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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 80 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPD | Russki23 | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 03:57 PM |
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| 1 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDBPD and NPD are near impossible to diagnose, according to medical professionals. There is no pharmaceutical treatment for either; there is behavioral therapy, but since so few get diagnosed, it’s largely unused on those that need it the most. The reason it’s under diagnosed is because 1) NPDs and BPDs think there’s nothing wrong with them and thus don’t seek help, and because 2) they are compulsive liars, and will lie with no issue to medical professionals. It’s impossible to prove, you’re right… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/01/21 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDWithout a doubt some do- but im referring less to PUAs and more to men using Red Pill to maintain relationships after bad experiences in one or two. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/21 03:56 PM |
| 5 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDFor some reason, many of the community spokesman devote an unusual amount of energy to detailing BPD (borderline) women. I spent time watching their videos, and they all mention a relationship or two with someone suffering from it. What’s left unspoken is that these relationships traumatised them. There are thousands of videos on YouTube from psychs detailing recovery from NPD/BPD abuse, with hundreds of thousands of views on some of them. This isn’t a coincidence- the PTSD that arises from thes… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/21 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDNot all men with bad dating experiences with a Cluster B will turn to TRP. But there are men who did. And I’d argue they comprise a good chunk of the community. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/21 12:45 PM |
| 7 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDThis is an incredible, thoughtful analysis. Thank you so much for sharing. You mentioned idealisation (love bombing)—I also think it plays to these men’s egos, and thus they want to give back to these women who finally view them as they themselves always wanted to be viewed. Little do they know that this idealisation isn’t genuine “love,” and so they’re putting energy where it doesn’t belong. It’s really a sad situation. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/21 12:44 PM |
| 1 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDI’m blaming their personality disorders. Until you’ve dated someone with one (man or woman), you wouldn’t know how deeply traumatising the experiences can be | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/21 12:36 PM |
| -1 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDThat’s still over 3 million people. More than enough for hundreds of thousands of people to be traumatised by relationships with them | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/21 04:37 AM |
| 6 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDBipolar isn’t the same as BPD, which stands for Borderline Personality Disorder | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 11:54 PM |
| 7 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDI agree- TRP openly endorses men to be narcissist. However, there is difference between narcissistic traits & clinically diagnosed NPD | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDCould very well be the case | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDAs I mentioned, I’m not referring to men who’ve never dated or had sex with women-only those who were in relationships and came to TRP afterwards | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDRelationships with these women (and men btw) ARE traumatic if they go for any serious length of time (more than a few months). Trauma bonds are a real thing, and if love bombing, followed by sudden discarding and/or suicide threats, is traumatising. Also, I’m not pulling numbers out of nowhere. I’m extrapolating based on the US population and making (conservative) assumptions of %s | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDAssume 2% have NPD. 5% NPD/BPD total. That’s 15 million sufferers right there. If you’ve been traumatised by one of these relationships and don’t know what happened, TRP becomes appealing. If even 4 million American men have been in a relationship with someone with either, assume even 1/2 go searching for answers. And half find TRP. There’s a 1 million member community right there. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPD1) Covert narcissism has been linked to BPD 2) Based on what I’ve read, a lot of these men claim to have come from what they call “blue pill mindsets” where their aims were to, according to them, “only serve their women.” And then they got “blindsided”, etc. My post is aimed at men who came to TRP after relationships, not the other way around | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDI respect your opinion, and you may be right. I know there are psychs in the field who believe otherwise, and that it is wildly under diagnosed. I’m basing my theory on the descriptions used by Red Pill men regarding “female nature” and what are deemed BPD/NPD traits | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 07:10 PM |
| 7 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDThis isn’t blaming women- based on my observations as a lurker on those communities, and as someone who was in a relationship with someone suffering from BPD/NPD, there is an unsettling alignment between what they claim are “women traits” they experienced in relationships and those exhibited by sufferers of these personality disorders | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 07:06 PM |
| 6 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDNPD and BPD can be “covert,” in the sense that you may not know until much later on. And it’s not just women of a certain background (e.g., the “bad girls”). The red flags may be subtle, or so trivial as to be largely ignored at first | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 06:45 PM |
| 8 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDAt the end of the day all red pillers end up the way they are in various ways, but I think this route (BPD/NPD) possibly explains a lot of their stories | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 05:43 PM |
| 9 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDIt doesn’t excuse it, it explains it. Kind of like unemployment explains young men joining racial supremacist or religious extremist groups | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 12 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDThe mental abuse that can come from a Cluster B personality is not something to blame women for- it’s unfortunately something they suffer from, thus causing others around them (boyfriends, etc), to suffer from too indirectly. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 13 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDIt’s not a woman’s fault she has a personality disorder. However, when you get into a relationship with one who suffers from one, you’d understand why Red Pill’s propaganda attracts vulnerable men. Extreme idealisation followed by extreme devaluation is something I don’t wish on even my worst enemies. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 05:01 PM |
| 35 | Theory: it’s not “all women,” you just dated a BPD/NPDI’m thinking other way around- men who come to Red Pill dealt with these types of women, so they think they got cheated on and dumped for not being “alpha” enough when, in reality, NOTHING could stop the ultimate, self-destructive train wreck. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/21 04:34 PM |
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