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| 1 | Is There A Cleanly Defined Process For Seduction?True in a sense, but unless you learn basic frameworks, you'll never be a master of anything. Few can reach greatness like Picasso, but almost anybody, with proper guidelines, and practice, can become a decent painter or illustrator. After that, innate ability and inspiration will take some to master level. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How the fuck do i stop seeking approval stop being a doormat nice guy? And take action???Have you read "No more Mr Nice Guy"? | /r/seduction | 08/10/18 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Top Ten Pickup Artists In The World (Part 3)Like, like, like, like, Like, like, like, like, like, like, like, Like, like, like, like, like, like, like, Like, like, like, like, like, like, like, Like, like, like, like, like, like, like, Like, like, like, like, like, like, like, Like, like, like, like... | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 08:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Tried to wing for a friend and ended driving the girl to her home, with kiss and a date.Indicator Of Interest: Leaning towards him, looking for his eyes, preening, alingning her body towards him, moving while dancing to face him, her back to the group, making sure that while dancing she would brush constantly with him, while there was ample space, dancing while pushing her chest out, shoulders back, instead of arms in front as in protective stance... Often a lot easier to detect from outside. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 05:29 AM |
| 2 | Why You Need To Get HugeWhile I don't agree with OP, I think your proposition is not all that correct either. I'm an older guy, tall, and getting back into shape, after a disastrous 5 years as a sorry fat fuck. I've lost 54 lbs. so far. 20-30 to go. Ive gone from obese to somewhat overweight, quite acceptable to most women in my idea age range. Hitting the gym has made a world of difference. The thing is that although while younger I was naturally fit, as I was very active, and did a tour in an elite unit, I never lift… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/09/18 07:57 AM |
| -1 | I might have the chance to reel in my youngest plate's mom. Bad or worse idea?I do know, but fuck, the idea turns me on! My mind tells me not to fuck with the great thing with the daughter, but... | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the bigger differences to know between seduction at a younger age (18 till 25) and at an older age (>30)?53 here, Older women are a mixed bag. Some have their shit together, some are a life wreck. The thing is to understand is that generally speaking, women, after 30 tend to have lower SMV, while most reasonably well maintained dudes increase in SMV until the low 60s. A well maintained 60 year old, with his financial shit together (not necessarily rich) can pull 30 somethings. At my age I'm doing better than ever. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 07:38 PM |
| 1 | What are some of the bigger differences to know between seduction at a younger age (18 till 25) and at an older age (>30)?For women it is | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 07:36 PM |
| 3 | I actually did itIf you don't approach, nothing will happen. If you pproach you may be shot down, or you may end up fucking. It's that simple. And if you get shot down, nothing, and I mean, nothing will happen, you won't need a blood transfusion, not even a bruise. Maybe to your ego, but, so what? | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 07:06 PM |
| 4 | What are some of the bigger differences to know between seduction at a younger age (18 till 25) and at an older age (>30)?A lot of the good ones got snatched by worthless dudes, have divorced, and are back in the market. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 06:40 PM |
| 5 | I've Read Corey Wayne's "3% Male" Ten Times... Here Are My NotesI find that when he is recounting stories, there is a beta undertone to it, a bit of neediness. Also, there seems to be an objective of being in an LTR, when an LTR should be a result when things are right. No-neediness and outcome independence are the cornerstones of seduction. Nevertheless, I find most of his materials good. | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 11:29 AM |
| 9 | Guys who can't tell if a girl is checking you out, try this.A great indicator is the joke/funny comment. If she looks at you, when somebody else cracks a joke or funny comment, it's on. | /r/seduction | 14/09/18 11:21 AM |
| 5 | Your poor game might not be your faultI don't want to proselytize, but keto (the ketogenic diet. r/keto is a great resource) has transformed my life. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Your poor game might not be your faultSeems you are trading sex for beer and pizza. It's really your choice. I know what I chose. As if today I've lost 52 lbs, from my max. weight, and getting frequently laid. I know what my choice is. | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 07:45 PM |
| 4 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.David Shade-"Give Women Wild Screaming Orgasms" Very good | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 07:41 PM |
| 7 | This is why you're not getting laid: Asking a woman to have sex with you VS making a woman WANT to have sex with you.There is quite a bit of truth here. As many of the books and materials here state, you want the woman pursuing you. While I usually let them do the pursuing, a few moths ago I got in a very intense thing with a woman less than half my age and lost my frame, I had long text convos, contacted far to often, gave too much validation... Classic begginer mistakes, I think I was projecting and got into a sort of teenager mode. She started to fade until I did what I had to do. Silence. We started to mee… | /r/seduction | 12/09/18 07:41 PM |
| 11 | How to pursue women in your social circle without getting shun?Just keep an eye on IOIs. Many women in a circle will give you hints, will look at you and laugh when someone, or you say something funny. If sitting next to her she'll lean your way. Watch out for eye locks. The hair preening thing is hit or miss. Look up IOIs on the net. I belive I once saw a Ted talk on the subject by a woman. If you hit on an interested woman in the group, you may have problems. Yes women talk, but if she's into you she'll make it easy. | /r/seduction | 09/09/18 06:45 PM |
| 1 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.For example:"They stayed at some lame ass place. I'd rater be here with you" or "they went home. I still had party in me" You show independence, non sheep mentality. You are your own master. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Need advice, how to re-attract a girlHave you read the book? | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Need advice, how to re-attract a girlGenerally I think he has good materials, but I feel he's often too focused on forming relationships, which implies needing something. He often talks about meeting women and outright thinking that they are women he wants to form an LTR with. In two days or a week? Come on! Unless you have been dating a woman, seeing her in her element for a long while, seen her struggle with something, you can't gauge who she really is. He often talks from infatuation, which is really dangerous. Infatuation is a … | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason why I only seem to attract virgins?When I was younger I got 3 virgins. First time we were both virgins. It was a really sweet affair, full of bumbling, but we both came out of it very well and later learnt a lot. The next ones were not all that great, even though I was really nice about it. Caring, and all that. After that I decided no more virgins. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:20 PM |
| 2 | They Keep Losing InterestIt's possible you are talking too much, giving away too much information about yourself. Keep the mystery level high. Ask rather tan talk, and then introduce yourself into her side of the convo. Also, your previous relationship should be basically non existent or off limits: "I don't feel like talking about it. That's the past. You are what I'm interested in right now" etc... | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Need advice, how to re-attract a girlLook up Corey Wayne's videos on YouTube. I don't agree with a lot of stuff, but his stuff about these situations is pretty solid. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | You are screwing yourself by not going solo.I'm lately not doing night game, but when I did I always went solo. I found out that going with friends/wing basically complicated logistics, and often devolved into two guys hanging out. When I go out with friends, my objective is to hang out with my buddies. This however doesn't preclude approaching on my own if the opportunity arises. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:04 PM |
| 12 | How can i use my “cuteness” as an advantage.I would work on the cute with a mischievous/dangerous edge. Take advantage of having their barriers already down, and start with the innuendo, mischievous flirting. Have a Trojan horse mentality. You are already inside the city walls. | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 09:40 AM |
| 2 | How can i use my “cuteness” as an advantage.I have a friend, 40s, bald, short, and built like a tank. He's funny, and he does pull fairly often. | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 09:37 AM |
| 1 | FR: 53 yr old pulling 20 somethings. Figuring out what is working.Context is important. Social validation is crucial in this setting. I live in what is basically the suburbs, so a lot of people, of all ages, end up going to a few places nearby, when not going downtown. Many faces are familiar. A lot of people know each other. With hottie #1, we always meet outside these common hangouts, because we have many common acquaintances, and people talk. A lot wouldn't understand, and after me she'll still be in that millieu. I actually care for her, and don't want to … | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 09:23 AM |
| 1 | FR: 53 yr old pulling 20 somethings. Figuring out what is working.Maybe I didn't explain myself well. I friend zoned the 40 something bar owner, because she is more interesting to me as an ally than as a FWB. The hottie I haven't friendzoned, I left her in a bit of a cliffhanger. I know she's into me, she's opened herself to me, and let me know she's game. I have validated myself with her friends as the cool, safe, older guy, so next time I'll move, having deactivated the potential landmines. From experience I know we'll probably bump into each other within 2-… | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 08:49 AM |
| 3 | FR: 53 yr old pulling 20 somethings. Figuring out what is working.It really boils down to the oft repeated basics. Work on yourself, embrace outcome independence, abundance mentality, feel good about yourself. Read a lot. Much of the modern materials recommended here is good, Models, 3% man is not bad, No more Mr nice guy... Search threads for books. Soon I'll post about books that have helped me, and why. But above all, hit the gym, no so much for getting ripped, as to get in shape, feel good about yourself, and improve how you carry yourself. It really works… | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 07:15 AM |
| 2 | FR: 53 yr old pulling 20 somethings. Figuring out what is working.Well, I'm not hunting for young hotties. I thought it'd be creepy. Since I started doing well with women (I was pretty fucked up in all aspects of my life for the last 5 years) again I had been hooking up with women in my logical age range, 35-55, my lower limit being a 28 and a 29 year old women. Basically above the wall. The thing with hottie #1 was very easy, she was a barmaid at a a place I frequent, she lives nearby, she always treated me extra nice when at the bar, IOIs all the time, so wh… | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 07:09 AM |
| 3 | FR: 53 yr old pulling 20 somethings. Figuring out what is working.It's not, as it wasn't that 5 years ago I went into a 2 year long bout with clinical depression. It's not a fantasy that a year ago I weighted 290 pounds, I only got a couple of desperation fucks in a year with women I would not look at today. It's not a fantasy that I'm going into the gym right now, before work, as I do every weekday. Its a story of how doing things right works. | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 06:49 AM |
| 3 | FR: 53 yr old pulling 20 somethings. Figuring out what is working.Madrid, Spain. It helps. It's a great town, very easy to socialize, people are very open in general. Spain is the party destination of Europe for a reason. | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 06:34 AM |
| 6 | How can I (F) feel more comfortable around men I fancy?Aproach, be sweet, look in the eyes, say "hey, you're cute", walk away. Guys, except for the Greek God types aren't used to this. Us guys are suckers for compliments from women. And think: what is the worst that can happen? He'll kill you and your puppy? No. If the guy is not receptive, there will be another hot dude nearby. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 05:21 PM |
| 7 | How can I (F) feel more comfortable around men I fancy?Where is the link to his 500$ course? | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Advice on texting herYou are in another country? Man! Do the locals! Foreigners usually have an edge, play the exotic card. It's always served me well. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 05:14 PM |
| 2 | How do i get into this cougars you know what?I've been a uni professor. If I were to have been caught messing with a student in one of my classes, I'd been sacked. If not in my class would still have been frowned upon. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Girls should be the side dish to an exciting lifeIf your own shit is not conducive to an exciting life, you are doing it wrong. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Girls should be the side dish to an exciting lifeYou don't need caviar, but it's fucking nice. I've been in very rewarding LTRs. The first 8 years of my life with my ex-wife were awesome, the middle 6 comfortable, the last 4, hell. The mistake was not ending it the 8th year. The other LTRs, with one exception, were great. An LTR with a cool, independent, sexy woman is fucking rewarding. Necessary? No. Neither is grass-fed filet mignon, but it is certainly nicer than a protein bar. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Girls should be the side dish to an exciting lifeWell, don't wrap yourself in your own world! Do things where others are. Obviously, if you spend your life involved with your stamp collection, you'll get no pussy, but if you join/do activities with other people, you are bound to meet women who are interested in you. But do whatever you do because its interesting/ rewarding. Women value authenticity | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 04:52 PM |
| 5 | FR: 53 yr old pulling 20 somethings. Figuring out what is working.One of the things that sets me apart from others with her is that I made myself unattainable to her very early on. I used the pharase "I want you to know I don't want to mess up this wonderful complicity we have by doing something stupid with you". I don't need her as a FB, and the risk of complications is real. She is the hub to many casual relationships that can develop around the bar, which has yielded sporadic good results for me. Having her against me could kill many opportunities. Yesterda… | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Girls should be the side dish to an exciting lifeNear the sea? Scuba, surf, windsurf, kite... Inland? Join a hiking, climbing or similar club. Large city? Joined a theme meetup.com group. Join dance classes, etc. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 03:24 PM |
| 6 | Girls should be the side dish to an exciting lifeIdeally you want them to ride shotgun. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Girls should be the side dish to an exciting lifeAt 53, I will not fuck a woman who does not engage me somehow. I'm worth more than a brain dead fuck. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 03:17 PM |
| 13 | A man must be less prone to being lonelyA man should be perfectly able to be lonely at ease just with himself. FTFY. If you are lonely you are yearning. If you can stand it you are withstanding something you miss. The whole idea is to not need others, but be content when you are with worthwhile others, and worthwhile is crucial, as this will allow you to discard those who don't bring worthwhile things to your life. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/09/18 08:52 PM |
| 11 | Dale Carnegie's Core Principles in "How To Win Friends and Influence People" are incredibly useful for everyday interactions with everyone. Try incorporating one of these each day.The whole book!? /s Seriously, guys, the book is short. Almost it's own cliff notes. | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 07:52 AM |
| 3 | My Crazy Feminist ProfessorA good thing would be to declare co-official languages the main secondary language of the state, Spanish in many, maybe Creole or French in Louisiana, maybe the major native tongue of the state. I realize it can make things more complex, but it is culturally very enriching. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/18 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Well, I am a pangolin, and often drunk. | /r/seduction | 31/08/18 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Here's the Top 20%Superior DNA is not a question of looks. I was in an LTR with an actual lingerie and bathing suit model. Astounding does not even do justice to her looks. The woman was rotten inside, but youth and the validation I got from such arm candy kept me with her. Nowadays I look for much more. If a woman is within looks parameters, but nice, sweet, intelligent, funny, I'm all in. I guess experience does that. I'm early 50's, occasionally banging a couple of 20 somethings, but give me a well rounded wom… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 03:07 PM |
| 4 | My Crazy Feminist ProfessorI would recommend traveling. It really widens you horizons. I've extensively traveled three continents and I can't recommend it enough. I still haven't done Asia, but it's definitely on my shortlist. Traveling is one of the most rewarding things you can do. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/08/18 02:56 PM |
| 18 | My Crazy Feminist Professor"As many languages as a man knows so many times he is a man" Emperor Charles V And a gem I didn't expect from the site: "Fortune hath somewhat the nature of a woman; if she be too much wooed, she is the farther off" | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/18 10:01 AM |
| 23 | Here's the Top 20%Hot = tall. If all you are counting is hotness, you are shortchanging yourself. Plenty of really cute, sweet, intelligent, funny... In short "attractive" women around. Look for the package, not just one characteristic. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/08/18 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.I'll check with the mods | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Deleted? I haven' deleted. Unless a mod has done something. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.I'm no guru. I'm not a natural PUA, or any type of PUA for that matter. I don't have the goal of getting as many different women as possible. But I do enjoy having the skill and tools to attract the women I find interesting, not letting them play with me, and having finally learnt not to become a fucking rug after getting them, which is the single worst error that many of us make when we get complacent (and which I started to make with this one, but seem to have stopped just in time) I have been… | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Concentrate on having fun. Women love guys who have fun, instead of all the self-conscious guys trying to look cool. Not my wisdom, it is repeated in much of the material in the sidebar: Don't give a fuck. Outcome independence. Abundance mentality. Non neediness. It is really quite simple once you get the concepts. Once you get to the point where women feel they don't have any power over you, you are set. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Pretty decent. I do have to say genetics are on my side, but I'm no greek god. However, without all the other characteristics, I wouldn't get anywhere. Women are not primarily interested in looks in older men. Being reasonably hansome is all that is needed in the looks department. It's a question of being attractive, which is much deeper than just looks. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.That is precisely what I did. Wrote her off. And she entered the picture again on her own. No contact. If she displays interest again, then it's up to you to allow her in, or not. I'm the one in power. She offers. I decide. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.No. Good sign. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Variety is nice, it IS a fucking ego boost, and the few peers that know are fucking envious. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.This just happened this way. I don't aim to crush 23 year old pussy. As a matter of fact, sex with older women can be more satisfiying. Experience works both ways. A lot of energy is not necessarily a substitute for skill. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Money is not a pre-requisite. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.This is pretty much it. If you are decent looking, try to keep fit (old, unkempt fatties don't often have success), have conversational skills, reasonable humor, confidence and aplomb, women of all ages can be interested. Yes, younger ones, things often get better for men, while most women enter a serious decline after 30. But you need to maintain yourselves. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Answered somewhere else in the thread. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Duh! Do you think I give a fuck? So, she gives me this excuse, asks to be forgiven for misbehaving, and offers to meet up today (not happening, I have to show some indifference and non-urgency), or tomorrow. So she demonstrates interest, shows repentance... Let her fib, I have the pan by the handle. It's not like I'm going to marry her, and she's the one that has to make-up for misbehaving. She's the one who has the (however slight) guilt to make up for. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.We all can learn a lot from almost anybody, if we are observant. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Money? Right now I'm recovering from a bankrupcy, and putting most of my resources into a new business, so no. Prestige? well, I do have quite a number of friends and acquaintances, so that helps. Wordly? yes. Experience? yes. Conversation? yes. Intensity? yes. Misteriousness? I can play that card. Humor? not bad. Not a stand-up comedian, but I can make people laugh quite often. Looks? I am attractive, tall, carry myself confidently, but there are a ton of young, good looking broncos around. I g… | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.The link doesn't seem to work | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 02:33 PM |
| 29 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Music/concert bars. The ones I go to tend to be a 20-50 age mix. I don't straight up hit on random hotties. Age does matter, but, if you are just having fun, you can pick up IOIs from younger women, then you un-creepily work from there. I don't go to pick up, I go to have fun, with my eyes open. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Not really, we live fairly close, and this Café is in a route we both use a lot. It's in front of the gym I go to daily. Bound to happen. It would have been pretty unlikely not to have met casually. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 01:54 PM |
| 10 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.I lost two plates I had while we were full speed. One I let drop because of her dramas. The other went exclusive with a buddy of mine. In the mean time I've been opening the pipeline. There are three women who are prime candidates, more in my logical range, 35-45, and I've kind of decided to quit night game and start going to meetup events. I feel the setting will work better for me. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 01:49 PM |
| 31 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.Inconsequential but fun trivia: We actually were 22 and 52 when I got into her pants. Our birthdays are two weeks apart, and happened while in no contact zone. At one point she told me I was not allowed to go for hotties younger than her. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 01:29 PM |
| 27 | Next/no contact ruthlessly.I played the cool cat, benign smile, attitude as if saying "You've been naughty, child", without actually saying it. Friendly but cool. Definitely kept the investment vibe on "very low", just enough to let her know the door might be still open for her. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Female needs male advice on how to subtly hit on manHe was giving you the IOIs, but you are the one with the obviously complex logistics. He's let you know he's in. Your move. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Female needs male advice on how to subtly hit on manSome italians have been known to be gay. | /r/seduction | 23/08/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Well, do stuff. I haven't done, do, will do stuff to get women and be able to converse with women! I do it because it's fulfilling to me! A byproduct is that I have experienced a lot and can incorporate it. If you are really autistic, I can't offer help, if you are mildly autistic or just introverted, ask for help here, I've seen threads about it, and I'm sure there are tricks, methods to overcome the problem. I whish I could be of help there. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 08:04 AM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.I'm just starting to get in shape. I was a fat fuck just 6 months ago. I've already lost 50 pounds, but I'm not ready yet for real athletic stuff. I do work out 5 days at the gym so pretty soon I should be ready for that. I'll stick to hikes for the time being. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 08:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Generally I talk and flirt, in a fairly low intensity mode, do a hell of eye contact, in a sort of benign overlord fashion, friendly kino, try to go for some light kissing, to anchor a bit, and get their number. Only a couple of times (lately) I've fucked that same night, both cases alcohol was an important part, neither was especially satisfying. I like to have sex after a light dinner, with time, and I hate having sex after a long night drinking. I like to perform, and whiskey dick is called t… | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 08:10 AM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.My 17 year old daughter, with whom I have a fantastic relationship, was complaining yesterday about how the guys in her age group were always so immature, trying so hard to impress, always looking for peer validation... | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.I have no interest in those. I'm more into language exchanges, wine tastings, hikes, scuba or ski groups, photography outings... Real stuff without the singles emphasis. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 07:49 AM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Do you live in a large city? | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 07:46 AM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.It's been said that the 50s are the new 30s. Still doing this Why wouldn't I? Women, my friend. For all the talk about bettering yourself that you see here, the objective here is always women, because we are hardwired for this. That said, if you better yourself, you are much more saleable to women. Genetics are on my side, I'm still handsome. I know because women of all ages lock on to me. But that is not the key as I've mentioned before. Rich? Hell no! I'm just recovering from a bankruptcy. I u… | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 07:12 AM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Well, let's put it this way: at my age you inevitably do a bit of reminiscing. The other day I was thinking about one particular summer and I remembered one particular girl I hooked up with over a glorious weekend. I hadn't thought about that weekend in decades. So, enough that even if I try to remember I forget some. But I've never kept track. I spent almost five years, after a glorious decade and an 18 yr marriage being a sorry-ass fat fuck mired in self-pity where I only got the very odd desp… | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 07:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Actually I may have success in a dance class, because I'd go to learn to dance, not to hit on anybody, because I dance like a dork. I'd be so into the class that I may give off the unavailable vibe that often turns women on. How ironic. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.That's precisely my point. Go do interesting stuff, interact with people just for the sake of it, which I do anyway, I'm a good conversationalist, and be open to meeting worthwhile women. Be open, not go shopping/hunting | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 06:33 PM |
| 0 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Can I ask what your laycount is at 52 What is the purpose? If that is your objective you are doing it wrong. One thing I can assure you, unless I enter a relationship, not even my friends hear about it, so why would I confide in you? I believe (personal opinion, of course) that people worrying about how many notches they gather, have some major issues they need to take care of. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Generally I talk and flirt, in a fairly low intensity mode, do a hell of eye contact, in a sort of benign overlord fashion, friendly kino, try to go for some light kissing, to anchor a bit, and get their number. Only a couple of times I've fucked that same night, both cases alcohol was an important part, neither was especially satisfying. I usually try to set up a date there and then, or get their number and call (not text) the following Wednesday. If they won't commit for that weekend on a Wedn… | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 06:15 PM |
| 2 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.2 Am is when the real party starts where I live! (Spain, in case you wonder. We invented the word Fiesta, and much of Europe comes to us for their partying needs) Fuck, I sometimes take a nap between 22:00 and 02:00 to be fresher. We often close venues at dawn. That's why Im getting tired of going through this. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 06:04 PM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Downvoted? There is some truth to this. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 05:57 PM |
| 3 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Continue working on yourself, join groups, meetups, do volunteer work, find night classes or workshops. But here is the key: find something that is actually interesting to you. If you just go to pick up you'll fail miserably. Don't go on a relationship hunt, just be open to it happening. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 05:56 PM |
| 2 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.Oh, I'm there. I often imply they are too young, inexperienced, and possibly immature for me. I guess validation kicks in. I am fairly suave and charming. Overt flirting is something I want to polish a bit. I am quite emotionally mature. Quite self critical while loving myself, and with time I've learnt to not be judgemental (mostly). Kind of fits within your description. Where do I go? Mostly concert type bars, where you'll often find an age mix. Never to a very age specific venue. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups.The youngest was a barmaid at a café I frequently go to. She was always extra friendly. One night I was with friends, she was there with another party, and she made sure I knew she was of legal age. One day we happened to meet at a common acquaintance's party, and it took all of twenty minutes to be banging her brains out in the first room we found. We ended up having an amazing two months, after that she ghosted me. Pretty logical considering the age difference. Older ones, say near 30, I just … | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was immune to oneitis...Actually, the mini relationship I had with this girl, has made me ultra confident and fearless at approaching. I don't set limits, other than legal on age, although younger than 25 is kind of off putting, because there is not much chance of rapport. The personality of extremely young girls is usually not that attractive. This girl and I had had casual contact before so I knew she was interesting. Just last week I pulled a (to me) hottie, late 20-early 30s. Have a date with her Saturday. Just go … | /r/seduction | 16/08/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was immune to oneitis...I was not in the right frame. I didn't even approach. I found a table of friends, and just sat with them shooting the breeze. Next day I also went out, to a concert bar, where things are quite fun and relaxed, approached easily, even met a couple, they were fun, and it was great for social proofing. I had a t-shirt on which is a great conversation starter, and the guy in the couple asked me about it, and had me join them. We went on to the concert area, and one of two hotties who were near by, s… | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 03:20 PM |
| 3 | I thought I was immune to oneitis...Amen, brother. When it became obvious that she was fading, next thing I did was hit the gym harder, go a bit more extreme into my diet (keto, lost 50 lbs in less than a year) and prepped my mind for the next hunt. That much I've gained these last couple of years. Before I would have been inside my head, and waddling in self pity for a while. Now I just rebound, faster stringer and that much the wiser. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 07:13 PM |
| 5 | I thought I was immune to oneitis...Oh, I'm not against emotions. But at my age and with my experience, you become much more cynical. I definitely didn't expect this to happen. A fun romp developed into something more, and I wasn't prepared. And when it just stopped, without any drama, or breakup, it left me rather disoriented. So, tonight I'm going to go solo, and bag me, at least a few numbers. At least. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:58 PM |
| 3 | I thought I was immune to oneitis...By unicorn I mean a high value woman, being so into a way older guy, with no sugar daddy component. A unicorn for me. When I got involved with her I had two other plates. One older than me, which I let go because of too much drama and issues, and another, almost 40, who just became exclusive to a buddy of mine. So I'm high and dry right now. Tonight I'm going to an area where there are a few nightspots where I've done well before. I just want to make sure I do it right, and don't fall into a des… | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 02:35 PM |
| 6 | I thought I was immune to oneitis...Obviously. The thing is, except for the time my ex-wife left me, I haven't felt like this, I always felt fine, just went on to the next one. This one just had me infatuated, even though I knew from day one that this was not LTR material, because of obvious reasons. Maybe the impossibility is the factor here. Also the fact that we were a couple of months quite hot and heavy, and the sudden drop, makes it more intense. Also the fact that this time I didn't quite feel like I was the prize has somet… | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 01:40 PM |
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