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I don't. As I've gotten more visibly masculine I've seen them turn against me and chalk everything that I do to another "toxic male". I just can't accept tolerating bigotry as a part of being a good man so I largely have begun to stay away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/26 10:06 PM
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Because otherwise they'd have to acknowledge that women are the same species as men and hold them accountable for their actions. And we all know that isn't happening
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/26 06:37 PM
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Holding women accountable would immediately sink his electability. Let's see what he does after he's in office
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/03/26 02:56 AM
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There definitely is a lot of pressure on men. To be interesting. To be funny. To be entertaining. To be sexually performant. All of the pressure is on men. It's 2026 and women still can't handle anything more than showing up to a date and existing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/03/26 05:37 PM
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Because they want war more then peace
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/03/26 10:31 AM
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They also conveniently forget the literal millions of men that joined them and supported them in their struggle. It's kinda insane, to my knowledge, no other movement has ever erased their own allies so voraciously. The civil rights movement had white allies, the gay marriage movement had straight allies. Both of which had notable figures who were etched in history. But the feminists want to pretend that every man is a misogynist for some reason.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/12/25 10:04 PM
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Good initially when actual monsters and predators were the target and were brought to justice. It was generally good until women shifted from attacking actual predators to simply attacking all men in general and pretending like every man was a predator
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/12/25 09:43 PM
1

Lmao unless you can turn yourself into a jacked millionaire, no
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:56 AM
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Women recreated sexism and wonders why it isn't benefitting them. Story of the last 10 years
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/25 09:01 PM
3

Please for the love of GOD go do something productive with your day. Wallowing in your fears only makes them grow
/r/seduction24/07/25 09:12 PM
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Considering that most of western feminism now exists almost entirely online, I would say that those subs are extremely representative of feminism They are bigoted, prejudicial spaces that cater to the worst and most illogical statements imaginable and is filled with people who would rather die than expect a woman to be responsible for their actions They blame men for everything and pretend that women are all helpless angels and they are the reason that so many people of all genders are quickly t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/25 05:55 AM
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You're a near 30 year old woman who apparently hates conversation. You're the problem love
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:30 AM
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Women are just terrified of communication huh?
/r/seduction04/06/25 12:28 AM
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Bruh women still haven't figured out that men can't read their minds, they're definitely from the kingdom
/r/seduction21/05/25 03:26 AM
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And exactly what are we supposed to do with that information. No one can read your mind, only your behavior. Your behavior suggested that you weren't interested and he listened. One of the lessons of #metoo is that men should learn to leave women alone when they're visibly not interested. If women like you don't want to get caught up in that, YOU need to change your behavior
/r/seduction05/05/25 10:22 AM
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It's insane how this is largely all feminism is nowadays. When's the last time they actually did something that helped women on a national scale?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/25 09:19 PM
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" What is it like to have stable peace vs constant war" Come on man use your head
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:13 PM
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Many men are moving towards the manosphere,and thus the right, specifically because of the rampant misandry and double standards that are present in the left and the apathy that the left has towards any problem that primarily effects men. Before the election, there was some talk of the left being the party of women and the right being the party of men and frankly that hasn't changed. Everyone goes where they get what they want. Men want to be heard, appreciated, and valued. If they can't get tha…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/25 08:59 PM
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Ugh this kind of "all men bad" shit is exactly what pushes young boys towards the manosphere. I pray that I love to see the day that women realize that more sexism won't end sexism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/25 03:40 PM
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Don't wait until Monday to text her, women lose interest in things and people very quickly
/r/seduction11/04/25 01:55 AM
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Oh my bad I'll edit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 09:49 PM
9

Well at least that sub doesn't even masquerade as a forum on feminism
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 09:28 PM
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The most prominent voices of feminism right now isn't educated scholars or theorists, it's women in general or at best female celebrities who identify as feminists. That movement has totally diluted itself within the last decade to demand nothing of women beyond doing whatever makes them happy and as a result, has accomplished very little on a nationwide scale. Good examples of this are r/askfeminists and r/feminism as both are bastions of open misandry and constant complaints with absolutely no…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 09:07 PM
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Pointing out that they're throwing out idiots to hide their lack of a good argument or critical thinking skills generally works for me. PS keep doing what you're doing, we really appreciate it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/25 04:22 PM
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See this is exactly what I'm talking about. I tell you exactly how to get a man that you're interested in and you respond by giving me reasons why you think that it wouldn't work. Y'all don't listen. I could give you a road map to the exact man that will marry you and y'all would still jump to excuses
/r/seduction09/03/25 01:27 AM
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I don't know you so idk what you mean by too straightforward but literally just walking up and initiating a conversation with a guy, talking to him and asking about his interests, and saying "I really like talking to you, can I have your insta/would you like to hang out sometime?" Isn't too straightforward and it's all that we're asking for yet somehow it's too much for women Also the problem come still be the kinds of guys that you're interested in. If you're prefer traditional values or are on…
/r/seduction09/03/25 01:17 AM
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Respectfully, if you're being rejected that much then you should've learned something by now. There's some pattern in either your behavior or the kind of men that you choose that's resulting in you being rejected. You said in your post that you wanted a man good at game, that may have something to do with it
/r/seduction08/03/25 05:52 AM
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My answer is still the same because the reality is so the same: advice is wasted on y'all because y'all don't listen Women have the lowest barrier to seduction but make every excuse in the book to avoid walking up to the guy that you're interested in and making it clear that you're interested in him. In fact, the reason why y'all default to the "how to be hotter" subs is directly because it's easier than stepping out of your comfort zone and taking the actual action that men have for centuries. …
/r/seduction07/03/25 06:25 PM
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Because it's selfish to make others suffer because of your immaturity
/r/seduction03/03/25 10:10 PM
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Yes they try constantly, fail, and move on to the next one
/r/seduction01/03/25 09:35 PM
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I'm older than you. I've already been where you have yet to go
/r/seduction24/02/25 08:11 PM
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Maybe YOU do lmao. It may surprise you but there are lots of healthy women who have developed their emotional maturity and thus simply choose to be with their man because they like you be around him.
/r/seduction24/02/25 08:10 PM
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Has it not occurred to you that some of us want healthy relationships with healthy adults? Therefore manipulation wouldn't be an option for us
/r/seduction24/02/25 08:04 PM
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Ok bro you were cooking with the other posts but it's getting a little burnt.
/r/seduction24/02/25 08:02 PM
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Ooooh my bad
/r/seduction20/02/25 12:38 AM
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Open mics of any kind. You step up on stage and you're asking to be judged. Do that over and over again until you don't care anymore
/r/seduction19/02/25 11:55 PM
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Well your age group is the busiest time in that young man's life. In college, you have less free time than in highschool and in the working world, you have even less time than that. Stop worrying about who is initiating and focus on whether or not you're both enjoying the conversation All those rules about initiating are toxic patriarchal gender roles that will never benefit you unless you plan to be a submissive housewife. Leave them behind and find someone who enjoys spending time with you, re…
/r/seduction02/02/25 11:28 PM
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Ask for their number or Instagram instead of waiting for them to ask for yours??? Stop waiting for someone else to do what you won't and you'll get farther faster
/r/seduction02/02/25 10:59 PM
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Nah most men will simply tell women to drop the hints and go talk to the guy you want which is good advice
/r/seduction25/01/25 03:59 PM
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Please grow up. The more straightforward that you are, the more likely that you are to get him
/r/seduction16/01/25 03:17 PM
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You are 1000% right. The solution to Op's problem is just directly saying what she wants
/r/seduction26/12/24 09:52 PM
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Directly ask him "hey do you want to go on a date with me?"
/r/seduction26/12/24 09:49 PM
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Have you tried directly telling him that you like him? Cause that would work much faster than dropping hints
/r/seduction26/12/24 09:49 PM
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Because women love to pretend that they are incapable of putting in effort or exercising self-control. This will not get better until we call it out
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:07 PM
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What was your advice?
/r/seduction16/12/24 12:29 AM
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"If one's different, one's bound to be lonely." - Aldous Huxley" I'm not longer desperate for love and as a result have been single for longer than past years. Which isn't necessarily a bad thing, I have higher standards now and have probably saved myself from a lot of inevitably toxic relationships
/r/seduction29/11/24 06:16 AM
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I never denied that you have done this before. I have repeatedly stated that you need to talk to men irl more and drop the dating apps. That has been the crux of my statements. And it is that simple statement that you have repeatedly pushed back against This conversation has been a great example of why a female seduction sub would be absolutely pointless, y'all don't listen. If I told you to keep doing what you were doing and to change absolutely nothing, I have no doubt that you would've agreed…
/r/seduction28/11/24 06:09 AM
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And what I am telling you is to get off of dating apps and prioritize meeting guys irl. Go to places where the kinds of guys that you're interested in will be. If you want sexy party animals, go to bars and clubs. If you want thoughtful bookworms, go to libraries and wine bars. If you like guys that are fit, go to the gym or sports groups. I didn't say ask out every man that you see. I said approach men that you're interested in, get to know them, get to know their hobbies, make them laugh, and …
/r/seduction28/11/24 05:04 AM
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Love that of that entire statement, you only responded to the addendum, really shows what you're more focused on. My statement still stands, go follow the advice that women always give men: Get off of dating apps, Talk to the person that you interested in irl, get to know them, and then actually ask him out and make plans instead of waiting for him to do it. You wouldn't apply to underwater welding jobs and expect to work as an accountant. If you want something, take the steps that will rational…
/r/seduction28/11/24 03:56 AM
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What you're failing to understand is that by definition you're in equal attraction to most women. By definition, most women that are in relationships are of average attractiveness. And I'd bet money that the ones in happy long-term relationships don't spend years afraid to ask for what they want like you do. You cannot control or guarantee how anyone will respond to your approach nor can you EVER guarantee that you will receive less rejection. You're trying to guarantee that you don't have negat…
/r/seduction28/11/24 03:53 AM
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You're missing actual rational methods. How many times are you gonna be ghosted on dating apps before you recognize that they're not made for those looking for commitment? How many great guys are you gonna let walk away from you before you learn to suck it up and use your words?
/r/seduction28/11/24 03:32 AM
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Ok? Try it again. And again. And again until it works. Is this how you deal with all the problems in your life? Give up completely after you receive a rejection or two? Did you give up on finding a job after being rejected? Did you drop out of school the first time that you got an F? Do you starve yourself everytime you open your fridge and find nothing appetizing?
/r/seduction28/11/24 03:30 AM
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Direct messages involve asking for exactly what you want. Not existing in a place and smiling and expecting someone else to ask the question that you apparently can't manage. They're no hints in direct messaging. If you want to go on a date, simply ask them "can I take you out on a date?"
/r/seduction27/11/24 05:31 AM
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Genuinely, do you believe that a smile is all that it should take? Did a smile get you your degree? Your job? Your money? Did you smile at someone and magically begin receiving your accolades? I'm guessing not. Stop waiting for someone to do what you won't, get off of those dating apps, go up and talk to men that you're interested in and ask them. Smiling isn't being direct. If you actually took that advice, you'd likely learn that actively pursuing what you want and taking the reasonable steps …
/r/seduction27/11/24 05:29 AM
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Because you don't seem willing to actually ask a man out or make plans together unless you're doing it online. Literally go to a bar tonight, chat up a guy that you're interested in, and ask to hang out more and then make a mutual plan to do so, you'll have a new number and a date by tonight
/r/seduction27/11/24 05:23 AM
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Did you just approach them and expect them to ask you out? Or did you ask for what you wanted?
/r/seduction27/11/24 05:21 AM
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Lmao if you're only asking guys out through dating apps and never in person, that's your problem, not being straightforward. Have you considered doing the same advice that women give to men? Get off of dating apps, Talk to the person that you interested in irl, get to know them, and then actually ask him out and make plans instead of waiting for him to do it. And before you complain that guys often use women that they're not interested in for sex, simply don't sleep with them and make it clear t…
/r/seduction27/11/24 05:19 AM
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Be direct is good advice. If you think it isn't then it's probably because you're the exact kind of woman that will do anything and everything except ask for what you want and thus are the kind that need to be more direct. Showing up in a space isn't enough, use your big girl words like the adult that you are. I encourage you to make your own sub, I will enjoy seeing how many variations of the classic "take no actual action and wait for him to read your mind" y'all can create before it occurs to…
/r/seduction27/11/24 05:15 AM
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Grow a spine, embrace your equality, and start approaching the men that you like
/r/seduction26/11/24 08:46 AM
1

Any examples of talking nonsense?
/r/seduction22/11/24 05:38 AM
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A lot of people have been taught by their upbringing that their worth as a person is decided by someone else. So if you make it clear that you don't think they have worth, these damaged individuals will try to prove that they do.
/r/seduction02/11/24 12:01 AM
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I really don't suggest interrupting a woman in the middle of a task to flirt with her. Women have been pretty clear that they hate that. Reddit cannot give you a cheat code to social skills. At most I'd recommend that you just compliment something that she wearing and begin a conversation from there but frankly no one's gonna give you a perfect script to talking to a person. Even if we did, there's always the chance that she could just say something that we didn't account for. You need to put in…
/r/seduction16/10/24 07:27 PM
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Yes it is weird. And sadly a lot of women are emotionally unstable and don't receive the backlash for their toxicity that men do. Very recently there was a case of a man being arrested as a kidnapper at a grocery store. Except that security camera's revealed that he never kidnapped anyone. He never even touched the child in question. He literally just existed in a store near a woman who considered his mere existence creepy and lied on him and attempted to destroy his life for literally no good r…
/r/seduction28/09/24 07:29 PM
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Nah the worst thing she can do is publicly humiliate you or report you and try to ruin your life. And that can happen regardless of how nice you are. Most are simply not worth that risk
/r/seduction28/09/24 03:31 PM
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Any tips on game through text?
/r/seduction26/09/24 11:34 PM
3

Literally just go out and directly tell guys that you're interested in getting to know them or that you want to hang out with them outside of whatever venue you're in. That's it lol. That's all you'll have to do if you're looking for a hookup
/r/seduction15/09/24 11:44 PM
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Go ask out guys irl. If you're extremely clear about being interested in getting to know them, you will most likely have a high success rate, assuming that you don't stop after the first time you get rejected like a lot of girls do
/r/seduction15/09/24 11:42 PM
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Because a lot of women lack effective communication skills. Try not to take it personally
/r/seduction14/09/24 09:41 PM
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What was the reason since you apparently aren't fooled? If he's lying tell us the truth since you apparently know it
/r/seduction11/09/24 06:23 PM
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Lol do some research before speaking. They are quite literally known for banning people with no conceivable reason
/r/seduction11/09/24 06:21 PM
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No, if anything it's an indicator that they're shy or got caught staring off into space. Anyone who is dark skinned in a white space can tell you, people drift off into space in your direction or stare for many reasons, it's more about them than you.
/r/seduction24/08/24 07:52 PM
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Literally just be as obvious with the guy that you want as possible
/r/seduction17/08/24 12:16 AM
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Generally yes. A concerning amount of women expect from men what they cannot reciprocate. They often want men to vastly improve their lives while many men just want someone to share their lives with. More succinctly, women often hold men to standards that they themselves cannot meet. Men generally don't do that.
/r/seduction14/08/24 06:59 PM
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I'm not going back and forth on a situation that I frankly don't care about between people I don't know. We don't have to agree on what is or isn't platonic. Clearly your reliance on plausible deniability isn't working with him. You asked for advice and I gave it to you. Drop the hints and make your interest obvious if you want to escalate things.
/r/seduction24/07/24 06:20 AM
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Not necessarily, it's possible that he didn't move away because everything you've done so far could be seen as platonic and he simply didn't want to be rude or overreact to such platonic stuff. Just earlier this week, I was watching a movie with a female friend of mine who's leg touched mine and who I know has a bf. I'm not going to shoo her away and upset the vibe over something that small. I also know that she's never really done anything that could be assumed to be anything more than platonic…
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:08 PM
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Having long talks and prolonged eye contact can be a sign yes. It's also possible that he is ignoring your playful touches and hints because of all the potential danger he faces if he's wrong about your liking him.
/r/seduction23/07/24 10:04 PM
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That's still plausible deniability. If there's a reason for doing it outside of your actual attraction to him, then you're relying on plausible deniability. Hold onto his arm longer. Make your attraction clear and obvious instead of waiting for him to read your mind
/r/seduction23/07/24 09:56 PM
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Drop the plausible deniability and hints and touch him in ways that will make your attraction obvious. Cling to his arm, lay your legs across his lap, hold onto him
/r/seduction23/07/24 09:45 PM
0

No wtf. From my perspective you've made it clear that you're not interested. You said no to spending more time with him and only seem to want to spend all his money for free. If I were him I would drop you and go spend time with someone who actually appreciates me instead of someone as entitled as you
/r/seduction16/07/24 10:13 PM
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Leave. She is boring, a selfish, or both. This behavior won't end until she decides to be an adult and control her own actions.
/r/seduction10/06/24 02:50 AM
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You don't. She's at work and is basically required to be nice to you. Unless she gives you her number, find someone who's job won't be impacted by your relationship or lack thereof
/r/seduction01/06/24 03:06 AM
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Someone who is cute, emotionally mature, and fun to hang out with That really shouldn't be too much to ask for
/r/seduction19/03/24 10:26 PM
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If it makes any of you feel better, you've successfully exhausted me. I'm deleting this post and never coming near this subreddit again.
/r/MensRights05/04/16 04:19 AM
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If it makes any of you feel better, you've successfully exhausted me. I'm deleting this post and never coming near this subreddit again.
/r/MensRights05/04/16 04:18 AM
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If it makes any of you feel better, you've successfully exhausted me. I'm deleting this post and never coming near this subreddit again.
/r/MensRights05/04/16 04:18 AM
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While at this point I no longer have the mental strength to argue I just wanna say this. I support kesha not because I'm a feminist but because I'm an abuse victim and Ik what its like to be ignored when all you have left is your word. Ik how much effort and courage it takes to try to get away from an abuser and how much more courage it takes to keep trying when people don't believe us. I know what its like to listen to people basically saying that when I was hit I should have recorded it with t…
/r/MensRights05/04/16 04:09 AM
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Because I didn't come here to argue yet low and behold that's what I wind up doing all day. I didn't ask for any of your opinions on feminism or why you think its a bad idea, and what I did ask most of you didn't answer. You seemed to see me more as an outlet for your antifeminist sentiment than a human being asking a question. Its frankly pretty annoyi Youre allowed to be curious but shouldn't men's rights activists respect a man's right to say no?
/r/MensRights05/04/16 03:51 AM
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Yea you're right that was wrong of me and to be fair idk what a MGTOW or a RedPiller so I can't really account for what I've never heard of. Oy I still didn't expect the response I got, more responders just want to argue about feminism or tell me about myself instead of answering the question which is discouraging to say the least. I may just delete this post and go to bed
/r/MensRights05/04/16 03:42 AM
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These are bad people who will be bad people regardless of what label they put themselves under. Do I even have to explain that despite identifying the same way not everyone under a certain movement will not all agree and collectively condone individual actions? I don't align myself with the man-hating and unfortunately vocal side of feminism similarly like I assume you don't align yourself with male-supremacy that's been inacted under your movement's name
/r/MensRights05/04/16 03:37 AM
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Not gonna lie this is a fairly large headache that I didn't prepare for when I made this post. Every group has its bad side. I'm not pretending that the group is perfect, how could it be? A large majority of it is only connected by a label that can be simply opted out of by anyone who chooses to and its clearly far too large to be effectively regulated. And I'm well aware of everything that you are saying I still choose to be involved because I want to look at a truly equal planet or at least co…
/r/MensRights05/04/16 03:32 AM
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Once again every group has its bad side. I'm not pretending that the group is perfect, how could it be? A large majority of it is only connected by a label that can be simply opted out of by anyone who chooses to and its clearly far too large to be effectively regulated. And I'm well aware of everything that you are saying I still choose to be involved because I want to look at a truly equal planet or at least country before I die. To be honest when I made this post I never intended to argue wit…
/r/MensRights05/04/16 03:28 AM
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Every group has its radical unsavory portion. In feminism its just more vocal than the others
/r/MensRights04/04/16 11:09 PM
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I don't deny, accept, or excuse the horrible things bad people have done in the name of feminism, its horrid and I frequently cite them when conversing but if either of us intend to look at the bad people have done while calling themselves feminists we must also look at the good which I could name from memory for hours. I personally do not know of a single incident in which meninists or MRAs have actually done good towards men's rights or women's rights, whether that be a result of biased news c…
/r/MensRights04/04/16 10:56 PM
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Yea I deal with that a lot but that kind of mentality isn't unique to feminism so maybe I've grown resilient
/r/MensRights04/04/16 10:49 PM
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And I'm not here to discuss why I'm a feminist I just wanted a meninists or MRA's opinion
/r/MensRights04/04/16 10:47 PM
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I'm not here to argue. I will admit I don't agree with the movement as a whole but I don't have to justify or explain my involvement in the movement. I am well aware of the many theories associated with feminism including the ones you cherry picked as I am in a gender studies class, I'm more focused on the movement in its current state and what it currently stands for as for the MRAs I have yet to see any self proclaimed MRA do anything for men aside from bashing feminism and harassing women onl…
/r/MensRights04/04/16 10:42 PM
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I agree with both of you
/r/MensRights04/04/16 10:34 PM
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If you're referring to me then its more of a " I've rudely disregarded meninists and seen them as male supremacists without talking to them so maybe I'll try to talk to them and have an open dialogue with them"
/r/MensRights04/04/16 10:33 PM
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Well I do have a horn of that counts
/r/MensRights04/04/16 10:30 PM
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There's an MRA that attempted to legalize rape and then host a rape party. These people are bad people and would be bad people regardless of the label
/r/MensRights04/04/16 10:29 PM
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Yea I can respect that
/r/MensRights04/04/16 08:30 PM
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If so then it's not funny anymore
/r/MensRights04/04/16 08:29 PM
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You are aware no one person can address and change a movement as huge as feminism?
/r/MensRights04/04/16 08:29 PM
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I feel the same
/r/MensRights04/04/16 08:28 PM
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Great man!
/r/MensRights04/04/16 08:06 PM
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