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Yes it makes a big difference. I want many babies with my husband. The fact that he can get me pregnant whenever we please is attractive to me. And the fact that I am fertile and healthy enough to carry his children with ease is attractive to him. We both want a big family, so if something happened to change that it would be a big bummer to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/16 05:33 PM
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Exactly. You can't say "you can't have sex with anyone but me" and then deny him access to you. That's just cruel.
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 04:44 PM
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"It is her wifely obligation, her duty to make sure that his sexual needs are fulfilled" Said with such distain. Of course it's your wifely duty to ensure his sexual satisfaction, at least as much as you can (there are circumstances where no matter what you do you will not be able to).
/r/RedPillWives03/04/16 04:25 PM
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I have this one http://www.amazon.com/Breadman-TR520-Programmable-2-Pound-Loaves/dp/B000Q4QM1Q/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1459476058&sr=8-2&keywords=breadman+bread+maker It's great, worth it for sure. I mostly use it for pizza dough, but still make breads now and then. I did it by hand for years prior which works just as well but the kneading is tedious and in the bread maker the kids can't get their yucky fingers all over my dough ;)
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 02:03 AM
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He was there for the first one, he didn't much enjoy it so opted to not be there for the next one, which was fine by me. Probably a good thing too because the second one was a lot less peaceful since I didn't get the epi like I did with the first.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/16 01:47 AM
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Oh and you may feel extra emotional but channel it into vulnerability instead of bitchiness. It's okay to be a bit vulnerable. I found out I'm pregnant because I cried over a silly comment my husband made. He jokingly put himself down and I started crying because I didn't want him to think those things about himself. He cuddled me and asked if I was pregnant, a test later that day confirmed.. I was indeed. Hahaha. So you can be emotional without being a bitch :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 03:41 PM
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Congrats!!!! You can be my baby buddy, I'm pregnant too but not sure how far long, most likely 5-6 weeks but waiting to go to the Drs until I'm a bit further. Nothing changes when you are pregnant. This is my third. I complained way too much with my first (I'm tiiired, my hips hurrrrt, AHH I'm scared of birth), my husband got irritated. With my second I didn't complain at all, mostly because I was busy with my first daughter during the pregnancy and it whizzed by. My advice is to find a pregnant…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/16 03:38 PM
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Really? You are only going to talk about the mechanics of sex with you're kids? I'm definitely planning on having conversations about the emotional things tied to it and social repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/16 05:43 AM
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Great answer thank you. The point about the hypergamous nature of women making females with male friends a more dangerous combination is a good one.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 03:12 PM
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Is it equally a red flag for a husband to have female friendships?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/16 02:25 AM
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Oh my.. I wasn't subscribed! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen29/02/16 09:15 PM
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Do you need a flair to be able to upvote/downvote on this sub? Just noticed that I can't do either. :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/16 07:40 PM
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.. youre the moderator of r/girlsboxing, lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/16 01:26 AM
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You might benefit from spending less time on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/16 10:10 PM
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I'll bite :) I don't put myself in any situation where I would get close to any other man so this won't be an issue. I can't imagine ever breaking my wedding vows and certainly wouldn't break up my family just because someone was "more alpha". I try to accept it (porn). Personally not a huge fan of it but I just don't think about it :) As long as it's not affecting our sex life then I don't need to worry. I count it as something I am not supposed to understand. No We have traditional roles I sup…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/16 01:13 AM
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My husband said that he loves how kind I am. :) I like being thought of as kind. Sometimes I have mean, bitchy thoughts, and it makes me feel like a horrible person. So it's good to know that I'm not expressing them enough that anyone notices :P
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/16 11:15 PM
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Wow.. She even said she shouldn't have gotten married for a second time because you can't love your second husband like you do your first. Interesting insight.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/16 06:41 PM
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I'm giving up dumb app games and cutting internet time down even further than I already have (its been my main goal this year). So limiting myself to 20 minutes of computer time per day (apart from having Facebook open as it's the only way my family overseas can contact me, but no mindless scrolling thru the news feed allowed). So bye ladies!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/16 03:48 PM
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Yeah babies are not expensive at all if you just buy clothes/toys/baby furniture second hand. The marginal cost of extra children is pretty much zero assuming you cloth diaper and breastfeed. My little ones are 1 and 2 though so we haven't hit the age where they start to get more expensive with activities and what not. I'm sure it gets pricey as they get older.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 10:40 PM
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I'm a SAHM and don't make money on the side. The easiest way to make side money that's fairly significant is watching extra kids during the day. I would love to do this, my mother always did it when I was a young kid and it was nice having other kids around other than my siblings. (I can't right now due to our big dog who would hate me forever if I put her outside during the day). In regards to making the most of your budget, honestly, I just don't buy much. We just have playdates (FREE)! Go to …
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/16 08:11 PM
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Awh that's cute. My husband is a 'government agent' I should start calling him Special Agent Our last name. He would get a kick out of that
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 03:26 PM
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You are so sweet, this is going to mean the world to her. Especially since she's most likely in nesting mode right now and the mess is probably stressing her out. Getting the closet sorted will likely make her feel really good :) Snacks are helpful to have on hand when you are breastfeeding a lot and need to eat with one hand. So maybe a snack basket with things like dried fruit, nuts and such.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 03:19 PM
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Just a little while ago he came home with a build your own fairy garden kit. I had mentioned a long time ago that I can't wait for the girls to be old enough to make fairy gardens (something I remember spending hours doing as a child). So he bought me one to do myself since it'll be a while before they outgrow their destroying stage and start their creating stage :P
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/16 03:10 PM
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He calls me "wife" and I call him "husband". We are not very creative people :P
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/16 10:06 PM
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I'm doing my husband a favour and sparing him my crappy homemade Valentines rubbish that I used to love so much. Instead I will redirect my efforts to making the kids some little crafts and we are just working on a single card for him as a group effort :P
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/16 08:18 PM
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We were watching The Shining the other night and when he got up to take a bathroom break I went in and wrote REDRUM on the mirror and hid around the corner. When he came out he read the mirror and then I jumped out! .. He almost punched me in the face. It was hilarious and totally worth the risk of getting punched. I'm not going to make a habit of this though because I can see it would get annoying if I do it too often, but halfway through The Shining was just too perfect not to ;)
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 06:33 AM
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That was not very brief. Haha
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:29 PM
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I'll keep it brief. Next year goals: -Support my husband in his yearly "cleanse" (he eats very clean at the start of each year and loses any holiday pounds). I have already planned some good meal plans to make for he and I but just need to stick with it. And hopefully I'll lose a few pounds too. -Wean my daughter. Her breastfeeding is getting ridiculous, I've tried unsuccessfully to wean her 3 times already. It's getting in the way of my sleep/my husbands sleep and making public outings a drag w…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:27 PM
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You could read marriedredpill if you want. I used to do so as a deterrent to myself (never want my husband to feel like those men feel). I've recently stopped doing so though because it's just a depressing place.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 02:11 PM
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People really underestimate the commitment that breastfeeding requires in particular. Any working mum who successfully breastfeeds for a year is amazing imo. I'm a SAHM and struggled.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 10:00 PM
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If he expects rpw to be against women staying at home and raising kids.. then I think he doesn't know his audience very well.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 08:17 PM
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How long have you been together?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 08:00 PM
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Some men are fine with the idea of having their wife stay at home with the kids and others are not. I guess you are not. I'm not quite sure what you expect rpw to say on this topic. It's a personal decision between you two. edit Just don't blow a load in a stranger and cry about the repercussions. ;)
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/15 07:03 PM
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I use baskets for all of my toddlers toys. All of their toys are in baskets and I keep them up high and only put out 2 baskets per day. Of course if they ask I will take out things they specifically want, but generally they are happy to play with whatever is already in their line of sight :) This drastically cuts down on the PeeWees Playhouse vibe that I used to have going on with baby stuff everywhere. We always pick up everything before my husband gets home so that he comes home to his house, …
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 07:51 PM
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Chef John is fantastic. Everything I've made from his website has been a hit with my husband. The clams casino were a favourite of his.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 02:20 AM
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My younger sister is a nanny and constantly laments about how I'm so lucky that I don't have to work and get to just do "whatever I want". I'm like "Girl, we do the same thing. Kids aren't automatically easy to look after just because they are mine.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/15 03:04 PM
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The maple walnut pie is the thing I'm most looking forward to. I asked my husband to choose 2 pies and was secretly disappointed when he didn't pick the maple walnut.. so I thought, well, I can make 3 pies then ;)
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 06:47 PM
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Thank you :) My husband requested the Turducken, we just bought it already packaged/stuffed, so I'm kind of happy that I don't need to do much with it except put it in the oven and make some extra stuffing for the side.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 06:44 PM
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I have just finalised my Thanksgiving dinner menu. So I'll share it :) To start: Spinach artichoke dip Feast: Turducken with cornbread stuffing Maple whiskey gravy Mashed sweet potato w/pecans Bacon and cheese mashed potatoes Green bean casserole Bread rolls Stuffed acorn squash Dessert: Butter toffee pecan pie Chocolate marshmallow pie Maple walnut cream pie Vanilla ice cream I have to be honest, Thanksgiving is not my favourite holiday. It just reminds me of how far away my family is. But, I g…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/15 06:01 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GthIz3Fbjlw This brunch menu is AWESOME! I did it for my husband one day (just scaled down the size of the recipes). It was great!
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/15 09:33 PM
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I'm getting him a new playstation :) No surprises unfortunately, it's what he wants, and it's kind of expensive (at least to me, I don't like Christmas to be a big, stressful expense) so that's all I'll get.. Am I being too stingy? Maybe I will get him another small thing to go with it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/15 03:42 PM
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Oh and one other thing. The thing that was weighing on me most regarding his spending is how it made me feel a little bit vulnerable. So I tried to think of a way I could add monetary value. Being a SAHM I obviously don't bring in an income, but I have put a lot of effort into our home and fixing it up nice, doing a lot of yard work, painting and making sure that when we sell it eventually we will hopefully get a nice payday from the increased value. I don't know how much it will realistically h…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 04:54 AM
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Hahah yes yes yes. My husband just gave me a $150 gift voucher for a spa. It was SO sweet... but I would honestly rather just have that extra money so that I didn't have to be stringent with my grocery list (who needs diapers anyway? :P ). So it's not like he is selfish. He is the opposite. But I have learned that being a budget nazi only makes him feel inadequate, which I definitely don't want him to feel because he is AMAZING and makes enough for me to stay at home so I am incredibly grateful.…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 04:49 AM
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I love this thread because I am in a very similar situation to you. In fact, almost identical. I used to huff and puff about his frivolous spending because it honestly stressed me out. I have since stopped that, and have been working hard on be gracious when he gives me gifts that I think are too pricey. Even though I may cringe on the inside, I give him a big smile on the outside :P To mitigate the whole catch 22 of being the "bad guy budget enforcer" I still write the budget, but I only put in…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/15 04:21 AM
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Beth from entertaining with Beth on youtube. She is a fantastic cook, her demeanor is so sweet and lovely and she replies so graciously to the many comments she gets on her videos. I joked with my husband that she would be the only sister wife I would be on board with :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/15 08:21 PM
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I get this a lot, "you're almost like a single mum" (because my husband works a lot also). But no, I am NOT like a single mum. I get to stay at home with the best little people in the world. It's my husband I feel for, he misses out on so much, many days the kids are already in bed when he gets home :( You need to keep your mind in a positive and grateful place. And every time the kids do something super adorable, think about how lucky you are that you get to see that, because your husband doesn…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/15 02:24 AM
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I love this post. Sometimes I get caught up in feeling a little down that I don't have a wonderful wardrobe full of cute dresses and pretty hair bows :P But my husband cares more about how I treat him and my general demeanor than looking like a pin up girl when he gets home from work. Not to say that I don't put in an effort, because I do (I don't want him coming home to sweat pants and a spit up stain on my shirt) but as always, balance in all things ;)
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/15 04:24 PM
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How exciting :) I'm crossing my fingers for you. Regarding the tiredness, I don't have any advice except to give your body what it is asking for, rest. It may not seem like much is happening but growing a baby takes it out of you. I slept sooo much the first trimester, but you'll feel much better in the second trimester. And you can look forward to the awesome burst of energy at the end when you are nesting >.< Oh and take your prenatals :)
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 02:00 AM
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Have you not taken a test yet? Because if you;ve missed your period already it's not too early for a test.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/15 01:39 AM
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Can you link your pinterest January?
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 09:26 PM
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https://www.pinterest.com/LisaC123/ Here's mine. I just started a new one because my old one was full of junk links and was almost exclusively food.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/15 09:19 PM
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This is what I do. When I'm having an at home day I often have the chat running as I'm doing things. Adult conversation is something that you don't get much of as a SAHM. Even during playdates a lot of the time we are having to keep the kids playing nicely and don't get to converse as much as I'd like.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/15 12:00 AM
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The Sonaran Desert is considered a "green desert", so there's a lot of vegetation for them to pollinate. Cactus flowers, palo verde trees, mesquites. We also live right next to extensive crop farms (cotton, watermelon, strawberries).
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/15 03:02 PM
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I'm semi rural. We have cows and chickens, but we live in the dessert, so are limited on what we can do with our land. Oh and bees :) They're fun
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/15 02:52 PM
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The word "job" has negative connotations to me. I would not call staying at home and looking after my children a job. I think it's a luxury, and one that I wish more people were able to enjoy. I think it's better for you kids, I think it's better for your marriage and I think it's better for society as a whole for women to stay at home. But it's not a "job".
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/15 05:39 AM
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I did once see a recipe using spaghetti squash in a fettuccine, I didn't try it, but I think it would be alright.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/15 07:02 PM
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Omg, saving this, my husband would love this on his cheat day.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 07:03 PM
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I'll just share my meal plan for the next few days in case anything sounds good to you :) -Curried cauliflower and kumara soup and chicken tikka masala. -Cornbread topped chilli -Lentil and orzo spinach soup and chicken fettuccine -Spanish chorizo and bean bake Yum yum yum :P My mama sent me a new cookbook so I have lots of new things to try in the coming weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/15 07:00 PM
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You just reminded me, I really want a gravy boat for thanksgiving.. I have to keep my eyes open, I want a giant fancy one :P
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 03:51 PM
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I have a habit of looking at things and saying "I can make that". And then trying to prove myself right. I've tried my hand at bookbinding, calligraphy, making all types of foods from scratch (various pastas, dairy products like cheese/yogurt, breads and starters), we've had a number of different farm animals over the years, tried my hand at gardening but gave up because AZ makes it too damn hard. Just started sewing, which I love love love. What I want to do is woodworking. For my 5th wedding a…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 03:45 PM
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I love it, I saved a few of these and will print them out to put in my cooking binder :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/15 04:11 PM
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This is why I got rid of my smartphone. It's RIDICULOUS how people get so addicted to them. You really need to get your addiction under control. Seriously, life is so much nicer without constant beeping and booping coming from your pocket.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 07:34 PM
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I'm very good at making a man I love "angry" when I think he is becoming to nice. what do you mean by this?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/15 07:26 PM
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I've been vegetarian since before I got married, but I cook meat everyday, because my husband is not vegetarian. I get grossed out by meat sometimes, so I understand you having those feelings but you really just have to suck it up. One thing that does help me is raising animals for slaughter ourselves. Its a win win because he likes the pure grassfed beef, and I like that the food I'm cooking was raised by me with love and care rather than a feeding lot. Not sure if that's doable where you live,…
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/15 02:12 PM
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I'm 23 and my husband is 31. I like the age gap, it works well because I got to be a young mum (had my first at 21) and he is still young enough to be active with the kids, but old enough to have an established career to support a family.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/15 07:39 PM
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Of course 21. Your prime child bearing years are 18-26. Why waste them with flings when you can be starting your family?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 01:53 PM
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Oh fun. I will be reading :) Thank you for allowing your relationship to be a good example for others, I'm curious as to the type of questions he will get from the people at /r/TheRedPill
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 05:45 PM
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I flooded his house and he didn't kill me. I wish I were joking.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 02:38 PM
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This is horrible :(
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/15 04:24 PM
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I just remembered. A while back I got a pedicure set for christmas so I gave him a pedi. That was fun, I should do it again, having your feet taken care of feels good for anyone.
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/15 08:31 PM
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Probably tickles. He is absolutely obsessed with tickles to the point where I used to get kind of irritated that we couldn't watch a movie without him asking for back/butt/feet/head tickles. But now I am thankful that there is something I can do for him that he can't do for himself and it always makes him feel good :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/15 02:19 PM
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Mama bear instincts will set in when you have babies. No one messes with my little bear cubs :P
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 10:51 PM
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I can totally understand feeling this way. I hate hate hate sleeping alone. So whenever my husband isn't around I sneak the babies into bed with me :P They're not even 2 yet, but for some reason it makes me feel safer.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 10:04 PM
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Something that makes a huge difference for me is putting on music when I clean. I usually find a "housework songs" playlist on youtube and let it run. I have young kids so I don't have a cleaning schedule per se, I just write a short list in the morning and get things done whenever I can (anytime the girls are playing nicely and not demanding my attention I quickly check a few things off). Cleaning is an area that I could improve upon greatly though. I only recently discovered magic erasers and …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/15 02:25 AM
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Okay I see. Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/15 04:18 PM
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Am I doing something wrong or do you have to pay to participate? It tells me I have to pay $5 to continue as my "trial" has expired.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/15 03:56 PM
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Wash my own. It's not much extra work. I guess the only thing is that you have to line dry them, but I line dry all of my clothing because I'm a big weirdo who refuses to use the dryer (I live in AZ and can't understand why people use a dryer when sunny 364 days of the year, lol).
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/15 10:27 PM
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Cloth diapering is awesome. I have 2 babies in diapers right now and I couldn't imagine having to spend a bunch on diapers each week.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 06:40 PM
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This reminded me that I have bags of clothes to donate. I'm going to do that today :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 02:38 PM
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My husband loves acts of service and touch. I have to remember this and stop the inner monologue of "what do you think I am, your mother?" when he expects little things of me that he can easily do himself. Case in point, the other night I was getting dinner ready for the kids while he milked the cow. I had asked previously if it's alright that he eats leftovers as they needed to be eaten, he was fine with this. So he came inside and I was feeding the babies and he got upset because I hadn't fixe…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 02:20 PM
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I'm a minimalist too. I don't think my husband believes me when I tell him that I genuinely want for nothing. ;) But seriously, I don't like buying junk and I take joy in throwing old things away.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 02:12 PM
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I just think the movie looks super depressing to be honest
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/15 11:01 PM
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