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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 43 | When does no means no? | Ruthrain | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 10:43 AM |
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| 1 | When does no means no?But that was not a date! Does every time you go for drinks with someone to catch up is called a date? I had no intentions and I didn't want any intentions. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 07:44 AM |
| 1 | When does no means no?No, I was not interested into him more than just being a friend. Otherwise, I would be happy with the flow of the night events and would have not spent the whole night up shivering and thinking "what the hell just happened, was I not clear enough?". I have moved quite a bit in the last years and I understand how hard is to adapt to a new country and find a social circuit, get adapted to a new place. I just wanted to help. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 10:35 PM |
| 3 | When does no means no?Thank you for the suggestion, I will look into it. The intuition is a crazy thing, no? | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 10:23 PM |
| 1 | When does no means no?Thank you:) I talked to a few close male friends who know me well and they were shocked what happened and were very very supportive which made me feel better. Sadly, the guy that I like never replied. I think one of the reasons I was so patient and slow to react was the believe in human awareness of the situation and empathy. I work with mentally disabled people and see how they perceive, understand and navigate through the environment. What I learned, I thought, from this is that any human is c… | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 10:21 PM |
| 2 | When does no means no?Yes, I am. I took a day to spend outside in the sun and just got back to the replies. I should have left immediately, the lesson is learned. But somehow unconsciously you don't expect that from a well educated-mannered person no matter how much self centered he is (stupid stereotypes and expectations). I also have many guy friends and no one ever behaved liked that, actually not even tried to push me in doing something like that. That could probably be a cultural difference as well... I left at … | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 10:08 PM |
| 1 | When does no means no?Thank you for your answer. I agree that sometimes its necessary to show exactly how you feel about the situation at the moment. But for me its hard to do it for myself. I defend all my girlfriend fiercely without no doubt against people that hurt them, while I am so much softer at standing up for myself. And I am sure that this is something I have to work on. At the same time nowadays you get quite a lot of attitude against females who stand for themselves in the country where I live and the uni… | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 09:53 PM |
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