RussianCurse98 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
70	Divorcing after 14 years...		RussianCurse98	/r/MGTOW	12/06/18 07:48 PM

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1	Are there any infidelity divorce survivors here? How are you handling it? How did you recover? I just discovered wife of many years has been stealthily cheating. I'm destroyed. Burned. Well. Here’s my story. In my 40s. There was no red pill / mgtow back when I needed it. I was married for a while 15 years - two kids. We had a small retail business together. About two - four years ago...guess she started being distant and unhaaaaaaaapy. So just after the holidays last year - she pulled the pin - boom no more marriage, 1/2 my money gone but the worst was the loss of time with my kids - I love being their dad - love the simple things saying goodnight at the end of the day - well …	/r/MGTOW	28/11/18 08:05 AM
1	Divorce after 19 years Agree 100% it is so tough to see it coming. I had it all. Then someone close pulled a pin on a grenade bc she wasn’t “ happy” and now I have half. I’m not even talking about money - we split that evenly /and I don’t worry about that Because it’s the kids. I miss 1/2 the time. I miss doing a full week with them now I have 4 or three days. In contrast- She is an empty suit with no real interests. Whomever she is around she picks up their idea of fun. Before she’d like my hobbies - now she does the…	/r/MGTOW	22/08/18 10:50 PM
3	Divorce after 19 years It’s funny - when this all broke - it hit me hard. But like every man everywhere - when the bad times hit - 2 choices - lay down and die or... get up and fight the depression. Watch the Edge with Anthony Hopkins. It is the best movie on survival - In my case, I chose the latter. She thought I’d fold - I guess she was reading me wrong on that one. Thank you - for your thoughts, kindness, and consideration. I’ve found I had a lot more friends through this than I thought - I also have my two kids -…	/r/MGTOW	22/08/18 08:12 PM
3	Divorce after 19 years Amen. Not a former athlete, but I’m one now that’s pretty strong. Love the Arnold book and the workouts in there btw. Also have a good career. Yet, I lost out to a 51yr old balding guy with a potbelly. “Lost out” right - he can have her disloyal ass. Lol. No more strings on me.	/r/MGTOW	22/08/18 08:05 PM
3	Divorce after 19 years Agree. I got married in early 2003. Fed the lies about true love and marriage too. Mgtow wasn’t even a thing back then - or wasn’t widely discussed. I’ll tell you how I found it - married a while and started seeing the ex not caring about me ignoring me not being interested in me. Started looking for help on the Internet Read the red pill stuff and when that didn’t work eventually landed here.	/r/MGTOW	22/08/18 08:00 PM
3	Divorce after 19 years Haha like it - no matter what I did - I’d be wrong. I do weights 4x week and box 2x. I also have started training my older son -	/r/MGTOW	22/08/18 07:56 PM
6	Divorce after 19 years I do see that - I’m still the same guy - still their hero - in fact, they’ve rallied around me. They constantly compare me to new guy - and it’s not good for him - I don’t need to run a “better dad race” - but I’m miles ahead - they see it and tell their mom constantly. Not that it matters buf we were watching some action movie - and my son said aww dad you would have won that fight - your the toughest guy - that moment more than any other made me - made my life - Sometimes I get sad over the lo…	/r/MGTOW	22/08/18 07:54 PM
6	Divorce after 19 years Nah - not a landlord. My story is probably one of 1000s that happened this year - all similar facts.	/r/MGTOW	22/08/18 03:34 PM
66	Divorce after 19 years Don’t know if my post went through. So I’ll share my story - married over 15 years together 19 or so. 2 kids & a business together. Normal problems of most marriages. I thought “we” were different - that it only happened to other people. I’m in good shape, a great dad, and cared about her deeply. I would have said she was my best friend too - at Least until the last three years or so. I never cheated, did drugs, etc or anything else that would have warranted leaving. In my eyes- it wasn’t just n…	/r/MGTOW	22/08/18 03:15 PM
1	Jordan Peterson: "if you don't have a wife and kids by the time you are 40, you are a lost soul living a miserable existence" Agreed 100%. I know exactly how you feel. No hope on finding a good woman - there aren’t any - I focus solely on my kids. If that means I’m alone - so be it. I never thought I’d be in this situation, I did it that way you were supposed to - in the end I was too nice. Never again. I made a list of things I’m never doing again. Because of that I will be alone - and I’m good with that - I started making new friends and scheduling things around the gym and when I don’t have them. I take it one day a…	/r/MGTOW	26/06/18 04:13 PM
7	Jordan Peterson: "if you don't have a wife and kids by the time you are 40, you are a lost soul living a miserable existence" I love my kids. They are better than the dog. I also see what other people go through. Thankfully, I have them most of the time - if I was relegated to alternate weekends I’d lose my mind.	/r/MGTOW	25/06/18 11:19 PM
37	Jordan Peterson: "if you don't have a wife and kids by the time you are 40, you are a lost soul living a miserable existence" Ok. Fair enough. I was into that. I was married - 14 years, two kids, good guy - not perfect - but on the big stuff was 100% legit. Then she felt unhappy - no request for counseling, no listening to my requests to try again for the kids - I’m unhappy. Now that the divorce is filed - well she’s seeing some balding potbelly guy - that I thought something was going on for months - but I was crazy. I don’t regret my kids. I do regret believing that you should sacrifice for another adult - which is t…	/r/MGTOW	25/06/18 10:58 PM
2	Divorcing after 14 years... Honestly- it’s my favorite movie - you could write a whole self help book on some of his lines in that movie - jackrabbit smoking a pipe, die of shame, just because you’re lost doesn’t mean your compass is broken - amazing movie The scenery is cool too so is the music Hit me up when you are done - I may do a post on it here sometime	/r/MGTOW	20/06/18 03:56 AM
1	I want to get married but spending some time here has freaked me out! Ok. I’ll share my story - married 14 years together 18. 2 kids & a business together. Normal problems of most marriages. I thought “we” were different - that it only happened to other people. I’m in good shape, a great dad, and cared about her deeply. I would have said she was my best friend too all while in a fog. I never cheated, did drugs, etc or anything else that would have warranted leaving. Not saying I was perfect - she could have said we have to go to counseling- I asked to do that five…	/r/MGTOW	18/06/18 02:27 PM
1	Would you keep boarding airplanes if you knew that between 40 and 50 percent of them crashed? Eh - I have two great kids. Though I miss them terribly when they are not with me - the rest is only money -came into this world poor - not poor now / and I’m a worker - so I will be ok. Regardless there is no good reason to ever get married.	/r/MGTOW	18/06/18 04:48 AM
21	Would you keep boarding airplanes if you knew that between 40 and 50 percent of them crashed? I did too. I was married for 14 years. Together for 18. Two kids. A good life. And then she met some balding 50 year old dude that did it for her. I kept in shape and I am a great dad - yet here I am with 1/2 of my stuff and missing my kids 50% of the time. I did nothing majorly wrong - no drugs, no booze, never cheated, did everything for my two kids. Sure, like all couples we had some small issues but nothing to end a family over. Yet, she thought so. So now as the divorce is pending - she sta…	/r/MGTOW	17/06/18 10:28 PM
5	Only 46% of Kids Grow Up In A Traditional Family Agreed. What’s even worse is the whole step dad issue. Let’s just say that the good woman says she’s not happy & decides to leave. No problem - which shows how far we really fallen. If I broke into your house by saying I was there to help - like a cable repairman & then I stole 1/2 your stuff or hid your children for 1/2 the time - I’d face jail for burglary and kidnapping. Yet when ever a woman does that it is cheered on - we look at the criminal as lower than dirt but in reality the cheating w…	/r/MGTOW	15/06/18 05:30 PM
2	Divorcing after 14 years... Hope you liked the Edge Let me know your thoughts	/r/MGTOW	15/06/18 05:15 PM
2	Women with children who cheat in their marriages are evil. Thank you It is so hard getting out of be each day to go to our business / knowing what she said. The only saving Grace is that in a few weeks I’m telling her the business has to be split.	/r/MGTOW	14/06/18 01:44 PM
7	What would society have to be like for you to consider a serious relationship? Amen brother	/r/MGTOW	14/06/18 01:48 AM
26	Women with children who cheat in their marriages are evil. Agree on that point too. The guy in my case knew we had kids - he met them before. Grade A asshole.	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 07:12 PM
30	Women with children who cheat in their marriages are evil. Agreed. At 44 years of age - I look in the mirror and am proud of who I see - I have lived with honor - always tried to do my best. My kids see that - so do others. I have let it go - the evil that people do it hurts them more than others. She will never find a guy like me - who’d die for the kids, who worked two jobs to support us when needed. Her loss indeed	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 07:11 PM
112	Women with children who cheat in their marriages are evil. Yep - I made my post on here yesterday. 14 years of marriage, 2 kids. Avoided me like I had the plague on and off during the marriage. Last two years, it really started to change - she became more brutal with her words. Separated in January- filed for divorce in May - just admitted to seeing someone at beginning of June / same guy I told her I thought was trying to get with her - I was”crazy” for thinking that she said - guess who she’s admitted to seeing...yep. Hope it’s worth it. I kept in sha…	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 06:54 PM
1	Divorcing after 14 years... Ugh - I think I could lose it all except the two kids - That is terrible - and saying that doesn’t even begin to cover how bad that loss is Get a lawyer - try to get him - sometimes you have to change lawyers and keep going back multiple times to get what you want Don’t know if you are religious- I pray every night - I’m not some bible thumper- but I talk to god each night how I’m still happy and thankful for my two kids I don’t know where this road leads but keep trying - through every mountain…	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 02:36 PM
1	Divorcing after 14 years... Thanks for the sarcasm - she actually tried to tell me that too. I told her that was bullshit. I settled everything before this came out - it wouldn’t have changed anything - I have a fair settlement. Everything split 50/50 no alimony no child support Honestly, for me it’s the loss of faith - she always said things like I’d never leave because I’d miss the kids and (me) and the family we had. That person died two years ago - the person that takes her place looks similar to her but has no honor o…	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 02:30 PM
2	Divorcing after 14 years... Definitely- The Edge Look for these gems Jackrabbit smoking a pipe Die of shame Just because you’re lost doesn’t mean your compass is broken Fire from ice (he says it to get one guy to think Kill the bear And at the end how Charles never becomes bad or vengeance- he stays true to himself and remains good	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 02:13 AM
1	Divorcing after 14 years... Thanks that is so kind and thoughtful to say. I appreciate all of that. I believed in vows and honor When my kids were born - I touched their chests and said I would never give up and never walk away. I never will - I have them 50% of the time and I suppose that is fair but because of something I never did I lost half of the next five years with them. It sucks.	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 01:43 AM
1	Divorcing after 14 years... Too true.	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 01:34 AM
1	Divorcing after 14 years... Thanks man! I will - I’m a diesel powered bulldozer. I will get ahead - thank god for this place and the family and friends that I have.	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 01:34 AM
5	Divorcing after 14 years... Thank you. I will be ok. I have the kids and they have me. Far dumber people have had kids and made it. When I feel sad I look at them and I become stronger (kinda like the grinch at Christmas) I read stuff on here for two years - never thought I’d be part of some horror movie. Yet, here I am. Now, I have no faith in others - it’s me - I’m pulling the wagon- I rely on no one But I have my mom. I’ve started telling friends and making new friends - guys at karate people at the gym. I’ll never get …	/r/MGTOW	13/06/18 01:31 AM
8	Fellow MGTOW - How Old Are You? 43	/r/MGTOW	12/06/18 09:14 PM