So over the last couple weeks I’ve started getting feelings for a girl. A little over a week ago, my buds asked me if I wanted to come on a group date and encouraged me to ask her. It took a little bit for me to get over the “What if” mindset. Anyway, it ended up becoming a double date and we all had a great time. There were some body language and signs that I’m pretty sure means she’s interested or likes me.

Some of these include facing me, stepping closer when not necessary, eye contact and laughing at a lot of things. (FYI I am not trying to be more funny around her or anything, it’s just I make a lot of jokes or say silly dumb things).

Anyway since that double date a week ago from today, we have had some conversations over Instagram DMs, about various things. They’ve all been good and have just been genuine conversations,

However I’ve started noticing that whenever I see a picture of her, whether it’s on Snapchat or Instagram or whatever my heart starts beating faster and I get anxious. I’m not sure what to think of it. It doesn’t necessarily help that she’s one of many models for a photographer so all of the pictures are amazing. Is this normal? Is it weird to get that feeling when I simply just see a photo? Is this oneitis? Simply a crush?

I don’t get this feeling at all when I see her in person wherever that might be. Any help is appreciated. I’m feeling a little lost right now.