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I left my dark triad type girlfriend after 3 months. Was tired of her shit of trying to make me into a beta doormat. I just said fuck it and started cold approaching again and I must say it feels good. There's a small void in me which sometimes invokes a bit of nostalgia for the ex, but I know I just have to replace it with a new girl. Also started reading books on Machiavellian type of stuff. Planning on reading the Prince from the man himself. I'm also carefully analysing my behavior so I can …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 01:33 PM
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Good post. This is something I've always felt it was wrong with this community. Women with an ounce of self-respect won't put up with your Alpha shit if you already establishes you're an alpha in beginning. The balance is key in everything.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/17 04:32 PM
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Let go of your emotions, poser. I came here to ask real red pillers for advice, not a frustrated idiot who projects his hate onto others. Besides, the bitch came back, lmao.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 04:23 PM
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That was my initial reaction as well. I took the advice first poster gave me. I replied with a similar message he proposed so we'll see.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:46 AM
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Thanks for voting up. I actually came for advice here. I would definitely like to meet the mods who allow this trollish behavior though.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:26 AM
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Defensive? I'm stating facts. Lack of "conveyed emotion" IS counter-productive with women over texting. I obviously read better than you can write. If by "assertive" you mean I didn't ask her to fuck me right of the bat, then yeah, I'm not assertive.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:11 AM
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And your lack of elaboration is repulsive. What's not assertive about it? I asked her out on the 5th message. Emoticons show emotion in the text, any lack of it is counter-productive with women. How the hell did YOU find the TRP?
/r/askTRP19/01/17 09:03 AM
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Sounds good. I guess I will try to build something towards that mundset. I'll make a variation of your example and then with each girl gradually build up.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 08:36 AM
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I think I have yet to adopt that kind of leap of faith, lmao. How about I do the same for just the date? Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP19/01/17 08:09 AM
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Anyone who achieves those things is much happier in life.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 07:22 AM
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When you do enough approaches, the rejection doesn't phase you anymore. If you have the mindset that not every woman will find you appealing or attractive (which is true), it even further destroys the rejection stigma.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 04:50 PM
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Thanks for the detailed elaboration.
/r/askTRP16/01/17 04:17 PM
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I don't think visiting TRP is a bad idea. Reading it but not implementing in your life is a bad idea.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 12:45 PM
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Many women don't care about the height as much as the popular opinion thinks. Don't make the situation for this guy worse.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 02:33 PM
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I can love, yeah. The vetting process is if these bitches can fill my desire of being a girl with whom I can start something along the lines of LTR. I'm not putting them on a pedestal, I'm more putting myself on one. I agree with my shattered expectations causing the lashing out. I'm trying to change that.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 10:17 AM
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I wouldn't say I'm pedestalizing them. I'm more dependent on the outcome that I desire, which is ultimately the sex and some kind of connection. When I see it's not going smoothly, I lash out and go to next one. Bitch number 2 told me that we're not compatible in bed and nexted me. I didn't get it up as she hoped but ended up fucking her at the end. It wasn't good because I'm not accustomed to one night stands (we fucked after the first date which is still a blue pill thinking from me in terms t…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:31 AM
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Glad to hear it. I have yet to experience it on a larger scale. Hopefully it will get better with all this material at my disposal.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:27 AM
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I could say that I have self-confidence which signals me that I shouldn't try too hard to win over a girl and at the same time, when the initial approach is a success (she texts me and wants to go out on a date, I have low self-confidence that the continuation of that success will break. And when she doesn't comply to what I perceive would be a logical step in her digging me, I flip. Yeah, lol. It's funny to me that I can handle rejections from HB10s and not give a shit, but once I get rejected …
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 09:26 AM
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Thanks for your great insight. Your words definitely helped as far as empathy goes. You're right on the mark. I panic as soon as I don't see the expected result when thr girls already decide to go out with me, heh. Irony here is that I don't give a flying f$ck if girls reject me whe I approach them but I go apes$it if the desired result doesn't continue. I'm not outcome independent when it comes to culmination, you could say. Self-destructive would be the best word to describe it. But like I sai…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 07:32 PM
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I know it in theory but it's hard to put it to practice. I guess it will come with more experience once you have this mindset.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 04:09 PM
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Glad I'm not the only one. I'm in HR so it's accustomed to me that I have to be an authority figure. I had to adopt the alpha mannerisms and intense atmosphere. I get the girls easy, but once I see that they're falling under my influence, I start to project my reality onto them (which is a healthy relationship). I become needy, alphaness fades and all they're left with is an emotional inexperienced wreck.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 02:15 PM
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Thanks man. It's good to let go of ego. Feels good.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:26 PM
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Can someone PDF this? It's gold.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 12:14 PM
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Gold. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 07:21 PM
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Thanks for the advice. I am a man of value and have deep respect for myself, except I'm beta with women because I'm too emotional. Enough. Time to get this obstacle out of the way.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 07:20 PM
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No role models here but I understand the concept and was slowly adapting the RP mentality through PUA stuff. Of course, this more on point without memorizing bullshit.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 07:19 PM
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Seems logical, thanks for the input.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 07:18 PM
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Handy. Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 07:16 PM
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I think he was sarcastic.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 07:15 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 08:06 AM
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Thanks.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 11:25 PM
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Read it, it was a bit too much for me since I didn't identify with it. Thanks for the advice though.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 09:37 PM
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Thanks for the detailed answer.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 09:20 PM
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Thanks bro, you too!
/r/askTRP09/01/17 10:23 PM
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I couldn't agree more! It did hurt me a little because I couldn't show her my best the first time but hey, it's the first time a woman acted so drastically after PA. It seems so. What's the best mindset to have when seducing women in general? Not give a fuck? If it works, it works?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 10:23 PM
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Yeah, same was with me but I managed to get it up after 15 minutes so it's probably due to awkwardness in my head. I wasn't a porn abuser but I still decided to quit it totally and now I jack of twice a week on touch and irl fantasy alone. Which is okay if you ask me.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 08:37 PM
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My situation was about 2 weeks ago as well. Why didn't you deliver?
/r/askTRP09/01/17 08:09 PM
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I'll do that. I didn't think this behavior was part of female sexual strategy. It's why I posted here. Women who want sex usually flaunt that desire, not just flip the switch, at least in my experience.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 05:44 PM
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"You are amazing" "You are like my christmas gift" "You are incredible" "I cant wait to see you" " I wish you were here". Yeah, I misinterpreted it alright. She was shy as fuck and barely making eye contact. Awesome body language to spot the sexual interest.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 05:43 PM
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Call me old fashioned but sex shouldn't be everything in a relationship. But yeah I get what you mean.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 05:40 PM
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Haha, but fuck that accomplishment if it wasn't used to its full potential. Fuck women who want me to be their Chad, to be honest. But I will use them to get my PA out of the way. Thanks for the talk.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 04:49 PM
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She didn't seem like she wanted sex at all. That's why it was all so confusing. She seemed sweet and innocent with emotional baggage, but not at all a woman who would base all her opinions on you just from sex perspective. If I knew she was like that, I would just pick up a drunk broad in the club... Yeah, definitely. I'm trying. It's not the first time it happened. It usually happens the first time with every girl. And then when I get accustomed to her and she to me, it's a pornstar experience.…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 04:44 PM
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It is a shitty reason since it was a first date. If it was a one night stand, I would understand. I guess I am a beta in fucking since I'm not comfortable getting it up on the first date, but is that a real reason a woman should reject you? The funny thing is that I was fucking her brains out once it got up but that's beside the point. Nexting is done, I just wanted to understand the mechanics of it all. Okay, so there are women who consider you beta if you can't fuck her hard as soon as you ent…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 04:11 PM
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Ouch. But I sort of knew it. I know they don't care about logic, the problem is that I rely too much on it. It was absolutely ridiculous to me that she was showering me with compliments and then turned for 180 because we're not "compatible in bed". It was a shitty reason to cut me which is why I reacted that way emotionally. I can see now objectively that I acted like a brat. But at the same time, I can understand why I acted like a brat.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 03:26 PM
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You nailed it. Where could I read about IDGAF?
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:10 PM
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Thanks for this. I started meditating so hopefully, it will help.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 09:09 PM
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I guess I posted in the wrong section. Sorry about that.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:08 PM
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I don't worry as much as it seems, I just want to remove any anomalies. To be honest, this is ridiculous situation to be in. I wasn't a heavy porn user, we could say that I'm using this excuse as a placebo affect, hopefully.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:05 PM
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This pretty much sums me up. Thanks for the insight!
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 09:02 PM
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I didn't say the effects are gone. I quit 2 weeks ago, lol. I'll know if there are any differences with the next one, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:49 PM
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That title is familiar to me. Probably stumbled upon it when I was searching for the solutions. Oh I know it's psychological. I go to the gym frequently and live a healthy lifestyle. I can feel my body freezing up and getting tense because of my thinking when I see her naked on the bed. It's definitely psychological. It's also ironic how much confidence I have in a daily life as opposed to when I want to get down to business. It's baffling and I want to change that asap. I'll get the book. Thank…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:40 PM
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Exactly, yes. I think it influences me a lot. Gave it up. Started jacking off to irl past images in my head. Working out a lot, have no issues at all with the way I look. On the contrary, I could say I'm even a bit conceited in that regard. So you can imagine why this bothers me. It's a stupid problem to have, seriously.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:23 PM
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Thanks. Yeah, honestly, regardless of what kind of female it is, it's in my head. I tried most of them, different mentalities, idiots, sluts, good girls, it's always the same. So it has to be me.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 04:17 PM
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Just gave it up because I realized it might have an impact on my expectations and what I think that women expect as well.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 04:12 PM
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Yeah, there's no doubt about that. I wanna change that so bad, because it's the only thing holding me back. I will try, definitely, thanks.
/r/askTRP06/01/17 03:57 PM
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Probably. I will try. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:57 PM
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Yeah, I usually don't care what others think except in the bedroom. I might be thinking too much about her expectations. I know the logic, it's tough to rely on sensation when the action is going on. I'll just have tor repeat this process until I don't care. But still, it's always the first time. When I get comfortable with them after the first time, I'm a-ok.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:29 PM
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I'm more than happy with my body. I maybe have some nervousness when a woman touches my limp dick at the start but that's about it. I quit porn because maybe it influenced me subcounsciously in terms of what to expect and what women expect.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 02:04 PM
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Exactly. If that part of TRP were be true, many men wouldn't be pulling women when they change their living locations where they don't know anyone.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 12:00 PM
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Absolutely love this post because I can identify with it. I choose to have quality friends and the number of that is always low. My facebook is empty because I don't like using it. According to TRP, my social value should be low and thus not appealing to women, despite being hot. I got numbers and pulled women regardless of my friends. I think we sometimes forget the other side of the coin, which is the woman itself.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 11:04 AM
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Can't agree with this more. But in my experience, you can have all the fundamentals and actually be good at this but it won't work on every woman. Being very good at this doesn't guarantee it will work on everyone. There's also external factors to be considered here which, in numbers, are many more than keys to pulling a successful number. My friend is a very persistent guy but his social skills suck, to be fairly critical. He still pulls girls home because he approaches like crazy. The conclusi…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/17 10:38 AM
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