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Sad-Strength8787/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 11:41 AM
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Unfortunately signing a marriage license doesn’t make a woman wife material. She isn’t going to magically transform into a wife. He signed up for this so this is his issue now. I think you just have to watch and learn from their marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/22 12:56 AM
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Maybe when you all meet up, you could meet at a park or like an indoor jump place. Somewhere she can still interact with the kids but they are more active and not focused on eating. It’s more about bonding and having family time together.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/22 11:41 PM
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I’m confused as to why you call your child’s father a loser?
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/22 02:31 AM
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This 100%. Literally the best advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 08:05 PM
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Living in a trailer is not as bad as it seems. You make it look very beautiful. Trailer parks can be safe, family friendly neighborhoods but it varies. You and your boyfriend are just starting out. You can build a life together. You’ll look back on your humble beginnings with humor and fondness There are many young families that live on the road. YouTube some mobile home, rv, and tiny home families.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/22 06:08 PM
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Preach sister, lol. A lot of divorced men are marriage minded and husband material. If statistics are true, then it’s usually the ex wife who was pushing for divorce, not the man.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/22 02:23 AM
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Trust and true friendship are built over time. Only share intimate details with those you know truly have a deep understanding and appreciation of who YOU are. Otherwise, like this girl Diana, they can and will twist what you say.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/22 11:22 PM
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Can you tell me how you discovered using sugar and a penny? Lol it seems so random to me 🤣
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 01:38 AM
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He has not said it out loud.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/22 10:17 AM
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What do you teach?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 11:26 PM
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Wow I actually know a really lovely sahm who may be willing to help. Thanks so much for the suggestions.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 03:35 PM
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Thank you for the information. It’s really encouraging and gives me hope that I can do this.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 03:34 PM
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Thank you, I will be looking into this.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 03:32 PM
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You are absolutely right. How did you find childcare? How many hours are your children cared for? What is your schedule like?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/22 01:43 PM
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It’s not too late. My mom had me at 31. I’m much younger than you but my husband and I specifically changed my diet to have a healthy child. You need to plan to have a healthy child. https://www.westonaprice.org/childrens-health/ It’s very easy to live a frugal lifestyle. You just need to use your common sense and creativity.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/22 03:54 AM
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I think she’s pretty damn smart. They may not be legally married but she is committed to this man, and he is committed to her. She hasn’t been riding the “cc”. Marriage is not linear. The way a woman locks a man down differs.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 04:15 PM
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You sound like you’re on the track to becoming an extraordinary wife!
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/22 04:10 PM
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I agree with you. It’s like a badge of honor to be a single mom these days.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/22 10:06 PM
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There is a verse that takes about wives winning their husbands over without a word. I think that applies here. Your actions will soon influence him. That’s the power of our femininity.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/22 03:32 PM
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I would love to follow if someone creates it
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/22 07:39 PM
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Stop shaming age gap marriages and relationships. They work for a reason.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/02/22 04:54 PM
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Sounds like he is using you for sex. This man is not husband material. Cut it off now before you develop an even deeper trauma bond.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/22 11:46 PM
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I don’t understand why you would go Dutch on your first date. That literally sets the tone for everything. He wasn’t being malicious when wanting to split the money for hose gifts. He probably thought you would honestly be okay with it since you don’t mind splitting bills. Navigating relationships is hard, but you can’t put out these signals that you are more like a 50/50 chick and expect him to act like a provider.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 04:24 PM
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I make my husband’s lunch every morning. Bratwursts lol.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 02:27 AM
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Get your father and church pastor involved. Let them know you are hoping to get married and need help finding and vetting a man. Ask them if they know of any suitable prospects. You don’t need to go through this process alone. Your family and community can help you. Stay off dating apps. If a marriage minded man finds out you are a dating app it looks bad.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 09:06 PM
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I agree. I’m married now but I’m still filled with regret and guilt from my past. It crushes me that there are people who have seen my naked body who are not my husband. :/ I believed in that whole “virginity is a social construct” bullshit. It sucks.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/22 12:00 AM
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On a good note you don’t have a promiscuous past. This should work in your favor if you are wanting to secure a marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/22 12:06 AM
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Exactly. Like I have a neighbor who gave me muffins as a gift. I simply told her thank you. As soon as I went inside I threw them away because I don’t eat muffins. That doesn’t mean I’m going to cut her off because she gave me a “bad” gift. A simple thank you goes a long way. When I give someone a gift I honestly don’t care what they do with it after. But acknowledging me and thanking me is what I appreciate. It’s really that simple.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/22 03:49 PM
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I am so shocked by those comments. Just downright delusional and just plain evil. Like seriously?? I’m truly in disbelief. My husband has gotten me gifts from yard sales and goodwill for Pete’s sake! He got me fruit snacks once lol! A gift is a gift. My husband has also gifted me beautiful jewelry and clothes. I’m happy to receive it all. Those women are so entitled and just downright rude!
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/22 05:28 PM
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My baby is one year old. Been married almost two years. 6:30-8 a.m. My husband usually wakes up first and the baby next. When I wake up I nurse baby then change the baby’s diaper. I make coffee, my husbands lunch, and baby’s breakfast. Usually light cleaning in the kitchen while I cook and run the dishwasher depending on if it’s full. Get husband out the door, then I open curtains. 9-10:30 a.m Baby and I play and read. I let him walk, crawl, and explore. I’m basically just watching him and makin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/22 11:06 PM
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You can’t let your family of origin stop you from having a marriage and family. You are harsh on your mother. You are not married yet so you don’t understand what it’s like for her. You’ll never truly understand your mother’s inner world until you become a wife and mother. I see that you are only 15. You need to develop the skills to have a healthy relationship with yourself and a man, because you WILL have a relationship with a man someday. You have a father wound, as we all do, and it’s someth…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/22 03:12 AM
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This sounds absolutely wonderful! I really recommend researching about John Gottman. You can learn skills for when difficult situations arise. Also getting married young is perfect for someone with your mindset. Things WILL work in your favor if you and your potential husband can develop the proper marriage skills.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/22 03:40 PM
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Anywhere I can read it for free online?
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/22 04:53 PM
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I would say don’t have sex until this issue is brought up and you two can talk about it. It will come up naturally (I think.) I’m married btw.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/21 08:04 PM
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You should take cod liver oil daily.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/21 11:11 PM
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The part about being white is stupid but I looked further and I actually like the booklet. It’s unfortunate though because I am a “black” woman. Black women aren’t known to be feminine wives but we are out here. It was especially more common pre-1960s. You can google pictures of classy black wives and mothers. My great grandmother was very classy. Had one husband, stayed home and reared children. There is still a huge black femininity movement. It’s just not well known. There is some good inform…
/r/RedPillWives10/10/21 09:30 PM
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