| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | STOP PURSUING YOUR FRIENDS AND CONFESSING YOUR LOVEThanks bro | /r/seduction | 07/04/20 10:01 AM |
| 5 | STOP PURSUING YOUR FRIENDS AND CONFESSING YOUR LOVEThat's golden. People should not forget that female friends, even if they are very attractive can be very helpful and good assets for a men. Getting advice (e.g. clothing), hanging out, meeting mutual friends and many more. | /r/seduction | 06/04/20 09:08 AM |
| 2 | It seems that I really do not learn of my mistakes....Yeah.... just approach and talk, don't think. Right. | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | It seems that I really do not learn of my mistakes....So just keep going out with the intention to keep trying, right? | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 05:50 PM |
| 6 | How to feel consistently confident and have high self esteem.That's impossible really. What you need to accept is that it's normal and human to feel low sometimes. It's important that we act regardless of our internal situation. There was a nice quote: "Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear - not absence of fear." | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a F sex slave!Lol you're wrong af here | /r/seduction | 05/04/20 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Female and doing direct approaches? You must have some really have balls, haha. Respect! I'm 20 and male and still very hesitant with it at given times, or even getting too anxious when I get approached by a female (which happens far to rarely for my taste) But I think that your post is golden. Thank you a lot! | /r/seduction | 03/04/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Yeah right, I agree. Isn't it better to give her my own number though instead of asking for hers? She may not want to give it then but afterwards she may? | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Did you try out online dating? How much attention do you get there? | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.You don't even have posts dude on your profile. Srs? | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Would be really amazing bro. I'm in Köln. I'll PM you for more | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Nooo he's not my friend unfortunately. He's the cousin of my friend. I don't even know him | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Thank you for your long post! You've made it really just way more complicated for me (not in a bad way) ...so much about the "approach, tell she's pretty, ask for number" approach. With approaching I actually meant everywhere. That includes social settings as well as other places, like when I'm doing sports, outside, street, mall etc. My only chance for now is to approach girls while I'm doing the sports. I'm living next to the Rhine River with a forest, and because of the current situation ther… | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.He's not my friend. He's my best friends cousin. I don't even know know him | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Why just don't tell it?! Should I browse through your billion posts or what? | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.the power of seduction https://www.nateliason.com/notes/art-seduction-robert-greene Right one? | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.And this can only be achieved by approaching more and more or what? | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.I rated myself on photofeeler and got 9.5/10 for me in my military uniform, with the rest averaging 5-6/10. Only girls under 29 were included. I'm just telling myself excuses not to act, I know... | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Right. Thanks bro <3. I just need to keep trying, I suppose... | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.The idea of the bold approach is that if you're a fairly good looking guy, literally introducing yourself to a girl and then asking her out right away really does work. So I suppose that I'm simply not attractive enough then? It can't be that really. I know far too enough counter-examples.... 😭 | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.It's not really normal, you're right. I see no other way. If it works there, it has to work here as well. | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.And how to focus on that "sexual/masculine energy"? | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Thanks man. Do you actually shake her hand? If I could I'd give you a reddit gold! That's what I wanted, a simple Blueprint to follow, no need to think about "damn, about what should I talk with her now?" Also, how do you proceed when she is with her female friend or with her group? | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Very well written bro. Do you always ask for her name and proceed like that? Even if she didn't give IOIs yet? I think it's better to just approach when to find her attractive instead of actively seeking for IOIs, especially since I keep telling myself often that she's not interested. I'll also do it that way. I'm sick of needing to come up with a topic instead of directly letting her know why I'm there for. Edit:Do you also shake her hand or something when asking for her name? | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 06:25 PM |
| 4 | Anyone successful with the very direct and bold approach? It seems like that I won't learn from my mistakes.Well my social skills in general are really good, but just not with women. So I suppose the way to improve it is as I've thought: Just to meet people approaching and practicing. Lots can be learned through failure. Right? | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 2 | [20M]First date with a girl (my neighbour since 10yrs), but only walking together is an optionYou shan't! Keep me updated bro! I wish all the best ! | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | [20M]First date with a girl (my neighbour since 10yrs), but only walking together is an optionGermany. She said that something suddenly appeared. That's fine, since I've also rejected her twice. What about your date? | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 06:47 PM |
| 2 | [20M]First date with a girl (my neighbour since 10yrs), but only walking together is an optionLOL man where do you live? | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Nothing you read will make you feel betterRight, but the best way is that one should rather approach AND check this subreddit time by time than just to approach. In cases like yours it's certainly better to do some approaches and forget this subreddit for good for a while, then to come back I'd say. | /r/seduction | 31/01/20 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Approaching in Germany: It doesn't seem to work. How to make my approaches more efficent? Need help and motivation! (improved repost)Thanks for pointing this out. I do all of the things you named (grooming, clothers, facial here etc.) to my best extend. You are right - and even if DID matter, like genetical face-structure, there is no point in wasting energy about this since it cannot be changed. I agree 100%. I really get varied answers, daygame better, nightgame, daygame... I guess I will just keep trying it while having a busy life, so it will be mainly daygame for me. I mean like when I am going out to Uni/do stuff I … | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Approaching in Germany: It doesn't seem to work. How to make my approaches more efficent? Need help and motivation! (improved repost)Lol man just 17 pages? Consider it read! Thank you bro! | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Approaching in Germany: It doesn't seem to work. How to make my approaches more efficent? Need help and motivation! (improved repost)Where do you live? And where do you usually game? I don't think that all of the German girls are like that but because of the "classical stereotypes" foreigners have that may be true. I'm half Turkish and half German but have a Turkish name and look more Turkish so I guess that is also why. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 12:53 PM |
| 0 | Where to have sex when living with both parents and not having a car?In your room. If you don't want that they hear you both then simply crank up the music. Seriously, they would not mind unless they're extremely religious | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Approaching in Germany: It doesn't seem to work. How to make my approaches more efficent? Need help and motivation! (improved repost)That question is maybe something I just asked recently, maybe in 10% of all my approaches. Until now it did not work out well so yeah, it is terrible. Is it all about looks? Would I be far more successful with the same technique if I just looked better? I am no where ugly and I dated really beautiful girls in the past and had them approach me couple times (very rarely though, last year maybe 5x in total) so I don't think really that I look bad, I look certainly way better than most people do b… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Approaching in Germany: It doesn't seem to work. How to make my approaches more efficent? Need help and motivation! (improved repost)Thanks for the motivation! What you wrote sounds more like the deal. Thank you really! You cannot imagine how much you have "enlightened" me with your post! Yeah really that was stupid.... I just saw his videos and thought "damn he is getting lots of numbers that way, why should I not give it a shot as well? " - certainly a mistake as you have said already. That sounds really good with the structure part. So I have something to work on and analyze/improve. Until now I really did not have had a… | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.Yeah.... after all, I have to study really hard for my coming medical exam which is on the 15.02.. I shall continue to think about this thoroughly perhaps after | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.Hey :D Yeah that is what I have noticed a long time ago certainly. I have lots of international friends, and German ones also, but the German ones are not... "close to heart" if I put it correctly. Thanks for the advice, where would you go out during the nightgame? Which places? I am from Cologne but right now I am in Munich because of my studies. | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Approaching in Germany: It doesn't seem to work. How to make my approaches more efficent? Need help and motivation! (improved repost)Thanks for your post. I did all of those approaches exclusively on my way to somewhere, I've never once went out with the sole purpose of meeting girls actually. Always on my way to the campus, library, market, shop, other activities..... I did all of those approaches since October 2019 which is not much at all. I was thinking of when I have time to do the day game exclusively outside actually. But until now, always when I was going somewhere for a reason. What made you think that I was just doi… | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 04:33 AM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.I have read too many books and too much theory by now, applied what they said with no results at all. I think that for me practice is the key now - I still have to keep the things in my mind which I have learned of course. What social spots do you mean? I tried appraoching in clubs pretty often and despite having many friends we barely do any acitivites together so there is nothing what I could do from that perspective as well. Perhaps I could meet up bars and so on? The bar culture in Germany… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 11:25 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.It can have tons of reasons indeed. I mean if a not so good girl approached me I would still go onto a date with her to find out if she is an interesting person. But the biologcial factor plays a big role here - we man have nothing to fear about while women simply have to be protective and have valid reasons to fear interactions with strangers (rape e.g.). So even if we are their type their "sixth sense" may simply just "protect" them from escalating with us. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 11:03 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't seem to work.Absolutely. I will copy and paste the answer I have written because I think that it is relevant: Yeah I think so. I noticed that I have an easier time "sorting out" girls which seem interested though by now, but it is still far from being perfect. I will still get rejected a lot of times. About my social circle: I have some good friends with whom I talk daily and I know many people here in my city (Munich) but I would not say that I have a good social circle. We do barely any activities and … | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 11:01 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.Yeah I think so. I noticed that I have an easier time "sorting out" girls which seem interested though by now, but it is still far from being perfect. I will still get rejected a lot of times. About my social circle: I have some good friends with whom I talk daily and I know many people here in my city (Munich) but I would not say that I have a good social circle. We do barely any activities and if we do them they there are usually no girls involved at all, if there are, they are not attractive … | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.Yeah that is a good point and it is good that you asked. But I am native German :D. As I said, I use English way more than German on the Internet so that may be the reason why. I was in the UK a couple of times actually and people thought that I was born and raised in the UK, so that's pretty funny :D but I was never in the US. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.I am native in German and very fluent/native in English. I use English more than German though on the Internet. I was exclusively approaching in German, I actually tried English a few times because speaking English is actually easier for me then German despite German being on the first place, but girls just did not seem to understand so I always switched back to German. Pretty funny actually, I thought that everybody new English here. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 10:53 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.I think that the fact that it is in Germany plays a big role. I knew a huge amount of people until now and nearly no one even dared to do cold approaches. So it is safe to say that girls get extremely rarely/never approached here, while I can imagine that it is the opposite in the US. It can be as well. I was extremely shy for a long time but out of no where I got very confident - just too confident. I will defineatly make a post about this later. Yeah I used to rush things quite fast, and her… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | It doesn't seem to work.Thank you man. You actually really motivated me there! I will keep going and be the 5% man! I will also repost this as the mod suggested with more details so please checkt that out as well! :D | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 06:19 PM |
| 3 | It doesn't seem to work.I tried all types, both rushing and taking it slow. During the day usually, never during the night. Girls reacted seemingly more open when I took it slow, but mostly I've rushed it. I'll repost this with way more details when I am at home so I'd love it if you could check that's post out as well! | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | It doesn't seem to work.Will do soon! How should I name the thread most appropriately? Which flavor? | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | "Damn, rejection sucks!"I know how retarded that was.... Well it comes down to an internal lack of self-confidence and believe in myself. It couldn't have been more perfect.... I know. I use to miss chances like that so I'm used to it. Well and we were going to the same location anyways. 😂. So I kinda thought that although she was pretty interested in me she would say no, like the +30-40 girls in before her... 😭 | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 10:03 PM |
| 2 | "Damn, rejection sucks!"That's what I want to hear! | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | "Damn, rejection sucks!"True 😁 | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!Thanks! | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 08:39 AM |
| 1 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!Good advice. Cheers! | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 08:39 AM |
| 1 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!EDIT: I got what you ment know. But I am still a greenhorn, therefore I*d say getting her phone number and letting her know that I am interested in her is the first step I Have to take. I guess I should openly say that I want to hang out with her and ask for her phone number after the end of EVERY conversation with EVERY girl I approached. No exceptions. Correct? | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 07:16 PM |
| 1 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!What is "spam approaching"? | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!Thanks! I am certain I am. I ask here because I intend to achieve bigger success on my path! I also read somewhere here in the top posts a statement like "So go, approach a girl and do not be a selfish basta*d.". And that is quite true! So, I will keep that in mind. Would be a nice training, just to go up and tell that. I guess that I, after all, simply have to say what I want. If I find interesting, I shall say it. If I want to say that I would like to hang out with you, I shall say it. I got a… | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 05:58 PM |
| 1 | I approach, but never go farther. I never show my intentions. I need help!What do you mean with an "overt physical dialogue"? Could you give an example? | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?I will report! I will go to the gym tomorrow. If I do not approach anyone on my way to the gym or at the gym, I will go to the central area of my city and try my luck there. I have to do it - unless I will never be satisfied with myself. I did it already, so I am certain that I will approach again. That's not my first time, so! A report shall come on the morrow, it will come. Failure will NOT be an option! | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?Huh, glad you liked it! I actually came up with "Hello, I got one question: Do you think that attractive women should be approached?" entirely on my own after I read some threads here. The second one is copied and slightly modified, but I will try out the first one next time. I shall not forget what you said. I have to go to a high-volume spot, the area where I live (Niehl) is dead compared to the rest of Cologne. I read so many threads here, and they were all of vital value. On the morrow, when… | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?You do, in which city? Interesting. Well I just have to try, it really seems to be so easy after I read this seddit! I shall try on the morrow. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?What is a "Gamma"? | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Can I use seddit's tips also in another country, e.g. in Germany?So true, really. Why do we tend to overthink these things! I saw that video already, but still thanks! If you actually see the comments, you can probably smell the lack of self-confidence from most people in the state already! | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Seddit seems to be golden - but what about my mindset? : A newbie's questionThank you, it is a INSANELY helpful post. TL;DR for me: I just have to start approaching women with the sole intention of gathering experience. It does not matter where, or what I say, I just have to go and do it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/17 09:25 AM |
| 2 | First time in my life, I finally approached a girl!! But I did an insanely huge mistake, which I only realized afterwards....Yeah, I did certainly reject myself. Thanks for your encouragement, now I know what to do next time! | /r/seduction | 20/05/17 05:38 PM |
| 2 | [17M] Afraid of Texting to girls?!?!Golden words you said there. That's how it is. There are enough girls out there. Even some rejections will let me some left. Is the best way, to expect a rejection after you text, or better be more optimistic about it?= | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 04:39 PM |
| 3 | [17M] Afraid of Texting to girls?!?!True! Texting should be a good point to start from. I will keep the things you said in my head - texting is not a option to get progress. Maybe only too get a little insight of if she is even willing to talk with you. | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 04:08 PM |
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