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I dug the whole journey for what it's worth. Probably similar to a lot of guys here. Hopefully some young dude reads this and gives it a thought.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/17 06:11 PM
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Second the NMMNG suggestion. Bottom line is you probably lean towards codependency, maybe picked up from your parent's relationship dynamic. I didn't realize I was even working through it at the time, but I had a therapist basically work on reprogramming that out of me after it nearly took out my marriage, as both my wife and I had very codependent relationships with one person acting as martyr/giver and the other being a the one with the issues that needed taking care of. Sample convo: "What wo…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 02:57 PM
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That's just gnarly. WTF man.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 11:09 PM
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I think the problem is a lot of these guys have learned the hard way you can't force someone to wake up with well-meaning advice. Guys at this level of being beta whipped will savagely defend their lack of balls upon any suggestion they're looking at things the wrong way that doesn't involve going further to pander to the woman screwing them over. They have to hit rock bottom and seek help first. Hell, that's pretty much what happened to me.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 09:55 PM
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You have people with extremist ideas in any area of philosophy. Rarely do they represent the whole. Even red pill sites can differ vastly in the ideas expressed on them. TRP tells men how to improve themselves to be what women want. Trying to mold women into something they're not is folly and a wate of time. You can only imrpove yourself, not others. The other stuff I won't argue with. Unfortunately, a lot of men come to TRP after learning the hard way with a good dose of pain that they had been…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 11:45 AM
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I don't think this is an accurate assessment and would encourage you to set aside any preconceived notions you may have due to a few squeaky wheels and actually look around and see what the core principles of Red Pill theory are. Fundamentally, it really is about men learning to find happiness in ourselves, and not seek it in women. It's about maintaining an awareness of our attractiveness as potential mates and taking steps to improve that. Another concept, and the one you might find potentiall…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 08:39 PM
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So true. My reaction to reading this today was, "Oh, gross man. What the hell was he thinking?" A couple of years ago I would have just thought she was a heartless sociopath.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 03:37 PM
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I was on vacation at Stone Mountain a couple years ago, and elected to have the family descend the "mountain" (more like a giant granite hill). On the way down, there was a healthy looking dude that had obviously jogged up to the top and was casually encouraging his hot girlfriend/wife to hustle and come on up by saying, "come on baby, let's do it. Come on baby." The look on her face told me she would be jumping his bones that night, probably like every other night. I realized that was the sweet…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 07:20 PM
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They would have you think that, but finding a decent replacement can take 6 months or more. I have learned this from experience. There aren't actually an overabundance of great potential employees just sitting around waiting for someone to hire them, contrary to popular belief.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:45 PM
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That's pretty classic from current bosses. If you're a good employee, that means your leaving will make their entire work life more difficult so unless they're a good and somewhat selfless person, they aren't really going to want that to happen. I was in the same position a while back ago. Could have stuck in my former department that I hated doing all the work for my bosses, or take a leap to a different department with higher pay. Definitely glad I jumped ship. Always go for the promotion, eve…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:42 PM
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Yeah, that was just poor leadership through and through. People have this sense that employees are easily replaceable, and they are if you have no regard for quality, but good employees are hard to come by. In every leadership role I've been in, I have highly valued my star employees and tried to assist them in moving ahead. Hiring someone from outside ahead of a star employee and gambling on their loyalty is just moronic. This of course applies to all relationships. Know your value, and if it's…
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 01:32 PM
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Definitely that, but I also think when a man lacks appropriate levels of self-worth, there's a subconscious desire to find a woman who needs "rescuing" so that she's basically needs him at that point, rather than relying soley on being wanted for his inherent value as a badass male. I had to dig deep in the mental closet and take a close look at myself and even my father to realize that's what was really behind my white-knighting.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 02:55 PM
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Amen brother. We don't always have to act like a bunch of backstabbing slaves to our female masters.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:23 PM
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At the end of the day, the most important person I need to respect is myself. Personally, I couldn't do that if I were screwing some disloyal fruitcake. A slice of tang is not worth sacrificing my dignity or possibly causing someone else to go through a world of hurt for. I know the argument has been that she would just screw someone else anyway, but it's that attitude that ironically allows women to avoid accountability for anything. If she knew most men would find her behavior to be reprehensi…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:17 PM
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I usually assume there's quite a bit of hypebole and conirmation bias. Anytime someone is backing up an agenda, they tend to cherry pick whatever provides evidence to further the belief system they're presenting. Not knocking OP, as most people tend to do it. It doesn't always quite jive with what I see as TRP philosophy though, where the point is to strip away societal agendas and look at how things truly are. I think most women who aren't completely delusional are aware of why men are attracte…
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 01:40 PM
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I like that you took this all the way to its logical conclusion. It actually made for a fun read. The reality is informing the stronger, bigger, more logical, and testosterone laden half of the species that you intend to cull them into a small minority probably wouldn't work out very well from the get go and more likely, would backfire really badly. Good luck with that plan there, crazy lady.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 12:52 AM
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I didn't start getting it until a couple years ago at 34 and I'm still impressed there are guys waking up to the reality of things at 20. But who knows, maybe I needed to end up where I was at first. I know of another guy in his 50's who took the red pill, started spinning plates and loving life after a troubled marriage so the world is still your oyster. It's probably bittersweet, but you get to start completely fresh at least. The anger is natural, just don't stay mired in it longer than you n…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 04:18 PM
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It's easy to criticize someone else, so take the following with that admission. Maybe age is catching up with me but at best "h8 u" might be awesome coming from a ten year old to his crush. From that angle, it could have a cute but bratty connotation. Cute and bratty aren't really how a grown man looking to solidify attraction in a woman should go though. You also got pretty passive agressive which again are not traits you want to put on full display to a woman. It shows neediness and feminine b…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 03:20 PM
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This is awesome. I've tried throwing out red pill resources in other subs to guys who were floundering in their relationships, usually only to be downvoted to hell or have the guy freak and claim he's not sexist and all that red pill stuff is vile. Apparently crying to yourself in the bathroom after noticing your woman no longer wants to cuddle is the more enlightened response to relationship woes. Glad to know some people approach TRP with an open mind, the same way I did when I was up shit's c…
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 10:11 AM
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Who is really an alpha male 100% in every situation? Most men who might normally meet the archetype have someone they bow down to. Someone who has kicked their ass, got one over on them, or gives them orders. In the animal kingdom if the alpha male gets killed, wounded, or otherwise knocked off the throne, who takes over? Usually one of the former betas. All men have it in them to develop alpha traits just as all men are equally capable of being betaized. I think most of us are in between. The t…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 04:45 PM
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Maybe I misinterpreted, but I think the point he was making is that if you stop putting in the effort to keep your sexual desirability up, just because you're married, this is how things play out. "I go to work, pay the bills and do the dishes sometimes, why doesn't she appreciate that with her vagina? Sure I've put on some weight and spend most of my free time playing video games, but she's supposed to want me regardless right?" Nope. No matter what your situation, single or married, if you wan…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 10:27 AM
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Yes, the lack of fight left in her is actually one of the biggest warning signs that things have reached critical levels.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 10:21 AM
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Yeah, I think you summarized my concerns with only getting advice from a forum that is more geared towards spinning plates than marriages. Like your idea of a red pill marrriage sub.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 10:10 AM
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Yes, I like keeping her attraction and interest in the marriage strong precisely because I don't like her. That makes sense. Did you mean to respond to me? I think I mentioned in my post that I specifically do like and love my wife and would say I'm happily married, which is why I take enjoyment out of keeping her attraction to me strong.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 09:56 AM
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Wow, have you shared TRP philosophy with them? In each case it sounds like they have let the wives run things in the relationship and we know how great that turns out. What's sad is I had a bit of each of those scenarios going at one point. Living like that is unbearable.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 11:02 PM
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Agree with this. Honestly despite any of her short comings, I like my wife. I would routinely get bored or annoyed with most women during my bachelor days and a big part of me is glad I don't have to go out and filter through the BS. That and I did want kids and I think having a two parent household is the best thing you can do for your kids. Do I look at other women giving IOI's and think about how fun it would be taking that for a ride? Of course, but that's fleeting anyway. Since discovering …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 10:53 PM
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12 years!? Sounds like you are an AMA candidate. Not bad advice though.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:21 PM
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I can honestly understand your second guessing that recommendation. I haven't been active there in quite a while as I felt I gained most of what I could from those forums and also spent quite a large part of the tail end trying to help out other newcomers. That and there started to become a disturbing trend towards a sort of matriarchy vibe that, even though I was not directly affected by it, I didn't like. For example, a guy who spent a lot of time trying to help others getting abruptly banned …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 07:02 PM
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Reality is a heartless bitch. You just know the sad bastard thought his putting her wants before his goals would earn him some loyalty. Great news is he didn't marry her or get tied down with kids so maybe he'll wake up and do it right the next time.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:49 PM
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My advice is to pick up a copy of The Married Man Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay and read that shit front to back ASAP. I've been where you're at unfortunately brother. The good news is you might be able to turn things around, and with kids involved, I'd generally make that the first order of business. Speaking of MMSL, he has a forum with a 911 category where people will analyze your situatipn and in my experience give some solid advice, not only in where you might be screwing up, but how to get …
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 04:11 PM
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Excellent words amigo. Part of what you wrote made me think about a discussion I was having with a female therapist who, in hindsight, was working on getting me to reexamine a lot of what we would call blue pill thinking at the time. At one point she asked, "what would you do for your family?" I responded, "I'd give my life for them." "Why would you give your life for them? What if you changed that thinking to, 'I would do a lot for my family', but I would not sacrifice myself for them.'" It rea…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 12:11 PM
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Agreed. I think and have observed from other red pill sources that guys that are mainly assholes have a hard time keeping a woman around for a LTR. How many of you have a buddy that is straight alpha archetype that has never managed to keep a chick around for more than a year? I can think of a couple. Even the women they nail consistently are of the stripper or bimbo slut variety which has never floated my boat. The magic formula, at least in my case as a married dude, means just injecting a hea…
/r/TheRedPill02/09/14 04:53 PM
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Yeaaaah. The good ol' oneitis at work. "I thought you was a motherfuckin' unicorn!"
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:16 PM
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My thoughts as well. I've been there and done that. Maybe this will be his wakeup call that your value as a man isn't what you've done for a woman and they don't give a shit if a guy who gives her the tingles comes sniffing around.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:14 PM
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This sounds like it was written from a place of bitterness and insecurity. I think a lot of us go through those feelings of bitterness and disillusion with the behaviors (past and present) of women initially but that outlook is not what anyone should be clinging to. Who cares how many partners a woman has had. None of them hold a candle to the unique brand of pure awesome that is me, so screw anyone else.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 02:03 PM
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Sounds like you're already off to a fantastic start man. And yes, when you first start realizing this stuff actually works, it's pretty amazing. I think one of the most mind blowinflg parts for me was that my wife seemed to be way more smitten with me when I stopped putting up with any bullshit and dealt with it in a cool, calm manner immediately.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 01:49 PM
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