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When my husband and I were dating, besides birthdays, we always split and it was split by whatever we ordered (for example I don't drink but he does. So he's have the beer or whatever and mine has the pop or mocktails), any appetizers were split billed as well. It just seems the simplest way to do things.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 02:54 AM
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Vast majority of men are normal decent ppl. That doesn't mean they don't have neurodivergency or trauma etc. just that by and large they're good guys. I fully believe only a small minority of men are toxic, rapey, abusive, evil, predators etc. Same goes for women also. If it was the majority we'd be living in the purge universe and they wouldn't just be looting Lego stores like I would
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:28 AM
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If someone invades the states, women would be fighting in the military along with men as well...I also see fraction sides developing because of how divided your country is and both men and women fighting the fuck out of eachother and the invading force, while sending disabled men and women, elderly and children to safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:48 PM
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My beliefs are alot like traditional feminism but without the racism and such. I find being a stay at home mom/wife as completely valid if that's what she chooses and the partner agrees. Mutual consent. However, she should always have a backup plan. A education that can help her get a job or career to manage the bills if the need arises. I don't mean that all men will cheat or leave her high and dry, I mean for if God forbid something horrible happens. He has a medical event, is injured at work …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:06 PM
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It's not the 50s-70s anymore. Most women are working full-time, many are nurses/doctors/first responders where their hours are insane, ppl run their own businesses. Why should women only be the cooks when they're working as well as the men. And is cooking really the only thing you can think a woman will bring to a relationship? As for protection, well that's someone both parties should do for eachother and it doesn't mean because once in a blue moon someone may break in and you may be home for i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 02:17 PM
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Cooking is a vital life skill...but I do think most ppl, man or woman can cook. It's just becomes a matter of what's easier, ordering or not. Empathy is actually interesting. I have relatives who are teachers and there is a tread theyre seeing with kids where they don't have compassion or empathy as much nor is it being taught to them (those are skills ones does have to teach for it to develop). Family dynamics...well that varies by each person. My family dynamic growing up I wouldn't want at al…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:03 AM
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Could you provide examples please?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:05 AM
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I find it weird, but if they're consenting adults I'm not going to have a issue with it. It's just weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:16 AM
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I have a rule about being friends with coworkers it's called don't. Be friendly, be chatty but don't fully trust them As for a female friend whose not a coworker, well it's like how a dude is your friend. It's just someone you hang with or chat with, who you feel safe with, have fun, similar personalities, probably interests and hobbies etc. they're people where when you're hanging out or chat, you come out having a positive vibe or feeling. It can be friends you hang with one on one or in a gro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 12:15 AM
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Agreed fully. I hope one day we can get to a place where we can understand rape and sexual assualt better so men and women, boy and girls, can get the support they need. Hell real housewives of New Jersey (don't judge) many seasons ago. Joey g. Was talking about losing his virginity at 9/10 to the 15/16 year old babysitter. His sister (year or two older) walked in and blackmailed him about it for years as their folks were traditional Catholics from Italy. To their credit the cast members looked …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 05:32 PM
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Andrew Tate? You have access to Reddit from jail? Also I'm not sure what to debate here as once again women are not the borq. There are so many assumptions based off one's own dislike of women, that I'm not even sure where to start. Maybe some women have contempt for some men because those men treat women as a object for use not a person to be respected...as demonstrated in this post
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/26 07:35 AM
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The only kind of lies, I can accept are gift and plans related to Christmas, or a surprise anniversary/bday party. For example: my husband knows I'm not into surprise parties, I'm a pure introvert. But if for my bday he organizes a trip to a cabin or resort or something, obviously it's okay for him to lie to me to keep that surprise hidden. Otherwise, I don't believe lies are ever okay from any party. It breaks trust and you need trust in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 05:13 PM
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I never mentioned feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:16 PM
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Never said that. But there is a reason ppl have these outdated views and it does come from a lack of education. Blaming the victim, bullying and harassing the victim, telling someone they cannot be a victim because they're aee a guy/boy, they orgasmed, they didn't fight harder, it wasn't a true rape etc. is always wrong and evil. But we also cannot deny there is a serious lack of education with sex crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:15 PM
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There are huge outdated beliefs in rape to this day. There's really nothing to debate with it, we just need far more education on the topic for everyone. Heck there are ppl out there who claim if you orgasm it cannot be rape at all, that belief is so dangerous and outdated
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 12:52 AM
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After a really long time after they have left the shit head (I'm talking like at least a year) and never about abuse. Also depends on the person, cus some people cope with things by making dsrk jokes or a ribbing etc. others are really really sensitive. I would never tell anyone in my family anything along "should have chosen better" or "I told you so" cus they're all extremely sensitive and any criticism is matched with hostility
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:30 PM
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What in God's name is a alpha widow? Is this a new term for black widow?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 03:48 PM
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Which is apart of mainstream media. There's ppl who are outraged at their antics, ppl who support them, and ppl who have issues with the same shit I do. And well clavi is either supported or mocked heavily. Literally just watched watts mock the shit out of the guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:10 PM
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I have the same issue with guys doing it. It's just off, like a few hours makes that much of a difference. I am surprised the pregnancy is legit though, I did think that was a stunt
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:07 PM
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I think alot of ppl have the same outrage. As for clevicular man is clearly a cry for attention, it's just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 06:06 PM
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I mean Bonnie blue, I don't what emotion I feel to her but it isn't support, mostly because with her antics there's no way she can guarantee she hasn't fucked a minor. And I find it predatory to wait for guys to turn 18 to screw them on their bday, when a hour earlier they were minors. IDC if she wants to do porn or whatever, same with Lily Philips, consenting adults and all that, I care that proper care isn't being put in to prevent stds with some of the stunts, and the minors issue. As for cle…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:57 PM
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Oh I agree, and men do it too. Humans are weird as fuck. You don't see budgies refusing to mate with the blue ones when they're white coloured. I mean on one hand you can't help attraction but to just write ppl off due to race or height is so stupid. But again the race one does show true colours of someone which is handy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:31 AM
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I mean race is a weird one but at least when someone says it you can side eye them cus it reveals alot of true colours.... Height, I think some ppl care more due to their own height, I have female friends who are quite tall (and I'm not just saying that cus I'm a shortie, they're like 6 feet) and alot of guys don't want to date them over height. I always wonder why height matters to so many people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:25 AM
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I feel the amount of bullet holes you sustain shortens how full it can be though...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:21 AM
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The two idiots who got firing squaded by the cops because they were bored in the depression?!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:19 AM
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So you'd date a psychopath who kills ppl on once a week or something else evil, so long as she's a healthy weight?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 12:13 AM
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Funny enough, besides remaking the blanket bed for our dog, I've never had to redo my husband's cleaning and vice versa...I have to remake the blankets cus a 10 pound has insane needs for the blankets to be laid a certain way and folded a certain way. We just communicated early on when we started living together our cleaning habits and standards and both rose to match eachother so nobody would feel like they're carrying the work load alone...as were both fully capable adults
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 10:28 PM
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What is your point then, because that's what it's reading out as. You think lesser of men and therefore they need to be treated not as capable adults who can manage their home also, but as kids
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:41 PM
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So your argument is men are slobs and cannot be expected to do adult responsibilities to manage a home unless it reaches a certain level of gross and women should just manage it alone because they're more capable?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:13 PM
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Some ppl(men and women alike can be a gold digger) love money and what money can brings. Real housewives shows why the allure of money appeals to ppl. If you grew up in a conservative traditional values (you tend to be more religious then) family, a man with more money will be seen as a better provider for the kids you're supposed to have and stay home and raise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 12:30 AM
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I haven't, I'm trying to shy away from punch you in the throat with feelings after the last of us, walking dead and red dead. I think what hurt me so much about Arthur is I was playing him as a redemption arch from the start. Because I didn't like who we was at the start of the game and I knew Dutch wasn't who he claimed to be. And after horseshoe overlook things just get harder and harder and you're loosing more people you care for, some in the most brutal ways. Then there's my Arthur whose fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:09 AM
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Hollow is one of my favorites. I watch him all the time. Xjuliettex is another one I watch
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:55 PM
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You know if you don't want to play, YouTube has thousands of channels that do a complete walkthrough of the game. With and without commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:36 PM
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You try collected every single fucking bird feather that's perfect lol I have so much rage over that achievement cus you need a flippin bow and arrow but if you fuck it up you make the species extinct and then I'm just angry eating....the story is great though. I full on sobbed at the ending
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:28 PM
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Depends on the video games I'd say as a gamer girl. Red dead Redemption 2 set one hell of a standard for stories in a video game, I still haven't emotionally recovered from that game
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:15 PM
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Dude if you don't want to be with women then don't. Barring certain regions of the world, it's 2026 and you can be alone, just fucking around or with guys. You don't have to saddle up with a woman when you clearly do not like us nor want us and think we're so damn awful. And when it comes to what do you bring to the table, I go back to Roy Ken when he was talking to Rebecca. it is highly individualized. I don't know what I bring to the table for my husband he'd have to answer that, but he does l…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:14 PM
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Well that's pitiful and weak. See this is why I had a rule before meeting hubby, I was not going to date the town pump
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:08 PM
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Put aside the obvious consent issues because like no need to discuss that, I don't understand the allure to filming yourself and someone else fucking to them share it around with randos. Like are they trying to earn a "Atta boy" and pat on the back or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:06 PM
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Fuck I was out to dinner with my husband(then bf) and one of his co-workers was passing around a video he took of fucking some random woman. Idk if he asked to film, if she knew about it, but she wasn't to consent to it being shown. Hubby and I were so uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:58 PM
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What the hell is awdtsg? Is is some sort of app?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 02:55 PM
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My favs: train to Busan (the symbolism and character development is amazing. And I was crying at the end), Scooby Doo zombie island(1st one not the 2nd. The second is such crap), cloverfield, national Lampoon's Christmas vacation and elf
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 07:29 AM
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Mental health can tie into physical though. It took me forever to realize that my anxiety spirals horribly during Endo flare ups. Which makes sense now as it's all hormones going insane. Anxiety is a beast and Endo is a different monster
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 03:35 AM
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....I may have had that urge as a cashier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:58 AM
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So much for honoring the vows
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 02:57 AM
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I will say shit does happen . Health changes, life changes etc. I have Endometriosis, took me forever to get taken seriously and get a diagnosis and such, and well it advanced quite a bit by that point. Now during flare ups (which can happen. Randomally through the month even if I'm not on my period) sex hurts. Like physically hurts alot. There's the ideal standard of we should all be compatible on sex drives and all be in the mood roughly the same time and it be frequent, and then life comes al…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 01:11 AM
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Again no. Nobody unless they're those influencer types are looking around for ppl to notice them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 11:21 PM
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No we don't. At all. Unless we sense someone is following us or it's that influencer bullshit, we do not look around for ppl to notice us
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:52 PM
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My god my 5 years as a cashier tested me in ways I didnt think we're possible. Ppl leaving their toddlers and children with me while they ran to get a quick item, the disrespect and creeps, the last minute shoppers saying one item at closing (I don't mind if you need like pads, diapers, formula, cat food etc. and you run and come back with that one item) and then spend 30min to a hour filling a cart. The cherry on top though, this lady and her bf would target new cashier's and bullying them into…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 10:49 PM
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So I get intrusive thoughts...had them alot working as a cashier for Walmart...all violent like throwing things at ppl. It's not anyone elses job to do anything about that but my own. They're my thoughts, they're my urges for violence and I'm Soley in charge of not acting Just like it is no woman's fault you list after them, it's on you to control it and only you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 09:21 PM
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That sounds like an entirely you problem with a mix of "it puts the lotion on the skin."
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:55 PM
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There's a difference between noticing someone and simply being respectful and saying you look pretty or whatever. And either accepting rejection or you strike up a convo...and being a asshole who is deeming and crude to women. I don't like to feel like prey, I don't like to feel like the man will harm me. And that is all in how everything is delievered and body language. For example when I was 12/13 two guys leaned out a car window and yelled at me about my body and how they bet I would like a t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 07:44 PM
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Lol he so far has. I was very lucky to have found my husband. Our mutual good friend set us up and he understood my values and was very respectful
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 04:00 PM
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There's so many assumptions it's like the whatever podcast here. So I had issue when I was in my 20s and dating with guys who just wanted a quick fuck. Because that's not what I wanted. I was a virgin and I was looking for commitment and marriage, and to me sex is a very deeply emotional connection and step that has very real risks. So I wasn't going to fuck anyone until I was sure i was ready and we as a couple were ready. And my dates back then never went past date three because all but one of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 02:46 AM
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What is or who is Lavar balls? And as a woman married to the love of my life, that is bullshit. I love my husband with everything I have. There are ppl who cannot handle the "in sickness part", man or woman. Look at David Foster and one of his ex wives Yolanda. Look at Terry and Steve Erwin, that man was her everything and she never dated or remarried after he passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 03:36 AM
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Is your grandma living in your uterus and using your bodily fluids and organs for survival thus compromising your health? And no I cannot fix shit in other countries, cannot even run for govt in them to do that. I luckily live in a country that protects my and other women's rights and I vote to continue that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 09:02 PM
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I never claimed they would or wouldn't want to live. I said her life matters far more. Just as her wants do. You do realize with the abortion bans currently going on in other countries (thank God mine still views women as the most important person in a pregnancy), women aren't getting abortions for medical need because of the way laws are written. It's too vague and doctors have to wait making it far more dangerous. It's why I'm not a fan of red tape like what's going on in many countries. End o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:19 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's 2percent or not. We need care and access readily available and no red tape. There are ppl out there who believe abortion is never needed no matter what. Even if she will die if it continues, like ectopic pregnancy. And having been raised by ppl who never wanted children (and I was told this at least once a month by my mother from a young child to even now), ppl should not have kids they do not want. There's a shit ton of damage there for all parties and given how the foste…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 08:09 PM
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As unfair and brutal as it sounds, because it's her body and life on the line. Pregnancy can become dangerous and life threatening at any point. I have friends who totally normal pregnancy then they're hemorrhaging and in for emergency csections and it got scary fast. We don't have technology where a fetus can grow outside the woman's body so it is her call end of day. Whether individually we agree or not
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 07:57 PM
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Way I look at abortion is this. You don't have to like it, personally support it, or personally choose it as a option. Hell I wouldn't abort unless there was a medical need that I discuss with my doctor not random politicians deciding they know best. But we have no right to take the options away from other women, just because we don't like what they may choose. Because it disagrees with whatever religious beliefs you may have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:31 AM
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Male victims sadly do exist. I say sadly because I wish we lived in a world where nobody was harmed, abused, assualted etc. Also, You do realize women are not the Borg right?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 08:30 PM
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I swear I remember reading about something similar back during the fur trade and gold rush eras. Women....well mostly 16 year old girls but different era, who had no family support or economical support would get on a boat and enter a lottery type of deal to come to British north America to marry a random fur trapper and miner cus the men needed wives and you had a bunch of young women wkth no protection. It really didn't work out that well. Your scenario wouldn't work out well either, this is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:23 PM
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I have empathy and sympathy for people regardless of their biological sex. Where that ends for me is when they use their trauma, challenges, past as a weapon or excuse to harm others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:18 PM
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Real housewives of New Jersey all of season four. The whole season builds up to stripper gate. I recommend season 3 as well though so you can understand the players in it and dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:42 AM
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Well that falls under financial abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:35 AM
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People have the right to live whatever relationship dynamic they want (so long as there's no abuse to anyone involved). The key is all parties need to consent and it needs to be a choice. One of the things I learned from my real housewives shows (don't judge, stripper gate was iconic and addictive) is that there is no one set marriage dynamic and what works for one won't work for the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:38 AM
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Probably the same as how many good men there are. I think since morality is very different for each person to a degree and certainly with different cultures, it's impossible to give a actual number. There are plenty of people who would consider me a good woman and there are plenty who would think I have no morals or loose morals and am a bad woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:16 PM
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Depends on the woman. I'm a nerd, so when dating I was looking for a more nerdy guy so we can get our nerd game on and have a common interest. I have friends who are just not nerds and wouldn't be interested in any of that. They look at me like I'm a odd ball
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:15 AM
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I mean we cannot control who we find attractive, nobody can. There are plenty of women who find what some would say are average or ugly guys attractive. To me my husband is the most handsome guy. I have no clue how others rank him, I just know what I see when I look at him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:11 AM
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Christian here, and side story but there's a theory that Adam ate the apple first not eve and blamed it on her. That's why God gave men the Adams apple as a reminder of his lie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 04:18 AM
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But I did not say that's my beliefs did I? You're making the assumption I fight for men's rights just as much as I do women's rights, I don't care your gender identify, biological sex, sexual orientation, religion, what hockey team you choose to root for(I'll judge you for it though), I will fight for all rights and to make sure ppl have a good quality of life. I may never make a difference in it, but I'll be damn if I go through life letting ppl be abused or harmed in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 10:05 PM
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When did I say I don't care about men or their quality of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:53 PM
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And when women do you say men need to be the assholes extremists claim they are because women are not doing what you want.... Seriously man,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:31 PM
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I'm saying punished because you're saying men need to be the monsters extremists say they are because of how women are now. That is a consequence in a negative like "you didn't do any of your work tasks this week so you're on a p.i.p" it's a punishment. You didn't say the words but that is what you're stating. And you either do not want to see it (which is what I suspect) or you don't understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:13 PM
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Because if you don't care about others and their well being around you, not just family and friends, you're a asshole. Man or woman If you feel women should be punished and deserve to be treated like shit because we fight for our rights and others around us, you are a asshole. And trust me as a woman, we know we're not entitled to support, why the hell do you think we have fought so hard in the past and current day to force a better situation for us and everyone around us? Because we know there …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:56 PM
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So again the argument is: women won't do or say what we want so fuck them we will be assholes and they can deal with the fallout because if they won't do want we want, they need to be punished.... Do you not get how this all sounds
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:45 PM
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Are all women apart of these groups and/or against men? Or is there far more nuisance to it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:39 PM
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So the argument is men should be as dangerous as extremists say they are .... Because women are not giving them what they feel they deserve?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:34 PM
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So real loneliness is lack of sex? Why the heck aren't you just being less picky and pay for service then you won't be lonely anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 01:12 PM
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I think it's a good guideline that should apply to both sexes. If you're drunk you cannot consent, most contracts are void when you're under the influence and it impairs judgement heavily. That said if both ppl are hammered and it's not force able there's a grey line
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:50 AM
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I don't get why ppl are upset with ppl being picky. Assuming you're not just looking for a quick fuck and a dinner or drinks, you should be. You're picking someone to spend the rest of you life with whether married or not. That's a huge damn decision and you need to make sure you're compatible. Be picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 12:15 AM
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One thing I learned with my family is that you cannot get a healthy confidence, and self esteem from others. You need to build it yourself and do your best to protect it from being torn down by others. I also don't think anyone needs fwb, hook ups and such. But I do not believe ppl should be shamed for consensual sexual activities. Whether is just being with one person, waiting till marriage, never have sex, casual hook ups, having a relationship with 3 girls or 3 guys at the same time etc. if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:56 PM
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It could be. It can also be my close friends who are guys and 3 years older than my (my husband's age). No grooming what so ever. The guys and I act like siblings
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:50 PM
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Yes. I have guy friends, they're like my big brothers. Even the single ones. There's nothing romantic or remotely flirty about it. My husband has female friends and same deal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:29 PM
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Back when I was in highschool we didn't have remotely the same content online we do now. It was farming on Farmville with FB (I remember coordinating with everyone to make sure we fertilized eachothers crops and shared loot), world of warcraft was still classic era and wrath of the litch King just dropped. YouTube was about ppl posting music videos and editing their favorite shows and movies to match songs (supernatural fandom did this alot). Walk throughs on difficult video game levels, failarm…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 07:40 AM
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Idk where I ever said any of the top stuff. Abusive shit heads...man or woman... Don't wear a sign around their necks saying "hey I'm a piece of shit, but I'm a great cook/baker/funny/rich/I can burp the anthem etc. so give me a chance." They're smart, charming and manipulative. They're excellent at hiding who they initially, truely are. It's amazing psychologically to study how their minds work. They know how to lull ppl into a sense of security before the first strike happens. Its not like old…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:13 AM
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We'll get her to recognize what he was doing was abuse and wrong, get her to understand she deserved better, get her to a point where she can accept help and to leave, then to try and leave safely. Etc. We can try all we might but it comes down to her at the end of the day and it takes alot
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:57 AM
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I'm sure to some he was a very handsome man. To me I was never really attracted to him, but before I started noticing things I was singing his praises of being such a good man. I had zero attraction but I thought he was a stand up dude and would be a great friend to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 05:00 AM
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I mean he wasn't my cup of tea on the attractive scale but there is a psychological basis to pretty bias. We treat ppl differently based on how they look all the time. Man or woman. Taller more handsome men are taken more seriously. Fatter ppl have a huge bias behind them as being seen as lazy etc. then racial bias and such. Even from the clothes you wear can sway others opinion of how to view you. You could be a shorter guy, who maybe isn't that attractive but you dress and carry yourself a cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 03:02 AM
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He was a very charming and charismatic teenager. I mean the kid knew how to work a room, literally everybody in the school loved him. And in public he was the perfect boyfriend, I mean hallmark Christmas movie perfect. It wasn't until I really got into law and order SVU and started to watch her that I noticed something was not adding up. And I wasn't close friends with her so I had to convince her close friends(that were left) to see what I was starting to see. Abusers are so damn good at manipu…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:55 AM
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Yes, there was a guy I went to school with. He was extremely charming, charismatic, hilarious etc. to everybody he was the perfect "good guy" always helpful and supportive. Behind closed doors he was raping and beating his gf, it took ages to get her away from him. My biological grandfather was the same way, ppl were shocked at him being a abusive shit head to my nonna, because he was such a stand up guy. Many abusive men and women, know how to lie and manipulate and hind the evil. To draw ppl i…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 02:18 AM
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So you need men like the tates who beat women, are pimps and honestly to me they hate women with how they talk about them, to get what you want. If I saw a bunch of men acting like the tates, and I was single, I'd just never date again nor interact with them at all. I wouldn't take anything they say seriously and I'd actively be working to make sure anything they demand doesn't happen because they're dangerous to women, children and men. So what is it that you want to gain by acting like a piece…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:52 PM
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Yes barring extreme examples women love sex. Especially with guys who are not consumed with their wants and actually care about us. That does not mean we will try any sexual thing out there even if the guy is smoking hot. I get you think all women are superficial and don't actually mean no. But we do and how attractive a man is, doesn't change the no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:59 AM
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Yes if she or he says no that's all that matters. Not what the other person wants. Consent is all that matters. What the actual fuck man? Why some men get a bj in the glory hole bathroom and others don't? Well they found a girl or guy dax who likes doing that. Not all will. You could literally ask God to send down the most handsome man ever. Like top tier everyone would agree and if the other guy or girl isn't into that the answer will be no.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:20 AM
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If anal, gangbangs, fisting, oral, fingering etc. are a hard no, it doesn't matter what you look like. You could be Brad Pitt in his hay day and the answer will be a no. Women's consent and boundaries don't change based on looks. When I hear guys bitch "she didn't do xyz with me but I bet she did it with other guys" to me that says you don't care about her one bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 03:07 AM
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Why do so many guys feet about what a woman might have done with a ex? If a woman isn't into anal, at all for instance, no amount of attraction will change that
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:36 AM
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75 percent of your chores were food related? That's like 5 percent of my chores now with a dishwasher. The floors, appliances, pet care, laundry, folding laundry, bathroom clean up, daily tidying is the vast majority of what needs to be done...and lord help me if the pup has a upset stomach
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:21 PM
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I never said that. How I was raised is if there's a mess and you're able bodied, and not a Wii little tyke, you clean it up. Regardless if you made it or not. And the person who cooked the meal for the family never tidies the dishes as a thank you for taking the time to provide. Every morning you start with a list of to be dones and everyone participates in crossing it off, because you're a member of the household so it's your responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:20 PM
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Whatever floats your boat, seems like a unnecessary headache and selfish way to be to have a tit for tat score board.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:58 PM
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Today I learned cooking food for oneself or the family is a unfair amount of mess... Good lord above
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:55 PM
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So in a household ppl should only do the dishes they create and that's it? Not just do the whole chore as it is?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 09:53 PM
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Aren't there like 100# of categories on each site? Some like one particular thing and others like something else. IDC what ppl watch, I just don't want it in my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 10:25 PM
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There's issues with both, and it's because they're not actually compliments they're insults trying to be disguised as a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:58 AM
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I feel like you glossed over the actual points. Relationships don't mean security, long term or short term. Just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 02:03 AM
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So sex and relationships don't bring security to women. Because yes she knows the baby is hers, but he can leave. He can fuck her and bounce, cheat, die. Decide he doesn't want to raise a child and bounce. Even if they're married (I had friends who didn't have dad's because he decided I don't want to be a daddy. It's not fun). He could stay but have zero involvement in raising the child. Then theres what if he dies or she does. What if there's complications from pregnancy and she's disabled and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 01:38 AM
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And why don't men get security and you assume women do?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:37 PM
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Q. What do you think the biggest motivation for a woman seeking a relationship is? And the. What is the man's?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 04:39 AM
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Sorry what are we debating here? Women's greatest fears in a relationship? Men fear a kid isn't their's and that is their greatest fear and insecurity?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 09:13 PM
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To me a classic alpha is someone like Steve Irwin (God rest his soul) and his children now. He was kind, compassionate, devoted to promoting and defending conservation and a proud papa. He cared for everyone around him and animals. How he spoke about Terry was everything. They were soul mates. And his son and daughter are following their dads footsteps. My husband reminds me alot about Steve except I'm definitely more the animal person in the family. Alphas we see in social media literally make …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:01 AM
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Funny enough my female friends were talking about this in reverse. The guys they know have a new girl right after a breakup while women wait a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:52 AM
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I'm married, my husband is my best friend and my everything. I honestly have zero desire to be with anyone else at all, he's the only one I want to be with. I think cheating is as common as it's always been, as is throughout history there are men and women who have cheated. My grandpa cheated on my grandma and it resulted in a child. There may have been other women too idk. But I do not think it's most by a long shot for men or women. I think it's just a bunch of bad apples and with social media…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:49 PM
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Where was I triggered?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:35 PM
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Never said that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:35 PM
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Both are to me yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 01:35 PM
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Sounds gross
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 04:04 AM
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Sorry to recap...mastering the game or having game means that you're the town pump, women Fawn over you and you are alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 03:53 AM
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I hope you apply the same standard to men who talk about women and men who harmed them, gold diggers who took them for half their money, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:25 PM
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When the hell has blue pill said any of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:28 PM
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I mean if you were a millionaire you'd probably prefer someone whose more in your class circle then Billy Bob at the bait shop or ruby sue at the local water'n hole ..
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:03 AM
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Q. Arw there any celeb marriages that are actually surviving? I swear all I hear is that they're breaking up. And to me this only really proves a strumpet, man or woman is gonna strumpet around. And Klay be a strunpet who doesn't respect his family. Imcnot sure how that's a red pill win
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:49 AM
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You can guarantee women enjoy sex with every person they have it with, and every time they have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:16 PM
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I mean you can use ppl for sex. If you lie to them and manipulate them into sex you are using them. If you pay for sex work in any way. And then there's the darker route of human trafficking and slavery, which still happens to this day around the globe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:14 PM
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they tell ppl they're starting to date as a way to gage their reaction and to let them know that they may need more of a tender reaction from you in regards to anything sexual or certain triggers. So it may kill your vibe, but remember they're talking to you about something really horrific that they survived and that shows a level of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:44 AM
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Please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 12:32 AM
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If you have pets, how do you keep them from not declaring the Roomba a mortal enemy?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:22 PM
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Yes that is exactly what I said. 100 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 01:16 PM
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Women are a hive mind We are the borq....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 04:15 AM
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For myself it wasnt very quick. I wanted to make sure we were comparable and he would be a good father (if you're having sex and both parties don't have fertility issues, this is a risk) and husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:59 PM
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Against the draft completely for my country and all other countries including the USA. Man or woman etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:40 PM
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I'm firmly in camp wanting kids. I saw myself being a mom from a very young age...although God may have a different plan for me as he gave me a faulty uterus. But because of my childhood I am a huge advocate of if you don't want children, and you know it, do not have them. It's very different from open to it or kids aren't right for right now. Those who simply do not want kids shouldn't be invalidated they should be supported. My mom and dad never should have been parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:45 PM
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100 percent. But we shouldn't tell ppl who know and are saying they know they don't want kids "you'll change your mind. Infact change your mind and be open to it." Also ppl who don't want kids (like my aunt and uncle) don't just do career focus. My aunt and uncle spend time with the nieces and nephews and mentor them(my uncle and I are 12 year age difference so it's a different type of relationship from the other cousins), they do animal welfare and community outreach, travel etc. You can find a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:34 PM
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Ppl who decide they don't want kids ever, were open at one point and through time and life experiences and really understanding themselves realized "nope not for me." My mom kept being told she would change her mind etc. and she never did. Then she had me and my sister and we were told constantly she never wanted kids and there was no "but then I had you and I realized I did want them" or "I'm so happy I have you." Etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:18 PM
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They did, they were using condoms and BC and then I showed up...same with my sister five years later. They never wanted children. I didn't mind being a whoops baby, it's the I wasn't wanted baby that did the damage. It's why I'm a big advocate for if you know you do not want kids ever, do not have them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 03:34 PM
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I have anxiety issues and grew up as the scapegoat child and such so constantly apologizing and having a timidness wasn't a big issue for me, because I get it. I have lasting effects from how I was raised Other women who didn't grow up being told nothing was good enough and they're literally at fault for everything, probably won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 07:31 AM
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I did but it left a big mark. I'm currently looking for a therapist to help me because my mother has narcissistic tendencies and refuses to accept she has done anything harmful or hurt us, and my dad passed so I cannot have a conversation with him about it. I've vowed that I will never ever do this to any kids I am lucky enough to have. It's why I want to go to therapy, to heal child me and make sure adult me has the tools to break the cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 11:13 PM
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Not sure for others, but I had a process when I was single. It's how he approached me first, was he respectful or was it a douchebag way. Then while talking it's how he is continuing to treat me, how is his body language, his eyes, do I find him attractive. Does he seem respectful and kind....does he reek of booze, cigarettes or weed? I would also drop a few lines about pets to see how he feels about cats and dogs. It would really just go from there. It was like CSI analysis lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:19 PM
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I'm a big advocate for if you're a man or woman who knows you don't want kids (which is different from I don't want them at this current stage of my life), then do not have them. Do everything in your power to make sure you cannot have them. Fight for a tubal or to get snipped. There is nothing wrong with not wanting kids, and it does a great deal of harm to be raised by ppl who never wanted you. I know because my parents didn't want children and my mother would tell that to my sister and I ever…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 03:52 PM
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Ppl should do whatever they feel comfortable doing. It's between the married couple and that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 04:21 AM
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The traditions I had issues with when marrying my husband was my in-laws and my family insisting we invite their friends and relatives from the old country I've seen maybe 3 times in my life. I get it's tradition, I get you want to show off your kid is getting married, but holy hell my husband and I were paying for everything and we wanted a close celebration. I don't subscribe to husband's word or wife's word is law either, my hubby and I work as a partnership..... With a tiny toy poodle judgin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:23 AM
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What is MGTOW?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:50 PM
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Dating is risky for everyone. You never know if you're ending up with a great person, a good person who just isn't the right fit and ends in heartbreak, you lose them in a unfortunate situation beyond your control or they're a raging psychopath or worse a stealth psychopath. If you don't think it's worth the risk then don't date and find a purpose as someone who is single. I'm not worried about some men and some women choosing to be single for life or for a period of time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 05:26 PM
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I mean every movement has a subset of people come in and just do Frankenstein science. But I am curious, what is the red pill you know? Cus I mostly hear guys on YouTube in the red pill talk the way myrion does...except the difference I feel is myrion truely hates women while the rest are trying to make money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 03:09 AM
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Okay what is a simp? Cus I've heard such a range of what classifies a simp. To some my husband and I being equal partners and him not ruling the roost makes him a simple. To others it's guys who have no issues with their partner wearing the pants so to speak, or sleeping around or partying. So what is being a simp?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 12:00 AM
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Well my dad is dead..... But given the industry I work in, if I need help navigating a shitty doctor or finding one I go to my boss. When it comes to work tasks, I have to listen to my manager. Everything else, my husband's opinion is what matters most to me. And I expect the same in reverse
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:56 AM
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I'm not sure where you were reading that from. But if one of us is in the mood and the other isn't, we just go about our day and see what happens at night. Might not have sex that day but never know what the next will bring
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 01:33 AM
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The imagination is a wonderful thing. You don't need porn to create something for you to enjoy in your mind and physically. I personally am against porn, having a partner who is against that as well is important to me as it's our values and morals matching up. Those who don't give a rats ass about it can do what they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 07:28 PM
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It has nothing to do with jealousy, it's just values and morals individuals or couples have. My husband shares my views on porn, he had those views before we were together, and if I never met him he would also have those views.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 06:11 PM
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Were not together all day,(I'm a work from home hybrid model, he's at his work site mon-friday 8-5) but yeah. We just have similar values on the industry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 03:25 PM
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More or less yeah. There's obviously time of the month, avoiding ovulation days and well I have Endometriosis so sometimes penetration is exceptionally painful depending on if I'm in a flare up or not. But we can do other things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:51 PM
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What's the issues with being anti porn? The porn industry has a huge abusive side to it, there are negative health behaviours and disorders linked to it, and depending on certain religions it's a major sin to partake or consume it. Why wouldn't a woman want a man with similar values
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:33 PM
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Well when we're in the mood we just quickly run to the bedroom and yeah lol masturbation isn't really needed as we're both there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:25 PM
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For myself porn- including ai, hentai and those really weird ass sex books (how many thumbs can Christian Grey have?!!!!!!) is a line. My husband agrees. It also ties into our faith. Masturbation, I mean we have eachother but that's not a issue for us. Other couples or ppl may disagree. Just like other ppl will disagree on the romance novels and porn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:41 PM
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You'd be surprised how many of my school mates would just not go home and stay with friends or other family or their partners... I used to think it was as simple as drag them home by the ear (mostly cus of the culture I grew up in) but it's really not
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:27 PM
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Not trolling. You lumped it to minus family truama you're a bad person if you're with bad ppl. You're not looking at how manipulative and how good at masking bad ppl are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:23 PM
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We reported to the school what we saw happening. They never took us seriously and said things like "they're teenagers and hormonal. You all are worrying too much. Just go about your day." The school takes alot of the blame for this, if she's being separated from her family and they're not doing anything to help her as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 01:22 PM
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I think there are nuisances to this though. And we also need to consider how manipulative some horrible ppl are. I've ppl both men and women, who were just nice ppl, and they meet someone (online or whatever) and they think that person is a nice one as well. Then the manipulation sets in after a point (usually when they're dependent on them) and it goes downhill fast. When I was in highschool, a girl a I knew found herself in a severely abusive relationship. She was literally a hallmark movie ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 12:54 PM
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At this point, what isn't considered simping when interacting with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:49 PM
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If you won't respect ppl who have sex with you, that's very much a you problem and not on the ppl who have sex with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 04:03 PM
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Good women exist...they just don't want guys who don't match their values and morals. For example why would a woman with more traditional values and is a virgin, want a man who is the town pump? Also I do not get people's hate for women being on or using social media. Like wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 02:26 AM
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They'd probably bitch that were not enthusiastic enough and/or whores then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 10:54 PM
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Unless your job is somehow harming others, why would I give a fuck if it's at a office, out in some sort of field, or from home I work from home (hybrid model) and it's amazing. I'm not going to knock anyone for having the same working environment I do
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 09:54 PM
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Okay so it's all on us women. We're at fault...what do we do to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/26 04:24 PM
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This makes alot more sense why men got angry with me for my boundaries and would call me a whore and a slut when I said I'm not having sex within three dates... Just saying alot of women operate the way I do. Having sex is not the only indication women are into you, but if that's what you believe is the indicator you will ignore the rest of the signs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:52 PM
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Disagree completely, there are different cultural and moral values at play. But if you're only happy with a girl if she gives you sex, you really don't like her. Lease how I view it. You just want her for sex and who she is doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:33 PM
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So when I was dating my now husband, we took things slow. Sex didn't happen for months and no I did not use him for his month-we split the cost of dates and activities. I find him very attractive, but taking things slow to establish a solid relationship where I knew for sure he would be the one I want to be the father of my children and husband before anything physical more than kissing happened, was very important too me. Many women also operate the same way, and many want to wait till marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:56 PM
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Or she wants to take things slow because that's her comfort level. Nothing more than that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 01:53 PM
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Can I ask why we speak in absolutes? Also there is a difference between my 600 pound life/1000 pound sisters(highly recommend the show btw)-overwight-fat-etc. Some women find the rock in his roid usage attractive, some like the average joe look, some like dad bod, some Don Draper, some Pete, some Peter Griffin, etc. everyone has a variety of preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/26 02:29 AM
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I mean some dig for gold, started with the trails. I don't fault women for it so long as the men they're with are all there mentally. Those guys are looking for a certain kind of woman too. Both sides play a game, only one takes the biggest hit. The part of the manosphere that confuses me is they want traditional everything but when certain women expect them to fund it all its bad. Like make up your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:59 AM
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I die on the icecream hill. Lol this is my hill science be damned lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/26 01:17 AM
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1) if you wouldn't top your icecream with it, it's not a fruit. I will die on that hill 2) There are gold digger women, they tend to have a certain income bracket and shit they want from the man. And the man gets the hot young woman for his arm and what he perceives to be a ego boost (I've heard mixed views from men on this. Some think the guy is pathetic and mock him others don't.) I highly doubt a gold digger is gonna be with a guy whose income will only supply a mchappy meal I don't think gol…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 10:23 PM
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So there's not alot to go on with this. But If one person is drunk and the other is sober, there is a power dynamic there where consent is not possible. Also considering she goes to kissing the bf right away and pushing the other guy back right away repeatedly, I don't think she wanted him kissing her. He forcefully pulls her to him. As for laughter, alot of ppl laugh in uncomfortable situations, drunk or sober. I'm a nervous and anxious laughter (like kitty from that 70s show), I can't control …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 07:40 PM
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Considering autism is a spectrum, I'm betting women also on the spectrum to a degree would date autistic men, and vice versa. You'd probably be more open to accepting how their brains work if you also experience it to a degree.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 12:59 AM
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It is odd to me, but if that's their freak flag and both parties are into it, that's their business. I think if both parties are equally into it, it will work providing there are not other issues. And that would not work for me and my husband. Were very much a partnership and not into the whole pay for sex role play stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:43 AM
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No I'm trying to understand if you understand following a fictional world creation or if you're one of the ppl who can't because they never engage in content that requires that part of your imagination... It's totally cool if you can't btw. Or if you have reading comprehension issues, which also is totally cool
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:30 PM
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Out of curiosity do you only read non fiction and watch only the news and 100 percent factual documentaries?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:28 PM
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But that's not what we're discussing here. It's a alternate universe where women have no sexual freedom full stop. Cannot choose a spouse and cannot say no to sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:23 PM
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But if were in a world with no sexual freedom for women, why would they have the freedom to be a prostitute and such. Like in this world she cannot pick her husband nor say no to sex with him, unless her husband is selling her to other men against her consent....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:20 PM
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I don't think brothels would exist in a world like that....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:16 PM
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So my thing is, either you talk to your partner and you both get therapy together and separately, then also see a doctor(like physical health) to figure out the whys behind it, or you leave. To me there is never a reason or excuse to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 03:02 PM
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It's not an obsession when they do offer them. Big example I have is the real world which the tates, and that Justin Waller(sp) guy promote actively. And I believe sneako used to. There's this hm something dude....the one who caused that horrible car wreck and fled the UK to escape legal trouble... He has some course that is supposed to reach you shit and investing where he takes a cut of your deposit and shit. Im very hesitant to any influencer who sells courses in anything, it's immediate red …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:03 PM
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I'm reading it that way from your comment of the child doesn't matter. I totally get finding out biologically the kid isn't yours would be hell, couples who go through botched surrogacy go through that as well, it's a nightmare. But I cannot understand not wanting to support and have a responsibility for a child you raised, and looks at you as his or her entire world because they're not biologically yours. I get being pissed off with the woman who lied to you, and such (if she intended to like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:21 AM
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I'm not sure, if he's still him. I can see myself falling in love with the new body of him but I honestly don't know. What if he doesn't have his eyes and smile that I love anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:04 AM
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I have a actual question, as I've always wondered this since my biological grandfather was banned from having any access to my mother(long story and for good reason). He never made any attempt to know my mother at all and such, we met him on his death bed. Is it really that easy for men to just walk away from children they raised? That call them daddy, go to them for comfort etc. just "oop my sperm didn't make you, fuck off kid. You're nothing "
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 04:03 AM
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If my husband became a woman, that would be a automatic no. I'm not attracted to women, only men. The penis is a big big deal breaker. Same gender, but different body. Idk, I mean I love who he is as a person, he's just awesome but he's also very attractive to me. I picture our future children looking like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:58 AM
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Courts will consider what's best for the kids though, first. Not the mom and dad, but the children. If the baby is well a baby or toddler that kinda makes it easier, but a older child, I don't think any judge will let the dad walk out. Biologically related or not
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:54 AM
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But my thing with that is, why lump all women together and listen to ppl who fuel hate to make money off you. The big red pill influencers, their "programs/courses" aren't cheap, and their attack plan is your worthless and I'm going to make you into who I consider valuable after I take your money, all while labeling all women as these evil whores or dumb bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 02:09 AM
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Yes but I do think the age of the kid matters and needs to be considered and some reasons behind the fraud. Say for example, God forbid she was raped, I can see her wanting to believe with everything she has the child comes from love not what a piece of shit did. (Rare yes but does happen). And then there's age, if you spent like 10+ years raising this kid or kids, and now they're not yours biologically, there is a bond there. And the innocent kids who consider you their dad, do need to be consi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:53 PM
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Normally I agree, but there are some videos and idk twitter or tik Tok threads, where Angie was using racial slurs and shit against her and something about making myrons KKK hoods. Normally she's just a shit stirrer but a broken clock is right twice a day and she may be right about Angie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:26 PM
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So my husband and I have a dog, a Wii little toy poodle. Our little fur baby. We have tons of romance, fun and excitement between us even with having a little fluff ball tagging along. We just bought a place, we're going to Europe for our honeymoon and then looking at having children. Our pup doesn't hinder us in any way from having fun or travelling. When we travel (two years ago we did an Alaskan cruise) he stays home with family and gets spoiled rotten. We go on road trips with him all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:41 PM
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Tree logic did a video about her, don't know how true it is but it's not a good look for Angie
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:55 AM
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I'm not big on govt over reach, but world wide something needs to be done about the power "influencers" have on young men, women and children. They could be teaching such amazing things, like helping with finances, cooking, sewing, care care and fixing your home. Instead they found out sex and hate sells and they channeled into that and it's insane. The amount of hate I see on my Instagram even though I click not interested, it fucks with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 05:53 AM
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I view it the same as I do my female friends. Were friends, it's a different form of family. And I going to care about, support and protect them. I'm also going to be real with them when needed. However when we play boardgames...there will be no mercy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 02:22 AM
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These type of posts always read to me as ppl who think men are basically these dumbasses. Like it really comes across as ppl who don't like men at all and just think they cannot be functioning adults
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 12:09 AM
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I do believe there is someone for everyone, but it doesn't mean you will meet them young or at all. Your soulmate could live in North Korea and you're in the USA....good luck with that. They're still out there but circumstances outside your control. Or maybe they're in the USA but you don't cross paths until a cruise you both take when you're in your 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 08:20 PM
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Men don't compromise either. Again whataboutisms do not change what makes someone a man child or a responsible adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:41 PM
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Everyone has different standards of cleaning. Some ppl were never taught to clean or how to adult so they need to be taught in adulthood and need more time. Others are neat freaks, some have mental health issues and such. You just work through it and come to an agreement together. Be an adult and communicate, it's not hard to do. Again my original point stands, what about ism don't change it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:33 PM
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IDC about nitpickers and commenting about how some ppl are that doesn't change anything of what I said above. There are adult responsibilities that everyone (but the very wealthy ppl) have to do. If you don't live up to your responsibilities and put the majority or all on your partner, you're a child. It's simple
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 06:17 PM
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When did Justin Waller join this Reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:59 PM
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I know I would be utterly devastated and would definitely need time away from work and therapy. As for the rest of the questions, I can't even begin to think about answering them. Idk if I'd ever be ready to date again or get remarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:27 PM
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I don't believe unless they mention sex first one date 1, that sex is something to be discussed that early. Date one is more to sus eachother out and see if there's any big no's and red flags out the gate (like for example if you're a non smoker and the other one lights up a cigarette
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 02:13 PM
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I'm upfront about it date two or three. A couple guys didn't believe me at all, and by date 5 -8 they got really pissy about it. And I'm sitting there like "dude I told you early on my views about sex and such. For God's sake I'm a damn virgin, you think that's a friggin clue I'm serious." Dating while I was a virgin was not fun, not fun at all. Thank God I found a great man and were married
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:01 AM
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When I made it clear I wasn't interested in quick sex. I am a practicing Catholic, and I believe that sex is reserved for the person you love, in a committed relationship with and you are ready emotionally to take that next step. I made it clear it would be many many dates down the road, might be months. Their response show me exactly what they wanted. Out right dumping me, or making fun of me. Some got really verbally abusive, like threatening me and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 08:38 PM
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Money really doesn't have to do with it for alot of women...making less doesn't make someone a man child. The big thing is are they doing their adult responsibilities. Adult responsibilities meaning: Cooking, grocery shopping, maintaining the home, caring for their partners, caring for the pets and children (if there are any), vehicle maintenance, managing their appointments and such etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/26 07:15 PM
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Not at all. When it rarely happens it's rather sweet. I'm married, so I very quickly and nicely let him down though. Now when they turn into pricks after a no, I take offense
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 01:43 AM
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I believe that every man, woman etc. who wants a relationship and is a good person themselves (idgaf about your weight, race, sexual orientation, salary, career, debit..) deserves a good, loving and supportive partner. Whoever that may be. Someone who matches their weirdness and love, someone who will build them up, check them with reality when needed, support them when needed and stand with them. For ppl who are pieces of shit (abusive and such) I pray they get therapy and can develop into bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 07:59 PM
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My p.o.v being tradition or liberal, you're not loosing interest in sex because of your position in that sense. There's a whole host of reasons: your partner is putting most of the domestic work on you, lack of communication, lack of respect, exhaustion from life and trying to manage it all, children, medical issues etc. all things that happen to traditional and "slutty" women . Btw I'm def more of a traditional woman, as I'm a practicing Catholic. I am not a trump supporter, far from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:01 AM
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I'd love to hear the explanation for this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:26 PM
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I disagree, simply because my husband is my everything and my person. I have zero desire for anyone else only him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:05 PM
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You don't give a single shit about men or equality. You just want to harm women and see using this as an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:53 PM
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Me too went bad on so many fronts. It got hyjacked by ppl doing exactly what you want here. The point of me too was to shine a light onto the shame of rape and sexual assualt that happens to children, men and women etc. And bring to light a real problem I think we can all agree on, and to stop victim blaming and protecting ppl who do those evil acts. Instead we had a bunch of ppl who wanted to make men do the right thing by blugeoning all men to start change and it destroyed a good cause and now…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:45 PM
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LMFAO so the goal is to harm women so that were beaten into submission and men get what they want not by working with women who fight for these very things but by being exactly what the radical feminists say men are and why they deserve less?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:35 PM
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Why are men entitled to sex? Like not wanting sex, which everyone whose not asexual is apart of that group to differing levels of want, but entitled to sex itself. Are women also entitled to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:33 PM
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So if I understand this right you are arguing that men should actively seek out to harm women and that in turn will teach the more radical feminists who are anti men a lesson?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 03:30 PM
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What is green pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:16 PM
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This reminds me of a fresh and fit rant
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:34 PM
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I did read. Person about you said "women fantasizing about romance doesn't mean they don't want marriage" You reply: it means they are not ready for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:44 PM
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So if a woman doesn't give a shit about romance and is unromantic about life that means they're emotionally prepared for marriage? Marriage means zero romance to you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:38 PM
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Fantasizing about romance doesn't mean you don't want marriage or are actually a partner. I fantasize about doing romantic stuff with my husband all the time. For our cruise through spain-france and Italy I booked a romantic breakfast for us in Florence, because to me that is going to be a epic romantic moment that will lead to the cruise ship bed. My husband agrees. Doesn't mean any emotional immaturity at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:37 PM
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I'm not even sure we can call this a debate, would you accept anyone telling you or showing you different than your generalization of all women? Of course there are women who only care for the wedding, but the generalization of us all only caring about a fancy party is so insane and off the mark. It also just reads you want to shit on women for some weird reason
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:11 PM
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Insecurities always will be judged, I think it's human nature. But I think ppl notice it more when based on your insecurity you try to dictate what others can and cannot do and how you react to others. I dated guys who were insecure about my female friends and would demand I not hang with them. That just showed me they didn't trust me at all nor my judgment and that was it. Insecurities are largely our anxieties trying to protect us but in doing so they tend to cause more harm. It's why instead …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:27 PM
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I've had male gynos and female gynos. While there are ones that are predatory, the vast majority are great men who do everything in their power to help make you feel comfortable in a very vulnerable and uncomfortable position. There are mail men, cashier's, cops, paramedics etc that are predatory too. Are you insecure about your gf being around all men because they might be predatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:12 PM
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So I love crappy horror films...and that top point would make the best most bullshit hilarious horror film ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:31 AM
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I'm assuming you're meaning abortion with women, which varies depending on where you live. If you mean contraceptives, both men and women have options and for men it's easier to get snipped than for a woman to have a tubal or a full on hysterectomy. The draft, again depends on country and is 100 percent bullshit. There shouldn't be one Selective service for voting depends on country and I fully believe shouldn't be a thing anywhere. I'm gonna assume you're American, but maybe y'all should get to…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 04:30 AM
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Always. When I went on dates and when I met my husband and we were dating, we always split the bill(minus birthdays and if the restaurant just didn't split, then we took turns paying). Just made the most sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 08:58 PM
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Sorry busy ass day at work. Guess my thing though is if they don't believe women anyways cus alot of what I hear from the red pill is we're all liars, why bother even asking. I get wanting matching values as I'm a Catholic and one of the big things I was looking for were similar values of sex and him not being the town pump, but for the community to automatically say women won't say the truth, kinda removes the point in asking.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 02:50 AM
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I am currently very much inlove with my husband, and I don't see that ever changing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:32 AM
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He's hilarious, kind, respectful, loving and my biggest cheerleader. Hes loyal, and supportive and great with the pets in my family and my kid cousins (there's a big age gap between my cousins and myself. 14-22 years for all of them). Were both practicing Catholics so that helps, we have similar views on the vast majority of things and I'm just so much happier being around him. We also are both gamers, so that is always fun when we game together (one on PC and one on PS5). He's just my better ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:28 PM
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all I see online in the spaces that obsess about body count is all women lie. And hell I've been told I'm a liar, when Ive asked(online) and tell them I've only ever been with my husband. I cannot imagine why any woman say anything. Theyre automatically called a liar no matter their answer and/or shamed for it if it's not "acceptable" numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 02:23 PM
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Agreed. I just kinda think to be a good partner you need to be a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:40 AM
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Fuck my cycle is wack with my Endo, it's anywhere from 28 days to 65 days. It's just super fun. I'm grateful that the work hours changed to be 5 days a week and more reasonable for most jobs back in the mid 1900s era (my grandpa would tell me about life before the unions). But I do think we need to adjust it again. Maybe 4 day work weeks 8 hours. We also need a way to adjust childcare and schooling hours to be more consistent with parent working hours
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:15 AM
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So logically you need to teach both sexes and really it starts in childhood. A big part of raising kids to be successful and empathetic adults is teaching them how to treat others through examples, consequences etc. So not like the 1950s housewives manuals newspapers would release but just basic be a good human being lessons good parents try to reach their kids
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:12 AM
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That is very interesting to me. Most red pill guys and women I see on YouTube and such claim cheating is a male birth right and they should do it if they're considered "high status"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 04:07 AM
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Everyone has different sex drive levels, men and women. Some are high and some are low. There's also that for many women their sex drive changes throughout the month due to hormonal levels and if they have reproductive health issues, like Endometriosis, pcos etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 02:19 PM
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Literally never said the bottom part. I said romance and what fits your definition of romantic is individualized. And I agree, the mad men of the 60s and advertising as a whole has done a brilliant job convincing men and women you need to do xyz to be a decent husband, wife, boyfriend, gf etc. Romance is one hell of a capitalist feeding frenzy and ripe with over consumption, and it's sad. There are plenty of ppl who fall for it (and well gift giving is a natural love language for some) and plent…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 07:09 AM
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Yes because my husband and I share that responsibility and always have. Everyone I've ever talked to about it have all said the exact same thing "oh cool, so what are you planning?" I don't doubt there are both men and women who have issues with that, but it's not all and it's not everyone. Not even close to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:35 AM
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Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 06:13 AM
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Considering my family is a giant mix up of very liberal, very Maga conservative, normal liberal and normal conservative and centralist...along with hidden communists that cannot be outspoken until my Nonna passes (she has very strong views about communism due to Yugoslavia) I don't think politics are wired in the dna. You learn politics from everyone around you and your own research. Being a teacher, aunt, uncle, cousin, godparent, working anywhere you pass along your views and your knowledge wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:50 AM
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Where the heck are we bashing men who want women to plan dates etc.?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:24 AM
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I really don't understand the big hub bub around ppl not wanting kids. I was raised by ppl who didn't want children, I cannot state enough how detrimental that is to a kid. I have friends who have kids, friends who do not want children and don't plan on having them, and friends who have the mind set if they happen they happen. It's not going to destroy everything for some people not to have them, they can teach others their views, pass along their wisdom and all be hunky Dory.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:23 AM
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Romance is individual and by preference. For myself a walk in the park with our dog while looking at the ducks, dodging the cobra chickens and taking photos of fat squirrels is more than enough romance. For other women they like candlelight dinners, hiking, trips etc. Some men like grand gestures and gifts, some like just hanging and watching the game etc Romance is very individual based and we cannot make monoliths from it. The biggest thing is to communicate your wants and needs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 04:07 AM
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Wasn't a personal attack, he was being extremely angry towards me in response. Want me to change the wording to be more gentle?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/26 03:44 AM
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Jeeze you're a angry person. May I recommend some therapy....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 02:20 PM
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Interesting I didn't know that about a previous sinking ship. I only really took a big interest in the Titanic because well my dad's side was almost on it. And I agree. I think a common sense approach going forward would be to make sure all boats have enough life rafts and well the people who need protection most should go first lol I also know from my loving of cruising since 2024 all cruise liners have a partner boat that tags along incase something goes wrong. Apparently that rule started aft…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 11:02 PM
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Generational trauma on the battlefield
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:36 PM
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Sorry do you mean in regards to the Titanic the 80 year old woman? Or are you wanting a bunch of babushka's drafted....cus they're lethal with the wooden spoons and slippers ..but...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:28 PM
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It's a murky ground as it's a rule that was made up from ruling class men in large government systems and smaller communities. I mean children is universal I would think. I would think we can all agree as able bodied adult men and women we should do whatever we can to protect children, the elderly, disabled etc. Those who really need defending most of all. Rest came down to I believe that women were viewed as weaker than men, probably due to our biological differences and we grow, give birth to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:27 PM
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Well the Titanic was mostly broken down to rich and then the rest. Poor people were not saved, it was the wealthy. I mean we can universally agree on children right? They should be protected at all costs yeah? For women I honestly don't know what that was about besides when we're seen as Weaker and needing protection more than men. I'll still never understand why they didn't have enough life boats and why the decided to try and beat the record...I also thank the women in my family for refusing t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 07:18 PM
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I honestly don't get it. One of my friends gets so pissed off with me not being career driven and wanting to be a stay at home mom(if we have kids). Hell I'd be a stay at home puppy mom now if I could. I have a theory that for some ppl if you want different from them or are living different it's somehow an attack on them and/or they think you want them to be the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:27 AM
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Oh it's gonna be for sure messy. For some reason you have to be the perfect victim to be taken seriously, like Jesus level of perfect. I mean hell children get victim blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:23 AM
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For some this will be an issue and for others it won't. For myself it wasn't one, my husband is 3 years older than me, he was 27 when we met with a huge social circle (I have 3 really close friends and 1 good friend but we're not close, on my side. He has like 15 really close friends, who are now all my good buddies but way more extrovert lol) he didn't have any luck dating and was also a virgin. For me that worked.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:57 AM
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I pray no, but we will notice a "uptick" as we learn and teach more about consent and boundaries for both men and women, and men start to be taken more seriously and not victim blamed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 01:50 AM
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So your argument is men are rakes and gonna abandon their women if they get a chance at someone younger?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 04:30 PM
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So you want the listening ear to your women are the devil rambling or should I jump onto that with you? I can channel my inner pearl enough, I make fun of her enough that I'm sure I can be convincing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 02:15 AM
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Ohhhhh you're one of those.... I gotcha. Listen do you want a sound of board where I listen or do you want empathy or bashing of women mixed in? Because I'm not going to arguing with someone who refuses to listen and just goes with "women have it easy. Men are the truck victims. You don't know what hard is because you don't have a dick."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:31 AM
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Looks are very subjective to different ppl when we try to apply logic with bone structure renderings. There are guys out there that some would say are unattractive or ugly and other women would find them to be the most handsome men on earth. Heck there was a YouTube who self proclaimed himself to be the ugliest man on earth and his series was about coming to terms with that and accepting being alone for life. Then a girl messaged him saying she thinks he's attractive and they met, got married an…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:23 AM
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Product of the environment one is raised. For the record, hubby didn't have to deal with my issues or help me through them for many days, he just thought I was a shy introvert (which yes) he just didn't get the why and details behind it It's fun being human, I think that's why we all struggle in the dating world. Our own issues, their own issues and we just don't wanna mess it up because we were told that sort of shit should be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:11 AM
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So I had a difficult childhood raised by two people who didn't want kids and I was definitely not the child they wanted and they made it very well known. My little sister was the favorite and I was the scapegoat and told literally every single day I am an annoying horrible person. Enjoying myself in a way that wasn't approved by them meant punishment. Enjoying myself for something they deemed I shouldn't? Punishment. Talking to much? I'm an annoying and should learn to shut up- punishment. Not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 01:02 AM
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This is a play on the whole shaven pussy thing isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:54 PM
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Me personally yes. But I have anxiety issues
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:18 PM
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I think it would depend on if he's still him or does he become like a monster from it all and I need to leave for my health and safety. I love who my man is and everything about him at his core. It's what makes him so attractive to me and why I want babies with him and planned out this grand future for us. So, so long as he stays my man soul and personality wise I'm staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 07:11 AM
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Lol fair lol Honestly I feel like dating isn't enjoyable till like date 4 with someone cus by that point they kinda like you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:52 AM
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Yes yes autocorrect fucked me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:18 AM
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Wasn't wasn't. Fucking autocorrect.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 06:17 AM
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I was also trying hard not to mess up. I was trying to make sure I wasn't being an annoying person, trying to enjoy myself, trying to learn about him. Dating was so damn stressful
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 05:31 AM
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Are they actually mainstream or just north American mainstream? I have family back in the old countries(Croatia and Italy) of various ranges and according to them this sort of stuff isn't over there really. Also as a milennial in my 30s it's really freaking me out that gen alphas are old enough to be on the interwebs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 02:25 AM
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I thought the burden of proof and intent always falls on the prosecution's side and the defense is to poke holes to show that their client is innocent or had just cause. Would it be easier if a guy is questioning for whatever reason, he probably requests the doctors do a DNA test and just send the results to his work? Also the prison system is already overburdened and costing tax payers a shit ton of money and in the states they have for profit prisons, so why cost ppl more money for no actual r…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 03:20 PM
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At 18 you're just graduating highschool, you're no where near grown up. You're a child just figuring out how to enter adulthood the vast majority of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 06:07 PM
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It's amazing graphics wise, just wow. The detail of the rain I cannot wait to see gta6 graphics. I feel like this game is going to tie back to the originals. Certain points look like raccoon city police station And the monsters are like the old days spooky
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:22 AM
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Gracie, I have theories. We've only watched part one of hollows play through
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 07:20 AM
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Anyone a fan of the resident evil series? After the baker family it's too spooky for me to play, so I watch hollow. This latest game is something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:37 AM
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Hell I'm already in option 3....lower mainland BC is insanely expensive lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 03:34 AM
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I've also heard her say she enjoys fucking guys, especially barely legal boys and husbands I think personally she's a liar and a predator.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:06 AM
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You can love money as much as my dog loves steak, but you're not going to do as much crazy sex shit as she does if you don't love the game a bit too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 02:00 AM
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Playing sims while laundry laundries....my infant son only likes icecream lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 09:05 PM
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That's fair. We have grizzlies, brown, black and polar bear grizzly hybrids.... Lol my best choices for natural area arent the best lol they're adorable though. We actually once while walking my dog on trails in the evening (such a stupid ass decision. I could hear my great uncles voice in my head) came across a black bear thank God. My little poodle got startled and scared (first time seeing one) and scampered then wanted ups and that scared this shit out of this black bear who took off running…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:12 PM
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My local zoos have them listed as bear on the signs...... Well now I feel lied too
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:06 PM
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Whenever someone poses the question to me I always need to ask for clarifying details. Am I just hiking the woods and either I come across another male hiker or is it a local bear in my area (aka the grizzly). If it's a fight to the death or just passing by a scenario man always wins. I know what grizzlies can do, I do not want to die that way and I'm not sure surviving is much better. If I get to chose the bear....I pick bear. I always wanted to touch a red panda. I love those little bastards. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:53 PM
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There are plenty, I mean Bonnie blue for a extreme example
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:40 AM
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The allure of the pick me status is too strong for some
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 04:09 AM
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For me it was about 10-12 years ago. Im an introverted chicken shit about approaching ppl let alone guys I thought were attractive...that kinda made me go "well never doing that again." I had enough problems with the whole I wanted to wait a while before sex I was a virgin and am a practicing Catholic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:11 AM
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Back when I was dating, I was told by many guys the general view of a woman approaching them first is it signals she wants to screw them and that's it. I really don't think there is any trick to it anymore, it's just trial and error with alot of frustration for all, unless you have family or friends who can set you up with who they know is on the same wave length
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 02:59 AM
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I'd argue it does. The amount of changes that have happened from when I was a young 18 year old kid. With all these grand ideas of how the world should work with all the brilliance I had then and to now at 32 are immense. I grew, I discovered more about myself and the world and I can honestly look back and see I had a child's mindset then and that was good I did, I was really a child entering into adulthood. But I'm not that same kid, and I think if we're all honest with ourselves we recognize t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:22 PM
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Having listened to alot of rollo the self proclaimed godfather of the red pill and the others since it kinda really popped into the YouTube sphere, I honestly don't see a difference. It's all very all women are xyz and no nuances with alot of members having hate towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:26 PM
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Following for the reply to this
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 10:02 PM
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Okay so just the times she made mistakes in being a shit. She says she was being a shit, and therefore claimed responsibility?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 09:26 PM
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Okay so if she's a piece of shit just cop to it all well and good? But if it she was left because he doesn't want to be a dad, or he died or was abusive she needs to claim responsibility for a act of God and his actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:35 PM
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Or did one or two die from any number of things. Maybe one was an abusive piece of shit like my biological grandfather and she managed to get free from him. Maybe one up and left her stranded because he didn't want responsibility of a child or children. Maybe she made the bad calls. We don't know, point is it happened and the kids are here now, so how does she take accountability here and now.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:25 PM
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Question is how does one take accountability for these actions above. That's a bunch of bad behaviours and judgment calls. But what do they do after to take accountability. Like the woman with three baby daddies for example how will she take accountability? Abandon the kids? Raise them alone, never have another child, swear off all men? What is taking accountability then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 08:16 PM
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It's also better to not have any sort of trauma or injuries. But we don't get to control alot of this stuff. Some ppl have autism on vastly different scales of severity. It's always been this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:33 PM
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I mean you do in many different ways. Life events happen, good and bad. Trauma, work and life experience. Different types of relationships and learning etc. who I was as at 18 is so different from who I am now at 32. Some ppl become really jaded and bitter, others become softer and kinder. Some spiral, some get healthier in all facets. Some learn to heal and move on from their trauma and some become the trauma for others. Some become more realistic about their views while holding onto beliefs of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 06:28 PM
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Why men and not the women I don't think having power imbalances makes a healthy relationship. My husband and I operate as a joint unit. We talk daily about everything and make decisions together. We love and respect eachother. The most successful relationships I've seen operate the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 12:45 AM
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And yet it was totally legal for men to beat their wives and rape them, so yeah having a more equal playing field is def a need. And no I'm not being obtuse, you want men to bare the responsibility because women less than, that was the societal view back then especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:44 PM
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That didn't end well for women with abusive husbands, men who ran out on their responsibilities, got loans they couldn't pay and died or bailed leaving her on the hook, slept around, managed money poorly etc We're at a point now where your average woman doesn't need a man for his resources because she too brings in resources. Sometimes more than him (even though many men have issues with this). We can marry for love, morals and values, not what he can do for me. We share responsibilities and wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:51 PM
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Since the dawn of time ppl have slept around and cheated though. Bastard children existed. Men and women used eachothers status and such to further their own needs. Whether by own choices or their parents/eldest relatives arranged the matches. Hell gold diggers legit were women who married gold trail miners and prospects for a better future. One could argue given the lack of freedom to earn one's own money as a woman back in the day and lack of societal protections without a man, women were more…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:10 PM
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Explain what you mean by that please
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:01 PM
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Many Men hate it too, hense the going out for milk joke. Avoiding responsibility is not a gender trait it's a individual thing. Just like there are ppl who will demand only one person be the sole barrier of responsibility when shit goes wrong (scape goat child for example) But also why can't both take responsibility if something goes wrong and work together? (Assuming it's not something one directly caused)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 05:00 PM
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I was recapping what you said. If there are contradictions that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:47 PM
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It always seemed to me when I heard Andrew Wilson discuss it is that force doctrine means men can be just evil assholes at a whim and get away with it, so they should have more rights. Which also to me kinda proves the whole side of the argument of women have to be scared of men. It doesn't seem like a good belief system, but I'm more christian-egalitarian mix
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 04:04 AM
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Then stop looking for women who don't want that. Go into tinder (I assume that's still a thing) put only looking for a quick fuck and nothing else. Living it up in my best rake self- in the description. And off you go to whore it up. Be the town pump, nobody cares. There are women like myself, that want nothing to do with the hook up culture. You need to find women who are all about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:55 AM
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How are you a prop if she cares about you and is putting effort in to develop an emotional bond and care for you? That shows she likes you and is attracted to you. Do you want women to just fuck you and walk off and not care?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:47 AM
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One tends to need to form emotional bonds to be with a person long term, and caring for them is definitely a way to do that. Unless you're purpose is hooking up only, that is right on the money for how they are interested in you and attracted to you. You are aware of the five love languages yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:32 AM
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How do you know it was performative and they didn't actually desire you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:04 AM
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Jeeze this reads alot like trying to come up with a coping method for not having the success you believe you should have with them
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:55 AM
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So Vancouver Canucks fan here (can't say I'm not loyal) I'm really hoping Quinn and his brother bow out of meeting trump. I get heat and emotions of the moment...maybe Quinn stopped seeing the demons....They got caught up. And after a cool down they'll be like nahhhh man. But I think we've already know that sports was always the boys club and old values including protecting what is a cash cow over everything else on all fronts. I do think there can be good conservative types out there, but and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 08:33 PM
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Level of attraction doesn't matter if he cannot get you going. He can be the most perfect man on the scale of looks (insert the hottest male celeb you like here), but if he doesn't know how to get her horny to pleasure her, then she's not going to orgasm. For women our pleasure can and often is far more complex to get us to climax than a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 06:14 PM
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Lmfao the gymnastics you're doing is amazing. I hope you go for the summer Olympics bro. You'd do well. So to recap (leaving the trump propaganda alone because anyone who buys his shit won't actually see the truth about anything contrary. It's amazing the cult he managed to develop) women shouldn't vote in the USA because they're not apart of selective service, but you don't want them to be cus to you women are just crap at military and such because women, so really your argument is women should…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:48 PM
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Even very Catholic do. I'm practicing. There's a saying if you want to make God laugh, make a plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 05:24 PM
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I blame sexism in the medical and science industries for why ppl still hold onto outdated views regarding biological clocks. Especially since everything is on the woman and they ignore the realities of men and their biological clocks as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:36 PM
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Canada does not rely on the us to protect us. We have a damn good military, it's why when you called for NATO allies for Afghanistan and Iraq we were the first ones there and in the most dangerous zones. Don't fall for the propaganda of the president. We also do not have selective service since 1945 and I highly doubt it will be enacted in the future as that would be full political suicide for any politician and their party, since large we do not support it. Military service is a chosen path her…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:30 PM
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They don't want women voting and are using the draft as a shitty excuse for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:53 PM
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We have a military where men and women willingly signed up to join.im not even sure if my country actually has selective service still being a thing as it's so widely unpopular here. We also have civilians from cities to rural communities and large first Nations communities through the provinces, who won't take kindly to another invasion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:50 PM
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Yeah I'm a big supporter of getting rid of conscription/the draft all together. Men or women, shouldn't be a draft for either
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 04:07 AM
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Well the ppl studying wolves who came up with the alpha theory realized they were wrong about it and have been trying to correct how we view wolves through it. If you know the updated science on studying wolves, then yes he would as it plays into the new information we have. If he goes strictly off the red pill community like what fresh and fit and the tates say, then no. Because their version of the red pill is extremism and women are lesser than
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:22 PM
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I mean there's natural EBS and flows with sex drive depending on the cycle. Sometimes sex is painful as well even with foreplay, like I have endometriosis and sometimes sex hurts, especially if I just had a flare up. There's ppl who naturally also have lower or higher sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:30 AM
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For myself. I wouldn't want a "alpha male" the way the alpha male influencers and red pill discuss it. To me that's not alpha that's just a bunch of ppl who have severe trauma/ control and abuse issues/ severe issues with women that some borderline on hate. To me alpha is a man or woman who knows when to take charge and when to take a back seat role and provide assistance. Someone who will help others, care for their family and friends and make sure they're safe mentally, physically and emotiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 02:23 AM
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I've always said I'm socially pretty liberal for a Catholic and money wise and some policies more conservative, but I love spoiling my man. But he also loves to spoil me. I think it's natural to want to spoil our partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:48 PM
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I'm a woman with endometriosis. I have horrid cramps basically 3/4ths of the month. By horrid I mean: I severely damaged my knee to the point where it misaligns and dislocates if I put too much pressure on it, I dislocated my thumb and shoulder (separate times) popped it in myself both times, sliced off a part of my finger tip with glass, had 6 wisdom teeth removed at once and was eating steak next day, multiple hits to the head, second degree burn on my arm and possibly broke two fingers and ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:43 AM
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Not gonna lie, I was going in for a tumor removal after my wisdom teeth (they found one in my jaw) and dad was picking me up from my mom's to drop me off so my mom could take my sister to school. Nonna stopped by to pray for me and because I haven't eatten and I'm gonna be knocked out etc I'm in a baggy t-shirt, and sweats, hair in a bun. She gave me such a lecture about looking like a hobo while going to see a doctor and I need to be more presentable and should put on a nice dress or skirt with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 09:33 PM
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I mean I was raised to always put a effort into appearance when you go out unless it's like exercises or for an operation etc. But that being said I don't think you have to go mad men 9 yards. Just like smart casual and appropriate for where you go. I also wouldn't be asking the guy to pay all the time or plan everything, early on I'd me motioning for splitting the dating because cost of living is high for everyone. And I would appreciate the date effort on that side of things
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:24 PM
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Gotta say talking to more of the red pill guys gave me excellent clarity into why the guys I dated (1-3 dates) before finding my hubby, got so pissed off when I said I'm not having sex for a while. I didn't understand why that boundary and my views of sex made them so mad, but if immediate sex is tied to attraction for alot of guys plus the whole Madonna whore complex and all women lie about body counts view...makes way more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:00 PM
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I feel like the never argue with a woman thing is just tongue in cheek. Argue with women, it's totally fine. Argue with men. Argue with anyone. Heck there are ppl out there who argue for fun and sport. They're fun to watch
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:50 AM
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Autism operates on a spectrum and like with ADHD in girls often very undiagnosed. Especially the years when I was a little girl. But go off on arm chair diagnosis
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:20 PM
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No I'm serious, I see ppl speak ill of folks with autism or with downs all the time. It's disgusting. Btw I have family on the autism spectrum to relative degrees. Their mothers and fathers were all under 35 when they were born. Dad's early 30s mom's mid to late 20s. My mother and father had me in their 20s and I'm waiting to be tested for autism, since it is linked to ppl with ADHD and I got that confirmed in adulthood. My sister is waiting for her testing, mom under 30 for her and dad 32. Give…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:54 PM
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And? What's wrong with someone with downs or autism?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 02:36 PM
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I'm so confused with this...why do we want communism...how is this communism....I'm just so confused
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:16 AM
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Did not wait for marriage, but lost my virginity to my husband after we had been in a committed relationship and dating for 6months.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:31 AM
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I mean I want more vacations because I'm exhausted from working in a toxic work environment. When my hubby and I go somewhere it's an escape where I'm with my favorite person in the world and we leave our responsibilities at home. We get to do some fun things, see some beauty and take lots of photos for memories. Bonus if we can bring our little dog with us and he gets the experience too. It's just such a huge mental health break for both myself and himself. Dates ...he and I just enjoy trying n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:37 PM
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Interesting. Maybe it's different for practicing Catholics
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:40 AM
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Gonna pretend I don't have a hubby and I'm thin and a decade younger lol (I'm 5,2 rounding up). My list would be: taller than me (gotta give the kids a chance at reaching things above the middle kitchen shelf lol) No smoking, drugs or heavy drinking Wants marriage, kids and loves pets Practicing Catholic Kind, great sense of humor, respectful, considerate, goal oriented. I always preferred a guy who has a beard for facial hair. No idea why. But I love a beard(hubby has one, I'm crazy for it) My …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:17 AM
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Interesting, I just have sex with my hubby cus I like having sex with him. Never knew ppl used it as a reward system
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:11 AM
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And overall just in the most basic sense, it's hard to find someone who is on the same wave length on you. With similar goals, wants, morals, views on family and boundaries, religious views etc. We have over 8 billion ppl on this planet, there is huge amount of options for both men and women, but finding one person who is on the same wave length as you and is a safe person for you mentally, physically, emotionally and financially is hard. That doesn't change if one is man or woman. The hilarious…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:22 PM
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Disagree. Women have it just as hard in the dating sphere. Man or women it's hell out there. No matter sexual orientation or what type of relationship you want
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:01 PM
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And sometimes there just isn't a reason. I just want kids. Sometimes life really is that simple. Now the complicated part with me and my hubby, is will we be able to have kids. They cost of living in our area is pretty high and I have fertility issues from endometriosis. So we'll see what happens
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:21 PM
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As I say when ppl claim women have it easy, dating is hell no matter who you are.neither sex has it easy, it comes down to a individual level
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:15 PM
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Sometimes things are as simple as I just want or don't want that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:10 PM
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Holy judgement zone. I want kids because I want them. Always saw myself being a mother to a few kiddos. Just how it was for me. Now the question is will I be able to have them, and I pray I can have a few babies
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 04:34 AM
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Yeah no, he needs to give a fuck just like I give a fuck. Attractiveness doesn't matter in that situation. I get the belief is all girls are shallow and we don't care about anything but looks and status, but that really isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:12 AM
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Idk, If I was in the dating market, and going out with guys who didnt give a fuck, i wouldn't speak to them again. I think alot of women would be the same
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 05:30 AM
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What the heck is OLD?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 07:33 PM
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When I was on them, I did to the best of my ability. You can tell alot of a person(least before ai chat) with how their answers are worded and the pictures they post. Some also had chat functions where you didn't have to date but could figure out some stuff before you decided to date, that was handy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 07:25 PM
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Oh I love that. I have a planner I'm tracking my cycle, ovulation etc. in now. I have endometriosis so I document everything incase anything ties into that as so much is still unknown. And well if we cannot have biological children we were already exploring ethical adoption. All children deserve loving parents who want them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:53 AM
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Not 55, she was in menopause by then. But early 50s in perimenopause it's entirely to get pregnant and carry to term and give birth and survive. Especially with a great team of doctors. You can and still do ovulate during perimenopause. You still have a period it's just infrequent.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:52 AM
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About my mother or that the biological clock isn't as black and white as one thinks?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:45 AM
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Hell unless they're my obgyn they really can't put a time limit on my uterus lol only my doc really knows what's what
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:41 AM
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My hope and prayers is after the honeymoon(we delayed it to this summer) and we have our own home (were actually buying together. A miracle really but I'm good with the books and we saved enough for a downpayment after 6 years of 250sqr feet of basement living in my mom's place.) we can start trying for babies. I've been doing safe set of research for those who work from home who can't afford daycare or don't have them near by, so we'd only need it for two days a week. So fingers crossed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:31 AM
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I could. Many women into their 40s and some 50s are having children. My mom didn't start perimenopause until she was nearing her mid 50s. She's now turned 56 and in menopause but if her tubes weren't tied she could have gotten pregnant and had a baby if she wished before then. While there is a biological clock for us all, it's not so black and white
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:21 AM
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I have anywhere from a couple years to 18+. Plenty of time for a few kids if I can have them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 04:06 AM
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I'm 32 and want kids. I have until menopause, which can happen in the next couple years or well past 50. My mom didn't enter menopause until 55. There's also the flip that I may never be able to have kids naturally as I have endometriosis, had it since my early teen years, depending on how it's developed since my teen years, I may never have been fertile. Fertility is the role of the dice, also as a man getting older you need to consider your sperm quality. As you age + lifestyle your sperm qual…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 03:13 AM
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Of course. I love my husband. He's literally my favorite person on this earth. I hate when I'm separated from him. I get all giddy and smiley when he's home from work (I work from home 3x a week and 2 days in office, he's 5 days at his work). I smile whenever I look at him. I sleep better when I'm snuggled up to him. He makes everything better about my day. That man is my world. I love my friends like they're siblings. I'd go to the ends of the earth to make sure they're happy, safe and feel lov…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 05:51 AM
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Kissed? No. I had some kisses forced on me when I was younger. First guy I chose to kiss, fell in love with, actually saw a future with, has sex with? Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:51 PM
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I cannot figure out a way to word this without sounding rude to a degree so please forgive me for how this may sound, but that insecurity (which I do understand) could be limiting your prospects, if you're going for younger to try and counter it. I mean I met my husband in my mid 20s and he was my first and only bf. There are alot of men and woman who are like that as well. Age doesn't really mean more or less partners
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:48 PM
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God no, there's a reason we waited a while before having sex when dating. I believe love and sex go hand in hand and I know my religions views on sex before marriage, but I think waiting for commitment, love and emotional security and such is fine to a degree. My husband is the same way, our views lined up perfectly on this manner. Question, looks fade for everyone, plastic surgery cannot stop what will happen, so if attraction is all that matters what happens when she's middle age and senior?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:42 PM
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See for choosing a partner, I would think there would be more than attraction involved though. I'm not shaming it, it's just what seems logical to me. Like before I found my husband, his stance on having them raising children was hugely important, stance on pets, religious view etc. Habits and hobbies etc. similar interests also matter too. It's a friendship for life, attraction is such a small component in making that work. Especially since looks do fade as we get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:09 PM
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Man you really took that personally. To me 18-20 year olds don't look much different than their 16-17 year old selfs. Heck some 18 year olds are still in highschool. They're just kids to me trying to figure out their life paths and in a totally different space than my 30s era. Just how I see that age group.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:49 PM
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As a woman in my 30s I just don't get being attracted to 18-20 year old kids. All I see when I look at ppl 18-20 is kids finding their way in the world. I don't see anything in common with the stage of my life I'm in, so I'm just confused how men could see them as anything else as well. But that's just me. I do understand mid 20s and up for ppl in my age group and above, as you're so different by your mid 20s than fresh out of highschool years and in early college.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:36 PM
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It may not be your goal to change society, but when you look at how the popular redpillers are on their platforms and the consequences of their message they put forth, it is doing that. Just like the hate men movement is doing the same thing. You may not want to change society, it is. For better or worse it is. And I don't personally think it's for the better as a woman, because alot of red pill men I come across naturally put me and others in the role of lying whore no matter what we say and do…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:09 PM
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Ahhh okay, that makes more sense. Cus alot of men and women never have a highschool sweetheart. Let's face it highschool tends to suck ass for the majority of people. I do agree ideally people should stay with their first love, but well it takes time to find them. I'm with my first love now, but I did date before him trying to find that love. Also I'm kinda in the boat of nobody should ever drink cus alcohol tends to make everyone into a idiot and has no benefit only bodily harm, so I'm fully on…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:06 PM
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Just some questions for clarification. For your top point are you meaning women 20+ in general should be with their highschool sweetheart or their damaged goods, or just those who have babies and are single parents or co parenting now? I don't drink anyways, cus I'm exploring a theory about endometriosis flare ups and alcohol. But with Endo your cycle could be every 28-30 days or randomally not show up for months and you're not pregnant, just how it is sometimes. Wouldn't it be easier to tell ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:14 AM
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Love, equality, sexual assualt, confidence aren't vague. They all have very specific definitions...sa criminally as well. And can be described well by most people. Some ppl are just shit at describing stuff, like some are shit at directions, but they're not vague language at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:13 PM
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I think life has always been stressful and hard just the challenges change. Child birth is still extremely dangerous for women, but our mortality is much lower now overall then it was even a century ago. There was plagues, lack of women's rights completely(heck rape wasn't seen as a crime against a woman but her male relative and she was also punished for being a survivor of it), witch trials, economy hardships, kids dying very easily from diseases we have cures from now, world wars etc. I think…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:03 PM
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Sorry are you saying apartments were developed because women don't need men financially anymore? Also please do not use chatgpt for therapy. It's great for basic stuff like recipes and rewriting emails and stuff like that but it is not designed for therapy needs. It often gives horrific advice for that and has told ppl to delete themselves before. Please find a actual therapist to help you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 03:00 PM
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I'm married. If any guy flirts or asks me out(which does not happen) it' would be a automatic no. And unless it's early in the morning when I'm literally a walking zombie just trying to make sure I get to work alive, I'm smiling and bubbly to everyone but drug addicts following me to the office(yes that has happened. I've been chased by some guy off his gourd in bloody scrubs with something in his hand to my office. Had a few others threaten to kill me and crack my skull open cus I had no money …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:54 AM
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I mean my dad died before I met my husband, and I have no brothers, the male cousins are all significantly younger than me(I'm talking 16-24 year age gaps) and my uncle's I don't think would be into that as it's not our culture for the adult men to pick for her. He just needs family approval
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:47 AM
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Today during Olympics I watched couples figure dance thing, men's big snowboard jump thing and female hockey where Canada played brilliantly. There are just as many male and female sports, they play at the same time and you kinda gotta shop channels until you find what you wanna watch. Also I think norvo virus is effecting alot of sports so some have been delayed..I know men's hockey has been cus well ice can't be brown...
/r/MensRights08/02/26 05:43 AM
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Where do you live. I was driving to work on Thursday and I saw men and women on the construction crew building a new apartment block(that I didn't know was being done and that made me late for work. Thanks google). Plenty of women want marriage and children. Just like plenty of men. And plenty don't. We're at a unique time frame where if you do not want children you can successfully avoid having them, same with marriage. That's a good thing. I was raised by ppl who didn't want children, I wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:10 AM
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I am so sorry you went through that frankly abuse. Don't sell your hobby. One trains are awesome and 2. You need a hobby to keep you sane. Your wife can deal and find her own hobby, that isn't being emotionally abusive to you.
/r/MensRights08/02/26 02:16 AM
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Again besides what I listed, I would not trust Reddit for basic guidance or help alot. Anyone can be on here with any intentions. And there is tons. Heck in vocal about it to my letters to my govt....I have entered my boomer era with so many things.... I vote for policies I see helping men and women. But beyond that I cannot do much. And you'll find alot of women in the same shoes. I think what women who want equality for men and women and be vocal for men need is a more public platform. But I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:12 AM
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Because on Reddit what can ppl help anyone with besides what I listed. We cannot change govt policy, open more shelters for men etc. Unless you're meaning in real world stuff, then you'll find there are alot of women wanting to help but the limitations of municipal, provincial/state, and federal govt come to play. And let's face it, they don't care about anyone but their rich voters....and I don't want to start my venting about govt so I shall stop myself
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:05 AM
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I'll take shit that didn't happen for $500 alex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:43 PM
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Sorry what societal duty are we missing doing? We work, pay taxes, raise families, work jobs that benefit society in some way or protect it same as men. And just like men there are evil ppl among our sex, by overall like men vast majority of us are good ppl, so how are we not doing societal duty?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:38 PM
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I will never understand the hate for cats. They're amazing little animals. Equal parts sassy and loving...well depending on the person. I'm convinced my mother in law's cat would take me out of she could.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:36 PM
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Aww. Thank you. I try my best. What's sad is I don't think my family really understood how two little girls (at the time. There's a huge age gap between myself-sister and our cousins) overhearing all that would internalize it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:52 PM
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Yeah but I feel vast majority of women who do, don't actually mean it but are caught up in that it's what's popular to say, theure frustrated (like on a video where a guy is being a dick) etc. they don't actually mean it but they say it not realizing what it can do to ppl around them. I'm really working with my friends who do this and trying to explain how that can make people around you feel, especially children. My family constantly made negative comments about girls and women and it took alot…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:39 PM
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The problem with not all men, is it tends to be said on threads when we're discussing horrible evil men, and it feels like when that's stated you're downplaying those men (using you in general). We know it's not all men. The vast majority of men are great human beings. But there's a time and place to say certain stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:32 PM
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I think all humans have that point of "fuck this I'm out. This is far too big to forgive." No matter how good the person what's before. Then there are also habitual bad behaviours where that final straw is just the done moment. I know, as a woman, there are levels for me where I will walk away and not look back. Doesn't matter how I was treated before. I once went on a few dates with a guy who was overall nice and then he kept making "jokes"about beating my dog. I was done at that point. Luckily…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:23 PM
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I would imagine those who legitimately hate a group do not have friends who are apart of that group. So if a woman legitimately hates men, there probably aren't any men she will be around in a friendship setting, maybe family if she has to. Now just vent hating, grifting, influencer hating, they probably have close male friends and just don't get what they're doing is idiotic or how it effects others
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:17 PM
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Besides specific areas of help like : need to find a specific product, product reviews, recipes and hobby help and tips to travel..... I would not trust Reddit with any advice or help. There is very little regulation and you can get horrible advice from a wide variety of people. Discussions about stuff are different but mental health and stuff like that is best left to professionals
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:38 PM
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God no. I am very anti hook up culture. For myself sex is reserved for who you're married to or in a long term committed relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 10:44 PM
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Question also is, is she doing that in a way that is comfortable with her and he's missing the signs? Everyone has a different feeling of what showing signs you're really into me are. Took my husband a while to realize (yes we waited for sex. For a while) that my physical and emotional cues were that and it took a full conversation with multiple ppl and him and I. To me it was obvious as well but it wasn't for him and that also comes with a learning curve of trying to know eachother as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:56 PM
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And same with you and women experience. You think just because they're women there's tons of options and if they say there's not you automatically chalk that up to its a them issue and they're not giving ppl a fair shake. The irony of this is hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:22 PM
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It's really quite impressive how ppl can stare at a forest and not see the trees
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 06:14 AM
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I'm not a feminist. And yes there are many aspects easier for one person than another. However I completely deny the idea that women have options where men don't have any, when women and men both have the same basic challenges with dating and relationships and we both still literally exist on this earth. What it boils down to is what we want and we eliminate ppl based on that and our biases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 05:07 AM
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Q. What do you say to women who say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:29 AM
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Totally a Vulcan here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 04:12 AM
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So the only women left on the planet are faithful married women, and your female relatives and friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 03:04 AM
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Men have tons of options just like women. And just like women we all cross a bunch off for not fitting into the ideal box. What you have is confirmation bias
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:47 AM
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What makes you say there's no options for men. There are men and women who are beautiful, ones who are average, ugly. All body shapes, interests, hobbies, personality traits etc. Or do you mean they have less options for what they're attracted to cus like with women they picky and they're not finding what they want from the options available
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 02:15 AM
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Oh damn, I thought this shit was done and she took a plea or something
/r/MensRights06/02/26 02:14 AM
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Again not true. You just have a bias and don't want to listen to women's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:34 AM
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When you look at the world population of single men and women (idk your sexual orientation and I'm not gonna assume it) there are a ton of options. The tricky part and the reason we all scream into pillows, is trying to find that one. He or she is out there, it's just hell trying to find them. Good news is, unless arranged marriages are a thing where you live, everyone is going through it so we can all relate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 01:29 AM
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This is still going on? I thought the judge already handed down either jail or a money penalty
/r/MensRights05/02/26 11:48 PM
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No I don't, and I've been there. However again there are options they're just not valid and that's fair. Women have the same issues. My point is you're saying the lack of valid options means you have none but for women you're not applying the same standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:08 PM
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I'm not trolling. You say women have all the options they just choose not to take them where men have no options, but you do, you just chose not to take them. So philosophically we can debate if the options aren't one yous chose do you have options. Or do you have no viable options as you see it and same boat as the women either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 11:03 PM
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Well that's an option is it not? It's just not the options you want or feel you deserve. Same as women turning down guys/girls who just don't work for them or are in a massive depressive spiral and need a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:55 PM
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The same happens with men though. There's tons of options for men and women, they're just not options that said person wants. Then there's the debate if you're not happy with the options and you cannot choose said options due to that, are there really options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:47 PM
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I think dating regardless of gender is hell now and I'm so grateful I'm off the market
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 10:10 PM
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I mean why should I have to put up with my partner not honoring our vows and disrespecting me and our marriage, also potentially exposing me to harmful diseases? Also should average women get a free pass to cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:59 AM
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I mean it's hard to date, I think for everyone it's hard no matter where you are. The goal of a life long partner or marriage is until till death do us part. Which you need to make sure you pick the right one. It's not like the old days where your parents or older siblings set you up with a suitor to care for you and you just prayed they weren't a giant douche bag and abusive. Now you're trying to find someone with matching morals, relative sex drive, similar matching views on religion and other…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:18 AM
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Okay this is going to be harsh, but you need to hear it. Climb off the victim box and stop playing the victim hood Olympics. We are all expected to be a decent human being to each other and do the bare minimum. There are no gold medals for the bare minimum, at best it's a participation trophy. I get you expect the gold medal and since you're not getting it, youre going damn all women and how dare they feel entitled, but that attitude feeds the misandry crew bias while actively also harming men. …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:37 PM
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That speaks more about men than it does me. It also backs the claim of radical feminists that all men are evil fyi. So good job
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:34 PM
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Because that is a hellscape and I won't accept people being evil assholes while I'm alive and here to fight that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:28 PM
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Is it a fact of life? Yes, does that mean we should accept it and not work to help ppl going through it and hold ppl accountable for horrid actions? No. I expect every single person to treat others well and help each other. That is my expectation of humans. And those who do harm should face consequences no matter their race, sexual orientation and identify, age, wealth status and religion. Call it entitlement all you want, but this is not the handmaid's tale, the purge series or any other horror…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:26 PM
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Look if you don't care that ppl are abusive pieces of shit to others, that ppl (men or women) attack and harm others, you don't care if that happens to you or others. That's on you. And I recommend some therapy. It's a wild take and congrats for that, but you need to get away from the spaces of YouTube and other social media platforms you're on and get some therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:06 PM
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Congratulations that is the most wild take effort. Ppl shouldn't care if anyone wants to kill them, abuse them, assault them in any form etc. that is wild
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 04:01 PM
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Because it is the bare minimum to be a good human being. We're all expected to do the bare minimum and be decent human beings to each other. And you cannot bitch that women don't treat you and other men well enough while simultaneously saying it's entitlement for others to say do the bare minimum and ppl, all ppl, deserve the bare minimum required of humans. Some choose to go above and beyond that bare min:doctors, nurses, ppl in the military, social workers, first responders. But all of us have…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:43 PM
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Besides the extreme side of social media where all the hate lives, nobody expects anything form others besides doing the right thing. Being kind and supportive to each other, being a good human. Remember the old saying "see something say something"? That is universal and applies to us all. We are all owed safety, security, respect and dignity. All men and all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:31 PM
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So my husband and I delayed sex, mostly my call. We were both virgins, both are religious (Catholicism), he was very willing early on and I wanted to wait. For me sex is a big emotional and physical step that should be done when you are 100 percent comfortable, ready for the consequences, and in love. For me I also wanted to make sure this was a man I would be marrying and that took some time, meeting the family on both sides. Seeing how he was with my young cousins and the pets etc. Took about …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:01 PM
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I've been on the interwebs as a kid since dial up days (that sound haunts me) I don't ever remember it being just one specific sex. I remember equal amount of girls and boys, especially when neopets and RuneScape were peak eras. I also remember when Myspace turned into softcore porn. But there were bubbles all over the internet.
/r/MensRights03/02/26 04:58 AM
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Mens eyelashes are always amazing. You men are so fucking lucky. They frame your eyes beautifully and make the colour pop. I like when guys are enthusiastic about hobbies and interests and when they see you take a interest they want to educate you on that. It's nice to be included and taught things.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:36 AM
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I think we also need to consider methods. Women tend to chose methods of suicide which you can survive depending on timing. Pills and wrists are the go to for women. Men tend to pick a method where you don't want to survive really even if you do. While there is still a stigma around therapy for many cultures (made the mistake of mentioning I was thinking of getting therapy to my nonna and holy hell that was a bigger mistake then telling her I was considering joining the military), men face far m…
/r/MensRights02/02/26 03:17 AM
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Racism has a hierarchy as I've learned and that goes along with rights. I'm an avid mad men watcher. And abe, Peggy's bf was rightly all about the civil rights movement, however he was only looking at men. He never stopped to consider women in any sense, especially women of colour. There's always a list with sexist, homophobic and racist ppl of who you can tolerate/support more and whose the worse of them. I wish more studies were done on racism and the psychology behind it all
/r/MensRights31/01/26 06:37 PM
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It goes back to the very first wave of feminism in I believe the 1800s. For very obvious reasons of that time frame, they didn't give a shit about women of colour and did not want them to have equal rights to white women. Back then I believe it was focused on the vote(which had different stipulations then), family law protections (ie not legal for a man to beat you, and protection if he just ups and leaves as that did happen back then), better job protections stuff like that. Which makes sense e…
/r/MensRights31/01/26 05:44 PM
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Huh yeah that more kinds aligns with my thinking yeah. Given the racist history of feminism I do feel better with egalitarianism
/r/MensRights31/01/26 05:02 PM
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I don't believe so. My husband and I were virgins well into our 20s and up until we met each other. There's tons of reasons why someone might be a virgin and they're all pretty valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:48 AM
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I will say I loved him and that older woman on the whatever podcast going at it. That was the most hilarious fish wives screaming at each other moment ever
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:15 AM
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Man Wilson crashed hard in 2025. With the rape doesn't harm women, pickle jar and with that woman who was telling him in her world view his wife situation is totally fine but he damns women for the same thing his wife went through
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:54 PM
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He joins white supremacy groups on Twitter and talks about how horrid black ppl and such are and removing them...then gets offended when the white supremacists include him in that.... Then there's the shit he says about women that goes beyond a normal level of caution.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:24 PM
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I watch pretty much everybody but the tates...mostly because the tates annoy me to no end with the habitual lying and bravado . There's blue pill grifters for sure, I think getting into that field it's easy to grift. I just don't believe majority of the red pill really believe the shit they spew at least to the extent they do, or they're the biggest hypocrites on this earth. Up there with mega church pastors and such. Myron though he's full in, that I believe. Dude hates women and minorites so m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:57 PM
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I think getting sex can be free and you can pay for it but sex isn't hard to get in the era of sexual freedom. There are ppl willing all over. I have more traditional views on sex and what it should be for, but I don't deny it's far easier to sleep around now
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 05:07 PM
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I think it depends on your definition. Like a dude who sleeps with random women all the time or has a ton of women who want to be with him? I don't believe it's hard to really get sex in this day and age with tinder, hook up culture and well prostitutes. Just depends on if you want to pay to play or your standards etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:56 PM
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Never claimed there aren't blue pill grifters, there def are. No idea who drew is but I'm highly sus of destiny. I just claimed I believe majority of red pillers are grifters. There are some I believe legit just hate women and view us as the greatest evil there is...like I think his name is myrion. The fit guy from fresh is fit. But I think that's more because he hates himself and projects onto women that. Now pearl comes from money, she admitted her parents fund her lifestyle as well so if she …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 04:53 PM
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Because there is a ton of money to be made in hating women, and say more and more outlandish stuff. Women get angry because what the fuck and men who are in their corner already eat it up. The blue pill really isn't a big cash cow if you're not in the right circles. I mean look at pearl, her whole shtick is women need to be traditional and such when she doesn't live that life at all, gives advice to men, and is a huge walking contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:38 PM
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Id say 90 percent. I fully believe Brian from whatever, justpearly things. Wilson, fresh and fit, sneako etc. All are just talking out of their ass and love to bully ppl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 06:19 AM
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To be clear I have nothing against advocating for men's rights. I advocate for it. My issue is when they refuse to work towards making life better, getting help etc. And just decide women are the root of all evil, were societies greatest enemy for simply existing and then wishing harm on us and saying we don't deserve rights
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 02:46 PM
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Ohhhhhh that makes more sense to me. I was like that is some therapy needing help there but makes more sense when it's just sex with no emotional connection. But that could be me and my traditional views on sex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 05:18 AM
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Sorry women don't look like individuals to you but just a blur of women you want to or don't want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:59 AM
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Sometimes you can for like major red and green flags. But usually it takes a couple more dates. However, sometimes you just know you don't vibe with someone on any leve
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:55 AM
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Of course I do. Suffering is always sad and I always want to try and help make things better But my empathy has a limit. When you blame and become hateful towards a specific group of people and use them as a scapegoat for your suffering, I draw a line. When you want rights to be stripped away from ppl and harm done to them my empathy ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 04:09 AM
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Lmfao pure rage bait trolling there
/r/MensRights25/01/26 03:30 AM
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When I was dating it was: a man who was kind, responsible, respectful, a good sense of humor. Liked similar things to me. Wanted marriage and children, loved animals, was good with dogs (I have a poodle), is a practicing Catholic. I can see him being a good father and supportive husband. Has drive and goals for his future, makes plans for our future. Does not smoke or do drugs, is not a heavy drinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 08:44 PM
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Women worked back then too. It was really the Uber wealthy that could afford to have the women stay home to just mind the staff. Anecdotal but my mom's side was from Croatia back when it was the Yugoslavia. They were poor farmers before the war. The men and women did the exact same, my great grandfather(I don't know the Croatian word for that) did the plough and animal care etc. and my baka (that's grandma, but she was alive when I was born so she stayed baka for me) did the exact same stuff. Mi…
/r/MensRights24/01/26 08:01 AM
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No it's not because of that. It's because of the immediate dismissal of women and their contributions.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 07:09 AM
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Slightly off topic question but sort of fits in...why do you think so little of women?
/r/MensRights24/01/26 06:47 AM
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Women defended the home front while the men went out. Women can and do fight.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 06:20 AM
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Q. How does keeping the home mean women wouldn't have employment elsewhere or medical training to assist in births and help women? Women also would fight and defend ones land and ppl, vikings and Sparta are the first cultures that come to mind with this. Modern day when isis was a lot more powerful then they were, a village in Iraq was being defended by women mostly. The men had fled, the women left behind took up arms to defend those who couldn't leave and each other.
/r/MensRights24/01/26 06:18 AM
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That's a pretty good overview. Shows both sexes have their issues and challenges and such. Chatgpt can be interesting when you ask it questions
/r/MensRights24/01/26 02:43 AM
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Because I believe in equality and human dignity and rights, and while men and women have differences we all deserve the same basic human rights, dignity and help. Even if I didn't have men in my life (uncles, nephews, cousins, an amazing husband) I would fight for men to have the same resources, help etc. As women. I also believe that while I can loudly voice to help women and get our needs met, I can do the same at the same time for men
/r/MensRights24/01/26 02:26 AM
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I don't think it's low self esteem to be honest with your standing. It's not a bad thing, I live my life and have fun but I'm comfortable with not being a looker. Family and friends have been very honest about with me about it from a young age, and well it's continued to adulthood with how others talk about me and treat me. Also I'd be really friggin surprised if any of them found me attractive. Like win lotto level
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 06:04 AM
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That is true. But after enough disappointed smiles on a date or meeting people and the sympathetic/pity smile and then being ignored. You learn to be able to read it. Look everyone does this. You meet someone for the first time, you have it in your head how they will look and well for alot of us we're just not pretty and we don't meet the imagined thoughts. And I love the guys, they're good men, but they all had that same look and body language. And it's cool, it is what it is. Luckily for some …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:52 AM
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Language they used to describe me and vibes they gave off. Look I'm no looker. I'm mid on a good day. I know when guys aren't into me. Body language and verbal language are dead giveaways where you're not in the beautiful category.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:43 AM
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I can guarantee they haven't. I'm not on any of their radars, and never have been. They're my husband's childhood friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/26 05:38 AM
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I found some on Facebook while looking for red Dead redemption fan groups. They said men only so I moved on. Reddit has nothing. I don't use discord so no idea. My boomer era is refusing to learn discord. You can also create your own on platforms.
/r/MensRights23/01/26 02:19 AM
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In no comparison. Just a statement it causes significant trauma. Trauma doesn't always need to be compared to win some sort of pain Olympics. Trauma is just trauma. It's a valid experience so many of us go through and survive or don't. It doesn't need to be compared for something to be valid. You're applying a different meaning where there isn't one. You're looking for tits on an ant.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 07:21 PM
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No it doesn't. Doesn't even mention abortion. You added words that I never talked about. I was talking about adoption, which has significant trauma to kids, infants and the women. It's something I'm learning about more and more as I explore the option of adoption.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 05:52 PM
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I'm sorry where did I say that abortion is less traumatic than adoption?
/r/MensRights22/01/26 05:43 PM
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That would be a interesting concept. I think we need some lawyers in the group for the first option to see if it's viable. As for the second one, I can see that being tricky. I have dumbass family who believe pregnancy is never dangerous and a abortion is never needed. And when I talk about different health issues and concerns that are deadly, for example ectopic, they deny that happens. So how would we protect women from dumbasses like my family
/r/MensRights22/01/26 04:41 PM
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Adoption isn't a easy path, for the woman who gave birth and the kids. My husband and I are considering adoption, and were apart of different groups due to that. It's been pretty eye opening. There's a shit ton of trauma involved. Unfortunately adoption will always be needed, but it shouldn't be treated as a default like you just did.
/r/MensRights22/01/26 04:31 PM
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You do realize that women's hormonal cycles often change her levels of sexual drive throughout each cycle yeah. Add in work stress, family stressors, home life stressors, maybe medical conditions and such - these things all effect sex drive. Then there's just natural sex drive which is different for everyone. Some have higher naturally and some have lower. I have periods where my husband and I are having sex every other day, and then there are days, especially with a Endo flare up where I have z…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:42 PM
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I'm a female gamer. Ive been playing video games since childhood and will continue to do so. It's a fun hobby and I love the storylines (see rdr2. That was one hell of a ride). Video game companies recognizing women also love to game and advertising to us as well, is not women conquering your spaces. It's just women enjoying a hobby. You can have male video game clubs and such (I'm thinking like book clubs kind of deal) and such where the fandom is for men. I've seen them on FB. I'm apart of fem…
/r/MensRights22/01/26 03:38 PM
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Question is what do you want to change? That men have final say in all cases and she has no say unless he agrees? Because that's the only alternative. It means forced pregnancy and birth (and then what happens when she doesn't want the kid. I was raised by a mom who didn't want children. I wouldn't wish that on any adult and more importantly any child), or forced abortions (which also cause insane levels of harm)
/r/MensRights22/01/26 03:34 PM
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Really the only person you have to tell about who is apart of your body sex count is your doctor. And you cannot date your doctor. And well given this is the era of hook ups galore, only fans and embracing sexual freedom, I don't think many women will care if you hooked up with a prostitute so long as you're clean and you're not a asshole
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:32 PM
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I have no idea. I have never been interested in FWB. My mission pre my husband was figure out my wants and needs, find a man who will be a husband and want kids(and a father to said kids),, build a stable life together and adopt many pets. I have no interest in anything but a stable relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:05 AM
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Some women want friends with benefits, some do not. It's not a one for all situation. I have guy friends, I love these guys, they're like my big brothers. I have zero desire for anything but friendship. I have friends that are girls that have friends with benefits set up and that don't. Just like there are guys who are interested in friends with benefits and not
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 03:37 AM
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By chance do you have ADHD?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:24 PM
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My parents were like that. Id do some chores I could easily see, like dishes and tidying but what they actually wanted I had no clue. So they'd scream at me each day and call me names. Took years for them to listen to me that I need a list, make a list each morning and leave it in plain view on the kitchen table. Id then get in trouble for not going beyond that list and "using my brain to see what else I could do to make life easier for them".
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:20 PM
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I mean if you refuse to do the chores and use excuses like idk what needs to be done, then a chore chart is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:58 AM
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Yes, because while there are many athletes, actors and musicians I love, and would love to meet. The lifestyle they are apart of is so far away from the lifestyle I want and would like. Alot of them also come with very risky behaviours I have no patience for. I don't want my spouse travelling everywhere for days-weeks-months at a time. I want him to be home here with me, our pets and kids (if we have them) every night. I don't want the attention fame brings, the risks, the lack of privacy....the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:56 AM
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We do at our home. Mostly because I have ADHD so if I don't have a written chart, good luck getting me to stay on tasks and remember anything. It's really handy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:27 AM
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Btw I'm pro gun as well. My husband has guns. He goes target shooting with his friends and plans to start hunting with them too. I just know with my anxiety issues I'd never be given a PAL....also the fact I was wanting to use one of those guns on the biggest spider I've seen in years.cfucker was size of my hand and reared up to attack when the lights went on
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:26 AM
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If I was single and dating, yes. I don't really make a lot, so I'm not going to judge anyone so long as they have drive and goals. It could be a new job, could be they switched fields to get mentally or physically healthy, maybe it's a start up, maybe the job is rewarding in other ways. So long as we can afford to live that's all that matters.....oh and my pets have to approve of them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:24 AM
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One can do alot of fucked up shit without a gun...just depends on your creative juices
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:22 AM
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Not technically allowed to use those either. Now if I'm like hiking, I'm carrying bear spray and shit happens. Otherwise is slap, scream, run
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:21 AM
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Yup. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 03:13 AM
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Where I live, id get into a ton of trouble if I shoot someone, even if they're trying to kill or God forbid do worse to me. 2. No way with my anxiety issues they'll give me a pal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 02:12 AM
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I mean if one had a maid or maids, would you pay them or demand they work for free cus all they're doing is cleaning a house? It's house chores, so shouldn't count as labour. If it's labour you would pay someone else for, it's labour someone or multiple ppl do for free. From single to families. The question is really distribution of work and recognition for the work. If one of the couple stays home and doesn't work outside the home they tend to take on the home work, and that's fine. And a simpl…
/r/MensRights20/01/26 06:00 PM
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I think it varies on relationships. But if you're automatically going into a relationship with the mindset ' I will provide more. And they don't provide as much as theyr think they do.' you will only see that and ignore the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:46 PM
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I do not understand the recent thinking of women provide nothing to a relationship. I first noticed it on the whatever podcast when Brian and Andrew demand women prove what they bringing then shoot down whatever answer they give as not good enough. Like what is the pointd in claiming either side does nothing. Just breeds resentment overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:41 PM
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Maybe watching mad men made me more aware to how advertisements work, but yeah. Chocolate, flowers, cards, teddies and jewelry. All the staples of spend money and get happiness cus we're good at our jobs. That said I love flowers and chocolate lol. And I have kept every card I've ever been given in my life. But idk I'm a sentimental weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 02:18 AM
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Almost as if women are individuals with different likes, needs, attractions, turn offs, opinions etc. and not a monolith. Listen to women, but what applies to woman 1 won't apply to woman 155. For example: I hate smoking. Hate it. It smells disgusting and I will never forget having to scrub tar out of my walls when I moved cus previous tenant was a chain smoker. There are millions of women who smoke and don't care or love it. We're all different. Just like men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:33 PM
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Yup and well universal gift idea. I love flowers, mostly for the smell and colours
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:08 PM
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Q. Why is it considered a failed relationship if people realize they shouldn't be with someone? Especially when not married. You do also realize could be for some doesn't mean all women with 7 sexual partners? And again, just because some have it higher doesn't mean all women do. There is no way to get accurate body counts of every person unless you want to strap them to a chair and pull out finger nails and teeth until you get a answer your trust then record the data. It's just a bunch of podca…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:12 AM
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No it doesn't. It could be a couple flings and serious relationships. Could be all serious relationships but they realized they wanted or needed different things, or someone cheated etc. hell could have been widowed at some point also. It also doesn't mean she had 7 that's just the averages from women who reported their body count, it's not exactly a reliable statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:57 AM
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And? 7 is hardly running around as the town pump
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:51 AM
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This is one of the most depressing canucks games I've watched in many years.....I don't know who pissed off a witch and got our team cursed, but they suck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:13 AM
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There are different kinds of love. It's not always romantic and doesn't mean it will turn romantic. I also believe your true self comes out with a partner you trust not just friends. We're comfortable with our friends...usually... But who we are as a friend is vastly different than a daughter or son, a wife/husband/long term partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 03:41 AM
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I don't think that's the typical girl though. Are they all virgins no, but I don't think the majority of girls partake in the social media hook up trends. I think there are a lot who like to fuck around and well you do you. Consenting adult and all that, even if I disagree. But majority don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 01:54 AM
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I think dinner, cards, flowers, chocolate are what are suggested cus they tend to be universal gifts and are in every store. Like unless you ask your partners friends, people are not going to know what things he or she likes so go with the most basic gift ideas that you can find anywhere from 7-11 to Walmart. Doesn't mean women are a monolith at all, just that advertising worked really well for gift ideas
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 12:05 AM
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So my husband and I waited to have sex for a while. I was a virgin when we met (I was 24 he was 27) and we waited about 6 months before having sex. There was a lot of reasons why, so I don't think sex is the biggest indicator based on person morals and religious beliefs. But I think top things is how she interacts with you. Is she comfortable to be herself type of deal. Does she want to be with you a lot if not most of the time. Planning for the future. Random little things like a hug, a smile, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:22 PM
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I don't think that's true. I think like men it varies based on their personality and past experiences plus home life. Also just because ppl break up doesn't mean you suck at filtering, finding a forever person is naturally a hard process When you look at how many happily married men and women there are, it would show many have great filters for who they need and want. I think seeing all the social media and podcasts talking about how he was a piece of shit or she was, really fucks with ppl bias
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 09:30 PM
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I think my husband(I'm married), wouldn't really care except for my pages that are dedicated to rescuing animals lol. He says we cannot adopt them all. I say we have room for more love
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 05:35 PM
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Id say it's fairly common but there are a vocal minority that like with men who are complete assholes towards women, get noticed more. Social media also both likes to advertise hate and lack of compassion and empathy while also rewarding those who are hateful fucks. Which creates more spirals. Hard to feel compassion for the opposite sex when all you're seeing is them being hateful fucks towards you.
/r/MensRights15/01/26 07:42 AM
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I mean everyone has preferences. Some will just be accepted more easily than others.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 05:12 AM
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No I just don't think sex and hookup culture is as complicated as people like to make it out to be. We live in a era where porn is everywhere, where there are ppl who have a weird fetish for married people or just don't give a fuck and like since the dawn of prostitutes you can purchase sex. It's not that hard or complicated to cheat, no matter who you are. What it boils down to is your own mental state and what your morals and values are. You don't need to be famous or rich to cheat
/r/MensRights10/01/26 06:10 PM
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Anyone can watch porn (our line), get shit faced at a bar and pick up someone equally shit faced, or find someone to fuck or have a affair with, or purchase services from a man or woman sex worker. You don't need to be tiger woods to do any of that. If your values and morals are not there you can choose to cheat regardless of biological sex, sexual orientation or income level
/r/MensRights10/01/26 03:44 AM
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Everyone has the ability to cheat. Depending on what you view as cheating you can be watching porn, have friends of the opposite sex(or same depending on sexual orientation), go to strip clubs, hook up culture, pay for sex, long term affairs etc. Everyone has the ability to cheat, the question is even with that ability do you do it because you can or do you stand by morals and honor yourself and your partner
/r/MensRights10/01/26 02:34 AM
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So I'm a practicing Catholic. So 0 body's on all fronts to me is a big value system. Especially when he holds the same views of sex as I do. My husband and I were each others firsts for that reason.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 02:06 AM
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To me it shows he had low morals, just like it would for a woman. But that's my standards for people and my values. I don't believe sex should be something you give out no care.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 12:49 AM
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Ahhh my bad. Sorry Also happy new year
/r/MensRights01/01/26 12:01 AM
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That's what I said. It's not comparable at all
/r/MensRights31/12/25 11:27 PM
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I don't think the two can be compared at all. The feet binding was done on small girls who did not understand anything that would be happening to them or long term consequences. They just were told about their pretty shoes or dad commanded it. They didn't have a choice in the matter. There was no real pain relief and they weren't under guidance of a doctor. It was done for wealthy families as a status symbol of "look I can afford to have a useless wife. She cannot work or do anything due to her …
/r/MensRights31/12/25 09:49 PM
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Good Lord I hate social media. I wish it was never invented. Do you have a lawyer that can take this to court for false allegations?
/r/MensRights27/12/25 05:16 AM
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Same. I'm on a constant "not interested" blocking stream these days. It's so mentally devastating to just see hate everywhere. I really hate what social media has done, and I wish we could control it more because this level of hate towards men and women is just not productive or healthy to society. Also, I know that the vast majority of men are amazing people who do not hate women in the slightest. I find most are grifters doing it for views and money, like justpearly things. And please also kno…
/r/MensRights25/12/25 05:22 PM
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That's the biggest problem with social media. The algorithms feed to hate. I'm a woman, and all I see on my insta and Twitter is anti women hate. Like I'm talking full on women should be silent, have no rights to their body(can't say no to sex with their partner ever, cannot decide what clothing to wear, how much food to eat or not, hair and make up, if they want babies or not) or voting, or respect. Its like a flood in my feed of men and women talking like that. I imagine men have the same thin…
/r/MensRights25/12/25 04:31 PM
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This is the best option, plus other incentives. Maybe life long health insurance and such after you retire from service as well.
/r/MensRights24/12/25 03:11 PM
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I think it had good intentions in raising awareness about sexual assault and harassment. It really is a big problem, and there are so many victims who are/were too scared to get justice/support/report/all of the above. However, it had obvious huge flaws when it was largely one sided and ignored male victims and to a certain degree p.o.c were less believed as well. And nothing was really done with the movement after the initial wave. We got some of the bad ones out and good riddance. But besides …
/r/MensRights23/12/25 03:25 PM
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Urgh this reminds me of ppl talking about Derek on stranger things season 5. I won't go into it, I refuse to spoil things. But to call kids incels is beyond crossing a lkne. They're not supposed to be having anything close to sex, at all. Closest they should get to it is learning about how babies are made, and puberty
/r/MensRights22/12/25 04:54 AM
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Idk I'm not a parent that's just what they have told me. And well I go to my friends and coworkers for parenting stuff like that cus my mom is well yeahhhhhh that would be a bad source. Some ppl really struggle with parenting others don't. Humans be human
/r/MensRights21/12/25 05:11 PM
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I believe it. I work the govt aide of the medical system where I live. All admin, accreditation and such. Working with the doctors, techs etc. to get things rolling is exhausting. I cannot imagine working the saving lives and dealing with the patients side. I sometimes wonder if ppl say stay at home parent life is hard because they feel unappreciated, and they are trying to get their partner to meet a need. But instead of expressing that, they go with that saying. And not to discredit parents. I…
/r/MensRights21/12/25 02:29 AM
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Not a parent so I have to go with what my coworkers with kids have said. some stayed home when the kids were babies then came back when the kids went to school full time, some have stay at home husbands and wives. They all say that yes it's not like it's a first responder, military, oil rig worker, etc. hard physical labour jobs and mental jobs. Nobody says its comparable to that. But the think they all noticed when they did they did the stay at home parent thing or their partner/spouse expresse…
/r/MensRights20/12/25 10:48 PM
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Woman here, my advice is to start building a escape plan. Find a therapist for yourself to meet with in secret. Squirrel away cash money somewhere. Document every instance of abuse she does and yourself reacting(so she cannot make accusations), and meet with a divorce lawyer to build a case. If possible, find a place to hide your valuables she cannot reach and slowly move them there, in a way she cannot notice. As for a toxic family. Cutting them out is okay. I haven't spoken to my dad's sisters…
/r/MensRights19/12/25 05:28 PM
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Hopefully views like that can change, it's why we're in this mess
/r/MensRights18/12/25 02:46 AM
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I agree with that, because hate is dangerous. But also boys and girls need to be watched for early signs of misandry as well. Both are dangerous
/r/MensRights18/12/25 01:51 AM
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Oh I agree. Im a practicing Catholic, and I highly doubt they're believing Christians. My belief is that he and Rachel are just ppl who enjoy to bully others. They love cutting people down and causing them mental pain. So they use red pill, men's rights and Christianity to do it. Neither give a shit about saving souls, traditional living and men or women at all
/r/MensRights15/12/25 04:44 AM
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He claims he's anti feminist and for men's rights. And to get men's rights he believes in force doctrine and the orthodox Christian faith.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 08:59 AM
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I mean, my husband and I occasionally watch it, and they claim to be about men's rights.
/r/MensRights14/12/25 08:58 AM
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Guilt of association belongs to gang member cuts/patches and terrorism. Not some bad kids being let down by lazy adults refusing to do their jobs. Everyone blames the boys who are being little shits and the ppl letting them get away with it. Not all boys.
/r/MensRights06/07/25 04:56 AM
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Because it doesn't match the definition of it. And ppl use it in a way to justify or explain away bad behaviours some boys have instead of dealing with it and teaching the kids right from wrong
/r/MensRights06/07/25 04:48 AM
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Have to disagree. We have multiple boys when I was in school act like shitheads to eachother and girls and teachers. Both with verbal words, pranks, violence, bullying, some(very rare) sexual harassment. And teachers who refused to do shit about it, were telling everyone "boys will be boys". The lazy and the people who do not give a crap will use it as a excuse, and it's fucked up when they do
/r/MensRights06/07/25 01:48 AM
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Q. Are they mad at you for leaving without telling them why or leaving because she cheated? Also ppl tend to always take their friends or families side even when they're wrong, I'm not sure why but it seems to be a big human flaw we have. Last point, what do you want to do now? Can you forgive her and move on or is this a line that cannot be repaired. Some ppl can forgive cheating to a degree, others cannot at all no matter the degree of cheating. Both are fine choices and acceptable, question i…
/r/MensRights05/07/25 10:08 PM
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I don't get how any adult can see a kid and think sexual things. I just don't get it. Male or female teacher, it boggles mind
/r/MensRights03/07/25 03:16 AM
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I mean, I'd prefer the draft to be abolished, but I'll take equality across the board just fine.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 08:25 PM
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That's not fully true. He was a minor and she was his teacher. Depending on age of consent it's statutory rape even if he "consented". There's also the level of power she has over him making it hard for him to truly consent. It's the same as how if you're passed out or under the influence of medications or drugs, or not mentally sound, you cannot consent to sex either.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 06:45 PM
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Like I look at a kid and I want to hand them Barbie's and say go play Minecraft, I see teenagers and I'm like here's Minecraft and sims. I do not understand this.
/r/MensRights02/07/25 06:01 AM
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Okay so I've been walking to get lunch downtown and have this homeless guy either mentally ill or stoned or drunk or some combo, pull down his pants and flash his dick to me, God and everyone else around. Myself, other women and men were all disgusted. I don't think anyone wants to see a situation like that. If a woman was to do the same, yeah I'd have the same reaction. I don't think it's misandry to not to see a random man's penis while I'm on lunch break or anywhere else, same with a womans p…
/r/MensRights02/07/25 12:06 AM
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What the hell is with adults in trusting positions(teachers) raping kids these days? I feel like I've seen 15 articles in June along about this? Like what the hell
/r/MensRights01/07/25 07:48 PM
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Oh I agree completely. But until we all start working together, men and women, all races and religions etc.cit won't change.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 07:45 PM
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Not everyone is American, and considering I follow American news as well, I don't see that as the case anymore. Like this article posted, everyone is claiming it to be biased and such, and ignore the fact men are also abused. Look at the reporting on the American president and such. There are aspects of truth, but there is a real push for a divide. It's easier to control folks
/r/MensRights01/07/25 07:35 PM
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I would say that now the job of media and new outlets is to push a agenda to a relative degree. I don't think it was before or maybe as a kid I just didn't notice it because well eyes of a child. I do believe once ppl in power learned how news outlets and such could be used for influence and dividing ppl they took full advantage. Who wants United people regardless of religion, biological sex, gender, sexual orientation or race, who will work together and tell you to fuck off and do better? That …
/r/MensRights01/07/25 07:17 PM
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Because that's media's job. They each cater to a side and what generates views and outrage. Go to the political Reddit pages. It's either outrage about liberals or outrage about conservatives and everything inbetween. Their goal is to keep us mad at eachother and divided so we cannot work together. What will make women angry? Articles about how many women are abused by men, whether it's dates, BF's, husbands, brothers, uncle's, dad's, grandpa's etc. What will make men pissed off? Paint them all …
/r/MensRights01/07/25 06:36 PM
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Any abuse is too much abuse- man or woman. I wish humans could just be nicer to eachother, I know we're animals, but why can't we be kinder ones
/r/MensRights01/07/25 05:47 PM
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To be fair though none of their facism and shit they did was actually biblical. They took very very lose sections in the Bible and twisted it into the evil of Gilead. That's one of the main points of Gilead is that it's not Christianity in any sense but what happens when evil fucks twist a religion to justify their evil. It's why Catholics had to leave or die or convert, same with other Christians. Why priest were hung in Gilead.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 05:12 AM
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Yeah I got banned from those pages for being a practicing Catholic as a woman. There is alot of hate towards ppl being any form of Christian and/or stating God is a man.
/r/MensRights01/07/25 05:10 AM
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A maid is someone who comes into your house and helps clean it(either by doing it all daily, or partially on certain days etc.). It's their career and they are very hard workers with little benefits. A stay at home wife, is the wife who doesn't have an outside job and stays home. What that can mean varies greatly on the family situation and woman. She could be doing the vast majority of the cooking, cleaning, errands, if there's kids or pets taking care of them etc. or there are many cases where…
/r/MensRights29/06/25 04:48 PM
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Hmmm well it's toxic and bullying that's for sure. Mostly because it implies to be a masculine man you need to be obsessed with women and that there's something wrong with being homosexual or not obsessed. But I don't think being obsessed with women is a masculine trait so I don't think we can called it toxic masculinity. Your sexual orientation has nothing to do with masculinity, there are very "mocho" guys who do stereotypical men's interests and activities as defined by gender norms, but are …
/r/MensRights27/06/25 06:26 AM
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What the hell is with an increase of just evil ppl? Is it just being reported more? I feel like we're seeing way more evil in this day and age
/r/MensRights27/06/25 01:28 AM
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Fucking hell, have those girls committed asap and get extensive therapy. I'd also check out the home situation. That is not normal and borderline psychopatical
/r/MensRights26/06/25 03:33 AM
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I have to say ppl are calling it out. I'm on various pop culture pages and there is a mass outcry against what was done to that woman. Problem is Reddit does protect hate groups that are not politically right wing or more right. Ppl have been reporting the snark pages and Reddit says they're not violating anything. I've always said nobody actually cares if others are bullied, and well I'm right
/r/MensRights25/06/25 01:24 PM
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I mean you wouldn't know I'm doing it really, I refused to scream and shout at ppl in a argument. So you'd probably hear extremists over my voice anyway. And I really don't blame anyone from being scared of radicals, they tend to be unhinged and enjoy causing harm and pain to others
/r/MensRights23/06/25 05:07 AM
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I say it to them all the time. I'm an egalitarian to an extent myself. The normal ppl while they may disagree with some or all of what I have to say, don't mind hearing it. The extremists get pissed off I'm a woman speaking for men and women. It's a fun day when I get to talk about it
/r/MensRights23/06/25 04:36 AM
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I would argue against that, as it would just give extremists more fire power. Both men and women should be fighting alongside each other for their own interests and safety and the other sexes as well. A divided house cannot stand
/r/MensRights23/06/25 03:59 AM
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I always found dating apps only work for maybe the 5 percent who use them. It's better to meet ppl a more natural way. Not through work, but if you have volunteer interests, or hobbies etc. join groups for that and meet ppl that way. Let friendship guide the path to something more
/r/MensRights22/06/25 05:10 PM
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Woman opinion here: she wanted hookups and nothing serious, you wanted a steady relationship. She was never going to agree to a monogamous relationship, but asking after you seed her playing the hookup game, just made her lose all attraction. Also, I think you're lucky with that. She is clearly not what you are looking for, you're both on different wave lengths for the type of relationship you want, and well this way if she is being exposed to certain diseases you are now safe as well.
/r/MensRights22/06/25 05:01 PM
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I do not understand all the anger and hate in society. It's dangerous, terrifying and sad
/r/MensRights22/06/25 04:42 PM
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Within a year I do think it's morally wrong and in poor taste to remarry someone. Man or woman, thats not right, especially when discussing sharing life insurance money of the deceased.
/r/MensRights22/06/25 03:12 AM
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My thoughts exactly. I think this is the era of rage baiting so we have to be careful before reacting now.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 06:05 PM
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I think in the 40s to 70s it was the gentlemen thing to do and then we'll racial elements but otherwise, I don't think it's a thing at all Of course if I'm ever on transit again and I see a man struggling I'm giving him my seat, same If I see another woman struggling, and I'd hope someone would do the same for me and others. But it's not expected
/r/MensRights21/06/25 05:54 PM
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Where I am the bus hierarchy works like this: front is reserved for 1) seniors& disabled folks (wheelchairs, crutches, canes type of disabled. Invisible disabilities rarely count to ppl) then parents with infants or small children and then pregnant women. The middle of the bus and back is first come first serve and good luck fighting asshole teens for a seat where they put their feet or bags.
/r/MensRights21/06/25 03:18 PM
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The reason I call her a predator is she gets a jolly out of targeting old men in nursing homes that may not be there mentally, married men, and going for boys who are about to turn legal age. Her 1000 bodies in 24 hours she admitted they didn't Id everyone because that's too much effort and a good chunk of them didn't use protection as well. Not to mention she's telling young girls and teen girls that this is what we should all be doing. To me, while 18+ are legal adults there is something moral…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 02:24 PM
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I am sorry but you're not making any sense. What the hell am I doing? I'm saying boys acting out in violence and attacking women comes from all sides, good homes, bad homes, etc. it doesn't make it any better if one is rare case, it's still a problem. Frankly I find it more worrying when a kid comes from a good home and still chooses violence and evil, as I cannot see a rhythm or reason for it. For example, sons of anarchy, I can easily see why Jax is the way he is from his upbringing. He was ta…
/r/MensRights20/06/25 02:18 PM
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I'm am I arguing in pro of violence and kids stabbing other kids
/r/MensRights20/06/25 08:44 AM
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Sexual liberation. While I agree with not shaming a normal and healthy sexual relationships and especially victims of SA, the whole moved has gone insane. Look at friggin Bonnie blue, that woman is a predator but for some reason ppl support her bullshit
/r/MensRights20/06/25 03:08 AM
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As a woman, only time I'm picking a bear is if it's a red panda because those things are friggin adorable and I always wanted to see one up close...maybe pet it. Otherwise, I've seen what the bears in my area do, we have grizzlies, no way in hell do I want to see one of those while walking. Man all the time. Chances are he's camping or hiking like I am and zero threat, the grizzly will see me as a threat or food and that will not end well for me in any situation. Off chance the man is a threat, …
/r/MensRights19/06/25 04:26 PM
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I feel that seeing the logic in the show and the message it was trying to convey is causing the problems. Unfortunately we are seeing boys and young men getting more angry, just like on the flip we are seeing the same in young women and girls. And while it's more common in environments of parental neglect and abuse, it still happens with the "good upbringings" as well. It's why I'm a huge supporter of making therapy and family resources more available to all
/r/MensRights19/06/25 03:09 PM
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I'm confused...do you mean feminist women just decide one day they're gay?
/r/ExRedPill19/06/25 09:50 AM
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You do realize white boys and girls from "good backgrounds" also get lost in mental illness, hateful internet culture etc. and do horrible crimes. It's not just immigrants, kids from broken homes or "bad" upbringings. The point of the show is every day boys who by society's standards have everything going for them, are losing their humanity to aggression and lack of care for their mental health and committing awful crimes you cannot come back from. I looked at the cases they were using for refer…
/r/MensRights19/06/25 09:45 AM
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Was the show based off of a few stabbings that happened in the UK when a girl rejected a boys advances? I recall seeing interviews where the creator, a man, started to learn of these crimes and wanted to showcase them in a way to bring awareness to both the issues facing teenage girls and boys. Of course the show is going to drama it up because it's tv, I don't think anything but sports, jeopardy and wheel of fortune is legitimately unscripted now, but the crimes backing the shows existence are …
/r/MensRights19/06/25 07:24 AM
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I consider myself to be more egalitarian and my biggest issue with modern feminism is what you stated really. It outright attacks and denies male problems and reduces it to, they have more societal privileges than us so they have no issues, which to me is why ppl have turned to the Tate's of the world and caused this unhealthy relationship between the two that is growing. To me if we truly want equality between the two sexes, to the best of our ability we need to recognize the issues on both sid…
/r/MensRights18/06/25 02:20 PM
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I've been preaching this for ages, but social media...especially til Tok...is a plague on humanity. Its given the worst ppl a platform to spread their shit everywhere, influence others to more extremism and divided ppl more.
/r/MensRights15/06/25 06:58 PM
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I swear this was an episode on law and order svu, and they basically had to prove her dad's innocence. And it turns out the cop that investigated had an affair with the mom.
/r/MensRights14/06/25 08:16 AM
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I've heard it blamed on immigrants, ppl of different racial groups, gen Z's and milennials, boomers, ppl on the left side of the political spectrum, ppl on the right, ice, Biden, trump and Obama. I have yet to see men or women blamed for it.
/r/MensRights13/06/25 01:32 AM
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Like the teachers at my school, ppl prefer to bury their heads in sand over addressing a real problem. I have no problem with boys doing stupid shit like girls do. But there is a vast difference between petty vandalism of a bathroom or streaking etc. and violent behaviours towards boys, girls and adults.
/r/MensRights15/05/25 07:34 PM
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In school I did hear it said to me and other girls and well boys by teachers when we would report violent behaviours and even borderline sexual harassment and assault by some guys. I think some use it that way as an excuse to not do their job and protect other kids from a clear problem.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 04:35 PM
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Wow talk about a over reaction to a opinion. I view the disabled, elderly, children, pregnant ppl and pets as the most vulnerable of our population and as a able bodied adult(least for now. We'll see how the knee holds out) it's my job to make sure theyre safe. Doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman, a little boy or a little girl. I'm a able bodied adult and I will ensure their safety if I can. Just my stance on life.
/r/MensRights10/05/25 03:57 PM
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I remember this commerical I was hoping it would show how important amber alerts are to ppl in my country. Then last year around summer a woman kidnapped her kids and fled and ppl bitched about getting the alert. When a father did the same thing they bitched as well claiming kids are with their parent that's not kidnapping. Ppl just scare me with how idiotic they are
/r/MensRights01/01/25 06:01 PM
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True, psychos do psycho
/r/MensRights25/12/24 07:37 PM
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Merry Christmas everyone!!! Wishing you all lots of love, joy and happiness today and into the new year. God Bless
/r/MensRights25/12/24 06:26 PM
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Not true. Ted Bundy had the weirdest cult following of women. Which I do not understand at all, like what mental health problems do they have
/r/MensRights25/12/24 06:24 PM
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I think there would still be a good chunk of ppl cheering due to this eat the rich mentality and issues over American health care. I think the new aged feminists would try to make it a hate crime. And like with the terrorism charges Bs they'd add it to the chargers to get more time for the accused. And then some ppl like myself would get flack for saying,I understand the anger towards the CEO and company but murder is still wrong.
/r/MensRights25/12/24 06:23 PM
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Watch it a bunch of Karen's run the site and are pissy cus they consider it a slur...Karen's need so much therapy
/r/MensRights20/12/24 03:08 AM
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Why are those words not allowed? Also isn't Mary Sue a character in national Lampoon's Christmas vacation? I swear she's the adorable little girl who asks Clark if he's Santa
/r/MensRights20/12/24 02:42 AM
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I mean I get the why. Boy scouts were loosing members, alot of girls didn't want to do the cookie stuff and girlie stuff, they wanted to do the more boy activities, it made sense. I never joined girl scouts because I had zero interest in their activities, I wanted to be outside building things, and doing stuff with nature, getting dirty. Boy things. There was just zero options for me as a kid. Now if they keep certain things separate so the boys and girls have their own space and some stuff is c…
/r/MensRights12/09/24 05:15 PM
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I mean I'm a woman who cannot have children of my own due to medical issues, so JD Vance's comments off putand myself off a bit. Funny enough I have a aunt and uncle who do believe I should have less voting rights or not allowed to vote because I don't have children. Ppl are weiedos
/r/MensRights11/09/24 11:53 PM
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I didn't bump into him. Friends set it up, and for the life of me I do not understand why he decided to date me. However I did not meet him until I did alot of work for myself to get the loneliness away, I still had some but with the dog and ppl I was meeting through.activitoes I was doing that was pretty much gone.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 01:18 PM
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Again believe whatever helps you. Everyone can experience loneliness, but it's not my job to get you to accept that. It's not just a situation for men sadly enough, and I feel for anyone who does go through with it.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 04:52 AM
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It isn't. For men or women or they/thems etc. loneliness isn't determined by gender, it's just something that happens and most ppl will experience it. And prolonged loneliness is exceptionally devastating. But if you need to believe that I and other women cannot experience it, you do you
/r/MensRights09/09/24 04:45 AM
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Oh I wish it was that easy I really wish it was. I didn't get the guys going after me on dating apps or in person... I'm not sure what flirting on mass transit is.... And well flirting at work in this day and age is such a bad idea. Work is for work, not for finding romance. And well with a mother and father who just didn't like me and it was pretty bad, there was some severe loneliness growing up and well into my 20s. I wasn't lonely by choice, I was just lonely because of what life was for me …
/r/MensRights09/09/24 04:26 AM
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Can I ask why? I mean without knowing ones circumstances and life situation, I don't think one can determine if someone is properly lonely or not.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 04:17 AM
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Im a woman so I don't know how helpful this will be but when I was in a really bad space and well my parents were bloody useless at seeing me as important or mattering so I didn't have them for help, I got a dog. Got a little 2.5lbs baby toy poodle, he is my world. Taking him for walks meeting others with dogs helped so much, then I joined my church and that helped too. Changed jobs, picked up knitting and crochet as a hobby. And now on my lunch breaks I make it a point to go outside either with…
/r/MensRights08/09/24 10:17 PM
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Where I am, no to the first question. How it is here is if you're old, very visibly disabled (wheel chair or crutches), very pregnant or have a stroller (mom or dad with the baby) then you get a seat someone gives up...and that's a toss. Ppl usually have to be reminded. The young, middle age, or young looking seniors: nope sucks for you. Invisible disability: good fucking lucking.
/r/MensRights08/09/24 02:58 AM
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Wear makeup. Problem solved
/r/MensRights06/09/24 11:44 PM
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Nope it's basically just elderly, injured or very very pregnant or ppl with babies in strollers And the injured is iffy at that. I have a pretty damaged knee, it's misaligns sometimes dislocates. I can be full on limping onto the bus or skytrain, dragging my leg and nobody offers me shit. Had a man one yell at me and lecture me on the bus cus I was sitting in the disability section (knee was out, I was going to my doctor for physio).
/r/MensRights06/09/24 08:38 PM
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As a woman...yes... Some women are just loons. The worst in my area is rollerblade girl. Some ppl deserve a nice self hugging sweater with a team of doctors
/r/MensRights06/09/24 01:57 PM
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Oddly I think even the loony toons pseudo science ppl think g.p is off her rocker. I think she has a cult following but those cult followings are never very big numbers
/r/MensRights06/09/24 01:54 PM
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As a general rule I do not take great stock in the opinions of someone who sells vagina scented candles or a skin care like called goop. Of course she's gonna say stupid shit and not care about anyone but what she thinks is a special interest.
/r/MensRights06/09/24 05:46 AM
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What the actual fuck
/r/MensRights05/09/24 07:58 PM
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Yeah but like the dude who made pencilin sold the Patan for a dollar because it was so needed. Like pads, and tampons are need from ages 11 to 50s, they shouldn't be costing so much. Especially when many need at least a box each cycle
/r/MensRights04/09/24 03:55 AM
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I mean I am annoyed my pads that don't cause me to have a allergic reaction have gone up in price.....kinda feel that industry should be regulated
/r/MensRights04/09/24 03:48 AM
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I feel like you're deliberately trying to create a whataboutism that doesn't apply. Of course Nazis don't deserve respect but that is a choice men and women make down the road to be, thats not how one is born. Nobody is born for team nazi. I'm saying on a basic human right level we both deserve basic human rights, respect and dignity. Choices down the road and how we develop with alter that but the basic level doesn't change. Obviously I will not run faster than the vast majority of males even i…
/r/MensRights03/09/24 08:49 PM
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Fucking hell trying to talk common sense to my fellow AA's is enough to cause me to have a tommy Shelby freakout from peaky blinders. I'll lead when I have to, but if you men want that burden, it's all yours gladly
/r/MensRights03/09/24 08:07 PM
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It means that just because person A is a male and person B is a female, that one is less than the other. Everyone deserves basic human rights, dignity, validation and respect. Actions and choices we make later decide how individuals will treat you beyond that. For example, say God forbid, someone in your family passes today or gets sick (again I pray that doesn't happen) (and I'm assuming your male) if you are having emotions in regards to that, yours should be listened to, respected and support…
/r/MensRights03/09/24 07:22 PM
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I think it's split 50/50 on ppl who deem us more important because we don't have a penis....and those who think we're children who need to be coddled and such because we don't have a penis.
/r/MensRights03/09/24 07:01 PM
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As a woman I've heard that women should be treated with kid gloves because we're fragile, weak and emotional ppl. Something as a now 30 year old woman I take great offense to. But I feel that comment you read probably follows the same way of thinking which does a huge disservice to both men and women. Women are to be treated essentially like we're giant children and men are to be ignored and tough it out. Fuck their feelings and well fuck them and not in the fun way. We're creating a us vs them …
/r/MensRights03/09/24 06:52 PM
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I'm not surprised but I'm heart broken. I know just how things are where I live, that it's hard to get a foot hold especially for the younger millennials and older gen z's. I hear 50/50 from older millennials about this. But things are hard now with trying to find stable shelter, getting a good wage, starting a family (if you want one). It feels like things are spiraling and hopeless. I know how it effects me as a woman, and I talk to my man about it so I know his stance and feelings, but I feel…
/r/MensRights29/08/24 08:17 PM
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Dude same! I laughed so hard at that
/r/MensRights29/08/24 12:58 AM
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I mean they are kids. They're just older kids, developing into adulthood. The ability to reasonable foresee consequences isn't fully there yet, it's more short term thinking but they're coming into their own. It's why I have issues with 18 year olds being allowed to join the military.
/r/MensRights28/08/24 02:03 PM
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To a certain extent I agree with it. Just like extreme misandry should be terrorism as well. If you hate the opposite sex that much where there's a very real risk for physical harm or you do physical harm, you should be charged with terrorism. It's a safety thing after a certain point
/r/MensRights28/08/24 02:44 AM
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That's really quite sad
/r/MensRights28/08/24 02:14 AM
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I mean that's a tricky whicket. Obviously things cannot always be equal down the line, but maybe chemical castration? Thrown onto snake island and may the force be with you cus I don't think God will be
/r/MensRights27/08/24 03:45 AM
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I agree with that. If someone preys apon or does stuff to children, just lock them in a cell and they never see the light of day again. I have respect for men and women who recognize this illness and do everything in their power to make sure they never harm a child. (Some move to areas where they will never be around a kid, some do chemical castration etc.) But those who harm kids, i don't think there is anything one can do to rehab them. It's not like it's a financial crime like stealing where …
/r/MensRights27/08/24 02:47 AM
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True. I just feel like social media gave them a easier way to high and form like groups to work within eachother and hand out the most disgusting videos and pictures and live streams.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:56 AM
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I think that's one of the most terrifying aspects is, even with that open communication and watching over your kids to the best of your ability, you cannot prevent all the monsters out there and shit can still happen. I still remember when I went camping with my aunt and uncle and their foster kids (I ended up babysitting like 20 kids at that cabin rentals, and I was 12ish) there was this much older guy...18 plus who had some weird obsession with me. would follow me around and touch me and shit.…
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:46 AM
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Same. Like I see a child and I'm like "hey kid go play on the jungle gym. Play with toys. Do your homework, eat veggies." Social media has been the downfall of society.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 01:39 AM
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Urgh I'm learning there are far more ppl who are attracted to children than I thought and I'm not comfortable with this. I used to think ppl who were attracted to children were the same odds as being hit by lightening then run over by the ambulance coming to rescue you.
/r/MensRights27/08/24 12:32 AM
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As a woman I've often wondered that. Sure in tv shows and movies makes sense for us to crush on the bad boy, they pick the hottest guys for those roles. But in real life, I do not understand why anyone would want someone who treats them like shit. Not all bad boys do, but a significant portion seem to think that's part of the image
/r/MensRights25/08/24 12:56 AM
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There was the case of a woman who was accused of murdering her babies with anti freeze but it turns out they were born with a rare genetic disorder where her breast milk was making them sick. The good doctor did a episode about it. I felt horrible for that woman. That's top of my head though
/r/MensRights22/08/24 08:59 PM
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It depends on the nature of the relationship due to the question of true consent. For example teacher and a student who is in college. That teacher has a position of power over the student. If the student doesn't go along with the teacher could the teacher fail them or screw up their grades and schooling? Same with a boss or a doctor and patient etc. there's a position of power over the patient, employee and such where it's unclear if they didn't reciprocate the boss, doctor etc's feelings would…
/r/MensRights21/08/24 07:25 PM
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I think whatever the couple decides based on their needs is fair. Life isn't a cookie cutter thing. Sometimes it works for the woman to be a say at home wife/mom, sometimes it's the man; and many times both parties need to work at least one job and figure out care for the children. Do what works for your family situation and forget what others say. They're not paying your bills, not putting food on your table so their opinion is irrelevant
/r/MensRights20/08/24 03:59 AM
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It doesn't make sense. It bothers me so much
/r/MensRights18/08/24 03:01 AM
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The man and bear thing is still a weird thing for me. Like is it I'm on a hike and I come across some random dude also hiking or a bear? Also is it a bear that is appropriate for the area I am hiking (I'm Canadian, so say grizzly bear or a brown bear or a black bear, or is it just some random bear like a red panda?) Or am I dropped in the woods and I have to fight for my life against a man or a grizzly bear?
/r/MensRights17/08/24 09:24 PM
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I can buy being wired wrong, I don't think any sane person could see a child as attractive. You kinda have to be really fucked up, man or woman, to think that and then to act on it.
/r/MensRights17/08/24 01:33 AM
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Ewwwwwww 1. Should be locked up for life 2. How the hell are ppl attracted to children. Just ewwwww
/r/MensRights16/08/24 04:32 PM
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I think it's a pocketed thing around the globe. If you look at countries where women are seen as lesser than, where they basically have very limited access to education, freedoms and work then you will definitely see wages gaps for those who have work outside of the family home. I can't speak to Europeans countries or the states, I'm Canadian, but I do know there are laws here where you cannot discriminate based on sex, gender identity, sexual orientation, culture, religion, race etc. and being …
/r/MensRights16/08/24 04:20 PM
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Why does anyone gaslight/downplay anything? They just don't want to hear it. Maybe it's too much work for them, or it doesn't fit into a bias they already have or it admits they need to do more work or any work on themselves.
/r/MensRights14/08/24 03:24 AM
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I think it's how ppl read how others come off along with how their day is going. I've met both men and women, who Im sure thought they were being bubbly and cheerful but their posture and tone to me read as I need to have my guard up. Humans are a complex species, too much so for generalizations like that
/r/MensRights08/08/24 06:13 PM
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I wonder why people do it? (I'm a why person. I'm obsessed with learning why ppl do what they do) What drives them? Why can't they just be single for a bit, yeah it can such but just hopping around like a deranged toddler on a pogo stick can't be healthy.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 08:45 PM
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I mean I'm a woman and I never did that. Mostly cus I'm a one at a time type of girl.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 08:18 PM
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Damn. I knew people dated around nothing really long term when I was in the dating game, wasn't my thing but I knew others did do that. I just didn't know designated back ups were a thing. So guys have a designated back up boyfriend or girlfriend as well?
/r/MensRights07/08/24 07:33 PM
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Normally at 30 I don't feel old, then I read stuff like this and realize yup I'm old and out of touch with the younglings. Has a backup always been a thing?
/r/MensRights07/08/24 06:22 PM
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As a woman, I've noticed by family I get asked more about when we are having children and why we haven't yet. Ppl seem to go to me for it over my man. But I would think given were a couple vs me just being single he would feel that pressure as well even though I'm the one who gets asked. The part that pisses me off is the repeated asking when we've given a answer. Like back off ppl
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:33 AM
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It's the whatever podcast. Brian like seeks out 99 percent of the time loony tunes ppl
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:24 AM
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Oh that is a messed up movie. I only new about the butter part not the rest
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:02 AM
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It was before my time. But nobody knew that was unscripted until a couple years ago. They thought it was a foreign film that went way too far for showing SA&R. But they thought it wasn't really. Then the actress came out with how she wasn't aware the actor was actually gonna do that to her and the director laughed about it as this big brilliant thing and now rightfully so everyone is horrified. I remember my mom had seen it and she thought it was just a uncomfortable and gross scene. Then she fo…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 04:58 AM
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Old old old movie, where there is a r scene and butter is used. Well turns out the director wanted a authentic reaction from the actress so he worked with the actor to actually use butter as lube for anal and I don't remember if that's as far as it went or if he put anything in but yeahhhhhhh For the record the actress has no clue that would happen. I think it's called tango in Paris or something like that
/r/MensRights07/08/24 04:45 AM
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I mean it's the whatever podcast. You mostly get utterly insane loony toons women on there for some reason. Fun to watch like public freakouts but I wouldn't take it seriously
/r/MensRights06/08/24 11:01 PM
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I agree. And it's bullshit. They talk a big thing about toxic masculinity and want men to be more intuned with and open about their feelings but do nothing to give them the support they need.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 11:02 PM
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One could argue if they would give the flowers to their father or a male relative that men do deserve flowers. Idk I never thought about giving flowers to my man, mostly cus im the one who goes gaga over flowers and stuff where as he's not into them. But other little random gifts, if that is your love language, should be done to show your partners you care
/r/MensRights03/08/24 04:02 PM
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Just saying if I'm plotting my death to run away with my man, I'm not leaving it to snail mail, or tech. I'm meeting up with him to lay out the plan with his ideas as well. Also Romeo learn to check for a pulse. Just saying. Well early on communicating what one actually wants in their relationship with the prospective partner I think would go a long way to avoiding regrets. And communication throughout. From what I've heard about marriage regret it's more from feeling that someone isn't meeting …
/r/MensRights03/08/24 12:41 AM
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All I'm learning is ppl need to be more careful about the selection process of finding your partner and really really really (cannot stress this enough) work on communication. Lack of communication killed Romeo and Juliet in the worst romance before twilight
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/r/MensRights02/08/24 01:37 AM
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I do not get how so many ppl can be sexually attracted to children. Like how do you look at a child and think sexual things? I see a kid and I just want to sit them down with some Lego or Barbie's or other kid toys and watch them have fun playing their dream worlds while I tend to household chores. I hope that evil piece of shit just gets shoved into a tiny room with no human interaction for the rest of her pathetic life
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/r/MensRights02/08/24 01:32 AM
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Can i just say that's a weirdly specific study. And well I find spanking children in general to be barbaric. Shame on women or men who do.
/r/MensRights10/10/23 06:51 AM
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Idk it can be hard to do one armed. I dislocated my shoulder grade 12, but it was my left so I was thinking it would be no big deal. Turned down help to shower and such cus its my left. Couldn't wash my hair, ended up taking a hour trying to do what took 15 min. I never realized how much you need both arms to work at full capacity
/r/MensRights09/10/23 09:16 PM
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I do not believe in segregation in any way shape or form. I think if men would like a separate car just for men that should be a option for them as well. Just like women should and do have that option on certain trains in Japan if they feel sus one day while commuting to work or wherever. I really don't see a issue with having options to make ppl feel safe, especially in this circumstance, I also do not get the desire to have segregation in any way shape or form.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 03:54 AM
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So they created cars for women to ride to feel safe because they had vastly more consistent reports of women being assaulted and terrorized, and that's not good. The women should either deal with it or there should be cars women aren't allowed? That's the only way to deal with this?
/r/MensRights06/10/23 05:32 PM
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The women only cars were to address the rampant sexual harassment and sexual assault on those trains specifically. It's not all men are bad, it was a last ditch effort to keep the women safe thst overall the overall population agreed with doing. Having been groped on a public bus trying to get to school, it is terrifying and we have far lower cases then they were having. Nobody is saying make segregation for men and women like pre civil rights Era for all. It was just trying to keep women safe i…
/r/MensRights06/10/23 04:38 AM
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Very true my comment still stands though
/r/MensRights01/10/23 08:13 PM
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I mean may not have been unprotected sex. I'm the result of condoms, charting and bc failing.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 08:09 PM
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I mean I'm upset over that but I think for a different reason. I'm upset any man or woman could kill a baby ever. It's unthinkable and unspeakable to me. And unless it's a pure horrific accident (trip and fall type of deal) life in prison
/r/MensRights01/10/23 08:07 PM
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I think you're finding women in the wrong places. I'm not saying all women don't care about wealth, but I don't think it's most. And if most is what you're finding and you don't like it, you're looking in the wrong places.
/r/MensRights01/10/23 04:49 PM
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Repels men too. Like would any of you gentlemen get with a girl who has like a 200 credit score, mass consumer debit and is a sneeze away from the cra/irs/whoever else handles it s.w.a.t kicking down their door?
/r/MensRights01/10/23 07:52 AM
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Q. Why do ppl think most women are most attracted to money? There are some sure, but I really don't think it's the vast majority. From my experience most women want honesty, respect, stability, and trust. And by stability I mean knowing their partner is there and not just gonna disappear at random times. Can have a stable future so they're not in a troubled situation with the bills (which in most cases both ppl involved pay now a days). And also if you want to start a relationship off on a lie, …
/r/MensRights01/10/23 05:31 AM
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Agreed, but again staring is a weird line. Really it all boils down to social cues and just try to be a good person. Man or woman, just try to be good
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:03 AM
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That I agree with. I think the list is trying to say what seems harmless to one, makes the other uncomfortable so be careful, pay attention to the social cues and verbal cues etc. And be respectful. But they missed the mark
/r/MensRights29/09/23 06:54 PM
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I mean groping, touching etc. Should not be done unless you know you have consent. Like some dbag trying to "compliment" me on the buss while grabbing my ass, theyre getting throat punched. The rest its a fine line. I think a good rule of thumb is be careful and if someone looks uncomfortable or says they are just be a good person apologize and move on. Man or woman, basic human decency
/r/MensRights29/09/23 05:27 PM
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Like anything sexuall related where there's a dom/sub relationship, there's always a line for when it's abuse or fine no matter the gender. If all parties are consenting adults and they get their jollies, I don't think it's anyone's business. However since this is financial, there needs to be checks and balances like with gambling so they don't end up in a bad spot financially.
/r/MensRights27/09/23 12:38 AM
0

Ahhh I must have missed that. Frankly.she always struck me as being a giant asshole like Russell brand. So while innocent till proven guilty, im not surprised by accusations claiming they're giant assholes
/r/MensRights23/09/23 02:21 AM
7

Peta? Yeah those loons need self hugging jackets
/r/MensRights23/09/23 01:49 AM
-2

Is Russell brand being accused of multiple accounts of rape and abuse? Lizzy as far as I know is just accused of being a asshole and a bully and fat shaming.... Also there are multiple lawsuits against lizzo, more and more accusations and ppl are turning against her. She's just ignoring it as she's idk a boss girl or something. The lizzo situation is far from over
/r/MensRights23/09/23 12:34 AM
5

Same reason women are portrayed as either whores, dumb, naggy, bitchy, overbaring, narcassistic, etc. Sitcoms play up on all stereotypes, good or bad they ampt them as their source of humor. All of these sitcoms also show the good qualities though. It's a mixed bag really
/r/MensRights21/09/23 07:03 PM
1

I do. It's a fascinating Era of history.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 10:56 PM
0

I mean sports vary. I like hockey, so I watch that, I don't really see female hockey teams on my TV until the Olympics but I watch those games. I watch female and male soccer for fifa...volleyball for both. But other than that, most sports bore me. Wrestling is wrestling. I think sports is a finicky situation. To have the revenue to pay the ppl big you need a huge advertising budget and really advertise it, but it's hard to get that if there's no interest. Best I can think of, have the women pla…
/r/MensRights18/09/23 12:14 AM
5

Of course. And please, keep stock of your heart health and do yearly heart checks. Prevention and constant monitoring is the best way to not end up in a bad situation. I don't want to see anyone and their family go through what my dad and us went through with him.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 07:33 PM
1

At the time studies started into heart disease for humans and heart attacks, the reasons for not studying women were what I said and that bias did continue. Up until recently heart disease and heart attacks were vastly untreated for women because there is actually a difference in the symptoms and women were often ignored until it was way to late. Again I worked for the organization that deals with heart disease for the province for both men and women and sadly children. I saw what happens when h…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 06:52 PM
2

I think privilege is pocketed and varies in different areas in the world. There are natural privileges, ie: men by nature are stronger, taller, faster than the average women, they don't have to deal with time of the month and the complications from that, and well peeing standing up on a hike is something I count as a privilege as I have to do a knee buggering squat. When it comes to societal it varies drastically depending on where you are. I think we can all agree in middle eastern areas there …
/r/MensRights17/09/23 06:45 PM
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No need to apologize at all. I can only speak to my province, since I've only worked for and lived in my province. I have no experience with the others, so it's good to hear what's going on with other organizations. And I agree fully, there needs to be major work to fix the biases in the medical system no matter what they are. I think while trying to over correct the mistakes of the past (ie researching primarily only men when issues effect women or both[I have endometriosis, diagnosis at the ag…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 06:36 PM
8

I worked for bc heart and stroke foundation, so I kinds understand the background for this push. Women for years were not actually studied in regards to a wide range of health issues, including heart disease and heart attacks. Men were the primary study group, mostly because it was believed time of the month needed to be accounted for and every woman has a different cycle, cycle length, irregular or normal etc. So they stuck with men who don't have that. Now the downside to only studying men for…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 05:15 PM
4

Q. Are you a sovereign citizen? Q2. How do we take accountability to not be sexually harassed or assaulted? Not ride the train with men, well Japan has a car for women and you say that's bad, wear less revealing clothes....women in burka's get assaulted as well? Never work outside the home or leave the home without male supervision? Well women who live in countries like that get assaulted to. So what's your solution? Btw Japan had a severe issue with it that's why the put that car in. It's not o…
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:26 AM
1

Lmfao oh man, yeah im just a steeple who obeys and respects the laws of other countries I visit. Btw when you have friends and family living in the country in question, it's not bootlegging propaganda to inform why certain laws and actions are made. It's just explaining a why. The cars were made for a good reason. Or do you think it's bad to try and stop women from being sexually harassed and groped?
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:11 AM
7

Let me guess I should listen to you and your "wisdom" instead
/r/MensRights16/09/23 11:08 PM
14

They have these trains to address the rampant sexual assault and harassment towards women on the trains. It's a safe space for a reason. He also broke the law, if you go to a country, respect their laws.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 09:36 PM
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The difference is, many of the incels are scary and violent men who believe rape cannot be a crime and women have to submit to them. I'm sure not all are like that (well I pray that) but a good chunk are. I don't think defending incels should be a thing.
/r/MensRights16/09/23 05:37 PM
2

If it was pre 1890s I'd say no, cus that's kinda how shit was done. Your dad would find a guy who was financially stable and who gives a fuck if you are attracted to him or not. In this day and age, yeah it's wrong. Like I get it's hard economically, it's a damn shit show around the world, but that's not right
/r/MensRights16/09/23 12:01 AM
1

I thin social media is the biggest issue for men and women and the standards we view society has for us. Social media attacks men and women from a young age telling them all this shit and conditioning us we need to think a certain way about our sex and the opposite sex. Really while social media is great for connecting with family across a country or seas, it needs to go out the window, it's don't far more harm than good
/r/MensRights15/09/23 02:08 PM
1

That explains alot about society if ppl are just taking whatever they can get and not actually looking at what relationships take and the must haves and must have nots are not considering. If you just want to fuck around, I really don't know much about that, but go nuts. If you want a serious relationship both sexes really need to look at more than surface level. Whether or not to have/adopt children is huge, lifestyle is huge, financial planning etc.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 11:20 PM
1

Idk I think there's more to it than don't be obese, and even obese differs depending on body type. There's a vast difference between my 600 lbs life obese and someone who is classified as obese due to their height but isn't at that point. There's also the issue of children, beliefs on religion, future planning, drugs, smoking, drinking, etc.
/r/MensRights12/09/23 09:52 PM
1

Again in context of rape it sounds bad when we say don't do x. Because even when you don't do x bad shit happens. Even women in full burka's get raped or assaulted. Saying limit risky behaviour is smart for men and women, it just sounds bad when it comes to rape, because it does come off as well you were raped because of your actions or lack there of, you're part to blame. It's just a tricky wicket
/r/MensRights12/09/23 04:35 AM
-1

You have to admit it sounds horrible and a little victim blamey. Like when we teach kids about stranger danger, good touching vs bad touching (ie your dad gives you a hug vs creepy uncle jimbo crawls into bed with you at night and pets you) it sounds vastly different from telling women(and guys) don't drink, don't go out, don't wear revealing clothes(this one sounds like a crock of shit to me honestly.) Etc. There's just a different tone when we say to women cut risky behaviour
/r/MensRights12/09/23 12:54 AM
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It's convicted now. But I do get the victims issues with anyone giving positive letters in support of their attacker. They know a very dark and evil side of this person while other ppl cannot fathom that side is alot apart of a good friend they know and allowed around their children. This issue isn't black or white on many sides, both sides are very valid in their feelings. Only one who really hasn't spoken out is Topher and he spoke out years ago about what the set was like.
/r/MensRights11/09/23 06:49 PM
2

I agree. The problem is we don't have resources for men and teen boys to get help so they don't go down the scary path, at least that's what I'm hearing from talking to normal incels and men. Then ppl like Andrew tate and that weird fresh and fit guy get to spew their shit, combined with a society that's failing them and we land in hot water
/r/MensRights03/09/23 02:25 AM
1

Or stabbings, running over with a van etc. I've met a couple guys like that, they got really angry when I told them I had a bf, that got really scary for me
/r/MensRights03/09/23 02:09 AM
1

Ones who call for.violence or actually.commit.violence yes, very bad ppl.
/r/MensRights03/09/23 12:45 AM
3

I mean at.least she's telling us who she is. She has low morals and values, so men remember her face and this statement and stay clear unless you want a gold digger.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 06:58 PM
3

Thank you again. I so can't wait for my week off in December even if it is for a dentist appointment( I need some work done). I dont mind ppl disagreeing with me about what I say, I know my comments are seen as wrong and unreasonable to many, but we can have a discussion. And well being men and women are different sexes along with individual humans we each have different insights into this sort of thing eith male or female privilege. It's good to have discussions though about it so we can make t…
/r/MensRights02/09/23 05:18 PM
2

Lord above thats still more than I make in a year. I understand that the courts want the kids to have the same lifestyle as before to a relative degree, but I don't see Kevin just abandoning his kids and never seeing them again, so if they have shared custody or some sort of arrangement they still would be having a great life. They can still attend their schools and extracurricular activities, the parents can split the costs, I don't get why the child support needs to be so high
/r/MensRights02/09/23 04:55 PM
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Well you didn't give a set amount of years. You just asked for male privilege. Btw the medical aspect with endo is something that I've been experiencing since I was 18. I'm now 30(well in december) and just got my diagnosis after bouncing around to many different doctors and having to fight to be taken seriously. In the medical field with female reproductive health there is still a great imbalance that many do not get until you live it. It's been a terrifying decade and a bit to be gaslit consta…
/r/MensRights02/09/23 04:27 PM
3

Aww thank you. Normally I would have worded it much better but I came off of work where 3 other AA's decided to take last minute vacations. My brain is just fried.
/r/MensRights02/09/23 04:23 PM
3

I will say this as someone with endometriosis and complications from it, I do consider it a privilege to not have a uterus given my issues. Otherwise I think it varies depending on country and time in history. Female reproductive Healthcare and even female Healthcare is relatively new on the grand scheme of things compared to the focus on men's health care, hell they just started to realize we have different symptoms for heart attacks, my endo was not taken seriously or treated as a legit thing …
/r/MensRights02/09/23 03:26 AM
1

I liked it, wasn't wow like I was with barbie in the nutcracker or barbie of Swan lake(very old school barbie movies, cartoon. Highly recommend these if you have kids who like barbie. Hand to God, good classic movies, beautifully done), but I liked it. I grew up playing barbie with my little sister, we had tubs filled with barbie and stuff, it was our fav toys. So, for me the movie was taking me back to that little part of my childhood that I miss. As for the message of the movie now, I didn't t…
/r/MensRights19/08/23 01:56 AM
2

Are we talking a specific area or overall world wide? Because living in Afghanistan, Iraq, etc. Is vastly different from western countries and I would argue those countries in rhe middle east are a very toxic patriarchy.
/r/MensRights18/08/23 04:36 PM
1

I usually find emotional labour goes along with being around emotional vampires. But basically it's when you put everything you have emotionally into a person or people. Where you do everything to make them happy and okay and take on their emotional needs until you're basically completely fried and a broken mess. It's like burn out from work, school etc. But on the emotional level of caring for another. Now men and women both take on this role, nd it isn't just romantic relationships
/r/MensRights15/08/23 07:47 PM
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Okay where I am, everyone can use the unisex/all genders bathroom. Not just women or ppl identifying as their non biological sex. Is that different elsewhere? (Normally the rule is mostly save those for ppl with kids and the disabled cus more room, but yeah everyone can use them)
/r/MensRights13/08/23 01:36 AM
8

Jennifer's body
/r/MensRights10/08/23 03:27 AM
4

That's the one. I went to van tech
/r/MensRights10/08/23 03:27 AM
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Honestly I won't take stock in anything that woman says. She filmed at least one movie at my highschool, girls and boys who were fans of her hated her after that and meeting her. She's just full of hot air
/r/MensRights10/08/23 02:56 AM
1

For the first point, are you saying men and women should stay with someone they don't love? Second: I still think it's about how society is not working for men and women at all. The way the barbie universe was, was highly unrealistic for women and the men were extremely unhappy but nobody could talk about it. Then Ken's tried their 1950s.era take over but that didn't work either. I think we can agree in the real world the 50s didn't work well for everyone and society now isn't working well as we…
/r/MensRights05/08/23 03:50 PM
1

Sometimes leaving is the best way to treat someone better. If the relationship is toxic, it's better for one or both to leave.
/r/MensRights05/08/23 01:31 AM
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Sorry what does this have to do with sleeping around, cheating and divorce?
/r/MensRights04/08/23 09:56 PM
1

That's what I thought. It's why I'm not up and arms about the movie, it is hilarious though. I have to say barbies uhhhh kid owner? Idk how to word that, the expectations she feels and how she can never be perfect hit me hard. I still remember what that was like as a teenager and pre teen.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 03:18 PM
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I feel like I missed the point of the movie, cus to me it shows that the way society is as a whole is not working for men and women in general, and we need to do better to actually respect eachother and not be shit heads. Barbie ruling the roost didn't work, Ken going extreme to rule the roost didn't work. Media and Hollywood puts insane standards for looks etc. On women and men that causes massive issues. Overall things just aren't working anymore
/r/MensRights04/08/23 01:16 AM
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I agree. My point is in these situations it's very hard to tell whose a piece of shit, when the woman says the father isn't in the picture.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 01:43 PM
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It's a hard thing to read these days. But I always remember my family situation, my nonna divorced her first husband after he beat her horribly again and threaten to throw my mom off the balcony of their apartment(mom was about a year old), he openly admitted to it to the cops, my nonnas mother and brother and the divorce court (which in the 70s was much different than now). Nonna remarried to my nonno who was my mom's dad through on through, he adopted her right away. My mom's bio dad didn't ma…
/r/MensRights02/08/23 12:52 AM
1

Well have a phone, but like a Nokia or something simple. Can call and get help if she needs it(parents for a school pick up if she's sick, or lost her bus pass, 911 I'm something happens) but kids don't need more than that
/r/MensRights31/07/23 08:57 PM
5

Good. Barring very very extreme circumstances, men and women can support themselves after.a divorce.
/r/MensRights31/07/23 06:40 PM
1

But for ppl with these religious beliefs and what not, it is absolutely necessary. It's fine if ppl don't want to get married, nobody should be shamed for choices that do not harm anyone. But ppl who want marriage or are married should also have the same support and encouragement. And well again, don't get people who want something so vastly different from you. Someone always has to sacrifice something big in those cases and that always results in someone being hurt. Again sorry for the delay, i…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:11 AM
1

My apologies I passed out. It's been a long weekend for me in terms of shit hitting the fan. I think the concept of marriage is still important and relevant it's just different for many ppl. For example if you're a practicing jew, Muslim, shikh, catholic etc. Marriage is a huge fundamental Tennant of ours and right of passage, to not get married and live with someone is a grave sin. For ppl who don't have these religious views, I can see your point fully. Marriage is not needed to be committed.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 05:31 PM
3

The basic premise of relationships is the same though. If you want them to work and work long term, both parties have to put 100 percent into it. You have to work to keep a relationship strong and healthy.
/r/MensRights30/07/23 07:18 AM
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If you don't want to get married, for whatever reason, that's fine don't get married. Goes for both sexes. If you do, that's fine as well find someone with mutual values. I feel like most ppl don't understand how much hard work it takes for a healthy marriage and relationship to last. Like my great aunt and uncle were together since before ww2 and stayed married until he died in I want to say 2009, she since died recently. They had a happy and healthy marriage but they always talked about the wo…
/r/MensRights30/07/23 06:17 AM
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And I would sue so bad the school board would have to sell Lemonade to have funds
/r/MensRights29/07/23 04:43 AM
13

Oh I would have sued so much
/r/MensRights29/07/23 04:10 AM
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I'm a woman, but what in the actual fucking shit is that? Are you serious? You're required to do that for your job? Like in your email signature write: sorry I'm a white, cis male, clearly I'm whats wrong with the world.?
/r/MensRights29/07/23 02:13 AM
-1

I've heard of it happening to others. I'd just like to play it safe, there's unfortunately alot of insane ppl put there these days, and if you're what they consider transphobic, it can get scary
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:27 PM
-2

Well the current politically correct woke belief is men can get pregnant too. That pregnancy is not a female thing but a human thing now. I don't agree but I don't want to be doxxed.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 08:00 PM
0

To me the order is: 1. Pregnant women(ppl now I guess), children and infants, disabled and elderly, pets. 2. The rest. It's our job as able bodied adult males and females to ensure the ppl in group one to safety and their needs taken care of first. After they are secure, we can take care of the rest of us. Of course in each individual family.grouping I realize there will be differences. I'm pretty sure while I'm grabbing my neices, cousins, little sister(she has disability) and pets and dragging…
/r/MensRights24/07/23 05:51 PM
1

And how. Lol
/r/MensRights23/07/23 02:15 AM
1

Well I aged myself didn't I lol limewire was huge when I was a pre teen and teen, it shut down in 2010
/r/MensRights23/07/23 01:40 AM
1

Im hesitant to use any of the free streaming services because I remember limewire, and the viruses it had lol
/r/MensRights23/07/23 01:05 AM
1

Makes sense. I see that sentiment slot these days of underpaid, under valued etc.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 04:59 PM
1

I should clarify, majority of the province where there are jobs we can work is insanely expensive and rising. There's a huge problem sweeping over Canada, but the govt on every level doesn't care
/r/MensRights22/07/23 04:42 PM
3

It's disgusting and abusive. There's a reason I had the hard rule of never sending nudes or allowing nudes to be taken of me, because once they're sent to someone else I no longer have ownership over them. I told my.younger siblings ans their friends the same thing, and will talk to my cousins about it as well.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 04:29 PM
3

I sadly don't have that privilege. I wish I did, working in the home is far more fulfilling to me. And well plenty of ppl do enjoy working, for many a career is very fulfilling. Men, women....ppl who don't identify as either im not sure how to label them because non binary doesn't fit anymore for all. The current economy at least in North America(I have no idea about the rest of the world) makes it.very hard for ppl to have a choice in this. For many both ppl working a full time career doesn't p…
/r/MensRights22/07/23 04:26 PM
5

I feel that. I'm a woman, I don't work because it fulfills me and I want to, I work outside the home because it's a need. I'd vastly prefer to cook, clean, garden, do the household stuff and care for the living beings in the house than go to the office and deal with morons. But cannot afford the do that, vancouver is insanely expensive
/r/MensRights22/07/23 03:48 PM
2

I shall, not in the theaters though. I'm not paying those prices. I'm waiting for Oppenheimer and barbie to come on Amazon prime. I used to love watching the barbie princess movies so this feels like a blast from my childhood past
/r/MensRights22/07/23 03:46 PM
2

Nerf gun wars?! Sign me up! Thats finally a work place team building activity I can get behind. I have a fantasy of living out this video:https://youtu.be/bKG2WAkgyyU?si=0nZA5IhWNfI5M6Sj
/r/MensRights21/07/23 05:30 AM
2

It is okay to cut out anyone who is toxic. Family or not. Blood family or chosen family as well. She has her own issues to deal with but you do not need to put up with her abuse and toxicity. If anyone asks, you don't need to go into details, just say you are taking space as you need it for your own health. And say nothing more. I've learned the hard way, many ppl do not accept cutting out family.
/r/MensRights21/07/23 05:23 AM
5

Barbie has always been a feminist. The woman has had every career in the book, all while caring for her younger sisters, after her parents bounced/died. It's why I loved playing barbies with my little sister.
/r/MensRights19/07/23 07:23 PM
11

Wow....say I don't have a dad anymore...does he want to adopt me....I'll cost far less and I can cook lol
/r/MensRights17/07/23 12:52 AM
26

Fuck I'm a woman and yes. Like holy shit. I know I know stereotypically women are the more emotional sex but damn, everything is a insult or a transgression.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 11:06 PM
2

I'm Canadian, I was being horribly bullied in elementary(grade 7, we didn't have middle school then in my area). I had this bully that went for me for ages, my parents and I played the game right, we reported, I kept away etc. Nothing was done. Then one day she decided to shove me down a flight of stairs. Now thst could have seriously hurt me or killed me or worse, so I was catching myself on the rail to stop and screaming for help for the teachers. She tried shoving me three times and no teache…
/r/MensRights15/07/23 04:47 AM
4

As a girl, where this happened to me and literally every other kid for one month until a winter storm hit, it was never taken seriously no matter who was the victim and who did it. Teachers didn't give a shit, playground monitors didn't, until someone slugged someone then they cared.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 08:13 PM
1

I think now it's mostly money and a God complex, but back in the day it was women are too stupid to know what's up and well God complex. My nonna was a nurse in the 60s to early 2000s, and well she's old school croatian catholic woman. So it's alot of old world thinking. And she would tell me appalled some of the stuff she heard doctors saying back in the day about women and minority patients. Start of the year I got the worst flu of my life that lead to a double ear infection. I've had ear infe…
/r/MensRights14/07/23 01:31 AM
4

This is the part where I think that docs and such just don't care. And I do think thsts because it's women's contraceptives and there is a history of us not being taken seriously over all. I know I experienced that "it's not that.bad, you just want pain killers, you don't know what you're feeling, it doesn't exist." Bs before
/r/MensRights13/07/23 11:10 PM
3

They came up with a male bc pill but the side effects were horrible like with female bc so they stopped it. And I'm very glad they did. Nobody should have to deal with the side effects I did
/r/MensRights13/07/23 09:46 PM
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I mean I stopped taking bc for endometriosis cus just was causing horrid side effects. The pill while great for some also can be utterly horrible for others. Same with the implant, iud, whatever the shot is called.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 08:35 PM
1

I mean I'm a woman, and I work full time, same as my partner. Most couples are in a position where each person works 1 or 2 jobs these days. So really he doesn't cover my cost of living. Divorce always tends to be expensive for everyone involved, it's why my parents never officially filed, they just split. And again, nobody owes anybody sex ever. Full stop, sex requires consent 100 percent of the time and paying for shit doesn't skirt around that
/r/MensRights13/07/23 08:29 PM
1

I'm really curious about these as a woman with fertility issues who wants babies. Course there's alot to consider like health of the baby...babies, costs, success rate, what happens if there's a severe fetal issue and the couple or single wants to terminate, religious grounds as well. For example us catholics hold ivf as a mortal sin
/r/MensRights11/07/23 07:28 PM
4

As I said I disagree, ppl do need empowering, both.sexes. it's.why well written strong characters in fiction works are such a good thing. Some ppl don't have a good home life to build them up unfortunately that's where the fictional world can do a great service. For me as a woman, the problem I have is when characters are written as a Beth dutton or that weird reboot of Charles angels. I don't get why they needed the most recent reboot when Lucy Liu, Cameron Diaz and drew Barrymore did a excelle…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 05:10 PM
4

Yes there are women in every field of work whatever, the whole no wars thing is bullshit. Women are just as violent as men, violence is a animalistic thing and well were all animals. Fact is without both sexes the world ends for the human species. Were both needed to continue
/r/MensRights09/07/23 03:25 PM
3

I disagree, I think everyone men and women need a pick me up once and a while. And sometimes it's nice to see a badass, loving etc. Version of your sex on TV or a movie or video gsme as that. For example as a little girl xena was my everything. I didn't get the best upbringing to instil confidence in a young girl becoming a woman, infact my family kinda preferred to do the opposite. Tearing me down was the go to method. So watching xena be this bad ass woman(although now as a adult the jumping t…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 03:10 PM
8

Sometimes I think it can work. But most of the time I just don't care for it. As a woman, it's not empowering to see especially when the scripts suck
/r/MensRights09/07/23 04:00 AM
2

Well it can in a rare side effect, but no mine was endometriosis
/r/MensRights07/07/23 02:46 PM
31

I make that in a year before taxes and that's not good enough for a monthly child support?! Holy shit that pisses me off. Kids cost money yes, they cost alot of money, it's why I was so careful with my birth control and well now I have infertility to back me up, but they do not cost 52k a month or more unless you have like the duggars 18 plus kids. Also you can work lady, you're not disabled thank God. Jesus no wonder Kevin is leaving yellowstone, she'd probably try to take more I'd he had that …
/r/MensRights07/07/23 06:03 AM
0

Those same defense apply to marital rape that's my point, but you're the one saying they're not a good defense. So just decriminalize rape all together since there's no good defense. That way nobody innocent is sent to prison for it.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 08:41 PM
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Same defense as normal rape scenarios. The reason why ppl push for marital rape to be included is because of the views a woman specifically but also men cannot deny a spouse sex. The other owns them so it's fine. Now if because there's no defense , then it shouldn't be a crime, we should just decriminalize ssxual assault and rape all together no? Cus there's no real defense and false accusations as well
/r/MensRights06/07/23 08:28 PM
0

Same way you do with rape normally. Unfortunately there isn't always evidence to have a trial and there is corruption, but that doesn't mean we should let the crime of rape go unchecked and allowed.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 08:20 PM
2

Which is beyond fucked. Rape is rape and the world's attitude towards it and the survivors/victims of that horrid crime, is abysmal.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 04:32 PM
2

I get that. But that doesn't change my comment of how it's sad in this day and age you can rape your husband or wife and it's totally fine and not considered a crime at all. I'm not talking about false accusations and how they're dealt with(which is a huge separate other provlem). I'm talking about the main subject of it's 2023 and India is now just making marital rape a crime, and some other countries still don't consider it a crime or a thing that exists. That's horrific and sad.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 03:57 PM
1

I do not understand your comment at all and I really hope you're not trying to say a woman or man owes their partner sex and refusing isn't allowed due to finances
/r/MensRights06/07/23 02:07 PM
-4

It's sad in this day and age marital rape is still not considered a crime or a thing in some.countries.
/r/MensRights06/07/23 01:07 PM
6

Man alive some ppl really never grow out of highschool.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 03:27 AM
3

I think it should be abolished. It's a outdated concept we don't need anymore
/r/MensRights03/07/23 02:47 PM
7

Well we also live.in a culture where you're encouraged to sleep around and it's treated as a right of passage. When ppl found out I was a Virgin and now have only been with one man, I got and do get horribly mocked and have oddly hate thrown my way. I dont think ppl should be shamed for having sex, but I don't think we should be encouraging ppl to screw around all willy nilly. I think its created a very toxic culture
/r/MensRights01/07/23 06:16 PM
4

I honestly was never okay with it, but maybe that's cus im a girl. To me there's more to risk if I just randomly screw a guy, there's also my religious beliefs and such. I've just always felt sex was only supposed to be with someone you love and are in a committed relationship with
/r/MensRights01/07/23 06:07 PM
8

When I was single I wasn't sleeping with anyone. But I also don't agree with hook up culture
/r/MensRights01/07/23 04:35 PM
4

To be fair defense lawyers have to try and create any reasonable doubt to get their client off. Look at law and order svu with Buchanan, man is a shark but he does his job well.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 07:39 PM
1

Well fhats stupid, does it apply.to men as well? . I'm not a fan of hook up culture. I firmly believe you have sex with someone you're in a committed relationship with and after 30 dates, but I don't think men or women should be shamed for having sex jn general.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 04:18 PM
9

Not in a movie, but king of the hill Bobby and Peggy fight after Bobby learns self defense and he kicks her between the legs That's my purse! I don't know you!
/r/MensRights30/06/23 07:06 AM
1

Pardon my ignorance or naivety...what does riding a carousel mean? Because I'm picturing that cute ride at fairs that kids love and makes for the best family photos, or the mad men Thanksgiving episode
/r/MensRights29/06/23 07:55 PM
7

I always felt bad for him. The amount of sexualization we do of teenagers/kids is so disturbing. It's probably why he had a huge asshole faze who knows what was happening behind closed doors
/r/MensRights29/06/23 07:43 PM
4

Agreed, so long as you're not flashing everyone, I don't see the big deal. Grant it my nonna used to get pissed I wear pants cus that's not women's clothing. Ppl are strange
/r/MensRights27/06/23 10:19 PM
8

Q. The Scots wear quilts. I just saw a neighvour walking down the street.in his. Various religions the males wear dress robes and such, whats erong with men just wearing one normally?
/r/MensRights27/06/23 10:02 PM
79

Remember hr is not rhere to protect the employees.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 09:52 PM
8

Good. That's just disgusting behaviour.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 09:44 PM
12

If ppl aren't volunteering to fight your war, maybe you need to reevaluate what's going on then. And the Americans didn't exactly win Vietnam War and there was drafting then and mass protests to the draft. The draft isn't needed
/r/MensRights25/06/23 04:52 PM
0

Gotta say I love working from home. Wearing comfy clothes, snuggling my pup during meetings, saving a ton on transit fair, not having to commute dt and hoping I don't piss off someone doped up because I look at them wrong, going for walks at lunch with my dog then after work. It's been the best thing to come from covid honestly.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 08:20 AM
12

So have volunteers. Like really if nobody wants to fight in your wars there's a reason for it. I could understand if the draft was for Firefighting, or training nurses for hospitals, or city maintenance, but wars that hopefully never happen again glares at putin for his bs really shouldn't be something that we still do.
/r/MensRights25/06/23 07:48 AM
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Or get rid of the draft all together. Like seriously, why is thst still around at all?
/r/MensRights25/06/23 07:43 AM
-5

You can have empathy but still not full understand it or see it all.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 05:31 PM
2

She requires a down-payment on a townhouse or outer city house each month? Fuck woman, kids don't cost that much, and you can also work. Yes he should pay his fair share and have 50/50 custody if he and the kids want that too, but nobody needs that amount of child support
/r/MensRights24/06/23 04:04 PM
2

Agreed. Communication is also key. There's a time and place for feelings ans such, but we do need to encourage both sexes to have a open communication with others about that. Nothing will get fixed if we don't make the issues widely known
/r/MensRights24/06/23 03:55 PM
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I dont think ppl ignore others issues as much as we are not in their shoes so it's hard to see the problems they face because we don't face them. I believe this is generally true for all humans regardless of sex, it's very hard for us to see or relate to the problems of others that were not living unless it's extreme infront of our faces.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 03:49 PM
1

I'm kinda lucky I'm a introvert and have anxiety issues, we anxiety introverts seem to have a natural ability to tell when someone or some situation is off. I'm lucky I found a great man, but I'm always very aware of my surroundings, especially since I work downtown.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 06:43 AM
3

Cheers to great minds thinking like, common sense and common ground
/r/MensRights23/06/23 04:23 AM
7

Same. Like most crimes I fully believe we can rehabilitate them if they want to change. But we can't just say they need to be reformed, turn them lose and leave it st that. We need to have multiple programs to teach, help and heal them where they and others are safe, and well frankly some ppl cannot be saved but that needs to be evaluated
/r/MensRights23/06/23 03:43 AM
3

I mean when our health care system finally does collapse probably we will be. But no, we're just really big into giving excuses to violent offenders now and wanting to "reform them" without putting anything into actually doing thst. They're the victim and they deserve chance after chance even if their rap sheet is 20 pages long( I'm not joking. There was this doped up asshole who ran around suckered punching minority women and the elderly, had a 20 page rap sheet of violent offenses, skipping pa…
/r/MensRights23/06/23 03:27 AM
6

I mean I'm Canadian, my countries leaders and law system have pretty much stated I'm not allowed to use self defense if some fuck is trying to rape and/or kill me. I'm supposed to ask him or her to stop and wait for the cops not harm them, and if I do I go to court and pray they decide I used reasonable force and didn't harm my attacker too much(I'm a small woman with a lame leg so to defend myself I would have to fight dirty and hard ao I'm pretty screwed)
/r/MensRights23/06/23 02:55 AM
7

The most extreme answer I can give to male supremacy would be the taliban and isis. But that is a very very very very extreme situation and not at all common place and under a very unique situation as well. Now my joke answer is when men don't have to drop trow and try to aim to not hit their pants to go pee in the woods when hiking. I envy that so so much
/r/MensRights23/06/23 02:35 AM
1

Aren't they just like a really expensive world leader book club at this point?
/r/MensRights22/06/23 06:16 AM
1

I believe in protecting humans regardless of sex and beliefs as much as humanely possible and well safely as possible even if I don't like the beliefs. However there are times ppl cannot protect you due to your own choices. Ie: the dumbass women who upped and joined isis. We also cannot police the world unless we (Canada, or the USA, or UK or some combo of them or whoever) wants to do a colonialism like we have never seen before and create a dictatorship world wide. All we can really do is where…
/r/MensRights22/06/23 05:53 AM
3

I do believe there is still work in western country's that women need, to me its mostly in the medical field based on my own experiences trying to get taken seriously and get a diagnosis for over a decade. But yeah over all women in the middle east and such need vast improvements for their living situation and rights. I mean even if we got the rest of the world to agree to a standard equal way of living and wages for men and women, no negotiations its just men and women 0 experience, same educat…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 07:47 PM
1

I mean makes sense. Good luck convincing the taliban women are human and deserve to be treated as such with access to education, health care, let alone working and being paid the same as men. They throw off the whole curve alone
/r/MensRights21/06/23 06:33 PM
1

I've always taken the point that unless it's a family heirloom it really doesn't matter. Just do what works for you both. If it's a family heirloom it should go to whoever family it belongs too.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 06:29 PM
9

Idk if hea guilty or innocent, I haven't seen the evidence and idk if they'll broadcast the trial, but the man did himself no favors with his interviews and podcasts.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 01:51 PM
1

Agreed 100 percent
/r/MensRights19/06/23 09:42 PM
3

I'm sorry to hear that. I hope you get to see your little girl soon. Us girls, we need a good dad.
/r/MensRights19/06/23 01:35 AM
1

Not everything is some dark hidden conspiracy. Sometimes there is good, nice and joy out there
/r/MensRights18/06/23 07:45 PM
3

Meep meep
/r/MensRights18/06/23 10:12 AM
6

I dont think so. I get happy friendly fun vibes from this. Like the old story books my dad used to read to me
/r/MensRights18/06/23 07:33 AM
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Idk I think its cute. Reminds me of the penguin dad from pingu
/r/MensRights18/06/23 05:20 AM
2

Oh the healthy debate and we can have a difference of opinions on non extreme things and still be good ended years ago. I'd say when fb became mainstream. Now if you don't agree with the popular opinion or just in general with ppl you're some Satan spawn who loves Hitler etc. And you deserve everything bad happening to you.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 02:18 PM
7

I thought there was a precedent with this sort of beahbiour. Like when a teen boy or girl commits suicide after a barrage of harassment and bullying texts or messages from teen bullies. I don't think they get a murder charge, but they got something. Frankly I consider it murder or at the very least manslaughter, especially when the ppl involved are adults and know what they're doing is 100 percent wrong
/r/MensRights14/06/23 10:30 PM
2

To me that's abuse. Abuse is far more than beating the living shit out of ppl. There's sexual, emotional, mental, financial, and manipulative. Usually it's multiples all at the same time. All abusers are experts at the manipulation aspect cus they need to keep you there and make you feel like you need them. And all of the times require them to have control over you in any of those regards.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 04:58 AM
1

Unfortunately escaping abuse is one of the hardest things a man or woman can do. You're literally flee and fighting for your life. See if on the way home from work or something you can find groups or shelters that can also help you
/r/MensRights10/06/23 04:52 AM
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I thought this was about Vanderpump rules and Tom and Ariana for a second. My recommendation, like any abusive situation, you need a escape plan. First step my friend who left a abusive situation is she made a separate set of work friends who didn't know her partner, and kept it hidden. Made a support network separate from him and his grasp. 2nd is document literally everything and keep that hidden. 3rd was squirrel away money somewhere he couldn't find. 4th make a escape plan to the separate ne…
/r/MensRights10/06/23 04:45 AM
3

I'm a female, this is just all sorts of wrong. I recommend getting a lawyer and document everything. Because you're their father too, and you can take your kids camping or whatever for time to bond with dad and there's nothing wrong with that.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 11:42 PM
2

Theyre allowed to of course. But it does make ppl feel uncomfortable and creeped out. I live in a area with a serious homeless problem, where many turn violent at the drop of a hat. I've had normal ppl stare at me and ppl off their gourd on substance, and something after a while triggers a defensive reaction. It's natural to have, and doesn't have logical explanation as to why. Many ppl experience all the time, and I think till you do you don't get the body reaction. You can stare, but you canno…
/r/MensRights07/06/23 09:26 PM
4

Staring can get creepy fast. A glance, quick look is fine, nobody sane has issues. But staring starts to feel jarring, and makes your body's defense instinct kick in. Like imagine you're out and about and this tweaker just keeps staring at you. They're not doing anything just staring
/r/MensRights07/06/23 08:10 PM
3

Oh hell no. Save the thousand innocent ppl and well maybe just trip the evil one down a flight of stairs "by accident". I'll save ppl over pets, in any normal scenario. I think most decent ppl would. I'd feel horrid for the pets and probably cry for months on end over their suffering but ppl is the right thing to do. Now if someone this building housed pure evil, like idk we put ppl with pure evil crimes all into one building to keep the rest of us safe, well that's when the Pets get the saving …
/r/MensRights06/06/23 09:22 PM
1

What those three ppl did, not to mention karla's husband Paul, yeah if it was 20 ppl just like those 4, I wouldn't be in a rush to help them. Those 3...4 when you include 4 are literally evil human beings.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 08:45 PM
4

Literally said I'd save the ppl in the building over the Pets.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 08:40 PM
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I'm a animal lover, like my dog is my everything, but humans over pets any day of the week.....unless it's like a building of Jeffery epsteins or Ted bundys or Karla homolka's...that changes my answer drastically.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 07:38 PM
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It's not suicide but it's a suicide threat, it's why they count it as a warning sign and treat it seriously. Recently had a male friend do the same thing to a another friend of mine and well they put him in observation and got him a shrink because of it. Frankly I find threats like that in regards to relationship abusive and manipulative, but I also see rising suicides among everyone lately and that is utterly terrifying. Idc your gender or sex, there's a clear mental health crisis going on we n…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 06:48 PM
3

My female opinion: this is major red flags to me. I can understand her being angry if you had kids and nothing inplace incase of your God forbid death to protect them. But that's not rhe case here, and I don't want to tell you what to do with your relationship nor do I know your fiancé at all, but I'd revelauate the relationship if I were you and maybe look into counseling before getting married.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 03:41 PM
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Contact a lawyer, document everything that happens and I mean everything. Set up a safe location where you can take the kids and any pets you have and get ready eith phoning the police and divorce papers. Fair warning this will be the battle of your life and extremely hard to do, but she does sound dangerously deranged
/r/MensRights03/06/23 03:49 PM
1

Yeah but you're not looked at weird if you're little old ppl and doing that.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:46 AM
1

Exactly the same as us. We also understand some things you just need to let it go us it's not fucking worth the hassle of fighting it out over something trivial. And thank you! Congratulations for your awesome relationship as well. Hopefully we both get to live to be little old people with our partners just having a grand old time laughing at kids today:)
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:40 AM
1

Agreed. I've been with my man for 5 years now and we're looking at wedding stuff and buying a home in a different province. No relationship is perfect but communication is key and you have to give it your all. We also have a rule in a argument we pause and don't resume the discussion until we calm down and had time to think. It's saved us from saying anything hurtful to eachother.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:28 AM
1

Oh. Why do I get this sense men and women are just going no relationships anymore....
/r/MensRights31/05/23 01:05 AM
1

Pardon my.ignorance, but what is mgtow
/r/MensRights31/05/23 12:02 AM
1

This is amazing, and local too. Perfect. We need more and more places like this.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 12:05 AM
5

You can still get pregnant with endometriosis, it's just harder to get pregnant and harder to keep the pregnancy. That's why it counts as a fertility issue as well. Course there are some who never can cus the damage was too extensive by the time they were taken seriously. Again I think its part of the victim Olympics social media created. There are some ppl who due to circumstances are true victims and cannot get ahead and that is horrible. But now the thing is ppl want to be seen as a victim al…
/r/MensRights28/05/23 04:13 PM
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Gotta say as a woman with endometriosis and all that goes with that, I do envy everyone, male or female that doesn't have to deal with it. I wouldn't consider not having to suffer through periods at all or just situations like mine is a privilege, but given the climate of the world today everything is a victim Olympics and a privilege Olympics
/r/MensRights28/05/23 08:09 AM
1

Diet, medications, environment etc. Are also a big component to this. Same with the change in women's hormonal levels.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 07:08 AM
2

I think there are problematic gamers towards female gamers, I experienced that while gaming. Some.took it a personal offense I enjoyed video games and just wanted to play to relax and have fun. But I also noticed most males if they noticed someone being a abusive piece of shit towards women for simply being a game girl, defended me/us and called it out. There are also just problematic gamers in general who enjoy making a highly toxic environment no matter the gamers sex. There's a community of g…
/r/MensRights26/05/23 06:03 PM
2

I dont think she's a feminist. Just a crackpot and idiot and clearly anti male
/r/MensRights24/05/23 01:53 PM
3

I'm sure some crackpot somewhere also wrote a study saying women benefit from being raped. Point is any crack pot can write any study on anything. And nobody benefits from from being accused of such action, to think so its insane
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:10 PM
1

She probably will try to campaign that, but that's why it's very important you play the perfect gentlemen the whole time.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 01:44 PM
5

All I can really think of is document every time she says it. Build a solid case load and have your lawyer petition the court now. But this will cost alot of money. The other option is I believe at 13 or 14 she can go to court and declare who she wants to live with. You will just need to provide proof you can provide her with a stable life as the sole custodial parent. Either option is a long hard road though eith no guarantees
/r/MensRights22/05/23 06:48 AM
3

Originally back in the old days (talking like rdr2 times) I think it was a bit of both. But not gaining power in like a dr. Evil kinda way but more so in a way that would grant more equal opportunities and make it so they don't have to depend on evil assholes to survive. Course most were heavily racist women so it was equality and power for white women, not the other.races
/r/MensRights21/05/23 06:34 AM
2

I think its how ppl look that makes the difference in creepy or not. A simple glance or look is fine, but when it turns into a Leer or obsession that's when it draws the line. For example if im in my backyard or home I'll wear less clothing, especially in the summer. It's my place my home, I don't expect my neighbours or passerbys never to glance and I'm good with that. But when someone is just stopping and staring or peeking through a window or over the fence and it's consistent. That's creepy.…
/r/MensRights20/05/23 04:48 PM
0

You know that actually would be brilliant for raising children and making sure tasks are assigned appropriately. Adults should be able to verbally do thst on their own.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 06:21 PM
12

That's kidnapping though. Most of the time when kids go missing it's one of the parents or someone related to the parents kidnapping them because they don't like the custody arrangement. Custodial interference is just a really watered down version of it
/r/MensRights17/05/23 06:35 AM
18

Thank God the child is alive and alright. I cannot imagine the nightmare that father was living. Hopefully the mother will be charged with kidnapping and get the appropriate sentence. Also, hopefully the daughter and father can start to strengthen their bond and forge a good relationship moving forward.
/r/MensRights17/05/23 03:05 AM
3

My.female p.o.v: unless there is a medical reason to do it, don't do it. More research I've done the more I've found it's not a practice that should be done unless absolutely medically necessary.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 06:42 PM
3

I mean nice of her to put.out huge ass red flags the size of Canada for straight and bi men out there.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 06:50 PM
5

The women discussed in the nice girls sub reddit. Some of them I swear are like csi villians
/r/MensRights11/05/23 01:06 PM
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The "nice girl" is actually applied to women now. There's a sub reddit dedicated to the "nice girl"....and it's terrifying. The most Bat shit crazy women are discussed there
/r/MensRights11/05/23 05:16 AM
17

I haven't had a problem, but I paid a pretty penny for my reusable one and you have to have your hair up the right way to make it work.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:44 PM
32

Shower caps exist though. Like I don't wash my hair daily, it's really bad for it, so days I don't want my hair wet I have a shower cap.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 09:58 PM
25

...rain showers are not enjoyable for women? I always assumed they were awesome for all
/r/MensRights09/05/23 09:25 PM
5

I mean women have always worked, just depended on their class status really. We just worked different jobs than the men folk until the wars started happening then we took over on all fronts till they got back from them. Every country throughout history really. Issue now is the economic landscape is hell unless you're really wealthy and there has been a atmosphere created where different opinions are not tolerated. If you're a female you're supposed to want to work and thinking anything different…
/r/MensRights08/05/23 01:07 AM
1

I think some women are very career driven and thsts great, you do you. But there are many women where career isn't a rewarding experience for them, and they'd prefer the stay at home wife and/or mom root. Problem is you cannot say or chose the latter anymore and for many ppl it's unaffordable
/r/MensRights07/05/23 08:47 PM
1

I got a 2 out 5. I wonder if there's a male delusion one too, just to see how similar the questions are
/r/MensRights06/05/23 05:38 AM
1

Not much. Tyneole helps with the backpain I get from it. I most just either lay down or sit down and wait for the insane pain to pass....couple times passed out. That was fun. I have a dog and he's knows when it's bad and curls up on me or beside me and snuggles in close. His body heat helps
/r/MensRights05/05/23 05:31 AM
2

I actually have had a proper test and am currently on various treatment plans with a specialist till we can schedule a surgery. I'm not a priority case ie, im not bleeding to death, nor actively trying to make a baby, so im not a high priority for surgery. But if the treatment doesn't work thst im doing, ill be on the list come August. Ibuprofen does nothing from me funny enough, probably cus when I was a teen and this started to show I was told the old method by my doc. Take two ibuprofen each …
/r/MensRights05/05/23 05:25 AM
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I dont think pain gap is a legit thing ppl need to bitch about. Ppl experience pain different, men women etc. Ppl will have situations the other sex cannot experience just by biology. I think the biggest thing is we need to listen to eachother when someone says "hey im in pain because of x and it is a __ out of 10." And support them and get them medical help. And doctors and nurses especially need to take ppl seriously with it. You may not think it's that bad but you're not in their body experie…
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:05 PM
0

Steven is a deep one. I've watched Steven for about 5 or 6 years now, and there's been alot of stuff that's come out about how he treats employees. Jared, sven, and Dave come top to mind. Too cute Maddie also just disappeared out of the blue and nobody has seen or heard her since. Others have talked about how her operates as well which is why alot of ppl are looking at the emotional abuse of Hillary with Steven more closely. It's not a one off situation, there is a pattern there. And having watc…
/r/MensRights30/04/23 11:00 PM
1

Frankly, I just think for hygiene, the toilet lids always should be down.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 04:47 AM
3

Urgh I do not get humans. How the hell could anyone think like thst at all let alone in this day and age. Church was right, the devil takes many forms
/r/MensRights28/04/23 04:57 AM
28

A black man whistling to a white woman back then basically was. Remember segregation was still a thing, interracial relationships were illegal
/r/MensRights28/04/23 03:46 AM
17

I try to be a good Christian woman. I try to not be a hateful person. But holy fuck does this bitch make it hard. There is a huge part of me that is hoping she's frying in hell
/r/MensRights28/04/23 03:45 AM
2

Isn't girls run the world a major lyric from Beyonce and some big tour she did. It may just be a tour t-shirt and nothing more
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:31 PM
3

Agreed. And I think until they know someone who goes through abuse male and female they don't really get it
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:28 AM
6

First happy cake day. Second: I didn't say it would change everyone's opinion or drastically change things. Just that it opened the eyes of ppl with common sense the double standard and what women can do and men need to be taken seriously as well. Those who are extremists....we can never change them, but the average Joe and Jane they can change when presented with rational arguements
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:03 AM
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One silver lining in this whole evil thing with that twisted evil bitch, is it really showed the blatant double standard with domestic violence, and opened ppls eyes alot to what women are capable of
/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:27 PM
9

Honestly, I've come to the belief that besides with pets and small children onto adults and adults with infants, there is no unconditional love.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 06:30 PM
10

That's friggin hilarious honestly
/r/MensRights14/04/23 07:58 PM
0

I think you may want to go over your comments bro. Anyways, have fun I won't ask again since you can't answer
/r/MensRights14/04/23 12:50 AM
0

No ego I'm just asking simple question. You said only for rape, I asked about medical issues like the ectopic pregnancies. There are plenty of ppl I know that believe a woman shouldn't be allowed to abort under any circumstance. Ectopic, rape or any other reason. If she dies she dies and but they don't believe in abortion at all. I'm just wondering where your line is and if the health of the mother is included or if it's just rape full stop.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 05:32 AM
2

Again what about cases like ectopic pregnancy were there is zero medical intervention to save them both and probably won't be for quite a few decades
/r/MensRights13/04/23 01:30 AM
4

It doesn't work that way. You cannot tell if you're pregnant after 24hours. And again there is nothing to do to save the baby in the ectopic pregnancy. If that pregnancy continues the fallopian tube will rupture causing the baby to be dead right away and the woman now is in extreme danger of death as well. Its why they abort those pregnancies the moment it's detected.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 02:32 PM
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What about ectopic pregnancies or severe situations like that? With ectopic science cannot do anything to save the baby and the woman, just the woman.
/r/MensRights12/04/23 12:23 AM
4

Can you report the group for harassment, violence or sexual violence? Like im apart of sims 4 building and game play fb groups(yes im a lame nerd lol) and we've had our groups reported for such things for some reason and it got closed down.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 07:32 PM
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I think privileges tend to be pocketed. There are certain cultures and/or families where sons are vastly preferred and it was even okay to kill daughters. There are certain ppl who treat women like shit and think men are vastly superior. Also on a pure biological standpoint, sometimes just not having a uterus itself is a privilege.
/r/MensRights09/04/23 07:21 AM
1

Having been bullied and gone through the system of trying to get justice with a "zero bullying tolerance" school, im not sure this is just feminism as the fault. I think the school dynamics and how the zero tolerance for bullying works is largely to blame. Schools lose funding if there is a bullying issue. So to keep their funding most schools ignore the issues, and/or punish the victims if they speak out or try to defend themselves. Expelling or suspending the child who is a bully also means ad…
/r/MensRights06/04/23 11:04 PM
2

Question: is it women working these jobs that's the issue or their ideologies thats the issue?
/r/MensRights06/04/23 08:21 PM
1

I mean while hiking or camping in the interior and such...I do envy men for the ability to pee while standing.
/r/MensRights06/04/23 07:58 PM
1

You really have a poor opinion of all of us women huh?
/r/MensRights06/04/23 07:50 PM
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Unless your job is search and rescue, police, first responders a lost child is vastly different than office work place stuff. Btw I worked when kids were lost when I was in retail and I was the first one on the hunt for them, because I know how bad fhst can turn. When everyone does their bit and you work as a unit, besides random exceptions, there isn't a chain reaction of ahit failing. Because your all pulling your load. Now if there's lazy ppl on the job who refuse to do their work, you cannot…
/r/MensRights06/04/23 07:00 PM
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As someone who used to pick up all the world load, miss breaks, not take vacations no matter the job because there was always a slacker, stop. Act your wage not all the companies employees wage combined. It's fine to cover for ppl once and a while. Shit happens, ppl get sick, there's vacations, sometimes ppl need a hand etc. But you are not paid to do their work for them. You have your responsibilities, you have your wage, and it's not a life or death situation. Stop working over time to cover f…
/r/MensRights06/04/23 04:50 PM
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Girls who voluntarily do that, knowing they will get men into a lot of trouble are also to blame. They're not mutually exclusive
/r/MensRights04/04/23 11:31 PM
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This pisses me off to no end when young girls do this. When I was in highschool, many moons ago, a bunch of my classmates would do this and they took it as like a badge of honor or pride to get men 25 and older. (What was more sad is some of the guys would go home with them and their parents wouldn't care at all). I got know for being a stick in the mud, because when asked about it I told them how wrong that is and automatically he will be charged with rape if anything comes of it for trusting y…
/r/MensRights04/04/23 10:41 PM
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Aww thank you.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 09:15 PM
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Oh no need to worry. My man and I established boundaries and lines early on into our relationship. Grant it he found a catholic girl so I kinda go more modest as it is. My biggest hoe clothes would still be considered really conservative. I'm a firm believer in men and women both have well a comfort level, and so long as it's not extreme it's healthy. Just communicate it and listen
/r/MensRights02/04/23 07:04 PM
1

Ahhh okay. I've found ppl have different definitions of acting single so I figured I'd ask.
/r/MensRights02/04/23 06:56 PM
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Question by acting single and going out, are you meaning she leaves alone or to hang with friends all together, even like a resturant dinner with the other girls or spa day or shopping? Or like going to the club scene like in euphoria?
/r/MensRights02/04/23 06:27 PM
2

I think a doctor should sign off and I think severely should be left up to the sufferer. Like myself I have endometriosis, most ppl have no idea what that is. I never saw a doctor for it till I was well into my 20s now approaching 30s because even my own father thought.i was just being dramatic and it's a period it can't hurt that much. If ppl have a medical condition others do not have or understand we cannot trust employers to take it seriously
/r/MensRights01/04/23 03:28 PM
2

Well shit. That's depressing as fuck and rude.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 02:31 PM
1

It was just standard where I am. He offers to pay or she does then unless one insists you settle on going Dutch. It was like a little dance
/r/MensRights31/03/23 02:31 PM
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Legit question, I've been out of the dating game for 5 years now, but when I was dating the rule was you could offer to pay but going Dutch was the norm....is that not the norm everywhere?
/r/MensRights31/03/23 05:02 AM
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I agree with that. I don't think it should be blanket time off or if it is, men should get additional sick days, mental health days , or pto days compensate. I mean if you don't have a uterus you don't have to go through pms or just a normal period let along women who have a more complicated medical condition like myself, but there should be something else there in stead of. Or even have it as a case by case basis, with doctor notes and a plan eith each employee regardless of sex.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 11:37 PM
2

As a woman with endometriosis I wish I got this. Today was a very rough day
/r/MensRights30/03/23 11:27 PM
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I'm mean statistically there is a safe bet to be male. It's very rare for a woman to this specific crime when you look at the past shootings. This time they were wrong However like with the gossip and other motive theories being spread around the internet, this is why it's always better to not release any information until you have solid facts.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 02:03 PM
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Has anything actually be released thats factual about her motives. All I've hear so far concrete is, it was a woman.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 10:43 PM
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What I mean though is did I get the job because they saw my skills and felt like I could do it the best, or because I fit a diversity hire they needed to fill, ie being a woman.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 02:59 PM
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Speaking as a woman: never. There will never be a point of equality in the victim Olympics thst has been created. There is always be a group that needs to be given more to be equal. And as a woman, I have to say I hate affirmative action. My work made a comment on international women's days about having more women hired then men and this is great for equality. I was like well thsts not equality and now I have no clue if I was hired because I was the best candidate for the position and I'm good a…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 02:36 AM
2

That was weirdly specific
/r/MensRights27/03/23 02:26 AM
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One thing I've learned from all crime shows, is always get a lawyer.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 02:03 AM
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100 percent agree with you. I feel ppl who make these laws completely lack common sense
/r/MensRights24/03/23 08:55 PM
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I agree completely. I like the sound of the bill and like the idea, because of what happened to me. That was one of the most scary moments I've had working, but it nears clear cut rules. And that's where it fails
/r/MensRights24/03/23 08:45 PM
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What happened with me, personally, I was working as a cashier, training new hires. A man my dad's age (for context I was 21) for whatever reason like me. He flirted a bit, I was friendly but didn't flirt back and continued to train the staff member as we rang him out. He asked me out, I said no. He didn't like no. So he refused to pay started getting more aggressive in body language, raising his voice and asking me more and more sexual questions. He moved around so I and the trainie were blocked…
/r/MensRights24/03/23 08:37 PM
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Blocking ppls path, following them, becoming threatening, I agree with. I've been in that position and it's terrifying. Cat calling, i hope they mean to the point of harassment and not just a whistle type of thing. There's also the issue of evidence for the situation, and it needing to be applied to both sexes
/r/MensRights24/03/23 07:34 PM
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If I understand the process right, the lawyers and courts need to do this. I remember when I worked with Tim's, the lawyers called us directly and got a court order that the work submits part of the money to them directly. But that may be a extreme case
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:20 PM
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Awesome. It's basically a highschool mean girls bullying group, except they're adults and should know far better. And like all bullies they need to be held to task and shut down
/r/MensRights20/03/23 12:05 AM
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Gotta say I was in that position not too long.ago, I never behaved like girls gone wild nor slept around.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:54 PM
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From what I understand, it they grt deemed to have a bullying problem and don't resolve it in x amount of days or it gets worse, the govt slashes their funding. Which is so idiotic because to run a effective anti bullying campaign you need money for programs and bodies to work with the children and teachers (teachers also are bullies. I had three teachers who were bullies)
/r/MensRights18/03/23 03:52 PM
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I always wondered why a kid trying to kill me wasn't taken seriously but they were trying to get me expelled for punching her. Then I talked to some teachers as a adult and they explained the funding. My poor cousin is being verbally and physically bullied and my cousin told the principal he's being bullied. The principal gave him detention for calling a student a bully because thats against the rules.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 02:53 AM
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I never said it's nothing to worry about or common. Just thst it exists in pockets. It's not like it's the common flu but more like a stomach bug, if that makes sense
/r/MensRights17/03/23 09:07 PM
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I never said it's nothing to worry about or common. Just thst it exists in pockets. It's not like it's the common flu but more like a stomach bug, if that makes sense
/r/MensRights17/03/23 09:07 PM
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Tell your parents, see about a lawyer and see if she's saying verbal or if it's over text etc. Because thst changes things. Also as a kid who was bullied, the school won't protect you. Anti bullying philosophy in schools tends to mean they lose funding so they try to bury the runours and such and that usually means silencing the victim.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 07:39 PM
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Well premarital sex sure, if it's like limited numbers. But the whole sexual liberation movement has become, no I don't think so. And different religions have different views, like Muslims and Sikhs, etc. Ita small but there is still a stigma, and well frankly I'm not a supporter of casual sex, so I guess I even have a stigma view towards it
/r/MensRights17/03/23 07:29 PM
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I do think there is a stigma still but it's like pocketed. Like more cultural and religious based. But there's also a major stigma to being a virgin or having a low body count.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 04:30 PM
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I tried to keep my language more gender exclusive. I think both men and women need to be selective and keep their body counts down. I'm not someone who agrees with casual sex just as a baseline rule.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 05:33 AM
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Sorry I'll try to clarify more. If you value relationships you can have meaningful relationships, whether you're a Virgin or fucked 100 men or women. However from what I've heard from men and women who just fuck around, after a while you lose that connection and meaning to sex because it's just something you just throw around. If you wanna have sex with multiple ppl fine go for it. You're an adult, you make your choices, but there are consequences to every action we make. And I do not have to ag…
/r/MensRights17/03/23 03:25 AM
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Never said they lose meaningful relationships, I believe if you value relationships you can still have that. I said those who treat sex like it's something to throw around seem to loose that connecting and meaningfulness to sex based on what I've heard from men and women who sleep around.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 03:10 AM
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I think its malarkey. I'm a woman, only ever been with one guy, but from what I've heard listening to podcasts like "dating talk" the women who sleep around or treat sex like it's no big deal lose enjoyment and that connection. I think sex is meant to be enjoyed and if you're a man or woman whose just throwing it around and not saving it for someone you have a deep emotional connection to, you lose that ability because it loses its meaning. Also with the rising std rates, it makes sense to want …
/r/MensRights17/03/23 02:39 AM
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I keep hoping for the walking dead style apocalypse. Although movie wise I'd probably survive world War z due to being physically disabled so not a good host lol. But I'd prefer the walking dead. Dumb, fast walking zombies at best. My gimp ass would do decently with that.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 04:59 PM
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And well frankly, nature always wins. She's the best warrior in the world frankly
/r/MensRights16/03/23 04:50 PM
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As a woman--- contact a lawyer, put together a evidence package of what she did to you and your son. Document any and all contact you or anyone you know has with her. And if you want to be their for the kid (assuming it's yours) make sure it's iron clad, so you can apply for custody. Get character witnesses and letters of reference, because someone who does what she did, shouldn't be allowed near kids.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 01:52 AM
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Extremely. Yes abuse and assaults happen, and it's evil, but it shouldn't be guilty automatic based on accusation unless there's like solid evidence being shown with the accusation. We really let mob mentality Envelop "always believe the woman/accuser" and it's so dangerous
/r/MensRights16/03/23 01:18 AM
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Yup, I'm someone where unless there's a severe medical reason, I know I cannot chose that option. It would physically and mentally destroy me. Frankly what we need is better contraceptives for men and women
/r/MensRights15/03/23 08:26 PM
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Well its not rape due to the rules around rape and such. But a different fraud crime could apply loosely. I dont see how this would play out in reality though. Like it comes down to he said she said, which is very hard to prove who is correct, without written or filmed verbal contracts. There's also the fact all contraceptives do have a failure rate (short of removing rhe uterus all together, and believe me its not easy to get docs to agree to that operation), and abortion isn't always a choice …
/r/MensRights15/03/23 06:37 PM
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This sounds like a highschool bullying page. Like those horrible once we would hear about when social media first started and it encouraged ppl to harm themselves. It's pathetic to see grown ass women continuing that pattern. I'd see if you could get copies of everything and bring it to a lawyer for a lawsuit because that sort of shit can really cause problems.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 06:25 PM
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Do not sit near her, do not interact with her and honestly.id record any interactions you do have with her. Document everything, and make sure you have someone else with you that will be a witness for anything as well. And honestly I'd report her for threatening you as well.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 03:36 PM
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Abuse laws are no where near equal. For example if I was a horrible p.o.s human who abuses ppl cus im evil, I'd get a far less sentence if any if I abused my bf vs if it was the other way around. There are like what 1/8th of the safe men only shelters for men fleeing those situations there are for women (I'm being generous with going with 1/8th.) And no where near the resources to help them escape let alone bring their kids with them for safety. And even after.shes more likely.to get the babies …
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:52 PM
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No I wouldn't at all. You really need to read my comment and not put words in I never said. Laws to protect.both ppl...or err all parties since poly.is a growing thing for some reasons from abuse need to be in effect. But if my partner does not trust me and assumes I'm cheating and the baby isn't his and I have to prove I'm not and that child is his with a test he demands, then I don't see a point in continuing the relationship. Relationships require trust, and I have done nothing to any guy I'v…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:38 PM
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Not what I'm saying. What I'm saying is there's no trust in a relationship whats the point in continuing it. Hes free to request it if he doesn't trust me and I'll do the test and prove it's his baby, and then we will work on co parenting because I cannot be in a relationship where there is zero trust there. I'd only be in favor of removing a child from a parent if the parent is abusive or addicted to substance which would put said child in danger. Other wise both parents should have 50/50 custo…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:27 PM
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It's not. There's consequences for that sort of thing. Top one kid may not be yours and thsts alot to deal with. 2nd, kid may be yours and you lose your partner. I know of my bf demanded a paternity test right after I give birth or at all I'd probably want to break up after the results come back and prove it's his. I'm not a cheater and for him not to trust me at all, well what's the point in being together.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:07 PM
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I do think it's the man's right to ask, but just be prepared for the consequences if you go that route.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 08:00 AM
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Sure it does. I live in a moldy 1 bedroom 400 sqrt foot basement suit. If I were to get pregnant, which would be a miracle, I'd have to move to a two bedroom. Cheapest two bedroom I can find with access to transit is 2500 a month. Then there's transit for a 3 zone, daycare for the child which would be around 1500 a month from what my coworkers say and then the other costs. I cannot afford any of that, so no children even if I didn't have the fertility problems. Lots of ppl are in my situation. C…
/r/MensRights05/03/23 01:16 AM
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Vast majority of ppl cannot afford.to live or have kids etc. Somethings gotta give at some point, it's clear.the current system does not work anymore.
/r/MensRights04/03/23 10:11 PM
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What?
/r/MensRights03/03/23 03:36 PM
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Sorry is she complaining God or nature made our insides and lady bits a pinkish colour?
/r/MensRights03/03/23 04:09 AM
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I'm in the centre and sometimes I'm more left sometimes I'm more right. Although I'm called a libtard and a right wing nazi alot depending on who it is
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:00 AM
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Thank you. And congratulations on buying some land. That is amazing honestly
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:10 PM
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Well my hope is to go well under, but I like to aim for a higher budget than I think I'll need so I have wiggle room for like surprises. Having helped a friend whose not good with money or saving plan her weeding, I like to plan low but have a good backup incase. I'm also really good at saving
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:02 PM
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God social media while it had so many benefits really created a stain on humanity. I have a rule, unless it's for a kid of mine, if I have them, or a sibling. I'm not doing destination weddings. Too much money for that. I agree with you on the 50s. Sure there was alot of problems and evil to fix, but it was better overall for economics and families (usually)
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:15 AM
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Theyre down like a Nickle in comparative to affordability. I envy the 60s in alot of ways, housing being the top way lol. I've started to see that too with alot of weddings I've attended, it's like this keeping up with the Jones fad going around. I don't get it personally, cus I've always viewed weddings as two people becoming one solid unit, a family, not a flashy event to show off. You show off your love for eachother and celebrate it but that doesn't need alot of money
/r/MensRights26/02/23 07:04 AM
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We're both religious so for us it's different. The ceremony is a important part to be with God. My hopes is when it happens, we can keep it to around 15k. Simple ceremony, only close family and friends, simple reception nothing fancy. But we want a home first, so we need to move etc. There's no such hope where I live of finding a affordable rental or buying a place.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 06:37 AM
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Well besides divorce court being a dirty bitch to men. There's the factor of most marriages end in divorce so why chance that and alot of ppl don't try to fix marriages anymore. Weddings, proposals etc. Are expensive and in this economy it's one hell of a price tag. I know economics is the reason my bf and I haven't gotten hitched yet.
/r/MensRights26/02/23 03:57 AM
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It gets kinda sad when that happens
/r/MensRights20/02/23 01:51 AM
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Very true, I guess what I should have said was additional feelings that ppl run away with. Not that they work through and disappear, but they get like idk lovestruck. And agreed. I just don't believe men and women cannot be friends at all.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 12:53 AM
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Mommy dearest, there was this French film where this dad with kids remarried and the step mom is the worst bitch.... , ill say the remake of Charlie's angels, that bitch from the latest fast and furious, ohhhh bridesmaids!
/r/MensRights19/02/23 10:11 PM
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I highly doubt it. Besides two, we're all paired off and I'm not the two single guys type even remotely. We're basically siblings at this point with how close of friends we are.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 10:04 PM
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I dont think thats true. I have male coworkers, we get along great, we're just coworkers but there's a good time in the office and such. I have friends who sre really good friends. It's like with my female friends. We have great relationships, you gain alot from friendships and relationships of any kind. I think the only time it cannot work is if one develops additional feelings or someone is a abusive dick.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 09:41 PM
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Very, but there is a huge movement behind women shouldn't be in the military or combat roles at all. My conservative family tells me this all the time. Frankly I'm more concerned about conscription. I don't believe in it at all for men or women, military service for both should be voluntary
/r/MensRights19/02/23 07:07 PM
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You lie about a serious crime such as this which results in basically ruining a innocent man's life, you deserve what you get for the legal consequences. Which really should be a psych consultation, mandatory therapy, and either financial restitution or jail time, as to be decided by the victim of such lies or in unfortunate situations, the victims family
/r/MensRights19/02/23 02:13 AM
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Female talking here: yes it's possible. My man isn't wealthy and we're both lower middle class. Looks are also kind of subjective. What one finds hot another won't. Like no offense to the rock, he does nothing for me, my friends though feel different. I think what's really important above all those is how you treat yourself and would treat her. Respect, humor, confidence, empathy, trust etc. Those are key traits that last when money, status and looks fade. I'm not saying it won't be hard. It cou…
/r/MensRights13/02/23 08:21 PM
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I mean when you read it, it's not that bad of a article. To me it suggests to men and women make sure the relationships aren't toxic hell holes but uplift you and support you. We all need that and we all need to cut out bad relationships
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:16 PM
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She reminds me of that woman who had a reality show here in Canada who was a mistress, proud of it (Gordon Ramsey was one of the guys) then in her older years she had the show to tell women it's wrong to do what she did. I do not get men and women who try to break ppls hearts or hurt them on purpose. And I really.dont get the pride women that this one has for being with guys in relationships. Just wtf
/r/MensRights11/02/23 08:13 PM
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It's annoying as fuck and also basically says grown women cannot consent to anything they're just children. I do nor get that wave of thinking
/r/MensRights11/02/23 07:35 PM
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What makes you say that
/r/MensRights11/02/23 06:38 AM
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Lord above that's heart breaking. The poor kiddo, the poor rest of that kiddos family and that poor father. Sociopaths and psychopaths are manipulative as hell but there should have been alot more done to protect that kid. I hope that woman fries in hell
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:58 AM
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It may interest you to read my comments because I do feel the same way. Which is why I call myself a feminist. Men and women are different, it's a blessing but just because we're different doesn't mean the other deserves less than. We all deserve the same rights, same opportunities, same worth, same.diginity as a whole. And since you say we cannot be equal due to sex, which rights and opportunities should women have over men and men have over women?
/r/MensRights11/02/23 01:18 AM
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I've addressed what I mean further up but I feel you ignored that. I did talk about how depending on region, women have more than men and we need to equal it out and I gave examples. I believe in equality down the line. You can be different from someone nd still equal and deserve the same rights and opportunities. But if you don't believe we can be equal due to biological sex, care to explain how the world should go then?
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:44 AM
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Holy fuck that person and anyone who thinks like her need a nice self hugging sweater and a ton of therapy.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 08:10 PM
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I wasn't. I call it feminism. Feminism calls for men and women to be equal and have equal rights, what it's become is something ugly. But I hold.to the old values, which means we need equal rights and opportunities for men and women. And around the world in many different ways that is lacking. If my version of feminism, that many still subscribe to and denounce the new monster that emerged also aligns with humanism, then to me its more correct. Two different words for the same thing
/r/MensRights10/02/23 07:01 PM
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For me, I identify as a feminist because globally equality between men and women isn't a thing. To me feminism was the goal that men and women are overall equal in biology, respect, and worth and therefore deserve the same opportunities and rights as eachother as much as humanely possible. And to me that is not over. In North America and western cultures we need to make true equality for men as well, which have been ignored. Parental rights for example (barring extreme cases which again should b…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 05:57 PM
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Question, is it all feminists you hate, or just those that frankly hate men
/r/MensRights10/02/23 05:46 PM
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I think like with age differences it's much more complicated than the black and white judgments make. She could very well be a gold digger, but she could also truly love the man, and while we would all love more money, it's the man she cares about, the money is just a circumstance. Just like with age, some men and well women sre predators but there's also vast examples of true love no matter the age. To me so long as they're consenting adults, and there's not a boss and employee type power dynam…
/r/MensRights08/02/23 05:05 PM
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Just woke up here and didn't sleep well. Something was wandering outside and freaked out my pup. I wasn't really comparing in this just stating beauty regardless of sex makes a huge difference to your outcomes in life. Like mad men and don. I don't think don would have gotten anywhere near as far if he wasn't a handsome man. He's frankly a piece of shit really but ppl ignore that
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:24 PM
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Sorry it's early in the morning, I'm gonna need you to explain this
/r/MensRights05/02/23 05:02 PM
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I think this works for men as well. If you're handsome as a male you tend to have alot more advantages than if you're not. Look at mad men with don draper. Beauty is power
/r/MensRights05/02/23 07:46 AM
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I dont blame him for everything. Just the shit he does wrong. Invading the Ukraine for instance. Bad thing to do.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 06:58 AM
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There are plenty of women in the army, i think some did go to fight.by volunteer basis but I'm not sure. And frankly, I don't think putin can be killed by anyone but himself. I think he's one of those ppl that can only be taken out by his own decision. Kinda like a certain evil fuck in Germany about 80 years back. And considering the history behind war, I don't think it's ever been a tool to oppress men.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 06:52 AM
1

Who is ary rand? I heard about her alot in mad men but I could never figure out if she was some political woman, a philosopher, or a shrink or what....
/r/MensRights05/02/23 06:50 AM
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How is it a bad thing anyone is owning a home? I fail to see how women owning homes equal anti male chauvinism in any way....
/r/MensRights05/02/23 06:45 AM
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Question: how are we to stop this war? As far as I know the only one who can really stop it without starting a full on world War is putin
/r/MensRights05/02/23 06:35 AM
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Well thank you :)
/r/MensRights02/02/23 05:02 AM
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Oh I don't play. I'm just a fan.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 04:47 AM
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Oh yeah eh, tis my home and native land
/r/MensRights02/02/23 04:45 AM
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Hell no. Sports is all about the revenue you bring in. It's not equality to pay someone the same as top earners if they're not bringing in the same revenue streams. Now basketball isn't my sport, I don't really understand it but I can talk shop of similarities with hockey and wrestling lol
/r/MensRights02/02/23 04:34 AM
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Because as a feminist I believe men and women are equal in worth, dignity and respect and therefore deserve the same rights, opportunities and freedom's. We have made great strides in most countries but there is alot of work still and that includes men as well. There are many areas where men don't get the same leg us women get and we need to fix these. So because of all of that, I believe we need to work together and actively listen to eachother to identify the solutions, try and find solutions …
/r/MensRights02/02/23 04:27 AM
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Honestly I don't think it's as simple as saying either or. Each country, each state/province has difference experiences for both. Like im Canadian in BC I have it pretty damn good and I'm grateful for that. My human rights are no worse off than a man, we have some work to do for true equality for men and women but we have it good. Some areas women need have valid issues, some areas men do. But across the line we're pretty good. Now economic men and women are just fucked here. But say in Afghanis…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 03:45 AM
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I mean nothing wrong with it. It's one hell of a side hustle. The guys wanted to date her, they paid for the first date by their own choice. It is what it is.
/r/MensRights26/01/23 12:10 AM
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How the hell did you raise your son if he refuses to interact with them? That doesn't sound like feminism to me but you raised him to either be totally fearful of women or to hate them or some combo of both.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 10:21 PM
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I literally never said it was. I said boys will be boys was used as a excuse for relentless harassment and bullying of me by boys.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 05:40 PM
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No I have one sister, and she agrees with me that sexual predators. Man or woman are evil scum that deserve to be locked up for life. Anyone who condones sexual harassment, assault etc., be they man or woman, is not a sister, brother or friend to me and can kindly leave my life for good. I also recommend the police heavily look into them f
/r/MensRights17/01/23 04:02 PM
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Urgh sexual predators are among the worst humans on the planet. Just throw them in a damn cell for life.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:46 AM
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Gunned for me. It's a expression for when someone targets someone else relentless. Like a fixed obsession. They never raped me. We were children and I pray children don't have that urge ever. But there was relentless bullying and harassment by them which the teachers attributed to boys will be boys. It is a excuse used to let boys off for bad behaviour. For men I've only ever heard it used in office settings when a guy crosses a line of office bullying and the managers don't want to deal with it…
/r/MensRights16/01/23 03:51 PM
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I will say I was heavily picked on in elementary by 4 boys. Like they gunned for me moment they found out I didn't have a big brother and the achool basicsllg allowed bullying and punished the victims not the bully. It got really bad and my teachers (now I had bullying problems before and the teachers were shit about it so I blame the teachers more) just kept saying boys will be boys. My parents threatened a lawsuit then things got addressed. But before then I was hiding in the girls bathroom cr…
/r/MensRights16/01/23 03:03 AM
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Porn really is just harmful all over for both men and women. And with the growing reports of women and men who were sex trafficked being forced to make videos, it seems to just be getting more harmful. It's also scary addictive for men and women.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 12:19 AM
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I'm not missing your point. But you came after me for things I never said when I was indeed damning this woman for evil actions. I also never said these sort of claims are rare, or proof isn't needed, etc. I said that sort of evil actions(the wife of this poor man) makes it much harder on abuse victims to get help and justice. The fact that word alone is enough to be deemed guilty is a terrifying thing I myself have experienced in a different situation. Of course, proof is needed, and those who …
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:51 PM
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No, I did, not. I said abuse victims. Men are abuse victims as well, and most often more ignored than women when it comes to getting help and justice. False claims like that evil witch made, which led to this poor man's death end up hurting abuse victims period. It make it harder for abuse victims to be listened to, to be believed, to get help, and to hold their abuser accountable. Before you jump down ppls throat about words, they never said, maybe ask some questions. She isn't the victim here.…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:19 PM
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As a woman: be in a terrified hysteric because where the fuck is my wonderful boyfriend, where are my uncles, my cousins, my friends. How the hell did they disappear? (Assuming this is like that movie where a bunch of ppl disappear out of nowhere and no context is given) are they alright, who took them, are they coming back etc. It wouldn't be joyous it would be a damn terrifying nightmare
/r/MensRights27/12/22 06:06 PM
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Good lord above, that poor man and his family. And his wife was such a stupid idiot for calling when there was no abuse. I'm all for turning in abusive ppl, they need to be stopped but not for false reporting. That just makes it harder for actual abuse victims to get any sort of help.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 05:47 PM
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I can vouch it very well may be a legit accidental pregnancy under those circumstances and she decides to keep it. Those circumstances are how I'm here. My parents were married, they didn't want kids, used multiple forms of bc and yet here I am
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:24 PM
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It does happen. Contraceptives, even multiple forms are not 100 percent. Neither of my parents actually wanted kids, they were using multiple forms of bc and well here I am. To quote a good move "life finds a way"
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:18 PM
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I never claimed it to be murder. And no I dont hold double standards, if a woman did this to another woman I'd want the exact same thing. Whatever guarantees the most jail time because I dont trust ppl like that in society.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen16/12/19 06:08 AM
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That's not answering my question
/r/FeminismStopsWhen16/12/19 06:00 AM
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Both in my opinion. Anyone who does something like that is a danger to society, who knows what the next escalation will be. So do what it takes to keep him behind bars. And would you charge a woman for murder if she aborts for medical reasons
/r/FeminismStopsWhen16/12/19 05:58 AM
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The proofing of this article is annoying me. Heres my stance on gender pay gap, if your company is paying you less than your male coworker and everything is the same from work experience, education, hours, skills etc. Then please bring it to court and let's hold the employer accountable. Otherwise the variables make a big difference. This is excluding places where actual gender pay gap exists because they actually value women less than men and dont believe they should be working.
/r/FeminismStopsWhen16/12/19 12:00 AM
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Pardon
/r/FeminismStopsWhen15/12/19 04:41 PM
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Former pcer here(still a feminist but more pl now) , it's the idea that he forced her to do this. She didnt decide to do it, that dickwipe made her
/r/FeminismStopsWhen13/12/19 08:28 PM
24

Oh for the love of puppies
/r/FeminismStopsWhen12/12/19 06:40 PM
2

What class is this?
/r/FeminismStopsWhen25/09/19 08:12 PM
1

So then discrimination again women would be positive to no?
/r/MensRights25/09/19 08:08 PM
1

I'm sorry how can discrimination be positive?
/r/MensRights24/09/19 09:55 PM
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Our house had the rule, last one to use makes sure the toilet paper and soap is stocked, towels are still good and seat lid is down. We had pets that would like to play with the toilet so the lid had.to be kept closed.
/r/MensRights22/09/19 07:35 PM
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I dont think so. Just given my past with bullying and knowing how the systems work and that kids are still egged on to commit suicide by their bullies andnmtohing happens, it would be the same result. I think they tried to set a standard to make kids realize their actions more and not to bully with actual legal consequences and she just happened to be the example. And like normal it fell through. If she were a boy , under the exact same circumstance things would probably have turned out the same…
/r/MensRights20/09/19 08:41 PM
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Honestly switching genders I see the same thing happening. This case had alot of oddities and new.things for the legal system to overcome. She didnt directly kill him, didnt accidentally kill him, did pay someone to or plant the seed in someone's head. She just did what bullies have been doing for ages (I speak from experience) and the legal system had to deal with punishing it or not. I didnt honestly expect her to get anything for it because bullies are rarely punished regardless of their gend…
/r/MensRights20/09/19 07:17 PM
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Wtf, what kind of teacher tells a child something like this. Sure tell them to hide, throw shit at the sick s.o.b who tries to kill them and run to protect themselves, but not sacrifice themselves to save others.
/r/MensRights20/09/19 01:42 AM
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The main mod who runs the feminist page is a male who is very anti muslim. If you speak out in support of anything to do with the muslim faith or how he views it you're out. Also I'm a Christian lol
/r/MensRights18/09/19 06:53 AM
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Well according to them it was because I was saying things that didnt agree with their information they want spread. It was about the hijab and whether they should be forceably banned or not. I disagree with banning any religions symbols or clothing options under freedom of religion and choice.
/r/MensRights18/09/19 05:16 AM
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It's not hard to get banned from that page. I got banned even though I am a feminist. My issue with surveys is it cannot ever be accurate unless they interview literally every single human being all over the world or in specific countries for a comparison etc. A small sample gives us insight into that group but cannot be used to create a overall understanding. That being said, if those women felt they were raped, I feel horrible for them. Rape is one of the worst things you can do to a person an…
/r/MensRights18/09/19 04:38 AM
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I honestly feel, from someone whose watched good and bad marriages(including seeing how bad my parents marriage was), alot of it boils down to ppl who cannot or refuse to communicate and actually solve problems. Those who talked and didnt bandaid or brush their feelings aside or the other person's seems to be good.
/r/MensRights17/09/19 10:10 AM
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This is why you dont have sex with crazy. Man or woman, it always comes back to hit you with a cast iron frying pan.
/r/MensRights12/09/19 09:18 AM
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I can only answer in what I'd do as a female being attacked. Shove back not hard, but like youd do with play fighting and keep moving away from the attacker while shouting exactly what's happening to get attention. Try to go to areas where there are cameras to get it on film and only throw a hit if theres literally no other alternative to protect yourself.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 09:29 AM
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Stop the fight, separate both parties, call first responders, keep the parties separate and talk to them about what was happening and keep notes of what is said and what you witnessed to present to the first responders.
/r/MensRights10/09/19 08:26 AM
2

Ahhh shes like my nonna. Yeah that's gonna be a tricky one.
/r/MensRights08/09/19 07:44 PM
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Ahhhh yeah she needs therapy just to help herself work through the damage her father caused.
/r/MensRights08/09/19 07:36 PM
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I agree to a degree but it is their choice to make. I just dont agree with judging a family when we have no way of knowing how it works for them. Also they're both screwed if something bad happens. If he gets injured or God forbid dies, shes on the hook for herself and 11 babies while trying to figure out the Bill's and working. And hes in the same position if that happens to her. I disagree with having more kids than you can responsibly care for but I disagree with painting her as an abuser and…
/r/MensRights08/09/19 07:07 PM
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While ppl struggle with it, therapy is a great way to recognize when you're in the wrong
/r/MensRights08/09/19 06:59 PM
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People dont always look happy even when theres a photo. For all we know just before this, some of the kids acted out and the dad had to discipline them and that's why they're mad. It's not good to read into a family situation from one photo, especially when we dont know that family. And some ppl just dont take photos well, my dad always looked angry or upset when hed have his pic taken.
/r/MensRights08/09/19 06:58 PM
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The best for both of you would be to seek therapy individually and together. She needs to recognize what shes doing is actually abusive and wrong and probably figure out why she is like that, you have anxiety (I have it as well, I know what hell its like) and possibly other issues to work through and you both need to find better ways to work together as a couple and family unit.
/r/MensRights08/09/19 06:03 PM
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Being a stay at home mom is pretty smart when you have kids or a stay at home dad, if you can afford it. They have 11 kids? Imagine the daycare costs. And hes hardly a slave or a wndless sperm bank, he could have wanted a large family too or to keep trying till they had a girl. Theres no proof she forced him to
/r/MensRights08/09/19 06:01 PM
1

Huh? And again gay pride started to combat the hateful, abusive and discriminatory behaviours and laws ppl who are gay experienced just for being gay. As straight ppl didnt experience that for being straight and still dont, I dont get straight pride.
/r/MensRights02/09/19 03:49 PM
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Can I ask how?
/r/MensRights02/09/19 02:41 PM
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Sorry for the late reply. I was at a beach boys concert. For me I still see it more for the historical context. Gay pride was started to fight the inhumane treatment and bigotry and hate, stuff us straight ppl dont experience for just being straight
/r/MensRights02/09/19 04:31 AM
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I never did that though. I said it's cool unless someone is using it in a negative way, which goes with virtually all speech. It all depends on how it's used in each individual case. And I gtg I'll be back later. My bf and I just got to the pne
/r/MensRights02/09/19 12:05 AM
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Well that's what I mean. If you're using it to be a racist dick then I draw a issue. I'm Croatian, german, english, irish, and italian. I have alot of pride in my cultures.
/r/MensRights01/09/19 11:59 PM
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Now if they're saying white pride in a way to actually be a racist asshole, okay that's fair. But really?
/r/MensRights01/09/19 11:55 PM
4

I worked at walmart as a cashier. I lost all of that ages ago
/r/MensRights01/09/19 11:52 PM
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How the fuck
/r/MensRights01/09/19 11:51 PM
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While I dont get straight pride parade, I'm really hoping this is just in jest and to get a rise out of ppl. I really hope it's not true
/r/MensRights01/09/19 06:13 PM
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Well if it's legit this doesnt bode well for my bf and I lol
/r/MensRights01/09/19 05:02 PM
225

Oh please let this be a idiotic joke
/r/MensRights01/09/19 04:40 PM
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I never said any of the things in that paragraph.
/r/MensRights31/08/19 08:53 PM
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