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The best way to get over a girl is to replace her with another one. Or even a better solution is to replace her with several. If your phone is full of hotties you care about and can be balls deep tonight there is no way you'll be worried about any girl ever.
/r/seduction01/01/19 06:49 PM
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This is hardly productive. It's like rewarding yourself for good habits with a cigarette, a drink or a shot of heroine. For some dudes it's very well a problem, especially with porn. And as OP has said already, he's been doing what you suggest. He wants to stop. Eating right and exercising is not going to fix his loneliness. So A - it could be a proper good and true addiction. Even if you should replace bad habits and addictions with good ones but people can just get both. Might as well cut out …
/r/seduction31/12/18 08:26 PM
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You could get the app cold turkey. It even has a bundle of porn sites you can block in one go. It's not perfect, if your urge is strong enough you can definitely find ways around it. So block proxy sites as well. Other than that, it's all up to you. You have control of yourself and your desires. So stop it. Yes, it is simple. Start meditating too, it'll help you keep your mind from wandering into gutterville. It'll also help you control the spike of sexual energy you will find yourself with. To …
/r/seduction31/12/18 04:48 PM
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Oh come on, you know that's nonsense. You just have to be dedicated. You have to stay consistent and you will see results. Do the right things and do them without skipping, always trying to be better. And I promise you that even after 3 months you'll learn a lot and you'll be much better than you are now. Or 1 month. It all depends on how much you do and how consistent you are. It's all on you, brother. Everyones journey is different but the only person who will take decades to get where they wa…
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:20 AM
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Ohnonono
/r/seduction29/12/18 12:03 AM
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Sure, I guess? Whatta weird question to ask at a sausage party.
/r/seduction29/12/18 12:01 AM
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This has "He went balls deep in your girlfriend" written all over it. I'm sorry I can't help but laugh that you seem so clueless about this.
/r/seduction28/12/18 10:06 PM
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Who fucking cares. You got your signal. And if she really looked at you that way that signals some serious interest. And she smiled. And you goofed off. Don't do that again. You got some serious attention and now you're bullshitting, trying to justify why you pussied out.
/r/seduction28/12/18 11:23 AM
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It's very simple. Take a look at anything you do wrong and simply force yourself to do the right thing. The best way to get rid of a bad habit, like weak and inconsistent eye contact, is to replace it with a better format. Strong and consistent eye contact. You already know the right things to do. And you already know the wrong things to do. So start building and reinforcing the right pathways in your brain. This in turn will overwrite the wrong ones. Because you cannot have strong pathways for …
/r/seduction28/12/18 11:18 AM
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I dunno you just seemed super genuine in your dedication to the lawd of inceldom. Apologies.
/r/seduction27/12/18 11:41 PM
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Oh lawd. I don't even get laid and I think you're silly.
/r/seduction27/12/18 11:33 PM
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This was quite entertaining if I dare say so. He has good examples and he's a good talker. It was a pretty good watch. Especially the bit at the end. It's not going to deepen your knowledge of the simple ass concept of neediness but it's a fun watch.
/r/seduction27/12/18 11:31 PM
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You could say just about anything. You could just squint real hard while trying but failing to hold your laughter. That's what I would do anyway.
/r/seduction27/12/18 05:59 PM
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Well what do you want out of guys who game in countries where women DON'T get stoned to death for getting raped? It's kinda hard to game anything when you live in a very dogmatic or backwards society. Or if you don't like those terms then a society whose values go directly against the concept of pickup. Whining that this sub should cater more to you when you're in the minority is pretty childish. I understand BUT what the hell do you want? How are people supposed to help when there's no clubs an…
/r/seduction27/12/18 05:54 PM
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I think the clothing itself is more important. How it looks and how it fits on you. If you're getting attention because of a logo, you're getting a shitty kind of attention. I would never fucking spend anything beyond 50 bucks for a hoodie. It's a hoodie. Unless it's some kind real fancy design that fits like a cloud and it makes me look like Ezio from Assassin's Creed. It's a hoodie. A fucking hoodie for. fuck's. sake. A hoodie. Dude. A hoodie. And who the fuck wears a hoodie to a club. I find …
/r/seduction27/12/18 12:03 AM
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What kind of retard would buy a hoodie for 1 grand. If you want me to buy an article of clothing for 1 grand that shit better give me mind control.
/r/seduction26/12/18 11:57 PM
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I had a whole post questioning everything in your post like how 2 weeks of this training made you sexy or something. Not to mention you exercise to exhaustion EVERY DAY with no rest days. It's incredibly vague too. Like, how many cycles do you do of this fivesome? Every set to failure but how many sets? Pretty much everything in your post screams bullshit to me. I don't buy it. I really don't. But since I'll be back in the gym sooner or later and some exercise is better than none I'll humor this…
/r/seduction26/12/18 06:48 PM
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Fair enough. I'll hopefully come back to the gym in january. I've had my fair share of gains as I'm also skinny with a bitchy metabolism when I actually managed to stay consistent for like 2 and a half months until no money December hit. I couldn't hit my goal by the end of the year. I'm one kilo off which is still a good achievement. I mean there's no denying everything is better when you're swole. Clothes look better, fitter and tighter, jewelry makes you look fancy rather than effeminate, I m…
/r/seduction26/12/18 12:46 PM
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So... forget about women and just get swole? That takes years, dude. And just being muscular with well fitting clothes isn't quite guaranteed to get you a constant stream and supply of ass. I think.
/r/seduction25/12/18 11:05 PM
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I appreciate your response. It's rare for me to think this way but then again it's also rare for me to be faced with other people's relative success since I don't really have a whole lot of reasons to leave the house other than that deliberate walk I took. It's a powerfully negative feeling though. Just contemplating on the "what if nothing ever comes together and I'll always be stuck in mediocrity, never able to break the cycle" hits you pretty hard. Me being stuck right now waiting for documen…
/r/seduction25/12/18 05:14 PM
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Dude, just relax. There's so many guys out there who are much worse off than you are. Yeah you got jealous but it's understandable and you realize how fucked up it is that you wished for your bro to fail. It's alright, we all get negative, fucked up thoughts that make us hate ourselves. Just understand that everyone has them and it's normal when you're in a pit of misery. But remember you don't want to stay in it. You want to be on top of the world. Not at the bottom of the barrel. You see you'r…
/r/seduction24/12/18 04:37 PM
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Of course but we must always take into account that women have a constant stream of pretenders to the puss so dilly dallying with nonsense is going to set you back Obviously be calibrated and socially aware, don't start rubbing her legs within half an hour of meeting her(EVEN THOUGH it's not completely off the table and under the right circumstances it's most certainly viable). Point being that with some girls you may need a couple dates and with others you're already inside her within a couple …
/r/seduction24/12/18 02:27 PM
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If you always been a chode then continuing in the same comfortable way will lead people to react to you in the same way Well yeah obviously. That's the whole point. until a certain point when he/she becomes aware of the this social ostracizing and makes steps to change, because he/she isn’t comfortable with being a chode anymore. The problem with this is that the majority isn't going to change. They say fuck it and resign themselves to lives of mediocrity. If finding personal development and all…
/r/seduction24/12/18 02:21 PM
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Good read but there are some serious caveats one should take with this sort of information. If you're getting into something that is scary and you've never done before then your brain will not necessarily be on your side. What feels natural to a porn addicted, cheeto munching gamer is not good. You'll go "what the fuck are you doing. Just go home and jerk off." There will be a lot of mental blockades for you to get through and these blockades will tell you that it's not right or that it's not wh…
/r/seduction24/12/18 01:48 PM
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You sly bastard you
/r/seduction23/12/18 05:19 PM
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I'm far from experienced but I'd say I have this part of my inner game on lockdown. They're just people. They're not men. They're most certainly different from men. But they are people. They have dreams, aspirations and passions. They have crippling fears and insecurities. Some are sweethearts and some are absolute thundercunts. If you've ever had sex then you know they absolutely love it. As they should. Sex is fucking awesome. Treat them like people. They are not goddesses but neither are they…
/r/seduction23/12/18 05:02 PM
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I have no clue but I hear that Brazil is dirt easy to get laid in. When your women are so open and so ready to flaunt their blessed assets, I think you should have an easier in. Dançarina de funk cara 🤣 Seriously though you live in the paradise of spice.
/r/seduction23/12/18 02:29 PM
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Just like any victim mentality, it's an excuse. And race is easy as fuck to use because it completely removes all agency out of your hands. You can't change your race so it's an easy way to accept defeat. Things you can't change are the easiest to use as excuses and are the most effective. Plenty of blacks and indians complain as well. But in every race you see attractive men and unattractive ones. Same with women. Because it's universal. There are attractive and unattractive people and it doesn…
/r/seduction23/12/18 02:26 PM
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Yeah, your hubby is the guy that gets off on the idea of his wife getting slammed by other men and I am the strange and little one. Top fuckin' kek.
/r/seduction23/12/18 02:15 PM
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Hold on let me throw up. Ok done. If he's shy you make it obvious. I may not be shy but I'll answer the question regardless. I'd run. I'd run towards your house and I'd castrate your cuck ass sack of shit husband. Whatta pathetic excuse for a "man". Genocidethecucks
/r/seduction23/12/18 10:53 AM
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Stop touching yourself.
/r/seduction23/12/18 10:38 AM
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Don't be so hard on him. He's been here for years and he keeps saying the same shit. Nothing is ever convincing enough. He wants people to PROVE he can get something done.
/r/seduction23/12/18 10:33 AM
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i had this epiphany put itself together more and more as this week progressed, and really opened my eyes. i feel the same way. it's like something changed in the air, and i was able to snap out of this haze i've been caught in since i was too young to conciously understand it. Dude this is very good. A lot of people will never snap out of the haze. They will always believe it's all good and fun and absolutely harmless. if porn was as available to me as a twelve year old as it is now, i would be …
/r/seduction22/12/18 01:17 AM
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Absolutely. I see a lot of people complaining about the 20/80 dynamic when it comes to sex, for example, and it's baffling to me that instead of picking themselves up by the bootstraps, grabbing their balls and go off into the harsh world to become better, they just choose to whine instead. The world isn't going to fold for you. It's worked that way since we existed so I'm not gonna be this whiny loser like the SJW types that want to break everything that exists because life is hard. Boo fuckin'…
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:54 AM
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JUST MAYBE Fuck that. There is no maybe. You've perfectly described everything that's wrong with modern society. That's why foreigners that come from shitholes don't have a whole lot of problems with women. They get ass because I mean... what, are they going to be afraid of women? When they come from a place that usually places women under men? Not to mention shit like bombs exploding outside their windows, genocide, rampant crime and all kinds of other colorful nonsense such as slavery that's s…
/r/seduction22/12/18 12:38 AM
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What? Your dick? No. No way. Seriously?
/r/seduction21/12/18 09:52 PM
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Tinder does not develop your balls as much as cold approach does. Nor are the hottest girls even on Tinder. Nor are the best girls. Don't be a pussy.
/r/seduction21/12/18 08:29 PM
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The eyes are the window to the soul, motherfucker. You are packing a good set of teeth though.
/r/seduction21/12/18 08:28 PM
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Easier said than done. Much easier.
/r/seduction21/12/18 06:02 PM
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As simple as this is, it's completely right. The way you look at life, women and yourself will directly determine what you do and how you feel. If you think you could never get laid then well... guess what, you won't. People think they can walk into this, fully believing it's bullshit and come out the other way with mad results and success. And there is one thing every man can do, as long as he is not a cripple, and that's get fit. There is literally NO reason not to do it. There is no rejection…
/r/seduction21/12/18 03:08 PM
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How much time did you spend in the mall?
/r/seduction21/12/18 02:53 PM
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I don't even care what you wrote in the post. The title gives me all I need to know. Get out. Jump off that ship because that bitch is sinking. And you ain't gonna gain anything from going down with it. Not all is lost. With her it is. But you're here, motherfucker. You got a ton of work to do. Do not be a pathetic little cuck that forgives people for every slight they commit against you. Be stronger. You wanna be a man? Well you're in the right place. Fuck her, she's not worth the trouble. Trus…
/r/seduction21/12/18 11:04 AM
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Wow you're such a huge underdog. I mean how do you even live with yourself being such a MASSIVE and DISGUSTING loser. Making out with girls, getting your dick sucked, absolutely pathetic. I don't think I've ever been so disgusted with another human being. Just hang yourself, bro. End your torment. If you're so lowly that you're hooking up with hot girls, I mean what's the point of living such a pathetic and worthless existence?
/r/seduction20/12/18 10:26 PM
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Whoa brah, my lay count may be 1 but that is still greater than 0. I don't really have any questions cause what could you, or any other dude for that matter, say to me that'd just turn my life around. I know what I have to do to get my life in order. I just can't though.
/r/seduction20/12/18 10:21 PM
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Hot damn. Well I know one thing for certain. I hate the fact we're the same age.
/r/seduction20/12/18 07:56 PM
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thotaudit
/r/seduction20/12/18 05:08 PM
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Oh come on. Don't reply again. You're like a penguin trying to fly.
/r/seduction20/12/18 04:12 PM
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Well, it is negative for the guy, not for her and definitely not for me. This reeks of sociopathic tendencies. We do agree on this point, and I want to point out the fact that I am not responsible for her to make better decisions. Woman are capable of making their own decisions, if you like it or not, it is her responsibility. Wow women are people that can make their own decisions? What kind of fucktarded argument is this? You may not be responsible for it but in what world is helping someone do…
/r/seduction20/12/18 04:11 PM
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Really? That's all you got? Come on, dude. If you live a certain way you gotta be able to justify it. And if your stance is so thin and frail that you cannot come up with anything substantial then maybe that stance isn't one worth having. Or maybe you could just admit that your stance is not a good one. You're being childish. Just accept responsibility for the fact that you're facilitating a morally wrong action. It doesn't matter if you don't cheat or that cheating is a decision made by the oth…
/r/seduction20/12/18 03:41 PM
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but he may (or may not) be aware that he's fucking a cheater. Let's just remove the may not. I am obviously speaking in the scenario where you do indeed know. In either case, I don't see it as his duty to be the faithful party. He owes nothing to the other people's relationship. Being faithful falls solely on the two people in the relationship. The people who made a commitment, or exchanged vows are the ones who can break them. That's morally bankrupt. You cannot say that fucking another dude's …
/r/seduction20/12/18 02:51 PM
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I do not cheat on my wife, but I do have sex with other women. It's up to us to decide what's cheating and what isn't. You can call me greedy, but you cannot just use that kind of argument to suggest a person is flawed, simply because it doesn't fit your idea of what relationships should be. We're talking about CHEATING. Cheating means that your partner doesn't know and your relationship is assumed to be monogamous. What you describe isn't cheating. I thought this would be obvious. We're not tal…
/r/seduction20/12/18 02:25 PM
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Yes Aeon, I see the moral bankruptcy and the mental gymnastics to justify it. It's not shocking to me.
/r/seduction20/12/18 01:53 PM
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You're indulging something negative. I mean come on, what kind of logic is this? Yeah it's her decision and that decision is bad. Are you gonna try to argue that cheating isn't bad? I mean good luck, buddy but you're not gonna be very successful at that. I welcome you to try. Of course you share part of the fault. You're taking part in it of your own volition. It's like saying that drug dealers have no fault for addicts and overdoses. Yeah the people made the choice of getting into it and they'r…
/r/seduction20/12/18 01:51 PM
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Someone will do it so it might as well be me. You can use this kind of logic to justify doing all kinds of shit. If a girl WILL get raped by someone, are you gonna go "Might as well be me"? Yes this is much worse but the logic used is the same. Someone will harm her so it might as well be you. You are justifying a morally dead action by saying that it's inevitable therefore you might as well get your fill. Cheating involves some heavy character flaws. First off it's being greedy. You want the co…
/r/seduction20/12/18 01:46 PM
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Pretty much. I don't see anything wrong with this. It's natural to want connection and intimacy but making it your sole priority in life is directly detrimental to your wellbeing AND your fucking success.
/r/seduction19/12/18 10:05 PM
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Personally, as a non pimp, I agree. On principle I find it a very shitty thing to do. Who fucking cares about her circumstances, if she's that miserable that she needs to get dick somewhere else then that's on her and it's a major character flaw on her part. I think it's mostly a matter of dudes getting their dick wet and making up the excuses for the women that are cheating on their SOs. It's not right. Sure he may not be the baddest of dudes but it's messed up to give him the finger. It's just…
/r/seduction19/12/18 10:00 PM
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People have a way of ending up fucking. It can be friends, coincidences or any kind of factor that's not entirely up to you. Since, by your own words, you don't have virgin written all over you. Sooner or later something may happen. My brother got approached by the woman who is now his wife. But, you may lose your virginity to some girl who made the moves. However it won't be up to you. You'll be stuck with whatever life throws at you and life doesn't throw much at people in the first place, men…
/r/seduction19/12/18 03:42 PM
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Hot damn dude, that's a spicy fuck up. As for me, I don't have a whole lot of XP, not recent anyway but there is some. The obvious is my one and only relationship starting to take priorities 1 to 100. Threw everything and everyone away for her. Sure she did some very effective emotional manipulation but I bought into it. School took a backseat to say the least. I had absolutely zero desire or motivation to do ANYTHING in school. I went but I might as well not be there. Tossed my BFF aside becaus…
/r/seduction19/12/18 03:32 PM
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Oh yeah living with your parents is always a negative. May depend on the girl and how much she's into you but it's still a negative. From a minor stab to a deal breaker. Just goes to show there's a massive road ahead of me and it'll be a long while before getting laid is viable. That's life. It'll be fun.
/r/seduction19/12/18 02:35 PM
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Dude a bed costs a lot of money around here. It's like 600+ euros. All my life I've slept on a bed that's shorter than I am. I mean I don't have a dog in this race at the moment. There's not much of a point of renovating my room when I live with my parents.
/r/seduction19/12/18 12:10 PM
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I can’t even tell you how hard this is for some guys to get. That's cause this is a laundry list of shit to do.
/r/seduction19/12/18 11:55 AM
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Bruh, there's no reason why people can't enjoy each other without marking it as a monogamous relationship. Just because a girl is awesome doesn't mean you have to salivate at the opportunity at making her your wife. That's what being a stud is all about. You can always find more awesome women.
/r/seduction18/12/18 09:19 PM
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Not that I'm one to talk but doesn't it seem like you're a puppy waiting for its owner? Just panting, looking at the front door? Sure looks like it to me.
/r/seduction18/12/18 07:03 PM
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Hot damn, that's a stress free solution. Hell even if you don't have a backup, just go home, take a shower, relax and pass the fuck out.
/r/seduction18/12/18 07:01 PM
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What the hell does playing hard to get in bed even consist of? Are you literally giving a guy mixed signals in bed? That's just terrible. Don't make us wonder whether making a move will end with our face on CNN.
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:44 PM
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I'm pretty sure there will be differences between states in the US. Same shit between countries in Europe. Same shit between cities, all the way down to individual people. As for Swedish girls? If you're white, cuckoldry probably.
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:39 PM
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Well think what you will but that's not what he said. It read to me like a bitter "These hos ain't worth shit". It's important to OP cause he ain't ever had any of that. Shitting on his drive and ambition is just being a cunt.
/r/seduction18/12/18 06:34 PM
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This is such atrocious advice. You're telling a guy that has no sex that sex is borderline pointless. What the fuck r/seduction. Why are we here? Why the fuck do we even bother then? Why should OP bother? Shut the fuck up. I'm 100% certain that OP does not have fuck women as priorities 1 to 100. And even if he did. What is the problem? If you want to be so nihilistic then everything gets you nothing in life. Nothing in life matters. You straight up sound bitter as fuck. Such an atrocious piece o…
/r/seduction18/12/18 01:24 PM
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You're right and wrong at the same time. Yes, "just be yourself" is not the best piece of advice because there is a lot of subtext and a lot of hidden meaning behind it. At its core it's very true though. Be yourself just really means that you stay true to yourself. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. Don't put on an act. But this gets easily twisted and mangled into excuses. "I'm just not a stud." or any kind of sentiment similar in nature. Be yourself is not carte blanche to be a loser. To…
/r/seduction18/12/18 01:18 PM
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Great post. I definitely buy this premise. It has too much basis in blunt force, ice cold logic to discard. One of the biggest problems with monogamy is that for most guys it's like the ultimate stage. There is nothing beyond that and thus there is no real drive to keep getting better. Playing the field is like being in the wild. It's free and there are no barriers. There is no one to compromise with. You choose your own path and how to follow it. When you settle down and start having kids, the …
/r/seduction18/12/18 01:09 PM
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Quit that porno, son. It's making your wiener weak.
/r/seduction17/12/18 08:38 PM
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Imagine you say something to someone and then they go cold on you? You'd think that what you said ticked them off in some way. Since shit tests are just tests to verify your big dick, swole balls status turning cold is a sign that what she said bothered you in some way. In other words, you failed the test. I have no clue how this applies to prostitution though.
/r/seduction17/12/18 05:44 PM
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You should chill mate. Why? You're here spewing mindless diatribes that are absolutely fucking RIDICULOUS. Jerking off to porn is better than sex? In what world? Not only is it unhealthy(Your brain on porn. Youtube it.) but it's just plain pathetic, dude. If by your definition I'm a loser Sexually? You are by anyone's(with a brain) definition a loser. I'm cool with that, it doesn't get to me. Are you? Why are you on here? Why are you open to people changing your mind if you really think that it'…
/r/seduction17/12/18 05:36 PM
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So you're playing stupid, eh? I mean why else would you use the word wrong if you know what it means?
/r/seduction17/12/18 04:28 PM
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Change your mind? Top kek. Fuck you. No one cares if you think it's not worth it. You think it's alright? Go ahead. No one cares. The fact that you're here is enough proof to tell that you know you're a loser who is too stuck with his excuses to do something about it. You know that what you're doing is subpar at best. That you're an inferior man. Not only because all you do is jerk off but because you're trying to say that busting nuts on yourself while you watch another dude slam a hot girl is …
/r/seduction17/12/18 02:14 PM
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God damn, sexy beast. Go get 'em motherfucker. You got this.
/r/seduction17/12/18 02:02 PM
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I can swear I've seen this kind of nonsense article before. You can't just claim shit and not explain it. Are there studies? Is there a plethora of anecdotal evidence? No. So let me have some fun and beat the shit out of this silly article. If you don’t have sex for a long time, your immune system becomes significantly weaker. Germs then have an easier job of spreading in your body and you can catch a cold or get the flu more easily. So, just by having more sex, you can help keep your herbal rem…
/r/seduction17/12/18 02:01 PM
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Yeah, I don't know what kind of woman OP is aiming for. I've never met a single girl without male friends.
/r/seduction17/12/18 01:40 PM
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That's not what a cuck is. If he got off on that idea or is literally sitting on the couch with his dick in his hand while the action is going on or he's in a committed relationship and she's banging these dudes all the same then you'd be right.
/r/seduction17/12/18 12:28 PM
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I think the attitude to have about it is that you should strive to look better and sexier but always remember that good looks won't ever trump attitude or confidence nor will it compensate for it.
/r/seduction17/12/18 12:21 PM
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however noble the attempt my cock could not deal with that abomination lol. I believe you. You have my sympathies, famski. No matter how thicc my dry spell gets I would never accept that type of L, nor would my dick. I always here of slayers of hot girls always fucking anything that moves Honestly I think that's just a manner of speech. These slayers are probably banging anything that has a pretty hole and the vessel that carries it is also pretty. I dont know how people dumpster dive consistent…
/r/seduction15/12/18 11:27 PM
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Why the fuck did you even have a date lined up? Did you think yourself a noble soul with a nobler cock? 100+ girls Why? Why did you try to jump in front of a train? Have you fallen on hard times? Come on, fam. You're better than this. Even if your lay count was 0 you'd still be better than that.
/r/seduction15/12/18 10:40 PM
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Just a hunch but you probably don't have enough success to offset the rejections.
/r/seduction15/12/18 10:33 PM
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I'm 22, I haven't fucked since I was 19. I haven't kissed a girl, I haven't even touched one. Trust me, you can chill out. If your circumstances don't permit you to start seriously working on acquiring the skills and the pussy to satisfy then you need to take a step back and relax on that front. What're you gonna do otherwise? Gnaw at your fingernails every time a girl shows up every other month?
/r/seduction15/12/18 10:07 PM
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Bruh Relax. Seriously. Fucking chill out, bruh. Don't take it so personally. One girl flaked, so what now? Every girl is gonna blow you off? Hell no. Also as you said, you don't have the room to meet girls on the regular. That is bad. It's so bad that you should probably find a way to make meeting girls regularly more of an option. Why? Because you're not going through a big enough sample size to keep yourself grounded and sane. If every girl you meet just needs to be converted to a bang, it'll …
/r/seduction15/12/18 09:53 PM
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It's not as hot anymore because the dudes that were in that scene have moved on for whatever reason. The guys that would be getting into it are instead jerking off to a plethora of all kinds of porn and playing all kinds of videogames. Technology is steadily ruining people. That's just my take on it but I do think it has a lot to do with it. Guys that are reaching their 20s have been growing up with an unhealthy amount and quality of porn.
/r/seduction15/12/18 09:46 PM
3

There are some very... peculiar threads around here sometimes. The ability to make everything sound normal, spontaneous and easygoing. Well this is strange. I thought calibration is all about reading the mood and saying things that are appropriate within the context. You make me hard as a rock, if it wasn't for all the people in here I'd rip your clothes off and fuck you brain out right here against the wall. Now I don't have a lick of experience but this sounds like what you say as you're finge…
/r/seduction15/12/18 01:27 PM
3

Ouch. Only being attractive to feminazis is your cue to inject some testosterone into yourself cause they are probably looking to put you into the cuckold box.
/r/seduction15/12/18 01:01 PM
1

I'm not an authority on the topic but I think this is a flawed approach to the matter at hand. There will be a lot of women that won't throw signals your way. I mean if you've been outside of your house enough you will know where most women and most people in general, are looking. Their phone. Also, throwing signals puts them in the line of fire and women sure as hell don't like being in it. Not only that but some dudes will only become attractive once they put themselves out there. Like a "Oh h…
/r/seduction15/12/18 12:59 PM
1

Why are you talking this shit to me? I'm all on board with her premise.
/r/seduction13/12/18 10:09 PM
10

Why'd you apologize? She was receptive and accepted your advance. Hell, you don't apologize even if she isn't receptive.
/r/seduction13/12/18 02:46 PM
2

The problem with your claim that all of it is nonsense is that there's no way to support it. The world is built on cold logic but let's try. Let's remove the following: Good looking. Successful. Popular. Confident. Charming. Rich. Leader. Ok so on what basis do you want a woman to bend over for you? Interesting? Kind? Here's the problem, we removed very significant qualities out of this man. All he has to hold onto is the nebulous notion of being interesting and having a good heart. But he's not…
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:50 PM
0

It's just that most people who are really smart don't go around telling everyone they are You know how silly it is to assume I walk through the streets swinging my intellectual dick in the air? I assure you, that is not something I throw in people's faces. You lot aren't even people. You're the void so it doesn't really matter what I tell you. The way it looks to me is people getting defensive over someone DARING to claim they're smart over the internet. So it starts looking like the accusations…
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:24 PM
0

To me this looks like basic issues of self confidence more so than jealousy. Seems like you feel like you're the bottom of the barrel. On the list of 50 dudes that dick this girl you feel like you barely made the cut at number 50. You're not as good looking, not as successful and not the best lover. Well... you can improve the first to a certain degree. While the other two? The sky's the limit. Assuming you're not dealing with a 3 incher or something like that you can be an awesome lover. Also, …
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:02 PM
1

How do you weaponize stoicism? I'm getting a lot of chuckles out of people getting triggered over me claiming an immense intellect. It's like you cannot claim anything good about yourself. I am a cunt though. A good cunt but a cunt. Better than whimpering in a corner over how horrible I am.
/r/seduction13/12/18 12:50 PM
9

I feel like this type of advice can get easily misused with the mantra of "I'm not ready yet". I believe there are several aspects of a dude's life that need to be at a certain level before trying to get his dick wet. They don't need to be 100%, not even close, but they do have to be handled. In other words you need to have your shit together. Job, social life, passions, mental health and good habits. Have a job, it doesn't really matter what it is. As long as it keeps you financially sustained.…
/r/seduction13/12/18 12:28 PM
6

That's why we gotta be tougher, man. The world we live in may be safe and pretty but it's still dog eat dog.
/r/seduction13/12/18 12:18 PM
22

Yeah it's one of the flaws of society. These girls get to act 20 years old with none of the responsibilities that come with it. It's a weird world, you gotta stay on your toes. Biologically speaking, men don't care about consent laws because these so called "Children" look like fully grown adults. But the reality is that you gotta keep it in your pants.
/r/seduction13/12/18 12:03 PM
1

I'll just leave you off with this then. If you want to show someone they are wrong or something is wrong with them or something is wrong about their argument. You have to explain what it is exactly and why it's wrong. All you have said is that my attitude is bad. You haven't explained what is bad about it or why it's bad in the first place. End of conversation. Not only did you lose this argument but you didn't even realize that you weren't trying. And if you were, I weep for your brainpower.
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:16 AM
0

Oh my dear lord. Sigh How many times do I have to ask you what you mean by that? What is it about my attitude? Come on, you can do it. What's wrong with my attitude? And don't reference this conversation because holy shit I feel like I'm talking to a toddler who can barely form a coherent thought so it's not like this convo would be a good way to condemn me and my oh so terrible attitude.
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:08 AM
0

Please stop I can only roll my eyes so hard. They have a breaking point for fuck's sake. Have some mercy upon my eyes as well as my brain by fucking off unless you have an actual point to make. I don't see it. So unless you're gonna care to take half a minute to write out a clarification, please stop wrapping rope around your neck, you're not a giraffe. There's no more room.
/r/seduction13/12/18 01:00 AM
2

Definitely a matter of phrasing. We definitely have things we DO that we do not like, are ashamed of and would not want other people to know. But I'd say there is sharp difference between things we are and things we do. There is a much clearer path toward ridding ourselves of bad habits than ridding ourselves of bad traits we may have.
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:32 PM
2

Well I did literally say they put themselves in that place. Honestly I think incels are beyond most concepts of responsibility, change, growth, whatever. I believe they're too far gone after a certain point.
/r/seduction12/12/18 10:13 PM
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The only thing wrong here is what it will do to demographics in the western world. Provided enough time, white people are going bye bye. But let's be real, no one cares about that. Western society as a whole is all for it for some reason. And you live in Canada. That's one of the most cucked out nations on the planet. I think you're good. No one in Canada is gonna dare tell you that it's wrong.
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:14 PM
0

Listen, famski. If you actually had advice and it was useful advice you would have no problem just quoting it because I just re-read it and I'm still not sure what you're talking about. Instead you keep saying how it's there but you make it so deliberate not to reference it. The only reason I'm giving you a taste of attitude is because right now I see no reason to respect you or take you seriously. Why? Because you started talking shit about how my attitude is bad but yet clarify nothing. I gave…
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:02 PM
2

Huh... interesting because I can't really come up with anything immense. A bit of a dick, a bit crazy and a bit weird but that's about it.
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:51 PM
1

One person answers and instead of look to where the advice can be applied Where is this fabled advice in your original reply? Quote it. Please, I'm dying to know what your advice is. it’s my fault for not being clear, not your fault Well considering I don't see any advice in your post. Yes. It is your fault. It’s my fault for not understanding, not your fault I certainly detest the argument of "You can't possibly understand" or something akin to that but it literally seems like you didn't unders…
/r/seduction12/12/18 08:40 PM
7

Man... I really pity incels. It's quite the shithole to put yourself in.
/r/seduction12/12/18 07:08 PM
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Why does every word in your post sound like you have a massive stick up your ass? Because goddamn it's hilarious to ask for some guidance and get some schmuck on his high horse spewing all kinds of silly nonsense. But let me beat your insipid post into the ground since I'm pretty good at it. Y'know, because I'm actually smart. That was not so brief. Seems like with all that free time you could have come up with a more concise way of saying all that. As an amateur writer, that's pretty brief to m…
/r/seduction12/12/18 07:03 PM
3

We're talking about basic logic and facts. This is a discussion. And facts must be brought to the table. The point of it isn't to go "See? Fuck you and your problems. Ours are bigger anyway." We all agree that men and women have a different experience, but saying that all women know their worth as a default, doesn't fly. Where did I say that all women know their worth by default? Quote me, fam. The whole idea of negging girls is based on the idea that some people are uncertain about themselves a…
/r/seduction12/12/18 11:31 AM
1

I have a hard time believing that since I have approached girls and it didn't go poorly. Getting some inviting glares and some blatant hints also works to support my side.
/r/seduction12/12/18 09:13 AM
1

No no no. No. Absolutely deal with it. Face your fears.
/r/seduction11/12/18 09:35 PM
9

The term "nice guy" isn't just a nice guy. It's usually a deceptive doormat that tries to sneak into a girl's panties when she steps on him, as a reward. He's nice so pussy is on the table. OBVIOUSLY. That's the thing, most people are not assholes therefore it's not special when you treat someone decently. It's not some kind of outstanding quality to have. It's a basic human trait of etiquette. It's like saying "I have a cock and balls. I'm entitled to the puss." Yeah well so do a couple billion…
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:45 PM
3

Pretty much. It's better than to just let that shit fester inside of you.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:40 PM
5

Hmmm well this post is nothing I haven't seen before but it did plant some curious images in my head. Truly, what IF I acted however I felt like? Not stifled by doubt or negativity. Would be nice.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:39 PM
1

I think it's fucking stupid and no different from any other form of AA or whatever. She's hot and that makes you uncomfortable because you're not very certain of yourself and your charm. Don't complicate an already shitty situation, dude.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:25 PM
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snore The fact that you think this is a game changer is astonishing. This is like the most basic shit you can tell someone. And knowing this is like 0.01% of the entire process.
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:22 PM
2

I do think that a lot of men get girlfriends because it's much scarier to play the field, dick swinging, than it is to land one and keep it. Like in sports. You score one goal and you fill your defensive area with every player on the team. You just have to hold the advantage. It ends in a less exciting game but a surefire victory. So yeah, I do agree. And I'm a dude on a fucking dry spell. Which is why setting any goal to get laid feels like a trip to fucking Mordor. Because I would never ever a…
/r/seduction11/12/18 07:20 PM
1

Yeah quite honestly, the most 'positive' thing you can learn to do if you are not "naturally successful" is to get comfortable with failure. This is the place people will naturally come when that is hard. Yeah I mean seriously I think people forget how tiny of a community this is. Barely over 300k people are subbed to this place. Pickup is not some mainstream and well established thing in society. I personally don't know of any other place where you can talk about this type of shit. Maybe the ne…
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:56 PM
1

This is about as much of a dick as I can be. Deal with it. Seriously. You have to. There's nothing people can do to fix your dead sex life. And it's not like you're alone in this. Tons of dudes are in the same boat. It's a huge boat and it feels lonely despite the fact that there's millions of people on it. I'm sitting right fucking here with you, brah. Every day where people go out, have fun, hook up and go wild? I'm alone on that day. And I'll once again only have my family to spend new years …
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:43 PM
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Unless it's reinforced by actual rules this will keep going. Why? Well because this journey involves a lot of unpleasant truths, picking at scabs that spray blood into your face and general pain and frustration. On one hand I understand people's pain but on the other I know for a fact there is nothing anyone on here will ever be able to do to help. That's the worst part about this journey. There is NOTHING to hold onto except for yourself. There is quite literally nothing to keep you grounded an…
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:36 PM
1

That requires a reddit wide ban by actual reddit mods. Local mods can ban singular accounts.
/r/seduction11/12/18 06:27 PM
1

Well, think of it like this: There are levels to having a sex life. Their quality is proportional to the effort you have to put in. LVL 1 would be jerking off. No women. Your sex life consists entirely of masturbation. It requires no effort. No risk. No challenge. No prevailing over yourself and your weaknesses. It's a mostly useless mechanic because let's be honest, it feels good for about 3 seconds. LVL 2 is settling for anything that comes your way. You settle down to fuck an ugly and unfit b…
/r/seduction10/12/18 03:22 PM
2

His ass. I'd wager even 10 is stretching it for the average man. Hell I'd even say 5 is a bit much.
/r/seduction10/12/18 12:30 PM
1

Stinks of dry pussy.
/r/seduction09/12/18 10:54 PM
1

By all means, I do suppose you're right. On monk mode, you need to use as much time and as much energy as you can. That's its purpose. To give you that little extra that is quite often, sorely missed. The ultimate rule is that if you're miserable, approaching girls is a waste of time. Not only will you often fail to approach but you will not be coming from a good place.
/r/seduction02/12/18 10:25 PM
2

Ehhh I'd bet incels nut plenty. Into socks or tissues but they most certainly are not a group I'd call monk like. In my experience going all monk mode never really helped me in the "man the fuck up" department. It just removed another excuse out of the book when I failed to man up. Nothing in this world will be so powerful that you'll just go and do it without a second thought. Honestly no matter how much or what you do, unless you've been actively approaching and socializing, you're still at sq…
/r/seduction02/12/18 10:00 PM
1

This is a double sided sword. Be careful because the sexual deprivation will gnaw at your sanity if you don't wield it properly.
/r/seduction02/12/18 09:44 PM
1

Depends. Like everything else. Everyone here probably speaks from their own perspective but they forget we're a very niche group of people. I mean there's little over 300k people on here, a sizable slice of which probably aren't even active here anymore. To most people, yes it's low value, weird and creepy. But that's how people look at the idea of it. In a noisy ass club I doubt people are really concerned or able to pinpoint you as a loner in da haus. If you spend the entire night just standin…
/r/seduction01/12/18 09:22 PM
1

You can also say the same thing with the alpha aggression. The message doesn't change. I really don't understand this complaint. Are my swear words bothering you? Do you need some tissues or a shoulder to cry on? I like to write things like these in a spirited manner otherwise it's a pretty dull and lifeless affair. Regardless, the tone of the post itself is a bit of a middle finger because there are tons of people that love to sit on the fence because the fence is safe and comfortably accommoda…
/r/seduction27/11/18 10:05 PM
1

I was appealing to the fact that being sexually deprived is not fun and is often full of missed and wasted opportunities. But I also threw in the caveat no one on this sub throws around. Which is "If you think you can handle sexual deprivation and become awesome. Go for it." And considering I'm not a virgin, making it my life goal to have sex would be stupid since I already had it.
/r/seduction27/11/18 04:02 PM
1

What part of my post gave you that impression?
/r/seduction27/11/18 03:10 PM
1

You reproduce after you do all the shit you can't do after you reproduce. If you start making babies before you did all the shit you want you're in for a bad time.
/r/seduction27/11/18 02:13 PM
10

Hit the gym. Hit some martial art. Seriously. At least get something under control. Not only is being buff mad awesome but it makes you feel better.
/r/seduction27/11/18 11:51 AM
5

Same reason I don't touch IG anymore. Social media and dating apps are a trojan horse inside your confidence.
/r/seduction27/11/18 11:50 AM
3

The biggest regret you’ll have is realizing you spent your whole life worrying/trying too hard to get some ass You'll regret far more being on a 10 year dry spell.
/r/seduction27/11/18 11:43 AM
1

Life has the meaning you assign to it. If you give it no meaning then it has no meaning.
/r/seduction27/11/18 11:39 AM
2

Joke's on you. I have no friends. Top kek
/r/seduction27/11/18 11:38 AM
3

Ok. And?
/r/seduction26/11/18 09:38 PM
3

... What?
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:59 PM
1

Top kek. Thanks but I'll stick to Carnifex. Has more of a kick.
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:57 PM
29

Well hot damn, famski. You got a good baseline of experience. Always remember that. Action with 60 to 80 girls by 20 is fan-fuckin-tastic. Therefore, whenever you're down in the dumps remember that you're a bad motherfucker that got more in 2 years than 90%+ of men get in their entirely lives. So surely you can keep going.
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:55 PM
6

Pretty sure the offense is bannable by reddit itself but I dunno. The shitfuck just keeps doing the same shit.
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:45 PM
3

Who cares if you're spinning 15 or 0 plates. If you're not successful with women then defining yourself with your lay count is emotional suicide. I don't even have to explain this, fam. If your sexual reality is barren and devoid of life then why the fuck would you put so much stock on it? Ok so from now on your barren sex life is irrelevant. You do NOT define yourself with sex. You gotta look at something else, bro. You gotta look at what's good. Not what's shit. Look at what is good in life, e…
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:38 PM
2

What the hell are you worried about? Wasting her time and energy? How is she wasting it? If you were to approach her, go on dates and when the cat is in the bag you go "Ok sweetheart your legs are open so there's nothing else to do. Seeya." Then sure. Like I already said, women feed on attention so you're doing her a favor really.
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:30 PM
2

Fuck people's feelings. I guarantee you that she does not care about your feelings because you're a stranger. You're a nobody to her. So why should you? Women feed on validation like vampires on blood. Hell we all like validation but women are the only ones programmed to feed on it because they get it all the time. Not all of them but considering the amount of dudes with no sex life out there, it's still a lot. When you see the look of disappointment or sadness in someone's face, especially some…
/r/seduction26/11/18 08:29 PM
1

See I think you have some solid bitterness yourself. You have a lot of weird ideas about social conditioning or something. Men don't tend to agree on who is the dime in the room. Just from experience we've always had different tastes. One's 4 is a dime to the other and shit like that. We always note when a girl has something that's eyecatching even if she's not a total babe. I seen time and time again guys disregard girls who are into them for girls who are only into themselves. Yeah well girls …
/r/seduction21/11/18 03:08 PM
1

I never said all women have awesome sex lives. I straight up said they have their own set of problems. What you mention are just common threads between the sexes. They're far from being the only factors at play. And besides, the average woman is leaps and bounds above and beyond the average man in terms of her sex life or romantic life. That's just a fact. Women don't need much. They just need to look good and not make a man's brain go into shock when she speaks. Meanwhile we're expected to be C…
/r/seduction21/11/18 01:57 AM
14

Yes, you can. Come on, bro. You're tougher than that. Not having tits in your face isn't the end of the world. And yes, there's the intimacy and affection side of it but you don't have the luxury to look at it like that. So it's tits in your face. At the end of the day, no matter how much you crave it, if you don't have it. You just gotta dumb it down and not put such a high value on it. Fuck it, so what, man. And hey I tell you this as a dude that's been on a 2+ year dry spell. I'll be celebrat…
/r/seduction20/11/18 05:05 PM
5

Like the homie u/Silent_E said. As men we're disposable. Why do you think we're the ones that go to war? It's fucked up but that's the reality. Women pick and choose. Sure they have their own set of problems and all that but this is our problem and it's fucked up. You gotta become someone that can't be easily dismissed and deleted. And listen, I don't know what you mean by i try to get away from dating for a while because of the pain it's caused me, and the universe finds a way to shit on me reg…
/r/seduction20/11/18 05:01 PM
1

Whatta bootleg article with equally bootleg content. I guess I should be worried though. My 2+ year dry spell should hit me any time now. I pity the virgins. Man they are under the watchful eye of death at all times.
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:48 PM
2

I come back to this sub and I see this. Goddamn, seddit you really let yourself go. Top kek though.
/r/seduction12/11/18 08:40 PM
1

The problem is that when people hear "be positive" they think rose tinted glasses that inject meth into your brain. You can be stupidly positive and be in borderline denial, I don't deny that. But you can look at something objectively. Like an approach for instance. You observe what happened, what you did wrong and what you did right. You jot it down in your brain and move on but with a positive outlook. One of experience and learning. Yet the main indication of the activity leading to the desir…
/r/seduction31/10/18 09:54 AM
1

You gotta relax, man. Go with the flow. Sounds like you were stuck in your head. Let things happen. You literally stopped yourself from it flowing. You had it in the bag.
/r/seduction27/10/18 08:49 AM
1

Yeah, that's completely fine. But then this post becomes flacid. You can't forsake butterfly hunting because no matter how great your garden is, they won't fly into your net.
/r/seduction27/10/18 08:48 AM
1

I don't understand people that argue this but then again I'm not you or even close in this realm of experience. If that is the case then what's the point of pursuing this? Why bother if sex is meaningless? Why escalate? Why go for the kiss? Why go for the touch? Why approach in the first place? In the name of intellectual pursuits? If so then you might as well cut it off as soon as you know you got this in the bag. You got your "fulfilment" because she's DTF. The F itself doesn't matter. If it's…
/r/seduction26/10/18 09:37 PM
-1

South America? Dude... their women are so fucking hot. Where's your goddamn erection? You can't let it control you from top to bottom but you cannot kill your goddamn dick.
/r/seduction26/10/18 09:21 PM
4

By all means, if that's your definition, I support you. I never argued in favor of one over the other. But the fact still remains. self confidence, independence, to go to college, to get a job, to stay healthy as best as you possibly can Why would this get you women? Tons of people go to college, have a job, have independence and some are healthy, fewer are truly confident. And those things are not an indicator of a fulfilling sex life as evidenced by tons of successful men being absolutely shit…
/r/seduction26/10/18 09:18 PM
1

I really wonder whether people understand that you can do both and both will benefit you. You still need butterfly catching skills even if they come to your garden. It also strongly depends on what you even mean by making your own garden. If your garden is being a famous athlete, ok that will make butterflies come to you. If your garden is being a famous fantasy writer, good fuckin' luck.
/r/seduction26/10/18 09:13 PM
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Butterflies aren't very hard to catch. You need the tools and the opportunity. Butterfly hunting also offers you a different set of skills to sharpen as opposed to gardening. If you're a proficient butterfly hunter you will always have that skill. If you need a garden to get your butterflies, you will be lesser in any situation where you don't have your garden.
/r/seduction26/10/18 10:19 AM
4

Great post and I think that the greatest point here is the last one. Forgive yourself. At least for me, because I don't really hold heavy grudges anymore. Never had that many to begin with. Forgiving yourself is the best thing you can do and if you were to choose between forgiving yourself and others, always pick yourself. Lots of people hate themselves for the shit they did. For the mistakes they made. And for the way they were and still are to this day. Forgiving your young naive self who made…
/r/seduction25/10/18 11:53 AM
1

Yeah like everyone lives in Cali, the capital of the most pretentious shit stains on the planet.
/r/seduction19/10/18 07:43 PM
1

Does it matter? If they're able to get them does it matter if it's online or in person? I'm saying that the quality of girls and the amount of girls is vastly greater in person than it is online. More variety and more quality. So yes it matters. Why should I care what they think? What purpose does it serve me. I just don't understand why I should care. You're missing the point, fam. Social proof doesn't come as a result of you pampering people and goading them into liking you. It's about being a…
/r/seduction19/10/18 07:41 PM
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Uh huh. Sure thing, buddy.
/r/seduction19/10/18 06:08 PM
1

Articles posted here always rub me the wrong way. They make it sound like having an amazing life is required to be good with girls. It's not but it sure as hell helps because an amazing life will outweigh girls so you can blast through it knowing you're awesome even if you get blown off. It becomes much easier to go "top kek your loss, honey". It's not I know guys that don't go out and still pull tinder girls. Yeah but let's be honest. Not only are tinder girls a mere fraction of the female popu…
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:55 PM
1

Be upfront about it. It's going to hurt and you're going to light her up if you get the chance. Unless she's a badass or boyish I don't see a paintball date going well. Why don't you get on the same team though? You could be partners in crime, lighting people up and getting lit up together. Still though she has to know that shit hurts.
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:41 PM
3

Not if you're kicking her ass and blasting her with some painful shots in the process.
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:38 PM
10

You need some serious social media game chops to make this a viable method which you can use on a consistent basis and get results. First you need your basic things like style and general appearance handled. Second you need a good baseline of social proof. People who you know irl who watch your stories, like your pictures and videos and all that stuff. As well as a social presence. Stories with you at clubs, festivals or just generally hanging out with people and stuff. This shows people like yo…
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:35 PM
1

The only thing that sucks is the work required to do those things. I don't understand this issue. Yeah you have to work to enjoy a lot of things because things tend to cost money. You could not go the extra mile and just go to things like porn or videogames. Does that sound better than travelling? It sure doesn't to me. Having those things has no way impacted my dating life. Why does that matter though? Is that why you're doing those things? You should enjoy the things you do because they're enj…
/r/seduction19/10/18 05:18 PM
1

So what exactly sucks here? Sounds like a good life.
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:57 PM
1

My logic now after looking at it, is if I fucked up and went about it the wrong way that's fine, but if she actually respects me she will reach out. This is fine. However why would you go to a venue you can't have fun in? When you box yourself in a situation where you can't enjoy the situation without a specific person. That's not a good thing. Why'd you even go there?
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:13 PM
1

I mean honestly with what I've been reading the pros mostly network when they go out. They don't crack bottles open, rip joints or get wild. Because you probably can't really do that sort of thing 5 or 6 nights a week.
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:11 PM
2

What're you doing, would be my question.
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:10 PM
1

No one said anything about partying or being a party animal.
/r/seduction19/10/18 02:37 PM
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I don't know why this is getting downvoted. I guess people really don't like the truth but this is what it is. The truth. You want to be great? You need to do great things. You wanna be the next Trump? Well what? You can't do that by being the average Joe because Trump is not an average Joe and he did not get where he got by being one. Average efforts create average results. Everything is in proportion in this world. And everything is a matter of choice. Yeah you may not be willing to do what OP…
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:47 AM
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I think you approached this from the wrong angle so now you're gonna take some advice from someone who shouldn't be giving it. Why didn't you just chill? You can wrench any "date" to your own benefit even if the person is late or doesn't even show up. Because at these locations there are other things to enjoy other than the girl that may or may not show up. A beach bar? Have some drinks, have a smoke, enjoy the view. Look at the sky, at the ocean, the sand or hell. Strike up a conversation with …
/r/seduction19/10/18 09:29 AM
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Sales? No thank you. I'd rather be a slave trader or a professional anti orphan hitman or whatever other field there is that's less annoying than a door to door salesman.
/r/seduction17/10/18 11:26 PM
1

No one really cares about what you wear at the gym. Don't be one of those dudes at the gym that wears a gold watch, street/sportswear, rings, perfume and all kinds of other shit when he works out. Just no. You'll look like an idiot. When I see those dudes my brow sinks so hard I can barely see.
/r/seduction17/10/18 11:15 PM
0

Half the time you're all about RP-like beliefs, as in any kind of sexual activity is a specific value exchange, a man's social status/money trading for a woman's looks/booty. Attractive women (or even modest/average women) can get any guy they want into bed, because of the perceived scarcity of their "good aesthetics" added to their extra selectivity (hypergamy.) Pretty sure I never said that. Average or even decent looking guys without money/status can't make a value exchange equal to "average …
/r/seduction17/10/18 09:09 AM
1

I mean, granted, that's a pretty reasonable approach. But similarly, what would the other person have to gain about making up those claims about how he is treated for being a virgin? To back up his statement. My claims don't back up my statement by layering on top of each other. They're just the truth. I'm not a virgin but you should chill the fuck out. He's a virgin and he says that virgins are pretty much jews in Nazi Germany. Yes that's hyperbole by the way. For you. But if you really think t…
/r/seduction16/10/18 10:05 PM
1

I mean, that may be correct in my case, it's not correct in many other cases but most importantly...what does this have to do with your original post? People haven't tried and they're claiming that women will blow them off? Do you not see the connection? Also what other cases? You're the only guy who answered my question of "Have you tried?" But your post offers no real advice on how to do that nor does it come from someone who can relate to our situation. Do you want advice on how to stop carin…
/r/seduction16/10/18 10:03 PM
1

Oh but it's evidence because you're claiming they are looking for answers. But what do I see? Explanations about how I don't fucking get it.
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:54 PM
3

It's hard to know exactly how many, it may not even be a majority, but a significant portion of people do care and do use sex as a metric of social worth. I won't argue with that. There are people that do use it as a metric of worth in general. But y'know there's also money, friends, popularity and all that. Why would sex be so much bigger? I know that is the topic of the conversation at hand but still. There are people that will use anything to devalue you. It's funny that you should mention an…
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:52 PM
2

Have you seen the replies on this thread? I suggest you take a read. Because that's not at all what their replies suggest. Think of it like slut shaming, if a girl was getting advice from you, they’d be reading this “stop feeling bad for being such a whore, just work on closing ur pussy you slut, just remind yourself to not be so slutty next time LUL.”. This is completely inaccurate and in no way a good analogue to what I've told people so far on here. Best way to help a dude get over their prob…
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:07 PM
2

Whoa. What. The. Hell. This is some interesting content for this subreddit. Did not see that coming.
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:02 PM
1

I'm glad you actually answered because it means you have to face an inconsistency in what you say. That's my point. A lot of guys haven't actually tried. And that's part of the reason they're even in the position they're in. Try, man. You know that applies to me as well. Y'know. The guy who isn't a virgin? My dry spell is only there because I was too much of a wimp to capitalize on opportunities that were there and too much of a wimp to try to create opportunities. Yeah sure we may fear the appr…
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:48 PM
1

Yes but the question you have to ask yourself is this: How does me lying support my argument? If I were to lie wouldn't I just go the full five yards and say I'm 28 and I was a virgin 2 years ago. And now I'm slaying it with the ladies? That would clearly work better and you would all have some sort of... I dunno. Symbol of hope that you're not doomed? The point is scale. Someone saying "People shut me up because I'm a virgin and I can't even talk about Trump" is a very ludicrous claim. If someo…
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:42 PM
1

Not to sound like those fucking leftist libtards, but this is the definition of it. You will unfortunately come dangerously close in what you say next. You think that men who are barely graduated from high school and fucking surrounded in thousands of dollars in debt are able to simply move out? That doesn't change anything though. You can still work for it. You're not stuck with no hope in life. People do crazy shit like move to LA with no money, working random jobs and living in ditches until …
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:37 PM
1

Relax, fam.
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:42 PM
1

I think you need to cool down. Relax. Have a beer. Or two. Or a six pack. Rest. I dunno you might have hit your head or something in your insipid rage. Cause what you're saying is pretty damn silly. And then you can come back to me with some kind of argument that doesn't involve calling me a nigger. Kudos though. I appreciate the lack of filter. Sincerely. By the way, go ahead and quote me calling someone a virgin to shut them up. You can do it tomorrow. Next week. Next month. Or a year from now…
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:35 PM
2

Exactly. You learn. You don't wallow in the frustration and pain. You use it to make yourself better. To go up a notch.
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:23 PM
1

Excuse me. What? How great I am? Also saying 'own' being a virgin is one of the stupidest things ive ever heard. Thats like saying 'own' being a sex offender. Top kek. Do I need to point out the stupidity of this point? You comparing a sex offender to a virgin. The point is that you shouldn't let it bring you down or be ashamed of it. It is what it is. Deal with it and crawl out of your hole. What? Do you have a counter to that? I assume what you mean is be one of those faggots who laughs when p…
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:22 PM
1

Except you have not bothered to refute anything. You defaulted to saying that what I say is stupid and not justify it. In other words. You have no argument or counter to what I say. You can talk all the shit you want but if you're coming into an argument swinging your dick around going tralala it's gonna be hard to look at anything you say as intelligent.
/r/seduction16/10/18 07:09 PM
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Give me your highly educated argument or you stand to look like an idiot. Because so far all of the people that have brought up their complaints have not had a solid counter to what I said. Most of the comment chains end with my words as final. And all you've been doing is talking shit.
/r/seduction16/10/18 06:54 PM
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A learning experience, fam. But take it to heart. And let me just chime in with this. You can now focus on one of two things. Your success with the 6 babes or your failure with "the one". What's my point? Focus on the success, motherfucker. You got those babes sucking on your face. Look at that and go "hmmm what went right here?" You already know what went wrong with the other one. So focus on the success. I seriously recommend against any kind of aggressive or too forward actions with the failu…
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:38 PM
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Because anecdotal evidence is by nature subjective. I don't believe him because that's not my experience with people. His claims are outlandish. And besides he can make shit up to support his claim. So why would I believe a claim that just sounds wrong to me? I've never ever met a person like that. It's like rape accusations. You don't just believe them. If people don't respect you and tell you to shut up on X issue. To me that means like there are some more glaring problems with you than just y…
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:33 PM
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I have no clue what you mean but you accused me of disregarding someone's experience and you do the same to me here. And what? Am I lying?
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:22 PM
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How about you point it out? Specifically, because I don't see what you're accusing me of.
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:09 PM
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Syrus how much experience do you have? How many women have blown you off for being a virgin? Because I have all these virgins trying to prove their victim status. So go ahead. Prove it. I wanna know. How many times have you tried?
/r/seduction16/10/18 05:00 PM
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Oh please princess. Did I hurt your precious fifis? Give me a break. I didn't even fuckin' try. It was so fuckin' easy. None of my post was meant to be malicious or offensive to you. But your panties still bunched up. People like you and all the virgins in this post need to grow a fucking pair. I have literally no more interest in being compassionate to you people. You need a boot up the anus. A literal one. Because you will keep wallowing in your own misery and soft hearts that pop when they to…
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:48 PM
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It's clear, it packs a punch and it's to the point. If I want to tell you you're very very stupid. Retard will always be my go to. Always Along with faggot and cunt. I quite enjoy them because I quite enjoy profanity. You don't have to like it. You don't have to respect it. But that's how it is.
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:38 PM
0

First off, do you think you need to announce it to everyone? Second, do you really think there is no woman out there that would be compassionate and understanding? And as an addition. When dudes with 100s of lays get asked "how many girls have you boned?" they don't literally say 100s. Not usually anyway and not 100% seriously. Dude I just don't get it. Do you all walk around with big neon signs that say 'virgin' grafted to your foreheads? Fucking hell it's not that complicated. If you get a gir…
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:36 PM
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Yeah I only hit on the dude angle because this is a sub with mostly dudes. And I'm a dude so I can more easily empathize with a dude. And I'm more willing to help dudes. But the thing is that there is a big difference here. Virginity for a woman is an actual physical thing. Unlike how it is for dudes. There's also different societal conditions and expectations and that's normal. Honestly though... you sort of are a prize. You gotta accept the fact that you're pretty rare. Far more rare than dude…
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:27 PM
0

Why?
/r/seduction16/10/18 04:08 PM
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I'll take an invite too. OP is gonna have 20 buses full of dudes by the time the trip starts.
/r/seduction16/10/18 03:12 PM
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Wha?
/r/seduction16/10/18 03:10 PM
0

You're a retard.
/r/seduction16/10/18 02:55 PM
2

On one hand, I suspect that most virgins are virgins simply because they haven't actually bothered to try and get a girl while playing to win i.e. not giving up after, like, one not-so-good moment, but on the other hand, I heavily doubt that most virgin anxiety is caused by society. I agree. The human sex drive is an insanely powerful thing and not having it satisfied can effectively drive a man semi-insane, so, yeah. True but come on, you gotta adapt. You can't let your dick drive you insane. A…
/r/seduction16/10/18 02:54 PM
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So?
/r/seduction16/10/18 02:03 PM
2

Cause I don't care about starving anyone that's not me or those close to me. Your sarcasm does merit this sort of response.
/r/seduction16/10/18 02:02 PM
1

Wait for it if she's not legal where you live. Hold on to the boner and dangle it in front of her as a nice treat and reward for leveling up. Not literally by the way.
/r/seduction16/10/18 11:51 AM
5

Embrace the silence of your empty room and embrace the screaming, cackling demons inside your head. We all have them. And before you can be free you need to accept your inner turmoil. You need to embrace the truth of yourself. Of who you are and what you want out of this life. I know this sounds very meta but it's true. The best way to take on your fears is by embracing them. Life is a tough journey, friend. We're not made of stone. We cry, we long, we suffer and we despair. In that sense we're …
/r/seduction16/10/18 11:49 AM
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Come on, dude. There are always things you can do even with limitations. By this point we all know you're autistic. It's a handicap, yes of course it is but you gotta start moving. You will not get any younger, man. That's the thing you gotta realize. Life will keep moving and you gotta fight no matter what. I remember watching some episodes of a show called "The Undateables". It's about dudes with disabilities who get set up with women and try their luck. And this is legit disabilities. There w…
/r/seduction16/10/18 11:26 AM
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The privilege of having had sex. I also have the privilege of having friends. I don't have them anymore and knowing that I used to doesn't really do much. Same goes for sex. Makes no difference to me. Getting laid in high school doesn't mean much. I didn't bang the girl I wanted. Sure my ex is hot but... she was also immature and inexperienced just like me. There's not much merit to it. The privilege of knowing that you aren't inherently and universally undesirable. I have that privilege because…
/r/seduction16/10/18 10:11 AM
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Ultimately the point is: You gotta invest. If you put everything before girls then yeah of course you'll fall short. Not much to argue with here. It just comes down to how much you want to invest in pussy. You reap what you sow. If you don't sow anything you won't get anything. And yeah I do suppose I don't want to invest anything at all so whatever.
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:29 AM
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I dunno why this is getting downvoted this shitpost gave me a chuckle.
/r/seduction16/10/18 09:00 AM
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These dudes think their virginity is what defines them. You're an engineer making 6 figures a year? Nah. You're just a virgin. That's literally their logic. And there's no reddit post that can help them. I want to beat the ever loving shit out of them but y'know. Whatever. I tried but I guess I underestimated how retarded these dudes are.
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:57 AM
1

Exactly. And there's a lot of idiots in here that don't seem to understand that.
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:56 AM
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How? People like fun people. Girls like good looking dudes. Do you think Ryan Reynolds would be shunned as a fucking pathetic loser if he were a virgin? Fuck no. Girls are gonna go "I gotta rectify that". He's good looking and he's charismatic.
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:55 AM
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This. I encounter it all the time and it annoys me so much. It's utterly arrogant and condescending and in any other situation, the person doing it would be told off. "Yes, I know how it feels to be starving. I had to skip lunch that one busy day at work!" You people completely fucking missed my point. I want you to quantify what the advantage is. I sort of know where the hole is. That's it. You give me those sweet privileges. Goddamn this is like arguing with Social Justice Warriors all over ag…
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:53 AM
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If you really believe it. Probably. If it's just an excuse then no.
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:47 AM
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If I tell someone that I'm a 23 year-old virgin, this is loaded to the brim with numerous implications. Who cares? If you let people tell you that you're a virgin because you're a piece of shit you're validating their bullshit. It also depends. Like... seriously. It's how you act and how you say it. Y'know watching anime to the average person is also pretty fuckin weird. But if you're a good dude who takes care of himself and you say it without a care. People will not be so inclined to point fin…
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:46 AM
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Sounds like a whole lot of excuses. Sorry Op, I’m using your own advice against you and just biting the bullet and saying it straight to your face. Well where's your face then? What bullet are you even biting? I don't care if you have something potentially mean to say. Yeah, and virgins have gone without sex for literally their whole motherfucking life yeah? Ok. That's self explanatory. But look at it from a different perspective. I got a taste of that sweet sweet puss and it hasn't happened sin…
/r/seduction16/10/18 08:32 AM
1

If they were any kind of decent mates they would be like oh shit we need get this guy laid. That sounds like some beautiful bro stuff but it's pretty damn unrealistic. At least I think.
/r/seduction15/10/18 09:42 PM
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Man... people have some exotic problems. I don't know what to tell you because everything to me just looks like a shiny coin. Ooooh what's that lemme check that out. Honestly I think you should absolutely look inwards. If girls are dull to you then girls are not the solution. This seems kinda weird, maybe you jack off too much? Too much porn? Try to cut them out entirely and maybe you'll get a spark in your eye and dick. Worth a try definitely. I've felt like life was dull when I was going gung …
/r/seduction15/10/18 09:39 PM
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I mean I get the sentiment. Pursue your dreams and whatnot but if your dreams aren't the type where success leads to cocktail parties with dimes walking around in tight dresses that barely cover their ass cheeks. Not everyone wants to be a musician or some kind of exec that snorts cocaine off an 50000$/hour escort's ass. I just don't see how that would apply to most guys. Unless you're really good at networking and can create some kind of rolling thunder of party people. Which again, is for spec…
/r/seduction15/10/18 09:31 PM
6

What you describe sounds like a helluva lot more effort.
/r/seduction15/10/18 04:06 PM
7

Oh no. A boner. Women hate those.
/r/seduction15/10/18 03:54 PM
2

People won't like what I have to say and you honestly should probably not even listen to me but I will say it anyway. Step the fuck back. As far as you have to. It's never a good sign when you find a girl that rattles your reality. This one has clearly made some waves in your state of mind. That's fine, we're all human but that's not a good thing. The problem is that her existence has compromised you as a man. You'd probably agree you're not as much of a brick wall when it comes to her. You're s…
/r/seduction15/10/18 03:46 PM
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Here's an addition to what u/NedsBastard1 said. Have some awareness of your resting face and if it changes, awareness of your eye contact face. Eye contact is an intense thing. It has the power to create sexual tension and the power to create a violent confrontation. What matters is how much, how direct, how intense and what face you're wearing while doing it. So with girls a smile is definitely a good way to break the tension. This may be hard and since you're asking this question it probably i…
/r/seduction15/10/18 03:22 PM
1

Well good luck with changing society, fam. That's a thicc fuckin' goal.
/r/seduction15/10/18 03:08 PM
0

I must have spent all of 2 or 3 minutes on that sub in my entire life. But yeah not handing out respect like it's candy is totally something an incel would do.
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:46 AM
1

Well we're not going to agree on this clearly.
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:45 AM
1

What cuck downvoted this?
/r/seduction10/10/18 06:13 PM
1

Let's put it into perspective then. Why does it matter? There are girls that will give you shit for approaching them. Does that mean you shouldn't approach? I think the point is that you need to take your chances even if circumstance isn't in your favor. It's not "chase girls barefoot". You're not there to hurt her in the first place so why does her opinion even matter? What I mean by this is take the following scenario: You see a girl pass by and take some time to muster your courage. Or you se…
/r/seduction10/10/18 06:13 PM
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This reads like some mental gymnastics type shit honestly. Of course I don't respect her. I don't know her. Her vagina and titties don't really give me a whole lot of reason to respect her. Respect is earned.
/r/seduction10/10/18 05:15 PM
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The dictionary says aggressive pressure or intimidation as the definition of harassment. It has literally nothing to do with what is discussed here. If you don't hurt her then why is it wrong that he chased after her barefoot? You can say it's desperate or needy. Sure whatever. But that's not harassment. Do you think he's chasing her as in, she's running away from him?
/r/seduction10/10/18 05:14 PM
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Give them an example or a genre. The thing is that if you want to make it play in your favor. You have to frame it in a way that makes it relatable. Take out an element out of a game you like and talk about that. Like Subnautica and how it plays on your fear of the ocean and its depths. An RPG that lets you explore a vast and different world. The most descriptive that most girls will probably understand very quickly is the horror genre. Don't say I like CS GO because I can rush B with my russian…
/r/seduction09/10/18 07:17 PM
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Listen, man. We've all made mistakes we regret. Everyone. Sure some have made bigger ones but what're you gonna do? Your only option is to take an inventory of those mistakes and find the ways you can avoid making them. I've never had the Uni life and I probably never will cause I don't wanna leech of my folks or risk our family falling into a shitty financial situation. Am I getting laid? Nope. Haven't had sex in 2+ years. And considering how much I fucked my life for my ex's pussy, I'm in no r…
/r/seduction09/10/18 04:09 PM
1

I'm assuming you're talking about nights out exclusively so the answer is a clear cut yes. It's better to be the guy that has fun with his friends and interacts with everyone rather than the dude who's salivating and chasing all the booty in the venue. When it comes to life the answer is much more nuanced but that's not what we're talking about here.
/r/seduction06/10/18 11:46 AM
1

You don't need to make a sensationalist thread with blanket statements like this in order to help dudes. I know there's plenty of dudes that use their looks as an excuse but it's still a lie to tell them that looks don't matter. At the end of the day what you should be saying is that what you were born with is what you gotta deal with. Play the cards you're dealt instead of not playing at all. While at the same time working on all the things you can in fact change. Fitness, fashion, hygiene, pos…
/r/seduction06/10/18 11:30 AM
2

Wha? The way I read it, it sounded like you called her ugly. The other girl is so ugly it makes this one look pretty. Personally yeah you can say that imo. But I'm a dickhead so...
/r/seduction06/10/18 10:32 AM
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It's a safe and effective way of knowing you're worth a damn. "My friend likes him so what's so special about him?" It's curiosity and confirmation that you're potentially some good stuff. As for flirting I don't know but as long it's in a fun light that example shows you're not going to bend to her. And everyone else knows that. Plus it's risqué. "no you can't say that" and then she proceeds to giggle sort of thing.
/r/seduction05/10/18 11:06 PM
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You can break this shit down all you want. But when it happens you will not have ANY time to break it down and determine whether she's polite, attracted, mocking you or whatever else. You ever smiled without knowing why? Or a random thought pops up into your head and you let out a chuckle? You can't know what the hell is in her head and I will die on my hill saying that all these retarded statements that go "oh she's looking down, that's a sign of submission brah" are absolute horse shit. So sto…
/r/seduction05/10/18 05:01 PM
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So you're saying Ryan Reynolds and Jonah Hill are on the same level as long as they have equal game? I'm not necessarily saying that what you are saying is 100% wrong but your blanket statement that looks don't matter is in fact 100% wrong. Yes, by all means. Game is absolutely the thing that will get you laid. Because if you're not socializing and doing all that jazz then... I mean what the fuck this is obvious. But looks are still a factor. Just like everything else about you. Because certain …
/r/seduction05/10/18 04:57 PM
3

While we're at it, he also probably didn't say "though".
/r/seduction05/10/18 04:15 PM
1

This comment chain took an interesting turn.
/r/seduction04/10/18 09:53 PM
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It's not about being spontaneous. It's about being consistent and not letting outside sources rattle your consistency. If you jump at every opportunity you get and drop what you're doing then that's going to be a very ridiculous existence. Not to mention how pathetic it is. If the gym or something else is actively holding you back because you don't have time you just have to think and make the decision as to whether you want to focus on one thing or another. But regardless you need to stay consi…
/r/seduction04/10/18 03:11 PM
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Yeah this is a golden comment. Never cancel or skip anything for a girl. She may be a 20/10 but you still keep your life in check. You don't bend it for a woman.
/r/seduction04/10/18 03:08 PM
2

So? Most men won't even get remotely close to 20 women let alone more than that. Hell. Most won't even get to 10 or 5. My dad married my mom when he was like what, 20? My half brother got married to his girlfriend after having had 1 beforehand. He's nearing his mid 30s and my dad is in his mid 40s. It's sad but remember that most don't know about all this PUA shit. The grand majority doesn't. The majority of young dudes will use Porn and masturbation as a baseline for their sex life and then if …
/r/seduction27/09/18 11:46 AM
6

I've slept with 1 and I'm 21. Your notch count is high. Also I like "only 85 girls". Very funny. Honestly I think you're just here to brag since this question gets dumber and dumber the more I read it.
/r/seduction27/09/18 11:19 AM
1

I don't usually watch videos like these but this was pretty good. It's immensely important to get your shit together and whenever I see dudes with terrible self esteem and a myriad of problems that are glaringly obvious all I can think is "Why are you thinking about women? You're fucked up, fam. Fix yourself." This is really important and more guys should take a step back, neglect their penis for some time so they can actually build a baseline that isn't broken glass.
/r/seduction26/09/18 12:01 PM
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Uh huh, so all your posts are you asking about how to stop being a piece of shit. You've posted the same questions to various subreddits where I assume you've gotten some comprehensive answers. But most importantly I remember because I gave your bitch ass some fucking advice. Advice that fell on deaf ears. Move along folks, nothing to see here. Just an attention whoring bitch who doesn't actually want to do anything or just a troll and a spammer. Here's a demonstration of what I mean
/r/seduction23/09/18 11:53 PM
1

Unless you have his dastardly mustache, that line won't cut it.
/r/seduction23/09/18 02:04 PM
2

I haven't really seen what you describe. Sure people have their own stances but I wouldn't say daygame is king on here. It can be a variety of reasons. Some people just don't like bars or clubs. Some people may be stronger at daygame so they prefer that. Some people may have grown out of it and prefer a more in depth connection. Some people may like the extra challenge attached because girls in daygame are not out to party. Regardless, night game has some things attached to it. Generally lame mu…
/r/seduction23/09/18 02:03 PM
2

Don't put it in. I know you wanna. We're men. We wanna bang and that's ok. But dick + crazy or emotionally fragile equals to some bad shit, bro. Always. You'll regret it. You'll get tied down to a person that will be desperate to keep you, she'll try to make you push friends and girls away and she'll try to make your life all about her. Often with simple gestures that aren't even necessarily deliberate. That's just how the person acts due to their mental state. As a side-note you said you want a…
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:50 PM
2

Hector sure is a colorful dude. I remember a post about how you should actively check girls out while talking to them, blatantly compliment their tits and ass, and if that were not enough start feeling them up within minutes of meeting them. He also seems to believe that cheating on a girlfriend is always the way to go and your girl will respect you for having side hos. Advice that... well how should I put it. Won't work in most cases for most men. Won't work is a very cute euphemism too.
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:35 PM
1

There's a dirt easy work around it. Whenever I'd hit the limit you just look at an article you wanna read next and google it. Pops right up and you can read it no problem. Some people said clearing the cookies did the magic as well.
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:33 PM
1

Dudes should really be careful with that shit. Fine you get chlamydia and get it treated right away. What if that pussy is just so sweet you lose your head and bust inside. You're fucked out of luck, bro. Train to be a monk like pull out master that will lose his mind for no pussy if you wanna bang without condoms.
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:30 PM
3

You can't go down south if she has herpes, right? Deal breaker, fam.
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:26 PM
1

Good to know, bro. I hope you keep your ass in line and get what you want in this life. It's all for you, after all. Stay strong. 💪
/r/seduction23/09/18 01:24 PM
10

You answered your own question. Group N1 is just lying. It's not all about game. If you're not as good looking you're at an objective disadvantage. I mean just think about it. Look at us, men. We want pretty girls with fit bodies, big tits and nice asses. Those things are a sign of good genes to our reptile brain. A reptile brain that girls have as well. Why would girls be any different? If you think a girl feels the same about a beergut as she feels about a six pack you're an idiot. Just think …
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:50 AM
6

You're overthinking it. Look around you. You're in college fam and college has a large social component. Grab like minded guy friends and go have some fun. Hit the gym together, go party, play videogames together, challenge each other to approach girls. A bond between men is not something you can get from a woman. There is no bro like a bro. Don't use them as a crutch. Treat them like friends and friends do things together. Loosen up. Relax. College aged people wanna fuck like rabbits and girls …
/r/seduction22/09/18 11:09 AM
13

Well the problem here isn't how others perceive you. It's how you perceive yourself. It'll be much easier for you to get anything in life if you feel awesome about yourself. The opposite is somehow even truer. Build a foundation of good habits first. Keep it simple. Don't overthink things. And focus on yourself. I really get tired of being a broken record but I suppose I gotta. This sort of thing requires a lot of work but these are the things that have helped me thus far on my journey to make m…
/r/seduction22/09/18 10:54 AM
7

I gotta say this is some corny shit. But some girls like that kind of stuff. As long as you're on the same page and are both into each other. You better make her feel warm inside in a more literal sense. ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/seduction22/09/18 09:50 AM
1

Oh dude... man please. Just no.
/r/seduction20/09/18 11:30 PM
1

I want to preface this by saying that you have effectively thrown a wrench in the cogs screeching in my brain. So you'll essentially see a shift in mindset as you read this. So if psychology interests you, you'll see me break essentially as this post goes on. Do you not see strength in being able to live a happy life without those things? I mean there's plenty of things out there in this life and while other people, I will admit fully, are great. I still don't think it's a necessity. I've learne…
/r/seduction20/09/18 04:41 PM
1

This is all great and interesting but I have a question. I don't think that women are worth the effort they require. Is this an excuse as well? Where do you draw the line for what is considered an excuse? Is anything we say an excuse when it deters us from getting a basic human need we all have? Because let's be legit, we all have it. Even if you're a porn addicted masturbation fiend, there is still some part of you that wants actual sex and intimacy. And yes the people that deny it are lying to…
/r/seduction20/09/18 02:50 PM
2

My brain cuts out and I don't think of the methods to help me approach. I mean it has to be a mental thing that does this to me and I want to change it. Don't worry. It's happened to all of us who have ever tried. I quit but I remember getting pumped up, full of realization and confidence only for all that to get blown away in a fraction of a second. All you can do is push through it. To give you a better idea. Think of a cold shower or bath. You sure as shit don't want to do it but you just swi…
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:35 PM
3

Conditioning is created by repeated experiences and events that all follow a certain trend. In order to break down a piece of conditioning you need to create experiences and events that directly contradict it. Say you're afraid of women & think they won't dig you but you push through it and find that not only are they not really scary but some of them actually do dig you. Provided you're an average dude, this shouldn't be even close to impossible as long as you're consistent and put the work in.…
/r/seduction20/09/18 12:04 PM
1

Well OP I think you already know what I would say. You already got enough of it. So I'll just sit here and quietly chuckle at your post. But hey at least you tried. It was an abysmal attempt but it's an attempt.
/r/seduction19/09/18 12:46 AM
4

The answer to a question like this can be anything. So I'll give you the reason as to why you don't understand it. Know how I know you don't understand it? Your section "Why might some people be demotivated?" is laughable and pathetic in how barebones it is. You are from the proverbial "other side". You are conditioned to that lifestyle from a young age. You struggling is like someone trying to get a top notch education struggling with tests. In other words it's par for the course. Of course you…
/r/seduction19/09/18 12:41 AM
1

My problem is that it's your scenario for not approaching for 10 years. I intend to be hot shit by that point.
/r/seduction17/09/18 10:35 PM
5

Of course looks matter. The people that stress otherwise are PUAs that use ugly men's desperation as a sales tactic. It also depends on how attractive you are. If we take a 10. Yeah you're gaming on easy mode. You can still screw up but there's much more margin for error. I treat most outer game as physical attractiveness. From your fitness level to your style all the way to your posture and the way you speak. If we go purely by looks then your easy mode is not nearly as easy as someone that is …
/r/seduction17/09/18 03:18 PM
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"get your steady career FIRST, get your social circle FIRST, and then approach women." This is a case by case basis. The average dude most certainly shouldn't be redirecting his attention towards these things and neglecting women completely. But your success with women is directly connected to how good you feel and how comfortable you are with yourself and your life. If you're absolutely fucking miserable, borderline depressed, have no friends and no drive in life then absolutely not. Women shou…
/r/seduction17/09/18 11:45 AM
0

Man everyone ITT is shitting on my party 🤣 You exiling me, brah? I don't wanna be a hermit.
/r/seduction17/09/18 11:26 AM
12

Whoa man don't shit on my parade. 10 years from now, you settled for an obese single mom who messaged you on PoF, and you're raising someone elses kid for the occasional pity fuck with a crusty used vagina that just happens to coincide with your paycheques. What kind of scenario is this? I'll sooner shave my head bald and go full on Namaste than stick my dick in a place that's not worthy of it. What a gross exaggeration.
/r/seduction17/09/18 11:25 AM
6

We all know how much power they have. The question is whether you go full on bitch mode and go "Women have all the power and I have nothing." Or go "Fuck that. Give me a reason, girl. Give me a reason why I should give you my dick." There is power in being able to not engage even if your dick says otherwise. That's why women get horny, mad, frustrated and maybe even depressed when a guy is unfazed by her. It's difficult to have dignity when you're not Pussyslayer9000 and opportunities don't come…
/r/seduction15/09/18 04:45 PM
1

Are you trying to sneak turn her on? That's not how it works, bro. "He's alright, not great but alrightoooooh I'm wet now". Don't brush her leg or her twat during a hug dude.
/r/seduction15/09/18 01:40 PM
1

Oh shieeet he's back and he's... still a fucking spammer. Move along nothing to see here.
/r/seduction15/09/18 01:34 PM
7

If your confidence is indeed directly tied to women. You're living life wrong. I don't really want to say this considering you're 15 years older than me. But I will anyway. You need to live your life knowing that even if you never get laid again you'll kick ass regardless. It may be a bit late for you to step away from the game and actually make yourself happy with just yourself. But in my book that's the best way. Which brings a question. You've been on dry land for a couple years? That must've…
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:57 AM
2

Oh he must be coming back with a vengeance.
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:33 AM
2

Sounds like Andreboiiiiiiiiii and some other fools want to read about dudes smashing girls because they ran out of jerking material. OT: This is basic psychology. We will always have an incomplete picture about people. Even people we know. Since we can't be running variables and store every single one in our brain like we're a computer, we simplify things. We simplify them through associations like "Hot girl must be X". You can get specific "Hot brunette that wears X Y or Z and walks a certain w…
/r/seduction15/09/18 11:22 AM
1

This must not be very clear but none of what I said or say ever directly refers to me. I'm not saying 5% through the lens of "Booohooo I'm not in that 5%" A better way to put this would be to say that I'm not even in this game. I'm not even trying. I'm just shooting the shit on this sub. In other words I'm not crying for attention by being sad and pitiful. I'm just fucking around. And yes I do make serious replies when I see someone up shits creek in their mental and emotional state but that's b…
/r/seduction15/09/18 10:50 AM
1

Listen, man. My words don't really mean shit to anyone that doesn't want to accept them. Anyone wanna prove me wrong? Great. I'm all for it. 5% may be a gross over exaggeration. What is it in your book? 20%? 30%? 40%? Hell it may be 95% of the sub getting laid and I'm watching from the sidelines. I'm all for it, dude. I don't want people to be miserable or deprived of sex.
/r/seduction15/09/18 10:38 AM
7

No. Your text game is on a whole other level of dull. There's no rhyme or reason to anything. It literally looks like you have no reason to talk to them other than to just say something and hope it sticks. If you can't put something interesting on the table. Make an interesting comment or whatever. You shouldn't even really try in my opinion. Or at least try to be normal. That's not how people talk at all. You're throwing the kitchen sink at them and well... I mean. If someone threw a kitchen si…
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:32 PM
3

I'm legit curious. Are you this fucking awkward in person? Or at least when you actually talk?
/r/seduction14/09/18 02:43 PM
1

Bruh... breh... brah... that's borderline impressive.
/r/seduction14/09/18 02:25 PM
2

Focus on the journey. Not the end goal. Know where you want to be. If you want to climb a mountain. You can't be looking at the summit the entire time. You'll trip up and roll your sorry ass down the mountain to your death because you didn't see a loose rock on the ground.
/r/seduction14/09/18 02:23 PM
3

I hope you all get laid this September Nice sentiment but that shit ain't happening fam 🤣 A solid 5% of this sub will get laid this September. And it's mostly dudes that were getting laid August, July, June and on and on. But like I said. Nice sentiment.
/r/seduction14/09/18 02:19 PM
5

Now there'll be tons of dudes looking for attention from females and getting depressed when they don't get any. Always keep in mind who you are. You might be the type of guy that will not get any kind of "ins" aka signals. In other words don't fucking look for signals unless you're good looking to women from scratch.
/r/seduction14/09/18 11:27 AM
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12/10 brag post.
/r/seduction12/09/18 10:28 PM
1

Depends on how hot and poppin you are on social media. If you're a popular guy on social media and a valuable "asset" to her follow base or friend or whatever you're using. Then yeah. You could start an interaction and give you some legs to stand on when in college. If you are the equivalent of an orbiter providing a steady flow of validation. Absolutely not. If you're just a number. Also no. Depends more on you than her.
/r/seduction11/09/18 09:38 AM
2

Social media is not for everyone. If you want to get girls out of it you need to have a vibrant lifestyle, you need to be good looking and you gotta always take pictures of all the shit you do. And don't forget that social proof. You out and about. With friends and all that jazz. Have you seen all the Instagram thots with tens of thousands of followers if not hundreds of thousands if not millions? Bitches are always showing off tits and ass. Always making stories no one cares about because their…
/r/seduction11/09/18 09:34 AM
1

I'd like to add that you don't owe anyone anything either. It's a liberating fact that no one owes anyone anything. As a whole, unspoken expectations are bound to disappoint because of one simple thing. If a person can get what they want from you without giving anything, they probably will go that route. This applies to bosses, men, women and everyone else. A cheap hardworking employee is a bosses' wet dream. I've said this before but people aren't gonna give you the time of day if they have not…
/r/seduction11/09/18 09:14 AM
2

1 - This is how male to female ratios and dynamics work in general. It's not exclusive to Tinder. Sure, girls are much pickier on dating apps but that's because it's not in person and they have very little to go on. So that uneven 20/80 split will always be there. Not to say women don't look at men outside the 20% but if they can pick. They'll pick the smallest percentile possible. 2 - The whole two third things is quite obvious. And the quality of women as well. Tinder, for the majority and for…
/r/seduction09/09/18 11:57 AM
9

I think you mean zero value users.
/r/seduction09/09/18 11:42 AM
1

Dude you can't be hitting on customers. Coworkers is bad as is. But customers are the lifeblood of a business. No boss wants his place to have a rep where one of the employees is trying to get laid off his back. Imagine if you try to hit on a chick who takes it the wrong way. You're going to land ass first as you fly out the doors. You essentially sacrificed your rep at your workplace just for pussy. tsk tsk just no dude. You said you're a good looking dude so this shouldn't be such a big deal.
/r/seduction09/09/18 11:39 AM
1

Hell no. Harness the energy within thy nuts. Literally tell her that you're not wasting your life force for foolish gratification.
/r/seduction08/09/18 03:34 PM
4

Dude... if you can fuck with a proper hard on and not bust a nut you're literally getting the best of two worlds.
/r/seduction08/09/18 10:07 AM
2

Who the hell puts a tl dr after 2 and a half lines?
/r/seduction06/09/18 10:20 PM
3

Could be vengeance for past pain. You get them invested, you see it. And you just go "lolno bitch" like a metaphorical almost literal middle finger for the shit you went through.
/r/seduction06/09/18 10:19 PM
1

This is the only true answer. Though I'd argue that B and C are deeply connected.
/r/seduction05/09/18 11:46 PM
2

This is one adorable bastard
/r/seduction05/09/18 05:08 PM
1

You should write a novel.
/r/seduction05/09/18 05:07 PM
0

Hard for me to go up and ask someone on a date if I know absolutely nothing about them. Your reason is the same reason most women won't go on an insta date with you. The point is to find out if this walking pair of tits and ass is worth any kind of trouble. And no approaching isn't that troublesome. You're shouting at a valley and seeing if you hear an echo. I mean not engaging at all is also a valid option. Just don't fall into the trap of thinking that jerking off or watching porn is an A OK a…
/r/seduction04/09/18 11:11 PM
1

Neither is grass-fed filet mignon, but it is certainly nicer than a protein bar. So grass-fed filet mignon is a cool, independent, sexy woman(whatever the hell that even is). What's the protein bar? What's the parallel you're trying to draw here?
/r/seduction04/09/18 10:12 PM
1

I'm not personally a big fan of deserts. I don't like sand. It's coarse and rough and irritating and it gets everywhere.
/r/seduction04/09/18 10:09 PM
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Why do you sound like you don't care while also sounding like you're bitter about it? It's pretty simple. If all your hobbies end with you just hanging out with a bunch of dudes then you need to do one of these. Try to successfully acquire a hobby you like and has babes. I'm lowkey inserting bars, clubs, raves, concerts and festivals here. Cold approach.
/r/seduction04/09/18 10:02 PM
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The problem is that you're weighing your options while thinking about what women will think. Fuck what women think. Focus on what you think and what you want.
/r/seduction04/09/18 07:30 PM
33

Yep. I won't say that girls will start falling on your lap like you suggest. But it's true that having a great life is not replaceable with pussy. And pussy won't net you a great life either. I do my best to not even think about women during my day since they're not part of it. Not worrying about my dry spell and not fussing over how far away it is from ending really takes a massive load off my shoulders. I can focus on bigger and better things. Like me, myself and I. Honestly I'm at a point whe…
/r/seduction03/09/18 11:06 PM
1

Become a large ham
/r/seduction02/09/18 03:34 PM
3

Oh man people are still looking for the holy grail of Pickup. Let me save you some time. It's called blood, sweat and tears.
/r/seduction02/09/18 03:26 PM
5

Someone, at some point, will get upset. So don't worry about it. Just don't lie to people and don't feed their expectations. Keep your conscience clear but that's about all you can do.
/r/seduction02/09/18 12:57 AM
2

Dude. Just fucking stop. If I can handle it then so can you. You're not special in this world. Plenty of dudes don't have a sex life of any capacity or format. Grow a pair and stop focusing so much on how bad it is without pussy. It's not bad. At all. It's pretty fucking alright actually. Life is not all about sex. I get your frustration. By all means I've been there but it's not as bad as you make this shit out to be. Do you see how much of a fucking emotional wreck you are? Why does pussy worr…
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:43 PM
-10

Someone who is very inexperienced might think it merely feels nice and is being playful. Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhh this might happen in a culture and a world where sex isn't front back and center and you literally cannot avoid it in your daily life. But in ours? I don't buy it, broseph.
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:00 PM
1

Did it spark a "Is it gay if you get your dick sucked?"
/r/seduction01/09/18 10:00 PM
1

We all know of a guy that did.
/r/seduction01/09/18 09:20 PM
-30

What the fuck? Are we going to get the flip side of "Is she into you?" soon? I mean seriously, how clueless are people nowadays that they have to ask this sort of question? Where did all your primal instincts go? You can't figure out what to do when you're making out and on top of the dude? Come on for fuck's sake. This isn't rocket science. If you wanna bone and he wants to bone then you bone. Don't just sit. Grind. Get a handful and adjust it so it's pointing up, if you're feeling brave that i…
/r/seduction01/09/18 09:16 PM
1

After reading your OP and your replies. Only one conclusion is appropriate. Chill the fuck out Seriously. This goes for you and everyone who's not popular with women. Stop gauging your worth by the amount of pussy you get because you don't get any pussy. So why the fuck is that your point of reference. When I see this much anger and rage it tells me one thing. And only one. Give up. Fix yourself. Come back to the quest of getting your dick wet at a later date. You're way too underleveled.
/r/seduction01/09/18 08:59 PM
2

If that's your reasoning then sure. You should work to correct that flaw in reasoning. I mean at the end of the day, unless it's an instadate(and I have no clue how good you gotta be to pull that one off) you're always accepting the risk that no matter what you ask for. There is a chance she just won't reply at all. All depends on how good your interaction went and how much of a mark you left on her. In other words, if you can bounce later, bounce later so you have more time to build a connectio…
/r/seduction01/09/18 11:07 AM
1

I'm legitimately amazed you thought that's actually legit.
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:29 PM
2

Social media tends to be a pretty damn safe thing to ask for. And it's easy for a girl to give it to someone. When you look at something like IG(I don't use SC). I mean... look at their profiles and the amount of people that follow them. Getting a girl's social media has pretty much 0 impact or meaning. When you follow a hot girl and DM her you just blended into the huge mob of dudes with their dicks out. There is no time to draw lines between thousands of people. Think of it like this. If you'r…
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:28 PM
2

It's pretty funny how few of the songs I listen to involve the virus that is oneitis.
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:20 PM
1

I've done nothing I guess but waste time over the last 6 years losing weight, traveling, digging into hobbies, getting a better job and hanging out with friends. The thing is, I can already see that the problem is the way you think. You seem either unwilling or downright unable to wrest any kind of value from just those things you speak of. You clearly have things to offer people because you have fucking friends. People with nothing to offer have no friends. Travelling means experiences in life …
/r/seduction31/08/18 08:16 PM
1

Most, nay, all attractive women will use Tinder in at least two of three ways. A - To gain orbiters she will never fuck but are good for casual conversation when she's bored. B - Boost her social media following. If she has her IG on her bio, it's obvious as shit. C - To actually fuck. This is reserved for the 1% of matches. In the ludicrously unlikely event she's only there to get dick(the chance is 0%), she will have like 5 matches after hundreds of swipes. David, at the top of this thread, ha…
/r/seduction31/08/18 07:44 PM
2

If you have nothing, you work on yourself and achieve things. Become better. Forget about women. If you have nothing to offer then you need to take a step back and work on acquiring valuable traits, skills, assets and resources. Otherwise you'll always be stuck with the bottom of the barrel when it comes to the quality of babes. And that's best case scenario.
/r/seduction31/08/18 07:34 PM
3

which porn may be my problem It is. End of conversation. Time to quit porn and stop choking the chicken.
/r/seduction31/08/18 11:37 AM
1

The problem with confronting her is that A - it shows insecurity and B - she will probably not be upfront and will more than likely get defensive. So it'll create conflict and won't solve anything. Don't take any bull as in the standard issue "stand up for yourself". If she's wrong don't just take it. You don't need to even kiss another girl to game her. Flirt with other girls. You may ask "But wouldn't I be doing the same thing as she is?" As men we need to keep our options very open. As soon a…
/r/seduction30/08/18 09:18 PM
1

because not going to lie he's a cool dude, and coincidentally he just happens to be male. Coincidence or not. He's a cool dude and he's got a penis. Your girl likes penis. There's not much math to make here. while she was riding me like some sort of nympho... that she must be imagining me being some other guy. Don't. Should've enjoyed the ride. Who cares as long as you don't hear anyone else's name. but hey might be my insecurity and me thinking that theres no way she can be that horny over me o…
/r/seduction30/08/18 07:17 PM
2

It'll probably just turn into memes and recruit rushes. Which is second only to pussy.
/r/seduction30/08/18 05:19 PM
2

All one can say is that you know better than we do. Hugs are most certainly not all equal nor do they all carry the same impact nor intent. I remember giving my ex an extended hug and hearing her breathing heavy against me, borderline fucking panting. But girls definitely flirt with dudes that aren't their boyfriend for a sexual and emotional release. As do men. The problem is that it can lead to an "oops I cheated". This all sounds very suspicious to me. It's like she's very antsy to get some a…
/r/seduction30/08/18 04:45 PM
1

Before I found out all about the shit that porn does to your brain? It depends. Had streaks of almost daily viewing. Sometimes several times a day with a grand record of 8 nuts busted in one day. Other times I'd accumulate all the nut, boot up a hentai game and sit there for hours edging. Once I got a girlfriend it continued but I started losing my hard on with her so I cut back and started smashing her properly. After we broke up, I found out about personal development and all the shit about po…
/r/seduction30/08/18 04:31 PM
1

Yeah... like everyone else. As a recovering addict, I also used to do it. Doesn't mean I wasn't addicted. The fact that you had awesome sex with your girl and then decided to turn on the fucking computer and watch porn should be fuckin telling.
/r/seduction30/08/18 03:09 PM
-2

Sit down, boyo. You clearly have no fucking clue what you're talking about. And I'll be damned if I let another naysayer talk shit he knows nothing about.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:56 PM
1

1000% serious. Usually my urge to masturbate doesn't corelate with my urge for sex. Yeah because you're addicted to porn. Not sex. Don't believe me? Try to quit.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:51 PM
11

I wish people would stop ruining otherwise solid posts with shit like this it completely eliminates insecurities about approaching, initiating and kino. I mean show us that magic, fam. The kind that makes all the pain go away.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:44 PM
2

Ideas? Quit porn and masturbation. Forever. You have pussy, titties and ass, you fucking idiot. What the fuck do you need porn for? No there is not going to be a discussion here. It's non negotiable.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:32 PM
2

Good. Just don't use them all. A healthy dose of it is alright just don't forget she's not your little sister.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:26 PM
1

Should we have PUA meetings in Siege or something? Cause it sounds like it'd have some success 🤣
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:14 PM
1

yeah... very left leaning feminist types. Considering my... past wars with this type of person, I would not bet on it. But I do get what you mean, to an extent.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:13 PM
4

I can't even answer this. It's too good.
/r/seduction30/08/18 02:08 PM
1

Jordan's got the right idea. Don't try to understand women when you stand nothing to gain from it and the odds of you actually understanding them are low. As is this case. If she hits you up, cool. If she doesn't, cool. I also wouldn't tell girls they're beautiful, they know. It makes you blend in with the other dudes. And as much as we'd like to believe, no matter how into us they may be, it won't be special for them. Girls feed off of it like a pigeon pecking a button for some corn. She can pe…
/r/seduction30/08/18 10:23 AM
6

Like the other dude said. A lot of those are not useful on the sexual arena. Most of them aren't in fact. Me being good at say writing, swimming or playing Rainbow Six Siege sure as hell doesn't translate into the sexual arena because no one cares about that. Especially women. At the end of the day looks, money, status, power, charisma, fitness, social skills and all that are tied to being more successful on the sexual arena. The good ol' classics. It also depends on who you are, how old you are…
/r/seduction30/08/18 10:04 AM
1

Dude... hell if I know whether it was legit or not. You should know better than anyone but on paper this sounds like a good thing to me. I personally don't see a girl getting guilty and then fucking the shit out of you as a compensation. It's more likely that you did turn her on with your more alpha stance because maybe it's been a while since she saw that or maybe she never had seen you like that. In any case it sounds like things are going in the right direction. Keep going bro. Get that pussy…
/r/seduction30/08/18 09:50 AM
1

Alright so. 1 - How often do you find yourself feeling depressed and/or suicidal? And how long does it last? 2 - Do you partake in physical activity? Lifting, sports, combat sports, swimming, running, whatever. Something on a regular basis that involves physical activity. 3 - Do you partake in porn and masturbation? You probably do so how often? 4 - Do you have goals in life, short term or long term? What are they? Let's start with that. I'd prefer to do this over a discord call or something bec…
/r/seduction29/08/18 09:51 PM
5

Oh ok, you need to be told that shouting "Nice ass, baby" from across the street is not going to get you anywhere? There you go. You're set. Go get 'em champ.
/r/seduction29/08/18 08:29 PM
1

Absolute BS and of course she believes it. If you believe that having different standards is bad, you don't want to be bad so you create the narrative of "I treat everyone the same". It's a lie and I don't care who, what, where, why. It's not true for anyone on this planet. Now I don't know about your relationship but it sounds like she gets away with a lot of shit and you seem to be unwilling to stand up for yourself because you're afraid of losing her. Now you know that someone with more balls…
/r/seduction29/08/18 08:09 PM
2

The thing is that both of those aren't for everyone when it comes to dating or getting laid. They're useless for the majority of men out there. Social media fucking forget about it. You won't be sliding into anyone's DMs even if it's a hot babe you know. You'll be falling down a pit of sweaty, cumstained messages and dick picks once you click send. They ain't gonna see it and they sure as hell ain't gonna care if they do. Dating apps are completely dependent on how hot you are. If they didn't wa…
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:50 PM
1

Of course. It's obvious. A relationship is a two way street and if you break it down to its bare bone essentials. It's all about what you have to offer to the other person and vice versa. To make the example more obvious imagine if you were 2 times better in every single category. Of fucking course she'd give you a ton more slack. Just improve your dick, your skill in bed, your skills in general, your charisma, your connections, your friendships, your social circle your body, your intellect, you…
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:42 PM
2

I'm really glad you didn't end this on a question of "Was she into me?" I mean... bless you 🙏 Thank the fuckin devil. Good job regardless. Especially having the balls to be the only hand in the air.
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:36 PM
6

Don't listen to him. Unfortunately he's retarded. No woman will fuck him unless he forks over money like a pathetic pussy. But you? You can have hope assuming you start laying down the ground work. The problem is that you haven't told us what's the rest of your life like. Start with that. Contrary to what some retards on here will tell you, it's more than a good idea to forget about women if your life is in complete shambles.
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:33 PM
0

This speaks more volumes of how men have failed women by not being absolute fuckin studs than it does of how "advantageous" is being fat or whatever the fuck is the point of that post. Seems more like a night time bitching session with a tub of ice cream in hand and a bloody twat.
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:30 PM
1

I'm gonna assume these aren't the same people that would beat you up and stuff you in your locker. That's what friends generally do and the guy at the bottom of the pack gets the most of it. I had a guy like that in high school in our group. A - You're a great target because of your reactions. B - You deserve it because you did some stupid shit. This was the aforementioned dude in our group. C - You're a great target because you're easy and offer no resistance. It's easy to pluck a rose that has…
/r/seduction29/08/18 07:22 PM
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I totally get what you mean. My point is that you knew girls were into you. So that, at least in my head, should've upped your confidence in who and what you are. But yeah I understand you.
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:41 PM
0

Kinda hard to take you seriously when I can look at page one and see a thread of yours complaining about how young you look.
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:34 PM
1

Well good luck on your journey. I'll pass on it for sure but good luck. Also just some food for thought. Don't be announcing your grand goals to people, at least when it's so specific. It creates a false sense of accomplishment that may make you lazy when it comes to actually taking action. The only person you need to tell this to is yourself.
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:27 PM
1

You can say that you know. But the vast majority grabs the whole "Be yourself" and runs for the hills with that shit. Or rather, they grab it and sit on their ass.
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:14 PM
1

I think it may be how you look at it. Because to me it has to do with not feeling yourself. Feeling inadequate and knowing you're not really that attractive to women so why bother with that when you should be working towards becoming fulfilled and confident in oneself with a solid and functioning life. And this would apply to any kind of interactions with women you're attracted to. Whether within social circle or otherwise. It's not cold approaching itself. It's the inexperience and the awarenes…
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:12 PM
3

Work with what you've got but don't forget that you can improve what you got. Being fat sure as fuck is something you should be changing about yourself. Because you can and it's the objectively better option. Focus on the things you can fix and forget about the ones you can't WHILE knowing but not reminding yourself that everything matters. Because we all have shortcomings and there is no point in refreshing them in our head if they're things we cannot change.
/r/seduction28/08/18 07:01 PM
3

If I could wipe away that fear somehow If only. Yeah. Not happening, man. We all have to live with our fears and deal with them. You won't learn how to deal with them unless you face them. Basic exposure therapy. Think of anything you are or might be afraid of. Snakes, spiders, black people, latinos, heights, depths, whatever the fuck it may be. If you expose yourself to your fears. By simply being in those situations where you're afraid of X. You will get used to it and you'll know how to deal …
/r/seduction28/08/18 06:51 PM
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Man the logic of this post just doesn't add up. You can get laid and you know it. But approaching a girl is frightening? Sorry but that's just weird to me, personally. It's like firing a 50 cal machinegun but turning around and saying "Yeah that glock is just a bit too much sand for my truck".
/r/seduction28/08/18 06:39 PM
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Kudos on your progress but the most important part, both for you and other guys, is getting off seddit. Conflicting information and the comfort of information gathering can completely screw you over. You just need to keep your eyes on the prize and not forget about your goals which can be hard if you're not regularly in an environment where people aim towards the same things.
/r/seduction28/08/18 06:26 PM
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Check it out 1. Go to Gym 2. Find barbell 3. Utilize barbell 4. Finish utilizing barbell 5. Utilize other implements 6. Finishing utilizing other implements aside from barbell 7. Go home
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:28 AM
2

Of all the things I expected to spark a war on this sub. This is not one of them. To appease both sides of the argument I'd say that if she pulls that card then you can stick around for a line or two depending on how it goes. Just to test the waters. It's not harassment and you're not giving up too easy. If you push even one line further past "I have a boyfriend" you'll more than likely find out whether she's telling you to fuck off or not.
/r/seduction27/08/18 10:21 AM
0

I don't recall getting defensive but wtv. I already deleted my Tinder so yeah.
/r/seduction27/08/18 09:40 AM
1

Dude if you can get laid while wearing nail polish, you have pretty much transcended your mortal shell.
/r/seduction26/08/18 11:26 PM
0

They don't really suck since I asked my sister, who's a low key photography nerd, to take pictures of me with her 600$ camera. She may not have any idea when it comes to Tinder but she takes good pictures. Pictures I will defend with tooth and nail. Good lighting, good featuring of my jawline and eyes, good clothes, good posture. But I've recently realized that the disparity between how good looking I find myself and how good looking women find me. I mean... it's a massive chasm. It's comically …
/r/seduction26/08/18 11:07 PM
1

Well i am probably better at tinder then 99% of the other guys on there, but definitely not a "chad" either. With that stat you might as well be a Chad. Chad just means more sexually desirable than most other men. Doesn't really matter if you're not 6'4, weighing 200lb with less than 10% body fat. Overall, what i always say is that most dudes can be at least semi-succesful with tinder if they put in the initial work...just like with anything else in life Eh. I wouldn't say so personally. Depends…
/r/seduction26/08/18 07:06 PM
1

You can get abs if you work for 'em. I don't get the problem here. Exercise and eat clean. It'll take time but there's no way around that. Ultimately it was OP's game that got him laid.
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:29 PM
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I think you dudes are overestimating how good tinder is. This mofo is pretty much a pro at it. And he's packing his own website and shit to boot. Don't get fooled, this is not your average joe. I mean maybe you bois are total Chads but I'm just sayin'. Always take field reports with a grain of salt, because it's always gonna be dudes very different from you.
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:19 PM
0

Whoosh
/r/seduction26/08/18 06:02 PM
0

Oh yeah? And your solution is? If people are being cunts to him off the bat there is not much you can do to change that.
/r/seduction26/08/18 05:50 PM
3

Nothing. Cause your first approach means nothing. You won't get some sort of epiphany "That wasn't so bad" after one approach and all of a sudden all of your struggles are gone.
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:45 PM
5

Throw a flying armbar on these hos and show 'em who's boss. You can get creative. Drunk bitches ain't known for their grappling.
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:33 PM
0

Good job boyo. Stay strong and keep getting better. You'll be balls deep in some babes in no time.
/r/seduction26/08/18 03:22 PM
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Good man. Otherwise you'll turn into one of those castrated soy boy orbiters girls like to keep around.
/r/seduction25/08/18 06:18 PM
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