After enough practice and fuckups (both from ignorance / naivety, and just being too high to be able to do anything other than sit around and worry about what other people thought of me), I eventually figured out that it's highly important to get in the right emotional and psychological mindset before you go out sarging. Tyler talked about this, he said that basically since he is an introvert who had a past history of insecurity and depression (same as me), that he has to get in the right vibe before he goes out and stay present to the moment or else his shit falls apart...and i can already tell it takes PRACTICE. It feels fake, it feels like acting, but I always remind myself that if I just act my normal, goody-toe-shoes me who is overly nice to girls and permission and validation seeking, i might as well just hang it up right now....

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From my experiences thus far, girls react way more positively when I can totally, 100% lose myself and be confident enough to let myself look stupid (dancing or whatever), smile, make them laugh, stick my tongue out at them etc etc...obviously it depends on the girl how far you should go with the antics but one thing I do know is that you have to get over yourself because if you can't you will be unable to express your personality or pass shit test

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To get in this state i have to spike my emotional level and remind myself what the environment and vibe is gonna be like at parties or bars or clubs or etc. Sometimes i'll listen to dance music for a couple hours, I'm trying to cut down on weed because it just made me crazy and overthink everything and get my head stuck up my ass for a good 2 years, but I will admit that once in awhile i use it for a helping hand. I've found that pot will reinforce whatever psychology is going on already, i.e., if you are feeling low and self conscious, it will multiply your social anxiety and make it worse, but if you are actually starting to believe in yourself, based on real reference experiences so there is absolutely no doubt in your mind, it could potentially be a tool for success. I've come to think of the normal me being the mild mannered clark kent who doesnt get laid and worries what everyone thinks of him, and the stoned me the player jockish fuckboy sophomore who fucked the hottest girl in high school and is unfazed by college chicks shit testing me by calling me boyish looking. it sounds schizophrenic, but it is actually a fascinating way to think of it. weed, its a helluva drug

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What are your methods for getting in state?