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ACCOUNT SUSPENDED. AWOL FOR 3 DAYS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:13 PM
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You are putting words in my mouth. I never said I don't care fi those kids die. You're the one that doesn't care if the ex-husband dies. And I don't support the war in Ukraine, I support an immediate ceasefire so that nobody dies. But its fine, thanks for being honest. I'm glad women are commenting on this with full honesty. I hope men reading this keep this in mind when deciding how much they care about women's issues. Women cry that men don't support this or that feminist cause. Well why shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:13 PM
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It's fine. It's good to know where women stand. I'll definitely keep this in mind. Thanks for being honest. I hope more men see comments like this when deciding how much they really care about women's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:10 PM
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The law isn't always moral though. You're basically getting someone killed by proxy. You're saying its fine to take an action resulting in another person getting killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:06 PM
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Okay so if I give a woman's address to her stalker abusive ex, and he finds her and kills her, I did nothing wrong, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:00 PM
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If I gave a woman's info to her abusive stalker ex and he found her and killed her, would I not share any blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:57 AM
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I'm not just talking about the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:57 AM
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Being sent to war has a high chance of being killed. So no sympathy for a man being killed. As long as the woman gets her child support. Got it. I'll keep that in mind next time women ask for men's sympathy for women's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:56 AM
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Abandoning someone isn't the same as killing someone. So I guess its fine for a husband to kill his ex-wife to avoid paying alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:54 AM
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sending someone to die in war isn't killing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:47 AM
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Well from the looks of things it cuts both ways. Let's not kid ourselves, the society that feminists want to create is just as unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:46 AM
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Even if it means getting someone killed?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:45 AM
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how does that explain how men can avoid it but women can't?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:44 AM
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One is essentially committed murder, the other is just not giving his money
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:44 AM
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Toxic masculinity like getting killed for not paying child support?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:41 AM
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Well why do men but not women?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:40 AM
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Cause you're implying that you think its fine for them to be killed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:39 AM
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Deadbeat dads are worth women who try to kill them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:37 AM
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And its better to be a woman who doesn't have to go to war than do either of those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:36 AM
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. Not sure about the US, but in Russia you still pay for your kids even in case of adoption Seems strangely egalitarian. Women can't opt out of kids they created neither can men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:35 AM
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So the penalty for avoiding child support should be execution?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:35 AM
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It's not the same thing though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:34 AM
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Not the same as being blown to bits or shot to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:33 AM
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In Russia it's like this for everyone poor enough if you didn't know. Well women aren't being sent to die...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:29 AM
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To the man who lost his life, it would make a lot of difference. I guess you don't care about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:26 AM
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how many people want to live that life though? Most people just want to keep living normally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:26 AM
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Well okay it's like saying a woman who gave her kids up for adoption was a better mother while she was dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:25 AM
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Honestly, if you're a man who's low on the socio-economic ladder, literally nobody gives a shit about you. Not the rich men in power, not the rich women in power, not the average men who are on the same level as you, not the women fighting for women's rights and women's empowerment and feminism. You might as well be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:24 AM
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It's a bad thing that you're a better father when you're dead though. Yeah and if a guy killed an ex-wife that he had to pay alimony to, she'd be a better wife while she's dead. Same logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:22 AM
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So you're fine with a man losing his life just so a woman can get a child support pay out?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:20 AM
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Being a deadbeat father is not the moral equivalent of sending someone to die in war. Well, don't put your dick in crazy I guess. It's like telling victims of rape and domestic abuse, don't date bad guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:13 AM
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Sending people to die in war is morally repugnant, I'm not sure why you're arguing in support of that. it's ridiculous that you'd even compare the two. And it's his responsibility because if he's her new de facto and foster parent then he should contribute to whatever costs they need.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:10 AM
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Yeah I realise the actions of a few doesn't mark the whole gender, but when you see stories of men raping women during war, its easy for a woman's reaction to distrust and dislike men as a result and be wary of any man, "could he be like those men?". The same with men, if he sees stories of women getting revenge on exes by sending them to die, it makes him distrustful of all women "could she be like those women?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:09 AM
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I guess feminists can be of different types of views. During WW1, feminists put white feathers in the mailboxes of men who didn't sign up to die in an attempt to shame them as "cowards".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:08 AM
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Lol, if she's got a new bf, let the new boyfriend support them. She's just sending her ex to get killed because she's bitter, let's not kid ourselves. Women like this are pure evil. I hope her current partner sees what he's in for and leaves her (after the war is over of course).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:07 AM
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Svetlana Mikhailova, a factory worker, told Verstka her ex-husband called her twice when the mobilization effort began, but she didn't answer. "He is a strong, tall man, he served in the army," Mikhailova added. "I think he is in good health. It would be unfair if they did not mobilize him but mobilized our 19-year-old son with epilepsy. Or my partner who is raising children with me." HOW does reading stuff like this not make someone hate women? She's literally still bitter about her ex and she …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:59 AM
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yeah it's pure disgusting behaviour. However bad a person is as a husband or father, doesn't mean they deserve to be executed. I don't know how news like this doesn't make men just hate women more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:53 AM
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So they're getting people killed because they abandoned them? How is this justified? Do feminists support this? This is pure evil.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:52 AM
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I'm glad to hear that! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:39 AM
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Please stay safe and take care of yourself. I'd hate for anything to happen to my PPD arch-rival! Who else would I have endless arguments with then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:36 AM
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I can't imagine what you're going through right now. :( there's no way at all she can join you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:30 AM
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Hahaha, let it all out :) It's good that you're safe now though. Is your family also safe? Like, saying this stuff won't put your mother or anything in danger, will it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:25 AM
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Does it feel relieving now you can finally talk about your political views without fear of getting Putin'd? I feel you've been holding it in for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:20 AM
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So you're fine with the war continuing?? Would you say that even if your husband was was on the front line and might be the next casualty?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:11 AM
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So your solution is that war goes on and people keep dying?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:53 AM
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Hey you're a new account. Are you someone we know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:52 AM
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And from Russia's point of view, Crimea was Russia and was unfairly given to Ukraine by Khrushchev. I'm not agreeing with the Russian POV or the Ukrainian POV, my point is from each side's POV, they are right and the other is wrong. You can keep going back and forth forever and let the killing go on forever, or you can find a compromise and end the needless deaths. My belief is that for the sake of saving human lives, it should end immediately. Surely you have friends who are conscripted, wouldn…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:50 AM
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There was shelling going on in the Donbass region since 2014.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:45 AM
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Aggressor can have multiple interpretations. Each side sees the other as the aggressor.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:38 AM
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But OP was specifically referring to the notion that "women can just lie about it" rather than whether N count is a reliable criteria or not. It's like, the fact that someone can lie about something doesn't mean its not worth caring about, since people can lie about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:36 AM
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Russia shares a large part of the blame of course, but I don't think it is solely responsible. The Ukrainian government for reneging on the Minsk deals, and in my view, the US and NATO, for creating this situation and refusing to assuage fears about Ukraine not joining NATO (when they were never gonna let Ukraine into NATO to begin with).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:34 AM
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But people can lie about anything, not just N count. It's a non sequitor to say don't care about something because someone could lie about it. It's like saying "you shouldn't care about cheating, cause your partner might cheat, and you would never know".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:28 AM
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Yeah true I guess that's the endgame. I'm not defending Putin or Russia's territorial ambitions. I think all sides are at fault for letting the conflict reach this stage. I think above all, the US is to blame because they engineered this and wanted this and are trying to prolong it. As a person who has absolutely 0 connection to that region, all I want is the fighting and killing to end because I think human life is the most precious thing of all, more precious than political borders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:26 AM
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I think nobody should be inherently distrustful, it's reasonable to assume that whoever is not manipulating you. At the same time, you do need to look out for yourself. If someone lies you and manipulates you, that's on them. But if someone doesn't do that, and you make bad decisions that hurt yourself, that's on you. I know there's overlap and that's a fine line. For example, if a woman keeps choosing to sleep with a FWB in the hopes he'll fall in love with her but never does, that's not him ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:21 AM
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For Russia, NATO is the aggressor. Since 1991, NATO has been building up on Russia's border and pushing eastwards. For the people of Donbass the Ukrainian army is the aggressor. There's no goodies or baddies in international politics. Each side believes they are defending themselves and their interests. Ukraine believes border regions belong to it. Russia believes border regions should be independent or autonomous. Who's right, who's wrong? Each person has their own opinion. I think a compromise…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:16 AM
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At some point you just have to swallow your pride and accept some kind of ceasefire. Either that or people keep dying. I refuse to accept that there is NO option other than for humans to keep senselessly murdering each other, because that is what war is. If you had to choose between two buttons: 1. your family and everyone you love and know is horribly killed, but Donetzk stays part of Ukraine, or 2. your family and friends all survive and continue to enjoy happy lives, but Donetzk becomes indep…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 09:03 AM
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I don’t really listen to Katie Perry
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:41 AM
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I'd never heard of him. I don't read up on random murderers.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:56 AM
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Reject Jeffrey Dahmer. Watch Extraordinary Attorney Woo instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:51 AM
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why is everyone obsessed with that show
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 06:03 AM
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LEAVE GASTON TO ME
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 05:15 AM
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So what's the solution? People keep dying? There needs to be concessions by both sides. Both sides need to swallow their pride. Nothing is more precious than human life. Every life lost is an entire human being's life story gone, they will never grow old or experience what they deserved to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:34 AM
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Well I think some feminists rail a bit too much against "Nice Guys TM" you know? I don't agree with TRP on everything, I agree with some things, like being confident and working on your social skills and improving yourself. I don't agree with them on AWALT, or that no woman is worth marrying. I think that's sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:15 AM
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Uh, surely there must way I can both be nice and fulfil my dream of becoming Chad... right? .....Right? :/
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:14 AM
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Oh wow... do you still ever get any pain?? I'm sorry you went through all that and I really am glad that you seem to be doing better overall now :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:12 AM
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We can't say for certain, but the only way to end the war now is to accept full ceasefire and autonomy for the people of Donbass. I know Russia is hypocritical because we know the crimes they committed when the people of Chechnya wanted independence and how they responded. But I think some cultural rights and autonomy is not too much to ask. The Minsk agreements should have been adhered to. Every day that the war goes on is more people dying and another tragedy. Nobody deserves to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:11 AM
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aww and I was so confident in my abilities. I'll have to try harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:56 AM
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Of course, you need to decide what is best for you and your life, and what it is you want in life. Be confident in your own decisions. Don't let others pressure you this way or that way! Nobody understands you better than yourself. I'm glad to hear you're alright now. I think you gotta be pretty strong to overcome trauma like that, but it seems like you were.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:55 AM
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Not true! I want to be nice! :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:25 AM
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The trying to be funny part didn't work or the being a perv part didn't work?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:24 AM
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What's a true thought about women that makes you think they "hate" them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:24 AM
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I mean I think each gender thinks the other is being "mean" to them. I know sometimes I myself have that bias. I think we should all try to be a little more respectful to each other, ya know?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:21 AM
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Ah I'm sorry to hear that. I really hope you're okay otherwise after the accident. What about adoption? For me, even though I'd prefer biological kids, if I or my wife couldn't have them, I'd be okay with adoption or surrogacy or something like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:20 AM
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Mixture of trying to be funny + being a perv
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:19 AM
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Btw have you played the game? I'm really thinking of getting it. Damn work taking up all my important video game time!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:15 AM
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Well duh, you're just being a hysterical woman with womanly feelings! You need us super logical and rational men to tell you how you really feel! Silly woman
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:14 AM
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I'm Catholic so I kinda understand the religious environment. Yeah. I'm worried that I might marry a woman who doesn't tell me how she really feels about these things. The last thing I'd want is to force a lifestyle on a woman who doesn't want it. I don't consider myself a feminist by any means but I do feel sad when I see women being basically discouraged from expressing how they really feel, out of shame, or lack of self-confidence or whatever reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:14 AM
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lol, so you're saying in my supposed fantasy, I'm the "incel"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:12 AM
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He's literally me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:11 AM
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I don't know the details of their marriage so I can't answer. I know that I myself am marriage minded and would want kids though, so it's important for me that anyone I marry is compatible with me and also really wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:08 AM
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I suck at detecting sarcasm but I'm gonna go with "yes".....?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:06 AM
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Wait, so you do judge people on their sexual history or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:05 AM
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FIRST ​
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:01 AM
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all of it. Just feel bad for her, and her kids. It's sad that she's going through that and I really hope she gets some kind of counselling and manages to find love for her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:59 AM
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Lol was that a sarcastic "yeah right"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:59 AM
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That was a depressing read :(
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:56 AM
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Lol that's not my fantasy though. My fantasy would be way more nsfw
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:56 AM
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Lol okay I definitely haven't slept with dozens of people. I've probably had less sex than the average PPD user. Anyway, I'd rather be judged on who I am rather than the other posters here or through guilt by association. I don't look down on people who have had sex at all, do you? I'm actually really regretful of my sexual past. I hate that I didnt' lose my virginity to someone I'd eventually marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:54 AM
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It's like women who are obsessed with the bad boy. But in this case, the incel is the "bad boy". Basically in old days, the bad boy was a good looking outsider social outcast, but in those days it was a guy who rode motorcycles and smoked weed. Nowadays it's a guy who doesn't fit into society still, but in a completely different way. The incel is the new "bad boy". He sexually excites women but also threatens them. They thing they can "change him", and they can cure him of his inceldom through s…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:50 AM
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They want to be ravaged by an Incel. Every post on /r/inceltear: "Lmao these fucking incels are so pathetic and misogynistic!! They think it's their looks but it's their personalities!! It's their personalities that are shit! Most of them actually look really average, so it's not their looks that are the problem. Actually some of them are kind of cute lol, but they have shit personalities, that's what's holding them back, because they actually look cute lol. It's their personality that's holding…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:42 AM
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What's your definition of a slut? I don't like using demeaning words to attack people for their sexual past. I want someone who believes sex belongs in a marriage, like I do. My strong preference is a virgin, I may be willing to some sexual history if she is accepting of mine, and if she is regretful of hers the same way I am of mine
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:34 AM
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What? I have no problem with anyone who's had sex. I've had sex. I don't care about anyone's sexual past and don't think it makes them more or less of a person. What I want in a future wife is not the same as liking or disliking someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:30 AM
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Gaston is a giga-simp white knight who tried to help a domestic abuse victim, and then got killed because said domestic abuse victim thought she could "change" her abuser and ended up siding with him over the white knight.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:28 AM
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I mean yeah but some women also try to shame men for caring about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:27 AM
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He comes off a nice guy. I feel he's genuine, like I could hang out with him, even though I disagree with some of his social views. I kinda liked Rudd as well. The one I absolutely hate the most is Howard, he's a piece of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:09 AM
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WW2 could have been avoided by negotiation. Most wars could be avoided by negotiation. If the Minsk treaties had been adhered to, the war involving your country could have been avoided and thousands of lives could have been saved. World leaders treat human lives like random units in a RTS game, you move this many here, this many die, you move this many there, that many die. They treat it like a game. The US is seeing it as another cold war proxy conflict and they are using Ukrainian lives as pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:05 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:01 AM
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Except that in the vast majority of wars, they can be prevented and compromises can and should happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:49 AM
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Of course you defend yourself, but I think in international politics and in terms of war, that's rarely the case. I think the vast majority of wars could be avoided if both sides were willing to negotiate, and both sides could get what they want if they swallowed their pride and need to impose their way or the highway.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:38 AM
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I don't disagree that fighting in self defence is justified. If someone attacks you, in that moment you have no choice but to fight back. But if there is an option to negotiate and find a compromise and avoid the loss of human life, that should always be chosen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:36 AM
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I know there's good in the world, but it's easy to forget that sometimes when being inundated with all the bad in the world. Sometimes I feel like my gender are absolutely shit to women and that makes me feel bad. But I know there's lots of good men out there and I strive to be one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:33 AM
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Yeah people should be respectful to one another. I said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:32 AM
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If someone breaks into your house, yes defend your house. But if there is an option to get them to leave peacefully, or endanger your kids getting shot, I'd choose the former option. But more importantly, why are they robbing your house? Yes you should defend your home, but if you could have done something to prevent that from happening in the first place, wouldn't that be better? What if they robbed your house because they believed you were going to rob their house tomorrow? What if you sat dow…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:31 AM
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Okay maybe but we all probably hold subconscious beliefs or ideas that are insulting to others. Best to just be respectful in how we treat people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:29 AM
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Yeah. Do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:27 AM
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who pedestalizes virginity that wasn't either a religious nut or a resentful sexless male. Seems more like other people's preferences cause you to attack them? How's that any different to him claiming women with sexual histories are "used up whores"?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:23 AM
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Yes there's evil people, but when you have wars, you're killing innocent people who have nothing to do with those evil people. I consider the US government to be evil people who love chaos and destruction. Does that make killing 3000 American civilians on 9/11 to be justified cause it's hitting out at the US government?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:22 AM
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People can have whatever preferences they want. It's no different to a woman wanting a tall guy or caring about a guy's job or social status or whether he's had a gf before.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:19 AM
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I mean even if they think that way, they think that way, I see no big deal as long as they don't verbalise it in a demeaning way to other people. I think everyone should do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:17 AM
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Like, I think even in those cases, it can be negotiated. Like however evil their actions are, they probably have motives. Just like the US has motives when they drop bombs and use drone strikes. I think drone striking a wedding and killing dozens of women and children is the ultimate act of evil, but from the minds of the US government, it's justified because "bla bla bla", like whatever their reasons are. For those militias, they probably think they have something to gain by kidnapping hundreds…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:15 AM
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Yeah, and the "next Hitler" is just whoever is the next leader of a country that your country has disputes with. To the Germans in WW2, Churchil and Stalin were "Hitler". They saw Churchill as a tyrant who loved bombing civilians and Stalin as a genocidal psychopath who starved millions to death, both of which are true incidentally. Russia now sees the Ukrainian nationalists as the "next Hitler" because of their actions against the ethnic Russian minority in East Ukraine. The west sees Putin as …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:12 AM
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I'm not much of a political person, but I honestly really like Albo. I don't agree with him on everything, but I think as a person he's very likeable and seems genuine and level-headed. I didn't care much last election, but he's grown on me since. I can imagine being friends with him and getting along great.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:09 AM
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yeah exactly. People should date who they want, and let others date who they want. No need to force every person to explain it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:05 AM
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Which RP opinions do you not take seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:04 AM
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So when they signed the Minsk agreements, was that negotiating with him? why did they not adhere to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:02 AM
1

Which instances?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:02 AM
1

What you call appeasement is just negotiations and both sides making concessions. You'd rather have a full blown war where many people die. Okay let me ask you a question, which is better, what you call appeasement, or you and your family and everyone you love and care about, your friends and neighbours, being horribly killed and tortured in painful ways and burnt to death? If you knew that would happen for certainty, would you not say to your government "hey, maybe try negotiating first?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:00 AM
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This applies to women too! You're not off the hook, lady! I see enough women here say they wouldn't date a guy who's never had a gf because "there must be something wrong with him".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:57 AM
1

Epstein's victims were literally victims of sex trafficking and sex slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:56 AM
1

But you think it's unlikely the Clintons are connected to rich and powerful circles that engage in sex trafficking among other things?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:55 AM
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Appeasement is negotiation. You view the world in terms of goodies vs baddies and see your side as making concessions to the other side as "appeasement". They see themselves making concessions to you as "appeasement".
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:54 AM
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FYI I wasn't referring specifically to Ukraine, but the concept of war in general. I believe pretty much all wars could be avoided if both sides agree to swallow their pride and agree to negotiated resolutions. Nobody wins from protracted war except military industrial companies. But to answer your question, how could the Ukraine war have been avoided? Agree to not join NATO (NATO doesn't want to let them join anyway), give cultural autonomy to ethnic-Russian parts of Ukraine. Basically adhering…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:53 AM
5

You can have personal preferences without demeaning other people you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:48 AM
1

Teen models is an interesting way to refer to trafficked underage sex slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:46 AM
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Well maybe he doesn't want to date someone who's done a sex tape?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:46 AM
1

Given all the powerful people connected to Epstein, would you even be surprised if it was true? Like all these rich and powerful people across the globe connected to him, and somehow NOBODY had any idea what he was doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:39 AM
4

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:36 AM
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His point is that in both cases you have no way of knowing. There's many things you have no way of knowing. It's so disturbing that he would enlist a PI for someone he's dating... What if it's something that was important to him? Would you say the same about him getting a PI to uncover cheating?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:35 AM
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if you support war so much, go sign up and die in it yourself And I don't support Putin at all. But US and NATO wanted this war so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:29 AM
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The US is 100% to blame for the war in Ukraine. They want to fight another cold war style proxy conflict and are using another country's people as cannon fodder. American redditors are salivating over it. "Cheapest war we've ever fought! We didn't lose a single soldier!" as if actual human beings aren't dying. The entire war could have been prevented if they had made assurances about NATO expansion and allowed cultural autonomy for parts of Ukraine. They chose instead to flood the area with weap…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:22 AM
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You cannot be pro-war and be a humane person. If you support war, you are not humane. War is more disgusting than bestiality. War is bombs being dropped on sleeping children. War is people being shot to death. War is human beings missing out on the chance to experience a full life simply because someone doesn't like the imaginary lines on a map. Lines on a map are not worth a single human being dying. I wouldn't sacrifice my life for a line on a map, I wouldn't sacrifice the lives of any of my f…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:12 AM
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I can only speculate, but some people get butthurt by others preferences so they try to dissuade them from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:08 AM
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I don't know, maybe trying to discourage you? It's certainly not impossible. Virgin men and women exist everywhere. Marriage-minded virgin men and women exist everywhere in each country. There are 7 billion humans. The world is diverse. There are all kinds of people. edit: diverse, not divorce. Fucking stupid ppd brain
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 12:04 AM
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And men. every country has virgin men and women. It's just statistically it is higher in that country than in say, America.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:53 PM
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if she tells you that she's slept with 3 people in the past, whereas really she's slept with 30? The answer to your question is ultimately, you can never be 100% sure someone is not lying, so all you can really do at the end of the day is decide if they are telling the truth or not. You might as well say, why care if your wife cheats or not, she might cheat and never tell you, how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:51 PM
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age gap no divorce (seems uncommon these days) working dad and sahm genuine love between the two. it's why I hate it when anyone attacks age gap marriages and says they inherently lack love or are creepy or whatever. It's like, shut the fuck up, you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:48 PM
2

Why do you care about the opinions of e-celebs so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:46 PM
2

Japan has one of the largest rates of virginity among unmarried men and women in the world though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:46 PM
1

Hahaha, that's a shame! I just think that sometimes being nice is worth it. If you have something nice to say, and you feel maybe it's not necessary to say it, just say it! If you have something not nice to say, and you feel maybe it's not necessary to say it, just say it!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:43 PM
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I mean, someone having a worse encounter than yours does not invalidate yours. If someone got stood up at a date, that's obviously not as bad as rape, but that does not mean that it is not hurtful, that it does not affect your emotions, that you should just silence your emotions and not share your story. I didn't mean to apply that sexual assault is universal, I'm just surprised and saddened that so many people here that I interact with a lot have had to go through that and it makes me feel for …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:42 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:37 PM
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I get pissed off at her sometimes but I think mrs_drgree genuinely does a good job of moderating this place. Sometimes she may go overboard but I think the community is better with her than it would be without her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 02:08 PM
1

I'm happy for you that you haven't had to deal with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:43 PM
1

Eyebrows threaded? I swear women terminology is like another language
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 01:42 PM
1

welcome back. Did you learn from your mistakes? Do you feel like a better man ready to reintegrate into society?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:32 PM
1

Hi Tamara
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:32 AM
1

I mean, if someone says that after 8 years, they're probably hoping something happens again, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:49 AM
1

Hi Domenica
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:49 AM
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I hope you're feeling better nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 07:48 AM
1

Olivia did nothing wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:30 AM
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I think some people assume that when a woman has casual sex, she's automatically getting "used", and the guy is getting what he wants and the woman is getting swindled. Honestly I see this mentality more from women than from men. They don't fathom that maybe some women just wanted to essentially be "pumped and dumped", like just a quick root, then bye
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:30 AM
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No one is "bothered" by this and you'd have to be delusional to think so. But if someone doesn't feel attracted to someone like that, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:28 AM
2

No bully flatchests They are God's gift to man kind and also they're very cute
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:26 AM
1

Pulling nose hairs, right? I know that one too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:25 AM
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lol, do women like hearing that, or is it creepy?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:16 AM
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The negative sexual encounters thread honestly made me really sad. It's surprising and saddening how many regular female posters here have experienced sexual assault. I hope you are all doing okay :(
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:15 AM
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I mean, it does happen, and it happens here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:14 AM
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I love and respect all women of all types, all walks of life, all backgrounds and life experiences, all shapes, appearances, sizes (as long as they respect me too)... but BUT BUT I only get to be married once in my life so I will be very picky. I do not feel this makes me a misogynist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:55 AM
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Based. It also helps if you pretend to not know basic things and then be like "wow you're so smart!" when they say something really basic or common knowledge, or even if it's wrong. That shit cuts through us like a hot knife through wet toilet paper.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:52 AM
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and playing games with them!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:50 AM
3

Stop caring about what other people think. Some people will never be happy with what you do. Some people will NEVER approve. There are 7 billion people on Earth, its impossible for them all to approve of you. Live for yourself, live for your family that you love and your friends. Live by what you feel is right for you. There are people who will tell you that doing what is right for you is the wrong thing, but they don't know you like you know yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:35 AM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:28 AM
1

All women are beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 05:23 AM
1

I think you know how lots of guys feel about it but it's a taboo subject cause it's considered misogynist to say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 03:18 AM
1

birth control?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:51 AM
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I have the best wife. She lets me play on my Nintendo Switch while she's working overnight shifts at her boss's house.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:50 AM
1

Nothing really. I agree with SOME aspects of TRP and disagree with others.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 12:28 AM
1

I’m not trp
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:03 PM
1

I might be one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 04:10 PM
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DUDE I hate it when there's a close friendship between two male main characters and it's really heartwarming and endearing, and then you look up the fanart and you realise fujoshis have turned it into a gay porno.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:44 PM
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Wasn't Billie Eilish seething before about women who choose to date "ugly men"? This is why I say, watch what people do, not what they say. All these laundry list of "preferences" mean nothing when they meet someone they actually like.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:29 PM
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People need to stop making character judgements on people based on their sexual history. It's the same for men. As guys we're taught when we're young that if you're a virgin, you're a loser, especially if you're in your 20's. There's movies like 40 year old virgin that drum in that concept. It's like if you haven't had sex, you've failed as a man, you failed a right of passage, you're still a weak effeminate little boy, so on. Same with women, the idea that a woman's sexual past makes her a bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:20 PM
1

Cutesy, feminine, smiles a lot, happy demeanour, gets along well with me, laughs at my stupid jokes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:17 PM
1

Just means you're incompatible with him. You don't need to shame him or put him down for wanting kids. I really want kids one day but I don't wanna put down or shame any woman who doesn't. I just acknowledge her and I probably wouldn't be able to make each fulfilled in a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:15 PM
1

Lots of men separate sex for love and sex just for fun into two separate things.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:14 PM
1

I never would.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 03:12 PM
1

what if it was a husband or a long term bf?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:46 PM
1

i'm against abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:36 PM
1

What? Why's that weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 01:07 PM
1

I'd do it. The idea of me having kids out there that I'm not connected to is unbearable. If I ever got a woman accidentally pregnant, I'd also propose to her and offer to live my life with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:58 PM
1

Nooooooooooo!!! Stop it farts intensely How dare you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 12:58 PM
1

I'm fine as long as I'd get equal rights to see and visit my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:01 AM
0

stop kink shaming me!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 11:01 AM
0

but where's the love???
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:48 AM
3

I MUST KNOW
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:48 AM
0

Stop being wholesome on PPD, that's illegal!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 09:45 AM
1

I don’t know but pretty much all women I’ve dated or crushed on have been similar in some way. I definitely have a “type”. I think I’m just naturally drawn towards certain types of women and that’s why I date/crush on them but not others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:48 AM
1

More for me
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:47 AM
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The one that went ballistic cause someone insulted her appearance and then deleted her account
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:33 AM
1

Not red pill but I don’t hate women, why would you insinuate that I did? I find that offensive. Damn women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:32 AM
2

Where was my invite to the gay orgy? 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:31 AM
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Condoms remove the element of love from sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:30 AM
3

Do cute girls ever literally defecate their pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 08:29 AM
1

Flat chested women are the social, ethical, moral, and economical equivalent of men who still live at home with their parents
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:57 PM
1

Haha… yes…. acting….
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 11:56 PM
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No cause they’d only approach guys they’re physically attracted to by default which is a small range of men Most men need to make women attracted to them, they don’t start with a handicap
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:20 PM
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I think if he loves you, he'll realise that that mistake was a past you and the current you, and that you've grown and matured since then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:04 PM
1

PPD women are succubi who feed off incel sperm for nourishment. It's the only explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:03 PM
1

Tbh lots of modern games are playable on iOS and android, pretty much like old handheld consoles. Lots of great games from the 2000's are also ported to smart phones. Like Dragon Quest VIII. Just putting it out there.... :P
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 03:00 PM
3

Twox will literally cry about anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:56 PM
2

Based wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:55 PM
1

It's hard to bend that far forward while focusing on the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:55 PM
1

Were you worried he might resent you for it and compare you to the women who cheated on him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:54 PM
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I wonder if he's secretly one of the regular posters here. What if he's you...? 😨
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:53 PM
1

My two miracles would be getting a gf and actually giving a woman an orgasm.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:52 PM
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It's punching sideways if anything. If you post here regularly, you're one of us whether you like it or not. One of us! One of us!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:51 PM
1

Saudi Arabian and Tanzanian?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:50 PM
1

What other games does he have?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:49 PM
2

Try developing a video game addiction. Perfect cure for chronic boredom
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:48 PM
3

Yeah. It’s not a guys fault if he gets PNC
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:52 AM
1

Pretty sure it also includes VNs
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 05:49 AM
1

Didn’t you once say you read VNs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 01:29 AM
0

Very mean :(
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:46 PM
2

Being alone is damage minimisation. At least then I only make myself sad instead of both my family and myself, which will happen if I'm with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:41 AM
1

Depends on the game really. Some 10 hour action game? I'd believe the voice work for that could easily be done in a week or a couple of days. A 100 hour RPG? Yeah obviously that'd take longer. I know that Hayter got replaced as Snake in MGSV, and like while he'll always be the definitive memeworthy voice of Snake, it's like, ultimately the company made the decision that Kiefer Sutherland would be a better choice for whatever reason. If Marvel decided that Tom Cruise would be a better choice than…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 09:33 AM
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I think Japanese companies in general don’t care about English voice actors too much. They made a calculated decision to replace her with Jennifer Hale and figured they wouldn’t lose revenue on that. Voice actors are replaced all the time in weeb games, lots don’t even have English VAs. Tbh 4k for what amounts to a week of work isn’t too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:55 AM
1

Lol the descendants of convicts are a tiny minority probably. Most Australians are descended from 20th century immigrants
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:05 AM
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Because being violent and dominating are masculine traits and women are attracted to masculine traits. Women also want someone who will protect them and they think he will only be violent towards incels and ugly guys but not to them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:57 AM
1

So he gets 13,400 of his dad every month
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:56 AM
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I mean, being an actor in general is a really unstable career choice. I think anyone who chooses a career as a voice actor should at the very least have a second job to pay the bills
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:24 AM
1

Aren’t you a weeb?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 03:10 AM
1

Voting is for cucks t. Donkey voter chad
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:38 AM
1

Same. I rate to uncool weebs who watch undubbed anime
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:37 AM
0

Not sure who’s side to take in the Bayonetta scandal. Basically it’s Nintendo vs a woman. Not sure which side to root against
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:36 AM
1

Intelligent women are unsexy Career women are unsexy Masculine women are unsexy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:33 AM
1

Why
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:31 AM
2

Q4men: seriously, those of you who are dissatisfied with the state of dating and relationships in the west and are totally put off by the modern empowered liberated woman, why not get a woman from a non-western country? Feminists will judge the shit out of you for it, but do you really care?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:30 AM
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😂 Be warned, it’s not gonna work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:16 AM
2

Feminism doesn’t claim women are superior, feminism just wants the game rigged to advantage women and disadvantage men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:09 AM
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Getting butthurt over male preferences because they don’t align with feminism is pretty much the definition of being a white knight simp.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:07 AM
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I don’t consider it a demeaning term. I don’t see femininity as a negative. I think maybe radfems who hate men might see certain aspects of femininity as a negative. Bottom line: nobody wants to be married to a stuck up cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 02:05 AM
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First
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:03 PM
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Being a white knight isn’t being tough and stoic. Going on about “muh strong women” isn’t gonna make women respect you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:02 PM
0

That’s not a boss move, that’s an extremely stupid move. I have no respect for reckless drivers; if they wanna get killed that’s fine by me but they stupidly and selfishly endanger the lives of other people. Complete assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:01 PM
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Because men and women aren’t the same and gender roles exist for a reason, despite what radfems claim
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:44 PM
1

Nothing to do with personality, I just don't find short hair attractive on women. If she grew it out she'd be fine, but I don't see myself getting attracted to a woman with short hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:06 PM
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Face is a 10, hair is a 0. Not a fan of the piercings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 11:47 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:59 AM
1

Ghosting is really not nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:23 AM
-1

Oh…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:54 AM
2

I don’t acknowledge made up American names for seasons
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:53 AM
1

Based and airhead-pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:53 AM
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Lol why did my innocent comment trigger women so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:46 AM
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There’s annoying dumb and there’s cute dumb. I hate stuck up bitches who argue everything and think they’re right when they’re actually stupid I love cute retarded girls who are like “oooohh I’m so sorry!! I made a mistake! Please help me 😭😭!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:43 AM
1

Is literally anything a guy does creepy/predatory?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:41 AM
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I find stupidity attractive This cute girl did something really dumb today and was really apologetic but I couldn’t help thinking it was the cutest thing in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:33 AM
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Is it misogynist if I find dumbness and helplessness in girls attractive? Like, I find it unattractive if a woman is really smart. But a woman who’s airheaded and ditzy with the right amount of retarded and “oooohhh please help me!” sends my cuteness sensors into overdrive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:21 AM
1

I just want a cute otaku girl who sings obscure anime songs. Bonus points if she cosplays
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:17 AM
1

Heheheh…. sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:15 AM
3

These damn noncommittal incels who keep stringing women along!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:14 AM
1

Women want to fuck the beast
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:13 AM
6

Nobody: Lilith:
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 09:13 AM
2

I need to stop eating out every day 😫
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 02:30 AM
1

Yeah yeah men are so shallow Unlike women who only date a man for his personality and don’t care if he’s ugly or poor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 12:56 AM
1

Being a woman doesn’t mean you know more about other women that aren’t you, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:42 PM
1

The 100+ girl. Dealing with ick factor > AIDS
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 11:42 AM
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Our horniness is too strong. Honestly, like you mention the family father cheating. I’d ask, was his wife putting out? Cause I’d he was the best husband and father in the world but still getting blue balled, I kinda understand. I still think it’s immoral, but I can understand and empathise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:54 AM
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I’ve seen short fat guys score way above their league. I’ll believe it. I think for lots of women, they really are into “muh personality”. The whole “women only go for tall guys” meme is literally only based on what women say online, like on social media and dating profiles. It’s not based on observation in reality. It’s just based on opinions expressed by women online. Which is why I say womens opinions don’t matter, watch what they do not what they say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:51 AM
1

No!!! I refuse to believe it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:46 AM
1

I think guys will fuck anything if we’re horny enough. At the same time I think we become pickier than women are when it comes to marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:46 AM
1

That was mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:35 AM
1

Beard that shit up
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:34 AM
6

https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y0ipqp/worried_im_betraying_feminist_ideals/ “I want to improve my health so that I can live longer. Am I betraying feminism?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:33 AM
2

I don’t know, the country that denies itself healthcare so that it can feed the military industrial complex is pretty cucked, I’d say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:30 AM
1

This is two days in a row now I’ve agreed with a feminist. What is happening to me?? 😰
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:29 AM
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The most cucked country in the world is France https://www.ibdna.com/paternity-testing-ban-upheld-in-france/
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:27 AM
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What if it’s the reason he broke up with her but he doesn’t say it out loud?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:24 AM
1

Yeah why?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:23 AM
1

So you’re saying if a guy says he simply says he’s rejecting a woman because of her sexual past and leaves it at that, is he shaming/judging her?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:20 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y4qam6/did_you_know_domestic_violence_is_not_only/isfxrob/ Disgusting douchebag behaviour on the guy’s part but honestly based sexual tastes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:11 AM
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A guy can simply opt out of playing by feminism’s rules in 2022. If a guy thinks tinder is unfair, that clubs and bars or whatever is degenerate, he can simply choose not to use those. If a guy thinks it’s unfair how women can easily sleep with lots of men and then settle down with a beta, a man can simply choose not marry such a woman and be selective about what kind of woman he finds. The world is big enough. Feminists will scream and call him sexist, like the feminists here do when I indicate…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:04 AM
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When a lonely virgin commits a mass shooting, women say that all lonely virgins who complain about it are dangerous as a result When a tall handsome man abused his gf, why isn’t the response that all tall handsome men who can get partners are dangerous?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:33 AM
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They should. That is a good solution and more than reasonable but not what I’m talking about What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 08:22 AM
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Lol. Those are the years she’s most beautiful and at her peak, whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:57 AM
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Lol this stupid feminist sounds like an incel. Whining and bitching that men she likes have options and choose younger and more attractive women. What’s unfair about that? That she has to live as an unattractive male does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:49 AM
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The solution is that if a guy doesn’t want to date a modern empowered feminist western woman, he should look for love in non-western countries. I’m not about to propose laws that restrict peoples ability to fuck around. I’m not a feminist who wants to ban other peoples fun to satisfy my own insecurities. I do think alimony as a concept should be abolished though and abortion shouldn’t be legal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 07:44 AM
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For me, I think as long as both are adults, it's fair game. Like, a 50 year old and a 30 year old, the 30 year old is less than half their age plus 7. But a 30 year is a grown adult, a 30 year old is not getting preyed on, they are old enough to make their own decisions. If they wanna date a 50 year old, that's 100% their choice. I'd say the same for a 20 year old tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:56 AM
1

I think an important skill for all men is also learning how to flirt with women and just practicing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:29 AM
2

I really really hope you're doing better nowadays and I'm sorry that there are so many evil people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:20 AM
1

Interestingly the only people I encountered that wanted to talk to my boss were men. Because they didn't want to get served by a woman. That's incredibly rude. I'm sorry you had to put up with that. On the plus side, it sounds like it gave you valuable skills on how to handle difficult people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:16 AM
2

Are there German Karens? How do you say 'I want to speak to the manager' in German?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 06:04 AM
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Depends on the ages. People here treat a 30 year old dating a 20 year old like a paedophile, and that's a 10 year gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:52 AM
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Never had one that I'd consider negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 05:40 AM
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Women will like a guy that they like and he could be anything and in that moment, all their laundry list of "preferences" will fly out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 04:47 AM
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They do but I think they accidentally got a letter mixed up with a different one.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:55 AM
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what if I get a wife from another country?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:30 AM
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It's been raining for so long. It's been raining, I can't go on!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:08 AM
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I think a lot of women are sexually excited most by black men to be honest, from what I've heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:07 AM
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by which cultural standard?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 03:00 AM
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"I put something on my profile to make myself as unappealing as possible. Why don't men like me?"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:57 AM
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Lol these are the kind of people seething at men for having preferences and telling us we're sexist.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:56 AM
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Rule 7 but from what I've heard from many women irl, they find black guys the most attractive. Girl I know literally got drunk and said it to my face. My country barely even has any black people lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:55 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/WitchesVsPatriarchy/comments/y4x0j7/reclaim_everything/ witches vs patriarchy salivating over radfems desecrating a Catholic mass at a Cathedral. Do any feminists actually support this kind of behaviour? Imagine if a guy interrupted some feminist conference by showing his dick and standing on a table.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:54 AM
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I'm choosing to give them the benefit of the doubt and believing them at face value because I assume people are honest and I'm a good non-judgemental person, all I ask is that they also believe I am honest and give me the benefit of the doubt when I replicate their arguments. If a guy wants to fuck around and then settle down with a virgin, maybe he's just doing what feels "natural".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:29 AM
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Okay but is what you're saying just code word for "settle for a high N woman"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:27 AM
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Well if you're going to fuss over their count, then yeah you're probably not their type. We'll see I guess. Tell me - where do you think you'll find this horny low n girl at your age? I don't know what will happen in the future. I hope so. Why do you think you haven't found her yet? I'm not really looking tbh. i really should start being more out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 02:26 AM
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Guess I have no choice but to bite the bullet and marry an empowered feminist with a "modern western" N count. But in your contrived revenge fantasy, there's also a reason that those don't want me as well, right? 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:58 AM
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Oh God, you're right. I'm gonna marry someone who finds me repulsive and hates me and just wants me for my money. And then I'm gonna be blue balled forever and never have sex in my marriage! My only hope in life is to marry a high N empowered feminist women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:54 AM
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They're either very religious and end up with someone from their church, you think that someone like this has no sexual desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:53 AM
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What kind of answer would satisfy you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:49 AM
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If we go by the assumption that what women say is true, then men must be given the same benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:49 AM
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women are lowkey tsundere for incels. I was browsing inceltear and there was this woman who literally posts nudes of herself on nsfw subs and is a legit 10/10 and then goes on rants about incels on inceltear. She wants the incel D.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:48 AM
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I've met plenty of all types of women in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:47 AM
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A woman who enjoys sex with her husband is not a slut for enjoying sex with a husband, lmao. You seriously believe every virgin out there is an asexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:46 AM
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I've literally seen women who run back to men who abused them and hit them. But I'm sure it's all "incels" fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:45 AM
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Oh no. A woman after my money! She'll be literally the only woman in history who cares about money!! No other woman in history has ever valued a husband for his ability to provide! Never ever!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:45 AM
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Well maybe you're suffering from sampling bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:44 AM
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You just don't think there can exist a person who is both low N and finds their partner sexually attractive and wants to have sex with them. In my view this is a ridiculous opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:43 AM
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I agree that men put more effort into dating/relationships/sex than women do. Essentially men are the go-getters, women are the ones who are gotten. Men have to ask out, men have to be attractive, men have to do this and that, and women just have to be there. It's essentially why the N count double standard, or "lock/key" analogy exists. It's basically like a guy who has lots of sex obviously is a guy who has a lot of things going for him. He has to put a lot of effort and be a desirable man. A …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:42 AM
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lol why are you attacking me now? You're making things way too personal and your revenge fantasy is showing. You seem obsessed with the idea of me somehow missing out in life If you're a high N woman, that's fine. You do you. There's no need to be upset by the fact that there are many men out there who are disgusted by the idea of marrying someone like you. I don't understand why that should be an issue for you if you are married. Like, you enjoy your marriage, and let them be disgusted by the i…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:35 AM
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Lol okay how old are your friends and where are they from? How do you define them as "conservative"?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:34 AM
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oh no!!! Assuming everything you said is totally legit (which it isn't) guess I have to abandon all hopes for finding a wife in the west!! 😭 Just don't accuse me of racial fetishism when I look for a wife elsewhere, you forced me into this!!! 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:33 AM
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Radfem hypocritical fantasy. "Accept a high N woman or you will NEVER enjoy sex, incel!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:26 AM
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No fucking shit. Feminists who seethe at incels are deluded. There's actual guys out there who are tall and handsome, they have no problem getting girlfriends and wives, and they beat the shit out of them and dozens of women are killed every year in my country because of domestic violence. No one is saying that every tall handsome guy who can get a girlfriend is inherently a threat. But manlet beta virgins whining on online forums, and who probably rarely interact with women, are the ultimate th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:25 AM
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Okay I wasn't planning to lol. do you think i'll marry a woman who feels no sexual attraction to me??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:22 AM
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Lol yes I'm sure lots of traditional women are telling you openly "I have starfish sex with my husband".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:20 AM
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Revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:10 AM
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I'm sure all your ultra-conservative female friends tell you the intricate details of their married sex lives and how they do starfish anniversary sex. I'm sure what you are saying is 100% totally legit and not a revenge fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:10 AM
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Men get shat on for being selective when it comes to marriage and get called hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:03 AM
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A combination of the one with the higher libido and actually feeling attracted to her husband. Consider this hypothetical: Do you think it's impossible for a woman who was raised in an ultra conservative religious society to just biologically have no libido? If she married an ultra conservative man, do you think she will never feel attraction to him? She could be a woman with a high libido, but could also have chosen to wait till marriage for personal or cultural reasons or whatever. Similarly t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 01:00 AM
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Any concept that radfems disagree with is rape. A traditional woman consenting to have sex with her husband is now rape. Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:58 AM
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"I'm just not a sexual person anymore".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:57 AM
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This is pure revenge fantasy. You think that someone, just cause they haven't had sex before, is gonna automatically hate having sex with their spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:57 AM
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Looooooool someone who has a lot of sex with her husband isn't a "slut"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:56 AM
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Not an argument. A woman who has a traditional old-fashioned view of marriage is more likely to see sex as an integral part of marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:51 AM
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I don't disagree with most of what you've said, but why is desiring this one quality such a negative, to the point it's a fetish? There are many things that woman desire in men, that are hardly personality traits. A guy who's tall. A guy who's rich. A guy who's handsome. These aren't personality traits. Does a woman who wants a tall guy have a "disgusting tall guy fetish"? Does a woman who wants a rich guy have a "disgusting rich guy" fetish? Why is it that men have to be completely unshallow an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:48 AM
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If a woman rejects a man for not being tall, rich and handsome, is she also judging him?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:44 AM
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Loooooooooooooooooool. Male preference = ownership and disgust. Female preference = totally legit? So a woman desiring a tall rich handsome guy is totally fine but a man wanting a virgin is disgusting?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:42 AM
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That would break his revenge fantasy though. Let's see if I can do this. "Women can go for a rich guy who's a 5 foot tall bald obese man, or an average income earner who's tall and jacked. There's no in between!"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:40 AM
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I've never really liked the Bayonetta series but a woman is asking to boycott it so I guess I have to buy the new one now.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:36 AM
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I thought you were a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:29 AM
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I'm 5'9". If that happened, I'd activate the gigachad within me and start crying and run to the bathroom with my arms flailing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:28 AM
1

Ouch! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:24 AM
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What’s your definition of “low N woman”? You’re allowed to want what you want. I’m allowed to want what I want. You may not be able to get what you want. I may not be able to get what I want. You seem upset that men that have no compatibility with you may have marriage preferences that exclude you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:05 AM
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I think this reaction from women stems in part from jealousy and in part from misandry because they hate that men want what they want (and often doesn't include them)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:53 PM
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This is a guy who avoided steady relationships and marriage for as long as he could, then shows up at the last possible minute expecting a woman who, unlike him, has self control and discipline and a desire for marriage to just fall in his lap and serve his fickle, unsteady whims. its not necessarily that she has more self control. She could be much younger and be a virgin like he was at her age.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:28 PM
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do you think rejecting someone is the same as judging?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:27 PM
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it's an aircon, heater is probably the wrong word, its like an aircon that can also function as a heater
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:11 PM
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I mean I know religious couples that pump out heaps of kids so they're clearly having SOME sex, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:57 PM
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It's freezing in my bedroom so I turned on the heater and after 20 minutes realised I'd set it to cool. Q4women: would you date a complete moron?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:56 PM
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Women: "women don't chase after assholes! That's an incel meme!" PPD constantly talks shit about women Women: "Notice me PPD-kun!! I can't get enough of this community!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:29 PM
3

A good husband always lets his wife keep a few boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:13 PM
1

Yes. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:12 PM
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links not working
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:12 PM
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Women: "saying the wall exists is just wishful thinking revenge fantasy" Also women: "if you marry a virgin woman, you will NEVER NEVER EVER EVER have sex!! No virgin woman ever wants sex!!! You will be cockblocked and blue balled for the rest of your life!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:39 PM
0

few people don’t care about money those few don't include women, apparently
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:21 PM
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Women like money At last... a woman admits her true nature
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:13 PM
1

okay would you say teh same of men who like different women at 19 than at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:08 PM
1

Why not with me?? I thought I was your one and only 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:07 PM
5

just have a Madonna whore complex, and I have very very low opinion of such men. why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:06 PM
1

Lol so you're a self-identified feminist and your bf is TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:04 PM
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I mean best years in terms of peak attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 03:03 PM
-4

I'm sure your limited hearsay experience is reflective of everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:56 PM
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;) Seriously though, I do think men and women can agree on a lot of common points when we don't let emotion take over and when we try to look at things from a non-biased perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:45 PM
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A submissive tradwife is less likely to deny her husband sex though than an empowered "feminist"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:42 PM
1

just DM it to me brah
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:26 PM
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I find the whole "you wouldn't want your daughter to do [X]" argument from radfems to be hilarious. Like, what happened to the patriarchy? Now dads are the ultimate arbiters of what's best and what's not for their daughters? Because that works fine and I can get on board with that. If I don't want my daughter to go to parties or drink or sleep with anyone before marriage, that means that's what's best for her, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:15 PM
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Controversial opinion: a woman waiting for marriage before having sex is more likely to have a traditional submissive housewife mentality and thus is more likely to do whatever you want sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:11 PM
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I see. Please do not agree with my views and opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:08 PM
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as we seem to both agree that N count is an infidelity predictor I literally never claimed this. I never claimed this anywhere and I don't think it is. does trophy husbands count as afbb for women though? What's a trophy husband? I think when a woman spends her youth fucking guys that sexually attract her and then marries a guy she would have earlier swiped left on, because he's "safe" but doesn't sexually excite her like the earlier guys, that's afbb.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:07 PM
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My claim is that just as women claim their preferences "evolve over time" with regard to the transition from bad boys to beta providers, that men can claim the same thing with the transition from "easy" women to low N/virgin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:55 PM
1

Are you a feminist/do you self identify as a feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:53 PM
1

No, I don't want to double up on my fucked upness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:53 PM
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what does this ahve to do with my argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:52 PM
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so you think they're lying? do you think women who used to date "bad boys" are also lying when they say their preferences change?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:51 PM
1

/u/mrs_drgree arguing in bad faith
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:50 PM
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No? Why should I care? I don't want to date someone who doesn't want to date me and is incompatible with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:48 PM
6

Answer the question already
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:47 PM
1

What's wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:47 PM
7

Define "experience"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:45 PM
1

I assume the older I get, Dbz19_junior is gonna get more tired and less performative, so I'd rather keep the number of women I disappoint to 1. Like whenever I do manage to work up some mojo, I'd rather my wife be on the receiving end of it all rather than some random just to have my wife get scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:44 PM
3

We all have different thresholds of how much "flawed" we would accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:39 PM
4

"Yeah pick up that dog turd you naughty slut...."
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:38 PM
3

The difference is men get shat on for trying to have their cake and eat it while women try to explain it and rationalise it. Women don’t claim they evolved over time yes they do. So they don’t “settle” much less become suddenly attracted to beta buxx. that's what they claim
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:35 PM
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I think a big part of the complaint is that for an average guy, if you do want someone, you have to settle for far less than what you'd want in a partner. Essentially someone who's made a shitload of mistakes, needs therapy, and comes to you as her final final recourse. So yeah most guys will probably get someone. But it might be less than what they want or were hoping for. Honestly I think most guys should, if they're looking for a specific something, just resort to marrying someone from a non-…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:32 PM
1

I thought that’d be obvious since I don’t identify as either red or blue pill. what does that have to do with it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:14 PM
1

Good analogy. They think cause they got a HVM to sleep with them once that they are entitled to those same chads to commit to them for life when chad can only really pick one person to commit to for life but can sleep with an infinite amount of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:13 PM
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This. > "REEEEEEEEE DATE YOUR OWN AGE". No.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:11 PM
1

It's really indirect considering the terminology that gets thrown around here and the subject matter. If you said below average man, the implication is a less attractive man. The implication is not he is a lower random statistic than another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:09 PM
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No. Marriage is not the same as dating. Marriage is a lifetime bond where you become one person. Dating is not unity in the same sense that marriage is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:08 PM
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Only acceptable reasons for divorce are infidelity, abuse, and your partner wilfully cockblocking you. Divorcing because you're bored and want to re-experience your youth is selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:07 PM
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Not every man cares about a woman's N count. Not every woman cares about a man's height. Not every man cares about a woman's age. Not every woman cares about a man's income and career.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:06 PM
1

When you say "below average man", the implication is LVM
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:04 PM
1

Are you talking average as in numerical statistics, or average as in their appeal/their dating market value?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:59 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y4iw2a/why_is_the_bar_so_low/ What the fuck is this freak even complaining about? Ignoring the fact that who the fuck casually uses "afab" and "amab" as a substitute for "women" and "men" in a conversation that has nothing to do with transgender people, she's literally complaining about the fact that nobody made sexual comments to her at work and this is evidence that the bar is low? What???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:55 PM
1

That's like saying an average woman has an N count of 3 or 4 and a "below average" woman has a higher N count
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:48 PM
1

What's your definition of "average man" and "below average" man?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:33 PM
1

I assume they are the same problems that non-rich people have more or less, and if a lesser rich person had the same problem, they'd be more screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:36 AM
1

Okay what does that have to do with what I said? If you find a guy repulsive, you'll find him repulsive whether he makes more or less money. Having less money will never make someone more repulsive. You'll either be at the same level you already are or more attractive. "Matching physically" is a bullshit meme. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I find many women attractive who others would consider ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:22 AM
1

Weak argument. Nobody is gonna be like "eww this guy has saved up money and has means to support himself, gross". Whereas with appearance, one look may turn off some and turn on others, and another look may do the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:42 AM
1

That's hit and miss. There's always gonna be someone who finds you attractive and someone who doesn't. I'm okay with knowing some people will be attracted to me and some people won't. Money is something that everyone universally values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:34 AM
1

sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:29 AM
1

Money does make you happy. Money makes people respect you. Money makes people treat you like an actual human being. Money makes people acknowledge you're existence. Money opens up pathways in life. Money means you can actually have a relationship and find love. Without money you're a homeless bum freezing to death on the side of the road and 99.99% of people would be cool with you just dying. Life is about money whether you like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:28 AM
1

Lol, what's more important?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:25 AM
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Honestly yeah. Like if I showed you pictures you'd agree with me. I may be a tad fatter but only cause I used to do more exercise than I do now. I used to go running literally every day when I was in my late teens, I don't have the time for that anymore. But even given that I'm honestly the same, just with a bit more chub around my belly. Do you know what did get a lot fatter and heavier since my 20's? My wallet. I also have some white hairs.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 09:06 AM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:59 AM
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I'm most attracted to women aged 18-22 I can't help what I'm attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 08:44 AM
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lol, fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:04 AM
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Thoughts on stubbles? Like not a full beard but a stubble. Better or worse than being clean shaven?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 06:04 AM
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I just find it really cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:51 AM
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Fair enough. It's just when someone uses only "partner", I feel it implies a same-sex relationship. Or maybe that's how it was in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:45 AM
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Pride let himself get taken over by Maajin Buu and go schizo and blow up a stadium full of people
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:39 AM
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Crooked teeth are so hecking cute and I'm tired of pretending that they're not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:39 AM
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I produce a lot of sperm though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:34 AM
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No Goku is. Then Jiren. I respect Tien more than I respect Vegeta. Vegeta is a perpetually butthurt genocidal loser who will always be second best. He exists to get his ass clobbered so that it's more of an achievement when Goku beats the villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:34 AM
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Repeating the same word all the time just doesn't sound well. If you're explaining things to someone it helps to be more precise though And I do like the word partner. Do you have a cowboy hat and a sherriff's badge?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:30 AM
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Yeah but Goku slapped her pussy when he was a kid and everyone saw her naked at Master Roshi's island
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:29 AM
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I technically do, they're just undescended
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:22 AM
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bully me harder
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:16 AM
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Manlet who married Yamcha's leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:14 AM
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A beta is a guy that thinks he's fly. And is also known as a busta
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:12 AM
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Bully me queen. Step on my balls.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:08 AM
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I mean it's still an open relationship, it's just that one side chooses not to exercise it. The one's I've seen, it's normally the guy that gets to fuck around, the woman doesn't but seh doesn't care. Honestly, I don't understand it too well, but whatever floats their boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:04 AM
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Why not? There's literally nothing wrong with it. You're not writing a novel. You can use the same word twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:02 AM
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Having sex with other women/men has nothing to do with being high value and everything to do with your personal tastes and those of your partner. Some people are okay with open relationships, some aren't. Maybe it depends on culture, upbringing, values, experiences, who knows. Some are okay, some aren't. Doesn't make you more or less high value.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:01 AM
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There's nothing wrong with desiring the top 20% of men or even the top 1% of men. As long as you're polite and respectful to all men, including the other 80% and don't treat them like shit. Everyone is allowed to want what they want as long as they are decent and respectful about it. Now whether a woman can get a guy from the top 20% to commit to her is another story. Same deal with men, a man is allowed to want what he wants, shouldn't be shamed for it, should be respectful about it. Whether he…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:00 AM
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Why does every woman on this sub love facial hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:58 AM
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DALE!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:57 AM
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why not just say husband
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:54 AM
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"you winning son?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 04:51 AM
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How so??? You can be in your 40's and 50's and still have a bf or gf. Why is it weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:58 AM
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When women say their "girlfriend", I assume they mean platonic female friend. But fair point on guys though. It's just confusing terminology, the term "partner" has usually been associated with the gay community. Also I don't think anything in "boyfriend" or "girlfriend" implies non-serious relationship. Like you can have a long term bf or gf and have it be a serious de facto relationship like a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 12:58 AM
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Somebody's poisoned the water hole!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:53 PM
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Whenever someone refers to their boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife as their "partner" I instantly assume they mean a gay lover. Like, just say boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife, why is that hard? Why be ambiguous? Either that or they are part of some 19th century posse in the wild west.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:49 PM
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Q4ALL: Which hair colour do you find most attractive? How does it compare to your own? Do you think people are most attracted to features they themselves have? I have black hair and I find black hair to be the hair colour on women I'm most attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:45 PM
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Explain what you find is wrong with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:41 PM
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pushes glasses forward Ahem. A buzz cut is a short mechanical shave, it's not actually the same as a fully shaved head.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:41 PM
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I think she meant people who choose to go for the "shaved head" look rather than people who are naturally bald. Like people who have a head of hair but choose to shave it off. I think it's fine to have physical and visual preferences. I know I've expressed some of my visual preferences in a less-than-wholesome way and I regret that cause it came off as mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:38 PM
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Hmmm good point, it's hard to make a complete assessment without that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:33 PM
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You don't know anything about her from that picture except her appearance. Some guys like blondes. Some guys like brunettes. What's the problem? She could be a very loving and warm lady for all we know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:32 PM
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*on women This is an important distinction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:31 PM
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9 or a 10
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:30 PM
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Guys who get off on netorare probably don't actually want to be cheated on and forced to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:29 PM
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Not my type but she's hot and lots of guys go for this. What's the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:28 PM
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In theory?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:28 PM
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Is that all women care about? 😩
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:27 PM
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If Russia was forcing the Mongolian populations of Russia to lose their cultural rights and identity and language, I would say that that would be justified of Mongolia to try to protect them. Nobody has the right to erase someone else's language.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:09 PM
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And on that basis the people of Donbass deserve to not have linguistic and cultural rights?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:02 PM
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Ukraine has to protect itself. Russia is an invader. Could the same be said for Donbass? Donbass has to protect itself and Ukraine is invader?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:50 PM
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I work long hours and I have work related stuff at home as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:42 PM
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Should everyone leave their homes and villages just to avoid ethnic strife? Should the Tuvan population of Russia leave Russia and relocate to Mongolia if they start facing persecution by the Russian government? I agree that the government of Russia is just throwing people to die but so is the government of Ukraine. If there was any sensibility, there would be an immediate unconditional ceasefire immediately and there would be away to preserve peace and the cultural rights of everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:41 PM
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My life revolves around work lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:34 PM
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Are you aware of the events leading up to the war? There is a region in Ukraine called Donbass full of people who speak Russian. Since 2014 this region has been intermittently shelled and attacked by the Ukrainian army. There was an agreement but Zelensky reneged on it, it could have avoided the war. I agree the war should not happen though. War is the defeat of humanity. There should be no wars, there should be no killing, but this war was avoidable if both sides had agreed to compromise on cer…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:34 PM
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business shirt and black pants, sometimes tie and blazer
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 12:18 PM
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I wear formal clothes everywhere, is that good or bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:44 AM
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Well if someone supports and encourages divorce rape and think men should have to live destitute so that their ex-wives can live comfortably, it makes sense they’d support men dying in war while women sit in comfort at home
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:42 AM
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Income gaps aren’t wrong, age gaps aren’t wrong. If you don’t like them, then date people your own age make the same income as you. Otherwise stop being butthurt than older men with money can draw attractive younger women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:37 AM
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There’s a difference between judging someone and acknowledging you may not be compatible in a relationship. I think judging anyone for their sexual history, height, things like that, is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:29 PM
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Infamous hentai tag that became a meme https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/ugly-bastard
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 12:37 PM
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Fair enough You need to come to terms with which path you’d rather take.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:40 AM
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Why is that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:33 AM
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Confidence doesn’t come easily to everyone though. Sometimes you gotta fake it till you make it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:20 AM
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Off topic but I just low key stalked your profile and I see the cancer known as MAFS has metastasised to your country. My sincere apologies. A girl I was obsessed with used to love that show and I used to send her episodes. Good times.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:16 AM
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Telling women about my desperation for my father’s love and approval cuts through them like a warm knife through butter. I once told a girl I like that I suspect my dad hates me and it made her cry.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:13 AM
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Don’t appeal to logic or fairness, they don’t want the dating world to be fair. Just keep your cards closed to your chest and pursue what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:03 AM
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Dear women: I just KNOW that at least some of you out there use the “ugly bastard” tag. Don’t try denying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:59 AM
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And hold the video camera
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 08:07 AM
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Heh don’t worry in a few days I’ll have a bad day so it’ll all even out
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:28 AM
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Humble bragging about her boob size in a not subtle way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:26 AM
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Or skinheads
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:25 AM
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Low IQ explanation: it’s because he’s an incel High IQ explanation: it’s because he’s American
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:24 AM
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You feel empathy even when they admit to hating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:36 PM
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Work is going good today 😁 I’m literally so smart
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:35 PM
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It’s like simultaneously my ultimate fantasy and my worst nightmare Don’t think I could emotionally handle the aftermath if it was with someone I loved
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:59 AM
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So if a man who hates women acknowledges that it’s not fair, that makes him sympathetic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:54 AM
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Modern comedy is either some woman ranting about her sex life or some guy ranting about politics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:08 AM
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Pornstars are low value women and they end with low value men. Where’s the surprise?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:07 AM
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Men who marry pornstars aren’t actually family-oriented men looking to build a family . They’re basically porn addicts who are happy to live out their fantasy in reality and have the woman they’ve been mastirbating to live with them. It’s not about actually building a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 08:06 AM
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Not everyone. There’s a few perpetually butthurt feminists who are abrasive and like to pick fights, but to be fair, they probably have a lot going on in their lives so I try to not to judge every person who comes off as a shit person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:46 AM
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You didn’t answer my question I don’t hate women. That’s the difference. I never said never believe women, I said watch what they do not what they say. It’s telling that you sympathise with her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:43 AM
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I’m just refuting your arguments when you bring it up yourself You’re welcome to have any opinion you want as an I This is a debate sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:42 AM
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Other countries exist. I don’t think I’ll marry a woman from my country tbh. I live in Australia and would rather marry a woman from another culture than Australian.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:41 AM
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Of course Why would I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:40 AM
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Yes. Stop staring you pervert
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:40 AM
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I doubt the people who like to shame and police mens preferences care about rationality or the reasoning behind it Maybe we should make every woman rationalise every single preference she has and put into clear words why she rejects someone every time she does?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:51 AM
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I’m just laughing at the schizos that post on twox and sharing their deluded opinions so that other PPD users can point and laugh Any that hatesub hadn’t been banned is beyond me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:50 AM
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She’ll never understand this in a million years. The fact that a man dares to have unfeminist preferences is a travesty
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:49 AM
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She’s clearly triggered which is why she made that butthurt post What’s wrong with mens desires in women “evolving”? Is a woman a hypocrite for wanting a different man in her 30’s to the type of man she dated in her 20’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:46 AM
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Men caring about sexual history is bad and he has to fit all these criteria, but it’s find fit women to dump a guy on account of his sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:42 AM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y1jpnp/my_male_friend_who_has_had_sex_says_hell_only/ Women really get triggered by a guy having this preference. I don’t get it. He’s not compatible with you and you’re not compatible with him, what’s the problem? Let him want what he wants. If a guy is exclusively attracted to scuba divers despite not being a scuba diver, that’s not hypocrisy. It’s just what he wants. A man is allowed to want different things sexually/romantically out of casual…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:41 AM
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Saying it’s fine for women to care about thing but not for men to care about thing and then getting all butthurt when men care about thing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:38 AM
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And I’d say defending preferences for one group of people while attacking it for another meets the definition of hypocrisy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:34 AM
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It definitely is. It’s shaming a person for having standards and preferences and imposing rules on them for doing so whilst using hamstering pseudological arguments to defend womens preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 02:19 AM
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Would you show the same understanding to a man who openly says he hates women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:05 PM
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Women think they’re an oppressed minority because some places have laws that place restrictions on murdering your baby
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:55 PM
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I just think anyone who tries to police other people’s preferences and standards while hypocritically defending their own is gutter trash who doesn’t deserve to find happiness in life
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:42 PM
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I identify as a man, yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:20 PM
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Following that logic, should alcohol be completely banned?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:36 PM
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https://old.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/y101y2/every_day_i_feel_more_hate_towards_men_and_its/ My mere existence makes people like this seethe 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:32 PM
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I think making claims about someone based on their sexual history is totally unfair. It's ridiculous to say that a woman will cheat just just because she has had sex with many men. I've seen some PPD women argue that men who haven't had girlfriends will also cheat because they get FOMO. I think both cases are just lame attempts at justifying an intent to shame someone else for their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:57 PM
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Nobody's worth is determined by their sexual past. At the same time, people can freely accept or reject whoever for whatever or not reason. If that's a problem, I have a proposal: men are no longer are allowed to reject women for misogynist reasons, and women are no longer allowed to reject men for misandrist reasons? A man can't reject a woman for being high N. A woman can't reject a man for being a virgin or never having had a relationship before. I think this is fair? Deal?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:53 PM
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I don't think being a virgin or non-virgin makes anyone more or less faithful to their partner. I don't buy into the pseudologic that it indicates faithfulness or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:48 PM
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I don't disagree. But at the end of the day, if you find someone attractive, you find them attractive. I'm not saying anything like "no tall girls" or "no blondes". I'm saying, whatever a girl is, if she elicits that "attraction" from me, she's good to go on that point. There's no definitely "only find this thing attractive" for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:11 PM
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Yeah. The stuff you mentioned is probably what most single women would list. How many women do you see with guys that have all that? Women find a guy they like and they stick with him regardless of who he is. The stuff you mentioned is just a single girl daydreaming about her perfect prince charming that doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:31 AM
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That's why having a laundry list of must haves is gonna set you up for failure. You might meet someone who has all of them but you the relationship ends in failure cause life is unpredictable and there may be many differences you didn't account for. Or you could find someone completely different but you just vibe together well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:23 AM
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Cause they can't do better and they're at an age where every year their ability to draw someone weakens.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:22 AM
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The Legend of the Pervy Hair Demon obsessed with vaginas: mystery solved!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:00 AM
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They pay rent in hairs. It's the only currency they have. Maybe that explains a lot actually...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:56 AM
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Hair demons need love too. They're just lonely :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:51 AM
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The only closure is time. Forget about it and move on. It's normal to feel hurt. There's no magic recipe that will make that hurt go away. Depending on the relationship, even time may not make it go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:44 AM
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Interesting. I commend you at least for being consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:42 AM
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Would you date a man in his 30's who's never had a gf or a serious relationship before?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:38 AM
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Would you say a woman rejecting a man for being a virgin or for never having had a gf is any better or worse than a man rejecting a woman for her n count or for not being a virgin? Both cases, the partner is being rejected for their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:36 AM
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Maybe it has a mind of it's own. Maybe it secretly wants to end up in that place. I wonder what Freud would say about that :/
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:35 AM
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My aim is terrible though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:31 AM
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Wait is it head hair that gets stuck in there or hair from down there??? How does head hair make it's way down there??
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:28 AM
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I wouldn't be able to manage that. I'd need to get one of my bros to help me out and reach Chad status.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:26 AM
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How much will I have to eat??? Can I get it straight from the tap to speed up the process?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:23 AM
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It only happens to me in the mornings when I wake up. I think I get sleep boners, and the foreskin peels back, then the hair gets stuck to the sticky parts, then when the thingo relaxes and the foreskin is back down come sunrise, you wake up with hair stuck under there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:22 AM
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I wish it could help make me taller. I might finally become Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:19 AM
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Got it as a teenager cause I didn't really used to play with myself much or pull back the foreskin. I remember the first time I peeled back my foreskin and saw all that cheesy stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:18 AM
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I'm not trying to "sell" you anything so I don't really care if you "buy" it or not. I'm just trying to think out loud, and in any case, I don't need to convince you of anything. You're welcome to have any opinion of me you want just like you know I have a million opinions of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:17 AM
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That's what makes them get bigger, according to the literature I've been reading on nhentai
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:14 AM
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Based take. Anyone who says genitals aren't gross hasn't had to wash out smegma or woken up with hairs stuck under their foreskin 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:12 AM
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If one person hates what the other loves and is not willing to try, yeah they're incompatible. If a guy is obsessed with rough anal sex and his wife hates it and will never like it, and there's nothing else that will get him off, then yes they're incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 10:05 AM
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Thank you. You're really nice. Thanks for listening to my rant :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:53 AM
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That's why I said not just I love them, but I love them and can see myself having a future with them. For example, I really want kids. I've always imagined myself having little progeny running around and teaching them all the mischievous things I used to do as a kid. Now a lot of women don't want kids, and a lot of women do. A lot of men don't want kids and a lot of men do. I could hypothetically fall in love with a woman who doesn't want kids. We may get along great, mesh really well, love each…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:50 AM
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One of the worst takes I’ve ever read on this shit sub If you spend years having sex with your wife, pay attention, listen to what she likes, know what she likes, and above all DO what she likes, you’ll become good at sec WITH HER Now you can try fucking the neighbours wife and she might like completely different things and think you suck at sex
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:32 AM
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Some men are just not okay with their wife having had sex with other men. There’s nothing wrong with that. How is womens standards any more reasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:20 AM
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I’ve fallen in love before, more than once. I’ve met women I 100% saw myself spending my life with. I know my type. I know the type it takes to make me fall in love. I’d be surprised if someone who’s not that type made me fall in love with them but I’m not ruling it out
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 09:17 AM
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I’ve never said high N women aren’t for marriage. Lots of high N women have happy living marriages. . I’ve just said that if women can reject men for a billion stupid bullshit reasons like being short or being a virgin, men can reject women in the basis of N count, and women have no right to get butthurt and call a man sexist for rejecting them because you can reject anyone for anything. That’s still my view. I didn’t say I will definitely marry a high N woman, I said if a high N woman manages t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:53 AM
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What do you mean “especially by you”?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:38 AM
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I’ve been thinking a lot and I realised I only really have a few basic standards for marriage: I must be in love with them, I must find them attractive, I must feel comfortable with them, I must be compatible with them, we must have a similar outlook on a future life and family plans, and above all, I must be able to see myself living with them forever. This does not exclude or preclude anything based on N count, age, career, height, looks etc. If a woman with an N count of 200 manages to elicit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:23 AM
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Well 2024 is only two years away You’re always welcome in Australia if you decide to bail 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:16 AM
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but I remember seeing a post on r/TheBluePill in which someone said "AFBB isn't real, women's standards just evolve as she matures," Same women would shit their pants if a guy who fucked around in his youth wanted to marry a quiet church girl later on
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:13 AM
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I grew up in a rural shithole Women go out with men who are, for lack of a better word, complete morons
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:11 AM
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Not true at all Workaholic go getters love to party. They compartmentalise their time. Work/study hard and rack up promotions, go to crazy parties and have fun. Parties are part of networking nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:07 AM
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Watch what they do not what they say. Lots of women boast about their long laundry list of demands and then end up falling in love with someone who’s nothing like that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:04 AM
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Worst takes and she deserves to get banned. Did she get banned from reddit or just ppd?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:45 AM
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Based mods Honestly some users on PPD are extremely rude, unwholesome and irritating and I’m 100% happy they get removed. Not referring to anyone specifically. Not a personal attack on anyone
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 07:41 AM
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And the older guys who do marry younger women are all still creepy predator paedophiles, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:56 AM
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I agree with this When have men ever said that women HAVE to have sec on the first date???
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 11:55 AM
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That's a girl
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:45 AM
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I met someone 100% like this Any self respecting man would end things The sad thing is if I wanted I probably could have gotten her to have sex with me before marriage but didn’t want to make her do something she wanted to hold off on just so I could have sex My problem is I’m too good of a person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:22 AM
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Me in the third line
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:08 AM
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Thanks for agreeing /u/mrs_drgree aren’t the rules that you have to disagree with a CMV?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:07 AM
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Isn’t the Kimetsu no Yaiba mangaka secretly a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:03 AM
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sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:00 AM
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Can you imagine any western show doing this https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=WlkCsEErAsg
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:55 AM
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You should have sex with incels, make their body count astronomically high, make them become that which they fear. That’ll show them!!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:43 AM
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Cute cute cute cuuuuuuuuuuute
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:40 AM
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I’m out of time!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 07:39 AM
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Dalé!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 02:22 AM
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That is a good point. I guess it depends if the girls he’s seeing know each other I’ll admit I don’t know much about the secret world of women
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:13 PM
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I agree that she should pick the one she’s attracted to but losing anything because of circumstances beyond your control would strike most people as unfair. It’s like losing your job because of something someone else did. Nobody chooses to be born short or ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:11 PM
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They brag to other men, sometimes even lie or exaggerate. But not to women as far as I know
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:08 PM
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But I’d say that a double standard that affects men and women differently is unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:08 PM
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Yeah but like being rejected over something you’re born with and have no control over feels unfair I’m not saying she’s under obligation to date him or sleep with him
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:07 PM
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BACK OFF SHE’S MINE!!! 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:01 PM
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That makes one of us ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:01 PM
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how is it harmful to others?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:36 PM
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I'm more of a Hulu myself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:25 PM
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I'm just not a big rap fan I guess 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:23 PM
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Me: REEEEEEEEE I'LL NEVER EVER MARRY A NON-VIRGIN WOMAN, THEY ARE NOT WORTHY OF MARRIA-- ainsleygz: exists Me: gets on one knee My fair sweet true love, wilt thou be my betrothed?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:19 PM
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Then why do I always get warnings for being uncivil?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:15 PM
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And IIIIIII--IIIII will always love yoooooUUUUUU Sorry I don't know too many Eminem lyrics
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:15 PM
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Be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:11 PM
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I'll give you my one shot ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:09 PM
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How is a woman gonna find out?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:03 PM
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two trailer park girls go round the outside round the outside round the outside
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:03 PM
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Face Personality/demeanour Body shape/proportions Knowledge Likes/dislikes I don't care about her career or money tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:51 PM
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In terms of height, my problem is women who are short but look down on short men, because they really can be said to be doing harm. That shows really bad morals and a lack of regard for the well-being of people she interacts with. And I'm free to judge her as an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:48 PM
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So you don't think it's unfair that a woman is viewed differently to a man for having the same N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:47 PM
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So you don't think it's unfair that a woman is viewed differently to a man for having the same N count?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:47 PM
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I close my eyes and imagine myself holding hands with /u/ainsleygz
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:45 PM
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I have my doubts, lol. But thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:44 PM
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So a woman being seen differently than a man for having the same N count is not unfair to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:44 PM
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My point is that women should accept the N count double standard as a simple unfair reality of life, just like a short person accepts the fact they were born short and are rejected on that basis as a simple unfair reality of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 02:42 PM
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It's not what you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:45 PM
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If someone was born tall, and the other was born short, and the tall one gets the girl and short one doesn't, based purely on the height difference which neither could control, that is inherently unfair. It is the same with N count. If a woman gets judged negatively more than a guy does for the same sexual behaviour, that is also unfair, but just as unfair as the first scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:43 PM
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I guess I'm looking for people (if they believe that way) to argue why the N count double standard is unfair but why getting rejected for reasons outside your control is not unfair
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:42 PM
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Aren't you worried about the side effects? Like to your heart and metabolism? and yeah depression is shit. Hope everything works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:34 PM
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I don't get suicidal anymore, but I think on most days I feel like, I wouldn't actually care if I died, you know? Like, I wouldn't kill myself. But if a truck hit me while driving, I wouldn't care. I'd be most upset at the idea of my family receiving the phonecall. That terrifies me. In terms of depression, I have my ups and downs. Some days I'm better than others. I find video games help a lot with depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:19 PM
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I would have paid money to NOT see a psychiatrist the fucker actually unironically wanted me to get electroconvulsive therapy Also you know they straight up admitted to me that antidepressants only worked in 40% of cases and exercise was more effective. Honestly as cringey as it is to say, I think the biggest factor in preventing me from killing myself was my catholic religion and our stance against suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:07 PM
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It's okay I could never stay mad at you ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:05 PM
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lol fair enough I was more saying it about myself though and my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:00 PM
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Where the fuck was the "insult" in that statement???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:57 AM
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How do you know that most people don't move though?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:55 AM
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A few. I've seen psychologists and psychiatrists, I think in America you guys mean psychologists when you say therapist. Both are shit. Psychologists make you pay hundreds of dollars an hour for shit advice, and psychiatrists pump you full of life destroying drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:55 AM
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I more or less agree with everything you wrote but Sure. But he also has to accept that his sexual past and decisions to fuck around are going to negatively impact his potential wife pool. So long as he acknowledges his actions have consequences and he isn't "owed" a virgin or low N wife just because he wants one, so be it. Maybe he'll find the rare one who honestly doesn't care that he was a slut, it's certainly possible. Nobody is "owed" anything. I'm not owed a wife or a husband. You're not o…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:53 AM
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It's not that I didn't need it or needed, I just found it was completely and utterly useless. Best thing to do is just take control of your own life, stop waiting for others to help. Therapists literally just want your fucking money, nothing more, nothing else. If some idiot is paying you 200 dollars an hour to sit on your chair and talk about his/her shit life, are you gonna help them get better or try to milk them for all they're worth for as long as possible? It's like driving instructors. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:43 AM
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How do you know most people do X or Y? Not everyone has the same prescription for life
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:39 AM
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So people who say "women who sleep around are bad people becasue [x] reasons", aren't trying to police their behaviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:37 AM
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If you moved far away, those same friends with kids would probably slowly drop out of your life. No matter how you spin it, maintaining a friendship gets more difficult when you move further away, and as you get older and go separate ways in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:36 AM
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And these are with people who are married and have kids? When they get older they'll become more and more busy with their own lives. All my friends who are married and live in other states and have kids, I still talk to them online, but it's not like I can hang out with them cause they have their life and I have mine. Only people I regularly hang out with are family, friends of family, and colleagues/friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:14 AM
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I get what you're saying but I think ultimately others can have whatever preferences they want. You're a woman, you probably haven't experienced rejection anywhere close to the amount of times the average man has. We get rejected, ghosted, stood up, dumped, given fake numbers, it happens to us like it's our job. And we're told by society we just have to accept "no" on it's own as a justifiable explanation. We're not allowed further explanation and justification. We just have to take it with a sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:13 AM
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I like stirring and creating drama. I don't like being on the receiving end. I can dish it out but I can't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 11:09 AM
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Flying across the country to visit someone is not the same as regularly hanging out though and having them be a big part of your life and meeting other people through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:53 AM
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When someone moves away, you don't really hang out anymore. Sure you talk online, you chat on apps and play games together or whatever. It's not the same. They're not a big part of your life anymore. You don't meet up with them. You don't meet up with their friends. They don't introduce you to people. They're not part of your life any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:50 AM
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Who says which experience is the social "norm" and which isn't? Everyone has different life experiences. All you're doing is relating what you've observed of others life experiences, which by no means is representative of everyone's or even most people's life experience, whilst having none of that actual life experience yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:43 AM
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If he happened to end up with one naturally? No. So what's the difference between ending up with one naturally and not? If he wants a virgin wife after racking up an N count of 50 and ends up with one naturally, or if he doesn't care about his partner's N count and still ends up with one after racking up an N count of 50, what's the difference? attempt to both shame high N women for doing the same thing What if he doesn't shame anyone? Is having a preference the same as shaming? Are women shamin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:38 AM
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They've moved on with other aspects of their life, lots of them got married and had kids. I'm much older than you so I'm at a stage of life you have yet to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:36 AM
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That doesn't change because someone moved, got a job, or something else Unfortunately it does. Even when you're good friends, sometimes people move on with life. They get married, have kids, move to new cities, and get busy with old things and old friendships fizzle away
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:32 AM
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How is it any worse than when women say they won't date a man who's a virgin or never had a gf at 30? They say stuff like "there's something wrong with him", "he's socially stunted", other things like that. They try to justify not wanting a guy who's a virgin or girlfriendless. Why is that okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:22 AM
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There are people who also look for something serious and find something serious online. When you're in uni, the social circle is way bigger. When you're an adult working a full time job, depending on where you work, your social circle massively shrinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:20 AM
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Maybe things were different in your parents time. Online dating provides a much larger pool of people to pick from. This can be a good thing or a bad thing. It might be easier to find someone you're compatible. If you're just meeting people through friends family and co-workers, your pool is much smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 10:06 AM
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Am I the only one that thinks its interesting how women love all these romance dramas from a period where women essentially had no rights and were married off to a rich guy their father picked out?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:53 AM
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Okay but are you gonna be at uni and clubs forever? Eventually you start working ,and it's either meet people through co-workers and family, or online dating. Your friends kinda fizzle out once you get work at different places. nline dating is mainly used for people looking for new hook ups or by people that ran out of real options due to social issues or reputation. Lots of people get wholesome marriages out of online dating nowadays. I do agree that you can never be certain that someone is lyi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:42 AM
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You have no way of knowing which women a man has had sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 09:00 AM
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You’re only inviting Mockingjayery?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:51 AM
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Lol I don’t wanna say anything mean cause I’m still reeling from the guilt of the tattoo comment
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:47 AM
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I meant the video game RPGs. I’m too friendless to get into tabletop 😭😭 gotta say, half shaved/half bright blue was NOT a good look for me… never again Lol… no comment. Were you larping as a DnD character?? 😁 Sorry that was too mean
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:38 AM
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One of us!! One of us!! I should have guessed as much when you said you play those nerdy totally uncool rpg games I know nothing about fashion but honestly I think you’d look pretty no matter how you styled your hair 😍 Yes I’m simping, and I don’t care
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:10 AM
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Lol that would be weird. But I’m always floored by how genuinely beautiful the women of PPD are. Like… wow wow wow wow WOW 🤩 Like, what are you even doing hanging out in this autistic place with us weirdos???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 08:02 AM
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Those are definitely awesome tattoos!! I love the symbolism behind them!! I don’t know much about Norse mythology but it definitely sounds cool! I love that they symbolise the strength and energy you’ve used to drive yourself, that is certainly something to admire! Is that you in the pics btw??? 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:51 AM
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ALL women are beautiful 10’s, without exception. Any PPD women reading this, I’m especially talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:46 AM
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A man who gets regularly plowed in the ass by other men
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:42 AM
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Yay!!! Also just for the record, I totally retract the tattoo comment. What’s your tattoo of anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:38 AM
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Aggressive nipples are a serious problem. It’s best to nip them in the bud
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:25 AM
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He cute I think you’ll like this Insta https://www.instagram.com/p/Bvg1lAhFsuY/
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:24 AM
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I don’t remember where I was going with this…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:21 AM
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Would you accept a picture of an updog?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:12 AM
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Ok well have you considered that when you really think about it, boobs are pretty much just giant testicles? Like men have different underwear than women, we have that pouch in our underwear. That’s pretty much a bra. I don’t know why more people don’t acknowledge this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:10 AM
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If a high N guy ended up with a virgin girl would that make him a hypocrite????
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:06 AM
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Do women like feminine men? I thought most women like tall fit guys with a strong face How many women like a soft effeminate male virgin with undefined features?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:04 AM
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Cuteness, being charming, radiating sunshine and positive energy Basically any protagonist from an idol group anime
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:02 AM
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It’s no different than men who pass judgement on womens sexual behaviours, it’s attempting to police womens sexuality I think there’s nothing wrong with a woman sleeping with 100 people as long as both sides consent. I don’t think it demeans her or makes her “less” and I would have zero problem being good friends with such a woman and hanging out and playing video games You might not believe me but it’s the truth
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 07:00 AM
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I hate it when I’m trying to be mean to a PPD woman and another PPD woman who’s really nice gets caught in the cross fire /u/DivineDaedra I’m still so sorry! Will you ever forgive me??!!! 😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:54 AM
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It’s Sunday afternoon here and I’m inebriated so I can have as silly a conversation as you’re gonna get
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:53 AM
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All you’re really doing is putting rules and conditions on what a man is allowed to prefer If a virgin man wanted a high N wife then you wouldn’t call him a hypocrite. If a virgin man only wanted a high N woman despite being a virgin himself you wouldn’t call him a hypocrite. It’s only when women don’t get their cake and eat it that you feel the need to police make preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:50 AM
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Mean 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 06:46 AM
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I don’t get why women are obsessed with the idea of their sons being tall. Why do you care if your son is tall or not? Imagine if men were obsessed with the idea of their daughter having big boobs
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:40 AM
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I thought 70's was moustache = pornstar?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:10 AM
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You can't describe women like this. Let's be honest, this description also fits men. I have a hole, and feels chest yep they're getting puffier.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:09 AM
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Everyone believes in something at the end of the day. I think the important thing is not trying to force beliefs on others and respecting differences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:08 AM
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Really?? I don't even know how that became a stereotype, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 04:03 AM
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People can do what they want and you can have whatever opinion of them you want. Furthermore, if you don't want your kids to be short and are against copulating with a short man, don't be short. It's pretty simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:55 AM
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What's your take on moustaches? Yay or nay? Like shaved face, but a moustache. I really wanna be able to grow a moustache but I can't!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:51 AM
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I’ll admit some tattoos are kickass Like I think a dragon tattoo would be cool I’d still prefer no tattoo though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 03:18 AM
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I knew a hard core religious girl who wanted to wait till marriage. It wasn't a long relationship to begin with but she made it clear that she was looking to wait, even though she'd had sex with past boyfriends. I kinda ended the thing and just said I wasn't ready for a relationship at that time, but I suspect she knows the real reason why. I felt bad but honestly there's no obligation to stay in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:36 AM
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I mean, I don't think you're trashy as a person, I just think tattoos on their own are trashy. It's just my view, it's not an insult or a personal attack. I'd never get a tattoo in a million years. Like, imagine someone got drunk at their own wedding and vomited on the groom. That's trashy. They may be the most well kempt person in all other aspects of their life, they may not be a trashy person at all, but that singular act on it's own is a trashy act. Again, just how I feel on the subject. Dri…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:32 AM
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100% They'll just kinda wind down the relationship, or like string her along and never commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:24 AM
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I'm a heterosexual man so that's probably good.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:24 AM
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That's definitely not what they mean. What they are trying to do is deny the fact that men in real life DO care about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:23 AM
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Lol, sorry!! I just don't find tattoos attractive at all. Like I'll admit some tattoos do look interesting, and even I go, "oooh that's an interesting tattoo!" but ultimately as a whole, having a tattoo makes a person less attractive as a whole to me and that exact same person would be more attractive if they didn't have the tattoo. I just really don't like tattoos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:23 AM
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Maidenless virgin who's never had a girlfriend. "Virginity" is seen as a feminine quality. maiden literally means a virgin woman. The word for virgin in many languages is essentially the same as "girl". A woman who lacks it is seen as unfeminine therefore unattractive A man who has it is seen as feminine therefore unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:19 AM
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Yeah well I wouldn't tell you my preferences to begin with? Depending on who you are, I probably wouldn't even be compatible with you to begin with. I only get to get married once, so I'll be as picky as possible. If there's something that puts me off and I find it unattractive for marriage, then I'm not gonna marry that person. Don't need a justification. Don't need an explanation. Don't like that I have that preference? Good for you. In terms of casual dating/sex, my preferences are much lower…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:16 AM
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I think when women in PPD and reddit in general say that "nobody irl cares about N count", what they really are referring to is that feminism has openly made it taboo for a man to openly say he cares about it, and openly say he doesn't want to marry a woman who's slept with people, cause that is "slut shaming" according to feminism. I think in non-western cultures, there's still this standard that a virgin wife is ideal. Like you play degenerate eroge visual novels and even they idolise virginit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:13 AM
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*dye hair Tattoos are trashy. I mean, there's a reason "tasteful" tattoos are ones that are small and that you can barely see. It's because the most "tasteful" thing of all is not having a tattoo. Excessive piercings too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:10 AM
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if you're trying to unattractive-max, get a big septal piercing right through your nose. Literally nothing on earth that's more unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:03 AM
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It's basically female entitlement that to even have it as a standard or preference, you need to jump through all these hoops to be ALLOWED to have it. Like 1. you MUST not have an N count yourself, 2. you MUST not think less of women who have one, 3. you MUST justify it with very narrow acceptable reasons And even then it's not enough and you're a sexist piece of shit for having that standard/preference It's another reminder that a lot of the time, women will twist any debate to put you in the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 01:01 AM
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don't threaten me with a good time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:59 AM
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Because divorces are inherently biased towards them, and feminists and simps think divorce rape is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:58 AM
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Natural hair colours are always the most attractive in my opinion. I find the prettiest hair colour is black or dark brown
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:56 AM
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I sometimes answer in the other threads or make my own ones specifically crafted to create controversy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:50 AM
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Yeah I don't find tattoos or piercings even remotely attractive at all. I find them very unattractive. And I don't have any so thankfully nobody here can call me a hypocrite on that count.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:49 AM
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You and ainsley should become friends irl
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:47 AM
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I see women on PPD talk about height preferences and dick size preferences but no woman I've seen irl openly mentions these. Maybe people have more tact in real life or maybe PPD women aren't representative of most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:47 AM
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Congratulations!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:38 AM
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The only reason women travel on their own or go on exchange to another country is to suck lots of dick without it getting back to their friends and family. I've heard there's many women here who go to Bali and bring back STD's.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/22 12:37 AM
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A woman might not see it as undesirable. I’m guessing you see the shortness as undesirable Some ethnicities are shorter than others anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:29 PM
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Doesn’t mean every sperm bank rejects it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:27 PM
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Lol fair enough I guess there’s nothing wrong with entertaining fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:26 PM
0

No. Care to explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:20 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:19 PM
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Honesty is good I wouldn’t get hard for an evil person but it seems women don’t have that inhibition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:18 PM
1

Dream about a guy who killed people?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:17 PM
0

You want your son to be your type?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:16 PM
0

It depends on the bank
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:15 PM
-1

What’s wrong with person B?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:13 PM
2

What’s wrong with person B?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:13 PM
0

What’s wrong with person B?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:12 PM
0

What’s wrong with person B?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:12 PM
-1

What’s wrong with person B?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:12 PM
1

行く行く行く気持ち
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:32 PM
1

Wir suchen dich
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:27 PM
0

Because we suck at listening
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:21 PM
0

Why are serial killer movies/shows so popular with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:10 PM
-1

If you want to drastically lower rates of rape and abuse of women, then I think banning parties with drugs and alcohol, banning music festivals, banning bars and night clubs, banning tinder, banning every normie cesspool, would be much much much more effective than banning online forums where lonely butthurt virgins commiserate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:07 PM
1

People say incels do violence. Which kills more people, mass shootings by incels or domestic abuse by non-incels? The men who beat their wives and girlfriends to death aren’t incels, they’re people who can get wives and girlfriends. Often they are good looking normies with charms and social skills
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 12:03 PM
1

Only a sith deals in absolutes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:13 AM
0

Thinly-veiled just world fallacy You can raise a girl 100% the right way, dot all the i's, tick all the t's, and she'll still be influenced by media and tiktok and youtube and social media more than she will be by you. Unless you raise her in an environment without technology.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 08:07 AM
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Imagine flicking through netflix, you have a million options, can't decide what to watch Now imagine flicking through regular channels, and you see a movie you like or that looks interesting, you'll be like "oooh I like this, I'll watch this" When you have a constant stream of options, its more difficult to pick one and stick to one, especially if you're a guy. When your options are far more limited, its easier to pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:25 AM
1

Are you gonna block me on your new account as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:24 AM
0

There's this idea in western society where if you don't give her "freedom" to make life-damaging mistakes, you're being an oppressive father. For example, if I had a daughter, I'd be extremely wary of her going to parties at night. I know what happens at parties. I know there are guys out there who want to take advantage of women. I know there's drug use. I know there are guys who will try to fill her up with alcohol to take advantage of her. What's the solution? Not let her go to parties? You'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:09 AM
3

Sing language? I CAN SIIIIIING
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 06:07 AM
0

Difference between incels/niceguys and chads Incels/niceguys: think romance is like a slice of life anime or a disney movie. Think you meet a cute girl, are shy towards each other, eventually confess your feelings, hold hands and buy flowers for each other, get married and be in love forever. Chads: go to a bar or night club, see drunk girl, grind against her, take her home and have sex with her, keep doing so until you get bored of her and find someone else. Guess which guy women prefer? Guess …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 05:32 AM
2

Eat more curry, it’s the only way to get him appreciate the tender richness of girlfarts
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:44 AM
1

Thank you! Best of luck!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:41 AM
2

Only Chads deserve to sniff your farts.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:02 AM
2

This chain of comments is making me feel self conscious. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 03:02 AM
2

Sorry if I was ever mean to you. I know we disagree on a lot, but you were always nice, and I hope things go well for you. If there's something in your life causing you grief, like an online forum, just remove it for your life. Best wishes!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:59 AM
1

Yes but it looks photoshopped
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:24 AM
2

A woman crying has the capacity to make me an ultra simp and instantly apologise for everything even if I wasn't in the wrong. > be having argument with a woman > she's acting like a psycho > she starts crying > I instantly feel like the bad guy and apologise for everything How do women have this super power?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:08 AM
3

Agreed. Wow, she's gorgeous.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/22 02:01 AM
2

Interesting. Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:28 PM
1

why?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 02:21 PM
1

Castles are cold though, aren't they?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:43 PM
3

I feel it's basically women want on some level to be ravaged by the beast (bad boy) but after that they alone can tame him and turn him into prince charming husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:37 PM
1

So does that mean all the women who like it secretly want an arranged marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:36 PM
7

CMV: the reason "Beauty and the Beast" is so popular with so many women is because they want to fuck the Beast
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:33 PM
2

yum
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:28 PM
3

Stop I can only get so horny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:20 PM
6

God I wish I was that toilet seat
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:08 PM
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first ​
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 01:00 PM
3

I live in Australia where there's legalised prostitution everywhere and widely accepted. Basically the result is for guys who wanna have casual sex, whereas in the United States, they have options like tinder, bars, and night clubs, here there is a fourth option, which is to just pay for it. It's essentially a "pay to win" option. I don't know anyone who's admitted to doing it but I'm guessing if anyone I know has, they probably wouldn't fess up to it as it's seen as pretty low brow. I think mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 10:41 AM
2

No way lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:53 AM
3

I’d probably get banned from reddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 09:38 AM
2

Shakira Shakira!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:29 AM
2

But what if your hips are lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/22 08:21 AM
4

It makes women seethe therefore it's based.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:31 PM
3

Say it with me: women's opinions don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:27 PM
3

I prefer complete virgins
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:27 PM
1

Not my type tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:27 PM
2

pure evil
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:26 PM
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When you ask them why don't you want to date a 30 year old virgin, it's "well, there must be obviously something wrong with him if he's never had sex yet". "Okay well this woman has had sex with 50 guys and sleeps with a new person each week. There must be something wrong with her." "STOP SLUT SHAMING HER YOU INCEL"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:11 PM
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Which is why I say their opinions don't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 04:07 PM
2

I don't really care enough to argue this. You have your view and I have my view. I think your view is racist and let's agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:20 PM
2

Don't bother. If you want to feel like you "won", you can have this win. I know you're going through a lot and I hope you feel better soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:19 PM
2

America is different because it's multiethnic and not really associated with one particular race.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:14 PM
2

I've never said any of this stuff on the board. I try to avoid giving out personal info about my private life and you're just openly divulging stuff I told you in private. I thought you were a nice person that's why I felt okay telling you stuff about my private life, now you're just going and spilling that everywhere. Please stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:13 PM
2

If I said i wouldn't hire anyone from [x] country because they are lazy and selfish and steal, would that make me a racist?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:11 PM
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Doesn't make her a liar. You can't just assume someone is a liar. Please stop mentioning stuff I told you in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:09 PM
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Saying an entire country of 100 million people is like this or like that is racist whether you like it or not. If I said I won't hire anyone from [x] country because they are lazy and selfish, I would be called a racist, and that would be right. Making sweeping assumptions about an entire country is racist. You called me a hypocrite for my preferences but don't like it when I called you a racist, and then you went the ultimate low blow and tried to drag my family into it. You literally know noth…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:08 PM
3

You called my ex-gf a liar. Do you have any idea how mean that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:03 PM
1

That's very homophobic of you
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:02 PM
2

What truth? You tried to bring my family into this in a lame attempt to "burn" me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 02:01 PM
1

Kink shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:58 PM
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What's shitty about it? If she consents to sex, that's her decision. She's not owed a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:57 PM
1

I'm more of a dom cracks whip
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:52 PM
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You were saying things I said in private too about my insecurities, and you used that against me. Ruling out an entire country and saying you won't date people from that country of 100 million people even if you've never met them all is racist and you can think what you want, but like I said, it's your choice. In my view it is racist. You can't change that. It's my view. Just like in your view I'm a hypocrite. I can't change that you think my preferences are hypocritical, and you can't change th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:51 PM
1

You mean like you're doing now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:47 PM
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Why? He doesn't owe her shit. If he gets sex and they both consent, that's a win for him. "It's shitty" cause the feminist didn't want and get everything she wants at the expense of the man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:46 PM
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I'm not a huge fan of arguing. I'm not a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:45 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:44 PM
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The dating world is unfair to many men, it's unbalanced and more difficult. Best to maximise your advantages even if it involves lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:43 PM
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Your perspective is incorrect. I've seen feminists here go ballistic and block me when losing an argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:42 PM
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You played with my emotions then you broke my heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:41 PM
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No it's not. It's a guy doing what he wants. Just like a woman does what she wants. He owes her nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:39 PM
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You literally said you wouldn't date anyone from a specific country and you know which country you said, and you ruled out an entire nationality. I think that's racist, I think it's hypocritical. I don't care of course, but I think it says a lot about you. It's funny you are trying to claim I'm personally attacking you because you tried to make this conversation about my preferences and about how I'm a hypocrite. So that's not a personal attack? because I am more than willing to put out the trut…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:39 PM
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I pretty much agree with you but I do think men should still lie if they are a virgin cause most women will reject them for it otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:33 PM
2

Fake boobs make an automatic 0 for me. I don't know why, it's the biggest turn off in the universe. I can't watch porn with fake boobs. It's literally revolting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:30 PM
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Cause I can and I choose to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:28 PM
2

I thought I was your babe :(
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:28 PM
2

Bitter cause someone stole their cuck chair and video camera for taping their wife with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:27 PM
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Stop changing the subject. It's feminism to try to shame men out of having preferences. It's feminism to tell a guy he's a hypocrite and must jump through hoops to have whatever preferences he wants. I can reject someone for whatever reason, and so can you. You have extremely hypocritical and racist reasons for rejecting people and you know what they are, but I don't want to make things personal so I won't go there. You have the right to have your preferences and standards. Anyway, to attack som…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:26 PM
-2

Maybe you should stop kissing them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:23 PM
2

Would you say they are cucks?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:23 PM
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Don't babe me, sugar. That's not gonna work on me anymore. The part she says women aren't analogies. Are you even listening? Lol That makes no sense though. There are many analogies in life. Just cause that analogy isn't apt in her view, doesn't mean others aren't. It's funny how you guys want everyone to accept your opinion but you won't accept other's opinions. Because our opinions are better than yours and I'm not even joking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:22 PM
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You find being a cuck pathetic? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:20 PM
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Yes, and you do the same when you judge women for having those preferences and say they shouldn't do it. That makes you the same. If a woman doesn't want to date a virgin, I'm fine with it. I encourage men to lie about it anyway. Her opinion means nothing to me and I think men should lie about not having had a gf or being a virgin if it helps them get with a woman. I have multiple reasons for wanting a virgin wife, some of which you mentioned. It's not hypocrisy, it's just what I want in a wife.…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:20 PM
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If you’re a man who is bothered by a woman’s past- you shouldn’t pursue a relationship with a woman with a past. I'd tell the guy in question it's fine to have fun with her, just don't commit if he doesn't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:17 PM
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Which part of her point was great? The part where she kept saying "get fucked?" If people aren't allowed to care about sexual history, tell her she's not allowed to care about height, appearance, job, salary, because apparently having preferences is verboten. Or is it just having preferences that specifically filter HER out?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:16 PM
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If someone accused me of having a fetish I don't have, and I took offense to it, I'd explain to him why I don't have that fetish. If someone called me an ass man, I'd be like "good gentlesir, I like tits and armpit-pussy" If someone called be a cuckold fetishist despite me not being one, I'd protest if I took offense to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:15 PM
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She didn't even get the analogy right though. "Women are not keys!!!" No, they're not. They're locks as per the analogy. It's like she wasn't even listening. She's stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:13 PM
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I mean telling a woman to smile is equivalent to murder, so I can't imagine what telling a woman she looks pretty is.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:12 PM
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I mean it's probably true.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:11 PM
2

You could always explain to them that you're not a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:10 PM
-3

Manosphere guys are way more well spoken and polite than feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:09 PM
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Sure. It's not like their opinions have any value to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:08 PM
4

you think no women ever enjoy sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:07 PM
1

I'm probably smarter than them so idgaf.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:07 PM
6

what's wrong with being a cuck? why take it as an insult?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:07 PM
2

Holy fuck, are you even reading what I'm writing? I'm actually getting angry cause you're genuinely not even responding to what I'm saying. I'm saying, women who criticise men for caring about sexual history, but then they themselves care about sexual history, are hypocrites. Do you agree with that or not? It is not hypocritical to want something that you do not have yourself. Do you agree with that or not? You're a hypocrite when you engage in behaviours that you believe are bad and expect othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:06 PM
4

I mean from my perspective, I won't find them cute and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:03 PM
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I think lots of people would say you have a lack of inhibition and self control. I'm not saying that, but some would. I frankly don't care who anybody else sleeps with. But people making personality inferences on you based on your sexual history is no different to you doing that to virgins. I'm not going to fuck some dudes lmao. Why not? Might be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:01 PM
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Just because you associate virginity with cuteness and feminity doesn't mean its true. It's a cultural element that lots of people believe is true. It will also make her wonder why sex isn't as good as the media displays and she will wonder if its because she has only experienced sex with you. lots of women enjoy sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 01:00 PM
2

I feel the same about lots of people being straight up unlikable. Though probably not thinking about the same group you are
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:58 PM
2

anyone notice how feminist-y types are always the first to resort to personal insults?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:58 PM
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Women absolutely HATE the fact that their own actions can lock them out of a relationship with some men. It's the definition of wanting to have your cake and eat it. It's like, wanna have sex? Go ahead. But it comes with consequences that include some people judging you and not wanting to date you. Sorry but men are allowed preferences too, not just women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:57 PM
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I remember making a CMV saying women's opinions don't matter and now I feel vindicated, lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:55 PM
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Nah the bitching is coming from the one who can't tell apart two completely different scenarios. I don't get why this is hard for you to understand. My claim: chastising someone for judging sexual history and then judging sexual history is hypocrisy Your claim: wanting something in a partner that you lack is hypocrisy These are completely different scenarios. Do you understand yet or still not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:55 PM
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Not if you associate virginity with femininity and want a cute feminine wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:53 PM
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It's not really insecurity. It's more like, society has attached different concepts to men and women regarding purity, being chaste, being "used" etc. Lots of men like to feel they are the first. I wouldn't call it insecurity, any more than a woman preferring tall guys is insecure. I associate female virginity with cuteness and femininity. I want a cute and feminine wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:53 PM
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It's not hypocrisy because I'm not shaming other people for their preferences. I have preferences, it doesn't matter if I live up to them or not. A woman can prefer tall guys even if she's short. A fat woman can prefer thin guys. A non-virgin can prefer virgins. It's not hypocrisy, the claim that it is is just butthurt feminists trying to shame men into lowering their standards. Lots of non-virgin men manage to get virgin wives, I don't see the problem. Men can want what they want. There are man…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:51 PM
6

Then how come so many men don't want them after they "have fun"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:47 PM
6

so if a woman is annoyed by men who reject women on the basis of their sexual history, but rejects men for being virgins and/or not having a gf, is that hypocrisy or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:46 PM
7

Not just for men, but for western culture at large.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:45 PM
6

Some would say it signifies a lack of inhibition and self-control, or other mental issues. You can make inferences on a high sexual history just like you can on a low sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:44 PM
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Lots of that socialising and having fun for many people is just a desperate attempt for validation and to gain men's approval. Not for everyone, but for some. For many, they are mentally unwell. Some even take drugs. Others have personality disorders that cause them to act that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:43 PM
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If a woman doesn't want a guy to make assumptions about her because she's slept around a lot, but she makes assumptions about a guy because he's a virgin who hasn't had a gf, isn't that hypocrisy? How is saying a guy who hasn't had a gf = bad partner worse than saying a woman who's slept around a lot = dirty slut who will cheat?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:41 PM
3

How do you know?? Lots of women who buy vibrators have never even had sex
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:27 PM
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Having lots of casual sex doesn't affect a women mentally Lots of people would argue that women who have casual sex are mentally unstable, have emotional and mental problems, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:26 PM
2

I wonder how many women who can't cum from sex are actually burnt out on vibrators and too accustomed to cumming from masturbation that a penis can't make them cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:25 PM
5

I always argue in favour of paying for dates. It's a power move. It infantilises the woman. It's like "here, let me take the bill, let me take care of you, I'm the adult in the room."
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:24 PM
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The fact that James Bond has a lot of sex is evidence of his masculinity. It's like a trophy. If you get a trophy for winning a sport or whatever, it means that you're great at that sport. It 's not like people admire you for having a big metal cup in your house. They admire you because of what the trophy represents about you. The fact that James Bond can get any woman contributes to his masculine image.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:23 PM
6

Is something definitely wrong with the girl if she had sex with lots of guys??
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:21 PM
1

Hardly any of them are even addressing the point I made in OP. It's so frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:20 PM
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That's an extreme hyperbole.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:19 PM
7

Lots of women seethe when a man cares about her sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:18 PM
8

If you read OP as you claim you did then what is my argument in OP?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:17 PM
12

You didn't even read the OP post and you're not replying to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:03 PM
11

How is it different? You make inferences that a guy without partners will be a bad partner. You could make the same inferences that a woman with many partners is a bad partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:02 PM
1

Why couldn't the same inferences be made about a high N woman? Virgin man = unpleasant, unlikable. High N = untrustworthy, likely to cheat, used up. Do you see how that works?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:00 PM
14

So why is it okay to do all the things you said but not to reject a woman for being high N? Both cases you're making assumptions about someone based on their history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 12:00 PM
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Why??? In both cases you're judging someone for sexual history. Why is it okay to say it's wrong for sexual history to matter when you're judging someone else's sexual history?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:30 AM
1

Sex, kids, and free laundry service. Men who have the looks, means, capacity, finances, intellect and personality to draw women have their pick. When it comes to a woman to settle down with, they want a wife who they are sexually attracted to and they will have sex with a lot. They want someone to produce their kids and heirs. They want a partner around the home to help with domestic chores. In terms of personality and someone to "hang out" with, I think most men get this from other guys. Very f…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:15 AM
4

All these women saying masturbation > sex have the female equivalent of death grip.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:10 AM
1

Is this the female equivalent of death grip?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:10 AM
5

Okay but what if he doesn't. Do you think most women in FWBs don't secretly want the guy to be their bf and hope he one day changes his mind and it becomes serious? They're literally even worse off than women getting strung along. They are giving sex in the hope it becomes a relationship. Like how Nice Guys TM give off friendship in the hopes of getting a relationship and/or sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:10 AM
1

literally WHAT is the difference
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:09 AM
1

my most intimate parts, Your eyes?? o.O
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:08 AM
-1

You've literally never seen any woman claim incel forums cause domestic violence? It's literally feminists favourite talking point. You can find that viewpoint literally everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:04 AM
1

Nice Guy TM : "you shouldn't chase after douchebags" Woman: "lol, only incels think women chase after douchebags" woman runs after obvious douchebag gets abused Woman: "online incel forums did this!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 11:00 AM
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Probably not, you were most likely lacking in other areas. The vast majority of people will happily say that they were shit when they were new to sex, or some variation of "I had no idea what I was doing". my point is that death grip makes you last longer at sex even if you're a virgin, whereas not having death grip but not being a virgin made me last way less long. Well now it's just a chicken and egg. I highly doubt all the guys I've seen saying it's unfair that women don't want virgins are ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:57 AM
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Well you don't know the stats, and we're not talking about the majority or minority of women, we're talking about the women who DO reject men for being virgins or for not having a girlfriend. Do you think this is just as bad as man rejecting a woman for an N count? Also given your earlier example, whatever a woman's appearance, if her N was high, I'd know we'd be incompatible in a marriage and I'd reject her on that basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:56 AM
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There are women who unironically believe that online forums of lonely virgins who've never had a gf complaining about being lonely are the reason there is an epidemic of men who can get girlfriends and wives beating said girlfriends and wives to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:54 AM
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Hell no. I'm 30 and would ideally want a woman in her early 20's. increased chances of divorce I'll take my chances. I'd rather a "risky" choice in something I want than a "safe" choice in something I don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:52 AM
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True. Dating apps even exacerbate this unfairness. It makes it easy for women to get what they want and harder for men to get what they want. Basically men's traditional advantages (ability to provide) are getting erased, and women's traditional advantages (ability to be sexy) are getting heightened and now for women it's like being a kid in a candy store. This is what draws men to TRP and PUA and similar doctrines. Men see their advantages waning and look for means to maximise what few advantag…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:49 AM
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I'm bad at lying though and would easily get caught out. The only way I can make that convincing is if I actually do it. Well I guess I know what I have to do now.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:47 AM
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In my experience, women always ask first about relationship history. I agree that it's fine to reject people for their sexual history as long as you don't shame them. I have no problem with high N women. But I don't want to marry one. I have no problem with men, but I don't want to marry a man. I have friends who are men. I have friends who are high N women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:46 AM
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I find quirky girls cute. I wouldn't reject her for being socially awkward and cute. If I found out she was high N, I wouldn't reject her on the spot, but I would know that a marriage is automatically ruled out. It’s the same. It’s not like virgin men are mentioning to women they are virgins then being rejected. They are getting rejected whilst being a virgin but the women probably don’t even know he’s a virgin- they just know they aren’t interested I'm not talking about that. i'm talking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:44 AM
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I've had sex and I still cum within two minutes. Actually the first time I had sex I didn't cum at all cause i had death grip. Guess that being a virgin made me a sex god and having sex made me a limp dicked incel? You seem to have an issue with a woman not wanting a virgin, and yet you care about what the N count of a woman is. I've heard loads of men online complaining about women not wanting a virgin, so there you go. No double standard. If a woman doesn't have that double standard, I'm fine …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:40 AM
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NGL, I probably wouldn't be placing bets on the relationship to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:39 AM
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Why is it bad to care about that though? Are you saying that caring about sexual history as a standard and preference is wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:38 AM
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Fascism is pretty much nowadays used as a buzzword for "government I don't like". It can apply to any government that does le bad thing. West German government used to consider the Soviet Union to be "fascists in red". The most literal definition of fascist is the party that ruled in the 20's, 30's, and first half of the 40's. They are the only group that openly defined themselves as Fascist. More broadly it can be used to refer to a number of nationalist but economically social anti-communist, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:37 AM
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What about those who make "against incels" their personality? Like the type of women who post religiously on /r/inceltear What are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:33 AM
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Not just any pussy. Only tight anime pussy. They are shooting above their league.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:33 AM
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Check your gardening shed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:32 AM
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"Lmao get fucked, your sister and mother are whores, bitch lasagna" is not really a compelling argument
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:31 AM
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Honesty gets you nowhere in life. Are you 100% honest in job interviews? Let's say that a guy was madly in love with you but he had the misfortune of being with a virgin. You would punish him for his honesty and reward him for his dishonesty (assuming you saw him attractive enough beyond the virgin thing). He would have no reason to be honest with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:29 AM
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sniff sniff PURE IDEOLOGY. IN LACANIAN TERMSH, THE WOMAN ISH REJECTING THE MAN FOR NOT EMBODYING THE HEGELIAN SHUPERMAN CONSHEPT OF A MASHCULINE MALE. wipes nose
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:28 AM
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I have a new rule for what would make me accept dating a high N non-virgin woman. Early on, I will lie to her and say that I am a virgin and I've never had a girlfriend before and never even been on a date before or kissed a girl. If she accepts this and still agrees to date me, she passes the test, and I will date her even if she is high N.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:26 AM
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What is not okay is to shame others for not sharing your values Only maidenless incel virgins who can't get a girlfriend shame others for their sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:23 AM
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Because sex is a skill, the amount of people who are amazing at sex right from the get go is extremely limited. It's like dancing, someone who has never danced before is unlikely to pull off smooth moves immediately. I've slept with women who had low N counts or limited experience with sex, and they were shit in bed. there's no "good at sex". There's sexual compatibility. A man who's had sex with 50 women and is into anal and BDSM would be "bad at sex" with a woman who hates those things. A man …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:21 AM
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So you exclude people on the basis of sexual history and you think its fine for men to exclude women on the basis of sexual history? Well at least you are consistent in that regard, I'll give you that. Having said that, I think virgin guys should lie about being virgins so avoid being rejected for it. I would encourage all virgin men to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:17 AM
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I don't think you can pinpoint the number, but sometimes you do get a general idea on someone's values. If someone talks about sex a lot, has no problem talking about sex, I think they are more open to sex in general and likely to have had sex in the past. I think there are certain indicators of being a "party girl", like tattoos, dyed hair, piercings, so on. Of course, it's not clear cut and you could be way off, but I do think there might be some correlation. Of course you can still be way off…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:15 AM
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The thing about male virginity is always what's the reason behind it. If a guy tries to get laid for 10 years but can't find a single woman willing to take him on, that's suspicious. that's like saying, if a woman has had sex with dozens of guys, that's suspicious. Is she mentally ill? Does she have no inhibition? You make assumptions about men who are virgins, people can make assumptions about women who are high N. It's the same deal. I don't want a virgin because I'm not one. Bottom line is yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:08 AM
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What does "shit in bed" mean? Does having had lots of sex mean you're not shit in bed? Why is it okay to reject someone for this, but not reject someone for having slept around? If you say "oh someone who's a virgin is gonna be bad at sex" , it's like saying "oh someone who's slept around is gonna cheat on me"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:07 AM
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These "reverse analogies" would pack a punch if the average woman was idealising male virgins and lining up to date them rather than viewing them as unmasculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 10:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/xwrev3/i_felt_the_cringe_soon_as_he_brought_up_that/ Why is she triggered that a guy might reject her for her past? How much you wanna bet that this same woman would reject a guy for being a virgin or not having had a gf at 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 09:46 AM
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laughs in Stalinist ethnic deportations
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/22 08:37 AM
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You don’t get to tell what I should or should not go for in life. It’s my life and I can choose what I want
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:29 PM
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I have jealousy issues I hate when a woman I’m dating talks about her exes
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:06 PM
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You wouldn't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:54 AM
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I wouldn't make anyone do anything they didn't want to do. I never said remotely I want to hurt anyone. Show me where I said that? You're putting words in my mouth. I said my reaction to her doing kinky things with other guys would be "why them and not me?" and I would feel jealous of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:50 AM
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I wanna be a husband, but at the same time I wanna be a sexy husband, you know? I want her to be with me because she loves me AND finds me sexually attractive. Not just cause I'm a safe provider.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 11:48 AM
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I don't believe in divorce, it's against my ethics. I think a union should be for life. You swear to be together till death do us part. Does that mean nothing? Should wedding vows be then "till we get bored of each other"?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:16 AM
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Fair enough. I think for you, you're looking at it at the perspective of "what do we get to do in bed that's enjoyable" whereas for me, I'd be looking at it from the perspective of "why did others get to do it but not me"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:11 AM
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Well in the past no-faults divorce wasn't a thing, so I wouldn't have to worry about a divorce unless I cheated or abused her, so I wouldn't have to worry about alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:10 AM
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I feel the same. I empathise I think with most women here when they talk about relationship issues and struggles finding the right partner. I can empathise with that. I think most people can. There are a lot of hot takes from women that just complete stagger me though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 10:03 AM
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Where have I ever said that? You're confusing me with someone else. I always lament over not having a marriage/LTR. I've literally been pumped and dumped by women. It hurts and feels weird. I don't consider myself fuck material either btw, I'm too ugly short and autistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:53 AM
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Exactly. It's not about the anal. It's about the principle. Random ex-boyfriend should not get to do what I am not allowed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:51 AM
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I'm well aware that if a woman out earns her husband, she'd be paying alimony. But I think in practice this happens less, because despite men and women having equal pay, most women would still rather prefer a guy who out earns them, due to hypergamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:51 AM
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What if it was simply because he didn't like giving oral? He just didn't enjoy it but his previous girlfriends made him do it so he did, but now he's decided he won't. Would that be acceptable?? For me, like I said, I honestly feel no attraction towards the idea of anal at all. But it just rubs the wrong way that there's some guy out there that's done kinkier stuff with my wife than I ever will.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:46 AM
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Tbh I don't give a shit about voting. I'm an apathetic voter, I live in a country with mandatory voting and I always donkey vote. I realise society will always and has always been a kleptocracy, ruled by the rich and powerful. Voting has never changed this, it's all a sham. Voting in America or Britain or any country never made it not a country ruled by the rich and powerful who take advantage of the poor and weak. I agree women should be able to own property and hold positions of power. When I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:43 AM
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From what I've seen, feminism aims to make things inherently more unfair for men. I don't see why any man should support that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:34 AM
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I endeavour to understand there’s so many viewpoints that so many women have that I just will NEVER understand
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:22 AM
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But shouldn’t your husband be your number 1? Shouldn’t ideally a husband be the one who gets to do more than any other partner, or at the least, the same as, but definitely not less than? How would you feel if you found out your husband ate out his previous girlfriends but refused to do it with his wife? Wouldn’t you be like “why them and not me?”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:21 AM
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By all means keep arguing, but don’t expect that most men will see or understand the perspective that shape your opinions, just like I don’t expect you to understand the views and perspectives that shape my opinions. Our life experiences are too different. There are too many differences between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:16 AM
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Women and men should stop trying to convince each other of each other’s opinions. They’re never gonna agree. Too many differences in life experiences, wants, desires, plus the advanced rivalry. You’re not gonna convince each other. Just live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:08 AM
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So can two 24 year olds have sex together or is that committing a crime? If a 24 is too stupid to have sex with a 30 year old and is damaging themselves unwittingly by doing so, how are they damaging themselves any less by having sex with a 24 year old?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:06 AM
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Should also be acknowledged that most people are still stupid after 25
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 09:04 AM
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I think there’s two types of MGTOW: One is for asexuals. If you really want no sexual satisfaction and desire none. The other is just not giving a shit about women anymore but still being open to relationships or sex should the opportunity present itself. I think both are fine. I think lots of HVM focus on themselves first. They focus on better their looks, body career. Finances. How to be a alpha male and sun at life. Without seeking women actively, this on its own draws women to them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:59 AM
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I wouldn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:54 AM
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A bitte
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:52 AM
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I think 16 is too young for me but 18 is okay. People can think whatever they want is creepy Just like men can think a particular behaviour is trashy or slutty At the end of the day as long as both sorties consent and they’re happy and smiling and enjoying life, it’s fine. A college party girl who slept with 20 guys shouldn’t care if some moralising pastor thinks she’s a slut. A 40 year old saying a 20 year old shouldn’t care if some butthurt feminist thinks he’s creepy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:52 AM
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Women are the real gigachads. They use us beta manlets like dildos then throw us aside
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:37 AM
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What if I secretly plan on pumping and dumping them? Why do I owe them being forthright?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:36 AM
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I don’t give a shit about anal sex. I’d ideally want a woman who never did and doesn’t want anal. But I will NEVER accept a woman who did stuff with past boyfriends that I’m not allowed to. It’s unfair, it’s cuckoldry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:27 AM
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The Other Guys makes fun of husbands who’s wives did kinky stuff with past boyfriends but not with them. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=XPV8F48TLJA
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:26 AM
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For me, I’m not even interested in anal. It’s more like, it’s not fair, why did other guys get to do stuff with MY wife that I’m not allowed to? A husband should be at the top of the pyramid when it comes to a woman’s lovers. If she’s willing to be kinky with past boyfriends but not with her husband, what does that say about how she viewed last boyfriends vs how she views her husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:20 AM
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It’s fine to be not comfortable. Just as it’s fine for him to dump her because she views her exes more sexually than him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:17 AM
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If she doesn’t do anal at all then that’s fine If she did anal with past boyfriends but not with her lovey dovey hubby, that’s a problem I’ve never done anal and gave no interest in it but I will NEVER accept marrying a woman whomst other men have done more sexual things with her than I will
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:16 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:15 AM
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My outfit must be weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 08:13 AM
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They have Princess syndrome and want the world to be unfair and biased in their favour. Feminism is the definition of wanting women to have all the advantages and no disadvantages. Alimony, abortion, gender quotas, “believe women”. Take away every basic right and advantage that men have and maximise womens advantage. Shaming men for having preferences and standards whilst they uphold their own is part of this hypocrisy and desire for unfair advantages for women. They want to be able to make choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:25 AM
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The answer is you unironically shouldn’t care about womens opinions. Would you care if a child was bothered by your preferences? Same deal
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/22 07:20 AM
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So why should he pay for it? She's not doing him a service? they're her kids too and she's doing her responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:26 PM
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Why should he pay her for that? Isn't she taking care of her children too? Isn't he also taking care of them if they have split custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:19 PM
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So both incels and HVM reasons to reject women, is that what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 03:05 PM
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we're not debating that though are we, we're debating alimony. I don't agree on the marital assets thing, but I'll let it pass. It's the idea of having to pay her AFTER the divorce that is unfair and misandrist. Let the parasitic leech get her own fucking job. I swear to God, do some women actually have no concept of dignity or self-worth that they'd be willing to have an ex-husband pay for their lifestyle?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:48 PM
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Yeah cause washing clothes and dishes is equivalent to spending your whole life studying to get a job and then working your way through promotions. It totally takes the same effort!! Let's be honest, she didn't really contribute to that, she rode off the freebies while married, which is fine, he got to have sex with her and she did his chores, so all is good. But once that ends in a divorce, there's no reason for her to get freebies. Oh she would have become a neurosurgeon if she wasn't washing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:43 PM
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So why'd you say HVM "aren't researching reasons to hate women for their choices"? The implication given the context of the conversation (past mistakes) is that rejecting someone for their past mistakes = hating them, and that HVM don't do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:41 PM
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If someone has formed a strong opinion about it, it means they've thought about it. If they haven't thought about it and they still have a strong opinion, it means they're stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:38 PM
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Why salary earned even after the divorce? Is she cleaning his house still after the divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 02:37 PM
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Why do I need to pay them until they find a job? Why is it my worry how they support themselves? Let them find their own job. The pay they received for working in marriage is the benefits they got during marriages. End marriage, no pay
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:53 PM
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You made a claim and you need to back it up with stats Do you have statistics on alimony period lengths?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:49 PM
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What does that have to do with alimony? There’s child support for the kids Alimony is for a parasitic ex too lazy to support themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:48 PM
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Show me the stats that show that alimony most often Kara fur a few months to two years like you claimed. Actual stats on alimony lengths , not inferring and extrapolating from other stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:47 PM
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I want a wife who makes less/doesn’t work and I think I should not pay her alimony in the case of a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:44 PM
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If you’re comparing it to a job then you don’t owe salary to an employee that quit Let them find their own job rather than live like a literal parasite
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:42 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:41 PM
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I replied to your comment. Someone having opinions on alimony is not just caring about other people's lives, it's basically an overall view that is entitled and misandrist. You're arguing that supporting alimony is not entitled and misandrist and my argument is that is false. You're saying that just because someone is statistically unlikely to receive alimony, that thinking women should be entitled to their ex's pay cheque is not misandrist and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:37 PM
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If someone is your ex, they have nothing to do with you, you should not have responsibilities to them. The demand for alimony is entitled, narcissistic, lacking in dignity, and is basically leeching of someone else. It's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:35 PM
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Why can't she find work to support herself?? Is she disabled?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:34 PM
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I know the judge can say that, and i'm saying it's not fair and not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:33 PM
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Have whatever standards you want. And we'll have whatever standards we want. Just don't seethe when we would rather go for younger women and lower N women than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:21 PM
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Cause your egos ought to be taken down a notch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:20 PM
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My point is if a woman supports the concept of alimony, it shows she is misandrist, unsympathetic, and has a personality/attitude that makes her not marriage material.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:19 PM
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surprised when she can’t find a job following the divorce due to her zero experience and she needs mone Not his problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:18 PM
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Assets are usually divided. I think assets he should brought in to the marriage should not be divided. It's his, not hers. Once they separate, why should she get his money that's not hers? Tell me, do you think inheritances should also be divided in the case of a divorce? If a man received inheritance from his parents, and got divorced, should the ex-wife get part of that inheritance?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:17 PM
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Responsibilities to each other END when you get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:15 PM
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It shows she has an entitled, misandrist, and unsympathetic attitude. I strongly encourage all men to vet for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:14 PM
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Still her choice. He can't force her not to. If they get divorced, she's her own person. She can live her own life and support herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 01:13 PM
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Because of the attitude and entitlement that lurks behind the support of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:49 PM
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Pretty sure most people would consider a one night stand "wild behaviour"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:48 PM
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Depends on each person's income and future plans. It's not silly because I don't want to marry a misandrist who believes in state sanctioned divorce rape and feels entitled to my pay cheque in such a circumstance. The mere act of defending alimony makes one non-marriage material. So it's something I want to vet for. Even if a woman earned more than me, and I'd get alimony if she divorced me, I would still not want her if she believed that alimony was good. If I married a woman who made more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:41 PM
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I'd say it's "wild" behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:38 PM
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Her work was part of the marriage, just like his was. What did he get for spending so much money on her in the marriage years? Does he get that money back? No. What's gone is gone. He spent money on her. She spent effort washing dishes or whatever. When they separate they separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:37 PM
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A ONS is a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:36 PM
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That's bullshit. It's just an attempt to threaten men into accepting le "career woman" meme. If she wants to be a SAHM, that's her choice. if he's okay with it, great. It doesn't mean she gets to use her choice to later screw him over.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:35 PM
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Casual sex means sex outside of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:33 PM
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It's not silly at all, because it tells you how they view you and how they view marriage, and it shows they feel entitled to your money even if you weren't in a relationship. It's worse than being a gold digger imo. At least a gold digger gets your money and gives you something in return. A pro-alimony woman just takes your money while you're not even with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:33 PM
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Men should casually bring up topics like alimony to their partner. Not like an interrogation, but just casually like "did you hear about ____, hahah". The way she responds could be very telling. If she vigorously and unambiguously defends it, you know what her stance on the issue is, and watch out. My take would be any woman who defends alimony is 100% not marriage material, not even remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:24 PM
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of course. They tend to trickle truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:22 PM
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Making an active point of hiding something that you have reasonable belief to be important to the other person is lying. If you have a massive debt and hide it, that's lying. If you've been divorced in the past, and hide it, that's lying. Most women don’t have this wild life that PPD tells you about. Someone once posted a statistic that most women have had casual sex at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:22 PM
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What do you mean he didn't pay her when they were married? She enjoyed all the financial benefits of being attached to him. The house, the shared income, and so on. She was getting that when they were married. She souldn't get any pay when they are divorced. If she wants pay let her get a job. She is not his problem any more. She has no right to his money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:03 PM
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I'm not on the look out for attractive men. But you are still wrong and I'll explain why. A guy who is good looking at 20 is generally good looking at 30. A guy who takes care of his body at 20 and at 30 will have a good body in both cases. A guy who is lazy and flabby at 20 and at 30 will be lazy and flabby in both cases. A guy who is unattractive at 30 was probably unattractive at 20. You're comparing attractive 20 year old guys to unattractive 30 year old guys. But an attractive 20 year old g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 12:02 PM
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Nah it comes out sooner or later. Unless you make an active effort to conceal it, which is basically a step above lying. Like, if you had wild college party days, I'd be surprised if a partner never ever finds out about that. To conceal that would be tantamount to lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:30 AM
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Firstly when they're married, most couples have shared finances, and it affects their assets and taxes and so on. Secondly, she worked to earn the money WHILE THEY WERE MARRIED. Once they are divorced, she's not doing anything to earn his money, so the flow should stop. It seriously reeks of entitlement when women think that they are entitled to a man's money just like that when they are not even married and they're not giving him anything in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:29 AM
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When they had married they had shared finances. Anything that was spent on them, he was paying. When they divorce, they may have their assets divided. But money he earns after that should not belong to her. What did she do to earn it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:21 AM
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HVM arnt asking about your sexual history what are you basing this on? I think lots of couples once they get serious more or less have a general idea of each other's past, either through direct ask, or bits and pieces for conversation. It's very rare that people will have no idea of the other's past once they are in a LTR. In my experience, it's the girl who brings up the past first, because I don't really like talking about my past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:19 AM
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Dude, that's life. Women like masculine men. Women like men who are assertive, have confidence, take charge, lead the way, so on. A guy saying "let me take care of this" exuberates all of those things. If you wanna go dutch, fine, but you're missing out on an easy chance to show yourself as all of those things just by spending a little tinsy extra cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:10 AM
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When they were married, the man was paying them. When they're not married, why should he? They're suffering bla bla bla? Okay? Let them get a job or marry someone else who will take care of them. A husband should take care of his wife if he's working and she's not. A random man should not take care of a random woman who has nothing to do with him. Why should he have to financially take care of someone who is nothing to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:08 AM
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You're not getting a partner on the first date. It's a power play.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 11:06 AM
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Men are shooting themselves in the foot by not wanting to pay for dates. It's such a power move. It gives you power over the other person. It's like "let me take care of you". It makes you the parent and them the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:57 AM
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Why should I or anyone pay services to someone you're not married to, services you're not receiving any more? Man A is married to Woman B. Man A works, Woman B cooks and cleans. Man A receives in this marriage someone who does his housework, cooks for him, keeps his house tidy. Woman B receives financial support and doesn't have to work, but thanks to the money Man A provides, can have a comfortable life. They get divorced. They are no longer married. Woman B gets alimony. She's keeps getting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:53 AM
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Would you really not care about the past of a guy you dated? If a guy was a 30 year old virgin who'd never had a gf, would you look past that "mistake"? If he'd cheated on his gf in the past would you look past that mistake? I'm not saying you have to care about the past to be a HVM but to say that a HVM is only one that doesn't care about the past is ridiculous. It sounds like a desperate ploy to convince yourself that the past doesn't matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:44 AM
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I prefer to look at things rationally over intuition. There's certain things like attraction which are emotional and not really rational or logical, other situations I prefer to look at them with an objective mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:39 AM
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if theyre just tryna fuck. Hahahaha you didn't say that at all and now you're just trying to backpedal and restate your argument in a different way cause you got called out. Sad! You didn't say only if they're trying to fuck, you said they don't care and they will fuck. You're discounting that high value men may want long term relationships, you didn't mention that at all in your original post or differentiate them from a situation where they only want to fuck. You just said high value men are g…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:23 AM
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Would you say a high value woman is permissive of men's past mistakes? A high value woman doesn't care if he's seen sex workers? A high value woman doesn't care if he's cheated? A high value woman doesn't care if he's never had a gf or partner by the age of 30? After all you can learn from these mistakes, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:17 AM
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It's literally what you're saying. Sorry you don't like being caught out by your own words?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:16 AM
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Do you think it's hating women to accept or reject someone based on their past or whatever they've done? For example, if a guy prefers a partner with drugs, he hates a woman if he chooses not to date one who does drugs, or one who has tattoos and piercings? Only a high value man has no standards or preferences?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 10:15 AM
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High value men only care about fugging? xD edit: lmao he blocked me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:42 AM
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High value men are more permissive of past mistakes?? You really believe that??
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:20 AM
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She’s also entitled to your money if she should decide to divorce rape you one day on a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 09:09 AM
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Men are taught that to get a woman who have to be kind, nice, polite, respectful. Of course this is all bullshit. You need to be confident, assertive, masculine, successful. You have to make yourself about you. Making yourself focus on reassuring a woman’s emotions massively turns her off
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:57 AM
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Imagine devoting all your life to taking care of a woman and then she cheats on you and leaves you and now you have to give her half your pay cheque. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:46 AM
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I would have zero problem marrying an unemployed NEET qt with no degree or job. In fact I dare say I prefer it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:31 AM
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Alimony is literally entitlement to someone else’s money. I can understand child support but alimony is pure misandry. Why on earth should a woman be receiving half the pay cheque of a man she has no relationship to and is not married to? Oh you would have become a neurosurgeon if only you had not done his laundry and dishes for 20 years? Well that sounds like your problem. Get a job like everyone else and support yourself. Every woman I know irl thinks spousal maintenance/alimony is a bullshit …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 08:25 AM
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Money wise? I’d say 30’s is a good balance of looks and money for most men. Anything else is just denial. No woman seriously thinks men leak in their 20’s, they just don’t wanna admit that their best years are behind them and men their own ages best years are ahead of them
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:50 AM
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Only incels ask you to back up your hyperbolic feminist arguments with proof
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:48 AM
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Yep. I take it as them getting absolutely owned beyond belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:48 AM
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Why can’t women accept that young women are the most attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/22 07:41 AM
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Does he know you cheated in the past on your past gf? If not, never tell him. It will crush him too much and make him view you differently. Wish you did was really wrong but I think you realise that, right? You’re not a bad person, you’re a good person who unfortunately did a bad thing in a moment of weakness, so you don’t need to beat yourself over it, it doesn’t define you. Please never do it again. Especially not to someone you love 😥
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:49 PM
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I try not to judge cause I know life circumstances can fuck people over especially when we’re young and stupid. I know some amazing women who are single mothers and they have the qualities of amazing people. But like, the dad is in their life. I’d feel like I’m butting in on someone else’s family. I feel like I’d never be the “real dad” The thing I want most in the world is a family and children, and while I strongly prefer my own biological kids, I wouldn’t see adoption as the worst thing if I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:45 PM
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Thank God for that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:32 PM
1

Sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:28 PM
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Same. Wish I was gay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:27 PM
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I love all women Why are women so sexy??!!! aaaaaaaaAAARGH STOP DRIVING ME CRAZY YOU WENCHES
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:26 PM
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Everyone makes mistakes I’d be more worried that bio dad is in the picture and I’d always be playing second fiddle and never be the “real dad” if we got married. I’d never know when bio dad may pop back in the picture and rekindle their love. It’d help if bio dad was dead and she was a widow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:22 PM
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Creative writing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:20 PM
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😥
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:12 PM
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Like the saying goes Men cheat cause men are assholes Women cheat cause men are assholes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 01:11 PM
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He actually gave a logical answer though, your response attempts to reduce it to basic moralising. He wasn’t making “excuses”. It’s not end of story because your response does nothing to address what he was saying
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:59 PM
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Women with a bit of chub in their belly are pure sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 12:50 PM
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Absolutely!! Everyone has their preferences, it's good you found someone that matches yours and your lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:56 AM
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I'm just curious I guess to the logic behind it, cause drinking is pretty much socially accepted everywhere nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:41 AM
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I find that extremely hard to believe. I find it hard that certain people who display such entitlement and lack of perspective could have been more motivated, and it sounds like an attempt to explain away the clear advantages they have whilst still trying to act morally superior. "Acting like children forever" is a copout non-argument, I doubt you can even explain what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:30 AM
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Hmmm, that's interesting. Would you be okay with someone who used to drink maybe once a week but agreed to stop for you and proved that they could? What about someone who drinks small amounts, but never enough to get drunk?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:25 AM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:24 AM
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Do you seriously believe it was not much easier to rent/buy back in your day than today? Salaries were lower but everything was cheaper and you have to count for inflation. The increase in salaries is way lower than the increase in cost of living.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:23 AM
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How often per week would you accept? Also is there a reason for that? Is it health reasons or are you worried about them becoming an alcoholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:16 AM
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Did your generation have ridiculous rent prices as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:10 AM
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Looool, based and horny pilled.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:10 AM
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I'm literally all of these except the alcohol. Would you accept drinking every other day or is that also too much?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:08 AM
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Ah so basically you have no problem with roommates interrupting sex but not his elderly parents?? That makes sense I guess, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:06 AM
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Sensuality or "lusty" types as opposed to self-preserving or social types, because I am a Sexual/SX type, you can scroll and read about it. Isn't this basically just being a pervert? No sexual experience. Why? Isn't this the same as rejecting someone for having a high N or not being a virgin, which is what many complain about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:04 AM
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me
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:02 AM
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Got blocked by two female PPD users in the past 24 hours. What's going on lol. One blocked me just because I said I think all women have their own beauty, and she said "it's because you don't see ugly women as people" and then blocked me. Okay :/
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 09:02 AM
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But like, is it the fact that they're annoying to be around that's the issue, or that you wanna be alone for sex? Cause if it's the latter, roommates can be as much of a pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:59 AM
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I mean, if you wanna be fucking constantly, yeah you two ought to live together. But if his prior living situation before meeting you is living with his parents, I don't get what that's an issue? How is it different to living with roommates? Like, you'd have to convince the roommates to fuck off anyway if you wanna have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:50 AM
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Exactly. You can get life experience and still live with your family.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:43 AM
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You can learn all that stuff while living with your parents tbh. Like if you're an adult, you still spend money on fuel, groceries, eating out, various other stuff, pay taxes and what not. You can learn all that and still live with your parents. I used to live on my own, it was just not worth it financially speaking. Rent literally just sucks all your money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:41 AM
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I mean the vast vast majority of people with roommates would not want their roommates to watch and I don't think their roommates would want to watch lmao. But like, if that's your kink, that's hot heheh. I think ultimately though, getting roommates to fuck off is just as annoying as getting parents to fuck off. I think parents actually may be more understanding. I just feel, finance wise, it's not a worthwhile investment. blowing hundreds weekly on rent, especially while you're single. Better to…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:37 AM
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I know you may personally have doubts about your appearance as do all men and women from time to time, but I can assure you that you are beautiful. Of course we register you as human beings, I'm registering a human being right now by engaging with you. Men don't have MORE right to be sad. Women tell men we have no right to be sad at all, and if we are, we're entitled, we want to control women's bodies. That's ridiculous. We shouldn't force anything on anyone but it's right to be sad over missing…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:31 AM
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You can do that when you move in together though. I don't see why it makes sense for a guy to spends hundreds of dollars weekly on rent just on the off chance he meet someone who wants sex. It's like, meet someone, and then figure out location problems. There's always a solution to everything. Like, if he's living with roommates, would that really make it any easier to spontaneously fuck on the kitchen counter?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:27 AM
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Nah. I like busty curvy women and petite women and everything in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:20 AM
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The "still living with your parents" thread was really interesting. Women really do look down on a guy who lives with his family, don't they? Do they not have any appreciation at all for saving money? If you want a nice wedding, wouldn't it be better for a guy who's been saving up? And like, it's not like he's not gonna move out with you ever. He'll move out and live with you when things get serious. But before he even met you, he lived with his parents, why is that a problem? How does the fact …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:19 AM
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Her jaws could probably rip me to shreds
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 08:11 AM
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Reddit isn't social media lol, it's quarantine for unstable weirdos
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:34 AM
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2022 still no cute biologically engineered futa with girly dicks What is science even doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:34 AM
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I dunno Getting fuckzoned = they're not attracted to your personality, but they're attracted to your appearance and body Getting friendzoned = they're not attracted to you at all and just use you as an emotional pin cushion I already know I have a shit personality so I think getting fuckzoned would be an ego boost cause at least I'd think I'm good looking? I once got rejected by a girl after sex, and it felt bad, cause I actually liked her and she was really really cute but whatever, life goes o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:32 AM
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GRRM is unironically a mentally ill pervert.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:28 AM
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Ideally I wouldn't care about either of these people and I don't look up to JP nor do I like him nor do I follow him, but Olivia Wilde pulled the incel card, so I'm automatically against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:27 AM
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It's fine. If you'd rather a guy without large savings and who blew all his money on rent, that's entirely your choice. I myself have no such standard. You can have whatever standard you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 07:22 AM
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Define shallow We care about looks and physical attraction yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:12 AM
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Q4women: would you rather a tall guy with a big dick that doesn’t care about your pleasure and will be done as soon as he cums, or a manlet with a small dick that does and makes sure you always cum even if he has to use his hands and mouth?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 02:10 AM
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If you want someone to have sex with you, you have to try. Unless you're like a male model or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:14 PM
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This is bad advice. In my experience, every time I've successfully had sex I had to actually try. Women don't just fall into my lap. Maybe I'm low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:08 PM
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If you're trying to get her to fuck you, I'd say it's normal to care lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 03:02 PM
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I don't see why you're replying to a comment from 17 days ago and I don't see what your reply has to do with what I said. My point is, it's normal to feel sad about not having a relationship, whether you're a man or a woman. Saying someone is "entitled" for commiserating over not having thing is a weak argument because its normal to want thing. Would you say a woman is "entitled" for wanting a relationship but she keeps getting used for sex? Also, I don't believe ugly women exist. I think all wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:57 PM
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I remember I tried to play a couple of sessions when I was in uni cause there was one guy who was into it. It was hectic lol, nobody took it seriously :( I'm kinda bad at making new friends but I definitely would like to get into the hobby should it present itself. I was also really big on board games when I was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:23 PM
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No. All my exes live in texas. That's why I hang my hat in tennessee.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:21 PM
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Explain. She's not my best female friend, she's my best friend period. I have more in common with her than my male friends when it comes to tastes and hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:18 PM
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Yeah I think I got into the second expansion in FFXIV but just got worn out by all the cutscenes and ultimately didn't have time to play such a massive game, which is a shame. I'll be honest, I never super got into those isometric WRPGs. I think the furthest I got in one was Divinity Original Sin II, it was a really amazing game, but I don't know, I think ultimately I just kinda never super loved it despite putting dozens of hours and realising it's a really well made game. I wish I had a group …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:18 PM
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Mamma mia!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:15 PM
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My best friend is unironically my sister, does that count? I pretty much treat her like a brother. Like if I'm going to the movies or wanting to watch something with someone, she'll always be the first I ask. I feel like I have more in common with her than most of my guy friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:14 PM
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I'm glad for you!!! Keep on keeping on :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:12 PM
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Oh nice, I love those sorts of games. I was really into FFXIV for a while, have you played that? I love both WRPGs and JRPGs but I think I lean towards JRPGs. I do love Elder Scrolls however and remember being blown away by Oblivion as a teenager, holy shit, what an amazing game. Which D&D do you mean? Do you mean the tabletop or a specific video game? I think the upcoming Baldur's Gate 3 looks really cool
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:11 PM
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Another thing that women have taken from us. Feminism has gone too far!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:06 PM
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Okay but does your mother know that you're out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:05 PM
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You need a man to put you in your place and rid you of your womanly hysteria
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 02:00 PM
3

Bane?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:59 PM
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It’s cause you’re just a horny woman guided by emotions and hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:55 PM
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Why do you wanna do the thing you said you wanna do
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:51 PM
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You can dance You can jive Having the time of your life 😍😍😍
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:51 PM
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Love it when someone blocks you cause you ask if they have proof for a claim they made. Guess that’s a big fat “no”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:48 PM
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~young and sweet~
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:46 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:44 PM
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You posted an againstmensrights post with a screenshot of a post saying false rape accusations are higher than reported Am I missing something? haven’t posted any examples of them promoting hate yet. You don’t need to. I didn’t ask you to post examples of them promoting hate. I asked you to post examples of them promoting VIOLENCE which is what you claimed. Stop back pedalling dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:26 PM
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Maybe those roller coaster seats need to stop vibrating so much then
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:24 PM
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How did it support your claim? Be clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:23 PM
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Why is “two wrongs don’t make a right” a difficult concept to understand?? Men have never stopped domestically abusing women and beating them to death either. I live in a country with a domestic abuse epidemic where men kill hundreds of women every year in domestic violence. Does that mean if women started beating random men to death it would be okay because lots of men kill women Edit: she blocked me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:22 PM
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I did read it but it didn’t support your claim at all Show me an r/mensrights thread that didn’t get deleted where they’re advocating violence against women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:17 PM
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Why’d you stop horny posting all of a sudden and get serious??? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:14 PM
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Wait wait wait. You posted a screenshot of a guy saying false rape rates are higher than reported. How in the world is that advocating violence against women????
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:13 PM
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Two wrongs don’t make a right. Let’s not be like the feminists, we should be better than them. We know right and wrong. Let’s not be hypocrites guided by emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 01:12 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/22 12:55 PM
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