| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | I want your honest opinion (even if I know it already)Just giving my piece- I don’t see any blaring issues, other than you doing the whole “he’s great but…..”In your post you stated you needed a savior. It sounds like between taking on supporting you finically and supporting your career he transitioned into becoming a partner which long term is important in how you two continue to develop. However, I gotta ask, is he still in the role as your savior? Do you have your footing with your new career, and entering into the ‘real world’? How you communic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/22 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Dude is so damn cheap! She clearly is looking for someone who will elevate her. It’s not him girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 03:50 PM |
| 34 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayI met a guy like this recently! I told him I wanted to go skiing in vail, he said- skiing in vail is horrible because there are so many people there currently. I mentioned in passing how I loved my car, he said- He doesn’t like the maker of my car but he likes every other upscale German brand. By the end of the conversation I just felt dumb for liking/wanting the things I did. We never spoke again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 12:05 AM |
| 54 | Ofc he blames it on her and not himselfLet him goooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 11:55 PM |
| 17 | Nuff saidClear sign he sits in front of his computer way too much for fun- not work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 36 | Spotted one in the wild.That logic tho. 2+6-99= ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 09:27 PM |
| 134 | Nah sis.“Let me purchase a depreciating asset to convince him to take care of our child” What a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/22 02:09 AM |
| 148 | From the tinder subreddit. I have no words.Like I barely know you and you’re already trying to disrespect not only my boundaries but my body??! I just watched a true crime video of a guy who did exactly that- sodomized her with a bottle then used his hand/arm. Dude had her internal body tissues all over the floor and he said he didn’t know what happened, she was fine during/afterwards. Then claimed he was too drunk to know how she died. Just no Edit: apparently my comment needs a NSFW warning? Maybe. But something to consider if you ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 04:13 PM |
| 17 | A joke eh?I’d love to add his follow up message before he got unmatched… why does Reddit make it so hard 😵💫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:52 AM |
| 65 | A joke eh?Girl, I don’t know why people do the things they do.. like why did I match with a guy squatting like that? Thing that make you go ‘hm’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/22 02:05 AM |
| 25 | A daily reminder to protect your womb from LVM scrotes. Apparently once you have a kid, you are no longer allowed to have standards.The fact that the majority of them can’t meet ALL of her requirements says plenty about the peanut gallery of Reddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 11:14 PM |
| 21 | If you could write your ex's Tinder profile40m. Can be prince charming for 2~ weeks then will fall into depressive episodes and forget how to communicate. If that doesn’t sell you- I’m a surgeon 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/22 08:39 AM |
| 18 | I just got dumped mid-abortionI’m sorry this happened. Yes, you’re probably in pain emotionally/physically. However, this experience will be a strong reminder in the future when you give your heart/body to someone new- they for damn sure better be worthy of both. Chin up dove | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 03:48 PM |
| 85 | Men hiding women they are dating : Sex and the City (spoilers)If I can put my two cents in on Charlotte. Her first relationship. I think she was working off a checklist. He was handsome, wealthy, well accomplished, was part of the socioeconomic class she wanted to be in. However, he had ED, he was a mamas boy, and was completely disinterested in their relationship. Charlottes second marriage- from what I remember was more serendipitous with meeting the lawyer. No he wasn’t handsome, he was quite plain actually. However! He absolutely adored her, supported … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/22 03:35 PM |
| 49 | This. Is. Horrifying. Husband thinks it’s okay her sister was physically abused and went to the hospital by her boyfriend. Wife hasn’t mentioned leaving him in either post (that I’ve seen)Starting off with “oof” is a great way to show empathy for your sisters situation. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | If you can't see any good reason not to date a man with a female best friend, LET THIS BE IT! Selfish pickmeisha got stood up, so she ruined another womans valentines day. To add insult to injury, she & this mans girlfriend are related 🤢Uh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 01:34 AM |
| 76 | For the laughs, ladies! Now men are calling us "entitled" for wanting the bare minimum!I was completely offended when he said it. Then I offended him at the end of the date when I wouldn’t kiss him and he moped back to his car. The reality is though, if he picked up that quickly that I won’t accept the minimum I’m doing things right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:44 PM |
| 232 | For the laughs, ladies! Now men are calling us "entitled" for wanting the bare minimum!This past summer I went on a first date with this guy. At some point during the date he asked me what my next day off was cause he wanted to to go on a second date. I told him I was going to be off that Friday. I’ll never forget he stopped what he was doing looked me up and down and said even though Friday he didn’t have any appointments/meetings scheduled he would be working because I looked expensive. I am.. that comment proved he couldn’t afford to court me. No second date Cheap men and men w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 02:20 PM |
| 42 | I don’t know who’s worse: her trifling mama or her POS husband. I found this on Facebook and was shook. Honestly I probably would have went to jail.Holy moly.. What a read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 01:45 PM |
| 76 | The occupation of men on OLDIt’s a term that can be used for EVERYTHING. I don’t swipe unless they clearly state what type of engineer they are…and even then sometimes it’s still a ‘meh’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:44 PM |
| 334 | The occupation of men on OLDWhere I am everyone is an engineer apparently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 11:52 AM |
| 15 | He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀A great fit for him with his body preference and the not talking back bit would be a doll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/22 03:34 PM |
| 20 | He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom?Girl no. 8 years???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/22 12:34 PM |
| 3 | The Guide to Being Approved (ie, Getting a Flair)I created an alt and got a flair saying it’s an alt 😵💫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 11:39 PM |
| 19 | Information to withhold initiallyI had to screenshot your comment- That’s the nugget of advice I need to remember when I get back into dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 07:28 PM |
| 38 | Information to withhold initiallyI pity your friend and women who live similarly. That’s not something I’d want for myself or anyone I know. It must be so frustrating trying to maintain a friendship with her when he inserts himself in it. Yuck. On the other hand, your dad sounds devoted to your mom. That’s quite refreshing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:11 PM |
| 21 | Information to withhold initiallyThank you for the well wishes! Buying a house wasn’t part of my 2021 plan but here we are. My mom says the similar, something like, I’m not there to spar with a man. He has friends for that. Keep it light and fun while evaluating if he’s a suitable partner. Do you have any suggestions on guides you’ve used? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:00 PM |
| 19 | Information to withhold initiallyInteresting! Was this property owned prior to the relationship? Or the marriage home? I like that idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 9 | Let’s count the red flags together!I’m a stickler for being late so I see everyone’s point. However, as a woman I know I’m not going to park in overflow knowing it’s getting dark and I’m with someone I don’t know well. I’d cruse the block too. So feeling inconvenienced that I’m late because I want to make sure I’m close to where I’m meeting- oh well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:52 PM |
| 29 | A few bad datesMy mom has told me more times than I can count, that any man I consider needs to make more than me. The lifestyle I have and will continue to have doesn’t account for deadweight. Thanks for your positive words! I was feeling like I was going to be left on the shelf and not find someone at 33, I recovered from that now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:22 AM |
| 15 | A few bad datesThat’s actually a great tip. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:15 AM |
| 32 | A few bad datesNever again with the card! And so weird right? Like can you get it together so we can enjoy this experience. Luckily for us we adapted! I got some great pics so wasn’t a total loss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:21 AM |
| 16 | A few bad datesOh for sure! Neither of their company was worth how I felt afterwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020I went on two dates last week. Both guys I met on an app and not surprisingly nothing came from either of them. One guy I just couldn’t get comfortable around and the other I admittedly didn’t do enough vetting (recently divorced and not over it). Nooooo thank you! Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:35 PM |
| 18 | Bought, delivered, and wearingHere’s the link! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Women only gyms need to be normalized so that we don’t have to deal with being stared at, harassed or catcalled while trying to workout🙄🙄Wasn’t curves a woman’s on gym that went out of business cause women weren’t going? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:57 AM |
| 6 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."I apologize?- that line cracked me up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:29 PM |
| 11 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?There’s too many women that accept the minimal. I use to see it all the time- Friday date night, the girl is done up with her make up/ hair done, cute dress and heels. And the guy is in cargo shorts and flip flops. Um no. Give me the same effort or I’ll just stay home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Please tell me this is not real - whyyy would anyone EVER take that man back?Another baby band-aid will be coming soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 2 | “I don’t have a child”How dare he. Just yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:12 AM |
| 5 | Reminder: He’s looking to conquer you. Be selective with who you invest your time, body, and emotions withIt was on discord, so censoring isnt an issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 09:57 PM |
| 12 | Reminder: He’s looking to conquer you. Be selective with who you invest your time, body, and emotions withI don’t have an answer to that! I’ve never heard that term before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 06:58 PM |
| 17 | Never, ever delay your ambition for a relationship! The long term effects of not prioritizing yourself and your career/goals early on can take years to recover. The right person will encourage you in your pursuits, not pull you away.I started questioning if I wanted to finish a 3rd degree because this dude was saying all the right things and talking long term plans that would included moving about 1500 miles away. Started to have doubts in him and what he was offering. Sadness can wait till after in done leveling up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Louder for the ladies in the back.Ouch 🩹 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:00 PM |
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