Average men should get a free pass to cheat

Ok_Use7 · 2026-02-04T22:53:54+00:00

Why'd that post about men and active imaginations get taken down? This is kind of a perfect example.

The common argument is that casual sex and relationships aren't available to average men but somehow suddenly for the sake of "once in lifetime experiences" the average man who has a girlfriend will also have a chance to cheat with Megan Fox. What are y'all on here?

the average women who can sleep with NBA stars

And when/where does this happen? Lmao

Go to any game, sit close to the court, you'll see how delusional this kind of stuff is.

Valuable-Marzipan761 · 2026-02-04T22:44:08+00:00

I understand why a man would sleep with an attractive women, given the chance. I'm not seeing why his partner would, or should, be accepting of that though.

Zabadoodude · 2026-02-04T22:57:05+00:00

If you make a commitment to stay loyal you should honor it. If you want to nuke a perfectly good relationship for some strange, you do you. Many men and women have done so in the past. Doesn't make it a moral decision.

Existing-Sign4804 · 2026-02-04T22:43:05+00:00

OR you could value your partner enough to understand that would hurt her and you wouldn’t want to do that. If you don’t value your partner that much, then you don’t deserve her and the resulting breakup is on you.

PuzzleheadedGrab8375 · 2026-02-04T22:42:31+00:00

It’s basically just as hard for a random woman to fuck with Brad Pitt, as it is for you to fuck with Scarlett Johansson.

So i guess if we make such a rule it has to be gender neutral.

MiddleZealousideal89 · 2026-02-04T22:51:25+00:00

Nah. You don't get a pass on shitty behavior cause you're not getting everything you want. I want a house with a hot tub, nobody would give me a free pass if I broke into someone's house to take a soak in their tub, nor should they.

NiaMiaBia · 2026-02-04T22:40:44+00:00

I’m not sure about “average” women having access to NBA stars. Maybe some I guess.

As far as a “free pass” - the only way this makes sense is if SHE also gets a free pass.

jorts-enthusiast · 2026-02-04T23:03:21+00:00

So men are slaves to their sexual desire and cannot make decisions based off of morals and decency? Is that your argument?

MoonriseOverEarth · 2026-02-05T00:05:56+00:00

Sounds like men can't control themselves and shouldn't be trusted with serious jobs. After all, all it takes is a woman flashing her titties to make him stupid.

Lenovo_Driver · 2026-02-05T01:00:02+00:00

Another day another red pilled dude projecting their low value on to average men

Fine_Video7691 · 2026-02-04T22:40:57+00:00

You are not entitled to "Be a Degen" free pass.

Tylikcat · 2026-02-04T22:40:57+00:00

Yeah, no.

Though your premise is a fairy tale, so I suppose it's no surprise that your conclusion is bunk too?

ladybird_00 · 2026-02-04T22:46:01+00:00

No, just stay single until you get this mythical chance.

harmonica2 · 2026-02-05T01:42:21+00:00

Average men getting a free pass to cheat is like saying lower class people should be allowed to steal since they are not rich.

DecisionPlastic9740 · 2026-02-05T00:43:36+00:00

I can say that Id never cheat regardless of who would be offering. It could be Samantha lux and I still wouldn't.

PrecisionHat · 2026-02-04T23:22:56+00:00

Is it me or are people just making the dumbest rage bait posts lately? Saw mashedturnip post earlier about that idiotic app where men pay women's makeup costs before a date, too, saying what a great idea it is. Just troll posts to get people angry. Are we not better than that here?

BrainMarshal · 2026-02-05T00:19:24+00:00

Cheating is wrong. Full stop.

GroundbreakingAct388 · 2026-02-05T01:01:07+00:00

then you guys complain about hypergamy....

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Training_Designer_41 · 2026-02-04T23:18:03+00:00

You think so but it’s not what you think it is. There is nothing about an extremely attractive woman that makes it worth it to cheat or get a free pass. I think novelty is what’s at play than the attractiveness. Unless you are making other assumptions about what an attractive woman would be like beyond how she looks like. Looks is just a proxy. Even if we are being shallow, looks doesn’t deliver what you think it does to make it worth such a free pass

PepebigD · 2026-02-05T01:08:31+00:00

Wow! Does someone woke up feeling like he's on the top of the hill right?

AlarmingArm9919 · 2026-02-05T01:45:27+00:00

what is wrong with you guys...

TopShelfSnipes · 2026-02-05T22:14:35+00:00

This is some weird crap, dude.

Most men aren't virgins in their late teens and 20s. Most women (their peers) are quite attractive in those years, then most people's looks fade as they get older (though some people can stay attractive into their 40s and 50s).

Most people, seeking the best for themselves, attain a level of attractiveness that could be considered "attractive" to a significant swath of the population.

Therefore, most men get to sleep with multiple attractive women in their lifetimes. So it's not "rare."

The average woman absolutely cannot sleep with "NBA stars, celebrities" etc.

There's very little difference between most celebrities and most attractive normies - this is something you realize once you date around a little bit. A lot of celebrities are actually kinda weird looking anyway. It's usually a combination of creative talent and/or industry connections that make them famous, not just pure looks (and unfortunately, a lot of sick fuck Harvey Weinstein kinda shit too sometimes). But it's not as if Hollywood actually snaps up the most attractive women, and everyone else is mid.

This whole post is weird.

SmirchaelMiconish · 2026-02-04T22:56:44+00:00

What is your purpose here? This has an strange odor of self pity mixed with entitlement and a warped view of how the world works, that world as viewed through the lens of an NBA starts sex life. What you imagine it to be in many cases. Your premises are off or emonally skewed.

So no, only people with your odd take will agree with you, and you're rare. So again, what's your purpose?

-Shes-A-Carnival · 2026-02-04T23:13:34+00:00

i hope that mans girlfriend or wife agrees. i dont see what that is to me

baller696969balls · 2026-02-05T00:17:18+00:00

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

mus_b_nuthn · 2026-02-04T22:41:04+00:00

Most average men get nothing let alone the ability to cheat

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TinyFlamingo2147 · 2026-02-04T22:41:36+00:00

It's not average guy princess arc time buddy.

Feeling_Ad_1034 · 2026-02-04T23:38:21+00:00

They'd consume way too much time trying.

coochie4sale · 2026-02-05T01:10:43+00:00

Once I find the person attractive, there's no real difference in how I perceive people. It doesn't feel 2x better to fuck a 10 over a 5, assuming I find both the 5 and 10 attractive. It's mostly a gate for me, idk how it works for other men. God willing, I find my partner attractive. The shared context and romantic feelings likely make it better than just sleeping with a random attractive woman.

champion_azure · 2026-02-05T01:39:08+00:00

Would you suppose if prior to meeting your gf, she had her fun and you didn't, an act like this would balance things out?

fucksiclepizza · 2026-02-05T01:45:00+00:00

An attractive women doesn't necessarily equal a good fuck. I dont understand this obsession some people have with wanting to fuck a so called 9 or 10. Physically attractive also doesnt mean there will be chemistry. Would it be worth it for this free pass to cheat when she just lays there like a sack of potatoes? Hard pass.

Disastrous_Agent9307 · 2026-02-05T02:56:03+00:00

Did you think the problem with scorned women is we can't understand and imagine the perspective of idiot men? Cuz I want you to know we aren't struggling with that. We know men can be short sighted bastards led around by their cocks with some truly wild justifications for awful and foolish behavior.

It's just we had this agreement that if he...well look, he used to be the person I called to kill bugs...so he knows how I deal with things which disgust me and no longer belong in my home. It's not my fault he never imagined I might be calling someone else to have him plopped outside barely twitching.

But don't worry, when he gets out there, I will understand why he did what he did and what motivated him to end up there. And he'll know why I'm his new nightmare with good lawyers and a plan to take everything from him. We both know who we married.

mashedturnip · 2026-02-05T03:09:44+00:00

If you can cheat, we can cheat

Intelligent-Insight · 2026-02-05T04:40:30+00:00

Only sleeping with the impregnating sex is cheating. Sleeping with women is not. Cheating for men is investing resources in other women to the point where his family suffers.

So no, average men should not be allowed to cheat.

anewleaf1234 · 2026-02-05T05:12:15+00:00

Why would any woman have to deal with a man who wants to cheat on her

Maleficent-Remote580 · 2026-02-05T05:57:52+00:00

No.

Just because it's hard to be faithful doesn't mean the man is not in the wrong for cheating.

This is an unequivocal standard in dating

Ronniebbb · 2026-02-05T05:59:42+00:00

I mean why should I have to put up with my partner not honoring our vows and disrespecting me and our marriage, also potentially exposing me to harmful diseases? Also should average women get a free pass to cheat?

Jephta · 2026-02-05T15:02:21+00:00

A woman I dated once told me that when she was a little girl her mom give her the advice "You should forgive your husband once for cheating on you. But only once. And only if he's your husband."

I think it's a pretty reasonable compromise tbh. You get one. Spend it wisely. I think he'd end up valuing that one time so much that 99% chance he'd never end up spending it.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TooAwesomeToUse

Itscatpicstime · 2026-02-05T21:56:39+00:00

Dumb asf 💀💀💀

basicbombshell · 2026-02-05T22:22:12+00:00

I think we should all enter monogamy with an understanding that we may be tempted or even have that once in a lifetime chance to have sex with our "fantasy" person. Being in a monogamous relationship means that you sacrifice this opportunity for the occasional or one time "fix" for the opportunity to bond with one person and generally have as much sex as you want. We cannot have it both ways. If we want the freedom to take advantage of a "rare opportunity" to have sex with someone that's out of our league then we should stay single.

Emergency-Sell-6713 · 2026-02-07T22:09:59+00:00

If you do cheat and your woman accepts being cheated on then you better go on a 3 months hiatus to get re-tested for STDs, cause you're not safe for her anymore. If you don't get re-tested, then you just straight wanna harm her. And yeah some STDs are harmless for men but harmful to women.

Lift_and_Lurk · 2026-02-04T23:34:32+00:00

Bros is really out here acting like even if somehow there was a way to get a “1 free sex” coupon that every girl would just honor it cause “the rules” (whatever that means)
The prettier she is the easier it is for you to be replaced. That’s just how it is regardless of cheating or not.
Lol, imagine thinking you and beans could sit around and follow “the rules” we’re going around the board like Monopoly or something

ThatBitchA · 2026-02-05T00:41:49+00:00

Average men are free to cheat.

Anyone is free to cheat.

They'll just have to deal with the consequences. If my husband felt that he deserved a free pass for cheating I'd divorce him.

Debetrius180 · 2026-02-04T22:50:49+00:00

Lmao, how about just keeping your word, if you want pussy on the side tell her that, you’d be surprised how much more women will respect you when you’re honest about something that could jeopardize your position with them.

Very pathetic philosophy here, and by the same logic, why wouldn’t a woman choose to sleep with a highly competent and successful man? Those men are even rarer than gorgeous women, should your girl be able to fuck exceptional men just because they’re rare?

Title	Average men should get a free pass to cheat
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Date	February 4, 2026 10:33 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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