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| -1 | Next time try supporting your own?I never said anything about generalising the word women? It was more about generalising and simplifying a complex 100 year old movement into "blame game" when clearly feminism has at the very least some legitimacy as a movement, unless of course you think women shouldn't have anymore rights than the ones they had in 1900? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/02/20 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Next time try supporting your own?Well you didn't say modern feminism, you said feminism which makes a difference in this case; hence why I called it a generalisation. By labelling all of feminism you make it sound as if you think the whole thing is a mistake and that we were better off before women had any rights. You've now said modern feminism - which makes more sense as the whole Internet is just a pit of blame, rage and insults on all sides. You can pick any topic and a side and you'll get echo Chambers with evidence tellin… | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/02/20 09:16 PM |
| -10 | Next time try supporting your own?Bit of a generalisation? To distill a movement that's being going over 100 years down to this is reductionist and retarded. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 12/02/20 08:20 PM |
| 28 | Did you ever regret not committing to a girl because you wanted to search for your perfect someone?So she cheated on her boyfriend with you? Doesn't sound like wife material... | /r/seduction | 23/12/19 05:16 PM |
| 6 | A way to think about the numbers game, looks and attraction in generalI think you're right, not gonna be popular on here though. | /r/seduction | 17/11/19 11:03 PM |
| 2 | Learn to keep moving forwardI feel personally attacked | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Am I desperate ?Yes you are desperate | /r/seduction | 01/09/19 10:28 PM |
| 9 | Lack of vulnerability in men caused by parents?Yeah I've always struggled with vulnerability. I was a shy, easy to embarrass kid so when anyone teased me about a girl it really got to me. I wanted to be a tough, confident, gregarious kid and I wasn't. I realise now there was no malice in it, it was just funny to see my reaction. I learnt to be non reactive and never mention girls due to it, as a form of self defence. I've got over a lot of it, but I still struggle to be truly vulnerable. And I still struggle to bring up girlfriends to my fam… | /r/seduction | 19/07/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I've officially swallowed the black pill...Yeah I'm not surprised women don't want to date you when it's clear you're a massive cunt | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 06:34 AM |
| 3 | How to greet a girl when she arrives for a date?No don't do that, do a hug | /r/seduction | 02/05/19 06:32 AM |
| 1 | I made the most beta move in my existence.Shit that's pretty bad. I'd be mortified. At the end of the day you were drunk so you've got an excuse, people forget things quickly and people do give extra leeway in social interactions when people are drunk. Just act normal at work, don't get so pissed again on a work night out. Also you need to look at why you made such a big move for this woman, it was bold but it had no subtlety and probably came out of nowhere. | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I not "look like a player"?Don't wear a blazer | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome a lack of social proofTrue but doing a hobby that gets you out of the house and meeting people is much better than sitting inside watching Netflix and playing xbox | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 11:42 AM |
| 1 | "it's impolite to ask for photos in China"Why you getting angry. Maybe this one woman was wrong, doesn't mean every woman is. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Online dating sites, How to show my "personality" as accurately and quickly as possible?Just make yourself look like a fun person. Most women and most men will only make a judgement on whether the person looks attractive, cool and fun. You can't really portray personality until you meet the person. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Opinion: Low Bodyfat is more important than big musclesLol fair | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Getting used to being thought of as attractive?It'll take time but you just need to build yourself up. If you fuck something up forgive yourself, but you need to get out and do shit. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Feels like rejection after great chemistry and datesSounds like you didn't do anything obviously wrong. Sometimes it just doesn't work out | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Opinion: Low Bodyfat is more important than big musclesTrue but would being muscled to fuck change your face? Or would just being ripped as a cunt do it? | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Fucking depressed. Need HelpYou feel weak now but this will make you stronger in the long run, the pain is worth it. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Opinion: Low Bodyfat is more important than big musclesBeing cut makes your face look way better too though, just look at Mac on it's always sunny in the latest series compared to previous ones. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Why a girl won't make eye contact on a date?Damn this is some good shit | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Does it really matter what country you live in to get laid?Haha you're a twat mate. No wonder European women aren't interested when you start spouting this shite. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Experienced 17Yr still not fulfilledYou can't determine your self worth from if you have a girlfriend or not. You sound like you've improved yourself over the last few years so you should feel confident and happy about that. If you know you're decent with girls then you should know you can attract them should you put yourself out there if you want. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 11:54 AM |
| 1 | Does it really matter what country you live in to get laid?Well I'd say Europeans are probably more intelligent than the average American so I'm not sure what that has to do with it. It's just the way things are, you'd need a anthropologist, historian or sociologist to explain why. You need to get into the European mindset more and stop looking at it from an Americans perspective or you'll never make any progress. Americans are often viewed as arrogant and ignorant and by saying the culture of a whole continent is stupid then you're clearly going to pro… | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Giving False HopeYeah it's part and parcel of the game, It can happen to either side. Best thing to do is move on and let her get on with her life, try meet new girls so you're not tempted to go back to what's easy and familiar if you're drunk. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 06:39 AM |
| 1 | She (21F) mentioned another guy she recently met but seems interested in me?Sounds like she might be leading you on. She must know you're interested but trying to make you jealous. Don't talk to her about the other guy. You need to make the dates more fun and more sexy, tease her more and try and escalate. | /r/seduction | 26/04/19 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Does it really matter what country you live in to get laid?This is just the culture in Europe. If a guy started talking to me on the bus I'd think he was weird. In the UK you only tend to talk to strangers if you're out getting pissed, don't know if it's the same in Germany. | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | If you are unsure if a chick is just being polite or is interested, should you just straight up ask?You need to just ask her out then, only way to find out. Pick a date yourself and say 'let's go out for drinks on Friday' don't pose it as a question | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl tries to start a conversation with you through text?I don't think there's much wrong with replying to a girl who's chatty over message. A lot of young people have grown up with texts and messages so it's very normal to do it a lot. A good rule is to not be too chatty by just replying with a similar length message to what they reply with. Try to be funny and jokey still, if the conversation fizzles out, so be it. The girl will either try to keep it going or not. You should have arranged a meet up with them already so that's set up and sorted and i… | /r/seduction | 25/04/19 12:00 PM |
| 1 | How can I rekindle or build a close friendship with my ex?I hope you're not as much of a cunt now | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | I hate how desperate I am but I don't know how to stopGet laid a few times with a few girls who you aren't so attracted to you act desperate. Once you've done this, remember how you acted with them and do it for the girls you're more attracted to | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Why do my friends always tell me to go to the gym? Does it actually really help with girls?Gym will make you happier, healthier and you'll be more attractive to boot. You don't have to go but it's worth it | /r/seduction | 26/03/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | women now a daysPeople are actually having sex less than they used to if you look at the stats | /r/seduction | 15/02/19 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Doing drugs in the clubIt'll make you confident as fuck probably, but then the next day you'll be anxious and feel shite. Not worth it, just stick to a few drinks | /r/seduction | 11/02/19 11:17 PM |
| 2 | This is what happens to your body when you stop having Sex. No. 3 makes me really scared.I didn't have sex for nearly 2 years and I was so not bothered about it for a long time. When I did my interest in it shot up again. | /r/seduction | 02/01/19 06:34 PM |
| 2 | I've had more sex this year than any other years of my life combined. Still, thoughts of "unworthiness" have not gone away, not even in the slightest...I get it, it's a constant war within yourself about what you're achieving. I compare myself to guys who are better with ladies too much and it brings me down. What I try to compare myself to is myself a year ago instead. If you've been progressing and improving yourself 1 year is a long time so you should be a lot better. If you're not then you're not working hard enough. | /r/seduction | 27/12/18 01:24 AM |
| 2 | I’m baffledProbably made it too obvious you're invested in her and she's not that invested in you. Best thing to do would be to move on | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 07:37 AM |
| 3 | I can never forgive my parentsYou'll never attract women with a shit attitude like that | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 02:44 PM |
| 2 | I was assaulted last nightShould have slapped the drink out of her hand so she couldn't have it, then left. | /r/seduction | 17/12/18 12:08 PM |
| 1 | How to feel entitled/deal with insecurities?It's a constant battle for many of us, you've just gotta keep grinding away by improving yourself and putting yourself out there. Try not to compare yourself to others, only to yourself/what you used to be. You've approached a lot of women, that's so much better than how many you'd approached before you started. You need to keep busy with gym, exercise when you're feeling a little down, it's normal to have moments like that, you just need to ensure you battle them and keep on top. | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 11:24 PM |
| 2 | How can I keep my mental state consistent?It's not really something you weaponise it's just a philosophy that you can use to bring perspective into your life. I'd recommend d reading A Guide to the Good Life: The Ancient Art of Stoic Joy. If everyone's reacting the same way, it may have some truth to it. It's just that most people who are really smart don't go around telling everyone they are, they realise it's a bit immature. It doesn't make people think more of you, it does the opposite. There's whole subreddits taking the piss out of… | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How can I keep my mental state consistent?Exercise, meditation, stoicism. These 3 help quieten my overactive mind. PS. Stop telling everyone how smart you are, it makes people think you're a cunt. If you are really smart then people will realise this so there's no need to tell them. If you talk in real life like you wrote this, then people will roll their eyes at you. | /r/seduction | 13/12/18 12:32 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you've gained the reputation of a sleazy guy?Blacking out is a nightmare, I've done it countless times and it's never been enjoyable. I live in a culture where it's close to normal behaviour so I can get away with it but it's a terrible place to be in. The anxiety is off the charts when you wake up after a work night out not remembering how you got home or what you said. Best advice is to knock that on the head and drink a little bit for fun, never aim to be getting wankered. Admittedly it's one of my weaknesses and not only is it no help … | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 01:24 AM |
| 4 | In a nightclub setting; what are some conversation topics that lead to sexy flirting?Ask her if she likes pina coladas | /r/seduction | 27/10/18 12:38 AM |
| 2 | How can I smoothly initiate a make out session?Stare into her eyes with a smirk, if she stares back with bang me eyes go for the kiss. | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected on my first date ever. 24M. Feel like shit.You should probably read a couple of books about dating and acting attractive to women, I'd recommend Models by Mark Manson and 3% Man. You need to improve your knowledge on how women work and what attracts them to a man, these two books helped me a lot with this so I'd recommend them. Overall you fucked up pretty badly but you had a lot of balls saying what you said and you weren't saying it out of neediness but because you thought it would attract her. So you can definitely chalk it down as a … | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | So the good looking guy in my friend group is a virgin but the obnoxious one who pees on cars gets laid all the time?He's probably depressed/self defeating/low self esteem and low awareness of when someone is hitting on him. He might even be asexual if he's not at all bothered about female attraction so much. Guaranteed if he started working at it he could easily get laid if he's attractive, it would be easy for him. | /r/seduction | 26/10/18 11:32 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl you've already gotten with beforeI'd go for drinks but that's what I do for most first dates. I am in the UK where first dates often tend to include drinking though. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Did I pass the shit test in our text after the date?You shouldn't have told her you wanted to go home with her. You need to make it seem like it just happened that way, not like you were planning it. You then compounded this mistake by trying to watch a movie at hers for the second date, she thinks all you care about is sex and will probably be playing hard to get on your next date. Don't try to force it, just be relaxed and fun and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Did I pass the shit test in our text after the date?You shouldn't have told her you wanted to go home with her. You need to make it seem like it just happened that way, not like you were planning it. You then compounded this mistake by trying to watch a movie at hers for the second date, she thinks all you care about is sex and will probably be playing hard to get on your next date. Don't try to force it, just be relaxed and fun and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 12:30 PM |
| 1 | When you’re ready come and get it 👅Why you pulling a face like you got a mouthful of m and ms | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 03:20 PM |
| 2 | I throw on random cloths when it's time to workout. Have I been killing my gymn game?They might attract a certain type of woman, but if you don't care what you wear in the gym and you're more bothered about actually exercising, it's probably better to wear whatever and stay true to yourself. You can then attract women who have the same ideals and are just there to exercise. Trying to chat up women in a gym isn't a great idea anyway. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Stop what you're doing and ask yourself, am I mentally healthy?Im happy with myself at the moment, I don't get my happiness from external factors as much as I used to. I've managed to improve my mental wellbeing without seeing anyone about it and I think I can continue to do so. Basically I'm still progressing and I'm not in crisis, I keep things in perspective so I'm not sure I need it. It may help me but I'm pretty self aware so I can recognise when I'm ruminating on a particular thing too much. I read A Guide to the Good Life : the ancient art of stoic j… | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Stop what you're doing and ask yourself, am I mentally healthy?It's almost impossible to make sweeping changes, you need to make small changes over months and years. Eventually you realise you've come far from where you once were. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Stop what you're doing and ask yourself, am I mentally healthy?It would probably help you if you told them you wanted to see one because you're struggling. If they're normally supportive and caring it might help having a frank discussion. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 08:04 AM |
| 2 | Stop what you're doing and ask yourself, am I mentally healthy?You sound like someone therapy might help, it sounds like your mother has influenced how you see women in an unhealthy way | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Stop what you're doing and ask yourself, am I mentally healthy?I've never seen a therapist and I doubt I ever will but I can agree that getting my mental health sorted out paid dividends in all aspects of my life, including with women. I'm lucky in that I had a good upbringing, a supportive family and friends so it was easier for me to fix my own mental health. I did this through reading about self improvement, philosophy (particularly stoicism). The thing that helps me most though is exercise, I always find myself start slipping back into old anxieties and… | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 07:49 AM |
| 2 | getting a boner while kissingYeah start tensing your glutomous maximus and your thighs and it goes after a few seconds | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Maintaining eye contact without being a creepSmirk instead of a normal smile | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 11:48 AM |
| 3 | Something I noticed about game and ageingThen you'll have to go for girls who are at your level | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 11:47 AM |
| 2 | How do you tell if a girl gets attached too soon and how to draw a boundary?Sounds like she's already very attached, think you've fucked up bro | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:48 AM |
| 2 | spirit is officially crushedNo wonder these girls are turning you down when you are so desperate for them to go out with you. You need to work on yourself and make yourself the prize, also date more than one at once so when one rejects you you're not as invested. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:47 AM |
| 1 | How to be more relaxed?Learn some basic Portuguese and start trying to talk to people, just approach them when your friend does and say hi and say your name and ask them theirs. They'll think it's funny that you're trying to speak to them in really shit sentences, but like the fact that you're trying. they'll try to teach you the language and start speaking in English. It's a good ice breaker, I've done this in a few countries where I can't speak the language. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 12:02 PM |
| 0 | Shit tests vs. Actual aggressive/bitter people.I don't think you dealt with any of these situations well if they're true which i doubt. You escalated them every time, which makes you seem insecure and not stable. You should just quietly, respectfully and assertively stand up for yourself. If someone takes the piss then yeah you can have a laugh with it but the nipplw thing was weird and way too far. Maybe wear plasters over them next time like the ladies do. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Pro tip: Delete tinder and use bumbleIt's decent where I am, but I'm in a city in the UK where its use maybe more prevalent. Its easier to think of interesting shit to say because everyone's got to answer questions. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 07:00 PM |
| 50 | Pro tip: Delete tinder and use bumbleThey're both as bad as each other but if you're decent looking and in good shape you can get results. Hinge is better than them both. | /r/seduction | 12/10/18 05:35 PM |
| 2 | U.K.) I feel I’m hideous hoe can I improve?He makes it on a daily basis, he's got serious mental issues | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 03:43 PM |
| 1 | [MALE 27] How can I test the water with a single woman, 41Just be normal, if there's chemistry then by all means be flirty but it's a dumb idea trying to go in there with grand ideas of seduction | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 03:42 PM |
| 17 | What is the most effective way to handle the post-coital "what are we" line?I'd like to know this--I've been seeing a girl who I know really likes me but I don't want anything serious with her. She seems pretty chill and independent and doesn't seem insecure in anyway but I think eventually she's going to bring this up. At the moment my plan is to just be honest and say 'I enjoy spending time with you but I'm not looking for anything serious, I don't know where you are but it's better if I'm just honest.' what do you think? | /r/seduction | 10/10/18 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I get back to my previous state?Get laid and force yourself to go on a few dates. Soon enough you'll start feeling confident again | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Another unmatch pls critiqueYou need to be funny but with small talk nothing sexual. Once you've worked out if the girl is cool and you're interested in them, get their number and move to WhatsApp. Then ask them out | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Started approaching in March...been a great journey of self-improvement, however I feel like living with my parents at 24 lowers my value immenselyI had the same thing, was in a massive dry spell while living with parents. It sort of sapped my will to go out and meet girls because it would be awkward to say you're living with parents and difficult to bring them back. Just need to move out | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 10:14 PM |
| 2 | If you’re non-romantically hanging out with a lady friend that you wanna eventually be romantic with, and someone calls you a cute couple or asks if you’re dating, what response should you give?'We're not dating yet but I think she's trying to woo me' | /r/seduction | 05/10/18 10:11 PM |
| 1 | 22M, living with parents, help meYou need to move out, it's hard to be your own man under your parents roof if they've been protective. I've recently moved out and I feel a lot more confident as I'm actually being independent, I can do whatever I want, bring whoever I want back. You slip into old habits and roles living with family and it's near impossible to break through while you're there as they'll recognise you're trying to do things differently. If you can't move out for the near future, focus on improving yourself, readi… | /r/seduction | 04/10/18 07:13 AM |
| 1 | How do i stop looking for others to give me approval/affection/attention/validation and stop looking for it? Stop pleasing them to be my friends?Nah go to the gym and lift weights | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 11:08 AM |
| 1 | How do i stop looking for others to give me approval/affection/attention/validation and stop looking for it? Stop pleasing them to be my friends?That's a decent start but if you wanna progress you need to do more. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 10:13 AM |
| 2 | How do i stop looking for others to give me approval/affection/attention/validation and stop looking for it? Stop pleasing them to be my friends?You're never going to get anywhere with that attitude. Start by getting in a good habit of exercising or going to the gym and take it from there. | /r/seduction | 30/09/18 09:03 AM |
| 1 | How do i stop looking for others to give me approval/affection/attention/validation and stop looking for it? Stop pleasing them to be my friends?I was like you for a long time but I've changed my life around in a lot of ways. The truth is you will never gain happiness from comparing yourself to other people. Even if one day your muscly and good looking, there is still someone else who will be more shredded and handsome, so it's pointless to compare. If you start taking steps to improve your life you'll gain confidence. The most important thing for me is going to the gym and lifting weights, this can have a massive influence or your mood,… | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 11:39 PM |
| 1 | First tinder date after many matches! Any advice?Don't focus on entertaining her, focus on having fun yourself but being interested in her. So ask her lots of questions, laugh at funny things but be natural. It'll probably be a bit awkward at the start but that's the nature of the beast. | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Do girls like the babyface or no?It's a weakness now but it will be a strength in later life. | /r/seduction | 28/09/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Kill everything that kills you. a post to myselfLifting weights heavier than your body weight isn't that hard, especially doing deadlift, squats, leg press and to a lesser extent bench press. When you first start you might be doing close to your bodyweight already. Apart from that fair enough | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Gaming Asian girlsThis is so smooth that if someone did this to me I'd probably go to bubble tea with them and I'm a straight male | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 11:42 AM |
| 5 | What is consider a low notch count ?Only 85 haha is that it? You may as well hand your penis in because you don't deserve it. I've slept with over 2 million girls and they were all 10s | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 11:37 AM |
| 21 | Conversations becoming dull and repetitive with GF. What to do?Without knowing the details it sounds as if you're in danger of losing her interest. This of course depends on a lot of factors you haven't described. In fairness as long as she has a lot to talk about it's not too bad, just let her do it. Ask questions about what she's been doing, how she feels about that and make funny comments about how you'd deal with a situation. Also try to make your life more interesting so you do have shit to talk about, go out with friends without her, go to the gym, tr… | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Quick trick I use to appear charismaticIf you wanna bang its gotta be redbone | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 11:41 AM |
| 10 | [Help]Confidence and determination almost destroyed after being rejected by an ordinary looking girlConfidence should be based on internal factors not external ones. It should be increased in this scenario because you approached, it shouldn't depend on the result of the approach | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Not really seduction relatedYeah you were being needy. You need to forget what everyone else thinks for a while and focus on improving yourself. You're not going to get anywhere with girls unless you're happy with yourself, so focus on that before focusing on girls | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Dating a girl whos batshit crazy Part one.Tinder isn't just a hook up app, loads of people use it for dating now. | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Anxiety before a dateStoicism, all that anxiety is is just a thought. Imagine zooming out over the city/land above your head with all the other people there going about their day with their worries/anxieties. Meeting someone for a drink means nothing in the whole scheme of things, if it goes badly it goes badly. It's not going to end in your death, it might actually lead to something exciting. You should be nervously excited | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 08:00 AM |
| 1 | Is being too skinny a bad thing? Also, other questions about finding girls in college, which I haven't been able to do in my 5 years here.This is very true, I started doing better with women when I stopped thinking about having sex with them and started trying to have fun with/around them. When you do this, the other things fall into place. | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Seeing others posts on Instagram makes me horribleDo you post Instagrams getting up early going to work, or when you've laid in bed all day hungover and feeling sorry for yourself? No People only post the best, interesting shit they do on social media so you think their life is amazing but it doesn't show the shit parts. You need to remember this while looking on Instagram. | /r/seduction | 24/09/18 07:24 AM |
| 5 | I might have the chance to reel in my youngest plate's mom. Bad or worse idea?Surely someone who's 53 should know this is a terrible idea | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 07:42 PM |
| 4 | Why am I so hypocrite?You shouldn't be gaining your self worth from how many people you sleep with, it's not healthy. You should get it from being an interesting person, who hits the gym and does plenty of cool shit but also sometimes likes meeting women. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so hypocrite?You need to train yourself to be able to handle the pain or thoughts like this. You're probably idolising women too much, you need to consider their negative traits, that they are just people. Tbf I'm not sure why a women would tell you this anyway, it's not something that would titillate a man, it would scare most off unless they were desperate. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Women saying one thing but doing another. What am I doing wrong?They're probably a little anxious because they expect you to try something and then you're trying it on and they're very aware of it. It's better not to arrange sex over text but arrange to meet them. Girls like it when they don't know what mens intentions are so arranging something like that before kills that. To salvage anything with these girls you need to stop snapchatting, meet up one on one and have intimate conversations. It's not vital to kino if it's not appropriate and they are uncomfo… | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | [Online game] Girls who are unresponsive to date requestIf a girl hasnt responded to a date request, don't say anything else just move on | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Girl Seems Nervous After Second Base - What Do?Girls sometimes might not ask you out even if they really want to go out with you, so it's best to just ask if you're interested. She might say no, she might say yes at least you'll have some closure. If she does say no you can be proud of yourself for doing something about it and then move on. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 05:46 PM |
| 30 | Topics to speak about with womenAll you need to do is say 'that's very interesting, how does that make you feel?' and then 'wow I never thought of it that way, you are very interesting person' Then finally 'ha ha ha, so funny do you want to come back to my parent's basement to play monopoly' | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 05:43 PM |
| 18 | What does it mean if a girl rests her head on your shoulder?She's almost certainly into you. I had a girl doing that to me at a party the other week and everyone was saying we should get a room. If you do it publicly it means the girl isn't afraid to show people she's at least a bit into you. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 11:30 AM |
| 1 | How can I be more open when talking to a woman?Gr8 advice, I did this and now I've slept with so many women I've lost interest in them and become a gay man | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 09:13 PM |
| 2 | I can seduce with the best, that is until I start talking. I come off so rough and it’s pretty laughable. Any tips to not sound like everything is my first rodeo?Always remember to get the girl talking more than you, can't express how key this has been to me. All I basically do is ask questions and stare at the girl with a amused smile. I then comment on what they've said and ask another question. I'm not that good at talking so this makes is easy | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How can I be more open when talking to a woman?Have a couple of beers | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 11:25 AM |
| 2 | What does it mean when a girls says this?'I didn't know you were from [place that she said]' It's pretty funny, flirty and even if she thinks it's platonic it's not weird. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 11:25 AM |
| 3 | What in the world is going on? Girls all of a sudden want meNah mate I've just started meeting way more girls and doing way better and I'm 25. You start blooming as soon as you stop wallowing in self pity, develop a backbone and start becoming the person you want to be. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Some conversations get boring for me; is it my fault for not saying and asking the right things or is it the fact that the other person is just not my type?Bit of both, if a woman is incredibly attractive she can say the most boring shit and 90% men will lap it up. Same goes with men. This gets amplified over messages as you can't tell much from a short message, chances are she's not that interested, but she might just not be that interesting. You've gotta work it out as you go, if you've not got much in common to talk about, it's probably not gonna go anywhere. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 04:53 PM |
| 2 | I think I fucked this one upYou shouldn't be trying it on with a girl with a boyfriend anyway, there's plenty of other single girls about. She may have blushed because she realises you were uncomfortable and felt uncomfortable herself. Or she could like you, you'll never know and it's pointless to work out. Move on | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Pretty sure I'm getting slow faded. Thoughts on my response?Don't bother with that it's a turn off, just message her less but try to be funny when you do. Tell her when you're doing cool interesting stuff and ask her out again at some point. If she rejects than she rejects, move on. | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How to be more like my drunk selfI've been reading about stoicism which has really helped me with this, it teaches you about how the only thing you really know is true is what you experience so why allow negative thoughts to interfere with your actions and how you are. You can't control how other people act, so if you are a good person you should not be scared to show yourself. /r/stoicism | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Anyone Read "Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi? Thoughts on it....Models by Mark manson and 3% man by Corey something | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Last night was just a reminder for myself that I can’t interact with anyone while stoned. What are hindrances for you guys when it comes to socializing?I quit smoking weed when I realised it made me do fuck all other than watch TV, it took me a few years to realise that. I'd still do it if my friends were but I'd never do it by myself. | /r/seduction | 17/09/18 11:27 AM |
| 1 | How do you get a girl engaged in a convo from the get go on tinderTry comment on something from their profile or one of their photos. Always make sure you ask interesting questions while working out logistics. Try get their number and get onto WhatsApp as you're more likely to get replies on there, and girls will think you are bolder and forward as you're asking for that. If you stop getting replies from someone who you thought the conversation was going well with, ignore it. Theres thousands of reasons someone could stop replying and they aren't all because y… | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 01:04 PM |
| 1 | LinkedIn experience?Yeah there's literally memes on the Internet with women complaining about men hitting on them on linked in, terrible idea. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 08:44 AM |
| 8 | LinkedIn experience?Don't use Linked in for game, it's for networking | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Watching RSD makes me depressedYou're doing better than a lot of people on here. You need to move out of home, so start focusing on getting a better job or whatever | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 05:35 AM |
| 3 | Ive banged over 100 girls on tinder/meet me/skout in the last two years.I just met some bird off hinge and let me tell you. Make sure you actually try to portray a bit of your personality on message before you meet someone. This bird I met didn't like fun at all, I was a lot better looking than her, bit she still wasn't engaging. I met an uglier bird than her last week who could hold a conversation and was interesting, this bird was boring. We did a pub quiz (which is a terrible idea for a first date) she got fuck all answers apart from the pop music round which she… | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How to increase mental toughness?Splashing cold water on your face is proven to reduce anxiety, this is a similar thing but more | /r/seduction | 15/08/18 06:33 AM |
| 1 | What should I do/is this bad self esteem?I've seen girls with profiles like that, they like everyone on bumble and then say that you have to add them on insta to talk. They just want to increase their follower count, pretty tragic behaviour don't even bother following or DMing them. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Why do think women love Captain Jack Sparrow? What about him is attractive?He's good looking, quirky and does what he wants and doesn't care what anyone thinks | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | The real reason girls don't sleep with you (and what to change to spark intense, sexual attraction INSTANTLY)Yeah who actually talks like that, only the sort of twat you would not be friends with in real life. You don't have to be a massive cunt to pull girls, just a bit cocky and funny. You can be respectful | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 10:10 PM |
| 1 | #infamous 25 virgin at it again, situation update and follow up advice requestYou don't have to act alpha as fuck to have sex with girls, you just have to be a bit funny and confident enough. If you're getting a lot of matches you're clearly attractive and have decent enough chat, you might be inexperienced but the more attractive you are the more mistakes you can make and still manage to get with a girl so you should be fine. It's a numbers game, if one of the dates goes badly you brush yourself down and go again, learning things you could have done better. | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 09:57 PM |
| 1 | "You are a cool guy". What does she mean?Should have said thanks what's your name and started chatting, sounds like she fancied you | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 09:48 PM |
| 3 | The 3 L's of meeting girls that WILL get you laidNice stuff. Just moved in with a lad who's really good with the ladies, it's in a city close to bars, my fashion sense is decent and I'm in okay shape so really looking to improve my game. All of the above has really improved my confidence already and there's so many more available ladies close by so it's a lot easier than out of the city living with parents! | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | U.K.) girls mocking me?Sounds like they were messing with you a bit, they probably wanted to talk to you but you acted shy. Next time act more confident, you're working in a pub, you can't get told off for being talkative and friendly to customers. One of them probably said they thought you were attractive and they were drunk so they started being flirty with you, just try join in with the banter next time, what's the worst that can happen. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Chatting with a girl, need suggestionsAsk her out on a date | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 12:41 PM |
| 1 | I avoid situations that might lead to sex because of my inexperience. Bad call?I'm very similar to you, I'm good looking, in decent shape and 6ft but I always avoided stuff like this in the past. I self sabotage a lot and convince myself girls aren't interested in me when they probably are, I only tend to sleep with girls who've spelled it out they are interested in me, I've not really chased before. What I'm doing to change this is to just to just start trying to get more experience and put myself out there more. I've started smashing tinder, bumble and hinge and my pics … | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 12:16 PM |
| 2 | I want to text her - Need your adviceYou need to stop focusing on this shite and start focusing on how to talk like a normal person | /r/seduction | 07/08/18 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to wear clothing to show off your muscles?As long as you do it subtly your fine, even if not subtle some girls will still like it, depends who you're trying to attract. If you want some basic girl she'll probably won't mind if you're wearing a vest, if you're trying to attract a classy bird then she'll care about your clothes so you'd have to wear a well fitting shirt that still shows you work out. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 12:26 PM |
| 5 | Uk) I’m hideous And don’t leave the house...kissless virgin alsoJesus you post the same topic like every day | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Texting is for logistics only.What if the girl is actually texting you loads though? I've just got a match on tinder who I've arranged a date with already but she keeps texting me loads? I'm not really forcing the conversation she's just chatty as fuck | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 05:44 AM |
| 6 | Supplements/Drugs to help in overcoming fear and anxiety ?You shouldn't eat tuna everyday, especially more than one tin. It has high amounts of Mercury in it and can lead to Mercury poisoning | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | having balls / being a manThat photo isn't very flattering but you're probably more than a 5 | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 01:01 AM |
| 1 | key difference between girls aged 18-21 & girls 23-26More bothered about having fun at any cost, more shallow, more immature. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 11:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I seduce international students / foreign girls?I'm from the north and I went to the US and Canada and no one could understand us at all. Even told a guy 'cheers mate, thank you' and he thought I'd said cheers mate, fuck you Ladies did like the accent though, as soon as you spoke eyes light up with interest | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 11:02 PM |
| 1 | key difference between girls aged 18-21 & girls 23-26Girls start wanting more serious relationships and are willing to settle more after age 24 | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 10:58 PM |
| 5 | My notesPretty sure Tutenkamun has these hieroglyphics written on the wall next to his sarcophagus | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Best dating apps apart from tinder?Yeah it does, if you go under settings you can change it | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 10:51 PM |
| 8 | Reading seduction leads to DepressionThis is great I identify with a lot on here, especially the bit about being someone who approaches things methodically and studies flaws to try and improve. When I first started trying to improve my romantic life I was trying to force myself to be like a friend who is a hit with the ladies, and like what a lot of people idolise as a great seducer, except that isn't me. We share some qualities in that we're opinionated, intelligent people. He's much more outgoing and actively enjoys the thrill of… | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 10:47 PM |
| 2 | "Just so you know, I'm not going to sleep with you tonight." 101Bad idea, she might reject your actions at that point because she's trying to be serious. That would only work if you're a lot more attractive than her. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | 25M Online Dating Closing Advice NeededKeep plugging away you'll get better, at least you're getting out there a bit. I think you might need to get better at conversation and having a fun, jokey personality. Try get the girl talking most of the time, with you making funny comments and asking more questions. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 01:04 PM |
| 2 | It’s almost over - 100 Women in 50 Days - Day 49He mentioned Shoreditch which is in london | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 12:55 PM |
| 3 | [field report] met a girl from tinder, k-closed on the first date, cockblocked by her roommate. Did I fuck up?Girls sometimes don't want other girls to know they're banging someone after a first date cos girls are more judgemental than lads. Maybe the girl in question isn't great friends with her roommate so is concerned she would judge her negatively. | /r/seduction | 03/08/18 12:49 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I had one of the best daygame interactions I've ever had in my life, I thought for sure she was going to come out for a first date but....You've done pretty well, not much more you can do sometimes it just doesn't happen. | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 07:13 PM |
| -2 | On vacation and want to ask out the front desk girl tonight. How do I do it discreetly?Go big or go home. Tell her you'd like to speak to the manager and when he/she comes out ask their permission if you can take this lovely young lady out about town | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 07:09 PM |
| 3 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?You're not that important | /r/seduction | 02/08/18 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Until I get good solo photos, do you guys think this might be stupid enough to work? (Info inside)Don't comment on the fact you don't have any photos with the writing, just leave it out. | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 08:50 PM |
| 0 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?Nah | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 07:37 PM |
| 2 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?Great you're proud of it as well | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | 22 yo Virgin, some confidence issues with clothes appearanceI wear a lot of gray, black, white and blue which are pretty neutral and that's fine. Matters more if they go together and if they fit well. Probably should get a decent haircut though | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 04:42 PM |
| 8 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?I'm pretty sure anyone who accuses someone of being a snowflake is a massive twat | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 04:39 PM |
| 4 | What was your most brutal rejection? Have you ever had a girl just flat out roast you for approaching her?This sounds like the best rejection ever tbh | /r/seduction | 01/08/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you think Season 2 of ‘Master of None’ accurately portrays the pursuit/buildup of a romantic relationship with a “married” woman?The dialogue in this show is so far from real and natural conversation. Saying that barely any shows are, you can learn how to improve your funny persona watching shows like this but it's not particularly natural. It's a pretty good show though. | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Until I get good solo photos, do you guys think this might be stupid enough to work? (Info inside)Yeah if you're an attractive man you should already have a selection of cool photos of you doing cool shit. If you don't you need to work on that or tinder won't work too well | /r/seduction | 31/07/18 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Should you ask women for tips on your online dating profile?Women tend not to say what they actually want in a partner so no. | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Completely lonely and depressed.. Where do I start?Models by Mark Manson is a great book on improving both yourself and becoming more attractive as a person | /r/seduction | 29/07/18 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Help me stop getting friendzonedStop talking and going on dates with the girls who just want to be friends. Unless of course they're really good fun and have lots of female friends | /r/seduction | 26/04/18 10:58 AM |
| 7 | How to escalate from making outWoosh | /r/seduction | 23/04/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Any tips for an introvert?You need to stop looking at it like it's a hindrance. I'm an introvert but I see it as a strength. I'm quieter, but when I say something it carries more weight so you can be funnier by saying something outrageous out of the blue. Girls naturally want to talk more on dates anyway, I let them talk about themselves being a good listener but making them laugh. I admit it makes it more difficult to go out and try and attract strangers, but when you're one on one on a date already it can be a strength… | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 07:56 AM |
| 2 | I'm a 29 year old that has had NiceGuy syndrome since high school. Is there any hope for me?There's so much you can do at this point to improve how attractive you are and how confident you are so there's a lot of hope! Watch some YouTube videos on lifting and find a beginner routine on /r/fitness and stick to it. You may be bald but loads of men are and still get women. There's plenty more of advice on here, try reading models by mark manson, 3% man, no more Mr Nice guy, these will all help. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | English men have no gameFair enough makes sense. Some guys kill it though its the same as anywhere. Being from the North of England and going south is still effective with women. | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 11:38 PM |
| 1 | English men have no gameI've been to Canada with it and the UK accent kills it, any foreign accent does | /r/seduction | 12/04/18 10:34 PM |
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