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Get hookers if you can't manage to get over your biases and saltiness for more than five minutes at a stretch. While there's a difference in the energy and personality of most women compared to most men, absolutely, if you can't find at least one single female on Earth who's funny and worth chatting up, the problem is definitely you.
/r/askTRP21/08/17 01:33 AM
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Why do women feel solo travelling in a relationship is acceptable behavior? You're missing the larger point - the traveling isn't the problem, it's just the avenue of escape when there IS a problem. How could in the scenario above my ex seriously say that she felt the same way about the guy she met than she feels with me her boyfriend of 3 years (still makes me sick writing it lool)? She doesn't feel the same way about that guy. For the moment, at least, she likes him much much better. This woma…
/r/askTRP20/08/17 08:03 PM
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Good news, man - you're a human being not a rock. The important thing here is to realize the difference between feeling bad because someone else is hurting (totally okay), and feeling guilty because someone else is hurting (not okay). Unless you're a complete dick or an utter sociopath, there are times in life when other people are going to hurt and cry and feel bad and the only way to fix that is to go against the truth of who you are and what you need. Going against that and making a decision …
/r/askTRP28/06/17 01:38 AM
1

If they only offer money based on absolute need, what the company will end up with are employees who also do nothing more than the bare minimum they "need" to accomplish their job. I've seen this time and time again, these companies eventually fail and the bosses are left wondering what happened. Look for a different position.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 05:03 PM
1

Long term stuff is going to more of a challenge than plates, absolutely, but if that's what you want it's not impossible. In my experience it's not challenges that turn people away from a long term partner, it's how that person handles their challenges. If you're actively managing your BPD and that commitment shows you'll find a way to make it work.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:53 PM
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Take your meds if you've got 'em, manage your business. TRP is handling your shit, whatever that shit happens to be. And when someone rejects you based on your BPD? Handle it and move forward.
/r/askTRP24/06/17 04:10 AM
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If that's how you feel, don't spend time around women. Why are you asking us why you should bother with something/someone you hate? I personally enjoy flirting, dating and sex. If I meet a woman who's an entitled cunt I move on to one who's not. Pretty simple.
/r/askTRP07/06/17 12:55 AM
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It's definitely rude, but why let it piss you off? If you're only in this for sex, it doesn't matter what she says. If you're looking for a relationship, find one with a person who doesn't make you angry. Done.
/r/askTRP15/04/17 02:27 AM
1

Asking for help isn't inherently a bad thing, no - what concerns me is how in over your head you seem in a leadership position. I'd strongly suggest finding a career mentor/coach.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 05:55 AM
1

You're a manager. Of people, I assume. And you're asking Reddit how to accomplish one of the basic, ground level responsibilities of your job? And on top of that you're rejecting the practical suggestions of your BOSS because they're not "alpha" enough?? Damn man, you're in over your head here. Go into the firing with the feedback your boss suggested. Not because it'll help the employee, but because it shows you've been paying attention, have made an accurate and comprehensive assessment of the …
/r/askTRP03/02/17 11:03 PM
1

Lots of things and people that seem like a good idea in the club loose their luster in the light of day. If she's interested, let her reschedule. If you don't hear from her, move on.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 08:44 PM
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I'd mostly agree with that, sure.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 07:58 PM
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I love when girls ask this question - what a great opportunity to both give comfort and to reinforce/encourage what meets your own needs and desires. "I enjoy how you follow through when you say you're going to do something - a lot of people aren't like that." "I'm impressed by your dedication to keeping fit, I really like a girl who works out." "It's great you're not on of those insecure people who panics if I go out with friends or take a night to myself."
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:36 AM
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People want to be liked and respected and part of that means having things in common and being seen as in the know. Girls AND guys (though, honestly, I've experienced far more men try to BS their level of expertise). Sadly, most people are too socially inept and insecure to realize how bad they actually are at blowing their own horn.
/r/askTRP27/01/17 03:24 AM
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Just answer with confidence.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 10:32 PM
2

If women (or anyone else, for that matter) ask what I do for a living I tell them. If women (or anyone else, for that matter) ask how much money I make I shake my head and point out how rude of a question that is.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:57 AM
1

You're not "creating" anything...lol You're playing with broken toys because you don't believe (and you might be right) you deserve or can handle anything whole.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:53 AM
2

Why would you? It's his life, let the man do what he wants how he wants to do it. This falls squarely under the "none of your fucking business" heading.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 04:54 AM
2

Some people don't like their sexuality to be the topic of conversation. If Brad is interested in her, let him ask the question and pursue the girl. If she's not interested back, let her turn him down.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 03:05 AM
2

I don't care for trashy, dumb girls either - it's not pretentious, it's just a preference, I totally understand. What I don't understand is why you're pursuing someone you're not attracted to in the first place? If you just want to get laid, pick up girls on Tinder who aren't interested in talking either and be done with it. If you're trying to figure out how to get by with a decent amount of grace in social situations, nod and ask open ended questions until you can excuse yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 02:59 AM
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Avoid "let me know" or "if you're ready" because it sounds needy, like you're going to be hanging around staring at your phone screen waiting for the text. If? There is no "if," there's a direct statement instructing her to make the plans because she is the one who cancelled. Giving too much info on your availability also looks like you're holding a block open for a person, woman or man. Simply state directly that you made plans, she cancelled (for whatever reason), so know the responsibility is…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:55 PM
3

Life happens, it's how you recover. Reply to her by saying "life happens. Hit me up when you're ready to make other plans." Then let her make other plans.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:34 PM
1

First and foremost: stop hanging out with trash. As my brother was fond of saying "you can't polish a turd, so why waste your time trying?" Seriously, there are commonalities between many if not all women, but there are actually differences too, one of those differences being women who are total trash and women who are even mildly versed in normal, social interaction. If you're even halfway decent to the latter, they're not going to be passing their number out in front of you of acting like an a…
/r/askTRP06/01/17 08:40 PM
2

If you want to have a plate, you're doing fine. If you want to have a relationship, yeah, you're overdoing it. You're only three months in and she's complaining on the regular - why would either of you stay in this if that's your dynamic? She's eventually going to give up and find someone who gives her a little something to look forward to, or you're going to give up because you're tired of hearing her complain.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:37 AM
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If I'm dating someone they don't have to "bicker" with me to do fun things - we do them because THEY'RE FUN. It's not "feminine nature" to want to go out and do things, it's the nature of anyone who's not a boring ass box of rocks. If all you want is sex, that's cool, but then why are you in a dating relationship? Get a FWB and be done with it.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:26 AM
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Stop hanging around morons. It's pretty unlikely ANY gender of barber or cashier or whatever is going to be all that impressed by "the cool laser guy." Why? Because people like people they can relate to. Mystery is fun, total inaccessibility is not.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 04:11 AM
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Consider yourself lucky the assholes and idiots culled themselves from the herd and saved you the trouble. Now worry about the vast majority of the planet who don't give two shits about eyeglasses. Jesus...
/r/askTRP29/12/16 04:03 AM
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They think they're remarkable because people treat them like they're remarkable. So really, they're not wrong. If you're personally getting attention from women, successfully dating them and sleeping with them and such, do you really think the opinion of one or even a couple of them trying to "put you in your place" is going to have any affect on you other than making you shake your head at them and laugh at how pathetic they come across? Of course it's not going to matter, and you trying to put…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 03:59 AM
3

The larger issue here is why, as a 27 year old man, are you living in a party house with your near middle aged brother? Carve out your own space and then you can invite him into it when you need/want him. Boundaries aren't easy when you're living in a commune.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 11:45 PM
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Why are you asking this here instead of being very VERY concerned that the only reason you believe you have a husband is because you're under thirty and so far have aged okay? If this guy is even a reasonably decent Captain, give him a little credit for making a solid, long term decision when it comes to someone he made the decision to marry. Yeah, there are plenty of guys out there who want nothing more than 18 year old after 18 year old to pump and dump, but do you think they're putting rings …
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:35 AM
2

Look, smile, go back to what you're doing. Look again, but don't stare. If she keeps looking at you go over and say something. Don't overthink it.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:28 AM
1

All about perception and esteem. It's a common perception (or misperception, you be the judge) that men have to work for sex and women just show up. Men therefore put women on a pedestal, and women seat themselves up there as well (culturally speaking). So when a man "conquers" multiple women, he's given the credit for an achievement, for victory after victory. When a woman is alternately conquered, she's given up something, she's been reduced and she's lowered herself down. Women's esteem for t…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:25 AM
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I've never cared for that analogy because, let's face it, most of the time it's just a case of cheap ass locks. How valuable is the car key when a coat hanger can get the same job done?
/r/askTRP22/11/16 04:14 AM
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If you want to wait, wait. If you don't, don't. No one here can tell you what your own level of enjoyment and patience should look like. If you're all about LTRs, cool. She sounds like a nice option.
/r/askTRP17/11/16 08:54 PM
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Tinder isn't asking anybody out - Tinder is a two people agreeing they match then going from there. If we're talking Tinder, a good approach is "let's go split an appetizer and beers" or "I'm going to be hanging out at Random Pub, come by if you want to split some drinks." Just be clear.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:32 PM
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I must live in an area with exceptionally forward women...I only do the asking about two out of every three times.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:29 PM
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Hmm. I've experienced a considerably higher percentage of women than "single percents" doing the asking. Maybe an age thing.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 09:28 PM
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If you're going to invite a person out, female or male, the person extending the invitation typically pays. If you don't want to pay, ask the woman out by saying something like "I'll be out at Random Bar at 8, meet me there if you want to split drinks" or "pick up dinner on the way to my place, I'll cover half when you get here." Whatever, the point is to be clear you're not footing the entire bill.
/r/askTRP09/11/16 02:50 AM
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WAY too wordy. Try "you're a big girl, I'm sure you can handle your schedule for the evening without me."
/r/askTRP08/11/16 09:43 PM
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Uh huh. Drama like what you're describing surrounds men who pick up shit women to begin with, hang out at shit places, and have shit in the way of frame. If you're legitimately terrrified about coolly walking away from a bad date, there's a problem, and it's NOT the woman and it's NOT the situation, it's you.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 04:45 PM
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You don't start drama by not starting drama. Stand up, excuse yourself with a simple "I'm not sure we're here for the same reasons," head out to the patio and carry on with your evening. Multiple benefits to that: first, it's expressed to your original date immediately that you're not on the same page and you're not okay with that. She now can correct her approach or be left to hang out with her roommate and buy her own wine. Second, you just saved yourself the bar tab. Third, you don't look lik…
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:49 AM
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Why did you continue with the date at all if you were so put off by the girl you came with? You hung around for well over and hour and hooked her up with multiple drinks for...what exactly?? Awesome, you eventually told her "no," but it took you an hour and attention from another woman to work up the courage to do it. If you're honestly thinking "stupid fucking cunt" about your date three minutes in, deal with it then instead of sneaking off, checking in, and sneaking off again.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 03:24 AM
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Next "date:" text and say "c'mon over, I'll make sure the roommate has friends over so we're stuck in my room again." A little playful, but gets the point across. Give a time. Go on about your day.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 03:11 AM
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Flesh out the details, man. What specifically is the issue? I'm a logical guy, I'm logical around women, and nine times out of ten that's comforting, attractive, and all around a positive for them. It's possible to be playful and flirty and logical all at the same time. The only time it backfires, so to speak, is if the woman I'm conversing with is a complete and utter imbecile (in which case, THAT'S really the key problem).
/r/askTRP08/11/16 03:03 AM
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She probably didn't intend it as a shit test, but you turned it into one that you're currently failing.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 09:32 PM
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I think it's a real issue for her, absolutely (and not an unreasonable one), but I don't think it should be addressed by moving in together unless that's something that absolutely makes sense to you in your situation. Do NOT cohabitate just to have sex. Run a fan, the TV, play music to dampen the noise or, shit, put some of that sound proofing shit on the walls before you go sign a lease just to fuck.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:56 AM
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You made an offer, now it's up to her to counter. If she was working or having a bad week or, shit, maybe a legit headache and PMS but is still interested in you she'll bounce back and reach out and reschedule. Instead of making offer after offer, if she seems busy throw out an "I know how that goes, so when you free up let me know and hopefully out schedules match up." Leave it at that.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:53 AM
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If a girl is legit busy but still interested, she'll offer an alternate option. Somehow, I don't think you're going to get that option. Recovery is on you if you think it's worth it. At the most I'd send a reply that says something like "alright then, that means it's on you to plan the next date and time. Curious what you'll come up with to charm me." Throws the responsibility on her, but also puts it out there that you're open to her advances if she wants to make them. Interested, but not "omig…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:28 AM
1

You can be a strong presence without being a white knight, and certainly without being taken advantage of. And to add to that, definitely without saying weird shit like "I'm here to protect you." Huh?? In what real world context does that make sense?? Don't make such a dramatic show of announcing things, but also don't decide fixing that attitude means flipping to the complete opposite end of the personality spectrum and becoming a total dick. Example time: a girl is leaving your place late at n…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 03:10 AM
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Negging is being playful, not being a dick. Negging is saying "impress me," not "you're worthless." It's a challenge, man, not a put down. You were definitely heavy handed, definitely awkward, and didn't really offer this girl anything to work with other than a straight insult. Try something like, "I dunno, are those brown eyes charming enough to warrant a midday thought? Grab some popcorn and come over later, see if you can give me something to think about tomorrow."
/r/askTRP06/11/16 02:42 AM
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No one is posting (well, except you apparently) to ask about things going well. People post for suggestions on how to improve when what they're doing isn't working. Hence (better sit down for this one), it seems like a lot more people are getting flaked on in this subreddit than what is actually happening out in the real world. Have I been flaked on? I'm sure I have. Does it happen on a regular basis? Nope, sure does not. It's more rare than an advise subreddit would have you think.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 02:02 AM
1

Simply, the person with the highest sex drive. Stereotypically speaking that's going to be the man, but there's no hard and fast rule. I've been with women who had extremely active libidos and women who were more content with less frequent sex even if the sex was awesome. This is not one of those things dictated solely by how attractive you are.
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:56 AM
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Be interesting IRL, limit social media as a strategy to meet/impress/game women, and hang out with the women who realize how pathetic that shit is. There are more of them than you think. Seriously, dude, how many of those "drooling guys" do you think are actually getting with the women they're fawning over?? Damn close to none of them - I can't think of a single girl I know who would ever say, "awwww, so-and-so has commented on and liked at least a hundred of my Facebook posts, I guess it's time…
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:50 AM
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Because dancing and making out are fun, but you're not interesting/appealing enough to go further with. And who turns down a free drink?
/r/askTRP06/11/16 01:39 AM
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If she actively avoids women, you have a problem. If it's a matter of circumstance (and it seems so professionally), I'd say you have a lot less to worry about her on a personality/psychological level. That being said, if she's the only female in a sea of males, you're constantly going to be dealing with a really skewed ratio of interest. The men around her clearly don't have as much day to day exposure to ladies either, and will be more focused on her.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 08:31 PM
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If you're expecting other people to make or break your night out, you're not going to make it through. If you won't be happy unless some girls are paying attention to you, you're already sunk. If you're someplace where there's dancing, dance. If there's a pool table, play. Out with friends? Have something to talk about. If none of those things appeal to you, you're probably not the kind of guy who is ever going to last for more than a few hours out at most.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 08:25 PM
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This is the type of guy you want to know, IMHO. A lot of guys can talk RP, even preach RP, but to see a guy just do his thing and BE RedPill is pretty awesome. Be your own man, of course, but it's cool you have a real life example to model after.
/r/askTRP30/10/16 08:22 PM
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Here, shortened it up for ya: you're hanging around gossipy people/girls. Same point stands though: yes, it's possible it's an IOI but it's equally as plausible that it's something completely different and has nothing at all to do with you. Escalate and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 03:34 AM
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If they're bringing up another repeatedly and without any prompting from you, they've got some competition going with that other girl for whatever reason. It has more to do with their relationship with that other girl than with you.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 02:17 AM
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It's possible. Not probable, possible. If you're directing the conversation toward or directly asking about the other women, a negative response is almost guaranteed. If you're bringing them up in passing and the girl you're talking to keeps coming back to them, then there's possible IOI.
/r/askTRP04/07/16 01:03 AM
1

I enjoy a drink now and again, but I'll go months without it. I've found if I don't make a big deal out of it, neither does anyone else. You don't need an excuse, so don't try to make one up or you'll look like you're covering something up. Shrug and say, "I'd rather drink something I enjoy the taste of." If someone pushes it, ask them "why is this so important to you? Relax, I'm cool if you drink without me." Put the problem back on them because it is, indeed, their problem. This has never give…
/r/askTRP03/07/16 10:00 PM
2

Possible IOI, but also take a closer look at your approach. If you're coming across as less than casual, like you're digging for info, you're going to put these girls on the defensive. They might not want to be stuck in the middle of your pursuit of their friend, even if they personally aren't that into you.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 09:46 PM
1

"Time to go, man, looking forward to a little solo time tonight."
/r/askTRP03/07/16 09:42 PM
2

Why is this something you feel you need to leave your own frame to accomplish? Figure out what's missing in your own life.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 03:28 PM
4

Friend's place, a hotel, wait until everyone is asleep, your car, her car, a discreet place on a blanket in the woods, whatever.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 06:49 PM
1

I'm not seeing the actual problem here - did something happen or are you just annoyed by having female managers? My advice on something so generic is to do your job and do it well.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 05:50 PM
1

Nah, the anger phase wasn't much of a phase for me. More like moments of it here and there. And honestly, I found most of those moments were anger at myself for not understanding or acting appropriately.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 05:44 PM
1

Even less chance of that than one of your park targets...lol But good luck man, seriously. What you're taking as people shitting on you is actually the best advice you're gonna get. Be wise and use it.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 04:22 AM
1

If you're doing it because you feel like you SHOULD, not RP. BUT, if you're avoiding it because you feel like you SHOULDN'T unless it's RP enough, it's also not RP. Redpill is whatever your desire and your intention lead you to do. If you don't want to go, don't. If you feel like a drive, go and don't give it a second thought.
/r/askTRP25/06/16 12:46 AM
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Heh heh heh, yeah you're right, you rock the keeping your cool skills. Cool down kiddo and reread these threads - you'll find the source of your issues right here on the screen.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:10 PM
1

Emotionless battleaxes? I missed that part...lol To each his own on the morality front, but my general rule of thumb is overwhelming honesty. I never offer anything I don't actually plan on giving. If the women who want to be with me proceed anyway, it's 100% on their shoulders.
/r/askTRP24/06/16 08:06 PM
1

Oh man... This is my point. Look how you're responding to my comment - it's petulant, AND it's missing the point. You're right, I misread and thought the girl yelling at you was with the girl you were on the date with, turns out she was with another guy. Whatever. Point stands. Take the hint from the original girl and walk the fuck away. Crashing and burning isn't keeping your dignity - it's crashing and burning and looking like an asshole.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 03:47 PM
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So lemme get this straight...when you realize this girl is not only not on the same page as you, but not even in the same novel, you decide to push ahead to "crash and burn" status anyway. You knowingly make her uncomfortable. She walks away. Gotcha. She then sees you, and decides to push ahead to "crash and burn" status herself. She knowingly makes you uncomfortable. You shoulda taken a page from her handbook and walked away, because she copied "escalate at all costs" excellently from yours. Yo…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 04:25 AM
1

What's unprofessional about that? Unless she's ignoring the children during class or flirting/carrying on in front of them, she's well within her rights to talk to another adult at the end of class and accept an invitation to go out.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 04:07 AM
3

Or someone who doesn't give two shits about who you actually are...
/r/askTRP23/06/16 04:00 AM
1

Ah, I see. The problem isn't that you made a stupid mistake, the problem is that you don't have the confidence or courage to correct it. You DID do research, you DID find new information. If you don't think being honest about that will "go well," you're either telling me you believe these people have a problem with straight talk and honesty or you're telling me you're intimidated by straight talk and honesty. You DID sell yourself short, you mistakenly offered yourself at a lower than market val…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 03:54 AM
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There's a difference between a girl who's interested in being in a relationship, and a girl who's interested in being in a relationship with YOU. First of all, are you okay knowing you're just filling a role in a lot of ways? I grilled for friends last night - which compliment meant more, do you suppose? The friend who commented on the food specifically, asked some questions about the dry rub on the ribs and requested to take some seasoning home; or the dude who was like "glad there's a lot of i…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 01:05 AM
2

This isn't unrecoverable. If you're offered the job with high teen wages, respond with "I'm very interested in the position so I continued to research similar jobs after our interview. I can see I sold myself short and would like you to consider (insert your price here)." If they're reluctant, you can always counter with "let's give it a couple months and I'll let you reevaluate when you see my work." If they flat out say no, up to you if you deal with it or go get the better positions you've se…
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:46 AM
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My suspicion is insecurity on her part. If she's "anxious" about a guy she's known for a month (no matter how awesome you are) you're working with some decidedly low self esteem. Endless shit tests are unnecessary and there are women who naturally keep them to a minimum, but I'd be cautious of a girl who's not at all interested in feeling you out.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 12:31 AM
0

You're just insisting on being as wrong as possible this week, aren't you?
/r/askTRP21/06/16 03:44 PM
1

I respect individuals, not groups or genders. Are there women I respect? Yes. Are there women I disrespect? Absolutely. Same with men. We all want different things, we all achieve them different ways. For every guy saying that women have it easy, there's a woman saying the same thing about us. And guess what? We're both right.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 03:10 PM
1

I am in the military. My brother was in the military. My step-father was in the military. Here's something said military advocates: personal responsibility. I'm the first one to shake my head at most forms of political correctness, but that's not what this is about. These people are just idiots. Know your company, know your boundaries, and don't blame other people when you get caught doing shit you agreed not to do.
/r/askTRP20/06/16 02:52 PM
2

Sex with prostitutes is, however. Non PC texts/language violate just about every professional code of conduct I can think of as well. Simple way to not have your career "wrecked??" Don't choose a job where the parameters are so outside of what you can manage to handle as an adult that you screw yourself over by doing shit like this. These guys are adults, they understand behavior and consequences.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 02:52 PM
2

Yeah, that sucks when people get fired from their job enforcing the law for breaking the law.
/r/askTRP19/06/16 06:06 AM
1

Oh...I dunno...tell them you're not looking for anything serious? Are you looking to make this more complex than what it is?
/r/askTRP19/06/16 06:00 AM
1

Will they have sex with you after an evening, and did you enjoy the sex? If yes, plate material. If you're on a third date and she's asking you to meet her parents, probably not. Use Tinder, bars or clubs, places where girls looking to be casual will go. Ask them home with you. Where's the complication here?
/r/askTRP18/06/16 03:10 PM
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It's easier for a girl (well, anyone really - ego, man) to soften the blow of rejection by making it happen on their own terms. Like, if she strongly indicates that she's DTF and then OP fails to seal the deal, she's been rejected, she didn't get what she expressed she wanted. Sho looks foolish, she looks not good enough. On the other hand, if she makes the decision ahead of time and tells him she's not going to fuck him, she has the power because he can't really turn her down. She can't be reje…
/r/askTRP17/06/16 04:53 PM
4

If you're cool with it, great. I don't see that it's a problem to be secure with a situation. If she's the girl you think she is, awesome. If she's not, you're not missing much if you move on.
/r/askTRP17/06/16 02:44 AM
39

Have you ever heard the expression "yours to lose?" It applies here. You would have to actively try to screw this up. What she's looking for here is just a little reassurance that your less than stellar performance the other night and your follow up flake wasn't because she didn't turn you on, or that you're not attracted to her compared to other girls. She's hinting around your "tinder girls" because she's curious what she's up against. She's saying she won't fuck you to give herself an out if …
/r/askTRP12/06/16 02:58 AM
2

She has other, better options atm. You can always rekindle her interest in the future, up to you. Nothing really to "next" in this situation as she's already handled that for you.
/r/askTRP12/06/16 02:01 AM
2

You're with your plate on Reddit?
/r/askTRP11/06/16 07:25 PM
0

You out of comebacks, bruh? Men don't identify with rapists, son. If your idea of "game" is waiting until she's not conscious enough to play, you need more help than TRP can give.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:43 AM
2

By that logic, I'll assume you're totally cool if some dude jams his fingers or any other foreign object up your ass while you're asleep/drunk. Just so long as it's not his dick. Got it.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 05:38 AM
2

Uh huh. There were "a lot of people" watching her have sex with this guy? Really? Right up until she "fell asleep?" Yet they all mysteriously wandered off right before two Swedish students checked to see what was happening and only then did this poor little swimmer get shy and run off? Bullshit. Go find a conscious woman to hit up, pathetic fuck. No real man, Hell, no half man fingers a passed out chick in an alley. Fucked up, dude. Fucked up.
/r/askTRP11/06/16 04:12 AM
3

What does it change, dude? That girl was unconscious. That's pretty fucked up to translate "sex party" into "rape a passed out girl party."
/r/askTRP11/06/16 03:42 AM
1

Look man, if the ONLY reason you're sharing space with your sister is for the reasons listed then head to Goodwill and score a stack of extra blankets. For the summer make a cheap AC with a fan, some ice, and a Home Depot bucket. The problem is, you're attached to a physically intimate relationship with your sister when you're supposed to be in a physically intimate relationship with someone else. If you don't want to be exclusive with your GF, don't be, cut her off. But if you're saying you are…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:15 PM
6

Is she jealous, or is she a little creeped out/concerned that your actions aren't normal, healthy adult behavior? I'm all for saving a buck, but sacrificing intimate, personal space like a bed so you only have to run one heater comes across as third world level poverty or just BS (neither which impresses women much). I doubt your girl is threatened or possessive in the way you think she is - my guess is she's trying to figure out if she's dating a guy who truly is his own independent man.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 08:32 PM
2

You prefer the chase, that's fine. The challenge is sometimes better than the reward. Have fun.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 08:03 PM
17

This seems like paragraphs upon paragraphs of responding and explaining and positioning when all your wife wanted to do was spend a little self righteous indignation on behalf of her friend. I'm new here, but my "give no shits" response would have been a lot closer to "she wasn't all in, so it sounds like he did them both a favor. Better luck next time."
/r/TheRedPill02/06/16 07:45 PM
7

Possible, but not terribly probable. Next question: you're attracted AND interested, she turns you on, she's valuable in other ways as well, right? So why try so hard just to be friends?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 04:08 AM
3

Is it Red Pill or just that you're at totally different places in life? Different interests? Seems like a common phenomenon whether you're blue, red, or purple. I'd say your dad is right - start looking for people you have more in common with. If you don't feel like you have to put much effort in though, don't expect much in the way of results.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 07:36 PM
2

Nah, I'm in an opposite spot right now - fed up with the clubs period and enjoying the day game, the different banter and laid back nature of it. I don't think there's any rule that says you have to like everything about every situation, so stick with what feels good to you and works for you.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:24 PM
3

Very realistic. Maybe your current circle is a completely different demographic, but there's no shortage of girls with decent financial prospects and jobs around here. There's a balance though - I'm moving out of my college "dating" phase (nothing serious, plates only type of thing) to where I'm exploring seeing girls on a more steady basis. If they're going to be equal earners, these girls are going to be equal workers. Different game.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 06:19 AM
2

I'm going with a strong "no" on the LTR.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:59 AM
1

Context? I mean, there's a huge difference between a drunken girl at the club shoving a scrawled on bar napkin in your hand after seeing you across the room and trading contact info with someone you've met through friends and had a decent conversation with.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:22 AM
2

Kinda unrealistic, yeah. Have fun but remember: "you can't polish a turd."
/r/askTRP01/06/16 05:15 AM
6

Sooo...you're bothered by a girl you're engaging in casual sex with acting like a girl who's okay with and enjoys casual sex? You keep her around because she's easy, but you're trying to figure out what to do about her being easy? I'm pretty new to RP, but it seems to me like you're getting what you paid for, so to speak.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:06 AM
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