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You forget about everything in between. He’s not posting an entire guide. Only a small portion of how to lead up to that kiss close.
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:16 AM
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Former atheist here. I didn’t believe in God until one of the darkest moments in my life, which wasn’t nearly as bad as yours, but I discovered him either way. Your son would never have wanted you to take your life. Live for him.
/r/askTRP20/02/20 11:55 AM
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You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. Nice.
/r/seduction20/09/19 04:53 PM
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I, too, would like to know this.
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:56 PM
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Agreed. You can improve yourself until you’re swimming in liquid gold, but women aren’t go getters. Women don’t initiate conversations. Women don’t lead interactions. Those things fall on you.
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:55 PM
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Ryan Reynolds. Dude is hilarious but keeps a straight face.
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:50 PM
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Similar story. This one time I went out to a club with some female friends of mine. It was the first time I’d been there and didn’t know it was a gay club. This one dude came up to me and straight up asked for my number and I said “Wtf? If I were gay, this guy didn’t even make an effort to get to know me.” Surely enough, my game improved after that. Good perspective OP.
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:48 PM
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OP just got the entire sub going out to gay bars. Time to make a gay seddit.
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:38 PM
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Not trying to shit on your parade OP, but maybe you can just add her on Snapchat to begin with.
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:26 PM
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Your new goal: Think James Bond but slightly more upbeat.
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:24 PM
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Dancing. I started learning how to dance about three years ago. Country, latin. When there’s touching involved, and if she can smell you, your chances of getting lucky are astronomically higher. I can’t tell you how many “You smell really good” compliments I get. Many of them literally nuzzle their nose into my neck just to get a whiff. I’ve battle tested a lot of colognes. A little more than a dozen of the top brands. Acqua Di Gio is the only one I use now.
/r/seduction15/09/19 04:17 PM
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Law of averages states that if you try enough of anything, you’ll eventually get a win. In other words, if you flirt with a hundred 10’s, eventually one of them will say yes.
/r/seduction13/05/19 03:16 AM
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If a mildly attractive girl asked for your number, why would you give it away? There has to be some sort of connection first.
/r/seduction12/05/19 04:43 PM
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Atta boy mate.
/r/seduction12/05/19 03:51 PM
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Soy hispano también. La mera verdad, es difícil para decir. La mayoría de estripistas no dan su número así, y también sabe que no tienes mucho dinero. En estos casos, yo escucho mis instintos. Mi opinión? Yo creo que está interesada.
/r/seduction11/05/19 05:36 PM
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It’s called the game. Not the chore.
/r/seduction11/05/19 03:09 PM
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Maybe it’s not. There’s a good chance you’re asexual. Google it.
/r/seduction11/05/19 03:07 PM
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Been in the game 11 years. Bars and clubs are the worst way to meet girls. They're loud as hell and you're in competition with other guys. I've had the most luck with coffee shops. I just strike up a conversation in line or while I'm sitting down with my laptop and it's an instant date. But if you really want basic drink knowledge: "Jack and coke" - Whiskey and coca-cola. "Whiskey, neat/straight." - Whiskey only. No flavoring/not mixed. "Vodka and Sprite with lime." "(insert beer here), bottle."…
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:41 AM
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Wear a blazer, sunglasses, bling. Doesn't have to be expensive, just has to look expensive. Make friends with attractive women and take selfies with them.
/r/seduction06/05/19 12:29 AM
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Good man. Men need respect more than they need love. If she disrespected you once, she’ll do it again.
/r/seduction24/04/19 08:03 PM
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I like your style.
/r/seduction11/04/19 08:11 PM
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Another reason why I don’t bother using Tinder.
/r/seduction09/04/19 04:55 AM
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Head on over to r/lawofattraction If you need credit to get a credit card, but you need a credit card to get credit. If secured credit cards didn’t exist, we wouldn’t be able to establish credit (not exactly, but you get the point). To be happy, many of us just want to be loved. To be loved, many of us need to be happy. But you can’t be happy without being loved. So where does it start? The law of attraction isn’t some bogus bullshit. It’s been known for many generations that our thoughts affect…
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:36 AM
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I had this exact dilemma while I was out gaming last night. I’ve laid many gorgeous/beautiful women, but the hard part is finding one you actually like. I’m now focusing on music performance on guitar/voice and trombone. If I can’t find the love of my life, I may as well make my contribution to society by jamming out.
/r/seduction17/02/19 07:03 PM
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A wise man once told me “Why are you bringing a knife to a gun fight?” He was referring to going to places that suited me best. I used to go to country clubs all the time, but the girls were bimbos and superficial so I never connected with them. Now I go to places where the women are more classy, like salsa clubs or lounges. I connect much more deeply with the women there. Good thing about being in the US is that there are lots of communities with your particular culture. There’s nothing wrong w…
/r/seduction12/02/19 09:14 PM
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Deeply. I see what you did there.
/r/seduction12/02/19 04:57 PM
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Women have vaginas for receiving. Men have dicks for giving. Our nature as men and women is the same in terms of behavior. Women are receptive, men are outgoing. That’s why women typically never ask men out, message first, or ask men out for a dance. Cheers.
/r/seduction12/02/19 02:44 AM
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Let me ask you something. Do you like being someone’s bitch? And more importantly, do you like being your girlfriend’s bitch?
/r/seduction10/02/19 08:13 PM
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A female friend of mine was married to an abusive gentleman before they got divorced. Verbally/mentally abusive, not physical. They fought constantly, and she would always try to gain his approval. She said it was the best sex she ever had. Mind you, she’s already a very domineering woman, so imagine how ruthless her ex husband was. I am not saying you should be abusive. No way. But you should be a leader and be more assertive when leading the relationship. That means believing in yourself, stan…
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:26 PM
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“Looks can get you in the door, but they will not keep you inside.” Excellent analogy. Completely agree.
/r/seduction09/02/19 02:00 AM
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I usually just use glasses. Contacts get too dry.
/r/seduction08/02/19 01:20 AM
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Can you link us to that question? We definitely want to see the answers.
/r/seduction06/02/19 04:34 PM
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Tinder is a shit show unless you’re abnormally good looking. Women have become more bitchy, self entitled, and harder to hit on. The only positive thing out of this is being able to more easily spot girls who are relationship material in real life. Bad news is there’s less of them.
/r/seduction06/02/19 08:21 AM
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Nah.
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:41 PM
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Very little is talked about the 7’s. But not a bad video.
/r/seduction03/02/19 10:14 PM
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Yes. I’ve gotten “I’m not that kind of girl” and “I don’t sleep with guys without knowing them.” Ended up meeting a gorgeous redhead with striking blue eyes. Took her back to my place, got the “I don’t normally do this” and screwed her brains out. She was gorgeous, fun, submissive, and ran her fingers down my face with a delicate touch that only a truly feminine woman can do. Such a good woman. It’s a shame I had to move to a different state after meeting her.
/r/seduction03/02/19 08:53 PM
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Fully agree with texting for setting up dates only. Easiest way to fuck up is to try and get to know someone over messages. Good job OP.
/r/seduction03/02/19 07:19 PM
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I fucking love this post. Lost my shit when you mentioned the receipt. That’s my nigga.
/r/seduction03/02/19 06:01 AM
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Hah. I love this answer. Very true.
/r/seduction03/02/19 01:15 AM
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Anytime.
/r/seduction02/02/19 10:47 PM
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Those things do improve your self esteem to a point, but there’s a component to self worth that doesn’t come from external improvements. That’s what this is.
/r/seduction02/02/19 09:20 PM
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Yes, but it came at a price.
/r/seduction02/02/19 08:01 PM
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Bingo.
/r/seduction02/02/19 06:33 PM
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Girls your age giggle when they’re attracted to you. Do the very thing you’re afraid to do: talk to them. Courage is the only thing we can muster up by will power alone.
/r/seduction28/01/19 08:03 PM
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Shyness.
/r/seduction24/01/19 03:57 PM
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Truer words haven’t been spoken.
/r/seduction23/01/19 08:05 PM
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You might have good qualities, but the phrase “you’re a great guy” means they don’t want to fuck you. To them, it means you’re not that great a guy at all. Become friends with the pain of rejection, and it will work in your favor by nexting girls in milliseconds rather than months. Dust your balls off and move the fuck on. You need some tough love.
/r/seduction23/01/19 02:11 AM
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I’m hispanic. I’ve only ever dated white women. A few of them even told me they only like brown guys. I’m a 6.5 on a scale of 1-10. Good job.
/r/seduction22/01/19 04:39 AM
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Unanswered.
/r/seduction21/01/19 06:32 AM
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You don’t have to be rich to score with women. And sometimes, if they really like you, they’ll be buying you things.
/r/seduction21/01/19 06:31 AM
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If you put on lingerie she’ll have no choice but to say yes.
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:42 PM
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If what works for you is your chart, then by all means go for it. Been in the game 10 years and this is my personal process. Establish a personal relationship. Look for indicators of interest. Pivot into the sale. Establishing a personal relationship: You do this by being honest and authentic. Verbalize what your thoughts are about the other person. This is “love” is its simplest form. You become honest by standing up for what you believe in and building a healthy amount of narcissism. Look for …
/r/seduction19/01/19 10:33 PM
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I do astronomically better in real life pickup. There are nuances in my demeanor, voice fluctuations, and confidence levels that no amount of texting or dating app can ever replace. I’m a 6. Maybe a 7 on a good day.
/r/seduction18/01/19 11:03 PM
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Yup
/r/seduction18/01/19 06:51 PM
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No amount of advice will calm your nerves. Only experience can. Do your best. Know you will fuck up. Understand it’s okay if you do. Wear a rubber.
/r/seduction17/01/19 10:26 AM
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Apologize for making her feel weird and be authentic about it. It’s amazing what honesty can do. If she’s receptive about it, it will open a new door for you to talk to her again. In the second round, just be as smooth as you can. You can increase your smoothness by reducing or eliminating the amount of dopamine-enhancing activities like watching porn, masturbating, playing video games, eating sugar, and drug use. Neurotransmitters = Social behavior.
/r/seduction17/01/19 09:36 AM
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I don’t even have social media. Things like Facebook fuck up your neurotransmitter balance and makes you more depressed. The less dopamine hits you get from social media, the more social you become. Kind of ironic. To answer everyone else’s potential question; yes, social media does hurt your game.
/r/seduction17/01/19 12:24 AM
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His advice is solid. If a girl isn’t interested, you move on to a girl who is. And if the first one happens to change her mind, you can set a date. Pretty simple.
/r/seduction12/01/19 08:12 PM
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Banks won’t give you a loan until you have credit, but you need credit to get a loan. So how do you establish credit? You start with a secured credit card. In pickup, you start with a girl you may not even find attractive, then build your way up from there.
/r/seduction12/01/19 03:14 PM
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I don’t “try” to be anything. That was the point of the post. I just enjoy the diversity of women in my life. I’m sure someday I’ll settle down.
/r/seduction12/01/19 02:48 PM
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10 years of going out. Pain and experience were my greatest teachers.
/r/seduction12/01/19 02:46 PM
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My first kiss was fucking horrible. It was like kissing a fucking statue. You’re good.
/r/seduction03/01/19 12:22 AM
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I see what you did there.
/r/seduction01/01/19 04:55 PM
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This.
/r/seduction30/12/18 04:55 PM
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As far as night game is concerned, clubs are one of the absolute worst places to pick up women. They’re too damn loud, and your personality doesn’t come across the right way because of it. Bars are a bit better. Still kinda loud, but at least you can have a conversation. The alcohol helps them relax as well. Lounges, in my opinion, are the best for pickup. You meet women with more depth of character and you can have a real, intimate conversation. Day game can be practically anywhere. Grocery sto…
/r/seduction29/12/18 01:37 AM
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This.
/r/seduction27/12/18 06:24 AM
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I’m going to spray some antiseptic on that wounded heart of yours. It will sting, but it will be good for you. Right now, she’s fucking someone else, or she’s thinking about it. She doesn’t care about you. If she cared about you, she’d be fucking you, not fucking someone else. You won’t exert self respect until you realize just how little she cares about you.
/r/seduction25/12/18 06:53 PM
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Wow! I couldn’t have said it better myself. Mods, if you see this, distinguish this guy. Excellent, excellent piece of advice.
/r/seduction25/12/18 09:10 AM
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Yes, just send me a PM.
/r/seduction24/12/18 09:38 PM
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She’s everything I’ve ever wanted and more. Thank you.
/r/seduction24/12/18 08:28 PM
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LTR, long term relationship. HB, hot babe, and then the number of attractiveness on a scale of 1-10.
/r/seduction24/12/18 07:23 PM
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I read Jeff Walker’s book, “Launch”. You build an email subscriber list by giving out free content on social media platforms, then you pitch a sale. More complicated than that, but it worked. Made $700 my first launch, then $3,200 on my second, $6,400 on my third, and I’ve had several more since then. My latest launch yielded $42,000 in sales in 6 days. Took me two years to get to this point, but I’d also been studying business on my own a year prior to starting. I started off so broke that I al…
/r/askTRP15/12/18 11:12 PM
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Can’t wait to get older. It’s good to be a man!
/r/seduction16/10/18 11:05 PM
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Good stuff. I always start off by giving a girl a shoulder massage, then I offer to do one with her shirt off with her laying down. Once I start kissing her neck and cheeks, it’s game time.
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:49 PM
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Jerk off into a Mcdonald’s cup
/r/seduction15/10/18 01:45 PM
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I second the other guy. Update us. And nice job.
/r/seduction13/10/18 12:11 PM
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Everyone should keep a log on their own profile and then linked on here in OP in the same list of participating users. This way other users can check on each other’s progress. Just an idea.
/r/seduction11/10/18 10:46 PM
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Bingo.!
/r/seduction11/10/18 07:06 AM
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Add me to the list.
/r/seduction11/10/18 04:28 AM
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I’m telling you right now: you’re bordering on the line of rape, dude. Like the other guy said, she’s not attracted to you. A woman will want to fuck you if you’re an alpha on the daily, not just at night. But being alpha doesn’t come by reading shit on the internet. It comes from going through shit experiences, pain, and betrayal. From the ashes of those experiences, self respect is born. If I were you, I would’ve gotten real fucking pissed if she made a selfish piece of shit comment like “I wa…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/18 10:33 AM
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Probably.
/r/seduction04/10/18 12:18 AM
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It gets lonely sometimes.
/r/seduction04/10/18 12:17 AM
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Sorry for the late reply. She was good to me, but it was just a one time deal. Too much baggage on her end. Looks aren’t everything.
/r/seduction04/10/18 12:17 AM
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Only go for it if one of you two quits.
/r/seduction30/09/18 12:37 PM
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I’ve dated plenty of older women, and you and I are both the same age. Might want to PM me.
/r/seduction28/09/18 09:16 AM
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I'm going to save this for later. Too much to read.
/r/seduction24/09/18 08:28 PM
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Good stuff. I’m 27. Unlike women, I’m looking forward to getting older. Men age like wine; women age like milk.
/r/seduction20/09/18 08:17 PM
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You got any pictures?
/r/seduction18/09/18 10:56 PM
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Listen. My version of a 9 is what I’m attracted to (light skin, blue eyes, dark hair, and tall). Your genetics are not in your favor. No beating around the bush. However, there’s no clear cut “objectiveness” when it comes to rating your own looks. You might be better looking than you think, unless you go over to a subreddit called “Rate me” or something like that, and have people rate you. If you’re average looking, you ask out average looking girls or below. If you’re short, you ask out same he…
/r/seduction18/09/18 09:36 PM
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You want to argue with me about looks? Alright. I’ve been in the game for 9 years. I’m average looking. Looks matter to an extent. As you mentioned, game is only a part of overall attraction. Well guess what? Looks only go so far as well. Good looks might get a man’s foot in the door, but if he’s a pussy, he’s just a pussy with good looks. No. It doesn’t hurt to be physically attractive, so I dress well, I comb my hair, and I eat well. But confidence is nothing more than a man’s ability to be in…
/r/seduction18/09/18 08:22 PM
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If a woman had to choose between a fat guy with confidence and a fat guy with no confidence, who do you think she’d pick?
/r/seduction18/09/18 07:55 PM
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Welcome to POF. Nature’s online source of fat chicks for betas to raise another man’s kid. Fuck that. I’d rather die trying to bag a hot stunner with no kids than to stick my wiener into some crusty pussy. Try, try, then try some more. Perseverance is key.
/r/seduction17/09/18 09:08 PM
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Don’t worry about all the negative comments. I’ve been in the game for 9 years. This is excellent advice.
/r/seduction14/09/18 09:23 PM
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Everybody is a person. Seduction is nothing more than being real or vulnerable with someone of interest. The guys who try to use “pickup techniques” and shit don’t get very far.
/r/seduction14/09/18 06:24 AM
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This is the first thing I teach my fellow bros. Women are people, not just walking pieces of meat. I once had a guy ask me how to get laid without having to socialize or do any of the work. I said “Wtf?” I’m sure he’s still jerking off into McDonalds cups.
/r/seduction14/09/18 03:13 AM
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Oh trust me dude. Yes you can. I went from a shit-yourself Shaine to pulling girls back to my place under an hour. And not just regular looking girls. I’m talking stunners. 9s and 10s. Took me 9 years to figure it out, but I’ll tell you what worked for me. But first, I’ll tell you what didn’t work: Cold approaches. They didn’t get rid of my social anxiety. They helped, but I was still anxious. Clubbing/bar hopping. Same results as above. I knew something was missing. I tried very hard to be conf…
/r/seduction11/09/18 09:28 AM
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Whip it out and ask if they wanna noogie your schnitzel and suck the life right out of your balls. I don’t do that anymore. Instead I chat them up and ask them to meet me at the nearest coffee shop the next day. No phone number until the first coffee date, and only if it goes well.
/r/seduction10/09/18 11:02 PM
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Be honest. Be honest about your thoughts, your intentions, and your opinions. Honesty induces laughter, respect, and admiration in others.
/r/seduction10/09/18 08:11 PM
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I make an observation of her and I verbalize it. I do that with just about everyone, not just women.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:19 AM
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I read Grain Brain by Dr David Perlmutter. I google most of my reading, and I make sure to check the sources.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:13 AM
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One can be vegan and still have a shit diet. I eat mainly raw foods. Nothing processed.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:11 AM
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Eating right and exercising is an age old adage for a reason: because it works. Thanks for your words.
/r/seduction09/09/18 08:10 AM
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Clever.
/r/seduction28/08/18 08:37 PM
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Atta boy.
/r/seduction28/08/18 02:27 AM
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Find a shorter girl. I don’t date anything under 5”4 because I’m 6’2”, and sex gets uncomfortable/awkward with a girl because of the height discrepancy. Inversely, super short girls won’t date anything above a certain height for the same reasons. As long as she can look up to you, literally, you’re fine.
/r/seduction27/08/18 04:55 AM
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Stop masturbating.
/r/seduction27/08/18 04:52 AM
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Bingo.
/r/seduction26/08/18 05:28 PM
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The players change, but the game stays the same.
/r/seduction26/08/18 07:17 AM
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Being confident isn’t something you do. Similar to anxiety, it’s something you are, and occurs autonomously by how your body is running on with the compounds you feed it. Get rid of gluten for 2 weeks, and your anxiety either significantly reduce or will be gone completely. Bread, pasta, pizza, etc. Some individuals consume gluten with no issues. If you experience anxiety and depression, you might not be one of them. It doesn’t matter how much software you download to your PC. It won’t run witho…
/r/seduction19/08/18 03:36 PM
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Eat*
/r/seduction14/08/18 02:13 PM
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This.
/r/seduction13/08/18 02:48 PM
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Ask her out when one of you quits. Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/seduction13/08/18 02:47 PM
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OP, u/Mr_Tolitoes comment is a little untactful, but he’s right. If you’re not implementing any methods of self improvement, you’re wasting everyone’s time. Focus on you, and the women will come. This means eating healthy, going to the gym, not jerking off, and most importantly: following your passion.
/r/seduction12/08/18 01:15 AM
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Solid comment. 5 stars.
/r/seduction11/08/18 02:54 PM
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This is good shit. Top comment is correct, but this video sums up a lot of good points into one lesson. Subscribing.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 02:32 AM
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Online dating. Match.com, specifically. Men who are willing to pay for online dating are typically high quality, have better jobs, and and lean more toward long term and casual relationships than one night stands. Once you find a potential suitor, it’s up to you to determine what kind of interaction you want.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/18 01:18 PM
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The guys and I over at TRP are still anxiously waiting for this post.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/18 09:23 AM
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Salsa dancing is a lot fucking harder than you think.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/18 10:44 PM
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In my early stages of swallowing the pill, stories like these used to make me paranoid. Women still branch swing even with a high SMV male? Now it’s just expected. Makes my current relationships stress free, and improves them. Quite the irony.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 02:21 AM
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Glad you learned something. Women are also not inherently evil, just undeniably selfish. Because of their hypergamous nature, women will branch swing onto a better and more successful/attractive man, and he’ll be completely intoxicating to her, so forgetting about you is incredibly easy. Like you never existed. There are women out there who are aware of their own nature, which are far and few in between, like the women over at RedPillWomen sub, but it takes a considerable amount of self control …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 01:58 AM
1

Agreed on all accounts. People aren’t inherently evil, especially women. We’re all just trying to avoid pain. Self-centeredness is the best thing a self-aware individual can do. If you know how Black Holes in space work, they pull everything in via gravity, including light. What most people don’t know, however, is they emit something called Hawking Radiation, which is just another name for energy. In my opinion, I believe humans work in the same manner. Focusing inward doesn’t conserve energy, i…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 02:52 AM
2

It’s a depressing truth when you realize women do the same thing. Nothing but disgust after she leaves or cheats. No one will love you more than you.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/18 01:55 AM
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Don’t worry. We’ll find him making a post on here sooner or later. We will show him the way.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:05 PM
1

Thank God she didn’t. But if she did, beauty is only a light switch away.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 08:03 PM
1

I figured someone would ask. Body has more importance than face, unless she looks like Freddy Krueger.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 07:56 PM
2

Here’s some context: I’m ethnically Mexican. 6’2”. Average looking, 6.5/10, starting to lose my hair at 26. You’re correct, swiping in front of a date will never get you laid. But I’ve spent enough time in the last 9 years with self improvement to find comfort within my own skin. Confidence was the main course, and the Tinder accident was the mere cherry on top.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 02:53 PM
9

There is no other moment than the present. Because the future could be now, and a past moment used to be now, now is the only moment that exists. Hence, everything happening all at once. It’s almost like living in a giant box, and our mind is able to pick and choose any moment or possibility within any point inside the space of that box. To make something happen, to see a possible future of ourselves, all we need to do is visualize what it is we want with as many of the five senses as possible s…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 02:40 PM
70

Good perspective on achieving one’s goals, doing something for future you. Ultimately, in my opinion, time doesn’t really exist. If the past is just a memory, and the future hasn’t happened yet, we’re living in one giant existential reality where everything is happening all at once, and our brain is able to distinguish moment from moment. We call the concept of this ability to distinguish, time. Some people ask, “If time doesn’t exist, then why can I remember the past, but not the future?” My an…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:53 AM
3

If you fucked her without a condom, get tested for HIV. Intravenous drug users share needles.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 04:33 PM
10

I would upvote this a thousand times if I could. Hell of a roast.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 12:07 AM
3

“You learn to fight so you won’t have to.” Give yourself the right to hate, and ironically you won’t have to.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/18 02:51 AM
1

Your post is too fucking long. But we’re glad you’re at least finding your way. Women were not designed to love us. They only love the way we make them feel. The only two people who can love you unconditionally is your mom and yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 07:09 AM
3

This is incredible advice.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 09:47 PM
29

My cure for insecurity was understanding that you can’t control anyone. She has her own free will, and if her will is to step outside the boundary of the relationship, then you walk away. No matter how much it hurts.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 04:17 PM
1

The only person abusing her is herself. Like you, she has a choice to leave the situation if it is not suitable to her.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 09:29 AM
3

Not really. As long as a new relationship doesn’t suffer from the incident, it’s no different than withholding the fact we all go to the bathroom. Waiting until marriage is a little excessive, but it’s not something to be shared immediately. I’ve been on a few first dates with women where they would talk for hours on end about their life’s story and pain, like I was their therapist, and never inquired about me or contributed to make the date fun. Those women didn’t get a second date from me.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 03:55 PM
3

Enlightenment is realizing there’s nothing you need to do, nothing you need to say, nothing you need to change. Feminine energy is a free spirit, and masculine the grounded. Let her come to you. Well done, and bravo.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/18 06:22 AM
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Man is a marble, and pain is the grand sculptor. You don’t know it right now, but this is the best thing that could’ve happened to you. When you get seared from going through hell and back, anything life throws at you will be nothing in comparison. Stay alive, you mad fuck. You have two beautiful kids to look after. When a man is at his lowest point in life, things can only get better, not worse.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:14 AM
12

Cognitive dissonance is the denial of the reality of a situation, even with all the facts. I visit here from time to time from the men’s RP sub. You’re in an abusive relationship, and you might not see it. We don’t condone behavior exhibited by your husband. At all.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 09:24 PM
10

Valentina, mexican hot sauce. Your life will never be the same.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 10:27 PM
2

Don’t you just hate that shit? Always a knee slapper.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 10:22 PM
1

Bingo.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 11:16 AM
1

The only way to force someone to swim is to throw them in the water. Everything that led us to TRP was due to betrayal, intense heartbreak, or a new perspective on the reality of relationships. Staying with him would be like giving him a life jacket and kiddy soft arm floats; he’ll never learn how to swim. But good for you on being a great girlfriend. You’ll make an excellent wife someday.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:28 AM
0

This post was entertaining.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 07:28 PM
1

As my username implies, I’m a dating coach for men. Self improvement is good. It was never a bad thing in the first place. But focusing on certain things that have little to no impact on your social life never made a lot of sense to me. “Don’t focus on women. Focus on you.” Of course we’re going to think about women. It’s a natural occurrence. Doing anything else will only increase desire. And if results still aren’t being made, more depression can ensue...not less. Think naturals. Naturals have…
/r/seduction21/03/18 12:33 AM
1

Awesome, brother. I know what you mean in regards to being the intense one of the group. The “fun” energy is always there; it just needs a little spark to get going. In your case, you forced yourself to dance near your buddies. Great post.
/r/seduction20/03/18 08:23 PM
2

You absolutely should go. You’ll feel just as bad staying at home with your thoughts, if not worse. Going out, you’ll at least have the minuscule chance of feeling better. Plenty of ass and tits to keep you distracted, even if it’s just for a few hours.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 08:05 PM
1

Being blamed also makes us powerful. With great power comes great responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 08:03 PM
0

It only becomes unethical when you start lying. If they ask you if you’re seeing someone else, you can omit the truth and instead tell them not to worry about it. But you won’t be lying. If they start asking you consistently, make a choice to cut one of them off. Enjoy the ride. Seeing two women at once is great.
/r/seduction19/03/18 04:13 PM
0

Go over to the RedPillWomen. You’d be surprised at what they’re aware of, and you’ll be even more surprised to help their men alpha-up. RP women are not unicorns, but they’re aware, as are we.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 04:08 PM
2

I live in Fayetteville, AR now. Dallas was fun for a while, but there’s too much damn traffic. Lived in Richardson and Plano, and still visit my family often. That cocktail of meds doesn’t sound very fun, haha. I dedicated my life to good health; keto and probiotics saved my life from the hell hole that was depression and anxiety.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:38 PM
2

Former Texan for 20 years. Originally from Dallas, but I would’ve loved to have lived in Austin. Glad you’ve discovered TRP, and welcome. It may surprise how well it can work for you. With that said, probiotics may help or even cure your depression. Healthy gut flora stimulate the production of serotonin levels. Congratulations on the upcoming wedding, as well.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 03:56 PM
9

Usually boils down to the guy slipping up in the relationship, but you’ve learned not to let it happen again in the future.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/18 11:32 PM
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Legitimately interesting.
/r/seduction16/03/18 10:30 PM
3

I know exactly what you mean. Used to be one of those guys. It’s difficult to give suggestions that could push him in the right direction, because true adversity comes when there is something legitimately at stake, and this is where growth happens. If your in-law is masculine, have him invite more of his buddies to hangouts. They’ll have the same mentality. Eventually your SO will find someone he can click with on a higher level.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 01:34 AM
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Your post is a true testament that women really do help out their men even when they’re not attracted to him sexually. You’re an amazing partner. Having said that, I’ll try and answer your question within the confines of RPW guidelines as best I can, seeing as I’m male. I’m not a self proclaimed alpha. That sounds childish. But I found a large amount of self respect, drive, dignity, and leadership after a failed relationship with a highly narcissistic woman when I was younger; I discovered she c…
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 12:38 AM
4

Tom Cruise is only 5’7”. Women would fuck him in an instant.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 10:08 PM
3

I’m hispanic, but that was hilarious.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 09:05 PM
5

“If a man has enemies, that’s good! It means he actually stood for something in his life.” Beautifully written.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/18 04:33 PM
21

Watch any woman if they’d still be sick, have a headache, or be too tired if Jared Leto were to ask for a blowjob. Amazing how their illness just vanishes.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 04:09 AM
9

Women want the good parts of alpha males that dominate women, fuck them well, and provide leadership. Too many bad alpha traits like higher forms of dread, failing comfort tests, verbal/physical abuse, and over aggression can lead to her leaving. But they also want the good parts of the beta male that provide security and commitment. Too many bad beta traits like insecurity and possessiveness usually lead to infidelity on the woman’s part.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 01:06 AM
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Could very well be the answer for eliminating feminism and white nights, as well. Subtle education.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/18 12:58 AM
7

If she’s not fucking you, she’s fucking Jesus.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/18 07:29 PM
2

Go over to r/RedPillWomen. They have all the info you’ll ever need as a woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/03/18 05:48 PM
1

Fucking awesome. Success stories like these are rare. Nice job scoring the older hottie.
/r/seduction09/03/18 11:37 PM
3

“Did you know my dog knows how to juggle?” She gives you a weird look, “What?” “Oh, I’m sorry. I thought we were talking about shit that didn’t matter.”
/r/TheRedPill09/03/18 09:41 PM
1

I’ve used OkCupid several years ago with amazing results, but it took some time to learn how to make an outstanding profile. Now I just make dates by meeting girls at coffee shops or while I’m working on my laptop.
/r/seduction08/03/18 05:20 PM
3

This reminds me of the episode from How I Met your Mother where Ted and updating the same girl a couple of years later, only in this story you actually get laid. Nice work.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 11:45 PM
0

Open relationships based on an unbiased, mutual understanding are okay with me, personally. Gives me more options to flirt and sleep with other women while still having a monogamous emotional connection. Polyamorous relationships, for example, focus on a hierarchy; usually a primary and secondary partner. Most men can’t bear the thought of having their woman fucked by another man. Some men don’t care, and only put emphasis on emotional fidelity. Personally, I enjoy both monogamous and open relat…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 10:32 PM
3

She’s interested in other men.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 11:24 AM
1

Some of the other responses here are repugnant and perfunctory. Mods, do your thing. There’s nothing inherently wrong with sleeping with other men you’re attracted to. If that’s all you want, you have no moral obligation to your ex since you’re both single, especially with your high sex drive. Perhaps you may not be as attracted to your ex as you think you are. You say he’s the man of your dreams, but your actions are not congruent with your words, regardless of your eating disorder. A partner w…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/18 10:50 AM
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-If she’s still talking to you -Giggling, laughing -Smiling -She’s not in a rush to leave Look at the eyes. If she’s disinterested or just being friendly, they’ll be dull. A woman who is attracted to you sexually will give you brighter/fuck me eyes.
/r/seduction04/03/18 10:37 AM
3

Northern areas tend to have a higher rates of intelligence. Has nothing to do with race, but perhaps women in the cities you’ve moved to are more compatible in that regard. I live in Arkansas, and the stereotype is true. 2-3 out of the 5 women I meet here smoke, wear a red patterned sleeve shirt, or deter me with unintelligible conversation. The only people I’ve ever clicked with in the area are interestingly not from Arkansas.
/r/seduction04/03/18 10:22 AM
5

This is the most comprehensive explanation of male-female dynamics I have ever seen. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 03:46 PM
3

Truly moving, motivational, and inspiring. Thank you for your story.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 04:21 AM
3

Courage does not mean being fearless. Fearlessness doesn’t exist; fear is imprinted in our DNA. Courage is doing exactly what you’re afraid of, regardless of the fear.
/r/seduction03/03/18 12:22 AM
2

More effective when they’re drunk.
/r/seduction02/03/18 11:59 PM
3

Don’t spill the truth until she asks. And if/when she does, tell her you don’t want a relationship. Ironically enough, they stick around anyway.
/r/seduction02/03/18 04:06 AM
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Women have a far easier time moving on; their energy is feminine and receptive. If they see a guy they even remotely like, even if they don’t feel like talking to him, they’ll accept his advances and quickly forget about you. Men are different. Masculine energy goes outward and expands, so abundance has to be created, not received. But guys in a rut have no desire to go out after heartbreak, so it takes significantly longer to move on. The solution? Men have to force themselves to go out and mee…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 02:39 AM
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Red pill rage, or suffering, is the product of your resistance to the way objective reality is. In other words, you want things to be a certain way, when in fact they are not. This creates suffering. It’s easier to forgive women for their nature by understanding ourselves as men. We have natural instincts to only be attracted to women of physical beauty; this is something we cannot change no matter how persistent we may be. Women are not different in their own regard. Women truly cannot help bei…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 05:41 PM
2

Finally, something RP on the mainstream. Thanks for this.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 12:38 AM
38

Pain is the gateway to masculinity, but resiliency is its key.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 03:19 AM
3

Invest in good pictures. Never compliment her looks. Make an observation that isn't as obvious to other users. "You look like the kind of girl who knows how to use proper grammar." Pro tip: Use OkCupid. Answer the personality questions. You get a higher response rate with a higher match percentage.
/r/seduction25/02/18 06:02 PM
13

The only key you will ever need is courage. Courage is the willingness to run toward what you'd rather run away from. It is doing exactly what you're afraid of.
/r/seduction23/02/18 11:19 PM
1

Haven't heard his work, but I'll take that as a compliment.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 03:21 AM
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Feminine energy is free roaming and chaotic, and chooses to anchor down via masculine energy that provides order and structure. The keyword here is choice, however. Though not 100%, masculine love is more unconditional. It loves more freely than feminine energy. With less conditions, all masculine energy can do is allow a woman to come to him like a moth drawn to a flame. In a practical scenario, men display personality, allow a woman be captured by it, then draw her in. Notice how none of this …
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 01:25 AM
1

Same. I've met a lot of women in real life scenarios just by going out. Literally half the battle is getting the fuck out of the house.
/r/seduction19/02/18 04:11 AM
3

I have a co-worker with basically no neck, skinny, pale. Looks like he belongs in a clown horror movie. He's the center of attention, especially with women. And he has a girlfriend.
/r/seduction19/02/18 04:10 AM
0

I run my own pickup business. Bravo. Excellent post.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 11:31 PM
6

You don't find TRP. TRP finds you.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/18 03:23 AM
1

Dating coach here. Your impression of PUAs may not be accurate. Does an exotic dancer's job title make her a whore?
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 04:44 PM
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Masculine love is dominant, honest, and is fueled by respect. Feminine love is more submissive, fearful, and is fueled by awe. Masculine and feminine energies are not subjective to physical gender. Pain makes an individual more masculine. Take a look at sweet women who have been through multiple bad divorces or breakups; their emotional aura scars over and becomes more aggressive. It's quite fascinating.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:02 PM
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Sounds like you may still be in pain, which is part of unplugging. We all had to go through it at one point or another. There are 5 stages of TRP. Denial. Anger. Bargaining. Depression. Acceptance. I completed my five stages a long time ago, and this is the lesson I've learned: Women are not inherently evil. They are doing what they think is best, truly and genuinely. And as men, we do what we think is best, as well. Just as men detest women of obesity, women are repulsed by weak and needy men. …
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:38 AM
7

I'm not married, but I would upvote this a thousand times if I could. Works great for all LTRs.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/18 04:50 AM
4

One of the reasons I'm leaning toward open relationships. Women do want a stable and emotional connection with only one man, but eventually both the man and woman in the relationship will want sexual variety. If the biggest wake up call to the Red Pill is physical deceit, then defining an open relationship from the very beginning disarms any potential lying. Physical commitment to one person for the rest of your life just doesn't make sense for either gender, just as eating one meal for the rest…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 12:24 AM
7

Preferably an emotional beating. I will never physically hit a woman.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:24 PM
3

My curiosity on her motive to do this escalated until you mentioned you disappeared for a few days on Tinder. Sounds like she may have had some severe emotional issues. Sorry you have to go through this bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:23 AM
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Passing both shit tests and comfort tests, for example, assertively telling your LTR to stop giving you driving directions in the car when you clearly have GPS on your phone, but holding her hand afterwards to let her know you care if she shuts down.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 03:16 AM
1

Nice. Never thought of this exit strategy.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:56 AM
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Good post. Adding my two cents, women don't deliberately do this. They do so on a subconscious level. Sneak on over to RedPillWomen, and you'll see plenty of women talking about consciously vetting (shit testing) alphas for long-term and sustainable relationships. They want emotional intimacy, but they only want it from Captain-made material. The moment they are aware their man is not fit for duty, they will move on or breakup the relationship. Non-redpill women, regardless of their self-awarene…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 02:51 AM
1

Probably.
/r/seduction21/01/18 06:37 PM
1

I just made a post on this an hour ago on this sub. Title: "What mind of woman are you looking for?"
/r/seduction21/01/18 06:29 PM
2

Missed opportunity at 1:07
/r/seduction21/01/18 06:26 PM
2

You might get one more lay if you end up grabbing your wallet at her place, but it doesn't sound like she's very interested. Or she might be interested but she's more interested in someone else. If you're ever confused as to what you should do, always look at a woman's actions and not her words.
/r/seduction21/01/18 06:07 PM
2

Meeting someone of equal or greater value in terms of physical and emotional attraction is what got me over my hump. I had to process a fuck ton of emotions before even thinking about getting out there again. Took me 6 months to feel okay. Took me a year to let go completely. I've met some great girls so far, and I know I'll eventually find one that fits all my needs. Currently enjoying all the different flavors until one of them manages to get me to settle down.
/r/seduction21/01/18 05:23 AM
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The best "technique" is to feel good. Naturally creates good vibes, smiling, and sexual tension. You feel good by doing things you enjoy, hanging out with your buddies, or by building your way up socially (talking to an old lady, then a moderately attractive girl, then a very attractive girl).
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 12:50 PM
2

Might want to YouTube "Blonde In the Belly of the Beast". Intelligent, self aware, and surprisingly good looking.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:03 AM
20

I run a dating coach business and I have an affinity for cougars. Can't believe I didn't think of hotel bars. I'd upvote this a thousand times if I could. Thanks.
/r/seduction11/01/18 04:39 AM
7

There's a term for extremely feminine, straight men. Twink, I believe.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 05:23 PM
2

Thanks. Nice to see it was re-posted.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/18 07:26 AM
1

With a username like that, you'll have an excellent year.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/18 05:08 PM
1

Grandfather had Alzheimer's. Not grandmother.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 06:48 PM
10

Top rated comment on YouTube: "Sorry to hear you lost your job. Have you considered a career driving for Uber?"
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 05:40 PM
6

Saw the eyes too. Boiled my blood for a split second.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/17 05:03 AM
38

Only the good ones. So never.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 10:56 PM
3

You are welcome.
/r/askTRP30/12/17 09:21 PM
83

Applies directly to cheating, as well. Completely guilt free until they've got a spotlight on them.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 09:10 PM
5

Build a healthy amount of narcissism. You won't be worried what others want; you'll only be worried about what you want.
/r/seduction30/12/17 01:24 PM
4

Good post. This behavior does not surprise anyone. Although to be honest, if I ever found a better match for me than whatever girl I'm dating at the time, I would probably upgrade too. Not sure hypergamy is limited to the one sex.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/17 04:22 AM
4

Sweet baby Jesus. This was a pleasure to read. It's unfuckingbelievable how women think they can "grace men" as if they were Mother Teresa. It's mind blowing, and yet men can adopt this mindset to their own advantage. And they should.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 08:57 PM
35

this
/r/askTRP28/12/17 02:56 PM
3

Not bad. Not bad at all.
/r/seduction27/12/17 09:59 PM
4

It's pretty traumatic. Many of us were once sweet, gentle souls. Now we're just men with guarded hearts.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 05:28 PM
3

Get ready to get roasted by all the angry guys on here. Relationships end. Marriages end. 60% of marriages end in divorce here in the US. Nothing lasts forever, and everything is impermanent. He doesn't want to screw around. He just doesn't want to lose too much money if the marriage ends. As for the "Sickness and in health" speech, you have no idea how many stories we've read on here, experienced, and seen first hand how women stick with their men while they're strong, then proceed to abandon t…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 03:17 PM
12

Women don't lie nearly as much as men think. Women truly believe their own words...in the moment.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 02:11 PM
3

Courtesy of another user. http://archive.is/99vxk
/r/TheRedPill26/12/17 08:44 PM
1

I'd be surprised if she wasn't.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 08:52 AM
1

Women are the gatekeepers of sex. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Each harbors their opposing resource in scarcity. To a man, sexual affairs are the ultimate form of betrayal, while emotional affairs mean nothing. To a woman, emotional affairs are the ultimate form of betrayal, while sexual affairs mean nothing.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 07:20 AM
1

If he hadn't had dinner with her, he never would've had the opportunity to unplug. Guarantee you he'll be searching for TRP soon, if he hasn't already.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/17 04:08 AM
1

Everything comes to an end. Most women cheat, branch swing, or initiate breakups in long term relationships. Even if none of these happen, death will do you part.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:59 AM
1

Screenshoted, saved, and bookmarked. Amazing fucking post.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 04:56 AM
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Best comment on relationships I've seen in a while. Hats off.
/r/seduction23/12/17 04:34 AM
23

I know where you're coming from, but long term relationships require a solid foundation of trust. If he started acting insecure, it would only create a self fulfilling prophecy. He's not "letting" his friends try to fuck her. He's acknowledging the nature of them. It's ultimately up to the woman he's dating to determine if she's worth staying with. The moment a woman decides to flirt back, give her number away, or fuck another guy...drop her like a fly. That's what his comment is communicating.
/r/seduction23/12/17 04:33 AM
1

Jesus mother of fuck this shit boiled my blood. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 04:04 AM
2

The Cuckening 2 😂😂😂. Don't think I've ever thrown my head back so hard in laughter. This comment needs to be at the top.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 04:03 AM
2

Good stuff.
/r/seduction21/12/17 03:57 PM
-1

Was never a fan of Todd's work. Too analytical. Doesn't spend enough time explaining to his clients on embracing or creating the mindset/energy of a fun guy, but spends all his time talking about female psychology. Didn't expect Tyler to start a war over content that hardly competes with his.
/r/seduction21/12/17 05:05 AM
1

This shit really makes you depressed and motivated at the same time. I’d rather die semi-young than have someone wipe my own ass. I’m taking care of my body as best I can to slow down the inevitable, and this post helps remind me of that. Thanks for the post OP.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 04:13 AM
9

Guys and I over at TRP appreciate gals like you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 10:28 PM
2

ThatStepfordGal: “You are the first mate, so since you have a lot more experiences and knowledge, use that to advise but not tell him what to do exactly. Because of your unique relationship, he should give some more weight than usual to your advice when it comes to having more experience or wisdom in certain areas.” OP, I like this answer the best. I was 25 when I met my 42 year old ex. She was rarely submissive because “she was older and more experienced.” Needless to say, her inability to back…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/17 05:22 PM
4

Go into your next LTR with this knowledge, and your relationship will flourish. It is an inevitable matter of time before she sucks another cock dry behind your back, leaves you, or branch swings. It makes living in the moment, and every moment with her, that much more enjoyable. Remember: She’s not yours. It’s just your turn.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:59 PM
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Deadbedrooms makes me vomit. Posted some TRP material on there once. Comment was immediately removed. Let’em fuck themselves over; they’ll eventually hear their own wake up call. You don’t find TRP. It finds you.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 04:59 AM
2

It’s your neurochemistry. Give anyone a line of cocaine and they’ll be as confident and as happy as can be...for a few hours. Don’t do cocaine. I do something called the ketogenic diet. Cured my depression and anxiety right out the window. Haven’t looked back since.
/r/seduction14/12/17 02:04 PM
2

Spot on.
/r/seduction09/12/17 02:04 AM
1

Tinder works best when you’ve got decent looks. You’re better off knowing how to talk to women in person. Go to places you already hang out at. My favorite place is a coffee shop; they literally come to you. All you have to do is open your mouth if they sit next to you. You can do this by this making an observation on what she’s doing or how she might be feeling. “You look really intense” with a playful tone is my typical opener. Look at my profile. I do all my one-on-one work pro bono. Any dona…
/r/seduction08/12/17 08:45 PM
1

You’re way over analyzing, friend. Game isn’t a science. It’s an ongoing experience.
/r/seduction08/12/17 08:35 PM
2

You’re asking me how to have a basic conversation at this point. You may want to work on basic socializing skills which can be done by just talking to people that don’t make you anxious. Any “follow-ups” might be met with more “what should I say next?” questions. Use common sense. In this situation, you could just keep guessing her profession and maybe even use a funny guess, such as body guard.
/r/seduction08/12/17 08:29 PM
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Everybody’s favorite topic is themselves. Don’t ask questions about her, but rather make statements based on what you observe. Source: I’m a dating coach
/r/seduction08/12/17 05:24 PM
2

Been itching to hear about him.
/r/seduction03/12/17 03:28 AM
2

First book is more of a story and less practical. Haven't read the second book, but I have a feeling there's more TRP in there just by the title alone. "The truth: an uncomfortable book about relationships"
/r/TheRedPill30/11/17 05:51 AM
1

Can confirm. It's about embracing inner darkness. Equates to self love by being whole. Source: I'm a pro bono [dating coach](www.masculineclass.com)
/r/seduction29/11/17 07:07 AM
2

"Puts her in her place when she's acting up" That's a self aware woman. I'd date her.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 09:10 PM
1

Watch "Grain Brain" by Dr. Perlmutter on YouTube
/r/TheRedPill27/11/17 05:38 AM
1

There have been too many studies showing how carbs/gluten/sugar cause depression via inflammation. Cut out all the bad shit for a week and watch your confidence increase dramatically. Read or watch "Grain Brain" by Dr.Perlmutter
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 03:19 PM
1

There have also been too many studies showing how carbs/gluten/sugar cause depression via inflammation. Cut out all the bad shit for a week and watch how much better you'll feel. Read or watch "Grain Brain" by Dr.Perlmutter
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 03:18 PM
1

Only reason women in older generations stuck by their men is because men were more Red Pill back then. Traditional gender roles. Now all we have is masculine women and feminine men. Sad.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 03:10 PM
4

Comfort test: Moments of women needing/desiring comfort to establish a more bonding relationship. Men fail this by being cold or non-responsive. Shit test: A woman's testing of a man's frame. Can he handle a joke/teasing comment? Does he follow orders, or does he give them? Men fail this by becoming emotional or weak, or by being submissive to a social interaction.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 06:07 AM
1

Horny goat weed supplement does wonders. Absurd name for a legitimate supplement. Sneak it in his tea when he's not looking.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 05:59 AM
0

His fault he demoted himself to beta. His fault he also didn't learn about comfort tests.
/r/TheRedPill21/11/17 05:03 AM
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Was disappointed with his demeanor. He's BP as fuck and lacking masculinity. It's also possible she dumped him because of further insecurity on his part.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:18 PM
2

It's only awkward if you make it awkward.
/r/seduction17/11/17 05:51 PM
2

How to chat up a random woman without any special opening lines: 1) Make an observation about her. 2) State said observation to her. 3) No observation? Just tell her you saw her and had to come talk to her. 4) Ask only a few questions to find out what she's up to. This is rarely needed. 5) Proceed to state more observations based off what she says.
/r/seduction16/11/17 03:02 AM
1

If she does, that's good. It means she's invested more in you. But to answer your question: tell the truth. If you didn't cheat on her, why the fuck would you lie?
/r/askTRP15/11/17 10:24 PM
5

It's time to up the dread. Dread = Her fear of losing you. Examples: -Chat up attractive waitresses in front of your LTR. -Increase your SMV -Hang out with platonic female friends -Go out late and don't text her till next morning Implement correctly, and she'll fuck you faster than an overly paid street whore. And you don't have to cheat on her.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:30 PM
2

Spot on.
/r/askTRP15/11/17 03:13 PM
1

Plan B won't do shit if it's taken too late, and condoms do break.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 01:17 PM
1

Most people submit to you.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 08:09 AM
2

Dependapotamus? Lmfao. Never heard that term used before. You, sir, are a scholar.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 01:33 AM
2

We can all give you the same advice; break up, dump her ass, she's nothing but trouble, etc. But there are no greater teachers than pain and experience. Make your mistakes, then come back to r/TheRedPill when your reality is broken.
/r/askTRP07/11/17 06:35 PM
2

He's living his blue pill reality while he can. We all experienced it at one point. He'll have his reality broken in the future, and once that happens, be there to offer the red pill, and he'll make that choice all on his own. He'll thank you for it later.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:28 PM
2

I wear Acqua Di Gio every time I go out. I literally have women sniffing me out from a crowd. Too many compliments.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:05 PM
1

Awesome post.
/r/seduction05/11/17 04:21 PM
3

Thanks. It's a fulfilling lifestyle. No one deserves to be alone.
/r/seduction04/11/17 05:51 PM
6

Making her cum is done physically, but the precursor for it to happen is mostly mental. You're not going to be able to orgasm if you're imagining having sex with a hairy fat chick, and she's not going to be able to orgasm if she's imagining having sex with a beta. Be more alpha when you're not screwing. Foreplay starts well before you enter the bedroom.
/r/askTRP04/11/17 09:32 AM
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You're welcome. I also give free coaching via Reddit, Skype, email, and calls. I could never afford a coach when I was younger, so I want to make sure those who can't afford it get services for free. Edit: I'm a dating coach.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:32 AM
1

You're welcome.
/r/seduction04/11/17 08:27 AM
1

Sounds like your wife might not be fucking you enough, or at least not good enough. Start implementing some dread, and she'll add more value than you asked for.
/r/askMRP02/11/17 01:42 AM
1

He genuinely might not worry. A woman should be afraid enough to lose the marriage, so if she decides to pull off some shit like Tinder, he'd drop her ass quicker than a slippery bowling ball. Would the divorce hurt? Fuck yeah it would. But new pussy is always better.
/r/askMRP02/11/17 01:38 AM
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This little shit-fit of yours could lead to a divorce if you don't get your act together. If you confront her for something she may not have done, you're fucked. She'll see right through to your insecurities and she'll dump your ass, or worse: she'll cheat on you and never tell you. First off, allow yourself to freak out internally, but never show it physically unless you're alone. Allow yourself to feel anxious or depressed about the situation. Resisting or fighting any negative emotions only r…
/r/askMRP02/11/17 01:23 AM
2

I know the feeling of sickness sinking to the pit of your stomach. It's hard as fuck. But you made the right choice for you. It's not that she didn't find you physically attractive, but she lost excitement in the relationship, and emotional excitement is what turns women on sexually. At the very least, she had some self control, assuming she didn't cheat. Don't fight the pain. Embrace it. Fighting it will only reinforce it and make it stronger. The next few months will be tough as shit, but you'…
/r/askTRP02/11/17 12:48 AM
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Inner game has to be in check. If you're still anxious, it's up to you if you want to drink some liquid courage. Requirements: You must already have some game. Pick a girl you like. If she's in a group, start chatting up her friends. Crucial to avoiding cock blocking. Any efforts you make toward flirting with your target girl will be useless if they drag her away, so you need to make friends with them first. Once you've gained approval of her friends, start chatting up your girl. If there's a go…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 09:28 PM
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Get off the sub. Looks don't matter for shit. End of discussion.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/17 12:09 AM
2

Agree with the other comment. Do nothing. Youngsters like you are more emotional, so it won't just be a quick hookup.
/r/seduction30/10/17 11:48 PM
1

Sounds like she's winging it, which means she may want to spend even more time once the date is officially over. If she doesn't cancel completely, then she's still down. Don't sweat it.
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:55 PM
1

Always be honest about expectations. They will only respect you more.
/r/seduction30/10/17 09:52 PM
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No, they won't. Being vulnerable is a feminine trait, and this is something that masculine men are attracted to. Just make sure not to dump everything at once.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 04:11 PM
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You sound a lot like my ex girlfriend. If you're not submissive, you'll end up attracting submissive men, and you may end up cheating on them or leaving them because they won't instill enough excitement in you. If you find a dominant man, you'll end up clashing with him, and he may leave you. Solution: Be as vulnerable and as open as you can to the next guy you date. It's terrifying at first, but you have to be truthful about who you are. Admitting to all of your truths and faults is the very de…
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:23 PM
1

Don't know if you realize it, but you're already implementing some dread game. Take it up a notch by making platonic female friends with other women, then let your LTR know you're gong to hang out with them. Her hamster will start running. She'll never complain about sex again.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 01:15 PM
1

Nice field report. It looks like you've got more balls than the average guy.
/r/seduction28/10/17 09:18 PM
5

Classic shit test. Ignore it or amplify. Amplify example: "Looks like someone's into gang bangs ;)" Edit: I'm a dating coach.
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:23 AM
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Most of the girls I meet aren't girlfriend material by my own personal standards. So no, you're not the only one. There has to be luck of finding her, chemistry, stability, a blue moon, and the sacrifice of a small pig in order to establish a relationship. I'm going to be single for a while, and I'm okay with that. Edit: I'm a dating coach.
/r/seduction27/10/17 01:20 AM
1

I'm curious to see what /RedPillWomen have to say about this.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 01:19 AM
2

The best phrases to become more masculine (found in another post) "Toughen up" "Man up" "Fuck it" Pick one.
/r/askTRP24/10/17 12:45 AM
2

Dating coach here. Do nothing.
/r/seduction21/10/17 03:11 AM
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You better delete this before you get banned. This question belongs in /AskTRP.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 10:06 PM
1

The choice is yours to make. The guys and I over at the red pill will be here to give you a kick in the dickhole regardless of whether or not you go back to her. That's how we bond.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 08:14 PM
2

I've field tested all of the following multiple times over the past 3 years: Acqua di Gio Armani Code One million Jean Paul Gaultier's Le Male Dior Home Dior Sauvage Dior Homme Sport Bleu De Chanel The winner: Acqua Di Gio Performance: I go out to clubs every weekend. I've literally (not figuratively) had women sniff me out from a crowd of people because of how good it smells. There's not one single night where I don't receive compliments. It makes a tremendous difference in my game. If I'm danc…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/17 06:55 AM
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A lot of us have been through similar troubles. The other commenter is right; it will always be exhausting, and it shouldn't be that way. A good relationship is one where you feel like you can relax with her while still being the dominate one in the relationship. I dated a woman like this once, and we always ended in a breakup then get back together cycle. She claimed she loved me, but I ended things when I discovered she was planning on meeting with other men in secrecy. We can sit here and giv…
/r/askTRP16/10/17 05:43 AM
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You and I are around the same age. Can agree with with most of your post. Excellent information. I want to add my own bit of experience: Embracing pain was my salvation in terms of enhancing my social confidence. Fear stops us from connecting with others, and we fear because the pain of getting rejected by others (be it someone close or otherwise) is too great. I thought vulnerability or being exposed was the answer, but it was in the embracing of pain that dissipated pain itself. In terms of sp…
/r/seduction15/10/17 05:48 AM
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You also didn't mention getting your heart ripped out by an ex. That's how most men go redpill in the first place. Step 1: Fall in love Step 2: Wait until she cheats on you
/r/askTRP13/10/17 11:17 AM
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I did this just the other day. Not something I do often because I'm focused on getting things done, but I received plenty of smiles back. It makes an opens-approach 100x more effective.
/r/seduction10/10/17 03:06 PM
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You might want to check up on my post history in the next few days. I'm about to write my biggest post regarding love and how to never be afraid of getting hurt by a woman ever again.
/r/seduction06/10/17 05:21 PM
2

Asshole-ism is expression of the self. Suppression (being a nice guy out of fear) is on the other side of the spectrum. It's not the asshole part that women enjoy. It's the fearlessness that allows for it. We are attracted to and follow those who are not afraid to be who they are. You can be more expressive by being more compassionate towards yourself. This is done by embracing every feeling in your body as it comes rather than suppressing it, and by embracing every facet of who you are. EFT foc…
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:25 PM
1

The ability to self express equals fearlessness. Humans respect others who are not afraid. My ex girlfriend was the same...bitchy, dominant-driven, and manipulative until she said or did something that reallypissed me off. She was the sweetest thing the next day. You did good.
/r/askTRP04/10/17 12:15 PM
1

Women do not have enough courage to take responsibility for their actions, so they are naturally fearful. And you're correct; it is not their fault for being this way. They are incapable of handling consequences like we can, so men truly are the stronger sex. Acknowledging their fear will help you accept them for who they are. They need us.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/17 03:24 PM
4

Back off. Keep fucking her. Let her bring up the idea of a relationship. Keep your heart in check. Fin.
/r/askTRP02/10/17 01:14 AM
2

If no one expressed desire in a new partner, no action would take place. It's okay to want someone, but it's not okay to be excessive about it. Negative social conditioning through emotional suppression as a child is the determining factor in our ability to socialize. Suppressing the need for love can be so bad that the child becomes an asshole as he grows up, or it can also show up as neediness in relationships because that need was never met. An analogy would be building up the pressure inside…
/r/seduction01/10/17 07:28 PM
4

This advice is so simple yet covers so many different components of socializing/pickup. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy in and of itself, creates trust, comfort, confidence. Good post.
/r/seduction01/10/17 04:37 PM
1

Good post.
/r/seduction01/10/17 04:27 PM
2

Charisma is desire without neediness. It could take hours to explain it.
/r/seduction01/10/17 02:08 AM
1

Sometimes it's a waste of time, sometimes it's not. I text gamed a 10 for two months and finally got her to hang with me in person. She loves alcohol; once we met, it was game on.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:26 AM
1

Soft next or dread game her. Soft next: ignoring all texts/calls for a few days to a week, then nonchalantly getting back to her after said time. Dread: let her know you're now hanging out with other girls, but don't give away details. Her imagination will think these hangouts are sexual, when in reality you were just grabbing a cold one with the boys. But if you do have female friends, platonic or otherwise, that's even better. If all fails, drop the bitch. No woman ever says that to me and kee…
/r/askTRP30/09/17 10:20 AM
2

You can still show interest if she reaches out to you, but nonchalantly. Reply for a bit, then plan to meet. If she doesn't reciprocate, then walk away by telling her "You know how to reach me if you change your mind. Have great week." And leave it at that (because that's all you can do). Expressing desire without fearlessness is the very definition of charisma, and should be expressed openly.
/r/seduction30/09/17 04:20 AM
2

Common textbook shit test. If you chase, she'll back away. She messaged you because you decided to quit chasing. If you want this to lead to something more, then keep the conversation light and playful. Do not: talk about emotions, relationships, etc. If you end up screwing, then fuck her really good until she brings up the topic of exclusivity. Allow it to be her idea, not yours.
/r/seduction28/09/17 10:26 PM
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I dove into self-improvement for almost a decade before realizing one thing: our authentic self can never be changed. I strongly believe introversion is an unnatural byproduct of negative social conditioning. In order to change, we need to accept the fact that we can't. Then and only then will change occur. It's not necessarily our inner core that changes, but rather our ability to express what was already there. To fix this, you need one thing: Masculine vulnerability. This is not to be confuse…
/r/seduction28/09/17 10:14 PM
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You can do without the verbals. What I personally do is offer a good shoulder rub. When she's nice and relaxed, I pull her hair aside to expose one side of her neck, then ease into her ear to talk slowly. After that, I lightly kiss her neck, and 99% percent of the time they melt like chocolate on a hot spoon. Go for it. You've got this.
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:48 PM
3

All normal functioning human beings crave for connection. Not weird at all. Getting laid doesn't take the pain away, and it can get old after a while. Best piece of advice: don't fight it, but embrace it. Ironically enough, the simple act of allowing yourself to feel whatever it is you're feeling will allow your mind and body to process it, thus helping you feel better and raising your energetic state. This is when you actually find someone.
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:40 PM
1

Exclude the alcohol. Results may vary.
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:36 AM
2

Your brother is a fuck wit. Source: check my username.
/r/seduction28/09/17 12:03 AM
1

This is not something I would do. If I can tell a woman wants to kiss me, I just go in for the kiss. No need to say it out loud. Source: check my username.
/r/seduction28/09/17 12:03 AM
2

Something RSD Jeffy said: "Pickup is nothing more than making it easy for a girl to suck your dick." Can agree with other commenters on putting her hand on your crotch. Also, carrying extra alcohol with you helps. White wine is a good choice; doesn't taste like ass and gets the job done.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 02:38 AM
0

If she hasn't been exhibiting any issues after three months, the only person having an issue with it is you.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:17 AM
1

We should make it a point to keep these posts short and sweet, as well. It's a headache having to read through essays rather than getting to the point. Not every post has a TL;DR.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:16 AM
4

To an extent, looks don't matter for shit. If you're not deformed, are average height, and know how to speak english, the only thing keeping you from attracting a 7 or higher is a lack of confidence. I've seen all different types of men attract hot women...tall, short, fat, skinny. The common denominator was always confidence. Always. It's good to be a man.
/r/seduction24/09/17 09:05 AM
2

Very nice. Women need constant reminders of our value. A man with standards is a man of value.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 10:23 PM
1

If you can't afford to go to the gym, now would be a good time to whore yourself out for money. Fat bitches need love too.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 12:28 AM
6

It's been a while since we've seen a good dread post. Anyone who is up to the task should do so.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 02:53 AM
1

Depends on how much I like her, if there's chemistry, etc. Phone Number only: 5 minutes The Quickie: 15 minutes Instant date: 2 hours
/r/seduction15/09/17 03:56 AM
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Texting is the norm nowadays. Younger girls are hardly inclined to answer phone calls, so text game should be worked on. 1) Initiate with an exciting memory of you two when you met. 2) Never ask questions. Make statements or commands. 3) Take several hours to reply. Half a day, even a full day. 4) Keep your messages short. One full sentence is already too much. 5) Add her on social media and make sure she sees you having fun with other people. 6) Invite her to join you and your friends at X time…
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:17 PM
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Practical pulling at bars: 1) Let your wingman disarm/distract her friend(s) 2) Chat up your target girl. Isolate her. 3) Grab a drink or two. 4) If you're gaming well and your rapport/vibe is good, go in for a makeout after a little bit of kino-escalation. Touch builds trust. 5) While things are hot and heavy: "Wanna get out of here?" But don't wait for her response. Just take her hand and lead her back to your place or hers. If she doesn't want to go, she'll pull back. Repeat steps 4 and 5 as …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 01:00 PM
5

There's a good chance you have what's identified as an energy-sucking personality. You may have a strong need for social approval. If this is true, and you deny it, it will only reinforce itself. I have a co-worker who's like this. On the outside, he looks like a normal individual, but as soon as he gets near you and starts talking, you just want to run. I've never been so appalled by someone such as him. He's grotesquely needy. To fix this, understand the following, first: Men love women. Women…
/r/askTRP06/09/17 04:39 AM
1

My greatest mentor, a natural Red Piller in his sixties, said this to me after I asked how he was so successful with women when he was younger: "I never asked out the ugly ones."
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 03:46 PM
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I was going to make a post similar to this just the other day. To complement this post: As men, we are meant to give without expectations. Such is the hierarchy of love. But we give masculine energy, not feminine. Abundance comes when we ourselves feel loved, though not from people, but from the energy that surrounds us. It's not a new-age or spiritual concept, either; feeling loved is nothing more than a belief or feeling. If you are able to close your eyes and imagine feeling loved, that's the…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/17 12:58 AM
1

What OP did by going on vacation knowing there would be trouble was the very equivalent of dread. The company saw his value, and they're on their toes...for now. Companies need to be reminded of an employee's value the same way a woman is reminded of a man's value.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/17 12:40 PM
1

Paying my respects. Sweet moments of revenge by saying ego-satisfying statements to your ex can be very very satiating, but you did the right thing by not walking into her frame. They don't always come running back, but whether they do or don't doesn't matter. You do you.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 07:38 AM
3

I would say go easy on him, but this is too fun to watch.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 07:27 AM
15

The guys and I over at TRP would kill to have women like this in our lives, but RP-aware or traditionally submissive women are a rarity. The pain of sexual rejection is as strong as you say it is; we choose a very special woman to commit to, and to have her reject us (habitually) takes a huge hit to the ego. We go to the gym, whiten our teeth, work long hours for money, shower thoroughly, get haircuts, build new skills, work on inner game, all because we do our best to be attractive as possible …
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/17 07:30 PM
1

My female friends are a joke. No matter their age, they all act like teenagers. Find an alpha and make friends with him. Male friends are loyal, and most of them won't stab you in the back.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 07:33 AM
1

I live in Northwest Arkansas, and used to live in Dallas, TX. I've accumulated 150 hours of practice of two-step just going to clubs and asking any and all girls to dance. First few times were disastrous, but you slowly build your skill set. Within the course of 4 months of non-stop visits to clubs, I went from dance chump, to the top 2% of best country dancers at any given time. I became very very good, really really fast. At my current skill set, on a typically weekend, I dance with 15-20 girl…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 07:28 AM
1

Can attest to this. An ex-girlfriend of mine has a very high sex drive. Said she didn't want a relationship, but ended up falling in love with me anyway. Later discovered she was fucking around behind my back. After I dropped her, she never stopped complaining how lonely she got from being single. It's not easy being a Chad, and it's not easy being a Chadette.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 07:09 AM
1

Don't sweat it. We've all been there at least once.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 06:57 AM
12

I'm on Keto for every benefit except weight loss, and there are a lot of benefits. A lot of Keto followers have mentioned their depression and anxiety completely disappearing, and I can attest to this myself. Fuck yes to Keto.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 06:55 AM
2

Don't know who the fuck this Doom-and-Gloom moron is, but you sound like an excellent father. Your son is lucky to have you. Love your post.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 06:51 AM
2

I'm in my twenties. This makes me want to have a son of my own, but I don't want kids. Luckily, my little brother is 7 years old. My father never taught me about power, women, or life in general; I had to learn everything on my own. Lucky for my brother, I'll be able to guide him away from all the religious and nice-guy bullshit that my parents are brainwashing him with. Can't wait till he's 21 so we can grab a cold one.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/17 06:47 AM
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That's the "end" goal, yes. I'm thinking of writing another post in relation to something called The Completion Method that originated from ancient teachings in Vedism. It focuses on letting go of past trauma or emotional difficulties that affect us in our present day-to-day lives. Teal Swan has written a book on this, but I disagree on some of the add-ons she includes. Stay tuned via my post history.
/r/seduction05/08/17 12:50 AM
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That's exactly what you should do. Ironically, when you do that, you'll begin to open up more.
/r/seduction02/08/17 10:06 PM
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Your thoughts.
/r/seduction02/08/17 07:02 PM
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Fucking love this.
/r/seduction02/08/17 08:58 AM
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Fuck no.
/r/seduction01/08/17 10:05 PM
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Absolutely. I came across that same notion, as well. I was afraid I would lose motivation, ambition, and incentive to move forward, but it's interesting to note that I didn't. If anything, I was more fueled in my endeavors knowing I was doing everything from a place of enjoyment rather than personal insufficiency (i.e. Lifting weights for the dopamine highs, working on my business for the fulfillment of helping others, learning a third language because it's fun, gaining the skills to do live per…
/r/seduction01/08/17 08:55 PM
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Nothing biological, I presume, just emotional/intellectual. I'm not working towards the final release anymore, because there is none. There is only the realization and the acceptance of your true nature. That's when values such as honesty, authenticity, transparency, and integrity became the critical components of who I am today.
/r/seduction01/08/17 07:19 PM
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No, but it's now on my bucket list of books to read.
/r/seduction01/08/17 06:50 PM
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I should clarify the giving up referred to giving up on chasing after women, not life itself.
/r/seduction01/08/17 06:46 PM
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I use to live in the city. Now I live in Arkansas. The back of my neck got a little red, I listen to country music, and I know how to two-step dance better than the top 5% of the population who knows two-step. Case and point: I dance with 15-25 girls a night. Bishes love it.
/r/seduction01/08/17 11:38 AM
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Never memorize openers. The answer is always in your internal dialogue. If you think the outfit she's wearing is a little too pink, say it out loud, but say it with a smile. This way she'll know you're joking or being playful. You could say the most ridiculous things, but as long as you smile and are genuinely being playful, your internal dialogue will solve everything for you.
/r/seduction30/07/17 05:13 AM
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What your resists, persists. Keep it a secret. I've never cheated, and I never will. Integrity and brutal honesty mean everything to me. If asked, I tell all my plates I am seeing other girls, and I don't want a relationship. Guess what? They stick around anyways. However, if I ever cheated and wanted to keep my significant other around, I wouldn't open my mouth. Internally speaking, you should embrace what you did, and here's why: should you continue fighting the guilt rather than accepting it,…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 09:34 AM
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Epic fucking post. Bravo. One of my favorite reads by far.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/17 08:29 AM
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This comment is pure gold. No girl is ever "different". If you want a relationship, keep hanging out, keep fucking, and wait for the moment her hormones in her body tell her to ask for a relationship; NEVER push for one first. Let them come around. They always do.
/r/seduction27/07/17 04:18 AM
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The worst piece of advice is "just be yourself." Coincidentally, the best piece of advice is "just be yourself." It's the worst advice because no one tells you how to be yourself, but it's simultaneously the only thing that works. Asking questions is currently working against you. Instead, allow your internal dialogue to come forth verbally. Make comments, critique what she or her friends are wearing, and share stories. "That dress looks a little tight on you, I'm surprised you can breathe." "Hi…
/r/seduction23/07/17 09:54 AM
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I second this comment. Dated an abused ex. Worst mindfuck of a relationship I've ever been in.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/17 11:34 PM
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I like your attitude. I find your hatred of 9-5 corporate jobs just as agreeable as my own. Be smarter than other losers and at least get a degree that can help you build your own business. Marketing, Business Management, etc.
/r/seduction14/07/17 09:03 AM
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My only regret is that I couldn't downvote this comment more than once. Pickup is a hobby, not a substitute for school.
/r/seduction14/07/17 08:59 AM
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I'm cringing at some of these comments. Contrary to your belief, pickup would be the best thing for you right now. Pulling girls with the added challenge of braces will only make your game that much easier when they come off. It's great that you want to better yourself, but that doesn't mean girls won't want to fuck you if you have braces on. Ever wonder how complacent, non-ambitious potheads get some of the hottest girls? Validation. I remember logging into Yahoo Answers one time when I was 14.…
/r/seduction14/07/17 08:37 AM
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Don't EVER ask a woman for help unless she's explicitly self aware of female behavior (extremely rare). Make friends with guys who are good at picking up women.
/r/seduction14/07/17 08:10 AM
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Wise words, genuinely. The downvotes you received here are from individuals who don't understand male/female dynamics, stoicism, and the art of being a man. You definitely belong with us over at /TheRedPill subreddit.
/r/seduction14/07/17 08:04 AM
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Women are in demand, just as the top comment has mentioned. Women typically have emotional safety nets in place, i.e. lots of close friends, betas to cry on, etc.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 05:59 PM
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I agree with the other comment. Drop her to plate status, disconnect the emotions, and make sure to keep other plates around. Walking away is naturally effortless when you have other options. If she asks for a relationship, tell her to re-fuck the guy she cheated on you with.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 07:37 PM
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Setting a great example....Red Pill style. Saving this post.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 05:15 PM
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I disagree with the commenter Pepewasright, perhaps not on everything, but with revenge. Do what you can to make the best out of a situation by asserting yourself, but realize that exacting revenge is like poisoning your own coffee and expecting the other person to die. Time spent obsessing on someone else while you could be focusing on you goes against TRP. Forgiveness is not about the other person, dumb fucks. Forgiving them is for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/17 10:30 AM
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It's all about validation for the ego. It's important to men and women alike, but it's all an illusion. Let go of the illusion that women will bring happiness, and you paradoxically gain everything you desire when you no longer desire it.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 02:07 AM
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My God. 10 bottles of Red Pills wouldn't be able to fix this guy. I just about flipped a shit when she had the nerve to say "I'll call the cops on you." This guy deserves to be treated like garbage if he's going to allow that behavior. He's practically begging for it. Excellent video of a blue pill example.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/17 01:23 AM
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Nice to see a face on TRP. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 09:17 PM
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Trying going no carb. Ketogenic diet is the hardest shit to get into.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 06:58 AM
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"It just happened" "He manipulated me" "I was drunk." Women never take responsibility for their actions. TRP 101.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 06:47 AM
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My compliments to you, sir. We are all here to lift you up when you can't lift yourself. Curious to know what line of work you're doing, as well.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 04:45 PM
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I agree with the previous comment. Don't accept disrespect. She's not your girlfriend; it's okay to get pissed.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:50 AM
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Your grammar is atrocious, but I like your style.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 08:48 AM
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Hypergamy doesn't guarantee your girlfriend will cheat. It doesn't mean she won't, either. If it's a short leave, give it a chance to work things out. Believe it or not, some women are loyal to their relationships. Not all women are "bitches and whores", but they function upon instincts just as we do.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 07:08 AM
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Interesting article. Fast for a few days, work out, stop whacking off, and notice the difference. You'll be a completely different person. We cannot change our brain structure, but we can control how it reacts. In the end, we achieved the desired behavior; people will start to believe you're an extrovert. Excellent read.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 06:49 PM
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I won't recommend any methods for acknowledging self damaging patterns, but I believe we are all interested in knowing how we can create true, permanent change. Look up Psych-K.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 12:15 AM
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Men and women fall in love for different reasons. It is true; woman falls in love with the way man makes her feel, and not the man himself. True male love for a woman, however, is not necessarily unconditional, but loyal to a fault. TRP and RPW (Red Pill Women) is a symbiotic system designed to create realistic expectations in regards to the opposite sex. You can still fall in love, enjoy it while you can, but be consciously aware of her hypergamous nature, and never expect her to stay faithful.…
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 04:24 AM
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Hypergamy can either work for you, or against you. You choose.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/17 04:14 AM
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I'm going to answer this one because I can directly relate to the gentleman you're talking about. Men can be quite stubborn, but for good reasons. For starters, I would have to agree with other posts that you are most definitely not a plate. By paying for all the expenses, he's definitely interested in more than just sex. Speaking from personal experience, I've refused special favors from previous girlfriends because 1) I am not used to being pampered, and 2) Accepting favors means opening mysel…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 06:06 AM
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Male from TRP here. If a man is getting regular sex from his partner/spouse, there is little to be concerned about. Personally speaking, I've had a work wife in a previous job of mine while I was dating someone at the time. It meant nothing, we were very close friends, but I never spent time outside of work (alone). Women believe emotional affairs often lead to something physical, but most of the time this is not the case. Most men only get involved with physical affairs if their sexual needs ar…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/17 05:47 AM
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Christ on a stick. Best TRP post I've read by far. Couldn't stop grinning.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/17 05:13 AM
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Laughing is nothing more than a form of social approval. The ability to make someone laugh is by expressing your own set of beliefs through one word: criticism. Take a look at comedians, for example. They are always, always criticizing. If I saw a severely obese woman in a power chair with her fat flaps practically dragging behind her, my first instinct is to say "God damn. Have you ever heard of Planet Fitness?" If you found that paragraph humorous/funny, it's because it's a judgmental comment.…
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 09:12 PM
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I have a 7 year old brother that's currently being brain washed by my overly religious father and overly critical bitch of a mother. I will be there for him every step of the way to help him succeed. We are with you.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 04:21 AM
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You're on the right path. TRP is about channeling that anger into a very refined point of acceptance, and with it, a shift in focus from the outside to within.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:23 AM
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We've all been through similar experiences. We've all had that one woman, "The Man Maker", who introduced us to the reality of our world. Embrace the pain. Fighting it will only reinforce it. When you come out the other end stronger and more resilient, come back and read these comments to realize how far you've come. The pain you are currently enduring is the best thing that will ever happen to you.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 11:16 PM
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Didn't even get a quarter into the post before I upvoted. Excellent, excellent read.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/17 07:12 PM
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It's not gay if you don't make eye contact.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 09:54 PM
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Trying to make the best out of this thread by agreeing with your sentiment; you are your own authoritative figure once they die, but this is something that should happen right after leaving the nest. Emphasis on should.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 05:41 AM
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"As an island, you need to be okay with the fact that maybe you'll never have anybody stay on you. But that's when you gain power over the fear of being alone. That's when women will never have power over you." This. This a million times.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:56 PM
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"A majority of women I've asked out have outright told to my face that they would never date someone as short as me" Women will also tell you they won't sleep with a guy on the first date.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:09 PM
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Oh my God. Some of these are hilariously entertaining. I was humorously cringing the entire way through, but I'm glad you've finally managed to find your way onto the Red Pill path. Welcome to the brotherhood.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 05:17 AM
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This is excellent advice. I like hearing about stories like these where love is functioning how it should; included is the right balance of Red Pill mentality, and love. It's usually the first cheating whore that changes our perspectives on relationships, and keeps our hearts protected so we are never destroyed like that again. As a result, we start exhibiting take-it-or-leave-it attitudes because we now have the ability to do so; we can allow a woman into our hearts, but the guarded door at the…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 04:52 AM
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