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Sadly (for me), you got it right. I am on the decline etc. I don't think that it's my husband's fault, but I am trying to convince myself that I'm not as unattractive as he thinks. Can you explain why what I did was a shit test? I think of it as a comfort test. Why do you have value to your husband? Why does he want to be with you, and not the red-bikini bimbo he pointed out? I don't think that he ogled the red-bikini woman because he thought she'd be a better wife than me. I bring many qualitie…
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 05:13 PM
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I love being ravaged. He wasn't ravaging me. I started acting like a hoe. Now he's ravaging me all the time. Can you elaborate on that? I'm only partway out of a sleepy bedroom situation myself, and I feel that there's a lack of content about handling a dead (or sleepy) bedroom in an RPW way. The blue pill content available online and in literature is overwhelming, and it does more harm than good. I thought of typing up an educational post about it, but although I've gained some valuable knowled…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:54 PM
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Therefore I've just been working on making myself sexier, keeping my mind sharp, making my own money, and trying to appreciate masculinity and further understand what men actually want and how to be a better mate myself, but the problem is that I don't know how to proceed from there. You are what I call "Mowgli woman", as in raised by wolves. I am one too. I was in an almost exclusively male environment since I was 18, and I thought it made me the ultimate woman. Instead, it just made me hella c…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 02:42 PM
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Thanks everyone for your helpful comments and thought-provoking discussions. I received immense value from reading your content. My takeaways are: Pointing out good-looking people to each other is unhealthy and this behavior should be nipped in the bud. As an analog to the "Go lift" mantra of TRP, "Lose weight" solves more relationship issues than we'd like to admit. This applies to my situation as well. I might not be overweight in medical terms, but I'm definitely not my best self. I should wo…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 01:54 PM
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I don't think it's harsh. If I wanted to be coddled or to circle-bitch about my husband I would have gone to literally any gyno-centric sub on reddit. He just went from looking at some size 0 nothing in a red bathing suit probably bouncing around and happy to looking at his size 8 wife who lacks confidence and sounds unsure of herself. Of course he's going to look at her. Yeah. This is the red pill truth of this situation. I wasn't trying to control him looking at her. I was actually upset at my…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 01:21 PM
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If he loves you, but he doesn't want to fuck you, you have to be more fuckable. I think this is probably a key principle in approaching a dead bedroom in an RPW way... Being more fuckable isn't just visual, although a lot of it is. It generally has to do with resembling his model of ideal femininity. Particular tastes may vary but the general outline is common for most men. There was a turning point in my understanding of what my husband wants to see in me when I noticed what kind of women he is…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 12:30 PM
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I'm not sure why this is downvoted, I think it's a well-written piece of red pill advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/19 08:39 AM
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He said "look at her, she has a nice body". In his defense, this was not out of the blue since we do discuss (gossip about) attractive people we see from time to time. I agree. That was cave woman comfort test. It almost felt like a primal urge at that moment. I think I would have been comforted by something like "you're hot, don't worry about it". Or "you know you have a great backside".
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 02:01 PM
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Maybe he's trying to tell you he wants you to look better though This is my instinct too. I can easily admit I'm less attractive than the red bikini woman but it's hard to accept I'm below his threshold. If I am though, I shouldn't sugarcoat it. Should work harder to look better.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 06:20 AM
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Unlikely. It would have come up in sex therapy by now.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 06:04 AM
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Yes, he's generally very polite and deterred by crudeness. This is one of the reasons I'm questioning my perception of reality. Maybe I should interpret these remarks as him expressing his desire.. it's a stretch.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:31 AM
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I was wondering about that. If our sex life was peachy, I was feeling good about myself and sure he's attracted to me I'd be fine with it. I think in a sense it shows that there is trust and playfulness in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:23 AM
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Yes, sounds highly plausible. If this is the case, what can I do to break the cycle?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:19 AM
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We've discussed what things we'd like to do before trying (traveling for eg), how our lives will change (we're homebodies and already live in the suburbs) and how we'll divide responsibility (we believe in mostly traditional gender roles and my job is more flexible).
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:17 AM
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No, we're comfortable financially and could easily afford a baby. But it is something to think about. Quite possible that the responsibility is an additional stress.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:06 AM
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Yes! I agree he shouldn't be responsible for my happiness. I just find it hard to detach myself from needing to feel desired.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:03 AM
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Definitely agree about me feeling shit regarding the sex issues. I think he's actually on board with the baby-making, but the sex issues do have to do with the work stress and also some underlying relationship polarity issues -- he doesn't lead well enough and I don't surrender well enough. It's mostly work in progress that we're gradually becoming better at.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 03:00 AM
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Yes, he's stressed out by work and yes, we've been talking about trying this year.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 02:50 AM
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Thanks for the tough love. Telling people the harsh truth is an ungrateful but important job.. I'm not overweight and I'm the same weight I was when we got married. I said reasonably attractive because I'm not thin, I'm a size 8.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 02:47 AM
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This is definitely a valid concern. In the past I didn't have any self-esteem issues regarding my appearance. However, our sex issues have severely damaged my self esteem. Our sex frequency declined mostly on his part, he said in therapy he isn't as attracted to me as he'd like to be, and as a part of therapy we've now been on a 4ms sex hiatus, which he was tempted to suggest bypassing only 4-5 times.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 02:27 AM
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Yes. I didn't react at that moment but later that night I told him that makes me sad. He said that he meant my swimsuit is flattering. He also said that he compliments me a lot and that I refuse to accept it. I don't doubt that he loves me and cares about me but in my perception his compliments are empty of any kind of attraction or desire. Things like "your swimsuit is nice" or "you're all dressed up". I am starting to doubt my own sanity on this though.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 02:11 AM
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