Is There A Cleanly Defined Process For Seduction?

Morialbast · 2018-10-21T07:19:00+00:00

Approach
Build Attraction
Build Trust
Logistics/Take Home

saulisdating · 2018-10-21T09:25:55+00:00

One that works great for me is:

1- Approach an attractive girl.

2- Have a fun, exciting or interesting conversation with her.

3- When you see that she enjoys your company, throw in some teasing, push-pull, etc. to spark some sexual attraction and interest. (if that fails go to step 1 and try again or continue the conversation until she does)

4- Get her numer (if that fails, go to step 1 and try again)

5- Set up a date

6- Go on said date (or get an instant date at step 4 and skip steps 5 & 6 altogether)

7- HAVE A TON OF FUN TOGETHER while not forgetting to remain challenging, masculine, authentic yet carefree (most important part of a great date)

8- Build rapport and a deep connection. Showcase your personality and vulnerability.

9- Create sexual tension, both verbally and physically (in fact, you should be teasing and touching her throughout the whole date, not in stages)

10- Capitalize on said sexual tension by taking her to your place or hers and have some fun between the sheets because by this point she'll want to sleep with you herself.

This is all super condensed but I get laid on almost every first date following this. But then again, this all hangs a lot on how tight your inner game is. And especially on how well you do the 2, 7, 8, 9 steps.

hostergaard · 2018-10-21T08:25:55+00:00

Have a look into DiCarlo escalation ladder. It's not seduction as a whole but it cleanly define the aspect of being physical.

Khiv_ · 2018-10-21T09:12:09+00:00

Yes:

Be attractive
Find someone that you find attractive
Bang.

But seriously, you guys are harming yourselves by trying to encompass something as complex as human sexual relationships in a series of steps. I'm not saying there isn't a series of steps, just like I'm not saying there isn't a formula for immortality or for creating human beings out of ingredients in a blender. I'm just saying there are too many factors that we don't understand in objective terms.

It's like art. Given the right parameters a robot could produce works like that of Picasso, but do we really know how to account for everything that a great painter had in his mind when he conceived his work?

In seduction, as in art, there are fundamentals that you need to learn. Dress well, work out, go out and learn social skills, learn how to talk and be interested in other people, learn how to sound confident (and how to be confident), be interesting (do activities you enjoy), invest in your hobbies and career, but don't expect a perfect pre-defined set of actions that you can follow for a 100% success chance in seduction.

madrid201808 · 2018-10-21T17:23:55+00:00

Yes, it's called the Mystery Method.

Attraction

A1 - Approach
A2 - Attracting the HB or Female-to-male Interest
A3 - Male-to-Female Interest

Comfort
C1 - Building rapport
C2 - Building emotional connection and physical connection
C3 - Intimacy

Seduction

S1 - Foreplay
S2 - LMR
S3 - Sex

There's even a whole book about it.

Dugi124 · 2018-10-21T13:52:37+00:00

The D.E.N.N.I.S system seems to work well

Lord_Augastus · 2018-10-21T14:04:51+00:00

Say hello.

Find out things about her, share things about you, find common ground, avoid being a cunt. eventually something in your head will click and lessons from many approaches and material will start to make sense. You will start doing the same approaching to everyone making friends everywhere you go. Building up a circle of friends, all whilst meeting women. Some women will sleep with you some wont. All depends on their intentions and how they respond to yours.

Title	Is There A Cleanly Defined Process For Seduction?
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Date	October 21, 2018 6:54 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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