself up with what-ifs. I had to create a switch in my brain after spending like 30 minutes contemplating approaching and losing my charge one time and being haunted by it. The switch is that logic bit I just wrote. Stop jacking off so much and you won't think as clearly. Could be…
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 07:42 AM
1

Yeah, it's a potentially lucrative project, but the initial investment is pretty big. Plus if you have a bug when you launch it's already doomed. Or if you don't advertise and gain enough users it also fails. If just seems like there is a lot of potential because the sites that are out there are stagnant with features and still make a boat load of money. If you ever try it I wish you all the best.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 02:29 AM
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She would never see his profile because the whole point for a guy to mod his age on a dating site is so that he doesn't get filtered out exclusively because of his age. All of those are POSSIBLE ailments and there is no garuntee he will get them. It's literally only saying that he is in this statistical category not this other one. It would be more valuable if that matters to get a family history. Has anyone in your family died of cancer? What age does your family generally live to? Are any of y…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 09:07 PM
1

Keep a record of her advances. If you're in the US and she gets pissed at you she could day you sexually harassed her in the office and you'll be the one hurting your career. Considering the situation you met her and type of person she is if advance with extreme caution.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 04:59 PM
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If a woman lies about her weight she either looks her weight when he meets her and he bails or she looks better than her weight, in which case was weight a fair representation in the first place? Or she looks her weight and he doesn't care and it my as important to him as he thought. It's the same risk for dating a person who any unknown qualities. Well with the exception of hidden qualities like fertility. Those imo people should be honest about because a person could invest a lot of time and e…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 03:54 PM
1

Using a token system makes things easier btw. I've been thinking about it and played with it a little myself. The fact is a token and a different base money value that fluctuates depending on the package you get makes it hard for your mind to grasp the concept of its value. On top of that for charge backs it could make things a little easier and make people less upset because you're dealing with their stash of tokens, but real money. Oh and depending on the kink stuff you want to allow you may w…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 08:31 AM
1

That shouldn't be too hard. The sites today take 50%+ and never update. So long as your site works from the start you should be fine. Plus if you want to make it even easier than the streaming ones you can create a site for receiving payments and selling videos and other goods. From what I understand the hardest parts are making sure it runs smoothly and the company you're using for transactions is willing to work with you for a reasonable fee. If you took something like the games chaturbate use…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 06:18 AM
1

This. Many guys do this because regardless of their looks, personality, and success women (including you) wouldn't give him a chance. All thanks to the year he was born. A number that for women matters (we have a fertility limit), but for men really doesn't. He could be 50 and still have a family, and be a good husband and dad.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 04:20 AM
1

The idea that a person who is receiving money from the government has a conflict of interest is one that interests me and honestly I cannot fault enacting it as it will likely decrease the chances of us going socialist.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 03:35 AM
1

That's old school feminism you're talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 03:19 AM
1

You're welcome. If like to hear what your favorites are and what modifications you make if any if it isn't too much trouble.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/19 02:57 AM
1

There are so many options I don't even know where to begin. I guess to start what diet are you eating and what limitations do you have? For example I try for low carb and avoid wheat because it upsets my stomach. I also avoid things that increase acid because I have GERD. Just Bento has a ton of amazing recipes that are quick and easy. Here are a few off the top of my head: 1) cottage cheese and peaches (the ones on sugar free syrup) 2) eggs! Boiled (making them in a pressure cooker makes them e…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 09:37 AM
1

Maybe it's normal, but even if it is, it's not healthy and it's not good for the psychy. If you are always comparing yourself to her and in competition to be the most like her you will always lose because you are not the and person as she is. Instead celebrate her successes. Find joy when she does well at something. Avoid thinking about how you want that thing she has for yourself. Compare yourself to the you from yesterday, last week, last month, last year, and last decade. Look at how far you'…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 09:16 AM
1

Pro tip from a girl with amazing sisters: instead of feeling jealous feel proud. Feel proud that your sister is such an amazing person.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 09:05 AM
1

It doesn't really sound like you are acting the part of a girl who wants to be picked up. If you genuinely want it, then it's time to change. Also being thin has nothing to do with it. It's all about what personality you give off. My suggestion is change your outlook. Learn how to do some basic makeup (BB cream, eyeliner and shadow, mascara, blush, and lipstick should do it) and put it on and think of it as a mask or a warface. Psych yourself up whenever you do this. Fake it to make it. Be the g…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 09:03 AM
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Consider your animals now. For example I have cats and they can carry a disease that can cause problems in pregnancy. When pregnant I need to clean the boxes daily, so the bacteria didn't have time to incubate. Additionally I've considered what to do if u give birth to a child who is allergic to cats. My solution is that we will have plans for a outdoor cattery and build that if necessary and the cats will be moved out there. Make sure you like your ob now, so you don't have to switch to an unkn…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 08:45 AM
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I bought my last bunch at Rue21 online. Some had weird cuts, but most are comfy and nice. Yandy is another cheap option with a wide variety. Both of the above also have sales regularly. By the way do you wash your panties by hand or in the washer? I find when I wash them by hand they get cleaned better (don't get stained/discolored) and seem to hold up better.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 08:32 AM
0

I disagree. Threesomes are fine if everyone involved communicates openly and honestly. Therefore everyone has to be comfortable with everyone else to be open and honest with them. Additionally in my experience it's best for the odd woman out to focus on the woman who is attracted to the man. So she's the focus and is less likely to be uncomfortable/jealous because she is the center of the goings on. I'm not saying you should do anything with this woman. It sounds like there are a lot of red flag…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 08:00 AM
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