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STRATEGYSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 10:38 PM
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CMVSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:32 PM
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social mediaSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/EverydayMisandry02/11/24 08:50 AM
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personalSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/24 01:39 AM
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CMVSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 04:46 PM
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CMVSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:53 PM
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SNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:39 AM
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CMVSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:07 PM
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ProgressSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:30 AM
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DiscussionSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:09 PM
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SNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:03 PM
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Activism/SupportSNAILSLIVEONJUPITER/r/MensRights26/06/23 11:22 PM
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Sure, she found you attractive but she clearly wasn’t interested in having sex with a stranger. You were being pushy. Worse, you didn’t even get her socials. She’s going to hate you in a few days. See this as a lose, especially if she lives in your area. If she lives in your area then expect no woman to want a relationship with you.
/r/seduction13/05/24 08:18 AM
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The high amount of karma on OP’s post kind of gaslit me not going to lie. I was getting a weird vibe from it but decided it was all in my head because the majority of people upvoted this post. Thank goodness you got me out of my gaslit state, this story is so fake unless OP really got the girl drunk.
/r/seduction13/05/24 08:01 AM
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That would not only be foolish, creepy, and self centered, but also very stupid.
/r/seduction24/03/24 01:40 AM
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That makes sense actually. I've met girls who pretty much sexually harassed guys and then go on to complain about how creepy all men are. It's really cringey behavior. Luckily most girls grow out of this somewhere in their 20's but I'd imagine if I was a girl who acted like this when I was younger I'd be cringing at myself for years to come. I'll definitely remember to tell these girls that their making others feel uncomfortable when they do this, thanks!
/r/seduction18/12/23 04:39 PM
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I don't want to get too in depth on this subject right now so I suggest you watch my video on it. I explain it more in depth there. Cheers!
/r/MensRights28/06/23 12:44 AM
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All I'm saying with the links is that asexuals can still ejeculate and be sexually functional even if it's not something they enjoy doing. I want to make it clear that I'm not in any way trying to change your views, and that these are my views that I don't think will be changing anytime soon. I believe that society would still be able to operate even if everyone was asexual because asexuals can still reproduce even if it's not something they enjoy. I feel that sex is put on a pedestal by humanit…
/r/MensRights27/06/23 04:30 PM
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https://mosiebaby.com/blogs/conception-101/guide-to-getting-pregnant-ttc-for-lesbian-couples https://www.quora.com/Can-an-asexual-ejaculate I feel like sex doesn't really do any good in our modern day civilized society. I personally believe that sex is a primal instinct in humans that needs to die out if we want our species to be stable in the long run. After all, asexuals can still reproduce even if it's not something they enjoy doing.
/r/MensRights27/06/23 02:39 AM
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Oh my bad, Maybe I should've explained myself better. The reason I put it on this Subreddit is because the video explains how many issues, including certain mens rights issues, wouldn't exist if it wasn't for human sex drives.
/r/MensRights27/06/23 12:54 AM
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Obviously I had some mra beliefs before as stated in the post I linked, but now I’m more inclined to actually advocate for them after seeing this trainwreck.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:32 AM
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I mean, it’s fine that it’s on this subreddit, but this is more of a place to complain about dating. Yeah, men do face dating issues like loneliness but the societal problems men face usually have to do more with facts like that they’re more likely to get physically attacked, are discouraged from talking about their emotions, are more likely to be homeless, and short men aren’t respected as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:47 PM
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Why’s this on this subreddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/23 11:59 PM
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I don’t think it’s that people have these inconsistent opinions, I think it’s just that different people here have different opinions. I’m not interested in casual sex, therefore I wouldn’t date someone who is. I’m not the same guy who’s saying it’s too hard to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 04:31 AM
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The comment wasn’t talking about women who prefer tall guys, it was talking about women who twart short guys. I get that there’s women who don’t want to date short men but there’s been girls in the past who make fun of me for no other reason than my height. Now tell me, did you actually think this guy was considering a girl preferring them tall twarting or were you just trying to dismiss what they were saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 03:41 PM
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Lol what do you mean “how is this aggression productive?” Do you everyone thinks of you as some princess that they want approval from no matter how rude you are? No. They’re just expressing their anger. Their goal no longer is to be friendly with you. Yes those people are being weird and you should stay away from them but where’s this “how is this aggression productive” talk coming from? You ignored them. That’s rude. There’s your explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:08 PM
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The fact that some people don’t understand this simple fact is dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:04 PM
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You’re the one who doesn’t sound happy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:46 AM
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I feel OP doesn’t go out much.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:09 AM
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You literally told me to stop bitching and moaning in the last comment 😂 I swear this sub does things to people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:10 AM
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Yeah….. no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:17 AM
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Yeah because so many women bring it up in unrelated tangents in these comments sections on this sub it only makes sense some guys will make posts about it. Also I’m still yet to find someone who’s disrespectful toward promiscuous women on here. Promiscuity has it’s disadvantages, people need to face that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:15 AM
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Or, get this, I can complain all I want and telling me to quit moaning about it is stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 01:43 PM
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Generalizations are what’s making you lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 07:55 AM
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Actually I’ve been on here a while, most of the women hate has died down over the years I’ve been on here. Probably due to censorship. If anything there’s more men hate on here now. The women on this subreddit in particular who complain about men are usually projecting I’ve noticed. Especially the ones who clearly are only here because Femaledatingstratpros got locked. For instance, you’re saying slut shaming is this big problem when all I see is you virgin shaming men. Some people aren’t as soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:20 AM
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When I’m DATING someone I want to know why they have their preferences, I don’t care about random people’s preferences on the internet. So no. I didn’t ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:20 AM
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No one’s asking why women are being picky. The title of this post even said it. Men are hornier.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:11 AM
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No one says women with high body counts are used up whores. They just know that promiscuous women want different things than less promiscuous ones. It’s offensive when people try to force guys to date promiscuous women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:08 AM
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Thanks for putting my post in this hall of fame of yours. I agree that some of these posts you linked are trash but there’s also some that make you seem like you’re being a bit hypocritical. For example, why are you justifying women being picky but judging men for just not wanting to date a promiscuous woman? I wouldn’t date a promiscuous woman because they clearly don’t want the same things as me. It’s nothing personal. Also, you’re one of those girls who wouldn’t want to be seen with a short g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:02 AM
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The comment they were responding to said they were feeling used and degraded by men. Lowering their standards to have more options in order to have a higher probability of finding a nicer person is actually good advice in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:53 PM
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Beggars can’t be choosers is a stupid phrase. If I’m a homeless man who hasn’t eaten in three days, you bet I’m not going to eat a bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:49 PM
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Beggars can’t be choosers is a stupid phrase. If I’m a homeless man who hasn’t eaten in three days, you bet I’m not going to eat a bench.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:48 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/short/comments/y18xkr/has_this_ever_happened_to_you/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:16 AM
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Yeah but if there is a reason I’m going to need to know it. Because sometimes people do know and it’s because of weird fetishes I’m not into or straight up bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:25 PM
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Honestly that kind of worse than not dating them. That’s kind of sickening.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:57 PM
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How about don’t down play people’s issues?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:55 PM
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Well from what I see she was into me but didn’t want to be seen with me. I don’t have dating issues but I’m still going to want to know why someone has certain dating preferences so I know for sure I’m not dating someone with bigoted beliefs. I have preferences too you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:06 PM
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It’s not really a dating issue but it does lead to some people not taking em seriously and there are a few girls with some weird insecurities having to do with social complexes that don’t want to be seen with me like in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:03 PM
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It’s okay if someone’s just not attracted to black women, but if they won’t date them because of racism then that’s a little weird. This is why I like to know the “why.”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:22 PM
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If it’s because she’s just not attracted to short guys and not some weird insecurity having to do with social complexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:20 PM
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I have preferences too. Please stop disrespecting them. Knowing why someone has a preference is important to me because I need to know they don’t have any bigoted beliefs. You’re right, I probably wouldn’t marry you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:21 AM
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If your friends really are clowning you because of someone you love then you need new friends. They aren’t real friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:19 AM
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Yeah, and I have preferences too, I don’t want to date someone who does so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:15 AM
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I think this is a good addition.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:15 AM
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I did. It’s done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:14 AM
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It’s not nuts to have self respect. You would’ve done the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:09 AM
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Don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:35 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:31 PM
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Personally I like the trimmed ones. But I get it. Super Mario’s one handsome fella.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:24 PM
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I did dump her though. I just feel like the previous dates were a waste of time and I wish she was honest about it earlier. Also, I’m not going to make fun of the way she looks because when you make fun of one person for a certain physical feature, you’re indirectly making fun of everyone with that feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:23 PM
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Tbf you sound even more clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:21 PM
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Agreed. My preferences in this post are no less valid than anyone else’s preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:19 PM
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Stop assuming I’m some red pill extremist. This is a neutral community about discussing societal dating problems. All this assuming is going to lead to is straw man arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:17 PM
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Uh actually that’s a major part of what I’m on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:15 PM
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If that’s the only reason then I’m sorry but that’s kind of bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:15 PM
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That’s not what the comment was saying. You’re allowed to not date someone who’s Jewish or short or whatever, it’s when you don’t want to be associated with someone at all due to something harmless like so is when it gets weird. Thanks for trying to have a productive conversation at first but I get it. This is Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:11 PM
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Thanks. This is my favorite comment so far. It shows sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:05 PM
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This is why I trim my beard to perfection every morning, ladies love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:03 PM
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I wouldn’t demand to know why I’d just leave them if I don’t get the answer. Because if they don’t answer then it’s probably bad. I’m entitled to my preferences too, so I got to ask questions for the sake of my own preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:03 PM
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Why are you assuming I’m alone? Are you only satisfied if some random Redditor you don’t even know is alone? I checked the articles, checked the sources, it didn’t lead me anywhere. If you really thought this through you wouldn’t of sent me some journalist article. It’s pointless. I have reason to believe you’re the one who’s alone here. Saying things like “I have bi men friends so I’m not against them.” That’s scapegoat territory. It’s safe to assume those friends aren’t actually your friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 09:01 PM
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5’5”, I’m not even that short lol. I don’t even want to know how a girl who doesn’t want to be seen with a guy my height in public would be like to anyone shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:56 PM
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Doesn’t make it any better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:27 PM
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I’m not mad. People like you bisexual or not are only friends with gay men and trans women as scapegoats. Not as actual friends. Don’t think I haven’t met people who say this kind of stuff irl before. Even if they are laughing with you, they secretly aren’t your friends. Especially if they’re work friends or school friends who’re forced to be around you. Meanwhile me and my actual friends aren’t laughing at you but we are quite baffled. I encouraged them to pretend to be bi and they agreed. And …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:26 PM
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That’s great that’s been your experience but it’s not for a lot of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:19 PM
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It goes for preferences that have nothing to do with me too. I’m not black, but if someone has racist beliefs I’m still not going to want to date them. And sometimes their beliefs are masked as “preferences.”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:17 PM
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I too date people I’m friends with first. They don’t show their true colors until things get intimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:15 PM
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So if someone who has a ton of racists beliefs doesn’t date any black people I’m supposed to assume there’s no way they know why they have those preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:13 PM
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Not often, because they typically aren’t going to admit it straight away anyway. I’ve tried it before, I know how it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:12 PM
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Because some people aren’t bigots and just have uncontrollable preferences. If I were to only date people who I know for certain have no bigoted beliefs straight away, who would I be left with? I’m sick of people acting like you can know someone for arbitrary reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:10 PM
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Because they aren’t usually going to go up and tell me their bigoted beliefs when I first meet them and it feels like I wasted my time when I finally figure them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:06 PM
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Actually it is relevant because I’m entitled to my preferences too and I prefer people who have zero bigoted beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:05 PM
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That’s great but in some cases (not a lot but they still exist) it has to do with bigotry. And I’m not going to want to date someone who has bigoted beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:03 PM
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It’s actually quite simple. I don’t want to date someone who has bigoted beliefs. How’s that mental gymnastics?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:00 PM
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Actually I don’t feel entitled to biphobic girls because I wouldn’t date them anyway. This whole time you’ve been making generalizations and using Facebook science journalist sources just to prove that 50 percent of bisexuals cheat. Go tell a straight man all that and see if they still want you. Not only is nothing you said true, but even if it was, it would just be stupid. Bi men can also not cheat. Try to get to know bi men. I’m fine with people having preferences, I just know that this one is…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:58 PM
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Yeah they can have any preference they want but this preference in particular has it’s roots in biphobia. For example, the idea that a partner doesn’t want the insecurity of not meeting a bi man’s needs is bs because gay men never seem to have that problem. And about bi men being seen as less masculine, if you meet a very masculine man and only think of them as less masculine after they admit to being bisexual, that’s a generalization. Not to mention a lot of women a lot of times just straight u…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 04:50 PM
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Aww your butthurt. Anyway, you made it clear that your preferences in particular were for biohobic reasons. Not even straight men want to date a woman who says some of the things you said. And there’s such thing as being biphobic to just men and not women, so saying your bi doesn’t change anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:08 PM
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Those websites look like fake news sites, but even if they are true it’s still offensive to not date someone for the sole reason of being bi because not all bi people are like that. No wonder so many bi people prefer dating guys. I’ve never seen a gay man say any of this stuff. Edit; just encouraged some of my friends to pretend to be bi to filter out girls who say these biphobic things and they agreed 😂.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:11 AM
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Another biphobic generalization. Also 60%? I’m sorry but whenever a sources says a certain number flat I definitely don’t believe it. Realistic sources usually more likely uses numbers without 0’s and 5’s in them like 33.8% or 67.1%.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 01:10 AM
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I don’t believe this because I’ve never heard any girl say this. Also, I’m bisexual and I can do without dick. Even if that isn’t the case, there’s always going to be that feeling of inadequacy in other areas. Besides, I’d argue if what you said were to be the case then it would actually be the opposite in some cases. Girls with smaller tits and trans girls and such would probably feel more inadequate with someone who typically prefers larger tits and no penis. Bisexual men can solve that proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:08 AM
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That’s different because it’s affecting your sex life. They’re into something that your not into that can be avoided if you choose a different partner. Bisexuality doesn’t work like that because a bisexual man still probably dates and has sex with girls the same way a straight man does. So there’s not really as much of a compatibility difference there. And if there is it probably doesn’t have to do with being bisexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:11 PM
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I don’t know. I don’t think that really matters to someone unless they’re being biphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 11:05 PM
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And how does that affect a relationship when dating… a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:57 PM
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Honestly I can see this. Pretty girls tend to think they don’t have to put in the work or develop their personality in order to attract someone. A man no matter how attractive is going to have to put in work because that’s how our culture works.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:49 PM
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No. But that’s not what this situation is. Women admit to assuming bisexual men are more feminine and more promiscuous even though their bisexuality has no bearing on either of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:47 PM
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I’m talking about the ones who are like the ones I mentioned in my post which is a lot less than a lot of people think.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:45 PM
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Thanks for replying to this comment I really didn’t want to talk to someone who denies the existence of bisexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:42 PM
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Aaaand those are all biphobic generalizations. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:40 PM
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Yeah, I acknowledged that in my post. Women just make generalizations about bi men that they’re less masculine. That’s all it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:40 PM
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People who say it can affect compatibility are just making generalizations on bi people. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:39 PM
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It’s almost as if I acknowledged this point in my post but it still seems like nonsense in this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:37 PM
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Bi people can be masculine, they just don’t want to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:15 PM
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It’s not the straightness they brag about it’s the idea of having as masculine of a man as possible. The straightness is a factor they use but I think they can do without if it wasn’t for their weird ideals. Bi people can be masculine, they just don’t want to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:12 PM
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I bet this woman lied about asking out guys lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 11:50 PM
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Nah. you just know I’m right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:17 AM
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But you’re not quoting crucial information, taking it out of context, similar to an editor on dance moms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:36 AM
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I’m allowed to complain about things that aren’t immoral. I can complain about a soft taco shells. Doesn’t make the taco shell evil, I just don’t like it. Sorry if I offended you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:18 AM
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I think it will. Women taking less initiative when it comes to relationships in general is probably due to traditional values. Women decided to get out of their kitchens and be more than just housewives after the industrial revolution, and I think asking out guys more is next.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 01:01 AM
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You clearly didn’t read the part of the post where I said “maybe not to the extent of changing your sexuality.” You’re clearly reading too much into this. And maybe fucking multiple people you aren’t attracted to is degrading, but I wouldn’t know, I’ve only done it once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 02:23 AM
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I said “wouldn’t typically consider” not “aren’t attracted to.” Nor did I say to fuck them. Also I said “maybe not to the extent of changing your sexuality.” So. You can be less attracted to someone but still attracted to them, in which case it would be healthily to fuck them in order to expand your horizons. And the fact you said fucking someone you aren’t attracted to is traumatic makes me think you’ve never done it. And let me tell you, It’s gross as fuck to fuck someone you aren’t attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:36 AM
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Do you think I’m mad at people who reject me? Cuz I’m not. And the job is entitled to set their own standards as well. Things in life are simply unfair, and if you don’t think that’s the case, then maybe grow up before going back onto this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:26 AM
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So you think I’m going to be forcing a job that denied my application to hire me because I think it’s unfair? No. I’ll find a different job.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:20 AM
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What I mean by biological are preferences you can’t control.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:14 AM
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Let me get this straight, you misinterpreted what I said yet you’re insistent that you’re misinterpretation of what I said was true. I think you’re baiting ngl.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:12 AM
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Don’t bother with the um actually you were going to say😂? Who the fuck do you think you are? Yeah no I didn’t even read the rest of what you said but I’m glad I saw that line first cuz I don’t even think your point is worth reading if you’re going to talk like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:04 AM
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Did I say people are owed sex and relationships? No. I said that certain preferences are unfair, and they are, regardless of wether they are controllable or not. You can go like, “it’s so unfair this lady rejected me because I’m short, I can’t control my height” It’s not the same as saying, “she HAS to fuck me because she rejected me!” I don’t know how you misinterpreted what I said that much, but okay. It’s not “fair,” it just is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:57 AM
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I’d say there is actually something wrong with with having non biological preferences. Especially societal ones. In a perfect world, looks wouldn’t matter at all. Of course, we can’t have that kind of society, at least not with today’s technology, but I think it’s important humanity strives to be as not superficial as possible. Also, if some of your preferences are because of societal norms, then you’re kind of just too self conscious to do without them, and it has nothing to do with attractiven…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:56 AM
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This is kind of what I mean, but I guess I didn’t really get that point across properly. I suggest making a post out of this, it’s a point that many people on this subreddit would probably like to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:09 PM
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6’3” is the new 6’? I never even met a women who has a requirement of 6’ minimum. They usually just want someone who’s like 2 inches taller than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:04 PM
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I’m not saying biology doesn’t play a role just to make that clear. But yeah I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 05:02 PM
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Hi, so if you read my post, you would know my ego is fine. I just don’t like how hard it can be to find a girl who isn’t a hypocrite like the one in my post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:23 PM
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Even though most preferences are biological, you can actually change your preferences to a small extent. People with higher sex drives have lower standards when it comes to looks because it’s easier to get off to more things. Ways you can improve your sex drive are, abstaining from masturbating, working out, and certain medications. Also, believe it or not, you can gain new fetishes at any age. An experiment done with adults who wore boots while having sex were more likely to associate the boots…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 07:02 PM
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Yikes, I don’t wanna meet that girl in real life ever
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 01:51 PM
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I don’t think I was.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:15 PM
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I guess you’re right
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:14 PM
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Oh I’m sorry, people who generalize everyone who doesn’t know how to approach a women as stupid are dumb then.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 12:09 AM
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Because women not respecting men’s problems would be like if a white person told a black person that they should just accept that Police brutality exists and do nothing about it. Now imagine that white person got beaten up for saying that racist bs, do you think anyone would help him? If your answer is no, consider why I might not wanna help someone who says that they don’t care about men’s problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:46 PM
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Personality
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:20 PM
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So the time I uncomfortably told a creepo to get off one of my female friend’s backs which could’ve resulted in him getting aggressive was me doing so because it benefited me? I think you’re also generalizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:49 PM
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Actually looking back I agree with this comment, I kinda just read it wrong. But I feel there needs to be both what you said and what I said in my post for true equality. It’s later down the thread I feel you stopped making sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:56 AM
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I live in fear too at times, I had gay guys I’ve rejected on Grindr stalk me. And even girls believe it or not, girls do it too. But my post isn’t about that, it’s about passiveness of straight women in the dating world and how it affects men and why women shouldn’t be as harsh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:33 AM
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Then why’d you start this single comment thread in the first place when the thing you said clearly show you haven’t read my entire post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:25 AM
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Also, you’re a creep if you’re implying that the girl’s actions in my post are justify able because she apparently “made him nervous to show how women feel.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:20 AM
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That more straight women should ask out guys, and should also be more understanding of the problems that arise when dating straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:08 AM
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So it’s okay to harass someone if you’re a gay man? Did you not read my post?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 03:06 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:21 AM
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Not all, but more than they’re should
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:12 AM
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That I’m doing this all for my own benefit. I’m not even straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:11 AM
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I think you’re reading too much into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:10 AM
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I am supportive of others peoples problems, just saying if it was true that no women respect men’s problems, I wouldn’t respect theirs in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:09 AM
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No, because some men still do it. Just because you know something doesn’t mean everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:04 PM
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Are you implying I’m gross and whiny?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:02 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:01 PM
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Yikes, where’d the reaching statements come from
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:00 PM
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That girl is so weird
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 06:17 PM
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That makes more sense, I can imagine a girl with an interest in software development wanting a guy who also is into it. Doesn’t change the fact you described girls like we’re living in the industrial revolution though, stay away from those types of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:43 PM
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Same as your post history. And yes, you’re not going to get the same amount of girls as if you were broke, but using terminology like “I get 8’s and 9’s” c’mon dude you wouldn’t even felt the need to bring that up if you were secure. Also, you attract them with your lifestyle because you are rich, your dates are probably just waiting for you to pull out their paycheck. It changes nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:36 PM
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So what’s your advice to sharecroppers? To just stop caring?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:33 PM
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Same, just wish there were more of them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:30 PM
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I like when a woman takes the first step, so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:29 PM
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So you’re an insecure man who only dates shallow women who want your money to buy things instead of for your looks and personality? Sounds like you have the same problem but in a different way. Also, the height thing doesn’t mean shit, the girls who want 6’ + men are a loud minority, and there exists tall girls are insecure about getting dates as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:15 PM
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If a girl who takes more initiative and asks out your crush before you and ends up with your crush, you’re going to lose even more confidence. Because keep in mind, girl who ask out guys are rare, but they do exist, and they are your main competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:11 PM
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Lol thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:05 PM
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For the 1000th time You can complain about the creepy ones regardless if you ever asked someone out or not. It’s the lame, cheesy, approaches I’m talking about. If you never asked anyone out before and are complaining about a man who said something lame on match like “roses are red, violets are blue, I used up my daily free message on you” then you have no right to complain. Also, I’ve used Grindr before, and the cheesy lines are my favorite. And when I meet someone in person and they act nervou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:04 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:03 PM
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Let me guess, you’re broke and using it as a scapegoat as to why you can’t get dates. Well let me tell you something, having less money may be a disadvantage, but what’s an even bigger disadvantage is never trying.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:01 PM
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I say people at least try to meet in the middle, not everyone’s going to be like the people in this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:59 PM
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First off, my friend was a girl who I was using as an example as to why girls shouldn’t complain when guys are too awkward, because she was creepy but complained when a guy was awkward to her. You can complain about the creepy ones regardless if you ever asked someone out or not. It’s the lame, cheesy, approaches I’m talking about. If you never asked anyone out before and are complaining about a man who said something lame on match like “roses are red, violets are blue, I used up my daily free m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:56 PM
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You’re basically just described dating in the industrial revolution. Women don’t date for money as much anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:15 PM
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The people who would reject you probably wouldn’t of asked you out anyway, and after multiple rejections you stop caring about what others think of you and your self esteem returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:09 PM
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Lame and cheesy meaning anything that isn’t really did like, maybe they aren’t the most confident, but they at least tried sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:05 PM
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You sound cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:04 PM
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Even if it doesn’t inflict damage, it’s just very weird and makes you wanna leave the room.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:59 PM
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Dating’s different because it’s not a transactional deal, it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:48 PM
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Not only will girls get the guys they want, but also be better to date. When straight girls ask guys out, they begin to understand straight men better, and their better understanding of straight men makes them overall better partners for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:46 PM
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Also, I really like that last paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:43 PM
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Trust me, guys don’t wanna be initiators, in fact the incel community is full of guys who never had the courage to ask anyone out. Yes the confident ones won’t mind as much, but in the end they would still prefer it if girls approached them. It would make things easier. You’ll be 100% more attractive if you ask a man out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:32 PM
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You can complain about the creepy ones regardless if you ever asked someone out or not. It’s the lame, cheesy, approaches I’m talking about. If you never asked anyone out before and are complaining about a man who said something lame on match like “roses are red, violets are blue, I used up my daily free message on you” then you have no right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:25 PM
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Because I DID give her advice, she just didn’t listen to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:24 PM
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That’s a generalizing statement, but if that were the case, then I won’t care about women’s problems either.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:23 PM
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You can complain about the creepy ones regardless if you ever asked someone out or not. It’s the lame, cheesy, approaches I’m talking about. If you never asked anyone out before and are complaining about a man who said something lame on match like “roses are red, violets are blue, I used up my daily free message on you” then you have no right to complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:22 PM
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Nah, not really
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 03:17 PM
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Oh man, I remember that feeling, it feels so good. You get less cynical about dating and you feel super sexy. The few times I do get approached by girls, I later learn that they either were just screwing around or want me because I meet their very specific criteria looks wise which makes me feel more cynical about them. Because they probably rejected plenty of decent people before getting to me. But when a guys shows interest in me, it actually feels like I’m special for an actual reason rather …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:29 PM
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Eh, I’m a bi guy and I kinda get the same experience as OP only I don’t date much so I’m going to have to disagree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:19 PM
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Yeah, good people know that no one deserves to suffer, no matter how bad. It just goes to show you are a good person. And maybe your exes didn’t deserve you. Sorry to hear about your ex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 04:20 PM
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I’m from America, and I’ve never met a man who cares about weight, but if it’s true men do care, I wouldn’t consider it hypocritical. Women tend to standardize men based on things they can’t control, which is kinda cruel wether they intend it or not. You can control weight however, it’s just going to be harder for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:44 PM
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As an American, I’ve never met a man who cares about a woman’s weight. I think men only care if the woman is at least able to move. Even if that’s not the case, I wouldn’t say it’s hypocritical. You can at least lose weight, as hard as it may be. Girls tend to standardize men more on uncontrollable factors, which is kinda cruel not going to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:42 PM
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I agree with this, but I understand why someone might disagree. Sometimes guys just don’t wanna be friends with girls because they think the girl would get the wrong idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 01:35 PM
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It’s why I’m the movie ugly Dolls the dolls weren’t actually ugly. Even the Wonder movie, August just had a few scars on his face instead of being disfigured like he was in the book. It’s all just so superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 03:18 AM
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The height part now makes me understand why Bisexual girls usually don’t care about height.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:46 AM
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