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| 5 | Are you really break up/stop dating at time X or start to have sex?No there isn't a set time for me personally. I'm willing to have sex with a man once I'm comfortable with him and trust is established. That could range from first date to months. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 02:41 PM |
| 5 | “Modern gender politics creates conflicting expectations for men, and men are punished no matter which side they choose”"But wimmin!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 02:38 PM |
| 5 | “Modern gender politics creates conflicting expectations for men, and men are punished no matter which side they choose”Being a provider is competency. Even in a serious relationship/marriage without children you need to be able to pull your own weight and also be a provider for your partner if they can't provide for themselves. This goes for both genders. We don't live in the 50's anymore when the majority of people could live off of just one income. Listening to the men here, they say they want women to "love them for them". There was just a post a couple of days ago from a NEET man complaining about women not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 02:20 PM |
| 2 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?That's what I was thinking lol. Especially if you factor in age, that's pretty low for someone "in the scene". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:31 PM |
| 4 | Question for Women: If I can guarantee to you that all future hookup experiences will be like the typical male hookup experience, would you sleep around more?The difference is that you see it as a game with levels while other people see it as a shared activity. Sex is experiencing things with others. And each time is different. Sleeping with a ton of people before settling down has nothing to do with future partners. Experience can give you a baseline to go off of like "most women enjoy foreplay" but you still have to learn every new partner. You're just not starting from a baseline of no knowledge when you have experience. And "that's you being expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do men complain so much?Joining a movement of complaining men to complain is about as passive and bitch made as it gets. You need other men to back you for you to say how you feel and are too scared to do it without guaranteed approval and pats on the back. There are even men in here who say they only whine about this stuff online because they're scared of how they'll be perceived by people in person. Women complain but at least we turn our complaints into action hence the feminism movement and women sticking to their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 12:36 PM |
| 0 | Much of MGTOW worked its way into the mainstream.There was one case I read about where a woman grew a fetus in an ovarian cyst and carried it to term. It's super rare to carry an ectopic pregnancy to term though and a fetus definitely can't survive in a male body in any case. Another case where they tried to implant a uterus in a man and he died. Which is why men shouldn't get a say in whether or not abortions are legal, because they shouldn't get to make decisions about what someone else does with their body. Men aren't legally required to do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 12:08 PM |
| 6 | “Modern gender politics creates conflicting expectations for men, and men are punished no matter which side they choose”People think the grass is always greener on the other side. Women want the financial freedom, opportunities, independence, and basic human respect that men get and men want easy sex and less pressure to be competent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 10:45 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever wonder if the dating situation isnt as dire as the narrative?That's not what I asked. How has he offered traditional values is what I'm asking? And which traditional values? He certainly doesn't seem very traditional to me but if you count a man who's twice divorced and currently married to a nude model then more power to you if you consider that a good role model for traditional values! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Do you ever wonder if the dating situation isnt as dire as the narrative?How is he going to bring that about? And which traditional values? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever wonder if the dating situation isnt as dire as the narrative?Yeah I think it's not as doom and gloom as a lot of people make it out to be. 70% of people in my country are partnered and a big chunk of those who aren't are widows over 65. Lots of young men are single but it's been the norm for early 20's to not immediately jump into marriage with the first person who shows them interest for like 2 decades now. If you look at the stats behind that 60% that someone else mentioned, you'll see that the number drops to like 20-30% of single men in their 30's. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 04:33 PM |
| 4 | Do you ever wonder if the dating situation isnt as dire as the narrative?What hope has trump offered? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 04:04 PM |
| 4 | "If monogamy didn’t exist in society, wouldn’t most women end up pairing only with the most attractive men, creating a large underclass of men with no hope of dating prospects" what do you think?Monogamy isn't enforced right now. People are allowed to date who they want and monogamy is still the norm so no I don't think this scenario would play out. Women could go get a roster of guys and date them all at once but they don't (on average) because the majority of people aren't into that. I personally only want to date and marry one person at a time. I don't want multiple partners. Most people prefer monogamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?No, those are called examples. Hence me starting the sentence off with "be it" and ending with "etc". Idk why you asked this question just to get pissy and argue with the answers you get. I don't care if you like the vetting process or how I phrased my sentence or not. Being a virgin in your late 20's is a yellow flag to me. Asking people for their opinion and then arguing the answer down is a red flag to me. Now what. And if we're going to pretend we know what someone else is thinking more than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 04:47 PM |
| 0 | CMV: This new "date deposit" app is a great idea!Or even easier, why not just split the bill or each pay for their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Average men should get a free pass to cheatAverage men should get an education to learn how to spell and how to use punctuation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?I don't assume things about people. I just said it could be indicative of something hence it being a yellow flag and not red. But that's fair for you to dislike it. I don't like how you guys judge women for vetting for incompatibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/26 11:05 PM |
| 6 | Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man.No they don't lmfao you're delusional. You can't change sex. Trans women are socially considered women but are still biologically male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:18 PM |
| 6 | Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man.Yes they are or else they wouldn't be trans women, they'd just be cis. Gender and sex aren't the same thing. A trans woman is socially considered a woman but not biologically a female. You can't change sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 06:04 PM |
| 3 | Most women in "open" relationships would instantly break up if their husbands or boyfriends slept with another man.Heterosexual (straight) means you're attracted to the opposite sex. Trans women and femme gay men are male so it's not straight. He would be bi at the very least | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/26 12:30 PM |
| – | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingHow do you pay your rent or mortgage without working a job? Where is the money coming from? Are you retired? How do you pay for insurance and copays without having a source of income? "Not everybody is broke" but how are you not broke if you're unemployed? And "proper financial planning"... where are the finances coming from? You can't properly plan around 0 dollars. It's a little off topic but I've never understood this neet thing for anybody who doesn't live off mommy and daddy's money. Can yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?You still didn't answer my question. I'll ask again. Are you still in high school yes or no? How many of your exes did this happen with? How did you find out what all of their exes looked like? Answer my questions. It's rude as fuck for you to keep asking me stuff and then ignoring my questions in return. Mediocre guys have sex all the time whether casual or in a relationship. You're suffering from a shared delusion that you blackpill incels are the majority but you're not. 70% of people in my c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 02:17 PM |
| – | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingSo all men are shallow is what you're saying. It's ironic that you shit on men like this yet have "abolish misandry" as your flair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 01:56 PM |
| – | Women claim to be into personality but judge everythingYou're under scrutiny in dating because who people choose to partner with affects their life. A woman who barely makes enough to support herself (in this shitty economy) isn't going to want to date a man who sits around the house all day every day just balding and contributing nothing but expects sex on demand. It's literally not feasible for her to take on a dependent and have to work more hours and put in more time keeping up with 2x the amount of housework to clean up after you. You offer not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 01:54 PM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?But not your real life experiences right? You didn't answer my question, are you still in high school yes or no? How many of your exes did this happen with? How did you find out what all of their exes looked like? And the answer to your question is that they're not. You haven't seen every woman's entire dating history. You take things you hear on the internet and your assumptions and pretend they're a relevant representation of 4 billion people. They're not. It's idiotic and so clearly just an i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?This is moronic. By this logic, I can reasonably assume any man is a rapist because some other men are. I measured your actions of seeing women as interchangeable objects against other men and found that there are rapists who share the same sentiment so you must be one too. You're a cheater too (or would be if women didn't reject you) because some other men cheat. Other men fight tooth and nail to defend old men dating teenagers so you must be a pedo/ephebophile too. Some men lie so it's reasona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 01:10 PM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Are you in high school? I'm not understanding how you know what all of someone's exes look like unless you're stalking her or if you're in high school where everybody is in the same building together every day. Because it's not like she's going to make a powerpoint presentation of all her exes to show you. All of these unrealistic hypothetical doom scenarios are literally just a 1:1 manifestation of your crippling insecurity. It's really no wonder with you blackpill guys, you're doomed from year… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 12:54 PM |
| 1 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?These guys in this thread are too far gone to reason with. The two responses I got are some of the dumbest things I've ever heard in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 12:42 PM |
| 2 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?Then why not just pay a prostitute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 06:07 AM |
| 10 | What are ways (besides sleeping with him on the first date) that a woman can prove she's as attracted to her current partner as she was to her exes?How do you as her current partner know exactly how much "sexual interest" she showed her past partners? That's the real ludicrous take | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/26 05:21 AM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.Multiple relationships aren't new. Polygamy is a thing in some cultures. There are dudes in the Bible who had multiple wives, Abraham, Israel, Judah, Gideon, Samson, David, and Solomon from a quick google search. People were cheating back then too. And "prostitution is the oldest profession"???? What's with the erasure of history to make it seem like women always used to just get with the first man who showed them interest and stay with them forever? Our values aren't eroding, culture is a cycle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:44 PM |
| – | Women don't owe you explanation of their standards.People can complain about anything. It might be silly to do in some cases but they can still do it. You can also and you can choose to not listen to other people's complaints. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 04:22 PM |
| 1 | After a casual hookup, who usually reaches out first to set up the next meet?How did you know they already liked her? Was she paying for premium? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 12:03 PM |
| 1 | After a casual hookup, who usually reaches out first to set up the next meet?Like what? Asking out of curiousity. I drove like 3 hours one way on my birthday to see a dude I was into once lol probably the "craziest" thing ive done for a casual partner. (I wouldn't advise it.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:59 AM |
| 1 | After a casual hookup, who usually reaches out first to set up the next meet?I'm not in the casual scene anymore but I used to be. These "rules" are super neurotic. When I first started really interacting with men, I tried to follow the stuff I read in cosmo as a teen like never double text, wait for him to text first, take as much time as he took to text back (like if he texted back two hours later wait at least two hours to respond) etc but I always hated it and thought it stupid so I stopped. If I wanted to see someone again or talk to them then I'd reach out. Even do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?There's a reason if someone is a virgin into their late 20's. Be it religious reasons, they're undesirable, they never put themself out there/too busy, non religious but are waiting for marriage, they're just picky, etc. I see it as a yellow flag because it's not directly indicative of anything bad but the reasoning could be something I'm incompatible with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?I always assumed porn addiction if a guy couldn't keep an erection. When I was less experienced I assumed a guy was a virgin if he came really fast but that can happen from not having sex for an extended period of time or just a lot of anticipation. Clumsiness definitely adds to the assumption but there's really no way to know unless they tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel any empathy for men?Do you also see where "modern feminists" are coming from as well? Most women were raised to prioritize men's needs and taught that boys who bully and even put their hands on us are just "being boys" and doing it because they like us. We start getting sexualized in childhood by men as soon as puberty hits. Then once we start getting into relationships we get played by men who treat us like we're disposable and we get assaulted (at any age really, first time for me was when I was like 5 years old)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 11:09 AM |
| – | Blue pillers, do you disagree with any of this advice?Ah okay well I'll let you know when I read it and my thoughts on it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 08:51 AM |
| – | Blue pillers, do you disagree with any of this advice?I appreciate it! I'll have a listen when I get around to it. What language is this btw? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:03 PM |
| – | Blue pillers, do you disagree with any of this advice?I think it's nice that you're taking action to help men who are struggling! Even if I may disagree with some of the advice you're giving, at least you're doing something for them other than just posting on the internet. I've been asking where are the men (not the grifters who only spew rhetoric and advertise their "courses" to make a quick buck) actually using their time and putting in effort to do something for these dudes and here you are! Hopefully other men follow suit. Im not sure how well … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Blue pillers, do you disagree with any of this advice?I'm not picky about music at all. The only genre I genuinely dislike as a whole is gospel choir music specifically (and even then there are some songs I like and I'm not religious). I like exploring new genres and music from different cultures. Even if I can't understand what they're saying, I can always appreciate a beautiful voice and the flow of a song. I really enjoy opera and that's usually not in English and I listen to electronic and other stuff that doesn't have vocals at all. Music is m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Blue pillers, do you disagree with any of this advice?Stick with me here. I disagree that women are more emotional, people just express their emotions differently and don't always feel the same about certain things but men aren't made of stone (exaggeration but you get the point). I know you said there's more detail in the book but I think if you haven't, you should add how to go about doing these things you advise. The biggest complaint I see from men here about the advice that they get is that it's not actionable, especially for those starting fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Blue pillers, do you disagree with any of this advice?Super off topic but can you recommend some good artists from your country? I like the way Breskvica sounds but not big into the pop sound. I'll comment on your post under the automod too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?I do like your optimism! I think I've lost my optimism, I've been feeling super pessimistic and hopeless lately unfortunately. It's hard to continue to persist when the boulder just keeps rolling back down every time and you get more and more tired each time you start up again. I'm torn between the fact that positive change is possible and that we're living in an oligarchy and there aren't enough people willing or able to do what it takes to topple it. Too many people are okay with living like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 07:59 PM |
| 2 | "Manslamming" is just more gendering a non-gendered issue.I've noticed this a lot for younger gen z, a lot of them very clearly missed out on crucial socialization during the pandemic to the point where they don't really seem to understand social norms or politeness. Also a ton of people glued to their phones and have zero spatial awareness or regard for anyone around them. I can tell you how many gen z's have rushed past me and bumped me or stomped the hell out of my toes at concerts and other tightly packed spaces and they don't even care to look bac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?Unfortunately I don't think there's any way to "end" rape. There will always be sick people in the world. I just wish people actually cared and elected representatives who care and actually want to make changes for the betterment of society as a whole. Including taking all rape cases seriously, prosecuting these people, educating upcoming generations, and doing something about poverty which seems to be one of the root causes of everything wrong in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 11:36 AM |
| 2 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.Why didn't you ask this in your last comment? But my answer is that I disagree with it as a blanket statement. I don't even know what you guys mean by "bad" men half the time, sometimes it's abusers, sometimes it men who simply are attractive, sometimes it's "criminals" (which includes "drug dealers" but not all of them are bad people). And I don't believe people generally are all bad or good. There's nuance to it. A woman with a history of dating men who ended up abusing her isnt at fault or a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.That would mean the majority of dudes in this sub are bad people since they openly admit to wanting to pursue women regardless of how shitty they may be to them. And by your logic, shitty women aren't at fault because men have dating agency and it's a choose fault in the men who would or do date them! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:32 AM |
| – | Being seen as only hookup material is not a good thingEh, i disagree with this as a blanket statement because it's subjective. Some people are shallow and only care about sex and being seen as hot. Also lots of people with self esteem in the gutter. To them I'm sure being hookup material is great, they don't care about being a decent person who someone actually likes and wants to spend time with, they just want validation and attention but only in the form of sex. Also not everyone is a size queen op. What's up with the big dick, bigger dick thing?… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:08 PM |
| -1 | Most men do not want “direct” unflattering communication from womenMost redpill men*. There definitely are lots of normal dudes out there. Alot of these geniuses in this sub specifically crumble to dust when women are direct and honest. If they don't like what was said then it's a lie, virtue signaling, mean. How many posts have been made on this sub about how "women don't have empathy" because women don't coddle them. I've seen alot of dudes talk about how all women are terrible because the total of two they mustered the courage to ask out said "ew you're ugly… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 11:44 AM |
| 3 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.Oh poor you! God some of y'all black pill dudes are annoying as fuck. I didn't say anything about "undesirable men", I was responding to what the commenter above said. Catching strays implies that I said anything about you and other undesirable men, which I did not. Reply to op if you want to argue with what she said. If you don't have a response to what I said in my comment then leave me the fuck alone! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 11:10 AM |
| 5 | Men severely underestimate how bad they actually are.You could say she's a bad person for choosing to date men who are bad people (I disagree) but that doesn't mean those men aren't at fault for being bad people. By this logic, if I treat men like shit but have no issue dating then I'm not at fault for treating men like shit. Lots of men here complain about all women bad because they're mean to men or whatever but they're so desperate for sex that women "never" struggle with dating. Maybe it's a choose fault? Nah. It's all women who are bad. Same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:04 AM |
| 5 | Does reasonable expectation of sex exist?Yeah don't you take your looks off, put them in a box wrapped with a bow and give them to your partner in exchange for their looks? I keep my partner's looks on my nightstand and he keeps my looks on the bookshelf. People in this sub are so fucking weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:27 AM |
| 4 | The Wade Wilson case does not show that bad boy, dark triad men can have any women they want, it actually shows that these men go after women who struggling men would never want or approach, meaning it's all about ego and validation.They're really no better than these women and hypocritical as hell to frame them as terrible people when they want to date them and are envious of sick men. They are just as obsessed with "dark triad" traits as those women. And the condition is called hybristophilia. There are just as many men who lusted over Jodi Arias and Yuka Takaoka and other sick murderous women as there are women who lust over Wade Wilson. I just don't get why they go on and on about those women and then turn around and ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:03 AM |
| 1 | What do women & feminists mean when they say "Men need to do years of extensive inner work & therapy, heal their trauma's and sort themselves out before they can begin dating and relationships with women"?Add superficial as hell to the list. If the only way you can think to describe yourself is about your physical features then that says a whole lot. And who is "we"? There are plenty of mediocre short non white guys in the club. You asked about yourself specifically. Just going off of your posts here you seem pretty unpleasant to talk to. Victim mentality, insecurity, low self esteem, annoying, superficial. All unattractive traits. People who have one or two of those can get by on other attractiv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Equality between genders should always be strived for, but perfect equality can never fully exist in reality due to unavoidable biological differencesEquity is giving everyone resources based on their situation so that equal outcomes are possible. It's not brute forcing equal outcomes, that would be equality. I disagree that equal opportunities is most important because lots of people are at a disadvantage because of systemic oppression. Everyone having equal opportunities when some are starting at a severe disadvantage isnt right imo. I feel like im talking in circles or something, apologies if this isn't super coherent. This sub is wearing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 11:39 PM |
| 5 | What do women & feminists mean when they say "Men need to do years of extensive inner work & therapy, heal their trauma's and sort themselves out before they can begin dating and relationships with women"?Why are you asking people on Reddit why you can't get laid? How tf are we supposed to know? Going off of all this whining in the comments, I'd say they probably just have a higher self esteem, are less annoying, and likely better looking than you. Id guess they spend more time actually interacting with people offline than whining and moaning and complaining on the internet about nobody wanting them too. Therapy is for people to sort their own shit out so they can be confident and happy with them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Men were not lied to just because they misinterpret what “women want a good man” or “girls want you to be nice to them” means.The average dude is in a relationship. 70% of people are in a relationship in my country. And you explained why "criminal gangbangers" have a chance in your last comment. The vast majority of people flip between acting decent or like pieces of shit depending on their mood and the time of day. Someone could be a massive asshole in public but a decent family man/woman. "Criminal gangbangers" are still people. They're indoctrinated into the lifestyle. Believe it or not, there are also women and gir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Men were not lied to just because they misinterpret what “women want a good man” or “girls want you to be nice to them” means.Nobody in any of those posts say men have to be nice "to have relationships". They're being asked what they like in a partner and they say they like humor, kindness, intelligence, smelling nice, good looks, etc. What you're doing is called confirmation bias. You want to believe this so you cherry-picked posts of women saying they like nice men (amongst lots of other traits) and are pretending they're saying men have to be nice to date at all. Nobody said that in any of your links lol. Even the l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Equality between genders should always be strived for, but perfect equality can never fully exist in reality due to unavoidable biological differencesPeople with prosthetics can also be a "talented sprinter". Equity is focused on equal opportunity to reach an equal outcome. The person given the prosthetic can still choose not use it and the race would still be equitable because both parties had the resources needed to reach an equal outcome. It's about both parties having a fighting chance, not about perfect equal outcome being achieved. That would be equality, hence it being called equal outcome and not equitable outcome. It's literally in t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Equality between genders should always be strived for, but perfect equality can never fully exist in reality due to unavoidable biological differencesI was wrong on the internet lol! Yeah you're right it says "Equality means each individual or group of people is given the same resources or opportunities. Equity recognizes that each person has different circumstances and allocates the exact resources and opportunities needed to reach an equal outcome." I think equity is only dangerous to people who already have a leg up and want to retain it. For example, two people are running a race. One of them only has one leg and the other has two. Equity… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 11:41 AM |
| – | Equality between genders should always be strived for, but perfect equality can never fully exist in reality due to unavoidable biological differencesYeah and that means neither population would survive. The second one could grow temporarily until they can't anymore because of the inbreeding. I also doubt in a real world scenario that everybody would be fertile and okay with incest and that all 100 women would be okay with sleeping with the same man. Also not guaranteed that everyone is std/i free so a bunch of people sleeping with one person on either island could be a breeding ground for something that's fatal without medicine depending on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 07:14 AM |
| – | Equality between genders should always be strived for, but perfect equality can never fully exist in reality due to unavoidable biological differencesYou didn't take into account the fact that all of the children birthed by the 100 women would be half siblings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 06:50 AM |
| 4 | Equality between genders should always be strived for, but perfect equality can never fully exist in reality due to unavoidable biological differencesIt's the other way around. “The route to achieving equity will not be accomplished through treating everyone equally. It will be achieved by treating everyone equitably, or justly according to their circumstances.” https://onlinepublichealth.gwu.edu/resources/equity-vs-equality/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 06:48 AM |
| 3 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?If the victim gives up rights because of the trauma I doubt they'd want their family to take the kid in unless they're not close. Otherwise that defeats the purpose. If god forbid someone in my immediate family did this to someone I'd be willing to take their kid in. I think the perpetrator's family should be able to too. If they're properly vetted of course which anyone should be before adopting a child anyway. But then if nobody in the family is willing or eligible, the kid gets sent into the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/26 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?Men can and do opt out of parenthood all the time. Paying $400 a month to support the child but never seeing them isn't parenthood and they have that option. They're allowed to opt out of being a parent but not out of financial responsibility for a living child they helped create. If a woman gets an abortion then neither party is responsible for a child. Its not like a woman gets an abortion and the man is left to raise a child on his own. This topic is way too complex to be minimized down to ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Why should "consent to sex isn't consent to Parenthood" only apply to women?It's easy to say paper abortion but then what happens to the kid? They're left to be raised solely by a sex offender on one income? They're also a victim in this situation. I agree with you though and think the mother should lose parental rights as well in this case. It's just tricky because nobody seems to give a shit about children and the adoption and foster care system we currently have is severely lacking. If pro life people actually cared about children's lives and put even a fraction of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/26 12:29 PM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Nope none of those cities. I'm not going to tell you where I live lol but there were dudes who looked like him or better in the boonies where I grew up. He looks like every other white former frat bro out here where I live now, cute but basic. We just have a different taste in men and that's okay! Not everybody will agree on who's attractive and who isn't. I just looked at his insta and he looked better with short hair and a more pronounced mustache imo. Styling and editing makes a difference so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:36 PM |
| 2 | What hoops do you have to jump through while trying to date?It's not all men but definitely the dudes in this sub who hate the idea of a woman actually liking them and enjoying their company enough to want to be with them long term! I think it's lots of things, self hatred for some "I don't like or see any positive qualities in myself so if a woman wants a relationship with me, she must have ulterior motives", and only caring about sex for others. And another subset are seemingly just basing it off of how women soft reject them "I'm not interested but yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 04:11 PM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Okay great, thanks for the comment! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 03:32 PM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.I think he's average looking, I see lots of dudes who look like him in my city. I'm not personally attracted to him though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 03:31 PM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Oh word lucky lol but sure thing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 03:27 PM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Those guys have the least issues pursuing women based on what I've heard from dudes like that. Dude with the highest body count I've heard in person was just like that and the second highest was an overweight (not obese) avid WoW player with a ton of women friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:10 AM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.I agree the "feminine energy" bs is weird and grifty but they don't compare to sex trafficker Andrew Tate. They're also not out here making podcasts with the sole purpose of bringing men on to talk over and shit on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:06 AM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Good for all of these dudes trying to argue women down that he's good looking. They hate women and don't want to date women and they're always going on about how hot men are... Like go get him then lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 11:00 AM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.imagine having to explain this to a human being passed the age of 12. Imagine calling someone a dumbass and comparing them to a 12 year old but you don't know the difference between past and passed lmfao. Embarassing. Also attraction is subjective and dude is average at best imo. Average dudes are hooking up, dating, and marrying every day. Some even have ticktock accounts, imagine that! Maybe you're just ugly if you look at this dude and think "if he's average then I must be below average". Doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:56 AM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Redpill weirdos have actively lowered the bar. Which is funny because that's their goal but women still don't want them. With this "movement" they've only made it known that there's a sizeable community of men who actively hate women and have shared a ton of red flags and dogwhistles to look out for. They're going to get rejected even harder now lmao. Redpill is just "how to shoot yourself in the foot 101" lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:44 AM |
| – | Average Men are Definitely Benefiting from Men Being Radicalised.Copy the link, paste in your browser and delete everything after the question mark and it should work! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/26 10:32 AM |
| 8 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.Friend, that's not how a conversation works. You asked a question and I answered. I asked you questions, you answer them. Then you can ask me more questions and I will answer them. This is very simple, I learned how to do this as a child. I hope this helps you better understand how to have a conversation! I'm waiting patiently for your answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 09:15 PM |
| 13 | Women set standards based on men they’ve never met.Are you saying that the vast majority of men are emotionally stunted, weak, lazy, have poor communication skills, are ugly, broke, cheaters, angry, tired, and treat women like shit? That women have never met men who have positive qualities? That's a bit misandrist don't you think? I've met plenty of regular every day men with the qualities you listed in the op. Also it's funny that you listed all of those qualities there but in this comment you only bring up money. The vast majority of people ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 05:12 PM |
| 4 | If you were single could you really resist the interest of a high value man?Why tf would a celebrity want to have sex with an average woman he deems "not good enough" when he could have sex with Victoria's Secret models and other celebrities? Are you dumb? Sure thing celebrity men are walking around in public looking for normal average women to sleep with instead of the wealth of similarly rich, famous, and hot women they work and party with every day lmfao. Makes zero sense at all dude. I would say use your brain but you don't seem to have one or at least if you do, it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Why some view husband material as a form of settlingThe conventionally attractive dudes I've been with were the worst in bed because they were going for numbers just because they could. Selfish lovers ime. The best in bed were the dudes I had a genuine connection with and the outgoing nerdy dudes. These guys don't understand because nobody has sex with them so all they have to go off of are their assumptions and imagination. Anyone who's actually had sex knows that just being hot doesn't get a woman off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Why some view husband material as a form of settlingI find it more gross that men who are boring, shit conversationalists, and can't turn a woman on expect women to pity fuck them over men who actually have something going for them. I find the constant whining and manipulative shaming of women to try to get them to pity fuck lazy and undesirable men gross. I don't see anything gross about women sleeping with men they're attracted to, that's like the most basic human thing a person could do. But that's just my opinion. You're free to find consensu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 04:13 PM |
| 2 | If you were single could you really resist the interest of a high value man?This is totally a bad faith post but yeah I'd reject a celebrity or professional athlete. I prefer to be with someone who understands deep struggle and grow with them. Plus I have social anxiety and the celebrity lifestyle seems like nothing short of Hell imo. I'd take a regular normal dude who genuinely loves me over a cheating celebrity any day. And I don't do casual sex either so it would be a no all around, easily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 03:50 PM |
| 5 | If you were single could you really resist the interest of a high value man?Why tf would a celebrity ask a woman out if he doesn't deem her good enough for him? This doesn't make any sense dude. You don't seem to have a crumb of logic in your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Why don’t women get guns?By the time it gets to the point where there's warning signs that they might murder you, it's more dangerous when you try to leave them. Abusers don't just stop because you broke up with them. Plus a marriage isn't easy to get out of (lots of dudes in this sub want to make it even harder or impossible to divorce) and it's even harder if you have kids. I've heard of abusers threatening to kill the person (or their kids, family, etc) if they try to leave and fear keeps people compliant. Lots of pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/26 03:03 PM |
| 2 | What hoops do you have to jump through while trying to date?Right, hoops implies it's something women impose on them in order to get with them. All this time I thought they meant like the women they date expect to be courted or something but it's strange that almost every comment is just "I'm carrying the conversation because she doesn't want to be here". I've also had a ton of dry conversations, I've been on both ends. Nearly my whole OLD experience was men sending "hey" "hey beatiful" "wyd" and me carrying the conversation until I noticed the pattern a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 02:59 PM |
| 2 | What hoops do you have to jump through while trying to date?It does seem like it would suck to do ALL of the planning and initiating but I find it super interesting that for all the talk about "being forced to jump through hoops", all of the men here are describing their choice to push to try to impress women that clearly just aren't interested. I don't understand why they don't just get up and leave or unmatch if the woman isn't talking to them or sending one word messages. It's really unfair for them to say that women are forcing them to perform when i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 06:43 AM |
| 5 | Guys who say “I want to REALLY be desired” and “I just want consistency” often reveal that they see relationships as the cost of sex, not the goal itself.Speak for yourself, that last half definitely isn't true for me and a lot of the women I know. This sounds like asexuality or something which isn't very common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 01:59 PM |
| 7 | Woman are actually pretty bad at filtering.This guy is an imbecile. I salute everyone still engaging with him in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:12 PM |
| – | How good do you think woman can actually filter men?He's not actually interested in root causes. He's here to call women stupid and that's all there is to his argument. None of him or the other ones who make posts like this know or care about the root causes of anything. They're pissed off that they're undesirable and they come here solely to write think pieces masquerading as debate for the sole purpose of fulfilling their revenge fantasy of shitting on as many women as possible. But you're completely right about the cycle of abuse and poverty. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 03:03 PM |
| – | How good do you think woman can actually filter men?Because there are billions of women in the world and the odds are that some of them are really good at filtering. It would be exceptionally dumb to assume that out of every person of a gender (half of the entire world population), none of them are exceptionally good at x thing. Especially for a literal skill like filtering people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 02:52 PM |
| – | How good do you think woman can actually filter men?As good as the experiences they've been through, the compilation of advice they've received, their self esteem, and their level of discernment. One woman may be exceptionally good at filtering, another may be exceptionally bad at it, and everything in between. Women do not have a hive brain and shared skill level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 12:48 PM |
| 2 | "Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic.You want to be "rewarded/incentivised to be a good person" with sex specifically which shows a fundamental misunderstanding of what sex even is, a mutual activity. I think you're the one who can't understand that there's a lot more to a relationship than just "being nice to get sex". Even throughout this post, all you're talking about is sex this and sex that, I want sex and women should give me the sex because I do things for them to get sex. You haven't said a single word about relationships o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 12:38 PM |
| 2 | "Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic.No idea why they're so adamant with this virtue signaling that they're "oh so good people who just want women to give them sex for doing the bare minimum". Literally nobody but the most delusional among us is buying it. The entitlement even extends beyond expecting sex to demanding to be praised or seen as a good person even though they admittedly only do things for others for the express purpose of fulfilling their own desire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 12:02 PM |
| 2 | "Really good people don't demand a reward!" is bullshit logic.Your analogy is super unrealistic and weird. Nobody coming into the soup kitchens I've volunteered at said "I love volunteers!!!!!!" We're there to feed people who otherwise struggle to eat, not there to get our asses kissed by the less fortunate. This is just plain entitlement, to expect praise or sex for doing good. People who genuinely do good are satisfied with just doing good. It's nice to be "rewarded" but it doesn't affect whether or not a genuinely good person will do good in the future.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:27 AM |
| 1 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionGreat I'm glad it worked out for you! My comment still stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 04:02 PM |
| 1 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionYou as an outside observer don't always witness someone being abused in their relationship. And a ton of people who are concerned for the safety of literal teenagers don't want to wait until after they're abused to help them. The point is for them to not be abused at all so people advise them to not date predatory old men (or women) to begin with to minimize the risk. Once that abuse begins is harder for them to get out of it, especially for a teenager who's in a life stage where they're more li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:56 AM |
| 2 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionThey desperately want to date teenagers because they're predators but they don't want to be judged or called out for it so they twist themselves into pretzels trying to justify it. I think some of it is also trying to reconcile with their cognitive dissonance because they know it's wrong to date high school girls but they still want to so they come up with all these arguments for why it's okay, to convince themselves that they're not fucking weirdo creeps and even pedophiles in some cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:34 AM |
| – | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionA lot of 18 year olds are still in high school or literally just graduated high school and most of the men in here are advocating for old men to date them. So the 1% or less of female teachers who are creeps are bad but not the 30+ year old men here who want to date and sleep with those same girls aren't a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:23 AM |
| – | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionPost some examples of women saying ONLY men are perverts. And this is insane to say under a post of a man advocating for old men to date teenagers. A ton of 18 year olds are literally still in high school. Women are saying that's predatory and perverted and most of the men are saying "it's none of your business if I want to date high school aged girls". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:20 AM |
| 1 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionThe same thing I think about a high schooler flirting with their teacher, they're naive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenSo... women don't give you a magic spell, you're angry about it, "women suck, women evil, don't listen to women", redpill dudes who get no women know exactly how to get women and give better advice so listen to them not women, etc... stop asking for advice and stop listening to women then if that's what you want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:40 AM |
| – | did the woman lie?The matter is that he's now made two posts about it and can't share any details | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:34 AM |
| 0 | did the woman lie?No it must be fake because op refuses to link the original post and is making up hypotheticals whenever someone asks for more details about the original post. I think he is lying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 03:41 PM |
| 8 | Most people's dating advice to men is useless, ESPECIALLY advice given by womenCan we just make a daily thread for these dudes to moan about bad women advice? They repost this same topic every single day. We get it, you guys want women to give you a magic spell that makes every woman obsessed with you for no other reason than because you're a man, women don't give you a magic spell, you're angry about it, "women suck, women evil, don't listen to women", redpill dudes who get no women know exactly how to get women and give better advice so listen to them not women, etc... T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 03:02 PM |
| 5 | What parts of hypergamy do you disagree with?Something like 80% of users on dating apps are men. There aren't enough women to go around for every man. If she's looking for a relationship she's likely swiping on even less men and if you have "looking for a relationship", women who aren't mostly respect that and swipe left. You guys need to stop using dating apps as a metric. There are a ton of factors that influence the dynamics on there that you guys just ignore in favor of pushing your worldview. Dating apps should be proof that hypergamy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 10:46 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADIndeed lolol but a while ago now. I'm looking for love these days and it's unlikely to happen on OLD. Good luck to you though, I have a couple of friends who found their current long term partners online so it's not impossible! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 08:17 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADTrue, it's hard to rank! And I kindof figured it would be those, pretty common lol. I can relate like I like specific looks but it's not a hard rule and I've dated all over the place. People who look good just look good, it's more about the overall harmony than specific parts for me too but some stick out more than others. Thanks for the response! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 04:31 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI'm actually not sure about on the apps but it's helps my confidence when I don't get a jumpscare when I flip the camera on accident lol. Also if anyone asks for a selfie. I don't think it's terrible on your profile if it's just one amongst other pictures but I haven't been on OLD in over 5 years so can't speak for the ladies on there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 04:22 PM |
| 0 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADAnd you were right lol selfies in the mirror are definitely haram/sinful. Yeah I was just playing around in my phone settings one day and realized wow it actually makes me look better. I don't understand the science of it but it does have an effect. Let me know what you think if you find it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 03:19 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREAD<image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 03:01 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNo not a selfie in the mirror lol, the actual setting in your phone that makes the front camera take a mirrored image rather than a non mirrored image. And messy hair can be cute! Men have the luxury of looking good rugged. A lot of women like seeing men in action, just doing things. You don't have to be prim and clean but it depends on how you look in general. I'm really curious what you look like because everyone is their own worst critic. I still find it hard to say that I'm attractive even t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADFace but I don't care about symmetry, I like a unique look as long as it's harmonious, love a crooked smile. Eyes and facial hair are included. Thighsss (the thicker the better), arms, butt, and body hair I really like hairy men (but bald is hot too) ??? Accent I think. I'm really into thick southern accents like I could barely understand what my ex was saying sometimes lmao A deep voice is a plus but not necessary. I'm not too into deep set eyes, they look nice but I go for men with big doe eye… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:38 PM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNot everybody photographs well. I'm one of them, my action shots almost always look atrocious like Sméagol level hideous lmao. Back in my tinder days guys kept telling me I look better in person than in the photos lol but people can sense when your smile is genuine and it looks good. Try to get some candid photos of you doing things you really enjoy. Also I found out there's a setting on iPhone to mirror the front camera and I look less like a creature with it on for some reason. You should try … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:18 PM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI prefer men with dark features (an absolute SUCKER for big brown eyes, swoon) but I don't discriminate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Why is virgin used as an insult if sex and relationships are supposedly not important?Because they think or know it's hurtful and it's low hanging fruit because of gendered socialization. People insult someone to press their buttons and dudes have made it known that being a virgin is a huge insecurity that's beaten into men from youth. Same reason why men call women fat or ugly or a slut, because it's a common insecurity beaten into women from youth. If you're going to insult someone why go for something they may be confident in? Then it'll just roll off their back. Like you woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What was your longest dry streak?From puberty to around 22 boys/men didn't want to date me and puberty to 18 was an insane feverish hell of a dry spell. But since then my longest dry spell is right now by choice (necessity really), three and a half years and going strong. I can comprehend having a dry spell for years because I had one but I can't relate to never having anyone interested in me at all ever. I have sympathy for those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 01:45 PM |
| – | Women will clown on men based on what is acceptable at the momentNo someone being racist is not reflective of you as a person at all, she was just a racist. Thats on her and her bigotry. How could that have anything to do with you? You're not wrong for being asian. Nothing wrong with being old either but it is creepy for you to ask out significantly younger women. Could be predatory if you went after her specifically because of her age but either way you can't expect women who aren't fully mature to be mature about rejection. A sample size of two isn't reflec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 01:18 PM |
| – | Women will clown on men based on what is acceptable at the momentIt didn't take three hangouts for him to see that this woman he cold approached was a racist, he found out as soon as he approached her. If she was willing to say that stuff that quickly it's likely he could've found out by just trying to have a conversation with her and he could've spared his ego by doing that first instead of asking her out. And have you never hung out with people in a social setting before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 01:03 PM |
| – | Women will clown on men based on what is acceptable at the momentNot even last week, the Christian moralizing was like yesterday. But you better be careful, he's about to go super player and then you'll see... we'll all see! Once he transforms he's going to fool all of us PPD ladies in real world. By the powerrrr of chatgpt! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:56 PM |
| – | Women will clown on men based on what is acceptable at the momentGood luck dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:44 PM |
| 3 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?The carnal desires are so hot though when that's all you're both going for but everyone has their own preferences and views! Nothing wrong with that. I'm happy for you and your husband! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 06:54 AM |
| 1 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?It's not all it's cracked up to be speaking from my experience but it was fun and I'm glad I got to do it. No ragrets for me either lol but i also think about what could've been if I waited to have sex in a steady relationship. It seems like it would be nice to be someone's one and only and they mine but it just didn't work out that way for me so oh well. No point on dwelling on what ifs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 06:49 AM |
| 21 | "Missing out on being a hoe" - is this real?Also that they missed the opportunity to try things out (not just casual sex) when they were younger and had less responsibilities but the risks are far greater at a later age. Like dropping everything to travel the world or jumping around jobs to see which you're better suited for are much easier in your early 20's than when you're older and more established. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 06:42 AM |
| 6 | When women say they don't want dating to be transactional, they mean they don't want it to be that way for women onlyY'all, op said this is what they have in their bios. So why match with them at all if you can clearly see that they're superficial from their profile. This sub is so unserious lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 02:54 AM |
| – | Q4all: Do you think it's more common for women to be approached by sapphic women or for men to be approached by women?Thanks but I was pondering over the percentage of women who ask men out. None of that answers the question and it wasn't really a question at all since we don't have those numbers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 2 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.I dont think that's how that works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 06:53 PM |
| 4 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.I think there should be hoops and red tape when other people's money is involved. Why shouldn't there be? We have people starving to death out here, I'd rather my tax dollars go towards meeting people's basic needs over letting everyone get cosmetic plastic surgery willy nilly. It's only for your health if it causes significant distress, otherwise I don't care about people being just insecure about balding or having small boobs. Most people have insecurities and it's healthier to learn to accept… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Hair transplants are gender affirming care, and should therefore be subsidized in countries with socialized healthcare.Why not rock the Shemar Moore look? I think gray hair looks awesome though and love me a thick bald man as well. I don't think any of this cosmetic stuff should be covered by insurance. You can wear a hat or buy box dye from the dollar store. Not even trans gender affirming surgeries unless it's the last last resort (which it usually is as far as I know). This wouldn't be a conversation at all if we just had universal free healthcare, then it would be easier to save up for this extra stuff like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4all: Do you think it's more common for women to be approached by sapphic women or for men to be approached by women?Yeah true a lot of straight people act like the world will collapse if they don't follow gender norms lol. I do wonder about the actual percentages though because I used to approach men like men approach women back in the day. I know it's not super common but I too want to know how common it is for women to approach men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Q4all: Do you think it's more common for women to be approached by sapphic women or for men to be approached by women?I've never been approached by another woman before unfortunately! I've flirted, made out with friends here and there, and initiated (kindof) one time but never been asked out or shown real interest by a woman (besides my best friend lol) and I'm not even super "straight looking" or anything. I've asked men out before plenty though and there aren't that many women openly attracted to other women relative to the population so I'd say probably more common for men to be approached by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?Good lol I hope it stays that way! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?I'm just saying please don't tell specifically these guys in this sub to go there for women. I don't have a problem being approached or anything like that by "intuitive non-weirdos" as you put it, im hoping to find my future husband at a festival lol. I'm sure your married father friend is not a "woman hating incel" which is the kind of person I was talking about. But a ton of these guys in here are not intuitive and are weirdos. A lot of them literally write manifestos about how they want to hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 04:35 PM |
| 2 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?No he's just lying which is super ironic because he's trying to use his lie as evidence that women are liars lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?This is the reason why you see so many women saying they don't like men and don't want to be bothered at all. Because a lot of you don't even know the difference between being sexually attracted to someone and objectifying them and you're too closed minded to even want to learn the difference. You openly dehumanize women by reducing them to just a walking vagina and mock them for not enjoying being disrespected like that. A lot of you are too self centered to even listen to anyone else's perspec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 05:25 AM |
| -1 | Why are women suprised that men don't believe that women like men?Please don't tell these women hating incels in here that festivals are a good place to flirt with women. They're not welcome there. Bars and parties are whatever fine but we don't need an influx of angry men with violent revenge fantasies invading peaceful events and making people there uncomfortable. That's like the one place where I can go to dance and completely cut loose and not get harassed or groped and I'd like for it to stay that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.First, thank you for your thought out response. You're saying you don't want to be seen as a pig essentially? Have you been given reason to believe that the specific women/woman you're interested in would think that of you just from you asking her out? Like I said, cold approach could go either way but you're likely never going to see her again anyway if she rejects you so why would it matter what she thinks of you? For warm approach, friends or people in your circle, do they not already know yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.I literally just said "I'm just sharing what I see but your perspective is valid too". I don't disagree with anything you've said about mods being mean to men or whatever. You are the one discounting my perspective here and telling me the things I've seen with my own eyes "never happened". Your shock isn't the problem, it's you saying "this doesn't happen" after I just said I see it happen all the time. That's the part that's rude and condescending and annoying as fuck. I'm not doing that to you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.Go ahead and give the examples. Maybe they'll read my comments and ban me too lol it's probably for the best. Also it'll never not be crazy to me how I try to be understanding of others' perspectives and not outright dismiss your experiences just because they're different from my own but here you are saying "nope, the things you've seen never happen". It's rude as fuck lol. I haven't even seen any of your comments in here in months so clearly we must be looking at different posts. But anything t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.Aw thank you, I try, and same to you! But to be fair I'm also falling into the overall enshittification of society. It's hard to keep bringing nuance into conversations only to be called names or for them to completely ignore everything I say to complain about "but women suck!" It's like why am I trying to explain nuance to a brick wall lol feels pointless. Maybe that's why the sub is how it is now, people leaving because some of these takes are genuinely just too unsettling to even bother with … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:46 PM |
| – | What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive?Me too lol! Well I don't want to see a ghost in my house or be haunted but I so desperately want to see some proof of an afterlife. Me and my friend did a ouija board one time and nothing happened smh. Went to a tour of an old haunted building and nothing happened. My cousin said she saw our great grandma after she passed but I didn't :(. Been to cemeteries, live in a supposedly super haunted city lol and nothing! Maybe we need to find men who do ghosthunting as their primary hobby LOL. I won't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.I don't understand why they coddle redpill/blackpill men so hard then. Most of my qualms are with contentless rhetoric and that's just about every redpiller post and comment on here. I could count on half a hand how many people I've had genuine conversations with here in the past year. Everyone else just replies in off topic whining and our non RP mod overlords don't do anything about it. Maybe they're trying not to look biased or something idk but I'm so curious about the shift. And yeah I get … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.It definitely does devolve into that sometimes. Me and this one dude went at each other pretty hard like a month or so ago and nothing happened. I've been waiting on my earned ban but to no avail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.I got banned for telling someone who was coping that they were coping lol. Then reported others for saying it and nothing happened. Not even favoring the men, they coddle the incels/blackpill dudes (bit redundant) specifically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.I didn't even know there was a discord but yeah I only see like 3 of the mods in the wild here lol. I just went and counted, there are 20+ of them! Even if somebody left it doesn't make sense. Maybe they're just tired of the bs and gave up on it. That sucks pretty bad if the rumor is true but like what do you expect from the cretins in this sub (unless they got doxxed or something). They threaten and attack in the comments too. I'd be willing to help them clean out the reports cache if that's wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.I really wonder what happened because there was a big shift at some point. I've started just responding with downvotes and personal attacks because fuck it! If they don't have to follow the rules then the rules are null and I don't have to either. I'm just wondering when the sub will be shut down for the rampant misogyny and threats since they leave it all up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 01:50 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairThat's because the contrast between a bare face and a face of makeup does make you look tired. If you're hiding your dark circles and blemishes every day, of course it'll be a shock (mildly) to see your natural face. I don't wear makeup at all and people only tell me I look tired on days when I'm legitimately drained and out of it. If you stopped wearing it then people would be used to seeing your natural face. You'd just look normal rather than tired. This one is on you ladies who choose to wea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 01:38 PM |
| 5 | CMV: The concept of "financial celibacy" is petty and unfairI think it's unfair to expect men to spend their money on a stranger, especially in this economy. It's so ironic to say "if you're broke just say that" after you just got done whining for someone to pay for you. That's broke behavior. And the makeup thing is really ridiculous. Nobody is forcing women to spend a bag on makeup on dates. I've never worn makeup a day in my life and have no problem attracting men. Sure it helps that I'm pretty but the 90% or so of women who regularly wear makeup aren… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 01:23 PM |
| 4 | Cheating on your partner sometimes without telling them is probably more sustainable than an open relationshipOf course he would I'm sure. It would be good for him for his wife to cheat on him behind his back according to his logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.Feelings over facts seems to be the motto around here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 12:55 PM |
| – | Preferences make sense when it’s about characteristics that aren’t immutable, otherwise it’s bigotry. Dating is also the most socially acceptable form of being a bigot, and nothing will really change that.Idk I don't think it's bigoted to not want to date someone with a particular mental illness as an example. I wouldn't date someone with gender dysphoria or body dysmorphia, the former because I know I would slip up often and I wouldn't want to do that to them and the latter because my body would probably be triggering to them. People can have valid practical reasons for not dating someone with certain immutable traits, that aren't based in prejudice. Race and sexuality (bi specifically) are diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 12:54 PM |
| 43 | Apparently women dislike it when their male friends reveal feelings for themNothing. They said it's perfectly reasonable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 12:32 PM |
| – | What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive?A lot of hunters either eat or sell the animal too at least where I'm from. It's not like they're just killing animals willy nilly for fun and leaving the body there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 12:25 PM |
| – | What are some hobbies that are an immediate turn-off for you and where do you draw the line between a hobby being acceptable or unattractive?Yep I came here to say gun collectors specifically. I would say I wouldn't mind if they were defunct historical pieces but even then, I don't want to live in a house with a bunch of weapons that have killed actual people. I wouldn't be able to stop thinking about it and feeling sad and scared of being haunted. Maybe if he had a separate building to keep them in or something it would be fine. Functioning guns absolutely not because I value my life and what if we have kids, fuck no. But that's the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.Do you have proof that it's gotten worse or you're just going off of your "feelings"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:52 AM |
| 10 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.Don't waste your breath, people break the rules all the time and they allow it. I've reported a ton of contentless rhetoric and bad faith posters and they never do anything about it. This sub is just for blackpill men to post manifestos and shit on women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Bisexual men represent the biggest share of bluepill men on PPD, yet women overwhelmingly are disgusted by the idea of dating a bisexual man.Being disgusted by people who are attracted to the same sex is bigotry plain and simple. Idk why you guys argue this so hard, it is what it is. People are allowed to reject bi people for sex and dating. Idk why you need to pretend it's not biphobia when it so clearly is. I get being uncomfortable by something you're not used to if you've been under a rock your whole life and never heard of gay sex but to be disgusted?? What's disgusting about gay sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.in person cold or warm approach is hard because once you do they know you tried to ask them out and forever changes how they look at you. Im asking what's the problem with this that you just said in your other comment? Women "not knowing your struggle" or whatever is a separate issue. What's wrong with asking someone out and it "forever changing how they look at you" unless you're trying to be friends with them? This just sounds like a super dramatic way of saying they'll know you like them and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?It literally says "search 24 matches" lol that's not 100's. I think everyone's says "99+ people like you", it's called a marketing strategy to get people to buy tinder gold and I can see why it works on you guys lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.That's also off topic. Do you think it's unreasonable (NOT unfair) for people to want to be with someone they're attracted to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.That's just the risk you run when you're trying to date people. Unless you're trying to be friends with them I don't get what the problem is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 06:59 PM |
| -1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.No shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 06:24 PM |
| 0 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.You don't have to take a break if you don't want to, I'm not forcing you. Mods never do shit around here anyway. I know this is the only way you can talk to women at all and I can't take that away from you. I'm just pointing out how crazy it is that you come on here every single day commenting on every post and every comment about stuff that's completely off topic just to shit on women because you have unresolved mommy issues is all. I don't ever see anyone else do that, not even your fellow inc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.Dude what's your problem? You're in every single post on every single comment with this mess. I'm chronically online myself but every single post i see you're all over the comments spewing weird contentless rhetoric. Take a break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:36 PM |
| -1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.LCD Soundsystem lol. And yeah not everybody will be into you, that's life. It's just easier to show your good qualities in person than on a damn screen through curated pictures and a shitty bio. You can't smell someone through a screen, hear their voice, see their mannerisms. All of that factors into attraction. Plus you can still get rejected if you meet on a dating app then meet up in person. Not like you're going to text them forever, they have to see you in person eventually and sooner rathe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:34 PM |
| 3 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.They're talking about two different things. She's saying that it's reasonable to want to be with someone you're attracted to and he's off topic saying it's hard to find somebody who's attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:19 PM |
| 4 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.Also the fear of being cheated on because slim blondes are a dime a dozen and if any "slim blonde" will do then who's to say he won't leave you for the next woman. I stay away from men who list out their physical preferences like that in general because it's shallow as hell if you're looking for an actual partner and not just someone to fuck. Plus on a dating app you literally can just swipe on anyone who doesn't match your preference, there's no point in putting it in your bio. Same goes for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.Doesn't matter that the study is like 15+ years old and used a tiny sample size either lol. They went from "women only find 20% of men attractive and settle for the rest" to "less than 20% of men can get a relationship or attention from women at all" and both are wrong. Theyre genuinely delusional in this sub lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Being successful at dating in 2026 requires MUCH more than looks and skills most men cant even fathom yet.I think we'd all be better off if the sour grapes people just dropped out of dating. Too many people have a ton of negative experiences, I think it's fair for them to want to opt out altogether. We have too many people on the planet anyway because of the baby boom. I just see it as nature course correcting. Definitely fringe though, like 70% of people are partnered in my country and a bunch of the 30% are actively seeking a partner(s). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 01:49 PM |
| – | We often mistake THC-induced introspection for paranoia, but from a growth perspective, it's actually ego-auditing and super importantWhy do you feel like I'm lecturing you? I'm just talking about the benefits of these things same as you are. We're having a conversation here... a back and forth. You share potential benefits and your perspective, I share potential benefits and my perspective. I'm not going to tell you all the things I've learned about myself because I don't want to. I don't know you or anybody else here. I don't even tell my friends the things I've learned about myself during trips because it's very personal. Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 01:43 PM |
| – | We often mistake THC-induced introspection for paranoia, but from a growth perspective, it's actually ego-auditing and super importantYou just said The negative side effects are usually just the biological cost of processing years of suppressed self-awareness in a single night". I'm just pointing out that weed can have actual physical risks caused by overstimulation of thc receptors in your gut and it's not caused by introspection or processing it. Not arguing a strawman, I just wanted to get the word out to people that there can be damaging physical effects because I didn't even know what CHS was or that it was a thing until … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 01:19 PM |
| – | We often mistake THC-induced introspection for paranoia, but from a growth perspective, it's actually ego-auditing and super importantVery personal lol! And not new things, stuff I realized about my own behavior and a solidification of some of my beliefs. Vague I know but I don't care to share the fine details of my psyche with anyone. The connection to nature (shrooms are really good for this) itself humbles you. That's a big one I don't mind sharing here. You realize how insignificant and small you are in the grand scheme of things and, ironically, the significance of that. And not to sound like a hippie lol (I am) but you f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 01:03 PM |
| 3 | Question for Blue Pill: If kindness is as important when it comes to attraction as the mainstream says, how do you explain all these horrible men having girlfriends?The suicide forest thing was super shitty as well. One of them literally filmed someone's dead body and put it on the internet for clout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Question for Blue Pill: If kindness is as important when it comes to attraction as the mainstream says, how do you explain all these horrible men having girlfriends?It's just the cycle of abuse. When you grow up in a shit abusive family, you don't know what to look for in a partner to find someone good. And abusers specifically target people like this. You get addicted to the rollercoaster in childhood and when you grow up a healthy calm feels wrong. Lots of people like this get left by genuinely good partners because they (unintentionally sometimes) cause drama because that's what they think love is, the constant swing of ups and downs. Lots of people come… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 12:27 PM |
| 5 | Question for Blue Pill: If kindness is as important when it comes to attraction as the mainstream says, how do you explain all these horrible men having girlfriends?It's not an equivalence at all, it's an analogy. And you can choose to have sex with someone you're not attracted to. Prostitution wouldn't exist if that weren't true. 2 is a generalization. It's true for some, not for others. 3, famous people are weird as fuck. Look at diddy and all of the people who attended his parties. Look how often they cheat and get taken back and remarry 50 times. People born into that are not normal people with normal views, desires, and priorities. They can't be compar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Question for Blue Pill: If kindness is as important when it comes to attraction as the mainstream says, how do you explain all these horrible men having girlfriends?Tons of clout chasers out there as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 12:04 PM |
| – | We often mistake THC-induced introspection for paranoia, but from a growth perspective, it's actually ego-auditing and super importantNo, weed can cause Cannabis Hyperemesis Symdrome and mental addiction if you overdo it. Doesn't give you ego death either. You still have to do the work to direct the introspection in a healthy way. It's your ego that's causing you to speak on this as an authority and to be so confidently incorrect about "the biological cost of suppressed self awareness" or to think you have all the answers in weed as a miracle cure to ego. The most egotistical and full of themselves people I've ever met did wee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 12:01 PM |
| – | We often mistake THC-induced introspection for paranoia, but from a growth perspective, it's actually ego-auditing and super importantThis is going to get taken down I think because it's not about dating. Weed facilitates introspection but it doesn't cause it. It leads the horse to the water so to speak but you still have to choose to drink it. And it can cause or worsen actual anxiety, I got the worst panic attack of my life from smoking one time. Had to go to urgent care because I legitimately thought I was having a heart attack. Psychedelics, on the other hand, are a beast at ego dissolution. If you take a high enough dose … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 11:54 AM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyI can't speak on every single person in tech but I knew a guy who did pretty good for himself in the industry and wasn't an idiot. I guess the bar used to be higher some years ago (maybe) but I can see how "braindead" people get in now with all of the AI and assistance tools we have. What do you consider as in the tech industry? I'm thinking of software developers and the people who actually build stuff, not dumbass tech bros and crypto shills but I'm not in the industry and don't know much abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 06:37 PM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyI only mentioned tech because the woman in question is in tech and that's likely where she's looking. I didn't say "tech is the only place you can find 130 IQ" but thanks for adding the extra examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 04:13 PM |
| 7 | Most male-female friendships are built upon a foundation of female deceptionI've offered to clean my guy friends' houses. I begged two of my guy friends who lived together to let me deep clean their bathroom because it was gross and they didn't want me to but I've cleaned their kitchen for them, did the dishes, mended clothes for them. I've paid for them when we were out. I don't cook much but I share when I have food or we all pitch in on an uber eats order. I brought food over for the Super Bowl last year that my friends destroyed. My other friend who loves to cook al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 06:20 PM |
| 4 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Well I'm a woman calling out other women for shaming men. That's what I just did in the comment that you responded to so idk what you're on about. Idk what you want me to do about other women's behavior. I call it out when I see it and that's all I can do. Do you want me to physically fight them? What kind of response do you expect me to give to that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Those examples you used aren't shaming, just stating a preference. Of all the examples you could've used those are the worst. It's shaming when women say shit like "how dare you think you're on my level to approach me" or "short men should be bred out of the gene pool" or whatever. Going online (not even singling out a man or saying it to someone specific) to say that men shouldn't approach in public isn't shaming at all what the hell. That's like saying it's shaming when men say they wish women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:23 AM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I'm not missing anything, I said what I said. Shaming other people because they don't fit your preference is wrong regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Why is slut shaming wrong?It's wrong for moral reasons. Slut shaming isn't a math equation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 10:40 AM |
| 7 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Not trying to start an argument, can I ask why you mention gender identity in conjunction with sexual orientation and sexual desire? The way I see it is how someone identifies regarding their gender is completely different from who people are attracted to or have sex with. I've never understood why people always lump them together when they're seemingly very different so I'm asking for clarification! I completely agree with everything you said though. It's wrong to shame people who aren't your p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 10:37 AM |
| 13 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I think they're wrong for doing that too. Shaming other people because they don't fit your preference is wrong regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 10:24 AM |
| – | 🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀I'm monogamous all the way but I like to hear about how other people do things (I'm nosy lol). Do your partners date each other as well or other people? And that's very convenient that you have partners in different countries and can stay with either of them lol. But it's sad that one of them left and now you have to split your time. Very interesting, thank you for sharing! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 10:22 AM |
| – | Women have given up on dating menThat's not the worst that can happen but I agree it's still worth it to pursue happiness. It's hard not to let the stuff in this sub get to you but there are plenty of decent people in the world. I agree with op that all of this red/blackpill stuff seeping out into the mainstream is turning a ton of women off and it doesn't help that these guys say stuff like "most men are redpill but don't talk about it offline". Its just driving a wedge further and further and women are already scared of men h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:42 PM |
| – | Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring.its about benefitting them in some way. Is that a problem to you? Or are you just stating the obvious? I feel like you're implying that's a bad thing but it's common sense like human interaction 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:33 PM |
| – | Women who hate video games and reject guys because of it aren't mature, they're just boring.Reading expands your vocabulary and makes you more imaginative so... better communication? How dare women enjoy when men do things they like!!! Seriously, I don't understand this conversation at all from their point of view. Nobody in the entire world hangs around people who are a net negative to them except for those with very poor self esteem and like family members and even then. Are we supposed to date men as a favor to them or just like them because of the mere fact that they're a man? I'm … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you genuinely expect your partner to lay down their life for you if push came to shove?I don't think I could live with the survivor's guilt but if we were married I'd expect him to try because that's the type of man I'd want to marry. I was raised by my very chivalrous dad so I'd do the same for my man. If he was killed I'd probably get killed right after because of my reaction to it which would be a waste on his part. The titanic situation, we'd just switch places. I take the raft for two minutes, then him, switch and keep doing that until we see a boat or one of us dies. The ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | 🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀I choose to speak with kindness and compassion, but that's not to please you. This is actually something I've been struggling with lately, trying to differentiate between the two. Thank you for this! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | 🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀Can you elaborate? I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Changing your behavior does not earn you a relationship, only validationSo every man on the planet is unattractive, boring, and has absolutely nothing going for them? Okay gotcha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enoughLmfao y'all are praising a glorified John with a dead end service industry job who has to bribe women (young women at that because older women know better and aren't interested) to have sex with him. Explain how that isn't shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enoughThey'll see when they're 30 and want something real but nobody wants a man who spent his entire 20's chasing shallow sex (and failing). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Changing your behavior does not earn you a relationship, only validationThis is definitely true for men who have nothing at all to offer but that's not all men, not even most. Lots of men get in relationships with women who are genuinely interested in them because they are genuinely interesting people. If you're unattractive, boring, and have absolutely nothing going for you then sure you'll only be able to attract gold diggers and prostitutes with money because there's nothing else interesting about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:40 AM |
| 3 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Nobody is even talking about that in this thread. Make your own post if you want to discuss a different topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:09 AM |
| 5 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.No, women will say whatever we need to say. I don't care what you think about it because you're not the one being asked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 08:25 PM |
| 7 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.No point, they don't know what it's like and refuse to listen to anyone who does so let them be ignorant. It's just like when a homeless person comes up and asks for money and people tell them they don't have cash "well fucking tell the truth then!!1!" And then when women tell the truth and say "no youre ugly and have nothing to offer" they throw a toddler pissy fit about how women are so mean and cruel! You can't explain these things to people who don't have the capacity to understand them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 08:22 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵I think that's my cue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:25 AM |
| 2 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.I got cold approached more this year than last and I'm literally a recluse lol. The cold approach is alive and well for better or worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:35 AM |
| 21 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.They mean the same thing, "I'm not interested". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:23 AM |
| 9 | The days of men cold approaching random women in streets, malls, and grocery stores left and right are long gone and will never come back.Yeah duh shes the common denominator because straight men hit on women and she's a woman. And likely pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:21 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Isn't that the point though lol the mods get to take a break during purge week I thought. They might as well toss the no trolling and no personal attacks rules too then. Thanks for letting me know! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:18 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵That's correct. I was just emphasizing that obviously looksmaxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxing works because people like attractive people. Hence me saying "yes," instead of "no,". I also don't want to be accused of "concealing the truth" or lying so I stated the obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 02:59 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Any idea why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 02:53 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵It's not my fault, it's the hysteria! And I'll take my chances being thrown in the water over the pyre lol. I'm a pretty strong swimmer underwater, I think I could escape | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 02:53 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Nooo :( do you know why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 02:50 AM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵They just decided like a year ago to implement age screening for viewers and people posting on some porn sites and the government is currently trying their hardest to cover up a massive pedophile trafficking ring (and the president's rape cases). I doubt they care all that much about curtailing depravity but it's worth a try I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:15 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Dark triad traits Narcissism specifically correlates with extroversion which is what's actually attractive to people. The other dark triad traits are found to be detrimental in both long and short term relationships so you guys can stop saying that now. And yes, women are attracted to handsome men and not attracted to ugly men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:10 PM |
| – | DISCUSSION🗨️ ABOUT MAIN PPD POSTS📮, LOOKS👀, AND N-COUNT🔢 ARE RESTRICTED🚫 FROM THE DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD🧵Hijacking this comment to ask if anyone knows when the next purge is?? And the survey? There's been a clear shift this year and I'm curious about the demographics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:05 PM |
| 2 | The cock sharing pact between alphas and mid-tier carousel casualties is fucking dead.Do you know when the next purge is or do we not do that anymore since people are now allowed to post disingenuous and ridiculous crap every day? Also the survey? I think I missed it this year and can't remember what time of year it comes around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:04 PM |
| 3 | The cock sharing pact between alphas and mid-tier carousel casualties is fucking dead.It's still there lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 05:59 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?Can you rephrase that and add proper punctuation so it's more coherent? What's going on in here, why are you guys deteriorating like this?? Being able to recognize examples are a signal of higher intelligence, you, as opposite to understand that the example is showing how picking more than you give is not a benefit try to take the example as face value in an emotional way This doesn't make any fucking sense dude hello? Are you calling me dumb lmfao I'm so confused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 05:47 PM |
| – | Would the semi egalitarian relationship model be something that would appeal to women?That's why he's married and not a redpill man lol. It's not that formulaic for most people, it just happens that way. Whatever works best for the couple should be the ultimate goal. And kids play a huge part but these guys in here have zero logic or forward thinking skills to understand that. Women make less on average and biology dictates women stay close to the children for at least the first two years so that's usually the way it shakes out. I don't know why we need to "retain some patriarcha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?It's self insert fanfiction. This reads exactly like the one direction y/n fanfics I used to read back in the day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?Why don't you just fuck men dude seriously. I'm not bashing you for it or anything, it's just clear in the way you're writing that you have a deep sexual interest in these men's bodies that you're projecting onto women. Like you're writing all of these juicy details about licking all over his rippling muscles or whatever and how you want to wrap yourself around him and it's very on the nose. This is self insert fanfiction lol. If you're that jealous of women then just go try Chad out for yoursel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:50 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?Explain what that has to do with anything I typed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:38 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?I disagree with that. We take care of them, not treat them as second class citizens but this might just be semantics. I don't consider it treating them as lesser. Women have the same responsibilities as men if not more since women are expected to be caretakers of everyone else around them. Idk how men get off saying women have no responsibilities when half (more really) of married men would starve and live in filth without a wife to do the cooking and cleaning (and scheduling/planning, childcare… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:36 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?The rates are higher partially because it's addressed more. We have words for this stuff now and it's not as taboo to talk about anymore. And it was like the Wild West with drugs before they realized how unhealthy they were and started scheduling them. They used to put actual cocaine in Coca Cola and they prescribed a bunch of crazy shit to people for what we understand now as mental illnesses. You should really read up on history a bit (especially before speaking on it!). It's super interesting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:25 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?Do you think that is right to treat someone that have no responsibilities the same as the person that is Yes. We don't treat children like shit just because they have no responsibilities. And women literally do have responsibilities so that's a stupid argument. Every individual man isn't "carrying the world" either so that is too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:08 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?Men supporting women's rights means more women paying the taxes that fund shelters. That's a benefit to men. There are plenty of men only shelters and plenty of mixed shelters as well. The resources are out there. Y'all are just mad that women aren't holding your hand and walking you to them. If you can get on reddit and type this nonsense you can go use google and find them yourself. And she literally just said she works for a charity that survives without government funding. You're just mad th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 01:03 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?There literally are men's crisis shelters. The Salvation Army has one and tons of local ministries run them. You must not have looked for any. Literally google "men's only shelters" and it will give you a ton of lists for men's only shelters in your city or state. This is why I think y'all don't actually care about this stuff because it's out there but yet you guys keep perpetuating this lie that "nasty feminists are going to shut it down!!!1!" They haven't shut down the ones that currently exis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 12:59 PM |
| – | What tangible benefits do men get by caring about womens rights?Having a larger percentage of custody of your own children isn't equivalent to stealing 50 coins from someone at all. This is a benefit for men who care about and their children. It doesn't hurt deadbeats either because they still have the option to not share custody. None of this has to do with divorce, those are separate issues. It's a good thing for divorce to be more normalized so people (both women and men) have an easier time leaving an abusive spouse. That alone is a benefit. Even in case… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 12:31 PM |
| 0 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyFucking hypocrite lmfao... Anyways like I said, you guys are deluded to think people saying "looks aren't the only thing that matters" is the same as "looks don't matter at all". A lot of y'all in this sub struggle supremely with social interaction and reality in general. You can see it in how so many of you feel you've been lied to by your moms telling you to be nice to girls when you were children, how you can't seem to get over it even well into adulthood, and you can see it in how a ton of d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't I think your average women has an edge with tolerating singleness that most men could never get, because of their easier access to FWB and ONS?There are already plenty of average or below (imo) looking dudes who have ONS with women who are attracted to them, it's not like only the hottest of guys get to do ONS. The ones getting left in the dust are usually the shut ins and dudes who have supremely poor social skills (the redpill type oops). These guys just don't seem to understand that women having more options than them is because men are so freaking desperate for sex. It's like they keep saying "women have alllllll these options it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 12:02 PM |
| – | Would the semi egalitarian relationship model be something that would appeal to women?Yeah it's the same here. People who do move usually move in the beginning stages of a marriage or deep into a relationship but before kids when it's easier to uproot. Military families move around together a lot due to the job. I'm not sure how common it is with everyone else but I just know it's a thing that some people do, before they get settled. And idk of anyone that got alimony but I know of some men who didn't pay child support. And agreed, I don't care if he makes more or less as long as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 11:46 AM |
| 5 | Why shouldn't I think your average women has an edge with tolerating singleness that most men could never get, because of their easier access to FWB and ONS?Women who are interested in ONS are a small fraction of women. There aren't enough women to go around for all of the men who want that so of course some of them are going to get left in the dust. That's off topic though, has nothing to do with the fact that women have "easier access" (disgusting phrasing) to these things than men because women aren't as interested in ONS as men. Women have their pick of the litter because there is a litter. If men stopped presenting themselves as options then wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't I think your average women has an edge with tolerating singleness that most men could never get, because of their easier access to FWB and ONS?Its really funny that they quietly got rid of the CMV tag lol. To answer op, think whatever you want dude. It's not like you're actually here to change your mind. You're going to assume a narrative about all women and pretend we're all carbon copies of each other regardless. Whatever, go ahead and think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 02:04 PM |
| 3 | Would the semi egalitarian relationship model be something that would appeal to women?Tons of women do. This is the norm in my country, the man makes a little more but they both work. Lots of people regardless of gender move for their partner's job, usually if they can survive off one income or if the other person has a flexible or low barrier to entry job like in the service industry. Why do you need to ask if women would be into this? There are billions of people in the world, you can find people into literally any and every arrangement you could imagine and this one is literal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 01:36 PM |
| 20 | Would the semi egalitarian relationship model be something that would appeal to women?I just want to be with someone who's willing to put in at least an equal amount of effort to what I'm willing to put in. Whoever makes more doesn't matter to me as long as we both work and contribute. I'd like a man that will fill in for my shortcomings and I for his. If I don't feel like cooking and he does, great! If neither of us do let's get takeout or something or let's suffer through it together. Let's both clean up after ourselves. Put our dirty dishes in the dishwasher or sink or wash th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 01:28 PM |
| 4 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyYou're livid because you feel rejected. All this sounds like is you guys complaining that you don't fit her standards and you're mad about it. A hobo with a trophy wife doesn't affect literally anybody but them and maybe the people close to them. It says a whole lot that you're legitimately angry about how random people live their lives, shit that doesn't affect you. So what if she wants a smart and fit 6'2 dude who eats meat, loves plants, and is very giving? This isn't an insane list just beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 12:06 PM |
| 1 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyOf all the lists they could've used to show a woman with high standards this is about the stupidest one lol. These are all very normal things to want in a partner besides the 130 IQ (which is doable if she's going for a dude in tech). All there is to this conversation is these dudes are angry because they don't meet those standards or any woman's usually. They turn it around and say women are evil because it's easier than self reflecting and admitting that she's not demanding anything from men, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 11:59 AM |
| 2 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyPart of the reason why confidence is attractive is because of the internal effort and work it takes. Confidence is self-assurance which is the opposite of external reinforcement. Being smooth carries because you don't need external reinforcement. Nobody (except for people who are controlling) wants to be with someone who crumbles at adversity or constantly molds themself to others' opinions. And like the other commenter said, this is not new information to anybody over the age of like 10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 11:09 AM |
| 0 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapyThis is the weakest argument ever and you guys always throw this out whenever you have nothing else to say. "Well I don't/men shouldn't listen to women anyway" makes no sense in response to someone saying looks have always mattered. You guys are deluded to think that people saying "looks aren't the only thing that matters" is the same as "looks don't matter at all". You already don't listen to women and you're mad about the assumptions you came up with. But like that other commenter said, y'all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 10:37 AM |
| – | A lot of young men are leaning conservative simply because leftists/liberals aren’t making it a point to speak directly to men, like they do to other groups, which conservatives take advantage ofIf a black woman just being in higher office (Michelle Obama wasn't even in office, she was First Lady) constitutes as speaking directly to black women and our issues, then hundreds of years of white men in higher office speaks directly to white men. I could just as easily say you must've missed trump, Biden, Bush 2, Reagan, Carter, Ford, Nixon, Johnson, Kennedy... Do you see the flaw in your logic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 12:19 PM |
| 2 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?That's not my opinion. Those are factual statements. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?No dude, what's crazy is that women are saying specifically "I don't view orgasms as emotionally connecting, doesn't work that way for me" and you're saying "I disagree that you feel that way. I think it actually doesn't work the way that you're telling me it works for you". How can you disagree with someone telling you how they feel? You wouldn't have loved your ex less if he could make you cum more, and you would've liked the other dudes less if they didnt make you cum. You're telling me how I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?Oh okay so now you're changing your initial statement? Originally you said the orgasm itself is what bonds you but now you're saying it's the whole act. I was madly in love with my last ex and he made me cum less than other partners I've been with in the past who I didn't love or "bond" with. Chemicals in the brain don't work the way you think they do. Like I said, when you have sex you see how it really works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 07:53 PM |
| 9 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itYes you did. Is it not bad to "blindside women and use them as beards"? You sound like you just learned what a beard is but didn't look into the actual history and why they did that at all. Gay marriage is legal now... Gay people are openly gay for the most part. Nowhere near as much systemic discrimination as in the past. And tons of the men who did this (when this was A Thing) did it with willing partners. Lots of gay men and lesbians married each other for safety in public and behind closed d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 12:25 PM |
| 9 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itYeah this is all over the place. I'm convinced it's just tictock brain rot any time people start going crazy with a new fear or insecurity. They keep saying "thousands of cases!!!" out of... billions of people? Millions in my city alone. Algorithm must be pushing these beard stories and people are running with it. Homophobia is so back in style unfortunately. Can't have the y2k trend without anorexia and homophobia! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?Nobody is saying they don't have an emotional connection with their man. They're saying that the orgasm itself is not what's causing the connection. When you have sex you see that the entire act itself (or even just spending time with someone at all) facilitates a bond. You guys are clueless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?The wombo combo is tooooo intense for me 9 times out of 10. I get scared lol and then I lose the momentum. But this is what we mean when we say dudes don't understand women's sexuality at all. They really think there's a one size fits all cheat code for women. Piv + orgasm = animalistic imprinting bond. Clit stimulation + orgasm = normal orgasm no bond. Weird. It's not even one size fits all for me lol. It's not a mathematical calculation or a video game button combination, it's a journey every … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:50 AM |
| 3 | Ladies: Do PiV orgasms feel more intense or emotionally connecting than clitoral orgasms?And some males in here have a tendency to speak on things they have zero experience in. Maybe you've never made a woman cum from piv, that doesnt mean there aren't other men who can and have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:38 AM |
| 2 | What are you’re thoughts on Ice Spice outfit at the SpongeBob Premiere?I think she looks great but not appropriate for a kids event. Question is, is this premiere a kids event? She didn't go to any regular old theater with kids wearing this or she likely would've been kicked out. It's a celebrity event and we know celebrities are weird as fuck. They always dress like this, even at awards shows and things where they bring their kids. What is your argument? You found one woman wearing lingerie to a celebrity event and that means what exactly? That women should shut u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:34 AM |
| 24 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itIt's just homophobia and that's all there is to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:00 AM |
| 19 | So many women are married to gay men and they don't realize itWhat are you basing this on? Trust me bro? Y'all really need to stop with the homophobia and sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 10:58 AM |
| 4 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsI've gotten on my dad about it a bunch of times and me and my stepmom are always rolling our eyes together behind his back lol. Love him and he definitely contributes in his own way (make no mistake, he's a good man) but it's just hard to see a woman on her feet from the time she wakes up to the time she goes to sleep while the man just lays around. I've started to mind my own business lol because they have their arrangement and it works for them but that could never be me in my relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:51 PM |
| 2 | My theory about why women do not usually look for stay at home husbandsSame it actually makes me mad lol. It's like 100° in the kitchen and the women are in there slaving away into the wee hours of the night. I'm a little of a tomboy myself and I hate that being helpful is seen as a woman's role. It's not feminine or masculine to throw your own damn plate away and help wash dishes so it gets done quicker and everyone can sit down and relax together. Like the point of holidays are to spend time with each other but the women are in the kitchen and the men are in a se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay?If that's the case then it's way more expensive to eat or get a good night's sleep than it is to plan and attend a date. I don't think most people see it that way, that their time costs actual money. It's an interesting perspective. I personally think genuine human connection is worth more than any amount you might pay a prostitute but it's clear we just have very different values. That still doesn't answer my question. Why not just offer free dates? Even from your perspective, a free date would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 08:28 PM |
| – | Ladies, what are the top 3 things your partner does in bed that guarantee an orgasm?Yes definitely! I've been with my fair share of guys like that and it's such a double whammy it doesn't feel good and on top of that now I'm annoyed lol. The pointy tongue specifically comes to mind. I have an experience seared into my brain where I told a guy that doesn't feel good at all, please flatten your tongue and he did it and even asked if he was doing it correctly. Only to immediately go back to the pointy right after I said yes. Like?! Get off of me lol! Some men have too much porn on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 05:10 AM |
| 1 | How can we reconcile "Don't go out just to meet women." and "Get outside your comfort zone [if you want to meet women]." as dating advice for men?I've actually never seen that definition before. I thought it strictly meant like antagonistic to society. I wonder if they just added the colloquial definition since people use it that way all the time but I stand corrected! And I still agree with your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | What is great about therapy?But psychotherapy is not for everyone or for every problem. There is scant evidence that therapy can help people with antisocial personality traits. Being a mean, selfish jerk who constantly puts your own needs ahead of the needs of other people is not "fixable" through psychotherapy. Just read the link you sent oops but yeah I definitely agree with you that a lot of these redpill men can't be helped with therapy based off what the author of that article wrote. He's pretty much saying that thera… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 06:39 PM |
| 2 | What is great about therapy?Right, all the talk about "women don't have empathy, they don't try to help men!!!!!" and then when we try to help men it's somehow "trying to turn men into women" and "men should never go to a feeeeemale psychologist". Make it make sense! Also how they openly admit that most psychologists are women, like, so you're admitting that a ton of women go to school for 6+ years to study the psychology of the human mind and help people with their mental health and that men overwhelmingly don't? But wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay?Oof I was a combination of both lol. Looking back now I was a bit of a wreck sometimes if the first one wasn't kicking in fast enough I'd get another and then I'm trying to leave the first location and go dance somewhere. Yeah it might be too late if you ghosted lol but maybe not. Next time try to see if there's anything she likes to do and suggest that. I love dancing so it was always a yes when someone invited me to go out on the town for example. Or if she mentions wanting to try a new activi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 06:05 PM |
| 2 | How can we reconcile "Don't go out just to meet women." and "Get outside your comfort zone [if you want to meet women]." as dating advice for men?You're using antisocial incorrectly but I agree with your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 05:51 PM |
| 3 | What is great about therapy?You don't know every man in the world. Plenty of men I know say that it is beneficial. Also "no men I know" / "the one guy who had a positive experience". So you lied. There is a man you know who's had a positive experience. But therapy is somehow a scam even if it can help damaged ass military veterans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay?You've had women scrolling Instagram on dates before? That sounds annoying as hell, I'd just ask for my check and leave. I can't stand when people do this. My best friend used to scroll when we hung out even sometimes in the middle of me talking and it always pissed me off. Rude as hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay?Then why not just hire a prostitute? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:11 PM |
| 3 | Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay?Why not only offer free dates? I think they're usually better for getting to know someone anyway. I've been on lots of free dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:11 PM |
| 5 | Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay?Yeah alcohol is super effective on the anxiety for me. I also hated going on sit down dates because of it. I've had guys ask me if I'm okay on restaurant dates because i kept looking around nervously and wringing my hands and stuff lmao. I've even had a couple of guys I was interested in say I looked scared and like I was going to bolt. "You keep looking at the door" lol. It's nerve wracking to sit across from someone you don't know that well getting asked questions over a plate of food. And I'v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:09 PM |
| – | Ladies, what are the top 3 things your partner does in bed that guarantee an orgasm?I unlocked something in myself years ago and I'm almost guaranteed to have an orgasm (multiple) every time from piv but some things hurt the chances. 1. Foreplay helps with the connection and the anticipation of getting to the main act does wonders 2. Him being open to learning and not thinking he has the magic key that can make any woman cum, actually paying attention to me and what feels good for me in that moment and 3. Consistency as others have said, the switch up is where orgasms go to die… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:55 PM |
| – | Ladies, what are the top 3 things your partner does in bed that guarantee an orgasm?Lol! The angles where his dick is like sideways in there because they're trying to get a shot of it going in are so annoying. Ametuer straight videos are so much better than the big production stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Q4 Purple Pill: What does purple pill mean to you?I agree with the common sense tenets of redpill like people are attracted to attractive people and exercise is healthy but that's about it. The female nature stuff that it's based on is bs because nurture plays a bigger role in people's behaviors than nature. I was raised by my dad mostly and none of the stuff redpill guys talk about in regards to female nature applies to me (or other women I know) at all and that wouldn't be the case if they were correct. Blue pill just means "doesn't agree wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Women who initiate(ed), how?Back when I used to sleep around I used to go to bars and just walk up to dudes and straight up ask if they want to have sex sometimes. Usually I'd make the eyes at dudes and if they seemed interested I'd go up and flirt with them heavily first if or dance with them and by the time the bars closed I'd ask if they wanted to come to the afterparty (lots of free house parties and afterparties back then) with me and my friends. And I set a lot of tinder/OLD dates. I used to be super blunt about it, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:19 PM |
| 4 | What is great about therapy?You cherry picking the first 10 responses out of 293 comments is comical. I don't remember saying "the first 10 responses are men who agree". All the talk about the male suicide rate in here but you guys can't see how you contribute by shitting on something that could help. I can't argue with someone who admits they haven't even tried it but insists that they know how it works. Men should just be miserable then. Therapy is a scam or it's feminine and that's icky so men should just continue to bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Between two identical looking men, who’s going to have the most casual sex: the intro or the extro?These guys are so far gone. It's like their entire understanding of the world is based on teen flicks they saw on tv. I can't tell if they actually believe that casual sex just materializes or if they want it to so bad that they're not willing to consider doing anything to have it. Also none of the top level comments answer your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:16 AM |
| 2 | What is great about therapy?I've never been to a good gym so what's the point of working out? Sounds no different than seeing a psychic if you ask me. Didn't work for me so it must not work for anyone (even though there are lots of people who benefit from it). I went to the doctor for stomach issues and the doctor dismissed my symptoms so medical care as a whole is a scam. What's so good about getting a new lump checked out? The existence of even one shitty doctor is enough to discredit the entire field. Didn't work for me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:47 AM |
| 7 | What is great about therapy?I actually made a post asking about this and most of the men who have been in therapy said that it was beneficial. Have you ever tried it or are you just assuming? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:50 AM |
| 7 | What is great about therapy?I actually made a post asking about this and most of the men who have been in therapy said that it was beneficial. Was it your therapist that just said "you are right" over and over again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:45 AM |
| 2 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersI mean if you know of any with the kind that we're talking about you can share them here and I'll go look at their sales. Someone else brought up "Milking Farm" (🤢) which is #3789 in bestsellers on amazon which isn't saying much. I haven't heard of any other ones as someone not in that community but I'm also not getting book recommendations in general. You said it's way more common than I think so I'm asking you to provide the stats or at least what youre going off of. If not book sales then is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersNo I think it's common enough to notice as an average internet user but it's not common in the general population. Or is it? Do you have any stats on how well this type of stuff sells? I don't want to believe that a ton of people are into beastiality and all the other nasty shit like that in this kind of content and I haven't seen any data on it so I'll admit I'm a bit biased. Just going by what I've seen of people from outside those types of communities it doesn't seem too common outside of boo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersActually disregard that second paragraph, I think this post fits here. I read that article you linked and it's terrible what happened (and at the other conventions they mentioned). I think we all collectively should be losing our marbles over sexual assault, if anything that's something worth rallying against. It's just interesting (for lack of a better word) to see the tables turning like this and men's reaction to the stuff women have been going through for forever. It should be better policed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 02:31 PM |
| 6 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersShould we take accusations seriously or should we not? This isn't a gender issue at all, this is a problem with people not understanding consent. It's the same shit that happens at cosplay conventions but since it happened to men (multiple) you guys are dismissing it. It's fucked up. This is rape culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:40 PM |
| 6 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersI don't think it needs to get to that point before we as a society do something about it. The metoo movement tried to break through and get people to see SA/rape as the serious matter that it is and that was a good thing for everybody. There are tons of men who have stories of things that happened to them when they were children and we know they don't report it as much. It's not only a problem when it's happening en masse and one gender against the other. Rape and sexual assault are reprehensibl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:12 PM |
| 7 | The rise of unhealthy female goonersMen literally talk about completely replacing women with ai sex dolls here. There are posts and posts and posts of men salivating over the idea of it. This idea of having unrealistic expectations or comparing humans to fictional characters is not new or unique to women. Women are starting to behave more like men always have because human nature is human nature and women have freedom now and you guys are losing your marbles over it. This is nothing new, there have and will always be freaks in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:01 PM |
| 2 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".Then men need to stop settling for inadequacy and reject women that don't align with their standards. Inb4 "but then women will get mad and won't like me! but then I'll be single!" If you use either of these then you're encouraging inadequacy. Choose better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Women contribute a LOT to "nice guy angst".It's framed that way because they're talking about straight people who date each other. Sexuality is based on sex so even in a genderless society, straight people would still complain about people of the opposite sex (gay people, about the same sex/bi people about both). It's not inherently ego-centric to talk about how you're treated in relationships. Like if three of your exes did you dirty it's not ego-centric to complain about that. Also bred* to be, not bread lol. And I like that question a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How do you reconcile the average man's experiences with your observations?Yes we do based on the data that's out there. Someone else in the comments linked a study that said only around 2-3% of men haven't had straight penetrative sex in the past year. Everyone around here knows about the study that says 60% of young men are single, that same study says the percentage drops to around 25% (somewhere around there, can't remember the exact number) for men 30+ and then it keeps dropping as the age range goes up. So going by that it seems the vast majority of them aren't s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:47 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: How do you reconcile the average man's experiences with your observations?The average man is married or cohibatiting. Like 70% of people are partnered in my country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:48 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseThey're usually decent about that in most of the posts I've seen but I saw a couple agreeing with op here. Idk if they need more mods or what the deal is because I see people breaking other rules all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:49 AM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseI haven't seen that offline at all but I don't doubt your experience. Maybe just the people we hang around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyI couldn't care less about my assets Okay you do you. Youre arguing against a point no one made. No I was answering your question. You asked "the relationship with who?" and I said use context clues. I clearly wasn't talking about the government and was just giving a reason why some people care about their partner's financial status which is what we were talking about this thread. I wasnt responding to op. Now you're trying to change the subject after using your anecdotal experience to try to re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:45 AM |
| 0 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyWhy did you say you had no idea then? That's the part I'm confused about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 10:35 AM |
| 5 | Where do women want to be hit on?The thread isn't. Use context clues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Where do women want to be hit on?There is no best way to approach that will guarantee you "can get to know her and eventually ask her out". But yes you should just introduce yourself and be honest about your intentions if you do choose to approach someone. After that no guarantees, the ball is in their court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:01 PM |
| 6 | Where do women want to be hit on?I'm pretty sure there's a word for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:58 PM |
| – | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveOkay and 100 years ago slavery was legal. Does that make it morally right? No, and we're not living in that time anymore. We have a better understanding of these things now in the year of 2025 so we can look back in hindsight and say that was fucked up. Or at least those of us who aren't contrarians just for the sake of being contrarian can. But you know that already. And you have a fundamental misunderstanding of what HeLa cells are. They're the first immortalized cell line, which scientists ob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologythat has never-ever-ever crossed my mind with a woman I had interest in. If you're someone with assets worth protecting then that would make you a damn fool. I'm happy for you if that's worked out for you though, genuinely. The relationship with who? Use context clues. If I didn't mention or talk about the government at all, you can eliminate that as a potential answer. I won't repeat myself but refer to my previous paragraph. If you don't understand how a significant mismatch in (or management … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:13 PM |
| 0 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyBut... you just said "I've dated women who made way more than I did, and I had no idea, because I never asked". So you had no idea but you knew because you were living like a prince? What were you referring to when you said you had no idea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:00 PM |
| – | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveI don't care about what you think is a fair trade. They took her cells and used them without her consent and they didn't compensate her or her family for this which was one of the biggest breakthroughs in medical history. They didn't even tell her family until 24 years later and still no compensation. She also died from the cancer. There's a reason why we require consent now, because it's not a "fair trade" to just use people's bodies without their knowledge. You're free to have that opinion but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:58 PM |
| 0 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseWomen can't find a man because they don't like any of their options. That's nobody's fault. Men can't find a woman because they're unattractive. That's nobody's fault but men can work on improving their attractiveness. It's like how you guys always say that being fat is within your control (it isn't always), men who don't can go to the gym and improve their fashion, things like that. Every lonely man isn't ugly and doomed. I've watched a few incel documentaries and such and a lot of them look re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:44 PM |
| 2 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worsePlease. You have my vote if you also enforce the "no circlejerking/contentless rhetoric" rule. It seems mods can only enforce one rule and only when it's in response to somebody else breaking a rule (that they leave up). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:34 PM |
| 1 | The “male loneliness epidemic” is not primarily caused by the lack of female companionship or sex, and blaming it on women is a mistake that makes things worseOp didnt rank social outlets at all. They just said that a relationship alone isn't enough to fulfill all of your social needs and they're right. There are plenty of lonely partnered people, especially those who have no social connections outside of their relationship. Plus that itself can be a strain on the relationship when you lean so much on one person to fill a hole that's larger than just one person. Also can open someone up to abuse. It's not to the detriment of friends who also have a fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 12:29 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of dating problems are artificially induced and not completely the fault of the individual.No they don't or else every woman and every man would act and think exactly the same as everyone else of their gender. You're putting way too much emphasis on nature. I think it plays a part when it comes to things affected by the physical differences but everything else is nurture. That's why cultures are so different from each other like with things like attitudes towards nudity and sexuality. I think the problem with saying that all (or some? not sure what exactly you're claiming) dating woes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:08 PM |
| – | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toYeah I heard you and said thank you for clarifying! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The vast majority of dating problems are artificially induced and not completely the fault of the individual.I mean, the data shows that less people are married now (60% dropped from 70%), more young men are single (60% rose from around 30% iirc), and marriage and birth rates are seemingly dropping but it also shows that people are pairing up and having kids later and also that people in later marriages report greater satisfaction in them and kids born to older parents have greater outcomes in life (correlation not causation, also people with higher education and income pair up and have kids later and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 09:43 AM |
| 1 | The vast majority of dating problems are artificially induced and not completely the fault of the individual.It's not the suburbs either. I grew up in a few different suburban neighborhoods. We used to run around with other kids on the street and my folks were friends with the neighboring parents. Even now I know or at least have had friendly interactions with all but one or two of my neighbors around me. It feels like we went overboard with stranger danger but only offline. It feels "safer" to interact with people through social media. Phones are the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)I don't know how many times I have to say the word money, money, I needed money, specifically for the money, I was down on my luck and tried to do it for the money, "paying me to do something I already don't want to do feels fucked up". Most people who do sex work do it for they money. I hope that clears it up! And I don't care about external validation outside of people recognizing my struggle with my mental state. I've already banged tons of guys and I really mean tons lol, I don't need anythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)I said in the very next sentence that I didn't go through with it because I didn't want to do it. I don't want to do sex work but I tested myself to see if I could do it specifically for the money. And I couldn't because I didn't want to exchange my time and body for money. I think if I had absolutely zero other options, needed the money, and was offered a life changing amount (by a man I find attractive too lol) then I probably could've lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)It would feel degrading for me personally. Specifically because my body isn't a commodity to be bought and sold. I've had someone share my nudes without my permission before (guy was a HUGE fucking creep) and I don't want that to happen again. Plus I only want to be intimate with one person at a time (hopefully only one for the rest of my life but there are no guarantees). I actually made an account on a sugar baby website before, talked to a few guys and had one date planned but I couldn't go t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 08:32 PM |
| 2 | The DL trend exists, because there is connection between homophobia and benevolent sexism.Goddamnit there men go hiding their true feelings again, all women ask is that you stop hiding your happiness lol! The male happiness epidemic is getting out of hand! Just joking but I wish there was a happiness epidemic. A woman can dream I guess | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toI'm not being daft, I'm reading what you wrote. That you see paying for dates as a man showing you he's worthy enough for marriage and children. That's what you said. But thank you for clarifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 05:43 AM |
| 1 | The DL trend exists, because there is connection between homophobia and benevolent sexism.Wasn't expecting to see him posted here, I like his videos! And glad to see somebody else has noticed the rampant homophobia among women. It's so normalized too, some people don't even think they're being homophobic. I've literally seen women say its worse if he cheats on her with a man than with a woman and when pressed they say because they don't want to catch an std/i which is so beyond fucked up. Like their cheating man can't catch one from another woman and still pass it on to them. Or they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 05:12 AM |
| 8 | The DL trend exists, because there is connection between homophobia and benevolent sexism.Men aren't the ones saying this stupid DL stuff, women are. That's why they're talking about women here. We just had so many posts of women saying they would never ever date a bi man because they "don't want to get cheated on" or "don't want to catch an std/i" really backwards shit and it needs to be called out!! This isn't "blaming women", it's pointing out the rampant homophobia that still exists for a lot of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 05:01 AM |
| 4 | The DL trend exists, because there is connection between homophobia and benevolent sexism.There's a homophobic trend going around of straight women being scared that their partner is "secretly gay". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyThey don't represent men in general Sure but neither do you and the dudes you know. Nobody represents all men, that's why I don't believe you when you say that all men want teenagers. Also "oh they're lying to protect your feelings" "oh they're telling the truth but they don't represent men" what are you going to use next to try to discredit the idea that all men aren't into that? "They're an exception"? Do you have any reason to doubt the data? Yes, plenty. I may think someone who is 13 is 30 (… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toI've been saying this! They need to cultivate some self worth and respect ASAP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toI reject men who expect too much of me and stay single. Men have the option to do that and you are lying when you say they don't. That is a bold faced lie. It not being easy for you to do doesn't make it impossible, stop lying! still likely has more options My god how many times do I have to ask where did I say otherwise?? Copy and paste quickly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyBeing in more than one relationship is being with a bunch of different men, not the same man. Most people enter more than one relationship in their life I think or at least a shit ton of people do. Yes being in even a bunch of those is bad Why is it so hard for you guys to just say you prefer to not date someone like that? Why do you always have to force your values on everyone else by saying it's "bad"? And also now you're going back on what you just said. You just said "no it's different! that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyNah my dad doesn't pull punches with me or anyone regardless of how uncomfortable it might make me. He's a military man with ptsd. Mfer literally used to bully me as a child "to make me grow a thick skin" lmao that assumption is incorrect. And I've never in my life met an old man who doesn't speak his mind and not give a fuck about anybody else's sensitivities. I don't know why you're comfortable saying that to me but think any other man would be coy. The nasty old fucks who hit on me on the str… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:49 PM |
| 5 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveJust to add on, since you bring up HeLa cells, the medical malpractice and misogyny that brought them about (look up Henrietta Lacks) hasn't gone anywhere. We're still super far behind in equality in the medical field to the point where I just learned a few years ago that symptoms for things like a stroke, a heart attack, mental disorders, present differently in women than men. I still am forced to pay for a pregnancy test every time I get lab work at the doctor's even though I haven't had sex i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:23 PM |
| 5 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveNiche*. I think it's an admission that they don't have much to offer besides money because interesting people have no reason to feel threatened by a woman having her own. That or I've seen some guys who clearly want to throw money at woman and it throws off their game if that doesn't interest her/she doesn't need it. Or any other reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:07 PM |
| 3 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveI know they don't want us talking about rce here but that plays a part in it too. My people all *had to work, we never got the luxury of sitting around on our asses until we fought for and gained the right to not be discriminated against. It's such a narrow and unrealistic fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 09:03 PM |
| 3 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveIn America because I live here, we have not "won". You're mistaken if you think that rights are a set it and forget it thing. There will always be bad actors so we always have to remain vigilant and fight to keep our hard earned rights. This current administration is the result of people leaving fight mode and getting too comfortable. Women's right to vote https://democraticwomenscaucus.house.gov/news/documentsingle.aspx?DocumentID=378 protection against discrimination https://en.wikipedia.org/w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:58 PM |
| 2 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toSure I believe you. I guess that would make us both brainless hypocrites then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyIt's not though. Guys here say a high body count at all is a red flag, not if she's just slept around a lot. You guys don't look at it on a case by case basis, you generalize. And being in a bunch of relationships literally is being with "a bunch of different men". I don't care either way if someone prefers that, just pointing out the lack of logical consistency and nuance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyCan I ask how old you are? The older men in my life would disagree with you. I've actually talked to my dad about this and he told me yeah obviously women in that age range are very pretty but only legitimate weirdos (and guys in that age range obviously) are actually sexually attracted to/want to entertain women that young. I mainly hear this from alot of younger guys like 30 and below that ALL men are attracted to that age range which makes sense because they are at the time. But for most peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:22 PM |
| – | What do you guys think of the idea that marriage, male-female relations in general, were supposed to be a humble institution?All the best to you in your journey! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologywe tend to paint everyone with the same brush with the words we use. Who is we?? Okay so ya'll need to stop doing that. now you assume I'm just like that guy If you had reading comprehension skills, you would understand that when i said "you guys (plural) have no imagination" I wasn't only referring to you. I hope this clarifies that. I said a couple of relationships that blew up could be bad luck And then went on to say if she's been in more than that then she's the problem. You have no imagina… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toThis is fucked up. Men get coerced too... I'll never understand why the dudes who have been through it never step up and call this kind of rhetoric out. You're perpetuating rape culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:44 PM |
| 2 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toHow do you know that? Do you know him? You guys call everything that you can't relate to a lie to make yourselves feel better about the fact that this is a you problem, not a men problem. Y'all are a minority within a minority. Something like 70% of people are partnered in my country and of the 30%, only about half are looking. And then an even smaller percentage of that 15% are actually struggling. And that 15% is both men and women. But sure the 90+% of people who aren't struggling like you ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:32 PM |
| -1 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toThis is a terrible metric to judge whether he's worthy to marry and risk your life for. Paying is easy for men, it's the status quo. Money says literally nothing about someone's character (unless they're a billionaire then they're a shitty person and a thief). A man who pays on the first date could be just as big a POS as any other could. PLUS a lot of men who pay do so with the expectation of sex or literally anything else they think they can get out of you for it. You're walking yourself into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:22 PM |
| 2 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toDrizzle drizzle lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:13 PM |
| 4 | No one will force you to pay for dates if you don't want toThey would be doing me a favor by putting it in their profile. I don't want to date a man that has ridiculous expectations of me on the very first meeting. Regardless of how desperate and dick deprived I am, I wouldn't disrespect myself like that to submit to a STRANGER's demanding expectations. For what? I don't particularly want "a man", any old man, I want to find somebody that I'm compatible with to share life together. If he has ridiculous demands then hes not that person. And I have gotten… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 07:11 PM |
| 6 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyI didn't say there wasn't a difference. The issue is that you guys have no imagination and seemingly can only think in black and white, either or. Either a woman is a virgin or she's racking up a count. Either she's been in a couple of relationships that "just blew up, bad luck" or she's been in multiple strings of bad relationships where she was the sole problem. No nuance at all. Like there aren't people who have been in multiple relationships that just didn't work out (not crazy for people ov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyYou're being disingenuous. I'm not going to waste anymore time with this. And im not the one claiming to be attacked "for no reason" but of course you won't show the shit that gets you downvoted. I am mean as hell to mfers on here sometimes and have gotten warnings and downvotes for it. I can admit to that, can *you***? I'm not hiding that, I just overshare a lot of personal possibly identifiable info that I don't want blasted all over my page. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyIs that not what I said??? What is wrong with y'all lmao, read! yeah I'd agree the majority date men who make more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:21 PM |
| – | What do you guys think of the idea that marriage, male-female relations in general, were supposed to be a humble institution?Honestly we all should do that including (and especially lol) me. I think if everyone did that we would be in a much better place. Imagine what the world would look like if there was no social media and everyone committed to art, morality, and self improvement. What a dream! I'm getting closer to fucking off the apps (besides tumblr lol) forever every day. Also I answered as honestly as I could but I don't expect you to delete your shit for it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Is Anyone Red Pill and Politically Left-Wing at the Same Time?Already is with the mayoral election in NY! I'd like to think the tides are turning but I don't want to be too optimistic. 5 years ago I would've said no way people would vote for an open socialist but here we are. People literally can't afford to follow the capatalist status quo anymore, something has to give! We just need better candidates to step up now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:13 PM |
| – | What do you guys think of the idea that marriage, male-female relations in general, were supposed to be a humble institution?I think most of us are! I've been intentionally single for going on 4 years now because I'm fucked from emotional trauma too. And yah I like philosophical questions but the answer to that for you is something you have to decide for yourself. I'll answer for me. I've always been a soft person and I live to love and be loved so to me, it's always worth it to seek love. It's human nature to be cruel, selfish, hurtful, but it's also human nature to be kind, thoughtful, caring. People contain multitu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyBecause they say misogynistic things and have crap personalities and bad attitudes. Look at your fellow brethren in this sub and tell me all of them have great personalities, good attitudes, and arent misogynistic with a straight face. Even at the top of this thread the guy says men are just "lacking in conventional desirability" but calls women who are "lacking in conventional desirability" fat and ugly. You guys don't even know you're doing it, it's so normal to you to disparage women. Y'all m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:42 PM |
| -4 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyYes. But it's telling that y'all only refer to 18 year olds as girl rather than woman. Also to refer to someone you're attracted to as a girl. Y'all don't ever say "18 year old woman". I don't think I've ever read that combination of words here so no it's not interchangeable. You don't use it interchangeably. It's your subconscious telling on you. Like what's the difference between a 17 year old and an 18 year old at midnight? What happens at midnight on a girl's 18 year old birthday that magica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyI can't even see up/downvotes on most posts here (I think it's on a timer?) but sometimes they get downvoted and deleted because they broke the rules. That's not censorship, it's accountability for their actions. The rules against saying the words cope and incel are censorship though imo and to protect feelings, no less, so. I'd like to see what you actually posted that got downvoted to hell and deleted because some of you in here are delusional about the stuff you post. Just say wild and crazy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyHow do you know they made more if you never asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyBecause women don't make as much as men on average so yeah I'd agree the majority date men who make more but not the overwhelming majority when we have terms like hobosexual and plenty of women with broke/imprisoned (nonviolent drug offenses shouldn't get prison time imo) baby daddies who can't make any money due to not being free. My ex was unemployed when I started dating him and I had my own money. Plenty of women out there who date men who make less than them but your algorithm isn't tailed … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 01:56 PM |
| 0 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyYou guys don't seem to understand that you can rack up a count from being in relationships/dating. The vast majority of people have more than 1 relationship their whole life... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Women accept men’s uncomfortable truths, while many men turn normal female behavior into a pathologyAlso men (people, really) who actually have assets worth protecting absolutely care about dating women in the same tax bracket as them. As well as men who don't make enough to support a family on their income alone, they care about their partner's ability to contribute. I just assume the guys here who say they don't care don't have the experience or logic to understand how a partner's income can affect the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 01:38 PM |
| – | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?Definitely seems like we're heading towards a neo rennaissance once (if :/) this current bubble bursts. I'm holding on to hope that everything going on right now will push people to choose better. I think it's Australia that just banned social media for under 16 and that could set a precendent around the world once we start seeing the positive results that are sure to come from it. It's just hard because you can't really change adults or make them learn if they don't want to. So many people are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 04:50 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think of the idea that marriage, male-female relations in general, were supposed to be a humble institution?You're trying to solve your failed marriage by putting your shitty ex's actions on everyone else it sounds like. Not trying to make it personal, just trying to tell it like I see it. This isnt a "paradox of women" at all, we are not all her and every marriage isn't the exact same as yours. None of what you proposed would guarantee your emotional needs be met or guarantee your partner not be a shit person. I agree completely with A, yeah if you marry someone shitty your marriage is going to be sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 04:01 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of the idea that marriage, male-female relations in general, were supposed to be a humble institution?Happy cake day! Thanks for explaining. I think if we went with a sugaring model like that then only the elite would get married because there's always someone who makes more. The median income in my country is around like 50k... I can't see anyone jumping to marriage for that little. I think it's strange that you define relationships that way, and you don't have to. In the current model, men also can choose a partner based on their own needs emotional or otherwise. Tons of guys in here even woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Is Anyone Red Pill and Politically Left-Wing at the Same Time?Yeah it's super unfortunate and now look where we are... I'm so sick to death of the elite having their fingers in everything it's disgusting. Fucking greed is ruining the world | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:57 AM |
| 2 | Is Anyone Red Pill and Politically Left-Wing at the Same Time?Exactly they're worried about following the capitalist status quo. We (well I voted for him in the primaries :/) deeply fucked up with that one but I won't dwell on would've should've could've. It's just sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:56 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of the idea that marriage, male-female relations in general, were supposed to be a humble institution?What's wrong with marriage being about shared values, excitement, having fun together, inspiring each other, being each other's best friend, cooperating and neatly fitting together, providing emotional value to each other, shared areas of responsibility, love being rekindled over and over, and long term attraction to each other? Like genuinely can you explain how those are bad for a marriage? Because it requires effort? Does busting ass sacrificing time with your family to slave away at a job fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Is Anyone Red Pill and Politically Left-Wing at the Same Time?The dems are the reason why he didn't make it through the primaries. They threw all of their money at Clinton and spread propaganda to get people to go with her instead and it worked. They definitely would never support him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 06:26 PM |
| – | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?Wasting time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 03:20 PM |
| – | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?Why should I or any other woman besides your mom take criticism for what she taught you growing up? I was likely also a child at that time if I was even born at all. I will never take you guys' criticism because it doesn't apply to me or any of the women I know. Women in this sub don't take y'all's criticism because you guys take a situation that you've been through with your mom as a child, or your ex, or some women who rejected you and you shit on ALL women for it. Go criticize the women who h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 10:33 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?No I just disagree that it's not okay for someone to not jump in. That doesn't make anyone a bad person for not doing so depending on their reasons. "Women don't do that" is incorrect because obviously some would. Plus people talk out of their ass when they imagine what they or others would do in a violent scenario. Reflexes are a thing and reasoning goes out the window when you're faced with actual violence. I only know what I'd do because I've been in situations where I had to protect people a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?People have no obligation to jump into a fight for you. If you don't like that then don't be friends with people who won't. I know for a fact that my friends would jump in or at the very least pull me out, get help, or stop me from getting into it at all. I've stood in front of my friends and got them away when someone started shooting at a party and stopped my ex from jumping in to defend someone else so he didn't end up in jail before but have never in my life been jumped or needed someone to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?Note that I have lots of male and female friends and find no shortage of people to converse with and youre complaining on the internet about people not wanting to talk to you. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:55 AM |
| – | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?I'm not talking about any of that shit, I'm talking about the points you made in this post. You're asking women to self improve when the reason why they're so flat around you is because they find you uninteresting and don't want to talk to you. The rest of us who have rich and full friendships don't need to self improve to become friends with a shitty person like you. In fact it would be deterioration rather than an improvement to dull ourselves down to agreeable unpaid matchmaker for someone wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:48 AM |
| – | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?It's not men who are dull and boring, it's you. I said I highly doubt women let you that close and that women don't find you interesting. How many women are clamoring to be your friend? How many men? Even this post wasn't engaging enough to get people to want to have an actual conversation with you lol. You are not all men and thank goodness for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:32 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?And you're woefully uninteresting to the point where an entire gender comprised of 4 billion people want nothing to do with you LOL. At least people enjoy my company ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:27 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?Methinks the real reason is because other people view you as trash. If everybody around you sucks, who's the common denominator in that? Obviously idk you or your life but you do lol. You know if you're telling the truth or not and whether you're doing the rejecting of everyone or if everyone has rejected you. People aren't going to believe you either way but you have to live with the truth. I hope posting this gave you the 2 seconds of relief that you were seeking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:07 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?I highly doubt women let him that close. I'm over here cracking up about him saying women can't hold a conversation like that's not an admission that people don't find him interesting to talk to. "All women are interested in track and field and I know this because every time I approach them they run away from me!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Where Women Go Wrong in Self‑Improvement?Like that's not the goal lmao. You clearly don't even want to be friends with women, you just said so. You just want it to be easier to weasel your way in. Stop lying about your intentions. The funny part about this post is that plenty of people have opposite gender friends, just not you. Maybe you should self reflect and question why women always seem so flat and uninterested around you. It's actually really funny that you're telling on yourself like this lol. Is it that women "can't" hold a co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.RIGHT, A, RIGHT, LEFT, RIGHT, RB, RIGHT, LEFT, A, Y Here's the cheat code you're looking for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like passport bros?I just find that there's a difference between dating and fucking around abroad and being a "passport bro". Even going abroad with a goal of fucking doesn't really cut it. It's the vitriol and desperation together that separates them from regular people. Like if I traveled out of the country in my early 20's I definitely would've screwed around and I wanted to but the motivations were different. They have an express goal to find a "submissive insert fetishized race wife" rather than just going on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 06:56 PM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?Not me with the poor reading comprehension and I be calling other people out for that! I see where I misread, that's my bad! Thank you for noting that. It's not that I "don't like" your experience but that you're not speaking from your experience at all. Are you saying that you're an average woman who gets (or might get whatever that means) hundreds and thousands of matches a month? The data says women get a lot but nowhere near that many for average women. That's extreme hyperbole that isn't su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 06:48 PM |
| 2 | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?No I appreciate it but I wasn't asking for sympathy, just pointing out some examples of stuff women go through regularly. You're right, obviously hurt people hurt people and I'm sure we can all see that that guy is deeply deeply unhappy. I don't think it's bad to point that out, you're never wrong for showing someone empathy. I'm just saying I'm not going to do that. I have shown empathy to men in here after they say disgusting shit like that only for them to call me a cum dumpster and say my op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Why don’t women like passport bros?All of our perceptions are based on what we see around us, yeah. I've never met someone in real life who calls themself that, only seen it from weirdos online. I just personally don't want to lump normal people in with the fetishizers. That's fair we use it differently, it's not like there's a standardized definition for it anyway lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 10:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?How many matches would you get on tinder if you were a male? 1% as many maybe, if you're lucky Well yeah if this person I'm replying to is stunningly attractive then they might do well if they were a man. Oh okay so are stunningly attractive people never male? Because you just said males get 1% matches if they're lucky. Are you going back on what you just said? These two statements are contradictory, it's bizarre to read back to back like that was one comment ago.... It obviously is the case. I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 12:38 AM |
| 2 | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?So tf what I'm hurting too! Do you think women aren't hurting? I've literally been SAd at the age of 5 (and many more times after), raped more than once, cornered, beaten, looked down on, inflantilized, degraded, dehumanized, ETC by men and I don't come on here and call ALL men walking dildos, sex dispensers, walking wallets, rapists, liars. I don't come here and say ALL men are stupid, entitled, balding, no style having, woman hating, self centered egoistic, "depressed", ugly incel losers in ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 12:31 AM |
| 2 | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?You're telling me!! Like how tf did I get banned for saying it was a cope in response to a guy saying incels are going to rebell and take women as sex slaves against our will... crazy town! I take comfort in the fact that women will likely never ever touch or want them in real life (the ones who say stuff like that). Anyways I'm going to start reporting to Reddit mods and see if that helps! :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 12:18 AM |
| 2 | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?Oh they cared plenty the times I've gotten warnings for calling incels incels and when I got a temp ban for pointing out someone's cope! We can't say that word here even when it describes reality but it's okay to say all of the derogatory things they say about women on a daily basis under every single post. Also the no black pill but there's literally a flair for black pill like make it make sense. I'm just going to start reporting to Reddit mods instead and maybe that'll help clear things up! A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?Man how tf do you expect me to debate this stupidity lol. Go ahead and debunk my claim, I'll wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Why don’t women like passport bros?Guys who label themselves as "Passport Bros" are the ones who shit talk women. That's why the label itself is seen as dirty. They call themselves that to make a statement. Normal dudes who date abroad for whatever reason don't go around telling people they're a "passport bro" because they're not doing it for attention. And nobody looks down on them because they're out and about abroad meeting people and living their lives so nobody who doesn't already know them doesn't even know they're over the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?As a former educator, do you think there's anything that we can do to reverse this? Does it feel like it's past a point of no return to you? To me it feels like some of these people are lost with no hope of reintegrating but I'm trying to be optimistic and also I want to do my part where I can. Any advice on something a layperson could do to help lessen this issue would be much appreciated! But cool if you don't have any because I'm fresh out of ideas lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".In fact, so many women work these jobs that men devalue "administrative work" now the same way they did with every other field that started out primarily filled by men but started letting more women in lol. Men are catching strays from their own mentality lol. He's in the very position he's trying to mock. His boss told him he better have a damn plan on his desk by the end of the stated term and he clicked his heels and got his boss that Christmas bonus he was shooting for lmao. So determined to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:56 AM |
| 4 | Women are not romantic.I don't care about your excuses for why men leave their sick wives. I was simply pointing out that using a partner for resources is not a gendered behavior. Do you have any response to that or are you going to keep fellating in my replies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:34 AM |
| 6 | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?No he's definitely miserable as hell (so many of them are), that's why I didn't address my comment to him because it's pointless trying to have a conversation with someone like that and I don't want to interact with him even if there was a point to it lol. I used to hate the word ick so bad but after years in this sub and seeing this stuff go kind of mainstream (spreading past this app), I'm feeling it more and more. I just wish mods were more honest that this sub is just for men who can't yell … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:29 AM |
| 0 | Women are not romantic.I think it's pretty damn rewarding to have a fulfilling relationship after putting in the effort to build one but that's just me. I don't see how that could be rewarding to you if you don't like women to begin with. What kind of reward are you expecting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:10 AM |
| 7 | Women are not romantic.There are actual studies out there that show men are more likely to split at the first sign of adversity. That's why people are always bringing up how men leave their wives easily and quickly when they get sick and stuff like that. Regardless, both genders do this and it sucks for both as well. It doesn't really matter which gender does it more because the genders aren't hiveminds, they're made up of individual people who take actions indepently of each other. This pointing the finger doesn't do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 08:05 AM |
| 3 | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?Rhetorical question lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:48 AM |
| 13 | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?It's so jarring to go from reading a super thought out post and thoughtful and varied responses to this disingenuous rage bait load of bs. Why do the mods even allow this kind of stuff? Like everyone else is just trying to have a civil conversation and here this guy is being miserable for no reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:46 AM |
| 0 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?It'll never not be crazy to me when men who get rejected constantly say all women are whores. I suppose there wouldn't be a male loneliness crisis if that were true. Unless a whore is a woman who just doesn't want to sleep with you then it makes more sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:36 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?This is the second time I've seen him comment this lol I guess that nursery rhyme really stuck with him! This is the kind of shit that redpill dudes use as "evidence" lmao and we're all supposed to debate this stuff in good faith... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:20 AM |
| 0 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?Because most blue pillers have actual experience dating (beyond cold approaching and getting rejected) and speak from their actual experiences. Whereas red pill is a bunch of dudes who have had minimal interaction with women outside of brief negative first encounters, who base their worldview on horror stories their algorthm feeds them on the internet, a sidebar on a subreddit, and their specific experiences with being rejected. I'd ask a fish to teach me how to fish before I'd ask a fisherman w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 07:13 AM |
| 0 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?Red pill only exists because so many men don't see women as human beings as a baseline and believe "women are wonderful". If you guys never pedestalized women to begin with you wouldn't need men on the internet to tell you women have flaws the way human beings do. And the blue pill is a term self identified redpill men came up with to mock people who don't believe their gender conspiracy theories. You guys just don't have the bandwidth to understand nuance so anyone who disagrees that ALL women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:56 AM |
| 2 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?You're the only person here who seems to think that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:49 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?It's not a win for them unless women don't have any say in it. That's why they contradict themselves so much because the whole point is that they're mad women get to pick and choose. The why is nitpicked to death because it sounds more virtuous to say you don't like shallow people than "I'm mad that women don't want me by default". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:44 AM |
| 2 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?It's simply that the average woman is considered more "passable" or "attractive" to a large subset of men, than it is for the average man to be "passable" or "attractive" to a large subset of women. Then red pill men should say that instead of "women get endless DMs, compliments, free meals". Like there's a nugget of truth in it but red pill has a messaging problem in taking everything to extreme generalizations. That's why people push back on it so hard because saying this stuff makes you all l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:38 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?There are men who absolutely clean up on the apps so that experience isn't even universal for men. You guys forget that men who aren't incels (in the literal sense) exist. Also, getting 1% matches as a man doesn't mean that women are showered, that's not logical. Men and women arent dating in the same pool where men get 1% and women get the other 99%, hello??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:31 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?Y'all wouldn't be here if red pill made you satisfied with your sex lives let's be real... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:26 AM |
| 1 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?I'm sorry but you guys really need to get over what your mother told you as a child. It comes across a bit ridiculous to take a lullaby of "what are little girls made of" into adulthood and go on to say as an adult "omg women aren't made of sugar and spice my whole life is a lie". Children, little girls and boys, are made of sugar and spice and snails and tails. Who said women were, your mom? You're saying you support the redpill as a rebellion against a nursery rhyme? What exactly does redpill … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 06:15 AM |
| 2 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?I was just watching this video where someone kept saying America has more health issues than any other country in the world when they really meant the most of all first world countries (even after they were corrected multiple times). Like third world countries just don't exist or aren't relevant enough to even consider in the running. That's exactly how it seems with dudes here, they're talking about their type specifically and pretending everyone else doesn't exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 05:51 AM |
| 3 | What's the Blue Pill? And what's give you the feeling you are right?If the claim is that all women are like this, this is women's nature, then the claim is easily disproven by the fact that many women (including myself) aren't like that. The redpill would be a lot more supported if it didn't make such stupid generalizations like that. Like yeah some women are like that, some men are too, some wo/men aren't. It also says a lot that the only people really gung ho about this stuff have next to no experience actually dating and getting to know women. Op says himself… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 05:35 AM |
| – | What are your thoughts on promoting arranged marriages in the west?We have bigger issues to worry about than trying to get people dates... like seriously we're in the middle of an education, obesity, health in general, economic crisis right now. Priorities, we have way bigger fish to fry. The absolute last thing I want my tax dollars going to is a damn goverment dating app when people are struggling to put food on the table (if they even have one) and pay their bills. If anyone wants this that bad they can spend their own money on the matchmaking services that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 05:09 AM |
| – | What are your thoughts on promoting arranged marriages in the west?There's no way to artificially reduce the divorce rate without impinging on people's rights. If you want to do that you need to address why the divorce rates are what they are. If you look at the top reasons why people get divorced, it's because of incompatability, financial disagreements, infidelity, etc. Arranged marriages aren't exempt from having those problems. They end in divorce less because the cultures that promote that also pressure people to stay together no matter what or they don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:42 AM |
| – | What are your thoughts on promoting arranged marriages in the west?It was taboo to meet someone online back then too until a bit after the apps came around. I vaguely remember a commercial or something showing couples coming up with creative ways to explain how they met without saying online. People used to see it as desperate to turn to online like they couldn't find someone in person. I'm pretty sure that was the og model for match.com and that was one of the first big ones. An actual match making service. Not sure when the new model of shopping for a partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?Oh word lol I'm down to join a cult but not a pilled one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's understandable/valid that femdom usually has its own flavor different from maledom?Ah I see, noted! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 11:51 AM |
| – | Women's "being seen as a body" problem is NOT about men's behaviour.No your issue is that you refuse to admit that you have a problem and you equate mental health issues with being oversensitive. I'm not saying this to blame you or say that's specifically your doing but you're refusing to address your mental health and mocking others who have RSD in the process which in turn makes it more difficult for them to get the help they (and you) need. You beg women to have empathy but when they show empathy by alerting to symptoms you're showing and advise you to seek h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 11:47 AM |
| – | Women's "being seen as a body" problem is NOT about men's behaviour.It looks like you're trying to say that femdom is one way and everyone who's actually in the community is telling you that's not how it plays out in real life? I'm not seeing what the issue is here. I also don't see anyone piling up on you in that post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Do you think it's understandable/valid that femdom usually has its own flavor different from maledom?The cnc thing is about having control over the situation in a safe environment, not about women wanting to be victimized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:42 AM |
| – | Women's "being seen as a body" problem is NOT about men's behaviour.RSD "Stupid loser bitch man disease" "no I'm not interested in talking to a therapist" "women don't take our issues seriously!!!" Well wtf do you expect us to do about it when you mock illness and don't even want to help yourself? Empathy is not going to cure you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:28 AM |
| – | Women's "being seen as a body" problem is NOT about men's behaviour.A lot of women do though. You can't just say women as a collective have no problem with it because of a damn meme, hello? Context matters, there's a time and place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 10:04 AM |
| – | Women's "being seen as a body" problem is NOT about men's behaviour.You should link the post you made. The common theme with these "women don't like how I talk to/see them" posts is that you guys always have an example of how you posted something so innocent and people jumped down your throat for it and expect us to discuss it without knowing what all you said over there. 9 times out of 10 when it's posted, you can immediately see the reason why people jumped on it. So link the post you made so we can discuss it honestly. Even if you didn't say anything off-putt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?No im asking if men are starting a cult, and men are all leaders, how would you form a cult of all leaders? (I'm just being silly if you are too.) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 04:51 AM |
| 4 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".I actually spent more time reading this comment than the post lol. No time for reading through manifestos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Those pants sound cool but is the zipper functional? And where did you buy them please. Asking the important questions here lol. We have an actual uniform at my job as a mail carrier which is about 50/50 men and women (if not more women surprisingly, haven't counted). Lawyers have to wear a suit, doctors scrubs, military and police actual uniforms, f&b black or company shirt and jeans or slacks (IF that), corporate business/casual. No to stick on the dress codes but it's such a funny thing for h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Also there are men in hr roles too so the number is even smaller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:43 PM |
| 6 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".0 decision making, 0 agency Would you say mechanics, HVAC guys and electricians who work for a company fall under this category? F&B and retail workers, hell even managers? That's like any job that has a boss. Even people who own their own businesses are still somewhat (not 0) beholden to their customers or shareholders. Would you say the majority of workers who expect you to think for them are young like under 30 or is this all ages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?Why ask if you're not going to engage at all? Isn't that against the rules? And your description of a leader is incorrect. I dont want to be led, I want a partner. Don't see the appeal in a "leader" at all. I don't need a man to "hold me to my promises" or tell me what to do because I already do that myself. What a silly assumption to think women as a whole or (in general whatever) need someone to do that for them. Why would someone who doesn't hold themselves accountable even want a partner who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?It's a confession | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?You're funny. A cult of all leaders? How does that work? Unless you're saying most men are followers lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?He's right (joking!), I'd like to be friends with someone who does drugs while painting on the weekends lol that sounds like a good time. It's funny that he would say that makes you not relationship material as if every man has a stick up their ass like him and wants a woman chained to the stove. A person with no life judging you for having a life lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:08 PM |
| 8 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?Right alot of misuse of words and alot of people getting mad over definitions that aren't even correct. They just call things whatever they want and expect everyone else to go for it, and a lot of people do go for it. It's really weird, feels like the sub is collectively getting dumber | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:03 PM |
| 5 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".LOL at that video, for real. Op must be an only child and live with his parents. No way he has any life experience and thinks being a SAHP is ultimate freedom lmao. You can't even leave the house when you want to with kids. It really is like a diaper on an anchor and I can see that just from having younger siblings. Hell it's already a lot to take care of kids in the few hours after school, much less being stuck in a house with them day in and day out my god. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:59 AM |
| 12 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Jobs like the military and police force are predominately filled by men and those are the least free jobs out there. This man describes military service as: a strict hierarchy. I was violently proud of my submission. It made me feel alive, bound to something greater. We breathed as one, our hearts beat as one. Another man gave the orders, but it didn’t matter — we were one body, one will. those who choose to submit. To me, that’s not weakness. That’s something almost heroic. So we have men out h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:48 AM |
| 13 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".Missed*. My grandmother was a sharecropper when she was a kid, wasn't allowed to vote until 1965, had 9 children (the first died as a child), and lived in extreme poverty. This white dream of women were so free is very narrow and incorrect for the vast majority of people. You guys don't actually believe women were more free back then though and we all know this. You're never going to convince women to go back to prioritizing taking care of men over their own well-being. Why don't you stand in yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:31 AM |
| 6 | Women don't respect or desire actual freedom outside the domain of "sexual liberation".And? That still doesn't make "corporate automation roles" (you're not even using that right) akin to slavery. No idea what y'all are on about. Also men work these jobs too and some women do other types of work so this whole argument is dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:17 AM |
| – | Previous Archived Post: Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to.It's nasty to call her a "broad" like that even if you disagree with her damn. But I nominate her too lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 05:48 PM |
| – | Previous Archived Post: Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to.Any strong contenders so far? Wrong answers only lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 09:34 PM |
| – | Previous Archived Post: Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to.I was just being contrarian tbh. I'll leave it there | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/25 08:53 PM |
| 1 | What would it take to heal the divide that has seemingly arisen between the sexes so that we can all move forward together, against injustice?I completely disagree with a sex-blind society. Sex is biological, not social. We can't just ignore the physical differences between male and female bodies. I don't think it matters as much as it's currently emphasized but they're still relevant at least for health reasons if nothing else and that alone is pretty big. Yeah true it's hard to get into specifics and it is pretty useless to say what individuals should do (they're going to do what they want regardless). But like what would a gender-b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:37 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)Explain how cheating is power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:15 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)Is your issue that people judge others? I can't imagine caring that much about what people online are judging. What's your point in bringing that up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 05:09 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)All of this but I also want to add that this isn't just a creepy old man thing. Older women who go for teenagers are equally disgusting as their male counterparts. I know youre saying younger women because that's what op said and I think it says a lot about him that he's specifically defending nasty men with teen girls as if teen boys aren't also victimized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:45 PM |
| – | I think people who judge adult age gap relationships are extreme hypocrites (even if they don't fully realize it)It's crazy how they shift the narrative and paint themselves as victims in other threads sometimes. A lot of men in here saying women said something mean to them and then when you go look at the thread they're saying she deserved to be abused because she picked that man or something. Either that or they saw someone else say a woman was mean to them and they co-opted his story. So sneaky and disingenuous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:31 PM |
| 1 | What would it take to heal the divide that has seemingly arisen between the sexes so that we can all move forward together, against injustice?Thank you for the response! So pretty much just eliminate gendered vocabulary in law and policies and be "genderblind" per say? I agree with that wholeheartedly. What about for individuals? And why would you assume I was just talking about policies when I specifically said policies and individuals? Be honest did you not read the whole comment? I've asked so many people that and they never answer but I legitimately want to know if y'all are just reading one sentence and responding. Please tell me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 11:38 PM |
| 0 | What would it take to heal the divide that has seemingly arisen between the sexes so that we can all move forward together, against injustice?Watch what they do, don't listen to what they say is advice and should be applied to people in general. So why aren't you applying it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 11:22 PM |
| 6 | What would it take to heal the divide that has seemingly arisen between the sexes so that we can all move forward together, against injustice?I thought you guys watch what women do not what they say? Are women killing and castrating men en masse? There are men on twitter who say they want to hang black people does that mean the entire men's rights movement is racist? Because some men said something terrible? You must be young if the think the world has gotten worse over the last 50 or so years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:33 PM |
| 2 | What would it take to heal the divide that has seemingly arisen between the sexes so that we can all move forward together, against injustice?What would the abolition of traditionalism look like to you? In policies and for individuals? Editing because I'm genuinely asking and would like to hear from your perspective | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | What would it take to heal the divide that has seemingly arisen between the sexes so that we can all move forward together, against injustice?If men (a certain subset of them) stopped thinking with their little head when dating and if women who are entitled pulled their heads out of their own ass for two seconds and everyone just considered the golden rule I think we'd all be better off for it. Also if people actually listened to each other instead of trying to force a narrative that makes sense to you (not you) on somebody else. Like for example a woman will say her ex was toxic and men will try to come up with 501 reasons why hes ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Previous Archived Post: Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to.And feminism is right about men. What now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Previous Archived Post: Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to.There are men who run away with the secretary and then come crawling back to his wife 5 months later and is infinitely sorry and says he's changed This is not the same as "Chad on reality tv, social media stories, YouTube manfluencers" (is not the same as handsome stranger men who are just alive and good looking in public). Entertainment media is fantasy and id say the majority women are aware of this*. Listening to a begging cheater is believing a lie that was presented to you by someone you're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Previous Archived Post: Women in third world countries would behave the same as western women if they had the opportunity to.I'm sorry but this is so funny. Passport bro goes to Philippines and realizes women there don't want him either - news at 8. I've never been over there but I could've told you that they aren't clamoring for American women's scraps like the delusions told you guys. Back when people were obsessed with this topic in here, men used to tell us "oh you're just jealous" when women would say okay good luck being used as a wallet throwing money around in a third world country lol but now it's omg hyperga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/25 01:12 PM |
| – | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?Oh dang can you copy and paste from the link? I would like to see. The last time I saw any data on this was over five years ago. And yeah they're getting ridiculous with the censorship on here. This has happened before on another sub where someone sent me a very normal link and their comment got removed too. Hopefully this isn't the beginning stages of Reddit becoming like every other social media, prioritizing profit over user experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Can you rephrase that second sentence? It is contradictory and hypocritical unless I'm misreading? It looks like you're saying that women should consider your sensitivity to words while also admonishing women for expecting you to consider their own sensitivities. You say that women shouldn't expect men to read their minds and then say that women's communication is flawed because they used phrasing that you didn't feel good about pretty much. Wouldn't that mean you're expecting women to read your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 05:11 AM |
| 7 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Isn't this what you're doing though, you're saying that women need to change their behavior because of how you feel when your feelings are also not externally validatable. Ideally in a relationship, both parties should be checking in with each other, communicating, and compromising on some things, that we both agree. The conclusion you ring from "are you mad at me/is everything okay" is your internal emotional response. "Are you mad at me" is about as direct as communication gets. So when you ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:59 AM |
| – | How do I attract younger women as I age?Edited. This is dumb, I don't even know what you're arguing against. Do you disagree with the research that says increasing paternal age is associated with delayed conception? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?I was just joking around, I don't think men will ever turn away from sex and tbh a vibrator doesn't compare imo. I do think becoming more open sexually could lead to more openness in general. Maybe would lessen the pressure a bit to have more and better ways to pleasure yourself so you're not walking around frustratingly horny but idk if it works like that for you guys. Did exploring have any effect on your self esteem? Yeah agreed that's why I said the stigma of being a man in a sex shop. I hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:05 AM |
| – | How do I attract younger women as I age?Oh you really did your big one with that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:56 AM |
| – | How do I attract younger women as I age?And it's off topic for you to bring up women when nobody was talking about them. Do you disagree with the research that says that increasing paternal age is associated with delayed conception? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:55 AM |
| – | How do I attract younger women as I age?Oh no somebody hit The Wall! Hopefully you don't want kids since that research just came out that aging sperm is actually what causes developmental disabilities in fetuses. That'll probably lower your chances once the teenagers find out since they have their whole life ahead of them and many of them will eventually want children. There are a lot of men who waste their prime years chasing Stacy and then when they hit the wall around 30 they realize their options are much more limited and they don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:19 AM |
| 2 | “Nice Guys Finish Last” comes from not evolving one’s understanding of people and morals from childhood.Right, since I was a child my mother always told us to never ever rely on a man. And she didn't practice what she preached lol so I also got the added bonus of seeing what happens when you rely on both trustworthy and untrustworthy men. My dad not so much because he knows I'm like him and have no interest in being someone's housewife so it goes without saying. There are some women out there who's parents encouraged them to find a partner to provide for them though. One of my besties growing up h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:52 PM |
| – | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.You guys talk up and down about how some women are for recreational use only but then act like you don't understand when women do the same exact thing lol. This is what I said. I'm not sure what part of that looks like I'm asking "why men don't understand". "Act like you don't understand" means "you do understand but are pretending not to". There's also a period at the end which means that it's a sentence, a complete statement rather than a question. If it were the latter it would've been framed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?Fellas is it gay to have sex with women? We've come full circle. If it's gay for a man to masturbate with a dildo and to have sex with a woman, is it also gay to jack yourself off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?Men literally have a g spot up their ass lol this guy is tripping. I wonder if he's one of those dudes who say washing your own crack is gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?I can't tell if you're being serious or not and I disagree with you if you are but this is so funny lol. Good for her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:44 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever been with a man that had a pocket pussy or other sex toys?Idk who masturbates more, I'd guess men but could be wrong. Women buy sex toys more because they feel better than a hand, theres more variety, and nobody calls us gay as an insult for being open to exploring sexually. Also the (sometimes percieved) stigma of being a man in a sex shop and the worry that people are going to think you're a creep probably keeps some men away id guess. You guys are always talking about how ai sex dolls are going to make women redundant but men would've turned away fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Lol, why even ask. You might as well go ahead and start arguing against the answer you have for me in your head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:29 AM |
| 3 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?I said some men don't care (about having kids) and youre saying yes they do actually. To me that reads as you saying that there are no men who don't care. Is that an accurate reading? Do you believe there are no men who don't care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:10 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameI'm not going to repeat myself, I said what I said. You're free to disagree and date however you'd like and others will continue to care about compatability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the samesure it matters if people have odd careers That's it, case closed we can end the thread here. That's my point and im glad we're in agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameWho you are isn't the same as what you are. I see you're using them interchangeably and want to note the difference. they are not part of what a human is. What you are is a human being. A man, woman, or child of the homo sapien species is what a human is. It is okay for people to care about my actions and my reasoning, but don't claim at the same time to care about who I am. Who you are/what kind of person you are is a sum of your beliefs, actions, and reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 11:39 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameIt's because they argue from a biased perspective and they're shallow. Some of them have the presupposition or misconception that "caring about a career" means caring about status specifically. Like they see "my partner's career matters" as "I want a ceo". It would be a lot less confusing and we could have productive conversations if they listened and responded to the words women actually say rather than what they assume we mean. otherwise... why are they there? Half of them don't have the exper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?Oh hell yeah this is good news! I guess I've had my head in the sand lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameThe human is still the same but their actions and achievements matter. Quitting your job to work at McD's because it's closer to home and has more flexible hours so you can spend more time with your children is different from quitting to work at McD's because you don't have high standards for quality of life. Neither is wrong and it's still the same person making the decision but it's a difference in reasoning and that matters. You're still a person but it says something about what kind of perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameI think you should be careful about using your anecdotal experience to generalize the whole population. It isn't "women's logic" to care about how you might be affected by your partner's career. I would bet actual money that you wouldn't marry a sex worker because of her career choice but for some reason you can't understand the logic because a woman is telling it to you. That's a comprehension problem on your part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameA lot of them aren't dating at all to begin with. I think for some of them it's a c*pe or silver lining. Feels better to frame lack of interest as dodging a bullet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.Why do you guys keeping responding to me like you're telling me something I don't know? Do you think I don't know that men are angry and hate the things I do? I'm genuinely asking. What does that have to do with anything I said? Explain how "men are angry about it" refutes my point that people have different standards for different roles regardless of gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 09:38 PM |
| 6 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.I mean what I said, that women's attraction on average doesn't work the way you think it does. You're one of those guys who isn't going to believe anything but what you already assume to be true. These conversations always go the same way, it's predictable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?Great I'm glad you understand. I hope that answered your question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:45 PM |
| 10 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.I'm not going to repeat what 100 other commenters have said. You seem to have a presupposition and aren't willing to accept any answers that don't line up with it. Women are telling you that on average our attraction doesn't work the way you think it does and you're telling us that we're wrong and you know better than us how our own attraction works. You're very confidently incorrect and there's no point debating someone like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?Why are you skeptical of condoms? Not trying to argue, just curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?Funny seeing you here lol I remember talking to you about this before. Where are you seeing that licencing and approval will be given in 2028? I thought this seemed promising but alot of people are saying they've been saying coming soon for a long time now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?There is a pretty big bias in the medical field though to be fair. I'd trust the stated side effects of a male birth control more than a female birth control. Also you got lucky they found that out just in time to take you off of it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?I can't see too many women being upset about this. It would be a huge benefit for men to have a long term birth control option. I'm not trying to take the shitty pill every day or bleed for two years straight again, I'll rejoice in the streets if this does come out next year. It would make manipulators mad but this good news for everyone else. I see no downsides. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?I had a guy take the condom off while I was incapacitated once. That's one way it happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?I think the copper iud goes up to 12 years! I'd get it if it was as easy as this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:07 PM |
| 3 | Men would you use a long term birth control if it was available?Some men just don't care either way. Out of sight out of mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Can you explain how you came to this conclusion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:57 PM |
| 4 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.That doesn't contradict what she said. Both genders struggle but it's easier for women than men on the apps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.the overwhelming majority of men don't meet and dare women that way. They get ignored. Or they ask women out and get rejected. Pick your poison I guess. I disagree with her that nobody should approach though. They have the LUXURY of doing that because they are young attractive women. But not everyone has these luxuries... cough cough men How do men not have the luxury of meeting via instagram or activities if that's where these women met them? You're so determined to call women privileged that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:41 PM |
| 7 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameI personally don't see it as a binary or hierarchy but sure some people do. People on average care about things to the extent that they're affected and they're not this calculating with social interaction. You're affected by what your partner does. Stop looking at it as a check mark on a list and think about what it's actually like to be in a relationship. You're dating a full person, not a cardboard cutout so what they do for work matters to an extent. You work days and they work nights so you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.That's why it's a con lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.It's a chronically online phenomenon I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:56 PM |
| 24 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Nobody's downplaying anything. You're just wrong about how attraction works for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:47 PM |
| 16 | Why do so many women get mad at men who do not care about their career/degree when women often do the sameI think it's a matter of priorities or having the experience to know how your partner's career might affect you. I wouldn't want to date a doctor because of the hours they work for example. Jobs aren't innate so this is not an innate preference. There are lots of men who do care about a woman's job and I think it says something that we see so many inexperienced men saying they don't. It's not logical to worry about gold digging but also not care if a woman even has a job so plenty of men do care… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | If you were a woman, what kind of men would you be attracted to?I said why a risk of social fallout, not what is social fallout. I thought you were saying men won't give an accurate answer because of it but I see what you meant now. Idk, some women still sleep around despite the stigma. I'm sure men turned women would find a way to do it discreetly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:07 AM |
| 1 | If you were a woman, what kind of men would you be attracted to?Can you elaborate? I'm not a man so I don't know what the accurate answer would be or why it would be risky. Are you talking about masturbation? That's probably the first thing I'd do if I woke up a man lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 07:34 AM |
| 1 | If you were a woman, what kind of men would you be attracted to?Why a risk of social fallout? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:57 AM |
| 1 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.The primary difference however is how well known or vetted the other party is. No lol. The difference is in whether or not you want to date them. It's literally just saying he seems like he would be a good partner or you're not interested in anything with him past sex. People of both genders do this. women choosing casual sex actively put themselves into positions of vulnerability Yes, interacting with men at all is actively putting themselves into positions of vulnerability just by the nature o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Does it feel like relationships “just happen” for you?The relationships I've been in happened organically, I knew them for a second before we started dating and I was the one to initiate. None of the inorganic ones worked out (tinder, cold approach). And I've both approached and been approached. It "just happens" in the sense that it's serendipitous to find someone you really mesh with but obviously actually meeting and connecting takes action on both sides. I've never just woke up one day in a new relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:47 AM |
| 1 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.My premise is that both men and women (who do hookups) have different standards for a relationship than casual sex, nothing more and nothing less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/25 10:15 AM |
| 2 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.Having different standards for a hookup vs a relationship = hookup/boyfriend/husband material = recreational use only vs wifeable. Why are you responding to someone else in your reply to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 10:09 PM |
| 2 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.Yeah that's fair, everyone has their preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 06:02 PM |
| 5 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.Why else would you mention I just told you why I mentioned it. Because I think it's funny to see guys saying that about women under one post and then other men confused about women doing it under another. you never mentioned any benefit one cannot have in a casual sexual relationship (like fwb, etc) just responsibilities. You never asked. The way conversation works is you asked why would a man do those things and I answered. Feel free to respond to my answer to your question or ask this new ques… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 04:22 PM |
| 18 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.No im not going to point you to 5 men. I just think it's funny to see guys saying that about women under one post and then other men confused about women doing it under another. This isn't an argument or accusation, just an observation. Do you also think men who put women into the dehumanizing "recreational" category aren't as attracted to women they want to date? Because they're willing to have sex with both women but they have higher standards for the woman they want to date? Why would any guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 08:46 AM |
| 45 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.If you have casual sex, but judge a guy you actually want to get into a relationship with harsher than the guys you have casual sex with, then are you really attracted to him? Yes because the goal is to share life with the person I'm in a relationship with. If I plan on sharing a bank account, buying a house, having children, and living day to day with someone I'm going to have high standards for them. I need to know that they're dependable and committed. For casual sex it's in the name, it's ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 07:17 AM |
| 5 | If women want men to be honest about their intentions then they should stop having different standards for casual vs a relationship.Yeah they must be if women on average aren't regularly having casual. And I agree with your last paragraph. That's part of the reason why there are so many men having a dry spell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do women not care about consent?I had an impression you were justifying/defending Idk how you were under that impression if you read my whole comment as you said you did but okay. People do this a lot, respond to what they're thinking instead of what I actually said. In the former scenario you weren't forced That's one scenario that you made up. There are different forms of coercion and force is one. Regardless, it's rape to pressure or force someone into sex. That's what I mean by the end result is the same. They're still try… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:29 AM |
| – | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.Men are in control of themselves. They act like they have to do things that women are attracted to and blame women for having these standards that they don't have to follow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 05:14 AM |
| 5 | The single solution for women’s dating problems is being more active and asking men out.They actually do, everyone gets to mix and match now. You don't have to follow all traditional roles or none. It might make it harder to find someone you're compatible with but everyone is free to express themselves however they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 04:25 PM |
| – | When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needyAh okay. Yeah I don't think op knows what love bombing is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 10:37 PM |
| 0 | When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needyHow does it imply a discard cycle if it's meant to make someone attached? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismThe group who votes these people in is mixed almost half and half. Only 44% of women voted republican in my country and like 60% of men so what you're saying isn't even true but regardless of that, the people that we're given as options are backed by the elite. You have to have money to even run for higher office. Yet you're still pointing the finger at women as a whole for not toppling the oligarchy ourselves. Idk if you're too far gone into this redpill stuff to see what you're doing or if you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismBecause Igor expects women to single-handedly fix all of society's problems when (individual) men have most of the power to change policy. Men haven't fixed all of society's problems either so why is it an "excuse" only for women? I'm literally just pointing out the double standard and all of you replying to me saw me say the same thing about men that he just said about women and jumped down my throat for it. Can y'all not see the hypocrisy? And just to be clear, I don't expect men to fix everyt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:20 AM |
| 0 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismNot by much and we have the electoral college here so voting doesn't hold as much power as it should. Just to be clear, I don't expect either gender to fix every societal ill. I'm trying to point out Igor's double standard of expecting women to and calling it an excuse when we don't but not expecting the same from men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 06:12 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable.Sure that's fair, I'll leave my response. I disagree that the internet is or could be "ruled" by either gender. Women don't control the algorithms, corporations do. And the elite control the corporations. Men wanting to fuck women isnt power on women's part. Women don't "rule" the internet just because they have an easier time on tinder than men. This sub probably wouldn't exist if they did. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismSorry im trying to call you out on your double standard but it's Friday and the words aren't coming to me. Double standards are lame. Everyone is a victim at some point or another dude. Nobody goes through life without being victimized in some way unless they live their whole life isolated from other people. The system we live under (in my country and others) is designed as a reverse Robin Hood pretty much. We're all being worked and not paid for the value we add. We're all being indoctrinated w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismNo I completely agree with you. That was my weak attempt at highlighting that other commenter's double standard. All of this gender war bs is just a smokescreen to distract us all from getting our pockets and lives picked by the rich. I bet if the elite didn't have their fingers in every pie and we were all given our rights to being paid for our shares and to the pursuit of happiness people wouldnt be pissed off about life enough to come here and take it out on others. I've been saying this, gla… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismGood excuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismAnswer my question first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:14 PM |
| 5 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismI just don't understand why you consider it an excuse when women can't/don't fix men's problems for them but you give a whole list of excuses for why men don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 08:14 PM |
| 2 | CMV: If you need to denigrate someone else to feel valuable, then you are probably not valuable.Are you saying women's or men's best chance of success is online? I disagree with that for both. Everywhere online is tailored to make the most profit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Men being the ones to initiate is not a failure of feminismWhy haven't men fixed this issue when most governments are primarily run by men? What's your excuse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do women not care about consent?Sure, in the last sentence I said I agree that they shouldn't be grouped together. I edited and made it bold. Fifth sentence lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 01:10 AM |
| 22 | The more we push the me too movement, the more men’s fears are substantiated of false reports for personal gain as the reward to do so is larger. As such you can never “believe all women”."Take accusations seriously" is a better slogan that includes both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Why do women not care about consent?Y'all are just itching to call black people violent at any opportunity lol. I've heard this analogy about a million times at this point. Please read my whole comment and then get back to me. It's literally only 5 sentences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionExplain how. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 01:35 PM |
| 0 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factOh cool I'd like to get into something similar. Thanks for the response! Was just curious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 12:08 PM |
| 5 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionCalling someone ugly isn't the same as telling them they're not guaranteed to find a partner but no I wouldn't call someone ugly. I have told guys I'm not attracted to them before though but I'm not going to be rude about it. I actually haven't had many guys I consider ugly ask me out but I did sleep with some back in my casual days. I wouldn't tell someone there are no guarantees either unless they asked or if it comes up in conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionAh okay. Did you feel like that before the relationship too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 04:04 AM |
| 0 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factAnd is, I'm almost 30 lol. How did you end up in this sub? What brings you here? If you don't mind me asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factLOL get out of here I was thinking he's probably too old for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionYou're the only person here saying single women are happy to the max. Everyone else is just saying that women are happier single than in a shitty relationship. You can be happy or unhappy single or in a relationship. It depends on your personal experiences and preferences, not necessarily your relationship title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionYou asked for advice and that was mine. If you wanted to share your perspective with others, you should've shared your perspective instead of asking very specifically for advice. Nobody here is going to be able to give you a manual to acquire a girlfriend. I think "having it all" but still being unhappy because you're missing one thing is a pretty common feeling. I've pretty much always felt like that (not about relationships). You sound a lot like one of my best friends. She's doing okay in lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionThey're dying off too... lots of widows in that age group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:51 PM |
| 7 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionIt's kindof crazy how you guys fantasize about this when one of the most commom topics in this sub is how high the male suicide rate is because men are lonely. But remindme! 20 years. How do you call the bot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:50 PM |
| 11 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionIt's ignorant and dismissive to pretend some of these men aren't going to end up single forever. There are no guarantees in life and it's better to tell people that this is a possibility than to let them go on living in delusion that everything will magically work out in the end. Some of these lonely men themselves be in this sub begging for women to tell them the truth straight up that the white picket fence happy ending "there's someone out there for everyone" is a lie so here you go. There sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionWhy do you keep them around? I get people can't always be there for you all the time but I can't imagine keeping people around if they never show an ounce of care towards you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionThen it's good for everyone that they're single and keeping that negativity to themselves. They're doing you a favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Telling people to be single is a form of mate suppressionI'd advise you to stop begging reddit women for advice and go figure out for yourself what you need to do to find happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:03 PM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.It's not my definition, I copy and pasted from the dictionary. I already said I see what you're saying, you didn't have to repeat yourself. We just disagree. I don't think it's benevolence to refrain from abusing or raping others, that's the baseline imo but agree to disagree. Plus men do attack others here all the time. I can come to a middle ground and agree that some men are benevolent but they don't represent all other men in the country or the world or the state or however else you might tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 06:58 PM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than menExplain how that supports the claim that women care about looks more than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:45 AM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Men in the west aren't representative of men as a collective which is what you originally said - that men as a collective are benevolent, not just men in the west. That was a sneaky shift, bad faith. instead of doing what a majority of other countries do Men as a collective are benevolent but a majority of other countries rape and abuse women? They rape and abuse women here too. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. This place isn't some paragon of safety for women. Definitely safer than some othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:45 AM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than menYes I get that but you're not getting what I'm saying. We don't know if any given woman is lying "to make themselves look good" as you guys say. Nobody here is saying that women don't care about looks but you guys still claim they're lying if they don't say that looks are everything to them. They could be but the point is we have no way of knowing to say for certain that they are yet you guys do it all the time. That's what I'm trying to get at. These posts are pointless because you guys ask wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:28 AM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than men"In other words good looks was the primary stimulus of attraction for both men and women, and a person with good earning prospects or ambition tended to be liked as well" "Most noteworthy, the earning power effect as well as the good-looks effect didn't differ for men and women" For attractiveness, men's and (especially) women's stated preferences underestimated revealed preferences. Op's point was that women care about looks more than men. When you look at the data without cherry-picking it cle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 10:09 AM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than menThat's just your assumption though. You don't actually know whether these women are telling the truth or not from behind a screen. You guys feed into the women are wonderful effect by saying that these answers make women look good. Makes it seem like you just don't want to accept that women as a whole aren't as shallow as you guys are trying to make out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:51 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.Okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:35 PM |
| – | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Right. Men here protecting us from men elsewhere attacking us doesn't mean men as a collective are benevolent. It being a tale as old as time that men are violent and will rape women if they get the chance to is evidence to the contrary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:35 PM |
| – | How Is Hypersexuality Such A Common Trauma Response?No I said what I typed in my comment. Society shames women for having a sexuality and it's hard not to internalize it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 10:18 PM |
| – | How Is Hypersexuality Such A Common Trauma Response?The shame and regret is from the sex itself because of the trauma plus how society shames women for sex already. Tons of women feel shame and regret about sexual urges at some point or another in their life. Did these women say directly that they were thinking of the assault? why would there be any sense of regret? Because we live in a society where men openly (online and in person) use terms like whore, slut, used up, cock carousel, cum dumpster, town bike, easy, recreational use only, baby mam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:02 PM |
| – | How Is Hypersexuality Such A Common Trauma Response?If you don't get off to thoughts of your own rapist then why do you assume that's what women do? You read about hypersexuality and you understand that means you have a higher libido and it's a form of regaining control so why are you trying to force in this extra narrative that women are directly eroticizing the assault? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Lmfao expose him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Not even, people have rights because they demanded and fought for them. Women have rights because of the work of feminism, not the compassion of men. We were lacking rights to begin with because of men and now they (the ones who are entitled) want a pat on the back after women sweat and bled to get us here. I don't know how they dont feel ashamed of themselves blatantly trying to rewrite history and taking credit for women's hard work like this. Imagine someone white saying the only reason black… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.You answered your own question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.Women could be subjugated but are not Men as a collective hold power over women Women are subjugated if our rights are subject to the whims of men. You're literally describing subjugation. "Men defend women's freedoms" from who? Who are women's freedoms threatened by? We have to live in this backwards ass society wondering which of our rights are going to be threatened next just for men to turn around tell us we should be thanking them for "giving" us what we rightfully deserve. The fuck. Subjug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 12:36 PM |
| 2 | Andrew Wilson's Force Doctrine: Men have a monopoly on force. Thus, the patriarchy will always exist, because women must ALWAYS appeal to men for their rights.I've never had a man thank me for not attacking him. Weapons exist and women could use them if they wanted to. Most people keep knives in their kitchen and I've been in complete strangers' houses while they're sleeping. I even had a guy show me his gun, ammo, and where he keeps it. Never once had one man thank me or show humility for the fact that I didn't murder them. I can't believe the amount of arrogance, entitlement, and psychopathy you have to have to think like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Do your approaches to flirting in real life differ based on how attractive you find someone?No I don't flirt with men I'm not attracted to. Sometimes I get silly around men I find attractive and start stuttering and shit lol but only if it's a particularly anxious day. It's not like 5'10 and under gets level 1 flirting and every inch over 6ft passes to the next level. How I flirt depends on my mood, where we are, timing, how much interest he's showing me, etc. It's not even really a conscious behavior for me like if I click with a guy it comes naturally. Let's please not make this the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.One of them being you. Point is you and all those other men are the ones calling all men violent, or at least saying they could be violent and could kill at any moment. You keep saying women should know that and "I don't think you know about how bad these women and those women are treated systemically by men I need to make sure you know men can kill you". But when I literally just point out what you're saying, I'm the one who's "generalizing psychopathic to all men"? Bizarre. There is no "going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Does masturbation (with or without porn) inhibit pair bonding for men?There are no studies that say having a lot of partners or sex affects pair bonding for humans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 11:00 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.This reads like you got confused and forgot what thread you're under halfway through typing. You would still be concubines and dishwashers if men didn't take pity and afford you some faux freedoms we live in a world where men are significantly stronger than women and could easily murder them with their bare hands Do you have any clue what some countries militaries do systemically to women rescue Yazidi women from cages Clearly you don't know what happened to the Yazidi women that i brought up Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 10:30 PM |
| 1 | You wouldn’t be so confident if you were your brotherIt's not homophobic to say that i feel the same way you do about men. There's no other way to take you saying men are "not simply an attractive person but someone genetically crafted to be the optimal version of human evolution" except that you're strongly attracted to them and not to women who you referred to as "nightmarish gargoyles". You said men are The Creation of Adam (a homoerotic painting) to women's drunken scribbles. You're clearly passionate about it. Nothing wrong with that, I'm not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a bi man?Idk this kind of feels like a gay panic boogeyman to me. I know it happens but enough for it to be a legitimate concern going into relationships? Has this happened to you? Not trying to be combative, I'm genuinely asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:29 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.hello??? If i wanted chatgpt to give me a red pill argument for why y-chromosome diversity collapses I would've went and asked chatgpt. Mods really need to do something about the bots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.I'm not responding to left field assumptions anymore. Think what you want, I don't care. You're admitting that we live under a patriarchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.And want to call women misandrist for forming networks and taking safety precautions to protect ourselves. Have the nerve to repeat "we can kill you, and will if you step out of line" (i even got it twice in the same comment!) over and over. Women date on easy mode though! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:35 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.Men are significantly stronger than women and could easily murder them with their bare hands Oh I didn't get that the 50 other times men have said it nor any of the times I've been assaulted by a man nor any of the times Ive arm wrestled my brothers and cousins when they were 10 nor any of the times I've gone running with my dad or been picked up both with and against my will but this really helps to get the point across. "Why are women so afraid of men like we're all violent rapists?!?!" Like w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a bi man?But how common are they really? Gay people are a pretty small minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:17 PM |
| 1 | You wouldn’t be so confident if you were your brotherthe majesty, intellect, savvy, creativity, beauty, and skill that it takes to be a man You need to understand that when he is born, it is a cataclysmic event. The cosmos itself brims with envy, he is not simply an attractive person but someone genetically crafted to be the optimal version of human evolution, the David to his Michelangelo, the Mona Lisa to his Leonardo da Vinci, the great wonders of the world all collapsed into one, a brilliant burning star, a true representation of the heavens a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 01:13 PM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.You're saying that the patriarchy we live under is a natural order of society. A system of society or government where men hold the power and women are largely excluded from it (men afforded us faux freedoms you just said) is the definition of patriarchy. Also if it was truly natural for men to hold power over women, why do men need to take women's rights for them to keep power? Women would naturally fall into a follower role if it was natural for them to be in it. can always kill you at the end… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Would you date a bi man?Wouldn't people who've experimented be more likely to know what they want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a bi man?Yes Yes Yes Why do you guys keep asking this? The answers are always the same, varied. Who he dated in the past is none of my business. I'm only concerned with whether he's interested in me or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 04:13 AM |
| 4 | You wouldn’t be so confident if you were your brotherAre you trolling lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 03:59 AM |
| 2 | You wouldn’t be so confident if you were your brotherThis post is bizarre and I didn't read past the second sentence but thank you op for making me realize I need to have a heart to heart with my brother soon. Shout out to him lol, he's a fantastic kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 03:53 AM |
| 5 | The male loneliness epidemic is a good thing.if men didn't take pity and afford you some faux freedoms. You're admitting that we live under a patriarchy where men predominantly hold power over women to "afford" freedoms. If men have the power to give and take away freedoms then why are so many men raising alarm about a crisis where they're lacking certain freedoms? If men have that power and men are struggling, then this should be an easy fix. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Why do women not care about consent?Seriously. r/logicalfallaciesandassumptions lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 08:35 PM |
| -2 | Why do women not care about consent?If someone believes they've been raped and/or feels like they did not give consent There is no "believing" or "feeling" you didn't give consent. Either you do or you don't. I disagree that it's beneficial to categorize them together. It simplifies speech but this leads to people feeling like they can't call what happened to them rape or assault since it wasn't xyz extreme situation (violently attacked by a sadistic predator in a back alley, for example). Their intent and the circumstances of the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Why do women not care about consent?That's all this sub is. "Whatabout women!!" "Whatabout men!!" When half of the issues brought up aren't gendered at all. Op doesn't want to talk about how to push back on rape culture or make things better for everyone. He just wants to rant and ramble about "women bad" and this topic is just the medium | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Why do women not care about consent?I think they're grouped together because the end result is the same. Either way it's still non consensual. They shouldn't be compared at all imo. Violence is bad and coercion is bad. It doesn't help anyone to say that coercion isn't as bad as violence or to measure the level of depravity. I agree they shouldnt be grouped together though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 10:34 AM |
| 13 | Men formulate their questions correctlyIt comes across as super entitled to ask people for advice, not be clear on what you're asking about, then make a whole post complaining about the answers people took time out of their day to give you. If people are misunderstanding your question you need to clarify what you mean. Just because it's clear to you doesn't mean it is to everybody else. What are you even asking? You keep saying you're asking for advice on "how to be sexual within the context of a relationship" but that doesn't make a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/25 10:07 AM |
| 2 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.For real. I think the difference is that my friends and other guys like them don't let their insecurities rule their mind. They found women who are also interested in these things or at least open to them. Their gf's appreciate their passion and confidence too. These guys will come up with any and every hypothetical scenario to try to discredit women's experiences that don't fit their worldview. The only thing that counts to them is what they've been through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.Lol Magic Sans The Gathering. Idk much about the game except it's nerd shit and I have some friends who play or used to. They all have gf's except for one who just got out of a ltr. Yeah it's the high school trope almost word for word. The star quarterback who's a dumb and mean jock (Chad) bullies the shy nerd (self insert for them pretty much) who's in love with the shallow head cheerleader (Stacy) who's dating Chad and mocks the shy nerd for even looking at her. You can tell who actually inter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.Who said anything about friendless losers? You sound delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 11:10 AM |
| 1 | This is the worst decade to be dating.It's convenient to cherry pick that younger age bracket because 60% is a big number but it's really not that doom and gloom when you look at the full picture. Idk if these guys are misrepresenting the data intentionally or if they just don't know how to read it but mods really need to crack down on people repeating misinformation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.Seriously. One guy said status is when a woman asks her friends about a guy and they say "that guy is really cool" instead of "who is that weirdo". Like we're all walking around in the halls where everybody knows everything about everybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 08:58 AM |
| 4 | Women are more attracted to social status than social skills.So you have status if people think you're cool and not a weirdo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 08:31 AM |
| 5 | Could social acceptance of prostitution solve everyone’s problems?"Easy access to sex with women they desire" wouldn't solve the issues of the unequal justice system, poor outcomes for boys, poverty/homelessness, loneliness/mental illness, etc, or even relations between men and women. Men having easy access to prostitutes would solve their personal issue of sexlessness (which is great, im not knocking that) but it wouldn't solve the root cause of their undesirability which is poor socialization, unfortunate genes, past trauma, or whatever else. Lots of men com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 08:21 AM |
| 0 | Women either can't tell the difference between good men and bad men or men are just being paranoid/irrational about approaching women. Can't have it both ways.Men still approach no problem. How is it less socially acceptable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/25 07:44 AM |
| 1 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?Why do you guys always think a committed relationship means no sex? People in relationships have more sex than single people. Lots of people start relationships with people they're already sleeping with too. This scenario of "she won't have casual sex with you and makes you jump through hoops to prove yourself" isn't the only possible interaction people have. And none of that addresses the double standard on women for having higher standards for a relationship than a hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 06:54 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingWhat do you mean by "when men don't help"? Like around the house? Just to clarify | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 06:30 PM |
| – | Women expanded their gender role to include what women traditionally do and what men traditionally do. A lot of men are rejected by society because they dont want to do anythingA lot of men are attracted to women who can hold their own in general. I think being a career woman is just one way that manifests. Not all men obviously but a decent amount of them. I've never heard a woman complain about her partner taking on the household workload. Have you had partners in the past that didn't value you being an equal contributor around the house? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 05:56 PM |
| – | We should start telling people when they are younger you aren't guaranteed a relationshipIf everyone around you is dating and having sex then why do you say "the way things are going a fair amount of gen z will be alone"? We shouldn't stop encouraging kids and giving them hope for the future just because some people end up sad. Plus you're still young and some people are just late bloomers. 24 is so young to throw up your hands and say you're doomed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Not wanting to date someone is not oppressionYeah they can. Theres nothing stopping men from hating women. Plenty do. People judging them for it isn't stopping them from being hateful and same with women. People thinking you're a shit person and saying such isn't oppression | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayThings aren't true just because you state them to be. It's bonkers insane to think millions of people behave the exact same way like stepford wives or something. Really weird! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 04:03 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.I read a couple of countries are starting to put forth legislation thats bans social media for kids under 15. Denmark did it and others are in talks. It doesn't fit the gender war narrative and I hate to be the "it's the phones" person lol but it's a step in the right direction and good news imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 03:57 PM |
| – | Women do care about men’s issues….. when it’s not sex related.It's not even that for me like I get it probably wears on someone emotionally if nobody ever wants to touch them and they go for decades like that. Touch starvation is a real thing. And who doesn't hate a dry spell but for your whole life probably feels awful. Problem is the guys who say women don't care act like they see care as swooping in and pity fucking these men but that's unrealistic. As is expecting anyone to care in the first place. It sucks but there's no solution outside of being a sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 03:50 PM |
| 4 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayI'm not ignorant to what dating apps are like for men, you're just refusing to acknowledge that there are men out there who struggle on the apps because they don't try at all. There's literally no need for you to cuss at and insult me either tf. Calm down | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayThey're not talking about men with a batting average of zero who've never had a woman attracted to them. Not everything is about them. The sub is about dating dynamics and that includes the 85% or so of the population who don't struggle or do because of their own lack of effort. That's who op is talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 12:34 PM |
| – | The narrative that dating success is a matter of 'self-improvement' is toxic and misleading.Oh yeah that's pretty much redpill in a nutshell. I guess it depends on what the person considers success. If they're looking for something long term it likely won't end well if they're following that advice. If they just want casual it might work for them if that's what they want to do and they're not hurting anyone. "Don't be yourself" is the only one I strongly disagree with. What was your experience like? What did you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 02:06 AM |
| 0 | The narrative that dating success is a matter of 'self-improvement' is toxic and misleading.Someone who has no success with women potentially could if they improve theirself. It's not a guarantee but it's possible for some. I believe some people are a lost cause though and will never find anyone interested in them. That's what this op sounds like unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 10:47 AM |
| 2 | The narrative that dating success is a matter of 'self-improvement' is toxic and misleading.How has this worked in your experience? What sort of ways have you become a worse person that's made women more interested in you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 10:41 AM |
| – | Being funny is not attractive to womenGood. Weird for that guy to assume that of you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:25 PM |
| – | Being funny is not attractive to womenThanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:24 PM |
| 0 | Being funny is not attractive to womenIt's 2025 though, kind of embarassing to blindly trust everything you read on the internet as an adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Being funny is not attractive to womenWhat language is that? I like that saying, of happy lungs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingI figured you had a source since you were stating that claim as a fact. Thank you for the sources you sent! These back up the claim that a lot of women on the apps set their filters/preferences to 6'+ but it doesn't say what percentage of the general population of women prefers that nor does it say anything about who those women actually swipe on or meet with. The article even says the app still shows you people outside of your selected range. Seeing as 60% of adults are married (not including t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeHonestly I think it's the majority or at least the vocal minority that turns people off from the MRA movement. I don't think people would push back so hard if MRA's could focus on men's rights instead of always turning into a gossip column on women. Just my opinion though, I think it's stupid to throw away the whole message just because some people are hateful. Same with the redpill, there's still value buried deep, deep down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeThey literally don't have to be lol. Men are the breadwinner in only a little over half of existing marriages. That means a little under half of married men are not the primary breadwinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeThere is no "form of equality" that benefits men over women or vice versa. Equality is one thing, either we're equal or we're not and everyone benefits if we are. I agree with your example of retirement age but I also think it should be lowered for men rather than raised for women (because fuck working 5 more years, nobody wants that). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:34 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeWell we can vote now, own and keep property, open our own bank account without a man's permission, etc. Me and my family aren't considered property, etc. I'd say these movements have provided most of what they were aiming for. I don't understand why people keep implying they haven't. My life would be a lot different if that was the case, much much worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pillers are feminists need to offer men a decent alternativeThe real problem is that these guys label every woman as a feminist so anything said by a woman = feminism to them. I highly doubt the women they see shitting on men preface it with "I'm a feminist" every single time (besides the radfems). Feminism is the advocacy for women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes and that's it, regardless of whether people use the word properly or not. I could say I'm a men's rights activist and say I hate every woman but that doesn't reflect on the M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 04:55 PM |
| 6 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingWhat percentage of women on dating apps have 6'+ in their profile? And what percentage of them only swipe right on men who are 6'+? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 11:24 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomAre they given like a security guard or something for protection? I know consent is legally supposed to be continuous but what happens if the John is aggressive? It's great that it's legally considered rape if they don't stop but the law is punishment after the fact, not preventative. And thank you for answering! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.It's honestly lonely as hell lol but in general, not with dating specifically for me. Is what it is though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:41 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomCan you explain how it works? Do they give partial refunds if they need to stop? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:36 AM |
| 1 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomBecause sex workers are in a vulnerable position. I've had guys get pissed at me for not wanting to have sex with them after they've paid for drinks, I can only imagine what they have to deal with when the guy specifically paid for sex. That's more a problem with risk/people's actions than with sex work itself but the whole payment exchange structure of it plus the risk pressures them. You bring up a good point either way. I'd like to hear someone's perspective who does have experience paying or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 12:34 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomThat's super vague, what kind of expectations? I'm just asking what you think could be a good solution. We're literally having public discourse right now lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 09:07 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomWhat's the next step after that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 08:44 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomIt should be but isn't when people buy consent. In that case it's an agreement made beforehand, not continuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 05:56 PM |
| – | The big issue that we've in current dating market is that many women just don't wanna date and it's not because "men bad"My guess would be the correlating lower rate of education for poor people and lack of access to healthcare/resources maybe. There's data showing a lower rate of teen pregnancy in schools that have a good sex ed program. Religion may have something to do with it too since it also has correlation with lower levels of education and promotes tradition (of getting married and having children). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:43 PM |
| – | The big issue that we've in current dating market is that many women just don't wanna date and it's not because "men bad"He just wants to argue. I'm like 80% sure he's a troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomOnlyFans is MLM and I heard they take a pretty cut (this was a few years ago now though). Great for the people at the top. It's really a shame but I agree that it's a great concept for people in the industry to have complete control over their business and to do it from a safer distance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:17 PM |
| 4 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomBecause consent should be continuous, not something you agree to beforehand. If you want or need to stop at any time you should be able to. That's the issue I personally see with someone "buying" sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 01:08 PM |
| 11 | A lot of men on here are incapable of being reasonable partners in the modern day and age, regardless of looks, because they can't see a difference between sex and financial freedomWhat would you propose as an alternative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 12:52 PM |
| 5 | This sub’s idea of the “average man” is way off from the general population.Our middle class is shrinking pretty rapidly unfortunately but you're not far off base. The average person here does hold a job/s and have a family, however that looks to them. There is a shift happening but it's more of people being more intentional in who they choose to spend time with and other ways screen brainrot affects people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 12:56 PM |
| 7 | The only criteria to loving a man.So you're saying its not true that a lot of women are or would be happier alone? Would you say only a few women would be or none? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 12:29 PM |
| 4 | The only criteria to loving a man.They're just virtue signaling if they won't admit to their nature. Always watch what they do, not what they say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 11:38 AM |
| 12 | The only criteria to loving a man.We are wired to be social but it's not as specific as you guys are saying like "must have a partner and children or else i'll short circuit" pops into your brain. It manifests as a sex drive. People can still be happy without following that imperative and you can still be social without a girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Yeah i agree with that too. It's possible to empathize with someone going through something different from you. Like i said I've been rejected but i get my experience isn't the same as someone who's never gotten a yes from anyone. And i can see how awful that must feel. Women aren't like generally oblivious to other people's pain. Empathy is a human thing. That's why I emphasize that women are humans. Was there not one man interested in you? Are you neurodivergent? What did you think caused you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:24 AM |
| 1 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Egalitarian means all people are eaual and have equal rights. Doesn't have anything to do with what they prefer in a partner or in the bedroom. There's no paradox. It's normal to have norms in a society even if they aren't enforced. We have norms now and things are more balanced between the genders than they were in the past. more women tend towards traditionally female careers and more men tend towards traditionally male careers Could you give me some examples? Of societies like this and career… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Come on dude, you can clearly see i never said any of that. You're arguing with a figment of your own imagination. I'm just going to start counting every time someone ignores everything i say and pretends i said something I didn't so they can go on an off topic tangent since mods allow constant derailing. It's absolutely rampant in this sub, I'm starting to believe some people here are suffering from actual delusions. 1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:29 AM |
| 1 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.I don't speak German and I don't think i can download on iphone. You flaired this as a debate post so I'm asking you what you've seen. You didn't answer my questions so I googled them. Joyclub primarily targets the kinky and swinger scene, it's not a hookup site. Most people there are looking for something more than just a quick fuck and those who aren't are usually filtered out. From reddit Joyclub is really for kinksters. There are other sites for hooking up... Another from reddit where everyo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 09:18 AM |
| 7 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.What do you mean it's moved over to intimacy? This app sounds like FetLife. How many people would you say use this app over there? Is it most? Genuinely asking. Idk if kink terms like dom, sub, switch are just in the mainstream lexicon now but it seems odd to me that they're main options for descriptors on a "dating" app for the general population. Even if it's just for sex. I'm getting older though, maybe I'm out of touch. The idea of 90% of women wanting someone to put a leash on them feels su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 01:05 PM |
| 3 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Do you guys only read the title of the post and then immediately jump to the comments? I'm genuinely asking. I'll admit sometimes I just read the title and a couple of paragraphs and skip to the comments but I make sure to read the full post for context before engaging so I don't make a fool of myself. Functional literacy is so so important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:43 PM |
| -4 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.Generalizations like this always feel silly to read. I've been rejected a bunch because I used to approach all the time. Actually the more I got rejected (for sex specifically), the less it bothered me. More "oh okay, maybe better luck next time" than internalizing it and taking it as a personal failure. It used to hurt when someone didn't like me and still does on really bad days but I've found that the more you interact with people the more you realize how other people feel about you is their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 12:36 PM |
| 6 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.You can be woke and emancipated and submissive sexually. The point of emancipation is that you can do what you want and aren't forced to do what someone else wants. Is this app specifically for people in the kink community? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:55 AM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"That's black pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 03:16 PM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"Here you go again... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 09:12 AM |
| – | "Just talk to women as people" and its even worse when you realize they genuinely like you as a person, yet none of them sees you "that way"This phrase just means stop putting women on a pedestal. People date, flirt with, sleep with, marry people. A girlfriend is still a full person lmao. It's bizarre to conflate friendship as treating someone as a person but a potential partner as... not a person? More/less than a person? What are you treating women like if not people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Sexual inclusivity and sex being a solution to sexlessness is not THAT big of a far-fetched idea.I'm surprised to see so many people here are in the scene. I had a friend that told me about some of her experiences and it seems pretty fun. How do you find these places? Is it mainly by word of mouth? Someone else said you can find different parties on fetlife but I'm wondering about the actual clubs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do women have issue with shoes inserters when they paint a whole different face?I don't either lol. Just body lotion and a local beeswax chapstick. I agree with you that there's a lot of cosmetic stuff labeled as skincare though. The industry is really toxic in how it markets this stuff. It blows my mind how much money people spend on cosmetics in general but it's whatever. I spend money on stuff that probably blows other people's minds as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 10:25 AM |
| – | If there are women's issues men collectively don't have empathy/sympathy for, how do you deal with that?I surround myself with people who have similar values to mine and I don't associate with unempathetic people. Like women, men aren't a monolith and there are plenty of empathetic men out there. I'm not dating at all right now but when I get back into it I'll just reject men who aren't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 10:08 AM |
| 4 | If some women don't want a nice guy, they must want a mean guy.People are turned off by someone calling themself nice without being prompted because genuinely nice people generally don't announce it. You know what they mean if you're hearing it from a friend or someone else by the context of the conversation and the way they say it. Even online people don't usually type it straight up without italics or quotations and again you can usually tell by the context. I don't think there's any risk of the word nice turning women off en masse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:45 PM |
| – | Would you be more comfortable in a world where strict social and gender norms, roles, and hierarchies exist over a world where there’s more freedom from gender roles for all people?Lmfao you're being so disingenuous and I don't want to waste anymore of my time. Im out. Be careful not to cut yourself on all of that edge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:23 PM |
| 2 | A lot of people underestimate how big of a role alcohol and a general lack of inhibition play in hookup culture. Sober people (man, woman, or anyone else) do not commonly make out or hook up easily all the time.I agree with all of this. The bars with dancefloors (not a lot of clubs) around here are mostly filled with college kids and I'm getting old lol so I've been saying my clubbing days are over. Concerts are fun and me and my friends go out every now and then but we plan it so we get there kind of early before the big crowds. That way we have plenty of space to dance while we're out before everyone else gets tore up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 06:03 PM |
| 7 | Y'all are shooting yourself in the foot with the slut shaming and puritanical cultureAmerica is a pretty big place. The culture varies city to city, sometimes even in different parts of a city or neighborhoods. The stuff you hear on this sub isn't representative of how people interact offline. The men who calculate and live in their heads aren't considered charismatic to most people here. Being suave is a type of charisma itself and a lot of people here gravitate towards people like that too. I've also been offered a joint by a stranger, have smoked in a park lol, and have both … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Could it be that single woman are only happier because they still belive the perfect men will just dropp from the sky?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Yes, women’s standards have changed and no, its not the way you think.There are men who marry for a green card | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 09:00 AM |
| 0 | Would you be more comfortable in a world where strict social and gender norms, roles, and hierarchies exist over a world where there’s more freedom from gender roles for all people?Not going to work unfortunately. It could if men tried. You asked what could be done, this is one thing that could be done. Women took all the "harpy cat lady no man will want you" on the chin and continued fighting for our rights even if it meant facing the risk of loneliness, poverty, violence. It definitely won't ever work if men just say "that'll never work" and continue lying down. I think it's time to evolve past feeding base urges if people really want to see change. there will be a huge … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 07:32 PM |
| 1 | I think many women actually think it’s immoral to NOT be hypergamousHow many women said this to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?Yeah that's fair, people are going to do what they do regardless of what either of us thinks. I think not seeing anything wrong with incest is disgusting though and I'd tell anyone that. I just think it's very clear that sex work isn't the same as any other job. Other jobs aren't even all the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I have a prescription, $8 a pill lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 06:12 PM |
| 5 | Would you be more comfortable in a world where strict social and gender norms, roles, and hierarchies exist over a world where there’s more freedom from gender roles for all people?how do you suggest a movement can change it? The same way women did. If men started just expressing themselves in whatever way comes naturally and accepting the outcome rather than bending the knee for pussy, rallying behind and supporting each other, hyping each other up more, opening up to each other about their feelings more, organizing together to push against the toxic roles placed on them, protesting things that push these roles (like toxic characters/sterotypes/beauty standards in movies)… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I think many women actually think it’s immoral to NOT be hypergamousWere the women who told you this religious? I feel like this mindset aligns with the christian value of abstinence where you're "supposed to" pick one person and stay with them forever no matter what. I personally think this is ridiculous and none of the women I know (even the Christian ones) think or talk like that. Also no idea what this has to do with hypergamy. If one partner is hypergamous, that means the other partner is "above" them so it doesn't make sense for them to think their partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?I think it's worth it even if it doesn't protect everybody. My accident insurance won't keep me intact if I get t boned but it still helps. Mandatory/free testing and treatment for everyone involved, age limits obviously, being able to track and report johns who act inappropriately without fear of legal repercussions for selling, less demand for people doing it on the black market. All of these would be helpful and we already know that criminalizing things with a huge demand never stops the supp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?It already is criminalized now and that's why it's so dangerous. Decriminalizing it would open the door to regulation which would mean more protections for people in the industry. Agreed with everything else said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?The women that he pays to pretend they're happy to be there say theyre happy to be there so it must be true right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?You're not paying your uber driver to let you penetrate them though. I'm sure you would give your parents/grands/siblings/friends a ride and they could toss you a little gas money but would you take money from a family member/friend to let them fuck you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Why is sex a nontradeable ?There are a ton of issues with porn. I've heard about shady contracts where the actors don't get paid at all unless they do x amount or type of scenes even for the shoots they've already done. Some are pressured/coerced into doing scenes they're not comfortable with. Drug addiction, rampant spread of std/i's, rape, minors and trafficking victims. I saw one video where the woman was actually crying... it's really fucked up. They literally just implemented age verification protocols in some places… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 08:41 PM |
| – | Why do you judge men who pay for sex way more harshly than women who have casual hookups, one night stands & FWB?Yeah because other people don't live their lives for you. If you want something from someone, you have to be someone they want to give to. People aren't going about their lives thinking "how can I make physical_college_551 happy, what does he need from me". This is true for everyone. It's only "always man need to change" around here because it's always man complaining about not getting what they want and can't seem to understand that women aren't going to just fall in their lap. You don't see pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 05:55 PM |
| 5 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.Same to you! I hope life is being kind to you and the other people in this thread sharing their experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 04:32 PM |
| 2 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.It is messed up. That's why it's so crazy to read guys here downplay these things as some rare experience. It happened to my mom too when she was around that age and to a ton of other women and it's very underreported. I saw the first part of your other response and the answer is that both going through it and realizing what it was were traumatic experiences. That's the thing about trauma, having gone through something terrible is one thing but living with it is another battle entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 04:31 PM |
| 4 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.Right like I guess I should've gone back in time and stopped my uncle from joining the military before I was born to prevent him from becoming a mentally disabled alcoholic. It's like these guys don't realize how stupid they sound talking in generalizations like this as if they know everyone's situation and the best course of action. If they really knew as much about the world and human interaction as they think they do, they wouldn't be here begging women to choose them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:55 PM |
| 5 | The fact that men are more lustful towards women is not actually a disadvantage but an advantage for women.I was like 5 the first time I was sexually assaulted and didn't even realize it was assault until a couple of years ago. I wish it really was as rare as these guys think it is. Every woman I know has been sexually assaulted/harassed at least a handful of times. I guess 5 year old toddler me should've chose better according to these guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Men who dated "experienced" women, how do you deal with the fact that your partner likely hooked up with guys hotter than you?It is well established within the scientific literature that men "fuck down" for casual sex and that women "fuck up". Do they deny the scientific evidence? seemed to be oblivious to scientific research Whatever you were referring to here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:52 AM |
| 6 | Removing access to abortion and birth control won’t make women want dependable average men more -- it’ll make them avoid men altogetherI think that's what makes someone a loser imo. If the only way for you to succeed is for everyone else to fall. And being gleeful about their suffering. People are free to think whatever they want though as long as they don't impose it on others. Which is what this mentality is about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 04:50 PM |
| 21 | Removing access to abortion and birth control won’t make women want dependable average men more -- it’ll make them avoid men altogetherRead his other comments. He said he doesn't even care if he gets laid, he just thinks everyone else should be miserable because he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:33 AM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.Why do you prefer if more people were celibate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:21 AM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.They should do what they want to do and not care so much about what others think of them. There are so many people in the world, there are bound to be people grossed out by something you do. Your life doesn't have to revolve around women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 10:06 AM |
| – | Literally every male in the history of existence has wanted to have sex. Women should stop acting like a guy it’s disgusting for wanting to have sex.Can you post a source for this? I've seen people talk about this experiment but I've never seen a link | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 09:42 AM |
| 1 | “Women Writing Men” — and the Progressive Blind Spot No One Wants to AdmitI'll agree to disagree that pornstars are top 0.1% of the population lol. But yeah I think porn is definitely worse because there are actual people involved and it causes way more harm than just reinforcing negative beauty standards. You're watching an actual woman get slapped in the face or whatever else and there's always the possibility that one or both (or all) of the actors were pressured to perform a scene. There's also the data on rates of addiction to pornography which is publicly availa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 04:47 PM |
| 5 | We are going back to our uncivilized days in dating and it isn't great for societyYou can call any behavior you don't like "uncivilized caveman behavior" but that doesn't make it true. It's not uncivilized or primitive for women to date men they want to date and dating people youre unattracted to isn't somehow the more evolved choice just because it's what you (not you specifically) want. If anything, considering forcing other people to bend to your will as an option is primitive caveman behavior. Also it's not in good faith to ask people to ignore recent data if we're talkin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 10:44 AM |
| 3 | “Women Writing Men” — and the Progressive Blind Spot No One Wants to AdmitI know, I just think that's like the funniest example you could've used so I'm poking fun. You're right that books also portray unrealistic body standards but the difference is that books are sold as fantasy/fiction. There are actual people in porn who have other social media accounts and ads/websites where they push this image. I do think it would be nice to see more representation of a wider array of body types in these books. I didn't say "but women have an imagination". I didn't specify gend… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 07:32 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereYou just said you'd support him as emperor but now are saying end the modern nobility? The point is to defeat the oligarchs and their propagandized masses but you'd rather have that than a democrat? Give power to the working man but you just said that you don't care if the republicans provide no benefit if it meant keeping the democrats out of power? Also what is this idea of "in power"? It's insane that we've gotten to the point where Americans see government officials holding office as their e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 07:07 PM |
| 6 | “Women Writing Men” — and the Progressive Blind Spot No One Wants to AdmitAsk chatgpt how that makes your arguments wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 06:13 PM |
| -1 | “Women Writing Men” — and the Progressive Blind Spot No One Wants to AdmitThat book is a terrible example lol I don't think any women expect a man to transform into a minotaur. I think the key difference is between videos and written word. Part of the harm of porn is that you're watching something instead of using your imagination and after a while it starts to inhibit that ability. Lots of people in the pornfree subs talk about how they can't get off without watching. Also you're seeing an acted out scene presented as real, it blurs the line of reality. Books are dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 06:07 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereStop comparing everything you disagree with to slavery challenge, go! My ancestors weren't beaten and killed for you to use them as a shitty comparison to a non sentient clump of cells. Actually if you want to talk about slavery we can talk about how the plantation owners would rape black women and force them to carry to term against their will. Similar to what's happening now where women are being forced to carry to term against their will. That's an excellent comparison actually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.I don't interact sexually or romantically with men I'm not attracted to**. Like we get it youre ugly and mad that people date others they're attracted to. Just accept it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 05:15 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereYou just said you're with him if he wants to be emperor lol now he doesn't need to survive? If you really wanted to beat the oligarchs and their propagandized masses then why did you vote for the man who doesn't pay his workers, uses money to skirt accountability, JUST signed off on yet another massive tax cut for the ultra wealthy oligarchs you claim to want to defeat. Watch what men do, not what they say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 05:12 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereWhere does it say that children are killed? And where does it state your original claim that maternal filicide is the leading cause of death for female people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:26 AM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereIm not sure, probably. I used gender neutral language in my comment intentionally. "A ton of people" "a lot of voters' mindset" includes both men and women so not sure what you're pointing out exactly. The race was pretty tight for all demographics except black people (both genders but even less so for black women). The split isn't along the lines of gender, something like 45% of women and 55% of men voted for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:22 AM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereOh women make up 50% of the population (slightly more) but only about 26% of political candidates are women so that means there's no bias against women. Why didn't I think of that. How many female presidents have we had again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 11:12 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereI literally posted a link to the CDC and Guttmacher Institute data which says that heart disease is the leading cause of death. Like the link is right there and you're still lying lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 11:09 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereThat's a lie. The leading cause of death is heart disease. Just making shit up. Not even going to ask for your source on the 2300 number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:59 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereAnd you're still making threats lol. I highly doubt his old ass is going to make it through this presidency let alone live long enough to become an emperor. He's decaying by the day right in front of our eyes and we still have three more years to go. Who will take over from him? Vance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:42 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereHow has that improved your life? What part of "we voted against democrats" is not getting to you? What part of me asking a direct question is not getting to you? I didn't say nothing about that, I legitimately want to know the answer to what I asked, hence me asking. You don't have to be an asshole just because I asked a question damn. I'll never get used to how nasty some people are on the internet for literally no reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:36 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereDrumpf was also the "not a woman" option. Everyone in the comments is skirting around the fact that a ton of people look down on Harris because she's a woman. No two figures could have done more salt to the earth for every woman who comes after them, however talented, by showing the country what political mediocrity in high heels and a pant-suit looks like. Someone quoted this comment and I think it sums up a lot of voters' mindset even if they're not willing to admit it. Two women who ran for p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:22 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereWhat do you mean by "make him more of a choice"? He's already president lmfao and currently in his second term. He's not a choice anymore. You can't help but to make threats it seems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:04 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereWhat has this administration done that has improved your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 10:01 PM |
| – | Memoir: Kamala Harris: I Lost Young Men to the ManosphereWhat exactly did Harris say that built women up by tearing men down? Direct quotes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?People do risky things all the time. Most of the people in my country drive a vehicle every day. A non minuscule number of people camp in the wild, hike, mountain climb. Women enjoy sex so they (some but not most) take steps to lessen the risk as much as possible and hope for the best. Also I think there will always be more men interested in casual than women. If less women were willing to take the risk then even less men would be "getting some action", not more. They'd have an even smaller pool… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 04:12 PM |
| 6 | Why do women take offense from men asking about their past?That's what baffles me so much about all of the men here who cry about "husband material". It's the same exact thing and men do it way more than women seeing as less women seek casual hookups than men. Men are way more brazen and insulting with it too, "can't turn a hoe into a housewife" "she's only good for fucking" calling women cum dumpsters and shit vs women just saying that someone likely would or wouldn't be a good husband. Also yeah sleeping with someone you barely even see as human is so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 03:13 PM |
| – | Red Pillers have a shallow view of attraction and women should be more than just young and hotYeah exactly, that's why you don't see a ton of couples like that. Younger women typically aren't interested in older men to begin with and also less of them are interested in getting married any time soon. Agreed that a lot of the ones who are are only there for the money. That's what's so ironic about these guys in here who say they want to marry these girls so they don't get betabuxxxxed by old alphaawidows. But yeah like you said, it's possible to run into issues whoever your partner is/rega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 02:58 PM |
| – | Red Pillers have a shallow view of attraction and women should be more than just young and hotI think you're misunderstanding me. I agree with all of this, I'm saying that it's men (some) who associate youth with submissiveness and nobody associates older women with it. They literally say "I want to date teens because they're more pliable and more likely to let me lead" aka submissive, if they don't outright use that word. Type "submissive" into the sub search bar and you'll see endless posts of men making that association. I think it's a stereotype that conflates submission with not hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:55 AM |
| – | Red Pillers have a shallow view of attraction and women should be more than just young and hot"No, you should want someone submissive/responsible/respectful/mature" This is very disingenuous unless you made a typo. The dudes in here who rally for old men dating late teens/early 20's put so much emphasis on young women are submissive and older women are not and that's the reason they give for why they want to date teenagers. It's not like women all turn into pumpkins at 25, the naivety is clearly a sticking point for them. Older women are not out here telling creeps who go for teenagers "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 09:40 AM |
| 15 | Why do women take offense from men asking about their past?"Hookup material" lol. A lot of people categorize like this, both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] Have you noticed different dating results across your average guy friends?Not really. I have around 10 or so guy friends not counting loose friends. I think all of them are handsome but some I didn't at first. The less reserved guys interact with more women than the more reserved guys. I've seen all of them date long term, short term, and hook up. Also have seen them both get rejected and reject others. About half of them are in long term relationships now, one couple is likely getting married and we're all surprised they haven't already. The only one I've seen really… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 02:30 AM |
| 8 | Men are dumb and vote against their economic interest for some perceived macho reasonOnly 60% of white men too surprisingly. People make it seem like it was over 80. He only won (the popular vote, the only one that should actually count) by 1.5%, not a super large margin. White people in general definitely tipped the scales as the majority but you're right that it wasn't just white men who voted for him. The country in general is stupid and only getting stupider by the day by design. I think the sooner people realize that the better off we'll be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?You asked how the fuck ugly, obese, out of shape, old women with boring personalities get casually fucked left and right and I uttered above in response that it's because men choose to fuck them. Nothing more and nothing less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 12:50 AM |
| 5 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?Do you not understand how a conversation works? You say something, I respond to it and then say something else if I want. You respond to what I said and then say something else if you want. And on. It's not much of a conversation or debate if you're going to just keep ignoring everything I say and asking different questions if you can't find a gotcha in my answer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/25 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?Lmfao I didn't even put the two together. It's been like a month of them begging women to stop saying they'd be good husbands just on the off chance that some man somewhere might get offended by it but I don't see any of those men here railing against calling people dumpsters. That's so funny. Hypocracy pilled lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?Because men choose to fuck them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 02:00 PM |
| 10 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?That's literally what most of the evil women in his imagination who have casual sex think lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?I don't believe in leagues but going by y'all's logic it's not shooting out of your league if you're successful. The vast majority of people have sex and date/get married. The men asking women out and getting rejected are shooting out of their league clearly if they can't land. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?And at least those examples reduce men to a body part or something shaped like one. Those are offensive enough but being likened to a garbage receptacle is about as low as it gets. It's disrespectful on a basic human decency level like they don't even see you as human, not even trash but where the trash goes. Not to compare the two though, both are bad and I'd be pissed to be called a pocket pussy or something too. It's just disgusting and then for op to ask why are women offended... who wouldn'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:30 PM |
| 4 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?Causing others discomfort is the point for a lot of them. They know they're most likely not going to spark any interest, they get off on being shamed/crossing people's boundaries/god knows what else. That's why it's best to just ignore it and not give them any reaction at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:12 PM |
| 6 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?The only women who feel special because they have casual sex are those with low self esteem. I've been there. It's hard to hear someone say "you're not special" when you're already down on yourself. Just feels bad so obviously they don't like that even though it's true. People also generally don't like unsolicited comments/advice. For women with healthy self esteem, it's pointing out the obvious which is annoying in any situation and then on top of that it's condescending as hell. Saying "men ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?Why aim derogatory terms at people who get used instead of at the people who use them? Men who use women don't need to take accountability? Women who use men for money are called gold diggers far more than men are called walking wallets. It's worse to use someone than it is to be used so why the emphasis on calling out the women? People who use others can (and usually do) have low self esteem and no self respect too so if that's the point of disgust, why no dehumanizing phrase for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 12:44 PM |
| 7 | Women: If you believe your ability to easily get casual sex with hot guys is NOT important/advantageous, why do you get offended when men use phrases like "Its easy to get pumped & dumped and be Chads cum dumpster"?Because it's not a privilege or advantage to get laid. The vast majority of people do and you're not gaining anything of value from casual. And who are those straight women having casual sex with if not men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Should we have No Divorce groups?unless the reasons are for domestic abuse, or infidelity, or using sex and infidelity as a weapon, we shouldn't accept it. Last chunk of text. I'm not sure if he's saying the group should hold each other to it or society. Either way it would be removing the choice for other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Young mėn and womėn in all cultures(atleast on SM) think they are oppressed despite the reality being something elseWtf is "sexual benevolence"?? Y'all just be making shit up. This doesn't make any sense dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 10:51 PM |
| 8 | Young mėn and womėn in all cultures(atleast on SM) think they are oppressed despite the reality being something elseAny personal decision a woman makes is bad to these guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Playing hard to get? How often is it?Poor woman has the self preservation skills of a crash dummy. I hope someone steps in and gives her better advice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Do you think there are sexualized outfits women can wear in real life, and if yes, what?Actually you're right lol, I've seen a few smackdowns and people getting chased too. I miss the vibes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 11:49 PM |
| 6 | Do you think there are sexualized outfits women can wear in real life, and if yes, what?Please don't tell these guys about the culture lol. But yeah they're the only space where I feel completely comfortable. I've gone nips out and men still don't bother me or they're very respectful if they do. It blows my mind how different the culture is from the regular day to day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think there are sexualized outfits women can wear in real life, and if yes, what?I'm having flashbacks of me holding my skirt down and pulling my top up for the entire night and twisting both of my ankles at the same time in chunky heels. My heart is beating thinking about all the times I've misplaced my purse that I have to carry because my jeans pockets are three inches long max and the back pockets are fake lol. It's crazy how people just say stuff on here. He must be thinking about how freeing flowy dresses are and nothing else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/25 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you rather be the king's mistress or a peasant's wife?Valuing looks over loyalty is bizarre I agree but your hypothetical would be valuing looks over lack of looks since they're both loyal. That's how it works out in life a lot of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/25 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.Okay we can end it here if it's gotten to the point of copy and pasting. Thanks for the convo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Would you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Oh okay I see, that makes more sense. I think it would further division | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:54 PM |
| – | why do men hate sluts so much, instead of just feeling neutral?You don't even have to look outside of this sub. There's plenty of hate in here towards women in general but especially promiscuous women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.Women respond to men's words and actions. Most people don't think about lonely men much. Well adjusted lonely men don't go around telling everyone they're going to attack others. stop using incels as a scapegoat You want me to talk about incels so bad but I'm not going to. I haven't mentioned them once in any of my comments. You're the one who keeps bringing them up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 10:30 AM |
| 10 | Can you “love” and “lust” after the same person?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.But would they want to is the question. Would you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Some have both but I get your point. My point is just that a man isn't needed. Not every man is guaranteed to be able to defend you or even want to risk his life and women have other options for personal protection. Yeah I tried to edit it right after I posted to 10 instead. 20 feels too obvious and 5 felt too low lol. I'll take it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.use those outliners to represent all lonely men To be fair I never said all lol but that's on me, I should've clarified. I was referring to the men who say they're going to be violent when I said "them". "It's [that subset of] men [not women] saying they're going to drop out". Emphasizing that it's men (some) saying this, not women. I meant that women believe the men who say that are truly violent when they say they are. I agree it's wack to generalize an entire group of people, that's why I thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 02:50 AM |
| 6 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Well if we're going by what would be the best option for personal protection I'd say a weapon (with training obviously) would be better than children, women, and a man. Neither a weapon or a man is guaranteed to protect you but with a weapon you don't have to worry about it turning on you by choice. Men aren't needed for personal protection. Most women also aren't getting attacked in the streets regularly enough to where they need a man around. Take your pick, one average man or 10 average women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 01:19 AM |
| 10 | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.The women who think ALL lonely men are violent are outliers too. And men do judge women based off a minority of angry, bitter voices and generalize them as representatives of all women, not even just a subset. That's literally the whole idea of the redpill which this sub is based off of. People of both genders do it. I specifically said "this subset of men" too so idk where you're getting this "all men" stuff. Saying "men say violent things, so women are right to assume lonely men are violent" T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 01:05 AM |
| 10 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Men are predominantly the aggressor. Women don't need men to protect them from other women or children. And the majority of assaults are committed by someone in the close circle (family, partner, etc). It's actually more of a risk to your personal safety to be around men. I don't think they're "of little use" though and I don't really agree with that phrasing. I think personal relationships of any kind with either gender can be a benefit or just pleasant in general. I think everyone benefits fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 12:20 AM |
| 9 | Men are of very little use to a woman in a personal relationship.Sex robots I can see men going for but artificial wombs? You're telling me men would choose single parenthood? In this economy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 12:02 AM |
| 14 | Progressives or blue pill people ironically blame the male loneliness epidemic women when it comes to shaming single men.Adults are the primary source of their own well-being. It's not women's job to make men happy or prioritize men's happiness over their own and vice versa. It's on men to learn how to manage their emotions and not take them out on everyone else same as it is for women. I associate this subset of men with violence because of how many times I've seen men say some variation of "if women aren't going to sleep with me men are going to make their lives hell". There was even a post earlier today urging … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingThat was in response to you saying that women should dumb it down. I said that I wouldn't assume most men need it dumbed down for them when the word "husband" conveys the point. I was talking about "husband material" not "I wouldn't hook up with you" but I did mix up the two earlier. That's my fault. Why did you feel the need to specify "adult"? Because most adult men can understand context lol. I said it to emphasize grown which I don't consider young adults (late teens-early 20's) to be. I do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 07:30 PM |
| 1 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingyou and most women are making it sound like both categories are hermetically separated They're not separated, one is just a step (many really) above the other. Hookup is good for sex only. Husband is good for sex and long term companionship. It's the same thing men do, "can't turn a hoe into a housewife". The exact reasoning for putting the hookup material guy in the "hoe" category may be different but it's generally because he doesn't have relationship qualities same as how men do it. I don't t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 10:05 AM |
| 1 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingFor decades husband title has been given a bad rep, "dead bedroom" "settling" and the like. This is really only true of online spaces like this. Most people recognize those things could happen but tying it to marriage as if it's unavoidable isn't common irl. Most people have insecurities but not to the point where they think anyone who shows interest in them has ulterior motives and must be settling. That's a red pill thing. It's always "hey you're not someone I'd fuck based off pure desire" How… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 09:36 AM |
| 0 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingThey're descriptors, not categories for what you'll require of them. Hookup material is someone you're willing to have casual sex with but you don't care for anything else with them. He's not "with you", you just hook up with him. Husband material is someone with good qualities that you want to merge lives and have sex with forever. I don't understand why you equate "husband" with lack of genuine desire or having to jump through hoops. Can you elaborate? Has this been your experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingI believe most men don't have a problem with it I agree with that. A lot of men in the comments here are saying "husband material" is offensive to them but obviously they don't represent men as a whole or anything. Trying to imply men who "don't get it" aren't adults is ridiculous. Good thing I didn't do that then. Reread your previous comment then read mine. You said "then say 'I want more than meaningless sex with you'" and I replied "the majority of men can understand context and don't need w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 11:26 PM |
| 1 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingMen's sperm quality and count degrades over time. Not to mention the increased risk of ED as they age. We all face the pressures that come with getting old. And that doesn't make any sense. They're giving away their fertility window to hookups? We're not even in the fertility window all the time lol. Women aren't trading their fertility. You can't give away your fertility to someone else lmfao. I'd agree with you if you said they're trading their time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 11:01 AM |
| 1 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingI don't see how it's offensive for someone to think you're too good for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 10:40 AM |
| -1 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingIt's implied by saying "husband material" seeing as you have more than meaningless sex with a husband. It's kindof expected for the majority of adult men to be able to understand context so it doesn't make sense for women to assume it needs to be spelled out. What have women said to you in your experience? Did they say "I wouldn't hook up with you" and leave it at that? There's a big difference between "I wouldn't hookup/have casual with you" and "I wouldn't sleep with you". The word "hookup" im… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 09:30 AM |
| 2 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingRace definitely plays a huge factor. I once saw a guy here say all women like tall blue eyed men and another guy say all men like women with long flowing hair lol. I'm black too if you can't tell. That's part of the reason why generalizing a whole gender and insisting there's an objective attractiveness scale are so stupid. Culture is tied to race and preferences vary widely between and even within cultures. Emma Roberts is considered a beauty by Hollywood standards but would get no attention in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:46 AM |
| 0 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingWomen don't lose fertility every time they have sex wtf are you talking about. Women regret things for the same reasons men do. They look back on it and think they shouldn't have done it for whatever reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 08:01 AM |
| 0 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingI really don't get it. I can't imagine getting mad because someone wants to wife me up and fuck me forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:37 AM |
| 0 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingJobs that require high qualifications do generally have more strict hiring practices. Delta airlines has a 3 interview process and for the final one you're in a room with a hundred other people for like an hour and they pick the best 30 or so out of the bunch. McDonald's you can show up to the interview in sweatpants and start your shift two hours later. Of course people should have higher standards for a partner they want to keep in their life forever/long term vs short term. You're not plannin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:42 AM |
| -2 | I think boyfriend/husband material is more validatingI think this is just an issue of misinterpretation. "I wouldn't hook up with you" doesn't mean "I don't want to have sex with you". It means "I want more than meaningless sex because you're more than that". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 06:35 AM |
| 1 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsI think you shouldn't only if your only goal is to get with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 08:24 PM |
| 0 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsI think young people especially should put it out there. They're learning how to navigate relationships, communication and complicated feelings, how to handle rejection, what they can handle. If they don't learn how to navigate those things in early relationships (even platonic), how will they know how to later down the line? Communication is never wrong. I don't see how talking about it is creating an issue. The issue (in the neutral sense, not negative) I see is having feelings for someone who… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 03:00 PM |
| 0 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsI personally don't see anything wrong with just talking it out even if they're sending no signals. Men are notoriously bad at reading signals and it's not like bad to ask a friend out anyway. People catch feelings, it's normal and a good friend would understand that even if they don't feel it back. Definitely accept no but it's always good to communicate/address your feelings even if you're just admitting it and not asking them out. Read the room including your own side. I think it's worse on yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 01:15 PM |
| 3 | Passport bros, porn, OF, age gap relationships, prostitution and sex robots are all ethical. The only reason why (many) women oppose them is due to threat of intrasexual competitionI don't think that these things are going to become more mainstream. Not a lot of people are willing to uproot their lives and move to another country just to date internationally. Not to mention the rising poverty and unemployment rates and increasing lockdowns on the country (where I live) that affect people's ability to move. People have families and friends they're not willing to leave forever for an international bang I mean wife. I could see a ton of men trying sex robots for sure but it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 12:40 PM |
| 11 | "Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness.So me acting like men are somehow more "hungry" for it, more pained by a failure to get it is offensive and ignores women's suffering. women collectively do not seem to have anywhere near the suffering It is offensive to turn pain into a competition. Why is it so hard to just accept that everyone has their own struggles? Even if they seem to be in a better position than you from your perspective. You would probably feel the exact same way if you told someone about your struggles and they tried t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 12:06 PM |
| 3 | "Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness.Yeah I'd say the emotional stunting has more to do with how boys are raised and gender roles. Everyone has to suppress "sexual longings" sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 11:16 AM |
| 6 | "Women are just as horny, they just have safety/shame issues" doesn't check out with women not being tormented by sexlessness.I'm similar except my baseline is already decently high but it skyrockets with a partner. I think women vary more in their preferences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 11:06 AM |
| 1 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsUlterior motive: a secret reason for doing something; a purpose, often the main purpose, that is kept hidden. Asking out someone you've already been friends with but caught feelings for is not an ulterior motive. You're not hiding anything. Befriending someone specifically to try to get with them is an ulterior motive. You have a secret reason for befriending them that you're hiding from them. They are two different things. I think it would do a world of good for you guys to gain some confidence… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 10:35 AM |
| 1 | They are not rules if you don't enforce them.Read it again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 09:51 AM |
| 4 | They are not rules if you don't enforce them.That's actually the opposite of what the other commenter said. She said that not all women who date bad men are crazies who seek them out and that a lot of men here pretend those few crazy women represent all women. Which fallacy is when you twist someone's words? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 05:23 PM |
| 10 | It’s not creepy for men to want to sleep with or date their friendsThe inauthenticity is the problem, not necessarily just being rude. Nobody likes ulterior motives. Nothing wrong with catching feelings for a friend but befriending someone specifically to try to get with them is wack | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Why must girls nights and / or girls trips (ie excluding and disconnected from your partner) include places that are known for flirting, hooking up, etc?Sure I can see that for people who don't already enjoy going out, it would be odd for them to suddenly start to once they have a partner. There's nothing odd about someone who already enjoys going out continuing to do so when they have a partner. It's more unusual for someone to completely alter their life and only do things with a partner in the circles I hang out in. It's worrisome if someone refuses to do things by theirself. Your partner isn't always available to do things with you so you do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 10:06 AM |
| 2 | Why must girls nights and / or girls trips (ie excluding and disconnected from your partner) include places that are known for flirting, hooking up, etc?Do you expect me to argue someone else's point even if I don't agree with them? What are you talking about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Why must girls nights and / or girls trips (ie excluding and disconnected from your partner) include places that are known for flirting, hooking up, etc?A lot of the people I know like clubbing (or did, we're getting old) so my experience is different. They (and I) go out for the music, dancing, and socializing, not to hook up with people. Having a partner doesn't change the fact that they enjoy going out. I think that's a key difference. Ime, the people who aren't cheaters went clubbing both with and without their partners and didn't cheat. The people who are cheaters cheated. I've seen someone cheat on their partner right in front of them afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Why must girls nights and / or girls trips (ie excluding and disconnected from your partner) include places that are known for flirting, hooking up, etc?It is different from the other examples but it doesn't really matter. If your partner isn't a cheater then you have nothing to worry about whether they're at the grocery store or a club. It's fair for that to be a boundary if you're uncomfortable with it. Just don't date someone who likes clubbing and you're set. If you don't enjoy it yourself it's unlikely that someone who does will want to date you anyway and you don't want to date them either so there's no issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | I think women are worst in bed then men areOh no lol I enjoy it 🫣. It seems like most women hate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | I think women are worst in bed then men areI've always wondered do y'all actually not like the jackhammer or is that just a meme? I keep seeing women mention it when they talk about how ass some guys are in bed, implying the jackhammer is ass and I disagree lol. I know everyone is different and all but damn i haven't really ever seen or heard another woman say she enjoys it. I've never met a man who could take me all the way from head though and I've been with A LOT of people so agreed on that point! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/25 10:48 PM |
| 2 | Do RP believe that "most" men share the same dating strategy?He told me I should be stoned for my past so I did a wake and bake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 04:33 PM |
| – | Women, if you were a supreme Empress with absolute power, what would your dating/romance/sexual strategy look like?Oops I meant to respond to this. Same here! Except I would've had many lovers and would probably ruin my domain accidentally. I was clueless back in the day lmao. It would be cool to build something beautiful like the Taj Mahal but not as a monument to myself or anything. Off topic but I'd ban cheap buildings going forward, bring back architecture with character and soul that lasts. I agree traveling would be really nice! Having the freedom and money to do it and it's even more fun and also high… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304.If anyone does! Don't get me wrong, I'm not itching for a remake lol. I stopped watching them and the endless sequels a few years ago when I realized most of them can't touch the original. I think Titanic is so good that a remake would most likely flop but it feels like nothing is sacred anymore. You're right that its a different beast though, one of the best in history. I could see an actual reenactment being successful if done well since it's such an interesting story. It wouldnt be considered… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304.Which one? The original came out almost 30 years ago lol not recent unless there was another one. I think a remake could work now. One for the new generation but it would probably suck as remakes usually go. The titanic is still such an interesting story. To me at least. I think it would be hard to follow up the original since it's so good. I don't follow directors much so I can't really say who I think would do a good job with it. I think if Nolan did the original he could do a good job with an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304.Agreed and I wonder why nobody's done it with titanic yet. I guess because there's already a movie. Surprising though with all the shitty remakes being made. I'd watch it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304.He definitely could've sat on the door anyway, it was huge. They could've laid side by side on it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Titanic is not a romantic movie, it's a movie bout a 304.I love the Titanic movie and think a historical reenactment would be interesting too. Can't change what's already been done. I wonder if it's a legal matter for them to portray the deaths of actual people for a film since nobody's done it. It feels morally iffy too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 02:54 PM |
| 2 | If you women can despise/hate men but still date & have sex with them, because "sexuality isn't a choice", why do you question men's heterosexuality when they despise/hate women?Oh wow I can really relate to overwriting responses. I've even hit the limit a couple of times lol. I've been trying to keep it short lately. It seems like a ton of people are homophobic. Nobody is surprised when a man is but for some reason people don't really seem to consider it homophobia if it's from a woman. A ton of women seen to be disgusted by the idea of dating a bi man (that stupid "DL" term) and like you said some of them use gay as an insult. Idk if people like that are against them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 09:49 AM |
| 1 | The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short timeWe don't have evidence for the opposite in either case nor do we have evidence that a significant enough percentage of women lied. That's literally just your assumption. I'm going to trust the actual data that factors in a margin of error over your baseless assumption. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Women, if you were a supreme Empress with absolute power, what would your dating/romance/sexual strategy look like?We'd be similar rulers it sounds. For me I think the praise from my people for significantly improving their lives would be a pretty big ego boost. That would be enough for me. I think the stress of being known by so many people would fold me clean in half though lol I'd rather just live amongst the "commoners" and wear a disguise when I need to face the public. Hopefully my male hormones and absolute power wouldn't lead me to cheat. This is a good point. They say money doesn't really change you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Women, if you were a supreme Empress with absolute power, what would your dating/romance/sexual strategy look like?The only things being an absolute ruler would give me is rule and financial freedom. Money and power wont give me companionship or love, that's a silly question. All of your questions have been leading and you seem to be basing them on assumptions. Why do you assume that being an absolute ruler would give me everything I could want? What is it you think I want? I'd also like to hear your answers to your op. Would you marry another elite or it doesn't matter? Would you pursue a relationship/marri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Women, if you were a supreme Empress with absolute power, what would your dating/romance/sexual strategy look like?If I was deemed queen today, no. Having less money or influence than me doesn't put anyone below me. I don't care or think about "status" at all. I'm just a regular person who's used to being around other regular people. I'd like to think I'd be the same person as I am now but with new money and power. I'd want to minimize that side as much as possible. Marrying an elite would do the opposite. I actually despise money as a concept and I have no interest in power outside of wishing I could single… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Women, if you were a supreme Empress with absolute power, what would your dating/romance/sexual strategy look like?This is a fun prompt lol. It depends if I'm like made empress right now in this period of my life or if I was born supreme. If its like the last of the bloodline ran out over there and they had to come and find me tomorrow then I'd probably go dark and make sure the world can't ever identify me. Id rule from the shadows lol. That way there's less risk of people approaching me for power or money. I'd quit my current job and just tutor kids and volunteer with local sustainability groups and travel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Not trying to be misogynistic or incelly but why do women get into relationships if at all?Baby don't hurt me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?I put the word in quotation marks to signal that I was quoting you and using the word loosely. I think it's fear mongering more than anything and I'm specifically talking about when men boast about how they're going to reject women in the future. I understand the fear itself and I'm not arguing against that. I should've clarified. it isn't the same thing at all. It is. Both are judging a new person for something someone else or other people did and rejecting them based on that. The fear may be d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:22 AM |
| -1 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?Yeah I don't think it's punishing either, that's why I put it in quotations. More like fear mongering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:55 AM |
| -8 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?It feels like "punishing" women because they talk about it constantly, daily on here, and the vast majority of them aren't in this situation. They're not currently with a woman and worried she's using them, they're single and getting rejected daydreaming about switching roles with women so women can know how it feels to be rejected by someone they want. It's a revenge fantasy as much as it may be a legitimate fear. And for all the talk about how unfair it is for women to judge new partners based… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:46 PM |
| 6 | The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short timeSure if you consider sleeping with someone who isn't a virgin sharing, most women and men "share". What you're saying doesn't make sense though seeing as the data says that more men are hooking up and partnered than women. It seems as if men are the ones sharing a small percentage of women if we're going by the actual statistics and not our assumptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:13 PM |
| 16 | The reason women claim they have a worse dating life is cause they dated a HVM even if for a short timeWomen here have been saying that only a small percentage of women are having most of the casual sex. Maybe those 3% are just really busy lol. I'd like to see a breakdown too, you bring up a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:38 AM |
| 1 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite genderStill not worth the risk imo. I'd advise young women to prioritize making their own money to have fun with. No way in hell I'd let one of my younger sisters go on trips with some nasty old geezer who's probably going to expect sex in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 09:17 AM |
| 1 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite genderfor the plot LOL but it's not worth the risk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 07:51 PM |
| 6 | What advice do you give to the younger generation of your gender when it comes to dating the opposite genderTo add on, LEAVE if you're unhappy and they're not making any effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 07:48 PM |
| – | Finding the perfect match is overrated and a waste of time. Make it work with someone good natured and imperfect.Nothing really wrong with it, my knee jerk reaction is to nitpick for some reason. I want to say it's not guaranteed to work but like duh, obviously. It could work but it just kindof seems like a waste of time to try to force (for lack of a better word) attraction if there's 0 to begin with. It's just the idea of doing this intentionally to try to become more attracted to someone that puts me off I think. I feel like it would make me less attracted if I went about it this way but that's just me.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 06:53 PM |
| 3 | It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressureBoth though I don't see it as much offline as I used to before the internet got big. And obviously it's gotten worse online. When I say "have always been able to" I'm talking about throughout history. The internet has only been around as it is now for under 20 years. It's not a relevant metric for social norms through history. Men have always been able to do whatever they want for the most part. There was no society wide push to repress men's urges/opinions/beliefs/wants the way there was/is for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Gen Z men's life choices are the primary reason they're much more single than gen Z women; gen z women are finding equitable partners outside of heteronormsLooking like a twink is different from actually being bi/gay though. Lots of homophobic people in the states and tons of biphobic women for some reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Constant False Affirmation is Dangerous.Why don't you ask your mom why she affirmed things that aren't true? It looks like you answered your own question: when we were children my sister was jealous. To make her feel good, my mother and grandmother told her that she had beautiful green eyes. I do wonder why they didn't just tell her she has beautiful brown eyes. I'd like to see a close up of her eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 09:50 PM |
| 5 | It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressureYes it's partly a response to men's vitriol. The only part I disagree with is that this is some ploy by Feminism. It's just individual women being mean because they want to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 09:37 PM |
| 17 | It’s not dating apps or feminism that have raised women’s standards—it’s the removal of pressureI think the harshness is a byproduct of the pressure lifting. There isn't as much pressure on women to be nice and agreeable as there used to be so women who are mean are free to be mean just like men are. I don't think meanness/harshness itself is caused by feminism. Men have always been able to be as judgmental and harsh to women as they want, the only difference is we're more equal now so women are dishing it back more. There's also the society-wide shift towards being as rude and condescendi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Women bully each other into hypergamyI've had friends ask me what I saw in a guy. The friend I met my ex through asked and my best friends asked what I like about him and if I'm happy. I didn't realize it at the time but it was coming from a place of concern. No idea where op got "bullying" from. I feel like a lot of these guys see women talking vaguely about their experiences online and then they fill in all of the missing gaps with their assumptions. It's like a game of telephone but the goal is to make it look like women are alw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Young women have already been predominantly left leaning. I agree that people on the left have gone farther left and the people on the right farther right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:10 AM |
| – | Do you think preaching about normal well-adjusted people can be dismissive of women's issues?My last comment was for clarification on what I mean by having dating "figured out", not a strawman. None of this disproves my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:07 AM |
| – | Do you think preaching about normal well-adjusted people can be dismissive of women's issues?We have different definitions of what it means to figure out dating. I just mean most people understand that it's a process of trial and error and that not everyone is compatible with each other. Most people aren't at a loss on how to even begin to interact with the opposite gender. Most people don't struggle to understand that it's not a game where you win a prize if you play the right combination of moves and most people understand that life isn't perfect, you're going to face disappointment a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 10:16 AM |
| 6 | Finding the perfect match is overrated and a waste of time. Make it work with someone good natured and imperfect.Off topic and I disagree with your advice but I love games like that and haven't heard of that one. Thanks for the rec! You should try We're Not Really Strangers if you haven't already and it's trashier but fun cousin Truth or Drink | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 09:33 PM |
| -1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Oh I do? Can you link a comment where I've whined about men leaving women who've gained weight? Idk why you said "except" as if somebody whining about someone else's standards is a relevant rebuttal to anything I said. If you disagree with my points I'd like to hear why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Do you think preaching about normal well-adjusted people can be dismissive of women's issues?u/mydragonurdungeon Why does it say deleted but I can still see the comment and reply? Yes most people understand that it's a process of trial and error and that not everyone is compatible with each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Expecting women to maintain their weight to your taste is unrealistic. Pursuing women who are your ideal weight and rejecting women who aren't is fine. Demanding that men alter reality to become taller (which doesn't happen) is unrealistic. Pursuing men who are your ideal height and rejecting men who aren't is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:53 PM |
| 2 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”seen and not heared Heard* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | “Men are expected to be attractive and/or funny, fun, charismatic, etc - women just have to exist”Online discourse heavily veered to the left. There's not as big of a gender divide as you guys think. 45% of female voters voted republican last year and 43% of male voters voted Democrat. This "women are going to run out of options" thing is a fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 07:26 PM |
| 3 | Do you think preaching about normal well-adjusted people can be dismissive of women's issues?No I meant what I said throughout my entire comment which you didn't seem to read all the way through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 06:26 PM |
| 7 | Do you think preaching about normal well-adjusted people can be dismissive of women's issues?You can be well adjusted/normal and face societal issues. I think "it's not that hard" can be dismissive depending on how and why it's said. Preaching about normal and well adjusted people wouldn't apply to the majority of women's issues. Our issues are mainly about being repressed and otherwise mistreated, other people's actions towards us. Its not something women can learn their way out of or figure out. Men also face repression and mistreatment but the main issues they bring up have to do wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Why are women more likely than men to want to date and marry for convenience and confort and safety rather than for love?You didn't have to. It's relevant to me and I'm speaking from my perspective, not yours. I was just using it as an example of why that arrangement wouldn't work for me. "I want to have kids some day so I wouldn't want to be with a man who isn't willing to temporarily sacrifice his comfort". I don't understand what the problem is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Why are women more likely than men to want to date and marry for convenience and confort and safety rather than for love?to each their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Why are women more likely than men to want to date and marry for convenience and confort and safety rather than for love?Preservatives? Do you mean contraceptives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Why are women more likely than men to want to date and marry for convenience and confort and safety rather than for love?If she gave birth and we have a mini human to care for It was already mentioned in this thread. And no it's not an extreme case, most adults have kids lol. More than once too. I wasn't talking about pregnancy though. I was saying the contrast between me being willing to sacrifice 18-27 months of my wants and comfort and my hypothetical man not being willing to sacrifice more than 1 is a dealbreaker for me. to me, it's a red flag. That's fair, everyone has their preferences. Good reason why commu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Why are women more likely than men to want to date and marry for convenience and confort and safety rather than for love?This wouldn't work for me. If I just went through 9 months of crazy hormonal and physical changes and then childbirth and my husband isn't willing to go 1 measly month without sex, then the marriage would have to end. We wouldn't even make it through pregnancy if there were any restrictive complications. But to each their own. I know there are poly people out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/25 10:08 AM |
| 7 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themSome men do wear sagging pants under their asscheeks with their boxers showing. And I've seen plenty of cracks against my will from men wearing ill fitting clothes or just bending down. I think the equivalent to cleavage for men is going shirtless (with nipples exposed smh), wearing super tight clothes with their muscles on display, dick print in sweatpants or gym shorts. Men do this all the time lol. Society is okay with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Women want to be sexy, but hate the men who sexualize themI personally don't think there's anything wrong with looking as long as you're at the very least trying to not get caught/not staring someone down. I looks at boobs and butts and backs and calfs and everything in between. Its fine to appreciate someone's assets if you don't be weird about it imo. People who struggle with social skills should avoid staring though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?It's higly unlikely that a woman will even remember some guy she rejected years ago. Idk how much time we're talking but what are the chances she still lives near you and remembers you/is still in contact years down the line if she ends up single? I know people get back with old exes but I don't think this situation is common at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 05:44 AM |
| 2 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanHe said the fwb dynamic is different from just sleeping with a friend. I can relate to that. I wouldn't consider my friends that I've been with fwb's because we started from a different place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 12:28 AM |
| 3 | There is no such thing as "platonic cuddling" between a straight guy and a womanI've had sex with a couple of my friends before. Just depends on your friend group. It wasn't weird because we know each other and were already friends before the sex. The only issue is if it's within a friend group and someone else has already been with them before (potential hurt feelings) or a future partner/s not being cool with you hanging out with a previous fling. Me and my friends are pretty sexually open though so it's never been weird for us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about itI think a lot of men are terrible lovers based on my own personal experience (and I'm sure some women too but the only few women I've been with were decent partners). I don't support keeping a tally because orgasms aren't a valid measurement of good sex/what makes someone a good lover and sex is more enjoyable when both parties are putting in their best effort rather than trying to go tit for tat. The orgasm gap is a real thing but it's overstated because it's partly due to biology. I don't supp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about itI guess it depends on how you measure how pleasurable sex is to both parties which isn't really possible. Other factors can have an effect too like ED and stress. If both parties tried their best then yes I would say it is equitable. I personally don't measure it that way (or at all) though, sex is fun and can feel fantastic even if you don't orgasm so a tally of how many times both partners get off doesn't really say much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 04:56 PM |
| 7 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?What are you talking about? I didn't call anything nuance or "what do you bring to the table" in my comment?? The question was "how can men be desirable to women" and she answered with what makes men desirable to her. It's a one way performance review because op asked for a one way performance review lol. Why not ask her what she provides in return instead of assuming she provides nothing because she didn't answer a question that nobody asked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 04:48 PM |
| 12 | How can men be desirable to women under late-stage capitalism?The op asked "how can men be desirable to women" not "what do you do for your partner in return". You just assumed a bunch of stuff about her because she answered a question directly? Why not make a post and ask women what they do for their partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about itThe most "equitable" would be for both parties to orgasm as many times as they can in a session. For most men that's one time and for most women that's more than once. It's a matter of what's biologically possible, not a matter of what should happen. I can't relate to your last question but I just wouldn't sleep with someone who's more concerned about keeping a tally than just being present in the moment and reciprocating the effort I put in. Both parties should try to make each other feel as go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 04:18 PM |
| 2 | Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about itYou can predict it sometimes. When you're face to face with a person, you can guess based on their body language, what they're saying, etc. Women who know they have a psychological block can predict with more certainty because they know they're not going to orgasm with a new partner regardless of what he does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 06:21 AM |
| 10 | Sexual frustration seems to have very different meanings depending on whether it’s men or women talking about itFor every orgasm a woman gets, a man should get 5. It's actually the other way around. Most men can't orgasm back to back and most women can. If you're doing it right as a man, the woman should have more orgasms in most cases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Women understand male sexuality. It’s just there’s miscommunication and lies by men about it.I disagree. It doesn't take a genius to know that men strongly desire sex and some desire romance too. It's not a mystery lol. Women desire those things too. Why do you think women are confused? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:35 AM |
| 5 | If you make the claim that you think being single is perfectly fine and shouldn't be a problem, you should be open to talk about your relationship history.I've gotten "exceptions don't make the rule" a few times and not even always about relationships lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Women understand male sexuality. It’s just there’s miscommunication and lies by men about it.It's possible for people to become bitter about past experiences while looking for a better partner. Lots of people do it every day. The lack of success is a normal part of life. People are single because it takes time and effort to find someone compatible amongst other reasons. I don't know why you keep saying "so many/majority of/most men". I never claimed there's "something wrong with" the majority of men. I just said that women aren't confused about men and bitter people are bitter because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 10:45 PM |
| 0 | Men and Women need to start settling for the average personI think that's just what it's like getting older. "Old people" (30+) don't seem so old now that I'm almost at that age myself. Young 20's look like kids to me now. Also plastic surgery isn't hush hush anymore and a ton of people have work done to look younger which for sure contributes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Women understand male sexuality. It’s just there’s miscommunication and lies by men about it.Yes again, men are varied. Bitter women are bitter from encountering shitty men. They're not bitter because they "don't realize that some men want romance", they're bitter because they do realize that some men want romance and alot of the ones who don't lie about it. Men are not a mystery at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Women understand male sexuality. It’s just there’s miscommunication and lies by men about it.I said alot of men care about sex over everything as in its a top priority. A lot of men do only care about sex also. Men are varied | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Women understand male sexuality. It’s just there’s miscommunication and lies by men about it.This isn't confusing to women. Women start to learn about men from an early age. We know that a lot of men care about sex over everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?I hope you find someone too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Younger women. I don’t get it.I see that you're saying that's common in your life but why is that better than a relationship where both parties see each other as an equal and take care of each other? You said you've seen this from relationships that come and go but have you seen this in long lasting relationships? I think the feminine and masculine polarity is super common even if it's not the woman as feminine and man as masculine. I don't think that's mutually exclusive with reciprocity and equality. It is reciprocity by d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 09:08 AM |
| 3 | Do people take dating advice more negatively from the opposite gender compared to their own?It's not along the line of gender for me. I take advice differently depending on who the person is and what they're saying. I value my dad's advice over everyone and then people close to me like friends and other family members regardless of gender. Just depends on the advice giver's intentions and experience. I take advice negatively from a lot of dudes in this sub because they give it based on what's best for themself, not for the person recieving the advice, and they don't have a lot of exper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 11:37 PM |
| 1 | In online debate, women insist "Husband Material" always encompasses "Hookup Material", but in real life it's a distinct categoryJust to clarify, I wasn't saying that's the case for all or most, just some. And true to everything you said to an extent because people are varied. This is a good summary of the loudest people in this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 11:20 PM |
| 0 | In online debate, women insist "Husband Material" always encompasses "Hookup Material", but in real life it's a distinct categoryWhere are you guys getting this idea that women don't want to have sex with a "relationship material" guy? Women want to have sex in a relationship. If you're talking to a woman who's currently sleeping around (and you know this for a fact, not just an assumption) but doesn't want to sleep with you then it's likely she's just not into you. Simply waiting to have sex until she feels comfortable isn't the same thing as not wanting to sleep with someone at all. We live in a time where women get to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 05:23 PM |
| 4 | In online debate, women insist "Husband Material" always encompasses "Hookup Material", but in real life it's a distinct categoryYou forgot spineless. And a lot of men have the Madonna whore complex. If she's sexy and desirable (and strong willed) she can't be wife material. This whole topic is so weird because having someone actively choose to be with and sleep with you long term feels a billion times better than someone seeing you as "good enough" to sleep with one time but they don't like you enough to want to keep you around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | In online debate, women insist "Husband Material" always encompasses "Hookup Material", but in real life it's a distinct categoryI want a guy who can teach me the ins and outs of woodworking lol and then once I have it down it could be something we work on together. I see it as a bonding activity, learning something from your partner and working together | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Are all those top men really refusing to settle and playing women?Yes players who don't want to settle down exist. Some of them might have a psychopathy disorder but we don't need to pathologize every behavior that hurts other people. You don't have to have psychopathy to lead people on. Some people are just cruel and don't care about hurting someone. The men who do this are "to blame" for making that decision. I don't know or care what percentage of men do this but I know that some do and I'm sure some women do it too. No I wouldn't put up with someone who's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 04:53 PM |
| 2 | There really isn't a correct way to approach womenYou win some you lose some. It sucks that they're rude though. It's nice that you made some friends! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Younger women. I don’t get it.What's the point of maintaining a masculine and feminine polarity? Why is that better than equality and reciprocity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 08:03 PM |
| -1 | There really isn't a correct way to approach womenDo what feels natural to you and you'll likely find women you're compatible with. There is no one size fits all "what to do" that all women will like. Get to know the woman in front of you and go from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 07:40 PM |
| 1 | There really isn't a correct way to approach womenStop engaging with that kind of content and find a way to get out of your head. Just strike up a conversation when it feels natural to do so and be respectful and she likely won't think you're a "creep/weirdo". The more you talk to people the easier and less scary it gets usually. Find a way to build up your self esteem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 07:34 PM |
| 1 | There really isn't a correct way to approach womenThey choose to work through it because they value their friendship. Some people walk away because they value their friendship. There's really no wrong choice. People just do what they feel is best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.I don't agree but that's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Women can't be victims of the male gaze, and also don't care about male validation at same time.Feminists do believe that men are oppressed under the patriarchy. Just not as oppressed as women because men can benefit from it more than women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 04:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleI said the 80/20 is debunked. 50% are married, that disproves it. And the census considers single as "not married". That includes people who are in a relationship so the number of truly single people is lower than 50%. You can't take a stat about one specific age group and extrapolate it to all men. If only 30% of women are single that means around 70% of them are in a relationship/married to a man. If 80/20 was true, closer to 80% of women would be single. Provide a source that supports your cl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 09:33 AM |
| 2 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleMost men would rather not go through the effort it would be nice for it to just be pretty easy from the getgo Dating is hard for most people (moreso for some than others obviously). Kinda off topic but I think this is the crux of the issue that some men are having, they want it (relationships/sex) to just fall in their lap without much or any effort on their part. They would rather blame women's standards, 80/20, "chad" than to use that energy putting in effort to find a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Why do men think women are trying to share the top men? A lot of women are choosing to be singleDoes the (debunked) 80/20 rule only apply for 18-29 year olds? Because about 70% of adults of all ages are partnered/married. That leaves 30% of both single men and women. The actual stats disprove the 80/20 "rule". Here's a study from 2020. The census says about 50% of Americans are married (they consider unmarried as single). I don't understand why you guys keep parroting this obvious lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 09:30 AM |
| 0 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Anorexia is an eating disorder, not a body type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 10:13 AM |
| 1 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Yes that's what the bar is. There is no bar for people you don't interact with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 07:19 PM |
| 0 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.I've found that what people say they want online doesn't factor in when you're actually dating someone one on one in person. I couldn't be assed to care about what people online say they prefer in a partner. It sounds exhausting caring enough about a bunch of randoms you'll never meet to call them out like this. It's kind of redundant to include "attractive" in a list of traits you're looking for in a partner. It's like saying someone is lying if they say they want to have a career they're passi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 06:45 PM |
| 1 | This quote "the bar is in hell for men". This quote doesn't make sense all. Because that bar isn't usually meant for all men.Probably because you understand common sense and nuance and you actually interact with women. It really shouldn't be this hard for them to understand that people are attracted to attractive people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 06:10 PM |
| 0 | The ability to get sex when you want to is not inherently a virtue. Most men don’t want to have sex with gay men either.How do you figure out the "best" of 500 options if not by dating them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 10:48 AM |
| 2 | How plausible is the type of man you want?Same here! This list was just me looking at the stuff I did and didn't like from my past relationships pretty much. I just want to be with someone I click with who respects me and wants to be with me as much as I do them. I don't think that's asking for much lol. Good luck on your search when you get back into it! I hope we can both find something happy and healthy :D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 09:33 AM |
| 2 | The lie regarding nice guysThe same reason why people write about anything. There are books, podcasts, and articles extensively explaining any and every concept you can think of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 08:50 AM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysWhy not address my points instead of making baseless assumptions about me? Which part of my comment do you disagree with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 08:44 AM |
| 1 | The lie regarding nice guysThey're called "nice guys" because that's how they refer to themselves. Even in the sub, both the pinned post AND description say they have to make a virtue claim for a post to be accepted. You can also look through the posts and find men making virtue claims ("I'm a great guy I definitely won't stalk you") and then going on to do the opposite of their claim ("I found your first and last name and address"). It's really not hard for most people to understand that a "word" in quotations or italics… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 10:14 AM |
| 4 | The lie regarding nice guys877 BALLS OW | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 09:46 AM |
| 5 | What makes a guy boring?Wow you really weren't kidding about them being an emotional mess about it lmfao this thread is insane | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?It's not "feminism" just because some women said it. My point was just that I think this is a thing mostly with young adults and people who live in unfriendly areas. If that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 11:03 PM |
| – | Have you ever been shamed for sleeping around?I got caught texting with a guy in high school about sex and my folks threatened to kick me out. My dad said hes "not raising a slut" and took away my phone and laptop for about two years. The first guy I slept with (a hookup) called me an "HIV riddled whore" and said I was disgusting when I told him I hooked up with two other guys after him. A coworker/friend called me loose one time. I've heard my family and other people make fun of women who sleep around (wasn't direct shaming but indirect be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 12:35 PM |
| 10 | Women don't know themselves or what they wantThey want to believe women are hypergamous and if they make women believe we're lower than them, someone will scrape the bottom of the barrel and pick them. Either that or it's a revenge fantasy "nobody wants me so I'm going to bring women down to my level so they can feel as sad and desperate as I do". It's pitiful. I spent a lot of time trying to debate these guys here but it's completely useless so I just laugh at them now. The guys that say this stuff will do anything but self reflect. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 06:59 PM |
| – | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.We're living in an era where people get chastised for saying anything that might hurt someone's feelings. Like I get that dysphoria is a beast of a disorder and trans people feel discomfort from people identifying them as their sex and all. But this is a conversation on a debate sub where there aren't many trans people and I'm not going to just lie when the topic comes up. It's just kind of crazy how these people (mostly alies tbh) liken being called a man to oppression and saying anything less … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 05:19 PM |
| 3 | Sexual liberation is inherently eugenicistPeople make mistakes, people change their mind, people have health complications or get pregnant against their will, people want to have sex but not the responsibility of taking care of a child. Like it or not, we live in an era where we get to decide whether or not to have children. I think encouraging birth control is better than telling people "just don't have sex" but that's just my opinion. You're free to abstain if that's your preference but it's not your place to tell anybody else what to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 12:34 AM |
| 4 | Why are you still single?Nothing you do ever works... until it does It's like this for a lot of women too with regards to what they see as "works". It's easier to have meaningless casual sex sure but lots of women are seeking a real connection and a healthy lasting relationship which isn't easy to find for most. Lots of women fall into hopeless and desperation same as some men do. We're not so different that either gender wouldn't understand. It feels hopeless for me personally. Nothing has "worked out" thus far but I'm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 06:08 PM |
| 6 | Why are you still single?Same here, I was recently diagnosed and I'm a mess right now. I don't have the energy or time to be a good partner to someone else when I'm not even good to myself currently. It's taken a toll on my self esteem as well and I don't want to date anybody until I at least get that in check. I wish you the best in figuring out how to manage! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Sexual liberation is inherently eugenicistA lot of people have a fundamental misunderstanding of the pro choice movement. It's about women having the right to choose whether or not to have an abortion and that's it. Whether it's for elective or health related reasons. The elective reasons could range anywhere from not wanting to have a baby of a specific gender to just not wanting to have a child at all. Its only eugenics if it's a controlled effort by an outside body. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Sexual liberation is inherently eugenicistIt's like saying hiring discrimination only counts if there is an explicit prohibition of certain types of people. Lol?? Yes that's the definition of hiring discrimination... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:23 PM |
| 3 | Sexual liberation is inherently eugenicistPeople are also (on average) pairing up long term and marrying at later ages than before. Somewhere around 60+% of men aged 18-29 are single, not "without sex". And somewhere around half of them aren't actively looking. Most people still marry and have kids, somewhere around 70% of adults 18+ are in a relationship or dating. With the 18-29 age range included in that average, way more than 70% of adults aged 30+ are dating, in a relationship, or married. This misconstruing of data and the narrati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:58 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterWell I was responding to a specific comment by a self identified redpill man on a sub where we discuss redpill ideology... You can't even see the comment I was replying to to know the context of my comment. I was replying to him specifically, hence me saying "you act like men are infallible". If I'm not mistaken, acting like men are infallible is the exact same as acting like women are infallible whether it's one person doing it or many. The behavior is the same for any individual doing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 10:48 PM |
| – | Modern open marriages debateWait isn't swinging when a couple fools around with another? How are there swinger single mothers? Were they a third? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryAnd your (not you specifically since you're not even in this thread) argument amounts to "we have all this evidence (with faulty methodology that leaves tons of room for errors and don't even come to the same conclusions) so therefore anything I say is right and you're a bigot for disagreeing." So I guess we're two sides of the same coin. Idk maybe because I literally have already read tons of articles and studies supporting my arguments and literally posted one in the comment you're replying to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryStop trying to derail the conversation. Do you agree or disagree that gender ideology is inherently conservative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryBecause he's talking out of his ass to push a narrative. Notice how people who support gender ideology rarely post their sources and when they do they're either debunked or have flawed methodology. There's not even much research on the long term effects of these treatments besides the studies and evidence that show minors who take hormones are at an increased risk of osteoporosis and infertility. Just a whole lot of "trust me bro" and name calling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryThe literature to date suffers from a lack of methodological rigor that increases the risk of type I error. Here's a review of many studies that show varying results and methodologies. I don't understand why so many people are so adamant about being right on this topic when the research is only in the beginning stages and nowhere near complete enough to draw definite conclusions. I think this link shows that for the most part there's a decrease in suicidal ideation on average but the methodology… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryI think they meant "progressive/leftist" as in its supported by people who consider themselves that way (and are on most topics besides this one). I think the definitions of progressive/leftist are muddied and many people use them that way instead of the proper way. That may or may not be what they're saying though, I won't put words in their mouth and I'll just say I disagree with that as it was stated. I don't understand what you mean. Were you saying that mockingly? It looks like you were mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Let's talk about Gender Theorymany sufferers of AN don't think they're fat, just not thin enough I said "overweight" instead of fat to indicate "not thin enough" but that's on me for not clarifying. I appreciate you going into more detail! in the case of GD and BD, the sufferer knows their body isn't what they want it to be. Sufferers of BD experience a distortion. I think with GD, the feeling of having the wrong body, feeling "stuck" and like they are the opposite gender is the delusion (all things I've heard actual transge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender Theorygender theory is controversial because it is a frontal attack on the nuclear family and conservatism generally... The context of the post that you initially responded to is that op doesn't believe in gender theory. This is your comment that I was responding to. Can you explain the context that I'm missing? It looks to me like you're saying that gender theory is an attack on conservatism and this is the reason why it's controversial. How is gender theory simultaneously inherently conservative and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 12:44 PM |
| 0 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryIt seems to be a mix The source I used was from an organization run by actual Indigenous people who identify as Two-Spirit. I specifically looked into what these people say about their own culture. The link I sent specifically and plainly says "transgender does not equal Two-Spirit". It's not other people's place to co-opt indigenous people's culture and use their terms. They themselves say it isn't a gender identity and it refers specifically to indigenous people who perform roles in their cult… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryNo one is saying that it isn't a mental illness Yes there are lots of people saying that, lots of people who support gender ideology. They make it seem like calling it a mental illness is some kind of attack on trans people when it's literally just calling it what it is. I'm not asking you to answer for them or anything though, just pointing that out. I don't like the term "delulu" at all and would never call someone that but is it not a delusion to have a warped sense of your physical body to t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryIt's what you were talking about though. Gender theory can't be an attack on conservatism if it affirms conservative ideals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 10:42 AM |
| 2 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryA mental disorder is characterized by a clinically significant disturbance in an individual’s cognition, emotional regulation, or behaviour. It is usually associated with *distress** or impairment in important areas of functioning. Mental health conditions is a broader term covering mental disorders, psychosocial disabilities and (other) mental states associated with significant distress, impairment in functioning, or risk of self-harm.* It's not mentally healthy to be extremely distressed about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 09:06 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryGender theory is conservative. It dictates that men and women are a social role based on regressive gender stereotypes which is a conservative viewpoint. "Men are stoic, women are emotional, women like long hair and nails, girls play with dolls, boys don't wear dresses, women are feminine, boys are masculine". This is basic conservatism wrapped up in a pink white and blue bow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 07:48 AM |
| 0 | Let's talk about Gender TheoryTwo-Spirit describes Indigenous North Americans who fulfill one of many mixed gender roles found traditionally among Native North Americans. The term can also be used more abstractly, to indicate the presence of two contrasting human spirits (such as Warrior and Clan Mother). I think co-opting Indigenous people's culture to validate the idea of being transgender is a bit problematic. From this source it sounds like they used it to identify someone's role in society, not gender. People are still … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Ideally, how much of your value do you think should come from sex?If he wants to have sex then yes he should work to make his partner aroused and she should do the same. If you don't want to be the only initiator then you should find a partner who also initiates. It just depends on the couple. What works for that other commenter won't work for everyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Ideally, how much of your value do you think should come from sex?Objectification is the act of treating a person as an object. Being attracted to ass and tits isn't treating a person like an object, that's just basic attraction for either gender. Not listening to what your partner says they like in bed or only coming around for sex are some examples of objectification. Liking someone's body and everything else about them doesn't fit the definition. I strongly disagree that male sexuality is fundamentally objectifying and I think people who say that do men a d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?It's truly bonkers. Like if the only reason they haven't mistreated or abused a partner is because everyone rejects them, what do they think will happen when someone decides to date them? I'm not about to offer myself up to be the first like wtf. There are actual crazy people in this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?The whole point of redpill and the PUA community it originated from is to teach undesirable men how to be attractive to women lmfao. This is a joke | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?Lol so predictable. I'm a 4 and a wet hole too? You could've at least called me a 3 so it doesn't look like you just copy and pasted your response to the other commenter. The insult is stale, you need to get better material. I think "your parents never loved you" or something would hit harder. I'll give you another chance, I know you can do better than that. I believe in you. If a man who I can see clearly isn't desperate asks me out, why would I care if you or other men think I'm a 4 and he's a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?So being seen as "a wet hole for them to bust a nut into" is what you consider being successful in dating??? That's bizarre. And yes, I saw the cat signal in the sky and I accepted the quest LOL. Not like this is a debate sub or anything. But in all seriousness, sure it's not trolling at all to call someone ugly and say men only want them for sex. It's very civil and mature. Again, none of that has anything to do with men's opinions not mattering when it comes to who women decide they want to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?Schrödinger's woman: has it easy in dating/is privileged; men don't think she's special or even attractive/men never commit Sick burn lmfao. I wonder when men who say this kind of stuff will realize that "you're ugly, men only want you for sex" isn't the scathing insult they think it is. And none of that even has anything to do with men's opinions not mattering when it comes to who women decide they want to be with lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 12:33 PM |
| 5 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?The point is that they're not all secretly wonderful people just because they're unattractive. They're human just like everyone else so they have the capacity to be either good or bad partners. Most people (if not everybody) would be unhappy in a relationship with someone they're not attracted to so they would be a bad option by default. Hence why "have you tried dating unattractive men if you're unhappy with your dating experiences" is a dumb question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?I think this is mostly a problem for young adults who grew up glued to a screen or people who live in unfriendly areas. Usually late 20's-older men still approach where I live and it's normal to talk to strangers. I think this issue is overblown by the men here because they're the minority in real life but the majority in spaces like this. That's just my experience though. Have you noticed a dip in men approaching? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:26 AM |
| 4 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?Dating App Statistics of 3,700+ Users This is a tiny sample size. 67% of dating app users are men, while only 33% are women. This 2:1 ratio creates a supply and demand disparity that affects everything from match rates to user behavior. To visualize this: in a room of 100 dating app users, 67 would be men competing for the attention of 33 women—and even if every woman paired with someone, 34 men would remain unmatched before considering any compatibility factors. Nothing in this article says tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?People wanting to have sex with you isn't a privilege but I can see how it looks that way to someone who nobody is interested in. Also I don't see how "life is much much easier when it comes to sex, dating, and relationships" if women are unhappy that the men they're interested in won't commit. No idea how people not committing to you is considered having it easy in dating and relationships. You're contradicting yourself but I expect no less from someone spewing incel talking points. I don't wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 10:10 AM |
| 5 | Women who dislike online dating: have you tried talking to less attractive men?Same here and I'm one of those people lol. I love that description | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 09:48 AM |
| 3 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.I agree with this for the most part but the point of a long term relationship is to invest in someone and accept their flaws (to an extent!). You can see it when someone is working on improving themself like taking college courses or consistently going to therapy. You can gauge someone's level of ambition and determine if you're willing to grow with them or leave. Some people should just be left immediately. It's up to everyone individually to determine which flaws are acceptable. We all have fl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.You just said "can be physical characteristics like the person's sex". That's the opposite of what I said. But okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.The vast majority of society considers men as adult human males and women as adult human females if you want to talk about what's "reasonable". It's not reasonable to try to force everyone to follow brand new definitions just because less than 1% of the population is uncomfortable being the sex they were born as. Heterosexual people don't get to identify into a marginalized group just because they have dysphoria. I guess I'm gay too because I like feminine men. And I disagree that "there's nothi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.Because that's what we've been calling it since the English language was invented. Women are adult female humans the same way a doe is a female deer. Intersex conditions are a disorder and an exception to the rule. Categories have exceptions. Someone born with normal sex chromosomes having gender dysphoria doesn't make them an exception, they're still male or female. The purpose of categories isn't to make people feel included, it's to define. Exceptions don't make the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.Sex is not a physical characteristic. Our physical characteristics are based on sex. Sexuality is also based on sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.Yes. It's regressive to say someone is gay because they like women who "act like men". You're supporting classic gender norms. How does one "act like a man"? Are men who date female bodybuilders "a little gay"? If a man is a stay at home dad with a stoic wife who works and pays the bills does that make him not straight? Are the men who date me less straight because I don't shave, don't wear makeup, and my hair is short? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 09:38 AM |
| 0 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.what do you call a man with xx chromosomes? If they only have xx chromosomes they're called a woman. If they have xxy they're called an intersex man. Chromosomal anomalies are based on xx or xy, they're still male or female. could still kick someone out of the "man" category even if they present as such. The purpose of a category is to include things with the same characteristics and exclude things with different characteristics. Everybody can't be included in the "man" category. Presentation ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.Their sex is male. And some women have masuline behaviors but gay men aren't attracted to them. Because sexuality is based on sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 09:18 AM |
| 5 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.If "manhood is stored in the chromosomes," trans men aren't men. They aren't. Definitions are inherently exclusionary. This definition excludes women. If I say "meat is animal tissue that is eaten as food," then broccoli isn't considered "meat". It's excluded from that definition but is included in the definition of a "vegetable". Definitions aren't a means for including or validating someone's self perceived identity. The point of a definition is to define, not validate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.By sex. The feminine appearance is an added qualifier, it doesn't determine your sexuality. You may turn down women who present masculine because you're attracted to women with a feminine appearance but would you be attracted to a man with a feminine appearance? Homo-, hetero-, bi- refer to same, opposite, both, respectively. "-Sexual" refers to sex. I think it's important for us to be able to clearly define sexuality for the purpose of identifying and targeting marginalization. Homosexual and b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.Not all gay men are masculine though. Twinks exist and the drag community was created by gay men for gay men (originally). I thought we were over stereotyping the gay community but it seems people have just repurposed the stereotypes in the name of inclusion. If gay men were attracted to masculinity then why don't they date women who present masculine? That's one of the big issues with the trans movement, how people use sterotypes and outdated gender roles so trans people feel more comfortable p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.Gender has always been how we refer to male and female humans the same way we call male horses stallions and female horses mares or buck and doe for deer or bitch and stud for breeding dogs, etc. It's so bizarre to me that people are pushing this revision. "A wo/man is anyone who identifies as a wo/man" is a completely useless definition. Like why not get rid of gendered terms completely and just refer to people as male and female if there's no solid category that defines the terms? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 10:04 PM |
| 5 | Most people, regardless of political affiliation, believe men who date trans women are gay or bisexual.Manhood is stored in the chromosomes. People who are born male are still male even if they lose their dick. They have a dick because of their chromosomes. A bio essentialist argument would be to say that someone is a man because they have masculine behaviors, not because they are a male. Biological essentialism - the belief that ‘human nature’, an individual's personality, or some specific quality (such as intelligence, creativity, homosexuality, masculinity, femininity, or a male propensity to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Men are angry about the current dating dynamics because they don't want to feel cucked.Can you give some examples? There are patterns in experiences and behaviors obviously but the root is the same. In op's example, "men want to be desired by their woman more than any man", women want that too. Most people know that they're not, some are okay with it, some like op are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Men are angry about the current dating dynamics because they don't want to feel cucked.I think they're overstated. There are a lot of differences even between people of the same sex and similarities between men and women. Even with the topic of this post, there are men who also settle and women who "feel cucked". A ton of people don't end up with their first choice and a ton of people find that their later choice of partner is better than the previous and some who don't. None of the stuff talked about here is exclusive to one sex. I don't agree with the people saying "men don't un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 09:12 PM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedIf your (not you specifically) problem is getting rejected constantly because people find you unattractive, then the solution is for you to become more attractive. If that doesn't work then there is no solution and you have to find a way to live with that. This applies to both men and women. It applies to me even lol I'm intentionally not dating while I work on improving myself to be more attractive to potential partners (and mainly just to improve my quality of life in general). Not physically … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:46 PM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedIt's in your interests to make that argument. Well yeah I'm human and our opinions are based on our own perception. I help people out whenever I can, that's how I live which is why I believe that. It's in everyone's interest for us to protect each other. None of us would be here if we all minded our own business and avoiding doing for other people. I'm not talking about conscription. I don't really believe in drafting people at all. Plus wars aren't that specific where people are drafted to prot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:32 PM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedthey'd effectively be giving up their own humanity to protect yours I'd argue that its acting on your humanity to protect others. Caring for and protecting other people is the essence of humanity imo. And you're not protecting someone's humanity by defending them from rape/slavery. They're still human if they're forced into those things. You've been rephrasing/arguing hypotheticals this whole thread. You can endlessly rephrase to change the meaning of anything. Instead of "choosing not to kill o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 09:27 AM |
| 1 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureIt's not a dismissal of problems, it's a potential solution. The article you quoted said that men suffering from rejection trauma should seek professional help same as women say. We should talk about individual cases. Everyone has to deal with issues caused by society but the main issue men overwhelmingly bring up here is being seen as unattractive and getting rejected. There's nothing society can do to "fix" that. And it's legal for people to be assholes or to reject others so the best we can d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 08:19 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedMore relationships and a higher birth rate in a country where tons of people don't want to do that would be moving in the direction of an Amish or similar society. I don't personally care if more people want to be Amish or similar as long as they don't force it on the people who don't which is what you guys seem to be advocating for. I don't understand this fear of "replacement" or even what you mean by that. How does ~20% of men being single lead to being replaced by people like the Amish? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:11 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedChoosing to not marry/have children is pretty different from choosing to not save someone from rape/slavery. It's your prerogative if you don't want to put your life on the line to save someone else from being violated but it shows your values. People who don't have empathy for others and don't stand up for what's right are a drag on society imo but they have a right to be and they shouldn't be forced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 07:02 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedare the only real problems those that kill people? No but problems that kill people are the most pressing issues and usually have more clear cut societal solutions. How would you suggest solving the "issue" of some men being single if you're opposed to stripping women of autonomy? Women suggest men build and maintain platonic relationships and men here insist that they don't need them. Women suggest men who are suffering from depression due to being single seek professional help and men here ins… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 06:45 AM |
| – | Men being single isn't a problem to be solvedI think beauty standards in general are a problem and should be done away with. Which is possible to do without taking away others' personal autonomy, unlike the "problem" of 20-% of men being single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureOkay? Nobody is talking about opening up to a partner. Op just said that the majority of redpill men are insecure and that's what their arguments are based on. That's not an attack. Men in these spaces are free to show or share these insecurities in these posts but instead they choose to promote these theories about how AWALT and "women are children" and all of that bs. You guys have a whole manosphere space on the internet to talk about your feelings but you choose not to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 10:02 AM |
| 2 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureOdd double standard. Strawman. Show me where I called anyone a woman hating misogynist in this thread. "It's not the end of the world for people to think your behavior isn't sexy" is gender neutral. Do you agree or disagree with that statement? while women are entitled to men's love Another strawman. Is it really that hard to just engage with the actual points I made? If you ageee that being sexy doesn't mean you're deserving of love then why did you say the opposite in your last comment. Is it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 09:55 AM |
| 1 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureIm just pointing it out because lots of men here don't believe in professional help and get mad whenever someone mentions it. Clearly alot of men are struggling so I wanted to emphasize that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 09:43 AM |
| 2 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureI asked what it does to help men, not what it doesn't do. Id like for you to answer my question. Is shoving men into a tiny box helpful for men? Some of you guys here are so blinded by your rage and insecurity that you don't even care about men being helped as long as the people you hate are being hurt too. Says a lot about your values and makes me think all this talk about "helping men" is a farce for a lot of you. And the right does openly hate men who aren't white and straight and blames them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 01:26 PM |
| 2 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureI think it can be harmful to yourself but the harm is from dwelling on it (the action you take) rather than insecurity itself. It's an emotion. Like anger, it isn't inherently harmful. Letting it fester or lashing out at others is where the harm comes in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureSo men aren't allowed to fail, must put themselves through the gauntlet, and must not only suffer but come out the other side undamanged, else women see them as weak and unsexy. It's not the end of the world for people to think your behavior isn't sexy. Men are allowed to do whatever tf they want. It's not on women if the idea of someone not finding you sexy makes your world crumble. You're the one imposing those restrictions on yourself in pursuit of the type of woman you don't even like. "you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:36 PM |
| 2 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureOp is a man. You guys see someone point out your insecurity and perceive it as an attack. Everybody has insecurities and it's not "attacking" you to point out the obvious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:29 PM |
| 0 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureIf this persists, get professional help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:22 PM |
| 1 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureWhat is the right wing movement doing to help men? I always see guys here say this but what is it doing for them? Is it enhancing their quality of life? Has it gotten rid of the draft? Does it address any of the concerns men have about unsafe working conditions, divorce arrangements, custody battles, paternity fraud, inequality in the justice system, homelessness, addiction, the male suicide rate? Does it break down stigmas and toxic gender roles and allow men to feel more free to express themse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 12:11 PM |
| 1 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.You're right it's not as close as I thought. 91.5% of men and 60.2% of women. I was going off of old data from before 2020. Still a sizable amount of women though, more than half and that includes other forms (pictures and literature), but not nearly as much as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 11:59 AM |
| 1 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.No I don't think so personally. It's more about how you act on it. It's uncomfortable when you're trying to talk to someone and they're staring at your body for example or the first thing you say is something along the lines of "damn your ass is fat". Nothing wrong with approaching in a respectful way imo. Were you guys never taught common courtesy? I'm asking genuinely. I thought "it's rude to stare" was like a universal thing that most people learned growing up. Nothing wrong with looking but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 06:52 PM |
| 0 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.The effects of any compound are stronger for people who haven't used it regularly than people who have their whole life so that's a bad example. Even trans men say that it evens out after a while. It's called tolerance. And there's a huge difference between being horny for someone and vocalizing/acting on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 11:33 PM |
| 9 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.Exactly, porn is a business. They want as many people as possible watching so of course they're not going to only cater to men. Lots of women are into the plot and just seeing people feel good. There's a whole "for women" category and women led/owned production companies. I feel like if I was a man I would be pissed off about how reductive and narrow men here are in their descriptions of men. The men in my life are much more complex than these descriptions. And "porn is a sexuality" is comical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 09:59 PM |
| 4 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborThis is weird. I can't imagine just sitting there like a bump on a log waiting for them to plan something. Planning the next outing together is part of the fun for me and I can't not express interest in someone I'm interested in. I actually like planning things and coming up with fun and creative date ideas. I'd feel infantilized if my date didn't ask for my input at the very very least. This sounds more like parenting than partnership. We're grown lol I have a somewhat irregular schedule that I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 09:50 PM |
| 13 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.Porn isn't a sexuality. And okay we get it, you think women are annoying blah blah blah. Nobody cares and your annoyance doesn't mean women are disgusted by men having a sex drive. I think it's funny when men here rant about how sensitive and easily triggered women are. As if you writing an illegible rant with multiple typos is the opposite of sensitive and triggered lol. Be disgusted if you want dude. Are we supposed to cry about it? I don't think anyone cares | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 09:14 PM |
| 15 | If women are kind of disgusted by male sexuality by default, then they really shouldn't be so shocked that men too have negative feelings about theirs.Yeah man, there's not a single person on this planet who's preferences aren't annoying or "disgusting" to at least one other person. Nobody is shocked that men are disgusted by women liking sex, we've been known that for centuries. Nobody cares unless you're actively and openly disparaging people for it. And porn isn't "male sexuality". Women watch porn at almost the same rate as men. You guys hear women say we don't want to be treated like an object and feel like that must mean women think it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true?Because some people don't want to date people who have a mental illness, some people are transphobic, straight people aren't attracted to every single person of the opposite gender, etc. I would assume most people wouldn't want to date someone with a surgically created penis. Muscular and hairy women get turned down by straight men often but not always. Not being attracted to every person of the opposite sex doesn't mean you're attracted to the same sex or that the people you're not attracted to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 11:26 PM |
| 2 | What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true?I've never heard that phrase before but it's accurate! That's really how people think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 11:09 PM |
| 4 | How plausible is the type of man you want?why are they expected to bear the burden of initiating? They're not. I used to approach guys all the time but haven't recently since I'm intentionally not dating. I initiate conversation with guys I'm attracted to (and everyone else) but that's it. If a man likes me enough to ask me out I may or not go for it but I'm not like forcing anyone to ask me out. How does the ideal man handle rejection, and how did he come to be that way? Gracefully and respectfully. They come to be that way through lif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Women who claim that size doesn't matter, have you actually experienced a big penis before, or are you just assuming it won't make a difference?Foreplay is a part of sex. I didn't feel his dick much but the dude had excellent technique. It was the size of a finger which is enough for some women but not really for me unless the guy knows what to do with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute)I hope it's just a small number of psychos. I hope she gets help too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 01:17 AM |
| 0 | What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true?It's not the same at all. These straight women are attracted to males and reject gay/bi men for their sexuality/who they are attracted to. Straight men are attracted to females and reject trans women for their sex/because they're not attracted to males. One is a preference based on the other person's sexuality, the other is lack of attraction based on their own sexuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:12 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute)Thanks! I think those things all occurred at the same time but it has gotten more extreme. All of the older ladies I know talk mad shit about their husbands. My grandma and stepmom call their husbands dogs and stuff right in front of them and the men just roll their eyes. "Men ain't shit" has been a saying longer than I've been alive (but hasn't been said publicly as long as the inverse "bitches ain't shit" has). Lots of older ladies who were discouraged from divorce hated their husbands even mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:55 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute)Yes exactly it's really sad. I think the popularization of the phrase "sex work is work" contributes to this. It is a type of work but it's not the same as any other job. They're selling their sexuality and that has both a mental and societal impact. Kids don't understand the complexity of it and think it can be just a side hustle partly because of how adults normalize it. I don't think it should be normalized at all really. The people doing it shouldn't be shamed or anything imo but it doesn't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 04:44 PM |
| – | “Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point.Because some men hide it and some women stupidly think they can change the men who don't hide it. Lots of reasons all stemming from the fact that those men choose to abandon their children because they can. Also some women are desperate af to have kids. One of my cousins told me I should just pick a random man and get pregnant. I was like what if he's a pos and she said it doesn't matter I can just raise them on my own. Like wtf no I want a partner and I refuse to put my kids and myself through … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:58 PM |
| 7 | What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute)I think sex positivity was great for destigmatization of sex in general but it's gone way overboard to the point where people are praising women for doing extreme acts that are damaging to their health for money. We went from shaming people for enjoying sex to "there's nothing wrong with people having safe consensual sex" to "it's okay for people to abuse themselves if that's what they choose to do and they're getting paid for it". It's like people forgot that hypersexuality is a trauma response… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:50 PM |
| 6 | What are your thoughts on those in the sex industry/OF models? (All welcome and encouraged to contribute)Yeah I agree with this and I think it's sad that sex work is such a lucrative option. Lots of women get into it when they're young thinking it's one of the only options that can bring them out of poverty, not realizing how it follows you and damages your future career prospects so once you start your options are limited to sex work adjacent things. I think it's disgusting how it's pushed on young people as "easy money" when it's not really easy at all. I personally have considered it in times of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true?Some women are fine with it. Being into men doesn't mean you're homosexual if you're into women too, bisexuality is a thing. I personally don't care if a man is bi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:07 PM |
| 4 | What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true?A lot of women with that preference associate gay sex with std/i's and cheating. A lot of them think if a man is attracted to men he can only be attracted to men. Like it's impossible for men to be bi or something. I keep seeing people online say that stupid DL shit and act like it's the worst thing in the world if a man cheats with another man as if it's somehow better if he cheats with a woman. It's homophobia/biphobia plain and simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 03:00 PM |
| 7 | What do you think about the idea that most women won’t date a bisexual guy? Do you think it’s true?It's because they're male and heterosexual people are attracted to the opposite sex, not the performance of femininity or masculinity. Surgery doesn't change your sex. Homophobia also plays into why a lot of them get angry when they find out and it doesn't help when they try to stealth and hide the fact that they're trans. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Why does it seem like women very rarely lust over a guy? How does a guy go about getting a woman to lust for him?Some of us are "abnormal" in that way. We're not all the same. I lust after strangers sometimes and it's usually because of their mannerisms, voice, how they smell. Certain accents really do it for me sometimes. It's stronger in the week before my period and strongest when I have an emotional connection with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.Why is the gender that wants sex the most also the gender that's considered lucky for being raped? Ask the men who say that. Go to the comment sections that I referred to and ask them. There are even posts and comments from men here in this sub and on others that say that. Ask them. Here are some reddit comments where men downplay it. https://np.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/s/v5XBp50Khm https://np.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/s/UrLCiPMVZs https://np.reddit.com/r/AllThatIsInteresting/s/bqVZa58Ugp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 02:53 PM |
| 2 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?u/logos1789: Alright, I didn’t realize that women are this stubbornly helpless Edit: ”PPD is a neutral space, but the demographics of the sub shift constantly. In order to prevent one side from voting the other side away, the mods ask that users refrain from downvoting on PPD.” You keep posting that edit on every comment like it means something. How about you follow the rules and stop being a hypocrite? 2. Be Civil/No Personal Attacks: When we consider whether or not a comment is civil, we consi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 01:56 AM |
| 0 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterWomen's standards are expressed first. So? Those standards are still influenced over time by the standards of others and the way they're socialized and raised. It's not like the majority of people go to a date with a blank slate for their standards and only decide what they prefer after hearing the other person. You're missing the point here. Standards change and solidify through your lifetime. The entire in point of dating apps I said the premise, not the point. I might've used the wrong word b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 12:36 AM |
| 4 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.Go to the comments of literally any news story about a man or boy being raped and tell me what you see. I'll wait. Promiscuity and rape are different things. One is having lots of consensual sex. The other is forcing a sex act/s on someone. Women are usually neutral about promiscuity regardless of gender and think rape of either gender is bad. Men (some of them but lots) prop up promiscuity in men but shame it in women and downplay the rape of men as a good thing while downplaying the rape of wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 03:10 PM |
| 1 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.Bold assumption that he has women around him to ask | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:55 PM |
| 2 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.Women's biggest insults to men target men's biggest insecurities. When women want to insult someone, they usually go after what that person would feel insulted by. Promiscuous men get shamed too, "manwhore" and "fuckboy" come to mind. Women's personal preferences don't always factor in when insulting someone the way men's do. "Old catlady" for example. It's not women reinforcing promiscuity in men, it's that some men desperately want to be promiscuous and are insecure about their lack of success… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:54 PM |
| 3 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.More males are raped by men as well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:34 PM |
| 5 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.Something like 90+% of sex offenders are men whether their victims are children or adults, male or female. The female teacher thing happens but is way overblown. We hear about it a lot because grown men fantasize about it so it's almost guaranteed to get clicks/views and our news system is for profit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:26 PM |
| 5 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.Men are the ones who downplay rape of men. Most women have consistent views regarding promiscuity and, separately, rape which are two completely different things. I don't think we should consider men's view that rape of male minors or adults is okay if the woman is attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:18 PM |
| 6 | If women want promiscuous men to be viewed with the same scrutiny as promiscuous women, they should agree to view women raping men as bad as men raping women.A while ago I had a guy argue me down in this sub about how it's okay if the teacher is hot like she's doing a teenage boy a favor. Revolting. I never see that from women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:07 PM |
| 2 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterIdk why they insist on speaking for every man as if they date men and know every single man's standards. It's the Men Are Magnificent effect, "no men have sexist one sided standards, men are perfect and can do no wrong!!1 It's the evil hypocrite women who want a man who's tall when they aren't even tall themselves!! Sexist!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 01:38 PM |
| 2 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterSome men also have sexist one sided standards. Men are not perfect angelic beings dude. This is like the flip side of "women are wonderful" that men here love to say. It's the "men are magnificent" effect, you act like men are infallible and are never ever ever toxic. Everyone is capable of having sexist one sided standards, both men and women and those standards influence those of their potential partners. I don't understand why nobody can seem to respond to the actual point I'm making without … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterThe expectation to provide and protect comes first. It doesn't matter which comes first. People form their standards at different times in their lives and not expressing them doesn't mean they don't have them. I'm specifically talking about how some people's expectations are formed by what's expected of them. I'm not talking about why people want to behave a certain way. And I'm not saying that's true for everybody in every case, it's just common. I should've clarified. because those are traits … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterIt is the other side of the coin. Obviously it's not exactly the same on both sides. One side has Abe Lincoln and the other has the Lincoln memorial/union shield lol. Women into masculinity prefer a mix of different masculine traits same as men into femininity prefer a mix of different feminine traits. There are posts here that ask what people's idea of masculinity/femininity is with varying answers. Opposites attract is cliche and a bit of an over exaggeration but there's some truth to it somet… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:28 AM |
| 3 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterVery much so and competence covers a wide range of things too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?I'm not really sure for a man. Sometimes women make eye contact with me and I just know. If she's like squirming and looking around a lot, body language that looks like she's trying to get away from him/leaning away, if she looks stiff, if I'm close enough to hear their conversation and she's giving short answers/saying no/making excuses, that kind of stuff. Sometimes she'll make eye contact with me and mouth something when he's not looking. I would walk up and ask her if she wants to come to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 02:18 AM |
| 26 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterWe don't live in a vacuum. People act the way they do in dating because of the way their prospects act and that goes for both men and women. It's a cycle, yin and yang. Men are held to standards about attractiveness and competency, women are held to standards about attractiveness and competency. In different ways of course, but it still boils down to attractiveness, competency, and compatibility. The women who expect men to protect and provide and lead expect it because the men they deal with ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexyI don't think the advantage really matters if someone is willing to leave everybody at the first sign of an "ick". Sure they can probably find another date but what's the point of 50 first dates if the goal is a solid relationship? I doubt those people will be able to stay in any relationship and id argue that it's worse to have a ton of failed relationships than to just be single but that's just my personal opinion. I can't relate to trying to appease someone like that just for the sake of bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexyIf it truly was "one strike and you're out" then I wouldn't ask them to stop at all, I'd just get up and leave. I wouldn't be annoyed by them continuing to do it after I asked them to stop because they would be out after that first strike. Clearly by me asking them to stop, that is an indication that they aren't immediately disqualified after the first mess up. Which isn't even really a mess up at all, it's just two people getting to know the other's preferences. This is just my personal experie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 01:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexyYes exactly! There is no formula that works broadly for most people but it's better to be safe than sorry and ask at least once. I would say it's easy to tell when someone is put off but i know it's not easy for everyone. I personally have straight up told guys to stop asking so much and I only get really annoyed when they continue after I ask them to stop. It seems simple enough to course correct or even to ask in a different way. It's just a part of the process of getting to know a new partner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexyYeah that's what I'm saying, regret isn't the same as being assaulted. People have regrets and that's fine. I have sympathy for the men who are falsely accused of rape or sexual assault but if im being honest, I don't really have sympathy for people who knowingly messed with someone who's married, especially if they were cheating on their own partner. I don't think they deserve to lose their job over it or be jailed, that's sad. But if they were cheating on their partner with someone else's part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:42 PM |
| 6 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?"I like girls." "I don't talk to strangers." "I don't date." The idea is that those words send a clear No, unlike the no thank you. This? The problem with this is that they don't cut it dry. Maybe for you but these lines almost never work in my experience. "I like girls too/thats because you haven't had a real man like me." "My name is ___ now we're not strangers anymore/everyone starts out as strangers, let's get to know each other." "We don't have to call it dating." And straight up, "I know t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:20 PM |
| 5 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?These women here making me gouge my eyes out from the sheer display of mental impairment. I have a couple of guesses but I can't fully understand that malice. Can you not see how people could be offended by you referring to us being fearful due to being hurt as "an excuse" to "intentionally hurt men," "using men as a punching bag," and "humiliation rituals"? You said that you feel intimidated in dangerous areas around dangerous people and know that it only takes one slash or stab to end it, how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 11:36 AM |
| 12 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?The harm is assuming that a woman doesn't really mean it when she says no. Where do you draw the line if you believe that women just want you to persuade them? At asking for their number? At sex? At taking her somewhere? It's still a violation even if you have good intentions. If a man wont take no for an answer and believes that you don't really mean it, what would it take to make him believe you? When you start crying? When you call out for help? Some men get it after the second no but some do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 02:32 AM |
| 7 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?The chances of someone hurting you with a weapon go up significantly if you have a weapon on you. People are something like 4x more likely (don't quote me, do your research) to be shot if they have a gun on them. I know a man could easily snatch a weapon from me and brandishing it at all would instantly escalate the situation to life or death. Maybe he'd leave or maybe he'd fight me to save himself and that's not a risk I'd be willing to take. Not to mention I personally don't want to end someon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 02:14 AM |
| 8 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?They aren't always immediately stopped by onlookers. The bystander effect is a real thing. Other people go into flight/freeze mode just witnessing the interaction sometimes. Most of the time someone does step in it's usually another woman. I've had women save me from a scary situation before and I've done the same for others but it's not even guaranteed. I'm sorry to hear about you being followed. The only time that's happened to me (that I know of) was when I was a preteen in the car with my mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 02:01 AM |
| 5 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?I actually just wanted to know how many men have lost their livelihoods due to false accusations after approaching a woman. Most of the commenters just relayed their more mild stories but it costs nothing to just let people vent. Everybody goes through shit in dating, the vast majority of people have at least one bad experience and there's no need to compare and contrast. "There are starving kids in Africa" has never made anyone feel better about the situation they're in so I just listened to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 01:35 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Consent is sexySo no you can't get fired from just being in the general vicinity of women. Why lie and overexaggerate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 12:20 AM |
| 0 | The Circle of Porn and Intimacy : Men watch porn because they can't get women Vs Men can't get women because they watch pornMen already can get a girlfriend without providing. Some women date bums. And if women are getting ubi then the standards will be based on compatability and things of that nature even more so than they are now. The guys that are struggling today are struggling because they can't reach those standards so it would be even worse for them if women dont have a need to seek a "provider". Also women work jobs? Women can also provide above a ubi for themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 08:05 PM |
| 6 | How does it feel like to be hit on/approached by a creepy guy?I generally don't think of people as creepy until they do something over the top and prove they are. I'm pretty open to talking to anyone and everyone who approaches me but certain scenarios make alarm bells go off like old men hanging around parking lots who stare at me or yell. I'm usually not as cautious as I should be and it's like a fight in my head between assuming the best and assuming the worst for my own safety because I've been through shit before. When a man shows himself to be a cree… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, Explained"Prostitute" is someone who has sex for money and "sex worker" is an umbrella term for anyone who sells sex whether directly or indirectly. All prostitutes are sex workers but not all sex workers are prostitutes. That's how I see it at least. The actual definition of prostitute is "a person who engages in sexual actitivity for payment" which just depends on what you consider sexual activity. All of the examples you listed engage in sexual activity for payment. I think people just say sex worker … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | The Circle of Porn and Intimacy : Men watch porn because they can't get women Vs Men can't get women because they watch pornIdk why women would be the only ones to have their financial security guaranteed. I personally believe everyone should be guaranteed UBI in a society that has the means to do so. Any extra money should be given to those who earn it. Most adults work and contribute to society (not just through working). UBI would solve a ton of issues we have in my country. It still wouldn't guarantee you a girlfriend, nothing short of slavery would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsWhy aren't underaged people the only ones who are penalized in that scenario? It's because of liability. The more responsible party has an obligation to not enable that behavior. Older people have a responsibility to not enable younger people who go after them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 05:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexyPeople have regrets about a lot of things, what does it matter? Most actual rapes and assaults go unprosecuted, I don't know why there's this fear that you'll get locked up for a woman saying she regretted sleeping with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 05:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexyHow many times have you been fired for being in the vicinity of women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 05:36 PM |
| 4 | All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, ExplainedI truly believe lots of these guys here just don't believe in independent thought because they're not capable of it. It's not even just women they think of as a hive mind, they think men are too. Like we're all just robots programmed to all react the same based on our sex. Relationships are between two people, not society or your entire gender | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 05:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexyA lot of jobs already have rules against dating coworkers. I have faith that most people aren't stupid enough to need a law to tell them not to "chase" their coworkers down. How many times have you lost your job, friends, and freedom from flirting with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Consent is sexyThere's a range between not asking at all and "asking too much". Nonverbal consent is also a thing. It's only "damned if you do and damned if you don't" for people who have zero social skills and can't understand nuance and most of the time those people aren't getting anywhere close to fucking anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Consent is sexyYou can revoke consent at any time so a signed form doesn't mean jack shit. Having the social intelligence to understand how consent works is sexy imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 04:03 PM |
| 4 | The Circle of Porn and Intimacy : Men watch porn because they can't get women Vs Men can't get women because they watch pornNobody promised you anything. Literally nobody said "you will be rewarded with a woman if you have a job". Some individual women saying they don't care if a man is making a shit ton of money or not doesn't mean they want to be with just any man. That's on you for incorrectly interpreting it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, ExplainedI think sugar babies and escorts who have sex are also considered prostitutes. They're being paid to have sex. Still, op's point is dumb. This is a small subset of women who are usually doing it because of financial desperation or coercion/force. Leave it to someone inexperienced to think they have all the answers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, ExplainedWomen aren't attracted to him though. Prostitutes aren't attracted to johns and pimps, they have sex with them for money. All women would not be willing to sleep with him, only a small subset who sell their body for money. So no that doesn't prove anything but the fact that he's a John. Of course a sex trafficker sees all women as sex workers, the only thing that proves is that he sees women as objects. You can easily disprove this claim by going outside and asking a random woman to have sex wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 03:26 PM |
| 3 | All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, ExplainedIt's biological and mental. It takes more than good looks to turn most women on and nobody enjoys sex or anything else that isn't enjoyable. People like to do things that are enjoyable, why is this so hard to understand? Men also don't want to have sex with people they aren't attracted to but they can still get off because of how penises work. 1+1=2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 03:18 PM |
| 5 | All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, ExplainedLmfao "you can talk to chatgpt about it". People who have sex don't need to ask the internet what sex is like or how attraction works. People don't want to have sex with people they're not attracted to. That doesn't make it a transaction. You don't give someone your attractiveness and they bestow sex upon you in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 03:02 PM |
| 2 | All Women Are Essentially Sex Workers” — Tate’s Harsh Truth, ExplainedSociety doesn't treat sex as a reward, (some) men do. It's not power just because you see it as a transaction and would do almost anything to get it. That's just desperation on your part. Sex isn't a transaction, it's an activity and both parties participate. It's not like men just sit back and women bestow the sex upon them lmao. Also lots of men don't pay for sex, that's a you problem and says nothing about the nature of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 02:56 PM |
| 2 | What do women mean by "good dick"?Me and my friends do. One called me loose a long time ago because my fwb at the time had a big one lmao. They would all pick smaller over big and it depends for me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 02:44 PM |
| 0 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsLol this whole time you've been adamantly arguing for nasty old fucks to mess around with teenagers and impressionable young adults but I'm the pedo. Sure thing dude. Hopefully your wife and son never find this thread...... I wonder what they would think...... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsFully grown adults (interesting that you keep emphasizing men) have the responsibility to not mess with impressionable young adults and teens. People don't magically mature at 12am on their 18th birthday, that maturity comes over time and usually takes more years than 3. People are legally allowed to predate on young adults though unfortunately. People are also legally allowed to rightfully call them and those like you who defend them creeps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/25 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsElaborate, how is it different? why not blame the 21 year old who chooses to date the older person? why not blame the underaged person who chooses to buy a drink at a bar? Can you tell me the definition of liability? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | “Women may have it easier in dating, but that’s not the most important thing” - yes it is.18+ means all men above the age of 18. I wasn't talking only about "young men" because as you can see from the statistics, "young men" grow up into older men and the vast majority of them partner up eventually. The only thing that really says is that people are partnering up long term later in life than than they were before. You could narrow down the statistics to whatever age bracket you'd like to fit your narrative and that doesn't change the fact that 70-80% of men 18+ are partnered. 60% of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsOh no a predator is disgusted by me whatever should I do? I guess my life is over because you don't want your son to date me. Sick burn oof ouch. Idgaf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsDude I'm tired. You know exactly what you're doing by conflating tall, hung men with people who are mentally and emotionally immature. You know it's not the same thing and I know it too. I don't have the energy to sit here and spoon feed that to you. Please seek professional help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 06:54 AM |
| – | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsI'm 10 years younger than you and also not interested in people that young. Like I get it if someone is in their late 20's or so and they just click with someone younger so they try for a relationship. It's just this insistence, the constant posts about how "men" (and only men) shouldn't be blamed for strictly wanting to date these kids and how it's the kids' fault for simply choosing to date that says everything about them. They need to seek professional help, something is wrong in the brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsYeah I agree with this. My main point of contention is that I just don't understand what someone fully grown wants with someone who isn't. There's a clear difference in maturity between an average 18 year old and a 30+ year old so what would a 30+ year old want from a late teenager/early 20's? They typically don't have any of the skills a fully grown adult would generally be looking for in a partner. What can someone that young offer you (not you specifically) in a relationship? Financial stabil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsI think there's nothing wrong with age gaps as long as both parties are consenting, there is no manipulation or grooming involved, and if both have good intentions. Like I said, one of my friends was in an age gap relationship and it was fine because the dude wasn't a bad guy and they cut it off once they realized it wouldn't work. He wasn't all up and down the internet talking about how he only wants to be with 21 and under because they're "malleable" and he wasn't manipulative. Nothing wrong w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsHe said he "doesn't know" if he'd date a 12 year old or not if it was legal :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 05:23 AM |
| – | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsThese guys in here are predators. They have no response to any oppositional points because they know they're wrong for defending this and they don't want to out themselves. All they can do is flounder talking in circles and keep bringing up other things that have no relevance to the fact that an older person in this situation is choosing to take advantage of someone young's naivety. "She has 100 other matches, she chose to date a raggedy old man so it's her fault, the law drawing the line at 18 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 05:18 AM |
| 4 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsWhy do bars get their liquor license taken for selling to underaged people? Why not only penalize the underaged person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsMen have the option to reject late teenager-21 year olds who are only with them because they have daddy/mommy issues (aka people who are more succeptible to abuse). Stop speaking for all men, if 21 and below are your preference then speak for yourself. If a 12 year old is the only person who expresses interest in you, will you "date" them because you have no other options? And you still haven't answered my question. Funny how that happens all the time here, you ignore my question, ask me somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsBecause they're naive and think they know what they're getting themselves into. They think they're invincible and that they can handle any situation life throws at them but the vast majority of the time they just can't. They more likely than not don't know how to get themselves out a situation if things go south and most of the time they don't have the foresight to even understand that things can go south. That's the main issue with age gap relationships. Now answer my question. Why would a full… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsYou shouldn't need a formula to determine whether or not someone is mature enough to date. I see a child and I'm not interested because they are a child. Younger people are more likely to be immature but some older people are too and some younger people aren't. I wouldn't date someone even the same age as me or older who doesn't understand the complexities of a relationship or who doesn't have the maturity to be able to get themselves out of a situation if shit were to go south. I talk to colleg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsIf maturity isn't defined by age then what's wrong with it? Elaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsSimply put, because of the potential for abuse. My friend's ex wasn't an abusive man and he didn't intentionally seek out women her age for their naivety or otherwise. They both saw the difference in maturity and he was the one who pushed for the breakup. She was lucky to learn that lesson with someone safe while she was young. Lots of other young people aren't so lucky. What do you think happens when they both see the gap in maturity but the older party convinces the younger that there is no di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsDepends on what you mean by "younger women". A 40 year old dating a 60 year old? They're both fully grown and have the maturity to navigate that situation. A 26 year old dating a 40 year old? They're both fully grown and have the maturity to navigate that situation. An 18 year old dating a 35 year old? The 35 year old is a predator. Ask yourself why a fully grown adult would even be interested in a teenager who's only into older people because of daddy issues. Why would a fully grown adult seek … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsIf maturity isn't defined by age then whats wrong with a 30 year old dating a 15 year old? Do you see anything wrong with that? And if you don't understand the difference between making bad decisions with the maturity to know better and without the maturity to know better then you probably just shouldn't be dating at all. I honestly don't know why I even bother in this sub when it's filled to the brim with predators who want to take advantage of a young person's naivety. I don't believe in god b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 02:54 AM |
| 3 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsThis is such a non issue it's making my head spin. It's really not hard to just leave young people tf alone. I just can't understand why some of you here are so adamant about dating people with zero life experience that you feel the need to make whole posts arguing every which way about how there's nothing wrong with age gaps and how men are so persecuted for wanting to fuck teenagers. They should be and any women who want or try that should be persecuted too. You're not a victim as an old perso… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 02:51 AM |
| 9 | Men Can't Be Blamed for Age Gap Relationships Because Women Are the Sexual Selectors and Choosing to Be in Those RelationshipsBecause 21 year olds are widely known to make bad decisions for themselves. Most of them don't have the life experience or maturity to know what they're getting themselves into. It's on the more mature person to not engage with someone who's mentally immature. It's different for someone say like 15 or 16 (there's obviously a gap between 15 and 21) but you wouldn't say "why isn't it on them if they choose to date a 30 year old". Because they're an inexperienced teenager. One of my friends dated a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 02:42 AM |
| 6 | "Men care about penis size more than women do!" - that's bullshit.Lmaool, perhaps maybe even lmfaool. He doesn't care about other men's meat but here he is making a post about... other men's meat. The jokes really write themselves. It's almost as if there's a spectrum that runs from micro to humongous and individual women have individual preferences within that range. The men constantly spamming these posts "don't care about dick" but if you point out that it's insecurity they get mad and say you're trying to insult them. I doubt the majority of these guys are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men obsessed with societal norms?I really wish I could've experienced it in the 90's. But yeah you're probably right that he's not going to change his mind if "techno raves on the east coast" is his sample size. That's like the most peaceful environment I can think of and creative self expression is the name of the game lol of course people there are welcoming of everyone. That's like saying "nobody cares about wearing clothes, I've been to every nudist event". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 11:06 AM |
| 5 | Why are so many men obsessed with societal norms?I am. Raves are a free space where everyone is accepted (for the most part). Not sure why he used that as a metric for society as a whole, it's a fringe culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/25 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?Yeah duh lol. That was literally the point of me making this post to see how common it is. I gathered from the comments that not many men here have had their lives blown up and getting ghosted or women being rude are the most common experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?People are free to do what they want. If you don't want to ask women out that's perfectly fine, I'm not trying to force anyone to do anything. I just wanted to see how often men get their lives ruined from approaching a woman since lots of men here state that as a reason for backing off. It is what it is though and I get not wanting to risk rejection or deal with strangers who may or may not be excessively rude. I appreciate everyone who shared their experiences in the comments. This is a discus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?You're right but I prefer not to call people names under this post. I think it's a good thing for men to share their negative experiences and cry about it (for lack of a better phrase, sorry) a little without being shamed. How can anyone expect men to confront their emotions if they get laughed at or berated any time they do you know? Like you said we share some of the same experiences and can all understand that things like being ghosted or someone being excessively rude suck. I hope someone ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Men, what's the worst thing that happened to you after asking a woman out?The disrespectful part was drawing assumptions about his character Yeah that's what I just said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:19 AM |
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