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| 2 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?Because nowadays all experts are keywarriors, they think picking up girls from dating apps is the new seduction, sarging is probably the most important aspect in the seduction theory, it allows you to break your mental barriers. Experts with no real experience, and then add the social media and politics claiming that even saying Hi to a woman is incorrect. The truth is, most guys do cold approach just trying to get some luck, with no real plan, method or any structure *leading to bad results thu… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Picking up a girl in 60 seconds (cannot speak English)Great, looking forward for it, greetings | /r/seduction | 12/06/19 06:34 AM |
| 2 | Picking up beautiful mexican redhead girl (infield + explanation)On every major city such as Mexico City there are really top notch players (I am not) and I used to live there for a couple years, greetings | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Picking up beautiful mexican redhead girl (infield + explanation)Haha greetings | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Handsome is Humiliated by Ugly Guy on the dance floor (infield)Video with infield on the dance floor: https://youtu.be/o5LLc9TbLf0 | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 04:28 AM |
| 0 | Meeting in a club to getting in bed?What is 4/20? Sorry | /r/seduction | 18/04/19 08:23 AM |
| 1 | Interesting festival is China 2018!Not really, most guys feel ashame about it and that is my point, stop chasing the qualities that some people tell you such as the alpha male bs | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 05:31 AM |
| 1 | The secret to succed when a girl rejects youSummary One of the main sticking points is the fear of being rejected by a girl. Most guys will use many tricks, ideas and perspectives to try to overcome this, nevertheless they fail to realize that doing this the problem will get worse, because they are looking at this as if being rejected is something bad, not natural or an indicator that you are not just good enough. It is neeeded a deep analysis and honest talk so you start to see rejection as something normal, neither good, neither bad, ju… | /r/seduction | 06/12/18 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Why PUA ruins lifesThank you! | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Why PUA ruins lifesWow thank you very much for the feedback! | /r/seduction | 04/12/18 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Picking up thai girl in one minute (day 3)Well at least now you said have a nice day, you are improving, thank you, you too! | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Picking up thai girl in one minute (day 3)they are lame they just want to drag everyone else to their toxic world, have an awesome day! | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Picking up thai girl in one minute (day 3)Pick a fight with someone else, i have no interest into getting your negative vibe, have an amazing day! | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 01:12 PM |
| 4 | Picking up thai girl in one minute (day 3)I feel sorry for the person that insulted me, nevertheless is the perfect example of the kind of people will try to turn you down, never let others to restrict you, have an awesome day! | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 11:43 AM |
| 10 | Picking up thai girl in one minute (day 3)Are you an incel? Sounds like you are, what a pity you have such a toxic attitude, have a nice day | /r/seduction | 03/12/18 11:41 AM |
| 0 | Trick on tinder to get better resultsI just did check the comments, and just use wifi for videos, greetings! Ps my bad, summary: do not swipe right to every profile, tinder will restrict you, for more efficiency learn to spot profiles with a higher chance to connect with you. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Physics boiI agree with a previous comment just request some help for studying. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 15/11/18 03:43 AM |
| 1 | I have a month left to approach and ask out women in my classes. How do I go about it?During the conversation "lets get a coffee X day " | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 05:06 AM |
| 2 | How to attract women if you don't speak their language?I did a bootcamp a month ago in tokyo, the language is a huge problem, some may tell you to try use the little japanese you know but nah, it is a waste of time, they may be polite but it doesnt mean they are into you. Avoid huge crowds nampa is a huge barrier over there and most girls will ditch you before you even talk, so hit other places and using english, very basic english and try to get instant date or schedule a date in the moment you approach them. So many things but this will work Zeroz | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Where to start?Yeah malls are always a good place. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to approach a girl I saw on tinder?Exactly that is why | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 03:46 AM |
| 2 | How to not come off as a man-whore in a groupWhy not? Sooner or later they will know, besides that faking will make you crash and burn in the long run, stop caring about other, anyway you do not care, some people may judge you but being your real you, it is way better. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 01:18 PM |
| 1 | I don't want to use Instagram, but it seems the best/easiest way to pull these daysDaygame or nightgame is better, for me tinder or any other social app is just when I cannot go outside because I am ill or whatever. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 01:16 PM |
| 1 | College game tips?Then try instant dates at school. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I feel like shit when my friends are having success and I am notYou said 1000 for only one great approach then you are complaining a lot, do the hard work, and stop complaining and maximizing a situation. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Coming back from college, need date advice for girl from high schoolHonestly sounds like drama my bet is the bf will be around and you will get hurt in the process. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Where to start?Pick any method, test in real life, and then continue with other method, it doesnt really matter where you start if you do your homework you will get to the right place anyway, as long as you are doing the approaches and so on. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Spreadsheet number closeUhm seems more like a very polite flake. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 07:20 AM |
| 1 | How to go about approaching an older girl from the gym?You can start small talk to check her reaction and from there escalate. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to approach a girl I saw on tinder?Yes super creepy stop. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:44 AM |
| 0 | Getting in state before sargingThe problem is that you are hiding the problem. My method is to create the habit of knowing girls all the time, so I do not need games, tricks or whatever, I strongly suggest you the same. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to ask a girl that I want to get to know them?No, but it depends how is the approach done and the situation. For example, super creepy if you do this in an empty street at night Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Question for men who are 9's and 10's on the SMV scaleI am far from being a 10 but I know those guys very well, they become very lazy because girls do everything (even on sex the girls does everything) and somehow makes sense they do not need game because girls do everything, the negative part of this is that they rely so much on this so when a girl is not strongly attracted to them or reject them, they become agressive and childish, they have a really bad time. Ps I know this because I thought I could learn something from them and it was just a wa… | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:41 AM |
| 1 | I feel like shit when my friends are having success and I am notYou do need to analyze whatever you are doing, you do not need more approaches now you need to work smart. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Im going to approach herNo need, be way more smooth, hey I think we have never met I am zeroz and continue. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Is there a book about flirting?Yeah robert greene the art of seduction very well documented Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Blondes vs brunettes: I know its hair color but is it possible for a guy to do better with one than the other?Yes but is is because you have inner beliefs that support those ideas. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Girl at workplace and difficulty moving things forwardMy honest advice, never mix dating and work, trust me, there is a high chance is will backfire you. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 13/11/18 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Rules of the game by Neil Strauss (Challenge accepted day 0)Thanks for the comment, greetings. | /r/seduction | 11/11/18 05:38 AM |
| 1 | I think im too jealous and it might fuck me upUse all your time and energy to find your weak spots and improve them, trust me you will be so busy being awesome that you wont care others journeys Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I think im too jealous and it might fuck me uplearn to MIND YOUR BUSINESS, and work hard, take massive action instead of being like this, deep down you know I am right. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:59 AM |
| 1 | What if i don't have social media profiles?All those social networks may help you to get girls but won't help to get better self esteem, cold approaching will be an impossible task at first and may be painful, but it is needed so you can improve and well, get stronger, you can complement this with the social networks but concentrate mainly in taking massive action (cold approaching). Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How to pull at partieshey, who are you? There you go. And usually most people make out during the party and the pull from there (or sometimes have sex in the same party haha) Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | I went out 3 times this week, yet got disappointed.Those are baby steps, you must do 10 approaches in one day not one week but it is ok, you are at least taking action, my advice is that you should take massive action (massive action leads to massive results) and be PATIENT, do not expect a magic pill or shortcut. You cannot fix a lifetime problem in one week with only ten approaches. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:52 AM |
| 2 | I feel like I have no control over my sex lifeSo how do you keep a sense of control over your sex life even if it may seem like you don't? You should try meditation it may help you to get more control over your anxiety, the girls know it and they may take advantage of it, so first fix it, meditation will help to analyze and relax. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:39 AM |
| 1 | Find out if a girl is single on a night out easily?Some may tell you do "cold reading" but honestly the only way is if she tells you about it, so be direct and they may tell you if they are single (be aware that some may lie and date you). Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:35 AM |
| 2 | Girl said i was awkward on first date?She is just not into you, do not buy her bs, just next time try to escalate way bettter and more smoothly, Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:29 AM |
| 0 | How do you handle positivity?Just change the topic and start talking about something you like, it is not like they are shutting down your mouth. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:28 AM |
| 0 | How many chances should you give a girl?That tolerance is up to you, some do not give second chances, others may be more flexible, follow whatever that trueley matches your desires and makes you happy. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:10 AM |
| -1 | What am I supposed to say after a girl says "Thank you" after I compliment her?Here there is a problem, what did expect in return? Your compliment has no real intention besides just that...compliment, it is better if you follow the compliment with a direct approach: "Wow You look so good with those glasses, who who are you?" The formula is simple: Compliment + intention Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 07:09 AM |
| 1 | I don’t know how to approach aloneThat is just an excuse, I have been doing everything alone for three years and I am good, the only good thing about a wing is that they may give you feedback, that is all. Stop finding ways to get sudden boost of confidence and just jump to action bro. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 06:58 AM |
| -2 | How can I stop trying so hard?Stop doing "number close" and instead focus into really know the girl. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 06:56 AM |
| 4 | Do I text a girl who said maybe for a date tomorrow night twice?You already being needy, she said maybe then no reply, and well deep inside you know what I mean, just move on. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Question for minorities here, how easy or tough do you have it with women from minority groups other than your own?As a mexican I have noticed others (i won't name their countries) prefer white guys, nevertheless, even when there could be some "advantage" once that as a mexican you overcome that limited belief, there is no anymore any restriction, sure some dudes may be racist but if you have a strong mindset you will know how to handle every situation. (I have dated girls from all over the world). Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 06:52 AM |
| 14 | Was this a shit test? And did I respond to it correctly?Honestly I think is just a very random comment, relax about the PUA theory do not over analyze. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 06:49 AM |
| 8 | Rejected!I would love to add my 5 cents on this, never game girls at work. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 10/11/18 06:48 AM |
| 0 | How do you protect yourself from bad women?Robert greene in his new book talks about this, and honestly we can give you advice or suggestions but real real experiences are the only real source of knowledge to master the skill of reading people Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:34 AM |
| 1 | I have a month left to approach and ask out women in my classes. How do I go about it?There Is no such thing as approaching in class, at least not cold approach, this Is called warm approach because you are in the same social circle (class) so just start with hey I saw you in the class, I am Zeroz and you, And from there get a date NOT NUMBER Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Should you keep approaching if you have a 100% failure rate?I just did a video on this and it depends, we all have bad days even the most advanced guy in the world also has bad days, if this has happened to you a couple days, it Is ok, do not do harsh on yourself, BUT if this has happened to you for a week or more, more that 20 or 30 approaches, then you should stop and analyze whatever you are doing and calibrate better, you can ask to a wingman, etc. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Dating show blew my mind. How to not be boring?Keep in mind most shows are staged otherwise there Is a risk the show may be boring and they cannot allow themselves that, that Is why they need a script, and about be boring, just get something you like, repeat until it becomes a passion and the master that passion. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Weird eye contactStop daydreaming and just get a date, maybe she will reject you maybe not, but at least you will know the truth, otherwise we are just second guessing. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 3 | Im 33 years old. Someone tell me it isnt too lateNah, I am almost 30 and trust me, this Is actually better for us, my advice Is to go out and approach girls, get dates, do the hard work, if you do very little then you will get in return very little, simple. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:22 AM |
| 1 | What am I supposed to do on a date as a man? [25 m]The idea about a date Is to know each other and see if anything else can happen. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:21 AM |
| 1 | The pain of declineNah, I am 29 and I can tell you this Is just a bad phase in your life, but if you want to improve you must work hard, approach girls, get dates, I mean like work hard for real, be patient and repeat the process with no complains, most guys do very little and that Is why they get very little. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Awkward stuffWelcome, you are young and that Is great, start approaching, not only at school, and keep it simple, hey lets get some coffee That Is it Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:15 AM |
| 1 | There's interest, but the girls get weird when I try to flirt back?The difference Is when you are waiting for her reaction, instead of just flow with the situation | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Cold opening online?Just say whatever based on her profile Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:12 AM |
| 1 | A bit of feedback please.Keep it smooth, hey I have seen you here in the seminars, I am Zeroz and you? This Is way better because it shows your intention, you want to know her, saying you want a number is quite ambiguous. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Is it okay to ask a woman why they rejected you well after the fact so you can try to better yourself?No, because they are not awared of this, you need an eye trainned to get good feedback, otherwise they will tell you the advice you can find in any magazine Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with "I have a boyfriend"It Is ok (and just continue talking) if she really has a bf she wont continue talking with you. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Am I missing out on dm’sJust if she has less that 2 k followers otherwise it may be impossible she will even notice you texted her. Just say whatever about her profile. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:07 AM |
| 1 | I have a lot of success with women but I want an expert to tell me why I am having way more success with dark haired girls than blondes.This Is just based in previous experiences that somehow are limiting you, besides that you may be more open to them, try to analyze what you do different. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:06 AM |
| 0 | I think I got hit on by a cougarJust enjoy, and do not pretend something you are not, she already knows who you are and she likes that Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Is cold approaching in highschool a good idea?Totally, but do not be too direct, a school Is a small bubble where everyone knows each other, nevertheless do not be way too indirect or you will be in the friend zone always, besides that my advice Is to open yourself to approach girls outside school too. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:04 AM |
| 3 | How to create an attractive lifestyle?My advice Is to not modify you lifestyle just because of girls or you will be needy, instead, concentrate into whatever you like, make it a passion and go all for it, for example, if you like photograpy then do some trips to take the best photos ever, you get the idea. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 04:02 AM |
| 4 | how to escalate further on muslim girls?You must be aware that here you are dealing with religion and it can be a very sensitive topic for some people so my advice Is to first analyze if you two have similar ideas or perspectives, otherwise there will be only pain trying to change the ideas from each other. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Tips on hooking up with adult women?Avoid all the conversations that go around money (what is your job, how much money, where you live, etc). If you do not want to try websites or bar, then try daygane, you will get a lot of rejections but some girls do want also sex, so try your luck. Strip clubs all of them are controlled by mafia, avoid them. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 08:22 AM |
| 0 | What are some of your daily goals to beat social anxiety before you go out?Why-7 points? haha that is funny, guys stop thinking you need tricks or "be in state" or whatever, or worse, thinking that dating is a big deal. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:56 AM |
| 1 | Help on shy/introverted girls, and game in general" I want to know the flaws in my approaches " Somehow I have the vibe that you try to date girls as if you are playing chess, do not over think, take more action, you will get mistakes but IT IS OK, not big deal, stop daydreaming and get more massive action, now time to get more dates! you are doing great. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | A question for the guys that cold approach womenNo, and not because I have super powers or skilful, the only reason is that after so many cold approaches, now this is a habit, something adapted and perfectly matched with my daily life activities. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:53 AM |
| 2 | Is this oneitis?Yes, it is, you need to first accept this and then heal before you try to date other girls. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend says I’m clingyPlease get some professional help, therapy, not pua advice in a forum. please Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:49 AM |
| 1 | Attracting women is hard :/The problem is simple, everytime you talk with a girl you fake everything, you do not really show your intentions, your ideas, you are just reacting to whatever she is doing instead of also contribuiting to the conversation with your own personality. Stop being so indirect and be more honest and direct. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:48 AM |
| 2 | what you make of it.You are over thinking.... And work in those dates, seems you really do not approach a lot and you spend lot of time daydreaming, stop that. About the girl, just approach and get the date. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:46 AM |
| -1 | Had multiple girls tell me I'm very hard to read, is that a good thing or a bad thing?Honestly most of the time is just in your head, and the only true way to know what is really happening is through action. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Girl says she’s waiting for a date." I honestly just want to have a normal convo with a person. " Then just concentrate into this and improve, master this. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Four man game like a puzzleSounds like you are over thinking, besides that even if you plan everything, you cannot really control the reactions or actions from them, so just concentrate into the things you can control, this case, the girl or goal whatever you want to accomplish and work on that, be more sexual more social and will work like charm. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:43 AM |
| 3 | How to recover from making a bad first impression?you need to work your inner game, seems you need to work way more and stop over thinking, even if she goes away from you, so what, there are more girls that you should be approaching, the funny thing is that in this weird paradox is the secret to solve your problem. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Models and Catch-22That is the secret to stop being needy, get girls but stop thinking getting girls will make you more happy or more manly, that is the big secret. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:39 AM |
| 1 | After lurking /r/socialskills for months I have finally come into my own, but my flirt game is pretty weakBe more direct and escalate with sex in a verbal and no verbal way, stop being sooo friendly when talking. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:38 AM |
| 2 | How can I keep things casual with a FWB?Just be honest and you will save yourself from lot of drama, trust me some girls love just to have sex, the problem is that you do not know them because you need to more direct and honest with your intentions, so the girls that want a LTR will go away from you and the ones that want just sex will even chase you. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I become a guy Hot Women would want to chase.Be popular (with this I really mean popular not only in your school, you should be popular in your city) and someone really social, that is it, being handsome is a plus but as you can notice you need more than that. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | She’s been giving me mixed signalsAs long as both of them are minors is ok, if not, then it is ilegal and you can get a lot of problems. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:34 AM |
| 0 | Tips on hooking up with adult women?Well, for this you do not really need any game, there are plenty of websites and apps for doing this, most of them require some kind of paygme to register, in the other hand, another alternative is to hit bars and look for the girls that are isolated and drinking, usually is only one or max two girls and drinking cheap drinks (be sure that they are not sex workers), just be direct about your intentions (calibrate this or you will be just a creep, avoid too muxh sexual talk). Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Asian Girls Fight Asian Guy at Night Club / Asian Guy Fights Bouncers at the endIt is a good topic nervetheless the footage is not that good what a pity, greetings bro | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:30 AM |
| 1 | 18 year old - Did i lose it ?See it on this way, it was sex but not the first time you have real sex, and do not worry, relax, it can happen to anyone, actually this is the secret to improve, stop expecting so much, nervous and with anxiety and just enjoy, you are over thinking too much. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:29 AM |
| 35 | Please help guys. I don't know what's wrong with me.I know that if I tell you "just do it" it won't help, so my advice is to start first with something very indirect: Hi, do you know where is a starbucks near here? And after some small talk transition to direct. I know it will take you time to transition to direct but you need to start doing those small steps. In the other hand I accepted the challenge of the book "rules of the game" by neil strauss and I will be posting the progress here every week, maybe that helps you. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:27 AM |
| 0 | The person who moves less in the conversation usually has more powerI advice you to just care the body language if you will be in politics or business, otherwise is just a waste of time, of course it helps but not as much as those "experts" say it does, it is way better to truely feel confortable whatever you are doing, that should be your real goal. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 06:24 AM |
| -1 | Im doing something wrong in all of my dates?Kiss them when you run out of ideas, there you to Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Message on ig?Always face to face period. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 02:32 PM |
| -9 | What are some of your daily goals to beat social anxiety before you go out?Nothing, I do not have social anxiety and the reason is because now this is a habit for me, you can only achieve this through hard work, otherwise you will always use shortcuts or magic pills that never solve the problem. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Rules of the game By Neil Straus (Challenge accepted)I decided to complete the challenge, I know is very outdated and quite simple but I think will be fun! | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Scared to tell a girl I'm attracted to her when I approach herTry to start being indirect and then smoothly be direct, that is all. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | [Help] Very strange behavior from shy girlAn even better advice, move on, you have oneitis. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Need help with securing a dateSure just get the date Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Forgot the name of the girl I'm meeting for a first date tomorrow - any clever way to get it?Easy "I wonder what is your full name?" She will know you forgot her name but she wont care, a very smooth way. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:27 AM |
| 1 | What Kind of Cold Approaching Do You Do?Cold approach is when you approach a stranger outside your social circle or daily activities, I use direct and sometimes a mix with indirect method. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:25 AM |
| 1 | How to pick up a girl in public transit?Everything is the same except for one thing: social pressure. You need to learn how to handle it, otherwise the girl will get also nervous and may backfire to you. Beyond that, everything is exactly the same and get her number fast because you never know when she will get off. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | How to pick up a girl in public transit?Everything is the same except for one thing: social pressure. You need to learn how to handle it, otherwise the girl will get also nervous and may backfire to you. Beyond that, everything is exactly the same and get her number fast because you never know when she will get off. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:23 AM |
| 1 | How to pick up a girl in public transit?Everything is the same except for one thing: social pressure. You need to learn how to handle it, otherwise the girl will get also nervous and may backfire to you. Beyond that, everything is exactly the same and get her number fast because you never know when she will get off. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:22 AM |
| 0 | Is asking her name soon after the open a 'question of doom'?No, but asking her name when you truely do not care is. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Is asking her name soon after the open a 'question of doom'?No, but asking her name when you truely do not care is. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Is asking her name soon after the open a 'question of doom'?No, but asking her name when you truely do not care is. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:20 AM |
| -1 | Is asking her name soon after the open a 'question of doom'?No, but asking her name when you truely do not care is. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | How to overcome this add fear.Stop caring about this, must dudes have no real value, so you do well Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:19 AM |
| 1 | Opening girls by themselves late at night?Night game is a lot about outlook, so first be sure that you do not look bad (I am saying to look good not saying that you must be handsome) and secondly you must be more confident when you talk with the, they can smell your fear lol Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Hitting on a girl during her work timeIt is better to be fast, just get her instagram or whatever and go away, she can get problems because of talking with you and or it is the worst place to start talking with her so just get the number and continue. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Talking to girls I likeIt is about perspective, it is the way your body is telling you that she is gorgeous and you should date her, actually you should start using this as an indicator for only approaching girls that create this reaction in your body. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Should I DM a girl who i found on tinder, on instagram?Just if the girl has less that 2 k followers, otherwise she may not read your en. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:10 AM |
| -1 | Girl I cold approached may think I'm stalking her..can I fix this?Maybe but the chance that this will backfire you is really high so just forget it Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Weird behavior from these girlsYou are boosting their self esteem when they are into troubles or an emotional roller coaster Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:07 AM |
| 0 | Best way to start talking to a friend of a friend without it being awkward af?Hi, how where do you know my friend? Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Wanna talk to the afro cutie in school... Horribly scared though 😓 😓I just did a video about this Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Can I post a pic for people to tell me how much I look like complete garbage?Do not do it, the chad/ incel theory is interesting but very toxic, instead leverage it improve other areas in your life, for example get better at girls, something that is not related with the way you look, a lot of handsome guys have no clue how to do with girls. And more importantly, stop relying your confidence into external things. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:04 AM |
| 8 | The Fundamentals Of Game (Part I. Eye Contact)Good | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:02 AM |
| 1 | I think I failed a shit test but I honestly don't know if it was a real shit test or not...Yeah just need Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:02 AM |
| 0 | Should I mention to girls that I just recently got out of the penitentiary?Of course otherwise you have a high chance everything will end up really badly once they found out, the important thing here is you are a good person or not, in a legal way. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 05:01 AM |
| 1 | Advice for a Total beginner who wants resultsYou need to stop thinking into magic pills or shortcuts, you must realize you must develop the strong habit of meeting women something that at the moment you do no have, so I will give you a basic plan. Approach Be patient And stop complaining Repeat until you are awesome with ladies. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Good first date ideas 18m asking 19fI see the real problem now, you need to learn to be patient, otherwise you will mess up everything with your anxiety or desperation, just relax and enjoy, no need to rush anything, and you should read the book, the sex god method. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 04:57 AM |
| 1 | [Update] Bringing a date home?" I don't want to seem like I'm desperate to have her over because I really like this girl and don't want to 'rush' anything " That is the problem, actually you are desperate, so, you must fix it or you will mess up everything. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:20 AM |
| 1 | When is it time to give up and move on from a girl you likeIn the moment you know she is not into you, WE ALWAYS KNOW, never lie to yourself. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Quitting pot until i do a successful pull & get a lay" For awhile i've been using weed as a sort of social lubricant " Stop this, use weed if you want in a legal way and for fun, but never to hide the real problem, otherwise the moment you do not have that "Boost" then you will do nothing, I strongly suggest you to stop using bandaids and just start working hard in order to develop a strong confidence. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Pick-up books that you recommend?Well if you love reading then read the one from Robert Greene the art of seduction. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:14 AM |
| 1 | How well does going to clubs with a "I just wanna have fun" mindset work in terms of picking up girls?It may help but if you want to increase your chances you must concentrate into really hit on girls, otherwise you will end up drunk or just fooling around. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:13 AM |
| 1 | ‘I don’t get that creepy vibe from you’It seems someone approached her before and he was creepy lol Not you. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:12 AM |
| 2 | What are your best Tips and Tricks to opening and holding conversation?I strongly suggest you to stop thinking about tricks and games, instead concentrate into develop a powerful, interesting and fulfililling lifestyle that actually YOU LOVE, that way you won't need those weird ideas about low/high value, negs, etc. You are way too young so use this free time to develop skills, get more knowledge, etc, invest in yourself. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel with getting blown out by a miserable human being?" Just wondering how you guys handle it when someone is completely horrible to you. Do you walk away with your tail between your legs? " Just forget it, see it on this way, they just showed you why you shouldn't get along with them, so it is good that you saved yourself from toxic people, that is all. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | On relationships and maintaining attractionNot really, you are just daydreaming, stop that and live the real world through real actions. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:06 AM |
| 2 | I think women are putting me in friendzone the moment we metYou must be more direct, try the direct method, you are very indirect that is why this happens to you. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Hey there, are these good times to hit on a girl at parties?There is no real answer, you just need to do the move and let it go. I know you are nervous but you must just do it, she may reject you but you need to start to "pull the trigger" Imagine that you are learning how to swim watchin videos, there will be a moment sooner or later that you must jump into the pool. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 11:03 AM |
| 1 | 21 yo. Is cold approach out of date for my generation?" It seems like cold approaching makes you kind of a weirdo in college in 2018. " If you think is weird then it will be weird, if you do not think is weird it won't be weird, up to you, and funny, I just recorded a video about exactly this and will post it later here, basically: Stop complaining and approach, period. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Curious about what y'all would do" then like 6 hours later she texts me and says hey what's up " Just reply, stop those mind games and get a date, save the chat for the date. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Good first date ideas 18m asking 19f" I told her I drink alcohol " Never ever do something that you do not want to do, period, and it seems you have sexual tension with her, try to get sexual on text and skip the bar and just get sex. Do not ever do something you do not want to just to impress a girl, never. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 10:54 AM |
| 2 | Guys who do attract sexy but over flirtatious women?I understand and makes sense. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Is it limiting to think you shouldn't depend on your clothes to make yourself more attractive?You are building your self esteem into something external, so all that confidence will be just a fancy way to hide your insecurities, yeah, you will get laid and more attraction, the problem is in the long run, I advice to really first work into inner confidence and later hit external things. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Difference between...They are way more physical, they escalate way faster, and they do it because most girls are very open, and they may try to "steal" your girl. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Date settings"gin tonic" yeah I agree | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Escalating with a talkative girlJust stop thininking and kiss her, there is no other way. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 07:11 AM |
| 1 | If you Pickup Every Girl you See, You're Deteriorating your GameI agree, this should be perfectly adaptaded to your daily life, not a duty, and that is something most guys never understand. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Any help, Suffering from severe general anxiety after doing my first Daygame cold approachDo not stop, continue doing those approaches and eventually that anxiety will go away, this is normal, and stop finding a way to "ease the pain", and just approach. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 07:06 AM |
| 1 | How to become successful in the most popular (place to be seen bar)?I think is a waste of time and energy, I used to think think this when I was in collage, and it became a nightmare, I couldn't walk anywhere without wasting 30 min just in greetings, so instead of trying to be popular now I prefer to target to quality people. If you want to be popular, do some drunk games with the guys around, fool around with the girls, be in total party mode, easy. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:59 AM |
| 1 | Date settingsChange "coffee" for "beer" , voila! Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:50 AM |
| 5 | How to deal with abandonment terror ?Please do not get me wrong, but do not use PUA to fix problems from your childhood, get therapy with someone that is professional. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Is it limiting to think you shouldn't depend on your clothes to make yourself more attractive?It will help of course, but the problem is your confidence, you will become dependent of that cloth, suit, outfit whatever, and that is a huge problem, first try to get a strong self esteem and then buy any cloth you want. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls only see me as a friend?DO NOT BE SOCIAL, BE SEXUAL. Stop pretending that you do not like sex. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:29 AM |
| 2 | How to ask her numberSure, try! good luck Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:27 AM |
| 0 | How to handle irritating knobhead who look a fightJust leave the place, you learned something, nobody will take care of you. Those guys advicing to "fight" they have no idea how the real world works, anyone can get a weapon, a knife, street fights are not like MMA, the golden rule is to always avoid a fight, no matter what (I know muay thai). You did good with the bouncers, but once you noticed they did nothing you should have left the place. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:26 AM |
| 0 | How to handle irritating knobhead who look a fightJust leave the place, you learned something, nobody will take care of you. Those guys advicing to "fight" they have no idea how the real world works, anyone can get a weapon, a knife, street fights are not like MMA, the golden rule is to always avoid a fight, no matter what (I know muay thai). You did good with the bouncers, but once you noticed they did nothing you should have left the place. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Do you ever fear that the girl you want to seduce is already in a relationship?The fastes way is just to ask her, stop trying to read her mind and with these excuses, just approach! I have approached girls with the bf nearby, or arriving, even the husband, some got mad or angry but I just walked away and that was everything that happened. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:17 AM |
| 1 | What's the general consensus on dating and hooking up workshops?Uhm, I am not a full time instructor but my best advice is that you should do this alone for a couple months, so based in that previous experience you may know who is on this with workshops that will help you to improve your game, and who is just fake, scammer or little to learn from. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:15 AM |
| 4 | Answering "i will get you sooner or later" ?You are way too needy, stop it, freeze this interaction, meet other girls and try again with this girl in a few months. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Guys who do attract sexy but over flirtatious women?Dancing is just to have fun and the way I see it you are using it as your main way to get the girl, so when you dance stop over thinking and just dance with the girl, and after dancing game her. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Difference between...USA is the easiest place in the world, the main difference may be is that you must be more "agressive" in your game, that is all. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:04 AM |
| 0 | HELP! Potential shit test?" I used to know this girl from 9th grade " That is a long time, try to analyze if this is not oneitis. " I'm a real friend. I'm lost? " What do you think? Be honest. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls lose interest?" I’m very attractive and a funny guy in general. " Work on this, do not be social, be sexual (of course you need to escalate little by little). Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 05:58 AM |
| 3 | Where are you peeps from?I know that feeling, my hometown is morelia (mexico) and plenty of places are empty or worse, you see the girl several times lol nevertheless I think this is good, because you will learn how to deal with social pressure, something that some PUAs from big cities will never understand, my advice is to try to travel sometimes to big events or other cities, it helps you to not get stuck in your small town. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I'm in the movies, when I get out I want to ask this cute worker for her numberDo not get her number, get a date! that is way better. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 05:53 AM |
| 2 | I have no worldly idea how to talk to girls at parties, what are your tips?There is not real talk happening in parties, everything is very random, you can talk about whatever is happening at the moment, or whatever you expect to happen in the party. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Meeting girls in an everyday environmentThe "trick" is to be open to every chance that life gives you, I do a Ph.D so we could say is a very lonely activity, nevertheless thanks to the PUA thing, I can approach any girl in any place, and about the "quality" it depends of what you mean with that, and not really hard, first you need to ask what kind of girls you like and then push yourself to the places that those girls are usually around, if you like a girl that works and has some goals, then go to some cafes, just a random example, do… | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Should I ask this girl out at the gym or on Instagram?Face to face is always better and try to get a date in that very moment, instagram is the worst place to "game". Zeroz | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 04:56 AM |
| 2 | How to go from tinder match to real life date?Oh, I see, it is very tricky because some people use it because they are boring, they suddenly start a relationship, etc, so, considering the high percent failure, Just get a date, for example: "Let's meet up later" Tinder is mainly just for hookups so most of them do not want deep talks or add you in personal accounts. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 10:43 AM |
| 1 | I can't talk to strangersNow you know the problem, I strongly suggest you to quit from the idea that school is the only place for picking up girls, anyway I already did a video about this, I will post it later here. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 10:41 AM |
| 1 | I can't talk to strangersThen you can go to any mall, a park, everything depends of what you want, just take action, you need a very open mind, the ideas you have now are not providing the reality you really want. | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 07:19 AM |
| 1 | How to arrange another meet-up/date after failing to do so in person?" but stayed at my place for some time to talk. So I guess it's fair to assume she was at least partially interested otherwise she would have just left, right? " Not really, maybe she is into you, maybe she was boring, maybe she was being just polite, stop the small talk and just get the date, hey let's get a coffee this friday, that is all. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 05:09 AM |
| 1 | COCKBLOCK?????Never give them attention, ignore, and concentrate in the girl, see it on this way, they need 50% energy to cockblock you, and 50% to hit in the girl, if you ignore them you will 100% into the girl, and physical move the girl from them. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Who here is meditating to improve their game?I did meditation long time ago, it helped to be more relax and chill and stop thinking dating girls is a big deal, I do not really have a way to do meditation, I just play some music, close my eyes and that is all. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 05:06 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys do on a typical day?the "trick" is to stop wasting time in things that are do not help you to get closer to your real goals in life, for example: netflix, playing videogames all day long, etc. all of those activities are just a waste of time. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 05:05 AM |
| 2 | Ex. Situation with my sex partnerIt was just sex, i really think you should forget this, otherwise this situation will really hurt you a lot, see it on this way, this guy was in town and suddenly she is acting like this, if that guy is again in town the next times, she will do even worse, do you really want that to happen? here the problem is that you also have feelings for her, so stop now, my advice, nevertheless I know you won't care and you will continue with this situation until you crash and burn lol Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 05:03 AM |
| 0 | How to go from tinder match to real life date?The most important thing on tinder (as you may already know): the photos. That is all, really, the bio, opener, of course they matter but not much, so first try to get really good good photos, besides that, I noticed that if you install again tinder you will get more exposure, try this. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 05:00 AM |
| 0 | When do I give up?She knew that you were playing mindgames so now she is also playing, forget it, and next time just be cool, stop those mind games. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Got her number in 60 seconds (and a date) INFIELD VIDEOHard-to-swallow: "And I can see you get butt-hurt fairly easily. Rather than constructively discussing my points you're choosing ad-hominem nonsense as your response. That's unfortunate, but I'll still address your points below." Not at all, I am happy that I used your replied as a way to show others that is easy to get adviced from wrong people, in this case a newbie like you. "I'm not partial to direct or indirect and use both regularly, and my comments apply regardless of the "method"." … | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:55 AM |
| 0 | Got her number in 60 seconds (and a date) INFIELD VIDEOHard-to-swallow: "And I can see you get butt-hurt fairly easily. Rather than constructively discussing my points you're choosing ad-hominem nonsense as your response. That's unfortunate, but I'll still address your points below." Not at all, I am happy that I used your replied as a way to show others that is easy to get adviced from wrong people, in this case a newbie like you. "I'm not partial to direct or indirect and use both regularly, and my comments apply regardless of the "method"." … | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Stuck since yearsI started this when I was 17, I have been always a thinker, very serious and quite introvert, when I was a kid I was bullied all the time, I had very low self esteem, I couldn't even keep eye contact. Now I am 29, doing a Ph.D and my situation with girls is very different, the secret? Just follow the next steps: 1- Approach girls and do not complain 2- Be patient, do not expect that all your life will improve suddenly. 3- Repeat until you are great with girls. I know it sounds simple but actua… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Queries from an introvert1)how do i move on to the indirect opener(keeping into consideration that i'm an introvert) I consider myself also introver, neverthelesss I use direct method, I understand you want to be indirect because you may feel way too much pressure but trust me, once it becomes your habit, everything is easier and very simple, you can check my infield video, it is way too simple and it works. 2)Some advice said to be yourself and not to deviate too much to the point its fake, however some seem to suggest… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:38 AM |
| 2 | University, sprinter, bus stopsHola, I am Mexican, first be sure to stop drinking or getting high like there is no tomorrow, as I see, your friends may have an important role for those habits, so change those friends, I know you may love them and everything but you must realize you are still very young and those friends may lead you to very toxic habits, and if you have no idea how to make new friends, then you need to start sarging. I know sounds weird because most guys think sarging is only for dating girls, but it will hel… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I can't talk to strangersYou need to start sarging, approach girls, cold approach, stop thinking that life will give you this chances, you must create those chances, go to a mall and approach some girls, or hit the club, there are so many opportunities but if you do not take action well then you will get nothing. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Escalation via textContinue texting, normal, be patient bro. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:28 AM |
| 1 | If you were attractive, how would you go on getting a girlfriend?I am not good looking (you can check my videos) and several times I have in a city that I knew nobody, even a different country, culture, ideas, what was my secret then? SARGING But not like a robot, I truely have adapted talking to girls in my daily life so it is not a problem now, the funny thing is that i have used this also to know friends, last time I went to japan I met a japanese guy in a very random guy and now we are brothers, the problem I see is that most people love the confort zon… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up the text game?Stop texting forever and just get a date, I even posted an infield video here, when I texted the girl it was just to get the date. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:24 AM |
| 2 | How to start a conversation off of nothing?Anything that you truely want to know about her, even if those questions are very basic, the "trick" is that you are being honest and she will notice this that you actually care, so just ask her whatever you feel curious about her. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:22 AM |
| 2 | cant find ways to esclate in the interactionI am quite sure I already replied to you in other post, you need to stop fooling around, hiding your real intentions and be more direct, be more sexual. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:20 AM |
| 2 | I can't believe i actually started shaking when talking to a girl. How do i control this..haha that used to happen to me, sweathing hands, my mind was blocked, my legs were shaking. Most people will tell you ways to cover up the problem but not how to fix it, the reason is simple, because using a band aid is easier and faster, if you really want to raid away from that, you need to take massive action, in other words, expose yourself more to interactions with girls, get dates, get girlfriends, etc, in that way you will get used to, and those "problems" will go away. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:19 AM |
| 0 | I got rejected but I feel so happy and alive.Great, keep it up, kudos Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Hooking up in a ClubWhat are women looking for in men for a hookup? (i.e being in shape or whatever) If you live alone and close from the club. I always end up getting caught up in my own bubble where I have so much fun dancing in my own little world that I am somewhat oblivious to the women around me. Do they like seeing a guy that is busting dad dancing without a care in the world or am I reading into something that isn't there? There were 3 or 4 women during the night that kept bumping into me and grinding again… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Going to my first party this weekend, looking for some help connecting with girls.Be sexual, not social. Lot of guys will tell you to just talk with everyone, be social and have a good time, that is absurd, when I was 20 I used to throw every weekend a party with friends and trust me, if you want sex, you need to be sexual, stop pretending that you like everyone or small talk, the most important thing is to be social aware of your surroundings, in other words, if the girl is with her bf, if there are some agressive guys, etc. I would say that is the only problem, enjoy! Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:12 AM |
| 6 | I have a personality that attracts girls, but my lack of flirting skills pushes them awayThat is normal, you have no experience with girls, you never approach, you never had dates, so this is NORMAL, and you will have even more mistakes and guess what? it is OK. Respect the learning process and if you want to improve faster then you need to do your homework, there is no shortcut for this, if you want to get better with girls, you need to approach more, get more dates, etc, you get the picture. Stop complaining, work hard and be patient, repeat until you are awesome with girls. Zer… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Why is an attractive girl from school extending convo with me ?Maybe she is into you, maybe she is just nice or social or friendly, nobody knows, if you want to date her just ask her out. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:06 AM |
| 0 | (College) Shortly After Discovering This Sub, I've Had My First Success!Great, continue that hard work and be patient, kudos bro Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl was being flaky, I unfollowed her and stopped talking to her. She texts me back 2 weeks later asking me out.Next, you are not a puppy, you can call it childish but if you accept this girls knows that she can vanish suddenly and come back because you have no self respect or self love. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Got her number in 60 seconds (and a date) INFIELD VIDEOHard-to-swallow, I can see you are a newbie, so my pleasure to help you. Your feedback is great if you use indirect method, such as the mystery method, nevertheless I use direct method on my way, and as you can see it is simple, effective and no need to "dance like a monkey". About the things you point out: " "Approach from a weak frame, immediately showering her with complements and giving away all your power" This is the most common thing among newbies, they are still thinking in "low and hi… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Got her number in 60 seconds (and a date) INFIELD VIDEOHard-to-swallow, I can see you are a newbie, so my pleasure to help you. Your feedback is great if you use indirect method, such as the mystery method, nevertheless I use direct method on my way, and as you can see it is simple, effective and no need to "dance like a monkey". About the things you point out: " "Approach from a weak frame, immediately showering her with complements and giving away all your power" This is the most common thing among newbies, they are still thinking in "low and hi… | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How to catch attention of someone I've never talked to in school?First, approach more in general, and secondly, just hey what do you study? are you in this school? I think we do not know each other, I am Zeroz, there are so many ways and it doesn't really matter, you are in the same social place. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 02:59 AM |
| 0 | How to turn someone down?and who cares? Only you, stop caring about what they think, I just did a video, you are first then the others. | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 02:34 PM |
| 0 | How to turn someone down?Not really, just say no, that is all, I have taken also dancing classes, not big deal. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 10:02 AM |
| 2 | Non-partiers, have any of you tried dating a party girl? How did it turn out?Stop putting labels on girls, that will affect you so much, it is ok to have a "general idea" but there is a high chance that those ideas will limit your experience with those girls, get dates with them and get an experience yourself, we all have different views and values, so do not use labels so easily, some are crazy some are down to earth. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 10:01 AM |
| 1 | I want to start talking to a girl I know from some years but never were too closeStop that oneitis, period. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 09:56 AM |
| 0 | Fit girls don’t necessarily prefer fit guysHonestly, to me they are quite boring, they depend so much from their outlook, they take photos all the time, they take care of everything they eat, they do not drink,and well they are totally not compatible with me. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Realized I am a backup for a girl I've been hanging out with for 3 weeks. What do you guys do in this situation?Yeah just next her. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 09:55 AM |
| 2 | People tell me that going to the gym would be a waste of time because I’d only get fat. Is this true??Just if you want to be healthy, relying on your outlook or hitting the gym to get girls is sooo lame, because you will never develop strong confidence (you rely on your body) do it to be fit and healthy not because of girls. Is it needed to get girls? No. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 09:54 AM |
| 2 | I really can’t wait till I’m just older and I won’t have to worry about or think about anything with girls or dating like as a young person. It’s too depressing and rough.I'm 29 stop that victim mindset, even if you get older your problems won't go away, dating or the pua world is not easy, not the rainbow picture that a lot of so called "professional" want you to think, but trust me, it is worth it, I entered to this "world" when I was 17, and best decision ever. Take massive action, shut up and be patient. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Got her number in 60 seconds (and a date) INFIELD VIDEOThis was 2 years ago recorded | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Handling objections over textNext. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How to approach in discoIt depends, if the music is very loud, just dance and get lot of physical contact, if the music is not very loud, just be direct when you approach. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Invited a girl for a walk and dinner she declined the dinner wants to do the walk. What does it mean?Just kiss her, do not buy the "I am very traditional", and before even thinking she is gf material at leastr ty to kiss her. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Single now...how do I tell the girls...Stop over thinking, relax, just say yes I am single and continue talking normally, just chill and enjoy the date with her. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Made a freshly married woman cheat on her husband" I dont really wanna fuck up their marriage. What the hell do i do yo. " Then stop this and just next girl. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:41 AM |
| 3 | Cold Approaching at 16My hometown is Morelia in Mexico, (800,000) so my advice is to not give a damn about what others think or say about you (trust me they will talk a lot about you) and just continue doing your work, guys that always lived in big cities do not understand the real social pressure from being in a small town, and let me tell you this, once you are in a bigger city you will game like crazy. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Non pick up book genres to readAnything from Malcolm Gladwell | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do I always get told to workout?Be healthy but do not fall into the idea that you need to hit the gym, they may tell you this because you look insecure or affraid about everything, man up. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:37 AM |
| 3 | How do you balance time between practicing dating game and achieving your life goals?Just approach girls that happen to be in your normal activities, on your way home, around your place, when you do some shopping, and if there are no girls in your normal activities then modify those activities so you are exposed to those girls. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:36 AM |
| 2 | How to close in a bar/club setting?You need to be more direct with girls otherwise you will waste lot of time in small talk, when you are direct you will filter those that want to just fool around from those that want to also have sex with you. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:34 AM |
| 2 | tired of being treated like shit20? 20 is just normal in any average day, and you did 20 in the whole summer, do not get me wrong, it is great that you are doing the hard work but you are taking forever to take those small steps, now do those approaches more often. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:32 AM |
| 1 | How to catch attention of someone I've never talked to in school?Just have a friendly talk, get her number /fb/in and get a date, simple. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How to turn someone down?Just dance with other girl, that is all, I also dance bachata so I know that feeling, it may be rude but that is better | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:06 AM |
| 3 | Feel like I’m overthinking things in collegeTAKE MASSIVE ACTION (APPROACH!) stop daydreaming and do your homework Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:04 AM |
| 1 | CAMPUS QUESTIONSGet a date, and in the date you escalate, stop chatting forever, there is a high chance you are just wasting your time and with some oneitis, so close the deal now. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 04:02 AM |
| 3 | Need advice on Turing down a handful of people 17(m)if you want to play "safe", never give an answer, just as people in politics do, and start to take longer to reply or hangout with them, sooner or later they will undertand. Nevertheless my advice is to not play around with girls you do not really care, be honest and true to yourself. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 03:59 AM |
| 1 | What sexual things you can do to a girl in public place like mall? The girl is willing to go whole nine yards.I guess you can do anything but the problem is that they have cameras everywhere so there is a high chance you will get into trouble, better to avoid that spot. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Puzzled Nice Guy: How could I make a strange girl to have sex with me?You need to be more honest and direct about your intentions, my bet is that you fool around pretending to be the friend or whatever, stop that, and start to express your true feelings and desires in a more direct way (of course you must be polite doing this). Zeroz | /r/seduction | 01/11/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How to do nightgame if the music is too loud?Thank you for the abstract, greetings. | /r/seduction | 26/09/18 04:53 AM |
| 1 | RSD Bootcamp - Review & Field ReportsThank you for sharing, maybe it was my bad but my real doubt is if he relies a lot on his social proof, wealth, etc to pick up girls, example, if everytime he meets a girl and shows his followers on IG, thank you. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 01:01 PM |
| 1 | RSD Bootcamp - Review & Field ReportsBig question, there is a difference between be social, be polite and be sexual, I understand that tyler approaching everyone really surprised you but I wonder, do you really think that translates into dates? I wasn't there but it makes me think he was "testing the waters" and just see if they connect or not, if not, he will just play smoothly as a social or friendly approach as a way to disguise the rejection or lack of interest from the girl in a sexual way, am I right? Besides that I understan… | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 07:15 AM |
| 1 | How many approaches do you need to get results?Thank you all for sharing your opinion! Greetings. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 05:41 AM |
| 2 | I've had 50+ Sexual Partners, Why Do I Still Have Crippling Approach Anxiety?It is quite normal, and I have always said this, PUA is the worse way to get laid, there are better and more effective ways to get laid, but if you want confidence that is totallly different, text me I can help you, +86 130 2009 8077 whatsapp | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 07:28 AM |
| 0 | Daygame: Picking up girl from philipines (infield)Very offensive comment, kudos | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 06:29 AM |
| 0 | Daygame: Picking up girl from philipines (infield)Hello, yeah | /r/seduction | 13/09/18 04:13 AM |
| 0 | Daygame: instant date (infield and spanish captions)We can do an interview and you can "exposed" me in youtube in my own youtube channel if you want anytime +86 130 2009 8077, I see you are a newbie, kudos | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Daygame: instant date (infield and spanish captions)Thank you for showing your nonexistent education. Zeroz | /r/seduction | 03/09/18 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you want to be a winner? Youtuber says everything about successGerman talks about how to get succesful and the consequences of walking that road, besides that there are a lot of infield videos and advices for your busniess idea Review of the best content on Youtube | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Read this quote in a book unrelated to seduction, thought it would resonate with most people here. Fear of approach and dating.Fear of approach is just a lack of the habit of actually knowing girls, that is why you have anxiety, fear, etc, that is why most guys want "tricks" they never understand that they need to develop the skill to be social ALL THE TIME, not only when you go out "sarging" at friday night in a club. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Opinion: Flirting with alcohol is not easier, especially if you dont like the way it makes people be.Just consider that there is a possibility that eventualy you will become dependent of alcohol, that means that if there is no alcohol around you will face a lot of difficulties, try to game without alcohol, it is also great | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | How to know if girl likes you 5 ways to knowJust put attention to the next one: She continues with you. That's all, everythin else will just make you overanalyze. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 03:32 PM |
| 1 | How can you keep a conversation going via text?Stop and just date her, otherwise there is a high chance you are just wasting your time and imagine scenarios that won't happen. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it wrong to practice game while in a relationship?Bad or good, who cares? Just keep in mind that every action has a reaction, if you are good with whatever will happen for gaming while you are in a relationship, continue, if not, stop | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Girl wants a double dateShe is not into you but she wants to be nice with you, do not expect much from this, even if you get laid she will give you a lot of drama | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Is it bad that I'm always the one starting the conversation?It is bad only if you are just forcing those conversations, if you are starting every talk just because you want it, nothing wrong there, it means you are social and friendly, the problem comes when you are doing this because you expect something in return (and the paradox is that maybe that is the reason most of the time you start the conversation) | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Guys, I fucking did it. My story at 22(m) of how I lost it!!Congratulations, and my advice, continue working hard, most people once they get whatever they wanted, they stop improving, and actually you should work harder, anyway once again congratulations! PS Get new friends | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 02:24 PM |
| 5 | 8 Common Mistakes Younger Guys Make When Approaching Older WomenIn general, it is pretending something you are not, ex, you are not that young, you have way more experience, money, etc. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Inexperienced virgin in need of some advice for tonight.The best teacher is failure, stop trying to think what will happen and just let it go, whatever is good for you, just enjoy, and do not be too harsh on you. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 01:42 PM |
| -1 | All the hot girls are takenHonestly I think you are just adjusting a theory (forcing) to the results you are getting and from my perspective you may need to approach more and more importantly, really start to know girls, not just getting random numbers. | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 01:24 PM |
| 1 | need some opinions on a situation, was i too harsh?Just move one. A golden rule, if you post something about a specific girl, then you are in trouble. Good luck | /r/seduction | 18/08/17 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Finding the "special one" A MUST READ!+1 Cheers bro | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 07:53 AM |
| 1 | My suggestions after ten years on this; top ten things you should avoid in the PUA worldThank you for the feedback, I am new on reddit and I was just trying how the posting system works here so yep, I totally agree with you , thanks again. | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 07:49 AM |
| 1 | My suggestions after ten years on this; top ten things you should avoid in the PUA worldI have noticed that in the momento you have this obsession towards only one system, you instantly start thinking that everything else is not worth it, so, if you have this kind of idea, you will miss a lot of interesting perspective from others just because they are not in the same track. And I am 28. | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 07:47 AM |
| 1 | My suggestions after ten years on this; top ten things you should avoid in the PUA worldBeauty my change from each person :P (At least of course then you get into what the industry tells you what is beautiful, then you will be in a dark hole of manipulation and childish games, and well, just my opinion, yours is also an interesting and valid perspective. Cheers | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 07:45 AM |
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