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I'm not accusing you all of hatred. For people who are going their own way from someone, why do you spend so much time discussing those people? (Almost exclusively in fact). If I move on from something, I don't spend time obsessing about it.
/r/MGTOW03/01/20 02:18 AM
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If you are truly going your own way, why do you all spend so much time discussing how horrible women are? Why do you care what they think?
/r/MGTOW31/12/19 06:51 PM
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Well, it's been fun guys, but I'm leaving PPD. These last couple of weeks I've had to spend more time reporting comments for breaking the rules, than I've had time to actual comment and read through threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/18 06:18 PM
6

So yes, pornstars are better at sex than the average woman. Then why do men hate sluts so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 10:13 PM
1

LOOK UP THE FUCKING DEFINITION OF INTERCHANGEABLE.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 10:12 PM
2

But this is like, your biggest fantasy (supposedly - I mean, why else would you mention it here)? I never said that. It's one of many fantasies. I brought it up to my boyfriend. He denied it. We've moved on to trying other kinks. Again, threesome = gangbang, gangbang does not necessarily = threesome. I don't know how much clearer I can make this. Then that isn't "interchangeable". Don't criticize me for "not knowing what I'm talking about" when you don't even know what the fucking words you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 09:10 PM
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you've been fantasizing about a fivesome with 4 other guys for God knows how long, and the only reason you haven't done it is because your bf wouldn't allow it - and it never occurred to you to ask him why We already have a ton of stuff on our kink list to try. I'll ask him after we exhaust that. Well, no - because it's a threesome. Not all gangbangs are threesomes, but all threesomes are gangbangs - and are often described as such. So, they aren't the same thing in porn, as I had said.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 09:01 PM
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And I'm not saying that it isn't. If my boyfriend and I ever break up, I may try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:47 PM
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why is your bf supposedly ok with you getting dicked by one other guy, but not four? I don't know why he feels the way he feels about this. I never asked. They aren't. The terms "threesome" and "gangbang" are often used interchangeably in porn The fuck it is. If check out the threesome category, I don't get four or more dudes plowing a girl. It's a worse disappointment than when people use the double penetration tag and it's just spitroasting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:45 PM
2

If they were the same, why are they different categories in porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:11 PM
2

Because one other dude is a whole different ballpark than 4 other guys? Are you even for real with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:07 PM
0

Read above. I'm not going to go against my boyfriend's wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 08:06 PM
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Just because I'm a sex fiend doesn't mean I cheat on my boyfriend. That's why you take it up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:39 PM
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Defunding sports is wholly counter productive to getting Americans into shape and that chicken-little attitude is by no means justification for it It would have no effect. The main reason Americans are so obese is because of their diet. If everyone picked up a sport today for 30 minutes a day, they wouldn't suddenly become not obese if they were still stuffing their faces with cake. You'd see a much better effect if we stopped putting high fructose corn syrup and sugar in everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:32 PM
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My boyfriend is the one who arranges the threesomes. You'll have to bring it up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:32 PM
4

You do realize I met my boyfriend by fucking dudes off of Tinder, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:28 PM
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Are you kidding? It sounds awesome. A dick for each hole and one for each hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:24 PM
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No it doesn't. Do you really think that people who play college level sports would be obese otherwise? Come off it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:22 PM
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Is that what I said? I don't think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:19 PM
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Okay, but why does it even matter at his age?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:12 PM
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You women just hate it cuz it showed men how awesome sex could be and most of you will never be able to live up to that cuz most of you suck in bed. And yet my boyfriend won't let me get plowed by 5 dudes. This is some sexist bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 07:07 PM
0

Okay, and...? Very few people meet their long-term SO in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 06:38 PM
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Because we could put the funding towards actual education.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 05:15 PM
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Do you look for two different kinds of men with different distinct sets of qualities for long- and short-term relationships? I don't look for different men, but my standards are waaaaaaaaay lower for the short-term.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 05:12 PM
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Really telling that we care more about an event that happens once every four years than the long term future of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 05:08 PM
0

Only 50% of guys have girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 04:05 PM
5

Haha. Love this adorable misunderstanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 04:05 PM
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No such thing as a single mom in today's society. Sure there is. You're only looking at this from the monetary side of things, but there's a more powerful motivator at work: shame. Most people don't want to to beg from other people for money, and single moms are looked down on in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 02:05 PM
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No one really wants to be a single mom...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:52 PM
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Not to mention, you can get arrested for fighting on a plane.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:40 PM
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Women who want kids of their own and still don't have someone so tend to get desperate because there is a time limit on that. The ones who don't have kids, well meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:36 PM
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Jesus Christ. TRP really has taken over this sub. Though I appreciate that they brought the nice subheader formatting with them on long posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 12:32 AM
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ok, maybe not the ONLY thing but i think youd agree that its the most important thing for most straight men. Great. And that's not the same thing as "women only offer sex" so we're in agreement.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 09:04 PM
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Of course I might be wrong but all evidence shows that men place much more importance in sex than women do And I'm not arguing with that. Your argument is that men only place importance on sex, which you seem to be getting from your personal experience and placing it on other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:52 PM
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Can't argue with your totally made up statistic. Congratulations, you win.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:47 PM
2

Talking about larger populations, the only thing men really offer is sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:42 PM
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I think I'm going to leave at the end of week. I spend more time reporting comments for breaking the rules than I do actually engaging in debates these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:32 PM
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Well im not a woman so i would know for sure. But what ive heard women say is they want a man to protect them n support them n deal with all their emotional b.s. And yet, I don't want that. So they're only good for sex. Or. You can take the more nuanced approach of every person has something different they want out of a relationship, and so the opposite gender has something different to offer to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:31 PM
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Really, what do men offer?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:21 PM
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This sub really has just become a replacement for TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:13 PM
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Which the answer would be nothing cuz thats all women provide of value, that men would want anyway. Just like men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:12 PM
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Nothing. Sex wouldn't be enjoyable for me if I no longer had a clitoris. I'd probably just let him go.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 08:11 PM
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It does now. However, historically Japanese and Jewish people have been placed in internment camps. All it takes for people to decide you're some sort of threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:17 PM
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Sure it works until you are put into an internment camp without due cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 07:03 PM
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I have a boyfriend. Go talk to all the women who are lamenting about "where all the good men have gone".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 06:23 PM
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But men in PPD do the same thing...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 06:22 PM
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Why aren't they coming out to congratulate the Chinese for holding 800K Muslims in internment camps? Nobody should be congratulating that. You may disagree with a person's beliefs and actions, but throwing people in internment camps is inhumane.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:25 PM
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Right, hypocrites gonna get called hypocrites. That's how it works. Great, then take it up with the feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 05:08 PM
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Depends on the person. Personally, I met my boyfriend by sleeping around. So why are women forgiving of promiscuity in other women but find it gross in men? Because those women are hypocrites. Plan and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:53 PM
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We can't be "placing unrealistic beauty standards" upon women while also being willing to fuck anything and everything It's not wholly mutually exclusive. A man may fuck everything that moves, but only be willing to commit to someone extraordinarily beautiful. That being said, I'm not going to reply to anything you say since this is inevitably going to devolve into "BUT FEMINISTS SAY THIS".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 04:42 PM
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but 48 percent seems quite high. I believe that is a straight "how many marriages end in divorce" statistic. It doesn't account for the people that may divorce 3-4 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:16 AM
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Fucking got him.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:12 AM
1

We don't really ban people permanently around here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 01:10 AM
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Hence the broad social push to make men women again. Jesus Christ. Do you have proof of the conspiracy to make men into women?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:40 AM
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Both of my parents are severely overweight, so I have no fucking idea what you're talking about. They work because they have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:33 AM
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My mom just got hired at a new job and she'll be turning 60 soon. My dad got hired about a year back and he is in his 60s. Stay relevant in your field and don't just rely on your experience, and it's easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/18 12:23 AM
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People have been let go even after 9 or 10 years. Okay, and is the field going away or something? Most people can find another job at another company.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 11:46 PM
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Fertility years are like coupons to get something good at the market. Somebody told them they could get a beta no-matter-what after it was all over. Reality says different, and if you're not careful nobody will want you. What the fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 11:41 PM
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If I have my life together, why is it such a terrible thing to want a partner who has the same. Also, why is it women's fault men's standards are so low?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 11:41 PM
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I don't know. It looks like the statistics here are that women take criticism better than men (at least in the workplace).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 11:36 PM
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You realize you're talking to a woman right? One who has been in a long distance relationship for 1.5 years now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 02:36 PM
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How does Compromising does not mean you’re not happy, you’re not attracted, you’re not committed, etc. Not explain the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 12:07 PM
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God. What low effort responses from both sides. This sub really has gone to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 12:05 PM
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¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Some people hate loneliness more than misery.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 02:57 AM
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Read through the full comment...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 02:47 AM
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I agree, but there are a lot of people who feel they need to be in a relationship to be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 02:43 AM
3

I'm talking about the people who are truly desperate to be in a relationship. Everyone would like to be in a relationship, but some are okay with waiting until the right person comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 02:15 AM
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The people who feel they have to be in a relationship usually end up settling in my personal observations. The people who are okay with being single end with someone is good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/18 01:55 AM
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That's why they're okay when there's a piece of glass in between you and the demon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 05:16 PM
2

What is with the influx of RPers who don't understand the fucking rules of CMV posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/18 04:12 PM
1

Maybe we have too many kinks to list.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:40 PM
3

Woman: Judgemental Poor hygiene Mean
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:38 PM
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about what these loony men think I mean... We're all a little loony here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 06:49 PM
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This is actually an excellent idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 06:47 PM
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I'm not sure if it's even all radical feminists, but a subset of women who think that women have to live a certain way. Women should be able to be stay at home moms if they want, career women if they want, or some mixture of the two. That being said, they aren't entitled to whatever life they want, and have to work towards it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 05:47 PM
1

All that matters is that a few of them did it which logically leads to the fact that all of them would, because AWALT. That isn't logic, at least not sound logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 04:26 PM
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I made extra popcorn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 03:42 AM
0

Did you watch the video you linked? She looks pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:54 AM
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every single guy who is saying #metoo has gotten him paranoid has 100% grabbed a female subordinate's ass at some point So basically they should be because they actually are sexually harassing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 01:52 AM
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How were we able to enslave black people if they're equal? Laws with punishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 08:10 PM
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your GPA in organic chemistry I mean OChem is hard, so I'd be lying if I said I wasn't a little impressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 06:59 PM
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Maybe don't phrase things like an absolute statement and then he upset when people only need to provide an example that it isn't an absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 04:50 PM
1

Right? Dating is a trial period to see if someone is right for you. Breakups happen and should be expected in that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 04:48 PM
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That must be why I'm dating someone who works at a coffee shop when I make six figures. Because I only care about money and status.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/18 04:47 PM
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Okay, so it's not just me who noticed the crazies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 11:19 PM
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Agreed. Multiple orgasms mean nothing if a woman has a much lower sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:37 PM
3

But clitoral stimulation feels way better with a dick inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:00 PM
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You only want a man for his money. That is the definition of being a gold digger. And I'm not obligated to defend anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:00 PM
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It's amazing that you don't even consider what his wife might want, like she's incapable of having her own wants and desires. Case in point, my boyfriend and I are both bisexual. We both want to bring people into our bedroom at some point. Stop pushing your own thoughts of what a relationship has to be on other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:40 PM
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The fact that you think attraction is solely based on a man's income.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:37 PM
3

She puts a roof over his head and food on his table and he also gets to fuck a bunch of women. This is insane. If he was getting cucked it would be somewhat fair. You don't know that their threesomes don't ever include men Nothing makes my pussy dry faster than a broke man. You're either not a woman or have serious issues. Either way, I wish you the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:09 PM
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Oh... Oh no.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:05 PM
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Right? Being on top is the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:03 PM
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Relationship sex is better than casual sex. You're with a guy who cares about your pleasure. You know him and feel safe enough with him to try riskier things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 04:02 PM
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The way he said "mean anything to us" makes me think these were threesomes, not cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 03:58 PM
2

Is there something stopping you from rubbing it yourself while he's thrusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 03:55 PM
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They want a woman who's only a slut for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 05:39 AM
3

Neither. I don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 04:36 PM
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Right? Fucking weirdos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 01:13 PM
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Agreed. My dad's trying to tell me some bullshit how I should pass on our great genetics. Dude, we're average people. Get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/18 03:30 AM
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If you're going to be condescending, then fuck off
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 08:56 PM
1

There's only one woman candidate for every 25 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:48 PM
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But I had about 50% women in my CS classes. Not in my math classes, but that's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:46 PM
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Then why have they not hired more women than just me if they cared so much about diversity?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 07:29 PM
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The incels subreddit isn't just low value men. They're also men who hold disgusting views such as "women should be raised on farms for breeding purposes" which is why it was quarantined / banned.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 06:57 PM
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Must be why I'm only female software developer on my team.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 06:32 PM
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What other Reddit subs? I'm sure there's a very different reason women are laughing other than being "lesser".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:50 PM
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If you're just going to write weird song lyrics instead of talking like a human being, I'm going to end this here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:44 PM
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I was never looking for someone who had a career though. I figured if we were both career people, we'd basically never see each other. I had trouble finding boyfriends in the past because I was chonky.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:26 PM
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The fact that you think career women have so little of a life that they sit around laughing at "lesser men".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:24 PM
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As a career woman, just... What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 05:00 PM
2

Hmm last time I checked none of those things should be involved in flirting with strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 04:57 PM
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#beepboopmotherfuckers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:16 AM
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You can just do a backslash to keep the pound symbol from doing the thing: #gotyourback
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 02:00 AM
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It's beep boop, you fucking heathen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:45 AM
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And that's their choice...? I'm not sure what your point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/18 01:43 AM
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Is it really over-parenting? I think it really depends on how many hobbies the kid has.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:23 PM
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Children aren't really affected by DB to begin with...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:22 PM
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?? You really think this guy got sacked from his job because he wrote a poem?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:21 PM
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Too many children grow up being treated like the center of the universe and are insufferable little shits as a result. And on the other hand, a lot of children are neglected and also have behavioral problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 07:11 PM
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Because you don't know that you won't be wet until you start the act? Take sex with my boyfriend for example. Sometimes I'm soaking through my panties and sometimes my vagina just decides to dry up completely and we have to use lube. Point is you don't know how your vagina is going to act until the actual act.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 03:31 PM
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I feel like there's a lot more of the story than "I wrote a poem".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:44 PM
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This. And then she probably denied it because she was embarrassed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:41 PM
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I'd probably mind it then, but you're literally reaching for a worst case scenario, or arguing that the collective of men is THAT bad at sex. Not really a worst case scenario nor indicative of the man's skills. If a woman isn't wet, it hurts. Simple as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:36 PM
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If sex isn't validating then why do women even take part in casual sex? Because it feels good?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:28 PM
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Oh bby you know you can't resist my frame. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:58 AM
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It might be fun if you get afternoon shifts. From what my boyfriend tells me, people can be kind of bitchy in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 02:09 AM
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Oh, haha. From what my boyfriend says, it has its ups and downs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 01:55 AM
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I don't know. I came in through the front.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 01:46 AM
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Having my relationship constantly undermined is sooo much fun. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 01:45 AM
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Relationships are like sweatpants- idgaf if you like mine, I am the one in them and you’re not invited. How do you know I'm not in your sweatpants. ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 01:44 AM
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However, if he was behaving perfectly reasonably and she left because his behaviour did not meet some ideal she had in her mind; that would be conditional. Okay, and how is that different than a man leaving because she gained weight? The point is that once that man finds you physically attractive, you would have to behave pretty unreasonably for him not to develop some affection for you. That's no longer beauty and not what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 08:58 PM
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they won't commit to them given other options . That guy does not have an abundance of prospects and if he's treated well would likely get marry her. Sounds like you just agreed with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:38 PM
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We are encouraged to do so. I can't tell you how many fucking people think my boyfriend is taking advantage of me because he works at a coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:37 PM
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Also, leaving a girlfriend does not mean that a man does not still love her Then why does a woman leaving her boyfriend mean that her love was only conditional? If someone needs an inordinate amount of upkeep or invasive intervention to look beautiful, then they are not naturally beautiful and therefore not physically beautiful in any real sense. Welcome to the life of the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:28 PM
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They will fuck them. They won't commit to them given other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 07:27 PM
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Men will associate it with that person forever. Most men do not. How many men do you see staying with their girlfriends when gain a couple hundred pounds? When we think of conditional, we generally think more in terms of behaviour, not merely being. Beauty isn't a state of being. There's a lot of upkeep that must be done in order to keep it. Very few women are naturally beautiful with no work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:28 PM
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Beauty inspires that kind of idealistic love in men though Okay, and beauty doesn't last forever. It's a condition in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 04:30 PM
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Men love idealistically and women love conditionally That must be why all the fatties with hearts of gold are with super models, right? Because men love so idealistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 01:31 PM
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I don't know if I can be more sarcastic than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 10:32 PM
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Y'all just hate masculinity while secretly loving it. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 09:32 PM
1

This is why we invented the term EOD. "Can you get to this by EOD?" Sets when you want it done by but also lets the person say no so you can find someone else or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 05:01 PM
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Wow. That would piss me off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 04:59 PM
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I'm on the hands train as well. They're so lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 01:02 AM
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What the fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 06:35 PM
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Couldn't this vary wildly from personality type to personality type?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 04:37 PM
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I'm so glad Thanksgiving is over and I'm home. I never thought I would ever be tired of eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:30 PM
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Crazy talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 07:18 PM
2

I feel personally attacked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/18 06:57 PM
6

ITT: A bunch of guys who don't understand that not all guys want to bang all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:47 PM
3

He's trying to say that he's a beta orbiter or some bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 04:47 PM
4

There was dating on Myspace?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 03:15 AM
5

My boyfriend orders way more stuff online. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:57 PM
3

I like everything that isn't country.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:29 PM
1

I didn't have any men asking me out in real life. That's why I chose online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/18 05:27 PM
4

I get that, but that assumes sex from any woman is equal and that men will always say yes to sex with any woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 03:21 PM
3

So how does women just wanting sex fit into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 05:20 AM
3

No reaction in particular. I just buckled up and lost the weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 09:41 PM
2

Dicks are a form if currency now???
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 05:49 PM
4

Many women today have fallen under the feminist spell that they can act as men do and have the same success in life. Huh. TIL that I didn't get a math / computer science degree and are making six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 02:25 AM
9

I'm not attractive enough to have orbiters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 02:18 AM
2

Heh
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/18 05:11 PM
1

I have no clue. Isn't dating how you figure out if someone is worth dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 09:36 PM
1

Shorts and a spaghetti top is not revealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:58 PM
11

Leslie and Ben from Parks and Recreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:57 PM
6

Calling it now Jaime is going to kill her by the end of the series.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:55 PM
7

Wow you are really reading into meaning that isn't there. The message is "bad people do good sometimes. It doesn't mean their overall message is good."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:49 PM
9

Ah yes, because wearing shorts and sleeveless tops when it's 90 degrees outside just means I want to get fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 02:45 PM
1

Tinder while I was attending a gaming convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/18 03:19 AM
4

Maybe his wife found his Reddit account.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 06:22 PM
15

Women like when you have your own thoughts, not just parroting back what they say. Granted, this might be more of a human thing than a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 06:21 PM
2

Like 60:40?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/18 05:38 AM
7

By women who think relationships are the only way, yes. It's no different than people think pre-marital sex is wrong telling people who do have it that they're awful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:48 PM
26

I feel like it's okay to use women for sex if you both agree to a NSA situation That's not usually the situation when talking about using a woman for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:29 PM
1

I think it has to do with what percentage of women have a feeler personality type. My recollection is that it's pretty evenly split between thinkers and feelers when it comes to women, so I think it's about 50%, not a small minority.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:27 PM
1

If I had to take a gander, it's probably what percentage of women are of the feeler variety. I think that's roughly half?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:16 PM
3

I was when I wasn't in a committed relationship or even sexually active because my periods were infrequent and hard to track. BC guarantees a monthly period.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:15 PM
1

No, I'm sure there are some touchy feely women where they feel that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 10:01 PM
1

In a relationship maybe? But sometimes I'm just horny and want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 09:42 PM
2

I haven't personally experienced it yet, but my mom's an INFJ, so I've seen it second hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 07:33 PM
1

The INFJ doorslam is scary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 06:28 PM
1

No. Mostly because I think about sex periodically throughout the day, and I don't need people being able to see that I'm thinking about sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 05:23 PM
2

So finding flaws in being a man means we're incapable of thinking hypothetically? Okay bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 05:11 PM
2

I'm not saying they're being honest about their flaws. I'm saying it's a symptom of being a bitchy woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 04:01 AM
2

Talkin about like 'oh can you handle me?' This just sounds like something bitchy women say. Like "if you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best" kind of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 03:12 AM
5

Sure, there is. "Both sides have good points. Both sides have flaws." Boom. Purple pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/18 02:54 AM
3

shudders
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 11:04 PM
23

It's always amusing when women think 'free and empowered' increases their relationship value, I don't think anyone thinks that. They just like being free and empowered.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:29 PM
2

When I was having trouble getting into a meaningful relationship. Funnily enough, that's how I got into one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:27 PM
5

Wow thanks. Great discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 10:24 PM
5

For fucks sake, I'm not talking about length of time, I'm talking about whether or not women are actually ogling men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 09:29 PM
2

So you don't think it matters the discussion about women not ogling men as much and then turn around and say "yet have no problem doing those same things themselves." You're just taking the discussion I'm trying to have and forcing your assumption on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 08:45 PM
4

Erotic imagery is not just a dick. And I'm at work so I can't look at that subreddit, but I'm guessing it's a whole lot more gay men than women. So I'll ask you again. Do you think a woman would receive a picture of a dick with the same excitement as a man receiving a picture of a vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 08:30 PM
3

Jesus Christ. Let me ask a different question. Do you think a woman would receive a picture of a dick with the same excitement as a man receiving a picture of a vagina?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 08:13 PM
3

You seriously think women openly stare at men as much as men ogle women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 08:07 PM
4

Great discussion OP. Every response that disagrees with you is met with "Well, I don't believe in man bad, woman good".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 07:43 PM
5

Tell that Junko Furuta.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 07:39 PM
3

How do you restrain yourself from murder at that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 07:36 PM
6

^this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 03:31 PM
8

80% the of men are unattractive based on their dating profiles. I don't know if you've seen the pictures men take of themselves, but they aren't exactly flattering.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 02:24 PM
8

Because saying he's got a thick dick isn't something you can say in polite company.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 02:23 PM
1

No. No correction. Guys don't just randomly come up and have conversations with me. He was the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 02:15 PM
5

Nope. To this day, I've been only asked out once and that guy was wasted and wrote down a wedding date within an hour of talking to him so he was probably crazy too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 03:04 AM
3

Right, but that's why I mentioned frequency and length of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 02:05 AM
2

I agree with your examples, but your tldr is too simple. If someone needs a shoulder to cry, it's become my problem, so I guess it's also a frequency and long period of time thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 01:28 AM
5

Hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 01:07 AM
11

Having insecurities != Being insecure. Being insecure is when you force people to constantly validate yourself. Having insecurities is just human. Needy is when you appear to be incapable of living your life without the person. I shouldn't have to feel bad if I want to go to the store or the gym without you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:21 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 07:42 PM
4

Online. I'm horribly awkward in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:45 PM
5

No, it's probably because people on the internet skew introverted and most introverts don't generally like being forced into small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 02:37 PM
24

Are you talking about "respect" as in how you would treat an authority figure you look up to or "respect" as in the common decency you should show to human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 11:02 PM
3

I don't. If he's going to cheat, he's going cheat. Me being overbearing about the subject isn't going help anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 05:02 PM
9

I wonder how many of these are dudes making money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 02:09 PM
2

I like anime. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:36 AM
3

Well from 18 on? 5 years. I didn't lost my virginity until I was 23. From when I actually first had sex, around 6 months because I'm in a LDR.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 08:32 AM
1

He's still a Chad even if no woman wants to sleep with him? Haha, okay buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 11:38 PM
1

I love made up stats. Not made up And did not know that about the overtime. That's good to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:58 PM
3

You call an extra 5k a year a "higher paying job"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:46 PM
4

At the same time, I've described my boyfriend and been told he's like a top 15% man because he's not that fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:41 PM
1

No, but low self-esteem will quickly turn off most women regardless of objective attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:37 PM
1

Yes. I was raised as a Christian, and women are supposed to respect and defer to their husbands and men in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 10:30 PM
5

Good luck as a guy getting a date let alone getting married without being a breadwinner. And last time I check overtime was a thing. Yeah and good luck to the women who are the breadwinner. They're more likely to get cheated on, statistically. Overtime is not a thing if you're salaried.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 03:27 AM
1

Your point is to move the goalposts so far from your original comment apparently. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:08 PM
5

They don't anger me at all. I just find your "righteous anger" hilarious when it's just your profit margin you're really worried about.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 08:06 PM
1

the chubby teddy bears are pretty damn muscular Still against your original point, which was that they're muscular. Not that they aren't super fat, since chubby has never meant obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 05:51 PM
9

That really eats into your T-shirt sales, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 05:47 PM
1

. Most other subreddits would automatically permanently ban users for some of the antics they pull here. Yep. I got banned from /r/askwomen because I posted in another subreddit about the irony of having a comment that askwomen is waaay stricter than /r/askmen removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 05:46 PM
11

If a guy I'm dating has sex with another girl, he doesn't get a second chance with me. Ding ding ding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:51 AM
4

This really is a catch 22. You can state that you are humble, but that's kind of bragging about being humble. The opposite works as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:50 AM
1

I'm not going to be posting my boyfriend on here, but this picture of Seth Rogenis basically his body, except way hairier <3
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 03:47 AM
0

Be nice, goat.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 06:37 PM
2

Right? Everyone stop reproducing! We all have something wrong with us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 06:37 PM
9

That's some fucking CSI shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 02:36 AM
3

And he completely misunderstood your dig at him...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 07:17 PM
5

They feel a sense of chemical satisfaction, they're just addicts chasing a high. But that's all people ever do...? Are all people just addicts to you, incapable of agency?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 04:16 AM
5

you don't do anything for other people, you do it for yourself, Okay, what does donating blood or money give people, provided they tell no one about it? the idea that humans are altruistic is just a tool to protect our egos. Okay, so is this a human issue or a women towards men issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 03:40 AM
7

TIL I don't care about my boyfriend, despite working on moving states for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 03:24 AM
7

Women don't have to choose between relationships and other things, they have plenty random schmucks around willing to put up with their bs. Because apparently women care nothing at all for the people they're with. How could you do that to someone you care for?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/18 03:05 AM
1

The earnings wage gap between men and women in there 30s clearly shows that employers prefer to hire women over men, and this will only continue to grow exponentially in the coming years. Men are also more likely to take riskier job opportunities such as start ups. Is that shown in your data?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 09:35 PM
3

The Op Op? Or the guy I replied to?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 04:54 PM
2

Those are really two end of extremes. I wouldn't want him to treat me like his exes, but at the same time, I spend at least $100 on my boyfriend on birthdays and Christmases. I wouldn't want to be with him because he clearly cares less about me than I do about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 03:56 PM
3

Sad boop.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 03:53 AM
1

5'2". A wee bit chunky. I have a relatively pretty face, round with big disney-esque eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 02:17 AM
1

Yeah, that was me a couple of years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 09:55 PM
1

So you're advocating homelessness in order to maybe make more money? No wonder the homeless population skews male.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 09:54 PM
2

When another person is living their life with you, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 09:49 PM
4

Setting your loaded question aside, I'm currently playing Undertale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:36 AM
3

Oh nice. Another out of touch old man. Pray tell, how are men supposed to get to an oil field to work if they have no money to travel to one?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 12:14 AM
2

Because most people without skills are replaceable?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:54 PM
2

Ouch, this hurts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:53 PM
2

That's because we don't really go outside? I'm sorry, but I'd rather stay home and play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:50 PM
5

Don't a lot more men than women die before that point? After seeing YouTube videos of the shit they do, that wouldn't surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 11:47 PM
4

Since when is not being a socially inept loser the same thing as being respected?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:39 PM
4

Do you think men with minimum wage jobs dont have girlfriends...?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 07:28 PM
3

? That's my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 07:11 PM
1

Whenever there is a huge height difference in the person I’m dating it makes kissing and things in the bedroom difficult. No difficulties if I'm on top. I don't have a height preference per se, but I do like the feeling of being completely enveloped when hugging or cuddling if that makes any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 12:30 AM
2

I like them from my boyfriend. I do not like then from random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 12:27 AM
2

Right? I find this sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 03:52 AM
1

How many partnerships do you think there are where the woman doesn't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 03:51 AM
10

Yeah. Most part-timers can't usually live off of that wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 08:51 PM
0

Dunno. I feel like it wouldn't fit most people's definition of "date".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 02:48 AM
2

Dunno. Do you have an ass that can't quit?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 02:19 AM
-1

Does hanging out in a hotel room fucking and playing overcooked 2 count as a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 01:45 AM
3

Because being a lazy do nothing is boring AF! Agreed. I need the structure a job gives me because otherwise I would probably just sit at home playing video games all day, and that really isn't good for a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 05:26 PM
3

Nothing I ever done or I could ever do in my career makes me feel as good as making a home out of my house, cooking for my partner (and I am not crazy about cooking) or take the time to find a way to make her smile. And that's great. But everyone is not like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/18 05:21 PM
7

Those people still meet people through events and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 06:29 PM
8

Yes, but I am not a normal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 05:32 PM
2

Because of their attitude towards other people. When you come across something new, do you ask people around you if they've heard of this before to prompt discussion or do you assume that it's something new and grand that they could never have possibly thought of before?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 04:48 PM
3

They think a new piece of knowledge is something new and grand that the masses haven't even tried to think about and I'm somehow the arrogant one?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 04:06 PM
16

I hate when people think they've stumbled upon some kind of hidden truth, when it's just common knowledge so nobody talks about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:44 PM
10

Yep. Online dating isn't the norm. Most people meet their dating prospects while living their lives, going about their hobbies and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:42 PM
1

The point is whatever you think the point is. There's no inherent point to anything we do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:37 PM
5

Right? I know a lot of women who found their eventual SO in their mid to late 30s. The wall is really only a thing if you want to have a ton of kids, but those girls usually aren't college educated based on statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/18 03:35 PM
3

Well I am really white. Sorry about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 02:07 PM
1

I mean usually I like to stay at home, but sometimes I just want to dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:32 AM
3

I just want to dance to music. I don't really have a style.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:25 AM
3

Here's the thing, where are people supposed to go dance and drink if they don't want to get grinded on?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:04 AM
1

I don't want children, so no?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/18 01:01 AM
0

Ain't nobody got time for that. Sleep with him if he's attractive. If he's only after sex, then he's gone.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 09:01 PM
6

Or roller derby. Those girls will fuck your shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 04:24 PM
1

I am dating a genuinely nice guy. The difference is that I can see that he is nice to everyone and not just me because he wants to fuck me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/18 01:44 PM
3

Best way, honestly. My best weeks are when I don't have to talk to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 11:26 PM
1

Do you think a tampon shaped cupcake topping is too subtle?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 06:47 PM
4

Every fucking year the downtown area puts on this big party and every fucking year I get annoyed that I can't sleep. This year, I'm going to try and take the "if you can beat them, join them" approach. Hopefully, I won't be too hungover tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 06:39 PM
5

I don't know how I could get less obvious then shoving multiple chocolate cupcakes in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/18 01:51 AM
3

Because we aren't trying to date men. Hurr Durr.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:50 PM
2

Making hypergamy - and especially hypergamous branch-swinging - illegal would give us enormous stable population of SAHFs. This is ignoring that the vast majority of people need two incomes to support kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:45 PM
2

Savage.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:44 PM
2

Do you honestly think women would push for them to be the one who gets the shittier deal? Not everyone hates their job?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 08:43 PM
6

I dig it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/18 01:29 AM
2

What discussion? You just doubled down on saying stats are wrong because they don't fit your limited experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 07:12 PM
4

My experience doesn't bear the stats out. That's all I am saying. And you as a human have the tendency towards confirmation bias and negativity bias. I've never seen anyone die from a car crash either, must mean it doesn't happen, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 06:23 PM
2

I'm asking if there's any reason why you would think the statistics are wrong aside from your own negativity bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 06:15 PM
3

Do you think it's hard to qualify leaving a spouse when they get sick?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 05:53 PM
3

So you're basically like the people who don't believe in climate change because "it's not getting warmer where I live".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 05:37 PM
2

You can believe what you want about what the "stats" say. So you don't believe in statistics?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/18 05:33 PM
4

So violence is a human trait but not a feminine trait, which leads to only one conclusion: feminine traits are not human traits. Did you actually think this out? I think they're trying to say that violence is often associated with masculinity. The corresponding female trait would probably be manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:37 AM
6

Ah shit, it happened again.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 02:23 AM
2

Are you me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 07:58 PM
5

It really is a vivid image.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 02:42 PM
9

Gifts and favors are pretty well par the course for most women. Yeah, during special occasions. That's when I give gifts as well. I don't do favors. I hate owing people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 09:43 PM
9

Right? Where the fuck are my presents and gifts. They cut me off for birthdays and Christmases when I turned 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 08:40 PM
1

Haha, 4 is not me. My boyfriend has said that he knows he's going to have to put out every time I drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 06:06 PM
4

Yes, which includes sensing people's feelings and motives. I would still can't call that emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/18 01:52 AM
1

Depends on the guy. Some guys look better with beards. Some don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 10:42 PM
5

It's usually called interpersonal intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 10:41 PM
18

GayLubeOil Red pill Woman I might've missed something recently...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 10:36 PM
2

They might say it's rape or sexual assault, not sexual harassment. If you're going to fear monger, then at least be accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 02:38 AM
2

That's not sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 10:52 PM
7

What does drunk sex have to do with sexual harassment? I'm not sure you understand the term you're using.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 06:38 PM
4

A vagina isn't a memory foam mattress, it's a muscle, which can clench under stress causing pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 06:03 PM
1

Do you have any proof of this at all? Or is this projection on your part? I'm pretty sure any woman would be traumatized by a dick being forced into her ass or vagina with no lube causing severe trauma and pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 05:53 PM
2

From his post, it seems like he's just thinking virgin / non-virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 05:42 PM
3

Seriously? Because rape is equally traumatizing whether you've had sex before or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 05:40 PM
1

Break up first. If you care for them at all, you won't hurt then any further by carrying on a charade.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 02:44 PM
4

I'm not slick, and I can't hurt my boyfriend like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 11:16 PM
3

Then I would be highly sceptical and decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 11:14 PM
6

No, why would I cheat on my doting and loving boyfriend for someone who is likely just looking for a quick fuck? Talk about throwing a perfectly good relationship away for nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 10:56 PM
2

Ohh TIL.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 06:09 PM
2

No?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 05:14 PM
1

I regret letting my social anxiety rule over my life and gaining so much weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 03:30 PM
1

She could be in Canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 03:29 PM
6

Ah the old rope a dope c*pe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/18 12:43 AM
12

I knew fun was a zero sum game. Damn it Atlas, you've doomed us all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/18 03:23 PM
2

Seriously, I don't want to hear Chad whine about his fucking jaw for the 10th time in a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 09:49 PM
9

You don't. Make better life decisions next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 01:41 PM
3

No love for nudist colonies?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 12:20 PM
1

I was also in STEM, so maybe that has something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 08:27 PM
1

To you, yes. To all men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 05:46 PM
1

Why would I respond to substance based on a fallacy? You have no actual way of knowing this is what men think even on a general level. And RP calls women solipsistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 05:45 PM
2

From a woman's point of view, I know that I, as a single individual, cannot speak for 3.5 billion humans. But maybe men are just more simplistic than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 05:04 PM
4

You speak for all men now, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:39 PM
6

Do they just never go out in public and see all the short or fat or ugly and poor men who nonetheless have wives and girlfriends? It's probably just a massive case of confirmation bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:37 PM
3

Young people aren't exactly the most forward thinking creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 04:36 PM
3

Because penises aren't stretching a muscle beyond it's breaking point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 01:24 PM
4

Why the same wouldn't happen with a lot of big dicks going in and out every weekend for years? Because a babies head is about 4x the thickness of any dick I've ever seen. Birth can also vaginal tearing. You ever see a dick do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:39 AM
1

now women don't have time to find life partners while they're still in their prime ? Most women I know meet their SO in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/18 11:29 AM
2

Just saying, I run slower than your grandma can powerwalk
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 08:43 PM
1

Welcome to humanity, bud. We like rehashing the same topics over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 08:42 PM
3

This is not gendered in the slightest. Some people are better at determining how the consequences of their actions will affect other people in their life than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 03:44 PM
1

I mean they couldn't stop me, but they could yell at me or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:14 PM
1

Probably won't win that way tho Considering I've only been consistently running for 5 weeks, that's probably not going to happy regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 08:07 PM
5

I think I'm going to try and run a 5k in a couple of weeks. Does anyone know if picking the running option, you have to run the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:20 PM
3

There are apps that let you write journal entries. PPD is not the appropriate place for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 07:05 PM
7

Fucking hell, dude. You actually think a man beating his woman to a pulp is love. I'm done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 06:51 PM
3

Do explain. Right now your statement isn't meshing with statistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 06:45 PM
5

So abusing a woman is still love in your eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 06:44 PM
3

That must be why infidelity is one of the most common reasons for divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 06:40 PM
7

If they love their woman, why would they do something that they know actively hurts the person they love?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 06:33 PM
1

Beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 03:19 AM
2

But what if I want to cope the rope-a-dope
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/18 03:00 AM
2

Dope to the cope?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 10:35 PM
2

What about under an automod?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:37 PM
2

Ackshtually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:37 PM
2

Maybe saying it twice netates the ban? Like a double negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 08:37 PM
1

There's a difference between honest and having tact. Calling someone might be honest, but it's not tactful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 06:05 PM
9

It is rape if it's intentional, but you've missed the nuance of "some men try" versus "men are trying". You've also completely dropped the cunty overreaction portion of the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 06:02 PM
7

I said it was a cunty overreaction. So if someone's standing on your toes and you yell at them to get off, that's a cunty overreaction? Today I learned women think men are trying to rape them anally, or are scared to death men will try to rape them anally. Not at all what anyone said. They said there are some men who try to slip it in without consent. This is not equal to "OMG MEN ARE TRYING TO RAPE OUR BUTTS".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 05:58 PM
15

That's because you have no idea how much a dick in the ass hurts and then you call us cunts for being upset by a sudden amount of pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 05:53 PM
1

Like with a lot of crimes, you have to prove intent, but if that can be proven, then I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 05:51 PM
9

yelping "WRONG HOLE! WRONG HOLE!!", and other such cunty overreactions. So if someone stabs me and I yell, is that a cunty overreaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 05:35 PM
4

If they want kids is the clincher to all of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 12:32 PM
2

Really, if a man likes you it would be pretty hard to scare them away if you are being honest. So you want a man who can't see red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 02:49 AM
2

Here's the context.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 01:29 AM
4

B. He didn't randomly disclose the information. He probably would've never mentioned it if the conversation didn't go in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/18 03:03 AM
6

People generally don't like doing things when it is demanded of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 05:32 PM
2

I think what people think is true love is personality compatibility at the highest level.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:22 PM
7

Is it virtue signalling when it's something I've never done in real life? I always back off when I find out he has a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:21 PM
4

Agreed. I'm not a home wrecker, but now he's a safe friend option!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 01:20 PM
27

If he's randomly disclosing this information, then he's obviously expecting some sort of guidance / experience, so no. Otherwise, if he just happens to be a virgin, then sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/18 12:38 AM
1

Where did I ever disagree with that? Next time spend less time focusing on the gender of the person and actually read what they are writing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 10:07 PM
1

And you're not even discussing at this point. Goodbye.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 09:37 PM
3

Does it matter? I don't care about putting restrictions on abortion, but it's pretty fucked up to make a woman carry to term a reminder of how she was violated.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:44 PM
2

The before picture of Chris Pratt
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:42 PM
2

Because rape doesn't exist. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:39 PM
8

Puberty now starts on average 6 years earlier than a hundred years ago, but our age of consent laws are still based on the assumption that puberty starts at 17. No, it's based on the fact that the brain is nowhere close to finish developing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:28 PM
2

This is not my grandma's situation. My grandma might be a tad on the picky and boring side, but given my grandpa's out of control drinking, she's pretty laid back.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:24 PM
1

But think of the male to female ratio!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:22 PM
1

Right, but ideally we would have something similar to a vasectomy, which is a surgery, yes. But it's also easily reversible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 05:21 PM
1

I've heard of IUDs failing before their expiration point, so not 100% foolproof.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 04:02 PM
7

Yes, given that there isn't significant fee in reversing the procedure. Otherwise, we're just sterilizing the poor at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:07 PM
1

You haven't. You've somehow conflated that "sexual attractiveness is the most important reason" and "there are other reasons besides sexual attractiveness" as two conflicting statements that can't co-exist. You never answered my prior question. "Would you stay with a super hot woman even if she treated you like garbage?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:06 PM
2

Which is why we should research a procedure that is reversible. Unfortunately, people care too much about women's fertility to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:04 PM
2

As someone who's flat-chested, hooray for ass-men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:02 PM
3

Yep. I think a lot of people think muscular = bodybuilder, not just low body fat percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 03:01 PM
1

Okay tell me what is the difference between "X is the most important reason" and "there are other reasons besides X". Those two statements are not logically exclusive. Or would you stay with incredibly hot woman even if she's a super bitch?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 02:29 PM
3

Depends if it was just because I was fat. That's easily fixable. Otherwise, I'm gone. It's only a matter of time before he cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:34 PM
1

Pothead only if he's willing to share.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:31 PM
1

I always split that way I don't owe someone sex because they bought me a measly meal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:29 PM
1

Okay, some other super hot celebrity then. It really doesn't matter who it is for the purposes of comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:28 PM
1

I said there are other reasons, not that sexual attractiveness isn't the most important reason. Please don't put words in my mouth and then call me an idiot for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:26 PM
1

So men have standards or women don't? I'm not sure what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:31 AM
6

Yup. My current plan is to get the certificate and fuck off to another country for a couple of weeks. My dad will be pissed, but fuck him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:30 AM
8

I have seen young girls shrieking hysterically over their fav female celebs too. Yep. Someone needs to try going to a Taylor swift concert. Equal amounts of shrieking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:29 AM
2

But these things have been described as far back as Ancient Greece, where young women would abandon themselves in communal hysterical Dionysian festivities, throwing all reason to the wind. And that's something that actually happened? Because this just sounds like 100% male fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:28 AM
1

I pay my half. Otherwise, there are a lot of guys that feel paying entitles them to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:26 AM
0

Well women certainly are good at virtue signalling and lying that they don't, lol. It's because most women don't understand that most men just care about looks. They don't think they have high standards just because they have some.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 01:24 AM
2

But if my partner hide some information from her life that is a dealbreaker for me, well... that is bad... It would be better if she just told me from the start. Why is she supposed to magically know what your deal breakers are? I do divulge my life story to the people I want to date, because I want the person in question to know if there is a dealbreaker in my past or present. That just seems like over sharing. I highly doubt my partner really cares about that time in the 5th grade that I was h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 07:23 PM
3

That point stands. If that guy is not the most physically attractive guy she ever dated, It would be good for her to tell him. Hiding information that could be a dealbreaker is wrong. (Again, IMO, there are no objective moral standards) Why? Literally anything could be a deal breaker for someone. Are you expected to divulge your life story to everyone you date?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 07:09 PM
1

How do you know she wasn't talking about strict physical attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 07:02 PM
1

Because there are other reasons to be dating some aside from their physical attractiveness. She may not be the hottest woman, but she may be the most fun or easiest to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:38 PM
3

What? This is true for everyone. Or are you going to tell me that all men prefer their partners to Scarlett Johansson?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 05:03 PM
1

I'm trying to picture my gramps ditching grandma and going manwhoring and its hilarious As someone whose grandpa cheats on his wife, not funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 11:48 AM
3

Cue the "why are there so many frigid bitches" from men around the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 06:13 PM
6

How do you have sex with someone you're not physically attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:17 AM
16

When a man "throws a tantrum" theres an implicit threat of physical violence that is much more than what a woman could ever produce. That makes it sound worse somehow...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 10:41 PM
2

arent like 90% of the women here intps in stem? My people!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 07:40 PM
0

Only when I haven't had my coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 07:04 PM
2

As long as they goto the guys house, they will be spared from the oppressive horrors of washing the bed sheets. That's by no means the exhausting part. Washing sheets is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 04:20 PM
2

35-40%. Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 03:25 PM
6

Yeah, but some guys are hyper competitive and don't think like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 01:50 PM
2

Having a lvl 70 WoW Mage is hot dammit! Boooo. We already have enough DPS in the world. Tank, healer, or GTFO.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 01:46 PM
2

I'm too hungover for this shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:30 PM
7

As well as different guy each evening, weekends possibly 2 or 3 different guys. That sounds exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:24 PM
9

As a former waitress, I usually tip 35-40 for this reason and because it's an awful job.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:22 PM
2

Everybody likes boobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 12:21 PM
2

Everything is relative. A prostitute is someone who has sex for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 01:12 AM
1

Por que?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/18 01:10 AM
3

Yep. Why would it apply to any other preference? A monetary preference is the only one you're having sex for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:35 PM
3

Is there something specific about a monetary preference that makes you associate it with prostitution? You only will have sex with someone who makes a certain amount of money aka you will only have sex with someone who can "afford you" aka prostitution.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:29 PM
2

Personally, I like Rahul Kohli.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:28 PM
3

Because prostitutes are allowed to turn people down for sex? So it isn't any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:22 PM
5

How is having a cut-off of money for sex any different than having sex for money?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:11 PM
6

If I wanted to be a prostitute, I wouldn't get a job that would make me $110k.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 11:05 PM
2

Queefs are awesome. Nothing feels better than laughing during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:18 PM
1

Porn
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:27 PM
12

I would say she would need to pay back all child support or a monetary form of his time. We don't need more parentless children.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 05:18 PM
4

It's fine? Sometimes women just want sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 04:05 PM
1

... I don't have cats
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:16 AM
1

I don't have an Instagram; what do I masturbate to? As I replied to someone else: "If roe vs Wade is overturned, why would Griswold v Connecticut be safe?"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:13 AM
3

If roe vs Wade is overturned, why would Griswold v Connecticut be safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 02:12 AM
2

Really? Then why do women masturbate? Will they? If birth control is no longer a constitutional right, there is no reason why condoms would still be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 10:04 PM
1

Because women love having sex in which only he derives pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:45 PM
2

They're free to close their legs, think about long-term consequences, and actually accept responsibility for their lives and their sexual access. There's going to be a lot of boyfriends whose going to be upset when they can't have sex with their girlfriends due to revoked access to birth control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 09:28 PM
2

I've been tuning out PPD for awhile, but what the fuck is happening? This is hella creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:30 PM
2

Did she bake them cookies?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 08:29 PM
4

If it was just a lack of sex, you all could hire prostitutes. Your problems run much deeper than that
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/18 11:04 AM
3

Yuck. I'll be back when it's over.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 08:23 PM
1

No, but now I feel bad. It's just 3min running and the 5 min running twice repeated with walking for half the time of previous between each.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 12:28 AM
3

Good on you. I try to buy meat from my local farmers for that reason, but then again, I don't really know what their conditions are either.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/18 12:10 AM
1

Are you doing it for ethical or health reasons?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 11:37 PM
5

what outcome would you anticipate if you sent a message to the moderators of this subreddit in which you accused me of rape? What do you think would happen? They would probably go "why the fuck are you telling us? Go to the police"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 09:50 PM
3

Do you think a woman just walks into a court room, tells the judge "he raped me", and the man goes to jail?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 08:44 PM
5

That's not how the system works...?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 08:38 PM
4

No? That's doesn't even make sense. How would you rape me over the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 08:25 PM
3

Just finished week 3 of couch to 5k. Next week looks hard. 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 08:09 PM
5

Those words also don't equate to "accuse someone of rape".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 08:06 PM
3

Because "is weird" = "accusing someone of rape". I can't even understand the mental gymnastics on this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/18 07:51 PM
1

Female. A fulfilling relationship to me is one where you're comfortable around a person; you never feel like you're going to accidentally say something that upsets them. You can come to a compromise when you disagree on something. Also, sex e'ryday.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 05:12 PM
2

I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 02:47 AM
3

Fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 03:44 PM
4

I have a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 03:05 PM
12

I would be sad. I'd have to go back to masturbating to my imagination like when I was 12 in a religious household.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 02:31 PM
5

Right? What exactly does he think Reddit is? I'm here not to be productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/18 12:56 PM
13

Well crap. Here comes the superiority of "they're trying to silence us, therefore we are right!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/18 08:02 PM
2

It took me 24 years before I started dating my current boyfriend. Not letting him go for dear life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 09:55 PM
1

It took me 24 years before I started dating my current boyfriend. Not letting him go for dear life.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 09:52 PM
8

We just meet people through our hobbies, like I met my boyfriend at a gaming convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 09:49 PM
1

giving unsolicited back rubs. Ewwww
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 09:46 PM
3

1) I'm 5'2". He's 5'11". I don't think so? I've generally been attracted to guys who around my height or slightly taller. I have no clue if it makes a difference to him. 2) I'm 25. He's a year younger. I don't think so because a year isn't really an age differential.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/18 04:31 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/18 03:07 PM
1

I will when we're living in the same city.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 09:13 PM
2

Haha. Everyone loves conditionally. If a man's girlfriend gains 300 pounds, I guarantee he would not be around or faithful for very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:46 PM
1

But he's already discussed the desire to go to college with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 06:05 PM
5

Community college classes don't always transfer to an accredited college, especially to a different one out of state.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:26 PM
3

Your point is that I don't know until shit hits the fan, but this hinges on us being a dual income household out of necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 05:20 PM
5

You make it sound like he can walk into any establishment with no college degree and get a high paying job. That's not how the world works anymore. It's either military, trade, or college. He's going to go to college,but he doesn't have the freedom to do so right now since he needs to work full time to survive in a state with a high cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:31 PM
4

He works a job! How the fuck is he a parasite to society?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:25 PM
3

Dictionary definition is "one who sponges off others and avoids work" or "one who performs a function poorly". Gee, I wonder what's wrong with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:22 PM
5

As most couples today are dual income which is a necessity really. I make six figures and don't want kids. It would be fine if he lost his job for awhile.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:17 PM
5

For fucks sake, he isn't a bum. When he comes to live with me, he's going to go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:11 PM
8

??? I'm not breaking up with my boyfriend because some random dude said he's a bum.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:07 PM
6

and the extent to which that is true is largely due to social mores rather than anything innate in my opinion Considering someone called my boyfriend a bum, you're probably right.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 04:03 PM
2

This is hilarious. This reaction is why most women only date men who make more than them because otherwise "they're a bum".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:57 PM
11

Why do people ask these questions if they immediately tell the person answering "nah, you're wrong".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:55 PM
1

We're both mid-20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:52 PM
6

It is if they are saving up money to get out of a state that has a very high cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:48 PM
11

My boyfriend works at a coffee shop and he works hard. I'm not ashamed of that. He has the desire to go to college, but doesn't have the resources to do so yet. Why would I be ashamed of someone who makes the best of their circumstances?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:34 PM
5

It doesn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 03:19 PM
4

Because you continue talking to them on the subject and find that they don't actually understand what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 02:34 PM
1

My experience is that men often don't outright say they don't understand something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/18 02:19 PM
5

My comments you mean? I haven't posted anything within the last 25 days. Tell me all about how I'm attention seeking, since I'm just a simple female.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 09:12 PM
5

Yes all the attention on a website where no one has any clue who I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 08:48 PM
12

Right? I can barely focus on trying to do keegels during sex to make myself tighter, let alone fantasizing about another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/18 04:04 PM
3

That honestly sounds like the perfect size.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 09:40 PM
3

If he's an SO or friend, pretty great. Random stranger? Not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/18 02:39 AM
1

You're not wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:43 PM
1

Im using the term as "a man I don't know came up and talked to me".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 06:34 PM
1

Nope. Didn't get approached then. Don't get approached now. Funnily enough, random people talk to me more when my boyfriend is around. He just has one of those friendly faces, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/18 11:56 AM
5

I do, but I'm not most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 09:39 PM
4

No problem so long as both genders understand that "rational fear" goes both ways. That actually sounds pretty good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 02:07 AM
1

Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/18 02:06 AM
1

I don't disagree with you. I was just pointing out that is often the justification used. To pick your brain though, would it be okay in your book to give the $600 a month directly to the mom to be used on behalf of the kid and then the extra $200 be placed in a college fund / trust fund that could only be used by the kid?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 02:37 AM
3

If people are happy with each other, why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/18 01:01 AM
2

Confidence, yes. Jockish, no. Ripped, depends on what you mean. I like lean, fit men, like Tom Hiddleston. Does that mean I'm not attracted to my boyfriend because he isn't ripped? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 07:17 PM
1

Are they? Who is going to decide who can have kids and who can't? The government? The predominantly religious government would probably make it so that only god-fearing couples can have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 02:13 PM
1

What? So there's no difference in your mind with pushing through that last rep even though you're at your limit or refusing that piece of cake on a diet to gaming non-stop for 30 hours straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 12:32 PM
6

100% agree with this. I am the furthest thing from motherly and would feel trapped if someone was dependent on me 24 hours a day, let alone multiple someones. Some women just don't have the personality or the traits to be good mothers, and we shouldn't force them to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:20 AM
2

Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:18 AM
1

Why oh why are we even allowing them to have children at all Because most of this country feels that eugenics is bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/18 11:13 AM
9

In person. You can't read personality and other non-physical traits online.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 10:33 PM
1

Was she getting messages or just matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 07:20 PM
2

Right, but child support is meant to be for the child, not the mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 02:24 PM
1

And like I said "most of your examples". I didn't say all of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 01:06 PM
5

There's a difference between will power and addiction. Most of your examples are addiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 12:40 PM
0

He shouldn't have to if he was against it from the get go and truly wants nothing to do with the kid.. But the usual argument is that the kid didn't choose to be born or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 12:37 PM
1

No...? I've been single until recently. And now we're not exactly in the same city.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 01:54 AM
1

Because people are hypocrites. They love to add bullshit qualifiers, but hate to be disqualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 03:57 PM
3

If they want to get with frigid women, let them. They're only hurting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/18 03:11 PM
1

How does that mean that I don't need to fucking unrack all the shit off the squat rack?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 10:04 PM
1

I use the squat rack, hun. Please continue to tell me how I'm not using the same equipment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 09:14 PM
1

Luckily, the squat rack at my gym are placed directly I'm front of the mirrors with no room to walk, so I don't really have this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 04:44 PM
3

So you bring up a random topic and then are unwilling to explain how they relate. Good discussion, bud.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:12 AM
1

I never see who doesn't put their weights back, just that weights aren't put back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:09 AM
2

The average human is getting in relationships and having sex. Okay. Explain to me how divorce rates somehow add something to or disprove the above statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 03:08 AM
6

So you're not trying to contribute anything to current topic and instead shoehorning a random statistic to somehow blame women...?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:52 AM
1

How do you propose he gets his act together on the few resources he has?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:26 AM
2

You need to get into a relationship to get divorced? I'm not sure what you're point is here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:22 AM
3

This is a break from the usual "muslims are taking over the world" rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/18 02:21 AM
9

Gymbro is used for the specifically obnoxious assholes that make a point to let everyone know they are the strongest in the gym. No one cares if you go to gym to do your own thing. Also, put your fucking weights away, you animals.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 07:18 PM
3

How is this any different than the men who like to dress up like babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 07:17 PM
12

You likely only notice the women you find attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 07:14 PM
1

Oh yay. It's another red pill man on here is going to dismiss anything a woman says. Explain to me how I'm making a statement about all red pill men from this.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 06:34 PM
6

Y'all females have been dismissing what men have been saying so what did you expect? Yes because we are the Borg. If one "female" does something, we all do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 04:56 PM
6

How do you explain this in the case of my relationship? I make 110k a year and my boyfriend works at a coffee shop.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:27 PM
13

Women are unable to understand context. Oh yay. It's another red pill man on here is going to dismiss anything a woman says.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 03:26 PM
2

Works for some women; doesn't work for others and that's okay. Personally, I'd be miserable as a housewife. I love my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/18 01:53 PM
3

Oh lord. Being nerdy doesn't mean you aren't naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 08:15 PM
1

Fair, that's a bit dickish.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 04:04 PM
5

we are going to probably see a lot of obnoxious aussies and Brits making stupid comments in this thread Why is their viewpoint invalid?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 02:24 PM
1

Absolutely. Most people are cunts, with a even split on the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 01:56 PM
1

I am in one. It's hard, but doable. We are always looking forward to when we can see each other again. We text each other almost every single day. And I'm working on being able to go to Austin within the next year.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 06:36 PM
1

Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 10:08 PM
7

Mama got a raise 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 09:32 PM
3

How can someone looking from the outside see whether or not someone is abiding by their internal morals or just "displaying"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 05:08 PM
4

I was a shy, awkward girl who got all the "guys will only want you if you're hot in a very specific way but also not slutty, they don't care about your personality, you need to defer to a dominant manly man to Win at Woman." Yep, same. Eventually I gave up, thinking that no one wanted to be my romantic partner because I wasn't attractive enough and too head strong. I started just sleeping with dudes, and funnily enough, one of them wanted to be my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 03:10 PM
3

So, do you believe women have no morals?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 03:08 PM
1

Society's opinion is never going to be fair though. I'm not sure what you're expecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 10:49 PM
11

I hate when people misconstrue freedom of speech with speaking without consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 08:27 PM
1

Not always. My boyfriend was originally a ONS, but he kept texting me afterward and it turned into dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 08:24 PM
1

If I got my way, I would pay for everything, but my boyfriend pouts a little if he doesn't pay for some things.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 08:22 PM
2

Haha. He looks like a character.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 03:40 AM
9

He just goes where the money is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 03:39 AM
4

For some reason I think that wouldn't go over too well with the vast majority of women. No shit. Telling people their spouses will leave them if they're unattractive doesn't go well with anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 03:38 AM
1

In the past, yes. I've gotten better.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 03:45 PM
1

Yes. It's much easier for me to understand what is being asked of me when done in a blunt manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 05:00 AM
1

Okay... And...?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:59 AM
1

Jeremy Dooley is 5'4" and is with the same girlfriend he had in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:18 AM
2

She needs it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/18 12:03 AM
2

145, but I've been strength training. I'm a size 4.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 02:17 PM
5

Lose the weight now, you fat fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 11:20 AM
1

STEM woman here. My guy works at a coffee shop...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 11:19 AM
2

Yeah the antibiotic resistance growth is crazy. The healthcare industry in America is trying to combat it, but it's kind of a moot point when you can get antibiotics over the counter in Mexico.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 11:17 AM
1

Me, I'm just here killing time. You too? Got any popcorn left?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 11:13 AM
11

Nobody cares if men go their own way. It's only an issue when "going their own way" is a constant bitching about how women are the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 10:27 PM
3

... I make waaay more than my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 05:51 PM
1

Fiiiiinnneee.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 03:26 AM
1

Who you pick to date has nothing to do with luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 02:38 AM
5

A lot of perfectly healthy people see therapists just to vent and discuss their daily / weekly challenges, to better dissect and analyze themselves. Yeah because most people have hundreds of dollars they can use to just spitball with a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 12:35 AM
2

Once in the morning before work, once in the evening after work. Easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 11:57 PM
1

But that's only twice a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 10:59 PM
1

That's up to the people in the relationship. Someone looking in from the outside might have a lower libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 10:58 PM
1

No one suggested mentally ill, Uhh the original comment did. Considering your "friend" is a nymphomaniac sex addict that's an extreme outlier wanting sex 3-5x/day at 30, I don't know what to tell you. Either she's got some serious mental issues or her hormones are well out of whack to the point of absurdity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 10:44 PM
1

Five times a day is disruptive to life. How do you schedule work around needing sex that many times a day. I was thinking five times a day on the weekends. Three is doable on weekdays.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 08:51 PM
3

No, therapy just means there's something wrong with you that needs to be fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 08:49 PM
2

You're 6 years younger and female- do you want to fuck 3-5x/day? Yes... 3x a day is usually the average when I get to spend time with my boyfriend. There's normal high libido and then there's outlier. This chick is an outlier. And why does outlier automatically mean mentally ill? I'm a female software developer. That makes me an outlier in common society. Does that mean I'm mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 08:48 PM
2

Considering your "friend" is a nymphomaniac sex addict that's an extreme outlier wanting sex 3-5x/day at 30, I don't know what to tell you. Either she's got some serious mental issues or her hormones are well out of whack to the point of absurdity. This is not normal whatsoever. What the fuck? Why do so many guys on here think a woman having a high libido is a mental illness?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 07:54 PM
6

And yet men are upset when women won't let them do the same. Hmm 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 07:52 PM
3

If I had to take an uneducated guess, I would say that a woman desiring sex five times a day is really looking for something besides sex. I would suggest personal counseling for her. Are you seriously suggesting that any woman who has a high sex drive is mentally ill?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 07:50 PM
1

Interesting... But that's just reality. Most people aren't going to mesh with the majority of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 06:58 PM
2

Join the purple pill. Most people are shitty and dating is about finding the least shitty person.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:11 PM
2

BP++, the shitty younger brother of C++.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/18 03:10 PM
1

One person at a time. I have trouble remembering things about people regardless. I don't want to make it harder on myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 05:43 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 05:42 PM
3

every relationship I had, conversation was always a waste of time, girl usually just hear what they want to. That's usually the sign of a selfish woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 01:42 PM
3

I suppose you are purple but it just so happens that men suck and women are wonderful? I can't even argue with you because you, somehow, out of everything I was saying, got that this was my position. Not some sort of middle ground where women can be abused, but some also using the movement for the wrong things, and that most men aren't rapists and abusers. But you're so far on the other end that you can't even see that metoo had some merit. I'm sure if men had a similar movement, there would be …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/18 03:27 AM
4

Funny that most of what i say is "women are just as shitty men" yet it is almost only bloops that come at me LoL I'm not blue pill. If you were to say the "all men are pigs" women are just as guilty of this, I would agree with you. However, you instead went and tried to say that the entire metoo movement is a conspiracy against men, telling them they are rapists. Not a bunch of women just sharing how they've been raped and sexually harassed (the general trend anyways - there are women who claim …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 11:57 PM
2

Point to where she is blaming all men for this problem. It could be my dumb female brain, but I'm not seeing a "all men cause this issue in their relationships" line anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 10:56 PM
1

Women are the biggest consumers hence it is tailored for them, Are the biggest consumers of media? I highly doubt that is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 10:49 PM
1

I agree, but pointing out what could be going wrong on each side doesn't equal blaming an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 10:19 PM
3

I wasn't going to mention Jezebel but you basically just said that the media propaganda that proves my point can't be used because "not real feminists" No... Feminism has nothing to do with this? What I'm saying is that media outlets whose sole way of getting readers is manufactured outrage aren't viable sources of information. This is like saying that people are outraged by Starbucks Christmas cups because media told me so, even though there's no proof that people are actually outraged.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 10:18 PM
2

I consume some media. But enlighten me on the media that "clearly proves your point". I'm sure it won't be crap like Jezebel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:57 PM
3

Nobody is saying that. If a man is spending time with his wife in meaningful ways and she is still withholding sex, she is wrong. The point this post is trying to get across is that men sometimes demand that their sexual needs be met without meeting their wife's needs and then wonder why their marriage is ending.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:53 PM
1

How is complaining about a sexual harassment incident == all men are evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:38 PM
1

I'm not sure I understand your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 09:00 PM
2

Do I really have to explicitly say one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eight, nine, ten?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 07:41 PM
13

I don't think anyone says it's easy, just that you guys are being ridiculous about being called a creep or a sexual harasser.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 06:27 PM
14

Lashing out everyone because I was hurt by one person doesn't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 05:26 PM
1

Oh no, and I'm shamed for deciding not to have children. Turns out people don't like when you don't fit into their little boxes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 05:01 PM
2

many of them do not even know that such women exist, just educating them Do you really think most men don't think women are people who are capable of shitty things?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 04:44 PM
5

Women like her is exactly why TRP exists TRP exists because some men don't realize they can actually vet women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 04:23 PM
3

Oh no, shallow women exist???? What has this world come to???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 04:16 PM
3

Really? Why not? Women like men who rock their selfishness according to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 04:13 PM
1

Really? So she knows you're just dating her until someone better comes along?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 04:01 PM
3

Selfishness usually does pay for the one being selfish, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 03:45 PM
6

Yay for wasting people's time!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 03:31 PM
14

Ehh. Real people have needs and get jealous and all those messy things. One dude is enough unless this is magically a relationship where no investment is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/18 01:55 AM
2

Ehhh. Wait until you watch the newest season. It's a bit weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/18 09:41 PM
2

maybe her spoiled lil ass shouldn't be a self centered bitch to this one, and help him do some shit instead of just expecting to be catered to like he's also her butler. Then we're in agreement. This is the shit that bothers me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 04:30 PM
4

Probably have some sort of "stop motion" with her hands, or push her palms against you somehow. Maybe turn her head away from you, but not in an "I'm trying to breath in cool air, head tilt getting ready for orgasm" kind of way. Or the full stop motion thing he said. Someone who is struggling is fine, but I've heard some women say that he needs to know based on the expression on her face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 03:55 PM
7

Congratulations. That's verbal dissent and exactly what I was talking about in my original statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 02:39 PM
6

Okay. Tell me how, in your mind, revoking consent in the middle of sex should go with no verbal indicator.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 02:16 PM
13

You've completely missed what I was saying. I'm talking about in the middle of having sex with you, and then changing your consent. I've, unfortunately, have had to rescind consent for anal in the middle because it was just too painful at that time, but I didn't rely on my boyfriend magically knowing that was the case to communicate that. Please don't attach incel bullshit to my statement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 03:26 AM
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Half of the consent movement. A man is supposed to magically know you aren't interested in having sex with him in the middle without any sort of verbal dissent. Like, I don't know about y'all, but I have my eyes closed half the time enjoying things. I'm not always watching his face.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 02:11 AM
7

Assuming you're dating a girl which checks most of the green flags ( submissive,not a party girl, low n count, has a good relationship with her father, no history of substance abuse, etc.) Lol, because every debate should start with infecting your own bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/18 01:21 PM
3

That's my boyfriend. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:07 PM
7

Weren't you just bitching in another thread that women didn't answer your questions honestly in another thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/18 10:06 PM
2

Would a wife get upset if one day the husband was like "babe, you got very fat and you need to lose 50 lbs?" Depends on the wife. If she gets upset at that obvious truth being told to her, will the marriage not last long? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 08:12 PM
2

Then it sounds like that is the type of person who gets upset at the truth and that marriage won't last long.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:56 PM
6

I never saw the thread, but I'm guessing Lewis asked it in an accusatory way given his personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:15 PM
5

Oh, you poor soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 07:12 PM
4

There are medications whose side affects are decreased libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:58 PM
2

If your wife, isn't being upfront and honest when you ask, you're going have bigger problems in the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 06:55 PM
1

TIL my hand is a hot looking man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 04:12 PM
3

all of the one particular type of dancing that you have to pay for + none of the alcohol lol You couldn't pay me to dance without alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/18 03:17 AM
13

Should be little blue pills and red pills yelling at each other, while the purple pills watch and the black pills are crying in a corner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 06:09 PM
1

Depends on the restaurant? Applebee's or Chili's? It's not like you're paying a premium to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/18 04:01 PM
8

Anything past puberty is to some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 05:38 PM
19

It looks like they're going by received messages. Young women aren't going to be sending messages to men because they don't need to. Older women do, hence the 50 year old men appearing to be more desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/18 03:52 PM
3

Christ. I'm not going to argue with someone who changes the goal posts every few seconds. Have a nice day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 04:05 PM
5

You gave the reason that they exist because the population hasn't gone extinct. By that reason, a Chad is any man who has ever had sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 02:28 PM
2

I'm going to disagree. Women may pick who their mother's pick, but they may also pick someone who is another male figure in their life. My mom has said in the past that in the past, most of the guys I showed attraction towards were similar to my brother. The guy I'm dating now is relatively similar to my uncle (before he turned into a bit of a bitter asshole because he got his heart broken). I don't think it's exclusively fathers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 02:27 PM
6

No, not at all. If anything, pain takes me out of sexy times real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 03:45 AM
3

she understands that wanting a richer, handsomer, smarter, and kinder man is hypergamous so she settles for you Jesus Christ. What is left? Usually settling means choosing which of these is most important to you. Having nothing is hard settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 04:20 PM
9

lol like gold diggers have a giant sign on their forehead. This is what I was replying to. Go ahead and change the goalposts. I'm not engaging with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 02:36 PM
8

I kind of agree with this. I mean how often do we see field reports of a RPer getting over his oneitis by sleeping with her. Once he's had the sex, he no longer cares for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 02:03 PM
13

No, but when you're marrying someone much more attractive than yourself, you have to wonder...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/18 02:01 PM
1

Mostly agree, except for creep-shaming aspect.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/18 08:18 PM
1

Ever notice how the best students are disappointed when they get nearly perfect score instead of perfect In my experience, those students often develop drug problems. The ones who succeed are the ones who understand exactly how much effort they need in order to get the grades they want (perfect doesn't always amount to much more in life than just high) and still balance that with a life outside of where they are trying to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 02:30 PM
9

Then we should really reevaluate what we think of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:18 PM
2

Good God. Do you not understand that achievements are built on failure? Nobody excels the first time. They learn from their mistakes and try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/18 01:14 PM
3

Fine. You've twisted my arm.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 04:10 PM
5

Although the spikes do dig into my bottom the more I'm perched here. That's my fetish.gif
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 03:57 PM
1

First scenario, I didn't say leave. My point still stands on the second part.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 03:09 AM
3

There’s a reason a wife crying and becoming a complete emotional wreck over a minor thing doesn’t bother men to the same degree a husband doing the same thing will bother a wife. There’s a reason if a woman lost her job and couldn’t earn a penny it wouldn’t bother a man as much as it would bother a woman. For the first point, if that's what she became out of the blue (and not during pregnancy), then I'm sure the man would bother him. People don't like drastic personality changes in their partner…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 03:07 AM
3

Well, it is hard to keep track of more than 20 meanings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 03:04 AM
1

I'd never heard of Stronglift 5x5 outside of RP for example You make it sound like no one was giving them s advice and that RP is the only source of this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 01:31 AM
2

Okay, so you just decided to ignore actual sources of fitness?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 09:00 PM
4

I'd never heard of Stronglift 5x5 outside of RP for example What? /r/fitness fucking loves the 5x5.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 08:12 PM
1

?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 08:07 PM
2

So you're one of those guys who basically finds all women attractive given a certain BMI and assumes all men are like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:45 PM
3

Oh boy. You're one of those.who believe men and women are incapable of having platonic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:02 PM
3

Looks and personality are the main things men care about when it comes to attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:36 PM
5

This is the level of paranoia men accuse women of having when trying avoid getting raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 12:33 PM
2

women don't want stable, trustworthy, passive, mature men. Lol, you just described my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:14 AM
3

Why would you marry someone that you know has a incompatible lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 02:09 AM
6

Who says you need a graduate degree to earn a high income? Don't have one. Came out of college making 90k on a bachelor's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/18 01:54 AM
2

TIL i wasn't crushing on the shy nerd I took CS classes with in college.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:13 PM
-1

Pointing out that the basis for an argument is wrong is a form of debate. Yes, he / she was a bit snarky about it, but it's still valuable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 09:11 PM
2

If he's going to cheat on me, he's going cheat. Viewing other women as a threat does nothing for me. If I found him sexy before, I would probably still find him sexy. Behavior would not change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:46 PM
2

If he's going to cheat on me, he's going cheat. Viewing other women as a threat does nothing for me. If I found him sexy before, I would probably still find him sexy. Behavior would not change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:46 PM
1

But toxic masculinity doesn't exist, guys. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 04:44 PM
2

God no. Acts like anal or rope play require that I be comfortable with a partner or it's just going to hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 03:23 PM
1

Depends on the context. If we're out at the bar, absolutely. If I'm trying to ask him to help me with a problem that has been frustrating me and's just being sarcastic, then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/18 01:56 PM
1

No. I don't want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/18 05:53 PM
5

So the answer is to do the very thing that TRP complains about. Hmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:43 AM
3

Then get a sex doll instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/18 09:39 AM
1

I personally won't do it because I don't want to hurt my guy like that. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 09:44 PM
1

Social consequences or physical consequences. For instance, reverse cowgirl sounds nice in fantasy, but it increases the risk of a broken dick. Orgies sound nice, but you could end up getting an STD if the planner slacked off. Things like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 09:17 PM
2

It's called "not sleeping with men who don't wear condoms", it's a pretty logical solution. You're just blatantly not even reading my replies anymore, are you? Here, let me bold the important part for you. When I said that, I meant that women had no alternative but to rely on the man wearing a condom or just not have sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 08:24 PM
3

You said "condoms rely heavily on the man wearing them". Therefore giving blame to men for not wearing a condom when in reality women that fuck men who don't wear a condom deliberately choose to do so. Good God, you are really reading meaning that isn't there. When I said that, I meant that women had no alternative but to rely on the man wearing a condom or just not have sex with him. There was no option for her to protect herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 07:38 PM
1

According to Wikipedia, it seems it was invented late 20th century, so sounds like no.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 06:42 PM
2

I blamed men for willfully deceiving a woman by saying he's wearing a condom when he wasn't or taking it off in the middle of sex. Again, please come back when you wish to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 06:40 PM
3

So if a man says "I'm not fucking with a condom" and you as a woman say "ok" and he decides to not pull out and you get pregnant please explain how it's the mans fault and not yours as well? That's not even close to the scenario I laid out. Come back when you decide to argue in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:56 PM
0

Are you sure they're a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:23 PM
3

My point is that both sexes should have a way of protecting themselves against unwanted pregnancies due to malicious people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:11 PM
1

No, women aren't responsibile when he says he's fucking with a condom or takes it off in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:10 PM
1

Before the 1960s?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:09 PM
3

Condoms rely on the man wearing one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 03:22 AM
1

No, but I'm saying that you will end up dropping good habits if you don't see the external rewards you are hoping for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/18 02:15 AM
2

My Q for men and women is do you separate your fantasies from reality as in if given the chance you would not choose to act them out? Simple. I weigh the consequences. An orgy sounds like fun, but in reality, there probably won't be a whole lot of people I want to bang. I'm purple Female.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 11:17 PM
2

No. 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 11:11 PM
1

Okay, and what happens when your attractiveness fades and fewer and fewer girls come along? What will you have then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 03:12 PM
1

And what happens when they leave? You'll kill yourself? You can't base your happiness on a partner because they probably won't always be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 03:06 PM
11

Also "developing" a personality has always seemed very manipulative to me but people say it like it's better than saying "act a certain way so you can manipulate a woman into having sex with you". Being funny and cool are skills, while interesting is just a way of living. It isn't acting.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 01:36 PM
3

The same way I respond to people who have said they've tried diet and exercise and still can't lose weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 01:34 PM
2

No. I think it's more impressive that someone overcomes the hurdles than someone who hasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 03:26 AM
1

Roughly around once every four hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/18 03:25 AM
8

Haha you mean like when taxes go down after whatever the reason they were raised goes away? Prices wouldn't go down.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 11:56 PM
1

Depends on why he was divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/18 01:30 AM
6

The moment when you realize you've walked nearly 20k in the past two days playing Pokemon Go.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:02 PM
2

Please. I'm way cooler, like Carolina.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 01:28 PM
2

Ooooo goat. You've been naughty.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 01:18 PM
5

No, it would be exhausting. Trying to keep multiple men happy would use up all of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 01:17 PM
3

I feel like I need to tell Rooster teeth of this blantant copyright violation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 12:14 AM
5

Because he's a sweetheart?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 08:02 PM
6

Overweight, average earnings. Not sure what you're trying to catch me on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 07:38 PM
1

Again, they do. Look at all the Instagram girls who lift. I don't know what you're thinking, but it requires a lot for a woman to look like a power lifter. Usually, she just ends up looking toned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 07:13 PM
1

If they did, fit girls would be more popular. What are you talking about? They are.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 06:56 PM
5

Dunno, he works at a coffee shop, so way less than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 01:20 PM
4

I'm dating an average man now...?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 12:56 PM
3

The only way for you to change that involves choosing to mate with low value men - I'm sure there's a good selection over at the niceguys sub. Or there are a ton of average men who won't cuss me out if I reject them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 12:36 PM
3

Kind of? The sight of my man doesn't always get me wet, but when I smell him, my God, I could take out a small island country. So I don't really know, does it have to be sight driven?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 02:20 AM
1

You do realize a YouTube video exists in order to get clicks, right? This likely had anything moderate and non-entertaining cut out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/18 02:18 AM
5

Yep. There are a lot of gender issues, but this really isn't one of them despite the stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 10:15 PM
1

I'm insane for not seeking external validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:24 PM
2

on an island, you'd need to improve your ability to fish, hunt, stay alive, for survival purposes. that drive is CODED in our dna, or we die. whereas with beauty, it developed from social engagement with other humans. why would you need to be beautiful and improve on THAT, if you're alone on an island, and no one knows what you look like Beauty doesn't exist in a vacuum. Or are you trying to say that a toned survival bod would be ugly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:10 PM
1

You'd also have no concept of self-improvement in that case, so I don't know why we're arguing about this hypothetical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:27 PM
3

there's no point being beautiful except for others to acknowledge it and make your life easier. There is a point. If you're more beautiful than you were, it's much easier to look in the mirror and feel confident rather shameful of the way you look.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:02 PM
6

Sorry, I mean external rewards as I elaborated with someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 07:59 PM
7

Self improvement shouldn't be done because you expect to get external rewards. Oftentimes, there aren't rewards, so you neglect improving yourself when the improvement could have made your life easier or better in some way in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:19 PM
14

I'm not unhappy with my place in the SMP, but why does someone need to get something out of improving themselves. It feels good to be better than yourself of last year.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 06:04 PM
2

Just enough SMV that I enjoy having sex with him and enough RMV that I don't find him a pain to be around every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 05:56 PM
4

But not everything is labeled masculine or feminine. Maybe, but a fair amount of things are that have nothing to do with gender. Most people call cocktails a girly drink. Aka you're less masculine for drinking it. This is what we're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 02:41 PM
1

Depends if they we're partners during a casual sex phase or they've burned through that many relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 01:45 PM
5

You literally said for masculinity to be removed. What? All I saw her say was getting rid of the notion that everything needs to be labeled as masculine or feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 01:43 PM
3

you don’t have to go out to work Attractive or rich-only problem. fight wars. I could be wrong, but I thought there was a movement to require women to sign up for the draft
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 01:37 PM
3

the bisexual person will have to be careful to form friendships with those who are not his/her type if s/he is in a relationship. And further solidifying the negative stereotypes that bisexuals can't be in a relationship because they have the capability to fuck everything that moves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/18 01:48 PM
1

Maybe, but interacting with people through VR would still be a social interaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/18 12:18 AM
2

The older you get the more that you shift towards only interacting with family members, especially after you retire I must be missing the entire retirement communities that exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:28 PM
3

If you dont want kids and never want kids and you want to prove that you wont regret it than you should show me how asocial(or antisocial) you are, What the fuck does being asocial have to do with not wanting kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:05 PM
7

but it shows seflishness, laziness, immaturity It sounds like you've attached a moral code to something you think all people must do. Personally, I don't want kids because I wouldn't make a good mother. Does that make me selfish, lazy, and immature?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:51 PM
3

Why? Quite a few men don't want kids as well. As long as the people don't want kids match up, where is the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 06:31 PM
14

But probably many 50 year old women who NEVER had kids or a family regret it but they know there's nothing they can do now, so they don't talk about and just buy their cat. Maybe a few women, but this whole "women can't not want children" thing is kind of old.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:52 PM
6

And somehow in every nursing home.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 05:51 PM
3

No. I have no clue what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:30 PM
2

What drama...?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:20 PM
5

There are. We're just not very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:01 PM
6

Because she gets bored? You could just as well ask why I play Pokemon Go for an hour each day.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 04:01 PM
5

Why do you hangout here if everything is good? Is trying to correct an incorrect viewpoint only something unhappy people can do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 03:45 PM
2

Okay, but those are ordinary people desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 01:18 PM
9

What are you talking about? I make six figures and have a boyfriend. My friends in college who make similar salaries have boyfriends they met in college. Basically almost every woman I know is with someone they love because they make enough money on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:24 AM
10

They do not have a leg up in life just because you feel tricked into being nice to them because you were hoping they'd suck your dick. In addition to this, this only happens for women who string it along. If you're aloof to strangers, these guys move on pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 11:00 AM
10

Because if a woman doesn't have to rely on a man for anything is she really missing out on anything tangible? Why is this a bad thing? Guys here are always complaining about Beta Bux, but women who don't rely on men for their monetary value are also bad? What exactly do you guys want?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 10:57 AM
9

So how is that all BP women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/18 10:54 AM
1

Well that's weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 11:42 PM
4

And this is where my math major comes in handy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 07:22 PM
2

For a husband, optimistic, pretty face, and gregarious, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/18 06:17 PM
2

That's not biological programming though. That's just lack of knowledge of what all other women are thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 10:08 PM
7

No, women inherently have lower testerone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 08:37 PM
14

Seriously? I answered the question. It's not validating because I, as a person, don't matter when these guys are intially pursuing me. This is why people don't answer questions seriously. Honesty is always met with hostility.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/18 12:47 AM
12

No, because to many of those guys I'm just an interchangeable vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:55 PM
3

I would say monks don't validate themselves with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 11:54 PM
1

😂 I can certainly revise that percentage to be lower. What do you think? 10% of people are genuinely nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 09:44 PM
3

Probably around 20%, roughly around the same rate as men. Most people are assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 05:33 PM
3

The stalking aspect of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:55 PM
5

Good lord, you are optimistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:53 PM
3

That's an expensive title.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 04:30 PM
3

Are PHDs really worth it any field?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 03:35 PM
3

Right, but my point is that average dudes who make no money still get married because that's most of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:20 PM
1

That and people with dissenting opinions are removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:15 PM
3

Because someone who makes the big bucks is totally average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 01:07 PM
1

So women aren't individuals who want different things?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 03:03 AM
3

You ever think that maybe that is what the individual woman wants when asked and it doesn't apply magically to all other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/18 02:57 AM
2

What are you talking about? My boyfriend is a sweetheart.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 12:02 AM
7

He already has. I don't care. Us bisexuals got to stick together because no one else really wants us.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:41 PM
7

Being the breadwinner doesn't mean you can be a complete dick. Oh man, tell that to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:40 PM
4

He probably thinks it'll work out because she will have no one to compare him to, like women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 07:39 PM
4

For emphasis. EMPHASIS!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 01:17 PM
2

I'll pass, I don't give my time to rude bitches lol Really? Point out where I was rude. (This was a RP lesson, whether you realize it or not) Oh yes, you held your frame so well. Good boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 09:38 PM
1

I'm framing in the way I most often hear TRP explain why the misogyny is needed. "We need to take women off the pedestal." So please continue without your condescension.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 08:31 PM
1

Okay, explain why TRP men don't understand why women are people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 06:50 PM
3

I'm not saying TRP is bullshit because it's based on mainstream advice that works. It's just wrapped up in misogynistic crap that doesn't need to be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 05:56 PM
3

As a pretty white woman You do realize the majority of us aren't pretty, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 12:59 PM
0

I resent what TRP tells me life is supposed to be like based on their observations of the most attractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/18 12:57 PM
1

Don't know anymore. It used to be lean or lanky men with no hair. Now I'm dating a bigger guy with tons of hair and I'm starting to find that attractive across the board.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 10:38 PM
1

No? I'm not attractive so it happens pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 04:24 AM
3

They make a perfume too and it smells soooo good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/18 03:37 AM
3

Self-control has nothing to do with personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 04:36 PM
3

I'm clearly being sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/18 12:50 AM
8

... that would be South of automod...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:34 PM
2

But I did say you better have more to offer than your sparkling personality. After which, you said that if you won't allow him to fuck you and you have no female friends, you have nothing to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 09:27 PM
2

You'd be wrong to assume that only 8+ bodies strip down, more like low hanging balls and tits. Nobody assumes that. Everyone jokes that the first people to get naked are the last ones you want to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:18 PM
2

I always wonder why important but typically female jobs don't make very good money. Teachers are important and nurses are important, but they don't make very much relative to their hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 07:16 PM
3

Women may not understand it but men don't "choose the best opportunity for them" men just "take any opportunity". Any and every resource for a man is scarce so we are in continuous scarcity mindset. Sex just happen to be one of them. No, I understand that. I was just arguing with a guy who "spoke for all men" who said that men cultivating relationships with women is for sex purposes only. Thought I'd actually hear from the men he supposedly speaks for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 02:22 PM
6

You really think that’s what people object to about RP? Are you guys against what is mainstream advice and has been proven to work????
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 01:39 PM
2

So you speak for all men now? No man wants a friendship with a woman because he enjoys her friendship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 01:26 PM
2

They are frustrated that they spent so much time and energy on a person that isn't going to end with the result they wanted, they may even feel it was time and resources that they wasted and feel bitter about this. And again, they can be frustrated! The issue is when they lash out at the woman for rejecting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 01:08 AM
1

I'm average, not unattractive. And while I hope he doesn't see me like that, he treats me kindly so I hold no resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 12:48 AM
2

men owe you friendship because you think your personality is so gleaming that men will forgo any sexual response they had just to bask in the glow you are. What the fuck? Do men have no agency now? They are incapable of choosing a friendship because they are attracted to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/18 12:46 AM
3

What are you looking to gain from a male friendship that you can’t get from your father, brothers, cousins, etc? They all live back in Arizona, so companionship? I have a lot of "male" hobbies so it makes more sense to cultivate friendships with guys. Btw girls are notoriously shitty at friendships even with other women. So why should men even entertaining that nonsense. Oh, I was way off base. You don't believe in male-female relationships because you think that's all women are good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 11:53 PM
3

Majority of women cannot take direct rejection graciously. Much worse honestly than the average male who eats rejection atleast 3x every Friday night. Okay...? I'm not saying they aren't. unless you’re family, or in a relationship with a friend, men are looking at you sexually FIRST. And you're in the "men can't be friends with women because they have zero standards and want to fuck all women" camp. We're not discussing this further because you probably believe it's a woman's fault for being nai…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 10:57 PM
2

I'm dating someone, genius. It turns out it's incredibly easy to find someone when you aren't using them as a meal ticket.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 08:29 PM
1

And I'm saying it's not a fucking lottery ticket because I already make six figures. I highly doubt any guy an average woman gets makes anywhere near that. So again, NOT A FUCKING LOTTERY TICKET.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 08:04 PM
1

See second part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 08:03 PM
1

Vasectomies are reversible, but if you're even paranoid about that, freeze some sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 08:02 PM
8

This is taking paranoia to insane levels. Get a vasectomy if it's truly unacceptable and get tested frequently to make sure you're still shooting blanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:57 PM
1

Okay, again, not a lottery ticket. Even someone who makes $30,000 a year makes "millions" over the course of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:45 PM
1

So betas make millions of dollars?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:21 PM
3

So? Thousands of people upvote shit on /r/funny that isn't remotely funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 07:20 PM
5

I'm glad it made you laugh. The reasoning is just makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:53 PM
8

Fourth comment down on that link: Being sad someone likes you as a friend doesnt make you a nice guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:52 PM
1

That's not a lottery ticket, now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:51 PM
1

Seriously? You're going to take askfeminists as the what women are doing? Can you maybe pick a less radicalized form of woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:33 PM
20

So bisexual people can't be friends with anyone. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:32 PM
2

Nope. You just vastly overestimate what an average woman can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:32 PM
2

he is nice qualities women describe or say they want in a man and yet women turn him down and then he is confused as to what he is doing wrong And that's not what women are making fun of when they make fun of when they say "nice guys". They're making of the guys who immediately turn into a misogynistic asshole the moment they are rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:30 PM
5

Men and women are not capable of being friends in the same way they are with their own sex. Do you think gay guys can't be friends with other guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:27 PM
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and after rejection wants to move on to find a new partner romantically to whom he can give full attention. And that's fine. The issue becomes when a guy feel he is owed due to a friendship a romantic relationship. Nobody cares if the guy gracefully moves on after being rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:25 PM
2

I do think they are attractive You're saying that as a woman. People make fun of Sarah Jessica Parker for looking like a horse. She is not attractive. People make fun of Lady Gaga for looking like a man. She is not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:01 PM
3

My lottery ticket? You really are overestimating how much money average women can get from a man. Only attractive women can be gold diggers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 06:00 PM
1

Lady Gaga, Cher, Sarah Jessica Parker What world do you live in where people say these women are attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 04:48 PM
2

No shit, Sherlock. But guess what? Most women are or average. So basing a woman's experience on attractive women is completely disingenuous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 03:37 PM
3

Do other countries pay for mental health as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:28 PM
2

Okay and I'm saying your experience isn't going to apply to those of us who get no male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:18 PM
1

At 20, I got lots of attention Congratulations. You were attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 01:37 PM
2

Okay, do you think the government would provide mental care as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 01:18 PM
2

Okay, so is it in man's nature to murder then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 03:28 AM
8

Seriously? The government doesn't even pay for healthcare, which is something people actually need to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 03:10 AM
3

Answer the question: >I'm betting the vast majority of the murder cases were perpetrated by men. Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 03:00 AM
1

hurting the victim isn't the goal. I didn't say it was the goal. But so you think a rapist is really going to go "oh goodness no. I might cut her".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 02:00 AM
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Because a knife is really hard to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/18 01:36 AM
2

Right? Reminds of the naked bike ride we had around my town recently. I assure you, most of the naked people were not women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 09:57 PM
1

No. I don't like being reliant on people. And also I already make more than $3000/month.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 09:54 PM
1

Him using his own condom prevents the slavery from happening in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 07:41 PM
1

You claim not to cry and then yet the very next sentence accuse me of promoting it Because I'm not crying about it. Rape culture is a fact of life. Why would men care if women get raped? It's not their problem. You can ask a senior to purchase alcohol, even school students know this And they would do it for free? Oh but alcohol is worth putting yourself in a place where rapes happen at the most rate across campus. No shit it happens at the most rate across campus because that's where the most al…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 06:24 PM
2

then you should not cry about "Rape culture" I'm not crying about anything, but your very response is very much the idea of rape culture. Oh she got raped at a frat party? Her fault. She shouldn't have been there. also you can purchase booze Did you miss the part where I said underage? without sleeping with frat boys who display open misogyny Not something I ever did. I said house parties, which are basically the same thing. You're going to a party with people you don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 05:40 PM
2

Because it's the easiest access to booze and fun when you're underage. Have you never been to a house party?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 05:31 PM
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Every guy I know has been cheated on (some multiple times) Sounds like the common denominator is who you hang out with. I'm guessing these guys have a type. By contrast I've been a public defender for over a decade and have had only two clients who were rapists Because a lot of women don't report it to the police or are told they don't have a case. But based on your experiences, I'm betting the vast majority of the murder cases were perpetrated by men. Yes or no?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 04:26 PM
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I'm just starting to infer man's nature from some of their mistakes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 03:34 PM
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1) Snape grew up with Lily as a childhood friend. When you've grown up with someone, it's hard to see them as a romantic partner. 2) I have nothing to add. 3) Harry Potter is a "chosen one". These characters always end up turning into badasses. 4) Oh no, a girl in High school had a crush on someone hot? Are you just going to ignore Harry going after the hot Asian chick too?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 03:14 PM
5

So do you think it's in a man's nature to rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 03:08 PM
3

I agree with you about the dark alley, but rape by a stranger is a crime of opportunity. Do you really think a rapist is going "well, damn. I'd like to rape her and this is the perfect opportunity, but she's wearing jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 02:23 PM
2

For wearing a skirt...? Do you think her chances are reduced if she were to wear a burka?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/18 01:33 AM
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Because a girl wearing a skirt down to her ankles is really tempting fate. Oh damn she's showing the tops of her feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 11:57 PM
8

Do guys not bring their own condoms when they have sex? That seems pretty risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 10:00 PM
1

I don't think I am. Seeing a candy commercial isn't going to make you want to buy candy if you don't like it. Watching gay guys make out in a TV show isn't going to make you want to kiss guys if you don't already like to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 08:58 PM
2

Yes. It turns out not being ignored by someone you love does wonders for your mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 08:04 PM
1

Just like how you chose the better option at the store based on ads. For something you are already buying...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 08:03 PM
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Not great. My dad has a personality disorder, so people have to work around his "schedule". As you can imagine, this doesn't work so good for relationships. My mom stuck it out as long as she could, but he eventually stopped making time in his "schedule" for her, so things went down hill pretty fast. He's somehow tricked another woman and is getting married soon. If she's smart, she will leave him within a year or so. Basically, this has made me decide never to get married so I don't end up in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 07:06 PM
1

Don't you think it's more likely people seek out what they like?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 06:59 PM
0

Doubt it. I don't think media shapes a person's sexual preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 04:57 PM
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Fair point. But sadly even most bi girls are weird about bi guys. :(
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 04:14 PM
2

My boyfriend is bi and I think it's hot. Does that make me weird? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/18 02:58 PM
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No, I don't think he's attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 06:09 PM
2

Yes, sexism against men exists. Just like racism against white people exists. Whether or not people call it that though is another matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 06:07 PM
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Op maybe can't distinguish the difference between a nice man an unkind man Right, but OP mentions that in the title....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 01:17 PM
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So are you really saying there are no guys who are usually kind and generous people? That's really odd to me. I'm not sure how you came to that conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/18 11:57 AM
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specificity is not an enemy here. I'm not saying it is, but being needlessly nit-picky about terminology is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 06:01 AM
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The external opening of the vagina. Again, a pretty pointless distinction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/18 12:15 AM
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I might start watching it when soccer players stop being such huge drama queens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:42 PM
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Female, purple. He treats me better than anyone ever, so no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:41 PM
2

Men cause more fatal accidents, but women cause more accidents, so... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:40 PM
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Oops, this is my boyfriend. I feel like guys should get a pass when they grow up in California though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:37 PM
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No, you don't understand. It kills sperm count so effectively that it kills it the moment it enters the vagina. You'll never get pregnant. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:33 PM
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To be fair, the pee hole basically exists within the vagina. It seems like a pointless distinction to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 10:31 PM
1

You can just as easily say AMALT (all men are like that) to describe a set of behaviors of men. Not according to RP you can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/18 02:28 PM
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Much. I'm off crutches, though I'm still limping, and I still have significant bruising. Thank you. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 09:07 PM
2

your MAIN hobbies are video games, comics, anime, etc. the MAIN things you read are fictional books Lol, TIL I'm a manchild.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 09:06 PM
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I guess I'm also an exception then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 08:59 PM
3

Female. No. What if I get fat again? They'd just dump me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/18 08:57 PM
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They hate on men who choose to act against RP teachings. They don't hate them because they're hypergamous whores with no agency.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 03:55 PM
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Wow, you really cherry picked the hell out of that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 11:23 AM
3

Damn, life is complicated
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 11:36 PM
6

But is everything you mention in the first paragraph due to risk-taking behavior or lack of a social support structure?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 10:43 PM
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Would you say this is acceptable, or that there's a bias regarding this narrative (either biological, societal, both, neither, whatever)? There's bias. People are still taking into account that women historically have had it worse without reevaluating whether or not that is still the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 09:01 PM
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Neither. Each have their own problems to deal with
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 08:12 PM
2

Glad I'm ugly and invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:48 PM
1

Fellow INTP. Same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:18 PM
2

None of these options sound great to me. My man currently has low career prospects, high emotional connection, high sex drive to match mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 02:17 PM
2

That is the most extreme manifestation, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 01:32 AM
9

Just because a person wants you deeply and passionately, it doesn't mean they are right for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/18 01:14 AM
3

My dumb ass sprained her ankle. On some stairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 06:21 PM
4

You're like my TV / movie soulmate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/18 12:47 AM
6

Why not both?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 03:52 PM
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Initial comment: just go your entire existence without experiencing a fundamental form of intimacy. Being used as a cock sleeve isn't intimate. Where am I saying this is relative to how attractive a woman is?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 10:04 AM
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Okay and...? Where did I claim otherwise? I just said that being used as a cock sleeve isn't intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:49 AM
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I'm a blantly average woman. I have n-count of 3 and sticking with my boyfriend for the foreseeable future. Many of my friends are average and are with someone they found in college. You know who didn't? The incredibly hot chick who was in our comp sci classes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:23 AM
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No because he treats me like a person during and after. But I have been used just for pleasure and it wasn't intimate and downright painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 09:18 AM
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Except most of the "unlimited sex" women have access to is just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 03:59 AM
1

I can understand that. I often hang out in bars by myself and nobody has ever hit on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 03:47 AM
1

just go your entire existence without experiencing a fundamental form of intimacy. Being used as a cock sleeve isn't intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 03:46 AM
2

So you're blaming women for men having no standards...?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 03:42 AM
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Regarding time and desire for LTRs: most normal people can find time for them, in college or while working (meeting someone a few days / week for 2-4 hours per meeting is really not difficult). Quote from you. You seem to think LTRs just happen. That there is no greater time commitment when you need to show a person that you are actually interested in dating them and not just stringing them along.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:41 AM
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Except the only men who would buy that are gross old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 02:35 AM
2

I like feminine looking men. Take that with a grain of salt though because I'm bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 01:06 AM
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No, I like having sex with my boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 12:03 AM
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Trust, no. Women and men just typically hurt others in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 02:44 AM
2

The present still isn't the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:56 PM
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If they were future oriented they'd go into provider lockdown mode just as their looks were starting to wane and not at 33 when they're blown out You're assuming every marriage is based solely off the women's looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 07:55 PM
1

Yes...?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:36 PM
1

I'll say this: it's harder once you're out of college (since there first "date" = hang out randomly), but for adults your point is only slightly more valid. A "first date" is no more than a few hours if you want it to be. Even a couple of those per week (if you're that aggressive in accepting/asking for dates) is doable. For most people, a few dates per month is more realistic and even more feasible. Those aren't LTRs. Those are dates. I'll ask you again, does every first date turn into a LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:04 PM
1

Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:03 PM
0

Because finding someone to date long term takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 06:03 PM
1

So masturbate, then. Even less time and risk. Who knows one's body better than oneself? And toys. Any size. Any shape. Not rocket science. Why don't you tell that to the incels or any man in here than they can just do without sex and masturbate? Sex is different than masturbation. most normal people can find time for them, in college or while working (meeting someone a few days / week for 2-4 hours per meeting is really not difficult). Most normal people have every first date turn into an LTR?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:41 PM
1

Didn't say it was, but "for whatever reason" implies that you could think of none.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:02 PM
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And if they don't have time to invest in a LTR at that moment? Or I'd in between relationships? LTRs don't spontaneously happen, they require a time investment that doesn't always pay off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 05:02 PM
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Sluts just fuck lots of guys, for whatever reason. It couldn't be that they enjoy sex. Good heavens no
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/18 04:45 PM
1

So treating women like men won't work. So when we say treat them like human beings, you automatically think this. This leads me to believe that you don't really think women are human.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 09:49 PM
1

I was just responding to your offhand comment about that it should cause then to lose weight. Not everyone is so anal that EVERYTHING must contribute to the debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 06:12 PM
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Yes because they're basically the same thing. People whose standards are higher than their status. That or they have a hang up on how dating / sex should be and that's their issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:38 PM
1

Sounds like they should be losing weight doing all that hard work. Quote from you. I was just responding to that comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:36 PM
2

Is that what I said? No, it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 04:23 PM
3

Stress eating is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:42 PM
1

Neither. I'm oblivious and I like someone being straight forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:37 PM
2

Live in the moment. Is the person good for you and is the relationship not an uphill battle everyday? If both are yes, then there's no reason why another person is inherently better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:35 PM
3

High risk, low reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 03:53 AM
6

Seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 04:27 PM
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Science is pretty clear on the matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 03:15 PM
10

Got it, so women aren't human to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:57 PM
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Do you expect men to treat women like they would treat men? Do you think only men are human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:44 PM
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No. Most likely I would be interested in dating someone else by that point, and I don't enjoy people who waste my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/18 01:41 PM
3

Haha bummer.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 08:56 PM
3

I don't suppose anyone here plays Pokemon Go?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/18 06:53 PM
7

How does fighting against a system that is in place mean that men are the oppressors? If men fight alimony, does that mean women are oppressors or will you see that it has to do with fighting the processes that are in place?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 10:29 PM
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Seriously. There's a reason feminism is described in waves because much like generations, they don't have that much to do with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 09:04 PM
3

Wow, it's so hard to treat women like people. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:30 PM
2

People do want to hang out with me? We we're talking about commitment. I don't see the purpose in spending hundreds of dollars on clothes, makeup, and hair products because that's a waste. I shower because I'm not a filthy human being. Being attractive as a woman is 80% time and money, 20% genetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 05:29 PM
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she won't embarrass a man if she takes care of her appearance, showers, grooms and pays attention to her clothes Oh wow, she won't embarrass a man if she's attractive? Wow, it's almost what I've been saying this whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 04:42 PM
1

Yeah they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 04:42 PM
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If you're in a relationship with a dude for ten years then you have had enough time to spot his game, and by extension whether he's just keeping you around to smash. Congratulations. You've just accepted that waiting can be terrible advice, which was my fucking point to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:59 PM
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I'm not saying it based on looks. I'm saying that a man isn't going to commit to a woman who is going to embarrass him with the way she looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:57 PM
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Every day on weekdays. Twice a day on weekends. Sadly, I'm in a long distance relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:30 PM
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Is it commitment or is it just the fear of being alone? There are plenty of people like that. They aren't committing to the person. They're just keeping them around until they find someone they actually want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:19 PM
2

There are plenty of Good Men everywhere who would NEVER harm their wife or child/children. Up until something bad happens. How are women supposed to guard against a life tragedy that turns their man into an alcoholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:06 PM
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And that's fine. My point is that the base hotness for sex is way less than the base for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:04 PM
1

He wasn't an FWB. Just no strings attached sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:27 PM
2

Stay with the topic at hand please instead of attacking me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:30 PM
1

What about women and children first policies and the men who obey them; resulting in the death of many thousands if not millions of men? Men obey them because it would look bad if they didn't. What about the fact that many more men would risk their lives to protect children (and other [human] life) as a first reaction? It's basic instinct to protect children. Women do it as well. As for other human life, again, we're back to either point #1 of this post or my original point, he wants to bang her…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:16 PM
2

10 years and no marriage? He hasn't committed. He's just waiting for something better to come around.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:14 PM
2

So basically your advice to women is never have children because there's no safety net and he might be an abuser.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 12:12 PM
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As per my example, I had no issue getting away from a toxic and abusive woman. Hell - her crappy behavior made it much easier to cut her loose. And the first move abusers do is separate the person from friends and family. How do you expect a woman with a young kid to suddenly run away from an abuser, who is likely to chase after her with no support net? I choose myself and what's best for me first. Try it from that perspective. It works wonders. I think you're misunderstanding something. I alway…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:51 AM
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Nah, he was pretty boring. I dumped a couple of months later. Point being, the chicks a dude commits to are always going to be way hotter than the chicks he just fucks. It's like the saying goes "a fat chick is like a moped. She's fun to ride, but you hope your friends don't see you".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:44 AM
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I gave him the choice. He was more than allowed to just fuck me and leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:35 AM
2

So you just completely tuned out of that whole conversation of abusers being hard to spot? That sometimes men turn abusive after the kids have been had?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:32 AM
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Didn't stop him from coming over to drink my beer for a half hour watching me play video games before fucking me. Clearly, he found me bearable enough to enjoy my company.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:30 AM
2

Really? Because your first point was that removing the safety net would make women choose better. But now it's "get away from the abuser". Oh yay, now the children are homeless and suffer worse horrors from the crazy people on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:56 AM
5

Bad advice. That's how you get the women who were with the same man for 10 years and then she finally realizes he isn't committing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:54 AM
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Nope. I have an easy-going personality and it didn't get my FWB to commit. You have to reach the hotness threshold first.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:52 AM
9

That's a good way to get your n-count into the hundreds.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:51 AM
0

Male ego. The "I have something to prove to everyone" sort of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:38 AM
2

You're assuming that abuse always comes in the form of punching the woman. There's no reasoning with you if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 02:36 AM
0

Men who were either drafted and had no choice or using it as a source of income.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 01:06 AM
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You're assuming that anybody can tell that a man can be abusive. My mom's first husband punched my brother as a baby and threw her cat against the wall. Her immediate family still thinks it was a mistake to leave him as he was such a loving husband. My dad has a personality disorder. He is emotionally abusive and manipulative. But he is extremely charming to those around him. Sometimes he fools me, even though I know what he's like. Nearly everyone at the church we went to thought it was mistake…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 07:33 PM
3

Remove the safety net and the problem fixes itself as women will make the absolute best choice for men they select as father to her children. Or they are forced to stay with abusive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 03:00 PM
2

I'm saying what do we do in the case where there is no government support or alimony, since that's apparently that is the way it has to be because "women have had it good for too long".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:57 PM
0

Just met and want to bang.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:30 PM
3

And so what do we do about the children?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:55 AM
3

Men have to watch their kids get assaulted because they're homeless?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:53 AM
4

I was being sarcastic to point out that there are reasons why we have the current system in place. Yes, there are those who abuse it and we should try and fix that, but getting rid of the system altogether is a swing in the opposite direction that would hurt just as many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:15 AM
6

Homelessness allows way worse things to happen to children than a known quantity like an abusive husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 02:13 AM
4

they learn to choose better and try to fix things instead of destroying the family nucleus, or they suffer the path of poverty. Thank God. Now I abuse my wife all I want without fear of her leaving me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/18 01:30 AM
17

Gaaaaaaaay
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 11:37 PM
2

A keeper. I may get plated, but I don't plate.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 09:17 PM
3

My boyfriend is hot and basically he has the behaviors you mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 08:50 PM
1

I prefer to drive and don't mind driving people. I'm already dating 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/18 01:55 PM
1

Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 07:45 PM
2

Okay. Most people don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 04:56 PM
1

People don't listen to music for the lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:47 PM
7

no not exactly like men. Men only care about women so long as their sexual needs are being provided for. So yes, exactly like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 03:08 PM
9

About getting married. I was thinking about it when I went in. Now I'm definitely not going to.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:35 PM
6

No, I mean men's attitude towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 02:31 PM
7

I now realize they don't care at all about men, and most care only a little about THEIR OWN men. So exactly like men then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:58 PM
14

How exactly does this work? Women don't understand men at all except they know men intimately enough to manipulate them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:56 PM
2

It's necessary for having children.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/18 01:50 PM
7

I was not doing that in the first place...?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:39 PM
8

So it sounds like this more has to an issue with men using up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:31 PM
9

No it's because men often don't want to settle down in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:28 PM
7

I would never say they're "lucky". That's horribly dehumanizing. I'm also never getting married, so moot there.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:25 PM
6

It's just that men would find it revolting to be considered as marriage material to a woman over 30. You do realize that the first man a woman dates isn't the one she necessarily marries? It usually takes at least a few LTR relationships to find someone who is marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 10:20 PM
1

It's not a silly game. A couple of years is key to making sure you aren't ending up with someone who has a personality disorder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/18 01:34 PM
8

Then that's not really a "new" boyfriend .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 11:47 PM
13

I would tell her that she doesn't really know the person and should slow things down a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 11:03 PM
1

Unfortunately, I guessed it right away, but was incorrect because I thought the other person was involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 08:11 PM
3

God no, it's a kid's movie. Elastigirl does some activism to change people's minds about superheroes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 07:01 PM
2

Yes. The premise of this movie is actually attempting to change the law that made supers illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 06:44 PM
1

I saw Incredibles 2 today. I enjoyed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 06:40 PM
15

Let's say the bar is super packed with a bunch of people around it. The assertive approach is to call out to the bartender and tell him what you want. The agressive approach is to shove people out of your way do you can order your drink.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 02:09 PM
1

SMV is 4/10. RMV is 6/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 10:57 PM
5

That's why I said "solely". They're allowed to like beautiful women, but it often leads to them dating someone who makes them miserable if that's the only reason they are dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 12:04 AM
15

Biggest challenge for men is to not pick a woman solely by what his penis tells him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 10:49 PM
2

It appears to depend on the religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:35 PM
3

How do you know? Do you have proof?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:06 PM
1

Religiously observant != Comes from a religious family. Unless you have a paper on retention rates when raised religious, I would agree you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 09:04 PM
2

So you think a woman staying conservative is more likely to happen than her rebelling against strict rules...? Okay, whatever dude
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 08:26 PM
5

How differently she treats attractive and unattractive men; Isn't this more indicative of her being an asshole?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 08:22 PM
6

not from a conservative religious family Really? I don't think that is indicative of being slutty. It could swing either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 08:22 PM
5

Doesn't happen to me, so I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 08:20 PM
1

Mine is quality time. This can come in the form of texting all day or an evening together. My SO, I think is also quality time given that our Saturday gaming sessions are important to him. He likes to express his in gifts for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 02:15 PM
3

It is what it is ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 01:13 AM
8

I was always ugly, so it really doesn't matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 08:50 PM
1

Nah, that's bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 01:33 PM
0

So basically no Asian chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 09:28 PM
1

At what point are they considered "developed".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 08:04 PM
7

Were we not specifically talking about this portion? It's basic social interaction that if the you group your audience in with negative attributes by association some will defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:25 PM
6

So do men funnily enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 05:22 PM
6

Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 11:30 AM
5

Wouldn't it be 5 to 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 12:35 AM
1

I mean I have smaller missions that I work on, albeit not every day. I want to at least get to the point where I can boulder a V4, but I would like to get better than that. I want to move to Austin to settle down.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 06:46 PM
6

As long as they're safe about it, I don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 04:45 PM
1

I mean, have you seen my ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 01:35 PM
4

Oh it's 100% a mismatch of how I think people should act versus how they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 02:28 AM
26

Women are more risk avoidant than men, so this usually leads to "safer" choices in life. Those choices aren't always the best choices though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 02:24 AM
5

I'm dating a nice guy, but still think male assholishness is prevalent. Granted, I think people assholeness is prevalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/18 12:42 AM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:06 PM
2

See my response to crack. People are going to have varying ideas of what constitutes a hobby, so I'm not getting into this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 10:06 PM
1

What? Since when is BP the elderly Grandma? Pretty sure BP knows when guys are trying to get some nooky.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 09:13 PM
1

Is your hobby also wasting my time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 07:08 PM
5

Congratulations on your opinion. See comment where I said I'm not arguing this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 07:03 PM
2

So? A lot of people would prefer that to stepping outside of their comfort zone.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 06:53 PM
3

See the discussion on the other thread. I'm not going to argue this because everyone has a different idea of what constitutes a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 06:52 PM
2

Because being lazy is comfortable and easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 06:16 PM
4

Oh no, this contrived scenario that has such a low chance of happening!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 05:45 PM
5

And some people claim watching TV as a hobby. Like I said, trying to be superior about what is and isn't a hobby is pointless because most people do nothing with their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 04:43 PM
5

Probably because TRPs get butthurt sometimes and brigade the sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 04:33 PM
5

Then he's standing way too creepily close to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 04:30 PM
4

Go ahead and shit on her hobby, but it's not like the majority of people are off doing worthwhile things with their life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 04:29 PM
2

Depends on the woman. I don't care what the guy looks like if he's trying to get me to pull my headphones out. I have my headphones in to block out the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 03:06 PM
6

Headphones in? Never. Headphones out? Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:25 PM
6

Based on your post history, you don't seem like a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 02:23 PM
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