I'll copy and paste my original post down below if you'd like to read it - but here's my current situation: I'm a college student living in an off-campus apartment with a girl (just me and her). The girl is dating one of my guy friends from back home (he's playing junior college baseball 3 hours away). The girl and I don't party or go out very often - we are definitely what you would call "homebodies." I originally asked Reddit what I could do to get out of the friendzone with this girl because we will be living together for the next 2 years and I didn't want to be her "emotional tampon" for that long. The fact that she didn't see me as a sexual man and saw me more as a gay best friend frustrated me severely. Though I'd love for us to be more than platonic friends, I think the slim odds of that happening are not worth the stress this situation is causing me. It pains me to admit it, but I have oneitis for her. Since she's the only girl I see on a regular basis, I have gotten very attached to her and I've become too emotionally invested in her. I'm asking for any practical advice on how to handle this situation. I want to cure my oneitis and become detached from this girl before I stress out any more. What's the best way to do this without ruining our living situation? Thanks in advance.