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Depends on the story, depends on the guy and the relationship I have with him. I would want to know why the man who wanted to hear the accused assailants side didn't believe the woman. Why does he need the story verified by a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 06:25 PM
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No, I probably wouldn't. I would have to hear the story and would want to speak to the women (past and present) in his life. Especially the woman who accused him. But at that point the juice probably isn't worth the squeeze. Regarding your other question, it would depend on the degree to which he believed such a thing and why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 03:14 PM
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People who are innocent can be accused without being found guilty. but people who ARE guilty can also be accused without being found guilty. Happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/26 02:59 PM
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Alimony is rarely awarded. Child support is often skirted. Houses still require payments. Sources? I'll show you mine if you show me yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 05:29 PM
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Mods, we gonna let this dude call women 'house bitch'? Honestly?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:59 AM
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Kind of like how the wife and mom can't make up the time she was absent from the job market. Now she has no strong foundation to get a job that pays worth a damn to help fund her and her children's lives. I'm not saying they're not sacrificing. It's a different sacrifice. My husband has sacrificed time with his kids in order to build a career to support us. I watched my mom do the same, and our relationship is incredibly strong. So if you're genuinely putting in the effort outside of work to spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 07:29 PM
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Well clearly you're not outraged enough by my comparison. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:38 PM
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You're the one who acted morally superior when I asked if you also expect to get hired for jobs you never applied for. Proving once again that if you don't like a question you've been asked or an answer you've been given, you will sulk, act morally superior, and find someone else to copy and paste the same tired response to with the HOPE that you'll get the pat on the back you're looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:35 PM
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Compensated by getting more dedicated time with his kids through shared custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:29 PM
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Yes I am. And what a classic move you've made- when in doubt of how to answer, always attempt to act morally superior. Edit: I'm also not the one who said that I wouldn't care if a woman hung out with me as long as she had big titties and fucked me every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:22 PM
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I think exposure therapy can work to an extent (no, it's not going to change people's sexuality from gay to straight or vice versa, and it shouldn't be used in such a way). But if someone is having trouble having sex with their partner because their body has changed due to having babies, illness, disability, etc., climaxing to pornography involving people with similar bodies/traits can help carve some new neural pathways associating those particular body types with arousal.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:15 PM
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Do you also expect to get hired for jobs that you never applied for?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:04 PM
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And here's our answer, folks. He wanted the girl for sex, the other guy wanted to actually spend time with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:19 PM
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Fans of sports teams are culty and mob-like. They literally destroy property and turn into savages when their team either wins big or loses big.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 11:01 PM
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I have a sneaking suspicion that you'd still respect the opinion of a guy who split his TV in half because his favorite sports team lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:59 PM
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" if they get started again then they have to finish again." No... no we don't. And neither do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:39 PM
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So if my husband works 40 hours a week and earns 40k, and I work 40 hours a week and earn 80k, he should have to do DOUBLE the domestic work that I do to 'compensate'?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:36 PM
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Mods, are we really allowing this flippant and completely unfounded insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 01:48 AM
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But there IS a market. It's just a market for gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:38 PM
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And there's a dude on youtube with a severe muscle wasting disease married to a woman that is, by everyones standards, at least an 8. a 10 to many I'm sure. Neither examples prove anything on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 10:02 PM
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Got any evidence for that claim, or should we all just take your word for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:03 PM
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It actually speaks volumes and they don't even understand. The only women they see as valid women are the ones they want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:52 PM
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It actually speaks volumes and they don't even understand. The only women they see as valid women are the ones they want to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:50 PM
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I did. You said collective action, I said "coordinate, create clubs and groups and support each other". What part of that isn't collective? Collective action starts somewhere. But if you don't want to be a part of the change, then why do you think people should listen to you bitch, moan, and complain? Also, how do men get to puff up their chests and tout around this dusty title of 'provider and protector' if you're unwilling to 'throw yourself on the sword'?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 12:44 PM
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And yet when women tell you to start some shit, coordinate, create clubs and groups and support each other, there's more whining and pushback and "but we can't because xyz".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 01:18 AM
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If you're not willing to 'be the change' as it were, why do you expect people to listen to you bitch about the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:30 PM
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Ask any "6" or below woman and you will get 100 stories about being treated like trash by men just because said dude didn't find them attractive enough. So I disagree heartily and restate my point- the more attractive a woman is, the better a man will treat her. This is nOt AlL mEn obviously. But I have seen this time and time again. Edit: also, women were not raised on night in shining armor tropes, we were influenced far more deeply by the mantra, "he hurt you/was mean, therefore he must like …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:20 PM
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Would you say that black people during the 80s and 90s were bigoted if they were still wary of white people? I mean, Jim Crow laws had been abolished. Slavery was long gone. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:15 PM
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Bingo!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:50 PM
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Less likely to leave, more likely to cheat and/or siphon free labor out of his wife and treat her like trash. Men's behavior towards women is often directly connected to how attractive he finds her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 01:50 PM
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Why is this acceptable for a man to do but if a woman 'settles' in the same way, it's an absolute kick in the teeth to the guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 12:58 AM
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Oh I agree. And it's probably the same men who don't take kindly to them that complain when women won't take a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:29 PM
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What y'all really need is for your gay brethren to step up and start complimenting straight men. Genuine compliments from someone who thinks you're hot and would probably bang you if given the option. Edit: perhaps if straight men got the ball rolling and started complimenting gay men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:06 PM
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Exactly. And that a lot of what men consider hookups, women consider perhaps the start of a relationship before they get fucking ghosted.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 09:52 PM
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What is your source when you say, "most women say they would not have hooked up with their husbands or boyfriends"?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 08:34 PM
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Can you stop posting the same response to every comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:31 PM
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Far less testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:15 AM
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What exactly are you waiting for? Until it gets so filthy that you can smell your bathroom when you step in the house?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 07:41 PM
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No. they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:18 PM
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What exactly do you want the mods to do...? Delete comments that are agreeing with op?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:20 PM
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Word...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:15 PM
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Learn the definition of an analogy. Also, reading comprehension is important. I said it's OFTEN LIKE they're fishing. Not 'all men are fishermen'. Better?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:29 PM
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My opinion is based on my experiences. But if you'd like to feel morally superior because you "don't do that shit", have at it! Men have complimented my graphic t shirts, my high heels, etc. and it tends to feel genuine. Hell, a customer came up to me at my job, told me he thought I was very beautiful, I thanked him and then he walked out with his coffee. That also felt genuine. What doesn't feel genuine is when someone says, "oh you're so beautiful..." And then hangs around like he's waiting fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:14 PM
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No, I agree with them. When men compliment, it's often like they're fishing. When women/children compliment, they're giving a gift. I'd rather receive a gift than a lure.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:01 PM
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I've gotten compliments from men about my graphic t shirts, heels, earrings, etc. it always makes me feel good. It's the expectant compliments like, "you're so beautiful..." that creep us out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:59 PM
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They can, but wont. They think those tasks are beneath them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:26 PM
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So she did something within a year of dating him, she doesn't like it, doesn't do it again. You want to try the same sex act with her, an act she didn't like but is willing to trying eventually with you, but are unwilling to wait longer in order to earn her trust, and allow her to relax into her sexuality with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:51 PM
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I don't really disagree with this if both people are reasonable (besides the comment about her not being attracted to you). But the trust these sex acts requires can take YEARS to build. are you willing to wait half a decade, maybe more to build the trust that it takes for some women to try (or try again) these acts?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:42 PM
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Those relationships usually didn't start out lacking sex. Sex usually drops off because of unmet needs, unaddressed resentment, hormonal/health issues, and the introduction of kids along with the chaos that creates.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:40 PM
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What is the position, then? Because it always sounds like men want to be the only person said woman has found sexually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:33 PM
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I'm going to refer to this post any time some red pill bro says it's reductive to say that men only put in effort if the outcome will lead directly to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:32 PM
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Yep. And to beat their wives. Ever heard of rule of thumb? Marital rape laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:24 PM
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You say this like women don't work. The majority of women work. The burden of finances is on both parties. Also, a family (especially with children) needs money to survive. A spouse stressing about finances is not equal to a dude complaining that his wifes' breasts aren't perky anymore because she EBF their child for a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:51 PM
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I agree, I think not wanting to 'ruin' their body is often cited as one of the reasons women don't want to have kids. But from my own experience and what I've learned from other women, it's a fear of no longer being attractive to your male partner. Men can be incredibly judgmental and immature about women's bodies and often lament about the state of their wives' post-baby figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:41 PM
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Yeah, probably. But it's not as much 'work' as creating and maintaining a loving, mutually satisfying romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:16 PM
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She said SHE enjoys cooking. You slapped your big dumb logo on it, 'women often enjoy cooking!' Ok, so if a woman doesn't enjoy cooking and a man doesn't enjoy cooking... who does the cooking? The dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 12:12 PM
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If they're saying that, then they probably find dating women to be more work than it's worth. Or they want to 'date', but don't want to put the work into dating. So they just want someone to have sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:26 PM
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I would have left after 'alright, nice easy access'. Yuck. Also, terrifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:36 PM
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That's absolutely true, scarcity does change perceived value. But, just as I don't know what it's like to be a man with a man's drive and a man's brain, you don't know what it's like to be a woman. Our drives are different, our hormones are vastly different, our experiences and seasons of life are different. But those things are generally poo-pooed by men no matter how loud and often women yell them from the rooftops. > sex, intimacy, desire, family, and romantic connection are extremely powerfu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:15 AM
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It matters, absolutely. I'm not saying it doesn't. But it's not valued in the same way by we women than it would be to you men if you had the same sort of benefits/access. Dating, relationships, and sex are far different for women, so it's valued in different ways and sometimes less (and sometimes more). This rarely aligns with the values that men put on it, so that's where a lot of the disconnect comes from. I don't disagree but if you are trying to form relationships and community with other m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:54 PM
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unfortunate. But if that really is the case, then.... they have no right to bitch about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:40 PM
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I think women, on average, have more access to dating and sex. The value women place on those things is often less than the value men place on them, so I think there is a disconnect when those two topics are being discussed. As far as emotional support, social sympathy, validation, and relationship opportunities... When you're a woman, most of these things are coming from family and friends. Women spend more time building and maintaining platonic relationships, socializing in their communities, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:28 PM
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Oh men love it. They love feeling that women are dependent on them so they can provide and protect and be the one to give her everything she wants. Just as long as it's the right woman. Being wanted just for the fact that you have a wet hole and soft parts is not good or flattering in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:11 PM
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So... if you try something with a partner and you REALLY don't like it. Like... REALLY. Anal pegging, for example. But you tried it, you gave it a good shot! So your next partner and the partner after that and after that should be able to peg you? You know, in the name of our overlord 'consistency'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:51 PM
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It's astonishing to me how men think that all women have a 'kinky dial' that can simply be turned up or down depending on how quickly her pussy gets wet for some dude. Not that her sexual preferences have changed, her body has changed, her libido has changed, she experimented with something a few times and learned she doesn't like it, she tried something that she used to like and found that she no longer does, maybe she experienced trauma, maybe she overcame trauma, and on and on and on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:46 PM
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What if she did certain sex acts earlier in her life because she felt insecurely attached to her SO and felt like she needed to perform these sex acts in order to keep him? Would you still say you wish you had met her earlier? When she was insecure and doing things in bed that she didn't really like in order to please other people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:42 PM
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You're swimming in the shallow end of a very dark pool, brother. Do you think men who have had sex with 47 women in their past are disgusting and should be shunned by women for have so many sexual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:36 PM
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And that's youre opinion. But you're arguing with women that being desired for being a wet hole or a serious of erotic parts is somehow a compliment; listen to the people telling you: IT'S NOT.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:17 PM
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I think that's the main problem women have with men as well. Sooo many women feel that men don't want to emotionally connect, to listen to them or learn about them or be a true partner. Men desire women for their utility (sex, procreation, childcare, career support, home/life management, socializing, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 10:07 PM
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That's good to hear. I hope it works out in the favor of your desired relationship style. The only thing I could say would be to talk to both fathers AND mothers in the poly community, because you might get different answers as to how much free time they have available and how easy or difficult it is to make relationships work with other partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 12:45 PM
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Do you think many of your other relationships will dissolve after you have children? Simply because of the time commitment towards properly raising children?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:23 PM
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That's why I said Liver. Oysters. You can eat eggs, those have iron. Pair it with some bell peppers, increases bioavailability. Cut out caffeine, your iron from plants will absorb better. If you don't get any iron, you'll die. If you don't get any sex, you'll become insufferable but you'll live.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 10:03 PM
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I mean, yeah. That's the point. Our needs are very basic. We do have a need for socialization, much of which includes intimacy in all its forms and fashions. But intimacy is not sexual. Sexual intimacy is sexual. Also, wanting sex doesn't mean that it doesn't have value. You can place sex at the top of your list, forgoing all other things to get it. But OP (of this thread) is right, that calling sex a 'need' morally justifies all sorts of bad behavior in order to get it (I mean, it doesn't reall…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:19 PM
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That's totally fair if you think I'm being pedantic, I definitely sound nitpicky trying to hammer this point home. But Since language is the only means we have of communicating with one another (for the most part), we should try to be both precise and thoughtful in the words that we use. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:08 PM
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You could have also eaten watermelon, spinach, kale, liver, oysters, lentils, etc. in fact you probably needed iron from both meat AND plant sources. But you wanted the burger/steak because it was the most delicious, maybe the easiest to cook, maybe the burger was cheaper, etc. etc. It's fine that you disagree on the distinction, or the importance of distinction. But distinctions exist for a reason, nuance exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:59 PM
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It's not a gotcha, it's an important distinction. If sex is a need in a relationship, is it considered morally reprehensible to cheat on your pregnant wife who hasn't wanted to have sex in 4 months and won't be able to have sex for many months still? Why is it morally reprehensible to cheat on your husband who has prostate cancer? Or if your wife gets old, has vaginal atrophy, and can no longer have sex? Like I said, the distinction is important. It doesn't mean that wanting sex in your long-ter…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:55 PM
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God, how kind and thoughtful of you to exclude everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:32 PM
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Honestly I agree with her. And this is such a classic case of HOW you say something being as important or even moreso than what you say. It reframes the object of your desire. If you need something, it's a non-negotiable. I need food, water, air, shelter, positive socialization of some kind. If you want something, you have the opportunity to examine why you want it and why it's so important. I think reframing a 'need' into a 'want' allows for more introspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:27 PM
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Even if you're pro-life, abortion isn't a sex-specific "evil". Men push for, pay for, even force abortions. Male doctors preform them. Come to whatever conclusions you want about abortion, but don't pretend it's a sex-specific phenomenon because it isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 01:33 AM
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People can have all of the opinions they want. But flying that flag like it's some sort of 'gotcha!' in reply to a comment about violence committed by men is completely off topic. An abortion is a medical procedure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 09:32 PM
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This guy only ever cries about abortion, all of his comments can be ignored.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:22 PM
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I think there's a big difference between opening doors and paying for/initiating dates and doing all of the daily grunt-work of keeping a home and the people in it functional.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:31 PM
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Exactly. Or having a desire at a particular time and they find a person suitable to fulfill that desire. That doesn't mean the man is WiLdLy attractive and the hottest thing that woman has ever seen, that probably means they are attractive and charismatic enough to fit the desire the woman has.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 09:21 PM
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because most red pill points are just rambling and throwing around concepts and misconceptions. Fixed it for ya.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 08:05 PM
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Avoiding legal issues, sure. But morality on what grounds?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:51 PM
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As am I bro, very happy. But as an empathetic, intelligent human being, I understand that my lived experiences and the experiences of those around me are not the end-all-be-all of the human experience. :D Hope that helps!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/26 12:27 PM
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Yeah that would suck, I would be upset if it happened more than once in a GREAT while.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:48 AM
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What if you're not at a restaurant. You're just cooking a meal at home. You happen to be cooking something that you really love to eat but your partner doesn't like. Are you going to abstain from cooking yourself that pad thai or curry or vodka pasta or whatever for the rest of your life? Or are you going to tell your partner, "hey, I'm cooking my favorite meal tonight just for me so you need to fend for yourself." If you never want to engage in sexual activities by yourself and only want to do …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 12:46 AM
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Sometimes it's about stress release, or just wanting to focus on yourself instead of another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:51 PM
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I'm a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:49 PM
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I think less of a problem to be anti-porn, but anti-masturbation all together if they're not living together or their schedules don't often line up. That would suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:49 PM
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That's awesome! It's nice that y'all can sync up as often as you need, it sounds like.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:48 PM
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Masturbation can be a form of stress release. Sex can be long and involved, sometimes you just want the focus to be on yourself instead of trying to please another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:32 PM
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What if you are available. Do you mind him masturbating to nothing but his imagination instead of engaging in sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:30 PM
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Just wondering, what do you mean it's not an issue for y'all? Like, you don't masturbate individually at all? Or you just don't use any stimulation to do so besides fantasizing about your partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/26 02:24 PM
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Dang that is so fucked, I'm so sorry that happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:05 PM
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> When men had the upper hand in society, they used it to build families and a baby boom happened. How is this not a benefit to men? Carry on your name and legacy (something my husband taught me is, for some reason, very important to men), have someone to take care of your kids and home and probably bring in some money as well (many women worked in addition to minding the home and kids), and you don't have to be the one to birth the kids. Women don't want a baby boom because they'd be the ones b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:50 PM
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I didn't read the article, but I'm going to take a swing and assume it's twofold. The educational system seems to be more suited for girls that boys, and women mature more quickly than men. Young women are attending higher education more than young men, so it makes sense that young women are out-earning young men at the start of their careers Regarding your male vs female model salary, I would compare it to female vs male athletes. Except male athletes out-earn female athletes by much more than …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:28 PM
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Your last line is killer. A+
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 06:22 PM
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I suppose I really don't know what your desires are from a woman, then. You want a woman that only finds you attractive and has only ever found you attractive and she finds you so attractive that no foreplay or courting is needed? I'm just so confused by what y'alls ideal scenario is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 09:06 PM
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> And the question you pose is an irrelevant question because both would see themselves as being above me. So you avoid answering the question. A question that, if you answered honestly within the parameters that i layed out, would probably prove that your preference for a LTR would be much like a woman's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 08:44 PM
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You're thinking that not jumping on a mans dick instantly means we're not attracted to him. Turning us on takes work. Also, on a somewhat unrelated note- if you had two women wanting to be in a long-term relationship with you: one that was a 10 but kinda dull, not very smart, judgmental, and materialistic, and the other that was a 7 but was smart, kind, fun, and down-to-earth, which would you marry? The 10 obviously turns you on more right off the bat, and the 7 is still cute but not drop-dead g…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 03:18 PM
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It would be interesting to know where every man draws that line. 5 minutes of foreplay seems to be too much for some.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:29 PM
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> Then she just doesn't like you so.... if you strip naked and your woman isn't immediately dripping wet and jumping on you, she isn't attracted to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:26 PM
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Are you trying to say that because men are hornier in general that women should accept the difference in effort between them and a woman he finds much hotter than them? But men should not accept the difference in attraction from a woman between themselves and a "Chad"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/26 12:20 PM
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Lol, take what you want from it brother. We both know you're not here to listen or learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:30 PM
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And where is the data attached to that little nugget, that is certainly not true if we're discussing men and women in hetero relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:34 AM
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People get away with child abuse all the time. Probably as much as they get away with abuse in the military. We hardly protect kids and teens more than we did 50 years ago. Look at Larry Nassar for christ's sake. Women are far more often the primary caregiver, so there are more opportunities for abuse. If moms are with the kids 75% of the time and dads 25% of the time, mom is going to have more opportunities for negative interaction. Fathers are also responsible overwhelmingly for severe violenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:32 AM
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If y'all think attraction doesn't wax and wane, then why do women/men who are married lose attraction during different seasons of their marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 01:26 AM
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That's not true, though. The best way I heard it said was something like, "I didn't find him attractive until I did". Many women don't automatically find men attractive. There are many good looking men I see that I don't find attractive at all. Attraction happens during an interaction or multiple interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 10:01 PM
1

And who is more likely to be killed by an intimate partner due to domestic violence? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:53 PM
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Perhaps if the roles were reversed, women would be just as violent. But just because something makes you uncomfortable doesn't mean it's untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:51 PM
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Sources, please?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:03 PM
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Most men can turn into violent offenders. look at the military, or war crimes committed against civilians. The level of sexual assault committed against fellow women in arms or civilians in times of war would tell you that everyday men with wives/girlfriends, families, or are just generally regular people in everyday life are VERY capable of turning violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:01 PM
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"All models showed that women who became mothers before age 26 and had only one child had higher odds of medication purchase than the childless. Older age at first birth was generally associated with lower risks of antidepressant purchase." This study was also done in Norway.. their parental leave is incredible compared to the US (I live in Texas). It also didn't allow for mediating pathways (meaning we don't know how or why people did something, we just know they did something). Chemical loboto…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:31 PM
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Lol, yeah life's pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 06:21 PM
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So men have no agency over their thoughts or actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 02:30 PM
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> because you know that they're actually capable of enacting change. See, I don't think they are anymore. Women have seen and experienced life out from under the thumb of men. They're not going back en masse- perhaps a trickle, but the veil has been lifted. Rights can be taken (abortion, voting, etc), but taking away rights wont make your women docile and acquiesce to your "new" (old) world order. I predict quite the opposite, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 01:01 PM
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>It'd be good for society if most single, working women became mothers instead. How exactly is that good for women, though? you said, "humans need meaning, purpose, belonging, identity, fulfillment, etc. Humans can endure hell and total material deprivations provided they have those needs met." Women who don't want children are going to be mentally wrecked if they have them. Since far fewer women are having kids now that they don't have to, how is it better for them to have babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 12:44 PM
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It's really not. You don't need sex to have an intimate marriage, you DO need money to live life in this world. Also, a marriage is the legal merging and binding of assets. Money made by one is the property of the other as well. Legally, you are not required to give lifelong access to sex. So, under your rule, he would be fucked. Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:53 PM
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Because men are taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:48 PM
2

Chemical castration, perhaps?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 01:17 PM
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That's fair, man. It's hard proof that sexual orientation is not chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:20 PM
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Perfect way to say that. If a man is unattractive to me, it usually doesn't have anything to do with how he looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:18 PM
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No. People divorce for all sorts of valid reasons that don't include infidelity or physical abuse. In your scenario, what if one person decides they no longer want to engage in sex or any sort of sexual intimacy but do not condone the other person having sex with anyone else? No one is being beaten. No one is allowed to cheat. In your scenario, that doesn't sound like grounds for an even split if one person decides to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 10:09 PM
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Because entering into a MARRIAGE is entering into a legal partnership. Google says: "Marriage is a legal and financial partnership, where assets acquired during the union are considered communal property, regardless of who earned them. This approach aims to provide fairness, ensure both parties are not unfairly burdened, and avoid financial devastation for the lower-earning spouse." If you don't want to become legally and financially bound to someone, then don't get married. But don't expect any…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 03:11 AM
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It's proven IN THIS THREAD and everywhere else, time and time again, that this male rhetoric is shared among MANY men: his money is his money, her labor is their labor. I haven't seen one woman here spouting your bs about 'take him for all he's worth'. Women end up impoverished following a divorce far more often then men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/26 12:35 AM
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Because these dudes don't want women to be wage slaves that are independent of them. They want women to be house slaves to them and them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:40 PM
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Ok so you're setting up a strawman to argue against instead of the original argument. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:36 PM
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And he was being supported by her as well. Housework, life admin, childcare, cooking, etc. All support. All necessary to live the life he made accustom to during their marriage. Y'all really don't understand that her labor is paid by the very fact that she is married to the person who has the job that earns money directly. It is her earnings as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:33 PM
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If there's a point being made, it's not clear to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 11:28 PM
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Love this. Too logical and reasonable for the RPers to respond, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:10 PM
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My mother worked my entire childhood (and after), my dad stayed home (during my childhood and after). He was ridiculed and judged by the men my mother worked with (many of the same ones that sexually harassed her a few times) because of his status as a SAHD. Y'all think men are saints, it's wild.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:08 PM
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And the woman leaves the relationship with no marketable skills because she spent however long keeping their house and raising their babies... I don't hear you acknowledging that, though. >The self delete rate of men spikes after divorce, and experts have no idea why... dun dun duunnnnnn!!! Yeah, and the number of women that are plunged into poverty post-divorce is much higher than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:06 PM
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> Not married. Marriage creates a perverse incentive structure in which one party can benefit from leaving the relationship We're debating divorce here, brother.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 09:01 PM
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Louder for the boys in the back.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:57 PM
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If she is contributing equally to their life then half of the income he makes is hers. She earns it as well. It is not his to give to her, but hers equally. So by your logic if he cheats and they divorce because of said cheating, SHE would get everything and HE would get nothing. EDIT: For the record, I don't agree. I don't care why you divorced. Splitting of assets (without a prenuptial agreement) doesn't have anything to do with who did what to who. The person who earned their living by taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 08:53 PM
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The fact that he thinks that women are "so horny they will jump on anything that has a pulse 3 days out of the month" is more than enough to know all of his opinions are redpill flavored psycho-babble.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 01:41 PM
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My bad queen, it WAS him that said it. All y'all redpillers act the same and read from the same text, it all starts to blur together. My point stands- if the mindset of a woman is similar, redpillers lose their minds, saying that all women are hypergamous, want to fuck chad, and are using any man other than chad to fund their lifestyle or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:24 PM
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You said (and I quote), "I still have the hots for her even if she's not the best I've dated." You say these things and no one gives a fuck. A woman says the equivalent and RP lose their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:56 PM
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But it was said that if not for being married, he would try to fuck the less attractive woman. Sounds like action to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:09 PM
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You just.. fucking... did it...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:06 PM
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Me: "Men in general do much less housework/admin, cooking, and childcare than women do even when working the same amount of hours." RP Dude: "Women have wildly unrealistic standards for childcare, diet, cleanliness and order, etc. When I folded the towels my wife threw them in my face and told me they should be ROLLED like we live in a god damn tanning salon. " We all do it. This is not an issue with women or men exclusively, I've seen 100 examples in 100 different flavors (as I'm sure you have)…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:28 PM
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> It's not about being insulted. It's about admins, parents and other teachers (mostly women) questionning your place as a teacher. Just to interject, this happens to women all the time when we are in male dominated industries. We are sexually harassed, infantilized, and our knowledge is constantly questioned and scrutinized. Just as you need us to believe and support you, we need you to believe and support us.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:22 PM
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Women can't cut it in hard sciences... you're so embarrassing to your people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:17 PM
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HAVE had, not are having.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:18 PM
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Sex selective abortions are mostly about patriarchal traditions. A boy will 'carry on the family name' (tradition), will be an asset to their parents by earning money, owning property, and caring for them as they age (sexist laws and traditions surrounding the transient nature of becoming a wife vs a husband), dowry payment, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 08:07 PM
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Because I'm straight and attracted to cis men. Why is that different than a gay man not being attracted to me because I'm a woman? Or me matching with someone online and meeting in person, only to find out that they think I'm too fat and are no longer attracted to me because of that and that alone. These are all preferences, nothing more. Even though that's what they are?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:35 PM
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Is it important to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 07:24 PM
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Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 03:04 PM
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I just don't think that's true. Me not being attracted to a trans man doesn't mean I am revolted by him or want his rights taken away. It means I'm not attracted once I learn he is biologically female.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:18 PM
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...... You really think you can just refute something that's essentially common knowledge by being a brat, RiGhT?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/26 12:12 PM
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Thank you for informing me as to what I do and do not like. I can now rest easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 11:27 PM
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There's a difference between kindness and infantilization. No one thinks it's sexy to be treated like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 01:30 PM
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And what kind of woman is this short, fat, bald man hoping to land? Does he think King of Queens is real life? Or is he trying to date within a realistic realm of possibilities: overweight women, not very successful, maybe has a kid from a previous relationship, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:28 PM
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My assumption is that said man would be doing all of this too much, too hard, and too directly. It sounds like too much stimulation. And no, not everything is because women feel 'unsafe'. We also observe men getting discouraged easily and getting bruised egos from not knowing exactly what to do. I would bet it also can be easier to fake it than say, 'I've been overstimulated/the moment is lost for me and I'm not going to orgasm'. The emotional fallout from either giving instructions (that are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 01:18 PM
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This sounds painful. Also, how do you know they're getting off? If men are putting in effort, many women will fake it. Especially if its a more casual sexual encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 01:21 PM
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We're not all pregnant all the time... it's something less than half of women do 1-3ish times in their LIFE. And you go once a month until the last month, not once a week. For all the other ladies, a gyno appt is usually a once a year deal. Maybe a few more times if you're switching BC or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:57 PM
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Then don't bitch when there's a male loneliness epidemic because women don't want or need to put up with this shit anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 08:51 PM
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Definitely not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 05:04 AM
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Your diction is incomprehensible. I don't really have any way to respond to this because I can't truly make out what you're saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:03 PM
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Just wanting sex is extremely superficial... If you told any woman you were with that you were there just because 'you wanted sex', how quickly do you think you'd be dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 02:19 PM
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This is the red pill, ladies and gentlemen. Nothing more, nothing less. Follow if you wish, but you'll be wading into the shallow end of a very dark pool.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/26 08:53 PM
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And this is the epitome of TRP, ladies and gentlemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 11:23 PM
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And if a woman cheats on her husband or ends up being a deadbeat mom, who gets blamed there? Most women filter by looks alone? Pray tell, from where are you pulling these statements? And furthermore, what exactly are men filtering by if it's not looks- pdh candidacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 09:46 PM
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I married a man who hadn't realized his potential. We both needed and DID work on ourselves. He has now realized his potential (or has the means and support to bring it to life). Your dismissal of my completely relevant point is telling. On this sub and MANY others, AND in real life, women are blamed for choosing badly and judged for not vetting properly. But then we're also judged for 'unfair' filtering or vetting too harshly or whatever the hell? I'm lucky not to have to worry about this shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 07:14 PM
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I mean, you do sound self absorbed, but that's not really a bad thing if you don't plan on having kids or being in a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:39 PM
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But then women are accused of 'picking badly' when a man that is not a 'finished product' leaves her high and dry, wont help with the house/kids/whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:35 PM
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Deep...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 02:33 PM
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Your entire argument consists of defensive 'whataboutisms' that you wont even back up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:20 PM
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Situations where this happened in real life just flooded my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 01:01 PM
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> Men don't mind you ageing, so long as you age well and maintain all the other stuff. Men don't mind you aging, just be practically perfect in every way (including the aging process). The way that r/marriedredpill talks about their wives makes me know this is absolute horse shit. They're all cheating on their women and talk about them like they're property. It's really eye opening.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 12:59 PM
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And said depth changes depending on what phase of your cycle you're in. Which is kinda cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 10:26 PM
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Yeahhhh, women's BC has the ability to cause those side effects too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 05:04 PM
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Move to Texas, I guess? You can do all sorts of crap to people who threaten you here. Depending on your state (Texas, for example) being the birther isn't such a peachy deal either.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 05:06 PM
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And what makes that fair? If he's being held to traditional gender roles of fighting off an attacker with her once or twice in a lifetime, what other gender roles can she be held to that would match said frequency?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:42 PM
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And therefore it's a woman's duty in a relationship? Not sure what you're getting at.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:40 PM
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Most = slightly more than previous generations, and still FAR less than 50%. But maybe sexuality is more fluid than we originally thought. If all men are looking for is action, perhaps you should swing a leg over the fence and give it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:39 PM
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True because you said so?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 04:13 AM
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2nd only to straight women (us, of course, being the best proof of all).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 02:58 AM
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And we aren't your fuck trophies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:29 PM
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Cool. The once/twice in their lives when they get attacked, he has to stay and fight WITH HER. As gendered payback, she can give birth the once/twice in their lives they want to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:27 PM
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They don't hear themselves, no. So, cis men refusing to date trans women is fine, but straight women refusing to date bi men is not? Edit: I think both of these things are fine as long as no one is being hateful. People like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/26 01:00 PM
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If it's run-of-the-mill sex toy usage, what exactly is the problem with it? What about masturbation? Is that a no-no too? Also, sex toys and porn are two very different things. Most people here are rejecting your definition stretch, and they're right to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 09:50 PM
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Ok, so say you're dating a woman. You really like her both as a person and sexually. When you guys have sex, it's difficult for her to orgasm (by her own hand AND yours, oral, piv, etc). She can get herself off with toys and wants to show you how to use them. Would you want her to keep toys out of your sex life and therefore not have orgasms during sex? Even if she wants y'all to use them together, not just her on herself?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:24 PM
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And so can you....? Men are also free to use sex toys and have no sex if they wish.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/26 08:20 PM
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Women get shit (specifically the shit that OP is talking about) because men are possessive and see their SOs body as their possession only intended for their use.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/26 10:20 PM
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Whether or not women are as horny as men are is debatable, but our libido does ebb and flow as we age, have babies, go through peri, etc. And whatever obsession you RPers have with this Chad far surpasses any interest women have in him. But many women don't get turned on in the same way and for the same reasons that men do. We're not nearly as visual. And there is far more social fallout associated with sexual encounters for women than for men. To me (a woman), it makes far more sense to wait to…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 03:22 AM
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You're viewing female sexuality through your own male lens. What's true for you as a man isn't true for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:20 PM
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Shocker.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:09 PM
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I actually do, we both do. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:02 PM
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True by definition? I'm going to start saying that, I'll never be wrong again. Do you think mere presence = active, helpful, equal parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 10:00 PM
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What about people who start going grey in their 20s (both me and my sister, and many other people I'm sure). Should we have our salon hair coloring appointments covered by insurance?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:31 PM
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Large breasts cause severe, chronic back pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/26 01:29 PM
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Where did they say both partners? The poster says that mom had to go back because dad thought her lack of education was unacceptable. And only partially? What's the other part?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:16 PM
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And why was it a good thing in this scenario?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 01:21 PM
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Don't worry, they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 09:05 PM
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Level of attractiveness has no objective standard. Pleasure, accomplishment, joy.... so many things are highly if not TOTALLY influenced by personal preference, circumstance, experience, ability, etc. This is a pretty short-sighted take and one that you'd probably retract if you gave it an ounce of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 09:10 PM
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If it's not all of the women in this thread are telling you that you're wrong, what exactly will it take to convince you?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:52 PM
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A wide definition doesn't mean it's inconsistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 08:48 PM
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I'm sure your kids know how you feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 03:01 AM
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Sexual desire becomes more refined with age and experience on both sides of the aisle. But I don't believe women's desire for sexual novelty increases with each new partner acquired. My certainly didn't. I never enjoyed or partook in casual sex, but I was disappointed with each new partner because their performance and approach to sex was lacking. The more experience I had, the more refined my taste became. But once I found someone that fit my needs as a partner AND a lover, I haven't felt any n…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:26 AM
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Interesting perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:30 PM
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Experienced, yes. But, as I said before- a virgin can see, read, and hear about a wide array of sexual experiences before experiencing them. In this day and age, I would expect it unless we're discussing someone extremely sheltered and/or young and/or religious. You might be looking at sex from what a man values rather than what a woman values (I see that a LOT in this sub). Correct me if I'm wrong but men value novelty, and sex is usually considered 'good' by standard. (That's not all they valu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:20 PM
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Too fat to pull what off?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 05:02 PM
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I think you're right, it's still socially expected that it's a woman's 'duty' to sacrifice more. To husband, to kids, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:59 PM
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As am I. But somehow you think my reply was based in emotion instead of observation. I would assume it's because I'm a woman and because of that 'status', you've tucked my opinions into a neat little box marked 'emotional'. Didn't know it 'seemed like a free for all' to men. That's a little gross. Not quite sure where the rest of your statement is winding.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:48 PM
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Neat opinion backed up by bupkis.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 04:43 PM
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To add to what TemporaryFlight129 is saying, what happens 5-10 years down the line when the novelty of sex has worn off and she's just as experienced as you are? Will the flame fizzle for you because she's no long a shiny new student waiting to be 'taught'?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 10:33 PM
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"Not to mention more people to compare you against making her harder to satisfy." Women aren't living in a vacuum, though. Virgins have access to the internet, literature, and other women who aren't virgins. They now know that sex is supposed to be fulfilling for both parties, female orgasms (and multiple orgasms) exist, they probably masterbate, maybe they watch porn, blah blah blah. Being a selfish or inattentive lover will make her harder to satisfy. Virginity/lack thereof has nothing to do w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:41 PM
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Exactly. I'm sure OP is totally married with a kid. Actually, he could be married with a kid and still find tons of time to post on reddit. If he values women for their virginity, he definitely isn't helping with childcare.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:33 PM
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Just because a question made you 'big mad' doesn't mean it was asked in bad faith. In neither of my replies to you did I agree that women are the ultimate arbiters of to birth or not to birth. Didn't even mention it. :D
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:24 PM
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What do you think of men who don't want kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 03:18 PM
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Neat perspective, but you didn't answer my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:43 PM
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I read so many comments like this and honestly wonder: why do men complain about not getting dates, laid, married, chosen, etc. but they speak as though they despise, resent, and look down on women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/25 02:27 PM
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She works(albeit not very hard hehe!). What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:27 PM
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4 hours of work a DAY is what I spend on cooking, cleaning, laundry, dishes, and life admin for the fam. Plus 2-2.5 hours 4 days a week of commute for the kid (not to work, just for the kids school). 4 hours a week is like... 48 extra minutes of work each day. Do you think all of the added childcare, cooking, cleaning, and life admin takes only 48 minutes per day? Edit: And to add- yes, I work. I work 25hrs a week and get our benefits, he works 47.25 hours a week. I also do freelance work as doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 02:25 PM
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What are women doing, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 03:42 AM
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That's what more and more women are doing now and it's causing men to lose their minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:59 PM
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Agreed. It's also funny how the men slink off when comments like this come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:57 PM
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Single women aren't having sex nearly as much as you think. And there is no benefit for a woman to have sex with a stranger or acquaintance. Women who decenter men 'get sex' by finding someone to have sex with. Men who decenter women do the same. It's harder for men because women don't want sex as much as men do. My suggestion is to decenter women and embrace masturbation as many women have done. You don't need to get an orgasm from anyone but yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/25 01:09 PM
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Why do you assume they're having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 08:51 PM
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That's... A really frightening take. May no one in power share your views. So, are you saying that home confinement is a form of protection? You didn't mention any other atrocities. Rape, honor killings, barring women from education. Are those a form of protection too?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:01 PM
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Socialization. Which is just as powerful as natural instinct, but is far less cited as the reason humans behave in specific ways. Because if behavior is socialized, it can be socialized in a different direction to the benefit or detriment of various parties. If behavior is socialized, it cannot be justified as 'the way things are'. And if, as you declare, men protecting women is a biological instinct, then why are women treated so horribly in different countries and cultures? (I'll exclude the h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:48 PM
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Anecdotally, take a look at all of the men having affairs during pregnancy and postpartum. Anecdotally, look at the all of the posts about men shaming their woman's post-baby weight gain, sagging breasts, loose skin, etc. And I'm assuming that your comment about your wife's c-section scar was said to get a reaction and emphasize your point. But If not, you may want to ask her how SHE feels about it. Because it's depressing that the remnants of a wound that involved cutting through seven layers o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 08:40 PM
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I would argue that men don't have an instinct to protect all women. It's an instinct to protect the people who are in our tribe, and a socialized instinct at that (that doesn't make it any less powerful). And what do you mean care for? Care for in what way? Are you protecting the women in your life on a daily basis? Or does this Care not have anything to do with protection and you we're just throwing this personal anecdote on at the end?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 10:53 PM
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Why do you think that 40+ women only want sex and no relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:50 PM
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The two experiences are both rejection, but they are not the same. That's true. I see you doing the same thing with your attempt to equate a man's experience of sex with a woman's. The two are not equal at all. In terms of risk, pleasure, and social fallout.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 12:45 PM
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What an unhelpful comment. Why even bother responding?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 07:13 PM
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Do you require her to 'service you' whenever this happens? I'm guessing that's where her irritation comes from. Or perhaps you don't require her, but she feels indirectly pressured to service you when all she wanted was non-sexual intimacy. Just a guess. If she actually is your wife, you might want to analyze why she gets upset during what is supposed to be an intimate moment between the two of you.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 01:36 PM
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