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Sorry I believe my reply was directed at another user
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:41 PM
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First of all, you cannot blame men for women being the ones to initiate divorces, keep in mind that lesbian couples have the highest divorce rates, and the highest domestic violence rates while gay M-M couple are 3 times more likely to stay married, with M-W marriages landing in the middle. Pretty well points out the problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:29 PM
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I think generally at first no but once the honeymoon phase is over yes absolutely
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 12:57 PM
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It really clicked for me when I read an article that stated that divorce rates are higher in lesbian marriages at around 80% while straight marriages divorce rates are at around 54% and gay male marriages being around 30% divorce rate, also lesbian relationships have the highest levels of domestic violence rates believe it or not. But when you stand back and look at a all male marriage succeeds 7 out of 10 times and a all female marriage fails 8 out of 10 times it makes things very very crystal …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/25 04:58 PM
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Even when you are married or in a relationship, one of your main goals is still sex it doesn’t just go away. And it’s not like if you get it all the time you lose interest in it you are still just as interested and obsessed as you were when you weren’t getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 09:40 PM
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Absolutely they are, but ver very different than emotional or physical intimacy that is sexual in nature, 2 completely different animals
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 01:58 PM
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I wonder if her new husband is dealing with the same fate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 08:48 PM
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Brother, I have been turned down with the same exact excuse by my own girlfriends, I have never been a fan of makeup I prefer women natural form but I understand that societal pressures Tell them we need wear make up. It’s sad really
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 06:50 PM
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Pull your head out of your ass an read the post, the post says 25-45 so your 50 plus and 1% of the population arguments are both bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 03:52 PM
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The problem with this situation is some people are not willing to believe that sex is necessary for some people to feel connected, to feel loved, cared for or whatever else, some people need sexual interactions to be able to make a relationship work. If your partner comes to you and says that they need you to tell them that you love them more in your relationship or they need you to hold them more or talk to them more. Whatever their needs may be it is your job as their spouse to try to make the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:32 PM
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Less than 1% of the world is asexual nobody cares about that we are talking about the 99% here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:20 PM
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Are you aware that there are oddballs and anatomies in every scenario, are you aware that this scenario is built around people 25-45, are you aware that this is pertaining to the absolute majority and not the 1% of the population who’s asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:18 PM
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My only question is at any point during the relationship or during counseling did she ever give you an honest explanation as to why the sex fell off after you guys got married?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 02:13 PM
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Haha OK Internet wizard, “ I read it on the Internet, so it must be true”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:11 PM
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Well not with the others permission anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 07:10 PM
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You said you can have sex without intimacy and you can have an intimate relationship without sex, I say sex without intimacy eventually is unfulfilling I also say intimacy without sex is eventually unfulfilling as well
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:34 PM
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25-45
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:33 PM
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For the sake of argument, let’s say that that is not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 06:33 PM
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It’s very true what you say, Majority of divorces are initiated by women and a majority of those are initiated after a man loses his job or his business or in someway put in financial crisis. The quote goes “Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally. A man is only loved under the condition that he provides something”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:36 PM
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Agreed monogamous relationship means sex with only one person. if you are having sex with no persons, you are no longer in a monogamous relationship. You are practicing abstinence.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:32 PM
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People are weird like that. If you had an ice cream machine in your living room that would never make you fat and actually make you healthier, happier boost, self-confidence you would eat ice cream every day, But when it comes to sex, which does just that. People withhold for months
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:30 PM
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Sure, but that makes it all the more selfish. Those sexless relationships where they have sex maybe two or three times a year when the withholder is feeling like they want their needs met while neglecting their partners needs the other 363 days of the year, it’s more of a slap in the face at that point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:27 PM
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Agreed but don’t talk too loud, the weirdos on here can here you and they will attack haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:06 PM
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Unfortunately, that is usually not the case one partner usually still has drive. It’s hard to have a platonic friendship when one person is resentful.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:04 PM
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You can but eventually sex without intimacy is unfulfilling as well as intimacy without sex is also unfulfilling
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:01 PM
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Sex is the Central point of our entire existence, the main driver of our existence is reproduction. The whole marketing infrastructure is built around sex sells. Human existence relies on sex. And sex may not be as crucial to the ongoing of a relationship, but I guarantee that most relationships would never make it to a place of seriousness if you took sex off the table. Majority of young people would walk out of a relationship if sex never happened and would go out to pursue a relationship wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:00 PM
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I agree, I laugh at people who don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:48 PM
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What I mean is basically anything you wouldn’t do with your own siblings you wouldn’t do with anyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:46 PM
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Lots of people may have relationships without sex, but I guarantee that not both partners are happy with that dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:39 PM
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For a lot of people, sex and intimacy are one in the same, or at the very least intimacy is the prerequisite to sex, love languages differ, some people avoid intimacy because it’s arousal and when sex doesn’t happen it does more damage than good, Your views of this topic are very close minded, and you spew hatred towards “black and red pill MEN when my post is gender neutral, your close minded views, and sexist views towards men make your input irrelevant and unhelpful. You are obviously a miser…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:36 PM
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Huh
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 04:27 PM
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So let me ask you this if you take sex off the table it is sustainable. What if you take whatever your love languages is off the table? Does it then become less sustainable for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:43 PM
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What I mean, is intimacy in a way that you wouldn’t experience with Someone of the gender that you’re not attracted to. you could still have friendships, but you take emotional intimacy and physical intimacy off the table
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:42 PM
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Well my oldest is in 7th grade, he gets dropped off at school at 7:30 and goes to school till 245 then he goes straight to basket ball practice in the gym till 5:15 so 40 plus, my 5th grader has wrestling and my 3rd grader has after school tutoring that ends at 4 so yeah 40+
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:34 PM
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Like I said I lived it…. Were you a stay at home dad? Have you done both? Or are you just talking out your arse?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:07 PM
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Happens all the time, stay at home spouse, they they say there life is much more difficult and they work harder keeping house than the bread earner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:06 PM
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Nope, wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:04 PM
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Haha I never made any roll gender specific, I also was a stay at home dad for many years, you made it a gender war, you made this post about me bashing women somehow, even tho I never bashed any gender, you went on a self righteous feminist rant about not respecting women and because of this your whole comment is crap and will not be considered valuable input. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 07:03 PM
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Thank you for a honest answer and not being an ass kisser like the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 06:59 PM
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That’s weird when I was a kid I got on the bus at 7 o’clock in the morning and didn’t get home till 430 so it was actually closer to 50 hours a week and every day I drop my children off at school at 7:25 and I pick them up at 3:15, so you’re absolutely correct it’s more like 39 1/2 hours. Which does not support your point
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:18 PM
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Well, of course a lot of people who want to defend how hard being a stay at home partner is will tell you that it takes 14 hours a day to clean and do laundry and cook food but a lot of those people are also liars, all I’m saying is I have done both and I found that three hours a day was my average of what it took to keep the house, clean laundry done and family fed. 21 hours a week. If it takes someone more than 21 hours a week to clean do laundry feed their family. They are extremely inefficie…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:14 PM
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But I would bet that being a stay at home partner with no children you don’t tell you’re working partner that your role is as hard or harder than them working every day
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 09:00 PM
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Yes, raising kids can be very stressful. It takes time management and structure. But after the child turns five years old, the school babysits them for 40+ hours a week for you for free. Leaving you with a lot of free time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:58 PM
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It’s kind of a piss poor excuse for not working just because you spent your time raising children, children starts school at five years old after that, the school watches your children for 40+ hours a week. If you didn’t take that time to make yourself valuable in the working field in any way that’s your bad. When my children started school, I spent three hours a day taking care of everything else and had five or six hours a day of free time that I chose to fill with side business’s and educatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:56 PM
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Right and even with children over 5 (school-age children) they are being cared for by somebody else for 40+ hours a week. If you’re not horrible at time management or letting laundry build up or letting the house get so messy it’s out of control and takes long time to clean then it’s not that bad, I was spending three hours a day doing all my normal chores cleaning house doing laundry, grocery shopping, etc. And the rest of the time was free time more or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:52 PM
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I think it has very little to do with which is more important and more to do with one partner, telling the other partner that they do more or pull more weight in the relationship. After a child turns five they are in school full-time that’s 40 hours a week that the child is being cared for outside of the home. That leaves the SAH parent 40 hours a week to take care of the house, When I was SAH parent of my children It took me three hours a day max to take care of all household chores that unless…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:46 PM
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Run children start school at five years old so for the first four years one parent should be stay at home and then once the child is in school eight hours a day how do you feel about it at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:37 PM
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Dang doesn’t sound fair for women you just explained that either way the woman ends up doing 65% of the work, that’s either very unfortunate for women or your opinion is very biased. I would love to see the studies that you have read if you can share them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 08:35 PM
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Right serious cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/24 04:38 PM
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Thank you…. Somebody needed to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/24 01:56 PM
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Yeah there is this weird concept of “jack hammering” that keeps getting brought up, and I think it’s just like anything else some people like certain things and some people don’t but jack hammering seems to be a negative word to defend why porn sex is not realistic but so far nobody has said they like jack hammering, and I don’t think most porn people like watching has it either. Idk the jack hammering thing lost me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:54 PM
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Well I think there is definitely freaky shit that is not realistic but I think the majority of us just watch porn with oral scenes and then a hand full of positions, and it’s wild and fun and enjoyable sex that we have all had at one point in our lives so it’s definitely not unrealistic unless your partner decides realistic is 10 minutes in missionary and done from now on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 03:49 PM
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I’m sure some do, some definitely do not
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:47 AM
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That’s what women want? It’s been that easy the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 02:46 AM
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Not true, in my experience cheating is treated as “men cheat because they are pigs, women cheat because the man wasn’t meeting he needs in some way”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 11:39 PM
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Exactly there is porn oriented for almost anything, but I’ve never seen any that is 10 minutes or very lame missionary sex but hey they might have that also?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:54 PM
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You don’t find enjoyment from doing things that you don’t necessarily love because it makes your partner happy? I do things I don’t like all the time because seeing the happiness it brings my lady makes me also feel very good… you must be a very selfish person and I feel bad for your past and future relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:52 PM
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Haha or maybe everyone should take one for their partner, we all have to do things we don’t necessarily love to appease our partners in all aspects of life, but there is also a big difference between not necessarily loving something and something being painful and if it’s painful, then it’s absolutely a no go
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:38 PM
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Thank you for your view! Something to think about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:30 PM
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Slow soft sex, intimate kissing constantly during sex , giving oral, cuddling afterwards….
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:29 PM
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That’s very exciting to hear thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:27 PM
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Nope, if everyone’s not having fun, no one should be having fun, modify, learn and create. No excuses for being lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:21 PM
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Everyone needs to do better!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 09:19 PM
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Even the best don’t make every shot
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:34 PM
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In my experience if everyone’s not having fun, nobody’s having fun or at least that’s the way it should be, genuine fun tho
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:28 PM
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I see. I tried to make an edit explaining that I’m not talking about the crazy wild shit, gang bangs hardcore nonsense, just 2 people having fun, adventurous sex, which involves rotation of positions, oral on both ends and passion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:27 PM
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I try to make sure that I am entertaining and meeting the needs and wants of my partner, but I’m not a selfish lover, I understand it’s not all about me…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:25 PM
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I think most men would agree, probably because it is designed around the wants of men generally
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:23 PM
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Yeah, and a lot of men don’t like a lot of things that they do for women but it’s a give-and-take if you want a successful relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:21 PM
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I’m sorry to hear at 35 you feel like your already past all that, I’m 35 and feel like I’m at the peak of my life in all areas
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:28 PM
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True, but in the first six months guys act a lot more like they do in the romcom and girls act a lot more like they do in adult movies, maybe we are all being set up for failure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:27 PM
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Haha for some perhaps, but there are over 500 NBA players doing it so clearly realistically possible
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:25 PM
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Sure everyone has a different levels they’re willing or able to do, Like I said when the sex goes from wild and fun to all the sudden 10 minutes in missionary, and the partner says what you have done before in the past is unrealistic thats nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:23 PM
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Exactly it’s all about effort and mindset… but it’s unfair to say it’s unrealistic. It’s absolutely realistic. Maybe not every time but you from our long sex in multiple positions, hot heavy, and passionate to 15 minutes in missionary and then saying that the prior is unrealistic is bullshit and a cop out
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:21 PM
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Well, that’s what I’m saying for those people 15 minute sex is the reality, but if you were to go from our long sex then all of a sudden switch to 15 minutes and was told that our lung sex isn’t realistic you wonder how it’s not realistic when that’s what you’ve been doing since the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:19 PM
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You just haven’t found your niche
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:17 PM
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Yes, and romantic comedies and love novels and other things of this type have been ruining relationships because people expect it to be like that, but honestly, if we all try to be a little more romantic or whatever our partner desires we would all be in a better place. Effort is key, men are a lot more romantic and date women and make them feel a lot more important than the first six months when that wears off a lot of men are upset. It’s the same story
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:16 PM
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True but women who read them desire and expect it regardless, but honestly, it wouldn’t hurt if all of us tried to be a little more like this if our partners desire it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 06:14 PM
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Exactly I wasn’t referring to when you see one girl get fucked by nine guys, come on, I’m just talking about wild fun enjoyable sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:50 PM
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Obviously there is different degrees of porn, I’m not talking about hard core weird shit, but rough enjoyable wild sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 05:49 PM
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I think that if you are going to sleep around, do your best to keep it on the low, being known to sleep around, has never done anything positive for anybody. if you’re known to sleep around people who want to sleep with you are going to try to sleep with you I’m not sure if that puts you greater risk for sexual assault, but it definitely will make people think you’re an easy target for an easy lay. Man or woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 10:07 PM
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To feel respected and appreciated That literally is all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 07:17 PM
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Yes it is, celibacy is not monogamy. It’s a violation of trust and very destructive to relationships, of course this only counts if there’s no abuse or other bad shit going on from other partner
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:57 PM
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A women will divorce you for not fulfilling her emotional needs/ not telling her she’s pretty enough/ not enough gifts or flowers, but if the sex stops completely for years and the guy leaves he’s a shit bag
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 02:01 PM
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If you want to cheat your partner out of the monogamous relationship that you have agreed to then just do it and continue being celibate. Then face the consequences when your spouse divorces you for not upholding your end of the deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:52 PM
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Denying sex in marriage is not cheating, although I do believe that withholding sex in marriage is just as damaging as cheating and is abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:47 PM
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Although the way he puts it is blunt and I don’t agree with the wording he’s not inherently wrong. a majority of the time women will friend zone the good guy And sleep with the losers and felons. Women like the bad boys, the free spirits, whatever you want to call it. I’ve seen it many times women throw away a good life with an honest man with a good career and a home for one run with the bad boy. But you don’t need to be abusive or manipulative. The key is to just be indifferent. The less you g…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 12:03 PM
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Being able to raise your own children and not have to go to work is an absolute privilege. It’s not always easy and can wear you out But there are parents out there who do not get to see their children more than a couple minutes in the morning and a couple minutes at night. There are mothers and fathers in this world who miss out on their whole child’s childhood. As a father working in a blue-collar industry, I know that I would kill to be able to not have to work and spend every minute raising …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 11:27 AM
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Resentment leads to sexual withholding further destroying the relationship… 2 wrongs don’t make it right… but three rights make a left….
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 10:33 PM
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Very true I agree!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:48 PM
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Damn well now on this fictitious scenario she had a baby and has cancer and mental health issues, yeah you probably shouldn’t be trying to get your sexual needs met, but I doubt many people are in that scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 08:47 PM
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Well not saying nothing wrong in relationship but little shit wrong, like partners messy, or doesn’t clean enough, or doesnt cook dinner enough or watch the kids or whatever things that are annoying but isnt a relationship breaker
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:50 PM
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Sure, as a man be ready to pay, child support, spousal support, and lose your house and see your kids hardly ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:37 PM
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Obviously healing time is mandatory and sleepless nights take a toll on stress levels but that’s a stage of life and doesn’t explain 6+ months of sexless marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:29 PM
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Nope not at all if there’s a reason they should not just lay there I’m not saying that at all, I do think it’s interesting you jump to the woman a victim and the man the bad guy when I have kept this post very gender neutral. If you’re being abused or have another reason you shouldn’t even be there anymore. I’m talking about people who have a good relationship but just decide that their sex drive isn’t there so their partners sex drive won’t be met either
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:24 PM
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I disagree I think anyone with a high income and their life together is potentially at risk of someone trying to take advantage
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:20 PM
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If one partner wants sex and the other does not and this goes on for long periods it’s withholding, yes, I’m not saying there is not justified withholding but it’s withholding none the less. It’s no different than if one partner decided they were not happy at the other partner for whatever reason and started withholding money or love or anything else. It’s not good. And it never makes a relationship better for either partner
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 07:01 PM
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Thank you for your honest response, I agree with you that having sex with your partner when you don’t feel like it is a good idea because your partners needs are important, not always, it’s ok to say no, but most of the time you should always put your partners needs above your own if you love them and they should also put your needs above theirs as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:54 PM
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Do you think that if one partner begins with withholding sex that the other partner should be allowed to start neglecting other marital duties as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:49 PM
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So a baby is an ok reason to neglect your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:48 PM
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Most yes, but you can’t tell me there are not hundreds of cases of people playing the game to get a free ride whether they are male or female, and once they have the person locked down, they quit playing the game
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:46 PM
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Does everyone have to right to have sex with a willing party if the spouse decides sex is off the table? I believe everyone has the right to a sexual life with a consensual adult partner, why should someone be able to enter a union that is sexual in nature and then decide neither of you are going to have sex anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:45 PM
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Thank you feminist women entitled to my wallet appreciate the input and living up to your name
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:42 PM
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So you don’t believe it happens and everyone is lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:40 PM
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So let’s look at this this way you date for a few years, get engaged and then get married three months into the marriage. One of the partners becomes absolutely aweful to be around just mean and hateful all the time, Most people would consider that an entrapment. Because the person changed the way they acted and who they were as soon as marriage started. How is that any different than physical affection and sex declining to none 3 months in?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 03:58 PM
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Yes, chances are she was the problem not all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 07:17 PM
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