RousesRai Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Rebuilding life after a 20-year divorce	RousesRai	/r/Divorce_Men	01/03/24 12:46 AM
6	Confused by the challenges after a potential breakup	RousesRai	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 11:19 AM
6	How to overcome communication difficulties?	RousesRai	/r/Divorce_Men	23/05/24 06:34 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Post divorce relationships Even if the marriage is over, the family can still continue. The most important thing is to move on, so do what you love, spend time with friends, and make the most of your time with your children. Avoiding arguments can be a good strategy, as constant conflict only creates more distance. Still, it's important to revisit the issue later and calmly discuss the more difficult topics. She may avoid these conversations and try to place all the responsibility on you, but it's important to make your p…	/r/Divorce_Men	26/12/25 02:14 PM
1	Post divorce relationships After three years, we are still living together. Although we initially hoped for a reconciliation, her tendency to keep her problems to herself has made daily life very challenging. It’s a difficult situation, but I’m now focused on finding a healthier way forward for both of us.	/r/Divorce_Men	24/12/25 12:46 AM
11	Post divorce relationships My post-separation experience (we continued living together because of the children) taught me that the hardest part isn't finding someone, but learning to socialize again. Being an introvert by nature, I feel like I've "unlearned" the art of casual conversation. But the big lesson I take away is this: I'm not looking for a new love or fleeting flings. What I'm looking for is peace. At this stage, my focus is on finding people with similar tastes, expanding my social circle, and participating in…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/25 11:58 AM
4	Wants divorce but to think on it for 6 months This is without a doubt the post that i most identify with in my current situation. Let's maintain this post and include suggestions of what we can do to help us overcome this complicated situation. At the beginning of the year, my wife, after 20 years of marriage, filed for divorce. I was surprised because, despite the lack of communication and complicity between us, i always took care of the family, i took care of the family's expenses while she contributed minimally, even though we had differ…	/r/Divorce_Men	25/09/24 02:30 PM
-1	Confused by the challenges after a potential breakup At this stage, I'm thinking about investing in family activities to strengthen our bonds and spend more time together. Furthermore, i want to improve communication between us to understand what she expects from marriage and what her dissatisfaction are. I agree with the above and feel like we are in a lull on divorce. So how should I handle this situation? What can I do to be prepared for a possible new outage?	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 04:30 PM
3	Confused by the challenges after a potential breakup I confirm everything. Now, she puts down her phone less often and spends a lot of time selling reels on Facebook and Instagram. I believe the biggest negative influence comes from co-workers, who are divorced and single. The best i can do is prepare by staying true to who i am and who i want to be. When the time comes, i will be ready for the 'Day After' and to live my life fully.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 01:44 PM
3	Confused by the challenges after a potential breakup A rule in life: I always have to be prepared for the ‘Day After’. At the beginning of the year, i was taken by surprise (sort of), but now i'm determined not to be surprised again.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 01:35 PM
2	Confused by the challenges after a potential breakup I believe that after expressing a desire to divorce, during this period of stagnation, she may have realized that things were not progressing as expected or that they encountered difficulties. I agree that it may have been an attempt to buy time. However, the way we are relating now and the attention she is showing seem to indicate a change. At the same time, I have received reports that this is only a temporary strategy and that there may be another disruption at the end of the year. At this po…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 01:13 PM
2	Confused by the challenges after a potential breakup When a breakup occurred, i suggested that we seek help from a marriage counselor to understand our differences and reach a consensus. I do my best in marriage, always trying to do what I consider best, but I recognize that I could be wrong. At that time, she balked at the idea of seeking outside help. Now, i feel we must consider this option again. We need someone to guide us to avoid another breakup or an unhappy marriage. I am optimistic about the future and confident that we can find the ri…	/r/Divorce_Men	18/06/24 12:59 PM
1	Rebuilding life after a 20-year divorce At this time, we are waiting for the end of our son's school year to communicate with him about our separation and next steps. I am confident that we will be able to resolve everything by the end of the year. Although my preference would be to sell the house when our son went to university, I am committed to finding the best solution for all of us. We are currently working to reach a consensus on our son's household, health and education expenses. So far, I have been responsible for all of these…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/24 03:15 PM