Basically when I was in my 20s I had to work really really hard to get laid and talk to girls. I got dumped by girls who were 7 or 8s and pretty heartbroken. In my 30s now girls are actively pursuing me and it's such a breeze to get laid. The exes who dumped me are now 5s and 6s and not worth my time or attention. It seems men get better with age and women lose so much value over time. So don't fret if you're young and awkward. Everything gets so easy the older you get.