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As opposed to all the adoring women who talk about how much they love their husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:52 AM
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Uhh… men can be completely honest with how they treat sex & relationships, and their wives would be glad to hear it: they probably like their wives, and aren’t as big a fan of the flings. Women like the flings, and probably aren’t a big fan of their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 05:11 AM
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cmv So you want me to criticize his looks? Pros: his forehead and eyebrows look good his facial hair looks promising he has an okay skin tone he has a wide frame Cons: he’s bald he’s obese his head is potato shaped his eyes are average his nose isn’t great his facial hair needs groomed his mouth isn’t attractive he’s overall below average facially
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 04:05 AM
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Gen Z didn’t invent sex. People have always behaved somewhat the same for hundreds of years, even if online dating and social media amplified some issues
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:20 AM
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The general public sucks. Women do pretty much the same thing word for word
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 01:06 AM
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What do you mean by “the true nature of many men and their entitlement”? Are you referencing some guy on the internet who slept with some woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:56 AM
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Imagine being an 18 year old moving out to college, and your first intro to sex with random people is Tinder. This will probably make younger generations feel different than older ones I can understand why Gen Z probably hates each other. I don’t think sexual interactions were supposed to be this predictable and looks based. People get a bit of a spark out of the social aspects of sex, but with that ingredient missing on apps, it devolves into something more robotic. To the extent that sex to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 12:50 AM
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Some people are unattractive simply by overall American beauty standards. They probably can’t be exposed to the “right” people in any location anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:18 PM
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Kind of. In urban areas where most people live, things can be kind of mixed together. In addition, the guys who are the top 1 in 1,000 will sometimes be walking around
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 11:00 AM
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This will reduce the amount of highly attractive people your exposed to on a daily basis. Not for people who live in wealthy or attractive areas. You have to live in a more “average” area for people to be more average People in unattractive environments can’t name one attractive 6’4” guy they’ve ever met. People in attractive environments might be able to name several of those guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:07 AM
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Ignoring the relationship compatibility aspects, it’s simply easier to turn on a given individual in person. People often fantasize about someone they know, even if someone “better” technically exists
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:17 PM
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All of the ”rules” a woman has are for guys she isn’t attracted to. The bar is on the floor for any guy she is attracted to. Women do not mind if a guy becomes a woman’s friend before asking her for sex or to go out, as long as she is turned on Women do not mind if a guy approaches her, as long as she gets turned on Women do not mind about issues related to compatibility or finances, as long as she is turned on Women do not discuss the finer details of verbal consent, as long as they are turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:05 PM
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PPD is weird because it feels like a bunch of 40 year old male and female virgins arguing about dating experiences they’ve never actually had on the behalf of someone else
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 08:53 AM
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Your virginity refreshes on a 10 year cooldown
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 12:12 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/twentyagers/comments/1udtvmb/struggling_to_find_a_spark/ Please no hypergamy type comments because I’m not even attracted to those type of guys They can have the exact problem autistically pointed out to them, but still mess things up
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:04 PM
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I call myself The Most Dangerous Game
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 09:02 PM
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Do you mean just gaining weight? What bmi, weight, or body type is considered a bear? I think you’d have to be “obese” on a bmi chart to be considered one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:30 PM
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Redditors will legitimately point at a guy with an n count of 300 as an anecdote and call him “charismatic” I’m beginning to understand why they misinterpret why a guy might struggle with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:09 PM
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men have to actually realize they could simply stop buying women things and gold diggers would leave them alone I’m using a different definition of the word than you are. In my opinion, gold diggers could still go on free dates with guys. The thing they are after is his bank account with lots of money in it. They do not care about a $100 meal. They are attracted to a certain lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:58 AM
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Just to be clear, real sugar babies might have a price tag of like $5k/month. An escort might cost $500. It’s true paying these price tags will get a guy somewhere. Gold diggers won’t care about either of those things. They want access to the guy’s bank account, not one time gifts. Otherwise a guy is mostly just using “personality”, and maybe at most paying for some movie tickets
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:49 AM
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I’m like 99% sure an expensive date is a distinct sign of a lack of interest. Socially, women would possibly never need any dates other than “hanging out” before sex, and in online dating, she’s either interested or she isn’t. The exact date the guy goes on probably won’t matter or be relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:44 AM
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Women seem to not really like men that much to begin with If you self improve physically, then maybe some women you’re a bit more into will act easier towards you. And/or date less attractive women if you’re already at a peak, and not receiving the attention you want Trying to date women often feels like pushing a boulder uphill True. Initially meeting women requires work, for sure. Once the boulder is up the hill and she’s turned on, though, the bar is on the floor. Research clearly shows that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 10:13 AM
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You know how a guy who looks like a Redditor would be sitting around minding his own business, but he might blush really cutely if I introduced my girlfriend to him? People are just like that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 07:44 AM
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It’s one reason I talk to people before sex. I get slightly more normal people that way
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 06:12 AM
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What do you expect? If I take a shower, mess up my hair, take a full body naked pic, and see which women respond, I am often going to get very specific types of women to talk to me. The female Redditor “just be up front” types lol. Neurodivergent people. Normies are a bit less likely to be that up front
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:59 AM
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It probably wouldn’t be too bad as long as I found a woman who’s a bit neurodivergent. Like a hotwife or something That would be a good example of a woman only sex addicts probably talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:42 AM
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What year was this? Why bother socializing with women when you can get them on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:20 AM
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Was it just some facially attractive Latino?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:03 AM
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It does seem to be true of some women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:58 AM
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I’ll lower my pickup line down to “Nice boobs” and see which women respond. Those women probably think I’m hot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:56 AM
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I’m forced to side with people other than blue pillers sometimes when they call 5’6” guys “players”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:44 AM
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The people happiest with the system are fuckboys and bimbos Except I literally cannot name a single background of person who I have not seen participate in this dynamic. The words “fuckboy and bimbo” become meaningless when 2 engineers match on Tinder and fuck each other after a walk at a mall Who are the women I’m supposed to consider “chaste”?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:10 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/CringeTikToks/comments/1u8hzo6/this_is_exactly_what_is_wrong_with_dating_apps/ Redditors make autistic people feel neurotypical. The commenters seem oblivious. The guy in the video didn’t say anything wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 02:27 AM
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Blue pilled people: “Just network bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:22 AM
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Correct. You just word for word described “alpha fux beta bux” or “dual mating strategy”. Mostly just that women like having sex with physically attractive guys
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:15 AM
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This leads to all dating advice beyond physical self improvement feeling hollow. Very realistic advice is “self improve physically, then aim down a bit” Overcompensating with personality, money, or whatever clearly isn’t going to lead to exactly the same dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:12 AM
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But I thought that guys who aimed down physically are called “Chad”?? Modern dating is so stupid
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:06 AM
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Women tend to avoid attractive men who collect women like they are pokemon cards and call them players so the women are bad? Women don’t avoid them. That’s why they have the Pokémon cards
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:58 AM
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I don’t think I’ve ever had that exact specific conversation (I mostly have only slept with women who are pretty open to me), but for the most part, it’s because lots of people are socially awkward, and talk about their exes. Picture a guy who rants about his exes on a date with a woman. Everyone sane agrees he’s socially awkward when analyzing his behavior, but many people act like that anyway. Some women are similar to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:49 AM
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You’re projecting. If anything, women straight up describe men as cruel sociopaths, except it’s extremely socially acceptable to hate on men like that. Many women have their annoying quirks to deal with as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 12:42 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1uce3xg/aint_no_way_she_is_being_serious/ Chad should agree to this, and then take her friend home
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 10:38 PM
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Guide for how guys can get into relationships with women more attractive than them: 1) Socialize with women. Popularity, leadership traits, being pleasant, confidence, etc. are all great. High school and college are good examples of this. 2) Hang out alone with women for extended periods of time. You should ideally notice over a large period of time (a month?) that she likes talking to you, likes it when you compliment her (“You look great”), she might be a bit touchy with you occasionally, etc.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 05:48 PM
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I don’t care to hear about previous relationship details or hookup details from partners. Hookup culture on Tinder just amplifies the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:30 PM
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And what the hell did peoples height have to do with hookups, relationships or n count?! Okay I can see you’re just too out of touch to participate in this conversation. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:28 PM
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If a dude has sex on a first dats and it becomes a relationship hes not going “she’s not my girlfriend, she’s just a hookup that I take on dates and see exclusively!” I already addressed this. If he wants her, he’ll more likely call it a relationship. If he doesn’t want her, he’ll more likely call it a hookup. Even if he behaved the same way to have sex with both of them Where’s your proof? Some old post or copy pasta from last decade written by a bunch of sexless shut ins? Let’s see it Uhh… wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:22 PM
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Casual dating isn’t hookup culture It’s relatively close. To be honest, what a lot of guys do is call their interactions with women they don’t want to be in relationships “hookups”, and their interactions with women they do want “relationships”. The context of how they met or behaved rarely matters if they had sex the first day they met each other. Bruh, you think every large city entire population is millions of 18-26 year olds?! Go outside
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:10 PM
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Casual dating is a pretty common environment, even if the interactions end up in relationships. Additionally, if you are in a city where lots of partying is common, then I suspect you’ll see these events more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:41 PM
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This isn’t the issue. The issue is the environment of hookup culture, followed by the awkwardness of bringing marriage with kids into the equation. Some people have somewhat valid insecurities. Not everyone can be 12 inches taller than their partners. If someone doesn’t make you feel right, then don’t date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:24 PM
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Yes they do. See: guys who cheat on their wives at age 50. In terms of whether younger guys can: sure. They’re just women. The older women who would reciprocate that for an 18 year old are probably frequently neurodivergent
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 02:17 PM
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Blue pill dating debates who only analyze people socially get messed up with online dating. They think “Chad” is only 8 inches taller than a woman, but what a lot of people in urban areas tend to notice is some couples with like a 14 inch height gap
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:44 AM
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18 year old boys in the USA are already used to using Tinder before they’re old enough to drink at age 21. Imagine using online dating for 3 years where you sleep around with random strangers. You’ll be burnt out before time is up unless you’re a complete addict Cold approaching does exist, but a lot of more socially aware guys probably just do a quick mental calculation of how you’d react to them online, or how similar you are to their previous girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 09:00 PM
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She would for Chad. I have to like, speak to women and stuff because I’m a Chud My most recent first date who I’m currently in a relationship with was an acquaintance I first met who I invited over to my place to watch Ex Machina. Part way through the movie I put my arm around her. After the movie I told her I wanted to kiss her. That moved on to making out & intimacy We don’t have dogs, but we have a permanent cat & got another foster cat recently
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:57 PM
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We also finished the subnautica 2 early access recently. I went back after we were done and added a bunch of stuff to our base because we skipped farming crops & metal farming
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:06 PM
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Bout a few
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:02 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 03:00 PM
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My girlfriend played Overwatch and Baldurs Gate with me 🥰
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 02:32 PM
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Have you ever talked to a woman? What happens when you play “hard to get” towards a woman who’s better looking than you on Tinder? When women are taller than you, does ignoring them increase your odds of dating them? Hint: approaching women and making things easier for them increases your odds. You’re giving terrible advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:45 PM
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Any amount of struggle he shows is either purposefully self inflicted or because he’s cold approaching He can always open up a dating app to find partners, or otherwise hire an escort/actor to get guaranteed results for the camera
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:13 PM
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Online dating broke how casual dating works, and made everyone a bit too aware. Women having infinite access to guys to sleep with isn’t how society is supposed to function I don’t care if women refer to me as “player” socially. I’m still obviously replaceable for sex if she’s willing to drop her standards for “personality”. This is pretty toxic. When I was 18, I liked this system. As a 29 year old, it makes me vomit when I see who women are walking around with. I’m like 80% sure that a lot of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 11:32 AM
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Dating apps can be at least good for practice. It’s good to know how to initiate. Your alternatives: 1) like a coworker: You need a bit of emotional intelligence for this. Maybe invite them to work related volunteering, or eat lunch with them, instead of directly asking them out. Spending time alone with women and fostering a spark leads to better results than direct verbal communication. 2) a classmate: 100% agree, try to study with someone 3) a fellow member in a chess club: I take it you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:05 AM
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Some guys have a good personality, she’s probably just not physically interested in them or hasn’t stumbled upon one yet
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:33 AM
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Hard to say. Maybe she’s a backup plan compared to someone else he’s already talking to. Maybe he’s busy. Maybe he’s not in the mood. Maybe he had a fling recently, and isn’t looking for a new woman at the moment due to post sex clarity. Maybe she’s not attractive enough to tempt him. If I knew what she looked like relative to him it would be easier to guess what happened
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:28 AM
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He swipes right on a bunch of women then decides who he wants to talk to after he matches them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:22 AM
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This contract worked better back when there weren’t a bunch of women on Instagram and TikTok calling guys ugly cucks if they got settled for at 30 to have kids as a provider
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:18 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/HingeStories/comments/1ub6wfj/why_do_they_even_bother_matching/ Are Redditors autistic? He’s clearly not interested in her. He’s not having dating issues due to “personality”. He is 100% just not currently looking for what she’s providing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 01:09 AM
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Emotional sensitivity isn’t the bar. It’s whether you feel “the right way” towards all things all the time. It doesn’t matter how much you cry when an animal dies in a movie, if a human dying makes you feel nothing. That concept applies elsewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:38 PM
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Your neural pathways respond to new experiences. When you experience things, you should grow numb to them. They become boring to you over time. I grew up in an emotionally abusive household. I think I’m physically incapable of feeling certain emotions like sadness or social awkwardness like normies do. I can make people uncomfortable by accident because I don’t feel enough. I think I come off as autistic, but it’s closer to me not being able to correctly emotionally respond to my mother crying h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:09 PM
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Lmao. I don’t participate in either, but follow the same concepts I guess. It gets robotic after a while. I’m as autistic as a kink person, but I just follow a different script. “Does she kind of gaze at me a bit or seem a little drawn to me? Does she want to talk to me? Does she like hanging out alone with me? Does she like it when I mention she looks great? Does she like any natural physical touch that comes up, if any? Does she consent when I tell her I want to hang out elsewhere or I want to…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 10:36 PM
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Redditors/the kink community: autistic verbal consent, over communicating, etc. They’d say “just be up front with your intentions” on Reddit Swingers: more stereotypically operate on “vibes”. Might initiate physical touch without asking, and try to read body language. Instead of “yes means yes”, more like “no means no”. Stereotypically a bit more attractive. More likely to involve alcohol. Less likely to have autism With the way you described the kink scene, I think you’d like swingers a bit mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:39 PM
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Swinger clubs might be slightly better. You described the stereotype of the kink scene. They’re similar to Redditors. They are the ones who give Reddit dating advice. Swingers might be stereotypically more similar to normies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 09:24 PM
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How did your parents meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:38 PM
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I die inside a bit every time a Redditor says “Even fat women are Chad-only”. My expectations are low for the average Redditor’s dating success, but damn. Pick up some weights. Do a push up. Go on a diet and drink some water. Become the Chad you’ve always dreamt of fat women begging for
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 03:34 PM
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I’ll still listen to Fall Out Boy and Jimmy Eat World
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:51 PM
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Some grown ass man noticed me receiving oral and stared at me a bit. Not my proudest moment
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:47 PM
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This was all literally one girl
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:43 PM
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She would flirt with Chad in front of his girlfriend She would wait for his girlfriend to break up with him to ask out Chad, even though she’s her good friend She would see “Chad” make fun of a teacher’s dead friend, and then call him a “dick” with a heart emoji over text because of it She would get Chad to receive comments about how his girlfriend looks at him She would put out on a hiking trail for Chad She would send long texts about love to Chad right before he breaks up with her She would h…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:39 PM
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Have you ever said a negative thing about women? I’m pretty sure you dive in to defend them on their behalf any time anyone says anything slightly negative about women, and you rarely if ever say anything in men’s favor lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 02:11 PM
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Women make comments to insecure dudes who are agressive towards them. Because it works. They also compliment my dick size, tell me I’m bigger than their previous partners, and mention I got them off pretty hard because they know I want to hear it. It’s almost as if women tend to compliment guys when they’re conventionally attractive, and mock them when they’re conventionally unattractive. What a strange pattern that literally everyone notices all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:55 PM
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It’s not an overgeneralizaton. Women certainly make plenty of comments about dick size that would make some guys insecure about the topic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:49 PM
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Yes, women obviously do contribute to the reason why some guys are insecure about their size
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:45 PM
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Sorry lol, you’ve always talked about your sex life on Reddit so I didn’t think you’d mind mentioning your height
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:09 PM
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Yeah 7” is probably also in the Goldilocks zone for normie women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:51 PM
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What’s your height? How tall was your father? 6’3” is top 2% height. So you might just consider it “tall” because it’s rare. Technically speaking, I think women are attracted to guys a bit taller & fitter than their fathers as a sort of baseline
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:37 PM
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Keep in mind he’s not mentally healthy. He’s handsome & 6’2”, and still feels the need to take meth to improve his looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:31 PM
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5.5” circumference, supposedly. Definitely not worth surgical risk at that level
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:29 PM
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Who cares, they’re probably just basement dwellers. I’d literally have a higher opinion of an underemployed gym rat I play chess with than I would of a Redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:27 PM
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Supposedly 7” Idk why he’s bothering. Women are probably happy with his size. I’d be worried about the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:18 PM
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When I write out my behavior towards people I become more self aware. It helps me adjust my behavior to get exactly the results I want, while also helping me be slightly less of a shitty person at times
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:54 AM
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1) he has already announced his size at some point and he has injected something like Botox into the base to increase thickness before 2) your reaction is why insecure people like him would consider the procedure. Skipping the virtue signaling, you know why women would tell a guy they like his dick, and why some guys like to hear those compliments (assuming they haven’t been complimented too many times before). Women tend to like it when a guy is bigger than her previous partners and he gets the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:50 AM
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How much more attractive are men than the women who are physically attracted to them? What are the most mutually enthusiastic tradeoffs? The first thing out the door is height. Men don’t mind shorter women as much, especially for sex, and women like “tall guys”. Since a 6 inch height difference is a looks match, an 8”+ height difference is preferred. I’m unclear on what the maximum typical preferred height difference is because I’m only 5’10”, but a 4’11” woman wouldn’t mind my height. The next …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 11:23 AM
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How am I supposed to watch this? There’s no SSJ3 Goku
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:45 AM
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I was focusing on this part of what you said: When I try to talk about the inequalities, the superficiality, or the fact that men are often harshly judged on traits they have zero control over (like height), I frequently feel collectively gaslit. Suddenly, people tell you "it's just your attitude" or "it's all in your head." When you’re 8”+ taller than women, women tend to like you a bit more & a bit faster. The faster women want to sleep with you (the less socializing that’s required), the more…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 08:12 AM
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A lot of people are going to just call you “incel”. Partially for good reason, partially because they have an n count of 2 in Brazil and think they have a PhD in sleeping around. There are several problems with modern dating: 1) Guys become ungodly aware of what blue pilled people consider “Chad”: A guy who is 8 inches taller, a bit more facially attractive, and a bit fitter than a woman. If she refers to him as a “player”, then he followed the instructions correctly. All physical affection less…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:55 AM
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She would maintain eye contact for Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 01:32 AM
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Yes, but only if there are women your age there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 12:43 AM
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There are now sting operations IN other countries too where they use LBHs as bait This seems odd to me. Just choose a country where prostitution is safe, legal, and reasonably cheap. It’s not like anyone is forcing a specific location to be chosen. Choose the best one. Safe prostitution does 100% certainly exist in certain places around the world
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 10:24 PM
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Those gangs exist in the USA too, as do sting operations due to it being illegal I don’t think there’s a scenario where either sleeping with random strangers or sleeping is prostitutes is 100% safe. You also can’t buy drugs from people and expect it to be 100% safe. The “cool kids” just do this stuff in social environments where it’s slightly safer. Interacting with complete strangers always has a risk
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:57 PM
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A relationship utterly has to be mutually enthusiastic. There are two scenarios: 1) the woman is not excited about the man. If she likes to use Tinder, then she can replace him instantly if she wants to 2) the man is not excited about the woman. If he likes to use Tinder, then he may not be able to replace her literally instantly, but if she is annoying enough he’ll login during a period of high traffic and find someone who wants to kiss him after going to a movie theater or something Online dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:35 PM
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At the very least, prostitution is both legal and much cheaper than what you’d get in the USA. Same dynamic, cheaper price, no troubles with law enforcement Some guys also report lower required looks thresholds in certain countries
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:30 PM
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Meh. 90% of people are losers by any strict definition. If there are more women that want to sleep with him when he travels somewhere, then more power to him. YOLO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 09:20 PM
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It’s probably just an overall win for guys, technically If he’s physically attractive & well off, and still gets better results elsewhere, then is he a “loser back home” or just “optimizing results”? Additionally, are women in America all losers because they choose to date in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 08:46 PM
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As far as I understand it, iodine is basically a slightly superior version of hydrogen peroxide for wound care. They work on the same germs that sanitizer wouldn’t (norovirus), but iodine apparently damages tissue less Bleach is basically the strongest germ killer. When bleach doesn’t work, only soap & water can be used to displace the germs away from your body (soap doesn’t necessarily kill the strongest germs, it just moves them away) Not an expert, but I’m guessing radiation is the “last reso…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:52 AM
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There are 2 factors: ph and friction. A strong ph will kill germs and loosen up skin A strong friction will physically wash away more germs The only real indicator that you went too far is if your hands are dry & itchy from damaging the skin Edit: also, a surfactant will bind to some germ cells & wash them away by binding to water. I’m unclear on how much ph vs. being a surfactant matters. The point is to physically move the germ cells off the body if they can’t be killed. Part of this involves …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:10 AM
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Some germs are too difficult to easily kill with alcohol. Norovirus has a hard outer shell. Soap doesn’t necessarily kill it, but rather the friction and water helps remove it from your hands. Bleach is technically strong enough to kill it. I’m not an expert, but I’m guessing the methods to kill some germs are just hazardous enough to damage your skin. Chemical burns, shedding away too much skin & moisture, etc. Soap is probably some sort of safe middle ground. You shed away enough of your skin …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:00 AM
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It’s somewhat known, but sanitizer isn’t as effective for certain germs as washing your hands with soap
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:42 AM
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When I was in college sleeping around on Tinder, a female premed, engineer, and honors student would all individually sleep with me the first day they meet me. Aroused women act aroused. It probably shouldn’t take more than 6 hours to sleep with a woman in the mood for something (I guess 6 hours because that’s the longest I’ve ever waited for sex in my life)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 02:29 AM
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They do whatever they want, be it casual sex or a relationship D1 athletes can get rather desirable women to act pretty easy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 01:58 AM
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I skip to “she’d go on whatever date Chad wants” If she wants to kiss you it doesn’t matter at all. “Just talk to her bro”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 04:31 PM
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The plurality of women are considered average looking by men. So why humiliate yourself for a dime a dozen? I had sex addiction issues (possibly common among young men?). I could have 4 normal women of average attractiveness I was sleeping with, and literally go out on a date with a 5th with an unattractive woman. I guess you could say I wanted a harem & variety more than I wanted to sleep with exclusively beautiful women. Then why is every video men show like this it’s filled with conventionall…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:59 PM
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A woman so popular with men, she can get men to jester for her and they’ll just do it instead of vetting her out Any woman can do this. Just talk to guys less attractive than you, similarly as the women you’re talking about are doing You’re not going to make me believe you’ll tolerate being humiliated for mediocre pussy I would, but that’s due to sex addiction Hypersexual, always loves to fuck strangers. Nevermind that in places like America only 33% of casual hookups results in female orgasm an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:41 PM
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Bluepill advice is strictly given by neurotypicals. I can understand it as a neurodivergent person They’re saying “the less physically attractive you are relative to women, the more you have to socialize with them to sleep with them”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 03:21 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:52 PM
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“Just be an engineer bro, I know a ton of complete idiots who work at Google”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:44 PM
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My self improvement advice in a nutshell: exercise (ppl or some generic weights if you’re a guy, stair master if you’re a woman?) eat good food use a calorie tracker (track protein, calories, exercise, & vitamins) only drink water if losing weight. Only drink milk if gaining weight. Take lactaid if needed get sleep practice hygiene go to the doctor often take care of your teeth (cleaning, fillings, Invisalign, whitening to be the same color as your eyes, whatever) wear contacts instead of glasse…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:43 PM
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I tutor people who aren’t as obsessive as me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:40 PM
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To be fair, tutoring/studying with women alone has gotten me laid before, so you can count that as a benefit Otherwise I just get upvotes on the internet I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:31 PM
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The problem is that you have to be experienced enough to read between the lines for exactly what the red pill & blue pills are saying to know whether they have good advice, and you have to relate it to how online dating works Socializing with women technically gets them to want to have sex with you more. In particular, the most consistently obvious way for a guy to overcompensate for his looks is probably to get him to take out women on more dates. The longer a guy has to wait for sex, the less …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:24 PM
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See that’s only what narcissists think: That everyone thinks like them but they are superior That’s not true. I think most people are idiots that follow random unfounded whims that ruin their lives. They never stop & think about what they’re doing or how they behave. If people just made better long term decisions, they wouldn’t be complete losers
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:19 PM
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That’s not true. I’m a narcissist and I give advice. Nearly any tutor you’ve seen on YouTube probably has narcissistic traits. It’s extremely easy to develop a superiority complex if people have always told you you’re bright your whole life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 02:12 PM
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Blue pilled people have vague advice because they describe how unaroused women behave Narcissists have extremely specific advice because they describe how turned on women behave
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 01:54 PM
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In order to be available, someone has to value something. What is it that he wants? If looks, money, sex, compatibility, and companionship don’t matter to him, then you’re probably right, he’s not actually available I am available, though. I do have things that can catch my eye. While, technically, my looks range for sex ranged from “fat chick” to “generic sorority girl” because I’m indiscriminate & not extremely looks oriented, I can be more tempted for relationships by women who want to play v…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/26 12:11 PM
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All generic women look about the same when bent over anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 02:52 AM
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Their most consistent attraction mechanic requires that they hang out alone with him for a bit. Similar to going on a date. Group settings are inconsistent Some women don’t understand that, literally, the reason they lust after me is mostly “because I hanged out with them for 3 hours”, and they wouldn’t have the same feelings towards me if we hadn’t hanged out I personally can’t consistently get the same targeted reaction in group settings, even though that does happen sometimes for “some reason…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 01:44 AM
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Reminder that the guy you’re talking to is 6’4” & fit, which makes him top 1% in physique. Unless he exclusively only sleeps with top 1% women (5’10” & athletic), he’s probably aiming down There are just very few men with extremely high physical standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 12:37 AM
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I’m being serious when I ask this: why do some women want to have sex with guys who are shorter than themselves when they socialize, and yet the idea of couples like that meeting on apps like Tinder seems impossible to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:13 AM
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I’m more of a Tinder sex addict in that I’d just sleep with both
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:55 AM
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Compared to who? She’s just some random woman. I don’t think Melania Trump has anything over her Melania: https://np.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/186yxr1/melania_trumps_modeling_pictures_from_1987/ https://np.reddit.com/r/RoyalsGossip/comments/1njnuss/melania_trump_slammed_as_she_wears_hideous_yellow/ Michelle: https://np.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/1i5tsyw/michelle_obama_style/ https://np.reddit.com/r/popculturechat/comments/11oic1d/fashion_highlight_michelle_obama/ Most people…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:34 PM
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I set the baseline attraction I receive from women as someone who would call me “player”, because that’s the dynamic I’ve always been used to, I guess. So since a 6’0” beach babe lifeguard wouldn’t call me a player & act easy towards me, you would correctly detect which women would consistently call me a player: someone I’m 8” taller than, a bit better looking than facially, and a bit fitter than. E.g. I can pose next to a girlfriend’s “cute” friend who has called me player before. She acts a li…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 10:18 PM
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Right, I’m just giving an example that would demonstrate that, even though the guy clearly could find women into him if he were patient enough & willing to chat with people, he instead throws his physical standards out the window Women are less likely to do that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 04:59 AM
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Guys who take steroids at gyms might be the worst about aiming down for hookups, in terms of difference in fitness. I think their hormones get jacked up and they’ll sleep with any heavy woman that consents
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 03:45 AM
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For example…. Would you be okay with “any woman” if she insisted on taking things slow? Or was it “I’ll be with any woman who’ll fuck me as soon as possible”? Successful sexual relationships probably need to start out with a bit of a spark. Otherwise, there’s a real risk that things will crash pretty hard after a honeymoon phase, or during bumps in the relationships. Additionally, if a guy doesn’t think he can ever get similar women by any predictable means, then there will be an unhealthy toxic…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:05 PM
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The self esteem isn’t entirely the issue. IMO, it’s useful to understand some concept of how to sleep with random women, how to read body language, how to linearly check if women are attracted to you even if they’re currently showing no flirting symptoms, how long it should take to sleep with someone if they’re physically into you (depends on the context), decent dating etiquette, understanding the slightly non-obvious concept that hanging out alone with women gets more consistent, clear results…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:08 PM
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There are different stereotypical dynamics that all lead to predictable success: be the most intimidating guy be a polished guy who would do well in sales be a guy who does well in a casual or competitive sport with lots of friends literally just be above average in the face, fitness, and height to be the good looking guy that women obviously want on Tinder be the guy who coordinates lots of friends and has fun at parties be someone who she can rely on during a hard part of her life Basically an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:17 PM
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It’s hard to tell. Some women definitely have something in their lizard brain for being attracted to guys who can protect them effortlessly. If a guy can intimidate a normie police officer even while being completely nice & compliant (also without any gang symbols or tattoos, just a generally intimidating guy), then he fits the bill for what some women are obviously into
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:01 PM
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My dad was what you’d call hypermasculine. He took steroids, worked a trade his whole life, married a tall blonde woman, intimidated most people who work a trade, socialized with concrete construction workers as friends, etc. A very fitting example is that, when I was in high school, a short scrawny girl would ask me out without me doing anything. She would openly gaze at me (enough that friends would comment on it), and call my father obnoxious or “scary”. My father was obviously attractive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:36 PM
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This is common for taller & fitter women
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 10:22 PM
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Looksmaxing can be masculine, at least for the basics. To correctly picture how I’d improve my own looks, I’d criticize my father’s: wear decent clothes. Jeans, work boots, and maybe a flannel shirt or something. Shorts and a tshirt are less attractive have a good haircut wear contacts over glasses get braces or Invisalign & whiten your teeth to be the same color as your eyes speak clearly, and watch your tone a bit (he was an intimidating guy. Lots of people were kind of scared of him) have dec…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 09:42 PM
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I think the main times a guy would be like this would be in a dead bedroom, or if he “bought” his partner (she only likes him for money), and he simply wanted to “buy” another one (whether it’s an escort, sugar baby, or gold digger)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:10 PM
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6 hours isn’t a slutty requirement on my part. It’s the longest I’ve waited to sleep with any women. The least slutty liberal women I can imagine. Sluttier women are quicker High N culture can be criticized, even if you’re a part of it. Similar to criticizing traffic, while sitting in traffic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:01 PM
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What’s the maximum amount of people you would repeatedly sleep around with at once? I think I max out at about 5 when I behave similarly to how you’re talking about, I’m not sure how different other people are
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:13 AM
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https://ptacts.uspto.gov/ptacts/public-informations/petitions/1529841/download-documents?artifactId=1b6aAKZdQz3hxwp-534zIP7Azp_OVU5H-2a9SmFhgJnYWHSSz0axEX0 You have to quote the whole statistic of what they’re saying for it to make sense. You’re mistaken. 36% of women need c spot stimulation. 36% don’t need the c spot, but it enhances their experience 18% seem to only prefer piv 9% don’t get off Once you phrase it like that, you’ll correctly realize that piv should be popular for about 54% of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 06:49 AM
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No they don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:44 PM
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Crazy. When go outside and observe real women, almost none of them have any set of complicated “rules” for dating
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:41 PM
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95% of guys aren’t that unpleasant. If you’re the bottom 25% in general, then you need to self improve
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:31 PM
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Keep in mind many Redditors are on the spectrum. Inexperienced guys can also be clueless. I think sex addicts with lower empathy have low looks requirements, and they fail to completely empathize with people who have concrete higher looks requirements. Women tend to naturally have both higher empathy & higher sex requirements, making them very naturally “different” from me, on average. Hence how guys behave on Tinder, and the notable difference in their standards compared to how you might see gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:46 PM
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Boredom. Also I’ve found talking about it on Reddit helps prevent me from being tempted to responding back or cheating on a partner. It makes me more self aware for exactly how I’m behaving
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:22 PM
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Correct. I’ll occasionally comment “she’ll do X for Chad” as a joke whenever a random woman flirts with me. Because that seems to be most of the “Chad” rhetoric on Reddit. Just receiving IOI from some woman
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:19 PM
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I just put words like “Chad” in quotation marks. To be explicit, it’s just one of my girlfriend’s friends that pays a little too much attention towards me because we hanged out for a few hours alone together once. She developed feelings for me around then I currently try not to respond, or to send one word responses. Also no phone calls allowed
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:33 PM
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She’ll text “Chad” every chance she gets
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:26 PM
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Another is that some women never sleep with any guy on the first date Few enough that I’d interpret it as a lack of interest and find an alternative woman to sleep with before she makes up her mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:01 PM
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They were all my preferred women, but some would sleep with me on the first date and others wouldn't. That's how life works in practice. It's not black and white If a more attractive woman sleeps with me the first time she meets me, a less attractive woman doesn’t, and then a woman even less attractive than that still does, then I start to come up with certain conclusions based on how women behave overall: the women who sleep with me tend to like me more Since relatively “low N” female engineers…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:42 PM
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A guy shouldn’t be using apps like Tinder if he takes 3 dates to sleep with his preferred women. She super isn’t into him if she takes that long It’s clearly more like 6 hours at the utter maximum for an individual in the mood for something. Likely the first time you meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:26 PM
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Being insecure is completely valid and neurotypical behavior. Completely erasing it is not a healthy habit to have. If someone doesn’t make you feel right, you’re allowed to not want to be in a relationship with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:15 PM
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If you’re using online dating, then I’d label it more as 6 hours in person max before kissing that will likely lead to making out or sex What you do in that timeframe might not actually completely matter
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:53 PM
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Tbh I don’t think most women are actually attracted to a guy if it takes 3 dates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:20 PM
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I’m guessing the women you have in mind would like you more if you self improved physically The difficult part to debate is that lowering your physical standards will always get you more attention. First start at being 6” taller, equal in fitness, and equal facially. Then be 8”+ taller, more fit, and a bit better looking facially. Then add in overweight women. Then add obese women. There’s typically no scenario where lowering standards further won’t improve your results
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:41 PM
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Reminder it’s only okay to spread that rhetoric on Reddit if a woman says it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:50 PM
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This is false “Reddit Moment” bs. The amount of women who get off from intercourse is statistically about equal to the ones who get off from oral.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:45 PM
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Mostly as an explanation for a lot of behaviors and dynamics you’ll repeatedly notice
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:26 AM
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Lol. Post that women have no right to complain about dating if they’re overweight to a women’s subreddit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:09 AM
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Correct, that is how dating works. Many women in those spaces aren’t single or looking for a committed relationship either
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:03 AM
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How would you get into a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:01 AM
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Including if you want relationships. Sex addicts are going to be more acutely aware of how to consistently & systematically get women to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:41 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/SingleWomenByChoice/comments/1u3h1gk/id_rather_not_have_a_mental_breakdown_again/ It’s weird to read stuff like this. Literally any successful woman would be utterly surrounded by guys similar to her because any time there’s a room of intelligent, high earning people, it’s always majority male
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:35 AM
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Core issue in society: all the best “dating advice” is probably going to come from male sex addicts
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:27 AM
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It’s hard to tell the difference between boomers, conservatives, and “women only want guys for money/status” types. They all feel like talking to the same person, but their age can differ
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:22 AM
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I flip back and forth on whether I’m going to propose to her. I’m a permanently childfree atheist considering proposing to my girlfriend that I live with. Changing from “girlfriend” to “fiance” or “wife” is more of a tax status & label to me than anything else. Whatever you want me to call the woman I sleep with & am exclusive with. Tl;dr The fact I’m never having kids and date financially independent women changes what “commitment” is to me, compared to average people. Technically speaking, not…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:22 AM
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Not really tbh. I’m extremely boring
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:05 AM
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I have a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:58 AM
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I have a girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:58 AM
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I probably am on the spectrum, but the term “struggle” isn’t correct for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 11:06 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/GirlDinnerDiaries/comments/1u1wse6/my_1year_long_gym_crush_liked_me_on_hinge/ Women waaay overestimate the standards of the guys they socialize with
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:27 PM
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Don’t expect “normal” answers from female Redditors on this topic. They’re clearly neurodivergent. Normies blatantly want “most guys” to chat with them for a bit before sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 08:48 PM
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working out had started making her feel horny all the time. She mentioned how she didn’t want to have casual sex because she fell in love easily, so she wanted to know to control the feelings I’m like this, and have had similar side effects where I make regrettable decisions. There isn’t a great answer for what she’s talking about, if getting herself off doesn’t help. If she’s like I am, then she’ll be manic and tunnel vision on what she wants until she goes through with it. People have to work …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:13 AM
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Look for a woman who’s an older sister and seduce her. She might still not be the initiator during the date (that’s often the guy’s job), but at least you know she’s used to taking care of people (her parents definitely got her to manage her siblings)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 02:58 AM
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Also, where tf does he live where dating is clearly on easy mode for guys? It’s kind of crazy that a 5’8” female tourist from the Netherlands would even respond to a random 5’6” guy from a train.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:38 AM
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It’s fun to put cool patterns on them as a decoration
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:32 AM
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I don’t think you’re a problem at all. Lillith, on the other hand, could possibly learn something from you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:22 AM
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I bet you’d clean up at the nearest NRA convention
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:19 AM
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I’m probably on the spectrum. It’s not that kissing is a big deal, but more that I’d just assume someone isn’t into me and go next if they don’t display rather specific behavior. There isn’t a point in wasting time guessing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:18 AM
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Are you single per chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:50 AM
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Correct. You likely did do better. You likely have less of an “all men are toxic” mindset because of your capability to attract decent people you’re physically attracted to. This is very normal for modern women who, frankly, should have some decent options while dating if they aren’t completely unattractive & insufferable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:58 PM
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Don’t get me wrong, I fully believe you’re attracted to him. I just kinda doubt he’s less attractive than you are. Women don’t tend to be super enthusiastic about dating guys less attractive than themselves. When women have the less predictable libido & guys observe online dating, it sets up an “equal or better” dynamic where guys highly doubt a woman is attracted to a guy unless… he’s equal or better physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:52 PM
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Women are able to attract better men when they have better behavior. I can sense her personality is the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:35 PM
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Would you want to hang out with a person who is unpleasant and rude? Do I want to? No. Do I sometimes have to due to family ties or whatever? Yes. Would you call that person your friend? Not internally Would you want a roommate that is inconsiderate and self centered? Would I want them? No. Would I probably deal with them anyway as long as they don’t break my personal deal breakers? Yes. Would you want to have caring pleasant mindful family members? Sure. That doesn’t mean they exist Would you r…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:32 PM
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Step dads get called cucks Military guys who deploy & pay rent for their cheating wives at home get called cucks Guys who are less attractive than a woman they post next to on social media get called “oofy doofy with a dead sex life” Guys in dead bedrooms with a long term partner who know a random woman off the internet would sleep with them easier get called “entitled” Guys who are more attractive than a woman they post next to get posted to “2026 looksmatch” threads Guys who earn significantly…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:15 PM
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The n count thread wouldn’t have gotten pumped & dumped if it lowered its standards. Stop trying to aim for Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:01 PM
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Part of the problem is how difficult it is for normal people to have a good career, happy family with kids, a house, a good sex life, a healthy body, a good sleep schedule, a good diet, low stress, good quality time, participating in classic outdoor activities (a picnic?), the increasing costs of basic expenses, etc. Even people who can attain all this independently without parental support can feel the toll it has taken on them I have limits
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:39 PM
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Men’s dating complaints aren’t imaginary. An anecdote is not a figment of my imagination. I can prove any single thing I say about dating by pointing at how online dating works.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:16 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/lnkyverse/comments/1u10zob/perspective_women_admits_she_would_rather_be/ Women posting stuff like this over and over makes guys interpret the term “relationship material” as an insult
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:13 PM
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My n count assessment: 0: virgin 1 - 2: chaste 3 - 5: low n 6 - 9: normie 10 - 19: experienced 20 - 50: short to medium term sex addiction issues 100+: more severe sex addiction issues
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 11:54 AM
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This is close to the reason why women want to borrow “Chad’s” hoodie
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:53 AM
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My brothers both served in the military and my father worked in the trades. People like that will always work in those shitty jobs. All the people in that picture would be in the same shitty position today as they were back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 02:34 AM
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To make a parallel, I tell every company they’re beautiful and perfect. I’m just looking to get paid, though. I’m a “player” like that God modern life is so depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:49 AM
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Why you assume they don’t know it’s their qualifications AND their persona/interactions/showcase that landed them them the gig is beyond me Similar to the reason experienced guys tend to be misogynists. I got job offers from multiple companies in a pretty obvious, scripted way. No one would be impressed with my behavior. Just the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:38 AM
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Part of the problem is when women say stuff such as “I like a guy who’s experienced”. I assume the guy in question still as an n count less than 20 probably, but based on how women behave, there are many reasons people think they actually like the “high N” guys in “revealed preferences”. Stated preferences are iffy
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:34 AM
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a man rapes and kill a woman, and a psychologist makes an offender's profile on him, with what traits he would likely have Funny. So they just start assuming a bunch of negative traits. What happens when the rapist is Bill Cosby or Epstein? Are they suddenly master manipulators with an iq of 400, tons of friends, good talkers, they stay away from porn, and they have satisfying relationships? Sometimes it feels like even psychologists want to form a just world fallacy around the profiles of abuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:13 AM
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Blue pillers talking about how women like them for their personality reminds me of oblivious people who go on LinkedIn and talk about how they aced the interview process by being amazing. We’ve all gone through the casual dating & job interview process. Sorry to say, your personality isn’t that amazing or unique. Typically you just meet whatever qualifications there are and you follow a predictable script for what you think the interviewer wants to hear to get your desired outcome. It leads to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:07 AM
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Normal people dont simp They sometimes do normal people know personality matters in dating Plenty of people other than me can get a bit jaded and say something stupid like “women only care about money” normal people think the redpill is stupid Valid. Red pillers seem to get their talking points from how tipsy women behave at parties or something Normal people never thought being nice was about getting pussy They will often give advice of “just talk to her” to get laid I knew two guys who acted j…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:02 AM
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Pro tip: if you want to spread incel rhetoric, just share clips of women on Instagram or TikTok saying their talking points. Women are allowed to make whatever rules they want about dating, and simps (Redditors, admins, etc.) will go along with it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:52 AM
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This is part of the stated vs. revealed preferences dilemma. Almost no one participating in casual dating will ask the n count of their partner. The guy is probably too busy trying to get her to like him & see if she’s up for sex (or not be into her and looking for the exit), and the woman is too busy thinking “when will he finally kiss me??” (or wondering when the date will be over so she can go home)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:28 AM
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I love that I can get guys here to support someone that stupid because that’s a lot better in their eyes than admitting Im right It’s hard to come to any conclusions because you always pick mentally ill or extreme people as examples, instead of normal people. You also never provide any anecdotes of your own to add to the conversation. You also overly focus on clearly undesirable people, when a lot of people are only aware of what it’s like to try & date more desirable people Going with the analo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:25 AM
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He’s clearly mentally ill to an uncomfortable extent Guy has a girlfriend that moved across states to be with him, but he would rather spend $30,000 hoping that an escort would want to be with him “The customer is always right”. Ignoring the details of his actions, he was willing to pay $30k for a woman. Also ignoring the fact that better women are available for cheaper, he acted the way that I’m pretty sure you’d advocate for: he paid price on the price tag. That’s what you want non-handsome gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 12:06 AM
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Neurotypical people will act neurotypical. The often mocked trait of responding to peer pressure is actually sometimes a decent sign that someone is a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 11:05 PM
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Some guys tend to notice things like “matches with women in online dating increases around holidays like Valentines Day”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:46 PM
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Conservatives are maidenless. They think lecturing women will get them to sleep with guys & form relationships. People’s nature is much simpler: make women feel lonely and “weird” for not going out with some random guy they know. This is one reason dating around Valentines Day tends to be better. Peer pressure gets all the normies to feel lonely enough to finally talk to someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:32 PM
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If you are capable of success through cold approaching, you can just use apps Tl;dr have some sort of experience kissing women on apps before cold approaching and they should feel like the same concept
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:50 PM
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Take into account that some guys like to pretend to be women on the internet. If you’re bi then you tend to notice the difference in how guys vs. women behave during sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 09:43 PM
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But the blue pill tells me that all women are perfectly attracted to guys equally attractive as themselves as long as they have a good personality?? Players don’t actually exist, it’s just a bunch of guys flirting with women perfectly physically & financially equal to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:47 AM
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You’re top 1% in height. Realistically, you could’ve just been measuring what the current dating app traffic level was.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:33 AM
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It’s performative. If I placed the most attractive and least attractive people I’ve been with next to each other, and the most ambitious and least ambitious people I’ve been with next to each other, some people would be pretty surprised at my range. My indiscriminate libido doesn’t mean anything Part of being a “decent person” is that I mostly treat people the same, minus lifelong commitment to them. It doesn’t matter how unique you are, you’re still mostly just “a person I had sex with for what…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:48 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:29 AM
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People prefer it for their partners to say they’re attractive, instead of ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:29 AM
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Ask any Gen Z person: there is no greater love than receiving a blowjob from a random person on the internet Our generation is truly screwed
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:26 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 01:15 AM
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The one sentence I’m glad I would never have to hear from any of my partners: “I wouldn’t have chosen my husband on a dating app” Ouch. Don’t say that to your husbands out loud lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:48 AM
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Depends. The ones who say “women want to extract resources from men” or “women are attracted to money” definitely give off a vibe to me that they don’t think women can just be attracted to a guy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:01 AM
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If anything, it’s a red pill belief, likely based on the idea that women who belong to a large harem of a “high status” celebrity would sleep with each other. Black pilled people would obviously say “women are heterosexual for Tinder Chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:47 PM
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I’m not sure how “most guys” handle this dynamic. If a guy is 100% certain that he couldn’t get a woman off a dating app, but women always have their options on dating apps, then why would she date him? Wouldn’t there be the lingering issue in the background that she could always get better guys for a relationship off an app?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:41 PM
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Men don't care much about height Depends on the one. I think guys with more options tend to add on “tall” as a preference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:14 PM
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I theorize it’s because he looks the way he does, he’s 5’8”, he’s 45, and he labeled himself as “short term” If he exaggerated his height to 5’9” (tbh he possibly can’t, he looks shorter than 5’8” to me), bulked up, wore contacts over glasses, polished up a bit with clothes, labeled himself as “long term, open to short”, maybe switched to Hinge, socialized in person with people in an active hobby, etc., then I think he’d do better. As is, he’s a below average option for many reasons. You have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:02 PM
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I believe women are generally only interested in me if they know what I look like. On text based apps like Reddit they seem to assume I’m less attractive than them, and don’t have any sexual interest It should lead to the same overall results once the mutual face reveal comes up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 10:00 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments/1tznnvg/i_get_zero_matches_what_can_you_see_that_i_may_not/ Holy god some Redditors are out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:57 PM
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then why do men reject women, ghost women, end relationships, refuse commitment, have preferences, or swipe left at all? Online dating enables & borderline enforces a toxic system. The moment I’m the guy “you kiss after a date on the internet”, you have no sexual leverage over me. At all. A woman “similar to you” would always act the same towards me. Regardless of my preferences of if I truly desired taller women or something, I’d mostly just get the same results due to my mostly static looks ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:05 PM
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I can & have. You’re gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:57 PM
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They don’t want to answer the question because they know they’ll have to address how online dating clearly works
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:55 PM
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Men do not want ugly women This is mostly your only valid statement Men do not want poor women Poor women tend to be about the same difficulty as well off women if you’re well off Men do not want old women Strawman. Old women do not want young men the same way that old men want young women. Men do not want disabled women It’s valid to not want to disabled person if you’re not disabled Men do not want women with kids It’s extremely valid to not want women with kids if you don’t have kids Men with…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:49 PM
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Men should Ideological arguments are pointless. It’s like saying “no one should go hungry just because they don’t want to work”. What’s the reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:45 PM
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She can’t choose you unless you chose her to approach in the first place This is an out of touch Boomer argument. Online dating clearly works differently & affects certain dynamics in real life. You have to mention why you’d pick a guy in real life, if you wouldn’t pick him in the online dating environment you always have access to. The difference is that you’re counting women’s choices as choices and men’s choices as something else Calling what guys do a “choice” is sort of misleading. Women ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:42 PM
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The “conventionally attractive” stereotype for both genders is to be tall, fit, and facially attractive. The problem is that men and women tend to make certain tradeoffs. I think men tend to dislike their perfect “looks match” in terms of fitness & height, if he isn’t perfectly facially attractive. They would prefer a shorter, thinner woman who is more facially attractive than he is. Women usually are pretty okay with tall fit guys. A secondary problem is that you would correctly realize somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:02 PM
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All women feel like the same generic turned on person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:02 AM
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I theorize that unattractive women are fully attracted to “average guys”. The problem is that they become desensitized to it & always have full access (5’0” women can easily get 5’10” guys), so they don’t believe themselves to be visual creatures. Some might like hotter guys, some might not. Above average women kind of have the opposite issue. You would realize guys more attractive than you are rarer. A 6’0” woman probably wouldn’t be fully satisfied with a 5’10” guy, and her 6’6” “looks match” …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:49 AM
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If a woman is unattractive, then a sufficient number of men are more attractive than she is for it to be less of a big deal to her. 5’0” women are decently attracted to 5’10” guys. It’s still not nearly the same dynamic as what you’d see between a 5’7” woman and 6’5” guy, even though it’s the same height difference. Where you fall on a normal distribution as a woman determines how common guys who are sufficiently more attractive than you are. If you’re on the left, then they’re more common. If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:38 AM
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Turned on people behave in whatever way and they forget what they look like outwardly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:32 PM
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Redditors really hate it when I point out that people can predict dating outcomes based on looks alone
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:30 PM
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No one can ever predict outcomes in looks alone You’re deluded. I’m not watching the video. You don’t know what you’re talking about and you’re just trolling at this point. Bye
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:13 PM
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Black-pillers never had success with dating, that’s why they are Blacpillers Objectively incorrect. I can 100% predict certain dating outcomes and behaviors based on looks alone. That’s where the stoicism comes from. Red pill is weird and very obviously situational at best, but the way your looks affect your dating outcomes is much more concrete & hard to change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:35 PM
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Yes. I was using the term “boomer” in a gender neutral way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:32 PM
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There’s a difference. I could be seduced by a generic 30 year old woman if she was free for me. I might also watch porn of her. If I’m going on Tryst and paying for an escort, then you’d see who I’m “actually attracted to”. A woman I’d pick over literally anyone else, even if conventionally more attractive or less attractive options are available, with no “settling for what’s currently available” or “I’m just looking for a quick video” on my part Also, I could e.g. watch hentai, but that doesn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:29 PM
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pre-2016 Pre 2014. Tinder became mainstream in 2014. Standards became set in stone at about that point because it became clear that as soon as you’re 8” taller, a bit fitter, and a bit better looking facially than a woman, then it’s nearly guaranteed they’ll like you in nearly any scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:01 PM
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Why? Men are absolutely attracted to these women: they are literally experiencing sexual desire and ejaculating from merely looking at them. To verbalize it: in concept, everyone is mostly attracted to a very attractive face. The body type and fitness are mostly details that get catered to the individual. Something like “a woman 6 inches shorter than me, who I am a bit fitter than”. When I’m watching porn, I possibly wouldn’t even notice a woman’s face, even though it’s technically the most impo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:57 PM
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Boomers who have never successfully used online dating before are so out of touch it hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:33 PM
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So we can observe who average men want to have sex with in porn and by who they follow on Instagram Porn is actually kind of different (not my “actual” preference). Better would be to observe which escorts I’d go for on Tryst, as that’s about the same thing as how women could choose guys in online dating What you’re saying is that men settle all the time and you expect women to be flattered by being his last choice There’s a pretty big difference between what modern men and women do. You’re bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:20 PM
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Interesting. It sounds like (from your first paragraph) that any guy who isn't "Tinder hookup material" is being settled for then, yes? That’s actually a fundamental question Gen Z is still trying to figure out the answer to. What, exactly, is the minimum amount of sexual enthusiasm that guys should tolerate from a woman in online dating? Also, because of how you wrote your post, I wonder if you're referring more to casual sex culture. I'm thinking more of the "dating socially" thing you mention…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 09:44 AM
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So, if women allegedly always want "more" than what they, would an average woman dating someone "in her league" always mean that she's settling? We observe who you want to have sex with on Tinder, estimate how far that is from a guy who’s similar to you, and assume you’re settling. The least attractive women tend to be the worst about this. Fat guys notice that fat women aren’t as excited about them as other guys. Very attractive women might be more likely to sleep with and want relationships wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:48 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/twentyagers/comments/1txs3mi/26m_struggling_with_girlfriends_past_lifestyle/ The dating lives of Redditors are depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:22 AM
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I think red pillers read too much into certain scenarios and mistake short term hormonal fluctuations for behaviors that actually cause attraction. There’s a difference. If my long term partner is in a rut, sitting on the couch like a slob, then getting her into the shower and taking her out to exercise with me will probably get her to want to have sex with me more. That’s a hormonal shift that increased her libido. With respect to dread, I suppose a bit of turbulence could get people to feel so…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:46 AM
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I think women are WAY more selective on dating apps Keep in mind ALL women have access to apps. That’s an option for literally any of you at any time. No woman has to settle for less than what she gets on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 02:21 AM
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You’re not going to get any real recommendations because if you can’t get anyone attractive in the USA as a woman, then there are no countries that will want you. It’s not like the guys in Sweden are going to be magically easier If you’re interested in less attractive guys, then where the passport bros go should be fine. Southeast Asia, South America, or wherever
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 01:58 AM
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Look at a guy’s list of dating app matches, and then look at who he shows up in public with. The women that guys show up in public with are generally not the women they’re complaining about on dating apps The guys that women show up in public with are frequently clearly the bare minimum guy they’d consider on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 01:52 PM
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You’d be the perfect person to charge guys money for rating dick pics Edit: typo
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:57 AM
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The guy will find a woman similar to his ex wife who actually wants to have sex with him. It’s an odd dynamic. People just crave “new relationship energy”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 02:18 AM
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If a woman was doing all that "Take me as I am" and she was cunt, guys here would tell her off and that Chad wouldn't LTR her dumb ass. You just dont like it when someone puts up a mirror to those guys. Most people aren’t insufferable enough to get excluded from their relationships due to personality. It’s like the last possible factor that would ever matter. People who actually are insufferable enough just have some issues to work through. Abusive men like my father needed to get off of the ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:58 PM
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As long as guys understand it's not that women give bad advice. It's not alot of guys dont like hearing it. You give bad advice. Everyone agrees with me on this statement except you. Get over it Yeah, being a piece of lazy entitled shit is terrible. Git Gud Sorry you can’t get better men than this. Maybe improve yourself to be at least an average woman or something so that you can get a guy who isn’t completely dysfunctional This sub has already shown they no problems straight up destroying a fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:36 PM
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We don’t care about your advice towards guys you’re clearly not attracted to. We think those sexual relationships will lose their spark and fail. If you think a guy “being himself” is terrible, then you’re probably grossed out towards him. You’re encouraging guys to embrace relationships where they’ll probably end up dead bedroomed by a woman who would prefer to sleep with someone else. She can replace a guy she wouldn’t sleep with enthusiastically extremely easily with online dating, and divorc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:22 PM
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Keep in mind I act exactly the same around good looking people that want to sleep with me. Because turned on women aren’t really that different from each other I emphasize how unattractive women behave because that’s what a lot of flirting is. Just noticing that people less attractive than you act a certain way around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:26 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/BobsBurgers/comments/333065/the_famous_tina_butts_gif_what_episode_is_this/ Average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:37 AM
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The outside world “exists”, but what I’m saying is that if those people are the majority of the population where you live, then the literal normal distribution I have to date is made up of those people. If I lived in a part of the world where the average height was 5’4”, I’d be “tall” and women would like me. If I lived in a part of the world where the average height was 6’4”, I’d be “short” and women probably wouldn’t talk to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:51 AM
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I feel resentful towards men Fair I think the majority of women would be good partners They’re equally bad I’m jealous that men have so many great women to choose from Most women are unremarkable Meanwhile, I feel like there is a much smaller percentage of men who are genuinely good people and care about things outside themselves You probably wouldn’t like me as much if I wasn’t shallow enough to take care of myself I stopped trying to make male friends a long time ago because it hurt my feeling…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:47 AM
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When those people make up the majority of the college town you live in, it is the normal distribution
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:16 AM
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I have to show off to personality mog the boring blue pilled normie betas
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:09 AM
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If a guy makes it clear he's not spending money on her, she's leaving. That’s not the case for guys who actually have “money” beyond the ability to pay for a date. The women want the guys MONEY, possibly through a relationship. They may or may not care for him to pay for a meal. Stop guessing about things you obviously know nothing about Then wait a couple of months before having sex to get to know each other better Any guy who can get sex within 2 months with a similar woman would probably just…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:23 PM
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He's also big into the club scene and has pretty low standards When I read this, I imagined the picture of overweight women at clubs next to a list of guys they banged, where it was just a bunch of non-overweight white guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:08 PM
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unless you kept advertising your money but that's an easy fix if you're worried about being used for resources: don’t pay for dates That’s not what a gold digger is. The gold digger I’m avoiding is one that wants me because of money, not one that wants me to pay for dates. Because I’m not broke enough to fathom about caring for $20 Also, this means men are just as picky as women. They're just picky about different things, such as INSTANT SEXUAL GRATIFICATION This actually isn’t a big ask for a S…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:57 PM
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Tl;dr I doubt the bottom 25% of men enjoy the fact that the “slightly above average” 5’10” runner guy is the least attractive guy that many unattractive women can imagine sleeping with
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:40 PM
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There are also exceptions in the other direction to a degree. The guy with probably the highest n count I know is a guy I would describe as a little above average. He's thin and in shape from running (which is obviously above average in the US), but he's skinny and not muscular. He's also about 5'10, so barely above average. But he's really outgoing and charismatic. He's also big into the club scene and has pretty low standards. I wouldn't even consider sleeping with most of the women he's been …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:35 PM
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You can’t just look at 1% outliers and ignore how the general trend clearly goes, especially in observable areas such as online dating Like I can say “I know guys who married a woman taller than them”. I do in fact know one. That doesn’t mean I, personally, can seduce a woman taller than me on command.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:04 PM
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Most college people aren’t in sororities and fraternities No, but we were surrounded by people who were, and big chunks of college populations tend to behave a certain way I don’t know why you think a person attending a college is “dumb”. It seems like you’re just in a mood or something, you don’t actually have anything to say. I promise you that not all guys complaining are completely off base, somewhere around the bottom 25% of men barely experience any romance at all, in general
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:33 PM
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Uhh… who do you think is on the internet? 70% of Gen Z is college educated. The minority of people who are both not educated and aren’t able to work in the trades or as a bartender or whatever are extremely invisible to us
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:28 PM
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… to be fair, that’s technically what women overall do too. “Slightly above average chasing”. The bottom 25% of men tend to have 1 or 2 lifetime partners. The top 40% of men tend to have 10+ lifetime partners. Tinder becoming mainstream in 2014 visualized and amplified these issues
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:24 PM
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She’s just too unattractive to receive those gestures from someone she’s attracted to. The reason the guys that buy her ice cream “expect something” is because that’s how those guys are used to being treated by women. Getting a blowjob after hanging out with someone for a few hours
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:16 PM
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A college town where those are the main people available for dating will tend to have certain dynamics going on. A woman who can’t understand the perspective of others is a moron. I don’t know what you thought you were cooking with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:11 PM
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When I attended college for 4 years and Greek life was everywhere, I’m pretty sure the “average person” there was someone you’d call “Stacy” or “Chad”. The people I socialize with becomes what I perceive as “average” People tend to be stuck dating within their social environments, and you’d need to understand real quick what’s going to happen if some 5’6” guy is trying to date in the wrong social environment. I can understand getting rejected for height, and I’m 5’10”. Redditors gaslight people …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 09:07 PM
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In certain environments, only people you’d call “Stacy” and “Chad” exist. If I planted you in the middle of my parent’s social group when I was in high school, they’d probably dislike you a lot in terms of dating because a bunch of conservative concrete construction workers on steroids & their blonde wives tend to treat people below themselves like crap romantically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:51 PM
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Are you like a troll bot or someone’s alt account here that’s just meant to say stuff like that over? You say that a lot and you seem to never know what you’re talking about or have counter examples
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 06:15 PM
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The bottom 10% of people in society tend to be pretty bad to be around. The top 10% are wonderful to be around. Life is kind of like that. Who you are raised around and socialized with can have an effect. 10% of guys go to prison. However, if I socialize with people in hobby groups, then none of them will have been to prison. This is because I probably tend to socialize with slightly better people than average.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:12 AM
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By “somewhat like this” I mean “every guy who has ever used online dating has probably attempted to have sex with a stranger”. Because to an extent that’s what online dating is
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 11:03 AM
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You’re terminally online. I attended k-12 in Missouri
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:48 AM
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as long as there’s a couple of women willing to put up with a shit personality, you guys will hyper focus on those women, even if it means the vast, majority of women have clearly want nothing to do with him Ignoring his cruel behavior, isn’t that essentially what you would strongly encourage me to do? Find the one woman unlike all the others who is just as weird as I am? Someone who actually likes me for who I am? According to this sub, men have a hard time dating and barely have any options Ty…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:47 AM
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I should do that with my girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:39 AM
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You really wildly overestimate how much personality matters. There are plenty of women around. There’s always a female match for a guy’s personality. Sugar dating is just prostitution. I don’t think it’s a common thing normal people consider
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:35 AM
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Most likely, he was just less physically attractive than she was
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:29 AM
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So I was reading a guy’s AWALT rant because the women he’s on dates with are never saying thank you when he compliments how beautiful they are Some people need to get back to the basics. These women were clearly uninterested in him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:24 AM
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Incorrect. Women do like it when they receive compliments from guys who want sex from them, but the trick is it has to be a guy she wants sex with. Some people forget that part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:19 AM
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Your methods of “coercion” are BS. For example: Focused on a stranger to have sex with (or someone who did not know you) Those strangers I had sex with were consensual. I’m pretty sure every guy who has ever used online dating has been somewhat like this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 10:07 AM
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My point was that he was a rare person, and that cutting him off was sufficient. I’m probably a worse person than most people because he rubbed off on me. The lesson I needed to learn wasn’t to avoid people, but to be better than him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:53 AM
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Same, except he was considered more intimidating than pleasant. I pretty much cut him off and socialized with other people once I turned 18. Unfortunately, I see more of him in myself than others, but not much can be done about that. Such is life
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 08:38 AM
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We’re used to socializing with normal guys who seem pleasant to be around. When women complain about guys, we look at all the single ones who aren’t weirdos around us and are like “you should make better friends”. Because most people don’t seem too unhappy in their relationships What behaviors are you having trouble avoiding with guys that you socialize with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 07:13 AM
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It’s extremely important for ugly women to bully ugly guys for not getting laid so that they can feel superior about something
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:14 AM
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Gotta have the real thing injected straight into my veins
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:08 AM
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Ovulating: “Does she like talking to him? Does she want to hang out alone with him? Does she like it when he tells her she looks great? Does she seem to like natural contact, such as a goodbye hug? Does she consent when he tells her he wants to kiss her?” Shark week: “Does she seem to act kind of cold? Does she want you to leave her alone? Does she dislike compliments? Does she seem to avoid contact? Does she avoid sex? Tl;dr: “Chad” is mostly used to how horny women treat him on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 12:05 AM
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Women have some weird “type” that they will inevitably be attracted to. Guys will end up marrying the same “type” if they’re all only looks oriented narcissists (generally, blondes for some reason). I can’t tell if I’m neurodivergent & weird for being willing to date outside this type, unlike my brother & father, or if I’m “the normal one” because looks matter less to me. It’s also odd that I’m nearly 100% sure blonde women similar to my mother and my brother’s wife will always be attracted to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:32 PM
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… I mean, do you need more extra credit than just getting to have him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 10:00 PM
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Yes, it’s a dealbreaker
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:59 PM
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Probably. The tl;dr is that literally any woman who doesn’t treat me somewhat like that just comes off as “not interested”, even if they’re less attractive than the most attractive women that would treat me like that on online dating Also women who are more attractive than the most attractive women to ever treat me like that come off as “extremely not interested”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:28 PM
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To be more specific, “Blonde at a big state college with Greek life presence that you see walking in crowds with other blondes”. Those blondes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:23 PM
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why are you calling out blonde as the only identifier associated with appearance? Mostly just to indicate I’m not talking about fat chicks or single mothers like I’m pretty sure red pillers are limited to. She was just some random woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:17 PM
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I’m pretty sure female Redditors aren’t normies, and this is where a lot of disconnect comes from. Keep in mind that all the normie women you know around you with an Instagram & Tinder account are probably not going to be the “wait for sex for guys they actually like” types.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:06 PM
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Keep in mind many women on Reddit aren’t from the USA. Tinder might be a bit less one sided & “provider types” might be more desired in e.g. Brazil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 09:01 PM
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I’m a “good man”. I’m who you want me to be. A blonde woman who’s an honors student at a big state college would kiss me after a date on a dating app. So would an engineer. So would a premed. I’d participate enthusiastically. I 100% can’t tell if the women who don’t treat me this way are unattracted to me, or if they simply “wait for sex for everyone”. I have absolutely no frame of reference for attraction besides “woman who had sex with me relatively quickly”. Tinder got this into my head, watc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:46 PM
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I assure you that there are many unattractive guys who wouldn’t intentionally mistreat a woman. They’re just virgins. The bottom 25% of guys are not all literally evil. They’re just people The bottom 25% have had 1 lifetime partner. The median guy has had 2 - 4. The top 40% have 10+ partners. Y’all overly focus on “above average” guys who interact with a lot of women. 10x (a 10 times multiplier) of your experience comes from only 40% of guys compared to the bottom 25% of guys. Online dating only…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:06 PM
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Unironically, this is only true for first impressions. Then abusers have their weird dynamics where nothing they do actually matters as long as they aren’t complete monsters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:23 AM
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Looks set your league but personality/social skills significantly influence how well you do within that league I don’t view personality as a significant influence because “just talk to her bro” always works as long as it’s some ovulating woman gazing at a guy a bit. Like if I talked to a woman that was into me the same as I’m talking to you right now they’d probably be sitting there wondering when I’m going to kiss them or something
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:55 AM
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In my experience, most guys who naturally do well with women aren't raging red pill assholes The red pillers are incel adjacent people who overcompensate with their social skills & personality (often, poorly) because women they want won’t kiss them even if they’re pleasant in online dating They're typically attractive, socially well adjusted guys and they most definitely use apps Depends on the person. The problem is, if apps work for you, then you are most likely somewhat blackpilled. The black…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:29 AM
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India? That might be fair. In the USA things are going to be different
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:12 AM
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You said it in your title. She wants him for his money. That’s an issue in 2026 when it’s clearly possible for her to divorce him & keep some money if she doesn’t actually like him. It’s still a decent deal, though, don’t get me wrong. I’d take it over a 30 year old woman “settling down”. Better to be settled for by a more attractive woman than settled for by a less attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:06 AM
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You’re supposedly 6’4” and fit. There are very few women who you are not “a bit more attractive than”. There have to be women more attractive than you who give you a bit of a cold shoulder for you to understand Like do you think anyone has rejected you for facial aesthetics before, for example?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:01 AM
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All sober because I got into the habit between age 18 - 21, and couldn’t legally drink until I was 21
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 02:25 AM
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Oh, right, I’m not saying I’m downgrading. I’m just saying how I, personally, tended to behave relative to my father who would cheat on his wife. I assume guys who “downgrade” are usually monkey branching to the nearest easy option because they’re bored
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:43 AM
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Does he have a peaceful personality similar to a stoner, or is he more of an extrovert?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:39 AM
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When I was in college, I would have a few women I was like that with, and just ghost all of them at once if an exam or something came up (similar to post sex clarity). I was probably mostly talking to those women less for sex, and more because I was lonely and bored. I’d then eventually want to talk to some women again, have a few behaving like that towards me again, and just ghost them again. The women I tended to end up committing to would likely be a premed or engineer. I have to have things …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:35 AM
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A stale sex life or dead bedroom, maybe? My father cheated on his blonde wife with some blonde maid. I’m guessing he was just bored. I am similar to him. However, I try to be more thankful for what I have, because I know my life will go to shit if I just continuously try and grab for more & more without stopping to smell the roses. Some similar blonde woman will always be around to sleep with me in online dating around Valentines Day, if I get bored. I have the same feelings as he does, but I at…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:26 AM
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How do you filter beyond this if you have a million options that kind of fit the description?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:39 PM
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If you lived in an area where a bunch of women use TikTok, then you’d understand my perspective of the issue
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:28 PM
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Blue pilled people don’t participate in online dating and only observe how women they’re a bit more attractive than behave socially. This is why they think most people only sleep with people of similar attractiveness to themselves. Some girl would probably ask them out in high school without them doing anything, and similar ones would respond to them in online dating and kiss them after a date. So they’re mostly just describing what they have to do to get an ovulating woman to kiss them. “Be you…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 11:16 PM
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Browse TikTok for 15 minutes and you’ll probably find some samples of them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:56 PM
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Also, the guys who are truly hot enough to do this become “sugar babies”. Notice Jeremy Meeks dated a billionaire The most I can comprehend behaving somewhat like this is just sleeping with random people via online dating or who I socialized with. But I wouldn’t be able to make any money getting paid for sex. I’d just date a woman with a high paying job & decently well off parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:29 PM
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There’s no purity culture for educated people. Only socially stunted and maybe some low libido people think like that. Women have sex with guys they’re attracted to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:08 PM
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Cool story. So then why do most women act sluttier towards guys who are actually a catch?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:07 PM
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I doubt you’ve met any highly attractive guys. They don’t know what “hard to get” even is. You wouldn’t appear to them on their radar as an option because some other woman already offered to have sex with them. Because if they’re like at a bar or something a bunch of women will start gazing at him, and some will approach him In high school dynamics, it would be like some girl gazing at me hoping I ask her out, but then some other girl just asks me out without me doing anything. I paid more atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:00 PM
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Strange. Attractive guys almost never have a problem finding women to have sex with. It’s almost like lots of women are only worried about being sluts in front of unattractive guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:47 PM
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To be clear to what an equivalent guy would sound like: If I need to have sex, I will specifically pick super hot women who have things about what they want in life that I don't align with. I mostly pick expensive escorts from Tryst. All these women are a hard no. This makes it easier for me to remain unattached and just focus on sex and nothing else. If I find someone to raise my kids and cook my meals, then I take my time getting to know them. I don’t have any intense passion towards them and …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:42 PM
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I’m like that while sober. I have always been like that towards, literally, anyone who acts a bit easy towards me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:36 PM
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I can’t relate. I might have Asperger’s & lowered inhibition. What’s the difference for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:56 PM
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The reason guys hear this as virtue signaling is because we think, if you were more attractive, then your standards would magically increase. Women who date socially have this odd habit of being attracted to “guys a bit more attractive than themselves”. They are truly attracted, but there’s something weird about how involuntarily you react towards guys you actually like. Some guys have very indiscriminate and voluntary reactions to women when sex is an option, so they don’t understand this dynam…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:43 PM
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The reason he gets extra credit is because he’s loyal to a woman as a rich 6’1” handsome “James Bond” actor celebrity. Bro has options, and he carries the burden of rejecting hundreds of women constantly begging for his dick to stay with his fat wife
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 08:33 PM
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That’s the part guys are talking about. I agree relationships are a little odd. Casual dating via the internet can still let women aim up a bit, I think. It depends on some factors and how concrete she wants the commitment to be
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:56 AM
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We’re being linear. I currently have a friend that’s a woman who’s attracted to me. If I wanted to kiss her I wouldn’t just text her that. I would hang out with her a few hours, mention she looks great, and then tell her I want to kiss her. I know she’d consent based on how she looks at me, but women generally prefer more linear approaches, on average. As opposed to a d!ck pic or something that a gay man might respond to. I’d also essentially be checking if she’s still in the mood for something …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:51 AM
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Do you think she could aim up above that for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:37 AM
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That’s probably close to all your options lol. How do you see other people acting?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:33 AM
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You sort of just become asexual around people. Have a motherly vibe. Similar to how a narcissist mother behaves around guests
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:05 AM
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Put that you’re open to short term or have a pic of you wearing lingerie if you want to come off as sluttier, maybe? Women would want me to be confident, take initiative, etc. to show my “experience”. Mostly just making their lives easier. Being more “up front” and communicating more as a woman would sort of show that you know what you’re looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:29 AM
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Sure bud. Check an ugly woman’s Tinder account. Who’s willing to have sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:22 AM
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Idk. My current partner makes $150k, though. I’m not asking for too much or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 04:01 AM
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Not alone. Only group settings. There are a couple of women who are my girlfriend’s friends that have feelings for me right now, but I try to pretend they don’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:59 AM
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Most women are insufferable? Somehow it sounds like you are the insufferable one Insufferable women are kind of rare, but in my opinion a lot of women are mediocre. In concept, a lot of guys just have mediocre women who are pleasant as options, because most women tend to be nice to a guy they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:32 AM
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You technically didn’t, but you would probably realize while multidating that people clearly tend to make really quickly snappy judgements about who they actually want to be with
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:25 AM
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Not gonna lie, all the men who are actually physically attractive and also that sexy are completely taken lmao. Keep in mind what a male escort would be like. He’s literally just some guy who likely struggles to get a normal job, and might not be great at roleplaying All men you would want casual sex with are going to be at least somewhat capable of getting women with “low effort”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 03:14 AM
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In terms of what you’d ask for from an escort, that would be called “the boyfriend experience”. If you went on a dating app, you could put that you’re up for short term only, but you want to go on a date first.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:55 AM
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If you want only one woman, then “dating” shouldn’t even be a thing on your mind, even though knowing how to sleep with random people is useful. You should go out and socialize with women, and hang out with one you like when she seems like she’s in the mood for something. Also, 4 - 5 dates is a lot. I think women dislike you if they take that long to kiss you or discuss exclusivity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:51 AM
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You could also try swinger clubs that are more “in person”, if you’re into that. Those places absolutely beg for single women because of the shortage of women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:34 AM
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Desperate men like to act like they have an abundance of women and then blame women when we reality reminds them they have no options Fat women would never talk to a fat man on Tinder, and then Redditors gaslight desperate men that their personality is the problem. Fat guys don’t have an abundance mentality, they just are invisible At least in my country of the USA, it’s actually not the norm for women to be fucking on the first date. Women typically wait a couple of months before having sex wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:31 AM
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Do you think having a successful situation with a male sugar baby ruins the chance of a satisfying relationship with a normal guy later? I was just saying that guys you can sleep with for free on Tinder are probably already going to be relatively attractive compared to who would consistently commit to you for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:54 AM
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Tbh if you have to pay for it as a woman you’re going to get alpha widowed. By itself, the guys you can get for free on Tinder should be enough to increase your standards for a fling lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:14 AM
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Once you realize how high school dating is the least shallow version of socialized dating there is, and that Tinder amplifies looks standards, it makes you understand how truly screwed the bottom 25% or so of guys are If you never got asked out without doing anything in high school, then the mere existence of Tinder is going to murder your chances if you don’t do significant self improvement College is pretty good too, but I’m guessing Redditors would do very poorly there if they aren’t used to …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:09 AM
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Consider some flannel and goth options to spice things up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:57 AM
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Pierce Brosnan is a true Chad, in this regard. Bro loves his wife. I’m guessing she treats him extremely well
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:42 AM
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I was giving an example of a girl who’d call me her “big brother” who would flirt with me. Like maybe if you’ve ever had a boyfriend’s sibling blush when you talk to him you would get what I’m saying
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:40 AM
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Haha. Would you perhaps say… the bottom 80% of men?? Checkmate blue pill /s
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:34 AM
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Sorry. I think girls just act that way towards like a big sister’s boyfriend that a little sister is attracted to, so maybe some guys emphasize a “big brother” dynamic. When I was in high school I didn’t understand my girlfriend’s sisters were attracted to me Guys have to build up some self awareness of how attractive they are to others to correctly avoid getting women/girls to develop feelings for them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 12:32 AM
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A person who would have sex with me. If she’s single and looks like any of my previous girlfriends or women who would kiss me off of online dating, then I assume it’s a bad idea to hang out alone with her If she wouldn’t be into me physically, then that’s probably safer technically. It’s just hard for me to not be tempted when people flirt with me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:22 PM
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I typically just shouldn’t be alone with people. I frequently fantasized about my straight male friends who I hanged out alone with when I was in high school. I got out of that habit when I started socializing with people less like that in college & got access to dating apps which give me infinite access to gay people I’m guessing “most people” shouldn’t hang out alone with people they’re attracted to or who would have sex with them, though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 11:07 PM
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And again, what about bi people I’m bi, I’m basically saying I shouldn’t hang out alone with people who would have sex with me
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:57 PM
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I’ll be friends with straight guys. Being friends with a gay guy in group settings is also acceptable. Hanging out alone with him would be a bad idea
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:51 PM
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What is the exact scenario you have in mind for “had casual sex”? 99% of normie sex is “an ovulating woman showed symptoms of flirting with a guy and slept with him” People who get sex instantly with no socializing over the internet are less common, and I have done stuff like that, but I’m guessing if a guy can’t post nudes of himself & get women in his city to chat with him for sex, then he’ll have to do more socializing to get what he wants
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:36 PM
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Even if both of you catch feelings, you will remain platonic friends so long as you both decide not to act on them Trust me, this isn’t a healthy long term dynamic if you aren’t single
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:30 PM
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I’m not looking for tips on how to catfish people. I’m confused on why you think I’m lying when I mention how women behave around me. Other Redditors on this site will literally be like “5’6” guys SLAY women” (I’m guessing these people are pretty unattractive), but when I give anecdotes for approximately how women would sleep with me at a big state party college with a large Greek life presence, then apparently nothing I say is believable
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:28 PM
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Then she probably socializes with guys who are about that ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:19 PM
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Have you ever had any male friends catch feelings for you, or was it the other way around?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:06 PM
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What would believable anecdotes sound like compared to mine?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 10:03 PM
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What doesn’t sound believable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 09:32 PM
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The relationship is certainly over, but maybe the sex could be fun for a while
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 01:32 AM
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What happens when large portions of the population never marry and never have children? We increase immigration from other countries and hope they assimilate well What happens when millions of men feel permanently excluded from sex relationships and family life? Probably just legalize prostitution tbh. Maybe promote foreign adoption What happens to economies when populations age and shrink? This can’t be fixed Who pays for pensions, healthcare, and social services in societies with too few young…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 11:38 AM
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i guess from my perspective i usually get a better sense of orientation w guys bc they are attracted to me Fascinating. I had a set of parents who wondered if their daughter (a friend of a gf) was a lesbian because of some stuff she said at her “girls only” school. It took everything in my power to not point out that this girl clearly flirted with me every time I socialized with her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:49 AM
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The reason they probably wondered was because a cute girl flirted with me for a month and I didn’t reciprocate any interest. In fact I only ended up dating girls who asked me out without me doing anything
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:19 AM
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I think my parents wondered if I was gay for a while when I was in high school There was this girl with a cute face, pretty hair, about as tall as me, big rack, fit, etc. We hanged out alone a lot because our parents were friends. She’d be touchy with me, gaze at me a bit, always wonder what I’m doing, etc. I can’t blame them for wondering why I didn’t try and flirt with her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 06:54 AM
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A guy’s n count & women is going to be proportional to the women that his brothers and father slept with. This is one reason dating results feel “inevitable” to Gen Z guys used to online dating. My brother and father were narcissists. My father abused my mother for 20 years, and my brother was a guy 3” taller than me (6’1”) & more athletic who frequently browsed 4chan, partied a lot, played sports, and bought into red pill beliefs I have about the same amount of success with women in terms of fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 07:31 PM
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Redditors hear a guy complaining about his lack of dates, and they imagine a literal terrorist, instead of some virgin sitting on his computer
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 06:41 AM
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I was being sarcastic about how anyone could easily adopt those two things, and it would have absolutely no effect on whether women want to sleep with them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:26 AM
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I respect women and view them as people. The line for sex starts at the left
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 01:21 AM
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I’m also not sure why the man would assume that women with different backgrounds would never find the same man sexually appealing The reason this is relevant is because when I think about “personality”, I think about a woman I have stuff in common with. When you think about what “personality” I had when I slept with those women, you probably correctly assume I had some generic chat about non-controversial topics and hanged out with them for a bit. My “personality” there wasn’t exactly unique It’…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:50 AM
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you can be a high status person in a problematic society with an entirely squeaky clean conscience. (I swear to god if you say Oskar Schindler I will shit myself) You can be a decent person if you got there on merit, and are likely mostly a “worker peon”, as opposed to a manager. E.g. a doctor, or a football player that low status, agreeable, non confident, non assertive men are somehow just as dangerous as the actual irl misogynists because of reddit comments Unattractive guys can still be dang…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:43 AM
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When a guy has 5 similar women chatting with him on a dating app, and 2 of them sleep with him after a date, and those 2 women are nothing like each other in terms of background, then it’s sort of a toss up for why they “actually” liked him. The answer, imo, is most likely he was a bit better looking than those 5 women and a couple decided they were in the mood for something when he was nice to them. “Personality” didn’t have a whole lot to do with it. It becomes unclear to guys who repeat this …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:36 AM
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Because she knows he’s going to ghost her when she doesn’t sleep with him. Why the heck is she even talking to him if she doesn’t plan on being a bit easy. Like that’s a total waste of time for both parties
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/26 12:17 AM
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You have a bit of depression, stress, or anxiety. What are 10 things you’re grateful for? Are you happy with what you have? Sometimes you have to remember to be happy with what you have and savor it, instead of stressing so hard to get something new
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:55 PM
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I’m kind of broken in that I can only show passion for ideas or hobbies, instead of people
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:43 PM
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To focus on exclusively the “too skinny” portion, the reason she’d looks “too skinny” to guys is because her thighs are big. If her thighs were skinnier then she’d be proportional. She needs to gain muscle mass & weight on the rest of her body to look “correct”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:40 PM
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What do you have against a guy who is emotionally simple?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:25 PM
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A good personality is pretty subjective, but good looks aren’t. The same 5 women will consider sleeping with a guy based on looks, but 2 random ones will go through with it for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:23 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/trueuglywomen/comments/1tqe0o9/going_on_a_date_tonight_strongly_think_hell_ghost/ If femcels could be a bit less “Chadsexual” for 10 seconds then we’d all appreciate it. The main reason she’d get ghosted is because the guy has another woman similar to her that’s going to sleep with him relatively easy, and everyone knows it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:19 PM
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How brutal do you want me to be? I’ll compare her to Megan Fox: her clothes look bratty. Not fitting for an adult her shorts are too tight her thighs are proportionately a bit too big compared to the rest of her. She should exercise her upper body and maybe bulk a bit she has no boobs at all she’s kind of short her hair is too short her eyebrows are too thick she’s kind of pale overall, she has too many masculine qualities. If she grew out her hair to be more girly, exercised everything except h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 11:11 PM
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Is it where you’re meeting women? Picture a guy trying to date around a college where a big chunk of the population is sorority girls & Greek life, except while a few of those women are fine with sleeping with him, he shares literally nothing in common with normie women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:28 AM
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Guys date around because they want a gf or to get laid, and part of the thing they notice is that most women are really basic with no real hobbies (outside of tv or partying), job prospects, friends, unique personality, hopeful future, or whatever. If you’re a guy who has all those things, then it will feel like a lot of women primarily only supply sex to the table, because there’s nothing else memorable about them Feminism is needed for other reasons. Maybe more women should be more interesting…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:49 AM
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When I’m making a point, I’m being based. When she was making fun of some random guy’s attractiveness because she matched with him and thought he was ugly, she was cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 01:30 AM
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of course i've met shallow, status obsessed women. they are real people who heavily romanticize ppl based on looks. they still have pain, insecurities, weird quirks, etc Once you understand how absurdly common these women are in certain areas, you’d get why guys notice them so much but most guys i know, like nearly all of them, have had multiple relationships, situationships, bad dates, regrettable hookups, and important experiences with women they are attracted to as well Right, so what modern …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:36 AM
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I purposefully copied what she was doing where she called people less attractive than her “ugly”. That was the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:13 AM
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I’m curious, have you personally met any “shallow” women, or do you think they don’t exist in your environment? It’s weird how people think guys are making things up when they talk about stuff like this, but you can see them all over Instagram and TikTok Like, do you socialize with people? Have you ever met a woman who was mean or “cold” to you because she was a more attractive woman than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:10 AM
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If you assume women only date one guy at a time, then things get weird. If one guy sleeps with 5 women, then that means 4 other guys missed an opportunity. However, I think women are just more promiscuous than they used to be, so these numbers even out a little bit as long as they talk to & sleep with multiple guys
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:55 PM
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That’s possibly genetic on my part. Dunno how much I can do about it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 11:20 PM
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I mostly called her ugly as a joke because she set the precedent that I’m allowed to be a jerk to her as long as I’m more facially attractive than she is. Similar to how she’s a jerk to people less attractive than she is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:53 PM
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I could rephrase what I’m saying in the optimist blue pill virtue signaler fashion, I guess: Look at this youthful woman. I bet if I simply introduced myself, commented that she looked great, and went on a lovely date with her, then she’d kiss me afterwards. I’m sure the guys she rejected were just socially stunted, and she’d only choose me because of my great personality! Tl;dr: The reason I don’t phrase things like blue pillers do is because I’m pretty aware the reason I’d get laid is probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:38 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/JustMemesForUs/comments/1tow71p/being_funny_doesnt_work_anymore/ This is one reason why guys don’t try much any more. Ugly women need to kind of take a look in the mirror and have a bit of humility before posting stuff like this. We get it, you only like guys who you would sleep with kind of easily. If she’d just socialize with some slightly less attractive guys more, then I think she’d like them, but since so many women simply sleep with whatever guys they’re physically …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 10:15 PM
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what happened to all the sensitive, kind, emotionally honest, vulnerable guys You told us to be all confident because of how women like a guy to dominate them in bed and stuff, so we ditched being “vulnerable” and adopted an “ambitious leader that gets things done” persona
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:55 AM
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Flashes my blue eyes and smiles Chaddily “I’d never hurt you. You’re my world” /s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:21 AM
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I have an odd fantasy that came to mind that I did something similar once for a bit of “surprise” factor for an individual. I want to take a woman to a public library on an off day (when no one is around) and go down on her there where her butt is resting on a book that I want to buy. I think the scent of the paper would be good, and it would give the book sentiment. A nice Harry Potter hardback should do the trick.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 09:04 AM
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I wouldn’t mind gold diggers if they obviously wanted to sleep with me a lot. I assume the complaint is due to a woman a bit more attractive than a guy who didn’t seem to want to sleep with him much And if she’s not more attractive than him, then there’s no point for him to participate. Just find someone else who actually wants to have sex without the money as a consideration
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:50 AM
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The stereotype comes from famous people and athletes cheating a lot. Because famous handsome guys tend to get bombarded with a lot of options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 08:23 AM
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Preselection and social proof is def a thing but I’ve noticed a lot of guys exaggerate it and misinterpret it. Most women can judge for themselves You’re completely justified to be in the “only looks matter” camp, especially because of online dating, but there is a middle ground. I think, psychologically, women just don’t like the idea that they are the only woman who has ever shown interest in a guy, or that he settled for her. They want to feel like they were “chosen”. Guys tend to also have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:53 AM
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Sexless men have called me ugly bro and rejected me bc im a black woman Okay, so what about the guys who didn’t reject you? Why do you care about how 2 guys in a pile of 100 treat you? I really don’t give a fuck that they dont get their pick of the litter on tinder and cant be the asshole chad they envision Fair Fucking a fat woman you find repulsive to look at ain’t a virtue - it’s evil behavior It’s morally neutral of them to do. It was morally neutral for me to sleep around with 3 random norm…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:23 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/blursed_videos/comments/1toc197/blursed_consent/ Alpha widowed. Chad is stricken with awe by how easily Stacy could grope his girl
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:10 AM
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Sus
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:48 AM
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It’s hard to tell because everyone with common sense knows that if we survey the most attractive guys, then they’ll have like 100 options to sleep with at any given time. I’m guessing none of those guys were surveyed, though. If you survey some 40 year old 6’0” trad doctor guy in a small town, then I’m sure his n count would be like “4”. If you survey the right (attractive) frat bros they’d all be like “40”, even though the trad doctor isn’t necessarily undesirable to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:43 AM
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Pretending like “half of women” is a negligible amount is a bonkers worldview. You’re speaking on the behalf of like a fringe minority that barely exists
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 02:00 AM
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Lol does he post anything cringe on his Reddit account or is he “normal”?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:57 AM
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So: 1) the majority of women have used a dating app 2) off the top of my head, 60 - 80% of women at colleges have participated in hookups 3) I believe the average person in the USA has 7 partners before marriage 4) Women outside of dating apps still probably tend to like physically attractive guys 5) Environments with many desirable women tend to observably show patterns somewhat similar to how Tinder works We’re discussing the vast majority of women here, not some small fringe group of chaste p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 01:27 AM
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What percentage of women do you think have participated in casual sex before, and how do you think that alters men’s perceptions of women before they “settle down” at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:24 AM
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NAWALT So many are that it’s hard to tell the difference between a woman who isn’t attracted to me and a woman who doesn’t want to sleep with me There's plenty of women who have never had a Tinder account That doesn’t cancel out Tinder’s effect on the dating market or men’s perceptions of women They are less likely to be on drugs I’ve never slept with a woman on drugs in my life, as far as I know. Slutty people can be sober more likely to be chaste Chasteness isn’t a positive trait for me in a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 12:22 AM
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Women’s tiers are super weird because of how attractive women behave Very attractive women sort of seem to pick between either of 2 options: they are either forced to fight over each other for male models that have their pick to casually sleep with them, or they lord their attractiveness over a number of more average guys I think women who are the “main partner” of e.g. handsome celebrities tend to know they’re going to get cheated on sometimes, but are okay with it. Women who wouldn’t settle fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:42 PM
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The reason you can’t comprehend me struggling at all with dating is because you would sleep with me the first day you meet me. You would gaze at me if you socialized with me a bit & you were in the mood for something. You would match me in online dating & kiss me if I hang out with you for a few hours. You probably forget that, for every 2 women who sleep with me, there are probably 3 who don’t. When dating involves a social factor, I agree that people are kind of on an even playing field, and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:29 PM
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Damn, maybe you should like, socialize with some more normal guys in group settings that have more stuff in common with you, and “develop feelings” for a guy slowly over time as you realize how compatible you are with him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:37 PM
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This is something along the lines of “preselection” and “status” that red pillers talk about. When a guy seems like he gets along with women, then other women sort of notice and instinctively think something like “since other women want him, then I possibly do too”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:28 PM
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It’s mostly just a commentary on “the more you have to socialize with women to consistently sleep with them, the less they’re actually attracted to you”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:23 PM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:16 PM
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This dynamic became set in stone the moment guys realized approximately how Tinder works, and that the women who would sleep with them when they’re sociable in group settings for extended periods of time wouldn’t also sleep with them after a date from the internet. Online dating also gives women a perpetual source of a ton of options due to being male dominated
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:07 PM
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Tiers of normie (not Giga Chad) attraction: S tier: Women kiss you or sleep with you after a date from the internet: this woman is fully attracted to you A tier: A woman you socialize with in group settings a lot (high school or college?) gazes at you a bit. She’d likely kiss you if you hang out with her for a few hours. You’re aware this woman wouldn’t pick you on Tinder, but at least you can have a normal dating life. You’re aware that female attraction is based on a social timer, where more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:34 PM
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That’s all typical normie seduction advice is in a sober context outside of a party area. “How to seduce a woman less attractive than you”. Does she gaze at me a bit? Does she want to hang out alone with me a lot? Does she like it when I mention she looks great? Does she seem to like physical contact? Does she seem kind of turned on? Does she consent to a kiss after I hang out with her for a few hours? All of the above is mostly just a decent sign of “a guy was a bit more attractive than a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:59 AM
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is this the way you think about her? How should I think about her? Should I phrase it as she’s someone who would dedicate her life to me, endure hardships, take care of me when I’m sick, love me no matter what, and treat me better than any friend or family ever has? Or should I phrase it as she’s just some random woman I noticed was gazing at me, so I invited her back to my place to watch Ex Machina, and then I kissed her after the movie was over?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:40 AM
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How much more attractive does a guy have to be than a woman for her to truly love him? When I recall all the boomers who got divorced around me as I was growing up, and combine it with how women tended to treat me in online dating, it becomes blatantly clear that if a guy is trying to seduce a woman who’s better looking than him during a dead bedroom, then he is utterly SOL. I think this is a partial cause of lots of divorces. It’s easier to sleep with random women off Tinder than get a spark ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:21 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/VindictaRateCelebs/comments/1mcp0m5/sydney_sweeney_without_makeup/ Without makeup she’s just straight up firmly below average
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:02 AM
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It’s a statistical acknowledgement that being one standard deviation above the average in looks is beneficial to dating around with normies
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:45 AM
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The “top 20%” thing is probably mostly just looks for guys dating around at colleges, it doesn’t have much to do with anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:23 AM
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Correct. She’s below average without makeup, for sure. Definitely not anything model tier
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:22 AM
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Nah, I’ll continue to use them as a negative example so I end up nothing like them
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:19 AM
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Women are only hot if they’re attractive without makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:08 AM
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Nah, my disgust is healthy. Narcissism and the desire to be better drives me to make decisions that keep me from ending up like them Someone in this world has to not be a complete loser for things to function correctly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:00 AM
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The “average person” is so deeply pathetic that it leaves functional people with a false label of “Chad”. Like a Redditor will describe a woman who “has some kids and a couple extra pounds” as “average”, and I can’t help but puke in my mouth a bit at the thought of that being my best prospect. I’d do literally anything to not be trapped in that Obesity, single parents, broke people, and unattractive people create this permanent underclass of “untouchables” that no one remotely desirable wants to…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:49 AM
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Look at what you need to mimic a fraction of my power. Women are highly attracted to the smell of sweat and outdoors that I have after putting some work in.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:51 PM
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You’re on the right side of a normal distribution. You’re more attractive than the women you’re talking to. If you were on the left side of a normal distribution, then you would be one of many men competing for the same woman that’s less attractive than him. Being more attractive benefits guys more because guys mostly just sleep with women less attractive than themselves. attractive women then get screwed over because they compete for the few guys more attractive than themselves genetically unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:03 PM
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I think as people get older they start to replay their past experiences for nostalgia, instead of doing something new
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:49 PM
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Understand that a lot of women don’t limit themselves to “a bit better” because of how Tinder works. Publicly, you probably see guys dating the absolute most attractive women that would possibly date them on Tinder (even if they look about even with each other) At big state colleges, you would notice a pattern like “a guy who is 8” taller and a bit more attractive than a woman”. That’s a decent example of a “shallow woman’s” minimum Tinder match that she would enthusiastically kiss after going o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:43 PM
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The reason I specified “her parents” was because, in a stable culture, a woman’s father would be an accurate reflection of how attractive the men who are attracted to her are. Partially because, on average, women are only about as good looking as their parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:29 PM
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He’s probably too much more attractive than you, so you don’t see the appeal. An extremely fit woman with a below average face would probably like him. Women tend to like guys who are “n + 1” of themselves. E.g. a guy who is only a bit more attractive than her parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:13 PM
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Variety is the spice of life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:55 PM
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Women just want us to hold up their online dating profiles to them and show them all their realistic options
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:46 PM
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When my ex girlfriend I was dumping in highschool mentioned a friend’s small size in relation to something I mostly felt awkward and bad for him
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 08:46 AM
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Breathe. Power through. Your mother endured decades of torment from shitty men. Channel her strength through you and banish the evil from within
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:25 AM
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Oh, right, it’s the weekend and you’re probably binge drinking. What’s your favorite drink?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:17 AM
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Nope. I’m permanently childfree, I have time to spare
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:14 AM
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Yes. I’m probably about to play Baldurs Gate with her. Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 07:08 AM
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Where you are in a normal distribution determines how your dating dynamics look as a guy. Women aim up for sex, men aim down. So if you’re on the left side of a normal distribution (unattractive), then you’ll notice that unattractive women have lots of options. As a clean example using height, 5’10” guys are much more common than 5’1” women, but 5’1” women are pretty happy with their large pool of 5’10” guys to choose from. A 5’1” woman’s “looks match” would be a 5’7” guy, but those guys are rar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:00 AM
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Skinny white guy desires skinny white woman: he might get rejected for being unattractive Guy bulks up a bit, gets some access to skinny white women: his standards raise a bit, and they just become another option to sleep with I get the issue. Women only want guys who can get them easily, and guys only want to commit to a woman for life if he doesn’t feel like he can get a similar woman predictably by hanging out with someone for a few hours in online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:25 PM
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Qualities of the person you mentioned: looks “good enough” can sleep with people less attractive than him in online dating has a good job has a passable personality Gee, I wonder why he wouldn’t want to commit to his least attractive options for life, especially for a stay at home wife he’ll have kids with that doesn’t need an exceptional job or background. The “problem” with this mindset for guys is that if you do this, then it’s utterly certain that you will be the absolute “minimum” guy that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:02 PM
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I pretended to have a type when I was a sex addict. Except my actions stayed the same regardless of who I was talking to. Attractive people probably gave me a bit of a dopamine rush, but for some reason, so did unattractive people. I ended up ghosting everyone all the time regardless of how attractive they were. The biggest source of my true “type” is who I would want to be seen in public with, or introduce to my friends. I don’t have high standards or anything, but someone “normal” is preferred…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:00 PM
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Don’t worry, when those kids go to school and some boy nearly gets killed by them, the boy victim will be sent to prison for assault when he defends himself. Society loves defending psychopaths
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:27 PM
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Please tell me how I’m wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:13 PM
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The issue is all the virtue signaling that people do, not their actual behavior. If everyone played by the same “rules”, then I think people would see things as more “fair”, but the vast majority of people just go with their whims. It’s extremely disingenuous to pretend like being more attractive than an individual isn’t the one and only consistent requirement to get sex off a random person
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:09 PM
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I think “above average people” generally win, as long as they’re content with what they have. Good enough to get some attention for their looks and have a great job, but not so much success that they become a shitty person
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 01:11 AM
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In my experience, doctors are mostly only useful if your issue can be solved by cutting something out with a knife, or maybe a proven medicine that has like a 100% success rate for a disease. Back issues, psychological issues (severe dementia), hormonal issues, complex things, and incurable issues would make me consider assisted suicide if I were age 60+
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:45 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:15 PM
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I asked my partner who likes piv. She said “I don’t watch lesbian porn because it just seems stupid, and doesn’t look pleasurable unless they use a toy. I want to look at a hunk of a man who’s hung” Tbh I didn’t expect the last part
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 06:13 PM
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Why don’t you just ask?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:02 AM
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The female equivalent of Chads can easily get hotter, younger men too The majority of older women’s brains don’t work like that, which causes statistical differences in gender dynamics
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:53 AM
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That’s not women settling, that’s men maturing It’s my libido lowering that reduces the limits of my tolerance to sleep with random strangers
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:18 AM
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Sooo, again, why would i date a guy i wasn't attracted to? Idk, it would probably depend on if your dating options are better or worse than when you were in your early 20s. I imagine for most women their “maximum” is probably right after college graduation, and dating at 40 would be stale in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:14 AM
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To use the typical talking points: a lower libido, money, because the guys you’re attracted to aren’t attracted to you any more, because older people are less attractive anyway, because you need someone to raise kids with, because you “got mature” and “developed a preference for stable guys”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 12:00 AM
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Why would I not marry someone I was attracted to just because I'd turned 30? Plenty of reasons, but I’m searching for anecdotes of the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:52 PM
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Congrats! Good luck on the lifelong marriage thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:44 PM
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So it feels like oh they were going for what they really wanted while they were younger and now are settling for safety. But it was never like that What would your response be to “this is gaslighting”?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:43 PM
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In my opinion, if women were actually attracted to him then they would also have dated him when he was younger, unless he had significant physical self improvement that was appealing to young women (not 30 year olds looking to “settle down”)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 11:19 PM
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Women are grossed out by high N guys they aren’t attracted to. If they’re attracted to him then it doesn’t matter
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:46 PM
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There needs to be a differentiation between: woman obviously will immediately have sex with you without you doing anything woman clearly is open to talking to you and will kiss you if you hang out with them for a bit woman goes on a date with you, but rejects you afterwards woman doesn’t want to talk to you “Most guys” are in the “I must talk to a woman to sleep with them” tier, but tbh I think it’s really easy to become a shitty person if you have infinite access to easy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 03:38 AM
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What’s your favorite gun?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:37 AM
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Most women have to be on drugs to be that unstable. Sober women typically aren’t that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:36 AM
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Yeah, the concept of divorce is one reason I got a vasectomy when I was younger. It’s not worth the risk to be a single parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:26 AM
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We need a model that would work well in a first world country where condoms are available, coercing sex is illegal, and housing is expensive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:19 AM
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Just look at the most fertile countries in the world right now and tell me those children are products of "love." I avoid this line of reasoning because I’m pretty sure what would happen if we went this route is we would take away everyone’s birth control & legalize coercion of sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 12:14 AM
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Not really, I'd just go next
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:58 AM
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How do you sleep with a random person you want, preferably on a timer of a week or less?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:18 AM
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Just pay to keep things flowing smoothly. I’m probably looking to get laid, not save $10 on my next blowjob
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:14 AM
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Idk how old the girls you teach are, but they’d probably just complain about some boy they didn’t like that approached them, asked them out, or whatever. Maybe mention he had a “rat face”, that he was too short, or some “ick” And then their little “Chad” is some boy they like Child psychology is remarkably close to how I’d treat grown women, though. Just kind of be a bit better looking than them and hang out with them for a few hours, and they’ll “develop feelings” for you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:08 AM
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70% of Gen Z is college educated. 60 - 80% of people at colleges have participated in hookups. Lots of people somewhat agree with the sentiments I’m describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 11:01 PM
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Then don't date girls that go to a huge party school if that's your bias If you live there for 4 years before graduation you get used to the dynamic anyway It's not a great one, I live near an excellent D1 research state university, and most of the women there are extremely intelligent and driven I didn’t say they weren’t? If you're gonna try to date in the environment you should obviously have some good personal points about yourself I do/did
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:56 PM
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No, trust me those women are often real. Go outside and socialize with some people at a big party college. Date around a bit with sober people outside of parties. Use Tinder for a while, and observe how D1 athletes are treated compared to true incels. Drunks are “easier” than sober people, but I don’t think women are attracted to you if they need alcohol to kiss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:50 PM
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Because of all the TikToks and social media posts of women calling ugly guys cucks, along with how people are treated in online dating/dating in general and inferring how women tend to behave
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 10:43 PM
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Have you ever met any engineers? They mostly have plain wives. People who make $1 million/year often have plain wives. CEOs often have plain wives. Most women aren’t stunning. If you can’t get a well off guy then you probably have an insufferably shit personality as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:39 AM
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Which the guy we're talking about aint having because he goes to these dates to be an asshole to ugly girls, who are clearly the only women giving him a chance The only ones giving him a chance *at the time. If he 100% knows he’ll get better women at some point later, then it’s highly likely he’s only talking to her for sex. Which she’ll probably be highly considering if he’s tolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:25 AM
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Enthusiastic sex between consenting adults of relative attractiveness is better than supporting prostitution that might enable illegal trafficking. Although, if I paid for it, I would mostly just get the same thing as I usually do, as there aren’t really any women on Tryst that actually stick out to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:14 AM
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Seriously, do guys usually think "Ha! I can only get ugly women to date and fuck me!" is a flex? I didn’t flex that. Occasionally a sorority girl would sleep with me, for example, although some guys consider them mid For all the complaints about "being used for resources", atleast a rich man can pay for beauty That’s prostitution. I can easily afford that or afford being a provider for a stay at home wife, but I’m not interested. I prefer women who are actually attracted to me. Also I prefer wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:06 AM
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Then why do men keep bitching about a loneliness epidemic and how it's all women's fault for being so awful and shit Because 60% of men under 30 are single compared to 30% of women. This causes a numbers disadvantage to men, and lots of women not treating them well See, you're assuming they're not devastated after they realize "Oh shit, I have no one really left to treat like shit" Do you understand that some guys can act nice and still get rejected? In fact, they might get openly mocked, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:57 AM
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Those other subs are probably going to get similar treatment as the erased ones, eventually
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 02:09 AM
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A man complaining about women rejecting him after he wasted both of their time going on a date is a sign of mental illness, which is also a massive red flag that will keep him alone. Literally nothing a guy does after he gets rejected matters or will have any impact on the next woman he dates, but I agree people should just respond with something like “I understand” when rejected Imagine thinking men have more empathy towards their side chicks Depends. If he isn’t attracted to her, but just want…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:59 AM
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The reason some women would probably think guys ruin their chances by being “disagreeable” is because that’s how guys would often behave towards women they aren’t attracted to. To explain my understanding of this, I think agreeableness is a sign of empathy. People tend to have higher empathy towards people they’re attracted to, and will try harder to make them happy. They’ll act more drawn towards you, a bit happy around you, etc. Guys really don’t have much of a problem being nice to women they…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:47 AM
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I assume if they’re actually looking then they’re either gold diggers or have some very niche preference
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:37 AM
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why was I downvoted? I think there are a bunch of downvote bots being released on “incel subs”, along with erasing or making the subs not show up in public feeds, because Reddit really, really hates it when guys complain about women
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:18 AM
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They probably want some unicorn of their own or they aren’t interested. It’s definitely a thing that any guy with matches on dating apps talking to him likely won’t cold approach as much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 01:12 AM
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It was just a joke about how women tend to rant about men, but apply a halo effect about their current partners. Something like “I would just give up if it doesn’t work out with my current partner, men are terrible”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:59 PM
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Women increasingly hate all men (except the perfect one that they’re currently attracted to who would never do any wrong)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 11:46 PM
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lmao if you're a high libido woman on here the last thing you want to do is actually be honest and get too many people on here butthurt Women just sort of gaze at their little “Chad” crushes and hope he talks to her. Dating will probably continue to be approximately like this until the end of time. The “truth” about people is really mundane
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:34 PM
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Y’all horny fuckers all act the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 10:24 PM
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I disagree. Socially speaking, I’m pretty sure women still gaze at guys who are 8”+ taller than themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 09:24 PM
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There’s a really weird dynamic between “I am this woman’s minimum that she’d gaze at” and “I can sleep with all women where I meet their minimum”. Women set their minimum height filter to 6’0”, but then might “truly want” a guy who is 6’4”, even if the 6’0” guy is sufficient after some banter. Idk. I’m mentally broken because I grew up with Tinder at a party college lol. Women who gaze at you definitely like you, but there’s something very true about what all the incels are ranting about. I am u…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:37 PM
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A hot guy wouldn’t need to buy tickets to another country for sex. Something seems off here
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:15 PM
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No, I wouldn’t. I’d just end up forgetting about it Edit: why am I getting downvoted for being honest with how I currently respond to sexual assault
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:05 PM
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Little girls are widely considered more mature than little boys They’re more agreeable, and less competitive. This drives them to conform with their environment faster. Whereas guys are more likely to want to compete in something independently. As should be surprising to no one, holding little girls to unreasonable expectations, treating them like they're horrible people for making honest mistake, and expecting them to act like adults with no actual training on how to do so leads to a lot of emo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:36 PM
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I find it more than a little creepy that this is your version of highest quality women. (Or is it your assumption that you can't attract someone who isn't being paid to be with you?) Based on the guys on Reddit bragging about sugar babies mentioning they can cost $50k/year, I run the assumption there is almost no way a decent woman would sleep with them for free in any scenario Once upon a time, a woman pursued me in part, I think, because a guy she had been dating expressed a lot of interest an…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:48 PM
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The truth is that men and women would probably often hate each other if they never needed their quick fix
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:34 PM
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No, because I’ll just say “look at how women behave on dating apps”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:30 PM
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A lot of ppd women feel like talking to how an old woman at a rural church would date around, except that woman would probably be sluttier
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:01 PM
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My stereotypes probably often apply to the majority of the educated/desirable people in Gen Z
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:52 AM
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If a woman finds you attractive and if she has any sense of agency, she will make her attraction to you known in one way or another, no matter how subtle “Most women” don’t “develop feelings” for a guy until they’ve hanged out with him alone for a bit. Group settings are less predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:48 AM
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60 - 80% of college students have participated in a hookup before. My “selection bias”, for the most part, is probably something around of 70% of college students.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 08:22 AM
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For example I'm Gen Z and my undergrad had a crazy hookup culture that revolved around the frats. Even average looking to unattractive frat dudes were hooking up with girls who would never be in LTRs with them or want to be seen with them outside of the frats period. Granted I've had men here concede that college hookup culture is simply different from everything that comes after. This is mostly what the red pill focuses on. “Seducing” drunk women who would otherwise be completely disgusted by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 07:50 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1t1tsmw/comment/okqt6po He’s talking about comments like this one. It feels like virtue signaling to Gen Z guys because we’re aware of our previous experiences in online dating, and are more in tune with the concept that being more attractive than women makes them more enthusiastic. A lot of guys tend to stick with women they’re 8”+ taller than who gaze at them a bit because of this, although if they lowered their standards down to “the least att…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:31 AM
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Melania is basically what happens when a rich guy orders a burnt steak with ketchup. Every chef disagrees with his taste, but the customer is always right
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:16 AM
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The reason I believe he’s a good example is because I’m utterly 100% sure women would not want to sleep with him if he didn’t have money. If I used a guy who could easy sleep with high quality women for free as an example, then it would hurt my point. Unattractive guys with good personalities and lots of money might still benefit from sugar dating
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:07 AM
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I’m entirely unclear. It’s like trying to explain whether Trump believes his wives that want him for money are “high quality”. From the outside looking in, he’s paying them to deal with his BS
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:03 AM
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Point One, tinder hook-ups, while it doesn't always fail, I think it's likeliest to lead to failure. Either by sorting for people who really don't want deep relationship or those who can't handle it Unfortunately, I perceive this to essentially be what normies call “true love”. Pretty much when a woman is gazing at me and she wants me to talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:55 AM
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“High quality” compared to whatever they get for free, ideally
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:47 AM
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I’d likely end up just talking to someone else instead of waiting around to find out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:46 AM
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Interesting that you think sugar babies, or paying someone to be your girlfriend aka prostitution, would have the highest quality women I assume people who participate in the dynamic don’t typically pay money to those who would sleep with them for free. Hopefully they get something out of it in trade for the price tag
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:44 AM
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Okay. Well, if you don’t sleep with me enthusiastically, then someone else probably will.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:40 AM
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I’m used to the concept that if I take some stack of 5 women, and chat with them for a few hours, then a couple of them will want to sleep with me. If I socialize with someone like a female engineer or a premed at a college, then they’ll probably want to sleep with me the first day I meet them. If I socialize with people for extended periods of time, then this amplifies. When I observe how “Giga Chads” behave, I notice that women really obviously sleep with guys they’re attracted to. D1 athletes…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:29 AM
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Yeah I think I started out with that habit as a wreck of a sex addict that indiscriminately slept around with whoever, but kept the trait as I realized that women who don’t want to sleep with me much probably just aren’t attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 05:13 AM
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Redditors tell me that my view of women is warped because I don’t believe women are attracted to a guy if they wouldn’t sleep with him the first day they meet him, so I was curious how people actually think guys should meet women if they’re able to do all the “classical” approaches
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 04:49 AM
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It’s incorrect. Fat women aren’t attracted to fat guys. They try to aim up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:38 PM
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I can vet for personality on dates … for guys that you already swiped right on
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:59 PM
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how are women supposed to vet by personality? By deleting dating apps & meeting people in real life, but a lot of modern women seem to prefer their looks based approach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:53 PM
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“Girlfriend/wife material” is mostly just a woman that plays video games with me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:28 PM
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All of you are “random guys they match with online” True. And then relationships are “just a woman I downloaded from the internet” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 03:08 PM
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I mostly file that under “good first date etiquette” tbh, and an unattractive guy is probably mostly just sleeping with equally unattractive women. Like, I don’t sit here and virtue signal that “ZOMG WOMEN LOVE MY PERSONALITY SO MUCH!!”. They probably liked my abs pics. They liked that I chatted with them for a few hours before telling them I wanted to kiss them. They liked that I told them they’re gorgeous. They liked that I got them off. They liked that when they sexually harassed me in public…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:49 PM
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The problem is just the existence of online dating. It blatantly benefits women. The boring/pleasant/good looking guy will probably get chosen over the fun/unattractive guy. It might end up just being a fling. But then online dating affects real life dating too, because overall you’ll always have to convince women to pick you over whatever random guys they match with online.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:19 PM
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He has repeatedly proven that he can pull desirable women. The fact you think he can’t pull women shows how profoundly little you understand of how women would behave towards him on Tinder or wherever. He’s not anything close to similar to a Reddit incel because women don’t care much about personality. Looks (and maybe first date etiquette) are honestly the only real components. Just be a bit better looking than whoever you’re talking to and people will always like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 02:02 PM
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I don’t care about Clav much. I’m just saying women are disgusted by you if they wouldn’t sleep with you the first time they meet you in those environments, and your personality doesn’t matter much. Just be pleasant for a few hours basically. Probably only looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:48 PM
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Because most women in those environments won’t have a relationship with you if they wouldn’t sleep with you anyway. And if you do “beta bux” your way into that without her sleeping with you, then she’s probably grossed out by you. It’s probably wise to stick to the women who will sleep with you
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:45 PM
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I don’t have to watch the video. I’m not a boomer, I’ve participated on Tinder at a big midwestern party college before. That’s the reason I can say some of Clav’s talking points are correct. Women are completely disgusted by you if they need alcohol and “game” to sleep with you. A “good personality” is mostly just what I would chat about for a few hours before I kiss someone. It’s kind of repetitive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:42 PM
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Different women have different subjective preferences for “personality” as long as a guy has decent first date etiquette. However, good looks are objective & universal. A good looking serial killer will have more options than a Reddit incel with all the “personality” advice in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:36 PM
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Cool. So where are your clips of an unattractive guy pulling women in Clavicular’s environment? Oh, right, they literally can’t. And Clavicular clearly is able to get some women successfully. He’s very cringe, and yet some desirable women will still sleep with him. A “good personality” would have marginal effects when, at the absolute fucking maximum, the only thing women actually care about is a guy’s ability to act pleasant on a first date. I’m pretty sure I’m not exaggerating when I say a “go…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 01:29 PM
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Personality is wildly overrated by empathetic virtue signalers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 12:27 PM
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I have some really, really simple questions about the “non-shallow women” you know: If a woman was good looking, had a good job, was pleasant, didn’t care about the looks of her partner, wasn’t shallow, didn’t care about money, could date any random guy she “got along with for a month”, etc., then why on Earth would she be single? Why would a woman with 1,000 guys talking to her on online dating ever want a “below average” guy to approach her? Why would an unattractive woman with a bunch of unat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:04 AM
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I understand, I was just explaining the concept of how I essentially see people. I wouldn’t really chat differently socially than I would online. Tbh “most women” likely don’t care what I say, they just care if they’re attracted to me and I hang out with them for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:04 PM
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FWIW the way he makes you interested is basically the same as if he matched you in online dating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:00 PM
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God why are normie women always so basic smh they’re not interesting either. Compensate, mfer! How r u gonna be broke and lame, pick a struggle fr. Tbh when no women have any unique hobbies it makes talking to all of them before sleeping with them feel the same
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 05:36 AM
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The bar is on the floor (for any guy she’s attracted to)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 11:53 PM
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You filter for young, relatively inexperienced women who are vulnerable to your kind of manipulation. We've had this discussion before So… I’m used to dating women my own age? Am I supposed to filter for women older than me that probably don’t like me? And it’s extremely disingenuous to call hanging out with a woman for a few hours “manipulative”. Stop assuming that every woman who sleeps with a guy was coerced. It’s extremely off putting that Redditors think women don’t like sleeping with guys.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 08:12 PM
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How do you believe I “filter” women, and how would a guy who waits a month filter differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:44 PM
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Complete strangers are faster than this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:37 PM
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I agree. I just feel strange because I can’t comprehend the idea of women liking a guy if they take a month to sleep with him, even though it might exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:29 PM
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Correct! That doesn’t refute anything about what I’m saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:27 PM
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Statistics need to have all variables, especially looks, location, & relative desirability, logged. Because attractive guys 100% certainly do not ever need to wait a month to sleep with someone. I’m 99% certain that a woman is not physically into a guy if she takes that long.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:21 PM
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Common sense and repeatable observations beat statistics. Women like guys they sleep with quickest, or that they explicitly pursue/stalk without him doing anything. I never once got the impression that a woman liked me if she would take a month of dating to sleep with me. I’m 99% sure that woman is physically repulsed. Women who like me in an environment such as a college will meet me at 4pm and get in bed by 10pm, and I’m probably an “enthusiastic minimum” if it takes 6 hours. Guys who get sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:59 PM
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All of my impressions tell me that women are completely disgusted by a guy if they wait a month to sleep with him on online dating, but for some reason dating statistics quote a month as the average time people date before sex. Idk how to reconcile this because, in my experience, “most women” who take longer than 6 hours to sleep with a guy aren’t physically into him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 05:35 PM
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Correct, madam
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:05 AM
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I try not to discourage bonding because I know the thing people want to do most when they like me is spend a lot of time with me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:23 AM
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They always are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 02:19 AM
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Meh, I’ll choose the person who sits there and excitedly listens to anything I have to say
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:56 AM
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So not 100% like you claimed. Hmmm. What a surprise Still the obvious majority And a woman who fucks instantly is any other woman who fucks fast to a man who only cares about sex and nothing else I’d just autistically interpret it as interest I’d rather be alone and single than spread my legs in some sick competition to trick a guy into dating me instead of a girl he wants more. Fucking yuck. Wow. You sound like you like sex so much. This is why I stick to women who sleep with me. They aren’t di…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 01:19 AM
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I didn’t sleep around in college in spite of being in STEM and surrounded by decent men. You’re just cynical. Your version of “those grapes are probably sour” is apparently “any woman who doesn’t fuck me instantly is a stuck up bitch slut”, lol. 60 - 80% of people at colleges participate in a hookup, let alone sleep with a guy they get into a relationship with quickly I was college educated and never slept with anyone within the first I dunno 6 dates? And I married that one. I’m being serious: W…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:29 AM
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Consolation prize. Women who are actually into me would sit there and listen to me talk about literally anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 12:03 AM
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Yup. I never attended parties or drank, but e.g. a random person from class that I had never spoken to would likely only take 6 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 09:15 PM
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No, many women (like men) choose men based on a variety of deeper criteria for relationships. You simply do not notice them because you are focused solely on gaining maximum speedy casual sexual access to as many women as possible (as you specify in another comment). Your problem is selection bias— you are choosing women who don’t care and ignoring the women who do care because they don’t give you the instant gratification you want. Lol. Maybe stop guessing about things when you don’t know what …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 08:06 PM
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I like flannel with Timberlands or rain boots for unattractive midwestern guys
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:43 PM
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Mostly just that dating feels kind of pathetic when watching it from a distance. A bunch of indiscriminate guys sleeping with whatever women will hang out with them for a few hours
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:29 PM
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“Most men” are completely indiscriminate and will sleep with nearly anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:14 PM
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The general point is that most women only choose guys based on superficial first impressions, with little care for how great they are in a relationship, and that causes an incentive structure where the most a guy will ever have to do to sleep with someone is be pleasant for 6 hours
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:04 PM
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Most American women dont have sex with guys that early Once again: 60 - 80% of American women at colleges have participated in a hookup. It’s autistically accurate that women are attracted to guys they sleep with, not guys they “wait for sex” with.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:43 PM
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Because you assume everyone is eager to have more subpar sex, for some reason It’s literally the same sex. I don’t transform into someone’s perfect pornstar just because they decide to wait a month. I’m pretty sure most women sleep with a guy early at this point to “test chemistry” because they don’t want to form a relationship with someone they dislike sleeping with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:34 PM
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Alcohol is usually involved I’ve never personally had to have alcohol involved or attend parties to sleep with someone within 6 hours of meeting them in my life most hookups dont result in orgasms, and survey done on women who recently had hookups, 40% said it was awful Depends on the person, probably. Unfortunately, the numbers you quoted are likely also related to how often women get off during sex in relationships. It possibly depends more on the chemistry and how easy the woman is to please …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 01:00 PM
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60% - 80% of women at colleges have participated in a hookup. Go touch grass if you think women withhold sex from guys they’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:42 PM
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For example, instead of a redpiller being disappointed his date didn’t want to hook up, he wants to be believe she was using him for his resources That’s a correct assumption. If you view the most physically attractive guys who get sex instantly, and then compare them to guys who get sex within 6 hours, and then compare them to guys who get sex after a month, then the guys who got sex quickly are the ones women actually like. Frequently, a guy who she takes a month with isn’t someone she’s actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 12:35 PM
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Being more attractive than someone is ungodly effective to get them to “develop feelings” for you within a few hours. However, if someone ignores Tinder’s beauty standards, and just goes with “be 8 inches taller & a bit better looking than a woman facially”, then I think guys would usually be about correct for who would be open to their advances. Part of the problem is that most women don’t flirt with most guys on first sight. In my experience, about 3 hours alone is enough for someone to “devel…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:34 PM
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There essentially isn’t any way to outcompete women in dating unless a guy is able & willing to date women that he can sleep with the first time he meets them in person
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 08:59 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:20 PM
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Most people should genuinely just do some freaking exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:12 PM
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Women that participate in casual sex, and then “wait for sex” for a relationship, are a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 04:07 PM
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I think they protect themselves from consequences of their actions Cons of being honest: I obviously open myself up to some consequences of someone being sad they’ll have their feelings hurt they might break up it might severely hurt their life Cons of just forgetting about it: almost nothing. I can have sex with someone else, and then move on. No hurt feelings, never mention it, nothing bad happens. I try to avoid doing that, but I think I get manic sometimes and end up doing something like tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 09:33 AM
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For the most part, I don’t think guys care if you dress up or sleep around, as long as you show similar enthusiasm and effort for (likely less physically attractive) people you actually want/can get a relationship with
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 07:40 AM
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Understand how normal distributions work & how they effect supply & demand before you discuss how attractiveness effects dating If you’re 6’0”, then you are 8” taller than 5’4” women, which automatically makes you one of the most preferred heights for the most common heights of women. In areas where the average woman is taller than 5’4”, I assume you essentially should ideally be 8”+ taller than the most common women. 5’8” guys can technically experience the same dynamic, but it’s probably signi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:03 AM
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I feel like there might be an age limit, but it could just be that some women are harder to get going and “feel a spark” at random once they get older and older
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:21 AM
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Because your answer of only 23 is hilariously low for what age women stop flirting with guys. Pretty much any woman will probably start flirting with a guy if she gets turned on by him for whatever reason
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:16 AM
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Nope. Lots of people who get turned on will act a certain way, almost regardless of whether they intentionally mean to. The answer is certainly older than 23 or 27
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:11 AM
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Older than that, for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:07 AM
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People are pretty terrible, once you get to know them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:05 AM
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Not really, if you notice that being taller in online dating gets more matches
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 08:02 AM
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Because people exaggerate their height to get more matches on dating apps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:56 AM
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At what age do women stop flirting with a guy in front of his partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:47 AM
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There should be a screenshot of Tinder profile results for several different looking people with different backgrounds of both genders to help demonstrate what dating is actually like for Gen Z, and how it’s worse for guys than if people actually had to socialize with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:34 AM
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Guys can recognize this height difference by when they can mostly rest their chin on top of a woman’s head when they hug her. And yeah, it seems to be preferred
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 07:30 AM
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Q4Women: What height would you want me to pretend I am on dating apps if I’m 5’10”, and am interested in women 5’3” or shorter? Do you expect 5’10” guys to pretend to be 6’0”, or do you expect me to tell the truth, even though a bunch of guys shorter than me will pretend to be 5’10”? I hate what dating apps has done to dating btw lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/26 05:44 AM
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There should be a rule that a guy can’t make claims about how all women are so nice in who they date if a guy’s height is 6’4” or taller. Their experience is different lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 02:53 AM
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It’s actually impossible to have lower standards than true incels as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 12:41 PM
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I disagree with this blatant discrimination. All people should instead be rated by their butts
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:26 PM
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"Most" is doing the heavy lifting there. It's definitely the majority but there are still plenty girls that will not do it. Guys can correctly interpret their “looks threshold” from how strangers treat them on the internet, and then apply that to their social groups for more “innocent” women that they’ve gotten to know. Stereotypical straight aroused women will be pretty nice towards a guy who is a bit better looking than them, nice to them for a few hours, and has “social proof”, for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 10:04 PM
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Ehh. All I am saying is that women who have sex quickly aren't doing it out of a feral desire I’m not calling it feral desire. I’m saying that women probably don’t like a guy much if they wouldn’t have sex with him within one date off the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:45 PM
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I wouldn't be on a date with a man i didn't find physically attractive enough to have sex with Some guys are attractive beyond their looks and attract “gold diggers”, I think Sleeping with them soon was more of a manipulative thing on my end versus a desire or attraction for them. Tbh I doubt that based on your description of guys you’d “need an emotional connection with to not reject” Thus, you shouldn't be seeking quick sex. Because its not healthy I’m not ever going to be “settled for” by a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 07:02 PM
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And its not going to be enough for lots of other women That’s just false. Guys can tell when they talk to women less attractive than themselves that it’s pretty rare for more than one date to be needed As for me, in the past. I'd get sex out of the way to see if we were compatible. And just deal with the multiple men from there Most young women are like that And I would tell 99% of these men no to seeing them a second time. And if they pressured me about why, I'd always let them know the truth w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:46 PM
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Most of the time its men passing up good women cuz sex didn't happen immediately I’m not sure if you understand this, but most young women are basically saying they dislike you if they don’t sleep with you within 6 hours (I’ve never been in person with a woman longer than 6 hours before sex). A few hours on one date is typically going to blatantly be enough for a kiss or sex for a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/26 06:21 PM
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I’m not sure what the blackpill concept of “I get the same reactions from women over and over again” is called. The stranger half the equation isn’t my looks, it’s women’s reactions to my looks. Why do aroused women act so similarly to each other? The reaction feels predetermined, but women will commit their life to me over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 10:13 AM
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make a list of non-controversial topics to chat about in case you draw a blank open a window in your home to let some fresh air in clean up & be hygienic with a shower, trimmed nails, deodorant, brushed teeth, go to the bathroom, etc. maybe take a sip of caffeine right before you go to help you be more chatty. Not too much, don’t unsettle your stomach have a couple of condoms on you warm up your voice a bit before you talk to her & maybe watch your posture/body language a bit mention she looks g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:22 AM
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I’m never having kids and I got a vasectomy when I was 22
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:34 AM
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I feel like, on paper, the most “ideal” way for people to make babies will be to choose a 6’4” Harvard doctor’s donation to a sperm clinic, combine it with his female equivalent, and then have women carry that, instead of having people make their own babies. This is eugenics, but it seems kind of “fair” at this point to just try and give kids the best advantages possible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:19 AM
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Gen Z gets this amplified because women are more looks oriented, social skills are dulled due to everyone being an iPad kid, Tinder exists any time a woman actually wants an attractive guy to cold approach her & she probably doesn’t have to “settle” on much compared to if she dated only within her friend groups, social environments are more expensive & less tempting to meet women in, I think there’s more Instagram peer pressure to date the best people possible, everyone is a couch potato which p…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 06:52 PM
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Idk. Technically, personality, money, sociability, long term compatibility, etc. actually do matter a little, especially for relationships. However, the blackpill probably correctly answers who individuals actually want to have sex with. The answer is typically “good looking people, or at least good enough”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:15 PM
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I’m unclear. The redpill kind of outlines how certain behaviors or scenarios get guys laid more. For example, being a celebrity will help a guy get more options. However, the blackpill borderline seems to describe what “true love” is. Women who actually desire me will sleep with me after I hang out with them one time. I don’t need to hold money over their head, or be popular, or get them drunk. Even when I’m not forward, the way they behave towards me over time is that they act touchy towards me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 05:03 PM
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Online dating patterns make me a little blackpilled. I don’t think a guy’s personality will significantly change who genuinely wants to have sex with him on dating apps. Red pill and blue pill tend to hyper optimize on pulling women who aren’t that desirable. Being good looking blatantly gets you women who are more desirable or enthusiastic (or both)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:52 PM
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I’m unclear to be honest. The top % of guys clearly have their pick of many women. However, it’s also a thing that men outnumber women on apps, and desirable women have their options
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:49 PM
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I’m not entirely blackpilled. I just think the entire dating strategy of most guys at this point is “be as physically attractive as possible, and then talk to women less physically attractive than yourself”. Personality and job prospects don’t seem to be incredibly important, as long as a woman acts a bit easy towards a guy, and he’s tactfully forward/knows how to behave on a date
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:29 PM
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Very attractive women who are willing to settle on looks have the most blatantly good dating market (basically as an escort or sugar baby). I’m not clear on if very attractive guys can get paid $5k/month to be someone’s boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:18 PM
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I honestly don’t think the obesity rate is the whole issue (although it’s a severe factor). If all women at a college only talked to men at the college and dated guys they socialized with, then I think things would improve. However, young women would rather date an attractive 30 year old guy over an unattractive 21 year old. Old women would not talk to an unattractive 21 year old guy. I suspect that something along the lines of dating apps and age issues amplify the dating struggles of younger g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:08 PM
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Ugly (or average?) guys tend to have the standard of “any woman that’s not fat”. If they end up with zero options after that, then they probably correctly conclude “only looks matter”. It’d probably be embarrassing for a healthy 5’6” guy to walk around places with an obese woman. I get the impression that some attractive women seem to get similarly embarrassed if their boyfriend is below a certain height (something like a 8 - 10” height difference is preferred, I guess?)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:00 PM
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Yup. Lots of young people keep reaching the same conclusion of women mostly caring about looks. When the only people who don’t care about looks tend to not be desirable in a bunch of obvious ways, it sends a bad message
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:28 PM
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And even some of the ugly ones had gfs (who were also kinda weird/ugly, but they loved each other so who cares) This is the correct observation. I get the impression it’s still hard for some to find even an ugly gf, though. Still, the “only looks matter” club generally seems to be the ones who draw the correct conclusions. Any physically attractive guy could get similar unattractive women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:15 PM
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Then stop going after genuinely desirable women Yup. It’s wise to stay single over having a bad relationship. In my personal experience, desirable women tend to basically prefer guys they’d sleep with within a few hours. Looks are likely the bottleneck for most guys complaining about being single
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:07 PM
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I don’t think you understand how fucked Gen Z is. Visit an engineering college. Talk to some unattractive young guys. The only women who will talk to a “good guy” who’s 5’6” or whatever are sometimes single mothers, fat chicks, and generally undesirable women. Since genuinely desirable women tend to choose looks above most other factors, unattractive guys start to correctly conclude that their dating life will be really hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:51 PM
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Q4All: Okay seriously who is an example of “Stacy”? Which celebrities are a Stacy?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 09:37 AM
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Don't get married. Just don't I assume that putting off marriage until 30, experiencing “hypergamy” at colleges (mostly just a bunch of randoms getting laid, but also a blatant dislike for guys who are “relationship material”), the increased cost of living, and the existence of Tinder will probably put off many guys from getting married or having kids. I know I got sterilized with a vasectomy when I was 22
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 02:51 AM
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Then go find a study that says most people fuck within 30 days of knowing each other 60 to 80% of college students have participated in a hookup. I.e. the majority of actually desirable people in Gen Z. Most people don’t wait 30 days for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 12:32 AM
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Some people want users to upload pics of themselves to prove they’re “Chad”. That’s pointless. Show me pics of yourself next to the cuties who actually want to kiss you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 03:16 AM
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I could say, word for word, how I’d behave on dating apps, and few women would ever change who they match or sleep with. I would give a woman banter for a few hours, mention they’re beautiful at some point, and then tell them I want to kiss them. Women will accept or reject. I doubt any more effort than this would give most guys any better results in formats like Tinder. Blackpill desire of “be a bit better looking than whoever you’re talking to and go out on a date with them” will always work
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/26 01:20 AM
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Pictures are weird. If you have someone else record a video of you from far away, then that should give you an idea of your “true attractiveness”, and your romantic partners will often look similar next to you. People sometimes overestimate their own looks if they only take selfies at their own most flattering angles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/26 09:29 PM
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You’re a poly woman aiming for casual sex, and have previously mentioned that you use Tinder. Yes, if average guys are flaking on you and aren’t too into you for your looks, then you might be aiming up a bit too much. People are too familiar with how easy guys are to sleep with on Tinder to entirely believe you are struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 12:15 PM
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It feels like you might be “aiming up” in looks a bit too much if guys are flaky with you for casual. Tinder makes access to casual pretty consistent for most women
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 11:55 AM
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I feel like they both enthusiastically ended up in bed for sex, but then weren’t able to get each other off
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 09:00 AM
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A guy could come onto Reddit bragging about bedding Margot Robbie, and Redditors would respond with “Good job landing Becky. But how do I get Stacy?” Who the fuck is Stacy??
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 10:02 AM
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I know I’m capable of love because I’ve been in love 3 times over the past 15 years. So it’s not like I’m aromantic. But ffs, that’s a success rate of 1 person every 5 years She has an old woman’s libido. I believe the main way to fight this is to exercise, sleep well, not be stressed at work or financially, eat good food, check your hormones, skip birth control for 1 week a month to allow periods & ovulation, socializing with good looking guys for a bit & getting to know them (quality time), wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:50 AM
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I’d wager women who complain about stuff like that simply differ in their preferences in ways they don’t understand & can’t verbalize to guys I don’t fully understand the anatomy of why some women prefer grinding, shower heads, vibrators, hands, indirect oral, direct oral, tonguing, suction, lifting their pubic mound to lift the hood, etc. Oral actually is a thing where different people have different preferences. There probably isn’t a universal ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:13 AM
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Advertising works because displaying your product to hundreds of people is better than displaying your product to zero people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 12:12 AM
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Some people seem to think that dating today is harder than it was 10 years ago. I’m utterly certain it’s not. Blackpill desire is too guaranteed to ever be warped by supply/demand or luck. Tinder has been mainstream since 2014. The 18 year olds that liked me when I was 18 still show the same body language towards me as a 29 year old, and still act the same towards me if I hang out with them for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:42 PM
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The term for a woman who is in the horny part of whatever time in her cycle that works for her (ovulation/follicular/luteal), acts nice to me on an app like Tinder or equivalent, and sleeps with me after 30 minutes to a few hours, is “aroused”. A few hours also tends to be how long more “innocent” women take to “develop feelings” for me if I hang out with them for a while in scenarios other than Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:48 PM
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Aroused women are probably not going to put too much thought into it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:40 PM
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Trust me, I’ve checked, and there are not massive differences between sluts and a sane woman whose responsive desire gets her to want to sleep with you after a date. Virgins will act the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:34 PM
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When women say things like “guys aren’t entitled to sex after a date”, I think that ironically sends a wrong message. Men should honestly prefer women who sleep them after one date. Those are the women that actually like him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:56 AM
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It's often men who say what you say because they lied to get sex and now the woman wants commitment I doubt it. Most women will probably just consent to sex with some guy off the internet after a few hours (or 30 minutes, or instantly off the dating app, or whatever) if he’s nice to them and initiates with a kiss. Intentions on their end will probably pretty vague if it’s something like Tinder. “What are you looking for?” might be answered with “idk” or “meeting new people” It's my opinion those…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:51 AM
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Sometimes it seems like women on Reddit actively encourage guys to develop preferences for women who don’t want to sleep with them, which would be a great way for a guy to end up with a woman that hates him
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 11:20 AM
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Younger blackpilled people are probably less likely to have this conservative interpretation. While it’s misogynistic of me to say all women are easy, it’s not like I exactly get proven wrong often enough to matter. The only difference between a low N woman that sleeps with me after a 3 hour timer and a high N woman that sleeps with me after a 3 hour timer is their age. In the case I’m thinking of, I think the older one saw the way the younger one looks at me, and became more self aware of how s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 10:25 AM
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Why cold approaches will be rare going forward: In order for you to want a guy to cold approach you at the library, then he would likely need to be someone you’d match in online dating If he can conveniently get matches in online dating, then he’ll probably be less tempted to cold approach people outside of online dating In order to get a guy who would be successful with you for mostly looks alone, he’d probably need a reason other than your looks to like you. With cold approaches, he has nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:27 AM
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Blackpill locations: anywhere with only looks and banter. Similar to online dating. Cold approaches, approaching at bars/clubs/coffee shops, approaching someone you don’t know at hobbies, acquaintances, etc. You will often be a bit better looking than whoever you’re talking to. Something like a 8-10 inch height difference is probably the most enthusiastic tradeoff that guys make with strangers, as guys don’t like being too much better looking than a woman facially, or too significantly fit in co…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 12:58 AM
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Then we came to the real issue. He said he felt upset that I had anal sex with all those guys, but refused to try it with him. It's true that he asked before and I said it's not something I want to do, which is true. I'm not sure how to explain it, but the act feels kind of degrading to me. I kind of enjoyed doing it in a wilder phase of my life because there was this appeal of trying something more "taboo," but only with casual partners. But I don't want a man I love and respect so much and who…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 11:38 PM
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I'm not autistic Who are your celebrity crushes? Do you ever feel peer pressure? When a guy is cute, do you show him body language like gazing at him, being touchy with him, brushing against him, asking him to hang out alone, etc.? Do you share the emotions of others around you? Do you go to the bathroom in a group with your friends? Do you sometimes implicitly expect other people around you to understand you? Do you like gossip? Do you wear cute outfits? A lot of women on Reddit would not ever …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:50 AM
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Sex has a purpose in the relationship but if it's a serious relationship heading for marriage, the purpose of the relationship is not sex. Good luck with not sleeping with your partners. I wouldn’t personally recommend it I don't think Autism is that relevant?? Every time I think of how normie women who are attracted to me behave and compare it to women on Reddit, I’m forced to wonder if the average Redditor is autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:36 AM
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I think the forum being anonymous does something to women. They act a certain way towards guys they aren’t attracted to. Women would probably be nicer to me if I added my face to my profile. Idk what the effect on guys would be, if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:25 AM
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The point of a relationship is not sex. Most relationships stop having sex at some point either due to pregnancy and birth or due to old age. If it’s not mutual, then you run the risk of cheating or divorce. Lots of people just aren’t going to want a relationship where you don’t ever sleep with them That basically is sugar dating, money + sex, or being a prostitute I sort of just need a reason to not ghost someone So why not just discuss what you are both into? Most people would just give vague …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 10:13 AM
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The point of a relationship is not just for the man to get sex and if you think that you will be sorely disappointed when sex stops at some point That’s called a dead bedroom, and it has high potential to end the relationship. You should not get into relationships if you plan on never giving your partner sex The primary point of a relationship is to foster connection, providing companionship, emotional support, and shared experiences that enhance personal growth Just go make some friends and spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:46 AM
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Because the original commenter was implying that women avoid casual sex when they’re ready to have kids. I honestly doubt it. Women too often flirt with me in inappropriate situations for me to believe a woman would wait for sex more than a few hours for someone she actually wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:18 AM
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How many times has a woman flirted with you in front of your girlfriends? I nearly refuse to believe that aroused single women will avoid sex with a guy they actually want. They’ll flirt with you, even if it’s incredibly inappropriate to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:54 AM
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If she's experienced, she's also expected to use her experience to help get a man off. She's also expected to use it to behave pleasantly and avoid icks. If you’re into the dom/sub dynamic at all, then all pleasant low N women really have to do is show up. Their role is pretty simple A man is generally expected to initiate, regardless of his experience This is one reason why women tend to “value” experienced guys, but guys don’t “value” experienced women much. For the most part, experience just …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 03:29 AM
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It’s actually fascinating how much Reddit women are obsessed with guys doing chores. Do you think it’s common for guys to pull genuinely desirable women with choreplay?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:29 PM
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Moids only want one thing and it’s fucking electricity
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:12 PM
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I think there’s nearly no way a woman would behave like this towards a guy if he’s better looking than her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:06 PM
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I’d have to compare the guys she prefers to sleep with while she’s young to the guy she marries for me to determine if she settled
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:05 PM
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The “high N” studies that people quote probably hint at this. If a looks oriented high libido woman “settles” for an unattractive guy to have kids, then I don’t think it’s going to work out in the long term. She’s still going to have the preference to sleep with guys she actually thinks are attractive, and women’s involuntary libidos can be pretty brutal against guys they don’t actually want, especially as they get older with decreases in sex hormones. Pregnancy will possibly also impact her in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:46 PM
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I was on the topic of women because your original comment was “femoids will only talk and listen to ChadGPT”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:42 PM
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It’s hard for me to tell if weirdos are joking when they say they’re dating AI. It isn’t even in the top 5 “weird” preferences that are currently common. Alt people can have their polyamory, cuck relationships, furry obsessions, gender fluidity/trans dynamics, AI girlfriends, etc. Normies will continue fucking as nature intended
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:38 PM
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Impossible. Women crave attention and the real thing too much for a bot to replace me. If there were an alternative to me, then she would’ve found it on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:31 PM
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It depends on what you call “hot”, but Tinder experiments comfortably prove that desirable women will flirt with you if you’re hot enough. While women do tend to aim up, there are limits, and hot women still want to have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:36 PM
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Low N women behave the same way. I think you’re confusing high N women with just women that are attracted to you. High N women all start out as virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:24 AM
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Can we finally put to rest this ridiculous idea of “fairness” in dating? I don’t know what kind of pill someone needs to take to see reality clearly, but please take it. I’m tired of the constant blaming of women for not being “fair.” They are not supposed to be Some women would get happier results if they socialized with less physically attractive guys for a bit, instead of desperately trying to talk to the most attractive possible guy that will consider sleeping with them From an evolutionary …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 10:22 AM
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What’s the difference between low N and high N women that you notice?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:49 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/lnkyverse/comments/1rww5wr/perspective_when_youre_the_nice_guy_she_finally/ True love is so beautiful to see
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:02 AM
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paying for the date, bringing flowers, driving her places Assuming all a guy has to realistically do to get sex is buy you some ice cream or movie tickets, the cost is actually significantly cheaper than sugar dating or prostitution You would need to up the financial effort to $500 to make sure the guy at least cares as much about you as he does an escort
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:57 AM
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I doubt there are many guys who “value experience”. Virgins, low N women, and high N women seem really similar during first impressions. If I’m actually interested in them, I’m almost certainly not going to know anything about their exes until after the first few hours where I’ve slept with them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:42 AM
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Dating advice from: Low IQ incel: just be good looking and talk to her Medium IQ blue pill or red pill: develop social skills, exercise, be popular, play a sport, wear good clothes, play in a band at a bar, go to parties, make a bunch of friends, get a good career, get a good haircut, be good at giving banter for a few hours, give women a couple compliments, be fun in bed, have some hobbies in common, be compatible for long term plans & goals, be confident and outgoing, show leadership qualities…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:56 AM
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I can’t tell what’s real and what’s satire any more. Reality is warped when I remember people with an IQ of 100 literally exist, and I have to take into account what their lives are like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:45 AM
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Because I would die on impact with the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 11:21 PM
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Stuff like this will probably just push away guys from experienced women even more. What am I supposed to value in a woman’s experience? I’m expected to use my experience to know which women are attracted to me, approach them, give them banter, and initiate I’m expected to use my experience to help a woman get off I’m expected to use my experience to behave pleasantly & avoid icks So, what do experienced women give me in return relative to inexperienced women? Oh, right, nearly nothing. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:28 PM
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Mostly just validation, and getting reminded that weirdo people all have their random preferences to watch for. I believe the main thing with women isn’t to actually be “good”, but to avoid “icks”. Making out for a while, giving compliments, showing good body language & reading her body language, giving oral, and then doing piv is “standard” vanilla sex. However, some women like grinding or vibrators. Some women don’t care for foreplay much if they start out wet. Some women don’t like oral, or d…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 08:37 PM
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Men will manipulate and lie and gaslight to get sex Probably. Women will sometimes manipulate and lie and gaslight to get things they want, too. People tend to do stuff like that Women on the other hand are trained to have people pleasing tendencies which makes them vulnerable to these tactics On average, you’re more empathetic, agreeable, prone to conforming, and susceptible to peer pressure. However, I don’t think any of these issues are directly what gets you to sleep with guys. Turning you o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:39 AM
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The way men feel validated by casual sex I don’t think I’m able to feel stuff like that at the moment but believe that casual sex “ruins” a woman It doesn’t is a truly disturbing double standard It’s not particularly a double standard. Most of it runs on the assumption that sex is easy for women to get, and hard for guys to get. For the most part, this is true. Actively trying to create a society where there’s a whole group of “ruined” women that men can freely sexually objectify and disrespect …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 10:08 AM
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Have sex with a woman?! Bruh, women don’t enjoy sex. If a woman comes up to you and mounts your dick, then you should immediately shove her away, as you do not have her consent. All seduction is rape
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:47 AM
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The problem if you’re not Giga Chad is that you have to lower your standards to the floor to compete with “Chad”. Are you willing to sleep with a woman who you spent a month getting to know? A better looking guy would take 3 hours off a dating app. Are you willing to sleep with a woman who took you 3 hours off a dating app? A better looking guy would only require a 30 minute walk. Are you willing to sleep with a woman who takes you a 30 minute walk? She’ll invite some guy off an app directly ove…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:49 PM
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“Nice guys” and “bad boys” (are you 12 years old?) by your description don’t inherently do anything that affects their chances either way. If your approach to kissing a woman somewhat follows the format of chatting with her for a few hours, giving her a compliment or two, and then kissing her, then it’s highly likely the main reason she likes the guy is mostly his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:51 AM
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She gets turned on by talking to me Edit: why did I get downvoted for saying this lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:32 AM
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You’re overcomplicating it. She thinks I’m cute and she likes talking to me about whatever. I’ll have to end the conversation if she gets blatantly turned on, though
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 10:25 AM
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It’s interesting to watch how a woman who develops “feelings” for you treats you over several years if you ignore her. Sometimes she complains about other guys she’s dating or sleeping with. It’s a weird feeling to know that at surface level she’d be perfectly happy with me, but in reality she’d probably complain about me like she does her other partners. People are too complicated. The instructions are so clear. Just sleep with each other and enjoy each other’s company. Somehow, perfectly decen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:53 AM
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Make sure to wear green for St Patrick’s Day
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:53 AM
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I think the real deal breaker is when she continues to be friends with people she has slept with after she starts a relationship, or when she has slept with any of your friends
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 06:32 AM
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Did you know that Clavicular puts injections into the base of his member to make it bigger? Well, now you do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:40 AM
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Black pill can be summed up as “be good looking”. It’s more boring, but also, more effective than most other approaches to improving dating prospects, to an almost hilarious extent
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:37 AM
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Nah. Just take some selfies of yourself next to some women off of online dating who sleep with you within a few hours, and usually the answer isn’t going to be that surprising Similar applies to real life as well, but lots of people use the internet these days
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:13 AM
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* Can’t sleep with a woman which you, personally, are a bit better looking than
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:47 AM
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I don’t personally read into the “top 20% of men” thing much. Am I better looking than an individual woman? Am I 10” taller than her? Am I stronger than her by a good amount? Do I earn at least double as what she does? Am I willing to be nice to her for a few hours? Is she compatible with me in terms of hobbies and long term plans? Sure, the top 20% thing probably exists, but also, if you can’t sleep with a woman you’re a bit better looking than, then you still messed up. Even though I’m 5’10”, …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:21 AM
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No. I’ve always been a sex addict, but the blackpill is probably more accurate for how women will treat you, assuming you have a passable body type. The red pill, to me, just says “Girls will be mean to you if they don’t like you. They’ll sleep with you if they like you.” Red pill incels call women who want to sleep with them “Becky”, and women who don’t want them “Stacy”, but with online dating, it’s easy to prove that “Stacy” will be nice to “Chad”. If you can’t at least sleep around with fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 12:35 AM
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Intuitively, being the top 20% doesn’t feel like a big ask, if you’re used to scoring in the top 1% of random different metrics. In reality, the top 20% is massive. In height, it would mean you’re 6’1” or taller, which is useful. In wealth, it would mean you’re worth $1.5 million or more in the USA, which is significantly better than the scraps the bottom 20% would live on. While being the top 20% might feel like “just working a little harder than others” to some, in reality, it snowballs up to …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 11:35 PM
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That might be true. I think, statistically, it is probably accurate that you should be in the top 15% to have “universal” appeal. One standard deviation of a normal distribution will cover 68% of people, and appealing to those people by being above them all gives you a pretty massive pile to work with. In terms of height, this would mean you need to be 6’1” or 6’2”, but other factors can also work in your favor The bottom 15% (5’7” or 5’6” and below) will have it hardest. Why bother with the bot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:50 PM
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Single women get aroused if I hang out alone with them for a while. It’s wise to avoid that when I’m not single. Group settings are a different story
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:42 PM
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Upside of taking care of yourself while in a relationship: your partner likes it Downside: so does literally everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:23 PM
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That’s because of the way that normal distributions work. Part of the reason desirable women don’t like settling below 5’10” is because of how absurdly common 5’9” - 5’11” guys are. Adding in 5’8” guys would probably only increase their dating pool by like 10% or something. When a woman is good looking (part of the top 50% of women), and willing to participate on a male dominated app similar to Tinder, then she automatically doesn’t have to consider the bottom half of the population if she doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:55 PM
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Beauty standards as a guy are conflicting. Are there conventional beauty standards? Most certainly. A 6’4” guy is probably the statistical “ideal”. However, relative beauty is also a thing. You probably only need to be better looking than a specific individual to get something out of them. A 5’10” guy who can’t get a 5’0” woman definitely messed up somewhere. Strangely, the benefits of being much taller than her will be muted, but I believe this is due to some concept of supply & demand. While b…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:41 PM
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sex is very easy for women to obtain, whenever they please True having sex with a non-virgin is cuck adjacent False having casual sex as a man is the best way to know youre attractive, and men must do it or theyre destined to be betabuxxed You’re phrasing it in a terminally online way, but yes, women who actually want you will have sex with you without excessive effort. If the only way it’s happening is if you have a financial advantage over her, then that’s a bad sign
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:45 AM
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I don’t think sugar dating is referring to 30 year old guys, or at least I hope it isn’t. Paying a woman $5k/month to be your girlfriend/escort is pretty pathetic, but you’d have to be bathing in cash to not just sleep with cheaper escorts or otherwise casually date a “normal” woman for a fraction of the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 11:35 PM
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Personalities come and go. People change. Their hobbies differ over time. Their life goals get updated. They get further in their career, or change careers. At the end of the day, she’ll still just be a cutie that wants to kiss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:19 AM
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I think adding subjectivity complicates things too much. I’d be perfectly happy having sex with a woman who is fit, has pretty hair, glowing skin, a good singing voice, a cute face (this is the most subjective part imo), a bright smile, fashionable clothes, shorter than me, smells pretty, all that good stuff. I have straightforward preferences, and tend to get what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 01:01 AM
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Physical attractiveness can be summed up as fitness, hairstyle, skin tone (some people do better with self tans), contacts over glasses, facial hair, voice, bone structure, good teeth, good clothes, being tall, hygiene, etc. Blackpill focuses too much on certain parts, but they do have the right idea in terms of how to best get attention from conventionally desirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:48 AM
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The most bitter truth of the blackpill is that women who would devote their lives to me would often only initially consider it because they’re turned on and like my face. It’s not like they gaze at me for no reason. Without acknowledging the most consistent ways for how relationships initially start, you won’t reach the point where you “make a connection”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:33 AM
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It’s all sales. If you’re selling a car that’s worth $15k, then some people will do the following: give it away for free to family out of the goodness of their heart sell it for $10k out of convenience sell it for $15k because someone simply offered that much for it without too much effort being a “good salesman” and getting $20k for it from someone who should’ve probably done more research What you’re advocating for is to be a better “salesman”. However, having a great product to sell in the fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 12:20 AM
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All people have to choose something to be shallow for, or else they’ll marry the first lame option they stumble across on Tinder. For young financially independent women (who the majority of financially independent men will only ever interact with before they get married), I don’t think money or “personality” is going to cut it, a lot of the time. This leaves looks as the last straightforward option, which while shallow, is extremely straightforward & consistent. A woman with a stereotypical str…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 10:29 PM
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Old guys probably watch porn too. It’s hard to read the data in terms of who’s actually watching
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:08 PM
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One interesting caveat you have to remember about people is that people are visually uglier on camera than they are in real life. This is one reason lots of people overrate their own looks. They think the way they look in the mirror is similar to how a celebrity looks on camera.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 07:04 PM
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If that were true, then women who flirt with me wouldn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:20 AM
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*some lgbt women. It’s also valid that some lgbt women are more likely to prefer the twink, skinny, or femboy type, it seems. I have to add that caveat because, while everyone knows who gets matches on Tinder, lgbt people actually do tend to be a bit different in their preferences sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:09 AM
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If you think your partner is unattractive why are you doing this "open" bullshit and not just leaving? Because unattractive people usually date each other? People in open relationships can set the terms, but if you go into wanting to "win" the bodycount you need to call it something else. Competitive cheating maybe. Like you clearly wanted the green light to cheat and get one up on your partner, you didn't want to "open" Monogamous relationships are already pretty difficult. Adding in flings fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 01:02 AM
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They’re also not going to work if you don’t acknowledge the differences between the genders for how easy it is for unattractive women to get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 10:18 PM
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She looked like she was grimacing & repelled by him, imo. Her body language didn’t indicate attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:51 PM
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I believe lgbt women have different preferences in men than stereotypical straight women, for some reason. Possibly due to peer pressure or influences from friends in their environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:49 PM
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Just a quick reminder that even people with Asperger’s probably don’t have too much trouble maintaining relationships with women that are actually attracted to them. Personality is overrated
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:43 PM
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Open relationships are trendy and appeal to people wanting their cake and eating it too I believe the only possible time straight open relationships can work “correctly” without jealousy for guys is for Giga Chads, bisexual men, guys who dwarf their female partner in looks, or if the woman is low libido without participation. I can sleep with a woman similar to my girlfriend off of Tinder or wherever with just some banter in person, but I’m pretty sure she would still have an easier time than me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:25 PM
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I’m pretty sure this would just end up in an orgy for me. They’d be bored and I’d be interested. $250k sounds great
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 09:09 PM
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Red pill incels view buying prostitutes as being a “prize”. It’s not. The body language of a woman genuinely interested in you (probably a bit less physically attractive than you) will be different than a woman who would only have sex with you for money. Fame, popularity, playing a sport, or playing in a band at a bar are consistent ways to get laid, but most people operate mostly on looks & personality if they want to receive some genuine interest
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 08:01 PM
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Except if you need to use money to get a woman, then she probably does not actually like you at all. A woman who doesn’t like you can pretty much just change her mind later, divorce you, and keep some of the money (assuming you have a much higher income/wealth than her) The solution is to either prefer financially independent women, or mostly get women through looks & banter (or both)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 06:45 PM
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Meh, that’s probably just a good way to get a woman who’s not that into you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:23 AM
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Which pretty much results in lots of guys having a preference for women who sleep with them easily. This can end up with some toxic outcomes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:10 AM
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If that model actually worked on desirable women, then guys would probably consider it more. It doesn’t, though. Desirable women tend to prefer looks over money
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:08 AM
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Probably not anyone I would actually want to talk to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:05 AM
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Yes, they’re a reasonable couple, it’s just a counter to women who say “guys only want models”, or whatever. He’s an example of a rich guy that clearly didn’t choose a model
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:01 AM
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They are. The main caveat is that he’s a millionaire streamer lol. It doesn’t seem like well off guys are going for “models” these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:00 AM
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It’d be pointless. She’ll kiss the guy either way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:58 PM
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Most men aren’t afraid to pay for a date for someone they’re actually attracted to. They just know it won’t change her mind about anything anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:50 PM
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Brutal. Don’t tell a guy there’s a price tag if you don’t want him to try though lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:47 PM
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Is there a backup rejection if he’s okay with that? I’m pretty sure most young women can receive this from some guys
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:44 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1rk8cn6/millionaire_jbw_chess_streamer_and_his_wife_i/ Some people exaggerate men’s dating woes, but this probably is an example of a “2026 looksmatch”. I think this is would be referred to as a “sub5 couple”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 11:39 PM
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A man can do all of this and still be a good man. Things moved really fast between myself and my boyfriend. But he wasn’t looking to pump and dump. He actually likes me a whole lot. This is part of my point. A lot of young women (most?) are fine with moving fast. This leaves little room for vetting, and thus the personality of the guy doesn’t matter much at all. It’s just looks, most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:20 PM
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Virtue signaling about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 10:06 PM
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She was already comfortable with him due to previous encounters. This lowers the barrier to entry. The thing is, if a woman is comfortable with a guy, and she is in the right part of the month, then he can probably give like 10 seconds of kissing, 10 seconds of “foreplay”, and then go straight to oral, as long as he starts out slow. Lots of women will already be ready to go purely by virtue of where they are in their cycle. The bar for having a good time becomes purely physical at that point. So…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:34 PM
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Sure, I’d take a woman who actually wants a “good man”. It’s just that no women actually physically desire that. Almost all blackpilled women want a guy who’s a bit better looking than them to appeal to their responsive desire by hanging out alone with them for a while, mentioning they’re beautiful, initiating a kiss after a few hours, etc. Money does nothing. A woman who isn’t physically attracted to you will probably act “flat”. An escort or stripper is a good example of this. I believe it’d b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 09:19 PM
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I think she would’ve had a fun time if he had gotten her off. As is, she received no oral or piv, which isn’t exactly a formula for success
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:51 PM
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Most women are bad at hiding their “feelings” for you if you accidentally spend some time alone with them and turn them on a bit (mostly through looks)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 08:05 PM
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She could date a coworker, a friend from a hobby group, or settle on looks/money the same as anyone else can
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:52 PM
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Number 1 is if she has the Tinder app on her phone, and she doesn’t kiss you within a few hours of knowing you. Rule 2: “don’t be unattractive” is the only real rule, and you should be able to measure a stereotypical young woman’s “responsive desire” (a blackpill concept) by the amount of time she takes to kiss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:31 PM
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Look at what they need to mimic a fraction of our power
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 07:11 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1rloc9d/racepill/ I can’t tell if this anecdote from an “ugly, fat, old woman” is bait, or real. Seems brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 12:36 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1rjy75p/what_does_she_mean_by_this/ Do not marry a woman if she talks about you like this lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/26 11:09 PM
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It depends on the person. I’d be curious about studies for what the differences are in women whose libido gets stronger vs. weaker as they age, but I’m guessing the science literally doesn’t exist
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/26 09:09 PM
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The less attractive men often treat women worse because they have a massive chip on their shoulder about women. Kind of like how you probably treat men worse because of the massive chip on your shoulder about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:29 PM
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There’s even a term for it: getting Shrek’d. Where you lower your standards on looks, and the guy ends up treating you badly anyway I believe this about as much as I believe guys who can’t afford a $20 date complaining about “gold diggers”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 10:07 PM
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Tried it, they behave exactly the same way Nah. Guys can see the relationships around them. Setting on looks is effective for most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:47 PM
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What accountability should he have towards a stranger he went on a 30 minute walk with?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:29 PM
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If that were true men wouldn’t ghost as much as they do Picking less conventionally physically attractive guys will reduce the rate this happens They wouldn’t lie to get in your knickers Women can probably wait longer for sex and choose less physically attractive guys, if they’re concerned about this They wouldn’t claim sexual assault victims are making it up That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:27 PM
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Which behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 09:11 PM
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Accountable towards what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:59 PM
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You dont get to complain about women “lying about wanting good men but will keep dating assholes” when you would still date those types of women The problem is that this is how the “best women” usually look like to guys. Ironically, when a handsome guy leverages looks alone, he will often quickly get a bunch of genuinely desirable women to like him (similar to Clavicular). Leveraging money or “personality” seems to be a way to get a terrible relationship with low quality women in comparison (lot…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 08:27 PM
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Paying for one date is fine. You could always go on a 30 minute walking date before making out, but I’m not opposed to ice cream, coffee, or a movie theater if I get the same result. A few hours is pretty reasonable Banter feels homogenous across people. Women who are attracted to you will probably come up with something to say anyway. I don’t think most younger people will bring up excessive “long term compatibility” or whatever early on. They just want banter, most likely Ideally in my opinion…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 06:10 AM
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And I always want to ask those people what muscle group they believe is the best for oppressing women Glutes for hip thrusts. Only the most dominant men have a firm, round ass
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 02:02 AM
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Would you say this was effect by porn? I doubt it, or else I’d be more interested in the hotter escorts off of Tryst, and I wouldn’t fantasize about pretty eyes This is simply not true a 21-year-old escort with 300 unprotected encounters could statistically be higher risk than a 30-year-old who strictly uses protection and tests regularly, If I’m virtue signaling, yes. If I’m picking at random from strangers, however, I’ll take my chances with the younger ones anyway. It’s a win-win scenario for…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:55 PM
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You mean you're not sexually attracted to older women? Or your preference leans more to younger ones? I like “cute, pretty” women. A lot of this is based around her face, and youthful features. Body types and height don’t do as much for me. Why? Logically, STDs. A 30 year old escort who has had 1000 clients before is more prone to them. Emotionally, probably because younger, prettier women who have had fewer partners are seen as a better fling
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:32 PM
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I believe a late 20s escort is equally moral as a 21 year old escort. The older escort’s looks don’t do much more for me, and between the idea of an “experienced” or an “inexperienced” escort, I’d prefer the 21 year old inexperienced one over someone with 10 years of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:41 PM
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I’d have sex with an attractive 18 year old “independent” escort, but I believe a 21 year old woman is a little more in the “safe zone” for someone who is actually old enough to make their own decisions. For reference, I’m 28 and still attractive to 21 year old women anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:32 PM
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There are “two sides” to the topic. If a woman interacts with men who approach her in public, and kisses the attractive guy from her soccer hobby, then she’s likely super safe the whole time. Colleges are observably rampant with at least somewhat safe, attractive men, hence all the women engaging in indiscriminate hookups. Visit Grindr as a guy if you want to understand what “creeps” are like. I have absolutely no solid advice for how to be safe around men who are predators, other than not to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:19 PM
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That’s probably true, but when I search NYC, Dallas, and San Francisco, I don’t really see anyone that I’d actually prefer over a random “Becky” that will sleep with me if I’m nice to her for a few hours on a casual dating app A woman has to be stunning to get that reaction out of me from a picture
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 05:12 PM
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A good reminder to myself that I’m “Stacysexual” is that I look at a complete list of escorts in multiple big cities off of Tryst, and I don’t see a single one that I’d actually fantasize over. I assume this is how women feel on dating apps after swiping on 100 guys and “settling” on the one that they prefer. The “18 - 19” range is honestly probably what I’d still pick for a quick fling because for some reason I’m tempted by a young escort over a late 20s escort, even if the late 20s one is “hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:59 PM
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Meh. Did she get off, make me take a break, compliment me about how I’m bigger than her ex, mention I’m her first time getting off with a partner, have a cute “O face”, etc.? I gauge whether women like me by how they react to me, and I’m pretty sure they like me if I write down how they behave on paper lol. Although almost all behavior is less dramatic than what you’d see in porn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:55 PM
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I feel any sex on date 1 off the internet can just be defined as “casual”. If all I have to do is buy a woman ice cream and hang out with her for a while to get her to make out with me in my car, then that’s a pretty good sign she’s open to something. Making out in a “safe” area also is similar to going on a date in a public area: you both establish that you’re not trying to murder each other, you can read that she’s actually physically into you, etc. It’s easier to trust someone under these con…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:19 PM
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true. we guys have no problem waiting years for a girl we actually want to marry I’d rather not waste years of my life like that, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 04:06 AM
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You have to have actual hobbies in common and similar long term plans for compatibility. Otherwise it’s generic banter
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 03:03 AM
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Hot for me, but most women take more time to get comfortable with a stranger, and I don’t want to die lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:26 PM
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Dunno what that is, but I like going out to the movie theater, making out in my car afterwards, and then burying my face into someone, if that counts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 06:14 PM
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What do you want to be bought with?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:13 PM
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People on the internet hate guys under 6’0”, and he’s on the lean side. The main thing is that he felt like hot shit enough to cheat on a billionaire lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:22 PM
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I doubt he’s a 6/10 if he’s unable to talk a 4/10 into bed while being fluent in english
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:47 AM
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Sorry bud, I don’t think you’re a 6/10 if you can’t talk a literal 1/10 into bed while being fluent in english
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 05:17 AM
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Men shouldn’t approach women unless the woman has genuine desire for the man Sure. What do these women “look like” to a man? These women look similar to me as a random woman off the internet who would sleep with me within one date, who chose me mostly by my pictures. Almost universally, they are going to be “less attractive” than the guy in question, even if only by a bit, unless he’s “Giga Chad”, and there aren’t that many women in existence who are actually more attractive than him. Height, fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 03:15 AM
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Correct, but women can leverage their innate preference for sociable men (often, more time alone with him, him having lots of social influence, etc.), if they want to settle on looks. Lots of women aren’t “patient”, though. When “waiting for sex” isn’t a preference of theirs, they are highly likely to prefer men better looking than themselves (guys who will be the types to prefer quick sex & not inherently value relationships with women they can easily get). Literally, the less time a woman take…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:53 AM
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Where you deliberately visited to mine for content that confirms your existing opinions about women and our sexuality, and then come here and complain about what you went out of your way to find Gee, I wonder how that content was so easy to find under their top 10 posts of the month. It’s almost as if their rants are predictable, the reasons they’re failing are predictable, and actionable advice for what they should do are things I have probably understood at some level since I was a teenager. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:13 AM
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I didn’t specifically seek it out. I was curious if the dating over 40 sub had any good posts this month. It’s mostly just femcels ranting for highly predictable reasons, and not taking accountability for why they’re failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 02:06 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/WomenDatingOverForty/comments/1qy4q3r/funny_and_accurate_analogy_to_dating/ It gets so old listening to women complain about “tOXic MeN”. She and everyone else knows exactly why the guys she wants won’t be nice to her. She could date well off people, great people, people who treat her amazingly, etc., especially if she socialized with them and got to know them. However, I am 100% sure she has a strict preference for men that she is viscerally physically attracted to. Bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:54 AM
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Don’t date a “baddie” if you need dating advice. You’re not qualified. Almost all women behave similarly towards guys they actually want. Improving your looks to the extent that you can might help, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 01:38 AM
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https://share.google/mKm39avsTvIoSZTzO Imagine being a billionaire and getting cheated on by a 5’11” 170 lbs guy that looks like this. Bro might’ve taken abundance mentality too seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 11:01 PM
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I think looks are pointless past whatever threshold because it’s just small increments here or there. More impressive is how much a woman will pay a guy to sleep with her, or who the wealthiest woman a guy can pull is, whether he can date famous women, or how far a woman will go to get a specific man (how desperate/loyal is she?). Jeremy Meeks pulled a billionaire, so he’s higher up than “some guy who had sex with good looking women”
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 10:55 PM
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That’s true. The main reason I’d avoid a throuple dynamic as a guy like him is because it’s obvious that, the moment Tinder flings outside of the relationship come into play, he’s going to probably not be “their type” any more. It’s nice when you’re actually rather confident that a woman would pick you based on your pictures, even if you have to be a little bit better looking than her to have that dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:33 PM
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And Clavicular is banging women that “Giga Chad” wouldn’t even look at. I believe it’s mostly just a concept of “league”. Be better looking if you want better looking women to be nice to you without too much effort
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:16 PM
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Yes, but maybe she’s just Canadian
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:05 PM
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To be fair, the guy may actually have decent dating advice if he can literally pull any women at all while looking like that. Still, yes, focus on appearances if you want more attractive women to talk to you: https://share.google/nQrcgzoKhrDefGZNP Maybe he has money? I’m surprised women want to be a throuple with a guy that’s shorter than them. Or maybe lgbt women just don’t mind guys who aren’t masculine as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:56 PM
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Sometimes I’m not sure whether to use personal anecdotes, generalized ones, statistics, anecdotes from friends, or Reddit posts as “evidence” of something. It can also be difficult to interpret people, I can only watch their actions to get an idea of what they’re thinking. For example, I visited Seattle with my girlfriend one time, and a cute friend that worked at Microsoft asked to sip my drink “to try it” at a bar. I’m not fully aware of how much she was flirting with me vs. just being friendl…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:21 PM
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She’ll forgive Chad for wearing lifts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:43 PM
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People who can’t lose out on $20 should still pay for the date to impress a woman who has an actual job
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 04:10 PM
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Is the concern women using him for money or not? Believe it or not, using a guy for money goes beyond getting a random meal
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:52 PM
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They want access to his money. Dont give them access if you're filtering out gold diggers That wouldn’t stop them from talking to him. The money is still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:31 PM
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So? So, your approach doesn’t fix a guy’s problem. Paying for some random $100 date vs. going on a walk doesn’t change what his actual financial situation is. The women guys are trying to avoid inherently want his money, not just free food.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:27 PM
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Because what would you be used for? Money? That’s easy to filter out: Just dont pay for dates The guy’s job, income, and net worth don’t disappear just because he chooses a free or expensive date. It doesn’t matter how stingy he is, she might still have only decided to talk to him due to money, and women like that are smart to avoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:17 PM
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One or two random women flirted with me today. One was just banter out of nowhere, but she might’ve just been being nice. The other straight up brushed against me and gave me a compliment because I held a door open for her. It’s weird to imagine flirting with a woman who’s a stranger to me in the same way. If she weren’t attracted to me, then I’m guessing she’d be creeped out, but maybe a woman similar to the one who brushed against me would like it? Idk, people are hard to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:17 AM
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I believe the reason women give bad dating advice is because their attraction is involuntary. Most women don’t seem to “flirt” on purpose, but instead behave a certain way when they’re turned on. It’s jading to watch the same woman flip between “loving” me and hating me. I can’t tell which one is how she “actually” feels. Logically, she seems to hate me, but when she’s in the mood for me, she wants to give her life to me. Still, all I am is a face to her. It’s embarrassing to have someone repeat…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:27 AM
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The more i'm dating the more i see how looks are not everything, like not even 50%. But i'm tired of arguing with fatalists who think that all that matter is looks. While I agree it’s not literally everything, you can watch people like Clavicular repeatedly prove that lots of women which guys would actually want tend to behave a certain way And in reality i'm swiping left on many tall and fit guys Who do desirable women swipe right on? and when i swipe right it's rarely leads anywhere because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/26 03:07 PM
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You’re using the word wrong. They’re looksmatched to women other than her. Some of the guys were probably good looking enough for her, but she swiped left anyway. I liked the guy who was in the water with his arms over the ledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 11:04 PM
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Same femcel logic. If there are no men as good looking as she wants who will commit to her, then she’s aiming too high.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 09:03 PM
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She’s not attracted to you unless she says “dominate me” unprompted
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 06:10 AM
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Catfishing (or just overcompensating in pictures a bit by taking good pics) for guys is an interesting concept. On the one hand, if an unattractive guy catfishes an attractive woman, then it’s over for him. On the other hand, if one “Chad” has better pictures than another “Chad”, then I guess the guy with the better pictures will automatically win, as long as she still thinks he’s attractive in person. Overall, I suppose that a guy’s goal should be to literally match every woman equal or lesser …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 03:18 AM
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Online dating teaches you at a granular level exactly which people want to kiss you, and after how much effort, if you participate long enough on a platform with enough people, especially around holidays like Valentines Day. The reason it’s “broken” for men is because there are more men than women on the apps. Why are the women still there, even though guys are available? What is it that they’re searching for that they can’t get in a system where they have abundant options? Many of the women are…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/26 02:20 AM
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I know plenty of women who could disprove that for you, and give you a fem-REEE Yes, women exist. However, a room of very bright people will usually be male dominated. Everyone in the litigation setting is competitive (both the men and the women). The field self-selects for the personality type The field self selects for easy humanities majors with high GPAs that studied well before taking the lsat No one voluntarily signs up for a job that centers around arguing with people if they have a confo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 10:05 PM
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I don’t “dismiss women”. It’s just that women don’t exist in environments with lots of smart people in them. Asian males usually dominate the “smart people” groups. There do exist smart women, however they aren’t that common. I probably lean towards someone with Asperger’s, where peer pressure doesn’t affect my decisions as much. This is probably why I’m an atheist, regardless of having very religious white parents who always encouraged me to be religious. When I talk to smart women, a lot of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:38 PM
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This is what I don't understand about "looksmatching" and how it is spoken about on this sub You have to separate people into “groups” first. are you ever going to have kids? how old are you? how does religion play into how you choose partners? are you more conservative or liberal? have you gone to college? are you financially independent? are there men/women you’re into who will have sex with you based on looks and banter alone? how good are you at making friends? are you into lgbt people? are …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 09:07 PM
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I did most of those women a favor. They wanted me to talk to them. Women who have approached me before were also fine. Just let people do what they want, and accept rejection if they give a hint they don’t want to talk to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 02:05 AM
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The Blackpill might be accurate. The women they refer to as “Becky” are the women that actually want them. Similarly to incels, they overcompensate with personality and money to get women who otherwise wouldn’t look at them. The moment a woman acts “easy” for them, conservative men are hypergamous, call them “sluts”, and develop a preference for “pure women” who are better looking and more desirable (but harder to sleep with, due to lower desire on her part). If they get a “Stacy” to settle for …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:52 AM
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I have to remember not to delude myself with what I want in the short term. The long term is easier and simpler.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:13 AM
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No one like that has ever or ever will exist to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 01:02 AM
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I only like myself when I’m not around other people. I need to take a walk in some nature
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/26 12:38 AM
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If you want more attractive women that are hard for you to get: engage in prostitution or sugar dating. It’s a more transparent approach than… whatever the fuck you’re doing on Instagram. If you’re comfortable with the women who are easy for you: message them on Instagram, I guess. Do they reply back?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 11:07 PM
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Male hypergamy. That’s “Becky” to him. He can hang out with women similar to her once, and sleep with them. His physical preference is now higher, and instead of dating a doctor, he wants someone better looking that isn’t super interested in him. Not a lot of women spend 20 hours/week (0.5 fte) in Pilates. I like to date “Becky” types, but that’s because e.g. my current partner is an engineer, and online dating has jaded me enough to know that I should have a preference for women that are at lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:55 PM
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Cool story. Show me his dating profile where he lists his height as 5’6”, and then let me know how women start treating him when he lies online that he’s 6’0”. Women are not as mythically unpredictable as Reddit pretends they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 09:03 PM
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I’m going to go ahead and guess that the 5’6” guy is invisible to the vast majority of American women without considerable effort. I’m not going to entirely believe you if you say a woman threw herself at you if you aren’t at least average or above average in a bunch of different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:37 PM
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The reason some guys can’t entirely answer this is because I don’t want “a woman”. I want a harem with a variety pack of women (and men)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:27 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:07 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:42 PM
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The world is much crueler than this. People who can get everything they’ve ever wanted have a distinct knack to not actually value the things they attain. It fucking sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:41 PM
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My actions are never conflicted, just my virtue signaling about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:31 PM
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Attention, smv, attractiveness, and similar concepts are all correlated with each other. When men complain about women not having sex with them, they are likely complaining about attractive women not having sex with them. They’ll forget about the women less attractive than them that don’t take as much effort. Women are similar. Their focus shifts entirely to the people they’re attracted to. However, as red pill picks up, their sexuality isn’t quite based exclusively on looks. They also pay atten…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:26 PM
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The things I want to want, and the things I am, are never quite right.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:15 PM
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Do you truly deserve to be called a man if you can’t look damn sexy dressed up as a woman? She’d still fawn over Chad if he wore high heels
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:14 PM
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“I’m looking to meet new people and see where things go”, probably
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:53 PM
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Or else even Beta Bucks are "Chad," which is incoherent A beta bux gets mostly opposite treatment, in my mind. I think I’m being pretty consistent here: go on several dates to get sex. It might take a month or more. she doesn’t gaze at him much or ever she never initiates flirting in any context she doesn’t want to hang out with him much he has to be a nearly perfect match for her, small flaws will be a deal breaker he always has to be the one to go out of his way to flirt with her sex is “serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:49 PM
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"Chad" is anyone who isn't an incel if the definition is "women find him sexually attractive enough to fuck" Correct. This is Reddit’s definition of Chad. I see “Chad” as subjective where it’s when a woman shows similar symptoms: she only needs to take a walk with him on 1 date off the internet to sleep with him. In general, she needs at most one date to kiss him. she openly gazes at him a bit she flirts with light touches she wants to be alone with him a lot she overlooks small flaws pretty eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:29 PM
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He’s “Chad” to those women. The reason I have to call him Chad is because Reddit thinks that any man that can have sex with a woman after taking a walk with her on online dating is “Chad”. He’ll receive gazes and flirting from them. He fits the criteria. I call people who are perfectly conventionally attractive “Giga Chad”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 08:02 AM
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https://www.instagram.com/reel/DPlIkZ5D1vR/?l=1 I didn’t see the blemish on his face initially. However, it’s more the fact that he’s athletic and 6’3” that he won’t have trouble with women. His face falls within a “normal” range, but it’s hard for me to rate black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:36 AM
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He’s not unattractive enough to be dragged for his looks. Reddit would probably call him “Chad”. Edit: I watched him in video form. He’s handsome and 6’3”
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:25 AM
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Do you believe the women who successfully found relationships on apps did anything different than you did? I honestly have no idea what correlates the successful vs. unsuccessful women on apps
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 07:02 AM
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the claimed reason you fail is never because of how you physically look. It is always because you are doing some lazy photo in the bathroom or because of your boring bio That’s virtue signaling and paying attention to what women say. People who pay attention to who actually gets matches on Tinder will quickly get a better idea of how it works. Still, better pictures will lead to more matches, because people are correct that being attractive is everything to get attention on there. The bio is def…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:51 AM
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Lookism has always been pretty normalized, and Tinder has been mainstream since 2014. People will still virtue signal a little too hard, though
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:40 AM
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What "behavior," specifically, and how does that relate to what you linked? Based on the way she described him, he is a guy that has slept with women similar to her before because they’re easy for him, decided to talk to her, and she “trusted him”, or rather got into bed for him easily, because she was in the mood for something and he was forward. "Tinder" didn't create this dude Tinder did not invent sex, but it did automate and commoditize the concept of women trusting complete random stranger…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:21 AM
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I'm slow with sexual things out of comfort not because of someone's "pretty level" There’s something psychologically different about what you prefer, because a stereotypical straight woman very much has “quick” reactions to masculine men. I can’t tell if your preference for pretty men leads you to take longer for sex, or if your preference to take longer for comfort drives you towards less masculine men, or if your environment encourages you to date feminine men (lgbt people), or how exactly you…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 06:12 AM
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Your title and the body of your question are a bit disconnected Sorry, I always have to satisfy a word count That girl didn't ask for your opinion on her looks so idk why youre asking if women realize what they look like without your help I’m not commenting on her objective looks specifically, I’m commenting on what she looks like from his POV. I believe most guys would be happy to kiss her. I think the numbers are the greatest indicator of how women, in large part, have adjusted to men's online…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:49 AM
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I'm not sure what is supposed to change with this "awareness" that attractive men exist on dating apps More of just the awareness of how men behave on dating apps She decided to start dating someone she was physically attracted to This is the entire foundation of Tinder This means he obviously tricked her into bed by using her libido against her as part of some cunning Machiavellian scheme and strategy? Not to overcomplicate it, but it depends on how empathetic he is. I believe “high empathy” pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:44 AM
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You are an at least somewhat attractive woman willing to talk to guys less attractive than yourself, possibly either due to bisexual preferences, or internalized peer pressure of people around you preferring twinks (you’d probably be prone to that since you seem empathetic). One reason you can do this is because you’re willing to initially wait a long time before having sex (I believe you’d technically need “less time” for someone more objectively attractive). I doubt she’s willing to date “the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 05:31 AM
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So was that casual sex or is it not casual because things ended up working out between us? I gave up on interpreting women’s intentions once I realized the body language they give me isn’t intentional. Most women don’t seem to purposefully “flirt”. The way they gaze at or flirt with guys appears to be something they do by accident when they’re turned on, including if they’re a virgin. Some people correct their behavior once they’re aware of how they behave towards attractive guys, and some don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:58 AM
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Men: steroids. You’ll most likely find an attractive abusive narcissist (I can’t tell to what extent this is because of personality vs. the side effects of steroids) Women: lots of women act the same way towards you when they want to sleep with you, so it can be a little hard to judge personality. It’s a red flag if I don’t like their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/26 04:32 AM
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Not when blindly following those biases gets you laid more often by being part of the “in group”. He has no incentive to change to make some random guy off the internet happy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:47 PM
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Only 2 years should fall within the honeymoon phase of a relationship, so all of these will be fine. With my current libido, I’d choose the fwb or relationship with someone very desirable over a bunch of randoms. I want to want friends, but my choices repeatedly prove that I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:19 PM
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I would need you to define the differences between an endless fwb and a partner. Also what’s the difference between the endless ONS and fwb option
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:04 PM
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Being agreeable is a sign of emotional intelligence because it implies the person is empathetic, and responds to peer pressure. In this case, he feels an indiscriminate bond to all women because he’s attracted to them, and due to their higher smv, he “puts them on a pedestal”, as do most people when there’s some kind of smv gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 10:03 PM
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You know that thing when she gets off where she pauses, tenses up, and maybe pushes you out (if it’s piv) or pushes your head away (if it’s oral)? Maybe she’ll lock you in with her thighs? If you get to that, then she’ll like you. Don’t overthink it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 08:36 PM
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There are too many factors at play for me to say yes or no. I remember someone quoted a study that women who have a father with facial hair like guys with facial hair more. Since she shares genetics with her parents, and will resemble them, it will depend on what extent she’s attracted to men similar to herself. Men are harder to read because they’ll fuck anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:59 PM
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“Icks” are easier for guys to forgive than women. I watch those TikTok videos wondering why so many mid women want 6’4” guys, but then one cutie says she wants someone who is 5’10”, and I remember why I don’t hate my dating options. They don’t all verbally say the same thing, but there’s an obvious pattern.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:09 PM
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There’s a spectrum. Most younger women tend to fall towards the “casual, but I need to speak to him at least once in person for 30 minutes or more before sleeping with him” end of the spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:59 PM
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There are “leagues”, for sure. It’s not “fat women or models”. Plenty of guys fall between those two things
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:46 PM
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When she chooses better, its suppose to risk having terrible casual sex with terrible men, but with less attractive than the other terrible men she was having casual sex with before. This isn’t entirely a counter to your post, but: if older women are “jaded”, less attractive, and “settling” for an unattractive guy, then guys are going to develop an even stronger preference for a younger woman who will just jump in bed with him. While it might be vague if she actually likes him more, he will be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:01 PM
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If you're primarily looking at the dating lives of athletic tall blond college athletes, you're not exactly going to get a well-rounded, nuanced view of the dating lives of women I have to specify who is desirable, and who isn’t, because the desirable people make the rules. Women don’t care when incels complain. They care when “Chad” (a guy they actually want) complains. The female equivalent of an example is that men pay attention to attractive women complaining about cold approaches. However, …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:36 PM
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the reason why there aren't many male escorts in comparison to female escorts isn't lack of female clientele, it's because males expect being an escort means banging young fertile slightly awkward girlies when in reality it's the undesireable and marginalized who will be their clients. It’s complicated. They clearly exist on Tryst, although I think a lot of them will struggle with straight women due to their faces. The cuter ones might work, but seriously, the clientele just isn’t that vast. Eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 08:09 PM
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Mainly, I don’t want to ever have kids. I’m not able to put a pin in exactly why I’m like that, but I can just gesture at the houses that cost $2 million if I ever need to pretend to justify myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:59 PM
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I've pointed out your confirmation bias and solipsism to you several times and everything you say keeps reaffirming it I’ll be criticized regardless if I use my own anecdotes, the experiences of people I observe around myself, online dating concepts, or statistics You spend your time looking at that weirdo's videos True videos of tall blond college athletes talking about their dating experiences (the particular demographic you seem hyper-focused on but couldn't get) Meh, I could socialize with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:51 PM
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I’m more of a far left permanently childfree bisexual liberal atheist engineer. I don’t pay much attention to “conservative” types.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:31 PM
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I believe AI porn is why Derpixon is retiring
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:26 PM
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No. He sounds pretty stupid. “High value men” are people who can get matches with looks alone on dating apps and choose to get good careers. It’s not that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:26 PM
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I’m conflicted on whether to get therapy. I think I’m more jaded towards women than Clavicular and treat them in a similar way (possibly due to narcissism, psychopathy, or autism/aspergers), but also, women clearly don’t try that hard to prove Clav wrong on any of his talking points. I’m probably worse than him in a couple ways, and get into long term relationships with people I treat “similar as he does”. I’m also more superficially tactful than he is, although my cringe can definitely show thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:12 PM
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I see men do this more than women though Men’s attraction is more indiscriminate, and women’s involuntary. These concepts materialize differently in different contexts
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:27 PM
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Men are only good when they're being pegged My integrity is significantly higher than most men’s. You have to be nice to me for AT LEAST ten minutes for me to consent to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:19 PM
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They can. But then, why don’t they? Why does a woman choose one specific man to fawn over, even if he’s already committed to someone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:48 PM
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Clav listened to the advice of jaded incels and divorced men. He’s going to land a lot of great women because of it. However, he’s also going to be “that 40 year old divorced guy”. So make of that what you will. Whether he’s missing out on “love” is debatable. It exists, but only if you actually have the ability to inherently value your bonds and relationships. It can be hard to strongly value those things if they’re easy to get.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:41 PM
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Being attractive is pretty much the only requirement if you actually want consistent success with the opposite gender
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:28 PM
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Cool story. So go date a guy less attractive than yourself that’s super nice to you. You’ll probably get everything you’re looking for. It’s very consistent for women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:56 PM
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As a rule, you can get pretty far with only making out and giving handjobs. If a guy ghosts you after that, then you probably didn’t miss out lol. You should be highly familiar with which guys are attracted to you. You will probably have a bad time if you choose the top end of your most attractive matches on Tinder and expect them to commit to you. People “similar to yourself” will have the highest chances of committing. A guy with nothing in common with you who is better looking than you and hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:45 PM
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This is pretty much how I see most relationships, yes. Most college educated women are going to be experienced anyway, unless a guy has a preference for pretty young women. Honestly, lots of people are “experienced” by the end freaking high school lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:42 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1r9e6v4/from_the_horses_mouth/ BUT ITS ABOUT LOVE! Your gender doesn’t care much about love either if they’re even remotely desirable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 03:39 PM
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First of all, why are you assuming most women would date men they don’t find attractive? If he accidentally spends excessive time alone with her, she likes him a lot in some group activity or sport, or money as you mentioned. I’m not sure to what extent personality is a factor. Compatibility technically matters, but people can find niche preferences in online dating easier than they used to. A person of a specific religion will be able to date around easier as long as they can attract the attent…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:48 PM
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Sort of (?) What type of parties do you mean? Maybe parties where some people are making out by the end? This doesn't really negates that quick, commitment-free casual sex is more of an outright choice on there side, rather then something they need to be convinced about. In fact, I would say it proves it further They behave like normal women who sleep with a guy because they’re in the mood for it and they’re gazing at him a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:32 AM
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I just finished 4 years of collage in a STEM subject. I don't think that I have had nearly large enough friend group to serve as a sample, but they consisted of people who are either in relationships, or not sexually active, maybe some long-term FBWs on the more lgbtq+ side of things. Did you ever go to any parties..? I do think there are highly intelligent people who engage in quick, commitment-free casual sex though, but it's more of an outright choice on their side, rather then anyone swoonin…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:22 AM
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This is not true in my experience. Do you have any statistics to prove this? Or is this opinion of your purely anecdotal? I doubt there are any stats on this. Honestly though, just visit a college (or attend one for 4 years) and see who’s sleeping around but also generally have higher-inhibition Not for people they’re attracted to who make them comfortable and are used to initiating. Although normies might be a little sluttier in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:36 AM
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Nah this guy was a creep. Sleeping completely naked around a woman you’re not dating and being persistent with ignoring boundaries/bothering her a lot are red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:31 AM
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Not me, but one of best bros got with his wife IRL after working together. But she said she saw his profile on Tinder and swiped left. Lmao I have the opposite story from a time in college in 2016. I matched with a decent woman on Tinder, but had too much to do at the time, so I ignored her. I bumped into her later and ended up sleeping with her after maybe 6 hours of hanging out Getting a fwb by accident is always a W. Experiences like that blackpill the shit out of me though because I realize …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 04:02 AM
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Glancing at your profile, you seem to repeatedly indiscriminately pursue sex, even when you shouldn’t. This often doesn’t necessarily stem from a need of sex itself, but more likely from wanting attention
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 02:03 AM
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Yeah, an addiction to attention is like that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 01:55 AM
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In retrospect, it’s pretty messed up how strongly people react to first impressions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 12:22 AM
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Because your initial claim was: Fuckboi/manwhore is considered gross to the majority of women Fuckbois who yap too much might be considered gross, but if a guy is pleasant, then I think only a minority of women will judge him for it, and it will likely be women who aren’t physically attracted to him Chad signaling that you’ve been in a frat, and then virtue signaling that “the majority of women are grossed out about n count”, is not consistent. You know how women behave if they’re attracted to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 10:02 PM
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I’ve been called a player before, but that’s an anecdote you would probably also dismiss. I try to come up with examples people can relate to and understand
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:48 PM
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Halo effect. A celebrity “fuckboi” she’s attracted to will likely be considered okay. A lot of people really suck at separating their lust for someone from how they should actually feel. The term a woman will probably use for you if she’s attracted to you is “player”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 09:35 PM
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I hear things like “never argue with a woman” This mostly comes down to conservative vs. liberal ideals. Conservative Boomers being providers in a religious purity culture could lock down women better looking than them with kids. Still, a woman who is better looking than a guy has massive “smv” value compared to him, and this will lead to strange power dynamics of looks vs. money where women are inherently just “more valued”. That smv concept still applies today in liberal cultures, and essentia…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:18 PM
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The baddie some guy pulled by being autistic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:50 PM
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Looks and relationship/sex standards have nothing to do with each other. Plenty of easy ugly women and plenty of hot women who save themselves for marriage. I said “desirable”, not “attractive”. Physically attractive single mothers “waiting for sex” do not count at all. A young single college girl that’s majoring in pre-med, engineering, or to become a teacher, and who has well off parents, will probably not wait much at all to have sex with someone she wants. Desirable women seem to generally s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 06:11 PM
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So why wouldn’t a woman “withhold sex” when seeing the guy is relationship material and actually wants a relationship? Desirable women basically never withhold sex, if they’re attracted to you. They literally just don’t. Bright, ambitious women typically take 3 hours or less for someone they actually want. Ignoring my own anecdotes, online dating visually proves to anyone over and over again how many great women will consent to sex with you within a few hours of meeting you. Women in the USA hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:50 PM
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When a fakewankercel says something so pornphobic you gotta hit him with that true wanker stare
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 04:06 PM
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If not, what is the right way for a man to complain about a lack of sex? Complaining doesn’t do much Illegal escorts or “sugar dating” are the answer for what to do, although I’m pretty sure these are both the least desirable relationships (escorts aren’t actually attracted to you), and the least desirable women (in terms of looks & ambition). It seems like the most desirable women heavily prefer looks & personality
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 03:56 PM
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What's IOI? Indicator of interest, like if she blushes really hard when I talk to her Yeah but being attractive and beautiful is nothing to do with sex sex is like an act. It’s an identical concept that shows why guys would think the way they do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 07:31 AM
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Mood. Tbh the people who trade sex for drugs seem mentally healthy in comparison
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 05:23 AM
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About similar to this, even if you met them off online dating to an extent: People who only get into relationships with friends they develop feelings for, and have known at least a month before sex It’s just that getting with someone you met after a month of online dating will probably have a different vibe than getting with someone who you’ve been actual friends with for a month. I’m not sure how to categorize that, or how common it is to wait a month for online dating (it seems remarkably rare…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 11:55 PM
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Then why don’t men say this instead of saying “if she doesn’t sleep with you on the first date she’s not into you” Because that’s legitimately how it feels like most women behave, and the more attractive a guy is, the more blatantly true this concept becomes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 10:57 PM
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It’s better to learn to gauge by overall IOI and interest than what she explicitly tells you anyway. However, it is a red flag or “ick” if someone explicitly says you’re worse than their exes. Imagine if a guy started bragging about how beautiful the other women he has been with were compared to you, or if he mentioned to his friends that you’re a lot less attractive than his previous partners. That’s an extremely good sign that he’s not actually into you
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 10:52 PM
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https://share.google/45UME0Ln53uYB3JXD (NSFW) Adam Levine is the original guy who did this, I think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:44 PM
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Lat pulldowns with good form of elbows going towards my back pockets on lighter weight (90 lbs?) really helps my upper back a lot in a pinch if it’s sore Lower back issues are harder. I just halfway flex my stomach during all the other exercises, and that seems to work fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:19 PM
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You do understand that male prostitutes are cheaper than the female ones, right? Women aren’t attracted to money
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 09:17 PM
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Sex is how they get what they want from men, and men who haven't managed to stop being controlled by their sexual desire are very easy to manipulate from the perspective of women 1) If a woman who wants to kiss me starts gazing at me even though I didn’t try to get her attention on purpose, then is she “manipulating” me? Does she even know she’s looking at me like that? (This is vague, because even virgins gaze at guys they like. I’m pretty sure women have their “I’m attracted to you” body langu…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 05:14 AM
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It might be an indicator she’s in the mood for that, but whether she’s actually willing to act on it is another matter. A lot of people act different when their aroused, and women’s arousal can be borderline involuntary depending on where they are in their cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 03:51 AM
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What proof, credentials, numbers, or traits would you actually want to see besides my face?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/26 12:05 AM
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I don't know much about women tho, but still the difference in attitude in men is astounding, one brings out respect, another just...I don't know, disgust I guess. That feeling of disgust is also how guys feel about modern privileged women complaining about a lot of things lol. You have to ignore it and remember that people vent a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:34 PM
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I couldn’t quickly find any models with a face I liked better than his, but he easily mogs people like Clav
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:28 PM
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The body dysmorphia gets worse if you hang out with people who are actually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:57 PM
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I think universities just have a high looks threshold if you want to mog people. This is probably what a guy looks like if he’s “actually attractive” https://share.google/4me0Hsz4rH33zADYk
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:48 PM
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https://share.google/DU3vBQhAUh5RbGSt4 Seriously look at this guy for 5 seconds without his flattering camera angles, and tell me you can’t mog him
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:21 PM
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“Chadlite” feels absurdly common if you hang out in certain environments. Tbh his frame looks cartoonish, I feel like it hurts him more than helps him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 06:11 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Clavicular/comments/1r69tju/is_it_over_for_clav/ Clav stands next to one average looking American that exercises, and the internet starts lamenting that it’s over
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:28 PM
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Women often aren’t “up front” when they approach “Chad” either. They just walk up to him, gaze at him, are very nice/bubbly, maybe add in physical touch, etc. They don’t “lie by omission”, they seem to just expect him to know that, since they’re being nice to him, they’re open to kissing or sex right now, or at least within a few hours (about equal to making out at the end of a date).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 01:41 AM
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One reason you feel like this is because normie women tend to be more empathetic and emotionally intelligent than men, leading to a lot of “hints” and nonverbal communication. Redditors are low empathy and often autistic, leading to verbose explanations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:30 AM
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Brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:22 AM
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Low libido people need their own dating app separate from others
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 12:20 AM
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I think gay men may just be more aware of “what they look like”. However, men as a whole are much easier and consistent to sleep with. They likely do not have any “personality” requirements
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:55 PM
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Gay men are more forgiving for looks than straight women for a 100% sexual encounter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:35 PM
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That’s true, but it’s not the same dynamic. If I want to top a gay man, then he might literally consent if I send a dick pic. Women 100% have higher requirements than this, mostly related to looks & personality/banter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:26 PM
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Queer people can’t leverage the supply/demand differences between men and women to get sex. They’re mostly on equal footing with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 10:13 PM
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It was a parody of your comment on the topic of: The mods on here do an excellent job proving that women cannot be incels. If they could, arguing that fit men should date obese women would be considered incel rhetoric, and 95% of the women on this sub would be banned within a month. Femcels often have a preference for guys that won’t commit to them, and incels have a preference for women that won’t sleep with them It’s easy to notice when women like you complain that guys “never put in effort”. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 08:12 PM
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Also women: “OMG!!! THIS GUY OFF THE INTERNET WHO IS ABLE TO SLEEP WITH A BUNCH OF WOMEN SIMILAR TO ME THAT I HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON WITH REJECTED ME AFTER SEX!!! MEN ARE PIGS!!! I’M GOING TO TRY ANOTHER SIMILAR LOOKING GUY WHO CAN GET A BUNCH OF WOMEN SIMILAR TO ME THAT I HAVE NOTHING IN COMMON WITH AND SEE IF MY LOOKS ALONE WORK ON HIM”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 07:51 PM
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So apparently claiming that women have standards, and that a young, single, 5’7”, scrawny, ugly face, not a father, who gives sex quickly, not a "gold digger", a college degree, willing to go 50/50 guy is a top percent of man is atrocious, and is a hate crime now ^ this guy I just described could easily be an incel on dating apps if he’s not good looking, and only matches fat people, single moms, or whatever Change it to a “fit handsome tall guy” with literally no other redeeming qualities, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:38 PM
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I’m up instantly for anyone with minty breath. People who smell leave a bad impression. Maybe try handing the guy a mint before kissing him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:55 AM
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I’m 99% sure that people who say “gym doesn’t matter” focus exclusively on people who take steroids when they say that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:56 AM
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Probably her usual escort fee, since this is Miami
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 04:53 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/Clavicular/comments/1r5krhv/this_is_genuinely_sad_to_watch_girl_hits_on_clav/ Legalize prostitution already. This is getting sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 03:58 AM
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You’re not able to treat her like a queen unless you can toss her over your shoulder I’m not insulting you, I just want to bait a bunch of lesbians into making TikToks of proving they can do this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 08:53 PM
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By the time you notice which women are attracted to you enough for you to cold approach them, you already are probably nearly a narcissist. Idk where the middle ground is
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 07:19 PM
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My libido is too high to reject people who flirt with me If I wear headphones I’ll get left alone though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:30 PM
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Women who “struggle” can still date around like a guy who is red pill “Chad” can. You carry conversations, receive little effort from people in terms of dates, initiate things, get ghosted easily if someone doesn’t like you, can probably do this with around 5 people at once comfortably, etc. Red pill “Chad” to Reddit is a guy who behaves somewhat like this, and also receives IOI or “gazes” from women in daily life Black pill “Chad” (Giga Chad?) gets invited straight over to her house without doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:14 PM
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Black pills just completely ignore that Normal people are also blackpilled. If a guy gets married at 30 or younger, then it will likely be to a healthy woman younger than him (27 or younger?) that still at least somewhat cares about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 06:01 PM
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The only upside to a relationship with an older woman is money, which if they don’t have it, makes them pretty replaceable
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 04:25 PM
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Most men aren't desperate for sex/relationship, their issue is that they want to find someone who accepts the lowest possible effort. If they’re available, then why wouldn’t I? One, they are talking about attractive women You’re talking about attractive men Two, they vet for the lowest self-esteem, for a woman who will agree to less than nothing A low quality woman would bang me after initiating almost instantly. A sane woman would bang me after setting a timer for 30 minutes, or after setting a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:51 PM
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I think bulking up helps you fill out your clothes and makes your face look less gaunt
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:16 AM
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Giga Chad would say: Jeremy Meeks: “WTF are taxes? Gtfo of my face, I’m busy cheating on my billionaire wife”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:12 AM
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For how long? If your bmi is 25 or above then you may be the legendary Super Incel. Wear better clothes, get a haircut, wear contacts over glasses, get speech therapy, improve your job prospects… Fuck it just be a passport bro if none of that works
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 03:07 AM
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Relating to fictional characters is cognitive empathy. It’s probably the weakest type. Stronger types of empathy are when you feel peer pressure, feel a strong bond when you hug someone, seeing someone sad makes you sad & you want to make them feel better, feelings of loneliness, a strong desire to be liked by people, “fitting in”, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:25 AM
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Get a minox beard, wear shoes that make you look taller, and exercise more
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 02:07 AM
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Picture a groupie cheering for her favorite rockstar vs. a woman actively trying to get Chad to immediately come over to her house on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 12:22 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1r2a295/which_relationships_have_you_preferred_throughout/ I wonder if it’s a sign of autism or similar if a woman has never had a crush on a celebrity. Maybe a symptom of low empathy, reducing feelings of peer pressure? In my opinion, this would mean most autistic women are blackpilled, in terms of how they choose partners, since group social skills would have less influence on them. They’d pick partners similar to how most women do on online da…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:55 PM
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Valentines Day loneliness incoming? Pick wisely lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:36 PM
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Most women aren’t that unique in terms of what they prefer. Pretending everyone has completely different forms of attraction and preferences is naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:33 PM
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If they aren’t that into your looks and know you’re polyamorous, then yes, a walk sounds about right (although an indoor area sounds better for the winter). Do guys generally spend a lot of effort on poly women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:25 PM
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Red pillers: “Note how virgin women have lower standards”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:20 PM
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In what world does this happen to either men or women? You don’t notice guys getting women more easily when they do something like become a celebrity, play in a band at a bar, play a competitive or casual sport, build popularity in social events, or something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:01 PM
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Cool, but that wasn’t my point lol. I’m going to jot you down as “hanging out alone for sufficient time”, though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:15 PM
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Sometimes I notice women gazing at me after I’m sociable in some group activity (red pill), and sometimes I notice women gazing at me after hanging out alone with them for a while (black pill). Women who would cold approach me take less effort, women who I would approach take more effort. I’m curious if women prefer the types they meet through group activities (e.g. hobbies) or hanging out alone with (e.g. online dating)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:11 PM
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Not necessarily. Their attraction isn’t indiscriminate like a man’s. It might be involuntary, similar to a visceral reaction, but it’s not guaranteed. You likely need to either hang out alone with her, or be “popular”/the most attractive person in your environment in a group setting for her to be attracted to you. It’s possible to be unnoticed by a woman for years without doing these things, but then the moment you hit some “hanging out alone & telling her she’s beautiful” threshold (similar to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 08:03 PM
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You have to ignore virtue signaling or coping and pay attention to which women vote for whom in online dating. While those women might not “vote” for those guys, it’s clear that women who are better looking than them will “vote” for those guys. Those women still have their version of “Chad”, but it’s someone different than what they were shown, and somewhat predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:38 PM
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This sub connects sex to a good relationship and nothing really else It’s a useful heuristic for men. Guess which women want me? That’s right: the women who sleep with me. Guess which relationships are going well? That’s right: the ones where she constantly sleeps with me. Guess what it most likely means if a woman doesn’t want to sleep with me over a long period of time? That’s right: she doesn’t want me. Listening to what you say requires a lot of emotional intelligence for exactly who you are…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 06:19 PM
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The reason gay men are like that is because “looks alone” are enough. A dick pic might actually be enough for a gay man to sleep with me. Women require more out of a guy. They’ll behave the same once those requirements are met. It’s harder to meet those requirements with women who are strangers to you because I have no initial “social proof” to leverage at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:57 PM
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My point is that women’s attraction mechanisms work differently. If a gay man approaches me, then kissing him instantly might actually work. If a straight woman approaches me, I have to socialize for a bit. Your attraction literally requires that I talk to you. Red pill correctly picks up that a rockstar on a stage will instantly get a bunch of attraction from women, regardless of his looks, because “status” & socialization is very effective on women, but looks alone are enough for most men. Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:49 PM
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Women require more socializing on average than the instant interest that men give to women from looks alone, but it’s still there, and bright women will often skip condoms as well. “All women are like that” isn’t pure misogyny on my part. Nerdy women are like that, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:43 PM
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I just saw a reel from a woman advising others to masturbate before any mayor decision I wonder who came up with this advice first, men or women
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:13 PM
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Baldness is probably easy for most guys to cure with a buzz cut, but an unattractive face isn’t. Natural or minox beards are an approach to cure that part
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:36 PM
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Women aren’t much better. Too many skip condoms with guys they barely know. Statistically, 50% of hookups don’t involve condoms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:09 PM
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My boyfriend is always the biggest and smartest guy I've ever been with. And he loves to hear it. That’s crazy, partner is always the hottest person I’ve ever been with and the most perfectest in bed People should definitely shut up about exes and details more. “She had a nice butt” is enough for gossip people are too fixated on being 'brutally honest' and 'authentic' about everything these days Some people are hard to communicate with because they’re frustrated, embarrassed, stubborn, they don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 05:35 AM
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Men sometimes prefer tall women, it’s just that they have to also be hot
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 04:29 AM
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I think the mistake men make is that they think a guy “tricks” a woman into bed. No, she’s just turned on and isn’t asking a whole lot of questions
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:22 AM
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I can probably only get “infatuation” after sex, I don’t think I’m attractive enough to get someone obsessed with me for looks alone. Maybe the guy can go to a bar and get some woman to feel up his arms, but I wouldn’t call that infatuation, because that woman would just be flirting with the 10th guy she felt up that week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:10 AM
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Most women don’t verbally communicate. They get turned on during their luteal/ovulation/follicular phase and start flirting, gazing, or acting easy “by accident”. Autistically communicating this phenomenon will probably get you rejected. She’d likely rather you tell her you want to kiss her, and chat later Or rather, “just be yourself”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:05 AM
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You’re making up scenarios of virgins that don’t exist to explain why unattractive guys get rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:07 AM
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I agree, but some Redditors feel the need to change my mind lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:55 PM
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To explain to prude women why I would probably never date a woman who doesn’t enthusiastically want to sleep with me quickly, let me reiterate real quick what your equivalent would feel like: Assume you have a high libido, and your partner has a lower libido than yours. You hit a bump in the relationship, and are not getting sex much or ever with him. You have an app on your phone that instantly connects you with men similar to your guy who want to sleep with you Your partner’s single friends mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 11:10 PM
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Imagine going on a first date, things are going fine and you are looking forward to seeing them again then he comes on strong, you say no Doesn’t matter, she doesn’t want me, the next date probably will. Guys with any amount of options are going to pick the ones they get enthusiasm out of
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:40 PM
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Woman sleeps with guys early. “Slut” Conservatives want “pure” women who are better looking than them to “wait for sex”. The ones who don’t wait for sex are likely less attractive. Realistically, the “pure” women likely wouldn’t wait for others more attractive than him, though. I think they run more of a risk of being dead bedroomed, or having a “high maintenance relationship”. More quality time with their partner helps a lot (similar to going on more dates before sex) Inconsistent.” Woman never…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 10:12 PM
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I think if you’re a complete “beta”, then a minox beard, while effort to maintain, would increase your relationship prospects significantly. That or exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 09:01 PM
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*I’m very willing to please women! Footnote: *if they’ll sleep with me
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:42 PM
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The Redpill is usually for men who must use social skills (especially in group settings) to overcompensate for their looks to get who they want The Blackpill is “I went on a date with this woman and she kissed me”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:30 PM
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No, but it’s going to increase male selfishness during dating to levels that a lot of women aren’t a fan of
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:26 PM
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Just legalize prostitution already, this is getting too weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:30 PM
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Charismatic maybe, he’s a rockstar with whatever narcissist personality you can imagine
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:16 AM
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She’s a groupie of his that shows up to his concerts and cheers, but would not otherwise notice or date guys that look like him
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 08:13 AM
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In what way? At my most mentally ill, my attraction is indiscriminate. My reason for trying to sleep with someone of either gender would be “because they were next on the list, and I’m working my way down the list”. Compatibility for lifestyle and body types/attractiveness are down to filters. Which leaves me with getting along with someone. That’s tough to gauge, because believe it or not, if someone wants to have sex with me a lot, they’ll be pretty nice to me, which can make it hard to detect…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:53 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/sugarlifestyleforum/comments/1l8wemr/if_youre_not_a_fun_lay_sugaring_isnt_for_you/ Okay I’m convinced, women live life on easy mode. Follow this woman’s advice, instead of going to college That is how I landed my sugar husband. I don’t work a 9 to 5. I’m in the process of getting my first book published. We own multiple properties and we spend our days kayaking, working in the garden, getting high and making love, going to rope clinics and dungeon parties. If this “overwe…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 07:31 AM
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It is. I’m 5’10” and can’t 100% tell only by the way a woman looks if she’s attracted to me. Women who want me tend to be 5’5” or shorter, though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:32 AM
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5’9”, apparently? https://np.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1qzb59n/this_goes_beyond_just_having_a_preference/
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:27 AM
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I don't understand these types of hypothetical questions for women. It's not like we're tapped into a hivemind and can just speak for our entire sex on this particular hypothetical You would be surprised at how often women respond to the same thing. The “depends on the person” answers will always be boring
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:25 AM
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No one in this sub is going to be able to give you the model or the celebrity perspective lol It was just a thought I had. I know it obviously has a 100% success rate initially, but I’m not sure about the long term. Simply being “popular” in your community might be enough tbh Common sense can tell you that humans have been fucking/marrying people they aren't attracted to for as long as they've been pretending to be something they're not. With lots of divorces and sexless marriages mixed in there…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 06:21 AM
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A lot of consent is about attraction and how in the mood the person is at the time, which can be hard to read in strangers. I for sure know why the women who have approached me before did that, but I don’t know why the women who haven’t approached me didn’t. Clearly my libido is 24/7 and indiscriminate though, whereas a woman’s isn’t, but they on average expect guys to initiate anyway. It’s all guesswork for which women are open to that, but the end result of why the horny women a guy gets lucky…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/26 04:29 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/fashion/comments/1qzj7k7/brunch_outfit/ https://share.google/tWfLWSgdaL9qisTit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:59 PM
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“Men don’t understand what women find attractive” “Here’s what you people consistently respond to on online dating” “That doesn’t count”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 09:12 PM
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So go make sure she’s comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:04 PM
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Who cares? Just have her go talk to one and bang them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 08:00 PM
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Who cares? Just go talk to one and bang her
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:57 PM
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I’ll fuck a virgin, but not marry her, because I only marry virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 07:09 PM
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Dating someone they’re not attracted to, losing the spark in the relationship, and then moving onto the next Dating someone they’re attracted to, but he can get women like her a bit too consistently, and he ends up cheating Prioritizing money, but then the relationship isn’t real Falling for the “social skills” of someone she’s not attracted to at all without the “status” or “popularity” Virtue signaling about “relationship material” Pretend to care about personality, but rarely choose guys who …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 06:17 PM
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If you're into nerdy stuff, you're more likely to be around people who like nerdy stuff What you’re describing are “friends”. If those friends don’t want to sleep with me for whatever reason, then I have to expand out in some way to find people who do. If you value good morals, you'll most likely be around people with good morals, especially when you vet for them Some people will surprise you If your goal is immediate sex, you'll gravitate towards people who are less apprehensive about fucking s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:40 PM
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Being able to identify when she’s like that towards you is the “experience” part
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:10 PM
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I tried to fully put it in deep I assumed he got it in further this time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 05:01 PM
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Depends. If it only hurts when you go all the way back, then just don’t put it all the way in for a bit
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 02:40 PM
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Reading between the lines, I interpret it as his size is at least enough to hurt a cervix, which is normal, but he’s also not sensitive enough to have sex comfortably while being gentle. So he might need a specific woman for that, but not have the looks to consistently find them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:55 PM
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Unless you’re “him” you can’t sit there and message another woman in front of your date. Apparently there are some Redditors where women text their FWBs during a date, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 04:59 AM
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Personally I don’t believe in premarital sex and I know I’m not the only woman to believe that I understand a lot of even great guys will see that and be like “Yikes, no thank you”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:17 AM
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You probably wouldn’t ever choose those guys anyway. Women tend to have a pretty obvious “I must be able to sleep with you to date you” preference
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 11:47 PM
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As red pill picks up, social proof adds attractiveness to men beyond their looks, but a lot of dating is online now, so it depends on the exact scenario
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:39 PM
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Why would or even why should any man take on all the risks and disappointments associated being with a woman similar to the ones he can get dates from at any given point in time, when he could just have sex and ghost them? That’s a losing proposition for any man
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:37 PM
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Online dating automates those trends pretty effectively in ways that aren’t as clear in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:33 PM
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No, but it’s obvious what’s going to happen when most women agree on the same thing for “what is attractive”, and whether guys are going to commit to women they’re attractive to when they really obviously don’t have to
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 10:06 PM
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I can’t even imagine the level of attention an average woman who diets and has no job must get at this point if she filters by 5’7” on a dating app. Short women probably love this dynamic, and then tall women hate it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:55 PM
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I’m not “Giga Chad” or whatever, but I am absolutely positive that almost any young woman who diets can filter by guys who are 5’7” and find some decent options if they want to “settle” Initially meeting people is clearly pretty looks oriented, which causes people to ignore the “personality” side of things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:43 PM
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Dating apps will, repeatedly, teach guys that the women who want them most require the least effort. Excessive “Effort” is for people who don’t want you. However, the people who clearly do want you are people who you can be highly picky with, and prefer great individuals with nearly no downsides. Often, more desirable people = more dates. Women get infinite leverage on dating apps, because there’s no social component. Women are attracted to sociable men, but men don’t care as much if women are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:30 PM
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Because I don’t think I actually can name one single high quality woman less attractive than me that didn’t kiss me when I initiated before? It feels like a made up concept to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:03 PM
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You seem to have an in group bias in your head that women who “take sex seriously” are typically high quality. They usually aren’t
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:49 PM
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Yet, when men observe "female nature", it's never that they hyperfocus on low quality women Unless you want me to consider younger women looking to be teachers, engineers, premed, or whatever as “low quality”, then I actually can speak on “high quality” women. They’re about as straightforward as anyone else it's "Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks is a common dual mating strategy for women! If she wont fuck strangers, that means she's not attracted to them and only want to use those men for their resources…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 06:26 PM
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The difficulty is apparently that a short guy has to pick from a woman who is obese or a single parent, even though he’s neither of those things I’m not sure what’s up with women 5 years older than him, that sounds like a decent deal if they’re genuinely interested and high quality. It’s rarer for women to date guys younger than themselves, though (I’m not sure what qualities in a person lead to this)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:20 AM
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Is she pretty?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:10 AM
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I don’t get compliments on my feet or nails. Otherwise probably everything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 09:08 AM
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https://share.google/MykExnxtCzLYRYHEC https://share.google/U66ERObGvDSLUswTa https://share.google/dcTXL77BAbBp3vYXN https://share.google/Qxl0ucJpDTrKgdWGC If I’m going based off of models, then I’d take the ginger because I’m American, but I want all of them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:25 AM
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If I had a harem, it would be a variety pack instead of everyone looking the same
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 08:06 AM
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For LTR, women who like to sing and dance with lots of social grace compared to what I have gravitate towards me for some reason. I genuinely don’t know how. Nothing physical connects any of the men or women I’ve been with because I’m pretty indiscriminate. I like it when someone with big eyes looks up at me, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 07:26 AM
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You become a man when you decide to be better
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 04:00 AM
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Few men realise how ugly, stretched out, bloated, scarred and saggy even a young woman can be after countless fucks and a few babies. How completely and utterly ruined their bodies become. Behavior-wise, she got fucking mean. Called me useless. Called me all sorts of names. Did not appreciate me even as I am trying my hardest always to be the best father to our three children. I vote this man be hired to talk to high schoolers about abstinence
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 03:09 AM
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You know how you’d see some unattractive guy, and you’d be like “I wouldn’t date him, but someone else would”, and no one else actually wants to date him? I think that’s what tall mid women are to men. Hypothetically, a 6’4” woman with a mid face and healthy body type isn’t unattractive, but I wouldn’t date her. I’m 5’10”, I want someone else But then the 6’4” guys probably don’t want her either. The supply/demand is massively against a tall mid woman’s favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:52 AM
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This is the “Chadsexuality” thing that’s hard to defend against when any online dating platform is viewed. Why do fat women often not like fat men much when using online dating, making it so fat men get extremely few matches with not much enthusiasm, even though healthy guys tend to notice they have no problem getting fat women? Not that all fat women necessarily choose “the same guy”, but the issue seems relatively common
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 02:21 AM
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Cool story. So how should we predict human behavior? Just say “it depends on the person” every time?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:42 AM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/SikeOrPsyche/comments/1qxdyx9/comment/o3vtb8m/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button This is what my life would have been if I had married my ex gf. She claimed to be asexual but slept around a LOT before she and I got together, and she said she enjoyed it. But with me I was always kept at arms length. She would make out with me, take her clothes off, then get upset at me when I tried to take things further. Then after m…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:40 AM
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Observation does not make science Actually, it does. It’s just hard to determine exactly what factors matter if you don’t run experiments in a controlled fashion. However, observable, repeated results are definitely relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:26 AM
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The exception. As red pillers and black pillers pick up on, it’s easier to leverage lust than it is to fall in love. Ideally, relationships should be someone super compatible with you on paper and in personality, but that is rarely the leading factor in most couples I’ve seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:11 AM
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Loss of attraction is expected, but then what is there to do if you can consistently get it back? Accept the waves in the relationship, or go out and sleep with randoms whenever the mood strikes? I’m not sure which one is more “natural” or “mentally healthy”. A new relationship could be formed, but it’s technically just starting over and resetting the clock
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 12:01 AM
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I assure you observing some athlete from the NFL getting sex easily with a bunch of people compared to a random unattractive person with no dating prospects is not “selection bias”. There are very simple reasons why both of these people get the results that they do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:47 PM
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It’ll probably only ever seem like the former anyway. The latter exists, but if you just have feelings for me, and nothing actually in common or compatible with me, it still strikes me as mostly lust
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:44 PM
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It’s cool and all that you can post gifs like that, but when you never have anything meaningful to say it just feels like pointless bait
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 11:41 PM
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How repeatedly reproducible and observable does a concept have to be for me to consider it science? Do you believe any man can successfully date any woman he wants in the long term, with “personality” alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 10:36 PM
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These patterns are too repeatedly observable to entirely dismiss
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:53 PM
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Practical definitions of different desirability levels to a woman: settling material: she has never looked at a guy like this once before or matched anyone like him in online dating, but he had money or a good/masculine/outgoing personality that overcompensated. I wouldn’t recommend trying this as a guy with how easy online dating currently is for women, and taking into account that a woman’s libido in the long term will probably turn this into a dead bedroom relationship material: she takes sev…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 09:36 PM
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I got the flu weeks ago, lost some weight, became gaunt, and my girlfriend started acting distant/high maintenance. I’ve been eating more, exercising, getting color back to my face, etc., and now she physically flirts with me without me doing anything again Both of these modes can go on for long periods of time if I’m not aware of the reason. I have to trust in the process even when I’m pissed off from seeing how people treat me if I don’t maintain myself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:30 PM
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I upvoted your comment. I now think you are a vapid clout farmer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:52 PM
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When “clout farming” is successful, it’s just called content. Pewdiepie clout farmed too, but in a way that worked
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:16 PM
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He’s literally a guy who can afford to spend $100k on vain surgeries hanging out at clubs in Miami and sharing Ketamine with women he likes No, not all places in the USA are like this. Only specific areas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:03 PM
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The sluttiest women are the ones that have screens on their phones that prevent people next to them from seeing what they’re doing. Approach them and act nice, they’ll probably eventually start flirting with you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:50 PM
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The women he’s seen with are apparently often doing drugs with him at clubs (ketamine?) and don’t strike me as if they’re corporate types. I’m pretty sure he’s talking to either some Miami escort, or otherwise just Miami’s version of a barfly Although there are some corporate types like that too, usually they’re not “the ones guys actually want to keep around”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 05:40 PM
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I can say, with 100% certainty, that I am more likely to get sex out of someone by chatting with them for a few hours than I am to ask for it instantly. I don’t have any scientific evidence to prove this than “trust me”
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 07:36 AM
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Just view an unattractive woman’s messages from guys and you’ll see what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:29 AM
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I think being from the Midwest is ironically why I both see dating as both difficult and easy. On the difficult side, apparently the university I went to has one of the highest concentrations of attractive men in the USA. On the upside, a lot of people in the USA like guys from the Midwest in urban areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:11 AM
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You can tell mostly based on who’s messaging women on online dating vs. what kinds of couples you see around in normal life
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 06:02 AM
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