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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| – | Most men aren’t “nice guys”Oh but why aren't they allowed to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/26 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Well , it's more like the therapist would help a person come to their senses.But what's wrong with coming to your senses? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Well , for example , I was able to lower my standards before , so is that really a bad thing to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Oh , it's a hindrance for people who aren't attracted to the people they can get , and they're only attracted to people they cannot get, league wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Well conversion therapy doesn't work of course but what about something like behavioral cognitive therapy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Oh ok interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/26 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?That's true, it's not wrong , but it's been pointed out before how it's a hindrance for some people here. So can it be fixed if it's a hindrance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Oh ok I see. Should people who are having trouble just go to a therapist for that then so the therapist can train them to over look the one thing in favor of other things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Oh but i was able to lower my standards in the past, so isn't it possible therefore if I could? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?Oh I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”Makes sense. But how come a lot of guys see other guys having a backbone as assholes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/26 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”About maybe a third. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”My brain tells me I'm not, but guys say women tend to go for assholes so it makes me wonder if i am most likely wrong since a lot of people seem to think that stats are most likely right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Women like dominant and aggressive men, even if they date nice guysOh like for example I tried approaching and asking out and got more results, and I tried making the first kiss moves, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:44 PM |
| 0 | Women like dominant and aggressive men, even if they date nice guysBut i tried being more dominant in the past , and it worked unless that means it was always there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:39 PM |
| -1 | Women like dominant and aggressive men, even if they date nice guysShould guys try to be dominant and aggressive therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”I don't think i am but if women tend to go for them the most and that's true, i wonder if i am in probability therefore, if that makes sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 06:18 PM |
| – | Contrary to stereotypes, older women are often much kinder, sluttier and less entitled than younger and same-aged womenOh yes for sure. I was just shortening what he meant and didn't mean to make it sound like I was cherry picking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”Well i guess I just thought you are still bring honest and boy cheating, right? So is it a big deal if you decide what to do if she still seems to think it will be fun? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:58 PM |
| – | Contrary to stereotypes, older women are often much kinder, sluttier and less entitled than younger and same-aged womenOh but he said that older women were kinder and sluttier , so I thought maybe that would probably make them easier to get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”Oh ok I see. But you don't like doing that anymore.Even though you say it worked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:52 PM |
| – | Contrary to stereotypes, older women are often much kinder, sluttier and less entitled than younger and same-aged womenI agree that older women were easier to get when i was single, which seemed ironic to me since older women talk about how young women are to easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”Oh ok interesting. What did you do specifically that worked out of curiosity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:21 PM |
| 1 | Most men aren’t “nice guys”I have a gf for years now but that makes me wonder if im and asshole, if a lot of women tend to like them. But if women tend to like those guys more, why don't other guys try it, and not feel about it, if many women want that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsOh ok but it seems a lot of women don't see it that way, if thats true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsThat makes sense! But what should guys do that if women demand they may have experience before beforehand but hooking up with strangers is not the best and therefore, it leads to a paradOx? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 07:58 PM |
| 0 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsThat makes sense. I was only using the term because it was used several times on here, when people say they need to stay in their league , if that's true. But if it's true does this mean that going for someone that you may not find initially attractive , is just part of doing so , and one cannot have their cake and eat it too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Having casual sex will help men have better relationshipsWell, it's been set on here before then, men should go for their own league. So if guys themselves are unattractive doesn't that mean they should also go for women that are nit generally attractive if they should go for their own league? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 02:52 PM |
| – | Men insist on being married and having children when they clearly do not have the means to.I remember my grandparents.Would you say things like we didn't have that when I was your age and talked about how they were poor etcetera. Is it more common for poor people to want to have children compared to more well off people perhaps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 12:20 AM |
| – | I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family.Who me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/26 12:19 AM |
| – | I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family.Oh were you responding to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 05:31 AM |
| – | I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family.Do you find it's common for men to know if they want kids sooner than women as that seems to be the case from what some guys say here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:50 AM |
| – | I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family.That make sense. It seems to me that more women want to have children know from people I know unless o course , the men are not admitting it as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:49 AM |
| – | I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family.Me and my girlfriend don't want kids , but if it's true more guys want children than women than those guys will lose out more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:36 AM |
| – | I genuinely believe most women would be happier if they put more emphasis on trying to start a family.Some women I know seem to have revelation when they get older and then want them. If most guys could wait until the revelation age for most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/26 04:35 AM |
| – | Old people have no understanding of how dating works todayBut if it's true , the gen x men were getting laid the most wouldn't that mean they have the most ladies men to learn from , if that's true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/26 02:59 PM |
| – | Old people have no understanding of how dating works todayThat's true. But it seemed like a lot of gen x men were ladies men , so couldn't they still help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 11:58 PM |
| – | Old people have no understanding of how dating works todayI know a gen x married couple who met in a bar , but I guess you can't do that today ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 08:43 PM |
| 1 | If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out.Oh interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:49 PM |
| 1 | If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out.That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:42 PM |
| 2 | If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out.That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:40 PM |
| 3 | The reason why a lot of men are struggling is because they do not want to date at their level. Below average men should date below average women. If you want better be better. Why are you asking another person to lower their standards for you, when you wont lower your standards?I thought the narrative by guys here was that they've already lowered their standards as far as they could and they can't lower than anymore , unless that's not the case for most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:37 PM |
| 5 | If below average men were given experience they would even themselves out.When i was young I met a woman who was a virgin fetishist i guess you could say or she got turned on at the idea of giving men their first. Would it be practical for men to look for this type? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/26 03:35 PM |
| 2 | A lot of liberal women struggle in dating because what they're truly attracted to and what they say they want are usually contradictory.I was told by my gf that I am unusually masculine for a more liberal guy but I find that strange since I too don't know what one has to do with the other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 07:11 PM |
| 20 | Modern dating is becoming more difficult because men and women are becoming increasingly ideologically dividedMost men I know it seems do not want an old fashioned style relationship and have no problem with the woman working or doing half the job etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/26 05:42 PM |
| – | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.I thought the reason men in their twenties go after cougars is because they are easier to get , hence they lowered their standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/26 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.That makes sense, but why are you women more flexible when it comes to older guys , especially if they are supposed to be the ones with higher standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.Oh okay, but why don't women put a wall on men then if they have one put on them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.Why wait till you hit the wall instead of cashing in early? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.But why the preference over desire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Just because a woman wants a relationship with you doesn't mean she desires you.If it's true so many women enter for comfort and stability , why do they do this uf it's just desperation as the main motivation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/26 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Dating is harder for men in their 30s vs their 20s due to increased market efficiencyDating got quite a bit easier for me in my 30s unless I am an anomaly compared to other guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/26 04:23 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".Oh ok I thought one was a beggar and one was a chooser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 04:46 PM |
| – | I believe that just like how there are "Nice Guys" ,there are also "Nice Girls".There seems to be this newer narrative that nice guys are now typically manipulators but before they were simps , so which is it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:02 PM |
| – | Do most women take the marriage and kids revelation as positive or negative realistically?Oh ok. But men here have talked about how women lower their standards as they get older, and how dating gets easier as a result , unless that's not the case in most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:50 PM |
| – | Do most women take the marriage and kids revelation as positive or negative realistically?That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 12:11 PM |
| – | Do most women take the marriage and kids revelation as positive or negative realistically?That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 03:55 AM |
| – | Do most women take the marriage and kids revelation as positive or negative realistically?That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 02:21 AM |
| – | Do most women take the marriage and kids revelation as positive or negative realistically?Oh ok. Is it true what some guys seem to think that the women will think less of them for having less experience in their 20s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/26 01:36 AM |
| – | non western women are better than western onesWhy are women more accepting of it in Latin America? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 04:35 PM |
| 2 | If a man would actually take any woman, he’d be very wanted.I thought the post was about how guys have somewhat higher standards unless I misunderstood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 04:28 PM |
| 3 | If a man would actually take any woman, he’d be very wanted.That's true but there are couples in real life that are average or below average looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 04:23 PM |
| 3 | If a man would actually take any woman, he’d be very wanted.Is it really true that less attractive women are being fooled that often though compared to seeing what is actually going on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 04:22 PM |
| 7 | If a man would actually take any woman, he’d be very wanted.Are most guys actually passing off average or below average looking women Because it seems a lot of guys are actually dating those women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceThat's true. Why does it have to become a chore if its in a marriage though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Men don’t want relationships, they want serviceI'm a guy and I don't think most women see sex as a chore , as in a lot of women go out and get laid intentionally, for fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/26 12:35 AM |
| 2 | After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmfulOh ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 04:37 PM |
| 10 | After a lot of self-reflection, I realised that men create their own problems and blaming women is counterproductive and harmfulIn media and fiction when the shy meek guy get the woman, It's usually an uphill battle with a lot of obstacles, whereas characters like james bond have to put in a lot less effort. Wouldn't it be logical for guys to aspire to be the physically fit hunk since he has less problems compared to the meek shy guy who has an uphill battle in fiction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/26 12:51 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 12:41 AM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)Not all of them, and I got used to weeding them out back then . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/26 12:41 AM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)That makes sense. There are still a lot of gen Z couples out there unless they just got together through their friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:38 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)Hope things go well! I met my gf at work but maybe a lot of couples meet by accident if that works often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:37 PM |
| – | why does predatory behavior toward young girls continue to be such a persistent issue, with menWhat are men siting to defend the predator specifically? What is the predator normally doing that is abusing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:30 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)I've never been accused of assault when it comes to approaching. Don't moat men know that almost no guy has, if any? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:29 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)JFC? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:28 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:27 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)Oh ok I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 09:23 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)Oh ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:50 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)That sucks! Whats the best option for guys then if online dating sucks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:41 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)That makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:39 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)Pre covid. I got into a relationship when covid was happening and haven't been single since. My mistake if things have changed. Has covid ruined dating a lot lately? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Men are incompatible with long term partnershipIm attracted to my gf even more now compared to 5 years ago when I met her but is that unusual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Saying asking for prenup means you dont trust your partner is hypocritical because the entire marriage system is based on lack of trust.Me and my girlfriend who I live with signed a prenup. I think it's a hurdle of the legal system that just needs to be gotten out of the way and people shouldn't take it personally. It's like taking it personally if you're asked to pay taxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:30 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)Just getting sex or dates in general, I found that women were more likely to hook up in bars or for dates later, and were much more likely to answer the phone or text if you got their number in a bar, compared to online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:28 PM |
| – | If You Struggle Online, Nightlife Will NOT Save You (bartender of 3 years)I've done a lot better in bars than online. But maybe that's unusual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/26 07:22 PM |
| -1 | "Game" is overrated.Game has worked really well for me but maybe it doesn't work for everyone of course? Is it worth at least trying still? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 11:35 PM |
| -1 | "Obsession" internet discourse proves one again how undesiderable shy men are and how gender norms are despicable only when they are unfavorable to womenThe movie looks corny as hell from the trailers and stills but maybe its supposed to be, or maybe its good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:12 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 06:06 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.That makes sense but should guys be ashamed of putting in more work compared to "good gene nepo babies" if that makes sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:15 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.That makes sense. What can guys of lower standards do then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 05:05 PM |
| – | In my opinion, it’s pointless to blame women for their dating standards.It's been said here before that women are conditioned by society to be in over their heads more in there standards compared to men. But is this true or is there any real evidence of this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 02:44 PM |
| 7 | "Obsession" internet discourse proves one again how undesiderable shy men are and how gender norms are despicable only when they are unfavorable to womenThere is also the discourse that ladies men, who get a bunch of women can be seen as villainous as well but is one worse between that and the shy guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/26 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.Why is that improvement though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.But if they are finding the guys good looking for their bodies and height and perhaps larger dicks, then why don't guys bring up this point more, if it's perceived to be about money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 01:05 AM |
| 3 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.I'm not sure because if someone is good looking Does that automatically mean care about the more compared to if they had money? Do looks produce more caring? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/26 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.That makes sense. Do women see it the same way though in the sense that it's much better to go for a man's looks over money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.But is being desired for your looks any deeper compared to being desired for money? Can both be shallow or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Many young men are viewed as blobsMy dating life got a lot better in my 30s compared to my 20s but I guess thats good since you dont want it to decrease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Passport broing is unfairly demonizedWell it seems to me a guy can either seduce mainly with his looks or money. But is money any more shallow than looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Passport broing is unfairly demonizedI feel it's at least a double standard as when guys flex their money as seduction, women don't care if guys do it to western women , but do it to women in Asia, then the pitchforks come out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.And I am not against paying for it , as I understand how some guys have to enough through only as long as they are respectful and professional and all... i just am against the denial if the makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:02 PM |
| – | OBSESSION (2026) was NOT about 🍇, it was about women's fear of not being able to negotiate their own desireIf the movie was written so that Bear was already a ladies man who had several women under his belt but was obsessed that he couldn't get Nikki of all of them, and still when through the same things to get her, would that have made any difference with audiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.That makes sense, but why not just pay for escorts in this case instead paying for an obvious wife facade? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 04:50 PM |
| 1 | People will claim “Just be yourself” doesnt work and then get upset when theyre encouraged to change.I changed and it helped me unless i'm in anomaly and that will not work for most guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Passport Brooing is nothing different then cheaper Escort Spamming.Are the guys embarrassed at all if they know that other people see them for the woman only wanting him for his money or do the guys have no problem accepting this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenThat's a good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenOh thanks! Other autistic guys here say they have trouble but I hope they find someone as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/26 05:34 AM |
| 8 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenWell the chemistry has been much better than usual because we are both autistic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 11:25 PM |
| 11 | Older men don't understand how undesirable they are to younger womenI'm 41 and my gf is 26, so it can happen , of course , but I guess it's unusual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 11:02 PM |
| 6 | Most young women prefer bad boys, but they would almost never admit itIf most women like bad boys, why don't guys just become the bad boy then and stop having qualms about it, if that's what most women want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:55 PM |
| 1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menIs it most likely a lot of people love the challenge of someone that seems impossible to get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menOh ok but i thought when it comes to people who obsess with just one person , they are probably demisexual most likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?If a movie wanted to make a guy who was popular with women and got all the women the villain , would that be possible to make that character the villain or eould he be seen as too much of a sympathetic character regardless, since he's not unhealthily obsessed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menBD? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:14 AM |
| 1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menOh why can't they commit though? But is having a really high account and not committing still better than fixating obsessively on one person who won't give you the time of day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/26 02:14 AM |
| 2 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menOh ok but if guys have trouble, why don't they just move to a different part of the city even? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:49 PM |
| – | If you have to use Money or Status to attract a Women she just doesnt like you that much.There's a couple of women in my social circle who have guys that have a lot more money, but they don't seem to like their guys as much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:32 PM |
| 2 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menNo. Are you saying that guys who can't get over their high school crushes see them on a day to day basis likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:29 PM |
| 2 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menOh ok I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:28 PM |
| 2 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menNo same city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:25 PM |
| -1 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menThats interesting. What do guys say about their high school crushes exactly that they can't seem to get over them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:21 PM |
| 10 | “Pair bonding™️” feels like a self-serving male fantasy about how men wished women attached to menWhy is that or why couldnt the guys get over them? I hardly ever think about my high school crushes unless that makes me an anomaly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 11:09 PM |
| 0 | Feminism was Supposed to Benefit MothersFeminism is constantly brought up here as yo having ruined dating but I think feminism is a good thing, and society should work with it when it comes to dating, rather than against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/26 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Passport broing should unironically be illegalIt seems it the only way to make it illegal in the US would be to pass laws prohibiting Americans from marrying non-american citizens but this would create a huge uproar politically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 07:55 PM |
| – | I don’t want to give him “that satisfaction” is one of the most overlooked power dynamics in dating.I don't understand the concept. My girlfriend made the first move with me and it didn't seem unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?That makes sense, but we've seen movies like this, where someone is obsessed by a psycho going all the way back to Fatal Attraction or even before. So why does this get more particular praise now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?Oh I see. I'm sorry to hear that. I read in the movie that the character is set up with someone else originally, but he doesn't care to be set up with another woman. But do they explain why he's only obsessed with one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?Oh ok I see. What usually happens to the guys do they just find someone else eventually or come to realizing to explore other people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?But if that was not the intention, then why is he so obsessed and focused on just one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:37 AM |
| 0 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?Oh I see. But since movies are tackling both genders doing the same thing, is all fair then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?This is what I was thinking from the trailer as well. Would the character have been better cast if they got a much more obese actor for example , who you believe couldn't get any woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:04 AM |
| 1 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?Oh maybe, thanks. Did that movie or receive the same amount of insight compared to this one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 03:02 AM |
| 2 | Was OBSESSION (2026) a cultural net positive for modern dating and intersexual dynamics?I haven't seen the movie but it seems very much like a movie and not realistic at all, so maybe it should just be treated that way unless I am wrong? But also, if they switch the genders in the movie so a girl was obsessed with one guy she wanted to get and did all the same things, would that change anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testOh yes I see. Is it possible to find out through a fluke? For example , in the movie The Other Son, a father finds out his child is not his , but it was through a government fluke , rather than intentionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:32 AM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testThat's true. Good point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 01:03 AM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testOh okay , but in terms of infidelity or cheating , I i'm not sure what the privacy law should be on that. If you suspect your spouse of cheating, your legally allowed to follow them around to see if they are, I guess but I wasn't sure if getting a dna test crossed a further line in comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Oh ok. Although, I wouldn't aim for a relationship with an age gap specifically like some people may do, but only if its there by happenstance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.Oh we are both autistic so the chemistry has been much better as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/26 12:35 AM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testOh you mean have the conversation of getting a dna test done later? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:31 PM |
| 0 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testThat makes sense. It was just suggested and I thought well that would be convenient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 09:30 PM |
| 1 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testThat makes sense. What's the way to resolve the issue then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Manosphere supporting Age Gap relationships to a fault is strange.I'm 41 and my gf is 26, been dating for 5 years. The relationship is great with no problems I would say. I don't care about relationships having age gaps and what people do is their own business, as long as no one has hurting any one of course, and there is total honesty, but does that make me an insensitive person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 07:30 PM |
| 2 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testI don't think it's as bad as the phone because I don't think that dna warrants the same amount of privacy as a phone unless I am wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:32 PM |
| 2 | No woman who is not already thinking about divorce will actually gonna divorce you for getting a paternity testI would say this is a good thing , but what is wrong with the government helping out in that area medically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 06:31 PM |
| – | it is acceptible for women to dress in revealing outfits only because of male-dominated psyopsI never minded women dressing revealing l and never gave it a second thought if I see one, but why do some guys let this bother them so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/26 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.That makes sense. What is the best resolution then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.Oh ok. But why do guys let this get under their skin though instead of just going on with their day after calling out the double standard too her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.But why do they care if non good looking guy does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:48 PM |
| 10 | Women detest men who “just want to have sex” yet live exactly like that from age 18 to 32 or so.I think its different types of wonen as the ones who are into casual sex do not criticize guys for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How do the conversations about women willing to do naughtier things with past partners come up?Oh how or why did it bother you exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/26 09:56 PM |
| 0 | How do the conversations about women willing to do naughtier things with past partners come up?Oh are you saying people bring it up as a confession of sorts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:42 PM |
| 4 | How do the conversations about women willing to do naughtier things with past partners come up?Tell them what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 03:13 AM |
| -2 | How do the conversations about women willing to do naughtier things with past partners come up?Oh ok but this sounds different compared to her only wanting to do things with a certain type of guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/26 01:20 AM |
| -2 | Why do men believe they peak in their 50s?I ended up being in my best relationship in mid 30s and still going for a few years now but does that mean i peaked at mid 30s, if that is younger than usual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/26 04:14 PM |
| 1 | It's totally ok to be superficial and selfish in datingOh ok I see. Is there a way the critics can gauge a guy's value or they only have the market success to rely on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 11:55 PM |
| 1 | It's totally ok to be superficial and selfish in datingBut why doesn't this matter to society if the guy is single or not, especially if his motivations are the same before a relationship, as well as in one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | It's totally ok to be superficial and selfish in datingI think its ok for guys to choose to date within their league and fai game but who is stopping them? Do guys who have gfs or wives where they didn't date down get criticized for it by their peers? My gf is probably on the same league as me I am guessing; but no tells me that I should get dating someone more poorer, or less attractive looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | You only smash cuz she pre-approved you.Why don't a lot of guys go for this type of woman for more success possibly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | It's totally ok to be superficial and selfish in datingIt seems that society is bothered when single guys do it, but guys in relationships already, society doesn't care if the couple acted in their self interests. So it bothers society when single guys do it more so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/26 10:27 PM |
| 3 | The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth.Oh okay. So I guess if guys want kids, but they also want a woman who doesn't want to work , they will get what they want, likely after kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 04:43 AM |
| 17 | The stay at home wife is not traditional and is mostly a myth.I don't know why some guys would want this. I tried dating a woman a woman who wanted to stay at home and not work, and she was an entitled pain in the butt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/26 12:31 AM |
| 1 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?Oh I see. Hopefully my current relationship doesn't fall into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:43 PM |
| 2 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?Oh ok. But would dating a feminist in your league still be easier than having to deal with the pressure of affording to paying for everything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/26 09:22 PM |
| 3 | There is nothing wrong with being a passport bro, if she actually loves himOh ok but it seems in this case , the woman still will not like him , and it's just still going for the money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:46 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing wrong with being a passport bro, if she actually loves himWhy don't guys just for sex workers that can rather team take on a facade relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 11:42 PM |
| 2 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?Oh okay I see. Sorry my mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:58 PM |
| 12 | I find women from other countries respect men more than in USA?I dated a woman from Chile once and a friend of mine dated a woman from China once. We both agree that those relationships were actually more difficult because they expected a lot more financially, than Canadian women, from where we are from. Feminists are easier to date, in our experience, because they expect less financially, and they are willing to work higher paying jobs, and carry their end of the log, more so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:25 PM |
| 1 | People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thingOh I see. That makes sense . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/26 05:05 AM |
| 0 | People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thingOh okay so usually in those countries, they don't like guys coming in to date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 07:50 PM |
| 1 | People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thingOh I see. Were guys successful in South Korea before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thingOh I meant are the men losers if they are actually being successful at what they want in another country? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 07:26 PM |
| 1 | People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thingIsn't women being against passport bros kind of hypocritical in the sense that they tell guys to lower standards and then they do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 05:29 PM |
| 3 | People who move to other countries just for sex/dating/marriage is a good thingDo the women in the other countries not home, consider them losers or are they actually having success? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 05:26 PM |
| 1 | What if women were attracted to boring, apathetic, mediocre men instead of fun, energetic ones?But if men are attracted to boring, mediocre, apathetic women, do they need to change therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually want children, or do they just follow the expected path?I can see that. But according to guys here or maybe just RP in general women don't want kids near as much as men it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 04:32 AM |
| 0 | Do men actually want children, or do they just follow the expected path?But do you mean average man want kids more than above average men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 04:11 AM |
| 3 | Do men actually want children, or do they just follow the expected path?More women I know want kids than men, but according to men here, it's hard to find women want that want them, apparently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/26 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Men are only loved transactionally if they choose to entertain itI had trouble being long term satisfactory i think because of my autism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 10:24 AM |
| 7 | Men are only loved transactionally if they choose to entertain itI am in a good relationship now but I felt in the past I was only good for short term experiences for women, but thought I was branded that way by them, rather than wanting that intentionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/26 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Women have ruined cold approachingOh ok thanks for the info! Well if this is the way most couples meet, should guys here be worried then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Men Care Way Too Much About Female ValidationI thought it being turned into a badge of worth was women turning it into a badge, since they tend to go for men with past experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Women have ruined cold approachingThat makes sense. And I guess when most married couples I know say they met at work, the relationships went well and didn't have drama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Women have ruined cold approachingOh ok. It was just said here before that people with less prestigious jobs are considered low status and thus struggling more, if that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Women have ruined cold approachingWell me and my gf met at work, and so have many other couples, and they didn't get fired. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Women have ruined cold approachingWhat my friends said in conversation, if that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:55 PM |
| 0 | Women have ruined cold approachingI met my girlfriend at work , and I was talking to my friends before about whether or not it's worth asking someone out in the workplace and they said that employers only care if it's a government job. But since most people who struggle in dating are working blue collar jobs , it should be okay they said, as people do not care if people are dating in blue collar jobs, if they have a point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenThat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 01:28 PM |
| 6 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenOh ok. I'm 41 and my gf is 25. She doesn't seem to have issues with her dad, and I hope not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenYeah late bloomer. No, no friends also doing it. Me and my gf are both autistic so the chemistry has been much better than usual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenThat makes sense. But when a guy has a significantly younger gf and the guy is not much, how does that happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Your social circle is not a representative sample of either genderI think it makes sense to vo by precipient evidence to use as examples yo am extent? unless I am wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 11:35 PM |
| 44 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenWomen often say that guys who go for younger women do it because they are easier. But if they are easier, shouldn't more guys have younger gf's then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating prospects reduce strongly after 30 with young womenI'm 41 and my gf is 25, but I guess this is very unusual, and most men have a more limited pool? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time, Women wont do certain things is not because of coercion, Its because of attraction. and Using extremes to answer tor the whole phenomenaBut even though the guys were concerned or under pressure , I thought they were logically still giving their best, effort wise, rather than intentionally giving a bad performance in bed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 03:42 PM |
| 1 | The wall isn't real. It's a psyop that benefits mediocre men.If the wall is real, it seems that women still get men anyway, so it's not a big deal if it's real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:51 PM |
| – | The strength of the Red Pill is that it is largely a coherent worldview.The red pill talks about how marriage is or more successful in other countries, So maybe it's more popular in other cultures to believe that way? Like another culture is guys believe that money and status much more than in the west , hence why maybe they are more successful at getting women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time, Women wont do certain things is not because of coercion, Its because of attraction. and Using extremes to answer tor the whole phenomenaOh ok I see. If a guy chooses to be mediocre , isn't he aware that is self sabotaging any way you cut it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time, Women wont do certain things is not because of coercion, Its because of attraction. and Using extremes to answer tor the whole phenomenaWhat do you mean choose to be mediocre, as opposed to being mediocre unintentionally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:00 PM |
| 2 | Most of the time, Women wont do certain things is not because of coercion, Its because of attraction. and Using extremes to answer tor the whole phenomenaOh ok. But I've had women ask me more, so maybe women ask more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time, Women wont do certain things is not because of coercion, Its because of attraction. and Using extremes to answer tor the whole phenomenaWell i had an ex once who talked about her past encounters, but they didn't sound better per se. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Most of the time, Women wont do certain things is not because of coercion, Its because of attraction. and Using extremes to answer tor the whole phenomenaBut don't guys do this too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 01:24 PM |
| 16 | Most of the time, Women wont do certain things is not because of coercion, Its because of attraction. and Using extremes to answer tor the whole phenomenaWhen guys talk about women giving previous men more pleasure and better sex, how does it come up in conversation? Does the guy first ask the woman what she did with guys beforehand, or do the women bring there past experiences more often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/26 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Abortion should be legal but the women who unalive their children aren't goodBut can't women and men who are prolife just date within their league and just stick to each other as well as women and men who are not; and just call it all it a day, rather than one constantly trying to up the other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Men who want a "trad wife" don't really understand the game.That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Men who want a "trad wife" don't really understand the game.I tried dating a foreign woman once who was all about being a trad wife but I found it extremely difficult and way to much pressure on me to bring in all the money. I'm now dating a feminist who doesn't mind having a job and carrying her end, and the relationship is so much better. I have a guy friend with a similar experience and agrees that a trad gf is so much more challenging, and we don't understand why some guys think that would be easier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/26 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Abortion should be legal but the women who unalive their children aren't goodI thought many situations are apples and oranges and not everything should be under one blanket black or white principle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 08:52 PM |
| 6 | Abortion should be legal but the women who unalive their children aren't goodWhy is abortion constantly brought up here, as i thought this was about societal dating issues, not child custodial issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/26 08:51 PM |
| 1 | There are some who claim the pills are not political but that seems ignorant at least.It seems to me that RP is about improving your look, money, starus as they say but does thus mean that if most blue pill guys are politically progressive than being progressive means not improving those things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/26 05:58 PM |
| -3 | I think men are gonna have more standards placed in them as time goes on and it will just break them and most people don't notice it.I thought it was the opposite and the standards are getting lower unless I am wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/26 11:08 PM |
| – | Guys, if your girl goes clubbing, is that a dealbreaker?I'm guessing that most women wouldn't want their men to go clubbing while in a relationship, so should guys feel the same way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Men aging like fine wine is mostly a mythIt's been said here before that modt older women don't like going after young guys where as men like going after younger women more if there is truth to the wine analogy in that sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 11:31 PM |
| – | Entrepreneurial guys do better with women, but the reason has nothing to do with moneyMe and my gf are more on the poorer side and she is still with me unless that is unusual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 02:57 PM |
| – | The "Men benefit more from marriage" problemThere seems to br this narrative here that men are generally more marriage wanting than women, but women i know say its hard to find a guy who is interested in marriage and kids. So it seems both have the same complaint and therefore which is true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 11:21 AM |
| 4 | The manospheres biggest lieOh thats interesting. Im in my 40s now and going by women , I know who still seemed a find guys at their age , but i'm also going by some women who found guys in their forties , which was like a decade ago, and they're in their fifties now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 08:08 PM |
| 23 | The manospheres biggest lieMost women i know who became single again in their 30s and 40s were still able to find guys after. So it realistically a concern therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Older women are in high demand with younger men. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?Oh , but I thought that usually of an older woman goes for a younger guy that she's probably not interested in commitment most likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Older women are in high demand with younger men. Is this a good thing or a bad thing?When I was in my early 20s, older women were interested in me more than women.My own age. Now , fast forward to my early forties , and I am dating a woman in her twenties. But maybe it's easy to date younger as you get older? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Should women reject men that don’t treat them like they would a top 1% Stacy?There are a few times when women had sex with me on the first date and others on the 4th, but doesn't this mean that some women are the type to do it sooner than others and there is that to consider as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?Oh okay, but the OP described words like smash Bang cracked... I never lived those words as violent just non literal unless I am wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?Oh I thought it was related in the sense that men make the comments because they take the keadmore during sex, unless that's not the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?Thats a good point. How come women dont want to be dominant in bed as well, if its one sided? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?Oh I just took it was over the top exaggerated description unless there is more to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 06:39 PM |
| -1 | Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?Is it possible that when take it as an active humiliation compared to if it were flipped the other way around , guys wouldn't mind if women phrased it that way? Like , if a woman said , she screwed a guy's brains out etc, most guys would not feel insulted by that phrasing, so therefore , are women taking it as more insulting than its intended to be the majority of the time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative.But Can't a guy stimulate a woman emotionally without manipulation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/26 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Men "lying to get sex" is a manipulative blanket narrative.Since a lot of women are up gor casual sex nowadays, why dont guys who want it just go for them , no games, instead of manipulating other women into it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/26 02:55 PM |
| – | Do autistic guys get a bad reputation for hook up culture because fiction often portrays them as demisexual?Oh ok interesting. Have they said why they are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:07 PM |
| – | Do autistic guys get a bad reputation for hook up culture because fiction often portrays them as demisexual?Oh sorry, could you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 05:05 PM |
| – | Do autistic guys get a bad reputation for hook up culture because fiction often portrays them as demisexual?Oh for examples in fiction, Forest Fump if he counts as autistic, and the character from The Good Doctor. They have high status prestigious careers and should have no trouble getting laid therefore, but they chose to wait for a special someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Do autistic guys get a bad reputation for hook up culture because fiction often portrays them as demisexual?That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Do autistic guys get a bad reputation for hook up culture because fiction often portrays them as demisexual?Oh , are you saying that guys that strike out are most likely going after the wrong type? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/26 12:36 AM |
| – | Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomesBut what about the ones that specifically advertise they want casual on dating sites, etc? Wouldn't guys who want casual just wantto focus on them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 07:34 PM |
| – | Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomesBut why go for women for casual who do not want it, if you do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 07:06 PM |
| – | Women are attracted to assholes and players so they’re the only ones to blame for their outcomesWhy do men have to lie to get sex in today's world when women are up for casual hook ups anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Glorification of step dads is harmful to societyThat makes sense and seems to be the case with people i know. However what do people do then unless go younger or accept what there is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Glorification of step dads is harmful to societyIf women are more willing , why is this aside from the guys having good genes as pointed out if that's the only reason? Is it hard to find guys with good genes that aren't parents at an older age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Glorification of step dads is harmful to societyOh ok I was just curious. Based on people I know , it seems there are more women willing to do it compared to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 04:46 AM |
| 4 | Glorification of step dads is harmful to societyInteresting points. What about stepmothers, any difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Approaching women at bars/clubs a waste of timeThat makes sense. I meant for younger guys if clubs are still the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 04:22 AM |
| – | I feel like straight dating is flawedEven though the women get a lot more matches on dating sites , they're also turning a lot more of the guys down compared to vice versa. Does it even out somewhat more if women are rejecting many more in comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/26 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Approaching women at bars/clubs a waste of timeI think so, because apps you have to do the whole swiping thing first , then wait for approval with many of them back when I was single and on them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Approaching women at bars/clubs a waste of timeI've had the most success at clubs and bars, so therefore is there something to say about that , or could that mean it's true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/26 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Terrible assholes can come in all shapes and size. They dont have to be hot jocky badboys.If it's true that a lot of women go for asshole , if they are hot , at what point do they think , why can't they just find a nice guy instead , who is also hot , unless they think they can't achieve that , so it's better to have the glass half full? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/26 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Men love and respect pick mesThat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Men love and respect pick mesIs that bad to want non challenging though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:26 PM |
| – | Men love and respect pick mesI suppose I've had more luck with pick mes in the past than not but is that bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 06:20 PM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesBut how come people need to be oppressed to be motivated into marriage and kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesBut it seems incentives were better in the fifties, and before , unless they were doing something different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 12:36 PM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesOh okay, but is the birth rate in Germany higher and is the marriage rate higher because of this compared to say the US? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 12:02 PM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesOh but like where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 04:59 AM |
| 1 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesOh, it was just an idea i came up with and I thought I guess that would count as semi enforcement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 01:00 AM |
| 0 | [Repost - Discussion] What system is most likely to replace traditional monogamy in the long term? Open to all perspectivesI kind of wonder if monogamy should be semi enforced. Like as in home buyers , get a discount if they're married etc or you pay cheaper , medical insurance if you're married etc... but it has to be for both men and women to make it gender equal of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/26 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men.But it was said before on here thst guys who are most successful with women are the ones who don't give a f#$k attitude. So wouod this count as having such an attitude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 10:38 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the fieldOh you mean what are you a lot of people will think they missed the one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men.Oh yes I see. Should men call out women more often for generalizing as well therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men.Oh in what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Men often look for a stable relationship in order to have a regular sex life.But there are women who leave guys saying they were too much about sex only, so isn't it but about having a balance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 05:29 PM |
| 12 | Women Deceive Themselves About Bad Men, Then Blame All Men.There are men who do this too , who deceive themselves about bad women and then blame all women, if they do it just as often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/26 02:58 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men in their 20s should date around and play the fieldIt seems to me its all arbitrary perhaps and some people I know end up finding the one in their early twenties, whereas others seem to in their late 30s or early forties so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/26 09:12 PM |
| – | For those that can relate. How does it feel to be aware that your probably going to not have a family but wanted to?What is your response when pestered out of curiosity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 09:18 PM |
| 0 | What is your vetting advice for women?What about men dating awkward women, if that would help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | As a guy, the "mysoginists" are not that succesful as you all make them out to beI have a gf for long term now but that makes me wonder if i am likely an asshole if its true thats what many women are attracted to... I hope not. However a lot of guys are dating women tgat treat them badly as well, so is it pretty even therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | People are inconsistent about masculine traits and behaviorsI'm probably more masculine than some guys, but it has paid off in my favor. If women are attracted to masculine guys then just be masculine and its a win win therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/26 07:38 PM |
| – | Chores are survival skills not gender rolesMost guys seems to be able to cook and clean for themselves, and it's not a real issue for most therefore, unless I am wrong and i'm just hanging with a more unusually competent crowd? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/26 11:51 PM |
| – | If you don’t go to clubs/bars you can’t say you want to get women/being introverted is a choiceI've had much more success in clubs and bars then outside of them. I dontt know any other better path to success, myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | A woman who actually loves you would never accept one-sided open relationshipsI've noticed that couple I know that had open relationships crashed and burned where as monogamous couples are more often happy. Or it seems that a monogamous relationship has much more if a chance likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/26 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Only wanting women who give you instant sexual gratification is being picky too.Oh but my girlfriend waited about three dates, unless thats bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/26 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Only wanting women who give you instant sexual gratification is being picky too.What counts as instant as opposed to waiting or where is it drawn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 07:44 PM |
| – | I feel that a lot more people would accept red pill ideas if they were framed differently.I feel like both women and men want the top 20% for each in an ideal world, but then people realize it's not an ideal world, and most are still willing to compromise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 07:24 PM |
| – | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsWhy are guys against women having good jobs if that's the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/26 04:39 PM |
| – | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsOh ok. But women killing it in their career still get partners though, so the chances of it evening out for them is still good , therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 08:55 PM |
| – | what women think men want vs what men actually want" is taken upwardsWhy do women think the majority of men want want very dominating female partners, unless its seeing femme fatales getting guys in fiction, that leads to the belief? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/26 06:13 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesThat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:32 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesOh I see. There seems to be this narrative that men want children more than women in general but I cannot find this to be the case with people I meet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:29 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesYou mean the women want more or the men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 07:21 PM |
| – | Women don’t owe it to society to raise birth ratesWhen it comes to people I know, it's the men who don't want kids, and the women seem to want them more, unless I just know an unusual crowd? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 02:58 PM |
| 8 | Some women or some feminists only say that MGTOW men should actually go their own way, because they think only losers are MGTOW.Do MGTOW guys still have ONSs or see sex workers, or does that go against MGTOW rules? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/26 02:43 PM |
| 1 | 2 core problems with modern dating: no more clear rules, and expecting immediate “magic” attraction.What about most couples that have found success, if they didn't have instant attraction but knew not to rely on it, likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/26 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Men are non chalant bc of womenI thought women like nonchalant men because it means they are picky and a challenge which at least some women seem to like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 0 | Men make long term relationships unsustainableNice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 04:31 AM |
| 0 | Men make long term relationships unsustainableOh I see. What is to be done though if one grows more and the other grows less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 04:31 AM |
| 6 | Men make long term relationships unsustainableEven if some guys have waning attraction, doesn't the woman's attraction to the guy wane as he gets older as well , so it's all equal, therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/26 01:41 AM |
| 1 | We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPDThat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/26 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Dating is just as terrible in at age 20 as it is at age 30. At best, you just deal with different problems.Dating has been easier in my 30s because more people our interested then , but there are less options without kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships: Most people against them are being disingenuousWhen it comes to the whole people react more positively when it's older woman and younger man , is there any definitive studies that show that it's more healthy for young men compared to vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/26 02:36 PM |
| 1 | What kind of women usually date autistic men?I'm autistic and my gf is as well. I probably would be better at attracting neurodivergent than neurotypical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 06:53 PM |
| 42 | Women rarely get criticized for being bad in bedMen dont seem to care near as much about performance compared to vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Women don't like assholes specifically, but men at the topThere are a lot of guys who are not assholes that have girlfriends, though. So is there still hope if this is also common? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:12 PM |
| 33 | Women doing OF is fine. But they can't blame men if they ever feel regrets though.I don't know why women doing OF is constantly brought up here since most women don't seem to want to be caught dead doing that and it's usually not an issue therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/26 09:53 PM |
| 4 | Age gap posts regarding “power imbalances” ignore that young women have (by lightyears) the most sexual power of any groupI'm 41 and my gf is 25 and I think she has more sexual power than I do for sure. When people say the older person has power, i'm thinking what power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Women’s willingness to date older is a massive advantage when it comes to dating youngMy dating life got much better in my 30s and have a really good relationship now, but can most guys just be patient till they reach a likely more desirable age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 07:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isThat makes sense but why do the guys keep going after a woman who is not interested unless his feelings for her got even stronger with time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 04:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isThat makes sense. But are there a lot of guys who rely much in changing women's minds, who have known them for a long time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 03:34 AM |
| 0 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isOh , you are saying that if guys find a woman to be a girlfriend material , there is nothing to put the woman in the friend zone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:03 AM |
| 3 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isBut even if its the case, can't guys just keep trying online dating, meeting women at bars, etc, rather than relying on friends in their group primarily? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:55 PM |
| 38 | CMV: “friends first” or waiting months to build a relationship isn’t a viable path for 99% of adults anymore and people should stop trying to act like it isIn my experience women are often only interested right away and it's hard to get them out of a friend zone later. There are a couple of guys I know who were able to do it, but it seems rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenThat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenThat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenI see. Could a lot of guys in their 20s just wait then and hopefully things will get better for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenOh ok I see. Maybe that happened to me because when I reach my thirties , all of a sudden , I got more often , and now I have gf who is in her 20s that is interested , whereas they were not interested before hardly. However , can other young guys rely on being more attractive when they get older as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenI see. Why do women like older guys compared to younger if both are muscular , but older men have more wrinkles? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenOh but would they be more at the top compared to guys in their 20s who are also muscular? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenThats a good point. Hopefully it won't lead to any problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenOh I see. That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 02:56 PM |
| 3 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenMy girlfriend is 16 years younger than me, but I'm not rich at all, so isn't it possible for people to be into each other even though there's a gap, or is that very unusual I guess compared to going for money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Age gap relationships are a bad deal for womenI'm 41 and my gf is 25 and we have both said that its been our best relationship for the both of us, unless thats unusual compared to most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men.I guess i would be the alpha since I don't have a lot if money but dont guys have a full mating strategy as well so can it be fair for both therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men.Well she picked me over the bad boys though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Guys don’t actually want women who actually want good men.My gf doesn't want the bad boy type but does that make us an outlier couple? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Which blue pill ideas you don't want to be associated with? Question for purple pillThat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:12 PM |
| 3 | Which blue pill ideas you don't want to be associated with? Question for purple pillIt seems that the tactics are maxing though, looks maxing, money maxing, so is tgat scummy unless there's more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 01:55 AM |
| 4 | Which blue pill ideas you don't want to be associated with? Question for purple pillThe red pill ideas I mostly do not agree with are the ones where guys should concentrate on using money to attract women and the related ideas that stem from that. However, I don't agree with the blue pill idea that it will just happen naturally or accidentally , and you don't have to put in much effort if that seems to be the case with that pill belief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.This makes sense, but it's also been said before that most men do not prefer much younger women and they would rather prefer women their own age if they are true in speaking that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/26 12:00 AM |
| 27 | Leonardo DiCaprio is only doing what is natural to most men for preferring women in their prime over women his own age.Madonna does it too with younger guys , so does that mean she is doing what most women would ideally want to do as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Slutty women are more relationship material than traditional or conservative womenHow can the OP say slutty women don't cheat? What makes them slutty then if they are faithful? Does this mean that , if a woman cheats on you then that means she is not slutty enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Sexually successful men aren't assholes, they just stopped simpingwhen it comes to guys who say that more successful guys are assholes , what would they be doing that is asshole behavior specifically, unless they mostly are just referring to cheating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/26 07:08 PM |
| – | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?That makes sense. It's just that it's only men who bring up the fact that they are bothered by it , but also most women seem to go for guys with experience , so it seems that men have more of a problem with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/26 12:14 PM |
| 2 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderOh ok but when guys here say that they are more about monogamous relationships and women are more about casual flings, is that true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?Oh okay , is it the same with women, and that it's not about how much baggage necessarily but about how much you talk about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/26 07:12 PM |
| 2 | The biggest myth in dating is that women are the romantic genderWhat about when women complain about their guys not being romantic enough... if guys are the more romantic gender, then why would women think they are less? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/26 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Alpha fux and beta bux is literally so hard to ignore."They decided to take a break, during that break she was seeing him and he said that the sex is amazing and primal between them, he saw a side of her that her boyfriend will probably never see and should not see as well." What makes him think women are being more kinky with him in bed, just most likely wishful thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 04:01 AM |
| 1 | single moms are honestly great and have no problem getting a “good guy”What's the usual reason why it didnt work out with the better guys before though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 03:56 AM |
| 2 | single moms are honestly great and have no problem getting a “good guy”I couldn't go for single mom's before because of the kids but kids but my male friends don't seem to mind them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?Oh okay I see. But why do younger guys say they have trouble finding women who want commit, if it's them who are playing the field, more often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/26 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?Oh I see. That's interesting. My gf is 16 years younger than me. But when guys in their 20s supposedly say young women dont want them and are more interested in older, why do they think that is then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?Oh but is that hard to find or a raw deal ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?Oh thanks. Maxed out how though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?That makes sense, but there are people in relationships including my own where but couples are monogamous towards each other , unless it's just their belief system? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?That makes sense. What does society do about that imbalance then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Change My Mind: Both the Red Pill and Modern Feminism are economically irrational. Here is the math.Oh okay , but what does that have to do with this though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Change My Mind: Both the Red Pill and Modern Feminism are economically irrational. Here is the math.Oh are you saying that i'm materialistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that women do not care about past relationship baggage compared to men?Oh ok but why do Lot of women seem to need social confirmation on that whereas men decide if a woman is desirable just based on his own opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Change My Mind: Both the Red Pill and Modern Feminism are economically irrational. Here is the math.Oh I can't remember the last time off the top of my head , but why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Change My Mind: Both the Red Pill and Modern Feminism are economically irrational. Here is the math.But isn't a relationship where both choose to work better because then there is less struggling therefore? Me and my girlfriend both have jobs and our relationship seems to have less struggling compared to couples we know where only one chooses to have a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 01:19 AM |
| 4 | Would you consider a man who has many friends, but has never dated at 25 "socially stunted" ?My circle of friends was having a conversation in two women were talking she found out a guy was a virgin before her , but she couldn't tell. Her friend was then also surprised and couldn't have predicted it either. So it seems this guy was able to fool two women whether unintentionally or intentionally, so its possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 12:56 AM |
| 8 | Change My Mind: Both the Red Pill and Modern Feminism are economically irrational. Here is the math.The couples I know where one only has a job hugely struggle. I don't even know why many people here seem to think that's an option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/26 12:54 AM |
| 9 | Woman in todays Dating are as good or bad as Men in Today DatingIf the bar was on the floor for both genders , wouldn't that mean there would be a lot more successful relationships because they are both equal , therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/26 02:07 AM |
| – | “Women date ugly guys all the time” is just not trueThere's a woman I know who is very average looking, who is married to a very average looking guy and I asked other people in my friend group to confirm and the women all confirmed, he was very average looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/26 11:52 PM |
| -1 | Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable.Can guys just try to go find those types especially since those types seem to be more less willing to be in a relationship and sleep around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 03:55 PM |
| 0 | Expecting women to have men’s libido is unreasonable.There were a couple of women I have met that were complete nymphoes , so it's possible but difficult to find maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 03:33 PM |
| 2 | There is no point in complaining about people you won’t vet out your dating pool.What does the music say exactly that hot guys want to date average looking women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 12:23 AM |
| 0 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"That makes sense. There's a couple of couples I know that are married that are very average looking and one who just got engaged , unless that's unusual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/26 12:22 AM |
| 3 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"But when you see all these average guys , with average women , how do they get arguably successful with those women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 11:06 PM |
| 4 | There is no point in complaining about people you won’t vet out your dating pool.But who is teaching the women they will get a lot of hot guys if that's what us being taught? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 11:03 PM |
| 7 | There is no point in complaining about people you won’t vet out your dating pool.But aren't the men compromising as well, so therefore can't both be satisfied if they are both compromising? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 09:04 PM |
| 2 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"But what makes more women, more attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | "I'm not going to date anyone I'm not attracted to, even if I die alone"This is just my perspective but it seems that men can adapt to what the market has to offer them a lot easier where as with women, its a lot more unpleasant to compromise, if that's true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 07:09 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.It just seems that way if passport bros are so successful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 11:03 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.Why are white guys the best looking to women around the world though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 07:14 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.Oh but it was established before that that money was the difference unless there's more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 07:07 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.Oh ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Men say they want “good girls” but they reward hoesI thought that both men and women are interested in casual in between relationships but why is that seen as rewarding one over the other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/26 01:56 PM |
| 0 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.But it's been said before the only thing that makes them different is that they are more desperate for money unless they have other qualities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.That makes sense. Is the best solution to the dilemma to try to shame men more into not being a bank account for women they date or is it best for men to just own it instead of deny it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 07:24 PM |
| 3 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.That makes sense , but it seems a lot of guys feel that income is their only way to a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 07:07 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.That makes sense. She seems to feel excited and safe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.Oh ok. I have a gf and am not well off money wise, per se , but i spent a lot of time at the gym, if that is the key? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 03:57 PM |
| 4 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.But what are the poorer guys doing differently that they don't have to pay as much money to get a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 03:49 PM |
| 7 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.Oh I see. What are the guys doing differently that they need money to interest women compared to guys that have gfs are more on the poorer side? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:59 PM |
| 55 | If “she’s using me for my resources” was a real problem, then dont pay for women on the first few dates.I though lot of guys don't mind being used for money, in exchange for sex, hence , the whole push for passport bros? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/26 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Do men need variety?I have a girlfriend but I knew that if I ever broke up to have variety or she did to have a variety, I would be devastated for doing so and it would just feel wrong. .So monogamy is where I feel happiest and greatest about myself with the most cell respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/26 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Conservatives are the virtue signaling, fake allies to womenWhy does the dating problem in western culture have to be a conservative versus progressive thing with a lot of people unless it actually is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/26 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneOh I was just curious if the deserving comes from working on yourself versus it being randomly assigned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneBut do the guys put more effort in to looks max and social max , all their lives or is it just all randomly assigned? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneBuy why are guys with looks and socialibility more deserving? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 06:14 PM |
| 3 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneOh well I have a gf for example but what did I do to deserve her than other guys most likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Men get what they deserve in dating and casual sex sceneAs far as the notion goes that men get what they deserve. If men are better at getting something than other men does that mean they deserve it more? Is the deserving based on talent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/26 03:00 PM |
| 11 | People happily in relationships: how did you "pick better"?My current girlfriend of almost 5 years.I am very happy with. I guess a green flag early on would be that her stories were always consistent and didn't have any holes in them. Plus I feel I have more on common with her for sure compared to previous women. She's also very caring about other people and just very down to earth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/26 12:16 AM |
| – | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessOh okay, that's pretty much the same, and there's all these women in the their twenties who still wanted to have kids later on, why don't guys just go for those women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 02:46 PM |
| – | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessIt just goes with some women.I know breakups , but I feel like that should be taken into account as it seems like more women want kids just as much or even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 01:14 PM |
| – | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessBut if this is true then how come when a lot if couples break up its the woman saying its because the guys didn't want kids a lot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 12:20 AM |
| – | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessBut it seems that many women want want kids unless its because i am in Canada and this is solely an American thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/26 12:17 AM |
| 3 | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessBut i'm not just talking about sticking around for the responsibility. I mean it seems that many more women wanna have kids in the first place before they even have them compared to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 11:03 PM |
| 5 | Online feminism has adopted TRPs selfishnessI agree that women put more work into having kids and want them more than most men, yet a lot of men are saying women in general are just not interested in parenthood and monogamy anymore compared to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/26 09:12 PM |
| – | The feminist narrative of 30+ men’s preference for younger (18-25) women being due to their inability to get women their age is one of the most laughable things I’ve ever heardIm 41 and my gf is 25. I don't think its a case of younger women being easier to get but that mist older women are taken and the ones aren't have kids compared to man more younger women being childless. So it's more of a numbers game rather than younger being easier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | The battle of the sexes in dating is mostly an online thing.Oh ok I see. That makes sense. Why dud he think the person was a pug just for that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 04:10 PM |
| 1 | The battle of the sexes in dating is mostly an online thing.But don't people feel more relieved if they ignore criticism in a sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:39 PM |
| 1 | The battle of the sexes in dating is mostly an online thing.But why not just do what they do and block out all the noise rather than envy them and not block it out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 03:36 PM |
| 1 | The battle of the sexes in dating is mostly an online thing.As far as the idea of a battle of the sexes goes , the ones who seem to be the most successful in dating are the ones who ignore all that noise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/26 01:40 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to people who chose relationships based on reliability rather than raw physical attraction, how is that going?True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/26 04:21 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to people who chose relationships based on reliability rather than raw physical attraction, how is that going?But how so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:55 PM |
| 2 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.But why is it crazy? Isn't it understandable for women to want to be subtle about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 06:49 PM |
| 8 | If it was about women being consistent with their sexual behavior, then it would make more sense for men to pursue women who makes everyone wait for sex.I've noticed this as well and the women who want to hook up are the ones who dress the most modestly in my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:40 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to people who chose relationships based on reliability rather than raw physical attraction, how is that going?I didnt get good with women till my mid 20s fir some reason, then it got easier from there. But is it that bad as long as their is success in relationships later on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:37 PM |
| 2 | When it comes to people who chose relationships based on reliability rather than raw physical attraction, how is that going?But why is it that bad if guys are compromising as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 12:35 PM |
| 3 | When it comes to people who chose relationships based on reliability rather than raw physical attraction, how is that going?Oh i'm sorry to hear that. But what was it about sex part that was unfulfilling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 03:13 AM |
| 1 | When it comes to people who chose relationships based on reliability rather than raw physical attraction, how is that going?What's so bad about such a marriage though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/26 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Average men should get a free pass to cheatAverage men getting a free pass to cheat is like saying lower class people should be allowed to steal since they are not rich. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Oh ok, but it seems the guys that are the most successful with women are the ones who block out all the noise? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/26 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Drama keeps most relationships alive.It seems its a balance, as you need some drama to keep a relationship alive, but you can't have too much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women doWell i think both treat each other bad but also both treat each other good and depends on who you meet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Men should be able to treat women like objects the same way women doI feel like both treat each other like objects already and it's fair unless I am wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/26 02:46 PM |
| 14 | Is it a red flag to be a virgin in your mid to late 20s?I know a woman who didn't know a guy was a virgin until later so maybe the guy can just keep it a secret? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/26 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Women's preferences in men seem to be eerily shaped by "late stage capitalism"I suppose I am more "alpha"compared to my girlfriend , but is that common compared to same level in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | We need to go back to our roots, especially womenIt makes sense. But why are there these large calls to go back to the beginning rather than just go back to the more recent neutral time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 02:03 AM |
| 1 | We need to go back to our roots, especially womenIf there is a gender war growing on now for the last decade or so , maybe just go back to the 2000s perhaps, rather than roots where there were women being oppressed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/26 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Oh okay , but is it true that people are saying that apps are much more difficult compared to old ways such as meaning your work or going to bars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?But what about the notion that guys say the internet is too problematic for dating compared to older methods. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/26 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Oh okay, but then how are people supposed to go back to better dating, though, if they are unwilling to take this risk like they were in the past, and the workplace was the most commonplace for couples to meet? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?That's true. What should people do now the minefields are in place , but other ways of dating are more difficult , perhaps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/26 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?But can guys still be advised to join the drinking culture if they want to hook up or date more likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Oh I see. At what point do you guys tell women they are nearodivergent , unless they can tell off the bat? It's interesting because i'm neurodivergent , but my girlfriend is as well so that helps, of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Oh I see. But even outside the work place now it still seems young people still have trouble? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Oh ok I see. But isn't there some drinking culture still for young people to explore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?I see what you mean. I dated older women when I was younger too since it was easier. Can other guys explore this option? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?That makes sense. But what are guys supposed to do then if the avenues today it seems are too risky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?That makes sense. But lack of alcohol is what is causing the dating crisis at the route point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?True, but even in the workplace , i'm assuming that people didn't drink and still asked each other out sober? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:15 PM |
| 0 | It’s easier than ever to date hear me outI've noticed women I know will 'cave' and go for men and commit when they reach their 30s. Could a lot of men just wait for the caving window, and hope for the best? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?Oh ok I see. As far as cold approaching goes, even if it's a stranger, though, isn't that better than a coworker, because then if you're rejected , you don't have to see them again and vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?This is kind of how me and my girlfriend met but I guess people are better off in those kind of jobs if they want to have more opportunities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?I see what you mean. Since the HR-iffication has become much stronger on dating than before in the workplace, has this overall been a good or a bad effect on the population? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?That makes sense. But at the same time, if the majority of couples met at work in the past, what are young people supposed to do now instead, if that was the normal place to meet? Young people say the internet is too tough so that's out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Is there less dating with younger generations because they don't want to take as many risks?But why were older people before willing to risk those HR mine fields compared to now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/26 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Are women who live in rich countries wiser and more careful about the men whom they date compared to women who live in poorer countries with higher birth rates?But in these more poorer countries are the men having less options as well and therefore all is fair? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/26 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Apparently my unpopular opinion is that I think dating is easier than ever.That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Apparently my unpopular opinion is that I think dating is easier than ever.In conversations I've had with women off dating sites, they say they hate it when guys have professional photographers, because it feels ungenuine , if that is true for how most feel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/26 12:32 PM |
| 3 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.That makes sense. Im in a relationship now, and its going much better than usual. However, does anyone have the problem then, if everyone is still desired by some people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/26 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.Oh ok but how come guys seem to be offended by this, if the trade off is logical then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 11:56 PM |
| 3 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.I've struggled for relationships but not hooks ups near as much, but is that unusual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.But this is the part I dint understand is why are most women's standards for a relationship lower, than for casual, if this is true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Being hookup/FWB material is better than being husband material.I've been shown to be more hook up material than husband material in the past but isn't this bad if the goal is a long term relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/26 09:09 PM |
| 1 | 30s are perhaps the hardest years to date (even if you're youthful)They match my looks, if that's what you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/26 03:16 PM |
| 1 | 30s are perhaps the hardest years to date (even if you're youthful)I'm 41 and when I was in my thirties , it was the best time to date , and I have a gf as a result. Unless that is unusual for most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/26 11:41 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isThat makes sense, and good points. My relationship might be more unusual, but it seems that you see the guy being older a lot more than vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 09:05 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isOh ok. But at the same time, there aren't near as many single women my age and the ones that are all have kids already, almost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/26 03:54 AM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isOh okay I see. I'm 41 and my gf is 25, and it does seem to be more common for the guy to be older than vice versa. But if it is more common is the real reason for that, or can guys hold to rely on that if they want someone younger or more fertile? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 11:45 PM |
| 1 | The “brain being fully developed” argument is not relevant in the age gap discussionI'm 41 and my gf is 25 , but as far as power imbalances go I feel like she has more options than I do and could leave me and replace me at any time unless that's just me being naive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 11:08 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isOh I see. So even if older guys have an uptick , it's only for women their own age only, when they want younger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 10:05 PM |
| 1 | The economy and rising costs are influencing women's 'six figure' standardsThat's good though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 04:49 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isOh ok I see. But its been said here before that women are attracted to older men because they have more status, but don't younger women like men with more status too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 04:48 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isTrue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 01:39 AM |
| 1 | The economy and rising costs are influencing women's 'six figure' standardsThe economy is also forcing women to put in their share in the relationship as well, but isn't this a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 01:20 AM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isOh but if its not an issue, why does it bother some people here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 12:07 AM |
| 1 | The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men.Thanks! I hope others find what they are looking for as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:05 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isBut I think also discussing a possible resolution to the issue is also important? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 11:02 PM |
| 2 | The Redpill’s sex obsession at the expense of social competence leads to failure in men.My relationship is the best thing that has happened to me, but is it strange that I consider it the best compared to just a cake level luxury? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?I'm sorry to hear that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:08 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isWell since the different age preferences are causing an imbalance, what should society do about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 07:00 PM |
| 1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isThis seems to have happened to me as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 06:57 PM |
| 0 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isCan most guys take comfort that they will be seen as more desirable when they are older and have more status then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:14 PM |
| -1 | ''Men age like fine wine'' is a real example of a comforting lie men tell themselves, kind of like how they claim the blue pill isI've heard women say like they tge salt and pepper look in men's hair but I've never heard a guy say they like the salt and pepper look in women, if this is a relevant point in how society sees each gender age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?Would this be the biggest problem with how woman see them in dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?Oh ok so autistic guys prefer things to be more transactional, more often? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?Oh , what is the sense of justice part you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/26 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?Oh adapt or change what particularly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 09:29 PM |
| 1 | How comfortable would you be if you found out the person you were dating had “lowered their standards” for you or “was giving you a chance”?Oh ok, that makes sense. What does the other person usually do as a reaction, just choose to stay with the person anyway , usually? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How comfortable would you be if you found out the person you were dating had “lowered their standards” for you or “was giving you a chance”?My gf never told me she lowered her standards for me, nor did I for her, but how would someone know this ever about their partners since a partner would never admit something like this almost never? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/26 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?Oh ok but why don't men mask as much to women, if thats the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?Did they specify why they found them repulsive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it true autistic guys have less success because women care more what their friends think than vice versa?But are autistic women more embarrassed about it than vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/26 06:41 PM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itBut if it's true that blue pill men are more successful, how is this if they are just waiting for women to come to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 09:03 PM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itThat makes sense but why is there this belief by some that being blue actually does help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 08:31 PM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itBut how is it that the theme bluepill is more successful if it's not effective at getting laid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?Oh okay, but what I mean is, even when they settle down with a long term partner or marriage, they still seem to pick the popular woman. And wouldn't the popular woman, have had her share of experience, logically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 03:05 AM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itBut why do dudes choose to be red pill, if blue pill is more successful? Why choose the losing method, if that makes sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Are men more likely to accept a woman’s more promiscuous past if he’s had less experience?It seems that quite a few guys who would be considered alpha male and get a lot of women, keep going for the experienced women if that says anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 02:45 AM |
| – | If you’re a teenager or young adult into the “red pill” pipeline or “manosphere”, there’s a strong chance you’re going to end up really regretting itIf women are burned off by red pill guys, does that mean blue pill ones are more successful? But if that's the case, why not just try the blue method? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/26 02:32 AM |
| 1 | What happens if you put a pick me girl and a simp in the same room?Wouldn't they most likely get along? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/26 05:00 AM |
| – | Is it true European women are more interested in dating in spite of feminism?Oh ok interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 04:47 AM |
| – | Is it true European women are more interested in dating in spite of feminism?Oh maybe, there were just more married couples we were coming across. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 01:27 AM |
| – | Is it true European women are more interested in dating in spite of feminism?Oh yes, I definitely agree that it's better than you can marry if you want to. I'm just wondering what makes european women want to more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Some men predominately attract younger women without intending toBut is society right in that assumption? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Some men predominately attract younger women without intending toThat makes sense, but how come men seem to have more confidence in young people by comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Some men predominately attract younger women without intending toOh ok but I have only heard women talk about it, and men act like the women are not giving young people enough credit, unless thats just my exposure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Some men predominately attract younger women without intending toBut how or why does she fetish my age exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:58 PM |
| 0 | The cocky dude with a don't-give-a-fuck attitude toward life will be more attractive to women than the nice, soft-spoken man who attends therapySome people seem to find my don't give a fuck attitude annoying, but at the same time I have a gf, if that tracks with women being into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Some men predominately attract younger women without intending toHow come men don't believe this about men that age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Some men predominately attract younger women without intending toThis has been my experience as well is that almost every single woman over thirty has kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Some men predominately attract younger women without intending toI am 41 and my gf is 25, but i'm not sure what I would have done to attract her specifically compared to guys her own age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin?I don't think its a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:16 PM |
| 8 | At what age range do you wish women would stay physically and mentally forever?I find my girlfriend is better looking every every day, no matter if she is aging or not.In fact , I think she might look better than when i first met her. I also dated a woman years ago, who was 7 years older than me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:07 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: Can you share your experiences of breaking up because she was too boring?Is it perhaps that most women are much more easily 'bore-able' compared to most men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps are a reflection of reality for a majority of people.When I was single, Ive noticed I've done better when I've actually gone out and met people as opposed to dating apps but is that rare of me and apps should normally be easier? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 01:00 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedBut if you and her agreed that it would be removed at some point , why put one on at all at the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | What I think people get wrong about whether or not men care about your careerOh okay, but what do men who want to pursue women just for a short term investment have to do with this, though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 09:25 PM |
| – | Some Women Are So Obsessed With Older Men That It Makes You Wonder . . .Im 41 and my gf is 25. We were in Italy recently where younger women were with older men even more. So it seems to be a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | What I think people get wrong about whether or not men care about your careerThis makes sense but you don't see guys reacting the same way , and they don't seem to care about how much money a woman makes if that means women must be somewhat turned on by money compared to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 12:14 PM |
| 2 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedThat makes sense , but does anyone have any stealthing stories that they heard about from friends even, to get an idea of how it could happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 12:10 PM |
| 2 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedHow is the condom removed exactly, like the guy pulls out, removes it and then see if the woman will still react positively? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 03:29 AM |
| 1 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveOh okay , but what caused the wages to not to go up then if the case this is maine is because more women entered the workforce and more people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 05:16 AM |
| 1 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveOh okay , but wouldn't the men want wages to rise still, or what isthe reason for them not rising just because there are more workers now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Men are not more upfront than women be for realWhat are the results? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:52 PM |
| 2 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveBut if it was only this neesh period if time, why do a lot of guys think women won't be attracted to them if they have to have jobs as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:34 PM |
| 2 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveOk ok I see. Well my gf works and doesn't mind having a job while dating me. So either I found a needle in a haystack or many other women also can have jobs while still being attracted to their guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveOh ok thanks for clarifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 05:00 PM |
| 29 | On gender issues, progressives have already won. Staying in fight mode is now counterproductiveAnd the thing is , when it comes to the whole notion that marriage and relationships were easier when the man supported and paid for everything. That's just not affordable in today's economy anymore and both need to work. So why are some men even making that argument when they couldn't even afford it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.But if saying one thing doesn't get them wet and saying the opposite does not , then what is the real approach then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.Does saying the opposite get them wet though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.Oh , so you're saying the guys have a chance to get sex , but they think the woman is beneath them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.But how come guys who are not into crime say they cannot get sex, when women are willing to go lower? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.Why would convicts get more sex since being one means low in the money and status areas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys should be a bit gayer if they wanna get laidI've been told I'm more tough than most guys, but I have a gf if being tough helps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | We live in a Post-Alpha world where “red pill alphas” are nothing but mythologized male whores.Even if alpha males are really just manwhores, they are still getting the majority of the action, so they are still worshipped either way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy.Oh ok I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 02:44 PM |
| 2 | The patriarchal agenda: setting up men and women up to fail and be unhappy.It seems that there are just as many unhappy single people out there as married people, so is being single actually better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse.Oh ok I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Single mothers should put their kids up for adoption en masse.Since it was said before here that a lot of guys want to have kids more than women, would a lot of guys prefer the women they had the kids with, just gave the kids to them instead of putting up for adaption? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Does one ever recover from missing experiences as a youth?True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Does one ever recover from missing experiences as a youth?Oh what I meant was I didn't have any romantic experiences in my teen years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 04:14 PM |
| 19 | Does one ever recover from missing experiences as a youth?If it helps I'm 41 and I've been in a long-term relationship for a few years and barely have thought of my teenage lack of experiences in over a decade, if that helps or gives hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/25 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Women who wear makeup have no trouble finding dates. Men who are bulky have no trouble finding datesI'm muscular and have a girlfriend. But can that be a solution for a lot of guys, to work out, or isthat easier , said than done? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 11:06 PM |
| 7 | Apparently even progressive women have a habit of demonizing sexuality of average dudesI have a girlfriend so I am not sharing this from the perspective of a single person but i've noticed that the guys who have girlfriends around me have the thickest skins. So they are the type that accepts rejection if they were to approach a woman, but maybe it's true that if you have the thickest skin , your chances of getting a relationship are much higher? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Women are bad at commitmentOh ok interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 04:17 AM |
| 9 | Women are bad at commitmentOh interesting. So would it be fair to say that more women file for divorce compared to men and more men cheat in marriage compared to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:52 AM |
| 8 | Women are bad at commitmentOh okay , but there are no stats to determine who cheats more between men and women in marriages? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Women are bad at commitmentThis makes sense. Are there any reliable statistics as to how much per cent are caught cheating in terms of women versus men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?That makes sense. I met my gf originally at work, in a temporary contract job, but most of my friends are around my age. I was never boycotting women my own age, before the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:47 AM |
| 3 | Older people are slightly to blame, for why our generation is screwed.Is it normal for past generations to not be able to teach the new generations how to date? For example, when baby boomers were learning how to do date, was following the advice of their parents or grandparents, un-doable, back in their dating days, this is just normal, every couple of generations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?I don't know any 25 year olds in my friend circle, other than my gf. She has friends her age, so I hang out with them, when she brings them along, so far. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh ok I see. Were 18 year olds in favor of not being able to drink until 21 back when that law was passed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?But when it comes to voting on the age of consent , if younger women are below the age of consent , they can't vote on it? I thought that if the age of consent was voted to be twenty five that no one under twenty five could vote for it because they are underage , and thus only people over twenty five get the vote? Wouldn't the argument be the no one under 25 could vote , since they do not have the mental capacity to consent even? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh ok but do a lot of women actually want to raise the age of consent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlOh okay , but if men care about kids and family more than women do , how come women complain about not having it more compared to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlOh okay , but why is it that average men want kids more than top tier men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlOh ok but why now all of a sudden men have mostly become the more romantic ones that are all about family? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:04 PM |
| 1 | If you are a “nice guy”, you cannot just choose to become an “asshole”When it comes to the idea of love bombing, do women actually fall for this, though, because it's been pointed out many times that women are turned off at the idea of men putting them on a pedestal and that that doesn't work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:54 PM |
| -2 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlBut if that's true , then what's with women saying at louder that they want marriage and children more than men and less , of course , men are more afraid to speak about that publicly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?That makes sense. But is it much more often the case that they are boycotting their own age, that that is the automatic assumption with such a couple? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 04:53 AM |
| 2 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh ok but isnt it a double standard to have issue with one and not the other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh well i didnt mean to make women i know my age jealous if i did. I just didn't want kids which they already had, so I didnt mean it as anything personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?That makes sense. So most adult men are just not as aware of the experience then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?But which is it though, unless both? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?This makes sense. If I think of my gf as having autonomy and she can date me if she wishes, am I giving her too much credit, likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh okay, but do most guys who are in a relationship with a younger woman, boycott women their own age when they are single, or is that not the majority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?I see what you mean. Why are men more motivated to abuse in relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh ok interesting. Thanks for the input. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh that's really interesting! Would you consider it if everything else was just as good as could be in the chemistry? I didn't want a date someone with a large age gap like it was a desire, i was just willing to compromise or so that's how it felt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:51 AM |
| 8 | Men rarely if ever care about birthrates and childbearing irlThis is what I was thinking too with guys I know in my social circle is where are all these opposed guys who want kids and care about birthrate. It's the women in my social circle who want kids much more than the men it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?I was open to dating women my own age when I was single , but many of them were already taken, and the ones that weren't all had kids and I just didn't want kids. But also the current girlfriend I have much better chemistry with because we are both autistic so that played a huge part in why we ended up together as well. But I never boycotted my own age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:47 AM |
| 2 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh I see. But as for older guys choosing to date, younger because they are over compensating for something, is it usually the case they are boycotting women, their own age, or are they open to dating women their own age just as much as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:45 AM |
| 0 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?But isn't that contradictory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:16 AM |
| 0 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:13 AM |
| 0 | Do women not give young women enough credit in who they choose to date?Oh okay, i thought most young women would probably have a good amount of experience with men their own age already. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do men want a trad wife.That I pay for everything and she didn't have a job if we got married etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do men want a trad wife.I dated a foreign woman once where being a trad bf was expected in her culture. But I thought it way too much of the responsibility was put on me and there was so much pressure. Now I am dating a woman who has a job and has no problem carrying her end of the log, and it's so much better. But it seems a lot of guys want the pressure challenge, or think it would be easier if they carried the whole log? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/25 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenarioThat makes sense. Me and my girlfriend worked at different buildings of the company, so I guess it wasn't as big as a deal. But since that seems to have gone from the place where most couples meet, to a no no, does that automatically make it a lot tougher , though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Men make no sense in any regard.That makes sense good point. What can people in that category do instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Social circles is a "don't shit where you eat" scenarioMost couples I know met at work originally, including me and my gf as well, so is that the most common place to meet thetefore, at least before the Z generations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Men make no sense in any regard.Doesn't everyone settle to an extent , realistically , though , or at least accept the other's imperfections to a degree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Men make no sense in any regard.Oh in what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 03:40 PM |
| – | Passport bros shouldn’t feel guilty at all the hypocrisy around this topic is insaneI kind of agree that it's a two way street, but maybe instead of being okay, with both sides doing it, Asian women should be criticized as well for elevating white status and disregarding Asian men? Instead of being okay with it, why not criticize both sides? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.Oh okay, in my past experience, it seemed to work And they would back down after , but maybe after a while , yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:17 AM |
| -1 | Women suffer from Romantic Neuroticism and Weaponized Competence.In the experience the best way to react like this as a guy is to call it out i say you will not put up with tests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/25 12:14 AM |
| 1 | If the advices and path insisted on by the current neoliberal feminist-leaning postmodernist cultural institution wasn't leading "average" men to misery and isolation, they wouldn't bother seeking out any other philosophies or "pills"But how does one effect the other since even if a guy didn't support women's rights, he still wouldn't get dates? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guysSuspicion of what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 04:36 PM |
| 0 | Being a stepdad is legit good strategy for some guysI have a friend who is a stepdad and it seems to be working out well for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 04:35 PM |
| 3 | It's really not that challenging to get a girlfriendI have a gf but whether or not its difficult for most guys and I just got lucky, im not sure. I hope others find their SO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 04:27 AM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.That makes sense. What do they guys do later on then usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 04:07 AM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.Are those the ones who are offended at the idea of lowering Their standards here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.But don't most usually cave at some point? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:34 AM |
| 1 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.But i thought it was the way the majority lost it still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.But it's been pointed out here before that men are desperate and will take anything in this day and age , if that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 11:31 PM |
| 0 | The best way to lose your virginity is to drop all your standards entirely and move up the scale from the bottom.Isn't the OPs way of losing it the way most guys lost it, and tell us something we don't know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.But why wouldn't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.What's a male fantasy The idea of men being interested in whoever? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Oh I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Aww I didnt know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Getting a lot more yeses from guys theoretically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.That makes sense, but isn't a woman likely to get many more yeses compared to nos, that the pros would far outweigh the cons of approaching? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:51 PM |
| 6 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Do women actually think guys will reject them or shut them down , though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/25 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many young men think they shouldn’t be grinding for professional success and for women in their twentiesWhen it comes to the idea of guys investing in themselves, they've said on here before that the juice is not worth a squeeze now compared to before but what changed there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Are male virginity stats true?True. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/25 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Are male virginity stats true?Yeah true. But most women in their 30s who are single, have kids it seems, so if guys do not want any will they be therefore be forced go for younger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Are male virginity stats true?Oh judged because I am older than the woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Are male virginity stats true?Oh ok I see. I've done better when older as well, but if its true than women often go for older guys, wouldn't that mean older guys are often more successful with younger? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 10:40 AM |
| 0 | Are male virginity stats true?That happened to me but is it that bad if women go for older anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Are male virginity stats true?When it comes to women going for older guys do most guys just have to wait until older if that's the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 01:01 AM |
| 8 | We are ignoring the reality of gender roles here on PPDBut if most women are attracted to more traditional masculine men, does that mean that a guy who doesn't know how turn the oven is more attractive to most women? Some guys I know who are married can't cook at all and they still found wives if that says something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Most men never have a sexual primeSome women don't seem bothered by their men not having a prime compared to them unless they are bothered by this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/25 05:12 PM |
| 1 | When bad boys come on strong, its "love bombing". When nice guys come on strong, they look desperate, clingy and needyWouldn't love bombing not work on most women since most women do not like when guys put them on a pedestal as it been said before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:58 PM |
| 0 | Way too many people want hook ups and won’t admit it. I think it’s because they want to lie to others and themselves.When I was single, I wanted them here and there, but I had no problem admitting it, unless i'm just more bold than most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 08:56 PM |
| 2 | The narrative that small age gaps (like 18 & 24) are "predatory" is a recent moral panic based on flawed arguments.People are going to date who they want is its legal, and the only way the age of consent is going to be raised is if people protest for legislative change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/25 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Oh ok so what then, or what can they do about that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Its not “Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks” for women to change their priorities over time.Does sex on a first date always mean that a woman thinks more of you though? Some women wanted to wait with me and I got long term relationships out of it where as others screwed me on the first date but then never talked to me again and just wanted a one it seemed. So does sooner always mean they want you for more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 04:17 PM |
| 3 | What's the point of sleeping with someone you aren't attracted to?Don't people compromise all the time and its realistic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | What's the point of sleeping with someone you aren't attracted to?Aren't guys compromising on looks as well, so can't both genders accept that they are both compromising and think of it as fair therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 01:44 PM |
| 7 | Is the average Purple Pill user here for debate, or is it something more sinister?I think I'm more purple pill but I have a gf and i just find this stuff interesting. I didn't even know what these pills were until I was already in a relationship and just came across this forum accidentally, and thought well maybe i would be purple perhaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 01:12 AM |
| – | Despite what the internet says, money doesn’t help a man much in datingBuy is this unusual since if the narrative here is true , that most women will not stand for a low standard of living in a guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/25 01:07 AM |
| – | Despite what the internet says, money doesn’t help a man much in datingMe and my gf are more on the poorer side and she chose me, so I also wonder how many women care about money that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/25 01:22 PM |
| 4 | CMV: common fantasies of the opposite sex ≠ unspoken truthsIm 41 and my gf is 25, but one of the reasons why we ended up together is as its a numbers game and most older single women , over thirty have kids. Could that be the reason why a lot of guys go for younger women is because of no kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factBut women still want men to do some of the cooking, don't they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/25 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?But why don't guys just wait for women without kids to come around unless there aren't enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?Oh ok, but why are the guys fine with helping raise other men's kids other than that's what nature says to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?Oh okay, but why are Beta males designed that way even more than women , as far as romance goes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?But why is it that the alpha males do not want kids or commitment as much to the beta males? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factAre you saying neither then, sorry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factOh ok buy is cooking considered to be masculine or feminine, or neutral? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Men need to be a compilation of masculine and feminine traits in order to be successful in relationships and they are having trouble grasping that factMy gf really likes my cooking, so there may be some truth to that as opposed to a guy who doesn't cook much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?Oh I just thought it sounds contradictory if it's true that women are less about commitment, compared to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?Oh okay, but then why do some women today, said they wish their guys would be more romantic, if they do not care for the intimant aspect as much, as men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?Oh okay, but why is there a lot of entertainment media, about a woman character wanting to find 'the one', unless women who watch this do not think that as often, and it is probably more realistic for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?But guys don't mention this when complain about women not wanting to Commit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 07:56 PM |
| 1 | The blue pill gives you a better shot at happiness, for less cost, than the red pill.I guess this depends on what type of approach is more successful between red and blue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?Aww for sure. That makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 07:29 PM |
| 0 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?But men say how women are not interested in commitment, so is one more true than the other if both sides say the other has the problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?Oh but if we don't want anyone thing then how do we choose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Is it true that men want monogamy and family more than women, or is that a false narrative here?How does their status depend on it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereOh my mistake. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:58 PM |
| 5 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereBut I thought it was the point in the sense that if the argument is moot if it goes both ways? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Men are delusional about how many bad men are out thereI would say that men just as much go for bad women as women go for bad men and it's equal on both fronts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Men should only bother dating women who would theoretically hookup with themMen assume all women don't want to just hook up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 07:38 PM |
| 1 | If you're in an age gap relationship, it's better to charge him for your time.My gf is 16 years younger than me and we are very satisfied. I don't think it should be treated as more transactional just because there is a over 10 year gap. But I think it's possible to find an older person attractive as there are women older than me who I would find very attractive too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Men should only bother dating women who would theoretically hookup with themThat's a a good point. So men are thinking of it the wrong way then if the woman doesn't want to sleep with him right away therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Men should only bother dating women who would theoretically hookup with themThis just seems so backwards to me because of a person is unfit for dating why are they more hookup material than instead of just hooking up with who is better suited for you for dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Men make no sense in any regard.oh ok, but if people like what's familiar why do some people take offense to that such as a vigin turning down non virgins or vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Men make no sense in any regard.oh I see. why is that do you think? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Men make no sense in any regard.oh ok. there are some guys out there who say that they are virgins themselves. So I thought they were wanting just an experience match. But also, women want a guy who with the experience usually, so aren't women just as guilty of wanting based on experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 01:25 PM |
| 5 | Men make no sense in any regard.Well why don't people here say that then instead of virgin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 01:18 PM |
| 2 | People say women should have agency...until they date older men.But is this true though, since many older women are married, etc? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 04:45 AM |
| 23 | Men make no sense in any regard.it seems that most guys are actually fine settling for non-virgin women, and its not something most women have to worry about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/25 01:05 AM |
| -1 | if men dislike high maintenance women then how come they are still pursuing them?I know a couple of guys who are dating high maintenance women.But i'm guessing the women must be really good in bed for them to keep with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 11:40 PM |
| 2 | People say women should have agency...until they date older men.When I was 36, my gf are 21 asked me out and dud tge pursuing but is that not often the case with most of these relationships or would most people just like to believe that isn't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 04:20 PM |
| 2 | People say women should have agency...until they date older men.It seems to me that the younger women have many more options than the older guys and they can leave whenever they want and find a new guy easily, and the older guys therefore, can't have a hold over them, as too much the haters would like to believe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | The idea that older men dating younger women are losers - is a woman's revenge fantasy.im 41 and my gf is 25 but does that mean she likely went for me because her standards are lower at that age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:48 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.Oh okay so it's ideal for there to be small age gap, and it's not a social problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:47 PM |
| -2 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.I see. I'm 41 and my girlfriend is 25 if that is a case in point. But should most guys just accept that women go for somewhat older guys or is that not good to accept because it keeps propagating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.oh just seemed like from what was said before that it might seem like it's a problem for most guys if that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:42 PM |
| 2 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.its hard to say because couples I know when my group are just now getting divorced. I will have. to wait and see, yo see if there new partners are older. One of mine recently got a girlfriend, the same age as him about both in their early forties now. I'm 41 and my gf is 25, but that's pretty unusual probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:41 PM |
| 3 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.oh ok but would most men prioritize a good personality over looks anyway? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:38 PM |
| 2 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.I see what you mean. in that case can guys just wait until they are older for the slightly younger ones to be attracted to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.oh ok but why is it that more guys are ready for marriage and children sooner, compared to most women if that's the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 09:35 PM |
| 3 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.oh but is quality actually an issue though if that's all you can get, as long as its a good person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.Oh okay, but don't most men have to wait till women are in their 30s anyway , because they were in themselves are delaying as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:01 PM |
| 7 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.That makes sense. why is that most likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 06:24 PM |
| 49 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.When it comes to the notion that women aren't settling in their prime and are settling too late, aren't guys guilty of this too, or do most guys want to settle earlier than don't get the chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | It’s easier to change your behaviors and beliefs than your looks and income.I think I'm mostly changed my body around and got more muscular, which helped a lot. it seemed a lot easier for me to do that than change the income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 01:26 PM |
| 1 | for people that were late bloomers in dating, is it normal or just common to have envy/resentment towards people who got to date and have relationships before they did or just people who got to date, have relationships around the typical societal norm of when people have their first relationship?I was a late bloomer in dating , and I had some jealousy and resentment at first , but now i'm like the only person who has a relationship that lasted later on in life when almost everyone else i know has gotten divorced or it hasn't we worked out. so it seems like just because you're a lame bloomer doesn't mean things will always be bad for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 07:34 PM |
| 6 | We need to stop saying men "prey" on women for seeking a consensual relationship.But how's a guy supposed to get a relationship if he doesn't approach most likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 07:06 PM |
| 2 | Men dont need pity or help from womenno I just thought that pity sex was not an option from what guys say here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 09:20 PM |
| – | Is it true that pair bonding is affected much more in one gender than the other?well how do we define rigging? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 08:59 PM |
| – | Is it true that pair bonding is affected much more in one gender than the other?is rigging the game bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 0 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themoh ok I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 09:12 PM |
| 2 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want thembut its been said here before that men often will not go for prostitutes because they want the women to want them. So if men really want the women to want them, doesn't that mean they want them to be pleasured? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 11:21 PM |
| 3 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themAre you saying that most men do not care about a woman's pleasure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:30 PM |
| 0 | 20 year old women don't want middle aged or geriatric men the way these men want themMy gf is 25 and I'm 41 but she seems attracted to me the exact same way women, my own age have been unless of course, there is an alternative explanation to that , mostly likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:29 PM |
| -4 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?If women think it's degrading to be thought of as a mother as the most important job , the conservative men would also be fathers though , so wouldn't they be in the same boat therefore? If we are talking about a relationship where the woman doesn't work at all why most people can't afford that kind of relationship so it's not even an issue for most couples therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that pair bonding is affected much more in one gender than the other?oh ok but why are women not as vocal about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that pair bonding is affected much more in one gender than the other?In which way that women don't worry about those much as men do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:02 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about extreme age gap relationships?yeah for sure. It's bizarre. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about extreme age gap relationships?I'm 41 and my gf is 25. That's pushing if for me and I wouldn't go much further. I think it can be ok as long as the chemistry is really good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.is it true what is said here that women settle much more than vice versa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 01:42 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.Oh okay for some reason , I am hugely turned on by personality sexual components but looks have to be a part of it to a degree for sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.does a woman ever turn you on if she has hot sexual components to her personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 05:05 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how unattractive people can stand to have sex with each other.I can't speak for everyone but for me , my attraction two women as largely personality based. I used to only go for physical mostly when I was a virgin but after I started having sex, it became much more personality based. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.Oh okay.So most cultures that are doing well on child birth population are not caring about their kids so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.but why do poor people care less, just a sense of hopelessness and nothing to lose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 07:31 PM |
| – | Is being a "passportbros" really a bad thing?dying in what way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.That makes, sense but it's been pointed out here before how other countries and other cultures are able to do it earlier if they have something different in their system? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Men are cooked, new study shows men are the ones with the biological clock, not women.What is society much rather want to go back to having kids earlier and have a system set up so that can it van happen earlier, rather than do all that much more complicated stuff? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?That makes sense, but when it comes to women that have a lot of guys in their experience, is it just fun to connect with lots of them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Slut shamers - would you be happier under strict Sharia Law where casual sex and imodesty are illegal?As a guy, i understand why guys like to get laid because it's a big accomplishment and hard to do, but for a woman who does it with many guys, what would be her main motivation if it's so easy for a woman, just pure strong lust and that's it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Chasing casual sex for men is more about ego than pleasure.but isnt chasing sex for women also about ego primarily as well or no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:34 PM |
| – | They’re A lot of Misconceptions About Dating Apps.I met my long-term girlfriend at work. But it seems most people older than the millennial generation have met their partners this way if that is the best place to meet if most have successful relationships have met this way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Men who dated "experienced" women, how do you deal with the fact that your partner likely hooked up with guys hotter than you?Whenever a woman found out she has more partners, she would become uninterested and it wouldn't work out. I've only had serious relationships with women who were on my level or below it, that were interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 03:29 PM |
| 3 | No, women don't wanna be mothers not because environment is bad.that's good. would a lot of americans consider going there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:31 PM |
| 4 | No, women don't wanna be mothers not because environment is bad.My woman friends say the main reason is it costs too much in today's economy if that's the most common reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 11:06 PM |
| 5 | The idea that women don't enjoy sex, comes from male sexuality being demonize in society.But what about women who actually go out and get laid themselves and take the initiative if guys should go for these women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Given how marriage benefits men at the expense of women, is it time to abolish marriage?if marriage benefits men to the expense of women, then how come the majority of women still want to get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Men are cowards on abortionI would say when it comes to men i know, the majority seems to be totally for abortion, because they don't like the idea of accidental pregnancy and having to deal with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/25 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex?but how do dating apps make it worse exactly though? just because you are on an app how does that make it more delusional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex?that makes sense. does it often work out that both people are happy with what they can get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex?that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex?But since most guys are forced to lower their standards too, aren't the women their consolation prize too, so both are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you think not using recreational drugs and alcohol can be a barrier to pursuing recreational sex?that makes sense but there are athletic guys that still party, me included, unless we are doing something different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | ”Women are freeloading and ungrateful”oh thanks. interesting. I'm Canadian and 6 feet about, but not sure if it's easier in Canada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 04:14 AM |
| 1 | ”Women are freeloading and ungrateful”Im more on the poorer side but have a gf, and find it easier to date someone that is not in it for money as a result, but is this difficult for most guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | ”Women are freeloading and ungrateful”but since a lot of women seem insulted at the idea of being provided for, wouldn't guys be giving up more options in that way because they're are only going for a select few type of old fashioned women? But also, in my experience the women that wanted provision were even harder to get because of the money challenge there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 01:12 AM |
| 2 | ”Women are freeloading and ungrateful”so they are more willing to go for freeloaders you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 12:42 AM |
| 2 | ”Women are freeloading and ungrateful”Song women are insulted at the idea of freeloaders, but can guys go for these women therefore, if they don't want a freeloader? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Do you think not using recreational drugs and alcohol can be a barrier to pursuing recreational sex?im a guy who partied when single and got sex, but is partying too much of a price for many guys to pay nowadays? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Why it's not "paranoia" when men worry about being taken advantage of financiallysometimes its paranoia with some people when everything seems fine, but with others , they don't see it coming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating Strategyoh is this comment for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/25 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyOh i'm so sorry to hear that. I hope things get better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyOh okay. but to the OPs point Why do some think there is a conspiracy involved ifsome might see it that way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyOh I mean , waiting for the results to get better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyThat makes sense , but since a lot of guys do not seem confident is the best to tell them it will get better in their thirties while they still try? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyThat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyThat makes sense. what makes the partner unattainable in their twenties? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyOh yes, this makes sense, still dating your 20s, but wait till it gets better in the sense that women will want something serious in their 30s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 07:58 PM |
| 4 | Male vs Female Mating Strategy Is Really Younger vs Older Mating StrategyI've noticed dating for me was easier when I I reached my 30s, but is the best advice to young people to just wait until you're thirties and it will get a lot better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 06:54 PM |
| 5 | You have two options - which one would you go for?Do I have to monogamously commit to option 2 or is it more of a fwb, no strings attacked arrangement for both of us? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeSorry I read it wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeIsn't that what you meant? or did you mean they will be the ones left behind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/25 12:08 AM |
| 1 | The Manosphere doesn't care about men's issues Vol III: Trump's military policeBut why are more poorer undesirables more physically fit, if that's the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/25 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problemsoh ok, interesting. im not sure if i would make a good wing man but maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Male promiscuity is the source of all of men's dating problemsI'm a guy who has a girlfriend and I choose to be monogamous with my girlfriend, but is there anything more, that monogamous guys can do to help the situation for other guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/25 02:49 PM |
| – | Is picking up girls worth it when your aim is to get married and have a nuclear family?don't you still have to pick up lots to find The One likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/25 11:23 PM |
| 1 | If you're autistic, just lean into the aloofness and play the asshole gameim autistic and have a gf. perhaps I played the asshole game or its possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/25 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.oh I was just wondering how common the OPs since maybe I can relate with my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 05:02 PM |
| 3 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.oh ok interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 01:28 AM |
| 9 | The fact that most women don't want to date bisexual men is a great litmus test to show how much women actually do care about male gender roles. Contrary to popular beliefs.im straight male and dating a bi female. I don't fear she will want leave or cheat more likely because of it, unless that makes me different than most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | who is more valuable to you, a prostitute or a regular slut?Depends what defines 'slut'. some people call a person that if they just have a bunch of experience but what if they are still completely faithful and loyal in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/25 02:53 PM |
| – | Women giving themselves to bad men...its actually a revolutionary act against organized oppression by systems that hate individuality and autonomy. Women are just doing their job. It is biological.what do you mean by contracts in this context? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandrythat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 06:32 PM |
| 1 | The idea that women lose value by having sex with men incentivizes misandryWell it seems men need to stop valuing a woman based on too much experience and women need to stop valuing men by not enough experience. But who's going to budge first if both need to budge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/25 04:59 PM |
| 3 | People who want to be in relationships, don't engage in these discussions/debates. tl;dr of my Debate point at the end.same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?true. so are overseas women easier just because of money and that's it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/25 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?oh ok but a lot of guys also say this doesn't seem to be working? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Let me explain to you why, both practically and biblically, being pro choice is common sense.I don't understand why there is this man versus woman going on when it comes to abortion because most men I know want the woman to get one once unintended pregnancy happens, and most women I know have decided to not get one. therefore more men wouldn't be anti abortion it seems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?but i a mean they seem looksmatched unless im wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?Oh i'm not sure but I do see a lot of average looking couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?what should average guys do in that case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?oh but a lot of women do not hold a grudge against a the whole gender though so why not go for those ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 06:59 PM |
| 9 | Why should women treat you like a Chad ?I agree with this that people should go for their looks matches and treat them well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?That makes sense. if that's the case then how come a lot of guys are having trouble and saying it's because of women having too high of standards only going for the top? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?oh ok but what does living paycheck to paycheck have to with dating problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?Oh I have a gf but thanks! But also, wouldn't a guy working from paycheck to paycheck have to act more bad boy-ish to be more attractive, to make up for less money? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 03:38 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsoh ok that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/25 03:31 AM |
| 6 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsHow is today's society making new mothers desolate and dependent more than before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 09:21 PM |
| 6 | It doesn't make sense for some people and society to still expect that men should be the providers in heterosexual relationshipsI know 2 couples where the guy is the provider and the woman does not work. however, the couples struggle financially compared to other couples and cannot do as much compared to other couples. So there is a disadvantage there for sure. I don't know why some guys think being the sole provider would be easier for a relationship, when it disadvantages them, money wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Men should just pay for submissionbut whats the reason for this false narrative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Men should just pay for submissionWhy is there this narrative that women are more submissive when it comes to sex therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 02:34 PM |
| 9 | Men should just pay for submissionBut aren't both equally submissive during sex though, in a sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/25 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?it seems that way with me as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?This is interesting because other guys on here say being a bad boy only works if you're handsome. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?this makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?yeah maybe, but mostly going by what has been said here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?oh but are women more about propaganda and repression than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?oh I see. are there any common qualities though? But when women use the term what do they mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?that makes sense. not venting, just curious about the whole thing, and people's struggle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?she says she likes my assertiveness and confidence but are these the bad boy qualities people talk about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?But if they are shut ins, what are they doing with their shot in time? can't they do those things with that time too to get used to it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?this is what I thought, a rebel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?I'm not sure what one is to me. I just thought that if most women like it, then how bad could it be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?oh i didn't mean to take long to respond.It's just a lot of responses came in more faster than I thought. I'm not sure what one is to me. I just thought that if most women like it, then how bad could it be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:27 AM |
| 5 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?but if the women do not care about the guys ethics and will find him more attractive if he adjusted them does that mean that maybe he was too prudish to begin with likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:25 AM |
| 0 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?what are the bad boys doing that are more attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:19 AM |
| 0 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?I have a gf but does that mean I most likely am one of that is what most women go for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?but if that's all it is, why do some guys find it just undoable? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Should guys feel bad about being bad boys if women want that of them?but are bad boys really criminals and gangbangees since most criminals and gangbangers get caught where as women date guys who are on the street for a relatively long amount of time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/25 01:06 AM |
| 0 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?But there are guys who seem to be playing and winning though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.oh ok but what is the likely reason a single woman would say it compared to one in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Most women who say they are sapio sexual are not actually sapiosexual.if its true that people say that they are sapio sexual in an effort to cover up that their partner is not very attractive looking, wouldn't it look better to others to just say you're attracted to your partner anyway, for who they are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?oh why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 12:15 PM |
| 0 | “Women always choose bad boys” is a pretty bad exaggerationThis is what I thought is well. if guys want to be more attractive to women can't they just be a party boy or is that too hard of a lifestyle change? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?when people say nice guys finish last I think they just mean guys who simp? I have a gf but I hope that doesn't likely make me an asshole, if that's the usual reason women go for a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 05:42 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic malesoh ok. why do most women consider the white guys to be the most attractive if that's true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 05:46 AM |
| 3 | I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic malesOh I had trouble in school so I was taken to a specialist and I was diagnosed with it when I was young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 05:45 AM |
| 3 | I'm starting to believe that the "women are only attracted to the top 20% of attractive men" rule is only true for Autistic malesim autistic and have a gf. However, I'm tall and managed to lookmaxxed over the years but could that he the main cause as to why I am in a relationship, compared to neurotypical guys who may have more 'personality '? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 12:55 AM |
| – | Gender Wars : Revenge of the Simpsoh ok so I guess if neither feel that they couldn't do better then no one should feel bad if it doesn't work out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Gender Wars : Revenge of the Simpsthere are three guys i know personally where I think their SOs are with them mainly for the money. However, two of those guys seem needy about it like they think they will not get a better deal either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?oh ok that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?I had more success in the bar back in my day, but I haven't been single for years so could have changed by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?Okay what is the clear cut one for women? I too would definitely prefer that and my girlfriend is bi. i would be heartbroken if she cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:30 PM |
| 3 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?that makes sense. so apps are the better option then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?oh you mean like whether most women would prefer if a guy is a cheater or is bi? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?But isn't that like saying why bother to eat when I can just watch the cooking network? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?sorry, are you asking if women are open to cheating more compared to men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?because I dont believe in cheating in a relationship. i would be heartbroken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:56 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: Would you rather find out your SO is cheating? Or is bi?much much rather bi than cheating, no question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityoh yes, I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 05:02 PM |
| 9 | Modern feminism is female supremacy, feminists don't actually want equalityIf both sides shame each other, isn't that a good thing in terms of equality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Women have baggage because of men, wow things finally make sensethis makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Women have baggage because of men, wow things finally make senseWhen it comes to the idea that guys do not want.Women with baggage are within the same way and try to avoid guys with the baggage as well? Or is it the opposite, and a man having baggage adds to his attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Most women dont desire assholes as boyfriends. Most people dont even want to be friends with assholes.that makes sense. Should autistic guys concentrate on looksmaxxing then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Most women dont desire assholes as boyfriends. Most people dont even want to be friends with assholes.oh ok. but if this is the case then how come you guys with supposedly more good parts lose out like they say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Most women dont desire assholes as boyfriends. Most people dont even want to be friends with assholes.Oh but are you saying that the assholes get women to submit through fear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Most women dont desire assholes as boyfriends. Most people dont even want to be friends with assholes.But why wouldn't they care? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 02:33 PM |
| 3 | Most women dont desire assholes as boyfriends. Most people dont even want to be friends with assholes.but why do they want a guy who who has a history being an ass to everyone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateBut what is the best solution for those guys, just looksmaxxing mainly, rather than money maxxing in other nations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/25 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateoh yes I see. but what are men supposed to do if only desperate women will go for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?oh sorry could you elaborate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?But isn't that a good thing right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.oh ok so more women are creeped out by no matter what the genders and more men are not creeped out by it, no matter which? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?But how long will it take people to get over that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Is it common for men to fantasize about being with a billionaire?If why do women care about social status a lot more than men unless men just have higher self esteem biologically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.So people are bothered by older men hooking up with younger woman because it means something in comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.oh ok. i don't really see the big deal about the age but I guess I am missing something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.well it has been pointed out here how women seem intimidated by it, if that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.that.makes sense. im 41 and my gf is 25, but a lot of women my age are not single and the ones that all have kids. but if I don't want kids, should womrn my age take it personal if a lot of more women in their twenties happen to be single and childless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 02:14 AM |
| 0 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.But how come guys do not feel threatened by it compared to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.Im 41 ang my gf is 25. She didn't need to coddled of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:28 AM |
| -1 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.Pikachu facing over? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:27 AM |
| 12 | Women gaslight men who date younger due to intrasexual competition.What about middle age men who know middle age women that go after younger guys in their twenties.. do men normally gas light those women for doing so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:24 AM |
| – | Most incels are left wingoh ok but are the guys just unaware yhat women find conservatives behavior in men exciting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 12:01 AM |
| – | Most incels are left wingWhy are conservative men more assertive and confident with women though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 11:04 PM |
| – | Expecting autistic men to mask and upgrade their entire lives, especially dating, while not even giving them a chance or ever trying to approach them is hypocritical and illiberal.why is masking more difficult for men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hateoh ok but if the women do not find this lifestyle acceptable for themselves and why do they go for the men with that lifestyle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Genuine Passport bros get too much hatebut why is it that asian woman are so easy that they will give it to these guys compared to western women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:29 PM |
| – | Exactly when did hating men become “popular culture”?Even if there is a lot of men hating can guys just still date or pursue women and ignore all the media hypocrisy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towelThat makes sense but since so many couples have originally met other workplace, is it to be expected to that's where you're SO could be if so many others have met in the workplace? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 12:42 AM |
| 2 | If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towelOh that makes sense , but what I don't understand is why boycott people you know and cold approach only? I just don't get the boycott people you know aspect of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towelSorry I meant does cold approaching have more of a success rate of working compared to ask out people you already know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 09:44 PM |
| 2 | If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towelThat makes sense. but why does cold approaching have more of a success rate of asking out people you know if guys consider asking out people they know inappropriate by comparison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 09:40 PM |
| 6 | If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towelOh ok, but if guys are choosing the cold approach because they are less attractive and cannot go for women they know, does that mean cold approaching will work better for them if they are less attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 09:29 PM |
| 23 | If you have to cold approach, that’s a sign it’s time to throw in the towelThe problem with most of them today is they don't want to meet women at work or school because they think it's inappropriate, unprofessional, etc. So the only option is to go for strangers if going for people in places you're connected with is considered inappropriate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 09:19 PM |
| 1 | The RP concept of "She's not yours, its just your turn", is completely in line with the ideals BP/ Feminism pushes in societyyep for sure. but how are guys supposed to control this though rather than just accept the possibility? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | The RP concept of "She's not yours, its just your turn", is completely in line with the ideals BP/ Feminism pushes in societyBut why is it that with long-term, the woman still wasn't planning on sticking around if it's long term? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men use sex workers if their main goal is simply sex?But it's been said here before that.The top guys are sharing all the women and they want no strings attached. If this is true why would the top guys not want the relationship like most men do normally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 02:35 PM |
| 1 | The RP concept of "She's not yours, its just your turn", is completely in line with the ideals BP/ Feminism pushes in societydoes "its just your turn" refer to the woman just wanting the guy for short-term or casual? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/25 05:19 AM |
| 2 | Am I crazy for feeling bad for Raja Jackson…?I dont understand what this mma incident has to do with purplepill/dating issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?But why do americans allow us to get in the way of their dating lives, and just make dating decisions without that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?Oh by it you mean dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 11:57 AM |
| 3 | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?oh I'm sorry to hear that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?oh ok but why do many women say they cannot find enough guys interested in kids and family if there are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/25 01:39 AM |
| 0 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?oh ok its just why cant people just go for people they have things in common with and leave it at that, but instead there seems to be this obsession that far left politics has ruined dating for everyone entirely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:39 PM |
| 8 | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?Oh okay, but I feel this example maybe doesn't really count, though because you ran into her by coincidence rather than her coming after you? Unless of course , many of these stories are done by the coincidence of running in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 11:06 PM |
| 15 | Would you marry someone who ignored you, rejected you, and only dated men she thought were far more attractive than you?how often does a guys high school or college crush come crawling back over a decade later though. This hasn't happened with any guys I know so it seems really rare unless this is a much more common thing in US culture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 09:05 PM |
| -3 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?but why are red pill men more about kids and family compared to blue pill men if that's true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?is this really what many red pill men tell their sons though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Why do you say the redpill is misogynistic?but why is dating so political in the US? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Alimony make sense in many cases and should not become obsolete and permanent alimony makes sense as wellI don't think permanent alimony makes sense in a nation where both women and men are allowed to have their own jobs unless I am wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 11:43 PM |
| 3 | The idea that women are biologically the more selective sex seems to contradict the idea that women’s bodies are more beautiful while men’s bodies are more utilitarian.I would say the idea that women are more picky because men look more utilitarian actually makes more sense. Since men look more utilitarian and are less beautiful women are therefore more picky on who to go for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 01:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: We need better ways to prevent western men from dating/marrying non-western womenI mean I guess the real victims are the Eastern men who will loose out to western men over time, thus creating imbalance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 11:47 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a manis this the same for guys who who have a lot of hook ups though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 07:03 PM |
| – | It is no more wrong for a woman to have a high body count than a maneven if its a double standard, it still seems that the maturity of women are turned on by a guy having many experiences, whereas the majority of guys are turned off by a woman doing it. So even if it's a double standard what can you do if the majority is going to still have the double standard? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).oh ok. but in that case , do the woman actually think you're funnier or are they just pretending to give the impression that the guy is funny in order to charm him because he's good looking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:03 PM |
| 0 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).but why is that? for example Will Ferrell is not exactly what most women would call hot but they think he's funny? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 03:41 PM |
| 3 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).what correlation do looks have to do with humor though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:50 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone ever changed their mind or their side as a result of this sub?the only two things that surprised me here i think are women being more about guy's money than I thought nowadays, at least according to the narrative, and also that women have higher standards for a hook up than a relationship, if that's true. Otherwise everything thing else seemed to track with life before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 03:30 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Ever reject a woman for being too perfect?I haven't rejected for being too perfect but I've been weary of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 03:22 AM |
| – | What is the final verdict on due process in college campuses?that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Do Prettier Women Have Worse Personalities?my current gf is the prettiest I've had so far and her personality is a lot better than previous experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/25 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Introverted men or asocial men are far more likely to have odd interactions with women, due male gender expectations.Im autistic and have a gf but I am told I'm bold and assertive, so maybe autistic guys can still play that angle with women, because maybe they all think to themselves yes, sure he might be odd but at least he is confident and assertive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 01:29 PM |
| 3 | Introverted men or asocial men are far more likely to have odd interactions with women, due male gender expectations.If a woman asks a guy if he has a girlfriend in the workplace does that mean she's into him most likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 01:22 PM |
| 1 | What is the final verdict on due process in college campuses?oh yes I see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/25 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Women lose attraction to their partners due to familiarity faster than men to theirs due to aging.oh I see. but do the women feel embarrassed about that towards everyone that they're known as the poly women , which makes them be seen as lower value, compromising more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 11:53 PM |
| 6 | Women lose attraction to their partners due to familiarity faster than men to theirs due to aging.This seems to track because every poly couple I know is average looking, and I do not know any good looking couples that are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.that makes sense, since me and my gf are both autistic. however, other guys say that ND women are usually going for NT guys, if this is a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 07:16 PM |
| 2 | What is the final verdict on due process in college campuses?oh ok I see. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 07:14 PM |
| 9 | What is the final verdict on due process in college campuses?Why do those colleges feel they need to conduct the investigation and trials themselves and feel that law enforcement isn't up to the challenge even though LE have been trained in sexual assault investigation more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.oh are you saying that ND people usually do better if they date each other? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:08 PM |
| – | Men had a harder time finding a mate before feminism.I haven't lived through a pre-feminism era but it seems women who are old fashioned have higher expectations on a man's earnings for sure sometimes so I avoid those types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 02:07 PM |
| – | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforeIs the solution to move to countries where the housing is cheaper therefore that have higher birth rates? What are these countries secrets, that they found a way to make it work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itIt's a mature compromise, but is it true some people have a problem with it according to some posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itso if they realized it then it wouldn't be horrible for them and its all in their minds? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.that makes sense. when you say autistic men wouldn't want women to be predatory to their situation, do a lot of autistic men fear that though, or how so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.That makes sense. i'm autistic and I have an autistic girlfriend. But is that a rarity that is hard to achieve for most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itOh ok, but in that case, would the solution be to go for someone you have a connection with even if you're not conventionally attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itbut is it true that its do horrible for sone people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itbut do they feel entitled to wanting a woman that is really hot specifically and that's it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payeroh ok , but why doesn't the government make it illegal to be paid under the table for those jobs in order to make it easier for things like child support payment to be made, etc., or for the IRS to do their job effectively? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payerThat's true, but I think most people would care about avoiding jail unless of course they was some psycho nutcase? But as for being paid under-the-table, usually that doesn't happen unless you're working for a criminal enterprise. But I don't think most people I want to make that they're only source of income with no honest jobs at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 04:29 PM |
| 2 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforeoh ok but even if a parent were to be old-fashioned and be spent more time working in not spend as much time with the kids would that really be seen as so shameful, especially since people don't mind compromising in other areas of their lives, and defend themselves doing so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:52 PM |
| 13 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itBut if a lot of couples are why is this beta bux compromise being taken so personally then by people? For example, me and my girlfriend are in the same league I would say , but we don't hold it against each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:47 PM |
| 18 | Men have their own version of beta bux for women but don’t like to acknowledge itIt seems that most betas mary betas and both of the couple are compromising, but can they just not take it as an insult if both are compromising? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payerThat's true but could they get a court order to force payment like extract the money from the bank accounts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:18 PM |
| 2 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforeBut if people think like that isn't insensitive to the kids if you're only having them because you're in a state of hopelessness and desperate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payerThat's true but could they get a court order to extract the money from his bank account while he is working for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 02:07 PM |
| 40 | Prison for non-payment of child support should be abolished, and if someone can't or won't pay it, the state should just pay it instead of prosecuting the non-payeras a guy who is recently witnessing an abandoned child situation in the family, I am totally for legally forcing parents to pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 05:09 AM |
| 1 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforeIf men are objectifying women more than ever before now, on women doing the same to men too though, since women are more sexually free to do as they wish now as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 01:04 AM |
| 1 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforethat's true. so having kids is better in 1st wild countries? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 12:55 AM |
| 2 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforeBut what is it that kids are so much more expensive now though if it's not for the free labour? Even though I have parents I still paid for my own college though for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 12:36 AM |
| 1 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforeBut the extra hands cost money too so doesn't it seem like a paradox or it defeats the purpose? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 12:32 AM |
| 1 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforewhy are more poor people in poor countries having more kids though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 12:27 AM |
| 10 | birth rate is declining due to men objectifying women more than beforeWhen people keep bringing up how the birth rate is declining do most people actually care, since it seems the majority of men and women do not want kids today? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.But it's been said before that the reason autistic guys strike out is because of lack of social skills, so what most women still choose chemistry over social skills therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.But is the issue is guys are not provisionary enough and that's it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/25 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.Oh my apologies. I thought it was meant reading the room as in social awkwardness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.That makes sense. what can autistic guys do in that case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:06 PM |
| 12 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.but even if autistic women have it easier, could some of them still find trouble connecting though with nearotypical guys? Me and my girlfriend are autistic and she says the chemistry is much better with me as a result unless that's unusual for an autistic woman to think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.But what is the point of bringing this up says since the Op was about social trouble men were having specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Autism is the biggest barrier to dating and social growth and highly prevalent online. Most PPD content misleads this proportion of men to focus on the wrong things.Do guys really need to read the room as long as they are bold and assertive and are going to say what they are going to say regardless of what the room thinks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you value the opposite gender for their intrinsic worth and dignity? If so, could you learn to love someone who is of the opposite gender based on that?I love my gf very much and I don't feel I was pressured or coerced by society into it at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notthat makes sense. What does a couple do then? For example, can role-playing help? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Women’s sexual preferences are seen as valid while men’s sexual preferences are notwhy are both types often different people? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | What are some things women dont understand about you?that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 02:45 PM |
| – | Sex is a need, and men are losing today because they are not needed, which is a result of the Industrial Revolution.im a guy and feel like sex is a huge need far more than cola. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | What are some things women dont understand about you?I guess its how guys like large breasts but do not talk about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 01:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some things women dont understand about you?I guess its the same way guys say they don't care of a woman has large boobs or not but then love them when they see them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?Oh I thought i explained it there though or what part did I not explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:24 PM |
| 9 | What are some things women dont understand about you?interesting. is it because the women were most likely ashamed of what they liked maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:23 PM |
| 3 | What are some things women dont understand about you?amusing to watch the women like muscles you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?Oh, I'm just saying either.It's coming for an external sources like erotica, or it's already built in. Why wouldn't erotica heighten a woman's or man's standards though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:06 PM |
| 36 | What are some things women dont understand about you?I'm a guy who goes to the gym a lot and my girlfriend talks about how hot my muscles are unless of course that's not actually a big deal to her and she's just observing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:05 PM |
| 9 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?It seems to me that the 2 main route reasons why women are not attracted to average guys are either: 1. women consume too much erotica like fifty shades of grey or things like that. 2. it's hard wired in from birth. But I am not sure which one is the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Mens Gender role is inalienable economicthat makes sense. but if society is forced to only work if people feel they have a gender role, what do you do then if the gender roles are lost to an older time? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Mens Gender role is inalienable economicDo men and women feel they have to have a specific gender roll low other than just having fun with life and loving it, or is that not good enough for a gender role? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 01:07 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?Oh , sorry , one of the responses was that average men are not good enough for women but that made me ask this question as a result. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 12:59 PM |
| – | Casual SexI'm in a relationship now, but when I was single, I would go for casual sex because relationships are hard to get so I guess I took the easier way out, since I was horny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?Do a lot of average guys go for a below average woman then if that's the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 12:53 PM |
| – | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship ChallengesBut what do you mean by female oriented in this case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Being a late bloomer comes with inexperience, but it also comes with lots of scars and baggage. The term has also been weaponized of late, and that’s worth brining up.Im a late bloomer and as if far as the notion goes that lay plumers have more baggage, there are a few people I know who are young who have had bad experiences that have caused them baggage as well. So it seems most likely to happen at any age early or late? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:20 PM |
| – | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship ChallengesOh ok, but if one is forced to lower their standards and the other gets higher standards in the marriage, does that lead to any problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:14 PM |
| 0 | Polygamy is actually very ineffective as a reproduction strategy for humans.Makes sense. Makes me wonder if the other options were floated though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Polygamy is actually very ineffective as a reproduction strategy for humans.im no law expert but why don't the courts just serve the deadbeat guys with court orders to pay instead? But then again i'm no expert | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Polygamy is actually very ineffective as a reproduction strategy for humans.but this would cause a lot of backlash though if people's taxes were going to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:12 PM |
| – | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship Challengesoh ok. So men usually want to go for virgins because I think there is a higher chance they will be more committed but that is not more likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 05:10 PM |
| – | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship ChallengesThat's true, but isn't it far more likely otherwise they most likely would not be virgins? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 02:50 PM |
| 0 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostoh I see. Thanks for the insight! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 01:17 PM |
| 2 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostBut according to the narrative here it's men who have more family and marriage and kids values, and women are not interested in that stuff near as much anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Do people take dating advice more negatively from the opposite gender compared to their own?Oh I didn't mean to imply I was offended. I was just curious if that's what you mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/25 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Do people take dating advice more negatively from the opposite gender compared to their own?Oh, it was a conversation.I was a part of where women were just talking about another woman and I was him just listening more so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Do people take dating advice more negatively from the opposite gender compared to their own?who me? I have a gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 11:51 PM |
| 2 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostbut why is there this narrative here that men are more lonely and yearning for more though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:50 PM |
| 0 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostthat makes sense. I just am curious why most men want marriage more and sooner if that's the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:16 PM |
| -2 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostBut why are men the more romantic oriented ones if that's the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:06 PM |
| -2 | The atomization of society and individualism is what harms dating the mostwhy is it that most men want to be paired off sooner than most women, if that's the case? women complain about bring pressured to pair off but men never complain about being pressured. does this mean most men are into marriage more than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 09:04 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativeOh okay , but when it comes to guys who do have friends, do they use gossip as a weapon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 08:59 PM |
| – | Women go beyond a double standard . They rewrite the narrativewhy don't guys choose gossip as a tool if its so powerful though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Are all those top men really refusing to settle and playing women?But I thought women were more jealous of not getting chads that arw already committed family men compared to the casual single ones unless I'm wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 02:52 PM |
| 2 | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship ChallengesBut what I don't understand is, if Chad can be honest and get laid, but other guys cannot. That means that womens standards for sex are higher than their standards for a relationship. Why would a woman standards for a relationship be lower than just a one nice stand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 01:30 PM |
| 1 | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship ChallengesThat makes sense. that's probably why I have had more luck in bars, but can other guys try that if it's better? Even if people do not drink as much, they are still more likely to be in bars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 04:50 AM |
| 2 | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship ChallengesOkay so when guys say there is a male loneliness pandemic it's because of less drugs and alcohol and less going out then more so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 04:26 AM |
| 3 | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship Challengesbut if they are virgins isn't that a sign they are saving themselves for hopefully the right person, and do not wish to explore more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Why does the redpill ignore passport sisters and only focuses on passport bros?yeah, interesting. Can we blame guys for going to seek women there though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/25 12:08 AM |
| 11 | Why does the redpill ignore passport sisters and only focuses on passport bros?So many immigrants are fillipino so it seems most of them may think less of their own country than the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 11:34 PM |
| 1 | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship Challengesoh ok, what caused the decline? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 10:42 PM |
| 2 | People always blame "H**up Culture" for Relationship ChallengesBut in today's world where women are more willing to hook up more than before, why would guys have to lie instead of going for the women who are interested in that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/25 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Do Women Who Marry Chads- Do They Actually End Up Happy?If it's true that women standards are naturally higher than men.How bad is it to settle for average for a woman compared to a guy then? Like is it true that most women cannot psychologically handle it compared to a guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many conservative men try to get with liberal women and change them? Why not just pursue conservative women from the jump ?But why doesn't have to be one or the other in American culture it seems instead of people just forming their own ideologies and beliefs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Most boyfriends would be happier forgiving their cheating girlfriend or wifeWhen it comes to people I know who have cheated, the others who have forgiven them just happened to be in crappy relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Your Geography dictates your dating.I thought bigger cities were more difficult because people who have experienced them say that people's standards are higher in bigger city as well if that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)oh well the chemistry ended up being so good is I didn't think it was worth throwing away because of one difference. I think the chemistry just ended up being real good, and it's not meant to be overthought as thought as anything more than that. it's not like I am in the relationship as a means to make an ideology statement and I don't think the universe will be out of balance because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many conservative men try to get with liberal women and change them? Why not just pursue conservative women from the jump ?A lot of times conservatives vs. liberals are often brought up here but is that the real problems with dating in the west? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)well it's been said that guys need to be willing to make more compromises and relationship and so I do, but it seems people don't actually like to see other people compromise either, so I guess it's damned if you do them if you don't? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:07 PM |
| 0 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)oh well she asked me out. But I made an exception since we have a lot in common and the chemistry is really good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)oh me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 02:50 PM |
| – | Age gap avoidance actually amplifies inequality and power inbalance at the societal level (alternative interpretation)I'm in an age gap relationship with a woman sixteen years younger than me and I feel like there is no power over her and she has more options than me and could leave at any time if she wanted to. There are other couples I know that are the same age around where there is a huge power and balance of money in comparison. So I think it's all relative and not absolute for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional lovethat's true but could she still have been? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 08:58 PM |
| 2 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveOh I was just thinking I am in the state of mind where I am able to give it automatically to her, so maybe it's more of a common state of mind than we think therefore for people in relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:28 PM |
| 5 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveBut I don't think photographs are capable of giving us a whole picture. They are not polygraphs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:28 PM |
| 2 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveI give my gf automatic consent unless that's bad of me to give that to her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:26 PM |
| 2 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveIt's really hard to tell from a picture though as photographs have lied before in other situations I would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:24 PM |
| 6 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.oh yes I see. what is the best way to resolve that then likely? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:15 PM |
| 9 | Many men’s dating problems come from expecting women to act like men.daunting in what way though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do conservative men say that they despise liberal women, but are still open to dating them?But is it true that most women who are freaky in the sheets are not wife material though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 09:17 AM |
| 2 | Despite claiming that women have better friendships women are as lonly as menA couple of women friends I noticed said the opposite and say that guys seem to have much better friendships they know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 09:09 AM |
| – | Why are men obsessed with younger 23 year old women when there are so many women in their 30s,40s, and 50s who look phenomenal?Oh sorry I misunderstood. i can see men thinking that they are the most attractive in a physical way, but I didn't think they obsessed with going after them only or boycotting women their own age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 12:52 AM |
| – | Why are men obsessed with younger 23 year old women when there are so many women in their 30s,40s, and 50s who look phenomenal?I don't think most men are but a loud minority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Most Passport bros leave the country because they can’t get any women in the U.S and try to take advantage of the American dollar being worth more over thereIs it really that bad to take advantage of things being is less costly and other countries? i mean me and my girlfriend were thinking of moving to another country perhaps for this reason but does that make us exploitative? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 12:11 AM |
| -1 | How are ugly couples sexually attracted too each other?I think it's simply a case of your standards aren't as high if you cannot get any better so you just get more hungry in a sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desireoh ok but is it really a problem then for guys? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Is it fair to pressure men into taking testosterone?oh I'm not sure, it's just that the OP pointed out how guys refuse to take advice on getting their testosterone checked for sexual problems, so I was just referring to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Is it fair to pressure men into taking testosterone?That's true, but if it's people you don't know refusing to get help, then shouldn't we just leave them to their own autonomy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 01:48 AM |
| 6 | Men on here don’t understand women’s approach to casual sex. A massive failure to cross sex mind read from the red pill.when I was single and wanted casual here and there i would use the casual filter on dating sites to filter in those specific women who were interested, if other guys can do that as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 09:55 PM |
| 4 | Is it fair to pressure men into taking testosterone?I mean , if men want to continue to be sexually dysfunctional that's their choice and why should anyone else care if they don't want to help themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedThat makes sense but she says she didn't want to wait too long because if she was worried she would miss her chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedThat makes sense. she asked me out so maybe not so submissive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedIn the concept of a boss babe be hot since she still is a babe? My gf was a higher rank than me in the workplace when we met originally, but maybe that's unusual for some guys too except that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Attraction manifests differently between connections. People need to stop comparing someone to their history when it isn’t part of the equationthat makes sense. so whats the best course of action with this imbalance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Attraction manifests differently between connections. People need to stop comparing someone to their history when it isn’t part of the equationBut why are women easily able to choose which they are compared to guys since women have different leagues of looks as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 07:01 PM |
| 0 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.In my social circle it seems like the opposite and the men are much less excited about having a baby compared to the women? Is the idea of men wanting to have a baby much more than women, more so an American culture thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Attraction manifests differently between connections. People need to stop comparing someone to their history when it isn’t part of the equationOh okay thanks for the input! but I thought men wanna be the best.Because women of course would want the best logically so aren't they just trying to be the best for that reason? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Attraction manifests differently between connections. People need to stop comparing someone to their history when it isn’t part of the equationBut why do men have a problem with being treated as not as hot if men do the same thing with women? Is it because women still consider the not so hot guy Husband material where his women do not consider the not so hot woman wife material? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Attraction manifests differently between connections. People need to stop comparing someone to their history when it isn’t part of the equationThat makes sense, but it's been said on here that it's common for women to treat the good.Looking guys differently compared to not good looking but I wonder if it's the same with guys in a more often or common way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Attraction manifests differently between connections. People need to stop comparing someone to their history when it isn’t part of the equationDo guys normally treat the 'female chads' differently than the women who are wife material as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twentiesoh but it happened with me and I did quite better in my thirties unless there was an alternate reason for that other than being more than a peak? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Would you be okay with a (one-sided) open relationship if there was a lack of sex in your LTR?this exact thing happened to someone I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 05:32 AM |
| 1 | CMV: BetaBucks is framed too beautifully. The reality is that when a woman settles in looks for a less physically developed man, she infatilizes the man, treats him as a child without a sex drive and also puts impossible labor demands on him, like a toxic mother-son relationship.If a woman infantilizes a man because he is being beta, wouldn't the best response be for the man to give an alpha response to the woman for her infantalizing him and just tell her he won't tolerate being infertilized from her which in turn my cause her to treat him more alpha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twentiesoh but its been said here before that guys tend to do better with women in their 30s though if that's true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their TwentiesIf it's normal for the 30s to be better can we just tell younger men that, that is just better if they can be patient and wait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Lower your standards- or stay single?another thing about lowering your standards that is good is that you think most people would be attractive to someone who gives them the time of day vs. not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their Twentiesthat makes sense. But is this unusual and the time for men to attract the most women is in their 20s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Feminism has actually accentuated gender differences and made ancient relationship models reappear in the WestIt seems that the majority of women still want a monogamist relationship though so I guess that would make the majority more traditional? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 12:40 PM |
| 4 | Lower your standards- or stay single?I couldn't say if I agree because I don't know what those people's motivations are that are single for over a year. However, I lowered my standards way back, and I am happy about doing so, it paid of well, many more dates and relationship experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:54 AM |
| – | Men Marrying Later or Nevermy long term gf is 16 years younger than me and I live in a small city but it seems hugly i usual compared to other couples I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not as hard for men as they claimthat makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Dating is not as hard for men as they claimthe video games unattractive is constantly brought up here but can guys go for women gamers? my gf likes video games alot more than me for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Is Everything Is Being Needlessly Overcomplicated?oh ok. but if they are into hot blondes why not just go for hot blonde liberals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Is Everything Is Being Needlessly Overcomplicated?I took it as more success in dating in general. Just on here you seen sone posts or comments on guys have feel they lose to conservative guys. But why can't both sides stick to their own preferences, and why is the culture war a problem in dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Is Everything Is Being Needlessly Overcomplicated?oh ok. but there's also this narrative that conservative guys are more successful with women and uf youvwant successful just be conservative, unless that is culture war propaganda as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Again, people should stop conflatimg women romantic preferences with morality.oh ok but if a women say the felt decieved by the guy, were the guys still honest then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Is Everything Is Being Needlessly Overcomplicated?I don't know if it's gotten too overly complicated but it has gotten too political in my opinion unless of course most people are like that in the US when it comes to relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Again, people should stop conflatimg women romantic preferences with morality.that's true. so when OP says to stop conflating attraction with morality, is the proper response to just say that person is only attracted to that person because of manipulation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 09:02 PM |
| 0 | Again, people should stop conflatimg women romantic preferences with morality.I think guys are justv as guilty of this as well because I've seen guys go for bad women just because they looked hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Those of you 30+ and are/were single at this age: did you start getting "flooded with attention" the moment you turned 30?I think it's a combination of 1 and 2 for me. i became more attractive but also for some because of biological clocks as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 11:42 PM |
| 3 | Those of you 30+ and are/were single at this age: did you start getting "flooded with attention" the moment you turned 30?I didn't get flooded with attention but I noticed the women I approached said yes a lot more in comparison to 20s, if that's common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time?oh I see, thanks. That makes sense. But what about the possibility of her going after other guys if you don't take your opening when you have it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 06:55 PM |
| 19 | Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time?But how are you supposed to get to know a woman overtime if you keep a polite distance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 05:00 PM |
| 26 | Why do men here seem to think that the only way to approach women is by cold approaching strangers and asking them on a date on the first meeting? Why don’t they understand getting to know someone over time?To the OP the problem with getting to know a woman overtime I've noticed is that women friend zone guys soon enough so they create a window that guys have a short time limit on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 03:00 PM |
| 3 | For most men, sex is better outside of a relationshipI'd say sex is much better in my relationship compared to when I was single but still craving it when I was single too of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 02:51 PM |
| 6 | You can't debate a person that doesn't care about romantic relationships.My gf is 16 years younger than me and I'm going to propose so hopefully it will not end in divorce as a result of the age gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Is it not smart for 20’s women to be in long term relationships with 20’s men in 2025?oh ok. been dating for four years but it just feels right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Is it not smart for 20’s women to be in long term relationships with 20’s men in 2025?my gf is 25 and I'm going to propose soon but is that crazy for 20s age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Confidence is the main tool con men use, and it makes women more vulnerable to manipulationBut women are attracted to confidence it seems so guys have no choice but to use it therefore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 01:12 PM |
| 2 | Our understanding of traditional gender roles is entirely based off 50s nostalgiaI wouldn't say it's nostalgic because most people who seem obsessed with thi were born way after the 50s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 12:13 AM |
| – | Men are drastically overestimating how badly the average young woman wants commitment.In my social circle it seems the women want commitment more than the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 11:48 PM |
| – | The duality of man - Man can only value women as either family or objects of sexual desire. The objects of sexual desire become human to man only when he can be their sole owner.I mean i tend ro sexualize my gf a lot because I am hot for her but I treat her well and am completely faithful so is sexualizing her bad? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones toowhen it comes to women agreeing to be a parent for a man, every woman in my social circle wants kids more than the guys I know, so finding a woman who wants kids shouldn't be a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Female extremists and male extremists mutually push each other awayI think the problem with society when it comes to dating issues is that they bring gender politics into it and seem to see it all through that lens. People should just try to date their best, politics be damned if possible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 05:24 PM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himoh I see. well I don't feel like I've been bossing my girlfriend around so I must likely have other bad boy qualities she is likely into? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 05:17 PM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himI have a long term gf but does that likely mean I'm a bad boy if I was able to atteact her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameI have a gf but I can't say if she was harder to obtain compared to my parents generation or not. there is a lot of third party critics saying it's harder but that's all I have to go on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Like where are young people meant to meet & find dates offline nowadays, in a respectful manner?well it's justbthst seems yo be most married couples meeting story plus my own relationship. So I wonder if it's the average person's best shot therefore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Like where are young people meant to meet & find dates offline nowadays, in a respectful manner?but yet lots of happy couples meet this way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:44 PM |
| – | What Defines Red Pill?That makes sense. but what about different people who try the same thing and get different results if there is a difference there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Like where are young people meant to meet & find dates offline nowadays, in a respectful manner?I see. I live in Canada but not sure if it's different there. They had me sign a love contract but would that work if can just sign your way into the company accepting it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desireoh I'm not sure but why is it being shamed then if men are not expressing it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:08 PM |
| – | What Defines Red Pill?but why is it working for some and not others? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desirehow should it be approached then? like if a woman shames a man for having sexual desire, would the response back be to ask if she ever has? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desirewomen have it more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desirewell since both sides are shamed does the issue cancel itself out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 07:00 PM |
| 10 | Average guys are made to feel dirty for having a sexual desirewomen also say they are made to feel dirty for it as well. so which is it more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:12 PM |
| 9 | Like where are young people meant to meet & find dates offline nowadays, in a respectful manner?almost every couple I know say they met through work including my own relationship. So is it perhaps the most common place for couples to meet, even though the narrative says it's a bad idea? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | What Defines Red Pill?oh ok I see. thanks for the input. I didn't discover these pills until after I was already in a relationship, and discovered them unintentionally here but it's all very interesting. It makes me think what pill I must I be likely if I was able to get a gf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:13 PM |
| 0 | What Defines Red Pill?do you have any thoughts as to why blue pill is more successful since acccording to red pill, blue pill should not work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.oh I see. but I hear the Irish have wild night lives though if that's true? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 01:17 PM |
| 0 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.oh but catholic guilt for Irish or Germans? I thought that Irish were known for being wild and free spirited? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Women don't reserve casual sex for top % men because those are the only ones we're attracted to.that makes sense. some guys don't want a virgin woman they say so maybe it's just a matter of a good number? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:02 AM |
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