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I think that you are overthinking things some. Even if a club is full of obnoxious horny guys you can still score. Don't worry about them, let them do their thing and fail. Also don't try to chit chat in a loud club, its not the right environment for that. I think you are too much in your head in these club interactions. First go out and just concentrate on having fun. Hit the dance floor and go crazy. Even if you cant dance people will notice that you are having a great time. The approach is pr…
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:41 PM
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One of the biggest parts of a conversation is being able to relate and jump off peoples stories. I used a game to get better at this. Think of the first word that comes to your mind and try to relate one of your life experiences to it. For example if I say 'cat' the first thing that pops in my mind is my neighbors cat from hell and how he destroyed my hammock. So in a conversation when someone talks about cats I could tell them the story about the cat from hell if it pops into my mind. At first …
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:11 PM
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Out of curiosity where are you from? You didn't include much detail about what you do in those 15/30 minutes of conversation, so I'll offer some general advice. Energy level. I notice that when I'm in a bad mood I tend to become less interesting and more mellow when I interact with women, so they get bored and leave. Your energy level should be up and your enthusiasm in life contagious. Topics of conversation. Try to change up what you talk about, maybe include some interesting stories about you…
/r/seduction07/05/14 05:06 PM
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There is nothing wrong with dinner as long as you pick a place that is casual and fun. There is a tapas place near me that has delicious sangria and small tables, so you are close and personal and kino is very easy. Since you live downtown maybe a small casual dinner and a walk around to a park could work well. You can also always do coffee or something like that. Dinners are only awkward if you fail to keep the conversation interesting and fun.
/r/seduction07/05/14 04:49 PM
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I think one of the easier things you can do is invite her to the parties you are going. A simple "Hey I'm going to XXXX party this weekend, you can join us" works well for me. If she says she can't go then its ok and later you can ask her to join you for coffee.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:41 PM
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In this situation you might not have enough time to chat before asking for the number. Its not ideal, but you have to go for it if you want it. Do you find anything about her interesting at all? Like her look or her comments in class.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:34 PM
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Can you sit next to her? If so just lean in right as class is ending and either try to get her number then and there or ask her if she has a minute afterwards. Don't use the lack of time as an excuse not to approach. I'm sure you have 30 seconds to spare between classes. All you have to say is "Hey, you seem interesting. Whats your number?" and arrange a meeting later.
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:17 PM
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yeah I felt pretty bad about saying that, but at the moment I couldn't think of a nice way to say it. All I was thinking was 'no'
/r/seduction18/03/14 08:39 PM
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One of my closest friends is a lesbian and it's hilarious watching people try to game her because she is just not into guys. She likes women, and that's it. There are so many straight girls out there to game that you don't have to go after lesbians. If this lesbian is a friend of yours get her to wing for you. I get my friend to open girls and introduce me later.
/r/seduction06/03/14 05:16 AM
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There are a lot of girls like the one you described at my university. Most of them on some deep level want to branch out of their own comfort zone and really experience life. The thing is that they never get pushed out of that zone because guys they interact with like to please the girls and agree with what they say. I think you are doing the right thing by challenging her views and calling her out on things, but you have to get her to slowly do things outside the comfort zone. I took a religiou…
/r/seduction25/02/14 06:50 PM
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You can make gym game work. Pay attention to girls getting right in your business or making eye contact. A simple "Hey" can open up a conversation. While you were on the treadmill next to her you could of just said "hey, i'll race you" and dialed the speed up. Just remember that girls will not open you, and you will have to make the first overt move. If a girl seems obviously uncomfortable when you say 'hey' then you can just go back to whatever you are doing. You can even walk away from a conve…
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:38 PM
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I agree with this. Being honest and open about yourself will lead others to open up to you as well. Once you get into a deep conversation it is much easier to become friends.
/r/seduction24/02/14 06:16 PM
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Next time you go alone try to find an 18+ dance club. They might have bigger covers for the under 21 crowd, but they will be packed with teens dancing. On the dance floor nobody notices if you are by yourself or not, and getting girls to dance with you is ridiculously easy. Even if you don't manage taking any girls home at least you had a fun time dancing with lots of people.
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:10 PM
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I think the problem was that you didn't really make a move on the girl for the whole time you were talking. Isolating her from the other girl at the beginning would of been the best choice. If you leave a conversation on a bad note it is tough to rejoin and try to build yourself up again. I wouldn't worry about your accent because most of the time accents help with girls. Next time you go to a party just try to keep your energy up and get out of a conversation if its going stale, so if you get b…
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:00 PM
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I didn't have a car either for my first year at uni. There should be some coffee shops around your campus where you can take girls on coffee dates, and then you can either ride a bus or walk her to your place. Also there should be some greenery somewhere in your campus where you could place a blanket down and have a picnic which should be super cheap.
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:31 AM
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I agree that messaging someone over facebook is convenient and easy and you can build some level of attraction, but in my experience there are more efficient ways of doing things. For me the most efficient way to utilize social media is to let it create social value for you. The first thing girls do when they add you is go through your pictures. Having a good number of pictures in which you are doing fun or active things with attractive people can multiply a girls interest in you. Its like in ad…
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:21 AM
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Crazy girls. Sometimes girls can be very good at hiding serious emotional issues, drug habits, or the fact that they just went off their meds. They can make a mess for you on the short run.
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:44 PM
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Sometimes when people say a smile is creepy its because the eyes don't match the mouth. Maybe this link will help. The guy had a theory about eyes playing a big part in smiling. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Smile#Duchenne_smiling
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:18 PM
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Have you tried things like meetup.com to meet people. I would be more focused on making friends first. If a girl asks you why you are on campus just tell her you like to go on walks. If approaching is difficult just try to plan on smiling and saying hi as you walk by someone. It might help ease the anxiety some.
/r/seduction19/02/14 08:03 PM
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I'll try to include more detail on my next one. When I started typing it, the report looked a lot bigger in the text box than it actually turned up to be in the post.
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:07 PM
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I didn't include a lot of detail on the conversation we had while walking from place to place mainly because it was tough to remember, but there was some chemistry between us right off the bat and it was easy to talk to her.
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:06 PM
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I felt bad about it right after sex because I realized that the other guy might of been under the impression that they are exclusive and here is his girl with me, and I really don't like her personality that much. Another thought I had was that I really didn't know anything about this other guy and that he might get mad and come after me if he finds out, and I avoid confrontations like that at all costs. So I tried to get more info on it the other times we met, and she said they were not exclusi…
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:01 PM
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I haven't had any luck in malls. Either the girls reject me, or not answer my calls and texts if I get their number.Have you tried doing something like yoga or crossfit in your area, those are good places to make friends.
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:58 AM
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I wasn't in Austin, but in a college town farther north. But yeah there are a ton of bars on 6th.
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:51 AM
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"Have you ever tried these?" and point at something in salad bar. If you act friendly they usually talk to you.
/r/seduction19/02/14 02:48 AM
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It was around 1. I think it opens at 3
/r/seduction19/02/14 02:46 AM
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I was pretty much walking away when I told her to come with me, just assuming she would follow like she did before. I guess I was pretty assertive. P.S Austin is a great city to pickup girls. That whole foods downtown and the new one near the Domain have a constant flow of good looking women. Its so easy getting numbers there during the day
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:12 AM
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Thanks. Part of it was that I was pretty tired from the test and didn't really give a shit anymore. Usually I would of just been happy with a drinking buddy and not gone for it after the kiss had failed.
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:00 AM
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I'm not very good at clothing styles. She usually wears tight black jeans, tank top with a design and a leather jacket with spikes on the shoulders.
/r/seduction18/02/14 11:58 PM
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A simple "I want to take you to dinner and drinks on Friday at 6" works for me. You can always call sometime in the week. Don't over-think it and you should be fine.
/r/seduction18/02/14 03:08 PM
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I've been doing yoga for a year now and its a blast. Before opening any girls try to get friendly with the instructor. Once girls see you getting along with the instructor after class or before they will accept you as one of their own. Just ask the instructor some follow up questions on the positions or something like that to start the convo. Now that you are a regular girls will be open to talking to you. Sometimes I approach girls as I'm leaving the studio. I just walk next to them and start a…
/r/seduction17/02/14 06:54 AM
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Its tough being a single mom for two daughters. She has a lot of things in her mind, and is bound to be stressed about things. Which in turn leads to loss of confidence in her personal life. When girls complain about things or vent about stressful things all they want you to do is listen and empathize. If she is expressing doubts about the relationship then you might want to reassure her of your investment in it, that is if you really want to go forward. I think she might want a constant in her …
/r/seduction14/02/14 03:14 PM
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I would't worry about body language before you even approach a girl. There are too many factors in play that determine how a person looks at that specific time. She could of had a really bad morning or had a work problem that has her worried. None of these things mean that she wouldn't like some distraction in the form of a conversation with you. I have a lot of success opening girls that are looking at their phones. Most of them are not doing anything that important. They just want to kill time…
/r/seduction12/02/14 07:54 AM
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I second this. Have a blast at the party and she will realize she fucked up.
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:43 PM
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Tea and coffee dates are fun and I do them all the time. The most important thing is to situate yourself in a position where you can touch her easily. If you sit at a table across from her then it might be difficult to touch her. Every time you make a joke or tease her make sure you to touch her. Another part of escalating is sexual tension. Create a 'moment' between you two by holding her gaze and looking into her eyes. You can also do the triangle by looking from eye to eye and her mouth. Keep…
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:35 PM
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I like to do an exercise before going out which involves me saying the first word that comes into my head and trying to just talk about how I relate to it. For example if the first word is banana I talk about how its healthy, and it reminds me of playing Mario Kart. I use the exercise to get into the frame of mind of relating to random things that might pop up in a conversation. Don't be afraid to just throw things out there in a conversation if you feel it dying down. People might appreciate th…
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:25 PM
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I love approaching girls at the local coffee shop or the lobby of the library. Usually while they are getting drinks or waiting for friends they are open to starting a conversation. Notice how most of the girls will be on their phone bored out of their minds while waiting. Sometimes if you see girls waiting by the door of their classroom they are also just killing time until the class in there gets out.
/r/seduction10/02/14 06:16 PM
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I think her not answering your text about what she was doing is not a very good sign. Maybe try to talk to her after class and build some on that. Sell yourself as a fun/interesting guy, maybe talk about the exciting things you do on your free time. Make yourself standout from the other guys in your engineering class. Then suggest going somewhere for coffee or tell her about a party you are going to. If you sold yourself right then she will want to get to know you some more.
/r/seduction06/02/14 04:20 PM
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Try to establish yourself as the leader in the date first by choosing where you go, where you sit, what time. She should feel comfortable with you dictating how things go and just following along. Then you could say something like "your place is nearby, lets go there." At a date a girl mentioned to me that she had a large vinyl collection, so I just said "Show me, Lets go right now" and put my drink down. On the way there I said something in the form of "I cant stay very long, I have work tomorr…
/r/seduction06/02/14 04:11 PM
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My classes are pretty close to each other so I usually have 9-10 minutes to talk to the people in there before it starts. Exchanging info with people from lectures is pretty standard practice where I got to school. Hanging out is either going out to a bar, to smoke hookah, someones house to watch a movie/show (we have a Game of Thrones night when its on) etc.
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:44 PM
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I agree that this is not pretty aggressive right off the bat, and being friendzoned is a risk. I think that is a risk with all the less direct approaches. Personally I haven't had a lot of problems with the friendzone and maybe that has to do with the way I look or present myself. Picture a burly Russian guy with a scruffy beard, I dont think I scream 'friendly' or 'safe' to a lot of girls, and maybe that contributes to them not friendzoning me right off the bat when I start being social with th…
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:48 AM
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Yeah, I banged some girls doing this. I've tried the whole asking them out on a date, and if the girl doesn't go and hang out with my friends it is my next step. Since I enjoy hanging out with my friends, for me it is not extra work having another person there. I think the social proof combined with the fun environment make girls more receptive when I start escalating with the touching and eye contact.
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:20 AM
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I've tried it on 15 girls and 10 of them I closed all the way. I think the trick is that once the girl is hanging out in my group I go pretty aggressive with the touching and the eye contact, so when I tell them we should stop at my place they know whats going to happen. The girls who rejected me did so because I was not escalating enough while hanging out. Finding a good group of people in college makes a big difference. I started making friends with the international students at my university,…
/r/seduction04/02/14 02:55 AM
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I usually take it slow in these situations, but try to establish good rapport early on. Every time I meet them I try to let them know more about me by telling stories or things like that. Then casually get their number. If they found you interesting they would agree to meet you.
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:11 PM
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Ive been in a situation like this when I "accidentally" joined the wrong book club at my university. At first the girls were apprehensive about having a guy and didn't really talk to me. Sometimes I would catch them glancing at me. The next few meetings I sat in the middle of the room and just started small talk with the girl next to me. You'll notice people trying to snoop on your conversation with the single girl and eventually you can bring in the snoopers into the group. I would make an effo…
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:04 PM
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Take small steps first. Make eye contact and smile, then keep doing whatever you were doing. Then you can just say "hi" or "how is it going." Once you feel comfortable saying hi take some more steps forward and start having longer conversations.
/r/seduction16/12/13 07:04 PM
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I've approached before in the gym, but it was after a yoga class. My gym has a lobby with fridges and coffee machines where people always hang around after their workouts, so its easy to approach if people around are being social.
/r/seduction16/12/13 06:51 PM
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There are lots of practical things you can do. At the beginning you can start it off with a big hug, put her arm over yours and lead her into the bar.This will set the evening up as something more of a date than just two friends playing pool. Inside you can give high fives if she does well. Try to keep your energy up and joke around. Since its a fun bar environment try to make fun of the phallic shape of the pool sticks. Making the conversation sexual will help you escalate later on. I would sug…
/r/seduction16/12/13 04:16 AM
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If you feel that you want to commit with this girl then do it. Give the relationship a try and if it works out you found yourself someone truly special. If you find yourself unhappy just end it and go back to your old ways. University is a time of trial and error.
/r/seduction16/12/13 04:05 AM
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Day game in Russia is pretty tough. I managed to get good results by wearing a nice suit, and just looking like a wealthy dude. A lot of girls wouldn't even look at me when I wore normal chill clothes. Its really a status game there as so many of the girls have wealth as a necessary requirement.
/r/seduction28/11/13 01:11 AM
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I think an accent can help, but I know plenty of guys from South Ameirca who have crazy cool accents and have a tough time getting girls. I think at the end of the day its your personality that sells it to girls. I went to a school in the south and at some places like frat parties having an accent just gets your singled out and people are not as nice.
/r/seduction28/11/13 01:03 AM
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Getting your arm around her waist and pulling her in is pretty obvious to girls. Make sure you are always escalating things. If you are in a setting like the library or class where people are not generally affectionate then heavy eye contact works pretty well for me. I would look into her eyes, lean in as I was talking, maybe make sure she notices me checking her out if she is wearing something revealing.
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:46 PM
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thanks!
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:29 PM
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Mitä Kuuluu? I would agree with this. I spent some time in Finland (Tampere and Helsinki) where my friends went to school, and people were really reserved and respectful of personal space. I found that going to sauna with a large group of people provided the best chance of running some game, and also sitting in someones 'asunto' drinking until 4 in the morning provided a few chances. Also girls in Finland are wary of foreigners and Russians have a bad reputation there.
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:28 PM
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I usually had this conversation when I was already making out with the girl and sex was imminent. So either way you are getting that first sex with her. I wouldn't propose it as a question, just a hey lets do this thing that is mutually beneficial.
/r/seduction27/11/13 06:02 PM
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Act like it is the most natural thing to do. Casual sex shouldn't be a big deal, so act relaxed and composed when you proposition it. Most of the time the girls are afraid you will make a big deal out of it and tell all your friends, so being cool and relaxed goes a long way.
/r/seduction27/11/13 08:47 AM
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