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A girl approaches me and asks for my contact info like once every blue moon. Tbh I hardly ever go to bars and parties so my experiences are me walking down the street or on the bus.
/r/seduction06/02/19 08:19 PM
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I'm not trying to win her bro, I just mean should I do anything so it doesn't feel awkward that I cold approahed her and now sitting in the same class or if I'm overthinking it and it's not a big deal.
/r/seduction16/01/19 05:48 AM
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It's a shit test. Girls like to try to see your reaction when they point out something they think you may be insecure about, and then usually they'll laugh and say they were joking right away. Just laugh and agree and play it off. If you look offended you look weak and too serious. If she is constantly making fun of you for it then yeah dump her but if it's just a little joke on and first date it's definitly just to see your reaction.
/r/seduction25/12/18 05:09 AM
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Lmao I had almost the same exact text message from a girl I went on 1 date with. This is just an elaborate way of her saying she's not interested, but maaaaaayyybbbeee if in the future she's still single and desperate she might hit you up again (if you're still single). Just reply with a casual "I understand, let me know if you need anything" or something. Who knows, maybe 3 months or something in the future you might bump into her on the street or she'll see something on Facebook and hit you up…
/r/seduction25/12/18 05:02 AM
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Il try that thanks!
/r/seduction24/12/18 05:24 PM
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Yeah in my head I was thinking I should just bail put before everyone arrived but I sort of felt like actually going go Karting so I stuck around lmao too much pressure though I should have just called it quits early
/r/seduction24/12/18 05:23 PM
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Everyone paid for themselves so it was ok. I just expected a one on one date not a group hangout smh
/r/seduction24/12/18 04:56 PM
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If you look white then almost any Asian country you'll do well in (except the really religious ones)
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:11 PM
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Let it go
/r/seduction05/12/18 05:14 PM
1

She enjoys the attention you're giving her that's all. Next her.
/r/seduction05/12/18 04:36 PM
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Let's say a different scenario happens with a different girl and she does the same thing but doesn't send a schedule and just cancels last minute. Would you still reach out and try again or no?
/r/seduction04/12/18 04:37 AM
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Good tips
/r/seduction02/12/18 03:56 PM
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I'm curious to see Facebooks dating feature coming out. Tinder and okcupid and all those I feel have peaked and are now dropping. It use to be socially weird to use online dating so the only ppl on were weirdos, then it gained popularity thanks to Tinder and was socially normal for people to be swiping in public. I heard it's peak days where around 2010-2012 for Tinder (I was still under 18 so didn't use). I hopped on a couple years after and had some good success, I don't use it anymore, but fr…
/r/seduction02/12/18 05:26 AM
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You got to find some new hobbies man. Take a vacation go out and do something new. Getting girls is fun but it shouldn't be the only focus in your life.
/r/seduction01/12/18 05:23 AM
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Even if you can't bring the girl to your place it's still good to go out there and sharpen your game. You might still be able to go to the girls place
/r/seduction01/12/18 05:20 AM
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I sort of disagree a bit here. If the convo was really short in person, a little extra texting can be good to make the girl feel comfortable and atleast know a bit more about you before going out.
/r/seduction01/12/18 05:15 AM
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That's a good tip thanks!
/r/seduction29/11/18 05:59 AM
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It's possible she messed up writing it in my phone but it's impossible for me to know right now lol
/r/seduction29/11/18 04:38 AM
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Amazing
/r/seduction28/11/18 11:37 PM
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I already moved on seeing other girls but yeah I was a bit thirsty here lool
/r/seduction28/11/18 11:37 PM
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Yeah I kind of pushed too hard but I already sensed it was over earlier but decided maybe if I pushed she would go along with it cause she was the one who was texting me first and stuff before but oh well lol
/r/seduction28/11/18 11:36 PM
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Yeah I figured it was already over when she didn't bother giving me a different date the first time lol but for future what should I do in that case? Just instantly tell myself to drop her if she doesn't come up with a different date? I tried again once before and then told her to do the work in which case was when she just stopped replying..
/r/seduction28/11/18 11:34 PM
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Very good advice. I think I been too focused lately on the attraction (making sure I dress good, hair good, talk good, etc) and focusing less on the comfort part. Thank you.
/r/seduction16/11/18 07:03 AM
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This makes a lot of sense. I noticed the times I have the best results are either when I don't approach in a while and have lots of approach anxiety which make me come off a bit more nervous, or when im in a setting like a Starbucks studying and just making conversation with the girl next to me. Rather than days where I am feeling confident af and decide to casually approach some girls on the street. I'm thinking the whole daygame approach lots of guys have of "let's go to this street or area an…
/r/seduction15/11/18 07:00 PM
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Yeah I am wondering how bad they were lol what kind of girl receives a compliment and decides to get angry over it?
/r/seduction11/11/18 05:42 AM
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That's probably not the only thing cause me and majority of guys prefer to open with a direct compliment and gotten success so I wouldn't totally rule that out
/r/seduction09/11/18 04:31 PM
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I done this a few times and always got some generic "it's nothing you did, you're a great guy! I just didn't feel a connection.." or something.
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:03 AM
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Don't ask for her number right away. Ask her more questions get to know her then ask for the number at the end. At this point she knows nothing about you except your name, she doesn't have a reason to give you her number.
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:02 AM
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Can I ask what you did differently a month ago that finally give you results?
/r/seduction09/11/18 02:00 AM
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Anxiety never goes away. But it gets easier.
/r/seduction07/11/18 07:20 PM
2

Go out and meet new girls. If the feeling is still heavy for her then it's not oneitis.
/r/seduction07/11/18 07:20 PM
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Open up fb and tell her to search for herself so you can add her.
/r/seduction06/11/18 08:13 PM
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Wanted to see if she's still got it lol validation
/r/seduction03/11/18 04:09 PM
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Ma man
/r/seduction01/11/18 01:47 PM
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When you keep approaching eventually you won't be red. Some girls probably think it's cute. You can even comment on it "haha I was actually feeling kind of nervous cause I don't do this much.."
/r/seduction27/10/18 09:21 PM
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Was there anything you did differently that resulted in the increase in frequency?
/r/seduction27/10/18 09:17 PM
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Good job man. About your "should I rest as if I'm lifting weights", you usually rest so you don't injure yourself and come back stronger, cold approaching you don't really get injured haha that's all up to you. Everyone is different. For me when I'm with a good group of friends I don't even keep track of the approaches cause its just fun. If I'm going out solo, usually after like 3-5 I feel done and unmotivated to do more.
/r/seduction27/10/18 07:07 PM
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Good post. Worst case scenario you number close and she doesn't respond to your text. Best case maybe she's bored and wants to give it another shot.
/r/seduction27/10/18 04:54 PM
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Every woman sees good looking in a different like. You don't need to be "male model caliber" at all that's just some shit incels or guys too afraid to approach with use as an excuse. I'm no male model and I still have success. I have a friend who's 5'2 who still gets success. I seen many guys who look way below average get sucess. Don't fool yourself.
/r/seduction26/10/18 05:28 AM
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You won't know till you approach. Worst case you wasted 30 seconds of a girls time l. Best case scenario you end up on a date.
/r/seduction25/10/18 10:23 PM
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Maybe their attracted to op?
/r/seduction25/10/18 07:00 PM
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Women WANT men. Just like men WANT women.
/r/seduction25/10/18 05:54 PM
0

You just gotta bite the bullet and approach.
/r/seduction25/10/18 05:01 PM
3

Highschool bully gets punched (STORY)
/r/seduction25/10/18 05:00 PM
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Maybe they got the wrong guy lmao unless there's way more to the story. I cold approached girls right infront of security guards and none have ever said anything to me cause my approaches are respectful and don't come off creepy
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:52 PM
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First you got to understand that there is no such thing as the "one perfect woman". There's hundreds and thousands and millions of really amazing girl. 5 years from now you probably won't even remember this 2 week girl you dated and if you do will just cringe at how much you felt about it after you experienced some much better girls. I think you dodged a bullet to be honest. How old was she? She sounds very young and is probably not mentally stable or really religious or something. I can't lie t…
/r/seduction25/10/18 04:28 AM
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One man's 10 is another man's 1
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:14 PM
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This guy dates!
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:11 PM
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Why would that be the case?
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:06 PM
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I have never in my life asked someone what their hobbies are and they replied with nothing but "picking up chicks". Obviously learning pick up will improve yourself. You're building better conversation skills, reduce social anxiety, feel more confident, etc. Many of the same skills used for sales is applied. You don't need to dedicate a crazy amount of time doing this to feel the effects. I literally just spend 30-60 minutes once or twice a week just in the pursuit of trying to meet new woman. I…
/r/seduction21/10/18 04:45 AM
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Her saying she goes out without her boyfriend and instead with his male friends was her hinting that there's a chance with you. But then you just changed the topic from being about her to your preferences in women in general, so that sort of shut her down.
/r/seduction20/10/18 09:53 PM
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This is good advice. Just seem interested in what they're interested in and ask alot of questions.
/r/seduction20/10/18 03:41 PM
1

This works really well if you're a student. Find a girl from class and hang out all semester studying trying to "get an A" and you will realize whether you actually like the girl or not.
/r/seduction20/10/18 03:34 PM
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What exactly did you say?
/r/seduction20/10/18 03:16 PM
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I met a couple guys when I decided to go solo and they saw how I talked to girls and liked my energy
/r/seduction20/10/18 03:15 PM
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Hang out at a nice park Go to an arcade Go to a festival
/r/seduction20/10/18 05:35 AM
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Let the man post
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:37 AM
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You da man
/r/seduction18/10/18 07:24 PM
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As long as you're still approaching then it's fine. If you're walking around for 3 hours and did no approaches then it's not being picky it's just approach anxiety. If you see a girl and think "nah " and approach another girl you like afterwards you're good. Though sometimes I still aproach girls I don't don't really care just to keep that social flow going so when I see a girl I actually like I'm ready.
/r/seduction18/10/18 07:03 PM
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Approaching in the day is just something new to you so you're afraid or nervous. You got nothing to lose do it it's fun!
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:08 AM
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Theres still indoor places you can approach
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:06 AM
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Just cold approach whenever you see a girl you're interested in. Sure once in a while I might devote a couple hours every couple weeks with my friends for some day or night game, but usually the girls I meet are girls I met while walking to work or going to class. When you're on break going to grab some food instead of just looking at your phone look around and see if anyone interests you and spend a couple minutes with them. If you take the bus talk with the girl next to you. When you grocery s…
/r/seduction18/10/18 03:02 AM
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Damn that's awesome!
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:41 PM
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That's fucking weird. I would just laugh and ask about it in person " It says you blocked me hahah did you do that by accident?"
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:30 PM
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Are the girls who are pursuing you now young in their 20s or are they around your age?
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:26 PM
1

This describes me perfectly. It's only when I made the decision to delete Tinder did I get the push I need to go out and approach.
/r/seduction14/10/18 04:22 PM
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The best cure to oneitis is to meet other girls. Force yourself out there and talk to other girls. Guarantee for every girls number you get, that intense feeling you have for that girl will decrease.
/r/seduction14/10/18 02:06 AM
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She asked me to add her on Facebook and spelt out her name, I told her I will after work. I didn't just creepily try every variation of searches. Plus she was super into me by the end of it so I thought she would she laugh but guess not lool Should I just move on and accept that I messed up by over dramitizating and asssuming she would laugh or should I send her a message on instagram just telling I was joking and didn't mean to give her a stalker vibe lol?
/r/seduction13/10/18 08:01 PM
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I naturally always had a chubby face, even when lean. Never really affected my game (maybe I would be able to attract more if I had a leaner face? But I can still attract so wtv). I also work out and have muscle so that probably helps to, bit even before lifting it wasn't really an issue.
/r/seduction28/09/18 03:13 AM
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Great reply thank you!
/r/seduction27/09/18 01:25 AM
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People just started acting like I'm a bad guy for apparently making plans and cancelling them which isn't the case at all, and completely dodged my real question of whether it's better to talk about my dating life with her or not. Lmao thank you for actually understanding and advice.
/r/seduction26/09/18 05:00 AM
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I'm 5'8, not the shortest, but obviously not tall. I seem to do just fine when attracting girls. I got a buddy who's 5'2. He also has no problem attracting girls. He even dated a girl who was around 5'11.
/r/seduction26/09/18 04:05 AM
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My experience; approach anxiety never goes away. I'm still not perfect, still many times I will see a girl I like and end up chickening out and making excuses to not apppach. But the more you force yourself the easier and less anxiety you get. I know that feeling of having that initial mental block you're feeling where it feels physically impossible. Trust me when I say, the only way past that is to embrace it and just go for it. The more you do it the more it will feel natural.
/r/seduction15/09/18 02:43 PM
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I always try to just envision that past feeling. For example, last week on my way to class I approached this random gorgeous girl. We talked for a bit, and she gave me her number. Right then I had this insane confidence energy boost, and throughout the day I had more people just smile at me and stuff cause they can probably sense I'm feeling great through my body language. So today, I just try to envision how I felt that moment, keep it on replay and go with the flow. Might work for you might no…
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:40 AM
7

I quit tinder and just focus on cold approaching. Life is better than way!
/r/seduction05/09/18 02:47 PM
1

I use to always feel that way. But the only way I overcame is to just say "fuck this time to go get rejected right now!" and just approach. To this day I still have approach anxiety but I just always go in this "I don't give a fuck" thinking and do it and it gets easier.
/r/seduction02/09/18 05:29 PM
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I never do night game since I'm not huge on the club scene. Mainly focus on daygame. I feel you meet better quality woman during the day
/r/seduction26/08/18 04:02 PM
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Just say you were interested in going to the school or went to use the library (most schools in my city have public libraries anyone can use) or say you're meeting a friend there is a million reasons why you can be at a college. It's only weird if you went to a high school which I don't recommend for obvious reasons lol
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:01 AM
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Quick story: I use to talk to this chick last year, went on a date, talked a bit afterwards then she ghosted me. Year later I'm on a date with a different girl, that girl from last year sees me, starts texting me saying she wants to hang out with me again a year later. Moral is girls aren't like guys. Guys if we see a girl with another dude we just back off. Girls if they see a guy with a hot girl, that only makes the girl want you even more.
/r/seduction26/08/18 12:56 AM
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As long as you're having fun there's no such thing as a bad approach. My only comment here was you should not have asked to walk her to the parking lot and should have just went with her anyway. Other than that good job!
/r/seduction26/08/18 12:54 AM
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Every rejection you are one step closer to a success!
/r/seduction25/08/18 05:08 AM
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Seems like a regular date. Good job!
/r/seduction23/08/18 09:43 PM
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Not super sure tbh. Bit tough cause you don't want to be too direct in school. I guess if I see a girl reading a book or studying I can ask her about it and try to change the conversation to more entertaining things. Do you have any openers?
/r/seduction23/08/18 04:09 AM
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Some days I'm lucky some days not. There's days il approach 5 woman and get 3 out the 5 numbers all feeling great. Other times il do more than 5 and have 0 luck. Guess it all has to do with how I'm looking at the same, time, location, my confidence level, etc.
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:49 AM
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I'm about to start cold approaching on campus this year (previous years I never did). I would say if you are in a big university like mine, keep going to the different buildings and campuses at different times so you will constantly be seeing different faces and don't approach much in areas you spend alot of time in as you don't want to be bumping into the same girls all the time. Just my 2 cents on how I'm going to go about it this year. Have fun!
/r/seduction23/08/18 01:40 AM
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Now she doesn't work there maybe she bought something the day before and returned it the next day or something lool
/r/seduction15/08/18 08:57 PM
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Pretty much this. The second time I saw her from the back and just went straight into it without thinking lool
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:41 PM
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Lmao that's some pimp game
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:28 AM
3

For sure I should use different material. I just figured the lines I use gotten me some numbers so il keep using them again lool
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:11 AM
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Yeah now that it's been a couple hours I can see the humour but the following moments after the approach I felt awkward af and wanted to give up on cold approach lmaoo thanks for the comment
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:10 AM
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This makes me feel better hahah
/r/seduction15/08/18 02:08 AM
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Nah she said she had a bf lool
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:20 AM
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I sort of froze up and laughed and jokingly asked "still got the boyfriend around huh?" And she laughed and said yeah but still feeling awkward as shit from that approach lol
/r/seduction15/08/18 12:12 AM
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