I have this friend who recently moved into the city and asked to go for drinks. Initially I said no because I had this weird feeling about him ( a bit pushy, arrogant, often bragging about sexual experiences). But then I agreed to show the city around and go for a drink probably because of a pity because he is new in town and dooesn't know anyone. But I specifically told him that Its just friendly drinks and I am not interested in anything more. At some time in the evening he started getting closer, then I would back off, then he kissed me once and then I tried to stay cool and said that I just want to talk and hang out, nothing more. Then he tried to approach again and I left outside where he followed me grabbed my hands and forcefully kissed some times. I tried to back off calmly because there were other people outside smoking and I didn't want to make a scene. I got out from his hands and left home all crying, never felt more used in my life. I am not a person who shouts or slaps other people but I thought it was enough to say it and push back.

The worst thing is that there is another person that I have been seeing and I care a lot about. I wrote to this person a message explaining my experience and trying to get some moral support but its 15 hours and he haven"t replied to me even after seeing the message.

What is the norm these days? Don't people understand when you tell them that you don"t want anything but just talk, actually means that you want just talk?