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Good for you man. It takes a strong man to walk away from a toxic woman
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/26 04:13 PM
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I agree I was in the middle of a bereavement and a divorce the middle of last year and I’ve just recently by the grace of god met a wonderful woman who’s absolutely incredible obviously we’re both very cautious and taking it slowly as we were both left blindsided and hurt and both of us have children, but we’ve been dating a bit and she’s slowly letting me in and I can’t begin to describe the feeling when you realise how toxic your marriage was and the woman who hurt you is now meaningless and y…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/26 04:03 PM
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Yeah it’s none of her business. You should have completely separate private lives now, unless as someone else said you plan to try again? My wife’s made it perfectly crystal clear I’ve not to even question her about her life after she wanted a divorce, it was tough at first to take but I’ve actually met someone who’s in a similar position to myself and she’s super nice, like we have so much in common and it feels comfortable already we’ve only been on a couple of dates but she’s shown me that th…
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/26 12:45 AM
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He’s not a nice guy. You’re the nice one. I think it should be illegal for a woman to take our children and move them in to a house with another man. If I had it my way it wouldn’t be allowed, and I can’t say on here my real opinion as it would get me banned at the very least. But it’s plain wrong, why do they have all the power and control by default? It’s criminal
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 04:48 PM
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Yeah that’s a good point. But woman are hardwired to generally catch some sort of feelings before having their backs blown out, but once you know how a woman thinks and behaves it’s easy to manipulate them in to sex, just takes a lot of effort and time to find a good one. You want one that doesn’t make it easy for you, maybe a one who’s been hurt before once those walls come down for you with a new woman it’s the sweetest feeling as a man knowing you’ve broken her walls down, you’ve caught the p…
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 03:14 PM
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Mine took both dogs and both kids.. and my air fryer
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 01:20 PM
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The friend could well be Dave.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 01:01 PM
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You articulate this so well brother. It’s very true. Your comment deserves 1000 upvotes.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 01:01 PM
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I agree, they’re all disloyal at some point in their own subtle ways, they lie and cheat and cry their way out of it blaming someone else. They’re also very easily influenced by their peers and sisters etc. very open to believing oh she got divorced and now she’s happy on instagram I’m going to get divorced.. that’s how shallow women are.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 12:59 PM
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Jesus dude that’s horrible. Some woman are subhuman. Im in a similar position to yourself. It’s hard. Are we as men making a huge mistake putting these woman at the centre of our lives.. should we just focus on ourselves and be selfish and keep them in orbit but never actually let them become our rocks, anchors whatever you want to call it. I got hit with the same thing, she sent me the most beautiful birthday card saying how perfect I am, it had soulmate on it and everything and 4 months later …
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 12:56 PM
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How quiet a house goes when you’re wife, kids and pets leave is beyond words
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:53 PM
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I’m definitely going to start that.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:52 PM
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Thank you brother. You speak sense. I get that exactly. It took me a while to figure out I’m not the narcissist it was always her. But she projected to me
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:51 PM
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No because women all turn sour eventually
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 05:47 PM
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I didn’t. I just do prescription drugs to bury it.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 05:47 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 05:46 PM
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She won’t improve and she’s probably waiting to find someone who she thinks is better and you’re just temporary. Just kick her lazy ass to the kerb. Well done for having the strength to say no more. Sexting and texting isn’t ok it breaks marriage vows. She has no respect for you or herself. I think you can check your government website and there is legal aid available especially if she’s affecting your mental health. It’s good you have no kids you dodged a bullet man
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 11:26 AM
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I’ve found not, I find the women are more interested in mental stability, if you’re over your ex and you’ve self improved. I don’t think the majority of divorced woman value looks over all the above
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 09:37 PM
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Once a woman asks or initiates a divorce it’s Likley she’s already checked out and gone mate. You’ve gone from her life and future and her heart, I know it sounds heartless because it is. I was with mine 17 years and she took my whole world with her. My children and dogs namely. Very sad, taking me time to process and understand who I am without her as she was everything to me and after 6 months I still want her, but she’ll never love me or want me. Eventually you’ll fall in to a routine of shop…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 09:35 PM
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Mine told me to openly go find another woman. Imagine I said that to her. I’d probably end up in the Epstein files I hate woman in some ways but I’m so attracted to them and their mysterious nature. Idk I definitely don’t want to fuck as many as possible. Not on that game. But I have met another young divorced woman recently and we’ve been on a date she’s nice but not my wife, trying to figure out if she could be worse than the first who knows.. they hide behind their veils until you do somethin…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 08:48 PM
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Why is it the woman can shut off completely and the man’s left literally feeling like someone died. I’m Absolutely lost without her. She’s probably dating someone wants to keep everything about the kids.. I thought the whole point of marriage was the fucking kids.. jeeeez Yeah alcohol withdrawal killed my uncle, I’ve withdrawn without seizures in the past but never had this level of cross tolerance I am scared, I’m cutting down quickly and taking 2mg rather than 15mg haven’t noticed huge changes…
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 08:44 PM
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It’s like having to go and be around people and pretend all day at work and I come home and just fall apart. I really hope it gets better
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 06:08 PM
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It’s powerful how much somebody can slowly take over your entire life and heart and become the very core you are exist for. I’ve always been a little co dependent due to child hood losses but damn I miss her
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 06:07 PM
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The last part is what keeps me awake at night. That she’s more comfortable with another man. Breaks my god damn heart
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 02:25 PM
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That’s the depression. I don’t do anything anymore. Or very minimal
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 05:27 PM
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I’m the same I lost a dangerous amount of weight. I found these 600k 250ml drinks and they’ve been a lifesaver I feel stronger already and it’s been 2 weeks of drinking them consistently
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 05:26 PM
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You cold brotha
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 05:24 PM
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Yeah it made me question every time I agreed to work late, getting mad at my kids when I was exhausted tired, it made me appreciate just how much she did for not only our children but me too. She never put herself first. I regret hurting her and saying things I can’t change. We were together young and I never thought much about her feelings until she’d left. So I’ve learned a lot it’s a shame I lost my whole family for this but I for sure am more aware of other people and I’m not as selfish Oh a…
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 05:20 PM
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I’m in the same boat dude. It’s been 24 days not seeing them longest in mine and their life’s and she’s turning them. But i genuinely believe they see me as the calm chilled one which is right. One day we’ll be there when they choose not her or a biased judge in a court room
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/26 12:09 PM
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