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Firstly, I’m so glad you’re managing to deal with your experience, and that you’re with someone whom you love. :) So I know fds doesn’t recommend sharing past traumas with the people you date etc. since a lot of LVMs will use that info to manipulate you. Did you ever share what happened to you with your fiancé before you got physically intimate? And you’re absolutely right, trust is a privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 04:27 AM
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I agree! But they’ve somehow convinced themselves that watching sports is an elite passion that makes them nuanced, interesting individuals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:40 PM
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My ex used to say I wasn’t passionate enough about things - the truth is he just thought my hobbies weren’t “worthy” of his acceptance, he made me feel like shit. Also, why is it that every guy I’ve met who’s obsessed about women having “passions,” has the same basic bitch interests? They’re either really into super cars or sports. Not that there’s an issue with those interests, but it certainly doesn’t make them as special/unique/superior as they like to think they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 05:33 AM
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Yeah, I get what you mean! This poor girl is definitely getting abused in so many ways, but it probably doesn’t even register on her radar. If this is what it took for her to be upset, I can’t imagine what else she’s letting slide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:32 PM
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I’m sorry, but how do you accidentally choke someone?! You know exactly when things are going too far. He knew what he was doing, there’s no justification for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 03:24 AM
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The “craziness” in question? Me getting mad at him for completely ignoring me at a party (he said hi to me, and that was about it), and flirting with his friend the entire night instead. He gaslit me into thinking I was overreacting. 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:44 PM
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I think I’ve said this verbatim to my LVX in my pick-me days 🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 05:40 PM
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Is it just me or does it seem like his ego got a little bruised when she said she didn’t want anything more either? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:24 AM
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Oh!! I didn’t realise there was a whole skeleton, I thought only partial remains were discovered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 10:04 AM
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Exactly! I think when I was younger, I just assumed every animal would want/like to be pet if they’re not obviously aggressive. But that’s just not the case…so it’s always better to let them come to you. If they really want to be pet/approached, they’ll make it clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 08:03 AM
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After watching ‘YOU,’ I’m not 100% sure he’s actually gone…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:49 AM
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I wouldn’t say I hate cats, but I’m not a fan of them either. If I see an unfamiliar cat, I just don’t interact with it at all. I’ve seen too many videos of cats attacking people completely unprovoked. Even with unfamiliar dogs, I always let them come to me. Going to pet them when they’re not comfortable with you can result in a nasty bite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 05:45 AM
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“Chinless fucks” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:40 AM
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Oops, yes, 48 not 40, haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 04:18 AM
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Exactly. You need to slowly forgive yourself, because even if your inner voice was telling you something was off, it’s really difficult to actually follow it because of the way most girls and women are conditioned to behave. We’re told so often that we’re being dramatic, that our feelings are invalid, or that terrible things are “normal”, that self-doubt sets in pretty easily. As a result, it might take getting burned a couple of times before really understanding that you need to trust your gut.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:50 AM
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Ughhh same here. I also get so mad at myself for the level of disrespect and abuse I allowed. I feel ashamed, and so sorry for my past self. I also feel this immense rage towards some of my ex’s. But then I remember that I can’t blame myself for whatever happened, and that they should be the ones carrying the shame, not me. It’s also comforting to know that I will never put myself in similar situations again, and that I get the opportunity to meet actual HVMs from now on. You’re not in the wrong…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/21 07:31 AM
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I know exactly what you mean, it’s scary to think how normal and accepted they are on the outside. And nobody else knows about the fact that they’re rapists. It’s also so worrying what they can do to other women in the future. Keep rising, and working hard to accomplish the things you want to in life. And keep advocating and helping other women who you think may need it. You are amazing, brave, and a fighter, and I hope you continue to let your light shine bright. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:12 AM
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I’m so so sorry you had to go through that…that’s beyond horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:19 PM
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I was at a cafe once, and I overheard two guys “ranking” me. I don’t exactly remember what they said, but it was along the lines of “she’s 8.5/10 for Asian standards, and 6/10 for white standards.” There’s a LOT to unpack in that statement alone, but it was so infuriating. And of course, they looked like trolls, but that’s beside the point. In general, it’s messed up to reduce a person’s apparent value to a number on a 10-point scale, and it’s a huge red flag when anyone does it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 05:37 AM
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He needs therapy for sure, and he needs to stop roping other girls into his fuckery. All the comments were like “find another girl,” “you’ll meet the right girl” - like why does a poor girl have to deal with his bs and be a rehabilitation centre for him?! I think only one comment said he needed to go to therapy. The others just want to keep throwing women at problematic men to help fix them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 04:45 AM
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Of course, when a woman doesn’t assume a male is a sexual predator, and proceeds to get assaulted, it’s her fault. Because she should have seen it coming, duh! You can never win with these people, their opinions are irrelevant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/21 05:04 PM
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No worries! I’m just happy I’m not still with him anymore. But what I can say for sure is that do not stick it out ladies!! It doesn’t get “better,” and if he has a limp dick more than a handful of times, it’s not because of liquor/anxiety/whatever the fuck. He has ED, he needs to see a doc. Don’t put up with anything that you’re not happy with, because if the roles were reversed, you can be sure you’d be dumped immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 11:44 AM
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I would have avoided him altogether if I followed FDS vetting strategies. But I dated him before FDS, and looking back, there isn’t anything specifically surrounding sexual compatibility that would have raised red flags, even after FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:11 AM
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Honestly, in terms of sexual compatibility, there were no warning signs, because he was a good kisser…he was just really lazy/not confident in bed. I think I can count the number of times he’s gone down on me, but he always expected me to go down on him. And I was pretty much always on top - he was just really unwilling to put in any effort/reciprocate. He also had a limp dick, definitely watched too much porn/had ED, but that’s not something I really saw beforehand :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 10:03 AM
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Ok honestly, I’ve dated someone, waited to have sex, and it was pretty bad…I didn’t really see it coming either, because he was a good kisser, just really bad in bed. And by that point I was too emotionally invested in him to break things off easily. So let’s just say it was a really unfortunate situation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 09:47 AM
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