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These view points are wrong. If you’re having sex don’t think about pleasing them think about pleasing yourself. Fuck them literally and metaphorically. You’re having sex to fulfill your needs and to have fun. Them having fun would just be secondary. If you worry about them then neither of you will enjoy. Obviously easier said than done as I struggle with this myself, but I’m trying to shift to the “my dick is more important than this girl” mentality.
/r/seduction31/03/20 03:46 PM
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I’m in the exact same boat as you. Her and I hooked up a few days before our school got shut down. But since then we’ve texted every day and snapped. It’s nice as you said that were talking casually about anything it’s not really rigid and when things get dull it’s not awkward. I was getting kinda bored of texting so I FaceTimed her one day and we talked for four hours. Then she asked me if I wanted to FaceTime. So I highly recommend this it’s more face to face and easier imo to make them laugh …
/r/seduction31/03/20 03:35 PM
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Exactly. By laying off the emotional attachment you won’t care if it’s bad for her or not and won’t worry. When I lost my virginity it was the worst and weirdest sex ever with a girl who’d clearly been around the block and was clearly disappointed. However going into it I knew I had no intentions of ever talking to this girl again so I didn’t give a fuck and enjoyed my 30 seconds (literally). I remember leaving my dorm with the biggest smile and the girl looked pissed. Funny thing is she got emo…
/r/seduction09/01/20 10:53 PM
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my philosophy is always “I got enough friends” so I’d rather be on the worst of terms with a girl than just friends with a girl I’m interested in. This makes making a move much easier because I know even if I get rejected as bad as can be, it’s okay because I only want her in one way and if I can’t get her that way I don’t want her at all. Put your priorities first. Some of my boys have been curved by girls who say politely they’re not interested, but want to be friends. These guys literally hav…
/r/seduction25/12/19 01:18 AM
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Shoot your shot. It sounds like she’s interested just from the follow. And even if she didn’t follow you first there’s only one way to find out. Key thing is don’t be ashamed of going after it and making a move, you have nothing to lose. Maybe wait until she posts a story on her instagram that you can respond to. If she doesn’t have anything on her story that’s funny or appropriate to slide up on in the next week, then I’d say dm her asking her out (if that’s not looked weirdly upon at your scho…
/r/seduction11/12/19 02:19 AM
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That’s good advice. That’s what I’d feel like. We had sex and I feel like that’s both of us being vulnerable and saying we like each other so I feel like the attraction would be there. I’m just overthinking and I think im getting one tinitis, idk why but she’s special. I tried to keep a conversation going and she seemed to be opening up slightly but looking back at it I sound awkward. Don’t think I’d been this nervous texting a girl since I was in middle school. Haven’t heard back and don’t expe…
/r/seduction25/11/19 03:57 PM
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Good advice. Throughout the night she did seem a bit nervous which I took as not being interested but after a bit she seemed to get more comfortable and fun. Maybe she’s just nervous right now as well which is why it seems like there’s a lack of interest
/r/seduction24/11/19 11:47 PM
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Great to hear the other perspective. I sent her a text with a link to some inside jokes, and she responded thinking it was funny but not a whole lot more. I’d feel weird carrying the convo more but maybe she’s nervous. I’d personally love it if the girl texted me bc I’d wanna know if she’s still interested. But at the same mind that’s me thinking about this girl particularly. When it comes to girls I wasn’t as interested in, I’d still be fine with it as long as it’s not too aggressive. If it’s j…
/r/seduction24/11/19 11:46 PM
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Thanks, great advice! She’s been taking a while to respond to snapchats lately and I’m not sure if I should just respect myself and stop snapchatting her altogether and let her initiate, but I don’t want to end the stream of communications. I’m probably overthinking it as she is sick. I am stressing that the interest is waning and I don’t want to come off too strong. If I see her out this weekend should I just show interest and flirt or should I back off since she’s been a bit less enthusiastic?
/r/seduction29/10/19 01:29 PM
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So I did this but too much. She cancelled because she got very sick (this is true I confirmed) so I went out and had fun. I honestly thought she was losing interest so I had fun and drunkenly kissed a friend of her friend. They’re far off friends and idk if anyone saw or remembered, but I’m scared that this will fuck my chances up. That being said going out helped me forget about this one and just chill. My main issue is now that she’s sick I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be the one ask…
/r/seduction28/10/19 01:21 AM
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Definitely that makes much more sense. I appreciate that and will definitely follow it and keep you guys posted!!
/r/seduction23/10/19 08:19 PM
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I agree. Really want to. I feel much more comfortable now that we made out. This weekend is set up well for making a move, so will not miss on that one. I’m just concerned I need to do something before this weekend
/r/seduction23/10/19 07:04 PM
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Definitely. I do usually give it time to respond but I think I’m getting anxious because I’ve been wanting to talk to her since the kiss and have found myself ccheating and replying in like 20 min. Great point about mood matching. Only thing questionable is the treating her like a sister followed by kissing her the way she wants to be kissed (jokes, I know what you meant haha) Thanks for the help brotha
/r/seduction23/10/19 06:59 PM
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Thanks for the reply, yes I agree with you. To counter that I started talking to some other girls on tinder and it’s worked to distract myself. When studying it was the middle of the day in a cafe so I didn’t really think I could’ve made a move. Is there something I could’ve done? I just kept it flirty. Yeah I will. I only really respond to her, or snap her when I had previously left her on read. Should I like ghost for a bit to lose the streak? I feel that’s like too much gaming . Thanks man
/r/seduction23/10/19 06:50 PM
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Thanks everyone, decided to man the fuck up and do something about it. Couldn’t find the right moment so I just confronted her in a casual way and created a moment to go for the kiss which went well. We’ll see where this goes. Thanks for the help, this community is awesome.
/r/seduction18/10/19 09:38 PM
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Thanks everyone, decided to man the fuck up and do something about it. Couldn’t find the right moment so I just confronted her in a casual way and created a moment to go for the kiss which went well. We’ll see where this goes. Thanks for the help, this community is awesome.
/r/seduction18/10/19 08:52 PM
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Thanks man you’re amazing. There’s a spot in a city nearby to campus that is fancy but has a young crowd and is a lot of fun. I brought it up that we should get some food there so I’ll probably follow up with that and at the end be straight up with her if how I feel and go for it. Thank you!
/r/seduction12/10/19 08:41 PM
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so you think a date is fine, or do I need to go out to a bar with her. I asked her to a formal function for our college, but that’s at the end of the month so I think I’ll ask her for drinks this week
/r/seduction12/10/19 08:16 PM
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Thank you for the honesty. So I just have to kiss her next time and go from there
/r/seduction12/10/19 06:38 PM
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For me it’s actually the opposite. The pressure knowing that I have this opportunity kinda mounts on me but I have to take it in your mindset that I’m in. I’m just scared of blowing it. That’s a great idea about the slut shield. You’re spot on, will follow that advice
/r/seduction12/10/19 06:14 PM
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Yeah it was just a weird scenario. I’m also thinking of pulling her aside that I know she’s into me and I’m into her, and I don’t want to keep playing back and forth and I want her. Then maybe kiss?
/r/seduction12/10/19 06:13 PM
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Appreciate that brotha, will do!
/r/seduction12/10/19 06:12 PM
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Yeah we’ve known each other for a bit so we were talking on the couch and having some more intimate conversations but not really any sexual. I think my frame was fine except I was unsure of how I was going to shoot the shot. I know I’m coming off as non needy but i don’t want to be so hands off that she thinks I’m not into it
/r/seduction12/10/19 06:11 PM
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What’s your advice for someone in a small college community? I fear talking to girls sometimes because I am scared of showing interest and then being humiliated for it because everyone knows everyone and we all go to the same bars/parties/etc. I think I just need to grow a pair and not care what people think of me but it’s hard because I feel like everyone is watching my every move here
/r/seduction11/10/19 07:54 PM
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I told a buddy of mine I saw his girl and he told me it was a catfish and it’s happened before. Not entirely sure if it’s true but at that point nothing else I could do. I’d lean in telling the friend first and letting him find out if it’s a catfish. Maybe phrase it as “hey man not sure if someone’s cat fishing your girl but I found her on tinder. Just wanted to let you know” then show the pics.
/r/seduction05/08/19 03:38 PM
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Thank you! A follow up question I do have is, is snap or phone number better? I feel like Snapchat bc it can be more passive but it’s easier to get to know someone by texting imo. Maybe snap text and send pics?
/r/seduction31/07/19 05:39 PM
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Hahaha you and me brother, Reddit makes me sound illiterate
/r/seduction31/07/19 05:26 PM
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Thanks man, great input. I agree with you there, appreciate it
/r/seduction31/07/19 05:22 PM
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