So i am interested in a girl, we get alonh great irl but still testing waters.

Thing is, as soon as we start texting its a complete hit or miss. We either text alot about something (rarely) or just barely.

The thing she does is, she reads stuff but puts her phone down instead of responding so i often get stuck with no response.

Next thing i feel like our conversations die fast via text.

I dont want to overdue it with attention and spam her all day but sometimes i need to throw in a 2nd or 3rd msg to get her attention back in. I also would love to know how to care less about responding. If i read a text, no matter who, i will respond asap always. She is quite the opposite there though.

Is it good to show attention via texting oe bad?

Thanks in advance Seddit!