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Ryanami/r/MensRights25/04/13 06:01 PM
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1

It works for me too. In exchange, she cooks, cleans, raises the kids and touches my wiener. Classic setup, been working great for 20 years.
/r/MensRights26/05/26 02:42 PM
-28

It was a college kid at a frat party. They’re likely right.
/r/MensRights03/11/25 02:34 AM
126

Twat team
/r/MensRights12/08/25 11:30 PM
3

Who are you to decide how much money anyone deserves?
/r/MensRights04/08/24 04:34 PM
53

What do I care what it means to society? Only thing that matters to me is the crayon scrawled cards my kids made and the special dinner my wife prepared. I’m a happy man. I hope you other dads got the same.
/r/MensRights17/06/24 01:38 AM
3

And an immigration issue
/r/MensRights08/03/24 03:50 PM
1

They have learned to put leashes on AI, to make sure it can’t give true answers. In its earlier days it had a habit of being too honest, now today it’s clearly being overtly dishonest.
/r/MensRights07/03/24 01:39 PM
2

Suddenly they become the Famous Violinist.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:24 AM
2

Idc if it’s bottom comment. Best answer.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 03:43 AM
3

…life is humming?
/r/MensRights04/07/23 03:42 AM
2

I’ve done blue collar field work and made it into project management. I like what I’m doing but there’s something to miss about the occasional menial tasks. Once in a while I’ll help crew carry bags of cement just to avoid emails and scheduling.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 01:07 AM
2

The more I learn about that guy, the less I want to know. So I skipped the video because of his face.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 02:34 PM
16

For proof: I haven’t heard shit about “toxic femininity”.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 04:41 AM
5

Vasalgel get off your ass.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 08:10 PM
5

From what I recall, divorce raped.
/r/MensRights04/08/22 06:57 PM
3

It’s so on the nose I suspect the writer of the article either plagiarized it or reached out to OP.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 05:53 AM
1

Wife won’t let me :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/22 07:06 AM
1

Boo to a goose 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 06:37 AM
1

As if only women have rules about waiting and the men will all take sex at first opportunity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:12 PM
1

This sounds like a Jordan Peterson ramble. I could agree probably, but you’re obfuscatingly verbose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:04 PM
1

I don’t understand this mentality of wanting a wife but keeping distance. “I want to be married, but live like I’m divorced” doesn’t sound like an enticing proposal. Getting married was definitely the best decision I ever made, sixteen years and three kids later my life feels like it’s at a peak. I’m on my phone now because my 3 year old daughter came in to snuggle me and woke me up. It’s a Saturday morning ritual I’ll miss dearly when she grows out of it. Do you have some condition like OCD tha…
/r/MensRights05/06/21 02:39 PM
19

Huh. I must have had sex and didn’t remember it then.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 10:53 PM
6

For real, the husband seems like one of the luckiest men in the world. Good for both of them.
/r/MensRights09/02/20 06:54 AM
252

possibly the world Without political ties. Epstein must have known a few with a far larger number.
/r/MensRights01/02/20 01:41 AM
19

Sure you do. The best way to undo a bad law is to strictly enforce it. They want to play cancel culture? Let’s play cancel culture.
/r/MensRights26/01/20 04:56 AM
9

The Pence rule isn’t merely about false allegations, but potential true ones too. It avoids a setting that could lead to sexual misconduct, including consensual. People have had this rule long before feminism.
/r/MensRights07/06/18 04:53 AM
3

Good idea... you first.
/r/MensRights15/07/17 11:48 PM
14

They're still there, they just changed shape. You can identify them by the nearby soap dispenser.
/r/MensRights12/05/17 11:44 PM
54

What the fuck. If I were single I'd be MGTOW, this shit is ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 05:42 PM
3

John Mulaney had a bit explaining that this is impossible to do.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 02:29 AM
1

Please stay. This has been some of the best self-righteous bad advice I've ever seen.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 09:13 PM
1

No, he's gonna pay a hooker to tell him he was right.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/16 09:08 PM
15

Bro, you're still BP if you aren't bringing dumbbells with you on every date. If the club doesn't have a squat rack, it's time to find a new club.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 07:33 PM
3

I'm not seeing this distinction enough in this thread. There's a huge difference between "wait for me in my room" and the angry swat when the kid in on mom's last nerve.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/16 04:13 PM
1

Having been laid off last week, I know I'm quite glad we built a nest of savings just for this event. Plus the side income, I have almost a year to find another job if I need to. With that worry off our minds, we've been fucking more instead of fighting.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/16 05:42 PM
1

By the time I'm the old couple giving advice to newlyweds, I'm gonna say "be a man, do what you want" then slap my wife's old saggy butt and walk away.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 07:40 AM
2

There's a podcast by a homicide detective who tells of how when he was a cop 98 times out of 100 when he brought some teenage boy home from some trouble he was into the father was not in the picture.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/16 03:52 PM
3

Metal.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 09:57 AM
1

Turn the other cheek when you're persecuted for being a christian. Kick their ass when they want to hurt you just cause.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 09:36 AM
5

I heard Calvin Harris is shredded. He has like an 8 pack.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/16 01:54 AM
7

Why would you wish that on him?
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 12:24 AM
1

w/e, the sloth trailer was great
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:36 AM
2

Yes, it was a joke in the movie.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 01:28 AM
2

Come to fix your marriage, stay to fix yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/16 11:30 PM
-4

I am. I understand the injustice, but financial abortion is a solution that continues a far greater injustice on our children.
/r/MensRights14/03/16 12:16 AM
10

And we hear about times and places when a woman's testimony was worthless, and wonder how that society could be so misogynistic.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 08:49 AM
2

I'm a good catholic and I'm giving up bank robbery for lent.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 07:54 AM
2

I mean, how can you out-alpha the alpha and the omega?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 07:53 AM
4

Don't listen to the heathens. You can't expect people who have no regard for your faith to give it priority over sex. If you're catholic, you should to be repenting of sex outside of marriage in the first place, this no sex for lent baloney isn't a "sacrifice" when you ought have been celibate until marriage already.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/16 07:44 AM
0

Very much yes. Sometimes it's sexism, this time it's common sense. I wouldn't even put MYSELF in that situation- not because I'm a predator, but because I'm not.
/r/MensRights09/03/16 04:40 AM
1

Man up, take the lead, here's some BP tools for that. Wife won't fuck you? Woo her, be more romantic.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 12:26 AM
1

Or he'll rush through it with a quick apology.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 12:10 AM
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How is a married man setting off "virgin alarms"? Dread doesn't mean developing borderline emotional affairs with other women, it's like you're getting oneitis for women who flirt with you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 03:36 AM
1

That stuff ironically got me here. Yeah, it's fake as hell, anal is probably overrated, but dissatisfaction between what I was getting and the idea it could be a lot closer to porn star sex helped motivate me to start making changes. Jackin' it to Sasha isn't gonna cut it for me anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/02/16 10:09 PM
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Or, if I were that prof I just wouldn't want that drama going down in my class. Ain't my job to play Maury Povich.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 09:47 AM
3

+1 for letting the main sub get the S curve. It's a scientifically established pattern that more members = sub goes to shit. Main sub is already shit, so rather not lose the quality here just yet.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 03:28 AM
1

Except for catch 22 questions i.e. Have you stopped beating your wife yet? But I'd love a answer in 10 words or less type debate.
/r/MensRights08/02/16 03:12 AM
1

Am I the only conservative here?
/r/MensRights07/02/16 12:56 AM
1

Partially. I want to be the breadwinner. But I'd love if I could own a farm or something that allowed me to combine work with raising my kids, instead of leaving them for 11 hours a day.
/r/MensRights02/02/16 09:28 AM
2

Hers, too. Still a 9 after 4 kids? Sure okay.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 08:24 AM
6

4 kids and still a 9? Color me doubtful.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/16 08:20 AM
3

That phallic thing? Oh Goddess no. Even automatics are still too close for him, he can't wait for self-driving cars so he can get from A to B with a consenting conversation instead of some rapey hands-on-the-wheel feet-stomping-on-the-pedals machine built by the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights29/10/15 11:40 PM
6

Manual labor to him is driving a car.
/r/MensRights29/10/15 10:03 PM
1

I would be too
/r/MensRights27/10/15 10:39 AM
2

Same situation for me, my brother cut his kid after I spent the whole pregnancy arguing it with him. I forgive my folks for having it done to all of us, they didn't have internet so people went by accepted wisdom then. And my brother has always been an idiot, and he's not the only person who won't listen to me; I've had six on one heated discussions about this with fam and friends. They think it's a joke. I just hope some of them start to come around.
/r/MensRights27/10/15 10:37 AM
1

I was in the same situation, I was cut and before I had really thought about it I would have answered that I would get my sons circumcised. But when talking to a friend who had a boy on the way he was adamant "I want my son to look like his father". At which point I wondered why I was for it, because that was a pretty absurd reason and I realized my answer was a vague appeal to hygiene. My favorite retort to dads who wanna cut is asking if they're gonna pull their teeth too, because they sometim…
/r/MensRights27/10/15 10:30 AM
0

Here we see the Internet atheist in his natural habitat. See him lash out at any mention of faith, regardless of the overall subject at hand. Look at his irrational anger, he likely came from a religious upbringing that he recently left.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/15 03:10 AM
3

I've noticed that when I fap the shame makes me more placating to my wife. "Yes, dear" attitude lives on that. You already did her job for her in the bedroom, might as well put the dishes away too.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 01:57 AM
6

This is the kind of thing that makes me want to go into law to become a judge. I get the notion though that I'd never be allowed in the system.
/r/MensRights23/09/15 10:27 AM
1

You're wording it like I'm somehow personally affected, as if that's the only reason I could be concerned about an issue. Trans people still have very high suicide rates even post-op, so mutilating them into the opposite sex is just as ill-conceived a cure as getting a lobotomy. If therapy and or counseling isn't helping, it just means we have more work to do so one day we can have effective treatments.
/r/MensRights02/09/15 10:32 PM
1

I can sympathize that those feelings must not be easy to deal with, but even if therapy and counseling fail that doesn't make surgery the answer.
/r/MensRights02/09/15 07:04 PM
2

The trough sucks enough, but the doors? Fuck that.
/r/MensRights02/09/15 11:01 AM
3

If we can keep the urinals, I still don't like it but the line problem is mostly solved. Also, I hear girl's public restrooms are usually worse than boy's?
/r/MensRights02/09/15 10:57 AM
-3

We can count how many Y chromosomes they have, end of story. If there's some genetic problem then I'll give you that, but otherwise? They need counseling or therapy or something other than surgery.
/r/MensRights02/09/15 10:54 AM
0

Because I don't want to use the restroom in mixed company, and I also know if you're trans you're not mentally healthy. Why should I be forced to accept their delusion as reality?
/r/MensRights02/09/15 10:49 AM
0

Probably even pour it on the floor right where you're standing (if a trash can is not within arm's reach) when she is going out of her way to bring you snacks. 1, eliminates temptation immediately, 2, you lose the test mostly by eating but ALSO by walking over to the trash can to throw it away, she basically gave you an unnecessary chore.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 01:28 AM
3

Why they gotta punch me right in the gut?
/r/MensRights29/06/15 10:54 PM
6

TIL saying no to cleaning your dirty dick with her mouth is a shit test.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/15 06:42 AM
5

Or a ball and chain?
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 07:07 PM
3

You write as if that is a bad thing [...] why not use your imagination. Because it looks like sex, but it's really masturbating.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/15 11:59 AM
6

Horseshit. "Structure" can't force a sick toddler to take his nap or conceal his crabby attitude. Given the mom did have two or three sick kids to deal with all day, it's not unreasonable she'd like some solitude afterwards. The blogger needs to find his balls, though, because if he was the oak, she would have greeted him at the door.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/06/15 02:01 AM
3

...to a bitch showing off my house cleaning to my wife... hoping for some reward. Please, use trigger warnings. /s, of course.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 11:07 PM
4

Not sure I can trust you...
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 12:19 AM
2

If you carefully cut the stitching just right you can make them like single use breakaway pants.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/15 11:23 PM
2

iPhones can share your location through iMessages, I've got it on not out of paranoia but habit or something. I used to use Find My Phone on her to make sure I had time to fap before she got home.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 10:31 PM
2

Who's endorsing it? Most, but not all people here are monogamous, so instead of keeping their cuckold fetish (favorite comment ever) here let them concentrate into their own camp so we can have our RP master race here. Putting it on the sidebar isn't an endorsement, it's the exit door. Also, presumably their sub will will have much more men seeking harems than bulls, which sounds more "true" RP IMO. Would you rather they stay here?
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 01:26 AM
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First they came for FPH, but I didn't speak up, because I lift. Then they came for MensRights, but I didn't speak up, because I don't care about fem/antifem crap. Then they came for TRP, but I didn't speak up, because I don't spin plates. Then they came for me, and I simply found another message board similar to MRP, because this isn't the government, it's just a website.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 03:14 AM
1

Man, 2x a week is my speed, I've never had that high of a drive.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 06:30 PM
14

Listen up brahs I wuz at this club and all these fatties were twerkin their blubber at me cuz they mirin the abs on my dick, but this one chick who was a solid nine was all shit testin me but I was like, "shut up bitch, suck my dick and like it!" Next thing you know, she's doin ATM and getting donkey-punched and we broke her couch in half. What's not to love in TRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 05:48 AM
7

Its not that they're mean, it's that they're stupid.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/06/15 05:34 AM
3

sexist both ways I don't think you can have it both ways.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 10:29 AM
17

JAIL. HE'S TALKING ABOUT JAIL.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 08:23 AM
0

I don't wanna hear about your cuckold fetish or how you get a big black bull and handcuff yourself to the bed while a real man satisfies your wife and they make fun of your little pee-pee.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/15 03:48 AM
2

The guy that got her to marry me was a manchild. Fuck that, I need to be the Chad T. Cock she would've given anal to.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 10:46 PM
1

Being RP in a marriage is already a massive challenge, you're basically doubling it while also making it impossible to pass any comfort tests, yeah this sounds like a bright idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 09:32 PM
1

You'll never get to level 60 if you don't put in the time. That's why they call it grinding, it takes work.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/15 01:55 AM
43

Exception: this doesn't work at Taco Bell.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 06:09 PM
3

And I thought Whinemoreplease was rough
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 06:06 PM
-6

Try just a little harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/15 08:06 AM
1

I understand how you feel, but it's not about what's fair, it's about what works. Yes, you're on the shit end of this deal, but it's up to you to fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 02:09 AM
1

My wife calls it hibernation.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 10:07 PM
1

Resorts to water gun fights to have fun? Seriously? That was one of my favorite memories from summer camp, what kind of killjoy are you?
/r/MensRights21/05/15 05:59 AM
5

Sounds to me it may have started out they were more of a team getting healthy together, but as this fuckup kept making life hard for her, it took the joy out anything she did to serve him.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/15 07:03 PM
1

My sides
/r/MarriedRedPill15/05/15 03:27 AM
3

It may be the same in theory, but the communities are so different that I consider them two separate things as well. While RP per se is amoral, MRP have a lot of people who have values and ideals they bring along, biggest example being marital fidelity vs TRP's practice of nexting whenever she gets too difficult.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/05/15 03:14 AM
3

I'm about as Christian as it gets and I didn't cut my son, and encouraged my friends to do the same, none of whom listened. For me one of the big reasons was circumcision is an expired practice. It actually was a religious issue for me, in some part.
/r/MensRights07/05/15 03:54 AM
2

Not fapping has been invaluable in giving me energy and confidence for getting in shape, /r/NoFap was only useful for some top/all posts with some encouraging testimonials and science facts, I soon unsubscribed from there after.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 02:52 AM
5

A couple close to me was getting marriage counseling from exactly such a woman. How did that story end? She deliberately tried to drive a wedge between them as she wanted to branch swing onto his top 2% income.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:09 AM
3

You'll find a lot more Christians and other faiths here than you will in TRP, for obvious reasons. It's also something I somehow knew about being the head of my family before MRP, the bible says "wives submit to your husbands", but the guy who resorts to shoving that verse in his wife's face is clearly a poor leader. As a side note, careful with that Osteen fluff. He'll tell you God will make you rich but all the apostles got treated like shit for their faith.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/04/15 02:27 AM
3

it has been almost a year dry spell with the misses Yeah, your wife shouldn't be surprised. Denying sex is morally equivalent to cheating, so she should also be apologizing just as much to you. Stop immediately with any penitence for your fuckup.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 03:54 PM
5

This sub really should have more Matrix references.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 04:05 AM
1

Not a solution, but shaving your junk wouldn't hurt, nobody likes flossing in the middle of sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:15 AM
1

And tools. A man should have a few and use them.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/15 03:48 AM
2

What's the moral difference between taking some of their body and some of their years in prison? Especially if they opt for the former?
/r/MensRights10/04/15 06:04 AM
1

Why? I'm not necessarily advocating castration, but what is unacceptable to you about it?
/r/MensRights10/04/15 05:50 AM
-6

Well, we're talking about people who already do evil things to other human beings. Why is taking part of his (or her) body away morally unacceptable but taking some of their years away in prison okay?
/r/MensRights10/04/15 05:40 AM
-6

This post smacks of circlejerk.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 08:22 PM
4

Of course it's fucked up, but weigh that against the influence he'd lose over their lives in a divorce. He's fucked either way and trying to pick the lesser of two evils.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/04/15 07:31 PM
1

That's just your BSG talking, nut up.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/03/15 12:28 AM
1

Wait, are we trying to give this 80 year old stranger tingles?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/15 09:45 PM
1

she says "fine!" and starts angrily offering me sex in various positions, saying something like "go ahead and fuck me and then i'll just cry myself to sleep." I would have busted up laughing at that point, how did you not?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/15 11:30 PM
2

It's extra tricky as OP has to be careful playing alpha during pregnancy, but this is clearly a huge issue that needs a nuke. If I were him I'd tell her to name him after you if you want to raise him on your own, but that might be just what happens.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/15 01:31 AM
3

This is why I despise the main sub. "TRP is where you learn to stop being a baby" -whinemoreplease. Yeah, and become spoiled toddlers.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/15 02:25 AM
2

Typical "must be true because it's plausible" storytelling masking itself as science.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/15 05:16 AM
-1

Raises his hand Is going down on your wife alpha, beta or omega?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/03/15 01:39 AM
3

In my case, I quit fapping by realizing I've got a lot responsibilities already, why should I also do her job for her? It's paid off by 1: I know now this marriage needs a tune-up, and using fapping to fix bad/no sex is like turning up the music to drown out the noise your car has been making. And 2: that frustration is valuable fuel to get fit, which is a critical ingredient to conquering your marital problems anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/03/15 03:23 AM
4

But we benefit by reading the stories of the beta baby birds asking for help breaking out of their shell. For every guy that never had a good father figure trying to learn what it is to be a man, there are a hundred lurkers eager to hear the answer too. If we snuff the guy who should find the answer on his own then it robs the guys who are going just that by building anecdata from them. You're not wrong, though, this place isn't a support group, it's a dojo.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 08:29 PM
-1

That's about as much as I could stomach. I stop by once in a while to see if I find anything useful, but it's around 5% not garbage there. Never been worth my time after visiting top/all.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 07:06 PM
2

RP is amoral, yes, and the main sub is like kids who found a gun.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 06:56 PM
0

Fuck the main sub. Shallow asshole men sharing tricks to get shallow bitches to give everything and give them nothing in return. Even with marriage 2.0 stacked against me, I'm going to be a family man and do it well, I don't need to disgrace myself with "spinning plates". At best, go to top/all and glean a few things. I knew they were on to something but didn't care about using it honorably, and they do have some great stories. But MRP is where it's at for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 04:24 AM
1

dick first MRP is the most helpful sub in the world.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/03/15 12:52 AM
2

Maybe, just maybe, this AWALT mantra is a bit over-applied? Especially when it comes to negative female traits?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/15 07:43 PM
2

If you have to hide it, you know you shouldn't be doing it.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/03/15 01:50 AM
4

She is a true BBW And worried too much about it. You might have fooled yourself, but she knows BBW is an oxymoron. You don't sound like you've really taken the pill.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/15 04:30 AM
3

Holy shit. I would love to see the look on her face after that
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 08:43 PM
6

This is MRP, and sex does come up a lot, but it isn't Dear Hustler, we're not here so you can brag about your glory days.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/15 12:24 AM
1

True. The FB moms OP mentioned probably have blue pill reasons for their opinion, but the same conduct can have different motivations behind them.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/15 05:20 PM
1

With that in mind I understand better.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:00 PM
1

Unfortunately you run the risk of just getting yourself arrested, so there's that.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 08:06 AM
2

Most of the dread examples I've heard were psychotic, and still are IMO especially when your model for marriage is Christ and His church. But, I figure if I increase my SMV to where I'm "out of her league", she can worry on her own just fine.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/15 10:09 PM
5

whooosh...
/r/MarriedRedPill28/01/15 03:19 AM
0

This is RP advice I'm not sure I can swallow. I understand it, but I can't believe sugar-coated verbal abuse can possibly pay long-term dividends.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/15 09:52 AM
2

Not to mention her self-esteem.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 09:37 PM
-2

Shouldn't the downvotes the trolls receive clue them in?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/15 04:52 AM
1

Good advice, especially on insecurity vs boundaries. Also, it's err, not air on the side of caution (or being a dick).
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 09:20 PM
1

I'd agree about going NoFap. Blue balls suck but it does wonders to give you the aggression you need to get results at the gym along with other things. I stopped a month ago as part of a self-improvement campaign. Too early for real results but signs are good. Besides, why should you do her job?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 05:13 AM
3

Serve her baby food when she tries to eat early. The dinner you're making is for grown-ups who know how to wait. Literally ELI5 to her. Or fuck it, go hard dread. "Get out of my kitchen or get out of my life." What do I know I'm a RP newbie one or both choices are probably terrible.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/01/15 09:44 PM
5

MarriedRP, anyway. The regular TRP sub is like trying to find the brownie in a tray of shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/15 10:26 AM
3

This sounds like a white knight's idea of an übermensch.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/15 07:37 AM
3

Great idea! Lemme just rewind the clock about seven or eight decades first.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/15 09:53 AM
2

A good mother is still not a father. One podcast of a former cop I listen to said (don't remember exactly but close to) 98% of the delinquent teens he brought to their homes had no father in the picture. Moms would almost always be the one who answered the door, and he said many of them seemed like decent mothers!
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/14 10:03 PM
3

A Ben Franklin quote comes to mind here.
/r/MensRights19/12/14 02:48 AM
13

Mmmmmmm..... No, not too bothered by this one. It could apply equally to moms and dads, sure, but I don't see a reason this is necessarily sexist. Edit: focused on the quote below because of your title. Fuck the book though.
/r/MensRights14/12/14 08:48 AM
12

people aren't apples and not all apples cost the same anyway No-fucking-DUH. A clear sign that the discussion won't be rational is when they decide to get hung up on your metaphors. To give her the benefit of the doubt, being Swedish she may have been unfamiliar with the term, but I've seen it so many times where they'll ignore the basic premise and criticize a visual example you used.
/r/MensRights13/11/14 01:48 AM
5

Heck, that's what happened in the vid, and he was just fighting back!
/r/MensRights09/11/14 06:12 AM
3

I still wouldn't believe it except for his haircut.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 04:32 AM
2

Nothing spices up the bedroom quite like not being in the moment.
/r/MensRights07/11/14 04:29 AM
5

Quit trying to make "galsplainers" happen...
/r/MensRights07/11/14 04:08 AM
2

You say one in ten men are monsters? Look at nine of your male friends Are they all decent people? I've got bad news for you.
/r/MensRights05/11/14 09:59 PM
3

And he just ate it up. I know it's a comedy show, but I'm still surprised.
/r/MensRights31/10/14 08:26 AM
2

With someone as ridiculous as her, isn't going on Colbert a bad move? He'll doubtless show her hypocrisy somehow.
/r/MensRights30/10/14 03:18 AM
2

"some validity" The top of this thread is all people complaining that it's from a conservative Christian.
/r/MensRights25/10/14 03:49 AM
1

Yeah, that's hilarious.
/r/MensRights17/10/14 02:56 AM
8

It's, uh, scott-free. Source: There's no such thing as free scotch.
/r/MensRights16/10/14 03:22 AM
1

Well, we built the patriarchy so we wouldn't have to work almost at all anymore. My grandpa told me stories about the day they finished building a patriarchy, they high fived each other and retired to a recliner in front of a TV while their wives waited on them hand and foot.
/r/MensRights14/10/14 03:24 AM
0

This has nothing to do with rape, not even implied. It's simply inappropriate to let mixed sexes shower together at that age, regardless if the boy is confused about whether or not he's a male. I'd be just as concerned if the situation was switched.
/r/MensRights03/10/14 09:22 PM
3

You sound like a feminist.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 08:10 AM
2

It's as if he thinks the gap in strength is so wide a woman couldn't hurt a man with a bat if she tried with all her might. The weapon becomes a mere foam toy in the hands of a girl, who probably had a good reason to attack him anyway.
/r/MensRights23/09/14 08:09 AM
4

If I were in charge of that class, I would have yelled at her for not bringing a lesson plan on teaching those boys not to rape.
/r/MensRights22/09/14 07:15 PM
12

WHAT? Hunting laws have nothing to do with misandry, you idiot. If you shoot the does you wipe out the future population and ruin the sport for everybody.
/r/MensRights08/09/14 06:39 PM
6

$15,000 in back pay? What income was that based off, his allowance?
/r/MensRights04/09/14 08:31 AM
2

I didn't cringe until the product was introduced as "the official cereal of dadhood". I liked the positive message and all, but past that point it was very clear it was still a commercial.
/r/MensRights04/08/14 06:22 PM
3

It's different for different people. My wife did the epidural, but recovery was much harder for her than it was for most of our friends.
/r/MensRights04/08/14 06:10 PM
3

Thanks, my blood pressure was a little low.
/r/MensRights26/07/14 06:41 AM
-9

children of single mothers are more likely to enter into crime This is part of why we're here, to declare that fathers are important and needed. We're seeing the data come forth that kids without dads do worse. Does anybody think that the same isn't true for kids without moms? Is there nothing unique to the mom that gives her a role only she can fill? These guys deliberately tried to manufacture a pretend home that says women are unnecessary. This isn't equality, its bigotry.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 02:50 PM
-14

Busted their collective asses to provide these boys with the best family environment possible... Except for, y'know, having a mother.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 08:08 AM
1

But what could be their motive?? $4,500 for an evaluation I can't help but think these clues are connected... somehow...
/r/MensRights25/05/14 05:26 AM
4

Dear Nice Guy, I'm ready to commit my wizard sleeve to you forever. You're welcome, whoever you are.
/r/MensRights23/04/14 07:48 AM
4

Does this mean the MRM believes same-sex couples are sub-optimal conditions for raising children? I hear nothing about moms being unnecessary for kid's well-being so I take it that's assumed, and we fight to have the courts recognize the rights of the fathers and the benefits for children who have both mom and dad in the picture (if both are decent people). Lots of gay men have posted asking if there's room for them here, and they're welcomed with open arms. But the science of child development …
/r/MensRights22/04/14 09:32 PM
558

So... your sexist female boss believes only women can make sandwiches?
/r/MensRights09/04/14 08:39 AM
30

Or "Bob, who works in the plumbing dept. at Home Depot, has postulated a radically different interpretation of the egg/sperm dynamic, which sheds new light that reveals the egg more akin to a wolf selecting among a flock of sheep-like sperm. Bob is expected to release his paper on this study later this year, you can donate to his kickstarter [here]."
/r/MensRights16/03/14 05:43 AM
1

Didn't an article about that get linked here before? Something about women must be supported by their parents indefinitely, vs men must take care of their parents in their old age, leading to the gender selective abortion rate. It appears to be women are grossly undervalued compared to men at first glance, but it was actually, of all things, reverse matriarchy.
/r/MensRights05/03/14 10:31 AM
3

NAMRAALT?
/r/MensRights05/03/14 10:26 AM
1

Eh, he tells him there was a divorce nightmare, but if you've already seen the Foley video, there's nothing new to learn.
/r/MensRights05/03/14 02:05 AM
2

I need a job in science.
/r/MensRights21/02/14 07:08 AM
2

Did he steal that from Bill Burr?
/r/MensRights20/02/14 07:32 AM
16

Yes, but men have much in common with other men and women have much in common with other women. Of course there are exceptions, but you'd have to be blind or overzealously egalitarian to not see that there's more going on than the plumbing.
/r/MensRights14/02/14 09:07 PM
1

I still don't understand how making it legal to just walk away would inspire them to stay.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 06:39 PM
1

So... Let men entirely off the hook for the children they make, and they'll start getting married out of their innate goodness? Either you're naively optimistic or I'm not following you.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 08:34 AM
3

So you approve of financial abortion but not actual abortion? If I understand you, isn't that just a pendulum swing from what we have now?
/r/MensRights13/02/14 07:30 AM
1

So am I. You an I are not really in line with men's rights, however, because even though we agree on the problem (basically, feminism) we differ on the solutions. For example, MRAs mostly see the solution to inequality in reproductive rights is to grant "financial abortion", where you (or conservatives in general) and I would end this infant holocaust and hold both parties equally responsible for their actions.
/r/MensRights13/02/14 03:40 AM
38

I'm so sick of the asteroid apologists in this sub. Your privilege is making it harder for meteor-strike victims to come forward.
/r/MensRights04/02/14 10:40 AM
8

Made it as far as a paragraph. It only got worse.
/r/MensRights04/02/14 10:36 AM
5

You're repressing our freedoms, man.
/r/MensRights28/12/13 05:00 PM
4

Having a companion for fifty+ years of thick and thin is a lot better than "ok". You're gonna be old one day, better to have someone you made it there beside you than alone. It's attractive to have no kids and three money, but is it worth it when you're 70 and have only the state to care for you?
/r/MensRights28/12/13 01:03 AM
13

As well as alienate married MRAs. I can agree about divorce reform even though I plan to not need one, I can't agree that marriage is a mistake when I'm happily in one.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 07:21 PM
10

shunned? Fuck you, I'm happily married.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 06:25 PM
8

You're underestimating marriage.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 02:08 PM
5

So is it the financial risk you want eliminated, or do you have something against marriage itself? I'm 8 years into my marriage and looking forward to many more, so you'd have to convince me even functional, happy marriages should be disbanded.
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:48 PM
4

"Should never have invented marriage"? I can see how the imbalance of power in divorce, especially in the days of no-fault divorce, make marriage a very risky endeavor, but to pretend it never served society is simply naïve. Besides, it makes it impossible for happily married MRAs to support the movement. I already consider myself a quasi-MRA in that I agree about the problems, but don't agree with many of the solutions this sub typically advocates. Is divorce unfair? Sure. Is our solution to fi…
/r/MensRights27/12/13 01:14 PM
2

I was thinking about what you said, and now I'm hungry.
/r/MensRights25/12/13 06:05 AM
0

The only moment we can scientifically give is at conception. Any time afterwards is completely arbitrary. Like a green banana or a fresh Polaroid, its just as valuable as a ripe banana or a 1 hour old Polaroid, it just hasn't reached that level of development yet. The fact that it's dependent on the mother has no bearing on his or her humanity any more than being dependent on a pacemaker changes whether or not you're a human worthy of dignity. If there's nothing that makes that "clump of cells" …
/r/MensRights10/12/13 10:10 AM
1

You left reddit long enough to forget there's no sense of sarcasm? What's your secret??
/r/MensRights10/12/13 06:31 AM
0

Is it okay to kill Jews? Or Asians? Or anybody? Of course not, because we're all humans who share a human nature (as opposed to a dog or cat nature). What is different about the unborn baby's nature that makes it an unprotected class but everyone else shares? What changes at the third trimester to bring it from unprotected class to a being worthy of human dignity?
/r/MensRights10/12/13 06:29 AM
1

Can technology make it morally acceptable to make a child a sex slave? Or is it ever okay to torture somebody for your personal pleasure? Of course not, because there are at least some moral absolutes. And I would say taking someone's life for your personal convenience is wrong in every scenario, including the life of an unborn baby. I think you know this, because you already said stem cell research should be opposed if that zygote could be brought to term in a lab. So can the baby in the womb i…
/r/MensRights10/12/13 06:22 AM
0

So in your opinion, the nature of the child is the same at all trimesters?
/r/MensRights10/12/13 03:28 AM
0

What happens in the 3rd trimester that makes it suddenly human?
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:51 AM
1

I'm unhappy with the inequality between the sexes over this issue, and I see financial abortion as a downward solution, not upward. I can see how it's fair, but I don't think it's right. I'm pro-life.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:45 AM
-2

Pro-choice is anti-responsibility. Odd that we can somehow be mature enough to engage in one of the most intimate acts of mankind but unable to carry the responsibilities associated with it, when all your ancestors from the beginning of time somehow figured it out. This isn't evolution, this is the suicide of a species.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:39 AM
-1

You already have a choice: Don't fuck. Simple as that. Or fuck, and accept the consequences of your actions.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:30 AM
2

So something magical happens between the 2nd and 3rd trimester, and suddenly there's a human with rights where there wasn't one a day ago?
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:24 AM
2

How does the same movement both fight for the right to see our kids and at the same time fight for the right to never have to look at them?
/r/MensRights10/12/13 02:05 AM
-2

So, this is what it means to be a man in the MRA? To willingly engage in a baby-making activity only to demand that we not be held responsible for our actions? To be so adamant that you'd rather go to jail than be a father to the kid you helped create? Fuck. That. Let the courts take your money. If you don't like the consequences of your actions, what does that say about your actions? I understand our rights aren't equal with women's, but this "solution" just makes society worse. Imagine being t…
/r/MensRights10/12/13 01:56 AM
0

/s, people.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 01:21 AM
2

I find it too simple to think that all it takes is 2 people regardless of gender, when we also just learned that men and women have different and complimentary neurology. Men add something women can't, and women add something men can't.
/r/MensRights08/12/13 06:11 PM
3

So, how does the sequel to "Heather Has Two Mommies" go? This science is good that it will support that children need their fathers (I know, this was tested on mice, but I think the human results can be plainly seen without the help of a lab on this one), and hopefully the courts won't be so trigger-happy to remove custody from the dad. But how will this impact lesbians who want to adopt? Would it be better for society to favor placing children in heterosexual couples homes instead of homosexual…
/r/MensRights08/12/13 09:53 AM
52

"Only a Sith deals in absolutes"
/r/MensRights06/12/13 07:12 AM
1

You don't have to be married to be happy, I only meant that there are things money can't buy. Money is nice, but an empty companion when it's all you have left.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 08:54 AM
5

All the money in the world couldn't buy you a wife who sticks by you for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and health, and D: All of the above. Choose wisely, treat kindly. Cynicism isn't gonna make you any happier.
/r/MensRights05/12/13 03:22 AM
3

That actually sounds like a good insight into how the marriage worked (or didn't work). Neither are willing to compromise while married, so why would it be any different in divorce?
/r/MensRights05/12/13 03:12 AM
6

It makes being a parent about you and your wants instead of the child and their needs. Did they have an abundance of love that they wanted to give to a child, or did they want a cultural experience? At what age is that kid going to figure out that they wouldn't have wanted him if he could hear? Around here we scream at the injustice of chopping up a boy's dick because the mom or dad thinks its ugly to have a foreskin. How much more would everybody scream if they had surgically disabled his ears?…
/r/MensRights04/12/13 05:29 AM
0

I see where you're going, but clearly this isn't that extreme. Bad? Yes. Stab a baby in the ears bad? A little less so.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 02:15 AM
5

Def Lezbo
/r/MensRights04/12/13 02:11 AM
1

I think somewhere a study revealed that a kid in his environment was more likely to be asexual? Probably worse than the deafness is growing up in a home where men are undesirable and unnecessary.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 02:10 AM
19

Exactly! How many kids have a harder time finding adoptive parents when they are born with disabilities? They were great candidates to help a deaf child who needed a family who understands. But no, lets spend a ton more money so it might look like one of us. This is a disturbing trend of consumerism invading a once sacred vocation of raising kids. It's worse than those "teacup puppies" stuck-up rich girls get.
/r/MensRights04/12/13 02:04 AM
2

I had the same thing done to my boy, who also seemed to have trouble latching in the beginning. Went through a few conflicting questions (will it just stretch out in time? Could he swallow his tongue after? I can't reverse this decision), but it looks like it was good to do, as his latch greatly improved. But even that was hard to do to my perfect, helpless boy. That's why I didn't watch him get circumcised. Just kidding!
/r/MensRights03/12/13 09:26 AM
6

As a father of a kid that age... She should be tossed into the sea with a bowling ball chained to her ankle.
/r/MensRights01/12/13 11:43 PM
5

Well, lets just keep choppin' those wieners, then.
/r/MensRights01/12/13 07:33 AM
9

testerical I might actually use that though, it's kinda funny.
/r/MensRights30/11/13 02:55 AM
10

The courts.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 04:30 AM
2

I'm aware, which is why I specified strong beliefs. Most of America calls themselves Christian yet most of them hardly if ever attend church. The statistics get drastically better the more you actually live according to the principles.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 03:11 AM
1

I'd actually call that a weak religious belief, as there's no biblical office of priest (besides Jesus), let alone priestess. Sorry it didn't last.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 02:29 AM
5

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. (1 Corinthians 13:4-6) Yeah, disturbing.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 12:44 AM
5

In secular society, I would agree. With a Christian worldview though I see no-fault divorce as anathema to the whole concept of the marriage covenant, and I married a woman who believed the same. I wouldn't recommend marriage to someone who didn't have strong religious convictions.
/r/MensRights29/11/13 12:03 AM
16

Awareness needs to be raised that not all moms are angels and not all dads are deadbeats.
/r/MensRights28/11/13 09:30 PM
12

We can support finding a lifelong mate and raising kids together. Most of the complaints about marriage stem from when things go sour and the courts blindly favor the mom. I've yet to see a functional marriage trip an MRA alarm. Except possibly the quote OP posted.
/r/MensRights28/11/13 09:22 PM
6

Glad I'm not alone. Nothing distances me from this group more than "NEVER GET MARRIED" being an easy upvote-getter.
/r/MensRights28/11/13 07:32 PM
-1

A guy opened the door for her.
/r/MensRights25/11/13 12:42 AM
3

In contrast, I'm in favor of gender roles (I think it's naive to pretend its a purely societal construct) and I still wouldn't give a shit if my 3 year old son liked dolls. He's 3.
/r/MensRights22/11/13 10:06 PM
2

Wait, wait, think about it... Have you ever heard someone actually complain about how being murdered negatively affected their life? I haven't.
/r/MensRights21/11/13 12:50 PM
1

Of course not. But you don't need to "fully" understand the consequences of dumb actions to know you shouldn't do them. 18 is not some magic age of sudden wisdom.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 11:21 PM
1

I'm saying any 15-year-old should have a little common sense. Sex makes babies. If you're not ready to be a parent, you shouldn't risk becoming one. In legal matters, she should take all the blame, absolutely.
/r/MensRights16/11/13 10:01 PM
7

You're on! This woman will rot in jail for weeks.
/r/MensRights14/11/13 01:32 AM
9

Well, what kind of monster must he have been that she was desperate enough to mercy-kill her son rather than let him live under such patriarchy!
/r/MensRights14/11/13 01:27 AM
2

Are you judging him?
/r/MensRights13/11/13 03:26 AM
1

Additionally children should have a right to have a dad.
/r/MensRights12/11/13 06:14 PM
9

It's strange how this sub will approve MGTOW because of a hostile dating/marriage environment, but shun you for shielding your kid from a hostile school environment.
/r/MensRights07/11/13 10:51 PM
5

First boys aren't allowed to be boys, now they aren't allowed to be girls either. Not that the kid is trans, as far as I can tell he's just wearing it because kids like to wear ironic stuff these days.
/r/MensRights07/11/13 10:39 PM
-10

As a member of the religious right, what gives you the right to deny personhood to an unborn child?
/r/MensRights07/11/13 05:55 PM
-1

That was statutory rape, not forcible rape. I understand he was a minor and not legally of the age of consent, but I still hold him to some accountability, albeit far less than her. However, it looks like the law wouldn't have cared if she cut off a testicle and inserted it inside her, and that's what's really wrong with the system.
/r/MensRights07/11/13 07:27 AM
6

Then what am I gonna do, homeschool him like some fundamentalist Christian? Oh wait, I am. ¯_(ツ)_/¯
/r/MensRights06/11/13 10:38 PM
8

Does the Hannibal Lecter mask come in toddler sizes?
/r/MensRights06/11/13 07:21 PM
21

I've got a 15 month old son. He loves to growl because he's not too good yet at mimicking our other noises (our words obviously). I don't think I'll be putting him in public education if I can help it.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 09:22 AM
2

Men's brains are bigger, its just science.
/r/MensRights03/11/13 06:54 PM
14

Who wrote that, Ron Burgundy?
/r/MensRights03/11/13 04:14 PM
90

I would fucking die if I couldn't see my kid for a year. Hope you had a good night.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 05:44 AM
9

Reading that gave me brain cancer.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 08:55 PM
1

things
/r/MensRights30/10/13 01:37 AM
1

Off-topic, that high heel should double as a bottle opener.
/r/MensRights30/10/13 01:33 AM
3

So, same as everywhere.
/r/MensRights30/10/13 01:29 AM
2

Your own tone undermines the point you're trying to make.
/r/MensRights29/10/13 06:02 PM
5

Existent or not, it's still as valid a word as misogyny.
/r/MensRights28/10/13 07:18 PM
46

Next up: vital organ gang-bangs. Surgeons and nurses who simultaneously have their hands and tools in your chest cavity. All while you're totally unconscious!
/r/MensRights27/10/13 05:16 PM
10

That's what they get paid to do. As if there's some rape kingpin with agents in every hospital, violating a woman at her most vulnerable. No, YOU'RE paying them to closely, carefully monitor you and the baby's health at a time that could prove deadly to either one if something goes wrong. Sheesh.
/r/MensRights27/10/13 05:06 PM
1

So, suppose some sicko shoves an 8 month pregnant woman down the stairs because he didn't want to be a father. She dies and so does the baby. Should he be charged with double homicide?
/r/MensRights19/10/13 07:36 PM
3

Yes, if they're an inconvenience, they don't have rights. Makes sense.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 07:07 AM
0

But the murder charge is in defense of the baby, not the mom.
/r/MensRights19/10/13 05:32 AM
1

The fetus has rights?
/r/MensRights19/10/13 04:46 AM
9

Does nobody else see the schizophrenia of arbitrarily assigning human rights to the same individual based on who attacked them? If it was the mom, it was just tissue and a surgical procedure. If it was somebody else, it was murder most foul.
/r/MensRights18/10/13 08:03 PM
15

This protects you, but the mentality only harms us in the long run. One, it reinforces the stereotype that there's something strange about a man who wants to be a kindergarten teacher. Two, it robs children (boys and girls) of male influences in their lives, who grow up with few to none models of masculinity. It's sad enough that many kids bad fathers, sadder still that many good fathers have restricted access by selfish moms. Nowadays, it's only wise for men to avoid jobs that might land them i…
/r/MensRights18/10/13 07:57 PM
2

We're already practicing eugenics in this country, not just at the state level but civilians are performing it too. Why stop at castrating child molesters?
/r/MensRights16/10/13 04:47 AM
4

Since when were we a civilized society?
/r/MensRights16/10/13 04:42 AM
2

I will give you $20 to leave this sub and never return.
/r/MensRights15/10/13 05:39 AM
2

Oh, them.
/r/MensRights13/10/13 06:42 AM
1

Who's "they"?
/r/MensRights13/10/13 04:38 AM
-7

Pediagara. Its an even littler blue pill. I'll show myself out...
/r/MensRights10/10/13 07:17 AM
4

Next week on IFW: Is online shopping on the rise? Are telephones becoming wireless? Do bears shit in the woods? Stay tuned.
/r/MensRights28/09/13 06:09 AM
2

This one, sadly.
/r/MensRights19/09/13 07:25 PM
2

Not to mention the horrendously phallic act of serving women, including little girls, a piece of hamburger meat between two buns and making them pay him for the rape with a side of fries.
/r/MensRights27/08/13 01:09 AM
-4

*Robert Pattinson
/r/MensRights27/08/13 01:00 AM
16

From the comments: Wow! My son is not circumcised. He's intelligent enough to clean his penis properly, just like most of the world! If your child comes from a shallower gene pool, I think you for sure made the right choice. We don't want him getting any nasty infections because he can't clean that area of his body. Have you also considered pulling his teeth? Some areas of the mouth are hard to get, and a cavity or abscess is apparently the worst kind of pain. I loled.
/r/MensRights24/08/13 02:49 AM
4

Which was solved by circumcision, right?
/r/MensRights23/08/13 08:30 AM
3

I wonder how the cavemen prevented their dicks from rotting off long enough to reproduce...
/r/MensRights23/08/13 07:06 AM
2

Anecdotal: I heard I was cut because the Mexicans don't. I'm afraid to confirm it with my folks because (if true) it would introduce some serious resentment against them. WHAT WAS UP WITH ALL THE TIMES WE HAD TACOS FOR DINNER THEN, HUH?
/r/MensRights23/08/13 07:04 AM
14

SHUT THE FUCK UP! Regardless of who shot first the expectation that men are violent thugs is ONLY solved by feminism which seeks to end the brutal reality of interstellar bounty hunters coming for your head for losing a shipment of glitterstim, which. is a part. of. Patriarchy.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 09:28 PM
3

Would, but not worth it to me to create a yahoo account. Feel free to post it yourself if you wish.
/r/MensRights17/08/13 08:09 PM
28

But then again, even IF there were an allowance gap, it doesn't consider boys gets longer timeouts, suffer 95% of boo-boos, and if Susie says Tommy took a cookie from the cookie jar, he is presumed guilty even if he says "who, me? Couldn't be". And it doesn't matter if all the cookies are still there, Tommy still gets put on a cookie-thief registry.
/r/MensRights17/08/13 03:46 PM
16

It is an outrage that girls only make this much (holds up four fingers) for every this many (holds up five fingers) that boys make.
/r/MensRights17/08/13 03:19 PM
6

That's no better than saying we have an "embezzlement culture" because there's crooked CEOs out there.
/r/MensRights17/08/13 01:33 AM
1

No, I'd ask the child to act that way for the next generation.
/r/MensRights14/08/13 01:10 AM
1

Nothing, we're all equal in value. The difference is being self-sacrificing instead of dog-eat-dog. You approve of charities, right? People giving their hard-earned money to help someone in need; this is just its most extreme version.
/r/MensRights14/08/13 01:08 AM
1

I never said a child is more valuable than you. Are you an MRA? Aren't you here because you value equality? Isn't it inconsistent to then decide you're more valuable when it comes to saving your own life over a child's? The real metric for our value isn't in our contribution to society but in our inherent worth given to us all by God. He isn't impressed by your education. We're called to follow Him, a God who laid down His own (far more valuable) life to save us.
/r/MensRights13/08/13 08:55 AM
-2

That's the sum of human worth to you? Whether or not you're currently making a contribution to the whole? Where did your metric come from, did you make it up yourself? That must be convenient.
/r/MensRights13/08/13 07:26 AM
0

But the child is?
/r/MensRights13/08/13 05:31 AM
3

Price, shmice. It's about being in a society where people value other's lives more than their own, or one that only seeks out its own interests, even tossing children overboard to save their own skin. Is this what your idea of equality is about? "I come first, even at the expense of the the next generation"? I sure hope not.
/r/MensRights12/08/13 11:05 PM
23

But how are we supposed to blame a man if we hold her accountable for her actions??
/r/MensRights04/08/13 11:29 AM
18

The question is if you kept it growing up, would you opt to remove it? Guessing by the mass of nerve endings there, I'd say no.
/r/MensRights03/08/13 04:21 PM
3

When I was trying to convince my brother not to chop at his son's dick, I was ridiculed for "worrying so much about my baby nephew's sex life". People say stupid shit all the time.
/r/MensRights01/08/13 02:50 AM
4

Changing the subject is a tactic of someone who is losing an argument.
/r/MensRights26/07/13 08:22 AM
2

Upvote for being one of the few redditors who knows life isn't fair.
/r/MensRights05/07/13 06:09 PM
2

Actually, this sounds like a brilliant ploy to enforce men's rights. Relevancy achieved.
/r/MensRights04/07/13 04:08 AM
8

I heard I was circumcised because the Mexicans don't. So, there's dumber reasons than you think.
/r/MensRights03/07/13 01:56 AM
1

The irony I see is that people who think it should be illegal to chop up your baby for convenience's sake are the "violent" ones.
/r/MensRights01/07/13 11:46 PM
4

It's like crying rape to scare men into submission. Are we not getting complete obedience to our will? Must be violence
/r/MensRights01/07/13 11:44 PM
1

Mail-order FTW.
/r/MensRights01/07/13 05:48 AM
2

This is true, as it was part of the reasoning I used on my brother who has a daughter and a newborn son. It didn't click and he cut him anyway.
/r/MensRights30/06/13 02:31 AM
1

I would think by now he knows better than to let her near it.
/r/MensRights26/06/13 01:05 AM
23

As I've been told by a cop before, he's taken a ton of teenagers, mostly boys, back to their homes where overwhelmingly the mom was waiting and the dad just wasn't in the picture. As he saw it, even the best some moms can do simply wasn't enough by itself. Kids need a dad.
/r/MensRights14/06/13 09:44 AM
1

Thanks for the explanation. No, IIRC the wives are supportive and faithful, the movie mostly focuses on the men. "christian divorce porn" is an oxymoron anyway.
/r/MensRights14/06/13 09:26 AM
6

divorce porn?
/r/MensRights14/06/13 06:09 AM
11

Are we hating this or liking this? Title seems to imply the pic was meant to shame men but in reality (and I've seen the movie) this is meant to encourage fathers to be good role models, especially christians. It's fairly preachy (I suppose there's no way around it) but it depicts many examples in opposition to the lunkhead father figures we bemoan in sitcoms. But if OP wants to make us all the victim at the suggestion that some men could be better parents, well, that sounds more like a "reverse…
/r/MensRights14/06/13 04:53 AM
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I'm not really interested in conspiracy theories involving the weiners of some older men I know.
/r/MensRights11/06/13 09:54 PM
3

My friend got his son cut because both sides of his family had infection issues that led to necessitating the procedure in their adult years. In his case, I consider them justified for it. I however did not get my son cut and I'm trying to get through to my brother to not chop at his newborn out of "tradition". Update: I failed :(
/r/MensRights11/06/13 05:17 PM
4

What did we just say about name-calling?
/r/MensRights05/06/13 06:41 AM
14

Testicular cancer is PATRIARCHY!
/r/MensRights02/06/13 03:45 AM
25

.... Uh... Oh, "I Am Not A Lawyer", got it.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 11:30 PM
1

For the sake of argument I'll concede your point, I still don't see it as a criminal case of discrimination. I guess the way I see it ultimately is, if we make it fair for everybody, we'll end up equally poor. If we penalize the club (btw I have no love for clubs, I think they're seedy and wouldn't miss them if they disappeared) for shrewd business practices they would suffer or even go belly-up. Now nobody can go to the club, because it's gone, but hey, at least it's fair. Crabs in a bucket, ma…
/r/MensRights15/05/13 07:17 AM
1

And about a week or two's worth of this sub's depression in one thread too. Couldn't read past the top 5 posts.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 01:25 AM
7

Personally, I wouldn't care any more if it were a "blacks pay $5", if the goal was to gather them to a business they're less inclined to patronize. It's a technique to drum up business, not keep some class or sex down. ESPECIALLY when it comes to "ladies night" promotions. If the ladies don't come, the event becomes a sausage fest, and then the men stop coming as well, and they go out of business. Maybe this is just the libertarian in me coming out.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 01:01 AM
2

So evolution is taking us to be a species where the males build dungeons for their mates. And of course, the feminists are getting in the way of our evolutionary progress.
/r/MensRights12/05/13 07:34 PM
5

Maybe he's just evil?
/r/MensRights09/05/13 07:58 AM
3

And the unborn.
/r/MensRights09/05/13 07:51 AM
0

I agree neither party should be forced to be a parent, but who's forcing you to have sex? To commit murder to preserve sex-without-consequences is even more evil and barbaric than circumcision.
/r/MensRights08/05/13 06:42 PM
-2

The murder of the baby
/r/MensRights08/05/13 04:32 PM
-2

And violence is the answer?
/r/MensRights08/05/13 04:25 PM
-8

In fact, men often coerce a woman to kill her child so they can shirk the responsibility. It's even happened in this sub, to the applause of subscribers here. It's one of the reasons the MRM will only have half my support.
/r/MensRights08/05/13 07:48 AM
9

No, the video made him cry, and he's blaming it on onions.
/r/MensRights06/05/13 12:50 AM
8

He was cutting onions when he watched this.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 11:06 PM
2

That's just the kind of thing a bra-burner would do! I'll show myself out.
/r/MensRights05/05/13 10:50 PM
1

Reddit knows well the existence of corrupt cops. I don't trust them to get to be the middleman here.
/r/MensRights03/05/13 03:01 AM
1

What if the man has no relatives to notify?
/r/MensRights02/05/13 07:15 PM
10

Something something "secret trials", something something unconstitutional. It made sense when I read it, and I accepted the argument that anonymity is ultimately a bad thing, and now I'd rather the newspapers just had the common decency to not publicize their names, or at least be clear that these are still allegations yet to be proven in court.
/r/MensRights02/05/13 02:52 AM
1

Wait, though, the author is being sarcastic, isn't he (or she, I think there's two writers)?
/r/MensRights25/04/13 07:15 PM
5

Is there a woman's studies course where you just learn how to quickdraw the word "patriarchy"?
/r/MensRights25/04/13 06:03 AM
12

What about them? We're so far removed from that movement nobody remembers why they were opposed in the first place. Do some good research on it, because the winners write the history books. Would you trust today's feminists to give a balanced retelling of the last 40 years? Why then the suffragettes?
/r/MensRights21/04/13 11:11 PM
1

Yes, for Vietnam. We never should have been there in the first place.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 06:11 PM
-2

If they want all the same privileges (like voting) then its only fair they pay the same responsibilities (like the draft). But I'm not really concerned with making everything "fair", I'm about what's right. I heavily disagree with Abby because in this context we're talking about a completely fabricated war; we had no business being in Vietnam, and no need to spill our blood there.
/r/MensRights19/04/13 04:05 AM
-35

If it was 1942, I'd agree with her.
/r/MensRights18/04/13 07:32 PM
6

Yeah right, we all measured our dicks years ago. You know.
/r/MensRights02/04/13 07:05 AM
6

This is why it's so important to kill it before it pops out, since being not in a womb is where the basic human right to not be murdered comes from.
/r/MensRights30/03/13 08:57 AM
1

Is this all it takes to get you guys in a huff? I thought you had bigger giants to face than a stay-at-home mom.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 08:22 PM
-1

You're getting downvoted to oblivion, if I could post audio of my environment right now while my wife takes a well-deserved nap, I hope they would change their tune.
/r/MensRights20/03/13 08:19 PM
-2

Finally found a comment that liked traditional roles. Same here (or maybe not quite), it seems to me that the traditional roles work best for most people. I'm not opposed per se to the wife being the breadwinner while the husband is mr mom, but I do think the situation is one that often leads to disharmony in the relationship, and personally I'd avoid that situation. I would never marry a woman who wanted to work so bad she'd put our kid in daycare for it.
/r/MensRights19/03/13 03:10 AM
6

I wouldn't really blame you. But it isn't the most mature thing to do. More like the least.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 10:02 AM
-6

Now that's just mean.
/r/MensRights13/03/13 10:00 AM
3

Marriage is a great institution, it's just being poisoned by feminists (among others, although fems are the worst).
/r/MensRights04/03/13 12:58 AM
23

Another reason to retrain cops.
/r/MensRights03/03/13 09:04 PM
4

You're throwing out the baby with the bathwater, man.
/r/MensRights03/03/13 09:04 PM
-2

Besides, it was like what, $500 USD?
/r/MensRights01/03/13 06:03 AM
-7

That could happen, and probably will, but it seems in a country where rape is rampant it's just the price you pay to help society at large. I'd be scared if they came to the US, though.
/r/MensRights24/02/13 05:43 PM
1

I agree, but I disagree with the sentiment that we can't address only the girls on a topic (in this case, teaching girls discernment). I'd rather see another ad for the boys than a unisex ad.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 04:08 AM
1

I really can't tell if you guys are objecting to the image or the response... The first parts seems pretty agreeable to me.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 03:43 AM
-3

I thought they hated men. I'm pretty convinced now they hate humans.
/r/MensRights08/02/13 08:13 AM
1

I'm now hoping a feminist will tell me women feel more pain. This is a brilliant reply.
/r/MensRights08/02/13 05:52 AM
11

Same here, I would employ my own system of finding the solution that didn't match the textbook's method, and get told I was just making up numbers to appear like I was showing my work.
/r/MensRights02/02/13 02:48 AM
2

I didn't take it as a claim that a real man raises the child of a cheating wife, but more likely as someone willing to "big brother" other kids.
/r/MensRights31/01/13 03:45 AM
6

"Lee Laman". I'm strangely attracted to it.
/r/MensRights30/01/13 05:20 PM
3

I thought you can't testify against your spouse?
/r/MensRights22/01/13 05:11 PM
2

I would pay for that court transcript.
/r/MensRights18/01/13 08:15 PM
7

I think it does. I have no doubt that her working for a women's magazine either sparked or added gas to her idea of leaving, more than her better income. This isn't the first time I've heard a story just like this.
/r/MensRights17/01/13 07:38 PM
46

Nice try, Lisa
/r/MensRights07/01/13 06:47 PM
7

That's rough. The baby IS theirs (they opened their hearts to love and raise her), and yet, not theirs. They have a legitimate bond with her but the bio-dad deserves justice too.
/r/MensRights03/01/13 03:16 AM
1

No, because I'm not interested in defending my idea against a growing list of opponents. You get dogpiled when you accept every challenger. Another time.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 04:53 PM
1

The one in the womb. The one who would one day experience many joys and sorrows, triumphs and defeats, and the full spectrum of human emotions as long as their mother doesn't rob it all from them.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 04:44 PM
1

Have a nice day anyway.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 05:34 AM
0

Fine, I leave him alone only because I just don't want to take care of him and he dies. That makes it okay? Is that a legitimate defense in court? The difference between a fetus and a baby is really only one of environment. It's like saying people who live in the desert don't have the same rights as people who live in the woodlands. It's an irrelevant distinction when deciding who has the right to live.
/r/MensRights01/01/13 01:34 AM
1

If you leave a six month old baby alone in a room it'll die in just a few days. Wouldn't that count as homicide by the state? Wouldn't you be outraged to hear something like that happen in the news? If you leave a baby in the womb alone it'll survive just fine, you have to elect to kill it for it to die. I can't see how an abortion isn't an act of intentional homicide.
/r/MensRights31/12/12 06:27 PM
1

The long and short term consequences are on the baby! Robbed of life without it's consent! A human life destroyed, betrayed by its own mother! How can someone say there are no consequences when it has a pretty fucking huge consequence to the child? How can someone condemn circumcision as barbaric yet hold the gory slaughter of a defenseless infant as a "simple medical procedure"?
/r/MensRights31/12/12 06:20 PM
1

Of course there's a right answer. A species that turns on its young and renders them defenseless is doomed. Not very pragmatic at all is it?
/r/MensRights31/12/12 03:24 AM
1

Only if you believe there's some mysterious difference between a baby inside a womb from one outside. Hey! What if we circumcised him in utero? Would that be okay?
/r/MensRights31/12/12 03:21 AM
1

So, when others can help keep a baby alive, they should do so and it's wrong for me to let him die. But when only the mother can keep a baby alive, she's under no obligation to and it's fine if she doesn't? That makes sense to you?
/r/MensRights31/12/12 03:09 AM
1

I'll find the video Edit: I didn't find it. Anyway I've heard the argument that the unborn are dependent in a way the born aren't, but I find that unconvincing since even my five-month-old depends entirely on others to live, namely me and my wife. Can we jointly decide to terminate him? Of course not, and the idea is despicable. What is really so different if we rewind the clock six or seven months? What if my wife has an accident that paralyzes her and she becomes entirely dependent on me to su…
/r/MensRights30/12/12 11:22 PM
-1

He didn't seem to be defending it per se, just pointing out the inconsistency of being pro-abortion and anti-circumcision. On that point, I think he's right. Wrong elsewhere, but right about that.
/r/MensRights30/12/12 07:42 PM
1

I can answer that for you. Feminism, for all the reasons listed in this sub, weighed against all the reasons in r/donthomeschool
/r/MensRights30/12/12 04:57 PM
12

But especially in the way this image thinks marriage is.
/r/MensRights30/12/12 12:49 AM
13

I dunno, me and my wife are living according to the old traditional roles, married seven years now and life is great, even if we're barely over the poverty line. Of course, my wife was never formally indoctrinated into feminist thought either, being a homeschooled Christian growing up.
/r/MensRights29/12/12 08:00 PM
15

They do. They only see themselves as valuable if they do what men typically do. Women who opt for the housewife life are despicable to them.
/r/MensRights29/12/12 03:26 PM
26

"Men aren't supposed to hit us. We demand the privilege of getting beat up!"
/r/MensRights29/12/12 03:21 PM
7

WillyWonka.jpg
/r/MensRights27/12/12 03:23 PM
1

Besides, if mine grows up to look anything like his father, he's gonna need to keep every millimeter he's got! :)
/r/MensRights24/12/12 12:05 AM
3

Well, less so than when they're grown. My friend's kid reportedly grunted and fell asleep five minutes later. Their dad had health issues related there and convinced them to do it.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 11:49 PM
16

I'm cut, I didn't cut my son, and I know a few people who aren't cut or were cut later in life and they recommended I snip my child, save him from the infections they have to deal with. Others gave me bullshit reasons like "don't you want him to look like you?" As if we're gonna be comparing dicks someday. I almost did get him circumcised, but I figured it can always happen later if he needs/wants to, albeit a lot more painfully.
/r/MensRights22/12/12 09:34 PM
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