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8

And in Europe chicks are mad about brown guys. Last week 2 brown guys came near the bar at the club. The chicks next to me went haywire.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/21 02:55 PM
1

You didn't mention the most important thing: for how long you've been going to the gym? Imho you should start with steonglifts 5x5 program. Rome wasn't build in a day. You are in a good place starting at 20 if you are consistant with your workouts and diet, well magic will happen.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 05:03 PM
15

If they are landwhales pass.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:56 PM
2

As we have a phrase in our language:everyone is looking for the soft part of the bread. Or in other words, why would a pretty girl study, start from zero. When she can have it all easy with OF, instagram simps?
/r/askTRP01/06/21 04:31 PM
1

Someone hasn't read the 16 commandments of Poon. VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary
/r/askTRP28/05/21 05:08 AM
1

Yeah my income exceeds my expenses, I am managing to save 30-50% of my monthly salary. Plus I found a side job from which the income will be 100% saved. The thing is that these financial advisors are recommending a plan which you should follow and they take care of the investing, pension funds etc. Which for me is a bit odd, as there is no 100% transparency. Yeah I will read about the stock market and will see what I do about it.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:24 PM
1

True, I am like that too. I don't buy something before making a research. And it is more satisfying to do it yourself than to just leave someone else do it for you.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 09:51 AM
1

Well the idea is to have a passive income that expands overtime. Yeah i know the percentage is not that big, but when i am investing monthly, overtime it will be worth it. Cryptocurrency is on the rise, but i am still not 100% sure if i should invest into that. I can try start with 400-500$.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:16 AM
1

Well i don't have that much money. For the standards in my eastern European country i am doing pretty ok. Due to the pandemic i managed to save 50% of my monthly salary. My goal is to be able to retire earlier. But also increase my income.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 07:01 AM
3

Yeah, i got one female friend that thinks if she was a men, she would slay left and right. She thinks that getting flowers and paying for the bill will be enough to lay someone ...
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:30 PM
3

So you are the kind of person that thinks he knows it all and tries to rub it on others? You knew this girl is a feminist and still you went into the danger zone and started talking about feminism.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:56 AM
1

Or serbian girls.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 07:48 AM
1

READ THE SIDEBAR!
/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:28 AM
2

Fix your hair, grow a full beard, but not too long. Hit the gym.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:39 AM
0

He was drunk, she wasn't.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 06:16 AM
1

That is not toxic lmao... That is dgaf. And having options.
/r/askTRP04/04/21 08:22 AM
1

Block her everywhere if you keep stalking her on social media.
/r/askTRP03/04/21 04:13 PM
1

As yourself what you will be able to do in 4 years as a Seal or as a construction worker, working for yourself?
/r/askTRP31/03/21 10:24 PM
3

First started from the seduction subredsit. Got a girl, she dumped me 6 months later. Lost my job a few months later due to not being focused. In the free time that i had, i read more about trp. Started a new hobby. 2 months later had my first ONS.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 10:35 PM
1

It seems like you want to get revenge on them. No point in doing that. I've been through that. Just blocked thwm and moved on. Best revenge is living well. Why do you feel guilt about blocking them? You can't make new better friends?
/r/askTRP17/03/21 10:23 PM
2

That would've been alot of snacking during the day.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:58 PM
5

You never know how crazy a simp can be. So to your question, yes they can be dangerous.
/r/askTRP16/03/21 05:51 PM
13

How he will get these plates ? when he has no game ?
/r/askTRP14/03/21 10:17 PM
2

He should read the sidebar again.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 09:48 PM
13

Or this guy is hawt, why he is with that ugly duckling? And why i have only simps around me?
/r/askTRP07/03/21 09:04 AM
9

But did you get recorded and then showed the video to someone else?
/r/askTRP27/02/21 09:26 AM
2

You have oneitis. You have already come as needy constantly asking to meet. I had the same mistake recently:was talking with a girl, wanted to meetup,was chatting too much. At the end she just stopped replying.
/r/askTRP22/02/21 06:14 PM
0

You found out about trp a year ago and you already think you know everything about life?
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:56 PM
1

Now the queation is what did you do from August til now? You should have fucked her long time ago...
/r/askTRP14/02/21 11:13 AM
10

Well use that energy elsewhere instead of fapping and watching porn. Push that iron in the gym. I didn't have beard until 25,so don't worry
/r/askTRP14/02/21 11:09 AM
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Ask yourself if you want to surround yourself with ppl that drag you back? There is no point in helping someone that doesn't want to help himself! Do not fucking say you are sorry, it is who you are, there is no point in appologising for something that is true.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:49 PM
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Why you feel bad? That kind of stuff happen. You did well, you comforted her, helped her etc. Maybe it will work out better next time.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 05:46 PM
1

Switch to push, pull, legs?
/r/askTRP13/02/21 11:42 AM
2

If a women unfollows you and deletes all your chats w/e. There is no point in reaching out again. You've fucked up her pussy has dried out. Your turn has ended.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 11:41 AM
2

Chasing her, but are they Alpha fucks or Beta bucks?
/r/askTRP13/02/21 10:20 AM
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Who are the marriage minded man? Why aren't you getting approached by these man? You are having some expectations, but the reality is different. You should first work on your body. Otherwise your chances are getting lower.
/r/askTRP13/02/21 10:17 AM
2

Germany is really bad for gaming if you arw not native. You should go to Portugal or Spain.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 09:05 PM
7

N-count is double or even more.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 12:17 PM
1

I have to say that cooking is like meditation to me. It's so refreshing and it clears your mind. At the end you are satisfied and you got a pretty good meal.
/r/askTRP21/01/21 10:39 AM
1

I noticed increase when i worked on myself, increased my SMV and started being more witty.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 08:58 PM
2

I've always wondered, why the fuck ppl want to dig through trash?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:54 PM
1

How do you know you are ugly?
/r/askTRP24/12/20 01:50 PM
1

I got short frenulum, i had surgery and it was partially cut, so all good.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 09:56 PM
1

I am using bioderma atorderm bodylotion as i got rare skin desease. I use the same bodylotion for my face too.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 07:26 PM
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I think he hasn't even fucked her hahah. But this story is an example for an old women that has hit the wall and wants male attention, but from young guys. And as a needy beta tries to buy that attention with gifts.
/r/askTRP13/11/20 07:17 AM
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Your ego got hurt. Same thing happened to me when my ex dumped me and started dating another guy the next week... It takes time. Just focus on your stuff, fuck the plates and stop overthinking that shit. Meditate if needed.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:33 PM
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zinc and vitamin D
/r/askTRP07/11/20 12:27 PM
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You were edging, that's why you had blue balls. ​ I did 2weeks nofap and i have to say there was a difference. Not like godmode or anything, but i was more confident, approaching, talking to girls. And at the end of the day i felt in general better. My mind was sharper and i wasn't getting angry at some bullshit stuff happening at work.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 12:14 PM
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That is why you need social calibration. You might be better than the rest body wise, but socially it seems like you are way behind.
/r/askTRP03/11/20 07:16 AM
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As Jordan Peterson said it: Compare Yourself To Who You Were Yesterday, Not To Who Someone Else Is Today.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 06:55 PM
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Buy a kettlebell 20kg or more. You can do squats, rows, chin ups,swings.with a kettlebell you can dovalmost anything. Iam planning to buy one next month and do some variations of exercises.
/r/askTRP30/10/20 11:49 PM
3

That bait is cheaper than a toy from aliexpress.
/r/askTRP20/10/20 03:18 PM
1

Currently reading Ego is the enemy by R6an Holiday.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:08 PM
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That is your ego talking. I wondered the same myself when my ex dumped me. Just work on yourself, be your mental point of origin and don't care about what other people think about you.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 07:18 AM
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True, did the closure thing just to boost my hurt ego. It never works in your favour.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 03:45 PM
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When the river is bloody, go through the mud. In other words, fuck her in the ass.
/r/askTRP14/10/20 08:25 PM
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it sounds like more red flags than a communist parade.
/r/askTRP12/10/20 06:07 PM
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more like 20+ %
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:25 PM
2

Swing that kettlebell to oblivion. You can do literary everything with it. Swings, rows, squats,high pulls, sholder presses.lunges, Turkish get up. Bulgarian split squat with a chair. If it is light, do more repetitions. Do pyramids of different exercises. 15, 15 rows,15 high pulls, then 14 from each.til 1 Turkish get up is one of the toughest exercises.
/r/askTRP05/10/20 07:24 PM
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Have you read the 16th commandments of poon ? VIII. Say you’re sorry only when absolutely necessary Do not say you’re sorry for every wrong thing you do. It is a posture of submission that no man should reflexively adopt, no matter how alpha he is. Apologizing increases the demand for more apologies. She will come to expect your contrition, like a cat expects its meal at a set time each day. And then your value will lower in her eyes. Instead, if you have done something wrong, you should acknowl…
/r/askTRP23/09/20 10:37 AM
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You got phimosis. Go see a doctor asap. Get educated about your dick. When i first had sex i found out i got short frenulum and phimosis. . Went to the doctor had a frenulum aurgery and some cream for the phimosis. Now it is alot better.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 08:32 PM
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Why is putting a lotion on your skin a cucking thing ? Or it doesn't belong to the sidebar so it is not alpha much?
/r/askTRP22/09/20 10:13 AM
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Don't do hallucinogens when you are depressed. It might not end well. ​ Do you have some hobbies ? I signed up for dance classes a year ago and it was the best thing ever. After that went on stage 2 times. Got out of my comfort zone.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 08:13 AM
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Keeping my stuff before the brach swing was secured.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 09:02 PM
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Cuz he is needy and doesn't have other options.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:54 PM
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Meet up, escalate, fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 11:25 AM
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FOMO is a bullshit thing. You are comparing yourself to other people, which is wrong. Compare yourself to your old self. This should be your metric. FOMO on drugs, or sex, or partying is the dumbest thing ever. There was a comment by a guy that was in 2 LTR through his 20s, he found TRP at the age of 33 and now(39) he's in the top 10%, fucking women, doing what not.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 09:14 AM
1

Civics are cheap and reliable.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:23 PM
4

Watch what they do, not what they say. My ex was having some guy as a best friend. 1 week after she dumped me, she was sucking his dick.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 07:14 AM
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Stop comparing yourself to other people. Why do you care if someone is more or less confindent than you ? The thing is that you have no confidence, lifting improves it. Learn how to say NO, so you won't get walked over. Start with these stuff. The Change won't happen over a night. After all you've been a nice guy for the past 25 years. Have discipline and be patient.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:36 AM
1

already in her frame. See how he asked for her number...
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:22 AM
1

Get a kettlebell, you can do almost everything with it.
/r/askTRP01/09/20 11:00 AM
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Start with going to the gym and being consistent, 3 times a week, get a coach if you have no idea how to lift. This has helped me alot with anxiety. Start cooking and eating healthy food. Belive me this is the foundation to a happy life.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:51 PM
1

Asos has it all if you are in europe.
/r/askTRP30/08/20 05:12 PM
1

Pook has mentioned this in one of his posts. https://bookofpook.com/15-lessons-for-young-men-judge-by-actions-not-by-words-lesson-3/
/r/askTRP29/08/20 02:18 PM
1

Had a similar experience 2 weeks ago. Texted a girl and invited her to join me to a fancy gourmet food place. She said no, i unfollowed her and she got affected.She started telling me how narrow-minded i am for nexting her. I guess i hurt her ego a bit haha
/r/askTRP28/08/20 01:52 PM
2

Exactly, he is finding excuses. Rejection is better than regret. But people have to learn it the hard way.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 10:41 PM
1

Why do you think it is fake?
/r/askTRP26/08/20 06:18 AM
3

Increase your smv. There will be more attractive women with who you can connect on a whole different level
/r/askTRP22/08/20 02:35 PM
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For orbiting. She is seeking validation from you, why would she text you 4 months later to apologize ? To feel better and get her validation.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 08:02 AM
1

Check one of Pooks posts https://bookofpook.com/what-every-skinny-guy-should-know/
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:56 AM
3

LOL, it seems like you are more emotional and neurotic when not blocking her. If you are making a post on asktrp about her and who she is fucking.
/r/askTRP19/08/20 07:52 AM
1

I unfollowed a girl on instagram and she was really pissed off haha.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 08:45 AM
2

It seems like you are seeking validation from them. Or waiting for them to thank you for how good of a friend you are, which is the same. I cut my friends out last year. They weren't adding anything into my life and there was too much drama in a male friendahip group. One of the guys is a natural alpha and he was helping me alot, but he started criticising me on almost anything. So one night when we had an argument, i decided to cut them all out and blocked them. I don't regret my decision as it…
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:27 PM
3

I have a friend he is born on the same date as me. We are both 28, but he looks like a fat blob. Same height, but 15 kilos difference.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/20 06:51 PM
1

Pook has a nice essay about embracing your sexuality. https://bookofpook.com/embrace-your-sexuality/
/r/askTRP03/08/20 10:10 PM
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Why do you care if there are HB1s in the IT industry? You are there to work, not to fuck around. Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP12/07/20 06:10 AM
2

It works. If you are looking for an easy way, there is no. You have to just do it, escalate!
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:18 PM
2

I bet she at least has HPV.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:09 PM
2

as pook loves to say, perfect is boring ! And Unicorns don't exist.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 09:17 PM
2

One of the best blogs ever created. Thanks you.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 10:25 PM
1

Java/python and selenium, rest assured for api automation tests. Start by doing some tutorials. I've been currently making UI automation tests for an android app.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 08:06 PM
3

Sweet. I've been promoted as a lead QA in the beginning of the year. It is a bit different, more stuff to take care about. And a junior QA to help to. Tbh i prefer being automation QA, than being a lead.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 01:03 PM
3

Watch what they do, not what they say. It was too much attention more likely.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 08:23 AM
2

check this from the Fitness subreddit. Fitness/comments/4uijsl/a_detailed_look_at_why_stronglifts_starting/ Tried posting the correct link, but the bot is always deleting my posts.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 09:07 PM
2

If you have your shit together and you are confident, she will never know that you are a virgin!
/r/askTRP25/06/20 08:54 PM
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Imagine if that guy starts improving himself and in a year or two he will be back on the SMP slaying, while his ex-wife will be wayy past the wall drinking herself up and blaming him.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/20 06:48 AM
2

Too much drama. I have some experience with male friend groups. Last one was alot of drama, they were getting offended when i said what i thought and gave them advice. So decided it is time to move on.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:47 AM
1

Book of Pook, then Rational Male. Then everything else.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 10:10 AM
5

Femdom means Female Domination, a.k.a female fucking u in the ass, or the male being submissive. Simp, cuck etc. ​ Watch what they do not what they say.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 07:33 AM
3

Saying Hi here(in Bulgaria) is the same as in the other countries. The women here are actually more open than in western europe,because noone does cold approaching or approaches in bars. In bars people are just poking their phones and drinking,abd puffing shisha.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:26 PM
1

I was looking into laser eye surgeries, but i think it is too dangerous. So i just bought a fancy pair of frames that looks good on me and changed my look completely. And I also got sunglasses clip frame, which is really awesome.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 04:09 PM
1

Are you saying she was a 10?she was like 7 or 6.5 wasn't she?
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:06 AM
3

Live your life in secret. When, if you meet them, they will notice it and compliment you on that.
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:03 AM
7

It is a bit different in here, but still don't do it. There is a catch somewhere in the whole story.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 11:19 AM
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Yes, i've cut my childhood friends 5 years ago. They were all toxic, smoking weed every day and playing league of legends . Best decision ever.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 10:41 AM
1

Food Supliments? Zinc?
/r/askTRP06/05/20 09:13 PM
1

Which Company ?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:01 AM
3

If she disrespects you, why the hell are you still texting ? Hardblock and move on? Was she the only plate you had before the lockdown ? Playing dumb when someone is disrespecting you is not ok.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:11 PM
1

Get a few resistance bands with different resistance strength and progress with them ?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 09:25 AM
3

No idea why you feel like that? You are not a woman, you won't hit a wall. You will be more mature in your 30s and if you workout you will be above average for sure. You will experience more stuff and you SMV will be overall higher if you put in the effort.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 01:31 PM
1

I lost mine at the age of 26, so you have enough time, to fuck a lot of girls. Work on yourself, hit the gym, study, be social. And things will happen.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:18 AM
2

You should be the prize... Read pook's post about it.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 08:35 AM
1

Still there. And thinking that she will reach out, it seems like you haven't read rollo's iron rules
/r/askTRP03/03/20 06:30 PM
1

Stop doing that, been there. Lost some friends cuz of that, but they were doing the same shit.
/r/askTRP28/02/20 10:22 AM
1

They don't respect you, i am 100% sure they talk shit behind your back. At least that is my experience ftom my old friend group, that i hard nexted.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 08:29 AM
1

Yep it was pretty cheap in my city too. Around 170 euros.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 12:55 PM
2

What about your frenulum? Mine was too short and it was painful during sex. I had a surgery and now it's all good. Check the phimosis subreddit. Also be sure to read about circumcision.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:36 PM
2

To get his external validation.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 06:23 PM
10

Rejection is better than regret ! You can't have 100% success, but more approaching means you will have bigger chance to hit it off with a girl.
/r/askTRP17/02/20 09:46 PM
6

Watch what they do not what they say. Simple rule. She can tell you that she will carry your babies and love is eternal, but then dump you the next day.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:41 PM
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You know that this is bullshit right? She can tell you that she loves you, but then on a girls night out, she might fuck a chad.
/r/askTRP12/02/20 07:28 PM
1

What is going on with all these self-pity questions? You can't become an Alpha god over a night. It needs time, and effort. There is no easy way. Read the side bar, read book of pook, read the rational male. Hit the gym, change your hairstyle, start talking to people. Sounds simple eh, well it will be if you put the work to become your best self. Women should not be your final goal, being better than yesterday should be.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 08:21 AM
2

Yep i know you can't swallow your tongue, but aparently the guy had 200gr ouzo and his tongue was swollen. And he had problems breathing. So i put him on his sideand got his head back so he can starth breathing normally.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 08:29 PM
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I had a similar experience last summer. We were on a dance trip at the seaside and some people from the dance classes were laughing at me and joking about something i said. An accident happened, a guy had an epileptic seizure and i saved his life by pulling his tung out in 2 a.m. Next day everyone respected me and didn't even mention the things i said earlier.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 12:35 PM
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It seems like large part of the people here think that when they read the side bar, all the top posts and they have swallowed the pill. You shouldn't care if you have or haven't. You have the blueprint, you know what is beta and what is alpha. Change yourself to be better, ofc that won't be going beta and you know it. You learn and get experience. It doesn't happen over a night. Everyone is in a hurry for somewhere, on the streets for work, some people drive like maniacs and for what ? to go 10 …
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:42 PM
1

This should be put in the sidebar and sticked on top of the trp.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 07:34 PM
1

By a caliper from Aliexpress or some local store. Do the measurements and post the results.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:55 PM
2

The School of Greatness, Work on Your Game. Listening on Spotify
/r/askTRP13/01/20 09:27 AM
3

Move on, he drags you back. Recently had similar experience.Long story short, i went against the leader of the pack. Because i got sick of all the drama that guy was causing. Magically all the other friends even though they weren't on his side, decided to stop communicate with me. Well i had one final argument with the Leader and he got pissed off, so i blocked every single one of them. Then and there. Do i feel sorry ? Nah, sooner or later it would've happened, because these people are lazy f*c…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 01:22 PM
1

HB9 at 48 ? What kind of pink glasses are you wearing ?
/r/askTRP09/01/20 01:43 PM
1

Remember this, everyone is talking behind your back. ​ I did it too, but one day shit hit the fan and decided to shut my mouth and just don't do it. I blocked all my friends before chrismas because of that. People do it, but they get butthurt when someone talks behind their back.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 08:47 AM
2

Read This one. https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/kill-that-desperation.16926/
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:20 PM
1

Hey, what's your Name? Simple as that
/r/askTRP02/01/20 09:50 AM
1

Cut him off. It is for the better. I did that 2 weeks ago and i feel like i had to do it long time ago. I figured out that this friendship no longer benefited me and the negatives were more than the possitives.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 11:21 PM
2

It is like riding a bike... You just sit on it and start pedalling. You just escalate and things will happen.
/r/askTRP19/12/19 03:01 PM
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Read this one by Pook https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/kill-that-desperation.16926/
/r/askTRP18/12/19 01:08 PM
1

They get angry when you hit them on their soft spots.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 02:48 PM
2

Even if you are the problem, you are changing for yourself and it takes time, and most of the people nowadays are just bitter and envy it when you start outgrowing them. Now my case is that i tried to argue with the alpha leader of our friends group. Guess what, everyone turned their back on me. And at the end of the day, I decided to move forward, these aren't real friends.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:34 PM
3

I can relate to that as on saturday I had a fight with one of my friends and after that i decided it is time to move on and blocked him and all of our mutual friends. Move on, move out and ghost these people, you can't force someone to respect you!
/r/askTRP16/12/19 11:18 AM
2

Traditional Folk dances, been going for a year now, went on stage 2 times. This was leap out of my comfort zone. Planning on trying to learn drums after new year and maybe play some football if i manage to have the time. I am also an advanced skier.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:08 AM
1

Google dicarlo escalation ladder, there is a topic in the seddit subreddit about it.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:34 PM
31

Models was the beginning, after that it was book of Pook that was the lightswitch.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:18 PM
2

dicarlo's escalation ladder?
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:27 AM
36

Been on the other side can confirm.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:29 AM
3

Read this one https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/embrace-your-sexuality.28956/
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:17 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BARCTySXdnY Recently found out this piece of Tom LEykis's last show. It is pretty good.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 09:01 AM
2

Spot on, I've been struggling with that. Recently started approaching girls at the bar, got rejeted, but i got some success. And I even talked with some HB8s without caring of the outcome. Tbh i think I got a confidence boost from lifting with a personal trainer. I got some gainz, He pushes me to the limit and the results are starting to show up.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 07:31 PM
1

How do you start accepting that you have more value than you see yourself having ?
/r/askTRP02/12/19 03:41 PM
3

Block her everywhere, start lifting it helps alot, use that Rage to do some squats, deadlifts and whatever. Socialize as much as possilbe, otherwise you will sink into a depression spiral.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:58 AM
2

Good stuff, i was listening to Tom Lykis about changing yourself and getting better. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BARCTySXdnY
/r/TheRedPill28/11/19 09:13 AM
1

I am 177cm and 72kgs. You are not eating enough. Have 4-5 meals a day and things will start getting better. It's not a 1 night change, so have patience. ​ All the excercieses that you,ve mentioned i am doing 1/2 of your load.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:29 AM
1

Read the sidebar, read it again ! Then Read https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/110115/become_the_prize and Internalize it!
/r/askTRP19/11/19 07:15 AM
4

Yes, and i am still alive. Rejection is better that regret!!!
/r/askTRP17/11/19 08:29 AM
17

Well i started doing club game with the sole purpose of getting rejected. Belive me i couldn't approach a single girl. Now i just go, talk some shit, whatever i want. 10 will reject me, the 11 will like my witty sarcasm.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:55 AM
1

lol missed that part hahahaah. Well that's suck
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:51 AM
1

Possible unicorn is like possible 10. It does not exist. Everyone has flaws. She is not perfect.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:29 AM
1

She was sending me some video where she was drinking. I told her oh well it's the year of the pig, you will be making yourself a pig with that much alcohol. Ofc it didn't ended well hahah
/r/askTRP14/11/19 03:04 PM
3

like once in a blue moon day hahah
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:56 PM
3

Don't argue, it never works.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 09:49 AM
2

I guess it is this one. have to download it and read it. I am having a problem with that. https://www.amazon.com/When-Say-No-Feel-Guilty/dp/0553263900
/r/askTRP06/11/19 10:30 PM
1

He will keep texting and she will loose interest.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:10 PM
1

My beard tickles a lot and that's why i don't eat girls out.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:45 PM
4

Well if it is not you, she will find another dick to fall on.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 08:26 AM
4

Lmfao, at 1h50min, the hamster is spinning at full speed hahaha
/r/TheRedPill28/10/19 10:01 AM
2

it got deleted hahah
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:53 AM
2

I am same weight, same height. I was 18BF % in august, now i think i am around low 15%. I am doing 3 times gym and 2 times cardio dances per week. From friday i've started going with an instructor, because i was not sure if i am doing some exercises properly. It's not that much of a money, so i decided this is a good investment and i know the guy will push my limits. ​ Go to the gum, you will feel really good after doing a good workout.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 06:53 PM
1

Yes, exactly
/r/askTRP24/10/19 04:13 AM
4

I think i found it, it was a post by the Illimitablemen ​ https://illimitablemen.com/2015/07/17/fifty-shades-of-red/
/r/askTRP23/10/19 09:04 PM
1

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-every-skinny-guy-should-know.60002/ ​ Check this one. If your SMV is high well low SMV women or post wall will try to mock you.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 06:53 PM
1

have a threesome ?
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:05 AM
2

And after that she is 32, fat land whale with 2 cats, alone and blaming Men for everything. hahaha
/r/askTRP23/10/19 07:53 AM
6

And be sure to escalate on Date one.
/r/askTRP18/10/19 11:45 AM
3

Exactly. Had the same issue for almost a year after she dumped me. Comparing myself from last year and now, i am better overall. SMV has increased for sure. Lifting and some nice glasses do wonders hahah.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 03:04 PM
1

I am living here too hahah.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 10:06 AM
1

Check the top TRP posts of all time ? That's all you need. Don't read everything.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:31 AM
1

The question is why the fuck do you want to dig through trash ? If you got one high SMV girl, you can do it again. Is it that hard to get ?
/r/askTRP16/10/19 08:13 AM
2

Be a professional waitress haha
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:24 AM
1

It's just one girl, you can't have a conclusion from just one person. About the girls and relationships, well i lost my v-card at the age of 26, so i was clueless. You are 21, you got your life infront of you. WOrk on yourself. Read the sidebar if you haven't, LIFT, have hobbies. Belive me i was like that, i was needy and thirsty. But then something clicked and I started noticing how girls are checking me out. Recently i was at a bar and i caught the waitress checking me out more than once. Work…
/r/askTRP15/10/19 08:14 AM
2

Maybe they feel that you are desperate ? Needy ? ​ Check this one by Pook, it might help you out ​ A Don Juan is a state of mind, not a list of methods and tricks. https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/kill-that-desperation.16926/
/r/askTRP14/10/19 08:47 PM
1

One of headspace's educational videos was about letting your thoughts flow, good or bad, just let thwm flow.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:24 PM
1

Exactly. When i got fucked over by my ex, my Ego put me in a bad place. I've focused on myself, improving my SMV and having more confidence and the results are starting to show up. I got more IOIs and things are starting to happen. Just be patient!
/r/askTRP09/10/19 08:35 AM
1

Read this one https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/kill-that-desperation.16926/
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:49 AM
9

Tom Lykis has a really good thought about this one. Never pay more than 20bucks for a date. You aren't her provider, she can pay for herself. If she is out on a date with you, she is interested.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:16 AM
2

Trust your gut, it never lies.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:03 PM
5

It seems like he has not fucked her. So yep he is an orbiter.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:19 AM
4

Okay, so you are not her N1 priority. Why do you care with who she is going out ? Relationship means you are exclusive and fucking only her. Is that the case or you have not fucked her ? You got other stuff to do and you can have good time on your own, without caring if someone else is having better time without you.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 08:51 PM
1

You should concider a surgery. PRK or Lasik, though PRK is safer even with the longer 2weeks- 1month healing period. I've been looking through that and i will be doing it next year probably. If i am eligible.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 05:48 PM
4

Closure is bullshit Why the fuck do you go to the same girl again ? Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. Now block her everywhere and move on. Liftin…
/r/askTRP11/09/19 01:49 PM
1

Don't wear the glasses ? Are you blind like a Mole ? I got -2 dipters and -3 from astegmatism(total -5) and i can see pretty well. I've been boxing for 3-4 months. Also i go to the Gym and signed up for traditional folk dance classes last september.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 12:49 PM
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I lost my v-card at the age of 26. Honestly i was so needy at times but then i was not even aware what the Redpill was. How to get your shit together ? LIFT! Start Reading Book of Pook, approach girls, learn to escalate. Kill the Desperation Also mediate so you can stop overthinking stuff like that. Sex is not that special. My first time was a bit awkward as i found out that i got short frenulum. Went to a private clinic and had a surgery. All is good now.
/r/askTRP11/09/19 11:52 AM
1

Caliper. I got mine measured and i was about 18% 2 weeks ago. Started fasting and i think i've lowered that number.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 03:30 PM
1

Start with Book of Pook. It is more about inner game , but it helps alot with game and the whole seduction/escalation
/r/askTRP04/09/19 12:41 PM
15

Rollo had mentioned Elon Musk a few times. He said: If Elon Musk was not taht Bluepilled we would've had a city on Mars by now. Elon Musk's gf has more red flags than the Communists Parade on 9th of september...
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:19 PM
3

Most of the times is some good dicking hahah
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:15 PM
3

you should have mentioned your weight, how tall are you ? First you cut down your fat, by maintaining a caloric deficit. Measure your TDEE. When you go down to 12-15% fat. You start clean bulking. I've been doing intermittent fasting for the past 3 weeks and i am feeling great. You should have at least 7:30-8 hours of sleep, this will help you alot with recovering after the workouts.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 09:14 PM
1

Mind Games. The funniest thing was that my ex called me for my birthday 5 months later. And all of our mutual friends stopped talking to her when she broke it up with me. Because they figured out how shitty of a person she is. Hit the gym hard, work on yourself. Start loving yourself again and put yourself first ! You are the prize and she lost is.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 10:49 AM
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Hard Next, forget she ever existed. My ex wanted me to light her spark up again. I told her it won't happen. Took all my belongings and blocked her everywhere possible. She started fucking her best male friend.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 08:23 AM
1

Well she went on a date with you and started kissing you. That doesn't seem to be out of your league.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 08:12 AM
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Go introduce yourself. It is not that hard. " hi my name is slap2butts" " nice to meet you" etc. HB8 a nerd ? That is not possible. Well she still wants the D, so introduce yourself and ask her to go out.
/r/askTRP02/09/19 08:28 AM
4

Now not eating 8n the morning. Before i was eating 2 whole eggs + 4 eggwhites, 3 wholeweat tortillas 50 grams of mozzarella and 1 tomato. Wrap the scrambled eggs in the tortilla.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:18 PM
3

I've cut my old friends 3 years ago. Best decision in my life. They were constantly playing league of legends and getting high. The were toxic, hating nonstop. One of them decided to hate on me and how i will be virgin forever etc. I ghosted them and it is much better now.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 09:07 AM
3

I know a girl that just hit 30 and is FA. She moved to Dubai. Broke up with her bf. Now she is bacl with him on a LDR. And this won't work for sure.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 07:40 AM
11

she's not unique, her shit still smells bad too.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 07:25 AM
3

Ghost her. You got severe oneitis.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:36 PM
1

it is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. What is the logic behind you going with the same girl again? Is it sex, is it that she compliments your life?
/r/askTRP28/08/19 06:09 AM
4

That women is about to hit the waaall.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/19 07:28 PM
1

The formula got changed and it is no longer the same.
/r/askTRP26/08/19 07:46 AM
1

When it is appropriate to start bulking ? Most of the articles and comments that i've read, recommend going down to 1012% bf and after that bulking.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:59 PM
1

Because it helps your body to function better.Look into the Vitamin D and Zinc suplimentation. Zinc is one of the minerals taht helps in the production of Testosterone. Higher levels of testosterone help you burn fat more efficiently.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 06:57 PM
5

Chicken and vegitables aren't that hard to make. Are taking some vitamins? Vitamin D, zinc. You should track your macros and i know it is hard, but do you should do it for yourself. I am at 72.5 kg same height. With 18%bf and will try to lower the percentage until october. Then starting bulk and going to the gym with personal trainer.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 02:20 PM
2

Or another alternative is a Bulgarian squat, which is also really good. https://muscleevo.net/bulgarian-squat/
/r/askTRP17/08/19 11:50 PM
2

Instead of listeling to music you can listen to podcasts. On my daily commute I've recently started listening to podcasts again. I got spotify premium and there are some really good podcasts. The School of greatness and Work on your game.
/r/askTRP17/08/19 11:47 PM
1

They can't take the blame. Even when it is 100% her fault she will not say sorry I was wrong.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 08:19 AM
2

Well Tom Leykis is fat but that doesn't mean he is whining. No idea why he went through 4 dirovces, but he has some rally good advices.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 07:52 PM
1

I've seen so many short guys with chicken legs, why is that ? ​ They are only doing Chest, back, Arms, abs.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/19 03:23 PM
1

https://youtu.be/ohtCSj2Fuvw
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:17 AM
1

My ex indeed. Heavy drinking, smoking bad diet. Lack of sleep. Well she hit 30. Haven't seen her, but have fucjed her when she was in better condition. 😁
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:16 AM
2

Or Leo in my case hahah
/r/askTRP04/08/19 08:14 AM
1

Yep, read some comments about that on several sites and on Amazon. ​ I am using Lalique Encre Noir and plan on buying the extreme version. It nas a different fragrance.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 07:37 PM
6

Armaf got a cheap imitation of the aventus. And it is pretty good.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:46 AM
2

One of the Topics mentioned by Pook, when you progress with increasing your SMV girls will notice it. https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-every-skinny-guy-should-know.60002/
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:27 PM
3

Was a virgin until 26, managed to get in a relationship with an older Girl, 28 at the time. Found out that i had problem with my dick(short frenulum), after the surgery we didn't have sex. I was a bluepilled beta and got too obsessed about her. 6 months later she dumped me and went for her best male friend. She is now 30 and hit the wall hard(smoking, lack of sleep inparopriate loose of weight with fatburner and big cloric deficit). This was my revelation and i went into an anger phase. And i do…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/19 04:13 PM
1

Bel Ami by Maupassant
/r/askTRP22/07/19 05:15 PM
1

Go on rateme subreddit and ask them to rate you.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 07:30 AM
1

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6201188/ ​ That's why i don't like crossfit. You can damage yourself pretty badly.
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:58 PM
1

Never been better :)
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:49 PM
1

Also she is aging, so he fucked her in better condition that the model. ​ Jeff Bezos is not richer, because his ex got half his money hahaha
/r/askTRP16/07/19 01:25 PM
3

And Book of Pook.
/r/askTRP15/07/19 12:06 PM
3

But then he has to find a new job, because they work together.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 07:16 AM
1

You don't trick yourself to become something, you just do it. Practice it and it will happen, sooner or later. Like when you first talked to a hot girl. You were so nervous, now you can talk freely and joke around, pass her shittests, escalate.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 07:57 PM
6

Why soft next? Just go hard next and erase her from your life.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 09:40 AM
2

And he knos it all, that's why he doesn't need to read.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 08:41 AM
1

Well my ex was hanging out with her best male friend. Guess what happened, she started dating him, and i guess she cheated on me while we were together. ​ Of course i was complete beta retard back then.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 08:39 AM
1

I had a friend of mine, he was really good with women, but he was a pathological liar and a narcissist. He thought he was way better tha everyone because he could pull, though he was jobless and even his parents didn't trust him, because of his lies. ​ The funny thing was when we were joking one time that he can't start barbeque fire, because he doesn't have a degree and he got really defensive and wanted to fight some of the people that were joking. ​ So Mate you are on the right track, read bo…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/19 07:45 AM
1

Read book of Pook.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 12:38 PM
1

Mine too.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 12:26 PM
10

That once again proves one thing: Perfect is boring.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/19 11:40 AM
2

It makes you healthier and makes you feel better, becoming more atractive is the secondary effect.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 06:52 PM
1

Well it's not the last trip that you will have together. Last year i had a trip booked with my ex, but then she fucked me over. My friends went to a vacation without me, yeah i felt shitty but i've had planned another trip already. ​ This year we are going together.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 11:47 AM
2

It seems like you are too much into theory, you've read alot and now you are like a computer. If somenthing is not okay, do something else. Pure pua games. Wtf is catch and release?
/r/askTRP26/06/19 09:10 AM
8

The first time i fucked another girl after my ex, i was thinking about my ex and my dick went soft. I stopped overthinking it and my dick went hard again. ​ So this is purely in your head. Start Meditating now ! Belive me it will help you alot. Stop masturbating to your ex... ​ ​ My ex dumping me was the best thing that has ever happened to me.
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:59 AM
1

I had a short frenulum, went to a private clinic and had a fast laser surgery.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:17 AM
6

I lost mine at the age of 26. It's not a big deal. I was a complete beta. Got hearthbroken last year and this is how i went through a process of internalizing and swallowing the red pill. I had some issues with my dick, but figured them out with a surgery and now everything is okay.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 06:08 PM
4

Scarcity mentality. OP should be the Prize, even though he has dick issues.
/r/askTRP19/06/19 08:52 AM
1

Move on, cut them both. My ex said she didn't have a flinge for her best male friend. 2 weeks after she broke it up with me she fucked him. Maybe she fucked him while we were together. Iron Rule number #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thoug…
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:43 AM
5

So true, i can related to that. Got my hearth broken. Lost my job because of that. ​ Reinvented my self and feeling better than i have ever been.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 07:05 AM
2

It is not butthurt. This is how hard next goes. You Block her and she is dead to you. She decided to fuck me up pretty badly, why should i still have any connection with her? I don't tolerate shitty behaviours so she is no longer part of my life, i feel a lot better and i know this was the right decision.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 08:00 AM
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You are overthinking it too much. Fuck that other girl, involve your ltr in it and have a threesome. ​ After that you can think about everything else.
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:45 AM
1

No, because I've blocked her from everywhere. I saw her accidentally 2 weeks ago in a bar and it went like this:She: Oh who am i seeing? Me: Oh yeah, Move because you are on my way to the bar. ​ And that was it.The funnies thing is that she saw a friend of mine and he didn't remember her at all. IF that is not the best thing ever i don't know what is. ​ She is hitting 30 in july. She has started smoking heavily, she is drinking, she was doing some shit diet and too much cardio. Now she is back t…
/r/askTRP13/06/19 07:29 AM
3

My ex didn't give me my money back. We had a trip planned while we were together, she dropped me for her best male friend and didn't return the money. ​ And some conclusions that i had after that: The funny thing is that she did so many shitty things to tangle me to be her orbiter and beta in waiting... She kept my stuff for more than a month after we broke up, she wanted me to sparkle her passion again(belive that mmkay) .
/r/askTRP13/06/19 06:24 AM
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There are tons of topics about that. I think there is a good one in the redpill reddit The most important thing is to do the Improvement for yourself, not with the sole purpose to get better chicks. in general it goes like this: Lookwise: Workout, Have a nice haircut, wear good cloths. Mindwise:Read books, Meditate, Be confident, don't be afraid to get rejected,Abundance. Confidence will come from Working out, you will feel better in your skin and people will notice it.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 08:05 PM
2

Maybe he was better than before and he was ignoring her.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 11:03 AM
2

Been there, done that. 6 months or so, she said she doesn't love me anymore, my beta self was devastated. The thing is that she wanted me to be her orbiter/ second option, to spark her love again. I said well that is not going to happen. Two weeks later she started banging her male bff. And i found the red pill, and tbh that was one of the greatest experience i've had, getting heartbroken and getting back up. Epiphany phase is a strange thing indeed.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 04:49 AM
3

Life is a marathon not a sprint.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/19 05:30 PM
1

Hypergamy doesn't care.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:30 AM
5

My ex broke up with me when she was 28, now she will hit 30. She started dating her best male friend 2 weeks after she broke it up with me. I saw her last week with that guy. She has put a few kilos, she looks older, aging. ​ Vodka, smoking and 4 hours of sleeping are a dangerous thing. ​ I dodged a massive bullet.
/r/askTRP04/06/19 11:13 AM
2

There will always be people like that. People that are too lazy to read and internalize everything. They want it the easy way. But then they can't do shit even after the Convention, wonder why ? Cuz they don't put the effort.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 02:09 PM
5

Spot on, he thinks he is fucking a unicorn. Enjoy yourself first, then she will follow. If you enjoy the sex well then you will be relaxed, do your thing.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 12:46 PM
1

And why do you think so?
/r/askTRP25/05/19 09:50 AM
2

If you hooked up through tinder with 9/10 well fuck man, why are you using tinder and not gaming IRL ? ​ Have more options, spin plates. You had one girl and you caught oneitis after 1 date... ​ Guess what: you value is increasing, so you will get better girls than her.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 08:34 AM
13

Tom Leykis, said very well, never pay for a date.
/r/askTRP19/05/19 01:13 AM
3

Do you care how she will think of you ? She is in the past, so why bother ? She will find some beta provider to treat her like "lady" and then she will hit the wall.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 04:37 PM
1

You have to accept that being alone is good. I went through a bad break up last year. She fucked me over big time. I was сo distracted that i couldn't focus at work and it lead to me being fired. i decided to give myself a break from everything and had 2 and a half months break from work. Just training, skiing during the week and reading books. ​ I needed this and it helped me realize that i can be good on my own and that i can do alot better. ​ I can be happy without a girl and i can pull other…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 11:05 AM
2

I've heard that armaf club de nuit intense is the same or simillar as Aventus, but 1/3 the price.
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:56 AM
1

Cuz it is easier than arroaching new women, going through rejection. And of course he has whenever he wants.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 07:52 AM
1

Well guess what i got dumped by my ex. She started dating her best male friend the next day, probably she fucked him while we were together. She started making excuses for not returning my stuff back. 6 weeks later i got my stuff through a friend of hers. Blocked her everywhere. Started lifting, started meditating. I lost my job, because i was fucking distracted by this girl. ​ Fun fact, she called me for my birthday in november, we broke it up june. She started bringing back old stuff, which is…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 01:59 PM
2

Tell her you are busy.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:43 AM
11

DO not go to a party with the mindset that you have to CLOSE some girl.. You should have fun first, you are outthere to enjoy yourself, not to be orbiting some hoes. Be social, if a girl shows IOIs, escalate and see what will happen. Don't have expectations.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:34 AM
2

Read the sidebar!!! Lift, Eat better, dress better. You will feel better overall. Focus on school stuff. Girls will come after that, they are a lagging indicator. ​ Now, 17 is really young, you don't have to stress it over sex that much. I can tell you that i lost my v-card at the age of 26, so life is inront of you, work on yourself and things will happen.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:12 AM
1

In my oppinion, book of pook is a good one on how to internalize your masculinity and not be afraid of touching, escalating or getting rejected.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:47 AM
1

The fact that she is going for drinks with a guy that is no longer your friend speaks for it self. She is looking for other guy to fuck.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 01:05 PM
2

She's not your girl, it is just your turn. She for sure knows what it means, if a girl has interest she will go out on a date with you. ​ There is no point in arguing or having a closure, just next her.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:29 PM
2

I live in Europe too and guess what, my ex started going out too often with her Bff and one of her colleagues. And 1 months later, she fucked me over and start dating him. I had suspicion that she cheated. But i don't really care anymore. It was for my own good that this relationshit is long over.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 12:27 PM
1

Read the "League of your own" on the rational male site. Also read the " Approach Anxiety: Faint Heart Never Fucked Fair Lady " in the Redpill subreddit.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:10 AM
1

If you are slacking the workouts it increases estrogen.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:06 AM
8

16.47% actually.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:04 AM
2

And tomorrow she will fuck some Chad, and say well i don't have feelings anymore. AWALT
/r/askTRP22/04/19 12:40 PM
1

You dodged a 50cal bullet comming right up your forehead. ​ My ex did a similar thing when she broke it up with me. She wanted me to be her orbiter, so when her best male friend pump and dumbs her, i will be around. He made me a huge favor. She is hitting 30 this year, while i am banging 22yo pussy.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:14 AM
1

https://medium.com/@redpillnorman/the-iron-rules-of-tomassi-3e01b8c31d64 ​ Read the rules carefully. Ex is an ex for a reason.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 11:00 AM
1

If she told you that you should have escalated, that sounds like a green light for "fuck me".
/r/askTRP22/04/19 08:39 AM
4

Check out Dicarlo's escalation ladder
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:19 AM
3

Everyone is staring at the phones and are taking some cheap shit drugs...
/r/askTRP19/04/19 01:53 PM
1

Of course it will help you, but you should put the effort and keep your mind occupied. Read books, find a hobby, hit the gym, meditate, stop watching porn and last but not least go talk with some girls. It is not that scary
/r/askTRP18/04/19 06:44 AM
1

Read the sidebar. She won't care if you ignore her or not. She got like at least 2 more guys like that. Chatting with her, spraying her with attention.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 02:16 PM
2

You should go out to have fun and enjoy yourself not with the sole purpose of approaching or talking to girls.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 12:42 PM
6

The wall is getting closer, she wants to "get"(that doesn't mean she will) better options before the Splat.
/r/askTRP17/04/19 11:36 AM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mcy5-0wFlk ​ This one sums it up. Some 23 guy wanted to marry a virgin girl hahah
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 10:22 AM
5

Block her from everywhere. This was the best thing that i did.
/r/askTRP12/04/19 01:23 PM
2

How is being sarcastic a PUA shit ? I like joking around and talking without looking for validation. If she likes me ok, if not, she is not the only "High Value" girl on the planet.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 08:35 AM
1

Every orbiter is doing what you are saying. Being Caring and shit. Putting her on pedestal. You should be teasing her and not caring if she rejects you. She is not the only HB9 on the fucking earth.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 01:32 PM
1

I ghosted a girl last week, removed her from fb and IG. She messaged me yesterday asking why we aren't friend anymore. Well i just told her that this is what i've decided. And ended the conversation. ​ She was really flaky.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:55 PM
13

And their shit smells like roses, yeah right ;)
/r/askTRP09/04/19 12:36 PM
1

It seems like you are trying to make an excuse that you are depressed. I have never been deeply clinically depressed but still i have had my good and bad moments. Noone else can help you but you. Currently you think you can't live without that Thot. Well you have to be cool with living on your own, loving yourself is the First and most important thing. ​ Elliot Hulse got a few videos about Break Up and being your best self. ​ Joe Rogan has really nice video about Happiness.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:48 AM
3

It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. ​ From the Rules of Rollo Tomassi.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 10:25 AM
11

Ok what helped me, i was in the exactly same possition a few months ago. I got dumped by a girl last summer. I had severe oneits. IT was a really bad breakup, she started dating her best male friend. The things i did: First off i blocked her everywhere, I Deleted all our photos, Sent her all belonging through a mutual friend, she returned my stuff aswell. Started hitting the gym really hard, in september i joined a folklore dance classes, occupied my time, but i was still fucking distracted at w…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 02:27 PM
1

Well if you are making out and she is dryhumping you, take her cloths off, take her bra(yeah it is hard to take a bra off the first time) After that you can start touching her, touch her tits etc. Go down her panties. Is it that hard ? ​ Don't ask stupid questions, you have to lead her, you are the man.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 01:33 PM
1

Bel Ami by Maupassant is the pure description of women's hypergamous nature.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 11:27 AM
2

I am still thinking about my ex from time to time, but now i am thankful that she fucked me over and now i am way better than i was last year. ​ And the best thing is, i have never felt that good before. ​ I've blocked her on every place possible, she called me for my birthday, lol. ​ By accident i saw a photo of her and i was like, holy shit, what cigarettes, inappropriate diet(fatburner+cardio), lack of sleep and vodka can do in 8 months.She has started aging, She is 29 yo, hitting 30 this yea…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:30 AM
1

from 1 to Alpha how alpha are you ?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 12:24 PM
3

First off, you seem to not have the mentality. You are still too needy. Girls can smell neediness from 10 miles away. Second: Don't be Afraind to talk to girls. I am still having problem cold approaching but i am moving in the right direction. The only way to overcome this is to APPROACH !!! ​ You are still too hung up on "Will she like me" phrase. You are too afraid of what you will say, that's why you over analyze everything. Well the next time you see a hot girl, go approach her. Talk some sh…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:05 AM
2

Well it is today's world. You get instant gratification. So everyone thinks that it will be easy to just read a few stuff and become a Chad. I thought that too, but now i just put up the hard work and develop myself.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 08:25 AM
3

you can go 5x5 stronglifts ​ I have been doing 3 days full body and on tuesdays and thursdays i've been doing some cardio as dance classes. ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/03/19 07:37 AM
3

Get your stuff asap. After that hard next. I was left hanging for a month until i got my stuff back. And she didnt fucking admit that she was wrong about doing that...
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:20 PM
2

You are focusing waay too much on the V-card thing. It is not that big of a deal. I lost my v card last year at the age of 26, you are only 21... ​ You know how to escalate, you just have to do it. Noone else will do it for you. You want to be a Chad, well you have to approach.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 06:59 AM
1

You should read some of Rollo's essays. On the rational male, one is about the wall, epiphany phase and the smv.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:02 PM
1

Well, i didn't came my first tine, but i had problems with my frenelum, it was way too short. I fixed it after that, but i still can't cum while doing sex.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 01:10 AM
1

Then why the fuck are you asking that. Enjoy your time, if there are some sexy chicks, show interest, if they show too, go for it...
/r/askTRP20/03/19 01:35 PM
1

You are wrong about the old people in the industry. My boss has 20 years of experience as a Dev and QA lead, she is 45. ​ You can go for full-stack developer, then you can go for Architect if you want. ​ Get certifications and always try to develop yourself. 80% of the people in the industry are working 9-5 and doing nothing outside of work to improve their skills. That's why they are mediocre.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:53 AM
1

Why did you sign up for that ? To look for women or to have fun and enjoy yourself ? ​ I signed up for dance classes, because it was about fucking time to learn that shit. Well now i enjoy it and it is going pretty well. Yeah there are some chicks but i am not there for that.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:48 AM
3

Watch Todd V videos.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:34 AM
0

Get a kettlebell and you can do almost everything with it. There are tons of exercises.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:39 AM
2

She is over 30, why do you even want to date that kind of woman while you are 25? The thing with the comparing is a bullshit. She was with you now, you were fucking her, so comparing you to someone from the past seems like a memory. My ex tried to qualify her new boyfriend like that. Oh he is so much better than you. Well great, but he is stuck with her, so it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:42 AM
2

honeymoon stage is til the 6th month. Since when you've been living together ? How often do you have sex together ?
/r/askTRP14/03/19 08:42 PM
1

We got the biggest corruption rate in the whole EU. So yep racist but full with people that have earned their money through some shady business.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/19 12:55 PM
5

No idea, haven't read them. But the first one is essential.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 07:52 PM
8

Read the Sidebar first! ​ Then read Book of Pook and the Rational Male. After that go everything else.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:13 PM
1

Next, don't fall for that shit. ​ Go work on yourself, it will be better for you.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 12:32 PM
5

I plan on going with PRK by the end of the year.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 06:30 AM
1

What's that supposed to mean, you have a bad self-image! I guess your confidence is pretty low? Essential stuff that you have to do: Hit the gym stop fapping to porn, belive me i know what i am talking about. Read the sidebar. Stop focusing on the pussy!!!
/r/askTRP08/03/19 09:37 PM
8

Kino. Touching is more important than talking about sex. Lost my virginity 1 year ago at the age of 26. So i can relate. Don't be afraid to touch her.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 08:06 PM
1

You can go to some HIIT group exercises.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:09 AM
1

I am 27 years old, 5.8 and weight about 156 pounds. That's a huge difference. ​ But with patience and determination everything will happen. ​ Try intermittent fasting.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 09:37 AM
1

Ignore her, you are better without her. ​ ​ My Ex fucked me over pretty badly. Guess who called for the birthday. Yeah she has moved on with her best male friend, but i don't care. I am way better without her. ​ I have blocked her from everywhere. I mean every place possible. ​ ​
/r/askTRP27/02/19 03:52 PM
2

I've started listening to his shows. Really good. I really liked the one about the Wall.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 01:43 PM
25

Okay, so you want things to happen fast? Well the good things in life are hard to get and you need time. ​ Hit the GYM it will cure your depression, start eating healthy. Focus on you for a while. Find a bbetter job, that you LOVE ! ​ Rolo has a post about unplugging from the matrix. Check it out!
/r/askTRP24/02/19 01:42 PM
1

I've been listening to Tom Leykis.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 01:01 PM
1

Well i got an engineering degree, but decided to go for the IT industry and Become a Quality Assurance Specialist. I've been developing myself and i am moving from manual to Automation Tester. It is not taht ahrd to code, you just have to piut the work in.
/r/askTRP20/02/19 02:23 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-HYZv6HzAs ​ One of the videos that helped me alot. When i was strugling with self-confidence.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 08:33 PM
6

Indeed and most of the people have no idea that they are transmitting it.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 07:09 PM
5

Now this one i call toxic masculinity. Some beta Billy not taking a hint. And he will be like, why all women find excuses to go out on a date with me. For me personally if i ask her on a date and she refuses 2 times, well it is hard next.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 07:42 AM
4

You are overthinking it too much. She is just a divorces woman with 2 kids. ​ You should watch some of the redman group videos about why you shouldn't date single moms.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/19 01:24 PM
1

From my experience: My ex wanted us to be friends. I told her that is not possible. She fucked me up pretty badly, but in the end this is how i changed myself. I've blocked her from every possible place. FB, IG even Skype. I've deleted her number and don't even remember it. ​ Fun fact was that she called me for my birthday and was like" the next time we see each other don't act like we are not friends" and I just loled.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:58 PM
2

True that, i've been to 10-15 interviews in the past 2 years. Well sooner or later you get the abundance mentality. ​ And the funny thing is most of the people are scared to death to go to an interview. And that's why they stay at their shitty job, where they are just digging a hole.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 11:52 PM
1

Until you reach your limit you got so much work to do. Focus on the work not the end result ! Start with simple stuff. You are afraid of the self improvement, because it is out of your comfort zone. The comfort zone is your biggest enemy.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 03:26 PM
1

While i was a virgin i managed to go for 260 days. Well yeah it was hard, but this changed my wiring. I wasn't even able to hold eye contact. After that i had my first date and there i managed to go for the kiss without even having hasitations. ​ I relapsed, but the blueprint was already changed, I knew that i can be direct and talk all sorts of bullshit. And showing my intentions is the most important thing. ​ After that had my first lay, and my first GF, she fucked me up but it was for good. I…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 10:08 AM
2

Well it was in june this year. I am late bloomer and was total blue pill. I am now 27 and the ex is 29. So she is trying to lock her best option before she hits the wall. She started fucking her best male friend 2 weeks after she ditched me. I blocked her and deleted her number. And started improving myself. I know i can do way better. So i am working on me. I feel great, but still it is just the beginning. From time to time i am getting back to the anger phase. Even though 6 months have passed,…
/r/askTRP19/12/18 06:02 PM
3

Shit i dodged some serious bullet this year from a 29 yo girl. Just before the wall. Well she decided to ditch me for her best male friend. That was one cannonball dodged.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 05:00 PM
1

That's why you should first compare yourself to the guy that you were yesterday. There will always be better people than you!!! For example some guy that has won the genetic lottery. Guess what i cant even squat my body weight(70kilos) Do i care? Nop because i am putting the hard work and sooner or later i will do it! I am liking the results that i see in the mirror, so i want to improve that.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 08:37 PM
2

True story, my ex made me wait for sex. Well after she broke it up with me, she fucked her best male friend 2 weeks after the break up. Iron Rule of Tomassi #3 Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait. And belive me sex wasn't worth it. Though i had some issues with my d*ck. As i was virgin.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 09:14 AM
2

Build Self Conference start with simple steps If you aren't working out, well now is the time to start Read some books: Book of Pook, Models, The Rational Male. These books changed my life. Start being social, find some events. After motivation is over you need habbits to keep on moving. Build up discipline. Also a good way to make yourself more awesome is just to congratulate yourself on some achievments that you've done. For example: Good job on making your bed today, good job on going to the …
/r/seduction07/12/18 09:45 PM
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Book of Pook Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi, though i kinda don't like the style of writing. Models by Mark Manson How to Win Friends and influence People by Dale Carnegie
/r/seduction07/12/18 04:28 PM
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Sexual* market value
/r/askTRP06/12/18 09:09 PM
3

You are going with the wrong mindset i.e. will she like me ? You are probably needy. You can try a different approach. Go for the rejection, try to make her reject you. ​ Belive me sex is nothing special. I lost my vcard on 1st of january this year at the age of 26. Apparently i had a short frenulum and it hurt really badly when having sex, so i had a surgery and now it is way better. ​ A few bits of advice: If you have not hit the gym by now, you should hit it. You will feel more confident, you…
/r/seduction27/11/18 09:35 PM
1

Everything bad that happens in your life is a blessing in disguise.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 02:15 PM
2

I just turned 27(today) hahah. Even though i had a rough breakup with an almost BPD 29 years old girl(i am not saying woman, cuz she is deffinatly not that mature). Lost my job cuz i took the breakup pretty hard and i was distracted alot. When looking back i feel grateful for that breakup. I wouldn't have started focusing on me and improving myself. I started internalizing the redpill, i feel like i am still in the anger phase.But it will pass.I've started somewhat monk mode. Or staying at home,…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/18 08:47 AM
2

My Ex, who i had huge oneitis for, is now dating her Best male Friend. The funny thing is that she was lieing me, saying that she has nothing for him and 2 weeks after she dumped me, she was banging him. She is 29 and she will hit the wall really hard.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 09:20 PM
1

This ToddV video is related to "out of my league" girls. It is spot on. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6jnFO93CaxA
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 08:28 AM
6

My ex wanted us to be friends, but i told her it is not possible. I had oneitis for her. And she started fucking her best male friend 1 week after we broke up. Or she was fucking him while we were together. Don't know, don't care. ​ Funny part is that all our mutual friends that i introduced her to have ghosted her or are ignoring her. ​ The thing is she is 29 hitting the wall hard and i think i dogged a huge bullet. I am really grateful that this thing happened. Even though it hurt really badly…
/r/askTRP05/11/18 06:19 PM
1

Check DiCarlo's escalation Ladder https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ ​ ​ Don't be afraid of touching her. Girls love being touched.
/r/seduction18/10/18 12:34 PM
1

Hit the gym, get your diet properly, clean your belly fat, drink more water. Start with that, thwn change your haircut abd your clothes. And you will already be above the averedge guy, because he doesn't put the hard work in.
/r/seduction05/10/18 07:56 AM
3

Well we broke up like that. It was spontaneous for you, but she has been thinking about it for a while. Just move on, even if you get back up together, The old stuff will sooner or later come up. And you will start argueing etc. I was a complete beta towards the wbd of the relationship, i know what mistakes i made, she just fucked me up really badly and i still need time to recover, even though the relationship was 6months. Now your brain is thinking, you lost the perfect girl, now you will be a…
/r/seduction04/10/18 07:45 PM
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Don't waste your time seducing your old gf back. There are tons of better women out therw. My gf broke up with me 3-4 months ago. 2 weeks later she was sucking her best male friend's cock. So don't bother. Hit the gym hard!!! Read some books about self improvement, Mark Menson, Book of Pook, how to win friends and inflyence people. Stop watching porn, start meditating, change your diet and start drinking lots of water. Belive me, it is not worth it to persue this women. " It is always time and e…
/r/seduction04/10/18 07:03 PM
1

Make her gag.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 09:55 PM
3

Your brain freezes, because secretly in the back of your mind it has been going through that kiss and you being embarrassed. So the best way to approach this is "just do it". You know how yo escalate, you are confident in yourself, so you can do this, because it has s not that big of a deal. I had my knowledge ss when i was 25, now i am 26 and i lost my v-card on 1st of january. Check the escalation ladder, it helped me a lot.
/r/seduction01/10/18 05:26 PM
-3

Why are you asking that question? It takes time, it doesn't matter how much, the point is to go through all that and to rebuild yourself.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:32 AM
10

Well, guess what at least you are in highschool. I got dumped 3 months ago from my first gf ever at the age of 26. So move on mate, You can do better, start fixing your life. Hit the GYM ASAP, it helps alot. You have focused on her, not on you. You are expecting her to help you with your life, which is wrong. Noone but you is responsible for your life ! Things will get better, just put the effort and time will heal you.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 09:10 AM
1

Well my ex gf is dating her best friend. I am even sure she cheated on me. I told her she is a scumbag dzipsi and now all of our mutual frienfs have ignored her. So why bother ? Work on yourself and sooner or later you won't be thinking about her.
/r/askTRP18/09/18 04:23 AM
1

You have some alcohol issues. Why did you got so wasted ? You got some issues and you have to face them, instead of drowning in vodka and joint. There seems to be a lot of people that drink to get wasted...
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:39 AM
5

If she doesn't love him, this is a dead end.
/r/seduction29/08/18 09:28 PM
6

I was a virgin in the begining of the year at the age of 26. Did i care, yes a bit. So i managed to hook up with an amazing girl. We fucked and now i am no longer a virgin. Things didn't work out with her, so moving on and getting more girls.
/r/seduction27/07/18 06:14 AM
1

Well i am going through this right now. It has been 2 weeks after we broke up, or she broke up with me. So the stupid thing is that we are chatting and talking. But the past 2-3 days i've limited my contact with her. She still wants to get together. After we solve our issues. I have focused on myself, started going to the gym again, focused on my job, as i was getting distracted, now i will be meditating. I went out and just got drunk( it helps sometimes, but don't do it more than 1 time) I talk…
/r/seduction12/07/18 12:47 PM
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And you will then start manipulating your relationship, and the manipulating your colleagues at work. At the end of the day your are lieing and manipulating just for the sake of it. I had a close friend like that, he was lieing for everything. And at the end we ditched him. And he lied to some 19yo chick and was manipulating her.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:30 AM
1

Book of Pook, but it seems like you are procrastinating. Reading books instead of approaching.
/r/seduction01/06/18 08:03 AM
2

Leave the toxic one, don't bother wasting your time. Try to escalate the things with the HB8 that you worked with. Ask her to hang out this weekend ;)
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:48 AM
6

well at the end of the day, they want the same as you having a nice conversation and not getting put on a piedestal. Sooner or later you will face that fear. What can happen? After all she was the one that smiled at you, even waved at you. She wanted her to go talk to her.
/r/seduction31/05/18 03:11 PM
1

My success: I read it twice, lost my v-card and i am now having an amazing girlfriend. Wife material! and i am really happy with her. i also read book of Pook, which was really good.
/r/seduction31/05/18 01:30 PM
1

Indicators of Interest.
/r/seduction23/05/18 08:41 AM
2

It is not always a shortcut, because you need text game for Tinder. That's why it doesn't work for everyone.
/r/seduction16/05/18 08:47 AM
1

Thank you, i will order that tomorrow, it's like 30 pounds in amazon :)
/r/seduction11/05/18 08:43 PM
1

Eye contact and escalation. Start touching her etc. My gf told me that she was clueless until i tried to kiss her :D
/r/seduction11/05/18 01:51 PM
1

I am not saying that i am not jealous. it's the middle point that you should be aiming for. If you are too needy, you get really jealous. With a hot girlfriend it is really hard to pretend that you are not jealous. She chose you after all.
/r/seduction02/05/18 12:44 PM
1

Well i am in my first relationship for like 5 months now. So i am still noticeing that i am getting angry over some useless bullshit. Also i am trying not to be very jealous. As my girlfriend is pretty hot and smart, she is wife material, and she gets approached all the time. Also i am thinking from time to time that i am not good enough as i have no experience in relationships. But she is very supportive and we are sharing everything. If you trust this person try to open yourself up. Don't hide…
/r/seduction02/05/18 10:35 AM
4

First off, as i've recently(in the beginning of the year) lost my v-card at the age of 26 i think this advice might be helpful. My first kiss was just before my 25th birthday. I am sharing this, just to let you know that you shouldn't be beating yourself up, 22 is not old. It's just fine. The things i did: I started going to the Gym, i read some books related to seduction and self-improvement: Models by Mark Manson, How to win friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. I also read Book of Po…
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:36 AM
5

He's roaming seddit for more than a year and he is asking the same questions every time. i.e. massively procrastinating.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:08 AM
1

Well look it from the other way, a beautiful girl finds you attractive.You can keep eye contact, which is a good thing. So cheer up, sooner or later you will aproach and it will be awkward, but it will be another step in the right direction. Stop beating yourself up, there are tons of other girls. You will get over that period. When i first started the self-improvement jorney, i couldn't even look a girl in the eyes.
/r/seduction21/04/18 08:56 PM
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Well, you are 22, i got my first gf at rhe age of 25. Now with my current gf, we are very honest and we are sharing everything. So don't be afraid about your inexperience.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:44 AM
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Actually, you might be good looking, but your perception about yourself is different. I am like that, girls told me that i am an 8, and that i should work on my confidence.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:35 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=71o3hq6iSPM
/r/seduction12/04/18 01:08 PM
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It's called Fear of missing Out(FOMO) syndrome. I used to be like that in november, when i was about to start dating my current GF. As i was virgin back then i was like wtf i will be missing out tons of stuff with different girls. But then i decided to just give it a try and see where the relationship will go. And tbh so far it has been really good experience, My GF really nice person who is always keen on helping me improve myself.
/r/seduction11/04/18 11:28 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ This might help you. But without practice and only reading, well it's a waste of time.
/r/seduction11/04/18 06:52 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/ Maybe this will help you. Don't be afraid to touch her. this is the Key.
/r/seduction05/04/18 07:19 AM
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I told the girl the next day after we had sex. She said that she figured it out. Like i have been pretty nervous, and she was asking me what to do and what do i like :D
/r/seduction04/04/18 02:43 PM
1

And what happens after that pickup Line ? You don't know what to say, or you use another canned pickup line and then eventually you will end up in a situation where you have no idea how to respond, because your brain is packed with canned pickup lines. Edit: if seduction is just numbers for you, you can use pickup lines. Or you can be genuine and improve your communication skills.
/r/seduction03/04/18 01:42 PM
1

See, that's why you don't use pick up lines, because you have no idea what the other person will answer and your brain will be stuck in a loop in an attempt to find a cheesy answer.
/r/seduction03/04/18 06:54 AM
1

Crap. I am like that, getting frustrated over little things, while she is really calm and chill. I know that i have problem with that and that i am giving too much fucks about pointless stuff. So i have to work on overcoming that. Can you give some tips on how you managed to overcome that ? I think this is a common issue in nowadays man and women.My gf told me that her ex was really insecure and always thinking she is cheating on him...
/r/seduction26/03/18 09:14 AM
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Start with the sidebar and Models. Start going to the gym. Those were the things i did when i started. i lost my v-card on 1st of january and i am 26yo
/r/seduction09/03/18 03:49 PM
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Send her a dick pic 😉
/r/seduction24/02/18 10:55 AM
1

Are you seeing other women ? IF she is your only option, then you should start looking for more plates. Spin them and you will forget about her really quickly.
/r/seduction13/02/18 10:06 AM
1

Are you for real dude ? Stop fucking lurking Reddit ? You;ve posted this topic in here and in /r/Relationships like its a big deal. You didn't escale you went straight in the Friendzone. Why you are still here, why you are procrastinating and reading and asking questions to which you should already know the answers, after all you have read the whole seddit section.
/r/seduction13/02/18 09:54 AM
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What do you think will happen when you are 25 and virgin? Even if you are 26, nothing will change, you are on the right track. There will be a girl that will sleep with you. I lost my v card on first of january at the age of 26. I am still the same person. Work on yourself:Stop fapping, keep on going to the gym and things will happen. Belive me i was a total nerd 2 years ago, now i have a GF that is an 8/10 and i thought she is way out of my league when i first met her :D
/r/seduction12/02/18 02:47 PM
1

Mine too.
/r/seduction13/01/18 04:45 PM
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i lost it too at the age of 26 on 1st of january :P Though i got a short fernulum and it hurt alot. I made an apointment with a doctor and i will get it fixed. Edit: you become wizzard at the age of 30
/r/seduction04/01/18 12:24 PM
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Duuudeee this is like the 10th time you are posting these ? People told you that you are not ugly, so what do you want more ?
/r/seduction24/12/17 03:02 PM
1

Omg dude, are you here again? It seems like you have huge seddit addiction.
/r/seduction24/12/17 09:20 AM
1

Rakia connecting People ;) Good job, on the kiss, just don't be so focused about it. I can tell you that when i am going for the kiss, now i am really calm. Just i know that i've done proper escalation and she has reciprocated so it will be ok to kiss her.
/r/seduction14/12/17 03:05 PM
2

you should practice being yourself and being authentic.
/r/seduction30/11/17 11:40 AM
1

Well then stop investing too much time in her, stop texting her daily, hourly. Obviously you care too much what she thinks, why is that ? Did you try to close her ?
/r/seduction28/11/17 01:25 PM
3

Well you should stop reading. You have been roaming this subreddit for quite a while. I've seen your 5 topics a day period. You went from one addiction to another. You want to read more to be oversecured. Well guess what, you won't be ready for anything. So my advice is block all the channels RSD stuff, seddit stuff. Occupy your time with something else. Read a book, go to the Gym, go outside !
/r/seduction28/11/17 07:30 AM
1

How many times are you going to ask this ? You've already asked that. Go ask in /r/amiugly
/r/seduction23/11/17 06:20 PM
2

There is no perfect moment for kissing, Escalate and do Kino. She will be more comfortable with you and your touching after that you will be able to kiss her.
/r/seduction22/11/17 12:29 PM
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There will always be better people than you.So there is no point in wasting your time overthiking why they are better. Even they have their own problems. I am also a virgin at the age of 25. Instead of being angry at myself i decided to focus on being a better person. I see results when i do something, even if i fail, it is a learning experience. Noone started being a master at something from the first attempt. You are on the right track if you've started improving yourself. Vast majority of the…
/r/seduction22/11/17 10:43 AM
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Does she like you ? If yes, then start escalating and do what you can do. Stop overthinking ! Don't be afraid to be weird, if you go over this you will start not giving a fuck and also you will be able to express yourself and more freely.
/r/seduction21/11/17 02:24 PM
1

too soon for what ? If you tell the as friend, you are deffinatly going for the friend zone. Either show her that you like her, or be friendzoned.
/r/seduction21/11/17 10:35 AM
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But why you will say it like that ? I can be your friend... Who does that, that is like way too needy. You can always say, we can celebrate it together.
/r/seduction21/11/17 06:47 AM
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Ok so it seems like you need to work on your perception about yourself. Being on the sidelines and your brain telling you: "you are not attractive, women will think you are a creep" etc. Is just you point of view. So instead of finding excuses you need to start working on how to fix that. First: stop overthinking!!! This is crucial, start meditating, hit the gym, go boxing. This will help you clear your thoughts. Second: change your perception! Being attractive is valid to some extend, but being…
/r/seduction18/11/17 08:51 AM
1

well i've started escalating more often and i can say that it is working really well for me.Also i am not afraid to do it anymore, while last year i was afraid to hold eye contact with a girl. About the success with women. Not much. After all i was a complete beta last year, so i am going from zero to hero. And being virgin, you can get the idea. But i've asked 2 girls for their oppinion and they said that i am 8/10 in their eyes, just have to be more confident. So i am working on that and mysel…
/r/seduction15/11/17 10:06 AM
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There is no right time for a kiss, you will notice the moment. There was a phrase: if you've thought about kissing her, you've already had like 10 chances to do so. About the lines, i am not into that. So i can't give you any meaningful advice about it.
/r/seduction14/11/17 08:45 AM
1

Book of Pook and Models. That's all you need!
/r/seduction13/11/17 02:40 PM
2

Start by sitting next to her, you can then touch her by the arm/leg or hug her more easily. When you start walking just hug her and go along. At first you will feel awkward but with more practice you won't be bothered by touching women.
/r/seduction13/11/17 07:48 AM
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You didn't make a move, got feelings and started acting childish. Well instead of being angry, just take a note what went wrong and why ? And work on that!
/r/seduction11/11/17 11:24 AM
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It seems like you are getting feelings, while nothing has happened and you are starting to overthink everything. Did you kiss her ? Have you done some kino(touching etc.) on her ? If not then you should escalate and see what happens.
/r/seduction10/11/17 06:31 PM
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Escalate. I was like that before, really passive, now i am trying to escalate as much as possible. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/seduction10/11/17 02:01 PM
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So your suggestion is not to go down on her first thing, but rather try to fuck her first ? Ofc she will be horny and wet already. I am asking cuz i am in that kind of situation, i've read stuff and watched some videos to educate myself.
/r/seduction08/11/17 11:32 AM
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There is a way. Be possitive, don't trust everything you read in the internet. Find you own way to learning stuff if you have learning problems. Read Models and Book Of Pook. Women are normal human beings, and i can tell you for sure that when i am calm and confident in an interaction i can see signs that they like me. Practice, practice, practice.
/r/seduction07/11/17 08:41 AM
2

Wow dude, don't be bothered by these kind of posts, there will always be that kind of women, and there will always be women that are not attracted to you.
/r/seduction07/11/17 06:40 AM
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People don't really care about that, the only thing that they can use it for is against you. Because it is your weakness. From my personal experience this has been the case.
/r/seduction06/11/17 11:24 AM
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and where you touch
/r/seduction05/11/17 09:12 PM
3

You can learn how to not give a fuck, but at the end of the day you are human and you will always have fears. So that's his point, you will learn to overcome them, but you will always have fear while approaching or doing something extreme, because you don't know what the outcome will be.
/r/seduction31/10/17 03:51 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cortx/heres_a_little_list_of_iois_feel_free_to_add/
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:21 PM
1

Well you should overcome these stuff. First of all if you haven't fucked her, how are you getting feelings. Also maybe you have not been showing your true intentions. Did you escalate ? Did you kiss her?
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:03 PM
1

Stop fucking texting, it's is a waste of time. And move on. She's not the only pussy on the planet... Ghost her.
/r/seduction27/10/17 09:04 AM
1

Exactly. Sometimes stuff are really easy, but we try to complicate them as much as possible...
/r/seduction27/10/17 08:53 AM
2

you mean your self-improvement journey right ?
/r/seduction26/10/17 07:32 AM
1

Well great job mate. Keep up the good work. i am still working on the final step i.e pulling home.
/r/seduction25/10/17 01:12 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w-HYZv6HzAs One really good video about confidence. And this guy's definition about self-confidence is spot on: the ability or belief to belive in yourself, to accomplish any task, no matter the odds or the diffculty, no matter the adversity.
/r/seduction25/10/17 10:47 AM
1

I am not saying there aren't shit tests, the thing is that you just don't care when you face one. If you are confident you will manage to go through the shit itself ;)
/r/seduction25/10/17 08:08 AM
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Often there is no shit test, but you've read too much stuff and think there is... You are overthinking a simple interaction like eye contact. Imagine what will happen when you start approaching. Just try to live for the moment and stop overthinking what a simple eye contact can mean.
/r/seduction24/10/17 09:04 AM
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Well i am in your position too. 25 almost 26 and with a V-card. some sort of backstory:I had my first kiss last year, well i thought it will be super awkward, but i was calm and confident when i went for it and it worked really good. I could've banged that girl, but i was in my head and she was chubby, so still virgin. Now i am more confident and i can notice that more girls are looking at me. Gym has helped me alot in building that confidence. I am no longer afraid to touch girls, i can keep ey…
/r/seduction18/10/17 08:06 AM
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You will always be creepy for some girls. Mark Manson comments on this and basically says that the big difference between "creepy" and "confident" is how the girl feels about you. In other words, often you can't control it. There are tons of different reasons girls may find you creepy as they all define it differently. You have to accept that as you get more confident and open about your sexuality, some girls are just going to see you as creepy sometimes, no matter how awesome you are. And that …
/r/seduction08/10/17 05:32 PM
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nothing lol hooking up doesn't mean having sex as far as i know.
/r/seduction06/10/17 10:12 AM
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Yes. I found out seddit in july last year, went to a wedding and hooked up with one of the bridemaids. I kissed her on the first date. this was like my first kiss ever :) Still virgin though, but working on my stuff and progressing.
/r/seduction06/10/17 08:43 AM
3

You are overthking it way too much. You should just relax, call her and invite her on a date.
/r/seduction04/10/17 08:35 PM
2

There aren't leagues, you are just overthinking it.
/r/seduction26/09/17 10:47 AM
3

Trine Series, pretty good games :)
/r/seduction25/09/17 12:46 PM
2

Go approach other women. Have other options.
/r/seduction20/09/17 03:32 PM
4

That guy is asking the same questions all the time for like 3 months. He's soaking up information without practice, which leads to nowhere.
/r/seduction20/09/17 07:15 AM
1

everyone does that. Girls have told me that i am 8/10 and i am underestimating myself too much...
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:59 PM
2

I did 260 days on nofap. Actually doing 7ish days without fapping is the best way at least for me. You have the Testosterone boost, i feel confident and i can talk without problem to girls.
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:58 PM
1

Stop thinking about shit tests or whatever. When you build up comfort and you escalate, you won't need to care about shittests. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1e1kfm/billys_guide_to_shit_tests/ some info about shit tests.
/r/seduction05/09/17 11:59 AM
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You should start living with your insecurities and try to overcome them. I am 25 years old too and i was a complete beta one year ago. Now i am happy most of the times. Trying new stuff, getting out of my comfort zone. Talking with girls without having any anxiety. The best thing that ever happened to me was coming up with stuff to say.Apparently I have some nice sarcastic sense of humor.
/r/seduction05/09/17 11:57 AM
1

Book of Pook, one of the best things ever written.
/r/seduction02/09/17 11:54 AM
1

If she left, don't waste your time to text her. Move on and find another girl. When she comes back in town, hit her up.
/r/seduction01/09/17 02:01 PM
3

Oh lol, Thank you, have a nice day too.
/r/seduction01/09/17 09:51 AM
9

someone has some extra cash to spend on Seddit and Gold :D
/r/seduction01/09/17 06:55 AM
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Don't tell her, but instead show her. Touch her more, keep eye contact, joke around. She will notice it.
/r/seduction01/09/17 06:52 AM
1

Well you shouldn't expect to be a walk in the park :)
/r/seduction31/08/17 05:44 AM
3

And in the end they are still humans with their own problems. Don't you think they aren't depressed. We saw linkin park's vocalist.he had shitload of money, 6 kids and in the end hung himself up.
/r/seduction31/08/17 05:41 AM
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See you are getting some shitty excuses to bail out. There might be 1 girl in the whole class that will find you creepy, but in the end there will be a dozen that will be like uh this guy is trying yoga, why is he doing that. Oh the CREEPPYNESS. Why do you care so much about it ? What will change if a girl thinks you are a CREEP ? You will perish or be less of a man ? Mark Manson's thoughts about creepy are spot on "So let yourself be creepy sometimes, but don't get worried about it; you will in…
/r/seduction30/08/17 08:38 PM
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It's not creepy. This was the way i overcame my anxiety. It's not laser eyeing. It's more like being curious. If i find a girl attractive ofcourse i will look her in the eyes.
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:18 PM
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When you start going for the girls, you find games pretty booring. From being a total nerd and gamer in school and university. I landed a good job in the IT sphere. After working 8 hours infront of the Computer, it is just retarded to go and play some more hours.... A friend of mine once told me:"When you find out about girls, games just become boring" You comment is spot on. It is never too late to hit the gas and steer your life in a different direction.
/r/seduction30/08/17 03:03 PM
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Of course it's young. I am 25 virgin and found about seddit 1 year ago. It is never too late to change your life. This is a slow process it takes time, so don't get frustrated if a girl doesn't respond to your messages, or things didn't go as you planned them.
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:27 PM
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i think Mark Manson himself was reading the book on the audio version. But for me it is always better to read it than to just listen it. OP, start going to the Gym and lifting, you will feel generally better. Start dressing better, keep a good hygene. These are the thing you should start from :)
/r/seduction28/08/17 02:29 PM
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The difference is that even though they got broken legs, After 1 month they start moving, excerscising and slowly but surely they get better. This is the thing that you are frustrated about. You want results now, You want happy life now, well it doesn't work like that.
/r/seduction25/08/17 08:53 AM
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LOOL telling someone you don't know that you have feelings for her is not a good idea at all. OP Just next time when you see her go meet her.
/r/seduction25/08/17 08:11 AM
2

So you are afraid to sleep with women, because of someone elses future oppinion ? If a girl likes you she doesn't really care with how many girls you've slept. You should deffinatly read Models and No More Mr. Nice Guy.
/r/seduction25/08/17 07:47 AM
2

Don't get frustrated, self-improvment isn't a one night process, you will need months or even years. Start small, build up routines: start going to the gym regularly, eat healty, drink more water, clean your room, get well groomed/dressed. This is a good starting point. Read Models and The Book of Pook, get some hobbies, Be Social. Recently i started going to crossfit training, well even though i sucked in the beginning and every muscle in my body was hurting i continued going and i even signed …
/r/seduction23/08/17 07:40 AM
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You were probably overthinking it way too much. Last year i had my very first kiss ever it was like 1 kiss which was pretty awkward. After that this girl went to the USA and things didn't work out. After that i hooked up with one of the bridesmaids on a wedding. I kissed her on the first date it wasn't awkward at all, i was actually calm as a stone. And we had a pretty nice makeout. My advice is, there is no wrong or right way for that, so just do not overthink it.
/r/seduction22/08/17 11:00 AM
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Actions Speak Louder Than Words. Ie go kiss her, escalate. Telling her that you like her is what Nice guys do. If she is not completely oblivious she knows that you like her.
/r/seduction21/08/17 10:45 AM
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Exactly, i was like that last year. Now i just don't think too much about it. Maybe your problem is that: you want her to like you and you are trying so hard to find the perfect line that you totally freeze up.
/r/seduction21/08/17 05:36 AM
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well face your fear, do some weird shit. Leave your comfort zone. What can happen ? you might regret it, or you might be a whole different person. Don't care too much about girls thinking you are weird. You will save yourself a lot of overthiking ;) Belive me i've been there and now i feel way better. edit: I was wearing sheets like a greek god on one party 3 weeks ago. I was felling fucking awesome :) Doing some weard stuff.
/r/seduction18/08/17 11:40 AM
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it's a good idea just to text her for logistics. Instead of "testing the waters" just ask her to meet up and see what comes out. You can't actually build the same attraction through text as on a date.
/r/seduction18/08/17 09:07 AM
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Yeah there is no pressure, i am just enjoying my life and socializing as much as possible.
/r/seduction17/08/17 02:19 PM
1

padwan Yoda ;) We always know more than we think. The trick is to use that knowledge in the right moment. Even if you fail with this one, there are other girls out there.
/r/seduction17/08/17 01:45 PM
1

oh lol, i might be wrong. I am just thinking logically :D i am not that good with girls :)
/r/seduction17/08/17 01:00 PM
1

She has done it when drunk, alcohol makes you more comfortable. So she will do it when sober, just you have to make her more comfortable.
/r/seduction17/08/17 12:09 PM
1

You are already investing way too much. Fantasising about her pussy or nipple piercing. Just move on. You already got feelings for her even though you haven't even dated.
/r/seduction17/08/17 11:28 AM
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Great Job. I am still working on this. But one step at a time, i know i will work it out, even though i am 25 years old.
/r/seduction17/08/17 07:04 AM
3

There is no perfect time. If she invited you, then she is interested, so you should move. Escalate, do some touching and then kiss her. Don't go for the " ohh you are so sweet and i want to be more than friends with you" You might end up in the friendzone.
/r/seduction16/08/17 09:00 PM
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No, it changes nothing. I am 25 and virgin, i've changed a lot for the past year and i still have a lot to change. So do i quit and whine, No! I just keep grinding. There is no easy way to having a happy life.
/r/seduction15/08/17 02:17 PM
2

You are overthinking it too much. Did you at least k-closed her ? I traveled with a really hot girl on friday. We had a good chat during the trip, I noticed her playing with her hair, and smiling when i was talking to her. So i added her when i got back home, she accepted a few hours later. Now i just have to invite her and we will see if she is up to or she will flake :)
/r/seduction14/08/17 07:13 PM
1

Are you scared of being creepy ? Because you are mentioning it way too often. You should pass that barrier and be like i don't care if i am creepy or not. When you act with confidence you will be less creepy and these thoughts won't even bother you. Just keep eye contact, smile, and walk straight to her. I guess this is just you showing interest without being creepy. Not showing interest and just waiting all night and then suddenly bumping into her is way creepier than just going and saying hi.
/r/seduction13/08/17 01:38 PM
1

if you are a bird for sure that's a mating ritual, but dancing with someone is definitely not that. You are overthinking it. Just go on the dancefloor, start enjoying the music, make eye contact, smile if she keep watching at you go there and ask her what her name is. Then tell her:xxx(her name) lets dance.
/r/seduction13/08/17 09:44 AM
2

DiCarlo's escalation ladder. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/seduction12/08/17 09:53 PM
1

best advice ever :)
/r/seduction11/08/17 03:00 PM
2

There is no perfect moment ! you miss 100 of the shots you don't take. I know it's easy to say it, but hard to do it. I've been there and i am still there from time to time, but with every approach it gets easier.
/r/seduction11/08/17 12:34 PM
3

i've done the free part with the 10 days meditation. I have to say that it helped me alot when i started NoFap and the Self-improvement. In my opinnion meditation can help you to stop overthinking stuff.
/r/seduction11/08/17 07:12 AM
1

I was like that 1 year ago. Went to a wedding and decided fuck it, what can happen. I approached one of the bridemaids and we got touch i kissed her on out first date. My first kiss ever actually. So this cured me too, there is nothing scary about being touchy with a girl. Most of the guys are actually scared about the Rejection, not about the whole interaction.
/r/seduction10/08/17 12:38 PM
1

Honestly this is like the 10th time you are asking this question. Stop overthinking. I made continuous eye contact with the dancer in the club yesterday. She was fucking hot, and ? It is not that big of a deal.
/r/seduction06/08/17 11:50 AM
1

"if you work hard and believe the universe will always help you catch your dreams. " This is what i beleve in . 25 years old virgin. I found out about seddit last july. And now i am really different than what i was 1 year ago. I thought that i am introverted of some sort, but i like to party and i love traveling, so highly doubt it. Also when facing depression i try to stay positive, i know i am on the right track, i am improving myself every day somedays more than other, but still Improving. So…
/r/seduction01/08/17 03:14 PM
1

How to squat and deadlift properly, that's what he needs to learn
/r/seduction21/07/17 06:11 AM
5

If she liked you and you are going to have sex, your underwear will be the last thing on earth that she will be thinking about. You are overthinking it. Also saying that you are most probably going to have sex 4-5 times a week means you are thinking way too much about it.
/r/seduction21/07/17 06:09 AM
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Why would you even bother occuping your mind with such kind of thoughts ? Just chat with her and invite her to meet up instead of overthiking.
/r/seduction20/07/17 02:38 PM
5

I just finished it on Friday. Masterpiece ! One of the best things that i've ever read. It's written in a really nice undestandable language.
/r/seduction18/07/17 06:41 AM
1

Hit the gym, it always helps. And ghost her.
/r/seduction17/07/17 04:59 AM
1

How do you know ? Did you try escalating to a kiss ? You know that you have to initiate it.
/r/seduction16/07/17 09:33 PM
1

i am 25 and virgin. Last year around this time i got into a fight with one of my "Friends" , who apparently is a fucking narcissist.The thing was that i shared my so called vulnerability and he used it against me. I was a complete beta, looser, had no idea what escalation is and how to do it. I was fucking affraid of escalating things, My brain was working against me . So i found out about seddit in july. So My journey started with focusing on me first:Hit the gym lost like 3kilos, went on NoFap…
/r/seduction16/07/17 08:06 PM
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That just overthinking, message her right away and see what will happen.
/r/seduction16/07/17 11:49 AM
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Burpees are good too. Jumping ropes aswell.
/r/seduction14/07/17 06:38 AM
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Time for my own story too: i am 25 still virgin, don't think about it every day, because it is pointless to occupy my mind with that. Found out about seduction last july. Have a long road ahead of me, but i am improving myself and i can see the results. The chances are coming and only being in my head has stopped me from taking them. I was on NoFap for 250 days and now i am on it again for like30+ days. I am super confident. I am progressing n my weight lifting and i am trying new things.
/r/seduction13/07/17 10:22 AM
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Why you are so afraid of being creepy ? What will happen from a simple eye contact ? Just hold it while passing by. The first few times you will have that strange feeling in your stomach but after that you will feel great. This was the first thing i started doing.
/r/seduction03/07/17 07:00 AM
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I wasn't scared, actually i was really calm, cuz i knew she will reciprocate. I get that gut feeling from time to time, but i got used to it and i can overcome it. Practice makes perfect, though according to the Book of Pook perfect is boring.
/r/seduction19/06/17 08:30 PM
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Just have fun and then go talk to some girls.
/r/seduction13/06/17 09:32 AM
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Instead of focusing on being better with Women, Focus on Being your better Self. Improve yourself every day, and Womens will come. Build your confidence, start lifting, change your wardrobe if you have to. Have an exciting life. Be happy with yourself.
/r/seduction09/06/17 11:26 AM
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Why do you care about this ? There will always be girls that don't like being approached, and then they will complain about not being approached and how noone finds them attractive. This is the way women think...
/r/seduction09/06/17 09:57 AM
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From my experience, it is better to cut him off asap. These kind of people are having negative thinking, which affects your way of thinking. Belive me i am still trying to work over that kind of thiking. Hating someone for some minor bullshit. This is a great video about that kind of behaviour. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W_VQbtO3ChM
/r/seduction08/06/17 08:40 PM
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Best Seddit Post Ever ! Should be a Sticky. If you can't help yourself noone can help you.
/r/seduction08/06/17 12:17 PM
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Just to clarify, not being a victim doesn't mean to blame other people for the strugles that you have to go through.
/r/seduction07/06/17 11:02 AM
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Effort in the way of getting out of his comfort zone. Risking and failing.
/r/seduction07/06/17 05:40 AM
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One of the Most important things in that advice is that You need time, you can't go from zero to hero. And you don't have to be afraid to fail!
/r/seduction06/06/17 02:19 PM
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Well then change your mentality. Yes you are inexperianced but what ?Start trying, noone was born experienced in life... Girl finds you attractive, so you should show her you are interested, how ? by escalating the things. Don't overthink it.
/r/seduction06/06/17 10:34 AM
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Well ask yourself the question: what they will show you that you can't figure out alone? After all it's up to you, to do the next step. I think most of the clients on these bootcamps want fast results ASAP. With seduction it's a whole improvement process and you need the time. You can't go from zero to HB10s in 1-2 weeks... It's like puting a kid in an Adult's role. It might work, but most of the times it will be complete failure.
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:26 AM
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Extremеly honest: Yes she is interested in you, but you should start acting or she might friendzone you. So ask her for her number, invite her on a date and start the "Kino". It will be hard at first, but it is not that scary. And also don't overthink it!!!
/r/seduction01/06/17 11:07 AM
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I am 25 and virgin. Found about seddit in august and from there on i've had more success with my whole life than the past 15 years... I have to say that i am past the rejection phase, but i am still having some problems with escalation. But things are happening and i am just being patient :)
/r/seduction30/05/17 11:16 AM
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You got oneitis this is where it went wrong and she's a junkie. So forget about her and move on. Block her, delete her number w/e just do it. You will feel better.
/r/seduction29/05/17 05:39 PM
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First of all you called her while you were drunk. Well yeah she for sure will think that you are into her... Second if she told all of your coworkers that you are in love with her, and then you try to prove them wrong, it won't happen.Just ignore her for a while and see what will happen.
/r/seduction29/05/17 05:32 PM
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From the book of Pook: Perfect is boring but to be Human is Beautiful. So don't overthink it.
/r/seduction26/05/17 07:21 AM
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Just have fun and improve yourself. Everything else will come in the right moment. Be patient and live your life.
/r/seduction22/05/17 01:29 PM
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Don't get too hyped, you might get too much of an expectation. So just go have some fun and things will happen.
/r/seduction22/05/17 05:31 AM
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at least the throwaway guy that was posting 5 questions a day is gone :) The problem with PUA is that most of the guys are socially awkward and want to get socially normal in the blink of an eye. Well it won't happen even with 20000 $ they will have fake personallity, and things will work only for the 2-3 10 hookups. And then they will be playing World of warcraft again.
/r/seduction19/05/17 02:52 PM
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You can give compliments without doing the rest of the mentioned stuff. I can tell you that this "Nice guy" behavior won't land you any girl(Eastern EU or UK). Just be yourself, be funny, get to know some people. There are alot of foreigner groups in facebook. So you can join some and find people to hangout with.The most important thing:have fun don't go out just for the girls! If you are going on Sunny Beach in BG, you know the drill :D Everyone is wasted there.
/r/seduction19/05/17 11:05 AM
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it's a 50/50 she might not get the joke or she might like to see the OP because of the the upfront answer.
/r/seduction17/05/17 08:19 PM
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You can do 1 thing. Stop investing too much so you don't get "so Hurt" when someone rejects you. You are who you are, build your better self and there will be girls that will like you. Belive me, i've been in your boat and i know that things are changing, just have some patience and don't be afraid to get Rejected. Yes she might be more attracted to that other guy, but is she the only girl in the Universe ? You know the answer, just move on and find more than one girl, that way you won't be supe…
/r/seduction17/05/17 11:24 AM
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Try these tips they helped me ALOT! Start going to the gym 3 times a week. Lift some weight man, this will build your confidence and you will overall be more happy. It will improve your body and mentality. Try reducing the porn. I tried nofap for 3-4 months. It worked wonders for me. It improved my overall confidence. Now i am completly different person. Find some people to go out and have fun with. Don't get too much into the virginity thing. I am 25 and virgin. Last I had my first kiss. Now i …
/r/seduction15/05/17 09:45 AM
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Spot on. There are people that think if they find a girlfriend their lifes will magically get sorted out. In the book of Pook there was this one phrase: If you can't love yourself how can you expect someone to love you.
/r/seduction15/05/17 09:31 AM
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Well then try smiling while looking at them. They will probably smile ;)
/r/seduction12/05/17 12:37 PM
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I had a "friend" like that. He was fucking girls left and right, but through fake image. I don't know what he was doing. Guess what he's a narcissistic lier, and even his family can't trust him. So Once you start lieing you are getting deeper and deeper into that shit and in the end you don't even know if you are telling the truth or lieing.
/r/seduction11/05/17 12:58 PM
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Getting no responses is part of the process it is somewhat a rejection. Before i was really pissed of when i wasn't getting any. Now if i just don't get any response, i ghost(stop writing)her back. Cold approaching is when you just go to a girl and say Hi.
/r/seduction05/05/17 04:11 PM
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you can still text them, the thing is to just use texting for arranging the date. Not for a chit chat. You will talk when you see each other. About the not being expirenced, read the sidebar. Get familiar with the escalation ladder, so you can escalate properly ;) Good Luck. Even if she's not up for a date, at least you have tried !
/r/seduction05/05/17 02:21 PM
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The last time my colleagues were like that, i just ignored them. Started looking for a new job, because it was about god damn time to move on and found 10 times better than the previous one. It is always good to be in the IT business.
/r/seduction05/05/17 05:47 AM
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Lifting benefits your whole body and appearence, girls checking you is just the bonus. You are healthy but having better shaped body is always a good thing. After all the summer is comming ;)
/r/seduction04/05/17 07:58 AM
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Well, i say to myself, you are good looking, you have a nice job, good friends, family that loves you, you are taking care of yourself(grooming, going to the gym). You are on a path of improvement that takes time, so this is the thing that alot of people don't have and some will never have. So why bother occupying your thoughts with such a thing ? There will always, ALWAYS be people that are better than you. So live your life and enjoy it the way you can :)
/r/seduction03/05/17 10:01 PM
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Stop thinking about who is ahead of you and who isnt. This is the worst mindset that you can have, comparing yourself to other people all the time...
/r/seduction03/05/17 06:30 PM
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Is she living in your town? If yes then you had to meet, now from all the chatting, she has an emotional tampon.
/r/seduction03/05/17 05:23 AM
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You should have kissed her already... You were making excuses all the time. So here is your problem and stop overthinking it. If you want something to happen between the two of you, you should show her you are the man. Go for the kiss, touch her, escalate. And if she likes it, you will notice it.
/r/seduction01/05/17 10:24 AM
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Thanks for the support. Living in the moment is one of the things that i am working on. I know that when you escalate and don't think about the outcome, it goes super natural. You don't think about how clumsy you might be.
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:43 PM
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Being virgin at the age of 25 and not knowing how to escalate to sex properly. I know that i will suck the first time,but whatever :)
/r/seduction29/04/17 11:27 AM
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Eastern Europe, Bulgaria :)
/r/seduction28/04/17 06:54 PM
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Where i live it's a common practice to ask for girls facebook. Then message her and ask her out. If you hit it off she will be up for that date.
/r/seduction28/04/17 03:15 PM
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Good job mate, i was on my 270 days streak but then i relapsed. Now back on it again. About the appearance i think i have an average looks, nothing special. Keep going to the gym, walk straight, chin up, dont look down, keep eye contact with girls when walking. Not like laser eyes but chill. This gave me huge confidence. Be patient and things will happen.
/r/seduction27/04/17 05:21 AM
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Well i am 25 and virgin. In august i had no idea how to interact properly with a girl. Started hitting the gym, went on nofap, started being social and also not giving a fuck about the outcomes. I can notice the things are much better now. I've changed my job. About the women attraction, before i had no idea what that is, now i can notice that women are watching me, yesterday in the gym a girl almost tripped while keeping eye contact with me. Maybe it works for some and it doesn't for others.
/r/seduction26/04/17 12:41 PM
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You can choose the easy road :Instead of wasting 3 months on Lossing your virginity, go see an escort. Or the Hard one: Hit the Gym, talk to some girls, read some books, be a better person. You've set yourself some wrong goals. Instead of going for the "Loosing my virginity" goal, Go for: "I want to improve myself during the summer" goal.
/r/seduction26/04/17 09:30 AM
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Start going to the gym, stop fapping or reduce fapping to 1 maximum 2 times a week! Change your haircut. Start talking to girls. Is it that hard ?
/r/seduction26/04/17 09:26 AM
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And for every bad habit and lack of motivation to do stuff.
/r/seduction25/04/17 08:02 PM
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You are scared of 2 things. Being embarrased and Being Creepy. If you can't coop with that, asking 12934721984712 questions won't help you. With Rejection the only way to stop caring about it is to GET rejected.
/r/seduction25/04/17 01:46 PM
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If you keep thinking about getting laid, you won't get laid. Read the sidebar. There are alot of Useful stuff there.
/r/seduction25/04/17 09:55 AM
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Asking questions. All the time without taking action won't make you more experienced... You really need to man the fuck Up and start doing something with your life and stop sitting in reddit. Every reply you are posting is an excuse.
/r/seduction24/04/17 05:24 AM
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Why are you so afraid of what she will think about you? It's her problem not yours, so just go and try seducing these girls. If she is playing hard to get, she just might not be interested...
/r/seduction23/04/17 08:48 AM
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After all it is easier to make imaginary excuses instead of trying to even talk to strangers. ;)
/r/seduction22/04/17 11:24 PM
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Another excuse. if you wanted to find you would have... In general you don't know a Thing. So don't make conclusions what is careful and what not... You are the Seddit Troll. Get out of your room and stop reading seduction stuff. Period!
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:13 PM
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How the fuck do you know that when you haven't made a SINGLE approach ? You have no facts stating that "some" girls take that as creepy. It's all in your head. Uhh she will think i am creepy, uhh i can't approach because "insert a reason here"...
/r/seduction21/04/17 01:07 PM
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You always have a ready answer why you didn't do that. You always make excuses why you didn't approach.
/r/seduction21/04/17 08:15 AM
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Eye contact is your smallest problem, every single time you say" it isn't creepy or bad in a way." Why are you so scared of being creepy? You won't become a zombie... And stop spamming, 1 night outside will give you a hundred times more experience than reading this subreddit.
/r/seduction21/04/17 06:42 AM
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I didn't liked it. I struggled reading it. I am rereading Models, as the last time i read it, it was in the begining of my seduction and self-improvement journey.
/r/seduction19/04/17 07:18 AM
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For you it seems that the only easy thing is reading stuff in here. OP just don't focus on the virginity thing, focus on having fun, because girls will notice from a mile away that you are desperate to loose it. I plan on going "party hard" mode this summer and meanwhile i will meet some nice girls :)
/r/seduction18/04/17 09:58 PM
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You can't fake being confident. You gain confidence by going out of you comfort zone. What makes you feel awkward ? Approaching/talking to a girl ? Find what it is and use it as a starting point. Start small from there.
/r/seduction17/04/17 08:49 PM
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If something doesn't seem moral to you, but is moral to someone else, is it immoral in general ? It was a normal one time stand. Is it immoral when a 17 years old guy fucks a 32 years old Milf ?
/r/seduction17/04/17 10:58 AM
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it's not illegal in the UK.
/r/seduction17/04/17 09:56 AM
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Just go and talk to her.
/r/seduction13/04/17 05:26 AM
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Go try it :) Knock on her door and invite her over for a chat and a glass or wine or w/e :)
/r/seduction12/04/17 10:49 AM
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Well there is no perfect opportunity, you either do it or you don't. And stop being afraid of what she will think about you...
/r/seduction12/04/17 08:09 AM
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So try harder. Life is not easy. There is no shortcut to Girls, or Better Career.
/r/seduction11/04/17 09:04 AM
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Yep thanks for the reply :) After all the self-improvment process is trying new stuff. What works for you and what not.H I feel and look better when i got a beard on my face, and i don't look like a 15 years old boy.
/r/seduction11/04/17 07:07 AM
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The Sidebar is more than enough to start with. Don't fill your head with too much theory it is pointless. Theory or RSD can't teach you how to overcome fear of Rejection. The only way to get over it is to just go out and put yourself under the gun.
/r/seduction10/04/17 08:48 PM
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The Vulnerability mentioned in Models is more about being ok with what you are and not being afraid of the Rejection. So you are not afraid of the Rejection when you ask her out, or when you escalate and touch her.Or when you go for the kiss and she rejects you. Being indifferent to the outcome makes you vulnerable. Accepting that you will feel a bit awkward when you first touch a girl or kiss her is again being vulnerable. 2 months after i read Models and started this self-improvement journey i…
/r/seduction10/04/17 08:40 PM
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For me it is not about the hookup results etc. But more about the overall getting Better in everything i do. So Gym: Squat More, Pull More, have more strength. Appearence: Growing a beard(this need patience and time), Changing my wardrope a bit( i am still working on that). I started a new job with more things to learn and to develop my career. Even though i am not too much into cold approaching i've done my first ever kiss and make out sober, and it was 2 months after i started this jorney. I a…
/r/seduction10/04/17 03:20 PM
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Why not ? Just go for it, but don't go into the oneitis abyss again.
/r/seduction09/04/17 10:04 PM
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I was like that, when a girl didn't respond to my invite. But guess what there are tons of other girls. Now i am trying to hook up with an ex colleague, she is like 6 years older than me. But fuck it i will try and see what will be the outcome.
/r/seduction08/04/17 06:57 PM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. So if you don't try you wouldn't know. Go for it and good luck.
/r/seduction08/04/17 10:13 AM
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You will have to learn it yourself. Read the sidebar. At first nothing comes easy in life, so buckle up and start the self-improvement, seduction journey :)
/r/seduction08/04/17 10:09 AM
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By reading the side bar. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1dvnem/above_the_game_part_7_physical_escalation_sex/ Good luck
/r/seduction07/04/17 01:05 PM
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there are like 10 zilion topics about Approach anxiety. So check the sidebar, use the search. And at the end DO NOT read too much theory. Practice MORE !!! Trust me, it will work out, just be patient and move your ass. I am saying this because i have been there, i was a complete beta in august and now i can talk to girls and i don't fear the rejection.
/r/seduction06/04/17 01:59 PM
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When i was starting this Journey i found one of the best replies ever regarding Virginity and when you are obsessed with the idea of loosing it. So read it up, this might help you :) https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1ljylg/im_20m_a_virgin_and_am_depressed/ The gold post.
/r/seduction04/04/17 07:18 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/637gtk/advice_needed_hitting_a_plateau/ this is what happens when you go too much into Youtube videos. Too much theory doesn't lead to anything good. Generally the main thing that you have to have when you start with the whole seduction and self improvement is to have patience. Nothing else matters in the long run. If you don't have that you are doomed. So be patient and things will happen.
/r/seduction04/04/17 10:53 AM
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Well if you like someone and you want to show interest, keep eye contact. It's kinda hard at first but eventually you will get used to it. I asked a friend of mine what kind of feeling she get when someone keeps a strong eye contact. She said she gets aroused.
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:38 PM
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What was her response ? Was she shocked ?
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:29 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/633oa8/fr_how_strong_eye_contact_sealed_the_deal_again/ Check this one. It might help you figure it out.
/r/seduction03/04/17 02:16 PM
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Ok so you know what the issue is. Ask yourself the question, Why do i care about these girl's feelings ? And why i put myself second and her feelings first ? Hope this helps you a bit.
/r/seduction01/04/17 11:34 PM
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Ghosting is not the issue, it is something else. Try to figure it out.Use the 5whys method to at least find out more about this problem. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/5_Whys in my opinion, You did well for ghosting this girl's friends. The thing is, you never know when she could've used "the Rep" thing against you. People tend to do that to hurt someone.
/r/seduction01/04/17 11:25 PM
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Uncertainty. Science is based on numbers, and you will get a given result, while with girl you don't know what will happen and you are scared because of that.
/r/seduction01/04/17 11:08 PM
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First time you said you didn't feel like kissing her, then it felt very unnatural, how exactly do you know it was that ? Or it was your brain protecting you, from loosing your "friendship" with this girl if she rejected you? You were alone with her like 10 times and you didn't try to kiss her at least once. Even she gave you signs by driving you home, when as you said you live close by. Don't blame yourself. Just next time when you see that the girl has interest in you, just try and escalate.
/r/seduction01/04/17 10:52 PM
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i haven't watched RSD stuff and i don't really want to. In my opinion this is just wasting your time watching youtube videos and then trying to figure out what works for you and what not.The thing i hate about these videos in general is the way they talk. They talk a lot and at the end you are confused what they are talking about. I like the raw information, from then on you are on your own. What worked for me was just facing my fears, getting out of my comfort zone. Getting over my AA and i can…
/r/seduction01/04/17 10:26 PM
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Ok read your notes and start practicing. Last time i read Models was in the end of august, i started being honest and not caring about the outcome of my actions. Now i've decided to read it again to just see what really works for me. Edit:fuck i posted like 10 times, sorry about that.
/r/seduction01/04/17 09:33 AM
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You are just afraid of the rejection. You brain is trying to prevent you from going out of your comfort zone. So when you try to approach, it says to you, don't show sexual intention, it is creepy, you will get burnt. So maybe you should work on that? There will always be some awkward creepy moments, but what, it is not the end of the world. I remember when a girl was dancing and grinding on mr, my dick got really hard, so i was dancing and trying to hide my erection from her, figuring out this …
/r/seduction01/04/17 08:13 AM
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Did you read his book Models ?
/r/seduction01/04/17 07:57 AM
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I think you are in the wrong section :) TRP is in /r/TheRedPill/
/r/seduction31/03/17 11:45 AM
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I asked a friend of mine, about her opinion and she told me that i am 7/10 but with more confidence, better beard(she is into beards, so that is a bit subjective) and better fashion style i can go to 8. So now i know that i am not that ugly. And i can do much better :)
/r/seduction30/03/17 08:09 AM
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Are you doing this for the girls or for just being more healthy and feeling better yourself? Change your perspective a bit, girls are just part of the whole self-improvement process.
/r/seduction30/03/17 07:35 AM
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I think it's not a good idea. Because when you say it's a date, she might have some expectations and you might not meet them. So Just invite her and on the date try to escalate and see what will happen.
/r/seduction30/03/17 07:29 AM
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It's better to try something and fail instead of just sit and think, What if ? Just go, don't think about the outcome. Don't try to overthink it. What will be the worst thing that can happen ? She will say No. That is it. :) Good luck
/r/seduction28/03/17 09:15 PM
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I got a scar on my forehead cuz some asshole decided that it is a good idea to start throwing whiskey glasses... Well now i am more charming than before. Also you can do some serious damage with a glass...
/r/seduction26/03/17 01:19 PM
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Ok lets be objective here. If someone writes you the message how the heck you will continue in the same manner after that ? You will be FAKE! You can't act the exact same way as the person that wrote you the message. Also The world won't fucking end when you press the enter key. You have two options: * she sees the message and starts chatting with you. * she sees the message but does nothing. So you will get "seen" and that is it. So just fucking write her that message and get it over with. Mr. …
/r/seduction24/03/17 08:08 PM
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I have this problem hating myself up for the missed opportunity. I went on a date with a girl, i know she is interested, after all it was her idea to go out tonight. So I could have escalated, but i didn't do it, so it is not that big deal, it was our first date. But next time i will try my best to just get out of my head and escalate, and k-close her if possible.
/r/seduction21/03/17 09:55 PM
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Read "No more mr.nice guy" and "Models". These books will help you figure it out.
/r/seduction19/03/17 08:19 AM
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Well sorry if it sounded negative. I never said that i want to just get laid and that's it, in my opinion when you get over that virginity mental barrier, things will be better, i have no idea if that is really true. The thing with the guys banging alot of chicks is that they've been rejected tons of times and they have done something to reach that stage of their life. It might sound clique but this quote is really good “If you work hard and believe, the universe will always help you to catch yo…
/r/seduction17/03/17 09:32 PM
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First off stop thinking about your missed opportunities and the number of chicks that you haven't fucked. Now about the improvement i will tell you how it works for me so far. So to give you some hope, i am 25 and still virgin, i found out about seddit in august. Went on NoFap(this is a bit 50/50 it might work or it might not work for you.)It makes you way more horny and lowers your pornstar standards. I started going to the gym and i started getting some results.My confidence was getting up, st…
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:54 PM
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Maybe this will help you https://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/3dy22n/serious_overthinkers_of_reddit_how_do_you_control/
/r/seduction17/03/17 03:28 PM
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Then you should read "No more mr. Nice Guy" this is about pleasing others and not showing your true intentions.
/r/seduction17/03/17 01:42 PM
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Ask her directly, "Do you want to go to the prom with me? " Is it that hard?
/r/seduction17/03/17 12:39 PM
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Thank you for the reply and giving your point of view. After all the self-improvement process is hit or miss. Try different stuff if they work, you will use them to get to the next level. At the moment NoFap works in my favor, if i manage to loose my vcard this year i think it won't matter that much anymore. Yes being horny might be the reason i don't feel AA, or it might have just helped me to get it over with, i don't really know. Overall i am a different person compared to the one that i was …
/r/seduction15/03/17 09:03 AM
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You are correct, but beng a virgin and masturbating leads to lack of drive and making excuses to leave your comfort zone.
/r/seduction15/03/17 06:06 AM
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Well she might not be interested. If she was ,she would've said i am free at another day. And you would've rescheduled the date.
/r/seduction14/03/17 10:24 PM
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I am on Nofap for the past 220 days :) So yep it changed my life. My confidence is on a whole new level.
/r/seduction14/03/17 07:05 PM
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I think this won't solve your issues. You will get laid, but u will still be a potato. So your problem is not the virginity, your problem is AA and self confidence. Practice these things and you will see the difference. I was just like you. Awkward, shy around girls, i couldn't even keep eye contact. Now i am much better. Yeah i am still a virgin, but i know that i am on the right track. So hit the gym, stop masturbating and grow some balls.
/r/seduction14/03/17 03:59 PM
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Ok this one is good, though it's kinda advertising a book. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/52vu8g/how_to_know_if_a_girl_likes_you_from_a_female/ Why you feel ashamed if a girls rejects you. This is who you are, you are showing interest, also girls don't punch you in the face when you try to kiss them, they either kiss you or turn their cheeks. So good luck, you can still try with that girl you went to the store with and don't quit without even trying. In general don't be afraid to fa…
/r/seduction14/03/17 02:46 PM
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approach anxiety
/r/seduction13/03/17 02:17 PM
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For someone with AA it might be.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:39 PM
1

It's not about the approach or the "traditional date" it's more about improving your whole life, approaches and dating are just parts of the whole process. IF you don't love yourself, how you would like someone else to love you? Start from You, small steps, there are tons of guide what to do. Go to the Gym, Buy some new clothes, change your hairstyle, have good hygiene, start making eye contact. It will work out, just have the patience. In my opinion if you are trying to avoid/skip the status sc…
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:59 PM
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this is an awesome advice. I had pretty good conversation with a girl. I got huge boost of confidence, but then nothing happened. I fucked it up by pointless chatting. So i focused on the confidence boost that i got instead on the outcome that was bad. My point is that focusing on the positive stuff, even though the outcome might be negative.
/r/seduction11/03/17 03:10 PM
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I am having the same problem, but i am new to the whole improvement and seduction thing. This is just too much overthinking, your brain is trying to figure out a way to avoid the rejection. Meditation helps alot in this situation. Also meetng more girls and that way yu can't occupy your mind with all of them.
/r/seduction11/03/17 09:18 AM
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Well they are all girls. Do the usual stuff, good eye contact, smile and go talk to them. And the most important part Don't overthink it. Also don't forget that they are there for the fun.
/r/seduction11/03/17 09:02 AM
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Well i am hitting the gym and being on NoFap since august. Had my first kiss at the end of september, almost lost my vcard, but i was too much in my head about doing it with a chubby girl. I am 25 years old. You should start approaching.This is the only way to get out of this situation.
/r/seduction11/03/17 08:48 AM
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I think you lack patience. I had this problem and i tend to still have it from time to time. Just focus on the discipline and the process, not the final goal. Go to the gym 3 times a week, read a book whenever you can. I changed alot for the past 8-9 and i am still nowhere, but i can notice the changes and i feel fucking awesome.
/r/seduction09/03/17 02:56 PM
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Thank you for the advises. The good think is that i am getting used to the rejection and it doesn't bother me.
/r/seduction09/03/17 08:13 AM
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how can you be so sure she is not interested ? And by your logic all the girls that are interested should appoint another time for a date ? My idea is if you want to progress you don't quit on the first "No" or flake, you try 1-2 more times. Recently i found an e job, and you know what i failed on 8 interviews before that. When i failed on the first one i was devastated, cuz i thought i nailed it. If i've stopped based on your logic, i would've been miserable and depressed now. Sorry if my post …
/r/seduction09/03/17 01:29 AM
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Ok but how exactly to do that and don't sound needy ? I met this girl the other day i asked her to go out and then she made an excuse and said she had some stomach pain problems. Ofc it could've been this time of the month but who knows. will hit her up next week when i am back in town.
/r/seduction09/03/17 12:05 AM
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i had this last week. We had a really nice chat with this girl. Then i started sending her too many messages and on monday i hit her and asked her to hang out. I just got "seen" and that was it. Moved on and on to the next :)
/r/seduction07/03/17 09:39 PM
2

So you got oneitis and you got friendzoned. How exactly you love someone without even knowing them ? Sadly things don't work that way...
/r/seduction07/03/17 03:21 PM
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Well then start thinking about something else. If you are constantly thinking about that and you are doing nothing to change your life, what do you expect the result will be ? Yes you can loose your virginity, but it wont fix anything in the long run... You are not the only virgin in the world, so you are not alone. Thinking about missed opportunities is a bad habit, you should try and get rid of it.
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:08 PM
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why do you thing that will change anything ? How old are you ?
/r/seduction07/03/17 10:30 AM
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Try to invite her one more time and if she flakes again, next her. Move on.
/r/seduction06/03/17 09:33 PM
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This is the only way. Life begins at the end of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction06/03/17 08:50 PM
2

Yep thanks for the tips. I am working on myself.Got a new job, I go to the gym 3 times a week, improving myself feels so good. I can now notice that girls are checking me out. I am still virgin, but i know that i will loose my vcard soon.
/r/seduction05/03/17 07:46 PM
2

What should i do then ?
/r/seduction05/03/17 08:31 AM
1

Stop watching porn and try noFap?
/r/seduction05/03/17 08:15 AM
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25yo virgin.I was like you, boring, not talking, but i've decided to change myself. Had my first kiss last year. Actually kissed a girl on the first date, which for me was a huge step. From then on i had the change to loose my vcard but i didn't... I am hitting the gym 3 times a week and lost 6kgs. I've been on noFap for 8 months now, which has been the biggest challenge in my entire life. Got some new friends and i can now talk freely with hot chicks. I can also keep eye contact without any pro…
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:46 PM
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Start escalating, touching her, making eye contact, smile. And then go for the kiss.
/r/seduction04/03/17 11:27 PM
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I recently met that kind of girl. She's hot, instagram and fb type of girl. All about pics, selfies etc. So she has a lot of man around her. I asked her to hang out. She said nothing. Decided to ignore her as she doesn't worth the effort. She's 19 and very spoiled, i am 25...
/r/seduction04/03/17 09:34 PM
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My point of view is that, these books give you a starting point and from then on, you are on your own. Growth is about facing your fears and finding your own path.
/r/seduction04/03/17 09:31 PM
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I asked a girl to hang out with me. I just got the "seen" and that was it. Ignored her completely :) I was kinda pissed of at first, but that's how girls are nowadays.
/r/seduction03/03/17 07:07 PM
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Deleting everything will for sure solve your problems.
/r/seduction02/03/17 08:08 AM
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well that won't help you. You are focusing too much on the problem. Loosing the vcard, which leads to even bigger depression. So Focus on positive stuff, listen to some motivational videos on YouTube. Get outside, start meditating, Read some books, go on NoFap. Be persistent and you will go through it. Thinking for only one particular thing i fucking counterproductive.
/r/seduction02/03/17 12:15 AM
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For how long have you been in the seduction thing ? Because i found out about seddit in july and for the past 8-9 months i have changed more than i've changed for the past 5 years. So you can't tell me you tried everything and it didn't worked. You decided to quit on the first step. Improving is a slow and hard process, you are only 19, i am 25 and virgin. So stop thinking about what you've missed and just live for the moment. Maybe 90% of the population doesn't want to improve, so feels special…
/r/seduction01/03/17 11:50 PM
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Well you have facts that you are not ugly: people telling you you aren't, chicks looking at you. So the only thing that is telling you otherwise is your brain. I was like that last year. Kissless virgin. I am still virgin now, but fuck it i feel more confident than ever. I approached a bridesmaid on a wedding, kissed her on the first date, though i was hoping to loose my vcard to her i was still in my own head and coouldn't do it. But i am not focusing on the whole virginity thing i am focusing …
/r/seduction01/03/17 07:18 PM
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And what for ? suicide is the most pathetic thing in the world, the second most pathetic thing is a beta man. So good luck. I bet that i will loose my virginity before you yours.
/r/seduction28/02/17 09:37 PM
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25 and had my first kiss last summer, still a virgin, but don't make a big deal out of it. Improving myself, gym, wearing shirts, being more confident in general. And this is because i want a better life. I know it in my guts that i can be better, so i am pushing my limits and getting out of my comfort zone to reach that greatness. lol this post sounds like some motivational speaker's preaching.
/r/seduction28/02/17 08:08 PM
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Boost your confidence even more. Build yourself up Even More! Last week i did things that boosted my self-confidence to the sky. Talked with a girl ni the gym and got her name. Then on thursday had a conversation with HB7.5-8 and i noticed that she was attracted to me. I asked her out today, but she just "seen" it. But still i am pretty hyped up. There's much more to come :)
/r/seduction27/02/17 01:47 PM
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Well there are all sorts of people here. Some are 20 y/o some are 30+ Some are blonde muscular men, other are "nerdy", but the main thing is that the all want to change their life for good :) Why are you asking that ?
/r/seduction27/02/17 12:09 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11ng7n/above_the_game_intro_my_story_preview_of_my/ This one will help you alot. Start from it. Everything else is practice and improvement.
/r/seduction25/02/17 11:27 PM
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First off stop thinking about your v-card and how fast you will loose it. I know how you feel like, because i am in the same boat. It might sound like a cliche, but you have to improve yourself and you way of thinking. You can do it. And stop fapping.
/r/seduction23/02/17 06:49 AM
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This is the ultimate opener. The chicks will drop their panties after they hear it.
/r/seduction23/02/17 06:39 AM
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It is not too personal here in my country.But yeah that was a lame move. Yeah it sounds simple, but my brain starts overthinking it really fast. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction23/02/17 06:29 AM
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Well i don't usually do it, but there is this girl, i've seen her watching me and we've kept eye contact. So last week she made a joke about the weight with which i was squating, so this monday i said to myself, fuck it i will talk to her. I asked her what her name was etc. we had a small chat then i left her so she can do her training. I asked her for her facebook profile today, but she said she doesn't have one.So i kinda got rejected :D I plan on changing the gym so i will see her 1-2 more ti…
/r/seduction22/02/17 10:49 PM
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I am pretty new to seduction and still trying to find my natural way of gaming and i am a virgin so it's even harder. But i don't give up, because i can see the results. I went out of my comfort zone at the gym and started talking to one really sexy girl, i asked her for her fb today, which was a huge step for me, though she said she doesn't have one and i bailed out.
/r/seduction22/02/17 09:33 PM
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Don't start with do you speak English, just go and tell her what you think about her. Bulgarian Girls like foreigners. So try to boost your confidence by just talking to them. Don't be outcome dependent. I have AA too, but going to the gym and being social has helped me alot. And i am still improving.
/r/seduction22/02/17 01:22 PM
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Welcome to Bulgaria :) Start of by going to the gym. Those guys with the muscles can't get shit. I've lived in Student city for the past six years and i know they are like you and me, the thing is that we want to change :) Go to some discos outside of student city. Once upon the time bibliotekata, Jim Beam, P.M., Mascara, Gotham. Check Diamonds in st. City, it's a new disco. Good luck, all the chicks in st. City are there for the fucks. Enjoy your stay
/r/seduction21/02/17 10:08 PM
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Good Job mate. I approached a girl yesterday in the Gym. She was joking on Monday that she's squating with more weight than me. So i decided to talk to her yesterday. i didn't got her fb or number but i will do it on Wednesday. But i found her name and that she's just a normal sexy girl.
/r/seduction21/02/17 02:44 PM
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You are overthinking it. Just go for it. I was like that and guess what i had my second kiss ever on a first date with a girl. Good luck and keep us informed.
/r/seduction20/02/17 10:50 PM
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Why did you remove the initial post ? If she's already into you just invite her and see what will happen. Are you up for Long term relationship or just messing around. You should tell her what you want.
/r/seduction20/02/17 08:40 AM
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You can check this one. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5s2e9e/a_selection_of_ugotthelowdowns_comments_related/
/r/seduction19/02/17 10:34 PM
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Ask her out and see what happens.The question here should be what are you up for?
/r/seduction19/02/17 10:10 AM
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This advice works for just talking to girls too. Yesterday i was acting like my old self and couldn't talk to a single girl. The Night before i got a harsh rejection from HB8.5-9 But hey i am getting out of my comfort zone, so i will fail but eventually i will get better. Just don't quit. I got rejected 8 times on job interviews. Last week i got a job offer and it was just what i was looking for to improve my career.
/r/seduction16/02/17 01:11 PM
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You already have wrong approach about the whole improvement thing. I will change my personality in a week. And then you will fail or see close to 0 results and they you bust yourself for not improving and then you say next week i will be another person, and again it doesn't work. Change your mentality first. Improvement take a lot more time... Discipline yourself. Start going to the gym, change your hair style, go buy new clothes, read books about improvement, stop fapping or go NoFap, start smi…
/r/seduction14/02/17 10:15 AM
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Why you are dieing inside when you even don't know that girl. You only know she's shy. You've got some feelings for her ? Oneitis ? Go ask her out. There is one good quote that i've seen at least 2 times in here. he who hesitates masturbates.
/r/seduction14/02/17 09:23 AM
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I will just go out with one of my buddies and we will be chilling and having fun, just like every other day. And i ber there will be a lot of single student girls that will be out tomorrow night.
/r/seduction13/02/17 08:16 PM
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I've been on nofap for the past 6-7 months and it changed my whole life. If i compare myself to the guy that i am now, well when i look into the mirror i see another person. More confident, better looking. I couldn't even keep eye contact. Now i can see that girls are checking me at the gym.
/r/seduction12/02/17 04:39 AM
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And jumping ropes. This is really good cardio exercise.
/r/seduction10/02/17 06:25 AM
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You should find new friends. Instead of telling you "Good Job libertycomes for trying to open up a 10" They told you the above. Which means they are bad friends! So keep trying and it will work.
/r/seduction07/02/17 12:16 PM
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Well i got different type of experience with rejection. The Past 2-3 months i've been looking for a job. And i've been rejected 7-8 times so far. The first 1-2 times was awful, but now it's just meh. About women i don't have that much experience, i tried one girl after i've started improving myself and she liked me, though after new year we've stopped seeing each other. The thing is that wasn't even that much into her and the split was easy. I still don't know why she got mad at me. Have to see …
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:41 AM
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What about huge festivals? Ultra Europe for example ? I am planning to go this year and i've seen that there are alot of girls there. :)
/r/seduction06/02/17 12:48 PM
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Well call her, tell her who you are "The handsome guy from the store" and then invite her to see each other. Calling means you have balls, while texting is meh. Good luck and just don't overthink it. Keep us informed how it went :)
/r/seduction06/02/17 08:08 AM
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Read "No More MR.Nice Guy" ASAP! And stop talking like that. Or you will have to sleep on the floor for these 3 days.
/r/seduction06/02/17 08:04 AM
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Well she was ready to eat you out alive in the store. So just call her. Get out of your comfort zone, there is a whole new world out there.
/r/seduction06/02/17 07:50 AM
1

I like the bvlgari aqva pour homme. It has a specific aroma, which i like. edit: Now i figured it out that cologne is perfume :D
/r/seduction05/02/17 07:58 PM
1

Well i had a friend like that. The only thing he could talk about was sex. That was his life, banging chicks with some life problems. I dont thing i've ever seen him with a mature women. Anyways he apparently is a narcisist So me and the other people from our group ditched him. The funny thing is that he was really defensive when someone started joking with him. You should for sure talk it out with your landlord. Because the tension is rising and i am sure you dont want to vent it out over him a…
/r/seduction04/02/17 02:56 PM
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Long term relationship.
/r/seduction04/02/17 09:03 AM
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You are giving to many fuck who's doing what. In the world there will always be better, smarter, more handsome guys than you. You are making excuses why they don't want you, but you are just overthinking it. Until you dont approach you will not find out. Complaining is a setback to your life and your career. This is a nice quote that sums your post up. You ate just complaining without taking any action.
/r/seduction04/02/17 08:52 AM
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If you always think about being virgin well you will end up like one. i am virgin too, but i don't focus on that, i focus on everything else. Working out, self-improvement, being social, finding a better job. And now i realize that if you focus on for example having a LTR, then you will never end up having that. "Complaining is a setback to your life and your career." So just start doing different stuff and don't think about the sex or that girls don't want to be with a virgin. Think about the o…
/r/seduction03/02/17 03:46 PM
2

Focus on improving yourself. Boiks, schoolgrades, gym or some other sport, hobbies. And stop crying about your virginity. I am 25 with a v-card. Am i crying ? No i am just improving :)
/r/seduction03/02/17 06:29 AM
1

Maybe, or she just wants you to be her puppy again and is using IOIs to do that. Just don't bother wasting your time if you have another FWB.
/r/seduction01/02/17 03:48 PM
1

First of stop thinking about that girl and start talking with other. HS is full off people to talk to. Occupy your time. Gym etc. For bad sleep the first thing that comes in my mind is Lift Heavy. And Try to drink some magnesium tabs after the Gym. i've lost my workdrive and i did a burn out in November. Now i had a meeting with my manager and they've put me on a Improvement Plan. Well guess i hope i won't do it til the end. I am looking for a better job ;)
/r/seduction27/01/17 03:11 PM
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Hey there. Well i am in almost the same position 25yo in Europe, though the eastern part. Some people say that NoFap doesn't work or is a strange cult. Well i don't know, but i've been on NoFap for 5-6 months now. For that time, i lost 5 kilos, started workingout regularly.I was excited, because one little step outside of my comfort zone and boom pulled a Girl on a wedding, One of the bridesmaids, just to note i've had only 1 kiss in my whole life before that. I Kissed her on the first date, the…
/r/seduction24/01/17 09:21 AM
1

Well you can try using the escalation ladder :) https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/seduction24/01/17 08:58 AM
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Why are you whining. You are 21! I am 25 and still a virgin so what ? I am not focused on the virgin thing itself, but rather on improving myself and my life. I know that at some point i will loose it. You are overthinking it. If you are shy, go out there start making baby steps. Eye contact, ask strangers for the time. You know what your problem really is, you dont want to invest your time! You want it now lost virginity, girlfriend, friends. Well guess what it's not easy, it will take time and…
/r/seduction21/01/17 09:32 AM
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It doesnt work like that for most of the people. When you are on different pages you cant just stay there, you just move on. It's getting too awkward. You will get oneitis and it will get even shittier.
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:33 PM
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i am in a similar position at the moment. Shitty job, Shitty, colleagues , getting rejected on interviews, but i keep on. Sending my CV, attending interviews, because i know that i am better that this and i can do a better job, be better in general. So i strive for that. Even though i am not motivated to go to work every day i still go, because i know the bad time will pass and i will have learned something from it. Find a way to motivate yourself. You can do it :)
/r/seduction17/01/17 09:48 AM
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You had like 5 opportunities to kiss close her. And if she was interested, she was touching you and insted you replied it wasn't funny. Stop overthinking and just kiss her already. Talking won't help yiu with you blueballs :D Just try to not do that drunk meetng again even with another girl. Or drunk texts...
/r/seduction17/01/17 06:10 AM
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Well i think noFap made me qucker wiited. I stopped overthinking and i said the first think that came into my mind related to the topic. I am being sarcastic most of the time.
/r/seduction15/01/17 11:22 AM
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Just ignore her. You won't have her as a friend. I've tried that and it didn't work. So just move one, life is too short to waste your time with girls that don't know what they want.
/r/seduction12/01/17 11:46 AM
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It seems like you are overthinking it. What if ? Does she like me. Just don't sabotage your brain with questions like that.
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:34 AM
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Even though they are smarter as you say, that doesn't mean they have a clue what works for women and what not. My point is that you know more than them about women. so you are smarter than them in this area. About their negativism well life is short, so they are just wasting it :) Why don't you try going out alone? It's hard but when you get used to it, you will be able to find new buddies to hang out with.
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:09 AM
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Good Job Mate :) I did this with the girl i am seeing now. I had like 1 kiss in my entire life before that and decided to kiss her on the first date :P I was completely calm and just did it :)
/r/seduction20/12/16 03:48 PM
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Don't overthink it, just go for it, if it doesn't happen at least you've tried. Wondering what if is just blocking you from doing it.
/r/seduction09/12/16 11:40 AM
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So there is hope for me :D I am 25 and still virgin, though i found a pretty nice girl and i hope that i will loose my vcard by the end of the year :P There is one quote from a dj called Don Diablo. "If you work hard and believe the universe will always help you to catch your dreams." So good luck :)
/r/seduction08/12/16 02:46 PM
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Don't be needy, i know it's hard i haven't lost my V-card and i am turning 25 at the end of the month.After my progress the past 4 months, i've met this girl. I've just known her name and were not very social with her. But then decided to just don't give a fuck. I kiss closed her on the first date and for now everything is really nice. here is what worked for me: 1. Went on NoFap and it's been 3 months without jerking off. 2. Hit the Gym. I've noticed that girls started looking at me more often,…
/r/seduction02/11/16 08:29 AM
1

My point of view. If you want something fast, it won't happen, if you overthink it, it won't work. I've started my journey in the beginning of july, i had 0 experience with girls and almost 0 kisses. The things that i did changed my life upside down. 1.Started hitting the gym 3 times a week, which resulted in loosing 3 kgs for month and a half. 2. No Fap. Some might say it's total crap, but i can say that for the past 3 months in which i fapped 0 times, i have had more motivation than in the pas…
/r/seduction24/10/16 09:08 AM
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Whatever reason was you inner voice, overthinking it. Next time when that happens, just go for it. I recently wen out on a date with a pretty nice girl and we were chatting, i wasn't even nervous, i was having confidence in myself(that's the most important thing). Just went for the kiss, while i only had 1 kiss in my whole life. So Guess what happened. It went perfect :P
/r/seduction11/10/16 07:28 AM
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Then find what it is and change it. The biggest fear in most people's life is change, getting into the unknown, out of their comfort zone. Negative thinking won't help you, so stop thinking like there is no girl on earth that will like you. There are 8 billion people there must be at least one. Start with Baby steps: go out for a walk, keep eye contact, get better cloths, get new haircut, beard etc. if you have some facial skin problems, clean that up. Hit the gym, trust me girls notice these ch…
/r/seduction11/10/16 06:47 AM
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The way i stopped being shy near a hot girl: 1.NoFap (almost 3 months now) 2. Hit the Gym 3. Get Social:Start with just simple eye contact, this is neglected most of the times, but it was a huge boost for my confidence. 4.Don't Overthink it ! It doesn't sounds like rocket science right ? Good Luck Mate :)
/r/seduction11/10/16 06:25 AM
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Then ask her best friend to introduce you ;)
/r/seduction06/10/16 10:52 AM
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I think you should just start trying it. Reading materials about how to touch or how to escalate won't help you much without practice. Check this one https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hlmra/dicarlo_escalation_ladder_concise_and_emphasized/
/r/seduction06/10/16 10:40 AM
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