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I've got that before too but believe it or not, it's not a bad thing. Usually when they ask is because they're unsure if they really like you, they don't want to be rejected. Tell them no and start picking up on them.
/r/seduction28/02/17 12:31 AM
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Never heard of this. I guess it could be due to religion, age, or culture?
/r/seduction06/01/17 11:18 AM
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Depends on which parts of LA. Thousand Oak, Calabasas. You gotta have more than just game
/r/seduction21/12/16 12:15 PM
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I was 19 or 20 when things changed. I grew up in a small town and no girls wanted me either until years later. I think its because we all grew up together and was tierd of see each others faces. I wouldnt give up but believe your negative Outlook is preventing you from moving forward. You won't get anywhere until you figure out for your self how to fix your problem.
/r/seduction25/11/16 10:43 PM
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First off, how old are you? Dating was shitty when I was younger and went a lot how you described it. All I can tell you is that it will change if you go about fixing it. For me, I fixed it by luck which ended up being the result of a sales job I had. I learned how to talk to people, read people which bleed into my dating life. I went from no options to having options.
/r/seduction25/11/16 01:23 PM
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Took me two years. Selling cars really helped me believe it or not. I learned how to talk to people and it help me build confidence to approach girls (people in general). After that, its been pretty easy
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:31 AM
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A guy with confidence and with an interesting background will be noticed by most women over the next guy. I don't see how this is an alpha male type of situation other than women just find your friends more interesting. Not a stab at you but this happens regardless if you're the less interesting or confident person in the group. I'm pretty sure they are plenty of times you shined over other dudes. Also, I really don't understand standard if this is an alpha thing over women or just them finding …
/r/seduction08/09/16 06:04 PM
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You can't look ahead sometimes from where you stand. I've known tons of people that are (as described) just like you. I run into them later in life and they're different, completely different. Continue to make yourself better, workout, join a MeetUp group and get out there. I say your struggles are already over with .
/r/seduction27/05/16 03:35 AM
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You gotta think past that, we've all been there. Invest in yourself and you'll for sure make it up in the future.
/r/seduction26/05/16 10:27 PM
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Oh yeah, for sure! I'm missing that train though...im 10yrs or more older than my college peers which kinda makes it hard but not impossible.
/r/seduction26/05/16 10:25 PM
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You can always say the grass is greener on the other side. Before I took school seriously, I was out almost every night meeting girls and had a well paying job. Now that I'm older, in school, shit job and can't afford to go out all equals NO GIRLS. At my age, although girl appreciate an educated man, they're not interested in a 30yr old that is just scrapping by and can't afford to do shit. Most of the women I'm interested are already in their careers and want a guy to do things with because the…
/r/seduction26/05/16 08:31 AM
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Dude, I wish my parents forced me to stay home and go to school and not have to focus on money. I would trade you.
/r/seduction26/05/16 03:17 AM
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I grew up in a small(ish) town when I was younger and it was rough. My family is super small so I didn't have to worry about this. But it was common practice for people to ask their parents if they were related to the person they were interested in. I know of one incident were cousins dated.
/r/seduction13/05/16 02:34 AM
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Reminds me of this https://youtu.be/RerJWv5vwxc
/r/seduction14/03/16 05:11 PM
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Every guy starts out like this at some point. The cutting edge however is how quickly they over come their fears. You did a great job and you're on your way.
/r/seduction03/03/16 03:09 AM
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Day or night, bar or a coffee shop. It's all the same. Your line will work but you need a lot of build up before throwing that out there. I've used it, it works but it should not be your go to line.
/r/seduction14/02/16 10:29 PM
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I also noticed it's hard to carry on a conversation when you don't hangout enough with the other person.
/r/seduction31/01/16 07:15 AM
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Ah I see. I'll try that one out. Thanks.
/r/seduction31/01/16 06:01 AM
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I'm talking to a girl and she isn't interested, I'll still be friends with her because she'll have other friends I could talk to. I'd never thought that was possible. What's your tips?
/r/seduction31/01/16 01:15 AM
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No problem
/r/seduction19/01/16 12:29 AM
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Very true.
/r/seduction16/01/16 12:05 PM
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Translation to English, please.
/r/seduction14/01/16 10:26 PM
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"oh that's cool, are you happy? " they'll usually laugh and say yes but it gives me an opportunity to still talk to them. Occasionally they'll say no.
/r/seduction11/01/16 03:59 PM
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I uses to be the same way when I first started dating but then I leaned; it's part of dating. Don't build yourself up on this date, girl or a possibility of a later relationship. Right now, just focus on the fun of getting to know someone and if it doesn't work out, so what. There will be another date that will make up for this one.
/r/seduction11/01/16 02:01 AM
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I would have let this one slide. I recent went on a "date" with a girl I just started talking too. She invited some mutual friends over that kinda threw me but I went along with it and had a great time. We ended up going out a few days later and hooking up. We're going out again tomorrow.
/r/seduction05/01/16 04:06 AM
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I say a few of these questions are solid but must be re-phrased differently so you don't don't come off as awkward (not sure of a word to use). The other questions are just too corny.
/r/seduction15/12/15 10:05 PM
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Does the guitar bit work for you? I've been playing for about 18yrs and only got a blow job from it.
/r/seduction04/12/15 10:54 PM
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Pro-tip #2: If it has a metallic taste, abort immediately. Good chance she is or started her period.
/r/seduction12/11/15 09:07 AM
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First off, make sure you have condoms and know how to use them. Practice using one by masturbating and putting it on (From unwrapping it to taking it off). This might sound dumb but trust me it helps. Secondly, there is many different ways to approach this situation. You'll receive a lot of suggestion but pick the one you feel most comfortable with. It sounds like you're already doing the steps to get you there and doing great job at btw. After you initiate the make out session like you have, tr…
/r/seduction12/11/15 08:48 AM
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You did a great job by taking advantage of the situation you were in. Who cares about the gym role, when you only see her at the gym.
/r/seduction11/11/15 08:16 AM
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I would put an * next to jail. I've some posts on here that were questionable. ha
/r/seduction11/11/15 08:14 AM
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Eye contact is simple. You have a total of 30 seconds to make a move. Yeah it sounds like nothing but I'm talking total about of glances added up, glance here(one second ) another glance(two seconds) and so on. If you make eye contact give them a nice smile back, a small gesture if you can and that it's. Then make your move over to talk to them. Simple Some people ask why 30 seconds why does that matter? Simple, we start to feel awkward if someone keeps staring at us. I read an article about thi…
/r/seduction01/11/15 03:42 AM
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Locking eyes? Periodically looking at her lips? Locking eyes, yes. Looking at her lips, I don't think I've ever done that. Minute gesture imo. I just asked my gf and about the whole eye and lip thing and she laughed at it. Anyways… The only fear I have for OP is his nerves. I wouldn't want the guy put to much thought into anything else other than what he is good at, and what sounds like, he's an interesting, fun guy to be hanging out with. WHICH IS MORE THAN HALF THE BATTLE. He needs to focus on…
/r/seduction29/10/15 05:05 AM
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Treat it almost like you're hanging out with a friend.
/r/seduction29/10/15 02:36 AM
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Listen to every comment found in this tread. They're all right.
/r/seduction10/07/15 02:46 AM
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Yup. Especially if I meet the girl while I was drinking. I try to line up a fun activity todo to try and get over that bump. It helps a lot but sometimes the convo will get a little slow while on the date. If shes into you, it will be an easy speed bump to get over.
/r/seduction23/06/15 07:30 PM
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Its not making sense. I feel a big part of the story is missing.
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:26 AM
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Sounds like you are playing the tease bit way too hard. I don't know any guy that has had a girl walk out on them nor do I know a girl that's walked out on a guy. I'll put money on it those girls are walking away from you to get away from you and not to flirt or to be chased. I believe the problem is way deeper than teasing or your game. You don't like to "lose" to women or chasing them is emasculating? Really? And the whole I'm never talking to you again bit you get is nothing I've even gotten …
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:23 AM
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I read a study, which I can't find now, that talks about first impressions and the level of excitement which she receives. You know that feeling you get that give you that rush? Well research has shown women will associate that feeling to the person they shared it with. An attachment will be established between you, her and that rush. So you have that going for you. Second, I read that women find it a huge turn off when they guy tries to impress them with wild driving. They feel they're safety i…
/r/seduction05/03/14 07:04 AM
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A motorcycle wont help if you don't know how to talk to a girl. It might help as an icebreaker but I don't see it going much further than that. The bike isn't going to seal the for deal for you, thats the riders job.
/r/seduction04/03/14 11:19 PM
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My friend used the, "Hey, I have a puppy and its in my room. Want to see him?" There was no puppy but there was sex.
/r/seduction13/02/14 02:24 AM
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