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5'6" dude here. I always see these posts about women being most attracted to tall men. For the most part this is true. Building attraction is much easier if you have the genetics to back it up. However, it is by no means the end all be all of attraction. Do not ever count yourself out because you are short, that is beta rational. Who gives a fuck? It's something you can't change so don't worry about it and worry about the things you can improve like lifting and maintaining a healthy and fun life…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 04:53 PM
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"You're not weird? I'm really not interested in anyone who isn't. Normal is boring."
/r/seduction03/11/15 08:45 PM
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It's just one example of the point he's making.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 10:15 PM
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Not what you are looking fur but the best advice is just fucking do it and mess up. Just make sure you learn something each time. You can read everything in the world but you will forget all of it in the moment. You must learn through action and messing things up. The most important part is outcome independence. If talking with a girl doesn't go well who gives a shit laugh t off because there are more fish in the sea. I had to fuck up conversations with thousands of women before I got anywhere.
/r/seduction29/10/15 09:47 PM
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I live with two girls right now (at least until tomorrow when the lease ends and 2 guys are moving in) and they didn't clean shit. Not to mention the amount of hair that got stuck in the shower drain, and guess who ended up cleaning it anyways. (Don't worry, I left the giant clump of hair on the ledge in the shower so the could look at it for a week). The didn't treat me like a eunuch because I was the only one getting layed, but I never talked to them, just loved with them.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 09:16 PM
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Congrats on your first date! There are a lot of things that I could tell you about what to do in dates but the truth of the matter is that you really only learn from personal experience. If the date doesn't go well make sure you learn something for next time. That being said, use the rule of 3. On your date you should bring her to at least 3 different places. Start with a bar, then a walk in the park, the maybe a record store or hat shop. I usually do 2 bars and a silly store. Only tell her abou…
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:30 PM
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Most European people can pick Americans out of a crowd because they are the ones smiling at strangers. Yes Italian people smile but it's the smiling at strangers which is creepy to them.
/r/seduction28/10/15 05:05 PM
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The data sets were collected in Japan and Italy where people who smile at strangers are considered creepy. And the set was only 214 women. I'm sure this drastically different in the United States where smiling at strangers is the norm.
/r/seduction27/10/15 05:15 PM
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It's all in your head man. Whether you know someone before hand or not doesn't change who you are. Just bet the same attentive, fun, and funny guy you normally are if from of people you don't know. Don't go into the party with the intention of impressing girls, go with the intention to have fun and the girls will follow. Just remember that eye contact is the key into a woman's soul.
/r/seduction15/10/15 09:05 AM
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This second part is very very important. Outcome independence is very hard to learn when you feel that no one will love you. I felt this way for the longest time. Now I'm not 30 but I didn't have my first girlfriend until 23 and up until that point I wondered how anyone could love me if no one loves me until that point. Then I read No More Mr. Nice Guy and I changed my entire outlook on how I get what I want in life. Once I put myself first and stop giving a shit what other people thought I imme…
/r/seduction15/10/15 09:01 AM
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Yeah, it's just not worth investing in a whole meal on a first date. It's hard to escalate when you are sitting in one place. What if it turns out you don't like her as much as you thought? Then your stuck at dinner.
/r/seduction13/10/15 02:46 PM
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Yeah once I started applying the rule of 3 my dates either end with sex or if she needs to go home because she loves far away then she ask me when she should come over. Either way it's pretty much am f-close. When you are walking between places is a good time to pull her into a corner for a kiss.
/r/seduction12/10/15 05:45 PM
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Welcome to the world of millenials. Is unnerving that this is the way things are done? Yes. But unless you are in a big city or at school, it can be tough meeting women otherwise. Don't put all your eggs in one basket, but give those eggs the best possible chance to become an awesome omelette that you scrambled with your dick
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 03:18 PM
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The best piece of dating advice I ever got is the rule of 3. Plan a date where you go to 3 different places in order to change it up, escalate, and show that you know how to have fun. Personally I don't like to get food on a first date unless it's a slice of pizza. Lots of people try and make food a first date so I like to be different. As for the whole her paying for stuff thing, I like to tell her that she should get the first round of drinks and I will get the ones after. Again you stand out …
/r/seduction12/10/15 02:40 PM
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I'm 5'6" 3 of my last plates where all taller than me. Would height help? Yes, does it matter 100%? Only to the most narcissistic of shitty women. They like me because I'm fit, handsome, smart, and most importantly because I evoke emotional responses from them. Women love their emotions.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:35 AM
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What a constructive asshole. We'll he's definitely more constructive than an asshole. Thanks for touching up my pictures! great job man. Edit: We all know if you have Lightroom you could learn how to fix this but not everyone has the program or the time. My pictures had some blemishes and he fixed them up way better than I could have even with a couple hours practice. Thanks for the services and stop making the work he's doing sound like its nothing.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/15 05:27 AM
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That's the worst, but the bet still doesn't get you layed. Just a story to laugh at. Speaking from experience here.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 07:37 PM
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-I have a math test tomorrow. -Huh? -I thought we were talking about shit we're prepared to cheat on. This doesn't work terribly well, I've tried it. But you do get a roar of laughter if delivered correctly. When you have true outcome independence than saying shit like this to make yourself laugh is worth it sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 03:13 PM
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This post is silly. Use a credit card for normal purchases. It helps build credit and if it get lost or stolen then it's the credit card company's money being spent, not yours. You can't say the same about cash. Plus all this under the table shit is stuff teenagers and college kids do. Once you are an adult with a real job you should do your best to pay the necessary taxes so you don't get audited and/or thrown in jail.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 05:06 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI
/r/seduction09/10/15 11:53 PM
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Pm me so I remember to send you a video when I get home. I have what you are looking for but can't access at work.
/r/seduction08/10/15 04:24 PM
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Two pieces of advice: 1) The next time you meet a girl, lock eyes and feel that sexual tension, that is when you grab her by the hip and go for the kiss. Be bold. 2) Girls who are flirty like this are usually flirty with many people. I'm not saying don't go for it, you most definitely should. Just don't be surprised if you see her doing the same thing to another guy. It's who she is and that isn't something you can or want to change. All you can do is be confident in yourself and not let that ge…
/r/seduction08/10/15 03:40 PM
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Talk up every one equally when they are in a group, in fact talk to frumpy more than you talk to hotty but don't flirt with frumpy, just talk about normal things and save the occasional flirt with hotty. Then tell hotty by name (everyone loves hearing their name and it will make it clear you only want to do it with her) you are doing something (coffee, drink at the bar, grabbing food, going to the library) and she should join you. Be very confident about it. None of those "hey if you want to" or…
/r/seduction08/10/15 03:19 PM
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Not 100% true. Sure if it's a girl you just met and you are trying to have sex with her you will get no sympathy. But if you are talking to a close female friend and the topic comes up, girls will listen to your problems just as much as they love telling you them. They probably won't give you a great solution, but sometimes just telling someone (guy or girl) is enough to set your brain in motion for a solution.
/r/seduction08/10/15 01:02 PM
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Coco verse with the dude and be agreeable with him. If you can shift the attention off him and to you then you have gained the upper hand and value. If she is still more interested in him then move on to other things. Show her you don't care one way or another.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 05:44 PM
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At the beginning yes, but then once you've gone up to maybe 20 girls and just say "hey how's it going" or "where are you off too" with a smile on you become more comfortable with it. Just go out and do it.
/r/seduction17/09/15 01:23 PM
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Try getting friend zoned first. Might not be a popular thought here, but if you are thinking abundantly then you might as well learn how to make friends with girls first and in time learn to seduce other girls. Take it in small steps. Once you have some female friends you can talk to as confidently as you would male friends, chicks will come as long as you are passionate about something and take care of yourself.
/r/seduction17/09/15 02:09 AM
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Go visit your friend.
/r/seduction17/09/15 12:35 AM
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Good for you, but not much of a field report. All I got from it was eye contact and kino. The "you don't have to come inside" line was sharp though.
/r/seduction16/09/15 10:17 PM
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This is one of those things you just need to practice. Keep an abundance mentality. Make eye contact, try talking, if it doesn't work then learn from your mistake. There are more fish in the sea.
/r/seduction16/09/15 08:58 PM
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Its about finding new things you like that add interest to your life. You should do these things because you want to learn about them, not because you are doing it to get women. Hobbies will become topics you can talk about or show her because you have experience. It adds depth to your character and should make you feel good when you are doing it which helps you build your confidence and happiness. The women will follow as long as you become and stay a fun and entertaining person. When you are p…
/r/seduction15/09/15 05:14 AM
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Watch this video about "holding conversation like a man" for more info on how to use silence properly. It really fucking works. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b-a1jXgAsQI
/r/seduction15/09/15 04:48 AM
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The advanced seductionist won't give you any things to say, only you can come up with that. What i will say is that it is the man's job to start the conversation but a woman's job to keep it going. Once you have your coffee just sitt down with her and stay silent and make eye contact until she says something. Your a dude and you can handle the mild anxiety of silence. She cannot. If you are a complete novice take it as a learning experience and do your best. The piece of advice I will give you i…
/r/seduction15/09/15 03:30 AM
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I get it, I didn't say they are horrible people either. This sub loves making AWALT generalizations and I was throwing in a SWABTO for new readers.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/15 04:25 PM
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Take this with a grain of salt SWABTO. The girl I'm banging right now is actually funny and has stories to tell. I still apply red pill logic to our relationship but not all women are fucking terrible people, just a lot of them. But in general yes, women add shit to conversations.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/15 10:14 PM
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Ending a dry spell is always tough because your self confidence isn't 100%. I don't recommend asking girls to fuck because this will come off as needy and possibly creepy. It's really tough to do but the best thing is outcome independence. I've only experienced this in the past 2 weeks or so after ending a dry spell, but don't talk to girls with the intention of getting laid. To to them with the intention of having fun and that you are a fun person to be around. Then the girls will let down thei…
/r/seduction03/09/15 04:25 PM
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Lots of great advice here. My only piece to ad that I haven't seen is teasing her playfully. Girls love to be teased. Last weekend I was out with some friends and met this group of girls who complimented my short and mustache (handlebar haha). When i separated one of the girls from her friends to talk I noticed that her top had a piece of fabric in the front that looked like a pouch. I asked if she was a kangaroo and if there was a Joey in there. I kept a big smile to show I was joking around. S…
/r/seduction03/09/15 04:20 PM
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You're over reacting. You aren't too free, you are at the gym which is keeping you busy. If you have stuff to do after like go home and prepare for the next day you are busy. The only way you will appear too free is if you tell here everyday after a certain works or you. As the dude just pick a day and a time and let her know. If it doesn't work for her then suggest a second day and time. Just don't run through everyday of the week.
/r/seduction03/09/15 04:10 PM
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Live in a big city.
/r/seduction27/08/15 09:30 PM
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First you must understand that 90% of the conversation will be about her. You can always relate things back to your personal experiences, but never bank on being asked questions. No one wants to interview another person anyways. This is actually beneficial because it stops you from revealing a lot about yourself early in meeting her. After you approach and introduce yourself and hold strong eye contact, just stop talking. You hear the advice a lot that you should add quiet points in your convers…
/r/seduction26/08/15 10:16 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction23/08/15 04:26 AM
2

I agree with OP's point too. Using substances as a crutch is detrimental. I did say though that psychedelics should be used in SEVERE MODERATION. They are not something to be abused and can have very negative side effects if they are. That being said, substances like LSD and Psilocybin can help you to break away from the constraints programmed into the sober mind and help you to better analyze your subconscious thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 04:02 PM
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If you have never taken psychedelics I would recommend them so long as you go into the experience with the intent to learn more about yourself. Taken in severe moderation they can help you to concur the problems your sober self doesn't realize exist.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:55 PM
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Same man. I can talk in a calm demeanor until the cows come home. You can just laugh your way through anything awkward. Texting you can't and I have a lot of trouble with it.
/r/seduction20/07/15 05:54 PM
1

Can confirm. Different girls are different believe it or not. I was talking with a girl and she mentioned hooking up with (meeting) her friends. I made the obligatory hook up joke and she took offense and said I was over confident. I didn't do anything wrong, we just didn't click and sometimes you new to recognize that and move on.
/r/seduction13/07/15 05:53 PM
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More power to ya if that's what you love to do.
/r/seduction10/07/15 12:12 PM
1

Why not try changing the plan? Tell her you want to talk to her and get to know her and that's hard to do in a theater. Ask her out for drinks and remember to have 3 things to do on your date so you can keep moving and escalating. By the end hopefully you can convince her to watch a movie at home together.
/r/seduction09/07/15 11:37 PM
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Talk about meeting up another time and just hand her your phone with the number pad up. Don't actually ask for her number just imply it.
/r/seduction09/07/15 11:25 PM
15

The girls you meet at bars suck. You want to meet girls doing stuff you love. Then ask them out for tea or coffee or something.
/r/seduction09/07/15 10:44 PM
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Give her a neg and ask her is she is always this lame or if she is putting in a show for you. You need to control the conversation rather than vice versa. Never lead with a question you know the answer to. You know what she is doing now, talking to you. Ask her about a piece of jewelry, and if there is a story behind it. Ask what she is doing this summer and if she has any vacations. You have no idea about any of these so it's an honest question.
/r/seduction22/06/15 04:31 PM
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Ask this in r/sex not r/seduction. That sub is better suited for your question. You have clearly already seduced her. But you probably should not take Viagra at 17. It just doesn't seem like a healthy decision. If you masturbate a lot you might have a death grip and grab your dick too hard. Try putting a pause on masturbation for a week or two of this is the case.
/r/seduction08/06/15 05:27 PM
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This is not exactly advice but just letting you know you are not alone. I'm in the exact same boat. I got stood up last night and feel like shit. Reading your post reminds me that I'm not alone and to get back on the horse.
/r/seduction08/06/15 02:41 PM
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Pretend like you are dancing with someone but by yourself. Shake your hips to the beat. You can move your hands but keep your fingers together or in a fist (I.e. Don't finger dance unless you are trying to look silly). Also know that you should dance differently for every song because every song is different. There isn't just one dance you should do because it will make you look boring on not versatile.
/r/seduction04/06/15 01:07 PM
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I highly disagree. Dancing by yourself shows confidence. You give of an aura of "I don't give a fuck I'm just here to have fun." Obviously having friends around helps with social confirmation but when I'm at a club or a show I don't walk through crowds, I dance through them. You would be surprised by how easy it is to talk to people when you dance up next to them. It's very disarming.
/r/seduction04/06/15 01:05 PM
2

Listen to this guy. Grow yourself and become more interesting. Parties in high school are always a bit awkward and my friends and I always seemed to wind up doing something dumb. We would get in trouble and the cops would show up. It's hard to learn from someone else's mistakes but save the heavy partying until you graduate.
/r/seduction03/06/15 11:08 PM
2

Also look at America's Test Kitchen's version of Steak frites. Watch Gordon's and theirs. The test kitchen makes a nice herb butter which is delicious, easy, and will make you look like a boss in the kitchen.
/r/seduction26/05/15 03:48 PM
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Just do it dude. I was in the same position once when I worked at a best buy. I was playful and would talk to her in passing an always had a smile on. My biggest mistake was waiting until my last day to ask her out for drinks. We went out for drinks with her friends near her place. We had a great time out and then I told her I would need to crash at her place because I couldn't go home at that hour. We drove back with one of her friends who passed out on the couch. We started making out on her l…
/r/seduction26/05/15 01:39 PM
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