Can we stop these double standards?

wtknight · 2022-10-13T11:08:14+00:00

Removed. No rants or excessively leading questions.

DRliveseyyy · 2022-10-13T09:31:19+00:00

Honestly, people should just date whoever they want and don’t give a fuck about what other people think about your preferences

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2022-10-13T08:56:25+00:00

Everyone is allowed their own preferences

Though I never get the not wanting to date bi men but each to their own

mistressusa · 2022-10-13T08:57:30+00:00

Why are you so offended women call you misogynist when you call them promiscuous/used/dirty/etc.? Why so precious?

Regular-Loser-569 · 2022-10-13T08:53:45+00:00

It's not a double standard because they are different standards.

nvkr_ · 2022-10-13T08:47:51+00:00

That’s a straw man. No one cares about your dating preferences. But if you say, you use promiscuity as some proxy for potential unfaithful behavior, people are allowed to say that your reasoning is bullshit.

dbz19_kai · 2022-10-13T10:03:18+00:00

Don’t appeal to logic or fairness, they don’t want the dating world to be fair.

Just keep your cards closed to your chest and pursue what you want.

vogel777 · 2022-10-13T09:14:21+00:00

Honestly you can do what you want why do you need our approval? It's misogynistic when it's used as a stick to beat women with, why else would it be posted about on here every 5 minutes? It's an attempt to shame women into compliance.

It also depends on your age, how experienced you are etc. If you are a 17 year old virgin who wants to meet a nice girl at church and save yourselves for marriage then fine, if your a 30 year old guy who feels entitled to a young virgin that's misogynistic.

Ultimately everyone can have any standard they want, for men here it typically makes no difference as nobody wants them anyway.

Notanothrshitthrow · 2022-10-13T09:12:27+00:00

Everyone's standards and preferences get criticised.

Women who only want to date men who earn 6 figs get criticised. Women who only want to date men who are 6 foot and above get criticised. Men who don't want to date high n count women get criticised. Women who don't want to date virgins get criticised. Men who only want to date young women get criticised. Women who don't want to date bi men get criticised. Men who don't want to date women with a mental illness get criticised.

Just fucking deal with it. Who gives a fuck if some people on reddit think you're problematic, just live your damn life and stop moaning that anonymous reddit accounts don't agree with you.

januaryphilosopher · 2022-10-13T09:05:34+00:00

Being bisexual is different from being promiscuous, so this doesn't fit the definition of a double standard.

TheGoldenChampion · 2022-10-13T09:12:59+00:00

People can have bad preferences. Only being willing to date white people because you’re racist is clearly bad. Why don’t we also see it as bad when people prefer not to date bisexuals?

And body count actually has negative effects on an individual/relationships, so it is a reasonable preference. Studies show that higher body counts lead to lower partner satisfaction, and higher divorce rates.

The9thElement · 2022-10-13T10:10:59+00:00

That’s not even a double standard + this is a straw man

FineDevelopment00 · 2022-10-13T10:19:59+00:00

So many women here will refuse to date bisexual men.

But those same girls judge men for not dating them because of their body count.

Afaik the women refusing to date bisexual men are not bi themselves, hence it isn't a double standard. Whereas many of the men refusing to date promiscuous women are hypocritical about it (they are or were high-N themselves yet they demand a virgin or at the very least a low-n woman.)

I wouldn’t date a promiscuous woman because they clearly want different things than me. How is that bad?

It isn't bad unless you're a hypocrite.

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Title	Can we stop these double standards?
Author	SNAILSLIVEONJUPITER
Upvotes	7
Comments	103
Date	October 13, 2022 8:39 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/PurplePillDebate
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/y2tfc8/can_we_stop_these_double_standards/
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